I hope you're right. Just attempted suicide but was talked down from the ledge. She moved on so fast after 13 years. I'm left with trauma and so much pain
@@Westcoast10 Im with you too brother. Second day, when she hands you the gun even if you dont want it, you have to pull the trigger and move on. Its time to use that pain as energy in every set and every moment. Goodluck brother stay strong
@@ryana6170 it’s definitely hard bro, I find myself thinking that I wasn’t good enough, feeling like if I was rich would she have stayed? I was pushing myself so hard to be better for her and I guess it just wasn’t enough
Man, all of these gentlemen are giving great advice. Jordan Peterson talking about suffering and how it's life is one of the realest things I've ever heard in my life. It's like; Yeah, no shit you're hurting, but how useful are you when that time comes again? You gonna drown your sorrows? You gonna feel sorry for yourself? Or are you going to get yourself together, get your ass up and take control of it all? He's also right about us making things worse for ourselves. The mind and the heart in eternal conflict with one another. Overcome it. Take control of it.
The pain is a great teacher, it teaches you that you must reach into the void of where your heart used to be and put everything and everyone on notice.
Broken heart for over 1 year. I'm 15 years old now. Every day I try to be a better version of myself and take care of my loved ones. Not everyone is cut out to be in a relationship, but everyone can care about the people around them
Feel you dude, I’m 15 also. Was broken up with 5 months ago and me mentally and emotionally it’s been a hard time to overcome it. I was js told and never was given an explanation on why. I’ve been going to the gym and doing the sport I love doing but at the end of the day it holds me back on trying to move forward.
Let me tell you something. You are very young. There are still a lot of experiences and achievements ahead of you. And maybe some heartbreaks too. But if you work hard and focus on your personal growth, it will get easier to get over them. I remember falling in love when I was 17; it took me 3 years to forget her. In 2022, the last serious relationship I had took me a bit less than a year to get over. And this year, I got my heart broken by a girl who said she couldn't forget her abusive ex. Now, it's just pure inspiration to work better and enjoy more of my personal health.
Take care of yourself. Exercise, even if it is walking. Reading Psalms has helped me when I was going through break-ups, despair, and loneliness. Get yourself an education and or learn a trade so you will have a decent standard of living when you are older. Make sure you are getting enough rest and sleep. Spend time with people you trust, friends you can talk to. Avoid gossipers.
After an entire decade, she left me. It's my fault. She told me, and I know it. I said a lot I never should have. Never cheated, never put a hand on her, but I said a lot I shouldn't have. This came in the middle of my own training. I took a day off working out to reflect and everyday I can't stop thinking of her. Where she's at, who she's with, is she really gone. She left the same month of our anniversary. The same month my brother had passed away years prior. All my friends are dead or have moved away. I am alone sitting alone daily trying to block it out but this pain is intolerable. I have some hope for her coming back but it's fading day by day and the pain and heartache is only getting worse. No response from texts, blocked from phone calls, and social media, but haunted daily by the memories and thoughts of better times. I wish it was as easy as the video states. Cause every day I feel worse and worse and I know it's going to get worse when I have to see or hear her running around with someone else when it should be me. I pray for the positive outcome but keep waking up to the same results. God give me the strength to "walk away" and move on with my life. 💔
@@caball6651 I pray you get through it and whatever else is going wrong in your life brother. I don't understand how they can say "I'm not trying to hurt you" but their IG pics show so much different. Been through this before, but this one is HARD.
