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    IT ENDS WITH US, based on the global phenomenon by Colleen Hoover, tells the empowering story of Lily Bloom (Blake Lively). Grappling with a painful past, Lily embarks on a new life in Boston, embraces her artistry, and passionately pursues her dream of opening her own flower shop. A chance meeting with charming neurosurgeon Ryle Kincaid (Justin Baldoni) sparks an intense connection, but as the two fall deeply in love, Lily begins to see sides of Ryle that remind her of her dangerous father. With the support of her friends and allies, Atlas Corrigan (Brandon Sklenar) and Allysa Kincaid (Jenny Slate), Lily must find her own strength to break the pattern or the pattern will break her.
    Directed by Justin Baldoni and produced by Alex Saks, Jamey Heath, and Christy Hall. The film stars Blake Lively, Justin Baldoni, Jenny Slate, Hasan Minhaj, Amy Morton and Brandon Sklenar, from a screenplay by Christy Hall, based on the book by Colleen Hoover.
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ความคิดเห็น • 331

  • @sarahferguson1830
    @sarahferguson1830 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    They don't just see what they're doing, and they don't just accept you leaving like this.

  • @Jenniferbasham-rn3jx
    @Jenniferbasham-rn3jx 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +320

    As an abuse surviver i can say it isnt that easy to leave. I wish it was but it isnt. Would never have that conversation with a child close by

    • @spiritualempress6691
      @spiritualempress6691 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      For real and if they’re financially abusive it’s damn near impossible. Been there.

    • @Marymary-z3p
      @Marymary-z3p หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      There are many different types of abusers. My ex-husband was a lot like Rile. I could have that type of conversation, but no knowing until later of the outcome of it.

    • @dianedorney5147
      @dianedorney5147 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I was thinking the same thing....he has a reputation to uphold he's covert ...she was probably safest there...

    • @heyU-f3b
      @heyU-f3b หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      i cringed all thru that conversation. was waiting for an fit of anger with him holding the bab

    • @merranbrown2886
      @merranbrown2886 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      It is possible to have that conversation at that time.....when he just welcomed his daughter...while he was overwhelmed with tenderness. Will his decision to agree last? ...who knows. Let us all keep educating......violence towards women is not on.

  • @gracerosegonzales2951
    @gracerosegonzales2951 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +201

    Uh, you say I want a divorce while he is holding the baby? Stupid scene...no way an abused mom would put her newborn in that situation..made for TV hallmark movie

    • @shellylavigne5913
      @shellylavigne5913 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You needed female scene suggestions… just saying to males

  • @Lisa-nh8hv
    @Lisa-nh8hv 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +309

    You can’t Romanticize abuse. Real abused women know better.

    • @kirstenwirtz5831
      @kirstenwirtz5831 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Its not the real in the movie .... but in live ...... you can now 🥲

    • @nievaconsing3344
      @nievaconsing3344 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      True. A colleague of mine, a teacher, reconciled with her abusive husband even after several abuse-separation-reconciliation attempts. She got killed ultimately. 😢🕊️🇵🇭

    • @carolannmorgan3130
      @carolannmorgan3130 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      🤬 500% this whole thing sickens me

  • @kellyharvey
    @kellyharvey 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +272

    It's Hollywood making dv look pretty when it's beyond ugly. All survivors know that as fact.

    • @fairlycultured9329
      @fairlycultured9329 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Survivors also sometimes romanticise the abuse though,until they SEE the abuse for abuse

    • @daniboy4153
      @daniboy4153 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      This was movie was based on a book that is written by a woman who makes DV look cute and romantic.

  • @carolyndamish1601
    @carolyndamish1601 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +521

    Dead women in an abusive or toxic relationship; do not trigger him with ur baby in ur hands. The abuser might hurt the baby or u. This is not realistic, although I like this scene a lot. An abuser wouldn’t let her leave so easy. He was making sure she needed him for a while and wouldn’t just give up power over their victim like this. Stay safe

    • @t5l239
      @t5l239 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Truth

    • @LivingInPeace2024
      @LivingInPeace2024 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      I disagree. She was in a hospital, not in a secluded area. Many abusers do things in private and act differently in public. She felt safer there and knew that was the best place to leave him. Every abuse story is different.

    • @tatianagruber9359
      @tatianagruber9359 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      No.. you should never never risk your Babys life

    • @JordanCoombes-m8t
      @JordanCoombes-m8t 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Mine made my 10 year old daughter suicidal, she has been for over 4 years yet no one listens to me when I tell them he’s been beating my kids, past 3-4 years they don’t talk about it with no one so I look crazy for simply worrying about them

    • @sarvolkskaya
      @sarvolkskaya 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@LivingInPeace2024late reply but I agree. I don’t think it was that realistic but confronting him in front of the baby he wanted, in a public place where he works and has a reputation and paycheck where there’s cameras and security is a lot safer than doing it alone in private

  • @maggieb.1891
    @maggieb.1891 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Not sure why she felt the need to smile while she said these things to him. Most women cannot even confront their abuser.

