The police asked me to allow my husband to abuse my daughters again so they can arrest him | Tuko TV
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- Life has not been easy for Julia Wangari who spent about two years in prison after she was accused of killing her first husband. After being released, she thought she had found the love of her life in a man, but he was a monster in disguise. In today's episode, she narrates how her husband took advantage of her young daughters and bought them contraceptives to avoid pregnancy.
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Hello I am the sister to the late brother Francis Wanjohi Nderitu died 2010 December
I hope the defilement will be reported to police and action taken. That man should be in jail. Rape haizeeki. The effects of rape can live with a victim for even 15years. Walk the talk. Don't just cover the story do something about it. Kindly give us feedback
Judity ñamachacha khakina kenyns in saudi
@@tabbygabby7330 is it true this story 🙈🙈🙈
kusema tu ukweli mm mwanaume haezi lala na watoto wangu na bado niendelee kukaa na yeye,my kids are my first priority
Sema tena siz
Aki... uyu ni wa wapi? Kids first!
Same here..
Some of us with kids from other relationships, we don't feel like getting married coz our kids ain't safe atoll. God protect us and our kids
true to many predators out there preying on single mothers kids we have to b careful before inviting a man to our kids
Amen
True
Wah! I'm worried now we are planning to move together with my partner next month he have two kids and I have 2kids aswell, Due his wife died and left kids behide. Nimestuka very sad story pole mummy 😢
@@lovelenson3659 don’t be scared not all men are demons just keep your eyes open talk to both his and your kids all the time be free with your kids so they can be comfortable telling all that is happening in their lives,avoid talking your kids to his relatives without proper supervision cz there also predators in the name of relatives if people say you over protective mom let them say atlist that’s what they say about me anyways
Immediately you discover he is sleeping with your daughter, leave and run mama, why stay? That is a man who doesn't love u and disrespects you.
Excellent very true...her staying showed she picked the side of that man instead of her daughter, she just waited for him to apologize and chaff her and that made her forget about the nonsense he did to her child...how do u continue staying in the same house let along sleeping in the same bed with a man who abused your child.I totally understand why the daughter left...
@@machayibwalya2915 imagine waiting for the man to apologise for abusing your daughter sexually????????😱 oh my God did he wash brain you? When my daughter tell me that such of thing, I could have gone to the Police 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 and she's calling him my husband na hauja funga harusi na yeye 🙄🙄🙄🙄 pure girls 😭😭😭😭
Imagine waiting for the man to apologise for abusing your daughter sexually????????😱😱😱😱 oh my God did he wash brain you?🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 When my daughter tell me that such of thing, I could have gone to the Police 🙄🙄🙄🙄 and she's calling him my husband na hauja funga harusi na yeye🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 pure girls😭😭😭😭😭
@ann nyathira please kuna kitu behind this woman
Not real straight story
@@gettaedada7258 Imagine. That one beats me too..apology wasn't enough u should have gone to report him
My mom i will always stand with you wherever you're. You chose us over men After dad divorced you. You saved us from all these pains other kids are going through🥺😭 i feel the pain of this woman and this tells me how precious my mom is 😭❤
Her staying with that man after finding out was weak and really betrayed her daughters, I as her daughter would have left too.SMH
😥😥😥my momma told me hawezi muacha coz he gat boys na anataka wapate urithi Mimi n msichana naeza olewa aki this statement sitawai sahau.... nilimsamehe lakini kusahau sitawai Mungu tu nisaidie
@@angiejelly2738 hugs Mami. That's a harsh thing coming from one who should protect you. Mali ni nini jameni. May God give mothers wisdom.
I was surprised too when she said she still stayed. This man has clearly showed you that he hates you by raping your kids. Why defend him and not your own flesh and blood. Mimi ningekanyanga makubwa makubwa when he confessed that he raped them. Hao watoto hawatawahi amini mama yao tena. My heart bleeds for them.
@@angiejelly2738 am sorry..hugs
It's wicked!
