He slept with another woman as I watched
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ต.ค. 2023
- In her 8 years of marriage Victoria says she has known no peace. But on the day she left her marriage and went to talk to and reconsile with her mother, she was not prepared for the shock that awaited. Tune in to watch the heartbreaking story of Victoria on today's episode of Tuko Talks.
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People are afraid to let go of toxic situations because they hold onto every good memory they have of someone, and attach to it, thinking the exact feeling will revisit again. Toxic people are like drugs, having you search for what’s gone and destroying you slowly in the process. Normalise respecting your intuition at 1st place. Prioritise your peace of mind over disrespect and dramatic people.
Sure l support you l was in toxic relationship once l notes l walk away now am in peace no drama no stress❤❤
They are scared of starting over again not even good memories
it's called trauma bond
Exactly
Inafaa Ivo bt manze si rahisi especially kukiwa na watoi involved
Same I've worked as a watch lady...life has been tough but am graduating this month of November date 10, i thank God for i know this is the first blessing as i wait for marriage in Jesus mighty name 🙏
The death of her mum was the only painful experience she underwent.
She spoke about her ordeal with her husband and she was all smile waah her strength was in another level
You were dealing with a classic textbook narcissist… so sorry! May God protect women from such toxic men
Women please sit your daughters down and explain to them about the cruel world out there. The predators are out there are lurking out there. Take your time and look after themselves. Travel, see the world and when you are ready, you will be able to see a woolfe in sheep"s clothe.
True we are so protected hadi when we go into the world we can't
Do they listen?
I don't care whether he is a good provider or giver my happiness cames first period
This
Vicky you are such a beautiful soul and you will go far. What you went through does not determine your destiny, keep holding your head high and bring up those pretty girls in love. So sorry for the loss of mom, it is well
Pole sana Victoria. God will see you through. Huyo mwanaume ni bure kabisa.
As wemen we must realize verbal or emotional abuse begets physical one. sisemi ni vizuri but truth is truth. If you want to heal relations or families bring both sides and create peace. that is when social media will be useful. Anyway keep God first. I dont know who else one can depend on in this life other than the Most High.
Ukiona mother in law anakupenda jua kijana yake ako na shida
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Kabisaa, kabisaa
By the way... another one is if everyone loves you in that family, look deeper...
The amount of abuse you've been through in that marriage is unbelievable
I wish you healing in Christ 💕
Sometimes we should learn to swallow our pride and reset your life. This lady held on to the relationship because of her pride, thinking that there will be change!
Plus the dude's family was rich. She's overemphasizing
Vicky you are a strong woman , thank you for sharing i am certain you have just inspired many to make the right decision.
Its time young people to learn from their place what marriage is most of the breakups now are for young people and other people are raising kids who are not theirs, its good she learnt the hard way its time to move on in the right direction.
Sorry for what you went though be strong and continue praying your going far and u will May God bless you and your children too mob love
When it comes to this stories i prefer kuskiza both sides.Boy child uumia sana bila kuskizwa.May she find peace
kabisa both side
Kawera you are God sent to inspire our Souls thro Tuko. God bless you girl. You will move far
Story of my life..narcissist are real n they know how to manipulate
beautiful girl! That jawline shows that her ancestry was of royal family
Rule number one usiwai wacha family ju ya mtu... reason why I hate to get married si rahisi akii 💔😭
Aki your story has made me cry, your un iron lady I love you
They say, if you are stuck in a situation, It means there is something that you are benefitting from it. The Moment you decide to give up on that benefit, however small it is, is the moment you will walk away easily.
Aki Vicki may the Lord heal your heart ♥ I knew you as a strong girl back in Buruburu. Pole for all you went through baby girl 😘
Walai I just knew she might be from buru, anakaa tu buru sijui mbona
The mum was not supportive alijua kijana ni bure ask me , as long as the son is ok she support and she will support the next coz of his problem
you are a strong woman vicroria...sio rahisi....
Am moved and encouraged by this. May God bless you
DARK BACKGROUND DOES NOT LOOK GOOD FOR CAMERA. Not sure why TUKO lately chose dark background for their studio taping.
