I know that not everybody can afford an online course, but I hope that the fifteen videos in the Shadow Work Playlist will support the next steps of your shadow integration journey. I created this free playlist to function like a crash-course on shadow psychology with the intention of being as accessible and actionable as possible. I didn't want to stash the basics behind a paywall or email signup - I would rather you keep learning right here on TH-cam. You can instantly access over five hours of beginner-to-advanced shadow work exercises and lectures with the free playlist linked in the description. Make sure to take your time with the guided exercises, and don't forget to buy the golden books. Jordan P. S. I want to say a heartfelt thank you to this comments section community. My channel is niche, and you've seen the Inner Work Library slowly expand over the last two years. I feel fortunate to receive such deep and genuine connections online, and TH-cam recently told me that there have been more than 4000 unique commentors across my entire channel. Thank you for showing up, I appreciate you. If you want more depth, we can meet inside the library: courses.jordanthornton.com/shadow-work-library/
I endlessly deluded myself into believing that relationships are *supposed* to be hard, that challenges, fighting, yelling, heartbreak, and chaos were normal. It's not normal; it's toxic. And the dependency we have on that toxicity is like an addiction. Finding real, healthy, authentic love was the greatest thing I ever did for myself -- and the easiest path I have ever navigated.
I’m 46 and I’m fully aware that I chased the most unavailable of men to fulfill a sick need to confirm that I believed I was unlovable. I’m ready to stop chasing my shadows and calling it fate.
Distilled, succinct and powerful advice. I read a lot of psych books and can recognize the merit in each point in helping us intentionally avoid codependency and delusion. Well done!!
Excellent to know that even somebody as well educated as yourself is finding value in this kind of conversation - which points stood out for you the most? Any that you’re working on in particular? 🤔
@@jordanthornton @jordanthornton In particular the first two points are still so challenging to me! Speaking up when I'm displeased with something has historically always gotten me labeled as "difficult" so mindfulness against leaning into cowardice is the constant hard work I'm engaged in currently. And in also recognizing that level of codependency I've also realized I tend to engage in unequal power dynamics, handing my shadow to my partner. Acknowledging that pattern has led to a few years of solitude in order to learn to hold my own shadow.
@@jmo534 Hard to find that balance between the right amount of speaking up and when to be more understanding or compromise. I get that. Likewise always important to address the power dynamics at the shadow level - appreciate your reflections.
Jordan, man… It’s scary but refreshing to have your words resonate with me so deeply. I had broken up with my boyfriend just under 2 months ago. Even looking at a picture of him or having flashbacks of us together (or intimate) my blood would start to boil. I feel angry and disappointed but those feelings are targeted towards myself. We shouldn’t have been together for as long as we were, and I knew it was not going to work. But I didn’t have the self-respect and the strength to say no more. I have healed tremendously from my past experiences but this one feels like a set back (although I consciously know it is still growth). Thank you so much for sharing.
Thank you for sharing some of your story with such transparency for me and other people to see - I know that process, and I’m glad you’re working through the emotional waves with honesty. Happy to have helped with this video - check out the other videos in the playlist too for some practical somatic guidance and other shadow exercises, they’ll help 🌲
Somehow romantic relationships have the potential to destroy us in ever way imaginable. We place such great importance on each other to fulfill our unmet needs stemming way back from our childhood. When it inevitably becomes apparent that the person isn’t who we had imagined and hoped they be, we recoil in anger, shock and betrayal. It wasn’t that the person has changed drastically in some way or another, it was our inability to see the real person that end up being detrimental for us. At some point the blinders come off and we become suddenly aware of the reality of the individual in front of us, the ideal romantic projection we had created in our mind doesn’t match the reality. But their behaviors, selfishness, abusive language and put downs, were there all along, we were just not paying attention..! We ignored them and somehow managed to convince ourselves it’s not so bad..! You may want love, respect and care from others but you betray yourself in the most vulnerable moments, especially when you keep quiet when someone is abusive, when you stay with someone who has shown you that they’re not worth your time., and ultimately we betray ourselves first by not taking action to protect ourselves. And for as long as we betray ourselves, we can’t expect others to put us first when we do not do it ourselves. We can try all we want but if you haven’t learned and mastered self-love you will forever repeat the cycle of dysfunction. The lesson has to be learned, if you don’t put yourself first, nobody else will do it for you, it’s sad but it’s true ..!
It's Christmas eve and m alone cooking.. ur video is playing and m not really listening to what ur saying but ur voice is so comforting like hot chocolate in winter 😊 that's all I need thank u
It’s a beautiful idea, but some of my 1-1 work with very spiritually aware clients still suggests that loving and trusting romantic connections (in the form of partnership, not lust) are massively important for the wellbeing of most people… especially after the age of 40. There might be some rare exceptions, but we can’t bypass the deep need for connection to another. It’s very normal and human.
Very spiritually aware and truly Awakened are not the same thing. With the attendant contentment of completeness one feels no need for a partner.@@jordanthornton
Yeah, it can be and I've heard the expression for years now. But there actually comes a point of fulfillment in which desires fall away or can easily be discounted. @@annalimpert4605
I was in a trauma bond relationship for over 15 years. I am now single for 5 and a half years on a self healing journey doing the inner work. I have listened to just a few of your videos and I haved learned so much. I also have had some realisations while watching these thanks. I am ready to allow someone else in my life now and I feel your videos are going to help me even more with this thanks
Wow! I thank you for this video. I’ve been divorced a little over a year & I’ve been working on myself and will continue. This information was an absolute godsend!! I agree with starting on the little things. I appreciate you!!!
Thanks for sharing some of your story - check out the other Shadow relationships video in the playlist linked in the description, it’s got some practical exercises that I think you’ll enjoy 🌲
Ah, me too! It's a great experience on the inside of the course and I look forward to welcoming you with some voicenotes when you've got the finances ready to go - good news is that the lessons won't age and they'll be just as good in a few months. Hope this series has proven inspirational and actionable in the meantime.
Thank you for this, it's great timing. I've been doing my own shadow work very intuitively and did some last night around a new relationship and how I was relating to it and allowing other people's ideas to influence me about it. Not specific people, more archetypes of how relationships 'should' be. I wouldn't call myself advanced, I wouldn't even know what to call where I am in my shadow work, all I know is that I'm committed to it and I know it will be a lifelong process but I'm in no rush. You shared some great ideas to think about and bring awareness to. Thanks again 😊
Holy shit… I’ve gotten more from this video than I did from months of therapy. Subscribeeeeed. I am extremely prone to ridiculous crushes when I’m really down and ‘rescue fantasy’ was the term you used that made a whole lot of that cycle make finally make sense to me.
