How to STOP being the “NICE GUY” (Unleash your inner ALPHA)

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  • @Hamza97
    @Hamza97 2 ปีที่แล้ว +588

    grats on 20k brother

    • @JackhopkinsCEO
      @JackhopkinsCEO  2 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      Thanks for getting me into this g 🦍💪🏼❤️

    • @IbbiAhmed
      @IbbiAhmed 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      shiiiii Hamza himself

    • @yorkchill
      @yorkchill 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      did u sign back into ur account hamza? u said in a previous video that u didnt use yt while signed in

    • @GankScythe
      @GankScythe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      less than 10 days later, 30K. yessir

    • @punit5601
      @punit5601 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JackhopkinsCEO video suggestion: how to confront but not seem too bothered by them? Because a lot of times men just test each other to see what they can handle so how to build boundaries without seeming too serious about the issue?
      I find is bare to distinguish between those 2 things. Would love if you can make a video on it :)

  • @TheCodeDealer
    @TheCodeDealer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    Regret does indeed kill you on the inside. "I wish I had done this/that". It's the most annoying feeling ever, its like a mind splinter.

    • @Halo-hz9zu
      @Halo-hz9zu ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Honestly I hate it so much

  • @MindOverThisMatrix
    @MindOverThisMatrix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    That energy at the beginning 🤣

    • @ShavkatR814
      @ShavkatR814 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So fking good aye

    • @Random-pg8wt
      @Random-pg8wt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Cringe

    • @shreyashshrestha6085
      @shreyashshrestha6085 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      HHUU HUU HUUU HUU

    • @mIrOkAKkO
      @mIrOkAKkO 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Random-pg8wt 1+1 is 2 bro 🦍

    • @muukipodi
      @muukipodi ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Random-pg8wt change your mind👳

  • @randomnumbers84269
    @randomnumbers84269 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I got physically attacked by a customer at my workplace some time ago. I ended up calling the cops on the assaulter but it really bugs me still that I didn't stand my ground and hit back. I was afraid for my job and honestly surprised by the aggressiveness of the customer. I thought by calling the cops on him I would get my revenge on him. In reality the cops just gave the guy a bit of a lecture, and since I was able to block and avoid his swings I didn't even have a bruise on me for proof. If I could go back I would **at the very least** aggressively push the guy away and stand my ground. It really messes with your manhood to back away from confrontation like that. Of course different story if he had a weapon, but since he clearly was simply an aggressive bozo with no skills and no weapon on him, it would have been easy to put him in his place if I only asserted myself a bit physically.

  • @mrdhale
    @mrdhale หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was that 7 year old kid when I was younger - the worst part is that my father watched my mother treat me in that way. I will do everything I can to protect any abused children I encounter in my life.

  • @ollelle880
    @ollelle880 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The book no more Mr. nice guy by Robert Glover covers this topic really well, when I read this book I felt like I was looking into a mirror.

    • @PriestOfFilm
      @PriestOfFilm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I have that book but I've struggled to implement it into my life so many times.

  • @haiderhussain6733
    @haiderhussain6733 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I think his second point is by far the most important thing for guys out there. How can you help others when you cant help yourself. You need to level up and that does require a high degree of selfishness for a good few years before you can like he said become the alpha who provides for others.This guy is speaking nothing but facts!

  • @baldeagle4710
    @baldeagle4710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    being less nice does make you happier. it makes you feel powerful. i felt depressed when i was acting nice, because i never got what i wanted.

  • @DampONion
    @DampONion 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This guy spitting more facts than anyone else on the internet right now!

  • @davidmachado6213
    @davidmachado6213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Seriously bro, what a video you put out.
    Having slacked a lot for some months, losing my purpose and feeling bad and anxious all the time, I quit some addictions cold turkey and controlled others a lot better, started doing some good habits again and living well and now I feel better all the time and fixing my behaviors has been a lot easier thanks to a mentality shift.
    A lot of this made absolute sense to me.
    Thanks a lot for this video.

  • @batmaninja1
    @batmaninja1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Bro wish I had a friend with your energy in my life keep at it💪

  • @aoiv777
    @aoiv777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Last video and after tonight I'm taking a break from the web all together until I get my life together. I think I've absorbed enough information to be alright and spread my wings. But I noticed I'm getting too distracted 💯✌🏼 good luck to everyone.

