Heartbreak leads men down a dark path...

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  • Heartbreak leads men down a dark path...

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  • @vonjt4077
    @vonjt4077 ปีที่แล้ว +2111

    “Those who are heartless once cared too much.” -Capt Davy Jones

    • @aurieltheprotagonist619
      @aurieltheprotagonist619 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      True

    • @LifelessUnknown
      @LifelessUnknown 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      True... :)

    • @Elii_why
      @Elii_why 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Me 😂😂😂

    • @elijahcleary7710
      @elijahcleary7710 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      True

    • @ront7405
      @ront7405 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I promise I used to be like that. I used to be that guy that cared to much

  • @aspen5664
    @aspen5664 ปีที่แล้ว +16595

    Shaggy is becoming dangerously based

  • @darthmortis9960
    @darthmortis9960 ปีที่แล้ว +1492

    This is actually accurate af. The ones who love the hardest, are also the ones that are the most deeply destroyed when that love is no longer enough for the one they'd give the world to.

    • @michaelphilpott1651
      @michaelphilpott1651 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I agree. The one you love the most is the one who hurt you the most 💔

    • @MinaandBjorn
      @MinaandBjorn ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I got cheated on and now I vow to never be in a relationship again because I got heartbroken twice and that I already knew there were too many boys out there who can’t commit to just one girl. I was so hurt I couldn’t risk it again even if there was 1% chance I’ll find someone who’s willing to stay forever. It wasn’t that I got cheated on that really hurt me, it was the fact that I sacrificed so much for that person and in return I was abandoned. In my spiritual beliefs, we weren’t meant to be on this earth with our soulmate because we need to find that love within ourselves. I personally believe earth is a school and we are here to learn valuable lessons.

    • @michaelphilpott1651
      @michaelphilpott1651 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@MinaandBjorn I am so sorry you gotten cheated on. I know how it feels. But trust me with a smile like your you will have no problem finding a new one. Someone who going to love you no matter what

    • @Kennymacdougall
      @Kennymacdougall ปีที่แล้ว +10

      True, I used to be that too. I have become heartless now and just don't care anymore.

    • @Bonewalker-2000
      @Bonewalker-2000 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      ​@@Kennymacdougall same bro. Same. I used to be extremely romantic and creative. I used to love hard. And in some instances I did and still do. But I learned real quick how bad I could be hurt. How deep I could be scarred. And I learned real quick not to give that out to just anyone. I also found myself becoming colder. In wisdom I found darkness. But that by itself isn't a problem because that darkness was there the whole time. It was brought to the surface when you've been hurt one too many times by the not just the people you love but those same people you trusted. That's the problem.

  • @the54th34
    @the54th34 ปีที่แล้ว +2771

    Director: Hey ummm none of that is in the script bro, you ok?
    😂

    • @TheCollective862
      @TheCollective862 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      It really feels like that

    • @LorJoker
      @LorJoker ปีที่แล้ว +61

      😆😆 I would definitely had to include it because of the authenticity he really means what he’s saying!

    • @AnthonySforza
      @AnthonySforza ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Oddly, the director (The guy intereacting with him) was originally going to play that role.

    • @fridsrikenileri1268
      @fridsrikenileri1268 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      This all a deep Fake of shaggy on top of behind the scenes of Star Wars Episode 3

    • @standardofexcellence
      @standardofexcellence ปีที่แล้ว +8

      director is in the scene

  • @olajong2315
    @olajong2315 ปีที่แล้ว +7051

    Nah brah, my man forgot he was acting and was speaking from the heart.

    • @rbaker5114
      @rbaker5114 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Lol. Smh, exactly that. 💯

    • @noelgarcia3382
      @noelgarcia3382 ปีที่แล้ว

      That already happened to me 7 grade sep 8 2020 13 yes old never again I'm done I don't want to interact with a woman other than my family. Members or the boys any woman seeing this all of the depression that men fucking have now IS BECAUSE OF YOU🤕😠😤🖕

    • @funynonsence
      @funynonsence ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Lol I swear y’all never even seen ya mama when y’all say this

    • @rbaker5114
      @rbaker5114 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@funynonsence What in the hell are you talking about?
      Being able to see someone lose themselves in a role and speak from a place of pain? Jumping to conclusions isn't my strong suit, Bum.

    • @violentjunkie129
      @violentjunkie129 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@funynonsence what are you smoking cause my mum is a mum not all women but alot of them now just use or cheat or meny other things my mums not like that but some mums do aswell like your acting like all mums have a man in there life?

  • @_MezzoForte23
    @_MezzoForte23 ปีที่แล้ว +2836

    The way his voice shakes when he says the word "crushed" shows that he really means all of this. It's beautiful

    • @raypist2333
      @raypist2333 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Yea I mean, he’s not an actor or anything

    • @bdrew1111
      @bdrew1111 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@raypist2333 🤣🤣🤣👏

    • @TheRealLingLing303
      @TheRealLingLing303 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Or he's an actor

    • @Noir0rioN
      @Noir0rioN ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Watch the end of SLC Punk and tell me Lillard can't ACT, yo

    • @trtopkillz
      @trtopkillz ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@raypist2333 you don't need to be an actor to experience heartbreak and pain

  • @firehousesubs4439
    @firehousesubs4439 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    In 2017 I had my heart ripped out by a girl I loved since 1st grade. We dated for 5 years. I’m 28 now and have dated my share of women in my life and never even think of that one girl anymore. But I’ll tell you this, it turned me stone cold and I’ve never opened my heart up towards anybody like that ever since. And all the women that have came and gone since, had zero effect on me.

    • @user-ff1ky9bn2r
      @user-ff1ky9bn2r 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Sorry to hear that! Open your heart up again. Heart to heart is always best! That girl. . ., the one who wants to open her heart wide-open? She's waiting on YOU....otherwise, you're just a hard & heartless lover, and that's not good for ANYONE...,especially YOU! TRUTH!!!

    • @papi_kaid1358
      @papi_kaid1358 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I’m sorry to hear that, but I’m glad you’re still here. My brother took his own life in 2017 because of a woman broke his heart. Keep going strong Big dog!!! You will find a partner ❤

  • @anthonyharrell9381
    @anthonyharrell9381 ปีที่แล้ว +294

    This man just nailed it completely! Makes the boy in me cry

    • @aaronbatiste1077
      @aaronbatiste1077 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      U right I’m crying

    • @FangYuanDaoistGu
      @FangYuanDaoistGu 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You are not the only one crying good sir.