Everything is sooooo wrong with this story.First WRONGFULLY DETAINED by an institution,then another institution fails her,am in tears knowing she isn’t the only one living with this post traumatic stress and inasmuch as we shall financially help her…these women representative need to engage with women countrywide and teach them their BASIC HUMAN RIGHTS.This is a human right violation that can be taken to court and have this woman paid for all the atrocities done to her.DONE AND AM OUT A VERY ANGRY KENYAN.Will do my part to help her
Flora thanks woman should join hands 🙌
How can we help on bringing justice to women and children
That's why I will be single till my kids grow up
The audacity of staying and saying that you are protecting your marriage!!!!!!so marriage and kids what do you value ?
Asking myself the same question ....
Aty angefanya tena what nonsense
Imagine
Eti hakutaka kuharibu ndoa yake nkt umenisinya mama
@@lencerotiwa549 🤨🤨🤨sorry for the kids
Imagine
I will never ever live in the same house with the man who slept with my kids that was so wrong
Very wrong big mistake
Women value marriage more than their lives.....sad how would she continue living with the man
Ooh God have mercy....it's good to consider children first before you consider yourself...aki woiye😭😭
@@dorisnelima5060 the traditional society stigmatises women who are not married. that's why they seemingly value marriage even when getting abused.
@@jeffmcwailer3413 The modern women doesn't care, this one is f@olish!
I really feel sorry for what the kids went through, being sexually abused and raped as a child is not an easy thing. My advice to the parent of those kids is that she should take the kids for therapy. Make sure the kids go and see a psychologist who can help them heal the trauma. Childhood sexual abuse and rape affect a child's development and growth into adulthood. Childhood sexual trauma is real. It can affect your kids mentally, psychologically and also their relationship with the men
@@kristoa.5317 it was pinned there on the comment section by Lynn ngugi.
This is very true Jacinta.....the kids should visit a psychologist.....
that's very true but btw you can volunteer I know you're capable
You are right Jacinta
Stay single woman
This kind of stories zinanipeanga more reasons to stay single for the sake of my daughter. Nowadays you can't even trust your own family with your kid
I agree stay single, happy and earn lots of money
Very true
True dear
Very true
Tuko pamoja hapa
Any lawyers in the house? This woman needs justice served.
Lawyer wakazi gani umeshajua mwanaume analala na watoto wako and still unaendelea kwa marriage..ar you okay....uyu mama nimjinga
Are you trying to be funny?
@@nancyx3766 huyu mama mmmh, eti heri tumbo na ndoa kuliko watoi 💔😭😭
@@nancyx3766 sewage brain, no one is perfect. Don’t judge, you are very silly
Who can be trusted? Who can someone run to when hurt to obtain justice? The police is the last option. Women let's be careful not to trust anyone with our children wether male or female. If a relationship breaks or death occur, let the children come first! There's no harm in not remarrying, again it's more satisfying to marry late when your children are mature enough, you need peace.
I agree
I agree
Well said kabisaa💖
I am sure she just came out coz the man changed towards her...she could have made the kids stay with the abuser and lived in denial...she is just angry coz she lost the luxury she had...shame shame shame.
Huyu bado anaeza rudiana na huyo mtu, ako after mali, she fails the girl
Exactly...shame. puting a man who stole your daughter's innocence before your kids..shameful
This kids knew she would do nothing ..... when a child keeps quite they know what to except from their parents
@@buggybunny8890 aki ata ninge time usiku huyo mwanaume akilala ninyonge yeye ama slow poison
Yes she is pure evil
I have a 12 year old from my previous marriage. I will not remarry or date until she goes to college. I can't trust any man to be around her.
