What message do you have for Julia Wangari? You can reach her on 0710 306082 registered under Julia Ndung'u. To share your story with us, send an email to ann.nyathira@tuko.co.ke or Eucabeth.mukami@tuko.co
I hope the defilement will be reported to police and action taken. That man should be in jail. Rape haizeeki. The effects of rape can live with a victim for even 15years. Walk the talk. Don't just cover the story do something about it. Kindly give us feedback
Wah! I'm worried now we are planning to move together with my partner next month he have two kids and I have 2kids aswell, Due his wife died and left kids behide. Nimestuka very sad story pole mummy 😢
@@lovelenson3659 don’t be scared not all men are demons just keep your eyes open talk to both his and your kids all the time be free with your kids so they can be comfortable telling all that is happening in their lives,avoid talking your kids to his relatives without proper supervision cz there also predators in the name of relatives if people say you over protective mom let them say atlist that’s what they say about me anyways
My mom i will always stand with you wherever you're. You chose us over men After dad divorced you. You saved us from all these pains other kids are going through🥺😭 i feel the pain of this woman and this tells me how precious my mom is 😭❤
Excellent very true...her staying showed she picked the side of that man instead of her daughter, she just waited for him to apologize and chaff her and that made her forget about the nonsense he did to her child...how do u continue staying in the same house let along sleeping in the same bed with a man who abused your child.I totally understand why the daughter left...
@@machayibwalya2915 imagine waiting for the man to apologise for abusing your daughter sexually????????😱 oh my God did he wash brain you? When my daughter tell me that such of thing, I could have gone to the Police 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 and she's calling him my husband na hauja funga harusi na yeye 🙄🙄🙄🙄 pure girls 😭😭😭😭
Imagine waiting for the man to apologise for abusing your daughter sexually????????😱😱😱😱 oh my God did he wash brain you?🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 When my daughter tell me that such of thing, I could have gone to the Police 🙄🙄🙄🙄 and she's calling him my husband na hauja funga harusi na yeye🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 pure girls😭😭😭😭😭
Everything is sooooo wrong with this story.First WRONGFULLY DETAINED by an institution,then another institution fails her,am in tears knowing she isn’t the only one living with this post traumatic stress and inasmuch as we shall financially help her…these women representative need to engage with women countrywide and teach them their BASIC HUMAN RIGHTS.This is a human right violation that can be taken to court and have this woman paid for all the atrocities done to her.DONE AND AM OUT A VERY ANGRY KENYAN.Will do my part to help her
😥😥😥my momma told me hawezi muacha coz he gat boys na anataka wapate urithi Mimi n msichana naeza olewa aki this statement sitawai sahau.... nilimsamehe lakini kusahau sitawai Mungu tu nisaidie
I was surprised too when she said she still stayed. This man has clearly showed you that he hates you by raping your kids. Why defend him and not your own flesh and blood. Mimi ningekanyanga makubwa makubwa when he confessed that he raped them. Hao watoto hawatawahi amini mama yao tena. My heart bleeds for them.
Only the stepfather and the mother should feel any guilt. It’s a sickening story. The girls will forever remember their innocence taken away by force. They will never have the virginity between husband and wife. I really pray that they can go to England 🏴 for a better life.
Nyathira, you're a great interviewer, may God give strength to this lovely lady. It's unfortunate that someone including police, would be this hurtless
This story is so touching , I'm a single mom of a daughter but this is giving me fears of getting into another relationship , I wish justice is given to Julia
boys too are not any safer. I don't know whether you heard about the two university students who are in court for raping a grade 4 minor who happens to be a boy.
@@jeffmcwailer3413 we need to hear what God is saying , people are out of christ the reason devil is pursuing quickly quickly. Remember Moses stood for and Israelite we save . GOD IS LOOKING WHO TO USE TO PUR AN END OVER SATAN .
Who can be trusted? Who can someone run to when hurt to obtain justice? The police is the last option. Women let's be careful not to trust anyone with our children wether male or female. If a relationship breaks or death occur, let the children come first! There's no harm in not remarrying, again it's more satisfying to marry late when your children are mature enough, you need peace.
Thanks God mi nililelewa na step Dady alkua ananipenda kulko hta watoto wake wa kuwazaa,Yule Baba mungu ampumzishe I was very lucky,Yan nkiona hiz case naumia😭
I really feel sorry for what the kids went through, being sexually abused and raped as a child is not an easy thing. My advice to the parent of those kids is that she should take the kids for therapy. Make sure the kids go and see a psychologist who can help them heal the trauma. Childhood sexual abuse and rape affect a child's development and growth into adulthood. Childhood sexual trauma is real. It can affect your kids mentally, psychologically and also their relationship with the men
This is a sad story, But the fact she questioned her daughter why she was not using protection when being abused got me enraged. "Nilikua napenda ndoa"?at the expense of your daughter's being abused, just the pain of your children being abused under your nose can kill any parent????? I don't understand,we should protect and choose our children above every other thing, our children only got us mother's as there only and last defense ,we cannot let them down.
