HOW TO NOT BE INSECURE: CONFIDENCE TIPS & TRICKS TO LOVE YOURSELF

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  • @futurecelebrity8785
    @futurecelebrity8785 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3465

    "My body is the shell of who I am, its how im going to present who I am inside"
    Yes.
    Ima keep that one in my head.

    • @chloe-dr4rk
      @chloe-dr4rk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Future Celebrity yessss you shouldn’t be in a state of “whatever fuck it who cares what i look like” unless you genuinely want to. make urself feel your best and entirely confident in how you are as much as possible

    • @ImagineFreedom
      @ImagineFreedom 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hello, I made a video about how to love yourself on my channel and I also talk about looks and all these things. Fell free to check it out:) th-cam.com/video/RVoaxC0vgzk/w-d-xo.html I hope this will be useful for somebody!

  • @kj8767
    @kj8767 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4021

    Even the prettiest girls have a lot of insecurities.

    • @666.xoxo33
      @666.xoxo33 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Forever KJ yeah a few people mostly say that I look cute(not everyone)and I feel very insecure tho

    • @bushraansari1650
      @bushraansari1650 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@666.xoxo33 same

    • @Ohthatsaish
      @Ohthatsaish 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Forever KJ soo true

    • @0dollars826
      @0dollars826 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      and don’t even start on me with the whole, “they’re just fishing for compliments”. like, some people don’t actually feel pretty.

    • @masuooo4452
      @masuooo4452 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@666.xoxo33 I wish I had urban level of confidence to call myself cute lol :'(

  • @sarayasmeen3382
    @sarayasmeen3382 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5145

    Taty telling me to not be insecure while looking like a SNACK😍😩

    • @lovetahera217
      @lovetahera217 5 ปีที่แล้ว +306

      She ain't a snack she da whole damn MEAL♡

    • @jazzyboo2733
      @jazzyboo2733 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Sara Yasmeen ok❤️💜

    • @safam4449
      @safam4449 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      nah nah yall, she could end world hunger

    • @morganjanaeee
      @morganjanaeee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Riggghhhht😪ugh😍

    • @lindskiyomi5381
      @lindskiyomi5381 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Sara Yasmeen periodt pooh

  • @tsedalmedhin8164
    @tsedalmedhin8164 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1477

    “You don’t have to like me, I like me” PREACH SIS

  • @ajwakhan3323
    @ajwakhan3323 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2982

    Ur the older sis I wish I had

    • @ashleycaridad5521
      @ashleycaridad5521 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I know right im the oldest

    • @alinai4583
      @alinai4583 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ashley Caridad
      shut up ash

    • @blahblah1636
      @blahblah1636 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aju Khan omg yea I swearr

    • @kyseng2185
      @kyseng2185 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @ashleycaridad5521
      @ashleycaridad5521 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@alinai4583 first of all my young daughter wrote that off my page ..so watch what u say or you will have a serious problem.. So tje one who needs to shut tf up here is u . ur dismissed byeeee

  • @emmykimore960
    @emmykimore960 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1372

    she makes me so motivated

  • @muneeba1329
    @muneeba1329 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1249

    I literally was just feeling insecure like 20 minutes ago lol

    • @nyainiguez
      @nyainiguez 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Lismerlyn Perez girl she’s talking about being insecure and you could care less, promoting yourself. disrespect. Lismerlyn, you’re beautiful inside and out!

    • @matildawitts3728
      @matildawitts3728 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      sameeee 😭😭😭

    • @vivelise16
      @vivelise16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Lizperex ~ can you stop💀.

    • @isla295
      @isla295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @user-yi8hj3qd6q
      @user-yi8hj3qd6q 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same girl 🤪🤪

  • @chelseaellis1626
    @chelseaellis1626 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1965

    People keep saying stuff like “its easy to be this confident when you’re this pretty” but you guys need to truly listen and understand what she has been telling us in this video and others in the past... Taty is a beautiful woman but just because someone attractive is telling you this kind of advice does make it untrue! Y’all can pull yourselves up like she says and have the same confidence as someone with the most confidence in the world, NO MATTER WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE. Yeah we all have flaws and stuff we wish we could snap our fingers and make go away but that doesn’t mean you cannot love yourself and be confident in being YOU. Like she said stop telling yourself negative things and get that good energy going. A while ago I used to think just like the people commenting stuff like “it’s easy for you to say” because I didn’t love myself, I felt low, I didn’t feel good enough, I felt low because of a situation I got rejected in... now I have been working on myself, getting to know myself, focusing on myself and I know there is no one like me and no one who can be me and that I DO have a lot to offer. I just wish everyone eventually has that breakthrough moment when they realize their worth and they realize how bomb they really are. Self love not only makes you feel amazing but it will make you successful. Please be kinder to yourself and please understand that you are you and if you just change the way you think about yourself and change how you do yourself you will be a lot happier in life. Thank you Taty for your videos, they have helped me a lot and I hope they help many others. ❤️