Shame shame shame, there is so many things i hate about what she said
Your kids love u soon much but you didn't reciprocate the love to them after knowing the story u chooses the man against them kaa huyo MTU hangekkujakukutoa bado ungekua kwa hiyo boma
Anyway mungu akuonekenie na watoto wako wapate haki
For sure how can you choose your husband over your children after knowing what he has done to your gals na huko na guts za kurudiana naye surely how now hiyo mapenzi ikae tu roho safi😭
Mtu anarape mtoto unamsamehe. Iyo ndio outcome. A rapist is a murderer. Don't entertain them at all. Inakaa ulilia tu Mali ya bwana wako. Without thinking of their childrens welfare. That man should have been in jail not out there enjoying life. A rapist is a criminal. Mbona hujafika usikimye, mbona hujafika fida, mbona usitangaze Twitter huyo mwanaume alipie dhambi za kunajisi mtoto? Mbona hutafutie mtoto haki
It must be hard,but one thing I don’t understand is why is the mother saying to the daughter you should have told me, I would have ended things with him early on. It would have made no difference because even when she told you everything you still stayed with the abuser. So…
No wonder they never said anything
Very true she is not a mother
I don't understand her either, kama bado alijua na akamua kukaa until akafukuzwa I don't understand 🤔
@@silvyamwai4378 jamani 🥴🤔
This is a sad story,
But the fact she questioned her daughter why she was not using protection when being abused got me enraged.
"Nilikua napenda ndoa"?at the expense of your daughter's being abused, just the pain of your children being abused under your nose can kill any parent?????
I don't understand,we should protect and choose our children above every other thing, our children only got us mother's as there only and last defense ,we cannot let them down.
To my view, this girl knew what she was doing and that's why she ran away. At 17yrs this girl was big enough to refuse, her sister who was in Std 8 refused and spoke out.
Hi Eunice !
Wow you are so evil
This woman is also wrong making excuses for the man who abused her daughters how can she continue staying with that man?
Yeah, once alijua huyo bwana analala na watoto wake. That day ndie angetokaa huko kwa huyo mwanaume. I can't imagine
This is crazy
Kabisa
I sence smething fishy here
Kuna kitu behind
She has energy, i would have taken off like never before
It's sad how women make excuses for men after molesting children 😪 😕.
It's very unfortunate that there is no justice in marital issues in Kenya
Not only in marital issues THERE IS NO JUSTICE IN KENYA ,POLICE / WHETEVER THEY CALL THEMSELVES ARE JUST THERE TO EAT PEOPLE'S MONEY
No justice even to the children, he should be jailed
Honestly how can you keep on staying with a man who abused your daughters?? I don't understand this... hate kama ni survival mode. You're survived after prison when things were harder!! Haaii sielewi
Imagine yaani uyu mama nimeskia tu amenisarisha..alipenda marriage kushida watoto wake
So unfair! I thank God mystep Father tried this and that was the end of their marriage. Thank you Mum.
@@nancyx3766 and she says even after 10yrs the husband took everything and brought goons to her, she is crying for her justice mostly.
I can’t leave my kids in the house with goons and run to a police station. Who knows what the goons can do while you are away??
Women pass through a lot from childhood to adulthood.. May the Lord help us overcome
Only the stepfather and the mother should feel any guilt. It’s a sickening story. The girls will forever remember their innocence taken away by force. They will never have the virginity between husband and wife. I really pray that they can go to England 🏴 for a better life.
God help this mother and her children in Jesus name I pray Amen.
I feel sorry for the girl who was abused by that evil man ....bh the mother still forgive ad continue staying with him .. doesn't mk sense on my side
Let's help this lady - hardworking but fell in love with a beast; Ladies, bwana yako akikufa, dont remarry plzz plzz; Ni hayo tu
Ladies when shall we learn you can't just introduce men to growing girls.i have witnessed this from a neighbor her introducing a man to primary school girls in a single house n more so the man bringing his brother in.i thank God they kosonad.I was afraid for the girls.Ladies let's prioritize our kids.Get married when the kids are old enough.Hii marriage c competition.
Huyo mwanamme atupwe prison na kifunguo itupwe pit latrine
I know this lady. She had a kiosk in Lugulu market. She once exchanged me a 6kg gas cylinder,not too long ago.
