After my first big relationship I read and watched a lot of red pill content and it transformed me. I then got a small rotation of girls and one of these girls was a really great girl with a lot of feminine qualities. She loved me a lot and did everything for me but I eventually lost her because all this red pill stuff gave me a false impression on what a men should do and how a man should be. I was very cold and didn't appreciate her very much for all the things she did for me. Eventually she lost all of her self esteem and thought what the fuck do I need to do in order to make this guy care for me and left. That was the best lesson of my life because you need to have BALANCE. It's very simple, never be rude and never lose your temper. Reward good behaviour but also set clear boundaries and enforce them. Don't let her disrespect you and always be willing to walk away even if you love her dearly. You are not a simp by being a gentleman and rewarding your girl with things or stuff they like IF THEY behave good. You are a simp when you do these things without getting anything in return. So you need a balance between ROMANTIC TOXIC that will keep them hooked for life
This video has helped me a lot I’m 19 and I feel like I’m starting over again. I’ve made pretty much all these mistakes and I’m stronger and wiser now to move forward and be better. Thanks G
6:04 that is facts dude, that’s the one thing I’m going to try to make sure of, imma keep reading and going on walks regardless cuz that’s what makes me happy.
This video is so frickin good, so good. The "She is the one" philosophy also reminded me of my first relationship - I fell in love so much with a girl that I basically was her pawn you can say. I didn't wanted to lose her cause I thought "that might never come again" . And she lost interest in me. Don't make this mistake, you are the man in the relationship and YOU lead your relationship.
I gave her too much attention and like you said, lost feelings. I also wasn't getting half the affection and attention I gave, was prepared though but holy hell 1.5 month first relationship. DO NOT THINK SHE'S "THE ONE", play it cool and prepare to walk away at any moment, you should be your own first priority.
This girl started working at my job a week ago and in our first interaction I got her number and we planned to meet a few days later. When we met we got to making out and getting touchy then I made my move and she acted as if she wasn’t going to give up the 🐱 and I ended up reacting like a child when I should’ve kept my cool. Giving off the vibe that i must not get action very often which is true lol but this resulted in her asking to be dropped off home and that was that. I just thought I would mention this because it’s like you say in the video. Women will test to see if you’re really the man you portray yourself to be and I failed that test.
Takes a lot of courage to admit your failure and what you need to do next time. Not a lot of people can do that. I see no one else has responded, so let me give you a tip of advice: NEVER make the 🐱 the end goal. Even if you’re super touchy and having fun, what I suggest you have in mind instead is just making sure you and her have a good time. This way, you won’t have so much stress to perform as much as well as being more loose about the situation. I had this happen, where a girl and I were really touchy yet didn’t want to kiss me when I first tried. Because I was having fun (for context we were golfing and alone and decided to make the move for it), I still kept my carefree, nonchalant attitude. We ended up going to a cafe, getting more touchy while keeping that attitude of I could care less of whether I got it or not: I was having fun. At the end of it, we made out in the Ferris wheel and her car. But, even if it didn’t happen, I would have been satisfied with how the day went.
I made a mistake once where I thought a girl was the one; it was a bit of a stupid situation. A few years ago in school, I was put in a group with a girl whom I had a crush on. She was probably a 9+/10 but her character made her a 10. She fit basically all the requirements in my head to qualify her for wife material. (Never label a woman as wife material so early on.) We worked well together and she helped me with some stuff relating to the work we were doing. Since I am mostly blind and since no one offers to help or speak to me, that meant a lot. The next year, I am put right next to her for a quarter year class. Once again, even more this time I was thinking constantly about her and being a weak little dumbass. I wanted to ask her for her number but didn't because of my anxiety and depression. After wallowing in my stupidity for the rest of the year, the next year came around. I was put in a math class with her but we were vurtual (still somewhat annoyed about that when looking back.) That year ends as well and I hear she is going to go to a different school and I was very sad. Within the following year I got over her but when we had a fair in our town, she was there. I didn't see her but I heard from many people that she became big-egoed and a not great person to be around. Hope that reading this teaches you some kind of lesson. The lesson I learned is that 1. School isn't a great environment for high value relationships. 2. I will meet many more girls that will fit my requirements for wife material but I need to level up if I want to get into a good relationship.
@@MonotoniTV I would like to have seen what would come of that but I was too much of a Jeffry to do anything. There's always a next time at least - which I am grateful for.
I can see you really did your homework / mastered this industry. I think if you had someone to say this stuff in spanish you could dominate the youtube spanish market (a lot of people speak it etc). You're low on subscribers it's a unfortunate already
I’m tried convincing my buddy that there’s no such thing as the one but he won’t listen. I’m watching this dude’s relationship like a car crash in slow motion. He’s emotional and reactive to everything his girl does and it’s clearly taking a toll on him. He thinks that giving 100% of his time and energy to her is what she wants and he doesn’t get that that will be the downfall of the relationship.