    • @aoiv777
      @aoiv777 ปีที่แล้ว

      @r14j- I appreciate the check up ✔️ brother fr 🤝

  • @kennyngeleka7387
    @kennyngeleka7387 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This guy gives u so much energy 😂😂

  • @ghostman4778
    @ghostman4778 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you, I’ve been on self improvement for 3 month now and it was all ups and downs and I used to have such a low self esteem, I could talk to a girl that I knew she liked me and think “what does she find in me” and I always cared what people thought of me and It’s such a hard life because you are in your head 100% of the time you can’t live like this, and for the first time in my life nothing irritate me, I’m not afraid of any girl or any disagreement I feel so good in my own skin you changed my life

  • @OliviaMari43
    @OliviaMari43 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Time Stamps
    - Why being the ‘nice guy’ is bad = 0:47
    - The alpha male = 1:45
    - Stop avoiding confrontation = 2:31
    - You’re number 1 = 4:40
    - Have rules and regulations = 5:27
    - Respect yourself = 10:27

  • @sammanberg9485
    @sammanberg9485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Fantastic video as usual brother. I know for sure that your TH-cam channel will be huge in just a few months, best self improvement content there is. Straight to the point and very clear message.

  • @iLoveVisionZ
    @iLoveVisionZ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a banger video, I mean all recent videos are pretty insane but this one is on another level imo.

  • @nate4524
    @nate4524 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for the message you have conveyed in this video brother. As men we have to stand up for what we believe without anyone else influencing our decision or allow their opinions be stronger than our conviction. Much appreciated Jack!

  • @Reinousmessandriahdristreniyos
    @Reinousmessandriahdristreniyos 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That advice of not doing things for approval helped , I reall needed that
    Thank you sir

  • @christopherjoseph6128
    @christopherjoseph6128 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really Appreciate your videos getting better everyday

  • @providence2903
    @providence2903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hamza is my spiritual leader, Jack is my coach. Love you bro

    • @jan7844
      @jan7844 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stop simping, get your own identity

  • @moohstangcs9728
    @moohstangcs9728 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love it, you are so right with the last part of it with alcohol and drugs im on that level with many of your knowledge

  • @Nate-mp8jl
    @Nate-mp8jl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a good video. Thanks man much appreciated

  • @faboolean7039
    @faboolean7039 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’ve always wanted to start learning jiu jitsu but after watching you’re videos jack, I’ve never felt so inspired in my life.
    I’m gonna stop procrastinating and sign up today

    • @Conformal
      @Conformal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Did you sign up yet? if so happy for you!

  • @alphaisation4739
    @alphaisation4739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    cheers Jack, needed this as a reminder, I genuinely find it hard to give criticism sometimes, just because im all for building social connections with people

    • @F32Aidan
      @F32Aidan ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m to much of a people pleaser for my own good

  • @isaacwalsh49
    @isaacwalsh49 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    just found your channel, loving it

  • @MeinungMann
    @MeinungMann 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks bro. I knew all this stuff but at times it won't hurt anyone to revision something as important

  • @grammarcop5673
    @grammarcop5673 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great to the point video man

  • @talibali166
    @talibali166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Subbed him the moment i saw him at Hamzas
    Knew it was worth it. Thank you Jackkk boy

  • @kubs7379
    @kubs7379 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank Jack I needed this video

  • @smbd6675
    @smbd6675 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I honestly love your videos more than Hamza's at the moment

    • @sethpolitte8057
      @sethpolitte8057 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      *whispering* me too bro

    • @rasheemthebestfirstone3274
      @rasheemthebestfirstone3274 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yup it might be because of fanboyism if you’re just watching the vid and not taking action but yes I watch him more than Hamza

    • @thorn7005
      @thorn7005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why u lot gotta compare they both good

  • @trueaddict8733
    @trueaddict8733 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You're putting out some great shit man!

  • @ElDanielFernando
    @ElDanielFernando 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent Video, really really you put tools to be a real man. And have the respect that we want.

  • @vanDoorenRobin
    @vanDoorenRobin ปีที่แล้ว

    Concise explanation with practical advice.

  • @renxoramos4465
    @renxoramos4465 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Gorilla squad 💪

  • @nanojoel
    @nanojoel 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video Jack)

  • @yourfuckedd
    @yourfuckedd ปีที่แล้ว

    Hahhahaha bro stumbled across the channel. This is so good, true leader

  • @DragonDevil100
    @DragonDevil100 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    great lad

  • @petarbusak
    @petarbusak ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like your energy and vibe !

  • @joncaistermusic
    @joncaistermusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your Channel is so good Mate keep it up💯

  • @imranahmed-mt8wg
    @imranahmed-mt8wg 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    lets gooooo jack i love u bro

  • @JackhopkinsCEO
    @JackhopkinsCEO  2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

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  • @darioscomicschool1111
    @darioscomicschool1111 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks!