Some of these stories makes me decide to stay single cox am afraid to get married and yet I have a daughter from my previous marriage
Don't try just bring up your doughter alone I have a son and am not getting married anywhere
Just pray to God for a good man, I got married with a 16yr old daughter and I would marry my husband again and again
Just pray to God n he will bless you with a nice husband, ukicheki Kwa Lynn ngugi utaona story ya juzi msichana aliishi kuthulumiwa na babake mzazi na mamake hakuwai jua, until aliget mtoi, huyo msichana akitaka kurudi shule aliitisha babake mzazi fees akamshow anadai mtoi mwingine na yy,
@@peshridley3388 I receive in Jesus name
Let me warn you ladies, kama uko single na watoto wasichana, don't remarry because nyinyi wote mutakua mabibi za huyo jamaa
True
To whose hand are single women with kids safe because even the boys are not safe due to sodomization, I still feel that the government is failing at some point it has been cash and carry, and the heavyer the pockets of the victims,the safer the side....it so sad 😭
Ni kweli kabisa 💯👍
Yaani after all this man did to you Bado uliendelea kukaa tu hapo 😢 you were blinded by shopping , money , car and shamba without checking on your girls , now you're complaining that the man kicked you out nkt ... Mimi mwanaume hawezi lala na my kids na Bado nikae hapo
Someone please help me understand this woman cause i feel mad... how can one continue to stay in such a "marriage" after the kids have gone through such a thing and still look straight in your Kids eyes and tell them that you love them? Where is the love?
Desperation can cause women to stay. It happens even with elite, well educated women. I wouldn't stay but I can understand why she stayed.
Can you please send me an email address so I can help this lady? As I said, I'm not able to reach her through whatsapp since I'm outside the country. Please put me in contact with her. The kids deserve better.
How much is the dispenser that this lady needs?
It’s not love. It’s trauma bonding
I am even confused too, why did she wait for so long
Thanks God mi nililelewa na step Dady alkua ananipenda kulko hta watoto wake wa kuwazaa,Yule Baba mungu ampumzishe I was very lucky,Yan nkiona hiz case naumia😭
Kenya sio nchi ya kukaa aki, tanzania uwezi kumfanyi mtu vitu vya kijinga ivyo kabla polisi awajafiki majilani watakumaliza, na polisi mda wote wako kazini nawapenda sana polisi wa tanzania 🇹🇿 nashukulu mungu kuzaliwa tz😘😘
Not judging but huyu mama amekasirishwa sana na mambo ya kufukuzwa kuliko mambo ya mtoto wake kubakwa, meaning kama hawakufukuzwa uyo mtoi mdogo angekuwa ashaanza kubakwa so sad
FACTS
I asked my mum why didn't you remarry after our dad died and she said " unajua singeamini mtu yeyote kunilelea nyinyi halafu Tena wanaume wote hawaaminiki ,,, wanaweza watesa si rahisi mwanaume kulea mtoto si wake ,,,," ooh God I thank her for sticking with us bcz she was still young when our dad left ,,,, I respect her so much Mungu amlide tu ,,,, and to everyone here and abroad plz choose ur kids first ,,, in anything you want and do plz put ur kids mbele ,,, am speechless
Thumbs up to ur mum
@@stellarjuma2465 indeed
Be grateful you have such a mother ❣️
Siezi ishi na mwanaume ambaye analala na mtoto wake na hata siezi taka hata kumuona nikumua tu
This mother according to her story, she didn't react or shocked for what happened to their daughters!!. There is nothing to confirm to those allegations but to she was supposed to act n take the law immediately
She opted to stay. May be aliraukia Mary
whether she did what.....Justice should be done for the kids sake
Hapo tunagawana majengo ya serikali,mmoja mortuary mwingine magerezani nonsense 😢malipo hapa duniani mbinguni ni kupumzika😔rape is worse than terrorism
Hata mie sikuachi nakuuwa unakufa taratibu nakuambia huwezi nifanyia mwanangu hii upuuzi
Why did she chose that monster over her kids?
I know we are not supposed to judge anyone but how do you get to know that your husband is sleeping with your kids and you stay with him.
Its so painful to see what our women go through out of financial despair. I want my mission to be to create a special place for women of domestic violence to come for refuge and training. These places are very common in the West. Women never have to stay in an abusive relationship if they don't want to.
Looking to do a similatr thing
@@rebeccaatieno9220 we can do it. I have a commercial building i can use. I want to make a difference in this world
I plan to do the same.Provide for women who face domestic abuse and give them training to reintroduce them to the society as healthy people.
