THE TRUTH ABOUT SELF LOVE: MISCONCEPTIONS, TIPS, AND MORE!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 ส.ค. 2024
- Today we talk about the truth about self love, misconceptions, and how to improve your overall confidence, self love, and self worth. Let's chat in the comments!
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“Be comfortable with not getting attention” that’s a word 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
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heyy I just started posting if you're interested! :)
But I don’t feel good about myself unless the person I like compliments me
I can't without attention, my moods be so down
@@jaclyn8047 that is the thing right there your confidence should never depend on someone else only you because at the end of the day did you have that person when you were born? You didn’t but you always have and will have yourself.
“Looking at my body as a temple, taking the sexual weight off of my body” that was a word!
Ik She's si right about that!
Anyone else find taty one day.. and said she’s my new therapist 🙃 or is it just me🙃 she definitely have the best advice 🙂
Same😭😭 since 2019💀
Me 😌
Almost 2yrs ago. She literally came when I most needed her.😩 Definitely heaven sent ❤️🥳
literally
I downloaded Instagram yesterday and I just started comparing myself and realised why I had deleted it in the first place
Me rn
I love when she said to stop focusing on your body in a sexual way, so true. It made me more confident about it and happier
I know that a lot of younger girls watch this so I'm just letting you know that when you're grown and have to pay bills and stuff you don't really think about this kind of stuff like that anymore. It's runs through your mind but it's not a big deal anymore. You appreciate and love yourself for all that you are. And you're much more than what you look like. The way you carry yourself is what ppl see. And it should be what you see too.
@Babyyy .p With real confidence. To understand you are the only you and that your face will only get you so far. You are smart and strong and learn to believe it. Embody what you want to be bc if you have an idea of what you want then you're halfway there. What you look like shouldn't control how you feel about yourself. Who you are and what you do in this world should.
@Babyyy .p You're welcome. Good luck to you. ❤️
heyy I just started posting if you're interested! :)
As a 16 year old I get paying bills i had to pay bills when I was 7 when my mom went to jail and my dad was on his mental health medication and you forget to think about it so it is true but at times I would look in the mirror at 7 years old and cry because I thought I was not good enough like God put me on this earth to suffer...
@@heavensimmons3645 regardless of paying bills it's a growth that only happens as you get older. Yes rough situations can help you grow faster, but mentally you're going to grow to that level where you're content with yourself, whenever you're meant to. It's not going to be on your time, but I promise it will happen and you will love yourself and what you've become 💗
I recently started my self love journey and honestly thought I must be doing this all wrong. There's no way its this hard or there's no way that it should take me this long. I journal a lot and it was refreshing to hear you talk about getting to know yourself. I look up all these prompts and have already went through digging deeper to find out what I genuinely like and who I am. My problem is that I do overextend myself to people whether its work, school, friends or my boyfriend. To be honest, until now I never thought about why I always do it. But that was partially my reason for starting this journey. I was drained everyday, I started putting my own ideas/plans on the back burner to make sure everyone around me was straight and then I stopped for a second and realized no one was doing the same for me. Initially I'm not going to lie , I was very upset and started to question it. But ... No one can love you how you need to be loved when they see that you aren't even loving on yourself. I don't know how I just stumbled across your page but I'm honestly so thankful that I did. This process isn't easy but I know that it definitely is going to be worth it ! Seeing this today gives me even more motivation to keep journaling and keep doing my affirmations to get to where I need to be . I'll keep in mind that "progress is not linear " and "being comfortable not getting attention"
Girl, that was so unexpected, but couldn't be anymore relevant to what I'm going through in this very moment right now. God bless 💜
i gave myself a break from social media, which has been 3 months and still going on to focus on myself, school, family, God, friends and goals and best decision ever💞 i’ve struggled with self love thinking i wasn’t good enough or pretty enough for a long time and one thing i’ve taken into consideration on this journey to improve my skin, hair, money, stretching, etc. I am worth it🥰✨
Same, good luck with your journey gorgeous🤍🤎
yes girl 💅
@@prettyminaj5268 you too doll!💓
@@EN-ru2lw energyyyy✨
Yes I girl I’m doing the samee thingg!! Rise up and good luck we all got this 💪🏽
I AM GOING TO WATCH THIS VIDEO EVERYDAY SO I CAN GET IT INTO MY HEAD. It's gonna be like my daily affirmation 🥺🤍
Sis said “you’re pouring into a strainer”😂🤣🤣🤣
Honestly, majority of the things I don’t like about myself are all physical attributes, and it’s been mentally draining me for years, but this year I’ve been trying really hard to work on myself mentally, so that I can work on myself physically in a healthy way. I love watching your videos taty because they always come in clutch.
