The daughter ended her life due to mother's overwhelming expectations🥶
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- The daughter ended her life due to mother's overwhelming expectations🥶 #movie #series #gifted
Film director: Marc Webb
Main casts: Chris Evans, Mckenna Grace, Lindsay Duncan, Jenny Slate and Octavia Spencer
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Movie Name: Gifted
Summary: This is a custody battle over a girl named Mary, whose mother, Diane, committed suicide. The lady on the stand is Mary's grandmother, Evelyn, who is fighting for full custody. She pushed Diane for education only and isolated her from others in pursuit of it. She herself is an acclaimed mathematician and pushed her daughter to be the same.
Because Mary's guardian, her uncle Frank, confessed that he was working a job without insurance, he loses custody, and Mary is put into foster home. There, Evelyn had control over Mary's education. When Frank found out, he confronts Evelyn and reveals that Diane solved a famous math problem before she died, but she didn’t want ir published until after Evelyn died; it was hee revenge for how she was treated. He uses the publication of this solution as leverage to have Evelyn agree to grant him full custody.
So she lets go of her granddaughter just to see her daughter’s solved puzzle?
@@manishag9570 no she does it for the accolades. Everyone saying how great a mother she was. That's tragic to me that she would rather have fame then her daughter
@@hiddenwithinedgarmodenocap3558 wow... That's sick.
She's a narc. Seeing her daughter only as an extended part of herself-pushing her limits.
That not a narc a narc is someone who rats out criminals. She is just sick and living vicariously through her daughter.@japalomeno8068
“Ma’am, you stopped your daughter from experiencing love, friendship, companionship, camaraderie, community, and hobbies. Things that make a person happy, things that make a person want to live. Every thing that does that was taken away from her purposefully because she was too smart to be allowed them.”
Please tell me that is a quote from this movie/show.
Did he actually say that?
The thing is if a person that wants to change the world for the better they must first feel that we need change and have hope in humanity if you prevent someone from having those experience you are just making a villain.
Exactly, some of these hobbies or menial actions also play a huge role in dicovering breakthroughs. You get inspired and see things in a different perspective, which helps breed creativity. Creativity in turn provide unique solutions.
She just stunted her own child's growth and brain development while trying to turn her into this genius.
Clearly people who make comments like this have no idea to have a child with a very high IQ. Otherwise you would know that those kids don't like to play or to interact with other kids there age. Mostly it sucks for them if you make them normal kids things. It seems wasting of time to them. You all should watch " Young Sheldon" or documentaries about real life geniuses. Of course if your kids are nothing like this and you push them to greatness and not letting them do normal child's play they will hate you and that is even cruel.
The funny part is the jury is mostly parents and they just witnessed what it was like growing up with a mother like that by her own words
Lol, you can tell about her by those words
She hated how she grew up that’s why she left her daughter with her brother, and why she said she only wanted her study papers published after death, hers? No, her mother’s. Just to make sure her mother never got to see what she pushed her daughter to do
Never gonna give you up
Never gonna let you down
Never gonna run around and desert you
Never gonna make you cry
Never gonna say goodbye
Never gonna tell a lie and hurt you take
I think also because her mother would have claimed some degree of credit for it plus it would reinforce the mother's (grandmother's) belief in herself and what she did to the girl. Diane didn't want to give her that.
Tragic to know that the lives of your daughter and granddaughter were worth a math problem...
We still have such people in our world🥺
Also this is one of the biggest unsolved problem in all of mathematics. Still not worth imprisoning anyone for being brilliant of course.
I somehow believe that she could have solved it without the trauma
Right? Like, imagine how successful she'd have been if her environment allowed her to thrive. @@maleborathokolo1679
@@maleborathokolo1679she did solve it but didn’t tell her mom
The fact that she solved it before she died but said that she'd only release it after her mother died is still hilarious to me.
It's quite understandable though why she did that.
