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This man changed my life! I was struggling with social anxiety wondering why won't it go away. But the solution was to ask myself WHY are you feeling like this, and then go deeper and deeper with those questions. Made me realise it was simple. Can't thank him enough for this! 🙏
Ok, so idk if im not going deep enough or what. I feel like I know why at the deeper level, but what do I do next with that information? Maybe I need to watch more of his videos, and I will understand the answer to my question. This is only my third video.
"Life viewed up close is a tragedy, life viewed from afar is a comedy" Rowen Atkinson This one quote made me understand more than lots of self help stuff put together.
Growing up without a dad to guide me, you've taught me so much. I used to want what others had, not knowing I had much more within me. Your videos have made me more self aware and I'm grateful.
Speaking facts, you’ve got such a natural way of speaking that you rarely see in people nowadays, it’s inspiring! I love the message, to live your life, live it well, don’t play it safe.
This makes me really realize that it's not about living the excitement of what Julien finds as a worthwhile life. It is about finding your own authenticity. If it is your truth to live in solitude in the forest, then that is your truth. But don't fool yourself, because sometimes fear can be disguised as "my truth".
Julien helps me think outside the box and makes me realize that there's more to me than what am aware of.. Thanks for helping me become more comfortable in my own skin... You're Genius
I've been that son who would live to please their parents. Moving out has been the single best decision of my life. I have a hobby my mom is not very fond of and she recently tried her parenting schemes in order to beat me into submission but I wouldn't budge. I've been living my own life for many years now, I will never back down in front of anyone, ever again. I've corrected a lot of my past problems in my 20's and now I'm looking forward to how the rest of my life will pan out. I am not without defeat, however I wouldn't want it any other way. No regrets...
This is right in line with a lot of Buddhist, Toltec, and Advaita stuff! We are not our "character," "identity," "ego," we are the observing consciousness behind it. Call it an avatar if you want, same concept.
"Rushing to death" I think that is the phrase that stuck with me the most, always trying to get Everything everytime as fast as possible, only to realize that it was not the goal, it was the experience. Thank you Julien, cant't wait for the online session today and meet you. ⚡👍🏼
As a kid, my mom actually had the word “IF” in big wooden letters hanging on the wall in her bedroom. At the time, I didn’t understand the significance and the subconscious impact of being raised by someone with this mindset. I’m working through and dedicated to compassionate integration of these foundational models. I just found your channel, sub’d and thank you.
I once read the Models n to my surprise what he calls unlishing true confidence through vulnerability is what u r sometimes criticized for teaching and that's Letting go.
This is one of the best channels on youtube. The only thing I disagree with you about is that some of your solutions are a little more external than internal, and I'm more into the Peter Levine method of processing your emotions (which I know you also like). Still, I think you're more correct than 99.9% of other youtubers
Summary/updated thumbnail/updated title (my version) - Player and the character. It started out with acknowledging the player ; detach, detach. And then the character appeared ; Milking life, no regrets. Flow of thoughts is pretty chaotic. Not in sync with the title.
You have right about that we can live like celebrities but there is a big cost to that when you get in that industry... Like the artists in the music industry... You can be yourself until a certain point but if you want to live like a celebrity, there is a "price" that many celebrities have talked about...
I'm 33 years old, live with my parents and have never had a girlfriend. I've failed at pretty much every job I've tried and keep having to rely on my parents for support. How are you meant to accept yourself as good enough when life keeps showing you you're not good at anything?
I just want to meet this guy and talk for like 5 hours hahaha everything is broken down to bare bones but it seems like epiphanies every time! I want everyone I know to watch this one!
Here is the secret. STOP CARING Julien seems nice right? But he doesn't CARE if you like him, or like yourself, or if you change. He simply says his piece, and asks for money or gets views. Stop caring about people and you will succeed
Gotta say, for every one person that makes it by winging it, theres another hundred or thousand that drown. Requiem for a dream. If anything, plan for the most catastrophic failure being a certainty. Write down your goals so you can stay focused. At the same time.. nothing ventured, nothing gained. The star wars metaphor was good.
I love your videos! This one is amazing. You have this ability to put things that are easy for us to understand without patronising us. I have learnt that I do enjoy every part of my journey. I have learnt that I do miss my early days of working for minimum wage, my first job was in McDonald's and I actually miss it sometimes.
