How To: Build Confidence and Know Your Worth
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ต.ค. 2020
- Today we discuss building confidence, self worth and value, and self love. Thanks to Victoria's Secret PINK for sponsoring this video! Information below
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this is how many people things she is gorgeous
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I was gonna say you’re this pretty and your makeup is just as pretty.
@@N0lemts what do you mean
@Lexus Parrott u mean Think instead of things smh🤦♀️ can't believe 1k people understood what u wrote
@@jasminehaynes6596 Maybe because we have common sense and know she meant thinks. Unlike you. Which you apparently think you have to point out every mistake people made because you don't have common sense. You make mistakes too so don't make fun of other people for making a mistake. You also offended us, the 1k you think don't have common sense to understand what she meant. That's on period sis.
@@Katie-ut6ol PERIOD
Too bad some of us our parents are the ones who bring us down and do the comparison for us
FACTS!!!🥴
yup :(
felt this a little too much 🙂😭😂🙃
Talking to my parents is like talking to a mountain, they wont move an inch
bruh
so true
I love her, she always knows what she's talking about 😌
That's great bc she's on YT, people on YT should!
It's shocking that no one ever mentions the book "Women's Magical Truths" on Borlest. That book is the best thing I've read lately warm recommendations !
Sisss you came just in time... I’m a college freshman slowly realizing how much of my self confidence I let go of trying to be enough for someone who I didn’t even need. Thank you big sister much love 😘
Ugh I love seeing comments like this, I am proud of you love!
sis this is my exact situation rn too we got thisss 🥺
I’m almost the same as you. since I went to college and started seeing people who were different from me I started to lose my confidence because we are all in high school on a similar level. I’ve never seen people who are rich or have many experiences and talk about things I don’t know lol
When she says don't be like anyone else... remember she is saying to be you but it's okay to be inspired by others but not to try to imitate someone else's image because you are perfectly you!
Still don’t understand how she still doesn’t have a million subs she’s literally the best advice giver/older sister 💋 ✨
7 months later and she still doesnt :(
She had 888k subs. She's getting there
She's 106k away now :))
Ikr!!!
She’s at 907k now
For me confidence is being comfortable in my insecurities. Like I'm insecure about my hair, my eyebrows and my feet🙈😂 but I get my confidence knowing that I'm imperfectly perfect.
But thank you Taty for the tips❤️ I can never stop learning to love myself and becoming confident 🤭❤️
Doesn't matter because this mental traits usually come from positive thoughts of having a positive personality is ingrained within the subconscious mind you just don't wake up one day and boom you r confident all of a sudden you need to work on it little by little each day adding positive thoughts in your mind that will change your personality into a positive one that's what I am doing currently because for some reason I think I am not good enough to be a good boyfriend but those thoughts r probably stem from my poor teen age years which I was extremely shy which I never looked girls in the eyes and shit like that but I'm growing everyday peace out✌️
@@lifeisagameofknowingyourro6327 how do u Ingrane positive thoughts ?
@@Mel-kb3ww affirmations usually work for me (complimenting myself, repeating positive thoughts about myself and others, etc.)
Why your feet? Lol I hate my feet to it looks like I have a 6th toe and I have extra bone sticking out the back
YOUR HAIR IS EVERYTHING😍😍😍
Yes I struggle with this I feel like it’s a roller coaster . I have my good days and bad days . More bad than good. So thank you for doing this video. I feel good when I can give advice to people or dancing or singing.
My best friend always reminds me that progress isn't linear! It's okay to have a bad day love
Taty Cokley Thank you! I always felt if I had bad days I’m going backwards in progressing.
I’ve been having good and bad but more bad so I’m contemplating just giving up the self love journey . And I would like to know if u are at a better place with self love
@@Mel-kb3ww I would say don’t give up, it easier said than done I know , but it’s true. I would start small like writing down affirmation then go from there. What are your passions? As for me I feel like I’m getting there I’m more further looking back from where I started.