@@Moviemental_Thrill that it was. Her mother ruined her life for that knowledge keeping it until she was gone was just her get back.
Hilarious???😢 it's tragic, it reflect a deep ache/fear/hatred of her limited life
@@katehu7194 comedy and tragedy often walk hand in hand
@@mahiyatsafiyullah7103 wiser word's have never been spoken 😅
The second she say I have responsibilities beyond the mother daughter relationship” is the second the judge should award custody back to the uncle
The daughter died....
@@benjaminmadrigalperez9010pretty sure the person above was talking about in the cause of the granddaughter, which based on the plot of the movie I read over, the one on trail is trying to get custody of and probably plans to do to the granddaughter what she did to her own daughter
The uncle didn't get custody cause he was working a job without insurance.
@@facundomontivero2299that’s a pretty stupid reason to not award him custody but I don’t know why he didn’t keep his professor job
@@benjaminmadrigalperez9010😂😂 reading comprehension lacks with you young padwan
Best line is later - when her son tells her the daughter did the proof but made him promise only to publish it posthumously. The mother says but she has been dead for a while and he says not her death.
The look on the mothers face is priceless
Now I’m intrigued. Which movie is this clip from?
@@joannestark3023 it’s called gifted and it is fantastic - a study of what is important in life and the responsibility of being extraordinary.
Let’s also add her brother was a genius mathematician, but he wasn’t smart enough for the mom so the mom didn’t care what he did or where he went. So the sister found solace in him telling him everything including the math problem the mom was trying to force Diann’s kid to solve. She would only release her notes of solving the problem when her mom died.
From what I remember the brother wasn't a genius at all, he wasn't stupid but pretty average so the mom didn't care as much about him
And the brother got a moderately normal life because he wasn't smart enough to be worth her attention. God this movie hurts.
And he wasn't exactly dumb. He's teaching his niece college math.
He's smart but not a genius that's what got him away from her
Name of this movie please
@@Miracolineit’s called Gifted starring Chris Evans
@@MiracolineGifted
If you had allowed her to be happy, she could have lived longer to do even more amazing things.
Anyone who sides with that mom is a monster. Your child deserves a life full of experiences.
Exactly, I homeschooled because our school was crap. But they knew everyone in town, played sports, went to camp, swam in the pool. They all got scholarships to college. They still have friends They met growing up. You can do both. Educate the mind and the spirit.
@@lorifintel9784that’s awesome good for u! I totally agree n think homeschooling is sometimes the better option, cus there’s still rec sports kids can be apart of, camps, art programs, dance classes etc
Homeschooling doesn’t mean keep ur kids at home away from their peers n focus only on education etc n it sounds like u found a good balance for ur kids to enjoy their youth!
I have a father who is exactly like that.
or just a life
@@leiajiang7877 just a life?
Even animals r known to end things when deprived of socialization n other emotional n physical needs that end up being neglected due to isolation or cruel living conditions, cus to them having just a life isn’t enough
She just proved his point without even asking DIRECT questions.
I like how at the end he has the that was easier than I expected look and just stops asking questions.
The attorney knew she'd be too smart to give him direct answers to direct questions; it's why he didn't ask any. She was angry that she had to explain herself to someone she considered an intellectual inferior, so he gave her free rein to say what she wanted.
“No more questions” with the attitude of “hell I may as well rest my case at this point.”
I'd say if she was there that day, she would have told her mother SHE is the reason. What a weapon
Ofcourse 💯
Little red wagon is nice way of saying "a childhood"
Great comment
Not from the mom's point of view. She saw it as "frivolous things." Sadly, to her that included a normal social life, as she saw the only thing worth anything was solving that one problem.
@@patrickpromen3605 Either way, through mother saw little intrinsic value in the child's developmental journey aside from the end product.
Radio Flyer, snitch.
You can tell she's an amazing actress by how much I hate the character she's portraying. It takes talent to make a character that deplorable. Bravo.
Her sound really does feel an like over bearing mother though. And i don't even know what this is from.