Hey julien, do i have to remember since when i started being not okay with myself to let go of it or just have to feel the sensations of "not being okay with myself" ? (because i have not being okay with myself from a very very long time)
The solution to the human problem is NOT within yourself. "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28) Man is a sinner, and sinners need the redeeming grace of God. ALL the problems in the world, involving humanity, are cause by sin. YOUR sin causes YOUR problems with yourself and others. Sin is what sinners do. In order to not sin, you MUST be changed from a sinner to a saint. This happens through Jesus Christ, who died on the cross and resurrected three days later, and promises that "Whoever believes in me and Him who sent me HAS eternal life. He does NOT come into judgement. . ." (John 5:24) Then, once you are born again into the family of God and are a child of the Heavenly Father, you will receive the Holy Spirit. HE will produce in you "love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness, goodness, faithfulness, and self control." (Galatians 5:22-23) Pursue the Lord, your Maker, and HIS Kingdom and righteousness. Jesus promises that everything else, which this internet guru tries to SELL you, WILL be given to you from the Father (Matthew 6:33). If you will not repent and follow Jesus in all He says, the Bible says there is NO peace for the wicked, and ONLY the judgement of Hell remains.
Salut Julien!That video was really interesting!I have a dream to live in Spain and I decided to move there about a year ago.I have taken some action (even though I was scared) like applying for jobs there but now I stopped trying because of health issues.I hope that I will be able to leave in the future.What you said about cockroaches I agree.I used to be afraid of them but now they are my pets.Thank you! 😊☘️
What should you do if you alway just enjoy the start of the games and then leave halfway through, let's say because you get bored or want to play a different game constantly. I seem to enjoy the start of many games and then never finish them, same with books, never finish books, read the first 1/3. I'm wondering if there's something going on that permeates every aspect of my life, because it's the same with my careers and hobbies like dancing. I always lose the passion and desire after a little time. I want to maintain the passion and interest in things longer. My attention span is good in general, but I lose passion and interest quick, same in relationships after say 2 years. Any idea what's going on here?
Man I definitely be like this with alot of things and with jobs too.. I asked myself why I am like this? I really hate doing the same thing on and on cuz I like to experience different things idk if this fully relates to what your saying but I hate being inside a loop it causes havoc to my mind
Hey julien i had a question, do u mean by letting go is removing these blockages by mediation and shadow work? Also u so fkn unique u create a new genre of self help thanks much respect for u 🔥🔥
Im on the journey now ive lost a lot of weight recently i notice being slimmer i feel better and people woman starting to look at me more, i have guys in gym come tell me my physique is noticing and ask how i do it what im eating ect. Its all in your mind guys. It feels good to be wanted.
After watching this video I have realised my life is boring. I wake up go to the gym, go to college and stream games on Twitch but I dont go out to socialize and live my life..
Well ok, the videogame obviously doesn't affect your worth. But there's certain things that are really affecting how others perceive you. And no amount of copium and mental gymnastics can change them. I for example, got rejected by plenty of girls for guys who have a fancy car. OK, that doesn't affect my 'core' and whatnot, but at the end of the day, I want results, real results.
Very good speech. My dad says I need to be happy too, but some days he gets jealous because I've had fun. Because I used to take care of myself. really exhausting. That's not normal.
People chase me all the time. And I dislike it. Once a mob of angry villagers marched all the way up the great winding hill to my castle with torches and axes in their hands. I had to enlist the aid of my trusted assistant Igor, who dispersed them by pouring hot oil down from the castle parapets. Alas, life is not easy with a name like Frankenstein.
If you use words such as "shit, crap, rubbish" all the time to describe stuff you're wiring your brain to see that way. It's a realisation I've just come too
People won't like you until you are aloof and too busy to hang out. No one wants to hang out with someone with a lot of time on their hands and also can be a supportive and emotionally validating friend. People want to hang out with shallow assholes who have too many acquaintances to count, but don't care about any of them. Being there for your friends and showing great love and authenticity? Gross.
Dude, how do you reconcile your message that everyone is already enough as they are, no matter what happens in the game, and then call people on their deathbeds having realizations and insights that they want to share with others so that they can learn from them, losers? It is incongruent. I don't feel it. It feels inauthentic to the message of worthiness at core, despite what happens on the surface.
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This man changed my life! I was struggling with social anxiety wondering why won't it go away. But the solution was to ask myself WHY are you feeling like this, and then go deeper and deeper with those questions. Made me realise it was simple. Can't thank him enough for this! 🙏
Amazing! You are so welcome! 🙏
Ok, so idk if im not going deep enough or what. I feel like I know why at the deeper level, but what do I do next with that information? Maybe I need to watch more of his videos, and I will understand the answer to my question. This is only my third video.
@@nicholemain1806 U have to release them through Guided release meditations. Search that on his channel
@@nicholemain1806its all BS
@@G.B.P.Wdym?