    • @Ok15948
      @Ok15948 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I can understand you sir

    • @Sre-qh3sb
      @Sre-qh3sb 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same

  • @TheSarugami
    @TheSarugami ปีที่แล้ว +6183

    So who hurt my man shaggy for him to know these things

  • @JustKyon
    @JustKyon ปีที่แล้ว +2218

    When u were a child u were always on the heroes side but now that u grew up u understand the villains

    • @jefferyrowland5579
      @jefferyrowland5579 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Wow. That’s one of the most profound statements I’ve ever read. Well said, sir.

    • @josiahbaumgartner7643
      @josiahbaumgartner7643 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      You’re what, 17?

    • @Jubilation457
      @Jubilation457 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Wow it’s like you’re the Disney villain, in which case maybe you don’t deserve to get the girl that’s for the real hero of the story.

    • @digithickness721
      @digithickness721 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@Jubilation457 you are named after plastic cheese

    • @Jubilation457
      @Jubilation457 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@digithickness721 extra sharp so you know I’m there😉👍

  • @Ortiz_fam26
    @Ortiz_fam26 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    Man! Those words came straight up from his heart. Love isn't always fair but God damn is the the most beautiful painful thing.. stay strong my kings 👑

  • @giannis832
    @giannis832 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    "Cause you never get over it" "God no, you never get over it, you recover but you never get over it"

    • @FangYuanDaoistGu
      @FangYuanDaoistGu 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I would never get my heart crushed like it happened in high school 😢

  • @rubenoemeloem3948
    @rubenoemeloem3948 ปีที่แล้ว +6058

    Shaggy after Velma didnt give him a scooby snack once:

    • @johnny3625
      @johnny3625 ปีที่แล้ว +226

      Shaggy after hanging out with Andrew Tate

    • @markusburns8041
      @markusburns8041 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      💀💀

    • @kgcharisma5706
      @kgcharisma5706 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Lol

    • @vectorcarbine9983
      @vectorcarbine9983 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's what no Velmussy does to a mf

    • @franzschubert3461
      @franzschubert3461 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Ikr this is so overdramatic. Why does this make a sob story out of hedonism. Its really not that sad. Like it's just humans repeating a behavior that feels good becuase they can't control themselves to be loyal and settle down. Some men can't find better things to do and cant keep it in their pants. It's really not that deep.

  • @clovedoper7223
    @clovedoper7223 ปีที่แล้ว +1645

    from his eyes, we know he aint acting this one. that came from deep inside 💔

    • @chrismaple779
      @chrismaple779 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Na he is. He’s just really good at it.

    • @randalthor647
      @randalthor647 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@chrismaple779 No, some things are just true.

    • @untamedwild1
      @untamedwild1 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      If you’ve Ever watched SLC Punk, you would know that Matthew Lillard is one of the Very Best, and it’s sad that he’s not getting more serious rolls considering how talented he is!!!

    • @HughMungus4655
      @HughMungus4655 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      nah lol, matthew lillard is a good dude
      its scumbags who think like this

    • @NoBaconForYou
      @NoBaconForYou ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is a universal truth among men

  • @WillieWest.
    @WillieWest. ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Bro Mathew Lilard is a Chad and deserves more recognition

  • @favsounds8603
    @favsounds8603 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Andrew Tate said it , losing a child is much worse than losing a parent. women sees men as providers , protectors and leaders , while men sees women as somebody we take care of , protect and guide.
    It hits men much harder. We are not the same.

  • @vitalis
    @vitalis ปีที่แล้ว +1772

    As an ex-romantic I can confirm this

    • @MAN9027
      @MAN9027 ปีที่แล้ว

      ex romantics are the coldest mfs

    • @thelonelymusician6567
      @thelonelymusician6567 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Same dude...

    • @wispywoohoo641
      @wispywoohoo641 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Never let some fucked up person ruin your good heart. You let the enemy control you, you loose.

    • @austinminix2079
      @austinminix2079 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Damn straight

    • @nxloxe-topic
      @nxloxe-topic ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes sir

  • @johnbee4557
    @johnbee4557 ปีที่แล้ว +918

    all my guys in their 30’s right now can feel this, couldn’t understand it in the teens and twenties but feel it now

    • @MavvyMaloneTV
      @MavvyMaloneTV ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I’m in my 30’s and went through this metamorphosis from my teens to my early twenties. Love is a scary thing.

    • @collincovington9209
      @collincovington9209 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I'm 24 and I've had my heart broken over and over again to where I don't believe love is a real emotion anymore. Heartbreak happens at any age; it just might hurt more at an older age.

    • @haxx9147
      @haxx9147 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@collincovington9209 im 16 but i already feel it. it sucks to be in love bc ive been through so much. my best friend tried to get with me and they said “its almost like youre sharing your love instead of focusing on just one person” i found this vid and sent it to them. after years of shit happening simply guarding my heart became never opening up and its become apart of my personality. im not sure if that same loving side of me would come back but of course i hope it does

    • @jjs_arkade
      @jjs_arkade ปีที่แล้ว +9

      nowadays we learn this in our teens 🤧

    • @digoshow2829
      @digoshow2829 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It comes but then goes away because you realize that even though it's scary to trust again you see that the player lifestyle is somewhat empty after a bit. It's all a phase. If it all comes and goes and you end up returning to the same place then why even bother on going in side quests? Why even turn into a player if you're gonna return to a housecat and wish you done that before?

  • @suziandchopstix
    @suziandchopstix 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I’m a girl and I used to be a serial monogamist and gave it my all … my loyalty got used against me and I turned into the complete opposite where I wanted to hurt guys and play with their emotions.
    I realize that’s not helping anyone.. if you’re reading this and you feel like you lost that part of yourself just don’t hurt other people work on yourself become the best version of yourself and you will attract that. Stay strong, humble, loyal, and disciplined.

