Why it was the Right Person, Wrong Time

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ต.ค. 2024
  • Right person, wrong time. Wrong person, right time. Who’s to say, all I know that when it is the right person, it just is
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  • @diegogonzalez8308
    @diegogonzalez8308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    Why does TH-cam have to show me this right after she leaves me.

    • @joeykidney
      @joeykidney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      oops

    • @ottoto2015
      @ottoto2015 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ye

    • @bernardogracio6886
      @bernardogracio6886 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same but it was because i research about it

    • @d0hka
      @d0hka 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      the phone is always listening my friend..sadly lol it happens to me to😂

  • @assumi1970
    @assumi1970 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    The right person at the wrong time is still the right person.

    • @danistar73
      @danistar73 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes they are❤

    • @WhatYouLookinAt-p7j
      @WhatYouLookinAt-p7j หลายเดือนก่อน

      but its still the wrong time

    • @assumi1970
      @assumi1970 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@WhatYouLookinAt-p7j did I deny it?

    • @chellotrevino7323
      @chellotrevino7323 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@WhatYouLookinAt-p7jshut up

  • @kimmiiboobernard1970
    @kimmiiboobernard1970 2 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Believing right person wrong time will have you mentally destroying your self waiting for them forever… don’t get me wrong we can meet again later on down the line and maybe it will be better but that’s not because we met the wrong time it could mean something else that we both needed to grow during the time we met we both need to experience life and everything beautiful

    • @RumiRubu
      @RumiRubu 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks

  • @elizabethmallon5713
    @elizabethmallon5713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    I agree 100%...yes there have been many times where people found the right person, but it was the wrong time and they eventually came back to each other.....but!! I feel like once the relationship is broken or on a "break" as individuals we just naturally grow away from that situation. time is bullshit and I think sitting around telling yourself "oh yeah it's definitely the right person, just the wrong time" ur just cheating yourself. focus on yourself, and the right person will come when you least expect it❤️

    • @kaitlinmastrantuono7216
      @kaitlinmastrantuono7216 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree too. My ex boyfriend and I tried to make it work multiple times. He broke up with me more than once. After the final breakup I thought maybe we weren’t ready for a relationship and the timing was wrong but you’re right I was cheating myself. If he was meant for me he would’ve stuck by me and made it work.

  • @mikyl-fo8rh
    @mikyl-fo8rh ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Never wait on someone who is not open to loving you now.

  • @ericaroundtheworld
    @ericaroundtheworld 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I went so cold with him and left him hanging . I was so confused about my life. And I didn't admit I fall out of love . I distant him . I avoid talking about us . I lost him . The biggest mistake. I cried and crawling back to him only that he has moved on . He didn't give us second chance . Yes people said. U deserved it cuz u left him there waiting for u . True. So I am crying endlessly and the pain in my heart stays

    • @cilliancloverstevechubby12
      @cilliancloverstevechubby12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here

    • @katranaprestor860
      @katranaprestor860 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is also so hard to deal with it. You did what you could at that time. Maybe not enough for what it should have been ideally but no one is perfect. Life is unfair, it isn’t perfect either. People and dinosaurs have been killed throughout the ages, did they deserved it ? The wars ? The meteorite ? No. It just happened from the outside. Same here, feelings just happen, you don’t expected them.
      I had the chance to speak with him about my feelings and he does everything for me but I don’t know how I feel. I crush for another guy.. First time it happens to me in years, never thought it would happen to me, and now I am really doubting, but nothing to reproach with him. That’s hard..

    • @akiravader7888
      @akiravader7888 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's your choice and suffer the consequences

    • @raxosc1475
      @raxosc1475 ปีที่แล้ว

      How are you feeling now? I'm dealing with the same feelings too

    • @anushthasingh9068
      @anushthasingh9068 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      How u dealt with this guilt of not valuing him and appreciating his presence at that moment when he was actually their for u but now as he has left , how dealt with that pain of loosing your moon in counting stars ??

  • @Bluesnakes333
    @Bluesnakes333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    If you don’t end up together then you aren’t meant to be. If that person leaves, and never comes back, you guys are done. Just move on

  • @wosiah
    @wosiah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for making these. Helping me learn how to love myself again.

