Mine had SBA loans ALL OVER THE PLACE! My credit was destroyed. Please please please DO NOT sign ANYTHING if you don’t understand what you are signing.
Same here. $900k in loans, but they were forgiven. He wrote checks in my name and claimed I was an employee of his. I have the same 2 jobs i had before I met him. I filed a police report in November. I've been waiting for the police department to move on it, because my husband is stalling the divorce by withholding all financial information.
My husband won’t show me the tax returns. He owns small businesses, and when I ask how much money we make he says “it’s complicated” or “even I don’t really know.” He would never open a joint account and there’s not a real marriage there. I don’t even know how much money is involved, or how I would find that out. We even started the process of applying for a mortgage and somehow he got the lender to only communicate with him. This is why I want out. It doesn’t even feel like a marriage. So much lack of communication. But we live in California and I want to leave the state so I can buy a house in a state that’s more affordable, and I can’t leave without some money. And I don’t have anything or any power to get it. I need help!!!!!!
I went through a lot of financial crisis after my divorce, I had to raise my two kids alone, Currently I'm living smart and frugal with my money. Bought my second house already. Saving and investing lifestyle in the financial market made it possible for me; even till now I earn monthly through passive income. I'm planning on retiring when my kids finish college.
I'm a single dad. Not quite long I started investing. I'm very curious and need help on how to enhance and increase my returns. Any good investment tips would be appreciated
@@eadad4371 Generally, investing requires higher knowledge. For this reason, It's important to have a solid support structure (financial consultant) to guide you through especially in asset picking. I operate with (Regina Louise Collaro) an investment advisor who partners with a licensed wealth management firm. For the record, the experience has been the best for my finance.She is quite popular for her services so you might have heard of her. She made me financially stable investing through her help, now I earn on a monthly basis through her passive income strategy... So I’ll advise you do get a good Investment advisor for yourself.
@@stephaniefythm That’s great , your investment advisor must be really good,I have seen testimonies of people using the help of investment advisors in making them more financial stable. Do you mind sharing more info on this person?
@@eadad4371 look her up on the internet and leave her a message she's quite popular for her services as she was recently featured on cnn. She can work with anyone irrespective of where their located
@@stephaniefythm just got out of my marriage,I have had the intentions of starting investing. But I always thought it was late and I think I need to stop procrastinating. I will definitely 🔍 Regina Louise Collaro and see what she can advise .Thanks a lot . This was of so much help to me .
A good one is , What would happen if one of us had to go into a care therapy facility and they legally freeze our bank accounts and savings accounts ? We need separate accounts for that reason. My very wealthy friend's husband had a stroke and he was in rehab for 4 long years and their money was frozen , the well person could not touch it.
Financial therapy, what a great idea!!!! Finance basics is such a great idea to teach young ones to have resources and tools for when they start serious relationships.
Sounds like my husband, he said he wasn't paying spousal support,. Hr makes the money, but i pay my bills with my money, he flips out even if you take a penny.
Its easy to pidgeon hole men vs women assuming all it takes to prevent financial abuse is for wives to "try harder" if she isnt included or allowed access to financial accounts or her husband refuses to give her 1 penny for a divorce attorney or legal fees, then used marital funds to pay his retainer and legal fees.
2:10 👏wow women talking about financial abuse and tell "There are plenty of women who are financial abuser", nice to hear something gender neutral. And many women are worried that they will have to pay spousal support to their unemployed husband. This stupid alimony thing should be removed from the law, when the financial abuser gets rewarded with alimony, in some states life long alimony, for refusing to get a job during marriage. No one should be financially responsible for their ex wife or husbad, that they divorced decades ago. If a support is needed it might be one time payment, or property division, but not life long slavery, to a person who was financially abusing you during the marriage. Children need child support, but not adults who chose not to work during marriage. In most cases husbands are deterred from divorcing unemployed stay at home mom, by potential alimony and guaranteed child support, that greatly exceeds child's needs and might put him on the street. Many many couples try to stay together until the youngest turns 18, and immediately after that divorce.