I‘m in a similar position bro… I didn’t really appreciate and worship her when she was with me and loved me unconditionally. I had too much stress and my parents also told me to get rid of her because of her nationality. I did love her and I still do, but at the time I didn’t know that I love her this much. I left her and ignored her. I tried to move on and I did well for some time, but then something in me awoke. The memories with her started getting into my head. I can’t stand these thoughts. They are getting too much and I can’t distract myself with friends or something because they are all busy with their own lives. I think about her everyday and I started to develop an illness because of her. My heart is hurting (not metaphorically). I asked her if we can start all over again, but she doesn’t want to. She still shows some little kind of affection, but also much ignorance. I have hope that I can get her back. I’m praying to God and asking him for help every evening before going to bed. She is my daily medicine. One day without her and my mind starts telling me to commit suicide. But no. I won’t end my life. I still have a journey before me and I will fight for my love. I realise that this is pretty much karma. Somewhat I am also glad that it happened, even tough I am suffering and falling apart on the inside. Because of my own bad decisions I now realised what is important for me in life and how beautiful life is. And how beautiful she is.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
As for being a female...I need the strength and support right now..as of yesterday it's been 2 weeks since my bf left me..I'm losing sleep..I'm falling apart
Feel you there. From one strong woman to another, we'll get through this. Keep getting up girl! No one can keep us down; let's choose to grow from this.
Stick in there! Mine took about 5 months now I hardly think of that person, completely focused on my goals and progressing more in these past months than I had in the past two years! The beauty of heartbreak is the potent endless energy it gives you if you express it in a positive way can make huge gain!
Been with my wife for 16 years, I was 100% all in and wanted to grow old with her. She cheated on me 10 years ago and I forgave her. She just told me today she cheated on me again, I had an idea she did but she promised me she wasn't, I caught her in 40 lies the last 12 weeks. Im so devastated, hurt, confused and this sucks. I'm in a hotel tonight, I'm in so much pain. Don't what what to do. I love her
She proved disloyal twice. You left and thats good. She lost a good loyal man. She will regret her choises later. For now you need to LASER focus on yourself. You simply need to learn to love yourself. PsycHacs is good for that. Reconnect with family. Reconnect and make new friends. Start combat sports to calm the nerves. Helps me alot. Gives me confidense. Start self improving. Its necesarry. Go to therapy if you need. You can do without but its quicker to sort yourself out with therapy. Make money to afford the above things. Use the pain and channel it into work. NEVER share your problems at work. At mine they will eat me alive if they find out about my troubles. Close friends/family ok. Work never. Hard but true.
The truth is that she doesn't value your love, she maliciously took advantage of it. You deserve someone who values you and the love you have for them.
Once a cheater always a cheater brother! She proved it to you! You will never have peace with this woman. Walk away and never look back! Focus on yourself, get fit read a book,spend time with family and friends. It will hurt but by putting in the work you will heal...just give it time ❤️
it’s been two weeks since i caught her with another man, and it was the best ever thing to happen to me as i picked myself up and moved on with my life have been studying better, exercising, and most of all molded my connections to people that really cares
The protocol is not take her back, because she didn’t care when she was with another guy the following week, getting knocked up and then seeking your affection years later like nothing happened.
literally yesterday she broke up with me because she said i hurt her so much in the relationship, i never wanted anything better for her i always wanted to be there for her. She said she didnt want me to leave but she didnt want to be with me because i hurt her too much. I decided to just leave her and wish her good luck, i feel like shit still but i know that was the best choice i could make.
Very similar situation here man. Keep your head up. It takes two to argue. Life is painful. However, there is no light without dark. See you in the gym brother...
She said she wasn't sure if she loved me the way she should. We were best friends for a few years but i don't think i can go back to being friends. I made sure she got in her car safe and walked away.
I needed this after breaking up with my girl, I don't hate her but we were making each other miserable. I'm still on good terms with her, but it's time for me to train and move on.
In the same situation as you. Don’t worry, you are a good man if she is on good terms with her. After the break up and I Got my first uni job, as if life knew I needed something to make me focused
Love these kind of videos. When you actually feel pain from certain things like heartbreak, it just resides stronger. Life is suffering. Embrace it and always keep moving. I promise you, no matter how bad it is, you will overcome.
Hey all! Keep your heads up. been about 8 months I feel the best I have in so long! One thing that is correct is hit the dang gym, better yourself everyday. Do it for you and no one else. I promise all of you will overcome this as I did even when you think there is not anything for you. Much love too you all, You got this I promise!!!
