We're sorry to hear what you had to go with. When we looked for an apartment to rent, we were also wondering if we should lie or be honest about being a gay couple as we were afraid we wouldn't get the place. It sucks that your neighbors can completely ruin the place for you. Even now that we own a condo, we're still afraid each time new neighbors move in because they can change your living experience overnight. Glad you're happy now in the house with no annoying neighbors! 🤗
Thank you so much for stopping by guys! :) Having bad neighbours definitely changed our living experience, to a point where we avoided being home when we knew they were drunk... So happy to have moved out...! Hopefully you won't have to deal with any bad neighbours in your condo!
Thats insane, how long you put up with that I can't even imagen! The first chance I had to leave, I would of moved, you guys ARE SAINTS! you deserve everything good that is happening to you now :) xoxo
So sorry that you guys had to go through that. People can be so horrible and so ignorant. Glad you guys have found a safe pleasant place to live. Love you all and stay safe!
So sorry that this happened to the two of you. Discrimination happens every day and we never hear everything that really goes in. It goes on in housing, employment, and just in our communities. It’s sad that people are the way that they are and it disappoints me that the human race can be the way that they are. Sending love and positive vibes your way. You did the right thing by exiting out of that toxic situation.
We are new subscribers to your channel and we love it. We live in New England and my husband of 28 years is French-Canadian. Look forward to more of your videos and stay safe.
We are soo, sooo sorry to hear that. We completely feel your pain. In our 'past' flat we had to hide most of the time. We could not go out taking each others hands or kissing as the entire neighbourhood was very homophobic. We are so happy that we left. We wish you all the best in your new house! You have all our love and support. Loads of love. Arif and Ricky :)
I’m so sorry you had to deal with your neighbors for 5 years. I can only imagine how hard it must have been. My husband and I have been together for 19 years and luckily we’ve never had to deal with anything like that. For the most part we’ve always lived it houses so we never had to deal with neighbors connected to our place. I’m so happy you guys found a new place and are loving it.
So sorry that you guys had to endure those harsh neighbors at your old place. I am glad that you two have settled in and found a home where you can be comfortable and happy. ❤️
Hey Pascal!! Missed you and Bryan lots!! Again I'm so sorry for what you guys had to go through. First, you shouldn't be afraid to show affection in public, I mean people are gonna judge, but who cares what they think? You guys are in love and that's all that matters. Being a black Christian straight woman, I absolutely truly support the LGBTQ+ community and so does my mom. If I saw you guys for real, I would be happy to be y'all best friend for life and be like a family to you guys. So don't be afraid to be yourself around people, you'll have those who love you for who you are and some who may not, but the important thing is that you are beautiful inside and out because that's how God created all of us. Second, there's nothing wrong with having fun, especially if you're living in an apartment. I do find this embarrassing to talk about, but I'll say it anyway. After my mom and I got evicted from our old place because our landlord was an ass, we didn't have nowhere to go. From my granddad's house to hotels and to living in our car for 7 months, it was awful!!! But the Lord answered our prayers and that we got a brand new place, we are so truly blessed and grateful. I'm glad that you guys are doing OK after all that happened. I pray for you guys everyday, well I pray for everybody. I love you guys so much, God bless and have a great rest of your week❤💛💚💙💜💗❤💛💚💙💜💗❤💛💚💙💜💗❤💛💚💙💜💗❤💛💚💙💜💗❤💛💚💙💜💗❤💛💚💙💜💗❤💛💚💙💜💗
Hey Ashli! Thank you so much for sharing your story; you shouldn't feel embarrassed about it..! I'm sure the whole experience made you not only stronger, but also more grateful of the good (and sometimes taken for granted) things in your life! 😊 At least, that's how I see it...! I definitely enjoy living in our new home way more now, after going through this, than if I had it from the start. Thank you again so much for taking the time to watch and comment, it's always a pleasure to read your positive messages! ☺
This video was the perfect length. It was concise but conveyed the trying emotional strains you and Bryan had to contend with for five years because of boorish and seems mentally unstable neighbors. I now better understand the depression you seemed to have exhibited in the latter videos before you stepped back from social media last year. I know this video will help countless viewers confronting similar problem people in their lives. Well done, Pascal! You are an excellent communicator. I’m always happy to hear your voice. Peace to you and Bryan and all you invite to share in your new home.🏡
Your video popped up in my recommended feed, and I just subscribed. I'm sorry for what you went through, and glad you are in a new place that feels like home. I only had one such experience - I was looking for an apartment where the landlord was the father of someone I knew. He was excited to rent the apartment to me, and all seemed to be in place. But my acquaintance told his father I'm gay (not expecting that to be a problem) and the father then decided not to rent the apartment to me (because he said I would be a bad influence since other tenants had children). My acquaintance was mortified, but I felt like I dodged a bullet and found a good apartment elsewhere. I'm glad to have my own house now!
So sorry you had to put up with that. And, so glad you are able to move into a place where you have a yard and pool. Now, as you "quarantine" relax and enjoy each other's company.
Thanks Terry! 😊 Taking care of the pool and yard definitely occupied my mind when we moved in! Now we can enjoy our new place in peace and I can finally get back to creating videos again...! Hope you're doing good too despite everything that's going on right now...!
Oh no- I just want you to know, you guys are really inspirational. I was scared to show my affection to my lover, cause I was afraid of judgment, but you guys taught me it's okay and haters gonna hate.
Salut, très bon temoinage et ton Anglais est excellent ! My spouse and I live in Ottawa and have an apartment in small residential complex. We have not encountered the problem you spoke about ! We have been here 16 years, my spouse was here 10 year before I met him and moved in. We have a few firends who encountered your problem here in Ottawa and Gatineau as well. People have to be educated, if nothing can be done...its their lost... Au plaisir de vous revoir..
It is amazing that tenants like that (the drunks downstairs ) can make other tenants so unhappy that they must leave to find peace. I am happy you are in your own house. Thanks to your wonderful parents. Stay happy and safe.
You are so brave! Some people really sickens me. You and Bryan are such a lovely couple, and those who can’t see that misses a lot of beauty in their lives. Ignorance makes life plain. It’s like not seeing colours. Keep spreading love Bryan and Pascal! ❤️ You’re deserving of all good. If someone is ignorant, that’s on them, you’re not to blame! ❤️🏳️🌈
Hi Pascal. I am so sorry to learn about all that you and Bryan have endured for the past five years. I'm glad that you are now in a home where you can live without any fear of what may happen next. I wish you nothing but wonderful experiences that make for happy memories. As for your former neighboring tenants, I certainly hope that they are held accountable for their actions. Wishing you all the best! 😀✌️🌈
first time watching you. Wow what a bunch of hell by small minded bigots! I am an older gay man and live with my partner in an apartment. fortunately for us we have been accepted by our straight neighbors. We live in a senior and disabled complex so at first i was a bit concerned, but we have been very lucky to date. Our management has been extremely supportive as well. Good luck to you both in your new home.