This means a lot to me - make sure to check out the full shadow work playlist which I completed this week. It’s got 5+ hours of similar level teachings 🌲
I can't believe how underrated you are. God will give you your rightful recognition in due time. Thank you for investing into these healing videos. I'm so grateful to come across this channel ❤
Oh you're good, you're real good! Have just discovered you and am exploring my shadow and the polarity/duality frame work, so stumbling on you and your work has been super helpful. Love the way in which you communicate and articulate. Great work.
That was very interesting. Was very easy to listen. I feel you can only fall in love when you recovered. Otherwise its two people struggling to come out of a sickness. They cannot let go of one another. Like a death wish. Some needs to be in isolation to get better. It would seem the most honest thing two people could do is offer eachother the ultimate unconditional love. Let them go and live their life. Second chance. I feel you meet your true self on that path.
I totally know the feeling of the expectation and the going through the motions, it’s taken away all intimacy between us. I feel so much farther away each time, and this is both my lover’s and myself’s unconsciousness. It’s spurred in me the most awful of all behaviors, in looking outside, emotionally and seeking validation or attention outside of my relationship.
Thank you so much for this video! I'm much aware of the dynamic of my relationship! Amazing all these things I couldn't see before ... congrats for your Chanel ❤
Yes! I feel people use the whole soul mate/ twin flame concept as an excuse to do whatever. It can also give someone the opportunity to manipulate that other person. I don’t understand how some people who can say The universe has led them together and it ends up breaking up a healthy home and puts children in the way of unnecessary conflict. If you have an issue with your partner, speak up! number one if you’re not honest with them in the first place , how can you be this great spiritual person who’s so aligned and authentic.
This was exactly the layers I've been processing & finding language for & I can say that my relationship ( that ended) touched on all of these in concious & unconcious ways. I appreciate the book recommendations & I'll be reflecting on this. I'd been really feeling the shadow elements & spiritual aspects covering up trauma bonding.
Glad I stumbled across your video. I've been looking for information like this. Tired of the facade of soulmates twin flames. I am checking out your library today. Thank you 💜💕🦋🔥👑🔥🦋💕💜
@@jordanthornton I believe I will. As soon as I get a chance I will be purchasing the course. I've been working with two therapist to no avail. I appreciate your hard work on this subject. Merry Christmas to you and may you have a wonderful New Year... 💜💕🦋🔥👑🔥🦋💕💜
Wow. This is a wonderful video and you are a wonderful articulator and communicator. Love the integration of jung! Have just left a relationship of almost 10 years.... This is really really helpful!!!
I agree with you about the "little lies" and that was more relatable earlier in my development although I admittedly still struggle with it. I would like to add that for me it's good to elaborate on how to handle being honest. like acknowledge the truth of how I really feel and discuss together if this issue is one of healthy boundaries or possibly one of avoiding growth and healthy compromise. I think that's kind of your point here ☺️ I just want to articulate how it's important to keep an open healthy dialogue along the journey. for me it's important to remain open to growth and sometimes I think we establish boundaries as avoidance mechanisms so it's good to reexamine them from time to time unless it's clearly something destructive for you.
Funny...a few days ago I had an epiphany about "Do unto others as you would do unto yourself." Everyone puts so much emphasis on "Do unto others" and not enough on "As you would do unto yourself." How would you do unto yourself? Doing better unto others is indeed hypocrisy and this video confirms that.
@@jordanthornton Agreed! My '24 is going to be building a living room with orgone crystal, aquarium, huge plants, meditate and write several books I've been wanting to write for about a decade. Hoping I word purge more of this Shadow I'm trying to get rid of, have God excise so I can have my full freedom. I did reclaim my control/dominatuion of everythign in my six foot bubble/achieving goals/even singing karaoke in seedy bars in front of screaming crowds etc. But the other parts of it needs to go.
This is truly amazing!! Your voice is so soothing, it feels like I am in a movie receiving a message from some speaker. Spoke to me in every level, my heart is ❤️🔥 so grateful I aligned with this video it had been some time since I’ve felt this way, grateful 🙏🏼
If I can be honest out of all the men I have dated ,I never loved any of them, and I do suspect I was dating my shadow. Love your channel, great content
Even though we can't see the spirit world. It is like a never-ending space like reality, the amusement of intrigue, wonder, and or horror. Be careful where your attention goes or where you walk. A forest of the invention. But we are only slightly aware of it, and it is a big mystery. Think good thoughts. That is part of it. Be calm, peaceful, loving, kind, and full of truth, goodness, love, and light.
@@jordanthornton To be honest, I would like to watch a more in-depth video about the 5 points you brought up. It would certainly bring insightful reflections to many people who follow you.
I had a tremendous lightbulb moment thanks to not the best film of all times ;) which is "Suicide Squad". I realized, that I fell in love with a Cluster B abuser, because he did exactly the same thing Joker did to Harley Quinn - he empowered her. But nope, it wasn't an empowerment of her real Self. It was empowerment of her Shadow. And when we act out of our Shadow, we are always "out of control", because Shadow is made of unprocessed, immature, underdeveloped features. Even, if they are good features, like a need for individuation. What a good-looking, well-educated woman does in Arkham Asylum, among the monsters beyond the redemption? Oh well... I can only imagine she has this naive Messiah complex, and she wants to save some poor soul, who became a bad person, because bad things happened to him/her. And there we go... Joker sees it immediately, and fakes having a potential to change. What's worse - to change for her, thanks to her. That's how it happens in real life, too. And the next this she is in touch with is her need to be strong, "visible and heard", joyous. Joker , by empowering one of her Shadow features, opened a Pandora's box of unfulfilled needs. And she believes, that now she can finally fulfill them, having Mr. J. as someone, who will accept her great needs. The problem is, that the anchor - as always is a need for acceptance and being loved. She sees he's not going to provide it for her, so she goes full "I need to deserve it" mode. She start to live out of her Shadow, rather than process her Shadow. And at some point she doesn't know anymore if her transformation is what she wanted or what he wanted. It was so rapid and so extreme, she's lost again. She knows that if she faces the truth, that Joker doesn't love her, but is a vicious abuser, her whole transformation would yet another humiliating attempt to "people - please", at the expense of her real Self. She yet lived another person's sick fantasy. True healing starts from analyzing our Shadow. Our fears, needs, hopes.... and how we repress them. We have dreams we don't believe may come true, and it's scary. We have hopes which may be futile. We have needs no one wants to fulfill. And we should be extremely cautious about People Of Promise, as I call them. People, who seem to offer us simple and easy solutions. Rapid, drastic, fast solutions. Solutions, which push us towards living out of our Shadow, instead of encouraging us to understand and work with the Shadow. I realized, that I was very emotionally neglected as a child, and all I wanted was warm affection and sincere interest in my person. But my caregivers couldn't provided it. I learned that "seeking attention" is a dirty word. That wanting (genuine!) compliments is vanity. That I must deserve a breadcrumb of "sort of attention". Then I got a job I hated because of bullying. To my parent maintain that job was more important than my mental health. That's why I fell for a person, who seemed to love to talk with me, make plans with me, pay attention to me and give me compliments. And who said it's horrible that I must work in such a terrible workplace. He promised to "save me". What I didn't saw is, that it was love bombing, and with time it started to have a price tag attached to it. And the price was getting higher and higher. And when I couldn't afford it anymore I got ashamed, ridiculed, ashamed and deeply wounded. And replaced by another naive woman. Watching Harley Quinn was a painful moment of self-awareness. I was willing to destroy my personality and "reinvent" myself to be loved. The ultimate self-betrayal, which I used to call "finally I am who I wanted to be". And that's the worst thing about living out of unprocessed Shadow. You think this is who you are. For some time. And then you wake up. And it turns out it's not who you are.