  • @Always_Thinking
    @Always_Thinking 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +39

    You escape quickly & quietly with no notice!

  • @JudyThirimu
    @JudyThirimu 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    A victim of domestic violence in real life risks losing her life when she says she's leaving. It's safer to leave secretly, go to a safe place which the abuser couldn't access and even get a restraining order and send the divorce paper's with a lawyer. Many women have lost their lives after announcing that they are leaving.

  • @raquelitamunos9573
    @raquelitamunos9573 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +344

    This is extremely unrealistic. Trying to logically convince an abuser that what he is doing is wrong?!? If he abused her while pregnant with their child then why would he suddenly understand and calmly walk away?!? My ex husband flipped at the hospital while I was giving birth to our son. He didn't need to scream or put a finger on me. He manipulated the situation. Charmed the nurses, made me look like a crazy and unfit mother by just talking to them behind my back. My best friend caught him. He acted as the loving worried husband and father. Obviously I didn't notice because I was so tired from having just given birth, and on edge because I was scared to death of him. I didn't leave. My ex husband conviced me through years of abuse that I wouldn't survive alone. I felt vulnerable and scared of being a single mom. During the pregnancy he would continually threatened to take away our son as soon as he was born if I ever did something to upset him. At the birth, I was more concerned about keeping everyone happy, even tried to push faster because he kept looking at his watch. Thank G-d for my nurse and best friend that where there and quickly picked up on the red flags that I wouldn't see. That friend offered me support and wisdom, and waited patiently for me to slowly have the courage to leave. It took years! And therapy, and friends, and court orders... That scene just invalidated what DV victims have to go through. Especially when there is a kid involved.

    • @an-qo6by
      @an-qo6by 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      i genuinely wish u so much happiness, content, love, peace. i am so sorry you went through any of this, you even writing this out shows your strength. I hope it isn't annoying to read that, I get annoyed when people tell me how strong I am, but my point is you are displaying what it really looks like and people will read this and relate, or understand. I am excited for you to move forward and have some wonderful, beautiful, fun days and nights which I know you will, just as the negative experiences come so do the positive, most happy ones.

    • @fathimaahmed608
      @fathimaahmed608 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      This is the reason why I didnt read the book to a finish. This scene happened in the book. I dont understand what people were going on and on about why they hyped this book so much.

    • @lujo8713
      @lujo8713 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you for this. My best friend is in a similar situation and I’ve questioned how much support I give. It’s hard to stand by and watch but if I push too hard she won’t share anything. It’s good to hear you say that she stuck with you for years and was just patient.

    • @raquelitamunos9573
      @raquelitamunos9573 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@an-qo6by Thank you so much for all your beautiful blessings and words of encouragement! It reminds me of how much kindness and compassion there is in us. Thank you for that.

    • @JordanCoombes-m8t
      @JordanCoombes-m8t 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Pretty much what happened with me…10 years later it hasn’t ended

  • @lovelyhoney3334
    @lovelyhoney3334 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +721

    This is so unrealistic when it comes to trying to leave an abuser

    • @m.l.bishop1914
      @m.l.bishop1914 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +106

      This is the story of the author's parents. It is just one out of thousands of different DA stories involving thousands of different personalities and relationship dynamics.

    • @LoraJiron
      @LoraJiron 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      I agree. It really is unrealistic. I was thinking the same thing.

    • @Marta-v1p3y
      @Marta-v1p3y 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      True

    • @evelinalarzio1205
      @evelinalarzio1205 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Indeed

    • @franniefine6812
      @franniefine6812 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      @@m.l.bishop1914 the reference that the author uses about her parents was about Lily blooms Parents not about Lily and Ryle relationship. It's Extremely unrealistic that a relationship with any kind of violence like that would end with the abuser saying "ok i love you and i don't want to hurt you anymore so im gonna leave you alone." Regardless of personalities and dynamics Abuser want to have total control ,leaving a abuser is the most dangerous for a women.

  • @idontarguewithfools
    @idontarguewithfools 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    This is so unrealistic. Anyone who has been mistreated emotionally and or physically knows that the one doing the mistreating never understands, accepts, and walk away quietly when told what they have done.

    • @letstalkitalian
      @letstalkitalian 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I think about my ex. He would have kept on gaslighting said "what are you saying? They were incidents, I would have never hurt you" and stuff like this. He would have NEVER accepted my decision.

  • @mgl716
    @mgl716 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    I wonder who wrote this scene. It doesn’t make sense that you would put your newborn in his arms and then ask for a divorce.

  • @VictoriaKnysch
    @VictoriaKnysch 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    Guys, don't take this so negatively. I agree with the comments that most of the time it's hard to negotiate with an abuser because the abuser, having tasted power, doesn't want to lose it.
    But in the movie, Ryle didn't really mean to hurt her. He's just sick from the stress of losing his brother... he's self-destructed, it's true. And he's the kind of guy you can deal with. Because he didn't bask in his power over Lily.
    That's my opinion.
    High praise for the cast and everyone who worked on the movie.