"Life viewed up close is a tragedy, life viewed from afar is a comedy" Rowen Atkinson
This one quote made me understand more than lots of self help stuff put together.
Growing up without a dad to guide me, you've taught me so much. I used to want what others had, not knowing I had much more within me. Your videos have made me more self aware and I'm grateful.
I love that humans like Julien exist! ❤
🙏🙏🙏
Speaking facts, you’ve got such a natural way of speaking that you rarely see in people nowadays, it’s inspiring! I love the message, to live your life, live it well, don’t play it safe.
Thank you! 🙌
This makes me really realize that it's not about living the excitement of what Julien finds as a worthwhile life. It is about finding your own authenticity. If it is your truth to live in solitude in the forest, then that is your truth. But don't fool yourself, because sometimes fear can be disguised as "my truth".
Julien reminds me of that crazy af community College professor that gets the entire class totally hyped up. Such a powerful vibe
😂🔥
Julien helps me think outside the box and makes me realize that there's more to me than what am aware of.. Thanks for helping me become more comfortable in my own skin... You're Genius
Thank you! Glad my content has been so insightful for you!! 🙏
I've been that son who would live to please their parents. Moving out has been the single best decision of my life. I have a hobby my mom is not very fond of and she recently tried her parenting schemes in order to beat me into submission but I wouldn't budge. I've been living my own life for many years now, I will never back down in front of anyone, ever again. I've corrected a lot of my past problems in my 20's and now I'm looking forward to how the rest of my life will pan out. I am not without defeat, however I wouldn't want it any other way. No regrets...
“I’ve always been up here”
& the return game concept was crazzzzzzzyyyyy
Whenever I’m feeling down I come back to your videos and the remind of who I really am. I can’t thank you enough!
You are my favorite on youtube
Thank you! Glad my content has been so helpful! 🙌
This is right in line with a lot of Buddhist, Toltec, and Advaita stuff! We are not our "character," "identity," "ego," we are the observing consciousness behind it. Call it an avatar if you want, same concept.
Yes! 🙏
@@JulienHimself thanks, brother!
Hope you all know this man is a gift.
"Rushing to death" I think that is the phrase that stuck with me the most, always trying to get Everything everytime as fast as possible, only to realize that it was not the goal, it was the experience. Thank you Julien, cant't wait for the online session today and meet you. ⚡👍🏼
Glad this resonated with you! As always, it's about the journey NOT the destination! 🙏
I thank God that Julien exists in this world. For me he is a doctor that heals souls.
I’m a Catholic and some of this stuff doesn’t line up with our faith, but a lot does! Thanks Julien for your content!
17:53 Point got me. We need to be at peace with who we are & live life right now!
Grace a toi Julien, un gosse de 15 ans (moi) vivra sa vie encore plus intensément, merci. profite bien de ta vie mec
This is one of the very best of all to watch. Tells you more about life quicker than any other vid I've seen.
We must be connected. I been passing on the lyrics. "Searching for tomorrow but decisions you have made will leave you empty"
Legend❤
As a kid, my mom actually had the word “IF” in big wooden letters hanging on the wall in her bedroom.
At the time, I didn’t understand the significance and the subconscious impact of being raised by someone with this mindset.
I’m working through and dedicated to compassionate integration of these foundational models.
I just found your channel, sub’d and thank you.
a lot of interesting hair styles in this frame
Thanks for that vid Julien, I neede to hear that
I once read the Models n to my surprise what he calls unlishing true confidence through vulnerability is what u r sometimes criticized for teaching and that's Letting go.
ur existence is life changing 🤟🏽
🙏🙏🙏
This talk reminds me of “The peaceful warrior” movie
This is one of the best channels on youtube. The only thing I disagree with you about is that some of your solutions are a little more external than internal, and I'm more into the Peter Levine method of processing your emotions (which I know you also like). Still, I think you're more correct than 99.9% of other youtubers
Summary/updated thumbnail/updated title (my version) - Player and the character. It started out with acknowledging the player ; detach, detach. And then the character appeared ; Milking life, no regrets.
Flow of thoughts is pretty chaotic. Not in sync with the title.
Amazing teacher and video
You have right about that we can live like celebrities but there is a big cost to that when you get in that industry...
Like the artists in the music industry...
You can be yourself until a certain point but if you want to live like a celebrity, there is a "price" that many celebrities have talked about...
I remember my grandfather saying. “Better to wonder what you could have done without than regretting not doing so”.
I'm 33 years old, live with my parents and have never had a girlfriend. I've failed at pretty much every job I've tried and keep having to rely on my parents for support. How are you meant to accept yourself as good enough when life keeps showing you you're not good at anything?