I am so sorry that you and Bryan had to endure such Homophobic hate, mental anguish, and had to put up with those awful neighbors for close to five years for both of you are to nice of a couple to go through anything like what you had to go through. I am so happy that the both of you were able to break your lease and find a house to live in so as the both of you do not have put up with anymore Homophobic tenants or neighbors. I turned 59 years old this May and I do remember how bad the Homophobic hate ( I lived in the more conservative part of the San Francisco Bay Area and I still live there today) was toward our community 30 to 40 years ago. I graduated from Pacific ( at that time it was a 3 year high school and not a 4 year high school) High School in June 1980 and for the 3 years (1977 to 1980) I was a student the yearly student population was about 800 to 900 students. This how bad it was then in 1977. if anybody suspected that another student was gay or even bi-sexual, that student was physically beaten up and attacked, harassed, called names, ostracized, lost all of his friends, and was forced to leave Pacific High school to find another high school to attend. For the three years while I was a student, there were 4 incidents where 4 of my fellow students were suspected to be gay and they were all physically attacked (I was not a witness to the beatings but I did hear of them after they occured ) and one of them had to spend over a month in the hospital to recover. What made those 4 Homophobic hate crimes even worse , is the Principal, the Vice Principal, and the Dean did not to anything to help these 4 students and all 4 of them had to leave the school for their safety and all four of them had to transfer to a new high school some 40 to 50 miles away. Except for the city of (In the Early 1970's, The Castro District in San Francisco was the birth place of the Gay Rights and LGBTQ Movement for California and the USA West Coast and Fire Island in New York was the birthplace for Gay Rights movement for the USA East Coast) San Francisco, that is the way it was for our community within the San Francisco Bay Area. I could be very brutal living as a gay man or lesbian woman in this area 40 to 45 years ago. It was those 4 incidents and many other Homophobic hate crimes that happened over 30 to 45 years ago that still shapes my thinking today for I am very cautious because I still think that I could become a victim of Homophobic hate crime or a Homophobic slur. But I also have to remind everybody that I did not come to full terms of my sexuality and that I did not accept myself as being gay until March 2019 after a 50 year plus struggle. Now I can say that I so proud that am gay and that I belong to our wonderful, diverse, and loving, and exceptional LGBTQ community, and proud to say that God made this way as well. Your are right in saying that our situation has vastly improved over the last 20 years, but our LGBTQ community has still some distance to travel before our community has total equality to the heterosexual world, and we are going to get the equality and safety our community deserves very soon. Again I am so sorry that the both of you had to though such a tough almost 5 years with "B" and 'S' as your neighbors. You choose the right letters to name those 2 former neighbors of yours because they are truly BS which means to that they are both made out of "BULL SHIT" !!! I do want to apologize for all of who are offended by my bad language for this is the first time that I have used vulgar swear words in a comment since I started my commenting on video VLOGS in February 2019 but I feel it needed to be said. I so happy that the both are are living in a house and feel safe. I will also say a prayer that the both of you and both your families stay safe, well, and healthy while this Pandemic lasts. A job well done on this video and my best to you both, your friend Bryan from San Lorenzo California.
I had a horrible downstairs neighbor 40+ years ago who constantly complained and also banged on her ceiling. However when addressing with her would always deny it and put blame on the folks on the shared wall. Not only was she aggressive but was ashamed of herself for being difficult. Happy for your new home and hope for many years of peace.
Pascal et Bryan tellement content pour vous deux. . You endured so much for so long. You are very patient. Sad to see that in 2020 their is still so much discrimination still happening. As a gay man born in the 70's I wish we had youtubers like you around to show us that we weren't alone. The video was not long at all, I missed your videos. I am proud to see French Canadians making a difference by sharing their lives and love with us. Keep it up. Je vous aime de Gatineau.
Oui, il y a encore beaucoup de travail à faire pour contrer l'homophobie, même de nos jours...! Thank you so much for watching and for your kind words! :)
Hello Pascal and Bryan, it's all now just a memory, and now you both will be much happier, and life will hopefully be less stressful. But, don't be afraid to be yourselves in public. If necessary, carry pepper spray, or mace, and don't be afraid to use it to protect yourselves. Have the police on speed dial on your phone.
Hey Louis! We're definitely a lot less stressed and more happy since the move...! I've always felt uncomfortable showing affection in public, a lot more so than Bryan; then again, it took me some time to accept my sexual orientation... I guess it's something I have to work on
Oh my goodness! I'm so sorry you had to put up with such horrific treatment. I wonder if it was them who left that disturbing box outside your door? I'm so pleased that you have your new place now, and that you all love it, you deserve to be somewhere you can be happy. Are you allowed to let us know how the court case goes? I'm hoping those two will be prosecuted.
Good you guys moved out. But you guys did put up with it for a long time. You guys don't have to put up with negativity of any sort. Hopefully you are feeling relieved after putting this out. Good to hear that you are doing well. Love you guys so so much. Never keep things to yourself which make you feel burdened. ❤️☺️💜🖤
I saw your good and bad new vlog. So this current place you have rented out is your parents' owned home right. I am so happy. Staying close to your family is nice. ♥️❤️💜🖤
Hey Pascal, I am so sorry you were the victims of their alcoholic homophobic rages. No one should have to put up with that. Even if you are blacked out drunk, you can be held responsible for your actions. They clearly were suffering from mental illness as well. I had no idea you were both suffering in silence, the landlord should have been more proactive with your complaints. I am sure you are both wonderful neighbors, I doubt you were at fault, they were just terrible people. I can not believe he was directing his tirades at a 2 year old baby. The landlord should have evicted them right away. I am glad that you are free of that horrific situation. I hope your new home will be a place of peace and serenity. You should be able to host your friends and family, without fear of reprisals. Je t'aime tous les deux. Je vous souhaite joie, bonheur et amour dans votre nouvelle maison. 😘❤️🌈✨👬🐈
Yes, I also believe that alcohol doesn't excuse this kind of behaviour...! It was at its worst the last year we were there (2019-2020); we're just glad that it's over and that we can move on with a better chapter in our life together...! Merci beaucoup!!! 😄
Pascal, I know you're talking about the Patreon shoutout at your home country in Canada on this video during your quarantine including the past experiences with your boyfriend, Bryan until you're moving in the apartment with him while you're talking about the conclusion and what happened after that, so I'm very proud of you for that!!!
I just came across your page here. So sorry to hear about what you and your bf went through for so many years. Unfortunately, what you went through is typical of apartment living, especially here in the US, whether you’re gay or straight. It’s much better, if you can, to live in a home versus an apartment. But, I know that’s not always financially feasible. Happy that you’re in a better situation. All the best to you and your bf. Stay safe during this pandemic.