    • @Marymary-z3p
      @Marymary-z3p หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree. As I replied to a different comment, I mentioned there are different types of abusers. My ex-husband was a lot like Rile.

    • @merylparks1584
      @merylparks1584 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      No he meant to hit her, he is an abuser for sure
      They’re charming people nice and kind at first but then that one moment of outburst and the first hit, yes they mean it, he was just trying to control it but they can’t

    • @merylparks1584
      @merylparks1584 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      No he meant to hit her, he is an abuser for sure
      They’re charming people nice and kind at first but then that one moment of outburst and the first hit, yes they mean it, he was just trying to control it but they can’t
      They’re is no excuse at all for hitting abusing anyone
      I don’t care at that point why he does it, and yes they can end up killing you
      Starts with a slap but it builds to get worse then one night he tries to kill you but by the grace of God there’s a distraction and your able to run but it doesn’t end there always until you show them your strength and look at them
      In the eye and say truth then it ended for me cause he knew he could no longer control me

    • @maceyrichards3939
      @maceyrichards3939 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@merylparks1584yes but you don’t understand that in this movie they are trying to share the message of the effect of childhood trauma as well. ryle lived through something incredibly traumatic as well as lily when they were young. this attracted them to each other. ryle however carried the blame of the tragedy and took it out on the one closest to him in his life due to complete fear of vulnerability. nonetheless he is still abusing her and not taking accountability hence the need for her to leave. no matter the cause he was sick and would need YEARS of therapy and treatment to heal from his childhood. lily on the other hand was able to heal from her childhood so much more quickly due to the fact that she broke the pattern of dv in her family. changing the course of her life and her baby’s life forever. that is the whole point of this story.

  • @josecervantes7682
    @josecervantes7682 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Justin broke the 4th wall and Hollywood will change. Thank you Justin

    • @HelenKistler
      @HelenKistler 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Where does he speak directly to the audience?

  • @pinkkitten_nails
    @pinkkitten_nails 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    OMG abusers are so not like this. I tried to convince my abuser to say the words he was an abuser. They do not see in their minds what they are doing wrong so they continue the same behavior over and over. Sure he acts like this now but as soon as they not in that hospital you know he’s going back to destroy her

    • @lidiamurielrodriguez6032
      @lidiamurielrodriguez6032 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Si has leído el segundo libro sabrás que Ryle realmente no cambia y que después hace todo lo posible por destruir la relación entre Lily y Atlas y utiliza a su hija para seguir manipulando e intimidando a Lily.

  • @an-qo6by
    @an-qo6by 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    unpopular opinion but in a way I really loved this scene because it felt therapeutic and like a release- not that it is realistic, but because in this scene, we all get to watch her tell him exactly what he is, for him to digest and understand what she is saying (also unrealistic), and accept it, that was just nice to watch, because it doesn't really happen in real life, so at least here we get to watch it play out and feel idk, it feels satisfying. and kinda empowering? for being able to save herself and her daughter. what her mom couldn't do.

    • @mjgiani3944
      @mjgiani3944 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Truly good point… it’s good the see when “all ends well”. Because that is rare. at the end of the day she still loves him but loves her daughter more…

  • @park-ek3l
    @park-ek3l หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Poor kid. Got sandwiched between two actors who hated each other 😢

  • @gouinnathalie340
    @gouinnathalie340 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +132

    This movie is a yes and a no. Not for the love story but for the handling of the abuse. Wish it could be this simple to deal with abusers or maybe it was just me, not handling it the righ way.

    • @IndomitableT
      @IndomitableT 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Stop that immediately! Of course it is not you. This is a movie.😌

    • @yevgeniyaleshchenko849
      @yevgeniyaleshchenko849 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      No, it's not you, it's the film setting unrealistic standards. Or maybe they wanted to show him in a more sympathetic light as in not completely ''lost'' or something...

    • @15iannava
      @15iannava หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have no experience in any kind. I loved this movie so much

    • @skyhart9926
      @skyhart9926 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yevgeniyaleshchenko849yes that’s what i was thinking

  • @sarahwieland3243
    @sarahwieland3243 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    That last scene is absolutely absurd! No abused woman would just casually tell her abuser that especially while holding her newborn baby! This was so unrealistic and romanticizing abuse 😒

  • @jessiemonny5092
    @jessiemonny5092 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    The film is a bit unrealistic...abusers are very difficult to handle.