  • @Couplesthatrideeverywhere
    @Couplesthatrideeverywhere 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I had this feeling where I found the right person at the wrong time because well he didnt like me back and well he had a girlfriend. They broke up but I cant just steal that person right away since the break up had broke him, hard.

  • @weishen2407
    @weishen2407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You're right, but it still hurts. I know this may sound cliche and childish but I recently met the most wonderful girl in my life, she was me, she was everything I looked for, she was enough. The thing is she had a boyfriend, and she started having feelings for me, she didn't felt honest with him, so she broke up with him and now, even tho she still has feelings for me we grew apart because I could not let go the fact that I believe she is the one and she is not ready to start something again, it sucks, but now I believe I have to move on, even tho it's hard because I see her everyday

    • @aaryangupta8824
      @aaryangupta8824 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey I've just been through the exact same thing as you. Had the best connection with this girl who was taken, she broke up with her bf but then had to get over the breakup and we had a weird push and pull situationship for 2 months since I had to see her everyday. This was extremely emotionally draining for me and my feelings diminished towards her but eventually she was ready to be in a relationship with me. It didn't work out though cause then I was struggling to regain feelings towards her... Was your story similar or did it manage to work out for you?

  • @herlion7929
    @herlion7929 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Told me I was the right person at the wrong time and they let me go saying to forget about them how can I I’ve felt so strong feeling than ever

    • @Baby_bassplease2
      @Baby_bassplease2 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same goes with me🙃🪦

  • @annamarkwardt2080
    @annamarkwardt2080 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I always felt and thought the same thing until it happened. This boy and I just got along from the start. We talked for hours, went on late night walks, go on dates, but he wasn’t ready for a relationship because he was still healing from his ex-girlfriend. He said I was a big help, but it wouldn’t be fair towards me to pursue a relationship, if he isn’t fully prepared. I understood him, but told him, that I wouldn’t wait for him. Whenever we see us. We just stare at each other with a sad face and everyone around us, that we should try again, but idk

  • @Theyluv_lucy
    @Theyluv_lucy ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I dont know what to think of this but we made a decision to call it off for a while till we’re both mentally healthy and I believe it was right person wrong time but only because maybe we are too young or we arnt ready for eachother yet

  • @laylayh9891
    @laylayh9891 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for saying this. I needed to hear this, so thank you.

  • @lluvia327
    @lluvia327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    you have a way to say the things you do in a eloquent way !

    • @joeykidney
      @joeykidney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      well thank you for listening :)

  • @Hannah-dc7yd
    @Hannah-dc7yd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    U made me cry:')

  • @riachia9452
    @riachia9452 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, my heart hurts so much. My heart can't bear this unbearable pain. I am just living each day surviving by your words:'(

  • @JensVanDeAarde
    @JensVanDeAarde 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    my 💚 hurts alot lately but this really helped
    thank u friend

  • @E_swi
    @E_swi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Even when it’s not “the right time”, it will be if you felt like they were worth it enough. At least, that’s how I approach it in my own life. There are a lot of good people out there but not all of them are for you, if you really break it down

  • @lottiek.9407
    @lottiek.9407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Exactly! The right person will make the time right.
    Sometimes your life sucks, the time couldn't be worse and then the right person fix everything and makes everything amazing

  • @peacock294
    @peacock294 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you! I really needed to hear this

  • @user-es2bh1rt8e
    @user-es2bh1rt8e 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    it was the right person and wrong time, he didn’t want a relationship.. he left and today i believe it was so i could found the best person in the right time. i don’t believe it wouldn’t last and i wouldn’t feel really satisfied and happy with the first one, but my cirrent relationship is literally everything i’ve wished for and i wouldn’t change that for anything in the world

  • @skittlepuff
    @skittlepuff ปีที่แล้ว

    Because she wanted me back after hurting me and I didn’t want her back right then bc of the pain she caused. I needed time. but I’m suddenly feeling drawn to her now and now she’s married to the guy we were friends with. She settled for someone who reminded her of me. Wrong time. Right person. It is definitely a thing.

  • @KiAy-un8vs
    @KiAy-un8vs 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    that's true but sometimes it goes like they are the right person(what we ask for in a partner) but age is inappropriate.