Good luck, you made the right decision!
@@nooriman5944 Thank you!
Nah cause you're thee reigning queen of consistency at this point😪love it!!
We don’t deserve her. Girl you’re advice is always top tier and comes at the right time!! I literally feel like you’re an older sister and love it!!! I’m still going through the steps to fully loving myself💕
"Progress is not linear" 💯 sis! Great video 👏
Made me realize I have been loving myself incorrectly and lately I’ve been lacking a lot of self love And I have been feeling extremely down
This video came at the right time cause I just came out of a long term relationship and I feel lost as heck😭✋🏾
Fr
aww how are you?
,@@EN-ru2lw honestly I've been going ing thru a roller coaster of emotions but ill get there. Thank you ❤
@@shanon5555 it'll be okay boo everything happens for a reason i promise. ily✨💜
@@EN-ru2lw ily too❤🥺 thank you for the encouragement
I'm older than you, but you're still like the older sister I never had lol. Absolutely love when you talk about body confidence and self love. It's helping out so many people, like myself. Bless your soul!
I’ve been distracted with worrying about my relationships with people and how they think of me and if they ever going to give me time and care in the future if I don’t give them right now, and that made me gain a lot of weight of being scared to follow a diet when gathering are happening, and studying less and losing discipline and not workouting enough, even though i love staying disciplined, and i love achieving in my life, you made me realize the root of the problem Taty and thank you for that, I should give more time and energy into myself and be more disciplined just like how i’ve always been, Its my nature and i love it
I appreciate you for this! Even the most beautiful women have insecurities and they be going through it! Some don't...but the point is we are all human and we are not gonna get it right all the time! Embrace those stretch marks, quirkiness, embrace the current body that you have or anything else that you don't like about yourself ❤️ ik it's hard to do it sometimes...but we all can get there 💕
" you stayed because you didn't love yourself " BOOM that's the one! 😩
This is beyond the truth! I'm literally just now noticing this is why I was always so drained in these relationships of mine🤦🏽♀️ but that's OK! What matters now, is that I'm on the journey of self love and putting myself first!💖💪🏼💯
Yess ma’am
Girl I literally felt this way like 2 days ago... I started losing confidence myself... but imma get it back 😭... love you 😘
Taty i literally love you. I remember when i was 12 and first came across your videos I've been watching you for 2 years now. I feel like your my older sister. Thank you for helping me through my depression and making me feel loved. Love ya sis
"You existing is the super power" :))
not me with a whole notebook taking notes on you mama 🥰🥰🥰
No lié detected here‼️I love hearing outside of myself! Confirmation af! Sis your voice and presence is appreciated. High key!
i prayed fo god for guidance to the right path today and found this video and it revealed so much about myself that i didn’t realize. i appreciate you so much taty you truly change lives
Your beauty and Saweetie's literally blows my mind everytime! LIKE HOW, WOW!! JUST WOW.
Girl you need a podcast , fr fr
Speaking nothing but facts!💖💯
the fact that I had the lowest confedince in a while today and you posted abt selflove made me soo weirdly happy. LYOU taty
I feel like the first step of beating your insecurities is identifying them and trying to work on them in a way. I’ve been on my self love journey for over a year and I’ve identified 2 main insecurities: academic (procrastination/not having motivation) and personal (feeling like I’m a negative energy). I feel like the academic insecurities are more on the surface and are “easier” to fix in a way because for me, they don’t feel like a personal attack, just a character building journey and learning along the way, but I get more affected by the personal insecurities. Sometimes I feel like my best friends since I was 5 don’t like me anymore because I’m a “negative energy”, but that’s only true if I think it’s true. Sometimes I get jealous if they don’t give me as much attention because I overthink that and feel like I did something wrong or there’s something wrong with my personality that needs to change, and sometimes I chase that attention, which I know I need to stop doing. I have to remind myself that they already love me because they chose to be friends with me, and I don’t need to do anything extra for them to see my worth. Just working on myself and feeling worthy and thinking I’m positive energy will fix that for me and turn me into a positive energy🥰
Sorry if this was a little long I just needed to rant😭
She is like a big sister to give me advice anytime💖
Thank you so much
I just transfered from a school where I really didn't care about whether I was being seen or not, to a school with kids from different backgrounds (races, nations, religions).
