I'm reading the book "What Every Body is Saying," and spent the weekend observing others at a family reunion. I was truly amazed at what everyone was saying without their words, even myself. As an audiologist, most of what I do involves helping others understand verbal language. However, I spend time counseling on the importance of non-verbal cues. The book has been very helpful with this. Thank you for sharing your expertise and knowledge Mr. Navarro.
I knew all of this before watching this video naturally. Since I realized that I was reading body language correctly, I decided to do some research and started by watching this video. I think I have such a talent. I will improve myself more in this field. Thank you for the informations.
So interesting 👏👏👏 When I don’t like someone I try to avoid looking them in the face and when I have to speak with them, I’m usually busy with something in my hands or whatever so that I don’t have to look in their eyes.
Hi Joe, Great content, very crisp and to the point. I also really liked the small clips you added which gives us quick examples. Looking forward to more such content.
I once lived with a creature like this. Never again will I ever live with anyone. The feeling of helplessness, disbelief and confusion when a creature like that tells you one week you’re their world and they can’t live without you to exhibiting all the traits Joe describes the following week. It’s quite the mind f*ck. It’s like watching a light switch off and you wanting to turn it on but the very light switch is no longer there. I’m here because I finally came to the conclusion that I was with an unsafe person. Super scary.
Thank you for sharing this, Mr. Navarro. I remember from your book fascinating stories where you picked up problems in a marriage based on the clutching of a purse. Also I watch the Behavior Panel and they often reference your work
Hey Joe, thanks for this, an incredibly big fan of yours here. I know you mention the importance of considering the cultural element to the behaviours, and I just wanted to note a nuance that I have personally commonly found with respect to "if they do not take interest in what you do, what you've studied, etc...". Often times, in some cultures, it is deemed disrespectful; or, in the case of women, it is thought to be 'unbecoming', to try to 'pry' information from someone you don't know. This usually translates to, in respect to dating, for women from these cultural backgrounds, or even sometimes men, to appear 'reserved' or come off 'uninterested' in the initial stages of dating. This is not to say that they all behave this way, surely many of them may very well not be interested, but I just wanted to note it is best to use one's best judgement and establish a baseline as you say. Thanks Joe.
I completely agree with you and some cultures. It would be shocking to have a woman take interest in what others do for a man to ask a woman that is not family questions. Culture must always be considered. Thus the refrain, one in Rome do as the Romans. Something the younger generation has forgotten.
I love your videos, thank you for sharing all this. I also loved your books :) One question about the blink rate - i thought that the more it slows down, the more relaxed someone is becoming. E.g. when we watch a relaxing film or seat at the beach, our blink rate tends to be low. Have I misunderstood that you it's the other way round? Thank you for clarifying to a beginner :)
Blink rate can be affected by so many things, including how dry the environment is, if you're looking at a screen, you will blink much less, it can be affected by how much coffee you drink. I don't really concern myself with blink rate so much as when I see eyelid flutter, when someone hears something or says something that is disconcerting. Thank you for your question and for following me here.
Thank you, Joe! As always very helpful information. After I read the book "Louder Than Words" I started observing my own body language and I was amazed. I would say often not the person himself would make me feel uncomfortable but the surroundings I am in. I could not agree more on everything. Appearance matters just like manners. I have a question tho'. How to persuasively ask for what needs to be done from people that are not my employees and often are uneducated? As an interior designer I don't know how to talk to builders and all sort of construction site worker without looking disrespectful or aggressive which I never do. But because I often do not push people in a right way they end up breaking deadlines or worst acting irresponsible. At this point my neat appearance and polite usage of words is not helping me. Any advice will be much appreciated.
Well, the best actors are really the best at body language not only showing the behavior that belongs with the sentiment, but also internalizing it and that's part of what's called the method so if you look at the great actors, such as Marlon Brando, all you have to do is study their faces and their gestures
@@joenavarrobehaviorexpert thanks for Follow up, and could u please elaborate? or make a video on this, I m sure this is a complete subject on its own.. I am very not able to identfiy whats fake and whats real with pro actors.. Also actors can fake their baseline too right?
You have to assess carefully to see at what point they begin to show signs of psychological discomfort or withdrawing, and tried to determine what was the predicate cause
Read my books and you will learn there is not too much about fast blink rate. Atmospherics or even coffee play a big role. Thanks for your question. www.jnforensics.com/books
Females are more expressive of their romantic interest than males. So I'd say it's easier for a guy to know how a lady feels about him than vice versa if both parties are observant.
So if someone has flirted with you with lips out and cute for years, but shows up for your first date with jaw clenched and lips GONE, tight posture, tight movements, that person plans to destroy you. They HATE you. I'm serious.
That's very helpful especially "put bag into our lap". I've done this unconsciously many times when I was in distress.
Me too, especially my sling bag or I find myself gathering my feet
I'm reading the book "What Every Body is Saying," and spent the weekend observing others at a family reunion. I was truly amazed at what everyone was saying without their words, even myself. As an audiologist, most of what I do involves helping others understand verbal language. However, I spend time counseling on the importance of non-verbal cues. The book has been very helpful with this. Thank you for sharing your expertise and knowledge Mr. Navarro.
I knew all of this before watching this video naturally. Since I realized that I was reading body language correctly, I decided to do some research and started by watching this video. I think I have such a talent. I will improve myself more in this field. Thank you for the informations.
That's fantastic - for some people it comes naturally
So interesting 👏👏👏
When I don’t like someone I try to avoid looking them in the face and when I have to speak with them, I’m usually busy with something in my hands or whatever so that I don’t have to look in their eyes.
Thank you for sharing I think a lot o people do that as well.
Very informative!
I am glad you found it helpful!
