Baby led weaning vs Traditional feeding

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  • @pollyamartin
    @pollyamartin 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    This is the video I needed after a few weeks of starting BLW and getting worn down by all the mess and clean-up. Ty!

  • @montenotssori2184
    @montenotssori2184 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Wow what a long list of reference. Great work!

  • @janetmitchell3375
    @janetmitchell3375 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    It's fascinating. Thanks for the informative video. It reminds me of your old video about how to prasie children.

  • @SkihaseHH
    @SkihaseHH 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    We did a mix of classic BLW (with easily preparable stuff like fruits) and purée but made sure to give him the spoon as soon as he was able to bring it to his mouth himself. That worked well for us, it's the sprit of self-feeding with storebought babyfood. Now that he's older we always let him try what we're eating (provided it's save for him to eat) and are oftentimes surprised what he likes: olives, pickles, fish of all kinds, aged cheeses... lots of stuff I wouldn't have imagined a small child eating happily! No pressure seems to be the key to a happy eater in my experience as well.

    • @hazieandmotherhood
      @hazieandmotherhood  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Great approach! Mixing classic BLW with purées and introducing self-feeding with a spoon would work well for many families! sounds like he eats so much better than myself who's a picky eater lol 😅

    • @SkihaseHH
      @SkihaseHH 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you :). I felt silly sometimes sitting there with three spoons, because he didn't let go of them until I offered him a new loaded one 😅... but in the end it was so worth it.

  • @sandrameijer1461
    @sandrameijer1461 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Nice that you researched in depth about BLW! I am happy to have chosen it. I find the mealtimes so enjoyable because my partner and I have our hands 'free' and we do not need to 'hover over' our child. It feels very good to me to have attention for my own food, also talk with her and my partner and have attention for the social aspect of eating. She can then notice our way of being at the table, wat great way to have such examples to copy.

    • @hazieandmotherhood
      @hazieandmotherhood  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      i cant agree more!!! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @hannahsnyder2997
    @hannahsnyder2997 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you SO much for these videos. I love how you back all of your findings with scientific and peer reviewed research. Do you have any recommendations on further research that you have used, such as books, articles, or journals? Thank you again for sharing you and your family's journey.

  • @xtinafusco
    @xtinafusco 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This video is really timely for me, I've been doing BLW with my 6-7mo and wondering if its the best approach too. I'm pretty OCD and live in a small apartment, and it has been VERY difficult to watch my baby smear food on EVERYTHING cause he can reach the couch, the rug, and our upholstered chairs from his high chair!
    But I do think it'll be worth it in the long run. I just love how he watches us eat our food and he stares at his own portion with such curiosity.

    • @mellostation
      @mellostation 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Omg my baby is the same! We also live in a tight space, studio apartment, at one point her high chair was near the bed-never again! Food was flying everywhere. Now she’s more in the kitchenette and will try to grab cabinet handles with her sticky fingers. 😂 now that the weather is warming up I’m planning to have lunch outdoors instead.. let the squirrels eat the spills!

  • @theculturedkidlanguages
    @theculturedkidlanguages 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Very informative video! Thanks for sharing!

  • @MamaJeanMontessoriMusic
    @MamaJeanMontessoriMusic 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for sharing all your research, it was informative. My issue is the mess on the floor because ants come fast in tropical countries… so if something drops on the floor, within 15min there are ants… esp if fruit. So sometimes I am just tiring cleaning up. Looking forward to recipes!!

  • @WonjinLee-g9z
    @WonjinLee-g9z 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    오호~~ 영상 올리시길 기다리다
    드디어 영상올라와서 유익하게 잘봤습니다^^
    첫 영상볼때즈음이 저희 아가 5개월이라 도움 받아 시작했어요 ~
    이게 맞나 하면서 하는 중에 오늘영상 너무 감사합니다
    저도 아이성향에 맞게 하려고 하는데
    이제 시작이라 조급해하지 않고 하려구요
    늘 좋은 영상 올려주셔서
    감사하고 시청 기다리겠습니다~~👍👍

    • @hazieandmotherhood
      @hazieandmotherhood  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      영상이 도움이 되었다니 기뻐요 😊 화이팅입니당!!

  • @kathrynstiles3509
    @kathrynstiles3509 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    My DIL has done BLW with three children and they are the most awesome eaters I have ever seen. They eat veggies and salad and dislike sweets.