Total inexperience shines through here. Sometimes it's best to lose the girl. You are not compatible or for whatever reason. Staying with the wrong woman just so you can fan your ego? Think hard about this where will it go? Messy divorce? Kids that get put out? With experience you will come to know how to make better selection in the dating process. A problem in younger guys especially is they think of ego, or escalation to intimacy before anything else. Get the best advice currently out there. The best value. This will get you results. This will save you a lot of time. Benefit from real life experience and insight. The art to attracting women by James francis
00:44 🏠 Moving in together with your girlfriend too early can be a common and detrimental mistake, as it can lead to loss of competition anxiety and the spark in the relationship. 02:50 🚶♂ Spending too much time around a woman can result in losing your masculine identity, so maintaining a healthy balance with your own space is crucial. 04:14 🧭 Avoid operating consistently in a woman's frame and giving her too much control in the relationship; women often prefer being with a man who leads. 06:08 💔 Becoming overly dependent on love and spending all your time together can lead to relationship weaknesses; maintain your independence and balance in life. 08:42 📱 Avoid letting a girlfriend track your phone or control your life with rules and regulations, as it can lead to an imbalanced dynamic in the relationship.
Moving in is simply not an option for me, since cohabitation is a sin, and I'm not about to give up my relationship with God for a relationship with a girl.
I disagree regarding “moving in” factor, if u can work it back correctly to prevent losing ur power n continue to not call or txt her back every 5 seconds, tell er u’ll be back n keep er guessing where ya at, blaze blaze ...
Can you make a video on how to balance Bodybuilding with kickboxing? I'd like to do both but I'm not sure if trying to do both at once is gonna lead to mediocre results in both endeavours
Im doing the same except the fact it’s calisthenics in my case. what i do is: kickboxing in the morning, following gym or kickboxing in the morning and gym in the evening.
had real trouble balancing both for couple of months but i found a nice spot changing my workout program from bro-splits(much more workout volume per day per muscle group) to full 3days-rest-3days full body, it actually made me improve some lifts as its less damaging and increases frequency
You say "I kissed a girl and I wont do it again". I would also have a problem believing this, since once you did something nothing wont stop you from doing it again. Imo this is quite frequently a problem and a vicious circle when you say you wont do it again, she believes you, and you do it again and the story goes on and on and its toxic as hell
one time my girl asked me to check the time she ran away with my phone to check my messages lol she wasn't happy after but we got together anyway again
Talk about how to best manage dating multiple women in bangkok.. are you always 100% upfront with them about everything? Or is there room for lies here and there? Also what do you say when they ask you "What are you doing here"? "How long you been here?"
Never submit to a female, but how to win the divorce case in the court as a man im 15, because the Western nation especially the government system are mostly favoring wife even the money
@@mrlegkick91 it depends... there are 4 leves of mgtow Levels 1 and 2 have sex with wamen 3 and 4 are fed up of wamen and they don't. Research it as levels of mgtow to go deeper
After my first big relationship I read and watched a lot of red pill content and it transformed me. I then got a small rotation of girls and one of these girls was a really great girl with a lot of feminine qualities. She loved me a lot and did everything for me but I eventually lost her because all this red pill stuff gave me a false impression on what a men should do and how a man should be. I was very cold and didn't appreciate her very much for all the things she did for me. Eventually she lost all of her self esteem and thought what the fuck do I need to do in order to make this guy care for me and left.
That was the best lesson of my life because you need to have BALANCE. It's very simple, never be rude and never lose your temper. Reward good behaviour but also set clear boundaries and enforce them. Don't let her disrespect you and always be willing to walk away even if you love her dearly. You are not a simp by being a gentleman and rewarding your girl with things or stuff they like IF THEY behave good. You are a simp when you do these things without getting anything in return.
So you need a balance between ROMANTIC TOXIC that will keep them hooked for life
This comment is amazing
agree, too much redpill stuff just ruins the vibe and a lot of women can smell the toxicity a mile away if you're not genuine. Happened to me
yeah all that redpill stuff is bs and what's your definition of a rotation?
Same happened to me man, and it hurts.
@@rasheemthebestfirstone3274 basically having a few girls that are down to fuck with you and that could become your GF if they prove themselves
Hey Jack, nice video! bit weird might be a glitch but there seems to be a gorilla in the bottom right of the screen? anyway great work!