To my view, this girl knew what she was doing and that's why she ran away. At 17yrs this girl was big enough to refuse, her sister who was in Std 8 refused and spoke out.
I asked my mum why didn't you remarry after our dad died and she said " unajua singeamini mtu yeyote kunilelea nyinyi halafu Tena wanaume wote hawaaminiki ,,, wanaweza watesa si rahisi mwanaume kulea mtoto si wake ,,,," ooh God I thank her for sticking with us bcz she was still young when our dad left ,,,, I respect her so much Mungu amlide tu ,,,, and to everyone here and abroad plz choose ur kids first ,,, in anything you want and do plz put ur kids mbele ,,, am speechless
I have talked to the lady and she really need help. She need counseling, financial support and justice to bring her back to her feet. I have sent her something small but I wish we can mobilize and give her a smile once again.
😢 😭 😿 😢 😭 😿 😢 😭 nimelia machozi imeisha. am so Scared for my lil gal facing such men!!..this is so painful am chocking on my Saliva... iv no advice right now.
For sure how can you choose your husband over your children after knowing what he has done to your gals na huko na guts za kurudiana naye surely how now hiyo mapenzi ikae tu roho safi😭
Mtu anarape mtoto unamsamehe. Iyo ndio outcome. A rapist is a murderer. Don't entertain them at all. Inakaa ulilia tu Mali ya bwana wako. Without thinking of their childrens welfare. That man should have been in jail not out there enjoying life. A rapist is a criminal. Mbona hujafika usikimye, mbona hujafika fida, mbona usitangaze Twitter huyo mwanaume alipie dhambi za kunajisi mtoto? Mbona hutafutie mtoto haki
Just pray to God n he will bless you with a nice husband, ukicheki Kwa Lynn ngugi utaona story ya juzi msichana aliishi kuthulumiwa na babake mzazi na mamake hakuwai jua, until aliget mtoi, huyo msichana akitaka kurudi shule aliitisha babake mzazi fees akamshow anadai mtoi mwingine na yy,
Its so painful to see what our women go through out of financial despair. I want my mission to be to create a special place for women of domestic violence to come for refuge and training. These places are very common in the West. Women never have to stay in an abusive relationship if they don't want to.
It must be hard,but one thing I don’t understand is why is the mother saying to the daughter you should have told me, I would have ended things with him early on. It would have made no difference because even when she told you everything you still stayed with the abuser. So…
Omg🙆😭😭😭😭i respect my mom... She told me "mum ata nipate baba mwingine na niolewe .. wewe utakaa kwa shosh sitaolewa na wewe lakini utapata kile unataka" nikauliza mbona tusiende na wewe" hapana mimi hao watu wa io boma wanaeza kutesa juu nimeolewa na wewe" respect Mum🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I have been away from home for 19 years now even though I do visit every other year. Kenya has changed for the worst, people with money now do whatever they want and get away even with murder. Police on the other side is rotten. The whole system is broken. I hope one day we shall get good governance to start fixing these issues.
Hmmm am not Kenyan but I pray the men and police change. Women are treated very bad. I blame the police for sure because these abusers know they can get away with it. The police do nothing. Dont worry God is about to show up against these corrupted people.
@@FirstLadyG yet she could not leave the same abuser to protect her children! Colluded to hide the truth until the man started mistreating her! Very selfish. She is part of the corrupt system. She wanted him to apologise to the kids than report to police and take him to court!
@@FirstLadyG apology for rape?she is part of the corrupt system. She only decided to go to police when the man started mistreating her meaning revenge NOT justice for her daughters.
This mother according to her story, she didn't react or shocked for what happened to their daughters!!. There is nothing to confirm to those allegations but to she was supposed to act n take the law immediately
It's not okay to force your children to call another man who is not their biological father (dad). A lot can happen without your knowledge, advice your children to always be open and create that environment that your children can tell you everything that is going on in their life. So unfortunate 😕 that a police would advice someone to do such kind of an act,how cruel.
Someone please help me understand this woman cause i feel mad... how can one continue to stay in such a "marriage" after the kids have gone through such a thing and still look straight in your Kids eyes and tell them that you love them? Where is the love?
Can you please send me an email address so I can help this lady? As I said, I'm not able to reach her through whatsapp since I'm outside the country. Please put me in contact with her. The kids deserve better.
Honestly how can you keep on staying with a man who abused your daughters?? I don't understand this... hate kama ni survival mode. You're survived after prison when things were harder!! Haaii sielewi
@@nancyx3766 and she says even after 10yrs the husband took everything and brought goons to her, she is crying for her justice mostly. I can’t leave my kids in the house with goons and run to a police station. Who knows what the goons can do while you are away??
Nyathira this has to be best outfit you have won in Tuko I love it. Please dress more like this you look beautiful. The story has touched my heart, we need to change this narrative as a society enough is enough!