    • @jasminee8107
      @jasminee8107 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Chelsea Ellis i literally just commented “easy for you to say” 😂😂

    • @yayamartinez1404
      @yayamartinez1404 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yesss She is beautiful because she is confident :)

    • @arivinmoney
      @arivinmoney 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Facts! You put everything I ever wanted to say in words

    • @Yahmillavrussel
      @Yahmillavrussel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Preach !

    • @yamilalopez9931
      @yamilalopez9931 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Chelsea Ellis YESSSSS MAAM !!!!

  • @kennedy4230
    @kennedy4230 5 ปีที่แล้ว +848

    I need to get my notepad and take notes

    • @Lizperex
      @Lizperex 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi love! I just posted my first youtube video, please check it out! thank you so much! God bless!

    • @kennedy4230
      @kennedy4230 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lismerlyn Perez no problem

    • @singingcoversweekly3108
      @singingcoversweekly3108 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Lizperex I’m glad you are still doing it. Your account has grown in a year. Congrats

  • @hennajarouche2308
    @hennajarouche2308 5 ปีที่แล้ว +354

    i literally don’t care what the videos about, i’ll always watch whatever she posts because she’s always so well spoken and she’s very wise tbh, i can always learn something from her.

  • @inesel5082
    @inesel5082 5 ปีที่แล้ว +470

    sis be giving us them damnnnn tips she is just perfect I cantt

  • @priyankamakhija4858
    @priyankamakhija4858 5 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    I have been so insecure about my skin lately, this made me feel a lot better.

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      so glad ❤️

    • @lailarahiman4075
      @lailarahiman4075 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww same

    • @naturallycurlynicole4419
      @naturallycurlynicole4419 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same I have been insecure about my skin ( face) I pimples on my forehead and a scar near my eye😓😤😤😭

    • @priyankamakhija4858
      @priyankamakhija4858 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@naturallycurlynicole4419 don't worry. What I have been doing is taking better care of what I eat and just following up with my skincare. It might just be hormonal, fear not, it will be fine. I know that it is hard but keep in mind that people see in us much more than our complection.

    • @priyankamakhija4858
      @priyankamakhija4858 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lailarahiman4075 let's just work on not focussing much on it.

  • @briannasillie2407
    @briannasillie2407 5 ปีที่แล้ว +355

    I swear Taty only speaks factssss, and gives the best advice😍

    • @chelseatheballerina7951
      @chelseatheballerina7951 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Brianna Sillie I use these videos all of the time! She really does help put those in need❤️

  • @dev-hf6nu
    @dev-hf6nu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +304

    girl i love you sm make me so happy and i actually asked my crush out and we’ve been dating for seven months now🥰thank you!

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      aw yay!!!!!

    • @milica5220
      @milica5220 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Devyn Bruner thats beautiful omg

    • @aesthrellia3482
      @aesthrellia3482 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congrats love!

  • @goldties2770
    @goldties2770 5 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    don't miss the point guys!!! confidence comes from inside out not the other way round

  • @hihello-ig2hf
    @hihello-ig2hf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    why do i hype ppl to love themselves, when i dont love myself? it doesnt add up

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      its hard to take your own advice, happens to the best of us lol

    • @Mira-sg2ky
      @Mira-sg2ky 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Taty Cokley i feel like this is a call for help

    • @swaggycaca6646
      @swaggycaca6646 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      That’s because you don’t want them to feel the way you do, it completely makes sense

    • @stephaniecarter1107
      @stephaniecarter1107 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I felt this

  • @laurenambrose9199
    @laurenambrose9199 5 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Been feeling really insecure with my looks lately thank u sis🥰

    • @milica5220
      @milica5220 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lauren Ambrose love yourself becouse you're beautiful no matter what 💖💖

  • @perfectlyanest
    @perfectlyanest 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    ugh i love how real and down-to-earth you are
    like you're sponsored but you're not plugging you're genuinely excited?!?
    your authenticity is overwhelmingly amazing i love you

  • @jessicarowe1632
    @jessicarowe1632 5 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    Love this type of energy ✨

  • @nessali8651
    @nessali8651 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    “Love yourself girl or nobody will” J.cole ❤️ loved this video!