@@Super-lucky-7777 👏🏿
@@Super-lucky-7777 and every time you fall down, get back up!
You are so right and definitely changed my perspective here!
Thanks Julien!
The change that happened to me in the last month cz of watching this guy n practicing shadow work n action trigger release repeat Method is crazy
This has been extremely eye-opening for me. Thank you!
I just want to meet this guy and talk for like 5 hours hahaha everything is broken down to bare bones but it seems like epiphanies every time! I want everyone I know to watch this one!
Great one brother, one of the best videos I've seen of yours . Spiritual yet very down to earth.
Thank you so much! 🙏
i had to listen and rewind the death/video game part 3 times because it was that insightful
Here is the secret. STOP CARING
Julien seems nice right? But he doesn't CARE if you like him, or like yourself, or if you change. He simply says his piece, and asks for money or gets views. Stop caring about people and you will succeed
“I’ve been through it all…”
Haveeeeee you ever had a GI flare up?
This was beautiful and exactly what I needed to hear. You have a way with words and are so captivating and inspiring. Thank you 🙏🏽❤️
Thank you so much! Glad this connected with you! 🙏
Fantastic video. Thank you.
You're so welcome!
Gotta say, for every one person that makes it by winging it, theres another hundred or thousand that drown. Requiem for a dream. If anything, plan for the most catastrophic failure being a certainty. Write down your goals so you can stay focused. At the same time.. nothing ventured, nothing gained. The star wars metaphor was good.
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@@JulienHimself nice!
Crying for 5 minutes after watching this video, just a glimpse of realization of how I was washed in dis life😭 thank you.
🙏🙏🙏
This is SO good
Thank you
Your talks are very good
Thank you! Glad they resonate!
this dude is awesome
Only when I lost everything did I find abundance.
I love your videos! This one is amazing. You have this ability to put things that are easy for us to understand without patronising us.
I have learnt that I do enjoy every part of my journey. I have learnt that I do miss my early days of working for minimum wage, my first job was in McDonald's and I actually miss it sometimes.
Thank you! Glad my videos have been so helpful! 🙏
thank you so much
You're welcome!
In to the wild sounds great!!! How does it end?
Didn't want to spoil the ending... 😉
Excellent motivational speech!
Glad you liked it!
Chocolate covered starfish is the greatest limp bizkit album of all
,,They deem me mad because I will not sell my days for gold; and I deem them mad because they think my days have a price. " Khalil Gibran
9:11 well.. it’s also okay to have boring moments in life… so don’t take this advice as an absolute.
I am a gamer and I understand your logic it’s awesome
Thanks! Glad this resonates! 💪
We are good enough. Say im good enough for 10 minutes after you turn the lights off and ready for sleep
25:36
Brilliant!!!
Thank you!
Hey julien, do i have to remember since when i started being not okay with myself to let go of it or just have to feel the sensations of "not being okay with myself" ? (because i have not being okay with myself from a very very long time)
yes we need you to help this world .... social media and stupidity has ruined it
The second half of this video can be summarized by the movie “Click” with Adam Sandler
The solution to the human problem is NOT within yourself.
"Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28)
Man is a sinner, and sinners need the redeeming grace of God. ALL the problems in the world, involving humanity, are cause by sin. YOUR sin causes YOUR problems with yourself and others. Sin is what sinners do. In order to not sin, you MUST be changed from a sinner to a saint.
This happens through Jesus Christ, who died on the cross and resurrected three days later, and promises that "Whoever believes in me and Him who sent me HAS eternal life. He does NOT come into judgement. . ." (John 5:24)
Then, once you are born again into the family of God and are a child of the Heavenly Father, you will receive the Holy Spirit. HE will produce in you "love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness, goodness, faithfulness, and self control." (Galatians 5:22-23)
Pursue the Lord, your Maker, and HIS Kingdom and righteousness. Jesus promises that everything else, which this internet guru tries to SELL you, WILL be given to you from the Father (Matthew 6:33).
If you will not repent and follow Jesus in all He says, the Bible says there is NO peace for the wicked, and ONLY the judgement of Hell remains.
Salut Julien!That video was really interesting!I have a dream to live in Spain and I decided to move there about a year ago.I have taken some action (even though I was scared) like applying for jobs there but now I stopped trying because of health issues.I hope that I will be able to leave in the future.What you said about cockroaches I agree.I used to be afraid of them but now they are my pets.Thank you! 😊☘️
Jullian your a great teacher and entertaining, you ever going to the uk?