    • @bvhia
      @bvhia 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      At least you admit your demonic behavior. Unfortunately you basically just continued the cycle and the men you hurt probably ended up like the men being described in this video.
      Your old mentality is unfortunately the typical modern female mentality, thats why the world is in such a messed up state nowadays.
      Its true, the only way to escape is to accept your losses, and cut out toxic females who are trying to purposefully hurt you out of your life. As you say, stay strong, humble, loyal, and disciplined, but fewer and fewer men are mentally strong enough to handle the severe abuse. Everyone loses in the end because when women finally wake up and try and look for a quality man, theres none left because theyve all been damaged by toxic females. The number of single, childless women is the highest its ever been in recorded history. Women are finally reaping what theyve sown into the universe- pain and suffering

  • @cronley0172
    @cronley0172 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Wow, the passion in his voice leaving me all woozy

    • @ds2781
      @ds2781 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That ain't passion , that's the pain of experience .

  • @beastiebear7231
    @beastiebear7231 ปีที่แล้ว +611

    The greatest, kindest guys I knew growing up became players for exactly these reasons.

    • @phantom2faddd242
      @phantom2faddd242 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Me too

    • @eciyahsmalls-sanders8880
      @eciyahsmalls-sanders8880 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@phantom2faddd242 lying mf

    • @dark_regent2151
      @dark_regent2151 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sorry to hear that

    • @monk3110
      @monk3110 ปีที่แล้ว

      We romantics still have the romance in us… but you dig a vicious streak in our hearts and we’ll weaponize it

    • @WorldKeepsSpinnin
      @WorldKeepsSpinnin ปีที่แล้ว +6

      One person isnt the entire world, maybe dont take things so seriously anymore until you can truly confirm it but still keep looking, keep an eye out. And what about the other side? The hearts you break? You go on to repeat the cycle do you not?

  • @barnacle-
    @barnacle- ปีที่แล้ว +1021

    Like zoinks, scoob. She broke my heart, man.

  • @thedovahkiin7896
    @thedovahkiin7896 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    This is actually an interesting take. And it shows that guys need to take care of themselves and that we need to support each other. Care of each other. And especially take care of each other's mental health.

    • @thewavepilots
      @thewavepilots 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We’re all kings we’re on the same side

  • @cjane_world
    @cjane_world 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I'm a woman and my heart got crushed so many times by boys or men.
    I'm somehow very trusting and I give my all when I fall in love. But time and time again I was not only disappointed, but crushed by how cruel men can be!
    I did not become a player. I became depressed. But I still had hope and one day I met my husband. It's still sometimes a struggle, because I fear that somehow he doesn't love me as much and will destroy my heart again.
    Men and women can be cruel. The kind hearted get hurt. But that's no reason to become a player and hurt other women!

    • @bvhia
      @bvhia 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      God Bless You for retaining the good in your heart.
      Love your husband, care for him, trust him, and pray to the Lord. You will be okay.
      Most people in todays world are unmarried, divorced, single, or suffering. Give gratitude for what you have and cherish it always. He is a good one if he is patient and loving with you despite your hard past.
      Because you didnt turn evil, and instead lived your life the right way, I am sure God will bless you, your husband, and your marriage. Just have faith and continue living in the light. God bless

    • @user-ff1ky9bn2r
      @user-ff1ky9bn2r 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same story here, and I agree....but the "man" hasn't come to me yet.....Last one said he's not as "spiritual " as me. What does that even mean/matter? He missed out on a REALLY GOOD WOMAN! I know what it takes to love a man.....and it can be a really beautiful & wonderfully fulfilling life. Back to being a "Lady in waiting" now. Not such a bad place to be. Continue to work on myself and refine self into an even better woman.....but, the clock keeps ticking. .😊. Sending love & blessings to all out there....especially those wanting a committed relationship. There's really nothing better!!!❤

    • @brutustantheiii8477
      @brutustantheiii8477 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      NOT the SAME. Even the most below average women will still have a line up of men willing to be with her, including marriage but especially if they just want to be with you on the short term
      Society ALSO is always on your side and always takes your feelings seriously
      And you can absolutely devastate a man, justly or unjustly and no one will really hold you or your gender to account for it.
      They call it female privlege for a reason because no matter what men always had it worst but now we men have no hope.
      And don’t lie, the players are what y’all REALLY Want. No woman wants a man no other woman wants or who can’t get or manage other women

  • @darkfog360
    @darkfog360 ปีที่แล้ว +2418

    lost a close friend to a women he fell inlove with in highschool. after almost a yr she broke up with him with a note that said " we cant be together anymore, my friends dared me to date you as a joke and i took the dare, i took it to far and im sorry". 3 days later his parents found him with a bullet in his head

    • @Ascuded
      @Ascuded ปีที่แล้ว +566

      Bro that's so fucked up

    • @commandershepard6856
      @commandershepard6856 ปีที่แล้ว +484

      This is what they do this day and age. It's all games to them.

    • @SilencerXLR8
      @SilencerXLR8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      😤

    • @riverman2615
      @riverman2615 ปีที่แล้ว

      what people dont realize is that the men that have been rejected and can't take it will resort to toxic activity,i.e.,suicide or hurting others. Save our real men, for the world needs more.

    • @kws2534
      @kws2534 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Yea okay sure this happened....

  • @LoverofMoms96
    @LoverofMoms96 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    Women don’t understand how much they play with our hearts, they treat it as a game because they have so many options and they don’t feel bad until it’s too late

    • @binguslover6223
      @binguslover6223 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel for you and I hope you recover fully, but this generalization is nonsensical, besides completely not factual. Statistically, men cheat significantly more, men are significantly more likely to leave a terminally-ill partner, men are largely abusive partners and the list goes on. It has even always been a stereotypically known and established idea in culture until recently that the woman loved with a pure heart, and she loved hard whilst she was left heartbroken by a man. Your one evil witch does not represent half of mankind.

    • @powersjgaming8955
      @powersjgaming8955 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      This is true

    • @joshfreedlund8918
      @joshfreedlund8918 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They dont feel bad ever. They wouldnt be playing with multiple mens hearts or cheating on them. If they were capable of feeling bad. They know exactly what they are doing. I hope karma bites them all in the ass when they want a husband and kids and nobody wants them. Have a nice eternity in hell.

    • @ad8128
      @ad8128 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      They never feel bad. Only God will punish them in time

    • @partydave1067
      @partydave1067 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Why men don't cry?
      Because if we do, we will break..

  • @coms75033
    @coms75033 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Being a Man is rough af. Woman and children are loved unconditionally, but Men we are only loved when conditions are perfect or ideal or when its convient.