You spoke my mind
I had also seen the same. White will always be the best for a TV production
White background always bounces back light,,Incase they decide to use a dark backdrop they should consider getting backlight to illuminate the background
Personally I feel a dark background is excellent. It highlights the people and foreground very well
The background iko poa
You are strong sorry about the tears may God continue helping you and other abused people 😭🙏🏽😊
That was so relatable when you said you prayed to God to just kill him. That was me a few years ago. That is a clear sign that it's the end. Sending you hugs mama.
wueh... I remember well when I knew it was time to leave my toxic relationship... I was boiling maji ya ugali kwa kettle, then nikaweka kwa sufuria, and for a split second I thought of kumwagila (we were not fighting, we were in good terms)... nikajua wachatu nijitoe.
Be gentle with your comments please
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My situation right now,i just want to move out😭💔
Sis leave now!!!!!!!!!
I hope you left
Welcome to team singles...utajua hujui. Club singles hakuna membership fee, its absolutely free. Karibu!
My situation too ,I don't know what to do
Ati bwana yake pia alikua bibi ya mtu mwingine. Hopefully, she recovers and find happiness in this life.
That was a perfect example of a Narcissist. They shift blame, they shield you from your loved ones, they manipulate they threaten, they abuse and then they confuse you by bombloving
True it's a cycle idealization,devaluation,discard
I escaped a toxic relationship just around the time waiting to go to uni and just finishing high school.
Im super happy I prayed and asked God to let me escape the relationship n im always grateful i did involve God in this
She's a very bold and intelligent woman ❤
Beautiful you are strong lady, God see you through.
Am not judging lakini kwanini upeleke mwanamke kwa kitada utalala na bwanako?
She said " You never know the strength you have inside of you, Nobody but you"
Narcissist husband you had..you are a strong lady may God protect you.
Problem of mum's boys and rich families
Story of my life😢😢
I am worried for this man. How sad.
Thankyou very important 😢😢
If you have never been in a toxic situation you will never understand..It’s like running on a ever ending treadmill with different settings..Sometimes it’s hard to jump of it..The only way is to switch the treadmill off and walk away..
My schoolmate 😊... Thank you for sharing your story Shaz
He hit you coming back late on the same day you lost your mum😢😢
I see a strong woman despite what she went thru and the mistakes she did, she decided to pick lessons and grow instead of self pity and destruction, everyone should takes que from her, she is a believer of self and porpuse, am proud of you gal
Narcissistic and separation from the loved ones
Kawaida if mother-in-law ana kutreat poa then the husband opposite huwezi pata yote
May GOD Protect and keep you In Jesus Christ Name
Bring the HUBBY too... We wanna hear His side of the Story. This Women especially working class we know them I'm a Victim 🤭
Do you think he can do that after hearing all that she has said about him?
Very true you are right 👍
Is he gonna confirm that he was a wife and a husband at a time 😂😂😂
Unasema you don't drink be he used to drink. WHen you started living together mnakunywa pamoja kwa nyumba. WHich is which?
Sorry for what you went through. I now understand what you mean. And sorry for judging you too early. Be strong. You'll make it
You have never had a drink with your husband or boyfriend?
sielewi mbone watu huvumilia ujinga mimi mungu hajanieka nipende kufa i dont love to an extent nivumilie upumbavu
Me too, sinanga uvumilivu mimi ata kama sina kitu ntatoka
Anaogea pride Sana
What shocks me are the women usually involved in the 'live act'
Kesi ilienda na meli. Such a beautiful hearted wife.
Hao wanawake wanasema they need the other side of the coin.....i believe you gave a VERY VERY GOOD LIFE
Omg is it me or she kinda looks like Angela white a.k.a Black china
She's beautiful ❤️
Heee 🙆🏾♂️🙆🏾♂️🙆🏾♂️,, let's salute Yvonne ladies & gentlemen 🫡🫡
Yvonne you have the capacity to hear all these things mehn 🤦🏾♂️. We celebrate you 🙌🏾
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Evyon, it's really painful to loose a loved one. I am already on the same and am praying for God to see us thro.
Pole sana Victoria
He was a narcissist he used to manipulate you and gas light you.......women mungu atupe tu nguvu
Throwing words that you don't even know the meaning..nkt😢
nimekulilia machozi ikaisha....you're a strong woman
Wished it was all in English or at least with a subtitle
Tap on cc(closed caption)of the screen of whatever you are watching on.