Hey Dudley! Thanks for watching and taking the time to leave a comment! We are so grateful to have been able to move out in a new (& peaceful) home; living in constant anxiety and stress because of horrible neighbours is absolutely awful, and it made us realize that we were taking peacefulness for granted beforehand...! Now we can finally enjoy this new chapter in our life together! Thanks again!
Wow, that's a lot of crap to deal with. Why is it always the kindest people that get treated the worst? It's been about four years since I've gotten myself into watching the society, really observing what's going on, what's the majority's opinions and trends and all that. So I'm very aware of discrimination and what's wrong with the world. Unfortunately, I live in a pretty conservative household. Even though my parents are good people they have some very bad ideas instilled in their heads. And I'm just like you, Pascal, I avoid confrontation at all costs. Which is why I'll never be able to come out to my family. Just this morning I found an issue of my parents' favourite magazine. Let's just say the cover was so insulting to literally every minority I wanted to cry. Things like these make me desperately want to become an activist or a teacher to fight the hate in the world. But it's been years since I've had faith in humanity... I honestly cannot understand how people don't realise they're being bigots. Even though it's been only a couple of years since I've realised I wasn't straight, I've always felt the fear of living in society cause I was female. To this day, I wonder what does it feel like, living the privileged, straight white male life. Being oppressed and afraid is such an integral part of who I am and I really hope I could get the majority to understand that fear. Wow, this got out of hand. Sorry. 😅 Thank you for sharing this story, I like those that have a happy ending ☺️ Your new house is gorgeous, so I guess the universe (or smt) finally brought you to where you're meant to be. 😁
Sorry to hear on how you both have to put up with some awful neighbours who are also hypocritical themselves for being the noisy ones. I'm glad that you both are at a new place where you both deserve better and the landlord was at your side throughout (and accepted your sexuality). Wish you both all the best for your new place and again, hopefully karma will get back at those neighbours.
Thank you so much for being active in the chat during the premiere! 😄 We were lucky to have the landlord on our side and open. Last we heard B&S are now happily married (they deserve each other) & moved out (our old landlord told us so)
very sorry to hear that you had to go through that it is so wrong that I don't even have the proper words to express my disgust with those people I am very glad though that the landlord evicted them because they deserved it. I'm very glad that you guys have a house of your own now where you can be comfortable and feel happy to come home there's nothing like the feeling of home and I'm really glad that everything's worked out in that matter for you. I inherited my family home when my parents passed away, and for a long while I was really afraid I was going to lose it as I'm now disabled and I had no income coming in and was afraid that I was going to lose the house but now finally my disability has been approved and I am now going to start receiving an income every month so I'm happy that I'm able to keep my home although I will say I have a trump supporter who lives opposite my house across the street I mean they're not even directly across from me they're opposite across from me and recently I have been noticing that not only do they point to my house and everything but the other night I just happened to be walking into my living room and I see the woman not only standing at the bottom of my driveway but she's in the grass to the side of my driveway or my mother has a garden and she's looking up my driveway and as soon as she sees me standing there looking at her she steps back behind the bush and then walks back across the street up into her driveway and into her house and I'm like WTF? And I know they both give me dirty looks when I'm out mowing the lawn I mean they pretty well figured out that yeah I'm gay and before when I first moved back into my parents home they pretty much ignoring me but now that it's become obvious that yeah I am a homosexual every time I'm out in my yard I see him glancing over and pointing at my house then I have her over in my yard behind my bushes looking at my driveway I like what so I can understand how uncomfortable you were with those ignorant homophobic morons who are giving you trouble at your old apartment just really happy that things have worked out and you have a home of your own now.
Glad you guys have finally found somewhere you can be happy and be yourselves. I suspect every LGBTQ couple worries about renting/buying their joint home. I know we did, we face comments from local youths but we just ignored it and positively we had great neighbours who welcomed us and some even cam to Pride festivals with us. Enjoy your new home and stay strong and never change who you are. 💕
Quebec is the only place I have heard of where everybody’s lease begins on July 1. I heard the Quebec government made it that way to make it impossible to enjoy Canada Day. St. Jean Baptiste apparently is the only holiday that matters in Quebec.
My partner and I have been together for 17 years and yeah we had nightmare neighbours once too. Homophobic and crazy. Same thing they were horrendous. Also gay couple here in Vancouver. Been blessed since but yeah we lived above jerks... concrete is the answer lol. They broke our large planters we installed to green the place... anyways that was a decade ago now. Glad things are better!
Sorry to hear about your experience James! Me, I'm pretty sure they slashed my bike's tire that was in our shared shed...! Anyways, we are so much better now, and we can leave all this behind us!
Pascal, you two put up with a terrible situation for way too long! Glad you are in better housing. Looking forward to the new house tour (and the neighborhood tour). Was the landlord successful with BS eviction?
Any tenant would find living under tenants who do not have their floors ccarpeted to be a real problem. It would be constant noise constant,, almost 24 hours a day. Even when I have lived in a multi-level home of my own, I put carpets on the top floor. Another terrible problem in old housing, uncarpeted and lightly insulated homes is the radio and electronic noise of others. Things to think about if you ever have tenants in your building again. And finally, miserable peopple do not like anything interrupting their misery.
Indeed, our apartment block was quite old, with paper thin walls and floors...! We would always hear their TV & music all weekends from 7am to late at night + we could hear them speak - we never made a fuss about it because that's what life in an old building is... Apparently they couldn't understand that
No worries, I thought it was pretty good actually...! I have difficulties myself as I'm often trying to find the right words whenever I speak (as seen several times in the video).
Pascal/Bryan. Glad the finally got out of the apartment. Unfortunately, we have to deal with ignorant people every day. When I move to NYC at the age of 18 I didn't experience situations or problems with no one... well except for my " father ". He was rude, evil, nasty and never apologized with me for so many years that he never did anything for my Mom when he abandoned me and my others brothers and my sister when we need him. Then I move out from his apartment, found a job and start my own life. Never have problems with any tenants. All my past landlords are gays except for a lady who rent me the house that I living right now. I have a basic rule that I learn in NYC . " don't mess with me, I don't mess with you ". All my friends and family knows that I'm gay and those who don't accept me for who I am not for what I'm is not my problem and don't care. I'm in my 50s now and I don't take bu=*s%£¥ from no body. Keep the news experiences as a challenge. At the end of the road what really matters is your happiness. Please take care, and when you have the chance let me know your mailing address. 🐷🦁🎨⚓🐶🗼 n
Hey Jeremy, thanks for sharing! Your're right : all that matters is our happiness - and we can certainly have it in our new place. Thank you so much! P.S. : we might open a new PO Box, we're considering it
It is tragic in 21st century Canada that you and Brian had to live in such a horrible situation. I am very happy that the two of you have found a home where you feel safe, secure and away from bigoted, homophobic a&&holes like B&S. Much love.