  • @janetheiple6166
    @janetheiple6166 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    The end result- she knew she had to leave to protect herself and her daughter. 👏🏻 💪🏻 And she did… Tragic in any circumstance…

  • @nhppublishing
    @nhppublishing หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    The movie is heavily romanticized because they’re giving it from a perspective that the woman is feeling even though she’s being abused. She’s so in love that it’s hard to look at it from a destructive angle and see him as a monster. People on the outside, looking in, always see the monster, they see the person there in love with. You have to be realistic about the perspective of the person, the movie wasn’t about you it was about her.

    • @afshanmuneer-rv7dn
      @afshanmuneer-rv7dn 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      damn I agree. The worst part actually is being in love with the abuser. You let that person hurt you because you love them, you would never let any other person treat you so bad.

  • @MoonWitch77
    @MoonWitch77 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It’s clear to me the writer of the book has never been a DV victim. She’s cosplaying it and badly. But then again, Blake was the one who took over JUSTIN’S movie and made a mockery of a very serious situation. Blake ruined her LIVELYhood and destroyed her career over rejection and revenge. And 50 year old manchild Ryan is trying to take Justin down because his wife almost had an affair with him but he rejected her so he’s getting him back for what his wife try to do.

  • @JayNayCharHan
    @JayNayCharHan หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    It was powerful, but this is not how it ends. They abuse you forever by using the child as their weapon, alongside the corrupted family court system. This ending is how, I feel, many victims wish leaving an abuser should end 😔 😢💔💜💔

  • @corneliusdenise
    @corneliusdenise 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Why would someone want the person who assaulted her to help her give birth?

  • @Lisadd17
    @Lisadd17 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I was abused in a way I never knew it was possible no one will ever know😢

    • @isaiah7590
      @isaiah7590 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What happened to u

    • @kgwyneth
      @kgwyneth วันที่ผ่านมา

      I am so sorry!

  • @ellenchavez2043
    @ellenchavez2043 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    Abuse is about control, not anger management. He'll be back.

  • @glcoola2349
    @glcoola2349 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Also: telling the abuser that he‘s out and that you want a divorce while HE‘S HOLDING the baby !? Uhm, no!

  • @TheRealDeal92
    @TheRealDeal92 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    She was in a hospital, public place and his job so if he did anything bad to her or their little girl, all she has to do is call out for help if things went awfully wrong. She had no better chance to tell him than right here. They became a mother and father to a beautiful baby girl and the second he said he would keep his daughter safe. That was when she straight up asked him while looking at their baby girl, “What if the person she loved was hurting her, what would you say to her?” That truly put it into his perspective if his little girl was with an abuser. I imagine he would beg his daughter to leave so she could never be hurt again. It was for the sake for their little girl, stop the cycle of abuse before it ever got to their daughter. Thanks for uploading.

    • @yevgeniyaleshchenko849
      @yevgeniyaleshchenko849 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Why recap the scene everyone else have already seen?

    • @deepankananag2478
      @deepankananag2478 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      But would you bet your child in that gamble that just because it's his work place he won't do anything like loose his mind

    • @nurrohmah2675
      @nurrohmah2675 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@deepankananag2478 it's not a gamble, she knew he won't do anything where people around, one thing about abuser is they care about their reputation outside the house.

    • @OOoKarmaoOO
      @OOoKarmaoOO หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@nurrohmah2675 people are unpredictable I doubt that most moms would try their luck with that one

  • @Whitepearl-m7f
    @Whitepearl-m7f 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Overall this film might have taken a shitty turn but she eventually made the right decision of leaving him for her daughter’s protection

  • @flossytube61
    @flossytube61 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This was romanitized by Blake herself. Justin wanted a different approach, apparently like the book. The romance part was between Atlas and Lily.

  • @justatroll4282
    @justatroll4282 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    She gave the baby to him and then broke the news? Realistically an abuser would have tried to hurt the baby to make sure she complies. Weird choice. But also a smart one, as a hospital is a good place to do it, as it is quite public

    • @philedmond
      @philedmond 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Not all abusers think the same.

  • @allisongaskin5656
    @allisongaskin5656 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    You never lovingly have your hands on your abusers face when asking for a divorce. That just never happens.

    • @ForeverHomeItaly
      @ForeverHomeItaly 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      She taps his face when he says no! She says ‘yes’ . She has zero fear, if he was abusing her she would never speak to him
      Like that and tap his face. This is absurd. I was hit and hurt I grabbed my shoes and ran for my life. Absusers cannot be reasoned with.

  • @Nickname-jr8vn
    @Nickname-jr8vn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    In life, such people have to go to another country. Or obtain a court order that prohibits them from approaching you for life.

  • @aliyarahman85
    @aliyarahman85 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I couldn't bear to watch this scene, it is completely divorced (pardon the pun) of the reality of domestic abuse. Its a fantasy that every victim of intimate partner abuse yearns for, but in the yearning she looses contact with the horrendous reality of the situation. The reality is grim, enduring and not culminating in beauty as this scene suggests. Survival comes from pain after pain, children getting abused too, and then the point comes when NO CONTACT EVER AGAIN is all you have left to survive. This film is an injustice upon mothers who have suffered domestic abuse.