Candace Bacon thank u for the advice
istg she can read minds sis I NEEEEEDED THIS
I have a big forehead and I’m “fat” (even tho my friends tell me I don’t and I’m not, trust me it’s true) and I play this role that I am confident but I’m not at all. I feel bad and ugly. I’ve never had a boyfriend or went on a date and I’m 17, so I feel really ugly when most of my friends (who are around 18 and 21) have boyfriend or have attention. Im not jealous, my friends are so beautiful !!! I just feel ugly. Your video really helped, it’s the first time I see you in my suggestions and I will definitely subscribe to your channel
I’m late but I just wanna say your beautiful and I can kinda relate I’m like skinny and I’m darkskin so someone always tryna make a constant joke but u gotta realize you gotta be your biggest fan and love yourself the most yk
hey!! haven't you heard the phrase "pretty girls have big foreheads"? You're pretty not ugly!
If it helps at all i also have a big forehead. I'm ethiopian we all do haha. I've been trying to lose weight on and off since I was 13 years old and im 22 now. I didn't finally begin to lose weight until I developed a healthier relationship with food. Even now it's not perfect, but still trying.
Also sis you're 17! that's still so young but I know what you mean. I didn't get into my first relationship until I was 21 so I'm a "late bloomer" haha. But from my experience and the people around me getting in and out of so many relationships is no fun it hurts. Trust God and His timing. There is a season for everything. (Ecclesiastes 3:1-8)
Make sure your confidence is rooted in WHOSE you are - aka God's child. That automatically makes you a princess of the King of Kings. That makes your worth so high!! have to affirm this to myself daily.
Read Psalm 139 for a self-worth reminder. Also if you don't already watch BREENY LEE on youtube. Changed my life. Rooting for you sis
@@enkubella omg thank you so much for your comment it makes me really happy and more confident !! It is true tho, pretty girls always have big forehead😭 and yeah now that you posted that comment I feel like it is better to take my time and stop comparing myself to people. Tysm, take care 🥰❤️
Same I am also 17
girl, i just wanted to say that i’m blonde, skinny, and 16, but i’ve been insecure my whole life. this past year i’ve done a TON of self improvement, and i PROMISE you, everything you need, you have. :) all my friends got boyfriends before me, and my first one was when i was 14. it was a long distance relationship, and the guy was really weird, but that was what i thought i deserved. i was SO sad and insecure all the time. i promise you, it’s so worth it to build up your confidence and love yourself first. when you love yourself, you can take on the world. you are beautiful!! EVERYONE feels ugly, and that has taken me years to understand. but the second you change your mentality is the second you change your life. i hope this helps. god bless :)
“ Be the best version of yourself” YESS
WE LOVE A CONFIDENT QUEEN 👑
I snuck to the chipotle bathroom during my shift soon as this dropped.
Damnnnnn sis she really is preaching. When she said we are comfortable with self loathing 😳😳 made me realize something new today
What inspires me is God, knowing I have someone I can speak to n knowing that person won't judge me. My relationship with God is important at this age I'm 15 years old. #Iamenough
Its like she just knows what I need at the moment with every one of her videos. Love you taty 💕
EXACTLY! That's what I thought
10:10 nothing but truth. Disconnecting from social media and putting your time and effort on bettering yourself and spending time with your loved ones needs to become the norm. Love these insightful videos! Good job 💕
YES THE QUEEN HAS POSTED 👑👑💕💕
I swear Taty always knows exactly what to post when we need it most❤
Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord , she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.
Proverbs 31:30-31 kjv
y'all are every where
Yaasssss🤝🏽 Amen
i have been trying to find a way to gain my confidence. i look at one of my friends and a see a gorgeous girl. her body:perfect. her looks:perfect. her ability to get a guy with one look:perfect. i'm just feeling a little down. i wanted to say thank you for all of your good vibes. i know some people can't relate to this because they have more confidence. again thank you so much.
My confidence plummeted when I started feeling like I wasn’t enough. Truly believing that you’re enough really makes a difference in how you view yourself
Taty "Always-dropping-gems" Cokley❤🧚🏾♀️
Self love has always been an issue for me. I know u can’t love anyone if you don’t love yourself but in reality I don’t think I will be able too. It’s been years.