So should the aim be to find a love that is matching energies? Its becoming difficult to be in love with someone that is semi concise, and ive tried everything to elevate my partner but its not moving fast enough. My soul is bleeding out in this process.
Sorry to hear about your challenges here, really hope that things work out or you take the next steps you feel are most intentional. Thanks for dropping in, and keep going.
@@jordanthornton thanks, I plan to stay strong and positive. I will keep working on understanding my situation better without compromising the mindset that I've built. I tend to drop in strength the more I give.
Hi Jordan! Thank you for the content! What do you do when a partner normalizes no in situations where yes might lead to a healing moment? How do you ask for accountability with a partner when trauma is causing the body->feeling ->mind->action->experience 'old self' pattern and instead help nurture/inspire the action->experience->body->mind->feeling pattern that Joe Dispenza, among others I'm sure, refer to initiate change/healing?
This is gonna be the weirdest thing I might have ever said to a stranger. Your voice is great! It reminds me of when i was a little girl,I'd hug my dad and I'd giggle coz I'd tell him I can hear his voice through his chest as I hugged him. 😂😂😂❤ I loved your advice. Thank you.
Im only four minutes in however I feel to chime in with a nugget of wisdom someone imparted on me many years ago. It’s for the men. “You can either be right, or be married”.
Hey could you please explain what should I asked myself during the question answer period in shadow work ???? Like if I asked myself that why are you doing people pleasing behaviours and i found some short of trauma then what question should I asked my next
Very informational! I really love these insights, thank you so much for sharing. I definitely resonate with experiencing these realizations myself just going through my various partnerships and i can see clearly when i look back on them. Lots of delusions, especially on my end. During this time that i am now newly single, i promised myself not to fall into delusions again. Although i believe small bits of fantasy are okay, the narratives are something im going to be extra vigilant about. 😊❤
Great video. Was it easy for you to find a conscious partner? What do you think are the best routes to actually finding one in modern times? (Apps, classes, etc). Sometimes I wonder if its a game of math or magic. Conscious people seem more rare. I liked what you said in your last point about not getting caught up in spiritual stories. There's a grandiosity about it. At the same time, for important relationships, you would hope there would be a bit of a divine say in the matter. #4 on your list hit me hard. Collective shadows. Very thought provoking to be a part of something and not notice. Thanks for helping me see something i couldn't see myself. Very shadowy..
Ultimately, I think the sticking point for most 'conscious people' is accepting that social media and being extraverted and networking is required to an even greater degree to find a 'good match' than a 'regular person'. If you'll only resonate with 1% of people, then you need more exposure to find them - it's a hard truth, but it seems to hold true for my clients on these issues.
@@jordanthornton yes those, and conformity to a lifestyle without complaint or veering from the rules to avoid excommunication from the trope group and removal of approval and acceptance. And most require submission and domination and most of all a removal of the fluctuating needs and feelings of the individual. Also fascinating considering most don't openly acknowledge it. Which is why avoiding labels is top of my list. Tried it all, all of it is pretty fake. Except love. Real love, not just eros, but actual love. It is pretty rare and the best kind comes from within/the creator.
You've done a good job explaining spiritual phenomenons such as synchronicities through the confines of your knowledge however 'spirituality' is higher than that. Current science doesn't have the mathemathical equation to explain such phenomenon because mathemathical equations are Man-Made to understand our universe better, just like the words we speak i.e. the English language. So terms such as "spiritual narcissism" is almost as helpful as labels like "twin-flames". From my observations, there are stages to spiritual enlightenment and the time period varies from individual to individual. Many do stay stuck because they sometimes lack a holistic perspective of what spirituality means to them. In my path to enlightenment, i came across better terms other than "spiritual narcsisism" to describe our mental state with the help and deeper understanding of not just psychology, but also old and new age philosophy, neuroscience, and even understanding behaviour of quantum particles and concepts of metaphysics. It is all interconnected, so you have different subjects explaining different facets of the 'spirit' or the 'soul' or in other terms "energy". The video is a great effort to shed light on turbulance or struggles on our path to enlightenment. Inner healing requires touching old wounds to know the depth of the hurt/blindness/numbness, and the process may involve attracting people who are in the similar situation and or mindset. It is not always pleasant sometimes even chaotic and the purpose of spirituality is to build 'radical acceptance' around it.
Even (/especially?) as a single person this video is so important. Such a useful synopsis of things to reflect on and keep front and centre about myself before I enter into any sort of commitments again. I’ve spent the last four years single and in hermit mode, reflecting on the decades past and focusing on intentions moving forward while most importantly enjoying every minute along the way. You must be part of my soul family Jordan bc every word of this speaks to the exact lessons from my last long term relationship. Thank you for sharing your learnings with the rest of us. 🫶🏽✨🤍
The proplem for me when it comes to little laying.... I had a very horrible life it's un speakable, and i really want to have a connection with them, and i cant just say oh i can't tell you anything about my life because it was a horror show do you like to order a salad? I have to come up with something, so I lie and the relationship is over, what can I do?
I'm sorry to hear about this, and am sending you my best for whatever path you choose to take with this communication challenge. You'll find your answer.
Algorithm doesn't like adult words, and you'll notice how this video 'went viral' to some degree because it didn't get flagged for adult content - so it's an unfortunate game I need to play!
@@jordanthornton Oh interesting I didn't notice the view count. Thanks for pointing that out! Now I know, it makes sense why some TH-camrs doesn't use foul words as well. Cheers.