  • @Marymary-z3p
    @Marymary-z3p หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    There are many types of abusers. I was in 2 different abusive relationships with men. One was a relationship when I was 21. He almost killed me. My second was with my husband of 11 years. Two different types of abusers. My ex-husband was mentally and physically abusive and had shown in in front of the children a time or two. He got mad at me one time for defending myself by putting scratches on his neck and that we could not attend a party at his family. No one can say, Well, she can't do that or she should of done that. Each situation is different unless you were exactly in their shoes, you can't really comment what Lily should of done.

  • @rahnumaislam1097
    @rahnumaislam1097 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    The movie did not do to justice to the book!! The casting was all wrong for the characters!!

    • @charleneortiz919
      @charleneortiz919 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I totally disagree. The actors were perfect!

  • @janewasson4845
    @janewasson4845 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    EVERY woman should be educated, have a career, and add regularly to a bank account that her husband never knows about. I did, and it saved my life.

  • @anetak.9494
    @anetak.9494 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    This scene was in the hospital. So, the chances that an abuser would flip is little. I agree that it's heavily romanticised, though.

  • @paulamenser6626
    @paulamenser6626 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    I see all these comments saying it’s unrealistic but The hospital was the best place for her to no it at!! Ive been a victim , by her taking his power at his workplace during such an intimate moment may just cause that man to think get help and change…

    • @mimi42428
      @mimi42428 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Absolutely unrealistic. He will only seeth more and want to take back whatever control he thinks he had before

    • @itsanoformethanks6277
      @itsanoformethanks6277 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      People who haven’t been in these situations believe that the best scenario is the abuser to be punished and “hung.” Unfortunately, as much as it hurts us who were physically hurt, the best case scenario is that the man actually learns, grows, and becomes someone the baby can rely on. It’s not the most satisfying ending, but it gives the kid the best chance (if it’s possible for abusers to genuinely change).

  • @ServantOfYHWH
    @ServantOfYHWH 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    People can’t just abuse their partners and expect no consequences.

  • @bethanynorman1829
    @bethanynorman1829 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Lol. This scene is a fantasy. Incredibly dangerous to make people think this scenario could possibly happen.

  • @judithargitay9860
    @judithargitay9860 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Sleeping with the Enemy and Enough! If you want to get at least a bit realistic perspective on DV, watch those. In case you insist on Hollywood.

  • @babycakes4288
    @babycakes4288 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    This is the most unrealistic abuse scenario and romanticises the entire thing and it’s just disgusting

  • @wildoceanappaloosawomangay2535
    @wildoceanappaloosawomangay2535 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    He could still throw the baby out the window or whatever to get back at her these sociopaths don’t care if they’re arrested they don’t care about consequences
    Also, Blake is beautiful and good actress, check, check but a very arrogant person 😊

  • @charleneortiz919
    @charleneortiz919 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I couldn't help but wonder if Riley got any kind of help at 6 years old when he tragically, accidently shot his beloved brother, Emerson. Of course it effected Riley! Just so sad 😢

    • @evilknievel20
      @evilknievel20 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Who the heck is Riley

  • @BabyDee72
    @BabyDee72 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Never happen like this

  • @mythriganesh
    @mythriganesh 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yes!! The epilogue in the book is the only thing which made me cry while reading
    And here it is they both being together makes me emotional again 😭 thats what i really wanted for lily

  • @AnaVonHelderheim
    @AnaVonHelderheim 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I was young and dumb once, many, many years ago and did exactly what happened here.
    Long story short, met my sons father when I was 16, he was a LOT older. My mind was fried by the time I fell pregnant many years later and I was trapped. Both in pregnancy and circumstance.
    After I told him I was taking my son and leaving, he locked me in a room and proceeded to terrorise me for 24 hours. Threw my phone out the window and locked the door with the key in his pocket. I got beaten silly.
    So, from the point of view of what she did as dangerous, ye of course it was.
    But for everyone here slamming this character for what she did?!? Grow up mate. The only reason you can sit here and berate this move is because you’ve all done it yourselves and felt the consequences.
    Edit - and furthermore, if we’re being more realistic, the guy that comes to ‘save’ her at the end, is probably another one of the abuser. Let’s be honest. That’s more how it works yes?
    If a ‘good guy’ can sit back and watch the abuse or be aware of it, and not take action to get the woman out, that’s not a real man.
    That’s just another toxic person waiting for the individual to be crushed to smithereens cause he knows when he swoops in later he’ll have the advantage of being the ‘white knight’ and most of his job has been done already for him. He can then just proceed to love her for a little and then slowly enjoy the game as he breaks her down further.
    No?
    Anyone caught in these types of toxic merry-go-rounds will know it doesn’t happen just once or twice in a lifetime. It takes balls and courage to break free from arse hats like that.
    And moreso, the woman acting this character was abused the same as this some time in her life. This would account for the flippant avoidant attitude to speaking deeply and seriously on the matter for starters. It would explain the rage around being pregnant. It is clear she didn’t want the baby bump.
    The banter between said husband is disgusting to say the least. RR is scathing towards her ever single second of every single day. Who is to say what happens behind closed doors?
    The manner in which the guy wrote nicepool would suggest a very mentally stable person. Psycho at best.
    As they say, bullied people become bullies. RR is a asshat, let’s very real.
    This woman turning to acid on JB was out of self preservation.
    The man she is living with has lost the plot and I do belive she is afraid for herself and children.
    The look in her eyes while ‘acting’ the abuse scenes is not just acting.
    The woman said it herself, she doesn’t know how to get into character, she acts herself, hence she can only act what feels close to her heart. Esp with a drama.
    Think people, something more diabolical is going on here than we know.
    And yes, think people, pregnancy being forced on you, too, is the worst form of control and manipulation to keep you stuck.
    Think deeper yo.