Women this is why we should always choose ourselves over a man. The only one who can have your back is you,have children who you can take care of emotionally and financially. So painful to hear this may God heal you and your children
Ladies when shall we learn you can't just introduce men to growing girls.i have witnessed this from a neighbor her introducing a man to primary school girls in a single house n more so the man bringing his brother in.i thank God they kosonad.I was afraid for the girls.Ladies let's prioritize our kids.Get married when the kids are old enough.Hii marriage c competition.
Tuco, you are doing good job by bringing people to your show to alert them world. But I would like to hear them testimonies from victims. How did the show helped them.
Am really sorry to say this but there’s something wicked about a person who makes her kids live in the same house as their abusers. My mums friend did that and he continued for another 3 years with the woman doing everything to hold on to the marriage. Pure wickedness
A female child has to be educated and have something doing so she can fight for her right. When you depend on a man all kind of nonsense comes your way.
Kina mama tafathali ☝🏽👏🏽🙏🏽 please 🙏🏽 muwe munaogea na watoto wenu na kuwauliza maswali je baba yoke vipi so and so wa mama don’t trusting mens with children’s
This is why you should talk to your kids about such things let them know they can talk to you be open with them let them know they come first and should never keep secrets from you.
This are some of the reason I am minding my bizness coz my kids safety peace and happiness matters most, the reason am working hard and take my bills single handedly, some men are just bt born wicked sad indeed,huggs dea
First, as a woman before you get re-married, take your take to know the kind of man you want to commit your life to. It is better to remain single or get married at 40 that rush to stay with a man who might ruin your entire life. Second, ensure you stay close to your children to be easier to uncover when they have an issue before it worsens. I think from 2014 is a long period, if she was careful she could have discovered that her children were undergoing sexual abuse.
Sometimes you can't know until the child opens up or something. My kid was being mistreated by some lady while staying at my friend's home and I had no idea until my friend told me what the other lady had been doing. The only time I ever sensed something was wrong at her school was when one day she told me that she didn't want to go to school yet she never likes missing school at all even when not feeling well. She was around 8 years. I sat down with her and talked to her calmly, I didn't rebuke her or yell at her for not wanting to go to school that day. She then opened up about some Sudanese boys (these kids born in Sudan are kinda rough and kids feared them ) who were trying to bully her at school,taking her things and told her to never tell anyone, even asking her to open her dress so they could see her pantie. Imagine! I lost it, I went with her to school, walked straight to the classroom, asked her to show me the kids and I showed them never to try it with her again. I made sure I did it in front of the classroom. By the time the teacher walked in I had handled the matter, I explained later. From that time no kid ever dared to bully her and those kids never ever tried to bully any other kid in the school. She felt protected and loved. In fact she told me that kids at school feared her saying that she had a tough mother who would mess with them if they tried anything. When the mothers of the boys were summoned at school they said the boys got their nasty manners on TV and didn't even rebuke their sons.
This is so wrong! How can a father defile his daughters? Indeed moral decayed long time ago. May God heal her and her daughters from such a trauma plus please Anne help them get a counsellor. Surely I'm sick of these despicable behavior!
JULIAN, SORRY TO HEAR YOUR PAINFUL STORY. I WOULD LIKE TO SAY THIS TO MARY YOUR DAUGHTER THAT SHE SHOULD PLEASE GO BACK HOME. THIS COUNTRY POLICE MEN MAY NOT HELP AGAIN IF ANYTHING HAPPEN TO YOU OUT THERE. GO BACK TO YOUR MUM DARLING. MAY GOD JEHOVAH GIVE YOU COMFORT. AMEN
I am sure she just came out coz the man changed towards her...she could have made the kids stay with the abuser and lived in denial...she is just angry coz she lost the luxury she had...shame shame shame.
Kenya sio nchi ya kukaa aki, tanzania uwezi kumfanyi mtu vitu vya kijinga ivyo kabla polisi awajafiki majilani watakumaliza, na polisi mda wote wako kazini nawapenda sana polisi wa tanzania 🇹🇿 nashukulu mungu kuzaliwa tz😘😘
This is really a touching story. though so bad but big experience and remember only God that has all the evidence without being told and can serve justice. Keep praying to Him and I am 100% sure justice will be served one day to you and your children whether in this world or Life after death.
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Hello I am the sister to the late brother Francis Wanjohi Nderitu died 2010 December
I hope the defilement will be reported to police and action taken. That man should be in jail. Rape haizeeki. The effects of rape can live with a victim for even 15years. Walk the talk. Don't just cover the story do something about it. Kindly give us feedback
Judity ñamachacha khakina kenyns in saudi
@@tabbygabby7330 is it true this story 🙈🙈🙈
Some of us with kids from other relationships, we don't feel like getting married coz our kids ain't safe atoll. God protect us and our kids
true to many predators out there preying on single mothers kids we have to b careful before inviting a man to our kids
Amen
True
Wah! I'm worried now we are planning to move together with my partner next month he have two kids and I have 2kids aswell, Due his wife died and left kids behide. Nimestuka very sad story pole mummy 😢
@@lovelenson3659 don’t be scared not all men are demons just keep your eyes open talk to both his and your kids all the time be free with your kids so they can be comfortable telling all that is happening in their lives,avoid talking your kids to his relatives without proper supervision cz there also predators in the name of relatives if people say you over protective mom let them say atlist that’s what they say about me anyways
My mom i will always stand with you wherever you're. You chose us over men After dad divorced you. You saved us from all these pains other kids are going through🥺😭 i feel the pain of this woman and this tells me how precious my mom is 😭❤
Is she your mum?
