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Only looks cab fix problem is about looks and health fake your methods its short term sub 5 soliution just make your face better halo effect thia is how works
The problems isnt accepting yourself. It is that society rewards certain personality types. This leads to positive reinforcement for the people who naturally have those traits and crippling insecurity for the people who arent like that naturally.
You can't experience society rewards until you approve of their rewards , you conditioned yourself to accept rewards only when society rewards you If you knew you were a black charismatic guy in your country and you traveled to an underdeveloped country that is racist to blacks , would you hate yourself if the people of that country ignored you or looked at you in disgusted, the answer is no cause you don't value there judgments
Julien have you read the book The Triple Package? Basically saying that all successful people are driven by a superiority complex, insecurity, and impulse control.
The fact isn’t that these people can adapt to alpha traits. It’s that these are psychopaths, sociopaths, narcissists with low oxytocin in their brain which deprives them of having normal social interactions. These “artists” who claim to teach people don’t reveal the truth about their customers. Many of them are mentally unstable and have s complete lack of brain chemicals in comparison to normal human being. #truth #exposed. Money being made off the weak!
Yes and no. Yes, people do reward certain traits or behaviours. Alot of times, those traits might be appreciated for good reason, too. Someone is more caring, more responsible, more hard working, more optimistic, etc, those behaviours are worth appreciating. But, the when it comes to personality types, I don't agree. There is no personality type that people appreciate more than the other. Humans are naturally nervous. Everyone's insecure. And so, we're are ultimately drawn to those who are more confident and more assured of themselves. At the end of the day, society values the people who value themselves, and that takes a massive amount of self-acceptance and appreciation. Accepting your flaws, embracing them, saying "this is me, I need to stop trying to reject this side of me and own it." When you finally learn to detach your self-worth from other people's opinions and decide to give yourself higher value, when you move ahead with complete appreciation and acceptance of who you are, it's shocking how the same jokes nobody used to laugh at before, everyone will be rolling over because of now, and how the same people who made fun of you, will be telling you how great you are. And it's not because you changed or their perception of you changed, but because your perception of you changed.
@@JulienHimself Funny story, I actually met Brandon Call at a shuffleboard tournament years back. I was star-struck. I got my first taste of the Hollywood limelight, and I was in a state of transcendental ecstatic bliss. My chest swayed, my eyes rolled back in my head and I gasped, "Brandon Call, right? From Step by Step." He acknowledged me with a gleeful smirk and a proud nod. "That's me." Sprawled on the concrete, writhing in ecstacy, I managed to garble out a few more words, "they don't make shows like that anymore." He agreed and proceeded down the boardwalk hand in hand with his supple wife. It's impressively gracious that a man of such caliber would ever grace my presence, let alone stoop to the level of the common man for a humble chat. Since then, I've reflected back on that day with great reverence pondering where would we be now if back when even before they made shows like that, we all got to experience a certain level of precision entertainment that people were never able to get when they can't even watch it before they did it now! I'll miss those days. 🫖 ❤️ 🍿
“Simba, remember who you are” I feel that many people, when trying to connect with their inner child, actually reach their inner teenager instead - the teenager that is just as conditioned as your adult self. “Go further back, Simba”
If you don’t see your self as valuable, you won’t expect others to see you as valuable either. If you serve others and be kind without seeking attention you will start to believe that you are valuable
Biggest hurdle....actually truly wanting to change....knowing what i am changing for.....also bpd makes is very difficult personally not to delve into the negativity of what people are saying about me because when im triggered mainly if someone is angered at me or criticizing me or if ive done something wrong i believe the hurtful hateful words more than any positive ones because i believe that of myself and spiral. Looking at bpd treatment and management but yes emotions for me can overtake badly and sometimes i cant identify what emotion it is.....anger, depression, sadness, despair, emptiness, disgust....the whole lot. Still finding the source but it has to do with my father and the fear i still carry with me as though im that scared child still.
me and my brother been studying him for years. he’s legit all right. 99% of his teachings comes from the book letting go by david hawkins. my brothers testimonial (he read and applied Letting Go) has gotten me set on fire
He's actually putting out spiritual teachings with some bravado. Not sure I'd call it confidence what he has. Confidence sounds like having the bravery to overcome the situation. What he actually has is clarity i.e. he realizes there is no issue to begin with. Confidence isn't necessary when one realizes the issue one thought to have is based upon illusion/ there's actually no problem to begin with.
This is amazing. Looking back on your old videos even from just 2016 I can notice the difference in authenticity there. This work is real and definitely not just luck.