  • @JayMayFam
    @JayMayFam 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    이전 영상에서도 댓글 달았는데 저희 아기가 오늘부터 자기주도이유식을 시작했어요!! (175일 아기)
    입문은 헤이지님의 영상이었어는데 책이랑 논문 찾아보니 제가 꼭 해야하겠더라구요... 아기 수유량이 500이 안되는 날들이 많아 저도 모르게 강압적으로 수유하는 모습을 보면서 이유식는 아예 아이가 선택할수 있게 하도록 자기주도로 하기로 했습니다!! 스푼피딩도 물론 가능하지만 성격상 힘들것같아서요 ㅎㅎㅎ 저도 정말 쉽게 청소하는법 알고 싶네요!! 이유식의 본질에 대해 다뤄주셔서 감사해용

    • @hazieandmotherhood
      @hazieandmotherhood  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      오 저도 그 맘 알아요 이엘이도 분유를 진짜 안 먹었어서 평균보다 좀 작거든요 ㅜㅜ 500 겨우 넘기는 날이 많았어요. 자기주도 하니까 차라리 정신건강에 좋은것 같아요. 치우는게 좀 힘들긴하지만요 😅

    • @tokee1234567
      @tokee1234567 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      사실 돌전까지 음식은 노출 (알러지 유발 음식, 질감 등) 위주로 하고 분유나 모유에 포커스를 맞춰야 합니다. 수유전문가를 만나서 분유 수유를 최대한 잘 할 수 있는 방향으로 알아보세요. 이걸 자가주도 방식으로 조금 바꿔서 젖병 말고 빨대컵 (일찍이면 4-5개월부터 훈련 가능) 그리고 오픈 컵으로 훈련시키면 젖병에만 의존하지 않아도 되고 빨대컵은 아이가 스스로 잡고 마실 수 있어요.
      (국제수유 전문 프로그램을 듣는 중이고 제 아이는 자가주도 이유식 했습니다)

  • @habibti320
    @habibti320 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We did BLW with my first and she is an amazing eater at 3yo. She loves sitting at the table with us and enjoys all types of food! We plan to do the same with our second. It was a lot of work in the first several years to clean up the messes but it gets better!

  • @sarahbright4204
    @sarahbright4204 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've been doing BLW. My daughter is now 10m and I can really see how her skills in eating have developed compared to friends who offer more purees and a traditional weaning style. She did gag quite a bit at first as you say but I modelled how to push food back out with your tongue if needed and that water can help clear your mouth. She can handle lots of textures including fruit with skin which she is able to manipulate in her mouth and spit out safely, meat and food on spoons like yoghurt. She shows me what she is able to handle and that I can trust her to eat safely. I adjust how I prepare the food as I see her skills improving. I'd say she didn't actually swallow that much until 8m but that didn't really worry me. I could see her learning the dimensions of her mouth with the different foods I offered and learning how to eat safely. I learnt this helps with speech development. When she is presented with a new food, she watches how I eat it first and learns how to manage it, how to hold it etc. She also gets to practice fine motor skills and picking up small things like blueberries now that wouldnt be safe as a toy. I can see she has learnt table manners as well as she eats with her mouth closed mostly and has learnt how to chew well. I do load the spoon for her but she has always brought it to her mouth herself. It is messy but now I've been doing it for a few months and seen lots of her friends eating, I can see the difference. She eats anything (except omelette, which she doesn't seem to like), can safely get things out of her mouth and has developed lots of oral and fine motor skills. She also gets to be included in meal times. If the time of the meal is not when I would eat, then I have a snack with her instead.

  • @nicolasilver3813
    @nicolasilver3813 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    We did baby led weaning foods, but offered a bite or two at a time to minimize mess. My daughter quickly learned to politely communicate and ask for what she wants, and she's not grabby with other people's food.

  • @СветланаВетрова-ш8ч
    @СветланаВетрова-ш8ч 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love the idea of BLW, i like everything about it, i tryed hard to introduce it to my baby, but at the age of 7,5 and then at 10 he was ill and during this period refuse to eat anything but breast milk. So i started to feed him with the spoon. Now that he is 19 month old he eat just partially by himself and then i feed him.

  • @peavyhaus
    @peavyhaus 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    소중한 자료 공유해주셔서 감사합니디 매번 잘보고있습니다❤

  • @chloecrouzier6121
    @chloecrouzier6121 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That was so helpful ! Thank you so much

  • @sandralantau7395
    @sandralantau7395 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I understand that for BLW, it's useful to have a full apron for the baby (like you showed) and also to have a massive tray that the plate can stick on to. Less food falls to the floor that way.

  • @KirzyWirzy
    @KirzyWirzy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Are you able to do a video on different recipes that you give to your baby? Whether it’s for BLW meals or not

    • @hazieandmotherhood
      @hazieandmotherhood  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm planning to create a video featuring baby food recipes that everyone in the family can enjoy together, so that I don't have to cook separately!