Immediately you discover he is sleeping with your daughter, leave and run mama, why stay? That is a man who doesn't love u and disrespects you.
Excellent very true...her staying showed she picked the side of that man instead of her daughter, she just waited for him to apologize and chaff her and that made her forget about the nonsense he did to her child...how do u continue staying in the same house let along sleeping in the same bed with a man who abused your child.I totally understand why the daughter left...
@@machayibwalya2915 imagine waiting for the man to apologise for abusing your daughter sexually????????😱 oh my God did he wash brain you? When my daughter tell me that such of thing, I could have gone to the Police 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 and she's calling him my husband na hauja funga harusi na yeye 🙄🙄🙄🙄 pure girls 😭😭😭😭
Imagine waiting for the man to apologise for abusing your daughter sexually????????😱😱😱😱 oh my God did he wash brain you?🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 When my daughter tell me that such of thing, I could have gone to the Police 🙄🙄🙄🙄 and she's calling him my husband na hauja funga harusi na yeye🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 pure girls😭😭😭😭😭
@ann nyathira please kuna kitu behind this woman
Not real straight story
@@gettaedada7258 Imagine. That one beats me too..apology wasn't enough u should have gone to report him
kusema tu ukweli mm mwanaume haezi lala na watoto wangu na bado niendelee kukaa na yeye,my kids are my first priority
Sema tena siz
Aki... uyu ni wa wapi? Kids first!
Same here..
Mama mjinga amekuja kufundisha sisi wamama ujinga yake aki nimekasirika kweli
Eti anapenda ndoa kwenda uko bora polisi walivyokuambia peleka akalale nae tena waliona ujinga yako
Any lawyers in the house? This woman needs justice served.
Lawyer wakazi gani umeshajua mwanaume analala na watoto wako and still unaendelea kwa marriage..ar you okay....uyu mama nimjinga
Are you trying to be funny?
@@nancyx3766 huyu mama mmmh, eti heri tumbo na ndoa kuliko watoi 💔😭😭
@@nancyx3766 sewage brain, no one is perfect. Don’t judge, you are very silly
Everything is sooooo wrong with this story.First WRONGFULLY DETAINED by an institution,then another institution fails her,am in tears knowing she isn’t the only one living with this post traumatic stress and inasmuch as we shall financially help her…these women representative need to engage with women countrywide and teach them their BASIC HUMAN RIGHTS.This is a human right violation that can be taken to court and have this woman paid for all the atrocities done to her.DONE AND AM OUT A VERY ANGRY KENYAN.Will do my part to help her
Flora thanks woman should join hands 🙌
How can we help on bringing justice to women and children
Her staying with that man after finding out was weak and really betrayed her daughters, I as her daughter would have left too.SMH
😥😥😥my momma told me hawezi muacha coz he gat boys na anataka wapate urithi Mimi n msichana naeza olewa aki this statement sitawai sahau.... nilimsamehe lakini kusahau sitawai Mungu tu nisaidie
@@angiejelly2738 hugs Mami. That's a harsh thing coming from one who should protect you. Mali ni nini jameni. May God give mothers wisdom.
I was surprised too when she said she still stayed. This man has clearly showed you that he hates you by raping your kids. Why defend him and not your own flesh and blood. Mimi ningekanyanga makubwa makubwa when he confessed that he raped them. Hao watoto hawatawahi amini mama yao tena. My heart bleeds for them.
@@angiejelly2738 am sorry..hugs
It's wicked!
It's very unfortunate that there is no justice in marital issues in Kenya
Not only in marital issues THERE IS NO JUSTICE IN KENYA ,POLICE / WHETEVER THEY CALL THEMSELVES ARE JUST THERE TO EAT PEOPLE'S MONEY
No justice even to the children, he should be jailed
Only the stepfather and the mother should feel any guilt. It’s a sickening story. The girls will forever remember their innocence taken away by force. They will never have the virginity between husband and wife. I really pray that they can go to England 🏴 for a better life.
I will never ever live in the same house with the man who slept with my kids that was so wrong
Very wrong big mistake
Women value marriage more than their lives.....sad how would she continue living with the man
Ooh God have mercy....it's good to consider children first before you consider yourself...aki woiye😭😭
@@dorisnelima5060 the traditional society stigmatises women who are not married. that's why they seemingly value marriage even when getting abused.
@@jeffmcwailer3413 The modern women doesn't care, this one is f@olish!