  • @cornelia9309
    @cornelia9309 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    As a young teenager, this is the cure to my insecurity. Thank you so much. Because of you, I've found out who I am. You've helped me starting to love myself. Thank you.

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      you're gonna make me cry 😭

    • @cornelia9309
      @cornelia9309 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TatyCokley I'm just stating facts

  • @Tyjianae111
    @Tyjianae111 5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I love the way taty looks at life I honestly need his I have a disability and people trying to bring me down every day

    • @Parisflower101
      @Parisflower101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      THAT MYIA😂😆😝🙈💁🏾 awww don’t let them bring you down whoever does that is incredibly unthoughtfull and just mean and ignorant, everyone should learn how to love others the way they are.

    • @cheelssunique2966
      @cheelssunique2966 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      May God continue blessing you xx

  • @cestcest
    @cestcest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i have always been so scared of people judging me, because i didnt have a 'hourglass' body. this made me feel so much better.
    you need the biggest thankyou in the world. thankyou. i love you so much

  • @nekyrslayer7818
    @nekyrslayer7818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Thank you for saying this, I’m at a very young age. In Middle School, I have been VERY insecure. About my height, Weight, Face, Acne. I have been bullied for this too. I had panic attacks from this. I always thought ‘I want to be one of the pretty girls’ because there short, skinny, and much more. This made me realize we all have insecurities even the pretty girls. I should love me and not care what anyone else says. People have told me this but I never really cared about it and just focused on the negative things that other people were saying. But you really taught me to love myself for who I am. I used to wear big hoodies so it couldn’t show my stomach wore make up to cover my face. I was so nervous when people (ecspecially boys) talked to me because I though they were gonna make fun of me. I have been in toxic friendships too. My life has been real tough. I know it will probably get worse in high school so thank you...I’m crying right now.

  • @marathecrow
    @marathecrow 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Here within the first 20 minutes, girl my loyalty and priority lies here sister!

  • @mrinal3184
    @mrinal3184 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    highkey forgot that self love is something you gotta maintain and keep up with. needed this !

  • @urmom-gf8dw
    @urmom-gf8dw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I started crying because my parents call me fat and when you started talking about that and saying like it’s a mirror and all I just broke down and now I understand why they say that

    • @StarSemiStardoll
      @StarSemiStardoll 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My parents make fun of my appearance too, I feel you

    • @bbymerci1792
      @bbymerci1792 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @ines180
    @ines180 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the presence of another's beauty does not mean the absence of yours , took me years to understand that and accept my body and when i did it was the most amazing thing that happened to me , stop being mean to yourself . ik its hard to see your beauty but trust me you'll get there one day and when u do its gonna change ur life

  • @dnteventry8522
    @dnteventry8522 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I honestly don't know what to do without you.. 1 hour ago I wished I'd sleep and never wake up again... I was thinking of hurting myself you legit saved a life tysm😭💓

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      omg you have SO much to live for. you are so much stronger than you think. keep pushing babe 💗

    • @dnteventry8522
      @dnteventry8522 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TatyCokley 😭❤️

  • @dummy500
    @dummy500 5 ปีที่แล้ว +983

    What if i wear men’s size 13 nikes

    • @milica5220
      @milica5220 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      c h e c k e r z thats what makes you stand out tho you should love yourself 💖

    • @madisonnn9432
      @madisonnn9432 5 ปีที่แล้ว +143

      I love the reference 😂 it’s so silly that in the tall girl movie she was judged by that

    • @christina.p1576
      @christina.p1576 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Omg love this 😂

    • @kierramarie4137
      @kierramarie4137 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      c h e c k e r z stopp😂😂😂💀

    • @levvti8608
      @levvti8608 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      bajsjsgsjjsh HTAKOAIS YOU JUST DID NOT LMAO

  • @helinturan4173
    @helinturan4173 5 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    You always have the best timing sis 😭❤️

  • @meiiii567
    @meiiii567 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I need to meat this girl and be her friend, I love listening to her talk. She deserves so much more recognition for the amazing advises she gives to everyone. I want everyone who sees this comment to like and share this video with someone who doesn’t know her channel. Because she is AMAZING and deserves so much support. 💕🧡🥰

  • @thepookiestpookie9865
    @thepookiestpookie9865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I tend to judge my looks when my hair is a literal tumbleweed, and I’m wearing mismatched pajamas or whatever. But then I actually DO MY HAIR, or pick out something CUTE, and I ain’t gonna lie, I be checking myself out a bit. Legit a completely different person on the weekends compared to when I’m actually going out in public.