Yeah and because you drove such a great mind to death now she can’t make any discoveries like her fellow great minds
The mother basically stole everything that made her daughter a human, and treated her as a tool to be used for greatness to help people, what a shame to treat a human being as a tool without knowing they have a heart, it’s a shame humans never learn, humans don’t have the same loyalty to reciprocate her purity
After all the ways she damaged Diane, after all the pain she put her through, the isolation, the lack of experience in the world, the suicide attempt, the pregnancy from her very first relationship because she had no experience in the world, and that's not even mentioning Frank, none of it was enough for this cow, she couldn't hurt Diane enough in life, so she went after her daughter in her death, a death that she was responsible for because she raised Diane to believe she was worth nothing else, so when she solved the problem she had no further use. She's a monster.
I think the mom failed to realize intelligence without life is nothing
So I’m from Japan 🇯🇵 things might be different. But there was a case were a 20 something year old daughter killed her mom because the mom controlled her life and forced her to be a doctor . Every she ran away the mom would hire detectives to track her down . The daughter stabbed her mom to death and when the police arrived she smiled and laughed saying “ I’m free , I’m finally free “
Wow, her mum wanted a doctor she got a killer instead. Twisted 😟
@@Moviemental_Thrill It was reverse surgery!
Looks like the daughter botched her mom's surgery /lh (I am so sorry)
Sounds similar to the case of Gypsy Rose Blanchard, only her mom was making her pretend to be disabled for fraud. Same outcome tho.
Funny, because when Dianne told her brother she solved the math problem, she said "now what?". Basically all her life was that problem and now she didn't even had that so what to do?
Humanity will have centuries, a single person will have only a lifetime.
Criminally underrated comment 🏅
Simply because someone is extraordinarily brilliant doesn’t mean they don’t deserve, want or need all the things us regular people probably take for granted. Sheldon, Dr. Murphy even Charlie from Numb3ers are examples of that.
Bone! Lol Temprence was extremely intelligent but preferred being out in the field with the FBI because Booth was normal. Every person at least deserves the option!
@@berniemae9205 Yeah as soon as I posted my comment I realized I forgot to add her to the list.
One of the biggest examples honestly More so than the others should be doctor house A genius but at every turn, he believes he doesn't deserve happiness.Every time he is happy he ruins it by self destructing because he is scared of the other shoe going to drop always waiting until that happiness crumbles and he's alone
why use fictional characters as an example of that?? we have plenty of real ones
Oh but the grandma clearly didn't allow herself to watch TV so she wouldn't know that
I know that movie! This woman is a monster. Not only did she do all that to her own daughter, she tried to do the same to her granddaughter! Heck, she even put her cat in a pet store where it was almost killed!
Omg this looks good What was the movie called??
@@Destinyirus278 Gifted
Throughout that whole trial I was like oh my god JUST SAY “Your daughter ended up killing herself so clearly that shows that the little girl shouldn’t live that same life?” Like holy shit.
The Mother:
[reveals her "viciousness" through her own testimony]
The lawyer: "Your Honor, I rest my case"
I guess mom didn't get the memo. She gave custody of her child to her brother with an explicit request for her child to have a normal life.
recall that if you hate an actor, they're doing their job well
Hate the character, love the actor/actress. Looking at you Umbridge.
What about a hug? I bet her mother never gave her one of those, either.
The movie is called Gifted. The daughter in this scene they are referring to, ended her own life after solving one of the worlds hardest math problems and her brother took over caring for her daughter because he was the one that found her. But he didn’t have legal custody so the grandmother on the stand is trying to get the rights to custody over her granddaughter because the granddaughter is also a math genius.