I asked my crush out today - got turned down. I am sad. Hopefully this video will give me some comfort. But I am glad that I did it. In the future, I can't blame my present self with "What if"-questions. Back to the gym it is and praising god for providing me with an opportunity to ask her in the first place. Do it, boys! Go for it! You can succeed where I failed!
My relationship of 3 years ended a few months ago and I just found out yesterday she’s moving out of state with someone. She is a great woman I wish her the luck and than some just for right now I’m besides myself.
she left me last year after 3 months of pain and misery i found that i was a fucking loser . i put her on top of myself than i study to qualify for medical school after one year of hard work ( studying 12 h for every fucking day) now im a medical student. looking for being surgeon in future. keep your dreams alive! put yourself first!
My ex was the best thing to ever happen to me. If you know what i mean💪🏼 I an now in the best shape of my life. I dont allow ANYONE at my gym to work harder than me. My results have been incredible, and yours will too! Always work harder than everyone around you💪🏼
Good, now I see most of you who leave comments down here decide not to lay down and die. Keep pushing it brothers, it has been over a year since she left me, now I’m doing better than ever. Hanging there to whoever reading this, you’ll be fine. The best is yet to come.
The only thing that helps me is realizing what I can control and what I can’t I can’t control if someone will leave me or cheat on me but I can determine how I go about it and imma go about it the best way I can and be selfish for once and stop talking to her things u want aren’t the things u need and you deserve better is what I tell myself💯
I am right now in a kind of long distance relationship with a girl I really like. But sadly because of circumstances it might never properly work out. I realized from the things, from the circumstances from her perspective she described to me that it might not be worth my, our time to pursue each other, even though we were each other's first kiss, first experience and more and wanted to be more. I honestly kind of got myself into that shitty situation. I have now to think about everything, talk with her and we have to then make a decision. I see that it's probably not going to be the feel good one. It's terrible. I feel as if I have a hole in my chest. I can't concentrate, I constantly think about us, her, our experiences together. I know I won't die. I know somehow everything will be alright but right now it's just hell. So if there's a god, please help me.
I know my brothers she left you on the ground, and then tornado and storm have hit you. But I dare you to stay in it, to get up from the ground, so withstand the storm, to take thunders and feel energy from them. And then you dare them to meet you on the other side of that storm!
We all have been in this sitution do ur things you will find ideal woman never text her never call her it is not gonna work i learned my lesson from the hard way because i did these things. remember if she wants u she will be there dont care her forget about her
She didn't leave me because I left her I didn't like the way she treated me I tried everything but it didn't work for us sometimes you have to just accept that she is not good for you and move on
17. Been in love with a girl for three years now,weve been best of friends and i finally told her that i want to be in a relationship with her. She right now is in such a state of pressure of HAVING to be in love with me,from which i have calmed her down. Yet i am worried that might just be a warning shot for Oh yea shes totally gonna say no. We are goin out on a date next week and im praying for the best and that she hopefully can start seeing me as more than a friend.
Hey if someone has time to read this, go on. (true story) Today is the 28th Jun 2024 it has been about 4 months since I was sexually abused/touched. It was a big shock to me I want to talk about how I feel and what was on my mind that day but no one listens. I was on my way to my concert with the train as every usual day. Suddenly a group of teenage guys around 15 -17 years old was standing behind me. I was standing right in front of the train door and was waiting till it opens. There were 2 stops left and suddenly a guy came too close he started to touch me and a second boy was right behind so no one could see what was happening. There were about 4 or 5 boys. He would not stop … I pulled away and he pulled me even closer. I didn’t know what to do. I was and I am just 13 years old. I was so scared that I couldn’t move. Right when the first stop ended the second guy switched with the first guy and it was going on until the last stop came. I was so shocked and paralyzed that I was watching the floor in horror all of the time. He was not just touching me he rubbed himself on me and I was just … Scared I guess. I cant explain my feelings in that moment I was unable to think. My thoughts? I wasn’t thinking about anything it was like as if my brain was empty. To be honest this was not the first time. It was my 3rd time that I was being sexually abused. I told my parents and the worst thing did not even happen. My own parents told me:,, see what can happen in the train when you go by yourself!,, Not are you alright or do you need anything! That’s why I am scared to go by the train by myself in 2 days. I feel like it will happen again and I am scared as f--- to be honest. I told it my parents my best friend my other friends my sister and none of them cared about it. I felt heartbroken and abused which I was. I can’t describe how I am feeling right now. I am scared to show my skin, scared to go swimming, scared to sleep with an open window, scared to take a bath, scared to talk to an boy alone, scared to go by bus, train or car alone! My whole world is just being scared and never be safe again. Oh and you know what, just later I found out it were some kind of guys that I met there more than once. And all the time, they just laughed! (Some of you might say it is no big deal but it is a big deal to me!)