I have been struggling mentally really badly lately which I don’t need to blurt out details here but listening to u is really refreshing and different to anyone else I’ve seen. Thank you truly julien
Y'know, I put on that first coat because it protected me. That felt good. But it got colder, so I put on another coat. That worked...for awhile. But then I read that a a storm was coming. So I put on another coat. The storm came, but my coats protected me. Plus, the new people I met in the storm liked my coat. They didn't know there were more coats underneath. But then those people, over time, lost interest in the coat that they could see. I didn't want to be lonely, I wanted to be accepted. So, even though I had to pay for every new coat, I put on yet another coat. Winter passed. Spring was coming. The coats were heavy. It was getting warmer. I knew that I didn't need the burden of all of these coats to keep we warm anymore, but was afraid that if I took off all of these coats, the people I now knew wouldn't recognize me anymore. So I kept a stiff upper lip and smiled through the discomfort. And every time I added a new coat, those new people complimented me. But it was becoming difficult to simply stand, much less move in the way I wanted. But loneliness was worse than discomfort. So I kept putting on those coats...until I collapsed. And when I did, those people that liked me for my coats didn't help me up. Lesson learned. Nice vid, btw ;)
This is called self inquiry, just a disclaimer, the deeper you go the more that baloney hurts. I'm talking your body hurting and going into termers at it releases trauma. Good luck guys and just fyi, this is the BIGGEST fight of your life, it is also a marathon not a sprint.
It is also the only thing that truly solves the issue at its core. Most other approaches are actually forms of avoidance i.e. going to a psychologist in hopes he'll tell you, while all you had to ask yourself is 'where does this come from' and then repeat 'is there more to it' until you trigger a release.
Wow this hit me like a slap to the face!( in a good way we all need) This is amazing! and thanks for taking time to coach the youtube crowd and put your stuff in order for us to understand better! Great!
My top takeaway was: Never say I don’t know bc you do, otherwise you wouldn’t feel the things you’re feeling. That resonates with me bc I tend to downplay my emotions
When I was a child I had two uncles that made me feel (and explicitly said so) that I was dumb, that I couldn’t do anything. Not always but I remember. One of them would ask me to do something I never did before and expected me to do it first time and quickly. Not too difficult stuff, like opening the rear door of a truck. But I never did before nor anyone taught how. I know I’m smart, If he would have taught me i could have done it.
That's literally the same as how my dad tried to teach us, his sons things. He thinks we're stupid just because we weren't able to do things excellently the first time and the result of that is some of my brothers have learned helplessness now. I developed my own learning system by observing how my dad and his friends do things I learned. I already forgave my dad because I know he's just not that good of a father figure but he's a good provider and he taught me how to not be a narcissist by observing him.
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your videos are incredible, helped me a lot but i still feel stuck. I practice the action, trigger, release, repeat method, but i don't know if it is because of my condition (i have severe acne and scars on my neck and face, i dont know anyone with my condition on person) so my mood changes all the time depending on how my neck and face looks, so i dont know if i need to keep trying this method until i can feel the release and stop caring what people think or im just fucked. Thanks for your videos Julien!
The key here is to detach your self worth from the way you look... Which requires a lot more than just following action-trigger-release-repeat. Let me know if you'd like my help: application.julienhimself.com 🙏
Looking for other people's approval is a sign that you don't know who you are. Therefore, you become terrified of showing the real you! Instead, you put on a front that you think is acceptable and protect yourself from being and knowing who you really are.
You know what happened when the military gave LSD to soldiers to make them better killers? The soldiers refused to fight each other because they experienced too much love.
I've got a question You say we should embrace ourselves right?with all of our flaws. Personally,i strive to be better,i strive to evolve and i think embracing my flaws means ignoring them. Could you clarify that for me? I mean is self-improvement unhealthy and does it hurt our confidence?
you've been conditioned that you are not good enough is my absolute takeaway . borrowing from the movie matrix just know you are.....thanks bro for this great insight
Yoo Julian, first of all thanks a lot for the vids. I have (while it gets a bit better) extreme social anxiety, just like you had. I saw some old footage of you in videos you have uploaded earlier. Where can i see more of the old you? I'm just curious to see how you used to be, it will give me a much better understanding how much you growth. I just found you on TikTok on time and looked if you had a TH-cam channel and since then i decided to subscribe and watch every video you drop. I feel like it helped me already even though i have a lot to improve. Keep up the good work!
@@JulienHimself Wow that was a fast reply. Will check it later on. The latest videos you uploaded you look very confident and i am really happy you are able to become that way. It gives me even more hope. That's why i was very interested to see what you came from. I will check it tomorrow because it is almost night time over here! Take care en keep doing what you do!