Hope you don't mind me asking but what exactly is your accent? Sounds English but I keep on thinking I detect a hint of Australian or something as well
@jordanthornton Thank you your very kind and insightful and merry 🎄 to you too :) Keep up the content we need more sainty in this world 🌎 lol p.s. I noticed on Instagram it says you are based in the UK 🇬🇧 I'm curious where's abouts are you ? I'm Manchester :)
Funny that all the “advanced” and “high level” stuff is all the stuff that I’ve not once seen turn out well. But yeah that stuff is seriously “advanced” 😂 Over a decade plus of watching friends blather about how enlightened it is, they always seem to end up crashing, only to later start a GD podcast about all the mistakes they learned doing it and why monogamy and physical respect are the only true long term way to realize the deep desires they were seeking. Truly, I’ve never once seen it result in the desired long term outcomes that were expected. It always seems to be “high consciousness” for a period of time, and then it implodes. And yet they are always somehow presented by burner types as “high level”
I know what you’re talking about, and did my best here to thread all five of the themes around concepts of honesty and self responsibility. Keep it grounded and simple, even if the nuance gathers complexity over time. Still simple at base, hey?
Yeah, try that with my ex wife) You don’t agree with her on the amount of sugar in your coffee you get 3 days of nonstop scandals. You either agree and do everything she says or you get punished very very hard
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I know that not everybody can afford an online course, but I hope that the fifteen videos in the Shadow Work Playlist will support the next steps of your shadow integration journey.
I created this free playlist to function like a crash-course on shadow psychology with the intention of being as accessible and actionable as possible. I didn't want to stash the basics behind a paywall or email signup - I would rather you keep learning right here on TH-cam.
You can instantly access over five hours of beginner-to-advanced shadow work exercises and lectures with the free playlist linked in the description.
Make sure to take your time with the guided exercises, and don't forget to buy the golden books.
Jordan
P. S. I want to say a heartfelt thank you to this comments section community. My channel is niche, and you've seen the Inner Work Library slowly expand over the last two years. I feel fortunate to receive such deep and genuine connections online, and TH-cam recently told me that there have been more than 4000 unique commentors across my entire channel.
Thank you for showing up, I appreciate you.
If you want more depth, we can meet inside the library:
courses.jordanthornton.com/shadow-work-library/
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Wow thank you so much for sharing this with us!! This is my first video but it has already helped me so much :)
@@kimmykins326 Enjoy the journey! 🌲
@@jordanthornton Will do! Happy holidays! 🎄
I endlessly deluded myself into believing that relationships are *supposed* to be hard, that challenges, fighting, yelling, heartbreak, and chaos were normal. It's not normal; it's toxic. And the dependency we have on that toxicity is like an addiction. Finding real, healthy, authentic love was the greatest thing I ever did for myself -- and the easiest path I have ever navigated.
I’m 46 and I’m fully aware that I chased the most unavailable of men to fulfill a sick need to confirm that I believed I was unlovable. I’m ready to stop chasing my shadows and calling it fate.
Welcome, and good luck in your months ahead... powerful chapter in your life it seems.
Distilled, succinct and powerful advice. I read a lot of psych books and can recognize the merit in each point in helping us intentionally avoid codependency and delusion. Well done!!
Excellent to know that even somebody as well educated as yourself is finding value in this kind of conversation - which points stood out for you the most? Any that you’re working on in particular? 🤔
@@jordanthornton @jordanthornton In particular the first two points are still so challenging to me! Speaking up when I'm displeased with something has historically always gotten me labeled as "difficult" so mindfulness against leaning into cowardice is the constant hard work I'm engaged in currently. And in also recognizing that level of codependency I've also realized I tend to engage in unequal power dynamics, handing my shadow to my partner. Acknowledging that pattern has led to a few years of solitude in order to learn to hold my own shadow.
@@jmo534 Hard to find that balance between the right amount of speaking up and when to be more understanding or compromise. I get that. Likewise always important to address the power dynamics at the shadow level - appreciate your reflections.
Jordan, man…
It’s scary but refreshing to have your words resonate with me so deeply.
I had broken up with my boyfriend just under 2 months ago.
Even looking at a picture of him or having flashbacks of us together (or intimate) my blood would start to boil. I feel angry and disappointed but those feelings are targeted towards myself.
We shouldn’t have been together for as long as we were, and I knew it was not going to work. But I didn’t have the self-respect and the strength to say no more.
I have healed tremendously from my past experiences but this one feels like a set back (although I consciously know it is still growth).
Thank you so much for sharing.
Thank you for sharing some of your story with such transparency for me and other people to see - I know that process, and I’m glad you’re working through the emotional waves with honesty. Happy to have helped with this video - check out the other videos in the playlist too for some practical somatic guidance and other shadow exercises, they’ll help 🌲
Somehow romantic relationships have the potential to destroy us in ever way imaginable. We place such great importance on each other to fulfill our unmet needs stemming way back from our childhood. When it inevitably becomes apparent that the person isn’t who we had imagined and hoped they be, we recoil in anger, shock and betrayal. It wasn’t that the person has changed drastically in some way or another, it was our inability to see the real person that end up being detrimental for us. At some point the blinders come off and we become suddenly aware of the reality of the individual in front of us, the ideal romantic projection we had created in our mind doesn’t match the reality. But their behaviors, selfishness, abusive language and put downs, were there all along, we were just not paying attention..! We ignored them and somehow managed to convince ourselves it’s not so bad..! You may want love, respect and care from others but you betray yourself in the most vulnerable moments, especially when you keep quiet when someone is abusive, when you stay with someone who has shown you that they’re not worth your time., and ultimately we betray ourselves first by not taking action to protect ourselves. And for as long as we betray ourselves, we can’t expect others to put us first when we do not do it ourselves. We can try all we want but if you haven’t learned and mastered self-love you will forever repeat the cycle of dysfunction. The lesson has to be learned, if you don’t put yourself first, nobody else will do it for you, it’s sad but it’s true ..!
Appreciate you dropping in to let me know here 🌲
“I’m the king of the castle, and you’re the dirty rascal.” Had me cracked up. It’s important to look at that dynamic though. Great video! 🎉
It’s essential to recognise the polarity of kings and dirty rascals if we’re ever going to integrate our shadows 😉
I'm not going to lie.. this made me want to stay single forever.... Great content as usual.
Happy Holidays Jordan!
Ah, but it's all worth it if you find the right person and they want to build this too. Don't give up hope.
I was recently diagnosed with ASD I can relate.