  • @laicat7229
    @laicat7229 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I mean I just recently went through a breakup where I did nothing wrong only trying to help and love the woman and just out of nowhere she called me and told me its over and my heart just shattered, I cried for days and i still cry every day, and now I cant trust any woman nor love any woman ever again I want to hurt every woman because to me they all are the same. Its tough to be heartbroken when you truly love someone and you were willing to give everything to that woman

    • @xxkissmeketutxx
      @xxkissmeketutxx 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dude why tf would you even consider being what you claim to hate?!?! Did you not think of breaking the cycle?

    • @saifkabiri5715
      @saifkabiri5715 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@xxkissmeketutxxCycle never breaks. Women ruin good men forever. Only to find themselves in unhappy situations themselves later

  • @jmlafia3998
    @jmlafia3998 ปีที่แล้ว +685

    I can feel that the actor can relate to these lines... He spoke with his soul

    • @iTsDebom
      @iTsDebom ปีที่แล้ว +52

      That isn't a feeling that the actor can relate to it's a feeling that all men can relate to

    • @kinsal_9308
      @kinsal_9308 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@iTsDebom not me bro. Never found love. Not once. Kinda giving up on it tbh

    • @thelonewolf1414
      @thelonewolf1414 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@kinsal_9308 Better to wait finding the girl you love and want to spend your life with, it may be hard to find someone you actually love but eventually you'll find a diamond in the dirt and that will be way better than the dirt that will break your heart for entertainment

    • @kinsal_9308
      @kinsal_9308 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Kingsgrove Slasher kind of is mate. Not having someone I look forward to seeing is worse then the loneliness tho tbf

    • @keagandeal3475
      @keagandeal3475 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kinsal_9308 u will find it bro. Don't
      rush it, other wise u end up like the rest of us.

  • @wadewinstonwilson3294
    @wadewinstonwilson3294 ปีที่แล้ว +421

    Did you hear his voice crack when he said about getting cheated on or laughed at??? See his eyes tear up? This was not acting, this was personal truth, noone else in that room expected this! This got personal and real, authentic!!! What a performance sir!

    • @maria-kylevalmond4959
      @maria-kylevalmond4959 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That's because he could relate with it as well as everyone in that room

    • @michaeledwards8472
      @michaeledwards8472 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same with when he says crushed. This was him being so genuine.

    • @ODELLYEAH41
      @ODELLYEAH41 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      All I heard was FACTS

    • @Batesy96
      @Batesy96 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You'll only understand this, if this has happened to you. Or if you are very intelligent. As soon as I seen the way he was saying it and his facial expressions I could tell straight away this was coming from deep within. It's horrible. Yet its us men that get all the shit but we was put in this pit by the ones that wronged us. Not saying it's OK to play but why should it be OK for women to break us down and then not expect us to be the way we are!

    • @eciyahsmalls-sanders8880
      @eciyahsmalls-sanders8880 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Batesy96 bro who's we

  • @darryl2557
    @darryl2557 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This is spot on! I will never allow this to happen again. I PROMISE YOU THAT!

    • @Schopenhauer69
      @Schopenhauer69 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Beast Mode, Brotha!!!

  • @Serket800
    @Serket800 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I feel like this reflects on our society a lot today and makes a good point. We're good, but after enough times, the heartbreaks change us

    • @tjjordan4207
      @tjjordan4207 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This was released in 2007, which means it was filmed in 2005 or 2006. Even back then it was relevant.

  • @mjaq6099
    @mjaq6099 ปีที่แล้ว +707

    Crazy how we all identify with this. We can all think of her and how we were happy and then how she also changed us for the rest of our lives.

    • @lukiso5734
      @lukiso5734 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      And of the exact moment i told myself I'll never love again

    • @synshenron798
      @synshenron798 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      See. I had that girl in my life. I know that shes out there doin God knows what and I even though I hurt for a while I picked up those pieces and tried again. I picked em up and did it again and again im.sure this isn't gonna be the last time. But I told my self one day there will be a woman worth the pieces of whats left of my heart. One day she'll look at this busted vase thats all taped back together and feel honored that even though its been broken countless times I never stopped trying and I never stopped seeking her love even if neither of us saw each other in our futures. Call me stupid, call me crazy or whatever you want. I know that im a gluten for punishment

    • @momo-gl1zm
      @momo-gl1zm ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Not all no, some of us saw what happened to other men and decided to not try

    • @joshuamerrick1091
      @joshuamerrick1091 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Shut up.. 😔

    • @cousin_JACK
      @cousin_JACK ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Just some advice, don’t divulge your broken heart to women, they will always use anything you tell them as ammunition, I’ve been there guys, I just left the small pieces behind, I wish I could offer hope, I have none except you can count on yourself

  • @supergoatog4746
    @supergoatog4746 ปีที่แล้ว +1142

    Everyone talking about him being shaggy forgetting he’s one of the og killers in scream

    • @mrstranger931
      @mrstranger931 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Well he wasn’t the main killer but he helped him

    • @mangekyo9216
      @mangekyo9216 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      He only became a killer in scream after velma broke his heart.

    • @lamargordon6017
      @lamargordon6017 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Spoilers

    • @marcoe3676
      @marcoe3676 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      His mom was so mad at him

    • @jgibs7980
      @jgibs7980 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Nah bro he was the guy who collected 13 ghosts

  • @wendellgilbert9228
    @wendellgilbert9228 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is a beautiful thing. Men can be worth it, we evolve, and we are always trying to better ourselves. We always make the sacrifices that no one sees. Sadly, women just want the “lifestyle”, and break the men that are worth the world, but won’t give the time to see the real man they are with.

  • @zagetsbreesh
    @zagetsbreesh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    feels good to know i’m not alone. feels bad to know i’m not alone

  • @abn3r507
    @abn3r507 ปีที่แล้ว +630

    2years ago I got my heartbroken...and ever since then, I've been at it at the gym working hard and focusing on myself and I had watched this video(not this clip) sometime back and it motivated and pushed me even more, and now rewatching this made me realise how far I've come...and yet it still hits home for me...and so now...now its back to work.

    • @dantheman12211990
      @dantheman12211990 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      The grind don't stop

    • @necrolight5105
      @necrolight5105 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Good shit I'm in the same boat I got hurt by a girl recently and It has only motivated me in the gym more. If she doesn't want you now become the one she can't have.