  • @thegreatgamer7702
    @thegreatgamer7702 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I needed this like sis is always here for meeee

  • @char6762
    @char6762 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    literally i’ve been feeling so insecure and it’s been preventing me from making friends because i get so nervous that they won’t like me because i’m not pretty enough. this has made me feel so much better and i’m like so surprised you made this right now because it’s so convenient.

  • @norapeace6526
    @norapeace6526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You’re absolutely right. It amazes me when a girl that is maybe the not most attractive person in the room, has the most bubbly personality and confidence! And that is not all on looks, she just really loves who she is which is amazing and we should all be like that!

  • @camelliagordon2238
    @camelliagordon2238 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    She made me get back on track I was so insecure last night but now I feel refreshed #selfloveisthebestlove💕

  • @uhriabean
    @uhriabean 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I love watching Taty's videos. I'm a teenager so everything she says actually helps me in the long run when dealing not only with other people but myself as well.

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @annakathryn167
    @annakathryn167 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    honestly your being your own person and i’m here for it like you don’t care what they say and honestly what a queen

  • @EllaRingrose
    @EllaRingrose 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    With Confidence it is also to remind yourself that everyone is going through things, everyone is up in their own heads worrying about themselves. Once you realise this it is so easy to walk around with ease and assured in who you are. Everyone is human. With any scenario that scares you, ask yourself the simple question ‘What is the worst outcome that can happen from this situation’, usually it isn’t half as bad as we make it out to be! Fear is False Evidence Appearing Real, Challenge yourself everyday and you will step into a Confident Person. All the love and incredible video, Thank you x

  • @dorratrojette
    @dorratrojette 5 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Honestly with all these Instagram models it's hard to accept the way u look, sometimes I look at myself in the mirror and for a second i feel confident and beautiful in my own skin but then all the pictures of these insta models cross my mind and I ask myself " what makes beautiful, what is that thing that makes me pretty or attractive compared to all these gorgeous girls" And I know that this mindset is very toxic and unhealthy but it's really hard to love yourself these days with all the media influence

    • @eveesavage5599
      @eveesavage5599 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I'm Bang PD Wifeuu I dont have to go on social media to see these models, theyre on my mind 24/7 and it gives me a toxic mindset abt myself, i feel how you feel

    • @user-gv5hm8po6b
      @user-gv5hm8po6b 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i see all those girls at school, and obviously i feel jealous and hopeless but i have started to love myself because if im gonna die ugly, might as well die ugly & happy 😂😭

  • @shaniajohnson4737
    @shaniajohnson4737 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I get so happy when she post and she has the best advice 🥰

  • @keneshamarshall6575
    @keneshamarshall6575 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    You're so right my queen! I'm thin and use to be so insecure until i started following celebs like skai jackson, zendaya, teala dunn and other slim women and now my confidence is healthy. I cant wait to be as confident as you tho!!! I LOVE YOU! btw where's the shoutout of the week?😂😂😂

  • @averydias3114
    @averydias3114 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    “I’m like starving myself for this video” girl you look good any shape or form 😡💘

  • @rubychavez9913
    @rubychavez9913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Omg just from this video it took me a few weeks of positivity and I have like a totally different mindset on my body and myself 😭😭 this is probably one of the best things that happened to me ilysm💗💗

  • @platinumgreyx8976
    @platinumgreyx8976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am the only one with a degree & a license in the medical field. My family really belittled me and made me feel insecure growing up & in school. My mom told me I was stupid for picking my profession…. WHERE I SAVE LIVES!!!Mind you… my siblings were wanna be gangsters, alcoholics, went to jail, crashed/totaled my parent’s cars, fought people. Abused people. And they made me so so ashamed of myself. Now I put myself first. Now I love myself. Now I pride myself in my accomplishments. Now I brush their hate off.