Thank you my fellow Gorilla 🦍
True. The abundance of beautiful and smart women in the world is unfathomable
This video has helped me a lot I’m 19 and I feel like I’m starting over again. I’ve made pretty much all these mistakes and I’m stronger and wiser now to move forward and be better. Thanks G
6:04 that is facts dude, that’s the one thing I’m going to try to make sure of, imma keep reading and going on walks regardless cuz that’s what makes me happy.
This video is so frickin good, so good. The "She is the one" philosophy also reminded me of my first relationship - I fell in love so much with a girl that I basically was her pawn you can say. I didn't wanted to lose her cause I thought "that might never come again" . And she lost interest in me. Don't make this mistake, you are the man in the relationship and YOU lead your relationship.
nice one. "Learn them early" best to escape and move on from it so you can learn from it and not let it happen again in the future
I gave her too much attention and like you said, lost feelings. I also wasn't getting half the affection and attention I gave, was prepared though but holy hell 1.5 month first relationship. DO NOT THINK SHE'S "THE ONE", play it cool and prepare to walk away at any moment, you should be your own first priority.
Great tips thanks bro
This girl started working at my job a week ago and in our first interaction I got her number and we planned to meet a few days later. When we met we got to making out and getting touchy then I made my move and she acted as if she wasn’t going to give up the 🐱 and I ended up reacting like a child when I should’ve kept my cool. Giving off the vibe that i must not get action very often which is true lol but this resulted in her asking to be dropped off home and that was that.
I just thought I would mention this because it’s like you say in the video. Women will test to see if you’re really the man you portray yourself to be and I failed that test.
Takes a lot of courage to admit your failure and what you need to do next time. Not a lot of people can do that. I see no one else has responded, so let me give you a tip of advice:
NEVER make the 🐱 the end goal. Even if you’re super touchy and having fun, what I suggest you have in mind instead is just making sure you and her have a good time. This way, you won’t have so much stress to perform as much as well as being more loose about the situation. I had this happen, where a girl and I were really touchy yet didn’t want to kiss me when I first tried. Because I was having fun (for context we were golfing and alone and decided to make the move for it), I still kept my carefree, nonchalant attitude. We ended up going to a cafe, getting more touchy while keeping that attitude of I could care less of whether I got it or not: I was having fun. At the end of it, we made out in the Ferris wheel and her car. But, even if it didn’t happen, I would have been satisfied with how the day went.
Guys, what does cat emoji mean here?
@@hubert.lazowski box 😂
extremely true
Pure facts
I made a mistake once where I thought a girl was the one; it was a bit of a stupid situation.
A few years ago in school, I was put in a group with a girl whom I had a crush on. She was probably a 9+/10 but her character made her a 10. She fit basically all the requirements in my head to qualify her for wife material. (Never label a woman as wife material so early on.) We worked well together and she helped me with some stuff relating to the work we were doing. Since I am mostly blind and since no one offers to help or speak to me, that meant a lot. The next year, I am put right next to her for a quarter year class. Once again, even more this time I was thinking constantly about her and being a weak little dumbass. I wanted to ask her for her number but didn't because of my anxiety and depression. After wallowing in my stupidity for the rest of the year, the next year came around. I was put in a math class with her but we were vurtual (still somewhat annoyed about that when looking back.) That year ends as well and I hear she is going to go to a different school and I was very sad. Within the following year I got over her but when we had a fair in our town, she was there. I didn't see her but I heard from many people that she became big-egoed and a not great person to be around.
Hope that reading this teaches you some kind of lesson.
The lesson I learned is that
1. School isn't a great environment for high value relationships.
2. I will meet many more girls that will fit my requirements for wife material but I need to level up if I want to get into a good relationship.
So you didn't have a relationship with her, can't judge if she would have been a good fit because you were too scared
@@MonotoniTV I would like to have seen what would come of that but I was too much of a Jeffry to do anything. There's always a next time at least - which I am grateful for.
Great Video Brother, you end up noticing that your attention starts to slowly go towards them and away from your goals.
Thanks for the videos bud, saving a life one video at a time
literally the only no bullshit youtuber out there
Great video, don’t let them rule. They hate it deep down
I kinda get Cobra Tate vibes (Already thought that the last videos), really enjoy that style.
Keep going.
Man you are a legend.. keep up the good my guy ❤️🔥
Videos are life changing Jack 🙌
absolute G information 100% agree with all of it got my sub
Sick vids my guy
I can see you really did your homework / mastered this industry. I think if you had someone to say this stuff in spanish you could dominate the youtube spanish market (a lot of people speak it etc). You're low on subscribers it's a unfortunate already
The trick is to have an avoident attachment style - which ironically comes from a difficult childhood
no definitely not 😭 it's an *unhealthy* attachment style for a reason
I have it , and it makes it kinda hard to commit lol
Thanks, I have already read the rationale male, but yours videos are entertaining
“She is one of the ones” 🔥🔥😮💨
I’m tried convincing my buddy that there’s no such thing as the one but he won’t listen. I’m watching this dude’s relationship like a car crash in slow motion.