do you guys realise that us dollars have different value depending on country. 200$ course is really expensive here in Russia. Maybe try to change price for special countries? Like youtube premium
Yeah, I like myself, love myself, because I love the person I am and my personality and even when I struggle I have self love for myself I never say I am shit or stupid, at a core I wouldn't say that but I still have insecurities and so I am not immune to someone making a personal comment where they judge me as the opposite of how I judge myself and it's like why don't they think that's me? That is me, that's what I am into but they say I don't look like or come across like that kinda guy? It's my ego of self that's been penetrated and another thing is sometimes I might not look great, not the kinda guy who girls instantly fancy or people judge positively as a confident and attractive guy. Why? Because of my own thoughts and reference experience. In work or any other setting I feel self conscious thoughts like this how they judge my first impressions, I am better at night when I go to bars and clubs and it's not due to drink it's just I feel I look better but more so I just feel more naturally confident and free and I can approach and talk to new people but I sometimes will have moments where I am not in a good flow and then I can overthink and think they are thinking thoughts that not be so positive about me
Julien helps a lot with social anxiety but no amount of teaching ever really made any change even with exposure. Turns out I needed to be medicated- on Zoloft now and never felt better. I can now practice his tricks with ease
@@JulienHimself my English is not that good so try to understand it. Is social conditioning good or not ? Are we really losing ourselves for getting approval from others?
@@KuldeepSingh-ii6jn seeking approval is not bad per say. But when your whole self-esteem depends on other people's opinion about you then this is not good.
Your parents made you self aware of what people think about you so people wouldn't think bad about them so everyone knew they did a good job raising you to be good but you know you don't wanna be that way you don't wanna care just be yourself because that's what matters in the end of the day if people don't like you oh well not everyone is perfect don't put yourself in someone shoes you aren't them you're someone different be more of yourself not someone else you don't need to be them so they can like you
if im aware of what is running me ... is it easy to process the emotions behind those thoughts even though it s painfull ? ( by the letting go meditation)
It's definitely possible, but you'll have to go through a whole process which includes letting go meditations... Just doing the meditation alone isn't enough. Let me know if you'd like my help: application.julienhimself.com 🙏
Hey Julian i know it's off topic but i have exam in 15 days and i am keep procrastinating, anxiety made loss my decision making. Can you suggest anything for short term just for 15 days , please if you can, love you
You know what I'm questioning myself when I watch your Videos Julien? Currently I am feeling not good enough. For sure. I feel like my Body is Not good enough. So I Work Out. I feel like I need to have Sex with more woman. Thats why I Work out. And I feel like I am Not sucessful enough at Work. So I work more. And there are even more Things. But If I achieve to finally feel to be worth enough at my current state, why should I even get better at those Things? When I trully believe it and can let go of my fears, why should I keep going? I hope you understand my thinking here. I cant really figure it Out with my logic right now. Would love to hear your opinion on that or maybe from someone else. And thanks for your work. So much questions in my head but for the better!
Genius stuff using tik tok live (if it wasn't a gimmick) to trigger your students. I'll be joining your program soon, mostly to tackle fear and procrastination/lethargy
Do you think going through the process of letting go just in order to become this charismatic guy and enjoy all the pros is problematic? I often catch myself enjoying the thought of others seeing this „charismatic guy“.
Wait but how does that get you anywhere, then you‘d base your inner work on the goal of being recognized by others? How can you possibly aim to be charismatic whereas a true charismatic person doesn‘t care about it‘s glory and charisma is just a product of his self-being? I notice you‘re often talking about reeling others in and supercharging your own self. Isn‘t this promoting what you should abandon in the first place: the need of other peoples perception?
This dude is profoundly difficult to like. The most honest benefit I get from watching is that even if you’re an epic douche, you can accomplish things.
Can't stop thinking that the sunglasses are totally contradicting the "transparency" that you try to teach to people ... but maybe it's just me being ignorant of something ?
Dude, you hold a Phone on my face, have sunglasses on. I dont know who you are, I dont know which Motivation you have with your phone. What my mind is tending to is to the unknown which ends in the emotion of fear. Remembering what happend in past is only a mind Check to get a legit feel of fear. When i know who i have infront of me. julienunknown how he makes a social experiment. I know exactly what happens infront of me cause in 0% fear and in 100 % autentincy. No past childhoodbullshit….
Julien, the solution to the human problem is NOT within yourself. "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28) Man is a sinner, and sinners need the redeeming grace of God. ALL the problems in the world, involving humanity, are cause by sin. YOUR sin causes YOUR problems with yourself and others. Sin is what sinners do. In order to not sin, you MUST be changed from a sinner to a saint. This happens through Jesus Christ, who died on the cross and resurrected three days later, and promises that "Whoever believes in me and Him who sent me HAS eternal life. He does NOT come into judgement. . ." (John 5:24) Then, once you are born again into the family of God and are a child of the Heavenly Father, you will receive the Holy Spirit. HE will produce in you "love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness, goodness, faithfulness, and self control." (Galatians 5:22-23) Pursue the Lord, your Maker, and HIS Kingdom and righteousness. Jesus promises that everything else, which this internet guru tries to SELL you, WILL be given to you from the Father (Matthew 6:33). If you will not repent (of porn, fornication, bitterness, etc.) and follow Jesus in all He says, the Bible says there is NO peace for the wicked, and ONLY the judgement of Hell remains.