It's not okay to force your children to call another man who is not their biological father (dad). A lot can happen without your knowledge, advice your children to always be open and create that environment that your children can tell you everything that is going on in their life. So unfortunate 😕 that a police would advice someone to do such kind of an act,how cruel.
Omg🙆😭😭😭😭i respect my mom... She told me "mum ata nipate baba mwingine na niolewe .. wewe utakaa kwa shosh sitaolewa na wewe lakini utapata kile unataka" nikauliza mbona tusiende na wewe" hapana mimi hao watu wa io boma wanaeza kutesa juu nimeolewa na wewe" respect Mum🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I love you Mum for asking for forgiveness to your daughters, it's the first step towards healing. God of vengeance will fight for you and your babies
A female child has to be educated and have something doing so she can fight for her right. When you depend on a man all kind of nonsense comes your way.
This mother though...how do u still love with someone who abused your daughter
I will never get married.
Sorry mum for what you've gone through.God will fight for you.
But they told you and. You never left the man. Gayi..
The law in that country is garbage why should u have to pay for police to investigate is it not their job.
I can relate to what this woman went through.... I was in prison for almost 10yrs.... My children suffered 😭😭😭
So sorry Vivian, there is God of other chance
Hugs mummy
Sorry dear
Prison ! Sorry dear
I'm so sorry for what you and your kids went through.
You really betrayed your daughters by staying with this man.
She said she wanted to build up her marriage! I really wanted to say this but went silent, she betrayed her children!
Sure
The problem with Kenyans is blaming the victim.
@@patrickmuga3530 pointing out a mistake isn't blaming. Sometimes we should ask ourselves what part we played.
She is evil
Mimi nikitoka kwa ndoa nilikuwa na 3boys,I have never trusted any man or qoman near them
Kafuli😌 Sorry mamaa. N y would a gal b 'married' to her step dad for four years without informing the mom whom they spent most of the time with🤔 4 yrs with contraceptives??? However hw heavy the threats,she kud av informed the mom. Evn after highschool,she still wouldn't av told the mom till it leaked thro' the younger one? I guess ths ws a deal she enjoyed too
I feel so too
I BLAME U..U SHOULD HAVE PROTECTED YOUR DAUHTERS
Am really sorry to say this but there’s something wicked about a person who makes her kids live in the same house as their abusers. My mums friend did that and he continued for another 3 years with the woman doing everything to hold on to the marriage. Pure wickedness
She chose the man over her kids. Her kids are not her No.1 priority
I have talked to the lady and she really need help. She need counseling, financial support and justice to bring her back to her feet. I have sent her something small but I wish we can mobilize and give her a smile once again.
God bless you
God bless you
May God bless you abundantly
She is an evil woman
Vile nimeelewa hii story sorry to say huyu mama alipenda doa kuliko watoto wake ni sawa alijua hiyo story ya msichana wake later but still alimsamee huyo mwanaume akaishi na yeye cha pili kama nyumba ilikuwa ya mwanaume angetoka kitambo awapeleke watoto wake mbali na huyo mwanaume so first born msichana kukaa mbali na mama ni sababu anatafuta peace of mind
What is ndoa without kids, she fails the girl, hangendelea kukaa hapo after watoto kumwambia
@@juliaelias4586 very very true so sijaelewa kwanini anauliza msichana wake mbona alinyamaza na then later alipojua akaendelea kukaa in the same roof na that husband 😔😔I feel sorry for the girls
Why was she so ignorant? Why confirm from the man yet your own children told you? Dont you think thats why they never told you about it in the first place? You find out then go sit with the abuser ati msamaha. Mama you failed to protect your children,there were signs when the girl started failing in school, you noticed change but you did not act. You gave power to the abuser. You could have done more, am sure they are so traumatized 😭😭i feel so bad for the girls, even after knowing you still let them stay in the same house together.😭😭
She failed them as mother
What if the man decides to harm the girls
Umeongea ukweli mutupu, she failed
I agree
Sure
I decided to stay single to take care of my daughter .Such stories are heart breaking
Pia mimi aki
Yeah me too aki.