The devil is trying to destroy you. I don't imagine what you're going through and I'm sure 99% of people won't comprehend you. In my opinion, an abuse is one of the most disgusting horrific experiences that someone can go through, but let me tell you, all these abusers and people that are making you feel bad will have their punishment for life itself. You can and you must do two things. 1. Report to the police the situation and 2.Overcome the traumas that you have, it's the unique thing you can do about your past, us it as fuel to make your future better. If you want to meet a person that has went for horrible situations like you, search for David Goggins. To finish, I want you to make sure that you're not alone, I'll have you on my prayers. Sometimes God let you pass through things to later help the people that are on your same situation and to learn to overcome them. I hope everything gets better in the future dear friend.
Been 3 weeks been working out everyday two jobs two beautiful baby boys I miss her I wasn’t always the best I wish her the best I’m on a mission turn my back if she’s coming back then I’ll see if not I’ll still see why it happened 💪🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️🩹
I feel so cringe about heartbroken mfers. Stop crying. Shes gone its over get over yourself and let her go. Is it an ego thing or why are they incapable of accepting that nothing lasts. But that doesnt mean that it was all fake. It was still worth it and she really loved you. ITs just that its over now. At least you had a girl that loved you. Many are completly orphaned by love.
Has soon I saw this, I remembered what they did to me, the girl I was with she never needed me. I broke up with her for a reasonable explanation, and then she just got pissed off, that not the girl you want.
Im not heartbroken, Im just broken. no amount of gym is gonna fix shattered glass. I can feel good about 5 minutes after 2 hours of gym and I feel like Im gonna do the real bad that youtube doesnt like to my self. I hate everything, my self, others and life. there is nowhere to go and nowhere to be. days blend together in a mess and there is no escape from it. everything is a constant freefall, I dont even fucking dream at night when I sleep. I go to sleep and I wake up to live the same day again. there is only pain
Been there myself. The outward illusions of society are no longer serving you. Your spirit is telling you to look inward, to question reality and your existence. You are on a personal journey to begin to find who you really are. In old times it was called the long night of the soul. All men go through it at different stages of their life. Start simply with pen & paper. Write down everything that is on your mind & soul that troubles you, including thing that seem trivial. The act of writing is a very simple way of starting the process of inward reflection of what's going on in with your spirit. Things you dont like about yourself, emotions or mental states that trouble your spirit or daily interactions in life that generated anguish. A strange thing begins to happen when you do this, you start to become aware of events and encounters in your life that are truly unique and beautiful. This process can takes weeks, months, even years but eventually you no longer need the pad & pen for the reflective process of your day to become second nature just like going to the gym. May you find solace in this reality weary traveller.
I actually find this hard to believe. The men I seem to attract don't appear to have hearts at all. Hmm. Maybe I should leave the country and look elsewhere?
@@oscarriley9265 They can't seem to feel for anyone but themselves. So okay, I guess they have hearts, but they are very small. Actually, I have to thank them in a sense. They have motivated me to write a few really good songs. So it all works out in the end :).
its on you , first of all , have self accountability to assume your own choices , its a great tool to improve yourself then look up in your criteria , in the area where you re looking in or may be you re attracted to bad boys , do a brainstorming with yourself and avoid as much as possible the victim mindset , its not gonna help u at all and i can assure u there are more good men than bad men , its just those good men arent appreciated , are took for granted , have being hurt by bad women
The forbidden preworkout
Only makes it worse....
it's going to be fine. i promise. i fucking promise. don't give up. nothing is forever
stay hard bro!
