Story 1. Nta. So the grandparents don't have money to keep a roof over their heads but have the money for a lawyer and enough to take care of their grandkids.🤔
An apartment cost less than a lawyer 🤣 I'll be the first to admit I may be projecting, but after my grandma legally kidnapped me from my mom, I wouldn't be surprised if the whole thing was a ruze to fulfill some need to be parents again. If you're curious: grandma had my mom basically sent to psych hospital shortly after I was born and moved states leaving her stuck til she turned 18 when she could legally check out from my understanding
@Innerpandora grandparents and mom was 16. The best was to sum it up grandma tried to use me as her make-up baby to "prove" she was a good mother. That back fired horribly. Everyone knew she was abusive and did nothing. I'm NC with everyone in my family
Everytime someone calls CPS out of spite, it gets me so angry. There are kids out there getting SA'd, beaten, manipulated, neglected, ect and there are people like this.. People out there with too much time on their hands because of jealousy or something.
Cheating will NEVER be a mistake. It is a series of choices that you intentionally make. You dont "accidently" take off all your clothes. Nor do you "accidently" fall into bed with someone that isn't your SO
Havent finished the story but the OP definitely needed to be real with his kids and tell them that they're never seeing their grand parents again wtf is this "they made mistakes" thing. Tell them they only have two grandparents now tf
Those cps stories are more horrifying than people realize. Unlike a police report, a report to cps stays recorded, doesn't matter if it's true or false. It can still be dug up 15, 20 years later when someone want to check ypur character, and the results of the investigation aren't always written. Imagine you are on trial, your credibility and morals are put to the test, and then someone simply put up the fact you had a cps report. There goes your life once again.
A mistake take is leaving the bread open a mistake is leaving the iron plugged in a mistake is leaving the door unlocked while you rush out to work CHEATING is not a mistake.
My response to the last comment about giving them access with constant supervision and boundaries is why? why should I take from my life time and energy efforts to give to these ungrateful deceitful maniacs and endangering my whole family in the process all of that? what is the outcome that I will be gaining from that?
Once they tried to take the kids away from Opie there was no reconciliation there was nothing left. The parents only did this to punish their son for not letting them control his life.
I always suspect it’s fake when in any courtroom scene they say the opposing side “painted themselves/ spun a story” or when they say “performance worthy of an Oscar”. I’m not dissing SecretVoices though , I don’t care about possible fake stories as long as they are taken from Reddit
You know it's 100% fake when the writer cut the story in half and start again with "update". Dude wrote it on the same day but somehow it needs an update? Did you mean part 2 maybe? And what's that "spoiler alert" at the end of the first post? This thing reeks of falsehood. It's so fake it tries to use the format of a reddit post without realizing it doesn't even fit with the context, and it fit even less with this type of writing effect cheap cliffhangers.
First story: I think OP is the idiot/*sshole to his wife, as it seems she had warned him about his parents. From his wife's reaction, it's very clear that his parents' narcissistic and toxic behaviour was well known beforehand, yet OP allowed them to move in without her approval. This is yet another case of a toxic fallout that could have been avoided if OP had not been such a weak doormat who evidently prioritised his parents over his wife. There is a reason why one leaves their parents and marries their spouse-your wife and children should always come first. Last story: STFU, OP is allowed to form her own opinions on her cheating husband's bastard child.
Story 1: Honestly, OP is also TA. He knew his parents were utter garbage, and even his wife warned him ahead of time. But he somehow thought, "Oh no, they'll *definitely* follow the rules this time." After a fucking lifetime of boundary-stepping, he let his shitty parents walk all over him again and make his and his family's lives a nightmare.
Story 1. Nta. So the grandparents don't have money to keep a roof over their heads but have the money for a lawyer and enough to take care of their grandkids.🤔
Technically, a lawyer costs less than a house
An apartment cost less than a lawyer 🤣 I'll be the first to admit I may be projecting, but after my grandma legally kidnapped me from my mom, I wouldn't be surprised if the whole thing was a ruze to fulfill some need to be parents again.