  • @sabrinaz9023
    @sabrinaz9023 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes.. I've always believed this even when I wished I didn't.. even when I wished with I could be belive that maybe just maybe he was the right person.. but I believe that if it is the right person they will do everything to make sure its the right time.. timing wouldn't matter if it was the right person.. I believe that right person wrong time is just something we tell ourselves to try to make it easier to get over that it wasn't the right person

  • @YoungBoiNate
    @YoungBoiNate ปีที่แล้ว

    There was girl in high school that i now realize was interested in me, i ignored because i was still dealing with anxiety, now i regret it

  • @angelm.avilaherrera9036
    @angelm.avilaherrera9036 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    There is someone that I’ve been talking to and seeing for the whole summer but we are in a complicated situation where it feels like we can’t be in a relationship because of what she is going through in life and but she still wants to see me and talk to me if she wants me to and I still want to but I don’t want to get my hopes up even after we’ve been through this summer

  • @blackdevil1502
    @blackdevil1502 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really need to hear this

  • @themiamilife
    @themiamilife ปีที่แล้ว

    My boyfriend broke up with me... it's been a week, and I haven't been able to sleep as much. Your videos have helped but I'm still processing it all

  • @me.782
    @me.782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow....inspirational...ty

  • @kookie4752
    @kookie4752 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know what you said is true...... but my mind ain't ready for thisss😢

  • @marlo2919
    @marlo2919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yup. 💖🦋

  • @keshianserenity
    @keshianserenity 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Please provide Kleenex with your videos 😭 thanks

  • @STARSYOUTUBE2024
    @STARSYOUTUBE2024 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If its the right person there shouldnt be a wrong time

  • @viancavillarreal2861
    @viancavillarreal2861 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sm 😔

  • @chellotrevino7323
    @chellotrevino7323 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I don’t believe in love period I’m too self absorbed for that only person I care about is me I see people as a liability and a waste of space❤

  • @darkedy8707
    @darkedy8707 ปีที่แล้ว

    We couldn’t be together now. We just can’t we want too but waiting for eachother is not possible so we have to move on

  • @Big_Steve11
    @Big_Steve11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I miss missing her

  • @JustinGamana
    @JustinGamana 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I decided to never fall in love anymore. Love doesn't exist.

  • @blueblub
    @blueblub 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    it was the right person for me. we both love each other dearly, but seeing him for a few hours can be challenging. with a strict home-life he can barely leave the house. and i can’t afford to continue my studies; so seeing each other at school is a no-go. i truly miss his stupid face.
    oh yes, 2024, the lowest point of my life ever possible. wonder if it’ll get any better.

  • @thesingalong5050
    @thesingalong5050 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    but a girl i liked liked me back but didnt wanted to date even after i asked her a lot of times to do so cuz she was afraid of commitments and now she's with someone else...right person wrong time ig

    • @ragnarlothbrok1865
      @ragnarlothbrok1865 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh, you just got hit by the "i dont wanna be in a relationship right now". Thats equal to "I dont see you that way", btw

  • @Lana50500
    @Lana50500 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wanna know the reason then. This happened twice, not once but twice. What is the reason

  • @ashiya_yuennQUASO
    @ashiya_yuennQUASO 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What is the song 🥺🥺

    • @dayday42442
      @dayday42442 ปีที่แล้ว

      Repeat Until Death - Novo Amor

  • @kenyagrant2727
    @kenyagrant2727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Preach

  • @TheWhateverChannel380
    @TheWhateverChannel380 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Y’all like my comment cuz I need to remember this so I can move on 😞

  • @kimdo7360
    @kimdo7360 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @dk61jnr
    @dk61jnr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    love this 🥰

    • @joeykidney
      @joeykidney  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you Dylan

  • @PowerOfAIandMotivation
    @PowerOfAIandMotivation 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Exactly

  • @gracep2910
    @gracep2910 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    why you got the asmr voice gojng

  • @laju6846
    @laju6846 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are you an infj or infp?

  • @antispiralking9417
    @antispiralking9417 ปีที่แล้ว

    i might have my chances with her

  • @treymarks6331
    @treymarks6331 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video

  • @kanwalfatima2813
    @kanwalfatima2813 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @ethans2226
    @ethans2226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jesus is coming back soon, repent and believe before it’s too late!