Fucking hell this guy's giving me answers to questions I never even thought of conceiving
This might be one of my favourite comments from the year - exactly what I’m aiming for, cheers 🌲
It's Christmas eve and m alone cooking.. ur video is playing and m not really listening to what ur saying but ur voice is so comforting like hot chocolate in winter 😊 that's all I need thank u
Whatever you need I suppose, wishing you well 🌲
Alternatively, one could explore their spirituality, awaken to their true nature, and find they don't need a partner to be complete and happy.
It’s a beautiful idea, but some of my 1-1 work with very spiritually aware clients still suggests that loving and trusting romantic connections (in the form of partnership, not lust) are massively important for the wellbeing of most people… especially after the age of 40. There might be some rare exceptions, but we can’t bypass the deep need for connection to another. It’s very normal and human.
Very spiritually aware and truly Awakened are not the same thing. With the attendant contentment of completeness one feels no need for a partner.@@jordanthornton
That is called spiritual bypassing
Yeah, it can be and I've heard the expression for years now. But there actually comes a point of fulfillment in which desires fall away or can easily be discounted. @@annalimpert4605
True. But need and want are two different things.
I was in a trauma bond relationship for over 15 years. I am now single for 5 and a half years on a self healing journey doing the inner work. I have listened to just a few of your videos and I haved learned so much. I also have had some realisations while watching these thanks. I am ready to allow someone else in my life now and I feel your videos are going to help me even more with this thanks
Wow! I thank you for this video. I’ve been divorced a little over a year & I’ve been working on myself and will continue. This information was an absolute godsend!! I agree with starting on the little things. I appreciate you!!!
Thanks for sharing some of your story - check out the other Shadow relationships video in the playlist linked in the description, it’s got some practical exercises that I think you’ll enjoy 🌲
Love this. I love when someone is comfortable enough to be purely authenticly who they are. Oh how I wish I could afford your shadow library 😏
Ah, me too! It's a great experience on the inside of the course and I look forward to welcoming you with some voicenotes when you've got the finances ready to go - good news is that the lessons won't age and they'll be just as good in a few months. Hope this series has proven inspirational and actionable in the meantime.
@@jordanthornton it has been extremely valuable and ugh love the thought of your voicenotes. You definitely captivate me. Haha.
Thank you for this, it's great timing. I've been doing my own shadow work very intuitively and did some last night around a new relationship and how I was relating to it and allowing other people's ideas to influence me about it. Not specific people, more archetypes of how relationships 'should' be. I wouldn't call myself advanced, I wouldn't even know what to call where I am in my shadow work, all I know is that I'm committed to it and I know it will be a lifelong process but I'm in no rush. You shared some great ideas to think about and bring awareness to. Thanks again 😊
Holy shit… I’ve gotten more from this video than I did from months of therapy. Subscribeeeeed.
I am extremely prone to ridiculous crushes when I’m really down and ‘rescue fantasy’ was the term you used that made a whole lot of that cycle make finally make sense to me.
This means a lot to me - make sure to check out the full shadow work playlist which I completed this week. It’s got 5+ hours of similar level teachings 🌲
I can't believe how underrated you are. God will give you your rightful recognition in due time. Thank you for investing into these healing videos. I'm so grateful to come across this channel ❤
Thank you! What a heartwarming message to finish the week. Timing is out of our control, but the direction feels strong. Appreciate you.
@@jordanthornton Anytime Jordan, God bless you!
I cant even express how much this video has just helped me. Especially that first principle, its mind blowing. Thank you.
Make sure to check out the full playlist if you want far more depth and some practical exercises - in the description, good luck 🌲
Oh you're good, you're real good! Have just discovered you and am exploring my shadow and the polarity/duality frame work, so stumbling on you and your work has been super helpful. Love the way in which you communicate and articulate. Great work.
Welcome! It’s a great time to find me with this shadow work playlist now complete, thank you for the kind words 🌲
That was very interesting. Was very easy to listen. I feel you can only fall in love when you recovered. Otherwise its two people struggling to come out of a sickness. They cannot let go of one another. Like a death wish. Some needs to be in isolation to get better. It would seem the most honest thing two people could do is offer eachother the ultimate unconditional love. Let them go and live their life. Second chance. I feel you meet your true self on that path.
Beautiful and sophisticated comment, thank you for taking the time to share so sensitively 🌲
Thankyou for the very heart felt lovely comment. I enjoyed listening to you talk. I found myself very engaged throughout the video. It was refreshing.
I totally know the feeling of the expectation and the going through the motions, it’s taken away all intimacy between us. I feel so much farther away each time, and this is both my lover’s and myself’s unconsciousness. It’s spurred in me the most awful of all behaviors, in looking outside, emotionally and seeking validation or attention outside of my relationship.
Thank you so much for this video! I'm much aware of the dynamic of my relationship! Amazing all these things I couldn't see before ... congrats for your Chanel ❤
Thanks for being here over the last year, great things ahead!
My god, your voice is so soothing. I don't know why I am seeing this video, but I think I need to hear this.
Happy to connect, welcome!
Happy to connect too.
Yes! I feel people use the whole soul mate/ twin flame concept as an excuse to do whatever. It can also give someone the opportunity to manipulate that other person. I don’t understand how some people who can say The universe has led them together and it ends up breaking up a healthy home and puts children in the way of unnecessary conflict. If you have an issue with your partner, speak up! number one if you’re not honest with them in the first place , how can you be this great spiritual person who’s so aligned and authentic.
I agree with you here, for sure.
I love your voice! It's very soothing!
I recently received insight about dating/ marrying our shadow sense of self.
Thanks for this post!
Thank you - this whole series is dedicated to finding more truthful answers about shadow projections. Happy to help 🌲
This was exactly the layers I've been processing & finding language for & I can say that my relationship ( that ended) touched on all of these in concious & unconcious ways. I appreciate the book recommendations & I'll be reflecting on this. I'd been really feeling the shadow elements & spiritual aspects covering up trauma bonding.
You’ll love the books, some real gold there - enjoy and go deep 🌲
Glad I stumbled across your video. I've been looking for information like this. Tired of the facade of soulmates twin flames. I am checking out your library today.
Thank you
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I hope you get so much out of the playlist and the course if you choose to join me on the inside - merry Christmas 🌲
@@jordanthornton I believe I will. As soon as I get a chance I will be purchasing the course. I've been working with two therapist to no avail. I appreciate your hard work on this subject. Merry Christmas to you and may you have a wonderful New Year...
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@@ScorpionMaiden75 Looking forwards to welcoming you inside with some voice notes someday soon - have a wonderful final week of 2023
@@jordanthornton Looking forward to it. Thank you
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You have an incredible voice. I mean it. Is very wonderful and I hope that you're doing a lot of speaking publicly with it very provocative
Cheers, I’ve been enjoying teaching on here and have much more to come 🌲
Yes. Death by a million tiny paper cuts or a million tiny resentments.