Amen Brother. As a born again Spirit filled follower of Jesus. I do have fear speaking in public. That is why I watched this video. Julien has good point's. Speaking in public is fearful for many people
Looking for solutions outside of yourself to fix how you feel is the core of the addictive process. Julien is right. Finding the safe haven within yourself creates a base of emotional security that nothing else can provide. The way you achieve peace is by a process of delegation. You are outsourcing a vital process to a religious text. As such your peace is conditional and brittle. The defence against that is to increase the fervour and deference towards a higher omnipotence that solves all. Keep cherry picking quotes that make you feel better if you like. I'm sure it can work on some level if your faith holds. I will search within myself for the love I seek. When I find it, I will be the master of my own peace.
@@finisheseverythi your problem is your pride. what makes you think the answer is in YOU? Have you not learned from all your mistakes? And you think you have the answer? Let me know how it goes, but in the meantime I encourage you to read the New Testament and examine Jesus Christ for yourself.
@@JesusChristWayTruthLife777 Matthew 7 : "Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you."
@@finisheseverythi Right, I am saved and I am not a hypocrite, so I can judge you righteously (John 7:24) - " judge with right judgment." How are you going to stand before God once you die? Are you righteous in Christ?
Funny story, I actually met Brandon Call at a shuffleboard tournament years back. I was star-struck. I got my first taste of the Hollywood limelight, and I was in a state of transcendental ecstatic bliss. My chest swayed, my eyes rolled back in my head and I gasped, "Brandon Call, right? From Step by Step." He acknowledged me with a gleeful smirk and a proud nod. "That's me." Sprawled on the concrete, writhing in ecstacy, I managed to garble out a few more words, "they don't make shows like that anymore." He agreed and proceeded down the boardwalk hand in hand with his supple wife. It's impressively gracious that a man of such caliber would ever grace my presence, let alone stoop to the level of the common man for a humble chat. Since then, I've reflected back on that day with great reverence pondering where would we be now if back when even before they made shows like that, we all got to experience a certain level of precision entertainment that people were never able to get when they can't even watch it before they did it now! I'll miss those days. 🫖 ❤️ 🍿
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Only looks cab fix problem is about looks and health fake your methods its short term sub 5 soliution just make your face better halo effect thia is how works
Funny thing is I was born like this.
The problems isnt accepting yourself. It is that society rewards certain personality types. This leads to positive reinforcement for the people who naturally have those traits and crippling insecurity for the people who arent like that naturally.
You can't experience society rewards until you approve of their rewards , you conditioned yourself to accept rewards only when society rewards you
If you knew you were a black charismatic guy in your country and you traveled to an underdeveloped country that is racist to blacks , would you hate yourself if the people of that country ignored you or looked at you in disgusted, the answer is no cause you don't value there judgments
Julien have you read the book The Triple Package? Basically saying that all successful people are driven by a superiority complex, insecurity, and impulse control.
The fact isn’t that these people can adapt to alpha traits. It’s that these are psychopaths, sociopaths, narcissists with low oxytocin in their brain which deprives them of having normal social interactions. These “artists” who claim to teach people don’t reveal the truth about their customers. Many of them are mentally unstable and have s complete lack of brain chemicals in comparison to normal human being. #truth #exposed. Money being made off the weak!
Yes and no. Yes, people do reward certain traits or behaviours. Alot of times, those traits might be appreciated for good reason, too. Someone is more caring, more responsible, more hard working, more optimistic, etc, those behaviours are worth appreciating. But, the when it comes to personality types, I don't agree. There is no personality type that people appreciate more than the other. Humans are naturally nervous. Everyone's insecure. And so, we're are ultimately drawn to those who are more confident and more assured of themselves. At the end of the day, society values the people who value themselves, and that takes a massive amount of self-acceptance and appreciation. Accepting your flaws, embracing them, saying "this is me, I need to stop trying to reject this side of me and own it." When you finally learn to detach your self-worth from other people's opinions and decide to give yourself higher value, when you move ahead with complete appreciation and acceptance of who you are, it's shocking how the same jokes nobody used to laugh at before, everyone will be rolling over because of now, and how the same people who made fun of you, will be telling you how great you are. And it's not because you changed or their perception of you changed, but because your perception of you changed.
it all begins, and ends, with you.
Biggest takeaway: question your "insecurities and downfalls". Tap into you and own it all
Great takeaway! 👌
@@JulienHimself Funny story, I actually met Brandon Call at a shuffleboard tournament years back.
I was star-struck.
I got my first taste of the Hollywood limelight, and I was in a state of transcendental ecstatic bliss. My chest swayed, my eyes rolled back in my head and I gasped, "Brandon Call, right? From Step by Step."
He acknowledged me with a gleeful smirk and a proud nod.
"That's me."
Sprawled on the concrete, writhing in ecstacy, I managed to garble out a few more words, "they don't make shows like that anymore."
He agreed and proceeded down the boardwalk hand in hand with his supple wife.