    • @johnbartz1907
      @johnbartz1907 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Don't give up on finding someone bro but never give up on yourself! Keep grindin

    • @asharophantom5953
      @asharophantom5953 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Stay hard kings

    • @lanodnbartholomew9533
      @lanodnbartholomew9533 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ah shut up

  • @andrescarrillo_fitness
    @andrescarrillo_fitness ปีที่แล้ว +1051

    Turns out Velma wasn’t the sweet shy girl we thought she was 😢💔

    • @BAM_BAM_XCI
      @BAM_BAM_XCI ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yeah she wasn't

    • @love6ic202
      @love6ic202 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Word on the street is she cheated with a lesbian & started takin melanin pills…

    • @BlxckKxge
      @BlxckKxge ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@love6ic202 word on the streets is she use to be a man.

    • @scytheseraph
      @scytheseraph ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@BlxckKxge
      -----------------------
      - - - - - - WORD - - - - - - -
      -----------------------

    • @xdoc482
      @xdoc482 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Don’t be fooled by the glasses, Velma is a heartbreaker.

  • @BugattiFlow
    @BugattiFlow 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Yup, told myself I would never let it happen again and now I treat em like goldfish, always keep 3-4 and replace em as needed, never giving any one girl that much power again.

  • @thegamerking1915
    @thegamerking1915 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is what I use to cry 😭
    To force out the tears 😭

  • @bigdupolas_guppus
    @bigdupolas_guppus ปีที่แล้ว +331

    This hurts me far more than I care to admit.

    • @thiexony514
      @thiexony514 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You admitted it💀

    • @scott8908
      @scott8908 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@thiexony514 I don’t think you understand what that means. He’s not admitting how much it has hurt him, he’s merely admitting that it’s hurting him to a level that he won’t admit.

    • @MMAComedicGold
      @MMAComedicGold ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We're with you brother ❤

  • @dradfulboss
    @dradfulboss ปีที่แล้ว +1051

    I can't even laugh at this cause it's my life

    • @mino9147
      @mino9147 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      @Waltuh damn you must feel good about this one big man

    • @Eat.my.dick.
      @Eat.my.dick. ปีที่แล้ว +11

      L existence

    • @montyhyphen434
      @montyhyphen434 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      understandable, hope you doing good

    • @inquisitionagent9052
      @inquisitionagent9052 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Man's hurting and you chucklefks are laughing smh

    • @donovantheplayboy599
      @donovantheplayboy599 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      on god

  • @senatorarmstrong9459
    @senatorarmstrong9459 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I gave it all, all to the one woman in my life upto this point who looked at me with such compassion, so much compassion, and said I love you. Seven months later through utter hell for is both, and she decided to break it off due to mental health. Guess I wasn't worth struggling for... And here I am..😔

  • @iimmortalldreams
    @iimmortalldreams ปีที่แล้ว +13

    That's how humans are. Some are inherently born this way which started this domino effect.
    Players, criminals, it takes an ironclad will to go through all that and still stay moral. Ask what was done and said to them when they flipped and I guarantee they can tell you.

  • @-Super_Dario-
    @-Super_Dario- ปีที่แล้ว +383

    "the little boy in men weeps for the monster you created"

    • @sanjulasenarathna4610
      @sanjulasenarathna4610 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Whats the context?

    • @-Super_Dario-
      @-Super_Dario- ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@sanjulasenarathna4610 ...well, it's really for the people who take pleasure and or have no remorse in or about breaking other's hearts and if you're one of those people, this is the context, ahem;
      ...because you deserve an answer as to why my poetry reflects mine and others pain so well while simultaneously striking at accountables upon reading?
      If you have to beg that question then you should already know the context... You're probably wondering if that feel you're feeling is guilt and it is.
      #ibetyouthinkthissongisaboutyou

    • @devinxoxo8350
      @devinxoxo8350 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@-Super_Dario- damn that projection from you is crazy.

    • @dylanbp83
      @dylanbp83 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@-Super_Dario- damn bro

    • @-Super_Dario-
      @-Super_Dario- ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@devinxoxo8350 I understand what you're saying and I think it's stupid 🙃

  • @theconqueror-01
    @theconqueror-01 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    Matthew Lillard: putting his all into his performance
    Everyone: SHAGGY!

  • @adriancontreras1880
    @adriancontreras1880 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I take back everything I've ever said about this guy. That was awesome.

  • @hades5640
    @hades5640 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It's hurts deep inside your heart when your in a relationship and the one who you put so much time into so much effort so much energy into suddenly leaves you and your stuck shackled by thoughts of torment wondering why ,how could this happen,and worst of all was I ever enough will I ever be enough. It truly hurts but the battle is not yet won completely forget about lust forget about love and aquire value to yourself so you will not be easily replaced you are the prize kings focus on the main goal love you all kings🖤

  • @williammatthews3149
    @williammatthews3149 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    If they made a movie about the average man’s life we’d all get depression after watching it

    • @TheDeathmail
      @TheDeathmail ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Note, he stated that women went through the same sh*t too...
      Every a**hole is someone whose had their heart broken...

    • @zayy9912
      @zayy9912 ปีที่แล้ว

      Funny you say this. A feminist woman disguise herself like a man for a year or so ended up killing herself due to depression. I think there’s a book out there. There’s deftly documentary on it tho. Interesting stuff.

    • @bvhia
      @bvhia 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Most of us already got depression, forget the movie we’re already living it

  • @bahmot9501
    @bahmot9501 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    Fuck man that hits way too hard. Like I don’t even have any words. I’m speechless. Just … yeah, you’re right. You’re 100% right.

  • @IamStonerJesus
    @IamStonerJesus 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Betrayal..by definition, can not come from someone you don't know, trust, and/or love. You can literally die of heartbreak. Value yourselves, Kings. You are worthy of love. You deserve to have happiness. The love of a good woman, will change your life. But..the sting of a woman you thought was good..can make the world cave in around you. Stay vigilant, trust carefully, and fucking CRY! if you need to. We are human. Men DO have feelings, it's normal to need to process things. Somehow, it's become taboo to talk about your feelings as a man. I get it..but there's a time and place for stoicism and emotions. Be the best you, and find yourself, first. The rest will happen, so much easier. 👑 Here's one on me, free of charge. You lost it when that girl broke you. When that boss fired you. When YOU second guessed yourself, and your value. Carry on, King. Welcome back, you'll make YOU proud, this time.