I hope you're right. Just attempted suicide but was talked down from the ledge. She moved on so fast after 13 years. I'm left with trauma and so much pain
@@Sonic-oe1instay hard brooo
@@Sonic-oe1in How are you doing now two months later ?
@@Sonic-oe1in hey man we can talk if u need
This has that late 2000s yotube energy and im all for it. I need more, MORE MOTIVATION MORE DISCINPLINE.
for what reason?
stay hard!!
what are you talking about bro? How is this late 2000s youtube energy? There was nothing like this back then...
2 weeks since the heartbreak but I’m still pushing everyday, talking to God, work, and mma
we living the same life or something?
@@TJLikePiggy honestly bro every man experiences a heartbreak, it sucks , but we gotta grow from it
@@Westcoast10 Im with you too brother. Second day, when she hands you the gun even if you dont want it, you have to pull the trigger and move on. Its time to use that pain as energy in every set and every moment. Goodluck brother stay strong
@@ryana6170 it’s definitely hard bro, I find myself thinking that I wasn’t good enough, feeling like if I was rich would she have stayed? I was pushing myself so hard to be better for her and I guess it just wasn’t enough
you're doing the right thing brother, keep going!
Man, all of these gentlemen are giving great advice. Jordan Peterson talking about suffering and how it's life is one of the realest things I've ever heard in my life. It's like; Yeah, no shit you're hurting, but how useful are you when that time comes again? You gonna drown your sorrows? You gonna feel sorry for yourself? Or are you going to get yourself together, get your ass up and take control of it all? He's also right about us making things worse for ourselves. The mind and the heart in eternal conflict with one another. Overcome it. Take control of it.
Stay hard man, overcome.
You put a smile on my face
The pain is a great teacher, it teaches you that you must reach into the void of where your heart used to be and put everything and everyone on notice.
I recently got dumped and this is the first thing that pops up on my fyp
stay hard man!!
Same here bro, just today.. deleat is number, Best of luck ando goodbye ..it hurts, monday i start gym with a bro
@@eldogor7798 Stay strong bro its gonna hurt but youll learn to live with the pain or youll get over her
@@eldogor7798ppl p
A sign from god bro, heartbreak is deadass an amazing thing it fuels you with a crazy amount of energy
Walk away works really well! She can experience how life is without you to realize if it’s better or worse
Wow, I needed this right now. Broken-hearted @ 60yo. Only thing I was taking positive was it confirmed to me that I do have one.
Broken heart for over 1 year. I'm 15 years old now. Every day I try to be a better version of myself and take care of my loved ones.
Not everyone is cut out to be in a relationship, but everyone can care about the people around them
Feel you dude, I’m 15 also. Was broken up with 5 months ago and me mentally and emotionally it’s been a hard time to overcome it. I was js told and never was given an explanation on why. I’ve been going to the gym and doing the sport I love doing but at the end of the day it holds me back on trying to move forward.
Let me tell you something. You are very young. There are still a lot of experiences and achievements ahead of you. And maybe some heartbreaks too. But if you work hard and focus on your personal growth, it will get easier to get over them.
I remember falling in love when I was 17; it took me 3 years to forget her. In 2022, the last serious relationship I had took me a bit less than a year to get over. And this year, I got my heart broken by a girl who said she couldn't forget her abusive ex. Now, it's just pure inspiration to work better and enjoy more of my personal health.
Take care of yourself. Exercise, even if it is walking. Reading Psalms has helped me when I was going through break-ups, despair, and loneliness. Get yourself an education and or learn a trade so you will have a decent standard of living when you are older. Make sure you are getting enough rest and sleep. Spend time with people you trust, friends you can talk to. Avoid gossipers.