Self love takes patience and confidence. I haven't mastered it as yet but I can't wait to have the feeling that I am good enough. ❤😅💖
You got this! I go through that sometimes too, but at the end of the day, there is an abundance of love everywhere you look! Love doesn’t always have to be romantic or anything, as soon as I realized that it’s been better for me because I’ve been able to feel all the love that the people around me are willing to share with me wether it be friends, family, people online, pets, etc. You’re amazing, never doubt it!
Denisha Grindley Im sorry for the really late reply 😭😭😭but twiniiiiesssssss😄
i’m allergic to cats Thank you so much🥺You are amazing too❤️❤️❤️
Honestly like I can't even begin to explain how much you are doing. You are soo are pretty, but most importantly your kindness and your willingness to help girls who are struggling with their self confidence is just sooo BEAAAUTTIIFFUUULLL
How is she this much pretty from the inside and from the outside😍😱😍😍😍🥰😘🤗
Man this is not just a pretty girl...you're a blessing sis..I cried😭❤
You know what’s crazy, all these things that Taty said are COMPLETELY true but for me what really helped me is music. Once I started focusing on Me and Me only I felt so much better and music is like the cherry on top. 💅🏽
I’m trying to glow up physically and mentally, and your channel helps me so much. Thank you! Hope you’re doing okay!
your hair is poppinggggg and thank you so much for making this type of videos they really help
I used to feel bad that i dont have close friend or close family member to shere my ups and downs ...but since i know you i've learned alot....thank yu sis you, like a big sis to me ❤i love you
Let me your friend! ❤️❤️❤️ Sending you hugs
Me: girl you need to work on your confidence
Taty: Posts video on it😍😇💕
I love that you always make videos like this! They’re so helpful and relatable. I’ve been subscribed to you for a while & I admire how adamant you are about reminding us how important self love is. 💗💗💗
She psychic cause everytime I struggle with something she always post something to help me with that 😼😩💓
I love this, we tend to compare ourselves in such a way that we forget how beautiful we are and that lowers our self-esteem.
Confidence comes from within...
not true. self esteem and self confidence dont always come together
This whole look ? ✨ immaculate ✨.. you’re so beautiful Taty, inside and out 🤎
It's the consistency for me🤩
ahh im so glad you posted, today has been tough mentally and I need thisss ily💓💓💓
literally made me cry cause I could relate to every single thing. I'm so grateful for a TH-cam like you
i’m already really confident but i love watching this to build it up even moree!🥰
Heyy booo ! 💖 thanks for the video! I needed it bc I’m finally learning how to love myself and not care what ppl think about me. It’s been a roller coaster and you’ve honestly helped me a lot bc I re-watch all your videos of how to❤️💖 thank you for being an amazing person taty!!!😭🥺
aw omg i love youuuu
I think this is my fave video by you. I’m watching it twice because it was just so helpful and everything you said is the TRUTH, it made me cry a little. Tysm 🥺💗
I found your page literally today, I'm so glad I found you gorg! I've just gotten over a break up and your advice is what I need. I stan someone like you 😌❤️
I love the idea of your value being attached to who you are and not what you physically look like or what you own. I've learned so much about myself in this past year about what means the most to me and what my priorities are and it all has to do with that intangible love of creating content and how I treat my friends and family. Loved this video!
Taty it’s amazing that you just made this video because I was just thinking bad thoughts about myself. God used you.
Oh.My.God.
I needed to hear this. I was in the middle of a break down and confused about my worth. You are a beautiful soul, I needed someone to say this to me. After all these years of being talked down to by classmates and parents. People who were supposed to love me no matter what have made me so confused on what I am worth and wonder why I am so different than other people. I so thankful I found this video. I am so thank for who I am.
i swear listening to you on my worst days helps more than you could imagine. I love love LOVE watching your videos and how you are able to give us this information and talk to us about the things you went through and help us be our best selves. ❤️ love it , love you ! yes ma’am
Sis you spoke facts and made you me think about things that I did to try to do get other peoples attention . I felt the need to gain confidence through others when really I had to gain confidence in my myself through loving myself. Accepting the fact that I'm different and have a different vibe then what other people have helps me gain confidence and know that this is who I am. I have to learn to Embrace my own vibe no matter if I get attention or not.