Death by a million tiny resentments is a good novel title.
Perfectly worded title needed to hear this to gain clarity
Cheers - I try to make them punchy!
Wow. This is a wonderful video and you are a wonderful articulator and communicator. Love the integration of jung! Have just left a relationship of almost 10 years.... This is really really helpful!!!
Cheers, always trying my best to bring accurate language forwards. Thank you and good luck 🌲
I agree with you about the "little lies" and that was more relatable earlier in my development although I admittedly still struggle with it. I would like to add that for me it's good to elaborate on how to handle being honest. like acknowledge the truth of how I really feel and discuss together if this issue is one of healthy boundaries or possibly one of avoiding growth and healthy compromise. I think that's kind of your point here ☺️ I just want to articulate how it's important to keep an open healthy dialogue along the journey. for me it's important to remain open to growth and sometimes I think we establish boundaries as avoidance mechanisms so it's good to reexamine them from time to time unless it's clearly something destructive for you.
Open dialogue is absolute essential for deep trust, completely agree. And thank you for adding these thoughtful reflections too 🌲
Thank you for this! I've been single for many years. Having this information will help to build healthier relationships.
Funny...a few days ago I had an epiphany about "Do unto others as you would do unto yourself." Everyone puts so much emphasis on "Do unto others" and not enough on "As you would do unto yourself." How would you do unto yourself? Doing better unto others is indeed hypocrisy and this video confirms that.
You are SPOT ON!! Took me 50 years to figure this out.
Cheers brother, happy to be having these conversations 🌲
@@jordanthornton Agreed! My '24 is going to be building a living room with orgone crystal, aquarium, huge plants, meditate and write several books I've been wanting to write for about a decade. Hoping I word purge more of this Shadow I'm trying to get rid of, have God excise so I can have my full freedom. I did reclaim my control/dominatuion of everythign in my six foot bubble/achieving goals/even singing karaoke in seedy bars in front of screaming crowds etc. But the other parts of it needs to go.
This is truly amazing!! Your voice is so soothing, it feels like I am in a movie receiving a message from some speaker. Spoke to me in every level, my heart is ❤️🔥 so grateful I aligned with this video it had been some time since I’ve felt this way, grateful 🙏🏼
Powerful compliment, thank you and I hope that this entire shadow work playlist supports you too.
If I can be honest out of all the men I have dated ,I never loved any of them, and I do suspect I was dating my shadow. Love your channel, great content
Thank you, and I hope the new playlist is really helping you out 🌲
Even though we can't see the spirit world. It is like a never-ending space like reality, the amusement of intrigue, wonder, and or horror. Be careful where your attention goes or where you walk. A forest of the invention. But we are only slightly aware of it, and it is a big mystery. Think good thoughts. That is part of it. Be calm, peaceful, loving, kind, and full of truth, goodness, love, and light.
Jordan, this connects to me on a deeper level. Thank you for sharing this message.
Thank you, I really wanted to make more of an advanced level conversation here. Any of the five points resonate with you in particular, Gabriel?
@@jordanthornton To be honest, I would like to watch a more in-depth video about the 5 points you brought up. It would certainly bring insightful reflections to many people who follow you.
WOW...subscribed.
Your voice is captivating
Happy to be here - hope you enjoy the shadow work playlist in full, plenty to explore.
What an amazing gift on this Christmas day ✨️
Merry Christmas 🎄 Who doesn’t want unconscious shadow integration from Santa?
I had a tremendous lightbulb moment thanks to not the best film of all times ;) which is "Suicide Squad". I realized, that I fell in love with a Cluster B abuser, because he did exactly the same thing Joker did to Harley Quinn - he empowered her. But nope, it wasn't an empowerment of her real Self. It was empowerment of her Shadow. And when we act out of our Shadow, we are always "out of control", because Shadow is made of unprocessed, immature, underdeveloped features. Even, if they are good features, like a need for individuation. What a good-looking, well-educated woman does in Arkham Asylum, among the monsters beyond the redemption? Oh well... I can only imagine she has this naive Messiah complex, and she wants to save some poor soul, who became a bad person, because bad things happened to him/her. And there we go... Joker sees it immediately, and fakes having a potential to change. What's worse - to change for her, thanks to her. That's how it happens in real life, too. And the next this she is in touch with is her need to be strong, "visible and heard", joyous. Joker , by empowering one of her Shadow features, opened a Pandora's box of unfulfilled needs. And she believes, that now she can finally fulfill them, having Mr. J. as someone, who will accept her great needs. The problem is, that the anchor - as always is a need for acceptance and being loved. She sees he's not going to provide it for her, so she goes full "I need to deserve it" mode.
She start to live out of her Shadow, rather than process her Shadow. And at some point she doesn't know anymore if her transformation is what she wanted or what he wanted. It was so rapid and so extreme, she's lost again. She knows that if she faces the truth, that Joker doesn't love her, but is a vicious abuser, her whole transformation would yet another humiliating attempt to "people - please", at the expense of her real Self. She yet lived another person's sick fantasy.
True healing starts from analyzing our Shadow. Our fears, needs, hopes.... and how we repress them. We have dreams we don't believe may come true, and it's scary. We have hopes which may be futile. We have needs no one wants to fulfill. And we should be extremely cautious about People Of Promise, as I call them. People, who seem to offer us simple and easy solutions. Rapid, drastic, fast solutions. Solutions, which push us towards living out of our Shadow, instead of encouraging us to understand and work with the Shadow.
I realized, that I was very emotionally neglected as a child, and all I wanted was warm affection and sincere interest in my person. But my caregivers couldn't provided it. I learned that "seeking attention" is a dirty word. That wanting (genuine!) compliments is vanity. That I must deserve a breadcrumb of "sort of attention". Then I got a job I hated because of bullying. To my parent maintain that job was more important than my mental health. That's why I fell for a person, who seemed to love to talk with me, make plans with me, pay attention to me and give me compliments. And who said it's horrible that I must work in such a terrible workplace. He promised to "save me".
What I didn't saw is, that it was love bombing, and with time it started to have a price tag attached to it. And the price was getting higher and higher. And when I couldn't afford it anymore I got ashamed, ridiculed, ashamed and deeply wounded. And replaced by another naive woman.
Watching Harley Quinn was a painful moment of self-awareness. I was willing to destroy my personality and "reinvent" myself to be loved. The ultimate self-betrayal, which I used to call "finally I am who I wanted to be". And that's the worst thing about living out of unprocessed Shadow. You think this is who you are. For some time. And then you wake up. And it turns out it's not who you are.