    • @kingamir7487
      @kingamir7487 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Damn love this bro!

  • @A.D.Rogers
    @A.D.Rogers ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Shout out to all those who can relate. Keep ya head up

  • @spartacro761
    @spartacro761 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    My late grandfather had a saying and told it to me when I was a kid. He said I'll tell you this now but I hope there won't be the time you'll remember it. The saying is : " What a woman can do from a hop, the devil can't from sprint". Unfortunately I can't forget it last few years.

    • @Pitorotschi
      @Pitorotschi ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for sharing. Was a wise man.

    • @kennethsoto7562
      @kennethsoto7562 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ……. I don’t get it sorry I don’t

    • @parthunknown011
      @parthunknown011 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can u explain

    • @spartacro761
      @spartacro761 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@kennethsoto7562 what a women can do from a hop/jump the devil is not able to do even from a sprint...(basically the women doesn't have to move from spot and she can do more harm to you then the devil from a sprint. You get it?

    • @kennethsoto7562
      @kennethsoto7562 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@spartacro761 thank you for explaining

  • @mazingerivan1619
    @mazingerivan1619 ปีที่แล้ว +337

    Man Matthew Lillard is so underrated cuz this scene was awesome and so true🥺

    • @rigvedrane
      @rigvedrane ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What movie is this from?

    • @THEoSOFToPILLOW
      @THEoSOFToPILLOW ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@rigvedrane found it. What love is 2007

    • @untamedwild1
      @untamedwild1 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You should watch him in SLC Punk! When you watch him in that movie, you’ll laugh, you’ll cry, you will think about the film afterwards for days…

    • @TheStuckNorris
      @TheStuckNorris ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@THEoSOFToPILLOW you are the MVP thank you very much

    • @Redrum-707
      @Redrum-707 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      house of 13 ghosts

  • @DuffmanChess
    @DuffmanChess ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Every time I hear this speech, it rings more true than the last. I will never again be the romantic I once was. No woman deserves to see that side of me.

  • @NChapaWI9436
    @NChapaWI9436 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    “I just wanted to know what her favorite horror movie was”

  • @DummyThiccCheeseCake
    @DummyThiccCheeseCake ปีที่แล้ว +35

    It's a sad day when having unrequited love makes a man feel lucky.

  • @bricepeters8738
    @bricepeters8738 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Finally someone puts that feeling into words

  • @troyhenry6111
    @troyhenry6111 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I feel this. I realized i started doing it and decided to go celibate. I don't want to hurt others like I've been hurt.

    • @bbouncy12
      @bbouncy12 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      same. realized i was hurting people just like i had been hurt and decided to stop dating until i've healed. that was a couple years ago. maybe one day.

    • @luisbendezu6372
      @luisbendezu6372 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Glad I'm not the only one who has experienced this 😢

  • @Dreamcancel696
    @Dreamcancel696 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Gotta get hurt to learn these things

  • @legendaryace3537
    @legendaryace3537 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    The emotion in this scene is made by the water in his eyes

  • @seekingallknowledge
    @seekingallknowledge ปีที่แล้ว +112

    That really did happened to me.. Now all the girls cry for me, but u never forget that first heartache, damn🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @doctoroppa7991
      @doctoroppa7991 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Weather the storm, do what you gotta do, but when you feel like your losing yourself, and what was, take a break, live a normal life, a summer job, a volunteer work, wander your mind. You’ll find someone that maybe you can trust again only when your ready in the right place and in the right mind. One is not hard to find, but the other takes time. Do of it what you will.

    • @raf3765
      @raf3765 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you didn’t heal so you bled on people who didn’t cut you. you should be ashamed of yourself.

  • @vaiga6627
    @vaiga6627 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    If you were broken, dont break others. Heal, break the cycle.

  • @beautywithin7065
    @beautywithin7065 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When u realize that Shaggy has grown after all these years🥺

  • @theboysofeasyco
    @theboysofeasyco ปีที่แล้ว +92

    I felt the pain he had in his eyes, and his heart

  • @huh5950
    @huh5950 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    "Nobody can hurt me if I can hurt them first"

    • @dillonmcculley8224
      @dillonmcculley8224 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No, I tried and got hurt and don't wanna feel like that again

    • @thegooddemon5089
      @thegooddemon5089 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Nobody can hurt me if I hurt myself first, it's my take on "you are your own enemy"

    • @wulong1897
      @wulong1897 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cobra Kai confirms it: Strike First, Strike Hard, No Mercy.

    • @0zer0ne1
      @0zer0ne1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The only one left to hurt you then is yourself, all alone, nobody to get those thoughts dismissed

    • @RoIIingStoned
      @RoIIingStoned ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s so terrible..

  • @DaDude_R
    @DaDude_R ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I've thought about this a lot... I used to be a romantic, go out of my way just to make my SO's day... now I question if all the best ones are behind me now days.

  • @DavidBloodJohnson
    @DavidBloodJohnson 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    They always go for the “bad boys” so they can “tame the beast” or make him a house husband. It is in their nature. Us nice guys eventually figure out how the game is played and we start playing it that way. All us men have is each other. Change the way you play the game, but don’t turn fully to the dark side. Time will eventually heal you, you just have to let it

    • @Schopenhauer69
      @Schopenhauer69 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can I get an Amen?

    • @bvhia
      @bvhia 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Most modern women do, but not all. Have to find a woman who is submissive and doesnt try and change a man. Extremely difficult but what other choice do we have? If you get with a typical modern woman, expect divorce and an early grave

  • @broken12367
    @broken12367 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    When you’re crushed so much it feels like physical pain. Never got involved again since that happened

  • @benkelley9927
    @benkelley9927 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I love the raw emotion in this scene you can see him tearing up

  • @sannekaribo4253
    @sannekaribo4253 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very true
    Players were once beautiful souls

  • @StudMacher96
    @StudMacher96 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I was abandoned and told by my one true friend today that we can’t hang out anymore. I told her how I felt about her and she didn’t listen or even care. We talked about everything together, teased each other, and made each other laugh all the time, for weeks, and then I got a message on snap saying we shouldn’t hang out anymore. It was then that I realized that after all the flirting, all the interest in me, all the happiness she showed when around me, it was all just a big fucking game of charades to her.