He’s emotional and reactive to everything his girl does and it’s clearly taking a toll on him. He thinks that giving 100% of his time and energy to her is what she wants and he doesn’t get that that will be the downfall of the relationship.
facts
How’s that goin?
Thank you for that video
Total inexperience shines through here. Sometimes it's best to lose the girl. You are not compatible or for whatever reason. Staying with the wrong woman just so you can fan your ego? Think hard about this where will it go? Messy divorce? Kids that get put out? With experience you will come to know how to make better selection in the dating process. A problem in younger guys especially is they think of ego, or escalation to intimacy before anything else.
Get the best advice currently out there. The best value. This will get you results. This will save you a lot of time.
Benefit from real life experience and insight.
The art to attracting women by James francis
Thanks brother for giving direction to men life ❤️
Great video mate 👊🏼
Thanks man 🙏🦍
00:44 🏠 Moving in together with your girlfriend too early can be a common and detrimental mistake, as it can lead to loss of competition anxiety and the spark in the relationship.
02:50 🚶♂ Spending too much time around a woman can result in losing your masculine identity, so maintaining a healthy balance with your own space is crucial.
04:14 🧭 Avoid operating consistently in a woman's frame and giving her too much control in the relationship; women often prefer being with a man who leads.
06:08 💔 Becoming overly dependent on love and spending all your time together can lead to relationship weaknesses; maintain your independence and balance in life.
08:42 📱 Avoid letting a girlfriend track your phone or control your life with rules and regulations, as it can lead to an imbalanced dynamic in the relationship.
keep going King Kong 🦍👑
Moving in is simply not an option for me, since cohabitation is a sin, and I'm not about to give up my relationship with God for a relationship with a girl.
Based
Love that
Amen 🙏🏽
Based
Are you catholic?
I disagree regarding “moving in” factor, if u can work it back correctly to prevent losing ur power n continue to not call or txt her back every 5 seconds, tell er u’ll be back n keep er guessing where ya at, blaze blaze ...
“date nights” destroy tha mystery man she is biologically wired to seek, only do these like 1-2 times per year. Thank me later,
Love the outro 😂🦍
You speaking facts about how women always want to go take naps and get coffee and play
Can you make a video on how to balance Bodybuilding with kickboxing? I'd like to do both but I'm not sure if trying to do both at once is gonna lead to mediocre results in both endeavours
Im doing the same except the fact it’s calisthenics in my case. what i do is: kickboxing in the morning, following gym or kickboxing in the morning and gym in the evening.
had real trouble balancing both for couple of months but i found a nice spot changing my workout program from bro-splits(much more workout volume per day per muscle group) to full 3days-rest-3days full body, it actually made me improve some lifts as its less damaging and increases frequency
The intro peaked at 'How to create your OWN rite of passage (The art of becoming a man)'. When are we seeing a more intense intro ? 😄
Why do i keep watching this guy he punches me at the end of every video
Any books about this you recommend?
You say "I kissed a girl and I wont do it again". I would also have a problem believing this, since once you did something nothing wont stop you from doing it again. Imo this is quite frequently a problem and a vicious circle when you say you wont do it again, she believes you, and you do it again and the story goes on and on and its toxic as hell
one time my girl asked me to check the time she ran away with my phone to check my messages lol she wasn't happy after but we got together anyway again
I think women are very good in very small doses
Talk about how to best manage dating multiple women in bangkok.. are you always 100% upfront with them about everything? Or is there room for lies here and there?
Also what do you say when they ask you "What are you doing here"? "How long you been here?"
Never submit to a female, but how to win the divorce case in the court as a man im 15, because the Western nation especially the government system are mostly favoring wife even the money
How can I make sure that the girl understands that I just wanna sleep with her and not interested in long-term relationship? In could approach
petition to change the channel’s name to “Gorilla Tribe”
What if the girl is exactly like my mother....it's like my mother has born again.
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Are we talking about eastern women's?
Women in general I’m pretty sure
how to lose a girl again (90% of MEN will)
Alright mate
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testosteno :p
Stop giving PUA advise.
Mgtow is the right philosophy to teach!
Listen to coach greg Adams, darius M, tom leykis, TFM etc.
Does mgtow involve no sex? If so fuck that....
@@mrlegkick91 it depends... there are 4 leves of mgtow
Levels 1 and 2 have sex with wamen
3 and 4 are fed up of wamen and they don't. Research it as levels of mgtow to go deeper
What's the girl in the thumbnails Instagram? I will reward correct answers
Nerd
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Good advice!