  • @ariellegangemi8700
    @ariellegangemi8700 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I was literally insecure all day and when I opened up my laptop I saw ur pretty face and u helped me with my incercuritys i love u soooo much thx for everything God bless u always xxx

  • @justiner1332
    @justiner1332 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kind of related to your last few points, I’ve learned that it’s super important to surround yourself with other confident people who are secure enough with themselves to be happy for you and your success. It’s so much harder to be confident if you’re surrounded by bad energy and people who refuse to see your light. Love girl wish you nothing but the best! 💞

  • @graciewright3471
    @graciewright3471 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I absolutely love the advice your dad gave you. I always thought I was weak minded for worrying about my ex cheating, but after we broke up I found out he did multiple times. Now I know he was just a weak man. Love this video & you!!💕💕

  • @natyralazami
    @natyralazami 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    she's the type of person to give a random girl a compliment that makes her day

  • @kennedy4230
    @kennedy4230 5 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Yasss, love these, btw you’re so pretty 💕

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      thank you baby 💕

    • @kennedy4230
      @kennedy4230 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Taty Cokley ur welcome

    • @Icygirl_love
      @Icygirl_love 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      and so are you! 💯

    • @kennedy4230
      @kennedy4230 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yunggin Queen thank u 💕

    • @Icygirl_love
      @Icygirl_love 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kurly Kennedy you’re welcome 💗

  • @sydneighhubbard3971
    @sydneighhubbard3971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have been insecure about my body and face for a while now but it recently peaked once I got a boyfriend. He makes me feel amazing but my insecurities get in the way of our relationship but he is so understanding about it. Thank you so much this helped me a lot 😘

  • @kirstynkelly1816
    @kirstynkelly1816 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    OMG YOU DON’T KNOW HOW MUCH I NEEDED THIS VIDEO RNNNN!!!🥺🥺🥰

  • @froggy3268
    @froggy3268 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I was literally just binge watching your self love videos and u upload this🥺🥺

  • @TheStatuesqueDiva
    @TheStatuesqueDiva 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Girllllll yesssssss. Crazy how much this makes sense. I love seeing young girls spreading love and self preservation. A lot of people don’t understand how important it is as a woman to love yourself and feel beautiful. Keep going sis. I’m here for it lol. Also love your haul videos definitely helped me find some outfits for my baecation next month since I definitely don’t have fashion taste lol ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ednakoraya3115
    @ednakoraya3115 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This is literally so empowering

  • @cxlaire5069
    @cxlaire5069 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m having so much problems with feel insecure, feeling jealousy, and trying not to care what others think of me i had to right down tips from you and read them and remind myself of everything now i’m going to start going into the mirror and train my brain to think i’m beautiful with everything on me and to realize i’m not them i’m me for a reason. Thank you so so much mama❤

  • @abrianaibarra1919
    @abrianaibarra1919 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’ve been feeling so insecure the past couple of days and this really helped me thank youuu

  • @katymolinaa
    @katymolinaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the reminder to not stress about your partner until something happens for you to stress about bc you chose a strong partner is really reassuring i could feel my shoulders relax 🥺 thank you kween! keep doing your thing!! ✨

  • @annavittitoe3919
    @annavittitoe3919 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Your confidence is inspiring, and your videos make me walk into a room and slay so thank you, I love you ❤️

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      love you too baby

  • @sacralbeautyllc3163
    @sacralbeautyllc3163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel like I’m the most confident when I’m single. Like it’s easier for me not to live up to anyone’s expectations

  • @juliettfrell4460
    @juliettfrell4460 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    8:30-8:45 I’ve never been so positively attacked in my life😂 thanks I needed that❤️

  • @annie6756
    @annie6756 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this helped me a lot taty….thank u…I don’t have an older sister, and I don’t have many ppl for me to talk to-but when I watch ur vids it’s like talking to an older sister I never had, and you’ve honestly helped me become the person I am-❤️❤️

  • @Alina-fp1gx
    @Alina-fp1gx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    I feel like I’m a weird looking person like idk if I look normal it’s weird

    • @charlize6994
      @charlize6994 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      That means your unique. You’re gorgeous girl. Th best thing you can wear is confidence and a smile. I hope you win all of your battles because you deserve the best and we are all here rooting for you! 😌

    • @ohyeahyeah2457
      @ohyeahyeah2457 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Ana J watch her how to glow up video and come back it can work 💞