I have tried so hard to stay true to myself and maintain my personality but lately I find myself craving to fit into "standards" that I have created in my head 😢😢
This video really came at the right time
Love you 💙
wow. this made me cry lol. Taty you really hit the nail on the head- and i appreciate you so much for that. you truly helped me learn more about myself and change my perspective. you are SO inspiring 💛🧡
Your TH-cam channel should be a course taught in school; it’s that essentially 😭❤️
Wow... this is the best for free therapy session I attended to in my whole breathing days :) 😂
Taty you're literally the best big big sister ever❤
You always have the best advice
Everytime that I feel a little down or maybe less confident, I always put your "how to" videos and my mood automatically boosts
thank u, ive felt low and felt like ive wasted so much time on myself for it all to go to waste. but this video has helped me realize that i need to start building myself back upp so thaankk u thankk u for reminding me
GIRLLLLL, Thankkkkk youuuuu! Needed this ! 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
In the first few minutes you started preaching to me immediately. A couple years ago, I started eating mad clean, working out and my body and confidence were A1. Then I found out the dude I was talking to was playing me with another girl who looked TOTALLY Different from me. I think I’m still recovering from that.
2 years and this video is still my life saviour and I always come back to it.
Just like you said within the video, self growth is not linear, and whenever I fall back, this video is my push forward
Love you taty💗 Please never take it down
I was feeling super down today and decided that I was over this recurring bout of low self esteem. I got on TH-cam and typed, "how to stop feeling insecure" and Taty's video on insecurity came up. I listened to it twice and every one of her videos that has come up after that, has literally been answers to my exact prayers today. She covered every thing that was on my heart today, I'm so glad I found her ❤❤❤
I just left a toxic relationship and I'm back to build myself back up
Just want to say thank you for all your lovely words who can set us free! If you do as you say, you will be happy. So again thank you for everything, hard work do deliver us the truth! This , and to believe in God - you will start to live! Sorry for my bad English 🙈😍
THIS RIGHT HERE IS GOLDEN EVERYTHING YOU SAID WAS FACTS. We need to love ourselves. Take care of yourselves beautiful ladies
I for real needed this. Every single word she said spoke to me. She’s so wise purr!
Taty, SO many different points in this just blessed me and spoke to me. May the Lord bless you, keep you, and guide you always in Jesus Name Amen! because this was so powerful and so needed for me❤️ “Be comfortable with not getting attention because you don’t need it to feel validated and whole.”
I don't stress over things that I can't control. For example my height, I can't control that and I may not like that about myself but I still love myself. If someone don't wanna date me cause of my height or I'm not tall enough for them then they ain't worth it and that's they loss.
heyy i remember you, might seem kinda weird but I talked with u I think in another one of tatys videos comment section😂 anyway yes I agree with what u said, its their loss if they pass u up 👏👏✨😤
Key words: Put yourself first !!!
I am So Glad I found you.. I Love you and all you are doing to help us women all over the world to keep our heads on straight ❤😇
"Pouring into a strainer" was a bar.. I will no longer overextend myself for another person.. I will never again share my love with someone who is not valuing me, respecting me, and giving me the love I want, need, and deserve.
I need to hear this tonight . Thank you 🙏🏽 ❤
The fact that I have the same hairstyle as taty is so pleasing for some reason
You're so pretty🤎
OMG girl. I don't know your age, but let me tell you... Im 42, and Im nicely surprised with you. Every word in this video has wisdom. I need to take notes. As someone comment in here: You are my new therapist too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!♥ THANK YOUUUU . I LOVE YOUR ENERGY
She is so stunning like🥲I could never
we need a makeup tut and girl your videos inspire me so much!