I already became a savage by overcoming the pain, but this little gem here in a nice addition to keeping me up.
thanks man, stay hard!!
Same to you brother!
After an entire decade, she left me. It's my fault. She told me, and I know it. I said a lot I never should have. Never cheated, never put a hand on her, but I said a lot I shouldn't have. This came in the middle of my own training. I took a day off working out to reflect and everyday I can't stop thinking of her. Where she's at, who she's with, is she really gone. She left the same month of our anniversary. The same month my brother had passed away years prior. All my friends are dead or have moved away. I am alone sitting alone daily trying to block it out but this pain is intolerable. I have some hope for her coming back but it's fading day by day and the pain and heartache is only getting worse. No response from texts, blocked from phone calls, and social media, but haunted daily by the memories and thoughts of better times. I wish it was as easy as the video states. Cause every day I feel worse and worse and I know it's going to get worse when I have to see or hear her running around with someone else when it should be me. I pray for the positive outcome but keep waking up to the same results. God give me the strength to "walk away" and move on with my life. 💔
I'm with u brother.. 22 yrs 3 weeks ago
@@caball6651 I pray you get through it and whatever else is going wrong in your life brother. I don't understand how they can say "I'm not trying to hurt you" but their IG pics show so much different. Been through this before, but this one is HARD.
13 months of nothing from her after 8 years
How are you bro?
I‘m in a similar position bro… I didn’t really appreciate and worship her when she was with me and loved me unconditionally. I had too much stress and my parents also told me to get rid of her because of her nationality. I did love her and I still do, but at the time I didn’t know that I love her this much. I left her and ignored her. I tried to move on and I did well for some time, but then something in me awoke. The memories with her started getting into my head. I can’t stand these thoughts. They are getting too much and I can’t distract myself with friends or something because they are all busy with their own lives. I think about her everyday and I started to develop an illness because of her. My heart is hurting (not metaphorically). I asked her if we can start all over again, but she doesn’t want to. She still shows some little kind of affection, but also much ignorance. I have hope that I can get her back. I’m praying to God and asking him for help every evening before going to bed. She is my daily medicine. One day without her and my mind starts telling me to commit suicide. But no. I won’t end my life. I still have a journey before me and I will fight for my love. I realise that this is pretty much karma. Somewhat I am also glad that it happened, even tough I am suffering and falling apart on the inside. Because of my own bad decisions I now realised what is important for me in life and how beautiful life is. And how beautiful she is.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
We are in the same position
Same goes for if it's not working with a guy. Wish them luck and just walk away.
As for being a female...I need the strength and support right now..as of yesterday it's been 2 weeks since my bf left me..I'm losing sleep..I'm falling apart
I am going through the same thing.
The pain and the guts turning over.
It will take time and it will hurt
He was obviously a valuable man to you, women only get twisted when the dude was top tier. It'll be fine as a women you have options, god speed.
Feel you there. From one strong woman to another, we'll get through this. Keep getting up girl! No one can keep us down; let's choose to grow from this.
Stick in there! Mine took about 5 months now I hardly think of that person, completely focused on my goals and progressing more in these past months than I had in the past two years! The beauty of heartbreak is the potent endless energy it gives you if you express it in a positive way can make huge gain!
It's been 2 months for me but it still hurts a lot
Been with my wife for 16 years, I was 100% all in and wanted to grow old with her. She cheated on me 10 years ago and I forgave her. She just told me today she cheated on me again, I had an idea she did but she promised me she wasn't, I caught her in 40 lies the last 12 weeks. Im so devastated, hurt, confused and this sucks. I'm in a hotel tonight, I'm in so much pain. Don't what what to do. I love her
She proved disloyal twice. You left and thats good. She lost a good loyal man. She will regret her choises later. For now you need to LASER focus on yourself.
You simply need to learn to love yourself. PsycHacs is good for that.
Reconnect with family.
Reconnect and make new friends.
Start combat sports to calm the nerves. Helps me alot. Gives me confidense.
Start self improving. Its necesarry.