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  5 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      why would you want to look "normal" though? be different, stand out, that is what makes you so beautiful

    • @Alina-fp1gx
      @Alina-fp1gx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      - Nicolle
      awww this is so sweet, I just woke up and it’s so nice to hear this first thing❤️😭
      I will try to love myself a little more than I do it’s hard for me but I will try 💗 thank uuu🤧

    • @milica5220
      @milica5220 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ana J thats what makes you stand out, and be beautiful 💖

  • @aclusterofstars
    @aclusterofstars 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I literally had to delete Tik Tok because it brought down my self-confidence and body-confidence MASSIVELY. I'm now 4 days free and am feeling SOOO much better (Plus I actually have a sleep schedule now lol). Sometimes, you just need to delete media. It is SO influential but it isn't all good, the media helps to project so many different standards that we feel we can't meet.

  • @lonnie6023
    @lonnie6023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    my friend always tells me how I’m too fat, look like a boy, slow, fat face, too tan. it really affects me still, she called me this an hour ago as well. thank you for this

    • @aydriebrownieasmr7026
      @aydriebrownieasmr7026 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You need to drop her as a friend

    • @anna7203
      @anna7203 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She isn't your friend ❤️

    • @justme-rt2yq
      @justme-rt2yq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      you are gorgeous sissss drop herrr

    • @BingusEdits6501
      @BingusEdits6501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She's probably insecure about something herself , and she's possibly more insecure than you because she's actually taking it out on you . Don't let her crap get you down . You should talk to her about it and tell her it's hurting you , if you haven't already . If she still acts like a bratt after you tell her about it , you should probably drop her .

  • @idkwhattoputtt1
    @idkwhattoputtt1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    it’s not even a lot .. it’s just weight , my teeth , & acne .. but that’s stuff i can change soo yay 🥺.

  • @anjalibains2823
    @anjalibains2823 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    People be saying stuff to me Grown to act like its their problem not mine. It is who I am and I accept it ima keep believing this

  • @elizabethg4984
    @elizabethg4984 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this girl so much. I found this channel around april, when I was ending a "thing" i had with this guy and i kept thinking I was the issue, maybe I wasnt good enough or confident enough for him. And i watched her videos and it felt like she was my friend yelling at me telling me I LOOK GOODT. It honestly helped alot. Love you girl.

  • @itslovelyindia
    @itslovelyindia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You are such a beautiful and genuine person... listening to your videos help me so much and I really believe and live by what you are saying. I love these videos you do... you’re so amazing and beautiful and confident and sweet I adore you, Taty🥺💓

  • @zemathegreat
    @zemathegreat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sis we rly need a video on ur hairstyles cuz their killin it

  • @jaydesiler1061
    @jaydesiler1061 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    When people ask me for my talents and strengths, I freeze up. I'm still learning about myself everyday so I dont really know how to answer.

    • @stephaniecarter1107
      @stephaniecarter1107 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What tips help you start the process in learning?

  • @gracies._.place05
    @gracies._.place05 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ok so i am very insecure and im always watching this kind of stuff and your channel but you are one of the only people who make me feel happy and everything like that so thank you for everything and i love you taty keep on being as close to perfect as humanly possible

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aw this made me smile, I'm so glad i could help babe

  • @yuhhgetintoit4877
    @yuhhgetintoit4877 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Early
    Omg the queen liked 😍

  • @valenciaaaaaaa
    @valenciaaaaaaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    OH MY GOD! See, this is the life I live for. I come back from being in Washington D.C all day with my legs killing me. . .and comparing myself to other people literally all day. Thank you big sister! Ilysm!
    uPDatE: The queen herself has replied. I repeat, the queen herself has replied!

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      love you more babe ❤️

  • @chaellelemati5289
    @chaellelemati5289 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I love you so much
    You have helped me so much I was soo depressed and I felt ugly I thought no one could even love me i just wanted to die
    But your videos about confidence and self love helped me so much
    Thank you taty 💕💕

  • @mirandagaviria8998
    @mirandagaviria8998 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    my mama always helping me feel the best

  • @jackiehall3796
    @jackiehall3796 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    yess the queen has posted

  • @BigStephYuhh
    @BigStephYuhh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t know how anyone can dislike this video.. your energy and words of wisdom give me life Queen 🌸✨

  • @kaywanabaptiste3988
    @kaywanabaptiste3988 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You keep me going on my lowest off days 😩❤️ I really appreciate you taty ☺️👑