Not even...! We found out last month that they decided to leave because they didn't like the new tenants that replaced us (young couple that seemed super kind)
I am now living in seattle Washington big ol gay state but sometimes a lot of people still have problems with LGBTQ but I'll always do my best to stand tall ESPECIALLY after talking to my mother since moving here and her openly refusing to acknowledge my trans boyfriend and the fact that I'm part of LGBTQ. Those kinda people just urke me but I'd also do whatever it takes to protect my boyfriend 🖤 I'm really sorry you guys had to deal with any of that crap.
When i was 25 a group of highschool kids unloaded bags of trash in my car, yelled out "f___got" and drove off. A pharmacy receipt was found in the trash. Name, address, phone number on receipt. I wont mention what i did for legal reasons. Long story short, him and his friends never f'd with again.
You guys should read 'Saved by the Light of the Buddha Within', written by a gay author. It will open your eyes wider than ever before and show you how to change your situation without having to run.
How terrible that you had to endure that. Your home should be the place you feel safe, not fill you with anxiety. I guess I've been lucky. I've always lived in big cities, so I'd usually find an apartment in a gay complex, or a complex where the manager was gay. Even when my late partner and I bought a condo, the complex was small and the other residents were either elderly widows or gay or lesbian. :) I bought a house 20 years ago and all the neighbors are extremely nice. I've never heard a bad word from them or had any bad experiences with them. I remember you talking about the place you moved to a while back. I believe it was a house, but is there another unit in the building also?
Pascal and Brian, Believe me, you are not alone. I'm over seventy years old so plug yourself into that situation! I have TONS of stories, here's a good one: I had been in vacation for a week in Florida and came home to find a notice on my door from my next door neighbors. I had the end unit of a row of three bedroom townhouses. Each dividing wall between units was 8" concrete block. I had lived there for 12 years with relatively no problems, the few I had were over parking issues. The note was a really, really nasty letter complaining about "noise" to the point they couldn't sleep at night. They had only moved into the apartment a couple months before and seemed a bit "offish" from the beginning. Apparently during the second month they had surmised I was gay. They had told their friends who also lived in the complex they were going to "get me out of there!" They said that from day one it was just constant noise but they finally reached their "boiling point" the previous week. Apparently no one told them that the owner of the complex was a friend of mine and I had, in fact, been the first tennant on the property. I called the property manager and told her what had transpired, which she had found amusing since she was the one that stopped by twice a day to feed my two cats! She was the only one who had been in the apartment for about 20 minutes each day for the previous 10 days! She asked me to photocopy the letter (which they had kindly signed and dated) and give her a copy and mailing one to the corporate office explaining that no one had even been in the unit for ten days and they had never contacted me before about anything! One week later they had received a notice to vacate and a week after that they were gone! Apparently our laws are a bit more flexible . . . LOL. Pascal you are looking so much better and healthier. Much love and happiness to you both. 💝 💝
I hope u both can be happier now that u moved uvu💕 Also i'm angry to know someone called u guys that i would totally beat the sh*t out of him.... with words ofc lol
I'm so sorry that happened to you! But honestly I think the homophobia was incidental. Your old neighbors were just drunks and assholes and they would have treated a straight couple in exactly the same way they treated you. The only difference would have been that they would have chosen different insults for a straight couple. Anyway, I'm thrilled for y'all that you get to live in a house of your own, and that's all that matters now.
Sorry to hear about what happened, people can be assholes. Your neighbors sound like pricks, like “can you walk more quietly?” BITCH PLEASE THAT DOESNT EVEN MAKE SENSE 😂 They also sound like alcoholics because of how many times they get drunk and smoke. You should have punched one of them -._-. Anyways, so glad you guys are ok now and away from those Hypocrites. Hope your new home is much better in terms of neighbors and maybe even home!
I am glad u guys moved. From what u described those tenants seemed very trashy so it’s best that both of u don’t need to deal with that. Unbelievable that u guys put up with trash like that for over 5 yrs
Sounds to me like a combination of them being bigots on top of being miserable people in general who were jealous of your happiness. Glad you guys got away from that. A lot of people don't have a clue what gay men still have to face.
Brian my name ia Don Muir in Cambridge Ontario Canada it is against the law under the bill of rights to be forced out . Check the Bill of Rights. The reason i know all this is because i helped get the rights and freeds for all gay people and if anyone gives you a problem the law and they can go to jail.
We had already told the landlord when it started years before, but with no result - they would receive a message text "warning", and that's it ; it would calm down during the following days/weeks, but would start all over again everytime they'd get drunk.
@@PascalPlante then your landlord wasn't really interested in the quality of tenants just having the apt rented.. With documentation it would be that hard to evict them .. Would finding a new tenant be that difficult for him ? But I hope you are happier in your new place ..
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We're sorry to hear what you had to go with. When we looked for an apartment to rent, we were also wondering if we should lie or be honest about being a gay couple as we were afraid we wouldn't get the place. It sucks that your neighbors can completely ruin the place for you. Even now that we own a condo, we're still afraid each time new neighbors move in because they can change your living experience overnight. Glad you're happy now in the house with no annoying neighbors! 🤗
Thank you so much for stopping by guys! :)
Having bad neighbours definitely changed our living experience, to a point where we avoided being home when we knew they were drunk...
So happy to have moved out...!
Hopefully you won't have to deal with any bad neighbours in your condo!
Good grief! Better out than in. Good for you guys!
Indeed!!! Thanks Ryan!
so glad u got out of there, love u and congrats to u about moving into a new home.
Thank you Richard!!
Thats insane, how long you put up with that I can't even imagen! The first chance I had to leave, I would of moved, you guys ARE SAINTS! you deserve everything good that is happening to you now :) xoxo
Aww thank you...! We feel so much better now...!
So sorry that you guys had to go through that. People can be so horrible and so ignorant. Glad you guys have found a safe pleasant place to live. Love you all and stay safe!
That was an informative story. I don't think i would have been able to put up with it for 5 years. Your both brave. Glad your in a better place. 😃😃😃😃😃
We're definitely better, both physically and mentally...!
Thank you for watching and commenting! 😄
I would have been out of there after the first confrontation. Long before it got as bad as it did. Just saying.
So sorry that this happened to the two of you. Discrimination happens every day and we never hear everything that really goes in. It goes on in housing, employment, and just in our communities. It’s sad that people are the way that they are and it disappoints me that the human race can be the way that they are. Sending love and positive vibes your way. You did the right thing by exiting out of that toxic situation.
We are new subscribers to your channel and we love it. We live in New England and my husband of 28 years is French-Canadian. Look forward to more of your videos and stay safe.