Nyathira, you're a great interviewer, may God give strength to this lovely lady. It's unfortunate that someone including police, would be this hurtless
Women pass through a lot from childhood to adulthood.. May the Lord help us overcome
This story is so touching , I'm a single mom of a daughter but this is giving me fears of getting into another relationship , I wish justice is given to Julia
Fear not disconnect ur self from evil and God will grant u a gud man
boys too are not any safer. I don't know whether you heard about the two university students who are in court for raping a grade 4 minor who happens to be a boy.
@@jeffmcwailer3413 we need to hear what God is saying , people are out of christ the reason devil is pursuing quickly quickly. Remember Moses stood for and Israelite we save . GOD IS LOOKING WHO TO USE TO PUR AN END OVER SATAN .
@@jeffmcwailer3413 May God protect our kids
I listened this interview in Wambui wa Mwangi and am here listening it again.... Thanks Nyathira Kamau and Lynn Ngugi for bringing us such stories.
Who can be trusted? Who can someone run to when hurt to obtain justice? The police is the last option. Women let's be careful not to trust anyone with our children wether male or female. If a relationship breaks or death occur, let the children come first! There's no harm in not remarrying, again it's more satisfying to marry late when your children are mature enough, you need peace.
I agree
I agree
Well said kabisaa💖
Thanks God mi nililelewa na step Dady alkua ananipenda kulko hta watoto wake wa kuwazaa,Yule Baba mungu ampumzishe I was very lucky,Yan nkiona hiz case naumia😭
From her story with a little help she can pick her self up n manage her life,pray this family heals
That's why I will be single till my kids grow up
The audacity of staying and saying that you are protecting your marriage!!!!!!so marriage and kids what do you value ?
Asking myself the same question ....
Aty angefanya tena what nonsense
Imagine
Eti hakutaka kuharibu ndoa yake nkt umenisinya mama
@@lencerotiwa549 🤨🤨🤨sorry for the kids
Imagine
Let's help this lady - hardworking but fell in love with a beast; Ladies, bwana yako akikufa, dont remarry plzz plzz; Ni hayo tu
I really feel sorry for what the kids went through, being sexually abused and raped as a child is not an easy thing. My advice to the parent of those kids is that she should take the kids for therapy. Make sure the kids go and see a psychologist who can help them heal the trauma. Childhood sexual abuse and rape affect a child's development and growth into adulthood. Childhood sexual trauma is real. It can affect your kids mentally, psychologically and also their relationship with the men
@@kristoa.5317 it was pinned there on the comment section by Lynn ngugi.
This is very true Jacinta.....the kids should visit a psychologist.....
that's very true but btw you can volunteer I know you're capable
You are right Jacinta
Stay single woman
I have a 12 year old from my previous marriage. I will not remarry or date until she goes to college. I can't trust any man to be around her.
my goodness! where do you get the energy to keep going from? I salute you. sending strength to you.
I love you Mum for asking for forgiveness to your daughters, it's the first step towards healing. God of vengeance will fight for you and your babies
This kind of stories zinanipeanga more reasons to stay single for the sake of my daughter. Nowadays you can't even trust your own family with your kid
I agree stay single, happy and earn lots of money
Very true
True dear
Very true
Tuko pamoja hapa
This is a sad story,
But the fact she questioned her daughter why she was not using protection when being abused got me enraged.
"Nilikua napenda ndoa"?at the expense of your daughter's being abused, just the pain of your children being abused under your nose can kill any parent?????
I don't understand,we should protect and choose our children above every other thing, our children only got us mother's as there only and last defense ,we cannot let them down.
To my view, this girl knew what she was doing and that's why she ran away. At 17yrs this girl was big enough to refuse, her sister who was in Std 8 refused and spoke out.
Hi Eunice !
Wow you are so evil
If I were the daughter singewahi rudi that's for sure.hii story inakasirisha sana...may God help us be better parents and know how to choose our kids.
I asked my mum why didn't you remarry after our dad died and she said " unajua singeamini mtu yeyote kunilelea nyinyi halafu Tena wanaume wote hawaaminiki ,,, wanaweza watesa si rahisi mwanaume kulea mtoto si wake ,,,," ooh God I thank her for sticking with us bcz she was still young when our dad left ,,,, I respect her so much Mungu amlide tu ,,,, and to everyone here and abroad plz choose ur kids first ,,, in anything you want and do plz put ur kids mbele ,,, am speechless
Thumbs up to ur mum
@@stellarjuma2465 indeed
Be grateful you have such a mother ❣️
Siezi ishi na mwanaume ambaye analala na mtoto wake na hata siezi taka hata kumuona nikumua tu
I have talked to the lady and she really need help. She need counseling, financial support and justice to bring her back to her feet. I have sent her something small but I wish we can mobilize and give her a smile once again.
God bless you
God bless you
May God bless you abundantly
She is an evil woman
😢 😭 😿 😢 😭 😿 😢 😭 nimelia machozi imeisha. am so Scared for my lil gal facing such men!!..this is so painful am chocking on my Saliva... iv no advice right now.