  • @Peachgguk-tz6yb
    @Peachgguk-tz6yb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just dyed my hair blue and you’d think I would’ve been super insecure (which I kinda was before going to school) but I later realized how good I look with blue hair! And now I love it and I’m confident with any other hair color I wanna try:)

  • @laurenxx6047
    @laurenxx6047 5 ปีที่แล้ว +685

    It’s easy to love yourself when you are as pretty as you

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  5 ปีที่แล้ว +300

      loving yourself comes from the inside out, watch the entire video

    • @musicianshipcreative3660
      @musicianshipcreative3660 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      fake it till u make it

    • @2396p-d3q
      @2396p-d3q 5 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Tbh there's a bunch of beautiful girls who don't see themselves as beautiful no matter how many people tell them so I honestly don't believe that because it's not how they see you it's how you see yourself.

    • @milica5220
      @milica5220 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lauren Lea xo but you deserve to love yourself no matted how you look sis 💖

    • @itsaileen3827
      @itsaileen3827 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Lauren Lea xo girllll don’t say that💀 yea she’s gorgeous asf but i’m sure you are too, don’t compare sis we’re all unique for a reason

  • @chelseatheballerina7951
    @chelseatheballerina7951 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I use all of these videos to help out my insecurities and drama including my crush. She really knows how to help those in need ❤️

  • @AC-ze8xb
    @AC-ze8xb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Girl u give me all the good vibes i need to be living my life to the fullest ur so motivational ily ❤❤

  • @wezouskimac5659
    @wezouskimac5659 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i literally love your content, u should have your own show about girl talk or some no cap

  • @Women_Grow
    @Women_Grow 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Watching your channel has made my improve with my style for what I like and my attitude 😁💛💛💛

  • @day-dreamer1313
    @day-dreamer1313 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    "That is your loss. I'll give it to somebody else or give it back to myself." Girl I LOOOOVE the idea of giving it back to yourself. 🖤💯

  • @powerful760tiger2
    @powerful760tiger2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The thing i’m most insecure about is my body and my friends went through my photos AND SAW A PICTURE OF ME IN MY SMALL BATHING SUIT and idk what to do

    • @justme-rt2yq
      @justme-rt2yq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i know this is late..but you don’t have to be insecure about you body! this is one of the things that makes you different,unique and special! i am sure you are gorgeous in everything you wear!

  • @joslyncoleman7946
    @joslyncoleman7946 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    okay you are literally booked for a self confidence coaching job.. like this is so uplifting

  • @ciaragonzales2708
    @ciaragonzales2708 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You yelling at me makes me really motivated 😂

  • @On_Point10
    @On_Point10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Surrounding yourself with love ones who encourage you to see your beauty and strengths makes such a big difference. Side note; you're stunning! xoxoxo

  • @fatimareyes6735
    @fatimareyes6735 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I have been struggling with this so much lately Thank you!!

  • @galactawhore5800
    @galactawhore5800 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    i clicked on this video not expecting to relate very much because i'm somewhat comfortable in my skin. but this made me realize that i do need more work on myself than i thought. thank you taty, you're a wonderful soul and you bring so much goodness into the world. be proud of what you do..

  • @lexiidiakonis7991
    @lexiidiakonis7991 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You’re the bestfriend I’ve always wanted. Seriously changed my whole way of thinking & I believe I have a more positive outlook on some things ❤️❤️ thanks Taty 🤘🏽

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aw yay I'm glad to hear that ❤️

  • @lyssa4494
    @lyssa4494 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks this makes me feel so much better to myself

  • @toniodejimi3905
    @toniodejimi3905 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    you are a blessing Taty! you have boosted my self confidence so much!💕💕

  • @lakishavictor8299
    @lakishavictor8299 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow I was just insecure a second ago once i gone through this video my insecurities just vanished into thin air! Trust me this video is worth it.

  • @maichiwo83
    @maichiwo83 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Sis really glowin🌶😍😍

  • @Unicorngirl-oz3ln
    @Unicorngirl-oz3ln 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My parents had 1 job and I come out lookin like this😐like look at taty🤧😭she’s so pretty😔

  • @aaliyahmitchell1757
    @aaliyahmitchell1757 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    love watching your videos 💕 you should do a video regarding how to be comfortable/confident being single when all your friends are in relationships🙂