You’re giving amazing advices as always😩💞
This talk was needed! & us women need to be constantly reminded ❤️
Absolutely loved that you mentioned about how men view us and that we need to break away from these set expectations as a woman. We’re more than sexual partners!) please make more content based on these sensitive topics, I think it’s very beneficial
I loved this insight of what self love really is keep the content coming Taty loved your outfit plus makeup💕
everything you said was straight facts
CLICKED SO FAST I MISS THESE VIDEOS SO MUCH
BIG FAAACTS! 😤💯By far my fave vid about self love/confidence 🙌🏽Glad I'm at a point in my life where I'd rather be Respected rather than get Attention. If it can easily be given, it can easily be taken away. Ty for ur transparency, pointing out the unrealistic "norms" or "beauty standards" in today's society & for the constant reminders that us women are empowered, loved, respected, valued and appreciated. U are truly beautiful inside out 💖
The stuff about not loving certain parts because of conditioning is so on point! Thank you
Is it just me or is her voice really nice and soothing ly Taty
HER NAILS SO CUTE
Just here for the outfits. ✨✨✨
This was great, needed this reminder for why I made the right decision in leaving my ex. That’s not what I needed♥️ love ya!
I know this is “girl talk” but a lot of this applies to any gender, thanks for this! 🙏🏽
I feel like anybody going through a self love journey really needs to see this! My new spirit animal
I’m gonna listen to this everyday because I suffer with it it’s like I need people’s approval 😭
Am so so glad, I came across this video.
The truth is, this video blessed my life. I wonder how insecurities creep in and we stop being grateful for the things we have.😟 wow! Lord am sorry and am grateful for how you made me
I love my body 😊
This was amazing advice! I needed that reminder that sometimes we have bad days and weeks and it is ok!! Just gotta keep going thank you Taty ❤️
This helped a lot ! I’m so happy i found this video
Thank you sooooooo much!!!! Just what I needed to see!!
Very much needed this since I’ve been getting more into loving myself for myself 💕‼️🥰
I’ve been really needing this video lately!!! Thanks ❤️❤️
Loving these girl talks 💖
I just want to thank you. This was a serious wake up call and I need to handle it ! 💕
Much Love Girl! ❤️
girl- idk what your major is or what you’re studying or what you’re planning on doing for the rest of your life, but this is it. you’re helping SO many girls and SO many women to find beauty in themselves. if you aren’t already, you should really look into a career in this type of field because GIRL when i tell you, you’d be the most SUCCESSFUL woman EVERRRRRR!!💗💗💗
i am grateful to be born in the same generation as Ms Taty, like seriously i needed this👏i agree and i am happy to continue with my self-love journey with all of you♡
Tatyyy our older (and wiser) big sister❤
Needed this more than you know ! And that part about being gracious with yourself *chefs kiss*
I mever realized how much Taty blinks until this video🤣🤣but love the vid Taty keep them coming❤
taty i just wanna say girl .. i love you thank you for always being straight up 🥰🥺
I just want to say thank you I woke up in a deppresive mood today I havent felt deppressed in a long time only positivie vibes 🥰🖤🖤🖤🖤
I swear I was listening to the video but that jewelry and hair combo is giving 😻😻
Was feeling down today and had the urge to watch one of your self love videos to make me feel better and let me just say I love your content and your energy so much❤️ you are the big sister everyone needs! Thank you so much Taty you always make me feel like the baddest b😘
"Pouring into a strainer" was a bar.. I will no longer overextend myself for another person.. I will never again share my love with someone who is not valuing me, respecting me, and giving me the love I want, need, and deserve. I love myself when I am alone and when I am around others.
Negl this made me shed a tear cuz I realized that I never truly loved myself🤎
she really needs a podcast
Our big sister back at it again ✨💕
Saw this with the comments at 222! I’m reading for this new chapter!!!!!
Ur energy is so calming ❤️
It was like you knew 😭❤️ I love you Taty❤️
Big sister is back with the wisdom 💕
I've just found your channel and your videos. I'm very insecure and self love practically doesn't exist. I've been trying to find a way to overcome that, but it seems more like nothing changes and nothing helps me accept myself. I really hope that your words will help me as it already gave me some thought-provoking views
Can u make a video abt the step to love ur self/ how do you know when you have self love/ how to self luv type
Istg Taty you are truly a gem. Keep going, you amaze me everytime. 💕💕
you are so amazing! this video helped me so much
also thank u beauty !!
Honestly, this video is helping me sooo much! I’m wicked uncomfortable in my own skin and will absolutely degrade myself. You showed me what self love is girl! Keep it up 🤍