If you're curious: grandma had my mom basically sent to psych hospital shortly after I was born and moved states leaving her stuck til she turned 18 when she could legally check out from my understanding
@@Fluffykunnwait who raised you? How old was your mother when you where born?
@Innerpandora grandparents and mom was 16. The best was to sum it up grandma tried to use me as her make-up baby to "prove" she was a good mother. That back fired horribly. Everyone knew she was abusive and did nothing. I'm NC with everyone in my family
Everytime someone calls CPS out of spite, it gets me so angry. There are kids out there getting SA'd, beaten, manipulated, neglected, ect and there are people like this.. People out there with too much time on their hands because of jealousy or something.
Cheating will NEVER be a mistake. It is a series of choices that you intentionally make.
You dont "accidently" take off all your clothes. Nor do you "accidently" fall into bed with someone that isn't your SO
Havent finished the story but the OP definitely needed to be real with his kids and tell them that they're never seeing their grand parents again wtf is this "they made mistakes" thing. Tell them they only have two grandparents now tf
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Those cps stories are more horrifying than people realize. Unlike a police report, a report to cps stays recorded, doesn't matter if it's true or false. It can still be dug up 15, 20 years later when someone want to check ypur character, and the results of the investigation aren't always written. Imagine you are on trial, your credibility and morals are put to the test, and then someone simply put up the fact you had a cps report. There goes your life once again.
OP3: "The grandparents were deemed unfit... and i won't do it" lawl
A mistake take is leaving the bread open a mistake is leaving the iron plugged in a mistake is leaving the door unlocked while you rush out to work CHEATING is not a mistake.
I would have thru my parents out the time I found them out they falsely reported me to CPS. The fact you let them stay baffles me.
My response to the last comment about giving them access with constant supervision and boundaries is why? why should I take from my life time and energy efforts to give to these ungrateful deceitful maniacs and endangering my whole family in the process all of that? what is the outcome that I will be gaining from that?
Once they tried to take the kids away from Opie there was no reconciliation there was nothing left. The parents only did this to punish their son for not letting them control his life.
Story 1: What is that second comment smoking!?
If OP ever so much as *_speaks_* to them again, he’s an idiot!
S1 sounds pretty fake honestly. It's how it's worded that makes it sound more like a novel
I always suspect it’s fake when in any courtroom scene they say the opposing side “painted themselves/ spun a story” or when they say “performance worthy of an Oscar”. I’m not dissing SecretVoices though , I don’t care about possible fake stories as long as they are taken from Reddit
You know it's 100% fake when the writer cut the story in half and start again with "update". Dude wrote it on the same day but somehow it needs an update? Did you mean part 2 maybe? And what's that "spoiler alert" at the end of the first post? This thing reeks of falsehood. It's so fake it tries to use the format of a reddit post without realizing it doesn't even fit with the context, and it fit even less with this type of writing effect cheap cliffhangers.
First story: I think OP is the idiot/*sshole to his wife, as it seems she had warned him about his parents. From his wife's reaction, it's very clear that his parents' narcissistic and toxic behaviour was well known beforehand, yet OP allowed them to move in without her approval. This is yet another case of a toxic fallout that could have been avoided if OP had not been such a weak doormat who evidently prioritised his parents over his wife. There is a reason why one leaves their parents and marries their spouse-your wife and children should always come first. Last story: STFU, OP is allowed to form her own opinions on her cheating husband's bastard child.
Story3: she owes that lady and her child absolutely nothing. It’s not her kid
Well you know what if she got with that dude knowing he was married she gets what she gets
Title story nta all the mutual friends are either cheaters or simps.
Just lies...smh..story doesn't make logical sense. CPS needs much more than that to investigate, then it jumps to a guardianship hearing 🤨🙄..come on.
Story 1 after what happened if i was the wife i would've divorced him and vanished with my kids.
Story 1: Honestly, OP is also TA. He knew his parents were utter garbage, and even his wife warned him ahead of time. But he somehow thought, "Oh no, they'll *definitely* follow the rules this time."
After a fucking lifetime of boundary-stepping, he let his shitty parents walk all over him again and make his and his family's lives a nightmare.
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