No, but I will be doing free events in Europe in June: www.selfhelpfreetour.com
@@JulienHimselfOk bro thanks
Who Be This Guyyyy?!?!? 😫😫😫🔥🔥🔥🔥
What should you do if you alway just enjoy the start of the games and then leave halfway through, let's say because you get bored or want to play a different game constantly. I seem to enjoy the start of many games and then never finish them, same with books, never finish books, read the first 1/3. I'm wondering if there's something going on that permeates every aspect of my life, because it's the same with my careers and hobbies like dancing. I always lose the passion and desire after a little time. I want to maintain the passion and interest in things longer. My attention span is good in general, but I lose passion and interest quick, same in relationships after say 2 years. Any idea what's going on here?
Man I definitely be like this with alot of things and with jobs too.. I asked myself why I am like this? I really hate doing the same thing on and on cuz I like to experience different things idk if this fully relates to what your saying but I hate being inside a loop it causes havoc to my mind
Top notch delivery! More importanly though where did you buy those cool jeans? Lol, no but for real, what brand are they? They look awesome!
Hey julien i had a question, do u mean by letting go is removing these blockages by mediation and shadow work? Also u so fkn unique u create a new genre of self help thanks much respect for u 🔥🔥
Here's the process that I use for this: www.julienhimself.com/8p
That was really powerful Julien! It´s just a fckn GAME! Love it. Greetings from thailand from the german black dude :)
Thank you! Glad this was so powerful!
This is important.
Yes! 👌
Im on the journey now ive lost a lot of weight recently i notice being slimmer i feel better and people woman starting to look at me more, i have guys in gym come tell me my physique is noticing and ask how i do it what im eating ect. Its all in your mind guys. It feels good to be wanted.
Really thanks you influenced me a lot, keep going man, also your way of delivering information is so simple and to the point 👉
Thanks so much! 🙌
What do u meannn? What if watching movies is the most exciting thing in ur life and u study it
People in public actually have been saying hi to me. It's weird. I'm used to walking in a room and being scowled at by pretty much everybody...
Glad things are changing for you!
Can you post a guided death meditation?
You can find the full death meditation in Transformation Mastery: www.julienhimself.com/8p 🙏
After watching this video I have realised my life is boring. I wake up go to the gym, go to college and stream games on Twitch but I dont go out to socialize and live my life..
Time to change things up! 🔥👊
Well ok, the videogame obviously doesn't affect your worth. But there's certain things that are really affecting how others perceive you. And no amount of copium and mental gymnastics can change them. I for example, got rejected by plenty of girls for guys who have a fancy car. OK, that doesn't affect my 'core' and whatnot, but at the end of the day, I want results, real results.
How does the experience of authentic self feel like? Does your mind come to complete stillness?
Nope… But the theme of what your mind is telling you changes to love. 🙏
@@JulienHimself So an authentic self is a very secure self. That security comes from realisation that you were always good enough.
i love you
Very good speech. My dad says I need to be happy too, but some days he gets jealous because I've had fun. Because I used to take care of myself. really exhausting. That's not normal.
Great
You can't really do anything about the regrets you already have. So, I guess I'll just have to try again.
Julien, you are fucking awesome :) oh and love limp bizquit btw :)
Thanks! 🔥👊
People chase me all the time. And I dislike it. Once a mob of angry villagers marched all the way up the great winding hill to my castle with torches and axes in their hands. I had to enlist the aid of my trusted assistant Igor, who dispersed them by pouring hot oil down from the castle parapets. Alas, life is not easy with a name like Frankenstein.
If you use words such as "shit, crap, rubbish" all the time to describe stuff you're wiring your brain to see that way. It's a realisation I've just come too
"No regrets mother*ucker, peace out!" xD
Gold
Thanks! What was your biggest takeaway?
Live life like a Video game is So Enlightening
Omg.. I just had a Major crush on you.😊
The Macbeths are so 🔥 tho
🔥🔥🔥
"No regrets mofos, Peace out ✌️" 😂😂😂
People won't like you until you are aloof and too busy to hang out. No one wants to hang out with someone with a lot of time on their hands and also can be a supportive and emotionally validating friend. People want to hang out with shallow assholes who have too many acquaintances to count, but don't care about any of them. Being there for your friends and showing great love and authenticity? Gross.
Dude, how do you reconcile your message that everyone is already enough as they are, no matter what happens in the game, and then call people on their deathbeds having realizations and insights that they want to share with others so that they can learn from them, losers? It is incongruent. I don't feel it. It feels inauthentic to the message of worthiness at core, despite what happens on the surface.
Holy shit
so will you play god of war ? 😅
Should I? 🤔
@@JulienHimself idk man i havent played any god of war
😂