It's impressively gracious that a man of such caliber would ever grace my presence, let alone stoop to the level of the common man for a humble chat.
Since then, I've reflected back on that day with great reverence pondering where would we be now if back when even before they made shows like that, we all got to experience a certain level of precision entertainment that people were never able to get when they can't even watch it before they did it now!
I'll miss those days. 🫖 ❤️ 🍿
“Simba, remember who you are”
I feel that many people, when trying to connect with their inner child, actually reach their inner teenager instead - the teenager that is just as conditioned as your adult self.
“Go further back, Simba”
If you don’t see your self as valuable, you won’t expect others to see you as valuable either. If you serve others and be kind without seeking attention you will start to believe that you are valuable
Love how people are actually pretty open to being put on the spot, painstakingly, but honestly interested
Biggest hurdle....actually truly wanting to change....knowing what i am changing for.....also bpd makes is very difficult personally not to delve into the negativity of what people are saying about me because when im triggered mainly if someone is angered at me or criticizing me or if ive done something wrong i believe the hurtful hateful words more than any positive ones because i believe that of myself and spiral. Looking at bpd treatment and management but yes emotions for me can overtake badly and sometimes i cant identify what emotion it is.....anger, depression, sadness, despair, emptiness, disgust....the whole lot. Still finding the source but it has to do with my father and the fear i still carry with me as though im that scared child still.
This guys confidence is the real deal. I could absolutely tell.
me and my brother been studying him for years. he’s legit all right. 99% of his teachings comes from the book letting go by david hawkins. my brothers testimonial (he read and applied Letting Go) has gotten me set on fire
He's actually putting out spiritual teachings with some bravado.
Not sure I'd call it confidence what he has. Confidence sounds like having the bravery to overcome the situation. What he actually has is clarity i.e. he realizes there is no issue to begin with. Confidence isn't necessary when one realizes the issue one thought to have is based upon illusion/ there's actually no problem to begin with.
This is amazing. Looking back on your old videos even from just 2016 I can notice the difference in authenticity there. This work is real and definitely not just luck.
Thank you! 🔥👊
I have been struggling mentally really badly lately which I don’t need to blurt out details here but listening to u is really refreshing and different to anyone else I’ve seen. Thank you truly julien
Y'know, I put on that first coat because it protected me. That felt good. But it got colder, so I put on another coat. That worked...for awhile. But then I read that a a storm was coming. So I put on another coat. The storm came, but my coats protected me. Plus, the new people I met in the storm liked my coat. They didn't know there were more coats underneath. But then those people, over time, lost interest in the coat that they could see. I didn't want to be lonely, I wanted to be accepted. So, even though I had to pay for every new coat, I put on yet another coat. Winter passed. Spring was coming. The coats were heavy. It was getting warmer. I knew that I didn't need the burden of all of these coats to keep we warm anymore, but was afraid that if I took off all of these coats, the people I now knew wouldn't recognize me anymore. So I kept a stiff upper lip and smiled through the discomfort. And every time I added a new coat, those new people complimented me. But it was becoming difficult to simply stand, much less move in the way I wanted. But loneliness was worse than discomfort. So I kept putting on those coats...until I collapsed.
And when I did, those people that liked me for my coats didn't help me up.
Lesson learned.
Nice vid, btw ;)
Damn great write up
Sounds like a poem, but in plain text.
Dude, your passion is over the roof! The flow of your speech is mesmerizing. Very quality content !
Thank you so much! 🙌
This is called self inquiry, just a disclaimer, the deeper you go the more that baloney hurts. I'm talking your body hurting and going into termers at it releases trauma. Good luck guys and just fyi, this is the BIGGEST fight of your life, it is also a marathon not a sprint.
It is also the only thing that truly solves the issue at its core.
Most other approaches are actually forms of avoidance i.e. going to a psychologist in hopes he'll tell you, while all you had to ask yourself is 'where does this come from' and then repeat 'is there more to it' until you trigger a release.
its all about being 100% authentic
Wow this hit me like a slap to the face!( in a good way we all need) This is amazing! and thanks for taking time to coach the youtube crowd and put your stuff in order for us to understand better! Great!
Thank you! Glad this was so insightful for you! 🙏
Great work Julien, "never say no, stay open.." miracles are trying to find a way in🙌
Yes!
My top takeaway was: Never say I don’t know bc you do, otherwise you wouldn’t feel the things you’re feeling. That resonates with me bc I tend to downplay my emotions
Soo good Julien. You are the best at explaining these concepts in such a down-to-earth, funny way. Big fan!
Thank you! 🙌
I really resonated with everything you said in this video, thank you for doing what you do ❤
Glad this resonates! 🙏
When I was a child I had two uncles that made me feel (and explicitly said so) that I was dumb, that I couldn’t do anything. Not always but I remember. One of them would ask me to do something I never did before and expected me to do it first time and quickly. Not too difficult stuff, like opening the rear door of a truck. But I never did before nor anyone taught how. I know I’m smart, If he would have taught me i could have done it.