Welcome and thanks for subbing! 😄
I'm so sorry you both went though this. Very happy your in your own place now. Please take care and be safe.
Thanks! We definitely feel more at home now...!
Much love! Thank you
We are soo, sooo sorry to hear that. We completely feel your pain. In our 'past' flat we had to hide most of the time. We could not go out taking each others hands or kissing as the entire neighbourhood was very homophobic. We are so happy that we left. We wish you all the best in your new house! You have all our love and support. Loads of love. Arif and Ricky :)
Thanks guys!
Love you guys. Always be safe 🖤💙💚💜💗💌💝
Thanks Haley! 😊
Wish you both the best!! May you be blessed.
Thank you so much!
@@PascalPlante You're welcome. May life bring you two lots of happiness.
I’m so sorry you had to deal with your neighbors for 5 years. I can only imagine how hard it must have been. My husband and I have been together for 19 years and luckily we’ve never had to deal with anything like that. For the most part we’ve always lived it houses so we never had to deal with neighbors connected to our place. I’m so happy you guys found a new place and are loving it.
So sorry that you guys had to endure those harsh neighbors at your old place. I am glad that you two have settled in and found a home where you can be comfortable and happy. ❤️
We are so lucky my husband and I our neighbors know and it's no problem.
That’s messed up I am sorry you had to put up with that crap!! I hope your new place brings you two much needed joy 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thanks so much Gary!
Thats so sad to hear be strong and rise above them your better than they will ever be love you both xx
Hey Pascal!! Missed you and Bryan lots!! Again I'm so sorry for what you guys had to go through.
First, you shouldn't be afraid to show affection in public, I mean people are gonna judge, but who cares what they think? You guys are in love and that's all that matters. Being a black Christian straight woman, I absolutely truly support the LGBTQ+ community and so does my mom. If I saw you guys for real, I would be happy to be y'all best friend for life and be like a family to you guys. So don't be afraid to be yourself around people, you'll have those who love you for who you are and some who may not, but the important thing is that you are beautiful inside and out because that's how God created all of us.
Second, there's nothing wrong with having fun, especially if you're living in an apartment. I do find this embarrassing to talk about, but I'll say it anyway. After my mom and I got evicted from our old place because our landlord was an ass, we didn't have nowhere to go. From my granddad's house to hotels and to living in our car for 7 months, it was awful!!! But the Lord answered our prayers and that we got a brand new place, we are so truly blessed and grateful. I'm glad that you guys are doing OK after all that happened. I pray for you guys everyday, well I pray for everybody. I love you guys so much, God bless and have a great rest of your week❤💛💚💙💜💗❤💛💚💙💜💗❤💛💚💙💜💗❤💛💚💙💜💗❤💛💚💙💜💗❤💛💚💙💜💗❤💛💚💙💜💗❤💛💚💙💜💗
Hey Ashli!
Thank you so much for sharing your story; you shouldn't feel embarrassed about it..!
I'm sure the whole experience made you not only stronger, but also more grateful of the good (and sometimes taken for granted) things in your life! 😊 At least, that's how I see it...! I definitely enjoy living in our new home way more now, after going through this, than if I had it from the start.
Thank you again so much for taking the time to watch and comment, it's always a pleasure to read your positive messages! ☺
This video was the perfect length. It was concise but conveyed the trying emotional strains you and Bryan had to contend with for five years because of boorish and seems mentally unstable neighbors. I now better understand the depression you seemed to have exhibited in the latter videos before you stepped back from social media last year. I know this video will help countless viewers confronting similar problem people in their lives. Well done, Pascal! You are an excellent communicator. I’m always happy to hear your voice. Peace to you and Bryan and all you invite to share in your new home.🏡
I'm so sorry to hear you guys had to go through this.
thanks!
It was an awful experience, but now we're happy to be where we are and we're ready for a better, and more positive, living experience...!
Your video popped up in my recommended feed, and I just subscribed. I'm sorry for what you went through, and glad you are in a new place that feels like home. I only had one such experience - I was looking for an apartment where the landlord was the father of someone I knew. He was excited to rent the apartment to me, and all seemed to be in place. But my acquaintance told his father I'm gay (not expecting that to be a problem) and the father then decided not to rent the apartment to me (because he said I would be a bad influence since other tenants had children). My acquaintance was mortified, but I felt like I dodged a bullet and found a good apartment elsewhere. I'm glad to have my own house now!
sorry to hear that happened to you guys im really glad you guys are ok now
So sorry you had to put up with that. And, so glad you are able to move into a place where you have a yard and pool. Now, as you "quarantine" relax and enjoy each other's company.
Thanks Terry! 😊
Taking care of the pool and yard definitely occupied my mind when we moved in!
Now we can enjoy our new place in peace and I can finally get back to creating videos again...! Hope you're doing good too despite everything that's going on right now...!
Oh no- I just want you to know, you guys are really inspirational. I was scared to show my affection to my lover, cause I was afraid of judgment, but you guys taught me it's okay and haters gonna hate.
Salut, très bon temoinage et ton Anglais est excellent ! My spouse and I live in Ottawa and have an apartment in small residential complex. We have not
encountered the problem you spoke about ! We have been here 16 years, my spouse was here 10 year before I met him and moved in. We have a few firends
who encountered your problem here in Ottawa and Gatineau as well. People have to be educated, if nothing can be done...its their lost...
Au plaisir de vous revoir..
It is amazing that tenants like that (the drunks downstairs ) can make other tenants so unhappy that they must leave to find peace. I am happy you are in your own house. Thanks to your wonderful parents. Stay happy and safe.
Yes, it was just getting worse and worse...! Now we can move on with our life together! :)
You are so brave!
Some people really sickens me. You and Bryan are such a lovely couple, and those who can’t see that misses a lot of beauty in their lives.
Ignorance makes life plain. It’s like not seeing colours. Keep spreading love Bryan and Pascal! ❤️
You’re deserving of all good. If someone is ignorant, that’s on them, you’re not to blame! ❤️🏳️🌈
Hi Pascal. I am so sorry to learn about all that you and Bryan have endured for the past five years. I'm glad that you are now in a home where you can live without any fear of what may happen next. I wish you nothing but wonderful experiences that make for happy memories. As for your former neighboring tenants, I certainly hope that they are held accountable for their actions. Wishing you all the best! 😀✌️🌈
Thank you Kevin! Now, we can leave all this behind us and enjoy this new chapter in our life!
first time watching you. Wow what a bunch of hell by small minded bigots! I am an older gay man and live with my partner in an apartment. fortunately for us we have been accepted by our straight neighbors. We live in a senior and disabled complex so at first i was a bit concerned, but we have been very lucky to date. Our management has been extremely supportive as well. Good luck to you both in your new home.