  • @kdog6896
    @kdog6896 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This is 💯 me I was a real romantic guy, and only wanted 1 woman. I was with the same girl for 12 years we were ingaged to be married, and in the end I found out the truth she was cheating on me pretty much from day 1. She had addiction issues which caused a lot of problems, and broke us up in the end. She could never get over her addictions. My boys were taken from me because of her, and we had a baby girl who died at a month, and a half from SIDS. She stole from me and manipulated me for 12 years. I loved her we had 3 handsome boys together, all I ever wanted was her to get better us be a family, and raise my boys together. It completely shattered my heart in a million pieces. It took me years just to be able to tell myself to move forward. I was lost when we broke up, and I turned into a player for years, but in reality my heart was always broken, and it did not matter how many women I was with, in the end I was alone and still going through these things, I feel like I gave everything I had into that relationship, all my love I feel like I have no love left in me. I am Not the player I used to be, and when I stopped being a player I started to think of the reasons why I am the way I am. In the end I loved the wrong woman for far to long. I lost everything in the end nice 4 bedroom house nice new suv awesome kids who I love with all my heart in end I lost it all. Hard to move on after something like that happens I thought by distracting myself by being with women all the time, if I am with enough women I will not have to think about everything, by the end of my career as a player I still was just as broken as the day she left me. Really hard to move on after putting so much of yourself to 1 person. I got emotional writing this, I am not afraid to admit it. This really hit home with me.

    • @stacierose1692
      @stacierose1692 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Appreciate your honesty 🙏🌬️🕊️Hope you found better.

    • @elona6891
      @elona6891 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I hope you are okay now 🙏😊.

    • @xxkissmeketutxx
      @xxkissmeketutxx 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you have any perspective for the ones you played, that genuinely loved and were loyal to you, but never had a chance?
      A player put me in the psych ward, it's a miracle not 6 feet down. I'm curious to hear?

    • @KianDaHazrd
      @KianDaHazrd 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@xxkissmeketutxxYet someone how I highly doubt they loved and were loyal to him

    • @kdog6896
      @kdog6896 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@elona6891 thank-you

  • @TheDefaultClass
    @TheDefaultClass ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I remember back in prolly 5th or 6th grade, I was talking to a girl I had a crush on and she told me she felt the same way. Giddy as can be, we txted non stop for little over a week. She later told me that every ounce of attention she gave me was fake, she never liked me and was only doing all of this to “see how good I was at lying”. Swear on my mother, at 5th grade she was practicing how she would destroy men’s hearts later on. I wonder how many victims she has now.

    • @KissEmGn
      @KissEmGn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Almost the exact same thing happened to me, except that instead of pranking me, we just kinda drifted apart and I still liked her a bit, she didn’t like me as much

    • @Schopenhauer69
      @Schopenhauer69 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Scary AF!!!

  • @nestormireles6598
    @nestormireles6598 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I swear I thought he was on a stage in a college assembly at first. (Guest Speaker) Nonetheless, he is so right. I used to give my heart to women I really liked and it has brought me pain and misery once their plan was clear every time. It slowly turns a man's heart from warm and soft to a cold piece of stone. Since a little boy i always wanted a family with a responsible and respectable wife...it sucks because such a valued asset is at the very brink of becoming a non existent phenomenon. Time goes on and why should we stay stuck on a heartbreak where someone didn't value that time we once had...never give your heart to a woman...

    • @bvhia
      @bvhia 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      We as men have to do better and find better women. Cant keep hooking up with these low class strags.
      Ive been with a few women, and you can quickly tell which ones have potential and which ones are for the streets pretty quick once they open their mouth. The ones for the streets you have to let go immediately. Problems almost always happen when youre ignoring the red flags so you can keep sleeping with her

  • @CrazyJodice
    @CrazyJodice ปีที่แล้ว +10

    All these actors are also having a real therapy session right there

    • @bobbyreimann8853
      @bobbyreimann8853 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Because every man at some point in life meets one girl that means everything. It usually happens when we're too young and too stupid to notice, then we lose them and end up regretting it until the day we die. I can guarantee every actor in this scene has a specific person in mind.

  • @sharkking2950
    @sharkking2950 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Worse is when they give you an excuse of “I just can’t put my hole heart into a relationship right now” and then you see them a week later dating someone else. And all you feel is anger and sadness that you weren’t good enough

    • @Borderose
      @Borderose ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Or you just weren't rich enough.
      Pre-nups are a man's best friend. Or? Just never marry. Don't expect romance. Don't expect loyalty. All I want are friendships with benefits.

    • @bvhia
      @bvhia 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Its not even that. She was probably telling the truth. Shes just out there with the other dude cause shes trying to get her cheeks clapped.
      Theyll be the same ones at 40 ran through asking where all the good men are at

  • @EduardoGarcia-jv8zz
    @EduardoGarcia-jv8zz ปีที่แล้ว +414

    We gonna have to go after Velma she hurt are boys Shaggy 😭😭

    • @Yansko-san
      @Yansko-san ปีที่แล้ว

      count me in, the thot s gonna pay 🔪

  • @Attaccabottoni
    @Attaccabottoni หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yep relate 100%
    I've been lonely and single most of my life now, all I've ever wanted was a family. But got crushed by those women.
    Just had my 37th birthday. Live on my own and work in a 95% male workplace.
    Women these days aren't up to standard. A lot of them try too hard to be men.
    Im just going to keep on going and concentrate on staying alive.
    Maybe i will have a better turn in the next life. 🎉

    • @PP-mj2io
      @PP-mj2io หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just 37?There are men who start their family in their 50s.

  • @Voidyboy
    @Voidyboy 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My first breakup I came to this video and this was when the video first came out and one year later I still haven’t learned and now I’m back

    • @brandonmaddox4862
      @brandonmaddox4862 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Just got dumped for the second time in two months, both by girls I really liked, I thought the hurt would be less but no it just hurts as bad

  • @just_joshy
    @just_joshy ปีที่แล้ว +71

    No cap. I changed after my first heart break. Now I’m a cold uncaring person, and sometimes I think maybe I should go back to being the other guy. Then I remembered how I got played and just shove the feelings back in the hole and lock the door.

    • @JRileyD
      @JRileyD ปีที่แล้ว +7

      go back? do you even remember how? who you were?
      I think you will find being that person again harder then you think.