That's literally the same as how my dad tried to teach us, his sons things. He thinks we're stupid just because we weren't able to do things excellently the first time and the result of that is some of my brothers have learned helplessness now. I developed my own learning system by observing how my dad and his friends do things I learned. I already forgave my dad because I know he's just not that good of a father figure but he's a good provider and he taught me how to not be a narcissist by observing him.
I've been binge watching your videos...I have to say it's very helpful for my self transformation...thank you...
Biggest takeaway is always go into it. don’t just say I don’t know or surface level. always ask why, always question why you feel that way.
I love how you incorporate presence and awareness into your practices. Thank you for all you do 🙏
You are so welcome! Glad my content resonates!
Just found your work its awesome. Everything in it is great. If you have a video with the questions only to dig deeper would be awesome
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I'm just gonna sink back into me and own everything!" THANK YOU!!
your videos are incredible, helped me a lot but i still feel stuck.
I practice the action, trigger, release, repeat method, but i don't know if it is because of my condition (i have severe acne and scars on my neck and face, i dont know anyone with my condition on person) so my mood changes all the time depending on how my neck and face looks, so i dont know if i need to keep trying this method until i can feel the release and stop caring what people think or im just fucked.
Thanks for your videos Julien!
The key here is to detach your self worth from the way you look... Which requires a lot more than just following action-trigger-release-repeat. Let me know if you'd like my help: application.julienhimself.com 🙏
We are all concerned about the outside world but not good enough to care about our own internal happiness.
Sadly true for most people, yes…
Looking for other people's approval is a sign that you don't know who you are. Therefore, you become terrified of showing the real you! Instead, you put on a front that you think is acceptable and protect yourself from being and knowing who you really are.
Videos like this show we you are one of the best coaches on earth 🙏
I had the free coaching call, it was really good.
Nice! 🔥👊
I love how he does the speech wearing sunglasses omg xD
I love the blue hair example
You know what happened when the military gave LSD to soldiers to make them better killers? The soldiers refused to fight each other because they experienced too much love.
I've got a question
You say we should embrace ourselves right?with all of our flaws.
Personally,i strive to be better,i strive to evolve and i think embracing my flaws means ignoring them.
Could you clarify that for me?
I mean is self-improvement unhealthy and does it hurt our confidence?
you've been conditioned that you are not good enough is my absolute takeaway . borrowing from the movie matrix just know you are.....thanks bro for this great insight
Great takeaway! 🙌
Yoo Julian, first of all thanks a lot for the vids. I have (while it gets a bit better) extreme social anxiety, just like you had. I saw some old footage of you in videos you have uploaded earlier. Where can i see more of the old you? I'm just curious to see how you used to be, it will give me a much better understanding how much you growth. I just found you on TikTok on time and looked if you had a TH-cam channel and since then i decided to subscribe and watch every video you drop. I feel like it helped me already even though i have a lot to improve. Keep up the good work!
Watch this: th-cam.com/video/n7jHcL4gZPk/w-d-xo.html 👌
@@JulienHimself Wow that was a fast reply. Will check it later on. The latest videos you uploaded you look very confident and i am really happy you are able to become that way. It gives me even more hope. That's why i was very interested to see what you came from. I will check it tomorrow because it is almost night time over here! Take care en keep doing what you do!
do you guys realise that us dollars have different value depending on country. 200$ course is really expensive here in Russia. Maybe try to change price for special countries? Like youtube premium
Yeah, I like myself, love myself, because I love the person I am and my personality and even when I struggle I have self love for myself I never say I am shit or stupid, at a core I wouldn't say that but I still have insecurities and so I am not immune to someone making a personal comment where they judge me as the opposite of how I judge myself and it's like why don't they think that's me? That is me, that's what I am into but they say I don't look like or come across like that kinda guy? It's my ego of self that's been penetrated and another thing is sometimes I might not look great, not the kinda guy who girls instantly fancy or people judge positively as a confident and attractive guy. Why? Because of my own thoughts and reference experience. In work or any other setting I feel self conscious thoughts like this how they judge my first impressions, I am better at night when I go to bars and clubs and it's not due to drink it's just I feel I look better but more so I just feel more naturally confident and free and I can approach and talk to new people but I sometimes will have moments where I am not in a good flow and then I can overthink and think they are thinking thoughts that not be so positive about me
Always ask why, for everything you believe in
Yes! 👌
You ever think of collaborating with Kyle Cease???
The way you guys both humbly evolve would be an amazing duo on stage!!!
Julien helps a lot with social anxiety but no amount of teaching ever really made any change even with exposure. Turns out I needed to be medicated- on Zoloft now and never felt better. I can now practice his tricks with ease
@@EternalVids go to the doctor or walk in clinic
Why we view ourselves from others perspective
Social conditioning… As always.