  • @elizebotha2420
    @elizebotha2420 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🥺🖤🖤🖤

  • @a.f.c.5689
    @a.f.c.5689 ปีที่แล้ว

    JESUS CHRIST loves you and you matter so much to Him!
    • This is the Gospel:
    For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
    John 3:16‭-‬18 KJV
    GOD sent His only Son, JESUS ​​CHRIST, born of a virgin, conceived by the HOLY SPIRIT, to reconcile humanity with Him. By His blood all of our sins are forgiven, and by His wounds we are healed. Jesus Christ has saved humanity (everyone that believes in Him) from eternal damnation in hell, which we all deserve because of our sins. We have all broken the 10 commandments, which is God's law.
    There are no "good" people in this world. The Bible says we have all sinned, and come short of the glory of GOD (Romans 3:23). If you think you are a “good” person then that means that you are morally excellent. I will ask you the following:
    1.) Have you ever told a lie in your whole life?
    2.) Have you ever stolen anything (even if it was small or despicable of its value) or have you ever kept something that doesn't belong to you?
    3.) Have you ever used God’s name in vain? An example of this is when you get surprised or amazed by something and say God’s name. It is in vain because you use it as an expression, not because you are addressing God in prayer or talking about Him.
    4.) Jesus Christ said that whoever looks upon a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart (Matthew 5:28), have you ever looked with lust?
    5.) The Bible says that whoever hates his brother is a murderer (1 John 3:15), have you ever hated someone?
    Beloved person who is reading this:
    If you are guilty of these sins then, you are a liar, a thief, a blasphemer, an adulterer, and a murderer.
    Now you can see how guilty you are and that you are not a “good” person; you deserve eternal punishment just like all of us.
    as it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one: There is none that understandeth, There is none that seeketh after God. They are all gone out of the way, they are together become unprofitable; There is none that doeth good, no, not one.
    Romans 3:10‭-‬12 KJV
    We humans cannot do anything to save ourselves from God’s wrath; we have all broken God’s law. It is not enough to apologize to God for our actions because without shedding blood there is no remission of sins (Hebrews 9:22). Even though we cannot do anything to be redeemed, with God all things are possible (Matthew 19:26).
    Jesus Christ lived a perfect and sinless life fulfilling God’s law perfectly. Even though He never sinned or did anything wrong, He died for us, sinners; God’s wrath and justice were satisfied completely in Him.
    But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:8 KJV
    Jesus Christ reconciled us with God. Your job is to do three (3) things. First, you have to ask God for forgiveness and repent for all of your sins. This means to turn away from your sinful lifestyle. You cannot claim be a christain and still live a sinful life. Second, you must accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. This means to put all of your faith and trust in His expiatory work on the cross (not to trust your own “righteousness” or “good works”). Third, you need to be born again.
    It is Written:
    Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.
    John 3:3 KJV
    The phrase “born again” literally means “born from above”. It is a change in your heart made by the Holy Spirit when He transforms you into a new creation. He makes a regeneration in your heart making you a child of God.
    When He does this, you start hating sin and unrighteousness. You also start praying, reading the Bible, going to Church, loving God and living for Him alone. All of your sinful and carnal desires are extinct because you literally are transformed into a new creature.
    This is a big miracle!
    Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.
    2 Corinthians 5:17
    Please, seek God while He can be found. 150,000 humans die every day and the majority of them believe that death is far from them. Do not last another single second without accepting Jesus Christ in your life. The spirit of death doesn’t ask you any permission to take your life; he just simply takes it.
    Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.
    John 14:6 KJV
    Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
    Isaiah 55:6‭-‬7 KJV
    JESUS ​​CHRIST IS COMING VERY SOON!
    God is one in being and three in person:
    FATHER, SON and HOLY SPIRIT.
    It is too perfect for us to understand. By faith we accept it. May the LORD JESUS ​​CHRIST bless you always.

  • @vitormanuelfernandes5353
    @vitormanuelfernandes5353 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fuck.....

  • @daughter_of_hades69
    @daughter_of_hades69 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Maybe its right person but the right time just hasn't come yet