It’s wild of her to minimize the severity of a suicide attempt in a case after her daughter committed suicide. And the idea of fostering a talented young mind rather than developing a sense of self is abhorrent. Genuinely shocked how she felt she could sway people but such a terrible display of compassion
If you deny your child friendships, relationships, love, compassion, hobbies and dreams outside of your own, you’ll find out that they see no purpose in serving a greater good
Because they’ve never SEEN a greater good, never truly KNOWN a greater good
Think of it like this: let’s say you grow up in a cage, completely cut off from the outside world
And then you’re told you have a gift that could save it
What do you care about something you’ve never seen? Something you know nothing about?
To deny happiness is to deny purpose
That was a brilliant way to phrase it. Thank you.
What use is a *possibility* of groundbreaking discovery if the person is dead?
And all of this stupid controlling drama because her mom couldn’t even buy her daughter a little red wagon. Making children happy is so easy sometimes and she denied her even a toy. If you take all enrichment out of an animals enclosure they die. Humans are animals and some parents treat their children worse than animals at the zoo. If she’s so smart she should have realized that isolation from others and no toys or hobbies or small joys kills everyone rather sooner then later.
"Extraordinary" people are still human and need love and companionship.
The daughter died because her mom didn't teach her basic social skills to survive in this unpredictable life.
She made the daughter laser focus on solving one problem, to dedicated her life to it. Once she solved it, she lost the reason to live and no one was there to help her
The daughter wanted to be social and have a life. But the mom was controlling as hell, even going as far as ending her relationship with Mary's bio dad which led to the severe depression that Diane suffered before her death
It wasn't solving the math problem that made her commit suicide.
"if she was here right now" well she isn't, because she took her own life after her mother took away every bit of happiness she had her whole life because of her mother's ambition.
The lawyer just needed to let the lady talk to prove his point.
My man, Glenn Plummer!
I remember hearing about a kid who gets called the real life Sheldon Cooper.
His parents are doing the right thing about letting him take life at his pace instead of forcing him to do it faster. He's very advanced in his education, but he gets time to be a regular kid. That might be the main way to not cause burn out in gifted kids.
Neither of them got custody. She went into foster care with visitation. But Frank kept being refused at the door cause grandma told the foster parents not to let him in so that she could privately tutor Mary behind his back. Xx
In the end however, she goes back with her uncle.
Not to mention she got rid of Mary's cat. While violating the custody agreement
Did Evelyn 'instruct' them to not let him see Mary or did Mary not want to see him? When he went to rescue her, she was furious at him about abandoning her.
@@Caleb17-ym6pq Evelyn instructed them. In reality, she could have been arrested for going against a court order
@@Ikajo How do you know she did this?
I remember Frank going to visit Mary and the foster-dad told him that Mary was still mad at him (for abandoning her) and didn't want to see him.
I dont understand how a skewerslide attempt could be considered “nothing” shows what a real mother that one is
The biggest geniuses in our history had hobbies. Einstein played chess and the violin, Da Vinci wrote plays, Music and painted, Curie I think read fiction. Like a great author had one of his best characters say, “all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.”
The girl attempted to take her life and the she said “it was nothing.”
then why she leave her child with her brother and not you? that’s answer enough
The no more questions always get me😂😂
These are the tragic times when a person starts to feel why are they so smart... If only they weren't that intelligent, rhey could have done this and that...... And that's so sad. No one should experience this but the sad truth is so many face this. Stay strong ppl; you'll make it out of the hell and live a gr8 life ahead. Don't give up 🥹💪
I get the feeling she doesn't like wire hangers.
😂
"No wire hangers EVER!!!!"
@TSCD9309 Yes mommy dearest.
"Why don't you give me the respect that I'M ENTITLED TO?"
😂😂
But thats what she did. She took her own life and gave up that 'brilliant' future
I love how the mother explains everything her daughter might have done in her life except mother dearest did everything in her power to ensure that the daughter wouldn't have a life at all.
The tragedy is that there are people like this who put so much pressure on their kids to succeed that they drive them to do exactly this.