I am so sorry that you and Bryan had to endure such Homophobic hate, mental anguish, and had to put up with those awful neighbors for close to five years for both of you are to nice of a couple to go through anything like what you had to go through. I am so happy that the both of you were able to break your lease and find a house to live in so as the both of you do not have put up with anymore Homophobic tenants or neighbors. I turned 59 years old this May and I do remember how bad the Homophobic hate ( I lived in the more conservative part of the San Francisco Bay Area and I still live there today) was toward our community 30 to 40 years ago. I graduated from Pacific ( at that time it was a 3 year high school and not a 4 year high school) High School in June 1980 and for the 3 years (1977 to 1980) I was a student the yearly student population was about 800 to 900 students. This how bad it was then in 1977. if anybody suspected that another student was gay or even bi-sexual, that student was physically beaten up and attacked, harassed, called names, ostracized, lost all of his friends, and was forced to leave Pacific High school to find another high school to attend. For the three years while I was a student, there were 4 incidents where 4 of my fellow students were suspected to be gay and they were all physically attacked (I was not a witness to the beatings but I did hear of them after they occured ) and one of them had to spend over a month in the hospital to recover. What made those 4 Homophobic hate crimes even worse , is the Principal, the Vice Principal, and the Dean did not to anything to help these 4 students and all 4 of them had to leave the school for their safety and all four of them had to transfer to a new high school some 40 to 50 miles away. Except for the city of (In the Early 1970's, The Castro District in San Francisco was the birth place of the Gay Rights and LGBTQ Movement for California and the USA West Coast and Fire Island in New York was the birthplace for Gay Rights movement for the USA East Coast) San Francisco, that is the way it was for our community within the San Francisco Bay Area. I could be very brutal living as a gay man or lesbian woman in this area 40 to 45 years ago. It was those 4 incidents and many other Homophobic hate crimes that happened over 30 to 45 years ago that still shapes my thinking today for I am very cautious because I still think that I could become a victim of Homophobic hate crime or a Homophobic slur. But I also have to remind everybody that I did not come to full terms of my sexuality and that I did not accept myself as being gay until March 2019 after a 50 year plus struggle. Now I can say that I so proud that am gay and that I belong to our wonderful, diverse, and loving, and exceptional LGBTQ community, and proud to say that God made this way as well. Your are right in saying that our situation has vastly improved over the last 20 years, but our LGBTQ community has still some distance to travel before our community has total equality to the heterosexual world, and we are going to get the equality and safety our community deserves very soon. Again I am so sorry that the both of you had to though such a tough almost 5 years with "B" and 'S' as your neighbors. You choose the right letters to name those 2 former neighbors of yours because they are truly BS which means to that they are both made out of "BULL SHIT" !!! I do want to apologize for all of who are offended by my bad language for this is the first time that I have used vulgar swear words in a comment since I started my commenting on video VLOGS in February 2019 but I feel it needed to be said. I so happy that the both are are living in a house and feel safe. I will also say a prayer that the both of you and both your families stay safe, well, and healthy while this Pandemic lasts. A job well done on this video and my best to you both, your friend Bryan from San Lorenzo California.
I had a horrible downstairs neighbor 40+ years ago who constantly complained and also banged on her ceiling. However when addressing with her would always deny it and put blame on the folks on the shared wall. Not only was she aggressive but was ashamed of herself for being difficult. Happy for your new home and hope for many years of peace.
Sorry you had that happen.
Thanks Bill! We're just happy to be out of there...!
Pascal et Bryan tellement content pour vous deux. . You endured so much for so long. You are very patient. Sad to see that in 2020 their is still so much discrimination still happening. As a gay man born in the 70's I wish we had youtubers like you around to show us that we weren't alone. The video was not long at all, I missed your videos. I am proud to see French Canadians making a difference by sharing their lives and love with us. Keep it up. Je vous aime de Gatineau.
Oui, il y a encore beaucoup de travail à faire pour contrer l'homophobie, même de nos jours...!
Thank you so much for watching and for your kind words! :)
Hello Pascal and Bryan, it's all now just a memory, and now you both will be much happier, and life will hopefully be less stressful. But, don't be afraid to be yourselves in public. If necessary, carry pepper spray, or mace, and don't be afraid to use it to protect yourselves. Have the police on speed dial on your phone.
Hey Louis! We're definitely a lot less stressed and more happy since the move...! I've always felt uncomfortable showing affection in public, a lot more so than Bryan; then again, it took me some time to accept my sexual orientation... I guess it's something I have to work on
So glad you guys are out of there. I hope nothing but the best for you both moving forward from that situation. I sure am envious of that pool. 🙂💦
Oh my goodness! I'm so sorry you had to put up with such horrific treatment. I wonder if it was them who left that disturbing box outside your door? I'm so pleased that you have your new place now, and that you all love it, you deserve to be somewhere you can be happy. Are you allowed to let us know how the court case goes? I'm hoping those two will be prosecuted.
Good you guys moved out. But you guys did put up with it for a long time. You guys don't have to put up with negativity of any sort. Hopefully you are feeling relieved after putting this out. Good to hear that you are doing well. Love you guys so so much. Never keep things to yourself which make you feel burdened. ❤️☺️💜🖤
I saw your good and bad new vlog. So this current place you have rented out is your parents' owned home right. I am so happy. Staying close to your family is nice. ♥️❤️💜🖤
Well said!
Hey Pascal, I am so sorry you were the victims of their alcoholic homophobic rages. No one should have to put up with that. Even if you are blacked out drunk, you can be held responsible for your actions. They clearly were suffering from mental illness as well.
I had no idea you were both suffering in silence, the landlord should have been more proactive with your complaints. I am sure you are both wonderful neighbors, I doubt you were at fault, they were just terrible people.
I can not believe he was directing his tirades at a 2 year old baby. The landlord should have evicted them right away.
I am glad that you are free of that horrific situation. I hope your new home will be a place of peace and serenity. You should be able to host your friends and family, without fear of reprisals.
Je t'aime tous les deux. Je vous souhaite joie, bonheur et amour dans votre nouvelle maison. 😘❤️🌈✨👬🐈
Yes, I also believe that alcohol doesn't excuse this kind of behaviour...!
It was at its worst the last year we were there (2019-2020); we're just glad that it's over and that we can move on with a better chapter in our life together...!
Merci beaucoup!!! 😄
Pascal, I know you're talking about the Patreon shoutout at your home country in Canada on this video during your quarantine including the past experiences with your boyfriend, Bryan until you're moving in the apartment with him while you're talking about the conclusion and what happened after that, so I'm very proud of you for that!!!
I had a neighbor that used to crank up his radio just so someone would confront him.
Some people are just seeking confrontations & I'll never understand why...!