Mimi ni boys na pia aren't safe siwezi olewa watoto wangu wapitishiwe hell
Hii maisha ni mungu even biological father's are doing the same
So let's trust in God
Julia needs a go fund me if everyone donates a little her and her children can have a safe life
This story is so touching , I'm a single mom of a daughter but this is giving me fears of getting into another relationship , I wish justice is given to Julia
Fear not disconnect ur self from evil and God will grant u a gud man
boys too are not any safer. I don't know whether you heard about the two university students who are in court for raping a grade 4 minor who happens to be a boy.
@@jeffmcwailer3413 we need to hear what God is saying , people are out of christ the reason devil is pursuing quickly quickly. Remember Moses stood for and Israelite we save . GOD IS LOOKING WHO TO USE TO PUR AN END OVER SATAN .
@@jeffmcwailer3413 May God protect our kids
Nyathira, you're a great interviewer, may God give strength to this lovely lady. It's unfortunate that someone including police, would be this hurtless
Miaka iliyoliwa na nzige atalejesha kwa jina la yesu. Fight all your battles on your knees He is Love.
Unapata wapi nguvu ya kuendelea kuishi na mtu ambaye amedhulumu mtoto wako?
It is the staying for me even after learning that the guy was sleeping with her daughters....ati nilikuwa napenda ndoa...isorait.
Yeye alipenda ndoa kuliko watoto wake haki
This lady, upto now you still refer that evil man as father to the kids, even when your daughter ran to you still you doubted her claiming that's your father you are talking about which just pushed your daughter further. Mothers it's best to always believe in kids especially when they share what they feel.
This is a very stupid woman?What are you talking about?Ati unapenda ndoa?Ndoa gani hiyo???Nini unaweza linganisha na mtoto wako?c'mon!!!
Poverty is bad.
Something is not adding up? 🤔 how the he'll can you live with a rapists? You seem to value the material thing's instead of watching your kids so closely.
Exactly
Kina mama tafathali ☝🏽👏🏽🙏🏽 please 🙏🏽 muwe munaogea na watoto wenu na kuwauliza maswali je baba yoke vipi so and so wa mama don’t trusting mens with children’s
Ata mmi nikiwa mary nawezaenda na nisiwai rudi.....unaambia mamako umerapiwa na babako na anamsamehe.... I wont forgive you
This is so wrong! How can a father defile his daughters? Indeed moral decayed long time ago. May God heal her and her daughters from such a trauma plus please Anne help them get a counsellor. Surely I'm sick of these despicable behavior!
😢 😭 😿 😢 😭 😿 😢 😭 nimelia machozi imeisha. am so Scared for my lil gal facing such men!!..this is so painful am chocking on my Saliva... iv no advice right now.
Why were you still fighting to stay at this man's place? You forgot about what he's done to your children, instead of fighting for their justice, your fighting to hold on to him. Nkt. You're pained cause he asked you to leave his house, how about being pained of what he did to your daughters?!!! May God give you guidance.
The reason I decided to stay single until my kid is independent
JULIAN, SORRY TO HEAR YOUR PAINFUL STORY. I WOULD LIKE TO SAY THIS TO MARY YOUR DAUGHTER THAT SHE SHOULD PLEASE GO BACK HOME. THIS COUNTRY POLICE MEN MAY NOT HELP AGAIN IF ANYTHING HAPPEN TO YOU OUT THERE. GO BACK TO YOUR MUM DARLING. MAY GOD JEHOVAH GIVE YOU COMFORT. AMEN
From her story with a little help she can pick her self up n manage her life,pray this family heals
My mum died tukiwa watoi and a week after mazishi alituita family meeting and promised he won’t remarry hadi lastborn atoke and he did that ...don’t remarry na watoto...utashangaa.....
If I were the daughter singewahi rudi that's for sure.hii story inakasirisha sana...may God help us be better parents and know how to choose our kids.
So sad madam. Its heart wrenching 💔 story. You don't need to be judged because all of us have run short of the glory of God. These things happen but many prefer not to report because they fear shame and embarrassment.
What corporal told you on specimen(evidence) is true(except the act of another sleeping with your daughter) but unacceptable move. I wish you could have used pseudo names not their real names for security and their self-esteem. Majority of women in your shoes could not live with that man from that day you discovered your boyfriend aka husband has been sleeping with vulnerable children. Well, that was your personal choice.