  • @AcquAriusA
    @AcquAriusA 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Blake she is not up to the task of such a film. Too bad! The actress should have been chosen carefully, the message would have been conveyed at its true value

  • @angelas_creativecorner
    @angelas_creativecorner 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This makes me so sad. I’ve never been abused but I’ve been around enough victims to know this movie is trash. So glad i didn’t see it. You can tell this is classic fake feminist getting her way and ruining what could have been a true eye-opening movie! 😒 i hope this movie gets remade!

  • @linnysezmo323
    @linnysezmo323 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Brandon Sklenar is the best actor in this movie.

  • @krash78es
    @krash78es หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This movie persuade to me what I wish I would have been strong enough to do. You all keep hating for no reason. It's a movie, a ideal situation, a situation I wish I was strong enough to do.

  • @lowellgriffin3248
    @lowellgriffin3248 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Didn't realize Blake and Ryan were such scumbags

  • @melissa8313
    @melissa8313 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Extreme lead up to…
    “Let’s go meet your grandpa!”
    “Hi, pops.”
    “That’s enough of that.”
    Tf? lol anticlimactic

    • @rebeksyo
      @rebeksyo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I was glad. He doesn’t deserve her time.

    • @007nadineL
      @007nadineL 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I lolzed too

  • @tinahuttner7280
    @tinahuttner7280 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Well it’s supposedly be bout the parents of the gal that wrote the book from what I heard.

  • @tricejenkins6573
    @tricejenkins6573 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    My abuser came back and said hebwas glad I left, and that sacred me to death. We been broken up for years, and I was still scared he was coming back. Yea crazy I know in my rational mind. Still, I live in fear.

    • @lf4061
      @lf4061 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is not crazy, it is normal in such cases. It does ease up as the years go by and you replace the bad memories with good ones. Stay wise and alert but do go on living your life.

    • @kgwyneth
      @kgwyneth วันที่ผ่านมา

      So sorry!

    • @kgwyneth
      @kgwyneth วันที่ผ่านมา

      So sorry!

  • @magdalenethomas7418
    @magdalenethomas7418 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Take your daughter and leave that crazy woman alone . She was telling you exactly what her plans were all along

  • @evelinac2423
    @evelinac2423 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I understand that DV outcome here is unrealistic, what I cannot understand why is the need to put such a bad outcome in this movie? A movie which is actually about hope and redemption, about the fact that you need to hope that there is the other side of the coin. If you want real DV stuff, then watch the news or simply create a horror movie.

  • @Thomas-qf6bf
    @Thomas-qf6bf 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It’s so unreal that these two didn’t get along after such a heartwarming scene😔

  • @syndeeseeley8994
    @syndeeseeley8994 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I couldn’t wait to see this movie, them when I figured out what he was doing to her, I hated it. Abuse is wrong on any level. This scene could be therapeutic, but realistically probably could happen unless the abuser realized what they have done and got help!

  • @AkashVanshkar-e2d
    @AkashVanshkar-e2d หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    At least these two could have had a kiss in this movie.👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨🤦🤦🤦🤦

  • @KatiuskaWook
    @KatiuskaWook 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    It was giving me anxiety that he had her baby in her arms. I thought he was going to hurt her..

  • @margaretwilkett7830
    @margaretwilkett7830 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    Full makeup and false eyelashes, every woman gives birth just like this!

    • @m.l.bishop1914
      @m.l.bishop1914 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      My friend's sister taught her husband how to do her makeup so he could fix her up right after delivery. Crazy.

    • @coconut2184
      @coconut2184 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      And don’t forget the untied hair lmaoooo

    • @coconut2184
      @coconut2184 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@m.l.bishop1914insecurity is wild

    • @maxgr540
      @maxgr540 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I hope mine will be like this

    • @sueshivers5120
      @sueshivers5120 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@m.l.bishop1914 Ryan Reynolds has left the delivery room after slapping on her makeup

  • @mgbow-1982
    @mgbow-1982 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    IT'S FOR HER - and it is always enough and IT ENDS WITH US.