    • @pietromorreale_
      @pietromorreale_ ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Trust me it’s worth it to feel emotions again, been through it and I forgot how beautiful it could be, it is worth every single second of pain, all the suffering you go through is worth it, it’s better to have highs and lows than to have nothing at all my friend

    • @jamesjones6546
      @jamesjones6546 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pietromorreale_ yes! I was that guy he is talking about. Yet I've recently found someone who is literally everything. Find someone who supports your ideas and builds you up when you're at your lowest. That kind of love trumps all those superficial "I love you promises"

    • @etwanican_7439
      @etwanican_7439 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Idek If I can ever love someone. My first girlfriend broke things off 3 times and I kept coming back if the opportunity presented itself. She was cold and uncaring about my feelings so ever since then I haven’t taken any relationships seriously. I’ve been single now for 2 years

  • @jackrasmussen9384
    @jackrasmussen9384 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    What sucks is when you can't bring yourself to hurt others even after being hurt many times

    • @thatotherdan9984
      @thatotherdan9984 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nah man, you just haven't hit rock bottom yet give it a lil bit unfortunately

    • @qpghostqp9551
      @qpghostqp9551 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I could never do what she did to my heart and trust I honestly don't think I could ever trust again

    • @derekrummerfield8940
      @derekrummerfield8940 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bro, I hear you, because it's not in your nature. Theres nothing wrong with that, dont let anyone tell you otherwise.

    • @kevohernado1669
      @kevohernado1669 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You know we're that brings you the side of the cliff

    • @reggie1847
      @reggie1847 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sadly sometimes the Woman comes back to people like you after all is said and done and the "studs" they been with ain't Family material.

  • @MelissaSweetHeartHoneyBee
    @MelissaSweetHeartHoneyBee 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Awww, I sincerely pray you meet the one that can heal it so beautifully, so you can know the power and the joy and the peace of divine love. With a speech like that, you deserve her. Btw, my daughter and I saw you and Skeet and the Scream crew at Megacon. What a blast! Love you dude. Bee positive and hopeful. Pray her in! Speak her to life. That was a great start working put the pain and rage of it all!!! Bravo!!!

  • @rajendracharan6801
    @rajendracharan6801 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When you wanna tell the world this but no wants to hear

  • @RevohTTV
    @RevohTTV ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Got my heart broke and didnt date for 6 years. Now been with this girl for almost two years and ive definitely opened up and we can be ourselves around eachother but I still seem to always have my guard up even if its just a little.

    • @ghaithking8891
      @ghaithking8891 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I feel you man. Hoping that you will find happiness. Same story here, but 8 years of not being able to feel deeper feelings towards girls. Good luck brother

    • @TheCollective862
      @TheCollective862 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here man and still haven’t dated anyone yet I can’t keep my guard down I mean her reasoning was her friends told her to what bullsh*t

    • @statesofbeing888
      @statesofbeing888 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Looks like you have not learned your lesson

  • @hunterkiller1440
    @hunterkiller1440 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Note to girls who got played: You created players after breaking that romantic. Enjoy this cycle.

    • @XBullitt16X
      @XBullitt16X ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They create the monsters they say they hate.

  • @XeroxGaming2
    @XeroxGaming2 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I vowed not to do it again but I did I gave my heart to this girl and for 5 months I was the happiest I've ever been until a hour ago she messaged me saying she wants to break up and possibly friends. To be fair I don't know what I did I gave everything I had to her and yes it wasn't alot but u tried my hardest to make her comfortable to make her happy and she goes and does this.

  • @randildezoysa9267
    @randildezoysa9267 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can't begin to explain how accurate this is.

  • @jkeefa5362
    @jkeefa5362 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Shaggy goes deep

    • @adamb3629
      @adamb3629 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why is everyone comparing him to shaggy

    • @jkeefa5362
      @jkeefa5362 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@adamb3629 he played shaggy in the irl movies

  • @AlteredState503
    @AlteredState503 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    F A C T S. Matthew Lillard is such an underrated actor

  • @Bababooey95
    @Bababooey95 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What's tough now is those who are too scared to give it up in the first place

  • @mikehawkslong5529
    @mikehawkslong5529 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    for all my bros going through this, it's not the end. there is one out there for you. never let some thief steal the light from your heart. I promise it can always be better, you just need to find the greener grass my friends

  • @tylerbertke298
    @tylerbertke298 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I’ve been drinking to much to hear this rn😂

  • @martinverbeek8862
    @martinverbeek8862 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Its called falling in love for a reason. There's in it the idea of the fall. Give it away and it comes back to you.

  • @Philly._.ProdYT
    @Philly._.ProdYT 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Never knew Stu was motivational dude

  • @DashCash100
    @DashCash100 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This hits home hard. He is %100. I got crushed. Everyday I wake up and tell my self I will get better.
    Stay up man. You guys will get better too. We are all going through this one day at a time 👊🙏

  • @JBat
    @JBat ปีที่แล้ว +11

    2 years ago my ex left 2 weeks before my wedding. Took everything I had and disappeared. So my daughter and I started over and now I am doing better than I ever have. But I didn't allow it destroy me. It was the worse heart ache of my life.

  • @anothergenericgamer_
    @anothergenericgamer_ ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This is true for a lot of guys. Women complain about the monsters they helped to create. I’d be one of them, but I had help to keep me from turning…….

    • @ryanarment5393
      @ryanarment5393 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The ironic thing is that most women completely deny having played any part in creating those monsters. They act as though they are the blameless victims of serial players, or pathological heartbreakers. When most of those guys became that way after getting chewed up and spit out by a woman. They found out that the woman they poured their heart and soul into making happy was out trying to find a better deal.

  • @Zanggor1
    @Zanggor1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    People in the comments seem to misunderstand what he's saying. This isn't even ablut being rejected. This is about literally giving your everything to the person you love and being cheated on, laughed at, hurt, back stabbed, etc.
    Also, I think people downplay how actually hard it is for a straight man to get into a non-toxic, one-sided relationship. This might seem like a woe is me, but its just true. Men spend a good chunk of their lives being miserable and having to mold themselves to someone they aren't to attract attention or love.
    The only exception to this is above average wealthy and good-looking men. As long as you're beautiful and rich, you can get almost whatever you want in this country.

  • @turtsw
    @turtsw หลายเดือนก่อน

    Facts straight up...she had my heart and left. I became the man I didnt want to be