    • @СветланаВетрова-ш8ч
      @СветланаВетрова-ш8ч 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hazieandmotherhoodthat will be great!!!

  • @Art-jg5xh
    @Art-jg5xh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for this video!
    I did BLW with my now 18 month old thank G-D she’s been eating so nicely she eats adult food for each meal and it was so worth the mess while she was little💓😍
    Some things I did to clean the mess was I always had a plastic shopping bag, dust pan and mini broom (not sure what those are called) like a table broom and we’d sweep the food from the floor and her tray into the bag and then do the wiping afterwards.
    We used the bibs with the sleeves so she was fully covered and then a sink bath afterwards.
    Was quite a mess 😂 but so worth it!

    • @hazieandmotherhood
      @hazieandmotherhood  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      maybe there's no easy way for this lol 😅

  • @claramat3196
    @claramat3196 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for this very interesting and full of research vidéo!
    Can you also please make a vidéo about "letting baby cry at night or not" (especifically when the parents are exhausted) (yes/no; how long etc.. with research and what does Montessori says about that? ) Thank you!

    • @hazieandmotherhood
      @hazieandmotherhood  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh, that's an interesting topic. I'll get to it sometime in the near future! 🙂

    • @priyak6178
      @priyak6178 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      V just followed only traditional weaning.now my toddler is 19 months... could u pls help us how to make her to eat ...is tat blw now possible??

  • @zafirawirawan8270
    @zafirawirawan8270 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May I know where did you get the apron? Hehehe I love it so much!

    • @hazieandmotherhood
      @hazieandmotherhood  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you! I dont have link to the same apron but this is what i found on Amazon that is similar to mine! amzn.to/3HF0qaw

  • @마커도리
    @마커도리 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    전 자기주도해보니 스스로 먹는것도 그렇지만 좀 커서 가리는 거 없이 다 잘 먹게 되는데 도움을 주는 거 같아요. 한국식 죽으로 이유식을 돌까지 한 아이들은 계속 섞어 먹어왔기 때문에 유아식으로 들어가면서 야채나 고기 따로따로 주면 잘 안 먹고 가리는게 많더라구요. 😊 항상 좋은 영상 감사해요:)

  • @user-sf27d2aas
    @user-sf27d2aas 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    영상 잘 봤습니다❤ 15개월인데 스푼피딩도 해보고 아이주도도 해보니 우리집에 더 맞는 방법이 보이긴 하네요 ㅎㅎ 그리고 미술가운처럼 입는 일체형 턱받이가 그나마 제일 낫네요😅 그마저도 치울게 쪼매 있지만요😅😅 초, 중기 이유식 시기에는 밥은 스푼피딩, 간식은 원물로 아이주도 했던 거 같고. 이제 수저질 좀 하는 유아식 시기가 되니 아이주도가 훨씬 잘 맞는 거 같아요! 더 유아일적보다 심리적 부담감이 줄어드네요. 연습이 차곡차곡 쌓여서 그런가 밥 먹이는 게 이젠 즐거워요

    • @hazieandmotherhood
      @hazieandmotherhood  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      맞아요 처음에 엄마가 좀 고생하긴 하지만 조금씩 스스로 하는걸 배우는 아이를 보면서 뿌듯하네요!

  • @loislane9616
    @loislane9616 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I initially wanted to do baby led weaning but i had the worst postpartum anxiety and was so scared for my baby to choke. So I wasn’t able to do it fully. But my baby’s teeth took a long time to come out so I slowly started introducing “real” solids.

  • @김지영-y6e6o
    @김지영-y6e6o 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    유익한 영상 감사합니다 😊 6개월부터 자기주도이유식을 하신건가요? 저는 아직 믹서에 갈아서 먹이는 중이라 숟가락으로 먹여주고 있는데.. 언제쯤 시도하는게 적당할까요??

    • @hazieandmotherhood
      @hazieandmotherhood  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      안녕하세요! 네 둘째때는 용기내서 6개월때부터 자기주도 했어요! th-cam.com/video/z1zk9ttUjV8/w-d-xo.html 이 영상 참고해주세요! 엄마 마음이 준비가 됬을 때 하는 게 맞는 것 같아요. 목에 걸릴 까봐 두렵고 걱정되면 조금 시간이 지나서 하셔도 절대 늦지 않으니까요 ^^

  • @annaceglova6889
    @annaceglova6889 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for sharing!❤

  • @helenaemmarasmussen1073
    @helenaemmarasmussen1073 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dear Hazie 😊 What do you think about food feeders? They look like a pacifiers with food inside. Is it Montessori aligned and would you consider using them? I was recently gifted some from my in laws, but I am in doubt about whether or not I should use them