  • @jeanniewebber316
    @jeanniewebber316 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Read the books, folks. And keep in mind, they are fiction. Read It Ends With Us first, and then It Starts With Us second. They are well written.

    • @Marymary-z3p
      @Marymary-z3p หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's based loosely on the author's parents marriage.

  • @MariaCortes
    @MariaCortes หลายเดือนก่อน

    Always remember your worth as a woman. If you missed the red flags early in your relationship, it’s never too late to walk away from an abusive partner. You are a worthy and precious gem who deserves love, respect, and happiness.❤

  • @Graceful_Deli_Kat
    @Graceful_Deli_Kat 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this movie was only watchable because the 2 main characters are so beautiful you can’t take your eyes off them. and the main idea of leaving an abuser is valiant. but the storyline is just awful. especially this “I’m 😀leaving😀 you😀(smile)😀 thanks😀 for 😃 just😃 accepting😃 it😃 immediately”

  • @laurelbaldwin6066
    @laurelbaldwin6066 หลายเดือนก่อน

    From the authors perspective the movie narrative is a plausible interpretation. Even if it lacks realistic representation, the dialog and discussion is valuable.

  • @nancykelly9712
    @nancykelly9712 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The script is terrible and acting just as bad! Talk about "romantizing" physical abuse! He doesnt even come close to the real thing and she was so not credible at all either! For someone who was supposedly being abused, it was a sigh and roll the eyes!
    Too much fluff!

  • @dellataberes3865
    @dellataberes3865 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Blake sucks as an actress wish they could have gotten someone who could actually act. Justin, I hope you mop the floor with the 2 bullies

  • @lisao6928
    @lisao6928 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This movie wasn't very good at all. Very disappointing, unrealistic, and the characters weren't fully developed. It also left too much out and vague.

  • @paulinajakobczak4177
    @paulinajakobczak4177 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Is it me or she has more chemistry with her abuser than with the "love of her life"?

    • @maya-o5e1x
      @maya-o5e1x 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      This sounds like something that an abuser would say

    • @IndomitableT
      @IndomitableT 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      That is probably intentional from the movie’s point of view. Chemistry will get you so far. The love of your life, will be there no matter what.😌

    • @yevgeniyaleshchenko849
      @yevgeniyaleshchenko849 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@maya-o5e1x No, that's not what the OP meant... They just made an observation about actors' chemistry, that's all...

    • @itsanoformethanks6277
      @itsanoformethanks6277 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      A lot of movies make “chemistry” just be fighting, bickering, or enemies to lovers. I think people have forgotten that chemistry can be relaxed and subtle.

  • @libragamer787
    @libragamer787 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Book was bad, the movie was worse. Quite frankly, I'm surprised this adaptation was even greenlit

  • @michaelbarquet4169
    @michaelbarquet4169 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Am I the only one that thinks lily was the one with problems? Ryle tries to leave when he caught lily emotionally cheating, and yes it was emotionally cheating.

  • @ramonahystad6468
    @ramonahystad6468 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I spent my whole pregnancy covering my stomach so my husband wouldn't kill our unborn son.

  • @mist9965
    @mist9965 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why didn't she quit the movie if she was being "harassed" by the main actor...why even be in the same movie. She knew it was a romance movie right?

  • @ChrisJohnson-ez3mz
    @ChrisJohnson-ez3mz หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    As a dv survivor SHUT UP!!! Just let this be a movie!!! That’s all it is. Life is life and a movie is a movie!!! Meant to takes us to a place different than where we are. Stop takin everything so seriously.

  • @angelasurratt5908
    @angelasurratt5908 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    It’s a shame Blake couldn’t be bothered to be a real advocate for Domestic Abuse. Maybe one day she’ll get off her high horse and see how wrong she was.

    • @coconut2184
      @coconut2184 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      A narcissist never learns lmao she’s been a pos since childhood, you can’t expect her to suddenly change now bc of a movie

    • @angelasurratt5908
      @angelasurratt5908 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@coconut2184 she does seem to be pretty cold about important things. Narcissism for sure!

    • @erinwilson3369
      @erinwilson3369 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      That’s not her job. Her job was to act in this movie. Leave the therapy to those who are qualified

    • @yevgeniyaleshchenko849
      @yevgeniyaleshchenko849 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Well to be fair, actors shouldn't be expected to be advocates for this or that. That's not their job. She should have still been more serious and respectful about the subject instead of giddily promoting her haircare products during promotion...

    • @yevgeniyaleshchenko849
      @yevgeniyaleshchenko849 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@erinwilson3369 Right, and advocacy/activism to those who actually know something about the subject either through life experience or working with victims or in the legal/social sphere.