So should the aim be to find a love that is matching energies? Its becoming difficult to be in love with someone that is semi concise, and ive tried everything to elevate my partner but its not moving fast enough. My soul is bleeding out in this process.
Be patient. It seems you're rushing him, and that's gonna delay the process. Support him be compassionate and be patient. It's gonna be worth it.
@pamzondi 7 years and she is not waking up
Sorry to hear about your challenges here, really hope that things work out or you take the next steps you feel are most intentional. Thanks for dropping in, and keep going.
@@subdynoman I agree with Jordan. Do what you feel is the next best thing.
@@jordanthornton thanks, I plan to stay strong and positive. I will keep working on understanding my situation better without compromising the mindset that I've built. I tend to drop in strength the more I give.
Spot on! Thank you for a direct no bull approach 😊
Cheers! Always do my best to stay direct.
Hi Jordan! Thank you for the content!
What do you do when a partner normalizes no in situations where yes might lead to a healing moment?
How do you ask for accountability with a partner when trauma is causing the body->feeling ->mind->action->experience 'old self' pattern and instead help nurture/inspire the action->experience->body->mind->feeling pattern that Joe Dispenza, among others I'm sure, refer to initiate change/healing?
This is gonna be the weirdest thing I might have ever said to a stranger. Your voice is great! It reminds me of when i was a little girl,I'd hug my dad and I'd giggle coz I'd tell him I can hear his voice through his chest as I hugged him. 😂😂😂❤ I loved your advice. Thank you.
One of the most specific vocal connections I’ve received - thank you for your attention, and I hope that this playlist proves soothing and informative
Thank you so much for the curriculum
Amy, you are truly welcome. Thanks for being here - this shadow woke playlist goes far, and I hope you’ve been picking up the books too? ✌🏻
2:34 little lies- cowardice- doesn’t want to speak up because doesn’t want the conflict
It’s one of those creeping patterns - hope you found value in this video 🌲
Im only four minutes in however I feel to chime in with a nugget of wisdom someone imparted on me many years ago. It’s for the men. “You can either be right, or be married”.
Appreciate you dropping in, hope you enjoy the conversation here!
Thanks for your wisdom…love your beautiful soothing voice 💜
Happy to be helpful, thank you!
Hey could you please explain what should I asked myself during the question answer period in shadow work ???? Like if I asked myself that why are you doing people pleasing behaviours and i found some short of trauma then what question should I asked my next
Check out the rest of this playlist on active imagination - got some answers there!
As a shadow worker this was superb!! I completely agree with the Kink…even though you couldn’t use the words ;)
Welcome, and thank you! It’s been great to teach without censorship in my course, but we have to play language games on YT unfortunately 😬
Very informational! I really love these insights, thank you so much for sharing. I definitely resonate with experiencing these realizations myself just going through my various partnerships and i can see clearly when i look back on them. Lots of delusions, especially on my end. During this time that i am now newly single, i promised myself not to fall into delusions again. Although i believe small bits of fantasy are okay, the narratives are something im going to be extra vigilant about. 😊❤
Appreciate you sharing some of your story here, and I’m wishing you the absolute best for your new year! 🌲
@@jordanthornton thank you! I wish the same for you 🤗
Great video. Was it easy for you to find a conscious partner? What do you think are the best routes to actually finding one in modern times? (Apps, classes, etc). Sometimes I wonder if its a game of math or magic. Conscious people seem more rare. I liked what you said in your last point about not getting caught up in spiritual stories. There's a grandiosity about it. At the same time, for important relationships, you would hope there would be a bit of a divine say in the matter.
#4 on your list hit me hard. Collective shadows. Very thought provoking to be a part of something and not notice. Thanks for helping me see something i couldn't see myself. Very shadowy..
Ultimately, I think the sticking point for most 'conscious people' is accepting that social media and being extraverted and networking is required to an even greater degree to find a 'good match' than a 'regular person'. If you'll only resonate with 1% of people, then you need more exposure to find them - it's a hard truth, but it seems to hold true for my clients on these issues.
The rules are actually pretty similar in each trope group which is fascinating.
Honesty and self accountability are major themes, for sure 🌲
@@jordanthornton yes those, and conformity to a lifestyle without complaint or veering from the rules to avoid excommunication from the trope group and removal of approval and acceptance. And most require submission and domination and most of all a removal of the fluctuating needs and feelings of the individual. Also fascinating considering most don't openly acknowledge it.
Which is why avoiding labels is top of my list. Tried it all, all of it is pretty fake.
Except love. Real love, not just eros, but actual love. It is pretty rare and the best kind comes from within/the creator.
@@autumnpendergast9151 Beautiful response here, thank you.
Are we advocating for polyamorous relationships because we are afraid of not being “open minded”?
Who knows - interesting question, and there are many opinions and perspectives out there ✌🏻
Found this very fascinating… thank you for making ❤
Glad you enjoyed it - hope you find value in the series too!
Thank you so much.
Love and blessings!
Much appreciation for you, wishing you well for 2024!
This is a great video, thank you.
Cheers - thanks for dropping in!
I can’t figure out how to say that I vomited watching this in a grateful and complimentary way but it’s my intention
I'll take this, thank you for sharing. I get it.
cred că traducerea ar fi de mare ajutor… nu știu engleză! dar cred că este foarte important tot ce spui tu!
Really good content. I will look into the books.
There's some great variety here - you'll love them.
Sounds like a cool video, I'm in the mood for your honesty...
Great mood to be in - thank you!
Thank you, Jordan! Happy Holidays! 🌟❤️❄️
Wishing you deep rest in these short days.
@@jordanthornton Blessings on you and yours, Jordan!
Thank You! That pointed me to a fact I have that kind of agreeable relationship with God :P
Agreeable relationship with God is something that many people don’t find in an entire lifetime - this is excellent 🌲
Informative and well presented. 👌🏻👌🏻 Thank you
Truly my pleasure!
your voice is so soothing damn! what mic do you use? 😅😍😍🤣
Rode NTG + Tascam DR05x + Davinci resolve post processing - hope this helps!
You've done a good job explaining spiritual phenomenons such as synchronicities through the confines of your knowledge however 'spirituality' is higher than that. Current science doesn't have the mathemathical equation to explain such phenomenon because mathemathical equations are Man-Made to understand our universe better, just like the words we speak i.e. the English language. So terms such as "spiritual narcissism" is almost as helpful as labels like "twin-flames".