For sure how can you choose your husband over your children after knowing what he has done to your gals na huko na guts za kurudiana naye surely how now hiyo mapenzi ikae tu roho safi😭
Mtu anarape mtoto unamsamehe. Iyo ndio outcome. A rapist is a murderer. Don't entertain them at all. Inakaa ulilia tu Mali ya bwana wako. Without thinking of their childrens welfare. That man should have been in jail not out there enjoying life. A rapist is a criminal. Mbona hujafika usikimye, mbona hujafika fida, mbona usitangaze Twitter huyo mwanaume alipie dhambi za kunajisi mtoto? Mbona hutafutie mtoto haki
Some of these stories makes me decide to stay single cox am afraid to get married and yet I have a daughter from my previous marriage
Don't try just bring up your doughter alone I have a son and am not getting married anywhere
Just pray to God for a good man, I got married with a 16yr old daughter and I would marry my husband again and again
Just pray to God n he will bless you with a nice husband, ukicheki Kwa Lynn ngugi utaona story ya juzi msichana aliishi kuthulumiwa na babake mzazi na mamake hakuwai jua, until aliget mtoi, huyo msichana akitaka kurudi shule aliitisha babake mzazi fees akamshow anadai mtoi mwingine na yy,
@@peshridley3388 I receive in Jesus name
Its so painful to see what our women go through out of financial despair. I want my mission to be to create a special place for women of domestic violence to come for refuge and training. These places are very common in the West. Women never have to stay in an abusive relationship if they don't want to.
Looking to do a similatr thing
@@rebeccaatieno9220 we can do it. I have a commercial building i can use. I want to make a difference in this world
I plan to do the same.Provide for women who face domestic abuse and give them training to reintroduce them to the society as healthy people.
I can relate to what this woman went through.... I was in prison for almost 10yrs.... My children suffered 😭😭😭
So sorry Vivian, there is God of other chance
Hugs mummy
Sorry dear
Prison ! Sorry dear
I'm so sorry for what you and your kids went through.
God will take control of everything mum, never give up there is light at the end of the tunnel 🙏🙏🙏
God will remember you always with your children
Top 15 here 🤗🤗this is crazy men should style up and stop abusing kids. There are so many ladies out here and are single
Ooh, my dear, you are so ciurageous, and thank yoh for sharing with other women going this untold misery.
Pole mama
Pole sana dadangu dunia iko na mambo mingi mungu yupo tutaishi na watoto watakua kwa jina la yesu🙏🙏🙏
It must be hard,but one thing I don’t understand is why is the mother saying to the daughter you should have told me, I would have ended things with him early on. It would have made no difference because even when she told you everything you still stayed with the abuser. So…
No wonder they never said anything
Very true she is not a mother
I don't understand her either, kama bado alijua na akamua kukaa until akafukuzwa I don't understand 🤔
@@silvyamwai4378 jamani 🥴🤔
This woman is also wrong making excuses for the man who abused her daughters how can she continue staying with that man?
Yeah, once alijua huyo bwana analala na watoto wake. That day ndie angetokaa huko kwa huyo mwanaume. I can't imagine
This is crazy
Kabisa
I sence smething fishy here
Kuna kitu behind
She has energy, i would have taken off like never before
It's sad how women make excuses for men after molesting children 😪 😕.
😭😭😭😭😭😭my daughters my life,my everything....I will never let you go through what i went through... marriage and relationship is a no gone zone for me
Julia needs a go fund me if everyone donates a little her and her children can have a safe life
Shame shame shame, there is so many things i hate about what she said
God help this mother and her children in Jesus name I pray Amen.
It's sooo sad.. Hugs mammy I feel your pain..
I will never get married.
Sorry mum for what you've gone through.God will fight for you.
Omg🙆😭😭😭😭i respect my mom... She told me "mum ata nipate baba mwingine na niolewe .. wewe utakaa kwa shosh sitaolewa na wewe lakini utapata kile unataka" nikauliza mbona tusiende na wewe" hapana mimi hao watu wa io boma wanaeza kutesa juu nimeolewa na wewe" respect Mum🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I know this lady. She had a kiosk in Lugulu market. She once exchanged me a 6kg gas cylinder,not too long ago.
I decided to stay single to take care of my daughter .Such stories are heart breaking
Pia mimi aki
Yeah me too aki.
Mimi ni boys na pia aren't safe siwezi olewa watoto wangu wapitishiwe hell
Pole sana Mom, we are living in a world with human but no humanity
Congratulations 👏👏👏 Ann ❤️ you are great ❤️ interviewer sorry 😐😐😐 to this lasy
May God heal this family...May He come through ..
I have been away from home for 19 years now even though I do visit every other year. Kenya has changed for the worst, people with money now do whatever they want and get away even with murder. Police on the other side is rotten. The whole system is broken. I hope one day we shall get good governance to start fixing these issues.
the sense of morality in Kenya has been eroded. check how politicians are promoting immorality and people are cheering them on.
People like her contribute to that mess.