In Habakuku,it says in a certain verse that a man without God is like a beast
A Christian family that does not visit upcountry, 😮😮😮
that guy was a narcissist, insecure and a control freak....i hope you heal my dear.
Wooooooiiiiii, ati the husband was someone's wife too. 😢😢😢 So saaaaad
Can you turn on your subtitles 😊
She didn’t say where she is at the moment
A good guy doesn’t beat you and cheat on you.
Debatable.
Thissssss
@@kadzo6614 A man that cheats is a cheater. A man that beats you is an abuser, not a good guy, period. Nothing to debate there.
@@jinnybikiniexactly..
Cheating? only? Is that an issue?
Yawa.... yani this life don't balance ♎⚖️ pole sana beauty.... It shall be well...
wah am a man but huyo wako hapana that was to much of him am so sorry gal u deserve better by ur story u deserve better but also ladies why stay somewhere because of peer pleasure or people
These days I don’t judge till I hear the other side of the story. Personally I do say a coin has 3 sides and not 2. So in this story there is her side ( Vicky), the guy ( Njoro) side and the truth ( God) otherwise stay strong and all the best.
Plenty fish in da sea❤
Im i the only one who is not understanding this story
Try switching on English subtitles. There's translation.
Touch the screen and touch the square with the two letters cc.
She has many stories 😂😂😂
The story is interesting but since they are mixing up their language it's a blow to some of us ...
imagine
This story is very informative however describing him as " nurturing and a good provider baffles me...I doubt he was any of that.
stop hating without evidence.. were you there?
When a guy gets broke he becomes a narcissist. Akiwa na doh ni Mr. charming. Why wait for 8 years kama uliona signs
Mimi I've been in such situation and I can tell you for sure that getting out of such relationships is the hardest thing in life. These people are psycho
@@daisydaisy3383 understandable since you are speaking from experience. I know it's like Stockholm's syndrome where you want to leave but something like a strange force or spirit is holding you back
Actually narcissist men are mostly moneyed the reason for abuse because they provide but very arrogant
@@daisydaisy3383 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣hii yako mni mchezo
Hh
Life is spiritual, labda your ex ni yeye alimsacrifice .
hmmm
Aiii huyu nikama aliseti dude wake, alizima simu kwanini??
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Sasa hii comment c ungeandika na kijaka?
Hugs mummy
She's so cute
very.
Marriage is not for the weak at heart..inachosha...
Story ya njoro wa uba. But i sympathise with you in the whole story. Pole sana dear. Your strong.
I’m sorry but this story is so boring hata sijamalizia plus Tuko sio kila story lazima mpost
Please bby girl it's time to move on with your life.marriage sio must.
Waaa 😫 people go through hell in the name of marriage,it can not be me 🥹but after you come out with testimony 🫰🏽
Victoria my good friend na vile ulikuwa na relatives wazuri .
Kwani uliolekea fisi
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Guest akilia si muende break😢
Vitoria u r very young beautiful
Can't judge based on one side of the story. Just fear ladies.. watakuangushia ngori ushangae.
Hawawezi kuangusha kama wewe mwenywe ukona Tabia nzuri.
Kwani wewe ulikuwa umerogwa,was emust you stay with him or tolerate him
Baraka tele Vickie It is well
My situation too I don't know what to do
women get married to men.. for years.. then when the guy either gets broke or the woman feels she can get a better man.. all of a sudden, the man become a narcissist.
90% of women think their husbands are narcissists - makes you wonder🤔🤔
Be in the that kind of situation then speak
So you know more than the women living in those situations?
Wait til it's your turn you will understand
Alafu,, Narcissist wameanza na hii generation??
Where were they as we grew up?
I think women formulate stories in their head to justify anything so that they are devoid of guilt and shame.
Huyu dame hajasema anything good about hubby wake and the were together for 8years.
She probably also did some shady stuff but she has convinced herself that she was done wrong,and she has to be right(in her head at least)
a lot of missing dotes in this story, how can you bring a girlfriend to your bed when your husband is around and you know he would come to sleep at some point.
My question too
She must have been naive.
I thought the same
Hamjawahi teswa akili ikasimama!....we hope you never experience such
It's all over....I'm not even following
Tangu lynn aende tuko haijapata a good host ,this lady is like she's talking to herself the host is not entertaining her with questions