Yes, many couples stay married until the children graduate from high school. Unlike child support, spousal support can be paid as a lump sum if the parties agree. You can't do that with child support.
Thank God I didn't sign nothing with my ex. Nothing at all. I had some issues with my ex when he knew the relationship was ending I was being harrassed so bad and ended up 3 and a half months in jail almost facing 2 year prison time behind the people who was also involved with my ex who was harrassing me about that marriage. Mental breakdowns and depression while I was locked up he field taxes I had even had people taking out extra money so I could file myself so I could have the money to leave what was bad and toxic involving these third party. This third party people threatened that if I would leave they knew my address as if they would bring further trouble on me then the harm they had already caused. Because of these people I was in an out of mental hospitals and everything. When I was working trying to save money these people would attack me mentally and through technology and I would be off work and be so stressed that I wouldn't even go to work. My ex was well aware of everything that was happening. Several people was. The only thing people would say was further toxic information for me to fight for the marriage where my ex would lie and tell me that what was being done was the result of am addiction and not the truth of what these people was doing to me. It was hell the worst toxic, lying, depressive crap that anyone should ever go through and to fight for what to stay with a lair, a gaslighter while he began to get angry that the lies was not working and messing up everything that I needed to get out of it first off my recovery because of the stress the money that I was making and the time spent in jail several times the paycheck that I had him use to get me out of jail because of the crap and ect. That's if the jail even required a bond with all the crap I went through. If I was to have been let out without a fee he would be the type to pretend that the check that went into the account was used for that. Then again the town that I'm from would want the money and still gaslight you about the injustice of the people involved.
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This is SO important! Financial/Economic Abuse is real! This is beyond accurate and scary.
Mine had SBA loans ALL OVER THE PLACE! My credit was destroyed.
Please please please DO NOT sign ANYTHING if you don’t understand what you are signing.
Same here. $900k in loans, but they were forgiven. He wrote checks in my name and claimed I was an employee of his. I have the same 2 jobs i had before I met him. I filed a police report in November. I've been waiting for the police department to move on it, because my husband is stalling the divorce by withholding all financial information.
I tried that . I had no idea what I was dealing with and his parents were helping him .. meanwhile our kid had cancer bone marrow transplant and all.
My husband won’t show me the tax returns. He owns small businesses, and when I ask how much money we make he says “it’s complicated” or “even I don’t really know.” He would never open a joint account and there’s not a real marriage there. I don’t even know how much money is involved, or how I would find that out. We even started the process of applying for a mortgage and somehow he got the lender to only communicate with him. This is why I want out. It doesn’t even feel like a marriage. So much lack of communication.
But we live in California and I want to leave the state so I can buy a house in a state that’s more affordable, and I can’t leave without some money. And I don’t have anything or any power to get it. I need help!!!!!!
How long have you been married? And do you have any children under 18 together?
I went through a lot of financial crisis after my divorce, I had to raise my two kids alone, Currently I'm living smart and frugal with my money. Bought my second house already. Saving and investing lifestyle in the financial market made it possible for me; even till now I earn monthly through passive income. I'm planning on retiring when my kids finish college.
I'm a single dad. Not quite long I started investing. I'm very curious and need help on how to enhance and increase my returns. Any good investment tips would be appreciated
@@eadad4371 Generally, investing requires higher knowledge. For this reason, It's important to have a solid support structure (financial consultant) to guide you through especially in asset picking. I operate with (Regina Louise Collaro) an investment advisor who partners with a licensed wealth management firm. For the record, the experience has been the best for my finance.She is quite popular for her services so you might have heard of her.
She made me financially stable investing through her help, now I earn on a monthly basis through her passive income strategy... So I’ll advise you do get a good Investment advisor for yourself.
@@stephaniefythm That’s great , your investment advisor must be really good,I have seen testimonies of people using the help of investment advisors in making them more financial stable. Do you mind sharing more info on this person?