Hmmm am not Kenyan but I pray the men and police change. Women are treated very bad. I blame the police for sure because these abusers know they can get away with it. The police do nothing. Dont worry God is about to show up against these corrupted people.
@@FirstLadyG yet she could not leave the same abuser to protect her children! Colluded to hide the truth until the man started mistreating her! Very selfish. She is part of the corrupt system. She wanted him to apologise to the kids than report to police and take him to court!
@@FirstLadyG apology for rape?she is part of the corrupt system. She only decided to go to police when the man started mistreating her meaning revenge NOT justice for her daughters.
Hii story inasikitisha sana 😭😭😭
May god heal your heart and shower you with his placings nm really touched
This is so heartbreaking 😭😭😭 In whose hands are we safe??? Who will rescue us from these opressers. In whose hands are we safe???
I fear we are not 100%safe even in the hands of the men of God.
Stay single
Pole sana mpenz MUNGU yupo nawe pamoja na watt wako
This mother according to her story, she didn't react or shocked for what happened to their daughters!!. There is nothing to confirm to those allegations but to she was supposed to act n take the law immediately
She opted to stay. May be aliraukia Mary
whether she did what.....Justice should be done for the kids sake
It's not okay to force your children to call another man who is not their biological father (dad). A lot can happen without your knowledge, advice your children to always be open and create that environment that your children can tell you everything that is going on in their life. So unfortunate 😕 that a police would advice someone to do such kind of an act,how cruel.
Thankyou ann you are doing good work,today's story is so painful may God give her strength,bt for me i will raiman single for the sake of my kids,
Someone please help me understand this woman cause i feel mad... how can one continue to stay in such a "marriage" after the kids have gone through such a thing and still look straight in your Kids eyes and tell them that you love them? Where is the love?
Desperation can cause women to stay. It happens even with elite, well educated women. I wouldn't stay but I can understand why she stayed.
Can you please send me an email address so I can help this lady? As I said, I'm not able to reach her through whatsapp since I'm outside the country. Please put me in contact with her. The kids deserve better.
How much is the dispenser that this lady needs?
It’s not love. It’s trauma bonding
I am even confused too, why did she wait for so long
Pole Sana mama. Our Kenyan policemen should also style up
Honestly how can you keep on staying with a man who abused your daughters?? I don't understand this... hate kama ni survival mode. You're survived after prison when things were harder!! Haaii sielewi
Imagine yaani uyu mama nimeskia tu amenisarisha..alipenda marriage kushida watoto wake
So unfair! I thank God mystep Father tried this and that was the end of their marriage. Thank you Mum.
@@nancyx3766 and she says even after 10yrs the husband took everything and brought goons to her, she is crying for her justice mostly.
I can’t leave my kids in the house with goons and run to a police station. Who knows what the goons can do while you are away??
Nyathira this has to be best outfit you have won in Tuko I love it. Please dress more like this you look beautiful. The story has touched my heart, we need to change this narrative as a society enough is enough!
Women this is why we should always choose ourselves over a man. The only one who can have your back is you,have children who you can take care of emotionally and financially. So painful to hear this may God heal you and your children
Mom dont loose hope God is with u ...jst be strong for your kids and be strong for yourself
I treasure my son such that I can't imagine someone mistreating him. I better remain single n always see him in peace
Ladies when shall we learn you can't just introduce men to growing girls.i have witnessed this from a neighbor her introducing a man to primary school girls in a single house n more so the man bringing his brother in.i thank God they kosonad.I was afraid for the girls.Ladies let's prioritize our kids.Get married when the kids are old enough.Hii marriage c competition.
The story is so touching am a single mother of a beb girl I don't even know how to say may God give me a good husband....
Tuco, you are doing good job by bringing people to your show to alert them world. But I would like to hear them testimonies from victims. How did the show helped them.
Story kama hizi make me stay single for my kids sake , ooh help me God . Please God Protect us and our children, You're the Real Father
I feel sorry for the girl who was abused by that evil man ....bh the mother still forgive ad continue staying with him .. doesn't mk sense on my side
Am really sorry to say this but there’s something wicked about a person who makes her kids live in the same house as their abusers. My mums friend did that and he continued for another 3 years with the woman doing everything to hold on to the marriage. Pure wickedness
She chose the man over her kids. Her kids are not her No.1 priority
So touching....God make a way for you mum with your kids. Nothing is impossible with our God... men please stop this wickedness. God will judge you
My God give you peace mama na milango zako mungu atazifungua mama for real I feel ur pain😭😭😭😭😭
Mungu tusaidie Jamani..aki I've cried
A female child has to be educated and have something doing so she can fight for her right. When you depend on a man all kind of nonsense comes your way.
I was hoping this is a movie sadly, it's a reality! Human beings inflicting each other pain. Intentionally 😭
Mmm😭😭😭 ati Mungu ametubariki na baba mwingine uwii kumbe ni raia kutoka kuzimu
I feel bad 😭😭😭😭 please parents we should talk to our children and teach them these things 😥😥😥
Pole sana. May God Jesus redeem those children.