@@JulienHimself my English is not that good so try to understand it.
Is social conditioning good or not ?
Are we really losing ourselves for getting approval from others?
@@KuldeepSingh-ii6jn seeking approval is not bad per say. But when your whole self-esteem depends on other people's opinion about you then this is not good.
My takeaway is go down the trail of why's to find out and identify the cause. Be at the cause not at the effect
Nice one! Learning how to follow the "trail of whys" is KEY! 👌
Something about julien angle he is holding the phone made his arm look off to me. I’m curious about what asking why does.
I love your video but what if alaigha doesny like to talk loud is that not normal??
My name is Elijah. And when he said “come on up
Here Elijah” I was like ok this is fait
Genius
You rock bro👌
Thanks! 🔥👊
It's very hard for me i am thinking end up my lyf.
Your parents made you self aware of what people think about you so people wouldn't think bad about them so everyone knew they did a good job raising you to be good but you know you don't wanna be that way you don't wanna care just be yourself because that's what matters in the end of the day if people don't like you oh well not everyone is perfect don't put yourself in someone shoes you aren't them you're someone different be more of yourself not someone else you don't need to be them so they can like you
Hey julian did you see the snl skit of you with Michael b fox? They nailed it EVERYTHING down to the scarf! 😂
I did, actually! 😂
Sorey i meant micheal b. Jordan
@@JulienHimself funny stuff 😂 glad you can laugh about it
if im aware of what is running me ... is it easy to process the emotions behind those thoughts even though it s painfull ? ( by the letting go meditation)
It's definitely possible, but you'll have to go through a whole process which includes letting go meditations... Just doing the meditation alone isn't enough. Let me know if you'd like my help: application.julienhimself.com 🙏
Hey Julian i know it's off topic but i have exam in 15 days and i am keep procrastinating, anxiety made loss my decision making. Can you suggest anything for short term just for 15 days , please if you can, love you
I would double down on LETTING GO of that anxiety... Here's a good place to start: www.julienhimself.com/8p
You know what I'm questioning myself when I watch your Videos Julien? Currently I am feeling not good enough. For sure. I feel like my Body is Not good enough. So I Work Out. I feel like I need to have Sex with more woman. Thats why I Work out. And I feel like I am Not sucessful enough at Work. So I work more. And there are even more Things. But If I achieve to finally feel to be worth enough at my current state, why should I even get better at those Things? When I trully believe it and can let go of my fears, why should I keep going? I hope you understand my thinking here. I cant really figure it Out with my logic right now. Would love to hear your opinion on that or maybe from someone else. And thanks for your work. So much questions in my head but for the better!
Maybe it's a habit. If it took a long time, then it takes some time to install one hundred percent acceptance of the fact that you are good enough.
.. proud to see my beta brothers stand straight!
Julien's favorite word: Stifled. Haha.
Great videos man keep it up 👍
Thanks! 🔥👊
Ugh this is so true
follow the trail of vice fuck yeah! 😄👍
Ok I don’t see the point of finding out why you have it.. All I want to do is stop it.
The beginning of *"yes man"*
good 👍
Thanks! What was your top takeaway?
Genius stuff using tik tok live (if it wasn't a gimmick) to trigger your students.
I'll be joining your program soon, mostly to tackle fear and procrastination/lethargy
Nice! You're going to LOVE it! 🔥👊
Do you think going through the process of letting go just in order to become this charismatic guy and enjoy all the pros is problematic? I often catch myself enjoying the thought of others seeing this „charismatic guy“.
It will get you 80% of the way there… Here’s my full system for that extra 20% 👉 www.highvibecommunication.com/bhvc
Wait but how does that get you anywhere, then you‘d base your inner work on the goal of being recognized by others? How can you possibly aim to be charismatic whereas a true charismatic person doesn‘t care about it‘s glory and charisma is just a product of his self-being? I notice you‘re often talking about reeling others in and supercharging your own self. Isn‘t this promoting what you should abandon in the first place: the need of other peoples perception?
@@tillbill3470 Watch this: th-cam.com/video/5-AoFVwbWew/w-d-xo.html
What if Im really not that good enough? Like objectively
That’s just a lie that you bought into… Something to let go of!
just keep sucking that power of your real authentic self and things will fall into place.
You might not be good enough at something such as singing, swimming...etc But it should not effect your self-esteem or self worth
This is not object. Everyone and Everything is good enough.
There is no universal god given measure for this. It is illusionary.
@@Rwissam1987 well it did for me, since I wasn't good at much I tried, it effected my self esteem and getting laughed at didn't help
We were born abundant? I thought we were born with nothing.
This dude is profoundly difficult to like. The most honest benefit I get from watching is that even if you’re an epic douche, you can accomplish things.
i’m next up in the rap game!!!!!!!
Good for you! 👌
@@JulienHimself thank you broo!😤😎
Transformational
Glad to hear it!