  • @Bettercalladdy
    @Bettercalladdy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Can you please make a video on how to be the man of the relationship? It's kinda weird that I'm a Chad outside of my relationship and a complete simp with no self respect with my girl. I always feel insecure that she's gonna cheat on me or something, I reply instantly when she texts and I pick up everytime she calls and she doesn't even see my calls. I have thoughts about killing myself, a little help would be nice.

    • @MindOverThisMatrix
      @MindOverThisMatrix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I feel for you, bud. I have a similar problem where I am all good outside the relationship, but my girl seems to think she's the boss and wears the trousers. I wanna tip that balance

    • @JustBeBetterOscar
      @JustBeBetterOscar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You named everything you're doing wrong yourself. If you eliminate that you might fix it but to be honest you need to establish that type of stuff before you start a relationship or else it can be hard to change that in the middle of it. Goodluck brother and remember girls aren't everything don't be scared to lose her there's always more options out there as long as you improve yourself you'll find a better one

    • @sidorocks2003
      @sidorocks2003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Leave her if ur having those thoughts

    • @jaro551
      @jaro551 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It doesn't seem like you are in a healthy relationship when you want to kill yourself. Get a new girl. It's scary, but that should be better.

    • @mc-bq7fs
      @mc-bq7fs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Bro, stand up for yourself, set boundaries, if she doesn’t respect them tell her to leave. It is harder than it sounds, and will probably be uncomfortable but that doesn’t mean it’s not possible. She clearly isn’t treating you correctly/ how you treated, so don’t be contempt with that. You got this brother & please don’t kill yourself, it will do much more damage than good

  • @Hiyapatno
    @Hiyapatno 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love how clearly your videos are presented and conveyed

  • @combat-tales
    @combat-tales 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lets goo boys!

  • @art3m101
    @art3m101 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are getting crazy with these intros

  • @theotht
    @theotht 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    this man is a maniac

  • @dale2283
    @dale2283 ปีที่แล้ว

    CEO W

  • @karolkonieczny9130
    @karolkonieczny9130 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've noticed that since my mental health is great, I dont feel like taking drugs or drinking. I'll do it like once a month and after that I literally dont feel like doing it again at all for a few weeks

  • @zenel5685
    @zenel5685 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    need a vid on how to become super social

  • @bradtrujillo5021
    @bradtrujillo5021 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    FACTS 💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @SCOOTAVIZION
    @SCOOTAVIZION ปีที่แล้ว

    this was a great video im on my alpha male now

  • @bananajotaro9283
    @bananajotaro9283 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    alpha sigma wolf gang awooo

  • @Cynane27
    @Cynane27 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you make a video on how to resist temptation?

  • @givvaz
    @givvaz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Who was born in a house full of pain?
    Who was trained not to spit in the fan?
    Who was told what to do by the man?
    Who was broken by trained personnel?
    Who was fitted with collar and chain?
    Who was given a pat on the back?
    Who was breaking away from the pack? (Breaking away from the pack)
    Who was only a stranger at home? (Only a stranger at home)
    Who was ground down in the end? (Ground down in the end)
    Who was found dead on the phone? (Found dead on the phone)
    Who was dragged down by the stone?
    Who was dragged down by the stone?
    (с) Pink Floyd "Dogs"

  • @urvakshbagwadia8007
    @urvakshbagwadia8007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sup Jack. I have a video idea for you which I think you will love. Similar to your video on top 3 alpha male movies to watch. Do a video on the books that develop you into an alpha male. Cheers for the content 💪🦍

  • @avar_99
    @avar_99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dude calling espresso "expresso" two times in a row, 0 fucks given, true chad 🦍

  • @LuckyBastardCandleCo
    @LuckyBastardCandleCo ปีที่แล้ว

    Eloquently put

  • @sander_official
    @sander_official 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ty Gorilla💯

  • @gt500dox8
    @gt500dox8 ปีที่แล้ว

    02:09 my man becoming passive-agressive while saying Nice guys are passive agressive 😆

  • @NoOne-sq4et
    @NoOne-sq4et 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I bet this guy aced all presentation assignment in school

  • @melonmusk6969
    @melonmusk6969 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    you're the most bri'ish guy I've seen till date bruv

  • @nicolaibraae153
    @nicolaibraae153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You should make a video on how to give masculine presence

    • @X8X8X6X4X
      @X8X8X6X4X 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stop nuttin and start slaying

    • @rasheemthebestfirstone3274
      @rasheemthebestfirstone3274 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Be masculine by building your body, having self respect by doing the things you know are best for you. Keep your word and have principles. Have a goal or purpose you’re going to

  • @AntonioRodrigues-cz6vf
    @AntonioRodrigues-cz6vf ปีที่แล้ว

    0:05 we all know this feeling

  • @poopsickle2411
    @poopsickle2411 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bro turned into a tomato 🍅

  • @Disaster807
    @Disaster807 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What do you do for a job in Thailand?