Advise to all of us prioritise your life and your children over another person. Secondly, the moment you are done with your man and you no longer engage in conjugal rights, that relationship/marriage is as good as dead. Get out and go.
Ladies, that which you assume is a bold move to continue living with an abuser is a bad move. Your life must come first. Let these kind of stories educate you not listen and move on. This lady suffered a lot and its a lesson to many of us. Julia, if it's possible you need to rethink your position-by moving out of that area to far away from your man. The guy can easily kill you and you leave your vulnerable kids in no safe hands. My simple personal advise but you have your right do what is best for you.
Women are suffering in Kenya...women please, leave when you see the man in your life is abusing you, your children...just leave. This man has brought bad omen to this family. Get a good Bible Living Church for prayers and family deliverance from all children abuse. For long life of peace. Pole mama Julia.
wakati ulipata watoto wame rapiwa ungekanyaga kubwa kubwa to me u were stupid,,,,,eti ulitaka ndoa ?????ndoa my foot .enda tafuta vibarua lea watoto wako in a safe place.
Aki this lady hata kama,it is so painful and she could have left as early.Ati ndoa????!!
I have been away from home for 19 years now even though I do visit every other year. Kenya has changed for the worst, people with money now do whatever they want and get away even with murder. Police on the other side is rotten. The whole system is broken. I hope one day we shall get good governance to start fixing these issues.
the sense of morality in Kenya has been eroded. check how politicians are promoting immorality and people are cheering them on.
People like her contribute to that mess.
Hmmm am not Kenyan but I pray the men and police change. Women are treated very bad. I blame the police for sure because these abusers know they can get away with it. The police do nothing. Dont worry God is about to show up against these corrupted people.
@@FirstLadyG yet she could not leave the same abuser to protect her children! Colluded to hide the truth until the man started mistreating her! Very selfish. She is part of the corrupt system. She wanted him to apologise to the kids than report to police and take him to court!
@@FirstLadyG apology for rape?she is part of the corrupt system. She only decided to go to police when the man started mistreating her meaning revenge NOT justice for her daughters.
Wanawake mtu alale na mtoto wako na bado umsamehe uendelee kukaa na yeye na unalala na yeye watoto wangu ndio everything
This story remain me few years ago my aunt husband tried to rape me but I scream and call my aunt but the surprising thing my aunt told me give him whatever he ask you It's painful 😭😢😭😭
Lately no one is to be trusted
@@lindafaith2858 yes no one can be trusted that's what I have learned
Wicked aunt
Pole sana
waaa really💔💔🙄🙄...badala amuache😏
Makosa alifanya? Makosa yote ilikua yako na huyo Mnyama. Mtoto wako alikwambia yaliyo tendeka lakini ulizidi kuishi na huyu jamaa ambaye alimthuru.Kama hangekufuza si ungekua bado uko huko?
The law is so weird .If you study it you will be petrified.Justice is usually for the rich .
Wow, another man and not thinking about her kids. For real
She also have a life that man will pay for what he did to those kids
Waluhya hawajuagi mama na mtoto, usiolewe na watoto waschana kwa waluhya, ignorance pia ni mbaya unashtaki mtu na unaendelea kuishi kwake
This are some of the reason I am minding my bizness coz my kids safety peace and happiness matters most, the reason am working hard and take my bills single handedly, some men are just bt born wicked sad indeed,huggs dea
😭😭😭😭😭😭my daughters my life,my everything....I will never let you go through what i went through... marriage and relationship is a no gone zone for me
That's what I'm going through right now for being a single mom (widow)of 8kids it's so hard and painful 😢😥
Oh sad 😭 better take action
Wachaneni na ndoa after kufiwa watoto wana need security yenu .we are living with narcissist men all over
Pole sana dadangu dunia iko na mambo mingi mungu yupo tutaishi na watoto watakua kwa jina la yesu🙏🙏🙏
Sad story, am not judging the lady but it was wrong of her to countinue staying with the same man who has been sleeping with you daughter.
Pliz hao watoto wanahitaji ushauri nasaha.
To my fellow women the first red flag is enough move out.