What inspires me most is the potential I have within myself! ☺️
Hi Taty, I just wanted to say thank you for being a youtube big sister to me when my cousin or my mom are busy and letting me know my self worth. I love you so much and I hope you have an amazing day.❤
LOVE UUU
I have started trying to build my confidence and this video gives great guidelines on how to do that. Never stop helping people Taty, love you ❤️
thank you ❤️ I could relate to everything you said and now I feel like I know the steps the take to build my self confidence, self love, self worth, self esteem, self awareness etc. 🥺.
Me: watching this
My mom: “yes go taty!”
Me: 👁👄👁
My mom: “I need self confidence to” *rolls eyes*
LOL YES MOMMM
😂😂 even your mom knows the vibessssss
Taty Cokley oml I- ,y candy has dropped but girl I am in middle school and : Confidence before you ⬇️ Confidence now ⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️ ❤️ thank you
Omg lol
your mom passed the vibe check ✔️
Your a life SAVER TATY!!! I have been missing my ex friend but I know they are toxic. Its the holidays and I need to regain the confidence that I lost over the past months!
She always speaking so pure and genuinely 💗
Thank you taty for being supportive . Thank you for being a voice , influencer! I hope one day to collaborate with someone like you! Cuz we need to talk about these issues so the world can be a better place 😭❤️
Yeiiiiih, l was so waiting for her, missed you taty🤗🤗, her vibe makes my night. PERIOOD❤️😌
Thank you for helping me with not just my confidence but remind of my worth idk if that makes sense but your videos have really helped me throughout the past 2 years may god bless you #iamenough
YOU ARE MORE THAN ENOUGH YESSS
#iamenough
You always come with the videos right on time. Always! And we definitely need to know the difference between self esteem and self confidence because you can be confident and still have a low self esteem which can then affect our self confidence. Crazy. I always look forward to your videos! ❤️❤️
Crazy. I JUST prayed about this (confidence) last night & ur video popped up on my home page/feed. Ur voice & msg was pretty much the answer to my prayers. Ur videos have helped me see the light during my darkest moments. Tysm 🙏🏽 Pls write a book! 😭❤️
YESS this is the energy I NEEDED 🔥🔥
Thank you so much Taty! I’ve been waiting on this video, hopefully I can become more confident in my self after this. I love you❤️
I needed this so much today Taty thank you. For me I never received attention from guys growing up. Now that I've had a glow up in the last few years, I've had super attractive guys come on to me. This feeling feels foreign to be and I'm trying really hard not to crave attention and validation from men by doing things that fulfill me internally. You broke it down beautifully to the tee.
Thank you Taty I actually really needed this rn because I was just bullied for my looks and my flat chest on the bus and then I watched this and felt so much better! 🥰 😍 you always know exactly what to say so thank you again! 😘
OMG you make so much sense. Im a 58 year old gay man and have just been through a rough 4 years. I have a few unique talents and am honing in on them. THANK YOU so much for this. Not enough older people respect OR relate to younger people, they say older = wisdom. Well YOU have it in abundance and btw you loo naturally wonderful probably because you are naturally confident from within. Thank you so much for this
what inspires me everyday is the self-love and self-determination i have in me ,as well as my family and my brother inlaw that passed away, bc i know he wouldn't have wanted to see me fail🕊💘
#IAmEnough.❤
Omg I just loved this video sm!! When you said sometimes it’s easier to feel this way so you don’t wanna get out of it, was the one that hit home. I literally thought I was the only one, but thank you so much! This helped me so much and from now onwards I’m gonna start my journey towards self confidence❤️❤️xx
Thanks Taty, I can't thank you enough 🥺 you made me feel good about myself, my relationship, my body and shits. I LOVE YOUUU SM GIRLLL
Omg! Thank you so much! Ive always felt at least a little insecure. It took me a long time to figure out who I am. I didn’t feel confident in how I looked or how I was on the inside. You helped me so much! Now I can stand with my chin up! Ive never ever felt like that! And now I can truly say that I love myself inside and out, now matter what anyone says or thinks. I am me, and I am enough. You are enough. Don’t let other people bring you down! Thank you so so much. I will never forget the way you’ve made me feel about myself! 💕❤️
You are enough love , keep going 💓💓
My queen💗 u literally inspired me to start TH-cam so thank you💋
YAYYY!