My absolute favorite quote of the entire series is “There are still moments that I wake up screaming from nightmares of lost children and Mutts and he clutches a chair in the dining room and refuses to let go but then his arms are there and eventually his lips and after when he asks me you love me or not real? I say real”
HUNGER GAMES!!!!
i love the fact that captain America is the 'idiot child'
Frank aka Chris Evans was highly intelligent in his own right. He just chose to have a normal life and a normal job because it made him happy. Xx
She didn’t want things. She wanted love.
I hated the mom in this movie. She was terrible. Extraordinary is not a reason to keep someone from experiencing the ordinary.
Some of the most beautiful things on this planet are seen through the eyes other people, experiences made with the ones we love, and places we have gone. The daughter was never given that opportunity, for any of it. All because the mother chose for her daughter what was important.
Freedom, hope, and love are very powerful things. When all are gone what else is there to fight for?
She herself was a very good student but was pregnant in her mid study.
So, she could not achieve her dream.
Both her children actually are brilliant but she pushed her genius daughter to study physics and solve the equation she had not solve.
Deprive her daughter of happy childhood and friends.
The daughter took her life leaving her kid who later turned out to be genius too.
The kid was left in the care of her uncle who live a simple live to avoid being searched by his mother.
This is the fight to be legal guardian of the kid.
Geniuses need social interaction to
Moral of the story…let your kids be kids
Ya know maybe she shouldnt of had kids if she only cared about stupid math problems.
And the biggest lie is that the most important to a mother should always their son/daughter and not what they can do, the reason the parents care to much about what the child's do is because they want to know that they will be able to take care of their selves once they leave
“If she were here to-“! *gets choked and raised into the air by an unseen force*
Her daughter’s ghost: “One in a million… then why did you kill me? Why let me die”?!
Hey lady he didn’t say any of that, you came up with that yourself, sounds like you might be in denial about some things
even more disgusting is that the mom thought after all that she was still justified 🙄
Literally just realised the actress was Adelaide Brooks in Dr Who.
Her name is actually Lindsay Duncan. If you mean the actress defending herself..
@@Moviemental_Thrill that’s her! The characters name was Adelaide, was too lazy to look up the actual name of the actress. 😁
@@meghanbrooks3990 😂
Her character in Under The Tuscan Sun 100% different
Also Aluce in Qonderland as the mother, and Fanny Price as two sisters.
This proved she was an unfit mother. Ultimately her daughter did kill herself because her mother never loved her only her ability 😢
Wow mother valued her brilliance and protenial over her as a person. Objectification much ?
Never underestimate a parent's ability to completely destroy their child's spirit.
Kinda glad that Sheldon Cooper’s family actually gave him a happy childhood after seeing this tho :))
Ah yes. My deceased daughter who nearly took her own life would refute that the reason she took her own life was the way I raised her. Despite the fact that's all she ever knew.
I miss my prom, all the homecomings, high school sports, camp, after school events all because my mom didnt want me to go. Ive already graduated and i didnt get a graduation party or ve able to see my friends. It was rough . 😅
Wow.....just hearing that "mother" speak she basically damned herself with her own words.
There is no greater responsibility than the parent-child relationship. Loving your child is infinitely more important than some potential discovery.
She deserved to be treated like a person, not a supercomputer
The thing is, that woman just showed she's an unfit parent/guardian. She just admitted, on stand, that she deliberately isolated her child to cripple her emotional and social development because the mother *preferred* her to be alone and sad.
That is demonstrated neglect at best and probably proveable abuse. You don’t give that kind of woman custody of another child for her to do the same thing to.
Hiw does your relationship go beyond a mother daughter relationship when you are her mom so that is your only job is to be her mother
I mean they didn't insinuate that she was preventing her from doing any of those things until the end of the video where she went off. Because I was a lot like that girl, but I'm not extraordinary at all, I didn't go to prom, I never went to any community pools(I didn't have one either) and I wasn't interested in sports(Unless maybe Archery but i didnt actually do that, I only did it when my school did it). Also fun fact, I never owned a wagon. So it's not that bad of a life or an experience. The real question was if she made her daughter feel loved, which clearly she didn't those things he listed wasn't the basis for having a good childhood. Because personally I think my childhood was great.