I just came across your page here. So sorry to hear about what you and your bf went through for so many years. Unfortunately, what you went through is typical of apartment living, especially here in the US, whether you’re gay or straight. It’s much better, if you can, to live in a home versus an apartment. But, I know that’s not always financially feasible. Happy that you’re in a better situation. All the best to you and your bf. Stay safe during this pandemic.
Hey Dudley!
Thanks for watching and taking the time to leave a comment!
We are so grateful to have been able to move out in a new (& peaceful) home; living in constant anxiety and stress because of horrible neighbours is absolutely awful, and it made us realize that we were taking peacefulness for granted beforehand...!
Now we can finally enjoy this new chapter in our life together!
Thanks again!
I really feel sorry that you guys have to go through this and stay safe and be happy
It's really make me mad that whole world is full of shitty people
Thank you Paul! Hopefully we won't have to deal with such a situation from now on...!
Wow, that's a lot of crap to deal with. Why is it always the kindest people that get treated the worst?
It's been about four years since I've gotten myself into watching the society, really observing what's going on, what's the majority's opinions and trends and all that. So I'm very aware of discrimination and what's wrong with the world. Unfortunately, I live in a pretty conservative household. Even though my parents are good people they have some very bad ideas instilled in their heads. And I'm just like you, Pascal, I avoid confrontation at all costs. Which is why I'll never be able to come out to my family. Just this morning I found an issue of my parents' favourite magazine. Let's just say the cover was so insulting to literally every minority I wanted to cry. Things like these make me desperately want to become an activist or a teacher to fight the hate in the world. But it's been years since I've had faith in humanity...
I honestly cannot understand how people don't realise they're being bigots. Even though it's been only a couple of years since I've realised I wasn't straight, I've always felt the fear of living in society cause I was female. To this day, I wonder what does it feel like, living the privileged, straight white male life. Being oppressed and afraid is such an integral part of who I am and I really hope I could get the majority to understand that fear.
Wow, this got out of hand. Sorry. 😅 Thank you for sharing this story, I like those that have a happy ending ☺️ Your new house is gorgeous, so I guess the universe (or smt) finally brought you to where you're meant to be. 😁
Sorry to hear on how you both have to put up with some awful neighbours who are also hypocritical themselves for being the noisy ones. I'm glad that you both are at a new place where you both deserve better and the landlord was at your side throughout (and accepted your sexuality). Wish you both all the best for your new place and again, hopefully karma will get back at those neighbours.
Thank you so much for being active in the chat during the premiere! 😄
We were lucky to have the landlord on our side and open.
Last we heard B&S are now happily married (they deserve each other) & moved out (our old landlord told us so)
@@PascalPlante Well that's good to hear and nice for the landlord to keep in touch in with you both
Glad you guys are ok , do you know if they were evicted
Thanks Terry!
No, they ended up leaving on their own - apparently they didn't like the new tenants that took our place either...!
very sorry to hear that you had to go through that it is so wrong that I don't even have the proper words to express my disgust with those people I am very glad though that the landlord evicted them because they deserved it.
I'm very glad that you guys have a house of your own now where you can be comfortable and feel happy to come home there's nothing like the feeling of home and I'm really glad that everything's worked out in that matter for you.
I inherited my family home when my parents passed away, and for a long while I was really afraid I was going to lose it as I'm now disabled and I had no income coming in and was afraid that I was going to lose the house but now finally my disability has been approved and I am now going to start receiving an income every month so I'm happy that I'm able to keep my home although I will say I have a trump supporter who lives opposite my house across the street I mean they're not even directly across from me they're opposite across from me and recently I have been noticing that not only do they point to my house and everything but the other night I just happened to be walking into my living room and I see the woman not only standing at the bottom of my driveway but she's in the grass to the side of my driveway or my mother has a garden and she's looking up my driveway and as soon as she sees me standing there looking at her she steps back behind the bush and then walks back across the street up into her driveway and into her house and I'm like WTF? And I know they both give me dirty looks when I'm out mowing the lawn I mean they pretty well figured out that yeah I'm gay and before when I first moved back into my parents home they pretty much ignoring me but now that it's become obvious that yeah I am a homosexual every time I'm out in my yard I see him glancing over and pointing at my house then I have her over in my yard behind my bushes looking at my driveway I like what so I can understand how uncomfortable you were with those ignorant homophobic morons who are giving you trouble at your old apartment just really happy that things have worked out and you have a home of your own now.
Glad you guys have finally found somewhere you can be happy and be yourselves. I suspect every LGBTQ couple worries about renting/buying their joint home. I know we did, we face comments from local youths but we just ignored it and positively we had great neighbours who welcomed us and some even cam to Pride festivals with us. Enjoy your new home and stay strong and never change who you are. 💕
You can file charges against them and they would be at fault and they could be removed. Don Muir
Quebec is the only place I have heard of where everybody’s lease begins on July 1. I heard the Quebec government made it that way to make it impossible to enjoy Canada Day. St. Jean Baptiste apparently is the only holiday that matters in Quebec.
My partner and I have been together for 17 years and yeah we had nightmare neighbours once too. Homophobic and crazy. Same thing they were horrendous. Also gay couple here in Vancouver. Been blessed since but yeah we lived above jerks... concrete is the answer lol. They broke our large planters we installed to green the place... anyways that was a decade ago now. Glad things are better!
Sorry to hear about your experience James! Me, I'm pretty sure they slashed my bike's tire that was in our shared shed...! Anyways, we are so much better now, and we can leave all this behind us!
Pascal, you two put up with a terrible situation for way too long! Glad you are in better housing. Looking forward to the new house tour (and the neighborhood tour).
Was the landlord successful with BS eviction?
Any tenant would find living under tenants who do not have their floors ccarpeted to be a real problem. It would be constant noise constant,, almost 24 hours a day. Even when I have lived in a multi-level home of my own, I put carpets on the top floor. Another terrible problem in old housing, uncarpeted and lightly insulated homes is the radio and electronic noise of others. Things to think about if you ever have tenants in your building again. And finally, miserable peopple do not like anything interrupting their misery.
Indeed, our apartment block was quite old, with paper thin walls and floors...! We would always hear their TV & music all weekends from 7am to late at night + we could hear them speak - we never made a fuss about it because that's what life in an old building is... Apparently they couldn't understand that
Please accept my
apologies for my
horrible English.
😉😊😉😊😉😊
No worries, I thought it was pretty good actually...!
I have difficulties myself as I'm often trying to find the right words whenever I speak (as seen several times in the video).
Pascal/Bryan.
Glad the finally got out of the apartment.
Unfortunately,
we have to deal
with ignorant
people every day.
When I move to
NYC at the age
of 18 I didn't
experience
situations or
problems with
no one... well
except for my
" father ".
He was rude, evil,
nasty and never apologized with
me for so many
years that he never
did anything for
my Mom when he abandoned me
and my others
brothers and my
sister when we
need him.