  • @lindaromig3353
    @lindaromig3353 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Let’s face it especially when your husband is a head surgeon… give me a break 😊

  • @wendygreene682
    @wendygreene682 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I loved the movie I didn’t want it to end💕

    • @mrssingh5416
      @mrssingh5416 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same here. I felt so bad when it ended, so I watched it again. Probably broken people like broken people that's why I fall for Blake(atlas) after watching this movie.

  • @peterlawrence6815
    @peterlawrence6815 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She should have had a team of medical staff with her , when she asked for a divorce.

  • @Dreamweaver777
    @Dreamweaver777 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Firstly, she is obviously wealthy with plenty of resources, which is not the case for most. Secondly, her friend tells her not to go back and she doesn't??? There was something about Ryle that actually warranted compassion. Obviously no one deserves to be tossed down the stairs, BUT she was obnoxious. Her character was lying to him and withholding some pretty important information about another man. I think a man who isn't an abuser, could become one over this nonsense. How would you feel? If it were you and your man had a long lost lover coming for him and he was hiding it? He was trying to get away from her, he knew he had to. She was chasing him down and all over him. NOT SMART, or kind. Her character was extremely emotionally self absorbed and immature. If we took his behavior out of the picture, she was pretty deceitful with him.

  • @lisacarrana7862
    @lisacarrana7862 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wouldn't let him touch my child

    • @shoazdon7000
      @shoazdon7000 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It’s his child too

  • @haleygenier
    @haleygenier 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Liked the book better than the movie...

    • @philedmond
      @philedmond 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're supposed to

  • @lisawarren8591
    @lisawarren8591 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    When you have children they still think they own you and have a right to abuse

    • @cm1927
      @cm1927 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly! They see you as their property.

  • @joseabarca5912
    @joseabarca5912 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    The ending was really stupid and dumb I really didn't like how it ended

  • @GiaBlinks
    @GiaBlinks 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Such a romantically respectful DV story. Very realistic 😂

  • @jennifernordhoff6478
    @jennifernordhoff6478 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This is so far from the truth. It’s sickens me.

  • @phillipbates9587
    @phillipbates9587 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    End of the film 🎥

  • @WhereTheWavesAt
    @WhereTheWavesAt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I know all the comments are saying the end scenes aren't realistic to what abuse is like but it's never the same black and white scenario for everyone. Sometimes it can be more covert and subtle, even amicable on the surface and mixed up with a lot of love and sadness for the person..even still hope that they can change. We've all had different experiences and I don't think the movie is romanticising abuse at all. It's just showing another angle of what an abusive relationship can look like.

  • @leomarilyn4232
    @leomarilyn4232 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thats weird when she tells him she wants a divorce and she gives him a face patting or lightly slapping his face as she continues talk to him

  • @pamthompson3316
    @pamthompson3316 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I enjoyed that movie!

  • @batmobilemla
    @batmobilemla 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Can’t she tie her freaking hair even in childbirth? It’s so unrealistic!

    • @adrianacarrera7104
      @adrianacarrera7104 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Maybe she didn't have a hair tie to pull her hair n
      Back during birthing her child so stop being fricking rude

    • @carolinaviola5244
      @carolinaviola5244 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      ​@@adrianacarrera7104 I am sure that the hospital would have provided her with a cap, at least for hygienic reasons

    • @coconut2184
      @coconut2184 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@adrianacarrera7104it’s a movie…

    • @19014429
      @19014429 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Geeh it's a movie

    • @batmobilemla
      @batmobilemla 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@carolinaviola5244 exactly!

  • @Seoy6988
    @Seoy6988 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Did he get to say “You can stop swimming now Lily we finally reached the shore”

  • @noeliajaime7656
    @noeliajaime7656 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is what I think ,for what it's worth: The ONLY people allowed to comment on this clip is the people who were actually abused. Period. The rest of us don't have a fucking clue.

    • @sueshivers5120
      @sueshivers5120 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Are you the comments monitor? I am entitled to comment then and that is so kind of you to give your permission.. btw your comment should have read 'the ONLY people allowed to comment on this clip ARE the people who were actually abused',

  • @jiojio-n5p
    @jiojio-n5p 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I think there is not nessesarity to show such intimate naked things in the movie because this is stopping to be a part of art and becomes just as part of not part of art. You can not put the Art into the obviousness

  • @kelseymalik3207
    @kelseymalik3207 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I get abuse hurts all the same but i also know everyones story is mot the same nor is every abuser the same theres nothing romantic about this movie its bringing awareness people need to understand things before forming an opinion

  • @beverleymacca8140
    @beverleymacca8140 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The birth scenes shows ignorance of the dynamics of domestic violence. There is no way the victim would ask for a divorce at this time. Emotions would be running high, and the victim would be too afraid to ask directly for a divorce for fear of the repercussions. On average it takes a victim at least 7 times to try to leave an abusive/violent relationship before they leave for good. Baldoni was excellent in this role, Lively did not understand the character and her portrayal of a domestic abuse victim she romanticised. This movie would’ve been so much better is an actress of substance was cast.