5:37 wait is he farting 💁🏽♂️😂
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i think 4:18 just changed my life wtf
I saw sooo many videos about this " letting go" technique but I still don t know what it means😂
Here's my FULL step-by-step letting go system: www.julienhimself.com/8p 🔥👊
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I love you Julien a lot and I appreciate u but stop with the arrows whoever is making ur thumbnails needs to stop 😂😂
Love it🫶😫
Thank you! Glad this resonates! 🙌
Can't stop thinking that the sunglasses are totally contradicting the "transparency" that you try to teach to people ... but maybe it's just me being ignorant of something ?
He does it on purpose.
Sun glasses at night? Think about it
Dude, you hold a Phone on my face, have sunglasses on.
I dont know who you are, I dont know which Motivation you have with your phone.
What my mind is tending to is to the unknown which ends in the emotion of fear.
Remembering what happend in past is only a mind Check to get a legit feel of fear.
When i know who i have infront of me. julienunknown how he makes a social experiment. I know exactly what happens infront of me cause in 0% fear and in 100 % autentincy.
No past childhoodbullshit….
In this video you look a loooot like Morpheus 🕶️💊
If you try to get ChatGPT to emulate Julien, it will start moralizing about it's content policy because he's a naughty boy
Did anyone by chance see the SNL sketch? 😅
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Julien, the solution to the human problem is NOT within yourself.
"Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28)
Man is a sinner, and sinners need the redeeming grace of God. ALL the problems in the world, involving humanity, are cause by sin. YOUR sin causes YOUR problems with yourself and others. Sin is what sinners do. In order to not sin, you MUST be changed from a sinner to a saint.
This happens through Jesus Christ, who died on the cross and resurrected three days later, and promises that "Whoever believes in me and Him who sent me HAS eternal life. He does NOT come into judgement. . ." (John 5:24)
Then, once you are born again into the family of God and are a child of the Heavenly Father, you will receive the Holy Spirit. HE will produce in you "love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness, goodness, faithfulness, and self control." (Galatians 5:22-23)
Pursue the Lord, your Maker, and HIS Kingdom and righteousness. Jesus promises that everything else, which this internet guru tries to SELL you, WILL be given to you from the Father (Matthew 6:33).
If you will not repent (of porn, fornication, bitterness, etc.) and follow Jesus in all He says, the Bible says there is NO peace for the wicked, and ONLY the judgement of Hell remains.
Amen Brother. As a born again Spirit filled follower of Jesus. I do have fear speaking in public. That is why I watched this video. Julien has good point's. Speaking in public is fearful for many people
Looking for solutions outside of yourself to fix how you feel is the core of the addictive process. Julien is right. Finding the safe haven within yourself creates a base of emotional security that nothing else can provide.
The way you achieve peace is by a process of delegation. You are outsourcing a vital process to a religious text. As such your peace is conditional and brittle. The defence against that is to increase the fervour and deference towards a higher omnipotence that solves all.
Keep cherry picking quotes that make you feel better if you like. I'm sure it can work on some level if your faith holds. I will search within myself for the love I seek. When I find it, I will be the master of my own peace.
@@finisheseverythi your problem is your pride. what makes you think the answer is in YOU? Have you not learned from all your mistakes? And you think you have the answer? Let me know how it goes, but in the meantime I encourage you to read the New Testament and examine Jesus Christ for yourself.
@@JesusChristWayTruthLife777 Matthew 7 : "Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you."
@@finisheseverythi Right, I am saved and I am not a hypocrite, so I can judge you righteously (John 7:24) - " judge with right judgment."
How are you going to stand before God once you die? Are you righteous in Christ?
Every single thumbnail has the arrows that point to nothing in particular please stop lol
Ted bundy played by his own rules... just saying
Jesus christ this guy is still going? sad
Whats sad about it
It’s obvious by the way that you dress. 😂
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@@JulienHimself 🍻
i was at this event, great stuff julien
Thanks for making it out in person! 🙌
Funny story, I actually met Brandon Call at a shuffleboard tournament years back.
I was star-struck.
I got my first taste of the Hollywood limelight, and I was in a state of transcendental ecstatic bliss. My chest swayed, my eyes rolled back in my head and I gasped, "Brandon Call, right? From Step by Step."
He acknowledged me with a gleeful smirk and a proud nod.
"That's me."
Sprawled on the concrete, writhing in ecstacy, I managed to garble out a few more words, "they don't make shows like that anymore."
He agreed and proceeded down the boardwalk hand in hand with his supple wife.
It's impressively gracious that a man of such caliber would ever grace my presence, let alone stoop to the level of the common man for a humble chat.
Since then, I've reflected back on that day with great reverence pondering where would we be now if back when even before they made shows like that, we all got to experience a certain level of precision entertainment that people were never able to get when they can't even watch it before they did it now!
I'll miss those days. 🫖 ❤️ 🍿
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