@@eadad4371 look her up on the internet and leave her a message she's quite popular for her services as she was recently featured on cnn. She can work with anyone irrespective of where their located
@@stephaniefythm just got out of my marriage,I have had the intentions of starting investing. But I always thought it was late and I think I need to stop procrastinating. I will definitely 🔍 Regina Louise Collaro and see what she can advise .Thanks a lot . This was of so much help to me .
A good one is , What would happen if one of us had to go into a care therapy facility and they legally freeze our bank accounts and savings accounts ? We need separate accounts for that reason. My very wealthy friend's husband had a stroke and he was in rehab for 4 long years and their money was frozen , the well person could not touch it.
I was wife #2..
I could write a book
Me too...
@@kimberlymorrison4880 hugs for you
Any way to obtain divorce attorney when being financially abused
Financial therapy, what a great idea!!!! Finance basics is such a great idea to teach young ones to have resources and tools for when they start serious relationships.
Sounds like my husband, he said he wasn't paying spousal support,. Hr makes the money, but i pay my bills with my money, he flips out even if you take a penny.
Its easy to pidgeon hole men vs women assuming all it takes to prevent financial abuse is for wives to "try harder" if she isnt included or allowed access to financial accounts or her husband refuses to give her 1 penny for a divorce attorney or legal fees, then used marital funds to pay his retainer and legal fees.
It can be a difficult situation.
This is MY life!!!!!
2:10 👏wow women talking about financial abuse and tell "There are plenty of women who are financial abuser", nice to hear something gender neutral. And many women are worried that they will have to pay spousal support to their unemployed husband. This stupid alimony thing should be removed from the law, when the financial abuser gets rewarded with alimony, in some states life long alimony, for refusing to get a job during marriage. No one should be financially responsible for their ex wife or husbad, that they divorced decades ago. If a support is needed it might be one time payment, or property division, but not life long slavery, to a person who was financially abusing you during the marriage.
Children need child support, but not adults who chose not to work during marriage.
In most cases husbands are deterred from divorcing unemployed stay at home mom, by potential alimony and guaranteed child support, that greatly exceeds child's needs and might put him on the street.
Many many couples try to stay together until the youngest turns 18, and immediately after that divorce.
Yes, many couples stay married until the children graduate from high school. Unlike child support, spousal support can be paid as a lump sum if the parties agree. You can't do that with child support.
Love from Australia ❤
Why marry and get all the tags like financial abuser. Don't get married and you won't get a tag.
Thank God I didn't sign nothing with my ex. Nothing at all. I had some issues with my ex when he knew the relationship was ending I was being harrassed so bad and ended up 3 and a half months in jail almost facing 2 year prison time behind the people who was also involved with my ex who was harrassing me about that marriage. Mental breakdowns and depression while I was locked up he field taxes I had even had people taking out extra money so I could file myself so I could have the money to leave what was bad and toxic involving these third party. This third party people threatened that if I would leave they knew my address as if they would bring further trouble on me then the harm they had already caused. Because of these people I was in an out of mental hospitals and everything. When I was working trying to save money these people would attack me mentally and through technology and I would be off work and be so stressed that I wouldn't even go to work. My ex was well aware of everything that was happening. Several people was. The only thing people would say was further toxic information for me to fight for the marriage where my ex would lie and tell me that what was being done was the result of am addiction and not the truth of what these people was doing to me. It was hell the worst toxic, lying, depressive crap that anyone should ever go through and to fight for what to stay with a lair, a gaslighter while he began to get angry that the lies was not working and messing up everything that I needed to get out of it first off my recovery because of the stress the money that I was making and the time spent in jail several times the paycheck that I had him use to get me out of jail because of the crap and ect. That's if the jail even required a bond with all the crap I went through. If I was to have been let out without a fee he would be the type to pretend that the check that went into the account was used for that. Then again the town that I'm from would want the money and still gaslight you about the injustice of the people involved.
I’m in a very similar situation.
You write and sound like you are on meth. But good luck to you in life. You need to take responsibility for yourself.