Hi Joe, Great content, very crisp and to the point. I also really liked the small clips you added which gives us quick examples. Looking forward to more such content.
Thank you for that. It was my wife idea to use shorter clips also.
Very good!!!
Thank you!
I once lived with a creature like this. Never again will I ever live with anyone. The feeling of helplessness, disbelief and confusion when a creature like that tells you one week you’re their world and they can’t live without you to exhibiting all the traits Joe describes the following week. It’s quite the mind f*ck. It’s like watching a light switch off and you wanting to turn it on but the very light switch is no longer there. I’m here because I finally came to the conclusion that I was with an unsafe person. Super scary.
Scary indeed. Glad you are in safer place now and with more knowledge. Thank you also for sharing your story so that others can also learn
@@joenavarrobehaviorexpert Thank you for your expertise and wisdom🤍
Same. It's pure evil
Thank you, Joe. Good info. Wish I knew & understood this all my life ago.
You and me both!
Thank you for sharing this, Mr. Navarro. I remember from your book fascinating stories where you picked up problems in a marriage based on the clutching of a purse. Also I watch the Behavior Panel and they often reference your work
Thanks for sharing. And yet the Behavior Panel is very kind that way
Interesting! Thank you for this video.
Glad you liked it!
Very good 👍 thanks 🙏👍 nice 👍 inspiring
Thank you too
Hey Joe, thanks for this, an incredibly big fan of yours here.
I know you mention the importance of considering the cultural element to the behaviours, and I just wanted to note a nuance that I have personally commonly found with respect to "if they do not take interest in what you do, what you've studied, etc...". Often times, in some cultures, it is deemed disrespectful; or, in the case of women, it is thought to be 'unbecoming', to try to 'pry' information from someone you don't know. This usually translates to, in respect to dating, for women from these cultural backgrounds, or even sometimes men, to appear 'reserved' or come off 'uninterested' in the initial stages of dating. This is not to say that they all behave this way, surely many of them may very well not be interested, but I just wanted to note it is best to use one's best judgement and establish a baseline as you say. Thanks Joe.
I completely agree with you and some cultures. It would be shocking to have a woman take interest in what others do for a man to ask a woman that is not family questions. Culture must always be considered. Thus the refrain, one in Rome do as the Romans. Something the younger generation has forgotten.
Thanks 🙏👍 nice 👍 inspiring ❤
Love your message short but sweet, thank you
Need of more ❤
Yes
I love your videos, thank you for sharing all this. I also loved your books :) One question about the blink rate - i thought that the more it slows down, the more relaxed someone is becoming. E.g. when we watch a relaxing film or seat at the beach, our blink rate tends to be low. Have I misunderstood that you it's the other way round? Thank you for clarifying to a beginner :)
Blink rate can be affected by so many things, including how dry the environment is, if you're looking at a screen, you will blink much less, it can be affected by how much coffee you drink. I don't really concern myself with blink rate so much as when I see eyelid flutter, when someone hears something or says something that is disconcerting. Thank you for your question and for following me here.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert thank you for answering, I really appreciate it! All the best all the way from Poland :)
interesting information
Thank you
Do you have facebook page?
I do: JoeNavarroNonverbals
Thank you, Joe! As always very helpful information. After I read the book "Louder Than Words" I started observing my own body language and I was amazed. I would say often not the person himself would make me feel uncomfortable but the surroundings I am in. I could not agree more on everything. Appearance matters just like manners. I have a question tho'. How to persuasively ask for what needs to be done from people that are not my employees and often are uneducated? As an interior designer I don't know how to talk to builders and all sort of construction site worker without looking disrespectful or aggressive which I never do. But because I often do not push people in a right way they end up breaking deadlines or worst acting irresponsible. At this point my neat appearance and polite usage of words is not helping me. Any advice will be much appreciated.
That sounds like you might use some training, hands on training specific to your personality and speaking style
@@joenavarrobehaviorexpert Thank you, Joe! I’ve been thinking about training. Now putting it into action will be my next move.
Peaceful connection and safety when danger ⚡❤
Indeed
Sir I'm thinking to buy a book based on human psychology.
But its summery vedios are already available.
Same goes to your book......
What i should do.
Buy What Every Body Saying and don't go for the summaries.
hi Joe i have a very important question
does body language analysis work on actors at all? i mean they are pros at faking their non verbals..
Well, the best actors are really the best at body language not only showing the behavior that belongs with the sentiment, but also internalizing it and that's part of what's called the method so if you look at the great actors, such as Marlon Brando, all you have to do is study their faces and their gestures
@@joenavarrobehaviorexpert thanks for Follow up, and could u please elaborate? or make a video on this, I m sure this is a complete subject on its own..
I am very not able to identfiy whats fake and whats real with pro actors..
Also actors can fake their baseline too right?
How to make someone more comfortable if they show this signs?
You have to assess carefully to see at what point they begin to show signs of psychological discomfort or withdrawing, and tried to determine what was the predicate cause
And when we blink too fast?
Read my books and you will learn there is not too much about fast blink rate. Atmospherics or even coffee play a big role. Thanks for your question.
www.jnforensics.com/books
Good luck with me ❤ and you
Good luck indeed
Females are more expressive of their romantic interest than males. So I'd say it's easier for a guy to know how a lady feels about him than vice versa if both parties are observant.
Thank you for taking the time to come and I think you may have a point there
Hard stare without blinking is used by sex predators and domestic abusers too. Watch out for it. It signifies hate, in my experience.
Noted
So if someone has flirted with you with lips out and cute for years, but shows up for your first date with jaw clenched and lips GONE, tight posture, tight movements, that person plans to destroy you. They HATE you. I'm serious.
Perhaps, I would have to see it