Then I move out
from his apartment,
found a job and
start my own life. Never have problems with any tenants.
All my past landlords are gays except
for a lady who
rent me the house
that I living right
now.
I have a basic rule
that I learn in NYC .
" don't mess with
me, I don't mess
with you ".
All my friends and family knows that
I'm gay and those
who don't accept
me for who I am
not for what I'm is
not my problem
and don't
care.
I'm in my 50s
now and I don't
take bu=*s%£¥
from no body.
Keep the news
experiences as
a challenge.
At the end of
the road what
really matters is
your happiness.
Please take care,
and when you
have the chance
let me know your mailing address.
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Hey Jeremy, thanks for sharing!
Your're right : all that matters is our happiness - and we can certainly have it in our new place.
Thank you so much!
P.S. : we might open a new PO Box, we're considering it
It is tragic in 21st century Canada that you and Brian had to live in such a horrible situation. I am very happy that the two of you have found a home where you feel safe, secure and away from bigoted, homophobic a&&holes like B&S. Much love.
8 hours? *i got till seven am*
B&S should be the one who iskicked out by the landlord instead of you guys leaving 🤔 I subbed btw...hi from Ontario 🏳️🌈😀
Indeed...! Thanks for the sub & welcome!!
Were they evicted in the end? I hope so!
Not even...! We found out last month that they decided to leave because they didn't like the new tenants that replaced us (young couple that seemed super kind)
I am now living in seattle Washington big ol gay state but sometimes a lot of people still have problems with LGBTQ but I'll always do my best to stand tall ESPECIALLY after talking to my mother since moving here and her openly refusing to acknowledge my trans boyfriend and the fact that I'm part of LGBTQ.
Those kinda people just urke me but I'd also do whatever it takes to protect my boyfriend 🖤
I'm really sorry you guys had to deal with any of that crap.
When i was 25 a group of highschool kids unloaded bags of trash in my car, yelled out "f___got" and drove off. A pharmacy receipt was found in the trash. Name, address, phone number on receipt. I wont mention what i did for legal reasons. Long story short, him and his friends never f'd with again.
You guys should read 'Saved by the Light of the Buddha Within', written by a gay author. It will open your eyes wider than ever before and show you how to change your situation without having to run.
Anyone who wants to live in peace with how they are COME TO EUROPE.
Where are you from
How terrible that you had to endure that. Your home should be the place you feel safe, not fill you with anxiety. I guess I've been lucky. I've always lived in big cities, so I'd usually find an apartment in a gay complex, or a complex where the manager was gay. Even when my late partner and I bought a condo, the complex was small and the other residents were either elderly widows or gay or lesbian. :) I bought a house 20 years ago and all the neighbors are extremely nice. I've never heard a bad word from them or had any bad experiences with them.
I remember you talking about the place you moved to a while back. I believe it was a house, but is there another unit in the building also?
Pascal and Brian, Believe me, you are not alone. I'm over seventy years old so plug yourself into that situation! I have TONS of stories, here's a good one: I had been in vacation for a week in Florida and came home to find a notice on my door from my next door neighbors. I had the end unit of a row of three bedroom townhouses. Each dividing wall between units was 8" concrete block. I had lived there for 12 years with relatively no problems, the few I had were over parking issues.
The note was a really, really nasty letter complaining about "noise" to the point they couldn't sleep at night. They had only moved into the apartment a couple months before and seemed a bit "offish" from the beginning. Apparently during the second month they had surmised I was gay. They had told their friends who also lived in the complex they were going to "get me out of there!" They said that from day one it was just constant noise but they finally reached their "boiling point" the previous week.
Apparently no one told them that the owner of the complex was a friend of mine and I had, in fact, been the first tennant on the property. I called the property manager and told her what had transpired, which she had found amusing since she was the one that stopped by twice a day to feed my two cats! She was the only one who had been in the apartment for about 20 minutes each day for the previous 10 days! She asked me to photocopy the letter (which they had kindly signed and dated) and give her a copy and mailing one to the corporate office explaining that no one had even been in the unit for ten days and they had never contacted me before about anything!
One week later they had received a notice to vacate and a week after that they were gone! Apparently our laws are a bit more flexible . . . LOL.
Pascal you are looking so much better and healthier.
Much love and happiness to you both. 💝 💝
Wow, I'm sure they didn't see that one coming...! 😂
Thanks for sharing, Norman, & thank you for the compliment (I do feel A LOT better...!)
I hope u both can be happier now that u moved uvu💕
Also i'm angry to know someone called u guys that i would totally beat the sh*t out of him.... with words ofc lol
Thank you Mikey! We feel wayyyy better in our new place...!
I'm so sorry that happened to you! But honestly I think the homophobia was incidental. Your old neighbors were just drunks and assholes and they would have treated a straight couple in exactly the same way they treated you. The only difference would have been that they would have chosen different insults for a straight couple. Anyway, I'm thrilled for y'all that you get to live in a house of your own, and that's all that matters now.
Sorry to hear about what happened, people can be assholes. Your neighbors sound like pricks, like “can you walk more quietly?”
BITCH PLEASE THAT DOESNT EVEN MAKE SENSE 😂
They also sound like alcoholics because of how many times they get drunk and smoke. You should have punched one of them -._-.
Anyways, so glad you guys are ok now and away from those Hypocrites. Hope your new home is much better in terms of neighbors and maybe even home!
I KNOW...! 😂 But they were definitely intense and delusional...!
Thanks for watching!
excuse mon erreur: époux et non épouse...
💙
Lots of BS in Quebec
yup...!
I am glad u guys moved. From what u described those tenants seemed very trashy so it’s best that both of u don’t need to deal with that. Unbelievable that u guys put up with trash like that for over 5 yrs
Pascal; Do you think these Homophobes were the ones who sent that creepy pkg?
I honestly doubt it; they didn't speak a word of english and they didn't know about our videos (at least I think)
Sounds to me like a combination of them being bigots on top of being miserable people in general who were jealous of your happiness. Glad you guys got away from that. A lot of people don't have a clue what gay men still have to face.
Brian my name ia Don Muir in Cambridge Ontario Canada it is against the law under the bill of rights to be forced out . Check the Bill of Rights. The reason i know all this is because i helped get the rights and freeds for all gay people and if anyone gives you a problem the law and they can go to jail.
When they started complaining you should have documented their abuse and gone to the landlord
We had already told the landlord when it started years before, but with no result - they would receive a message text "warning", and that's it ; it would calm down during the following days/weeks, but would start all over again everytime they'd get drunk.
@@PascalPlante then your landlord wasn't really interested in the quality of tenants just having the apt rented.. With documentation it would be that hard to evict them .. Would finding a new tenant be that difficult for him ? But I hope you are happier in your new place ..