From my observations, there are stages to spiritual enlightenment and the time period varies from individual to individual. Many do stay stuck because they sometimes lack a holistic perspective of what spirituality means to them. In my path to enlightenment, i came across better terms other than "spiritual narcsisism" to describe our mental state with the help and deeper understanding of not just psychology, but also old and new age philosophy, neuroscience, and even understanding behaviour of quantum particles and concepts of metaphysics. It is all interconnected, so you have different subjects explaining different facets of the 'spirit' or the 'soul' or in other terms "energy".
The video is a great effort to shed light on turbulance or struggles on our path to enlightenment. Inner healing requires touching old wounds to know the depth of the hurt/blindness/numbness, and the process may involve attracting people who are in the similar situation and or mindset. It is not always pleasant sometimes even chaotic and the purpose of spirituality is to build 'radical acceptance' around it.
Yes, it’s always hard to speak on topics such as these without losing accuracy. Limitations of language - thanks for watching and engaging deeply
Even (/especially?) as a single person this video is so important. Such a useful synopsis of things to reflect on and keep front and centre about myself before I enter into any sort of commitments again. I’ve spent the last four years single and in hermit mode, reflecting on the decades past and focusing on intentions moving forward while most importantly enjoying every minute along the way.
You must be part of my soul family Jordan bc every word of this speaks to the exact lessons from my last long term relationship.
Thank you for sharing your learnings with the rest of us. 🫶🏽✨🤍
Thank you for sharing some of your story here. This is indeed a truly important topic, and I’m happy to bring more attention to this space 🌲
This was a really helpful video for me - thank you 🙏🏻
Thanks for taking the time to sit with these important conversations.
Your voice is "Everything" My goodness 😍 okay.... now let me focus, so I can learn something. 😄
Make sure to get the golden books - they’ll really help you out. Appreciate your attention & good luck 🌲
This is Fantastic
The proplem for me when it comes to little laying.... I had a very horrible life it's un speakable, and i really want to have a connection with them, and i cant just say oh i can't tell you anything about my life because it was a horror show do you like to order a salad?
I have to come up with something, so I lie and the relationship is over, what can I do?
I'm sorry to hear about this, and am sending you my best for whatever path you choose to take with this communication challenge. You'll find your answer.
Jordan I Am Thankful to Find This Material..(We) I Am In Need of this Medicine
Welcome, make sure to check out the full playlist too - far more depth inside 🌲
Jordan you have the voice of a God! Have you consider doing acting or voice over! Also, thank you so much for your video ❤
I’ll keep using my voice for my teachings, absolutely! 🌲
Another video I want to write novels of reflections & dialogue about 😆
Fantastic, insightful stuff as always, Jordan. Thank you ☺
So much to discuss here, I can imagine. Thanks for your attention and happy to have made this one.
I've never heard anyone speak like this, very interesting work.
Welcome to the series, you’ll love the playlist and the course if you want to keep coming deeper with me - make sure to pickup the books!
Waow! … just waow! Definitely hitting the subscribe button!
Welcome - plenty of depth here for you to explore, wishing you the absolute best with the shadow work playlist.
@@jordanthornton looking forward to explore more. Thank you so much ☺️
lol Jordan, why do you censor words again, is it with the algorithm? The "member" and "sticky" was funny. I'm going to check this series.
Algorithm doesn't like adult words, and you'll notice how this video 'went viral' to some degree because it didn't get flagged for adult content - so it's an unfortunate game I need to play!
@@jordanthornton Oh interesting I didn't notice the view count. Thanks for pointing that out! Now I know, it makes sense why some TH-camrs doesn't use foul words as well. Cheers.
Hope you don't mind me asking but what exactly is your accent? Sounds English but I keep on thinking I detect a hint of Australian or something as well
I’m 100% English ✌🏻
You helped allot
Thank you brother - any of these five patterns resonate with you specifically? Happy to help 🌲
@@jordanthorntonnot these five but with white knight syndrome 😅
Its stories. essentially - don't get caught up in stories
this is a great channel at 2x speed
Why not go for 3x? 🏎️💨
DOn't mind lying to them we lie to ourselves and truama bond stuff hits ya hard :/ Needed this thank you
It’s the RODE NTG plugged into Tascam DR05x audito recorded with post-processing on davinci resolve ✌🏻 Hope this helps and thanks for dropping in 🌲
@jordanthornton Thank you your very kind and insightful and merry 🎄 to you too :) Keep up the content we need more sainty in this world 🌎 lol p.s. I noticed on Instagram it says you are based in the UK 🇬🇧 I'm curious where's abouts are you ? I'm Manchester :)
Brilliant! Thank you!! ❤
Truly my pleasure! Merry Christmas 🎄
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You're most welcome!
Funny that all the “advanced” and “high level” stuff is all the stuff that I’ve not once seen turn out well. But yeah that stuff is seriously “advanced” 😂
Over a decade plus of watching friends blather about how enlightened it is, they always seem to end up crashing, only to later start a GD podcast about all the mistakes they learned doing it and why monogamy and physical respect are the only true long term way to realize the deep desires they were seeking. Truly, I’ve never once seen it result in the desired long term outcomes that were expected. It always seems to be “high consciousness” for a period of time, and then it implodes. And yet they are always somehow presented by burner types as “high level”
I know what you’re talking about, and did my best here to thread all five of the themes around concepts of honesty and self responsibility. Keep it grounded and simple, even if the nuance gathers complexity over time. Still simple at base, hey?
I can tell people are like this
Appreciate you dropping in 🌲
Wow! So fascinating!
Thank you! You’ll love the shadow work playlist, specifically the episode on Shadow Relationships 🌲
🙏🏻 Thank you, I’m new to your stuff. I’ll definitely check out more 👌
Yeah, try that with my ex wife)
You don’t agree with her on the amount of sugar in your coffee you get 3 days of nonstop scandals. You either agree and do everything she says or you get punished very very hard
Sounds challenging, wishing you the very best for relationships in 2024.
Grateful for this divine masculine energy, it is healing the collective womb energy ! Thank you for all your words
That’s one way of putting it - wishing you my best with your next steps 🌲
Thank you!❤
You're welcome - you’ll love the new playlist too!
Such a good dude ❤
Cheers! 🌲
Your voice bro... I'll do what ever the hell you tell me to do.
How about healing old wounds and reading excellent books for 2hrs per day, everyday? 🤣
Ok wait....this wasn't the video I thought I was ready for. 😅 fu** it let's get it
Glad you stuck around - welcome, and be well this new month.
Thanks
You’re truly welcome!
Deeper than Deepak
I’ll take it 🌲
Wtf? I just ask this exaclty to God. 😮 Firts time seeing you and thx
God like's the algorithm sometimes, hahah
No oh no, you’re suppose to marry your parents.
Exactly, I married both of mine just to be safe ✌🏻
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Have a wonderful holiday and new year, cheers!