She didn't go beyond the mother-daughter relationship. She leapfrogged it entirely. Diane had no life outside of mathematics and didn't want that for her daughter. She couldn't escape her own problems and wouldn't allow Mary to suffer that way, even though she left her to grow up without a mother. She obviously feared Evelyn's influence directly or genetically.
Well, your method of coaching a 1 in a billion protege was a failure. Which makes you the other 999,999,999. Come sit with us 😂😂
She's 100 percent the reason she ended her own life
To cap off and respond to her entire speech. Yes, that’s exactly why she took the forever sleep.
Einstein said "Imagination is more important than knowledge. Knowledge is limited. Imagination encircles the world." Depriving a human being, no matter how bright, of the most basic human experiences and bonds will deprive them of joy and imagination. That's like trying to make a plant grow using nothing but water, eventually, it will wither and die.
I think Wolverine said it best.
Sometimes, you gotta let kids, just be kids
That or any other child has the right to choose their own way in life. YOU don't get to dictate anything because of your over indulged EGO woman, you caused that young girl to take her own life because you wouldn't let her be herself. Selfish beyond a joke.
JHC lady … even Stephen Hawking had a social life
Actress is really good. She really makes you hate the character
egoistic: concerned with one's own interests or advantage.. a word often used to describe an opinionated, vain, or boastful person
I actually hope my son doesn’t end up that academically smart (as smart as the mom who has passed away I mean). Not because I would love him any less or be upset with intellect, but because I fear others trying to pigeon hole him into only being the “smart kid.” I want him to be able to have a full life with friends, sports, arts, and so many other things in addition to academic pursuits. I love academics, I’ve always loved school and learning. I have a few other passions that I love to pursue as well because they make me happy. But the particular things I love have at times made people want to put me in a box. I had a vocal teacher not want to teach me because he said it would be useless to teach me at this point if I wasn’t going to pursue singing professionally and acted like there was no reason I should have the talent to do so if I was only using it in community theater and church.
Oh i know this actress! She play Ysabeau in A Discovery of Witches.
Her Daugther missed everything a normal girl would have expirienced.The little kids mom tried everything to avoid her child had to go to this woman but this woman after al this years ignored the wishes of her child.
Mommy still did not get it.
Mommy just is upsetsome one could blame her for beeing a bad mother.
Watched this in theaters. A wonderful story about being a parent and understanding what this woman did to cause her daughter to commit suicide. The only thing I hated was the romance story for the MC. I have no idea why they added it, bought absolutely nothing to the storyline except creating a very small conflict. It was such a distraction that I couldn't get immersed again. I'd cut it out if I could.
Guess what she ended it cuz mummy didn't get her a little red wagon 😢
*Where The Video Where The Law Suit Is Resolved!?!*
Obligations to science don't mean a single thing if you have no one to share them with.
One of the worst things that a parent could do is deny a child their childhood
The grandmother in this movie is such a horrible person
She was making her a robot 🤖 not human being to have feelings
She treated her daughter like a science experiment than a human.
May Jesus bless you all and lead you to HimC as He has done for me! Repent of your sins for His return is at hand!
remind me of the virgin suicides, the mum sounds the same
She failed to realize her daughter is a human being
While it's ok to do homeschooling and such, this mother went way overboard.
Look, I'm all for protecting your child but you have to let them have experiences.
I'm very protective of my kids but i take them to the playground at the minimum to let them play. Not keep them ostracized with no interaction with the outside world.
Yes, you have to be careful who your kids interact with, especially in today's world. That's no reason to alienate her
Yes these outrageous expectations the mother had absolutely contributed to suicide
Things like this happen when parents believe their kids are not same with others and shouldn't follow same upbringing
Extraordinarily depressed and lonely.
Sounds like she just told on herself 😒