Kina mama tafathali ☝🏽👏🏽🙏🏽 please 🙏🏽 muwe munaogea na watoto wenu na kuwauliza maswali je baba yoke vipi so and so wa mama don’t trusting mens with children’s
This is why you should talk to your kids about such things let them know they can talk to you be open with them let them know they come first and should never keep secrets from you.
This are some of the reason I am minding my bizness coz my kids safety peace and happiness matters most, the reason am working hard and take my bills single handedly, some men are just bt born wicked sad indeed,huggs dea
First, as a woman before you get re-married, take your take to know the kind of man you want to commit your life to. It is better to remain single or get married at 40 that rush to stay with a man who might ruin your entire life. Second, ensure you stay close to your children to be easier to uncover when they have an issue before it worsens. I think from 2014 is a long period, if she was careful she could have discovered that her children were undergoing sexual abuse.
Kweli mommy
Very true,
easier said than done.
@@jeffmcwailer3413 it’s only difficult done to those that got no free relationships with their kids .
Sometimes you can't know until the child opens up or something. My kid was being mistreated by some lady while staying at my friend's home and I had no idea until my friend told me what the other lady had been doing.
The only time I ever sensed something was wrong at her school was when one day she told me that she didn't want to go to school yet she never likes missing school at all even when not feeling well. She was around 8 years. I sat down with her and talked to her calmly, I didn't rebuke her or yell at her for not wanting to go to school that day. She then opened up about some Sudanese boys (these kids born in Sudan are kinda rough and kids feared them ) who were trying to bully her at school,taking her things and told her to never tell anyone, even asking her to open her dress so they could see her pantie. Imagine! I lost it, I went with her to school, walked straight to the classroom, asked her to show me the kids and I showed them never to try it with her again. I made sure I did it in front of the classroom. By the time the teacher walked in I had handled the matter, I explained later. From that time no kid ever dared to bully her and those kids never ever tried to bully any other kid in the school.
She felt protected and loved. In fact she told me that kids at school feared her saying that she had a tough mother who would mess with them if they tried anything.
When the mothers of the boys were summoned at school they said the boys got their nasty manners on TV and didn't even rebuke their sons.
Pole Sana Kwa uliyopitia dada
Women r going through alot of hell. Lakini machozi ya mwanamke Ina malipo. So sad. JUSTICE
This is so wrong! How can a father defile his daughters? Indeed moral decayed long time ago. May God heal her and her daughters from such a trauma plus please Anne help them get a counsellor. Surely I'm sick of these despicable behavior!
That's what I'm going through right now for being a single mom (widow)of 8kids it's so hard and painful 😢😥
Oh sad 😭 better take action
Wachaneni na ndoa after kufiwa watoto wana need security yenu .we are living with narcissist men all over
No need of telling in-laws your problems, they will always side with their brother or sister. So sad 😩
Of course because you're not their relative
True I also suffered in the hands of in-laws but as per now,nilichanuka na sikuhizi wanatii
Especially when they get monthly allowance
True. Kwanza waluyha wa Bungoma
This woman has gone through alot ..she needs help.....she has tried her best jameni.... kama horror movie 😭😭😭
Somebody should help this Lady to get Justice because what this Man did is a Police case, the Police in Kenya should stop Corruption
😢😢i accepted single life,i embraced lonilenes..cz weee mtu si baba watoto aint easy .
Its very challeging..
😢
JULIAN, SORRY TO HEAR YOUR PAINFUL STORY. I WOULD LIKE TO SAY THIS TO MARY YOUR DAUGHTER THAT SHE SHOULD PLEASE GO BACK HOME. THIS COUNTRY POLICE MEN MAY NOT HELP AGAIN IF ANYTHING HAPPEN TO YOU OUT THERE. GO BACK TO YOUR MUM DARLING. MAY GOD JEHOVAH GIVE YOU COMFORT. AMEN
I am sure she just came out coz the man changed towards her...she could have made the kids stay with the abuser and lived in denial...she is just angry coz she lost the luxury she had...shame shame shame.
Huyu bado anaeza rudiana na huyo mtu, ako after mali, she fails the girl
Exactly...shame. puting a man who stole your daughter's innocence before your kids..shameful
This kids knew she would do nothing ..... when a child keeps quite they know what to except from their parents
@@buggybunny8890 aki ata ninge time usiku huyo mwanaume akilala ninyonge yeye ama slow poison
Yes she is pure evil
Kenya sio nchi ya kukaa aki, tanzania uwezi kumfanyi mtu vitu vya kijinga ivyo kabla polisi awajafiki majilani watakumaliza, na polisi mda wote wako kazini nawapenda sana polisi wa tanzania 🇹🇿 nashukulu mungu kuzaliwa tz😘😘
This is really a touching story. though so bad but big experience and remember only God that has all the evidence without being told and can serve justice. Keep praying to Him and I am 100% sure justice will be served one day to you and your children whether in this world or Life after death.
I lack words
My question is why would u even want that man anywhere near your kids after what u heard.