  • @koga9820
    @koga9820 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💪🏻

  • @michalvavrica5932
    @michalvavrica5932 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why this video is oposite of what i learnt from book how to win friends and influence people 🤔

  • @AVOINE862
    @AVOINE862 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wanna be alpha too❤

  • @lordser1326
    @lordser1326 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn I m fucked up

  • @tmoneyofficial1
    @tmoneyofficial1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    man said big brute of a women lool

  • @carpediem9037
    @carpediem9037 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fucking Champ!

  • @Moize-_-_-_-_549
    @Moize-_-_-_-_549 ปีที่แล้ว

    Title should be
    "How to get a U turn from Heaven"

  • @gabrielbidilica422
    @gabrielbidilica422 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What self-defense sport, martial arts do you recommend for a young man to pick up on?

    • @Pochitaa
      @Pochitaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just do any that fits you or you feel you like the most. I did MMA and fell in love with it. The same for you could be Boxing or Muay Thai!

    • @ReeghanN
      @ReeghanN 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      For self defense with slightly less fitness: Krav Maga
      For technical and philosophy: Karate
      For an all rounder, fun but not too challenging: MMA
      For pure pain and fitness: Muay Thai
      Kickboxing and Taekwondo are also fun.
      I personally did MMA now I'm doing Krav Maga, Muay Thai was too much fitness work for me.

    • @omegads3862
      @omegads3862 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Boxing. Wrestling. Judo. But keep in mind there is a very bad path to go down if you don't have the proper perspective.

    • @omegads3862
      @omegads3862 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      These are combat sports, and to be used in that spirit. Don't use them except for self defence outside the ring.

    • @rasheemthebestfirstone3274
      @rasheemthebestfirstone3274 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@omegads3862 lol never back down movement

  • @geoffreyparker2786
    @geoffreyparker2786 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you know any places to get fitted white/black tees that are v-necks and comfortable to wear? Would appreciate it.

    • @rasheemthebestfirstone3274
      @rasheemthebestfirstone3274 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stores

    • @RoyceJakobs
      @RoyceJakobs 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      gotchu. go to a polo store or polo online. they should have black, white, n grey crewneck sets

    • @geoffreyparker2786
      @geoffreyparker2786 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RoyceJakobs Thanks brah, any that you personally use that are online. It's hard to find the right size since I started bodybuilding.

    • @RoyceJakobs
      @RoyceJakobs 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@geoffreyparker2786 if you already big on sum shi, then a good a size would be large n fitted. but im not super big yet so i wear a small.

  • @jonesyxperia7
    @jonesyxperia7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lucifer Morningstar

  • @ayoodawg1104
    @ayoodawg1104 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1. Take tren
    End of the video

  • @trilogy2523
    @trilogy2523 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I mean it's ok to be nice but not to the point where you don't care about yourself. You should always pay yourself first.

  • @HicksMMAandFitness
    @HicksMMAandFitness 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice originates from the word Naïve: showing a lack of experience, wisdom, or judgment.

  • @uhtack
    @uhtack 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    actually first

  • @AzanZ
    @AzanZ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    0:11 me

  • @AmazinMusicNYC
    @AmazinMusicNYC 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I disagree with everyone

  • @blacjackdaniels200
    @blacjackdaniels200 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really wish I had you in my ear a long time ago. I’m probably 15 or 20 years older than you..

  • @TheDroggelbecher1
    @TheDroggelbecher1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You say very wise things. But this "gorilla thing" at the beginning is so disturbing. Because I sometimes like it to watch a video to hear your main thesis to a topic i can pause the beginning and skip it, but this time you dont left enouth time for me to prepare at the start.

  • @Alicia-vq8jg
    @Alicia-vq8jg 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What is wrong with that woman 😭

  • @serzaza
    @serzaza ปีที่แล้ว

    5:00

  • @GrindGs
    @GrindGs 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ceo of gear. Man you lie to yourself 😅😂

  • @wyzowl1440
    @wyzowl1440 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Jack, I've been watching your content for a bit and noticed a position that needs filling. If you're looking for an editor feel free to reach out via discord or whatever medium works for you. Cheers and thanks for the daily content

  • @jgold9048
    @jgold9048 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🦍 🍌🥂

  • @teepx4886
    @teepx4886 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🍌 🦍