    • @maisie1120
      @maisie1120 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m not Hazie but I would personally avoid them. Not only is it just better to give the baby the food, but there’s a worry with sugar being rubbed on their gums for an extended period of time

    • @hazieandmotherhood
      @hazieandmotherhood  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hi!! 🙂 We received one of those food feeders from a friend as well, so we decided to give it a try once or twice when Elijah first started solids. Honestly, I'm not sure if it aligns with Montessori principles, but we found it not particularly useful once Elijah was able to handle foods like blueberries. The timeframe for its use is really short, and it doesn't seem practical to continue using it once the baby can manage food well.

  • @Kasumistern
    @Kasumistern 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I started with spoon feeding (and on some days briefly tried BLW), but spoon feeding was always a big drama and as messy as BLW. At some point my baby simply refused to eat purees. He would scream and cry until I removed the food. He wanted to self-feed and when I finally gave in everyone was happy. ❤❤

    • @hazieandmotherhood
      @hazieandmotherhood  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sounds like your baby just knows what's best for himself! Babies have a way of letting us know their preferences, don't they? lol 😊

  • @참솔박
    @참솔박 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    안녕하세요! 아기가 잘먹어서 부러워요~혹시 식판정보 알수 있을까요..?🥹

    • @hazieandmotherhood
      @hazieandmotherhood  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      첫째 때 온라인주문했던건데 다시 찾을 수가 없네요 ㅜ 그냥 아주아주 평범한 실리콘식판이예요!ㅎ

    • @참솔박
      @참솔박 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hazieandmotherhood 아이쿠 번거로우샸을텐데 알아봐주셔서 감사합니다!♡

  • @KewBlinkla
    @KewBlinkla 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m here before watching to give an unbiased perspective! - we did baby led weaning and my daughter was very interested in food! But when it came time to try - a lot less interested. It seemed the actual eating part started slow for us. But we got there where she would try most things. She’s just over 2 now and is still a picky eater. So I’m here to let moms know being on the other side - it is NOT a fix all for picky eating! I would still absolutely do it because she uses her utensils well, she has never choked and never shoved food and when she has too much she knows. She’s a pretty clean eater, and is not afraid to try anything, but she still would love to survive of slices of cheese and yogurt if I let her. She’s not a beige-food-only type but she has a select type of foods she loves. Ironically her favourite snacks are guacamole and hummus - which she eats with a spoon. So my baby who never really had purées grew into a toddler who loves purées 😂

    • @KewBlinkla
      @KewBlinkla 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I do believe my little one did enjoy playing with food. And honestly sometimes she still does!
      One more thing; I do expirience that she has a great gauge for when she’s full and when she wants more. I can be sure of this because even when there’s food she LOVES like a bit of chocolate, if she eats some and doesn’t want more she will give it back and say “I’m done, save the rest for later”. Even chocolate - her most favorite food! 🥰

    • @KewBlinkla
      @KewBlinkla 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Another thing I have wondered (and it would be hard to study), I wonder if there are babies who enjoy the attention they receive while eating. If the parent is less responsive or more busy but then makes eye contact, speaks to baby, and gives big attention - I wonder if because this is desirable for the little one if they end up being a “better eater”.

  • @ssop495
    @ssop495 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    이제 갓 돌이 된아기입니다 아이주도식을 저녁에 한끼 해주고있어요 밥 맘대로 먹고 씻기고 놀아주다 수유하고 재우기. 하아 하루에 한끼지만 아이주도식 할 때마다 현타가 오네요. 저희애기는 아직 8kg도 안되는데 저녁에 먹는 밥까지 만지고 놀다가 먹지도 않고 하니 체구도 작고 몸무게도 안나가요. 분유도 자기전에 많이 먹으면 100ml정도 먹어요. 물론 낮에도 엄마주도 스푼피딩할때도 잘 안먹고 뱉고 만지고 놉니다😂 대체 언제까지 만지고 노나보자한게 벌써 세달이 되어가네요. 언제쯤 얘가 밥을 먹을까요? 먹는량이 너무 부족하다보니 그나마 잘먹는 딸기 바나나 단호박 정도 겨우겨우 먹이고 있네요. 쌀이 싫은걸까요…ㅠㅠ

  • @alicehyeripark
    @alicehyeripark 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    안녕하세요! 혹시 물컵 어디서 구매하셨나요~~? 6개월부터도 저 물컵을 쓸 수 있었나요!? 궁금합니다☺️

  • @90amutha
    @90amutha 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How to start baby led weaning at 6 months