I rewatch this every time I need a reminder 🥰
I love how every video you make is always something that makes us the viewers strive to be our better selves. Love you
You’re literally a queennn tatyyy
Literally to the 1% reading this we wish all the success in the world. We pray that God continues to bless you. And that you live your life to the fullest💕 (Our dream is to one day make it big on TH-cam) Thank you🥰
I've been struggling with my family, like having a shit ton of family issues. And I have big sisters but their very mentally abusive. And she is the big sister I never had. I'm so happy I came across her channel because she's such an amazing person. And she's the big sis I never had❤️
love your vids, 💕 I literally watch your videos every morning because wit brings me so much positivity and confidence. keep doing what you doing girl!!! ☺️☺️✨
Its been 5 FREAKING daysss😩i missed you girl💕 !
I watched this last month and I guess I wasn’t in the right mindset to even grasp what she was spilling, but girl, now I’m more calmed and everything she just said is replaying on my mind now. 🙈
Can we just talk about how beautiful her hair is it’s so natural and healthy it’s just so beautiful go off 💅🏽😍
Omg!!!Taty tysm for always being here for us!!!u 've literally made me rise from where I was a while ago. And I'm making progress on myself slowly and steadily, finding happiness internally as I've always said.This is all bcoz of u..I can't thank you enough for what I've done to me!!!!how I've touched my life sooooo magnificently without even knowing blows my kind.tysm.ily. You're a REAL QUEEN .love from India❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I love her she is so pretty and know what’s she is talking about ❤️❤️🥺🥺
You’re like a big sister to me and I love it sm😭❤️
Thank you smmm for this video Taty, i really have to say that all of your videos related to self-esteem are soooo informative and they've helped me so much!! Please continue to make these girl talk videos about whatever you feel called to ahahah your energy is really soothing and positive. Ty
ugh she’s like my own personal hype woman and i love it 💗💗
Wow! I really needed this video. I related to this so much! Thank you so much Taty!❤️
Your content are always on point. Who else loves her so much😍
its like i know these things but its so easy to forget how deep and true they are :( thank u for reminding me i’m glad this showed up on my feed i really needed it
Girl 🙌🏻 you have truly found your purpose 💪🏻❤️ You are a beautiful angel on the inside out, you are beyond inspiring 👼🏽 Thank you for all you do!!
MY BIG SISTER IS BAACK!!❤️❤️
This is so perfect for me right now... Its been really rough for me.
Much love to you!
Your so pretty gingers are so rare and beautiful
Taty speaking facts. I have absolutely been addicted to poor coping behaviors when feeling down. Not this year! Love you girl ❤️
I just recently came across your channel and I want to take the time to say that I truly appreciate this encouragement to know my own self worth thank you.❤️❤️ + I was looking up self-worth and your video popped up.
Imma support your channel because you are a young independent women and we all deserve the best that life offers! ❣❣❣ God bless 🙌
can we have a hair routine pleeeeaaaaseeeee! your hair is so pretty like that!
this video was so calm and like the things you’re saying make it even more calming and i love itttt 🥺
MY BIG SISTER PERIOD!....I love you and thank you, I really needed this.
Can we just talk about how defined Taty’s curls are 😍❤️ I love when you give advice Taty and I would like to see more videos where we get to hear more storytimes and more about you.