Go to therapy if you need. You can do without but its quicker to sort yourself out with therapy.
Make money to afford the above things. Use the pain and channel it into work. NEVER share your problems at work.
At mine they will eat me alive if they find out about my troubles. Close friends/family ok. Work never. Hard but true.
Leave, you don’t deserve the pain, but you gotta embrace it, it makes you feel alive
The truth is that she doesn't value your love, she maliciously took advantage of it. You deserve someone who values you and the love you have for them.
@@Lem0nIlja🙌🏽🙌🏽‼️ Agree !
Once a cheater always a cheater brother! She proved it to you! You will never have peace with this woman. Walk away and never look back! Focus on yourself, get fit read a book,spend time with family and friends. It will hurt but by putting in the work you will heal...just give it time ❤️
it’s been two weeks since i caught her with another man, and it was the best ever thing to happen to me as i picked myself up and moved on with my life
have been studying better, exercising, and most of all molded my connections to people that really cares
It will not stay forever. The Pain will go away. Stay hard.
The protocol is not take her back, because she didn’t care when she was with another guy the following week, getting knocked up and then seeking your affection years later like nothing happened.
Yup
I'm so stupid I took it back and ended it this time. This shit still hurts.
I would rather die on my knees than to take her back after that
@@TheMarksman556 same. I understand you.
Yep
Everlong is one of the greatest rock anthems of all time. Rock on
literally yesterday she broke up with me because she said i hurt her so much in the relationship, i never wanted anything better for her i always wanted to be there for her. She said she didnt want me to leave but she didnt want to be with me because i hurt her too much. I decided to just leave her and wish her good luck, i feel like shit still but i know that was the best choice i could make.
Very similar situation here man. Keep your head up. It takes two to argue. Life is painful. However, there is no light without dark. See you in the gym brother...
Im in the exact same position, i find it hard to give up and walk away
She said she wasn't sure if she loved me the way she should. We were best friends for a few years but i don't think i can go back to being friends. I made sure she got in her car safe and walked away.
She just told me she lives to far away and a relationship wouldn’t work.. I call bs I wasn’t enough for her
I'm not the only person that needs this right now.
This is all I need in life pure motivation
I needed this after breaking up with my girl, I don't hate her but we were making each other miserable. I'm still on good terms with her, but it's time for me to train and move on.
In the same situation as you. Don’t worry, you are a good man if she is on good terms with her. After the break up and I Got my first uni job, as if life knew I needed something to make me focused
Strong man saying strong stuff
Had to grow alot n xome long way to accept reality as it is n as its said by em in d vid
Good job
Love these kind of videos. When you actually feel pain from certain things like heartbreak, it just resides stronger. Life is suffering. Embrace it and always keep moving. I promise you, no matter how bad it is, you will overcome.
Hey all! Keep your heads up. been about 8 months I feel the best I have in so long! One thing that is correct is hit the dang gym, better yourself everyday. Do it for you and no one else. I promise all of you will overcome this as I did even when you think there is not anything for you. Much love too you all, You got this I promise!!!
I am glad that I'm not the only one suffering, let's overcome the pain, brother. As we know tomorrow would be better.
I am thankful and grateful for what just happened and for what I was shown. May you forever be healthy, happy and safe.
stay hard!!
Great vid. Keep going man. Let's ascend.
Thanks for watching!
Thank you so much for creating this masterpiece. Hits so hard.
thanks for this video buddy ❤❤
I asked my crush out today - got turned down. I am sad. Hopefully this video will give me some comfort.
But I am glad that I did it. In the future, I can't blame my present self with "What if"-questions.
Back to the gym it is and praising god for providing me with an opportunity to ask her in the first place.
Do it, boys! Go for it! You can succeed where I failed!
Excellent. I really needed to hear this, thank you!
stay hard!
I'm terrified my love of causing others misery will lead me to channel my pain and frustrations into something horrific.
My relationship of 3 years ended a few months ago and I just found out yesterday she’s moving out of state with someone. She is a great woman I wish her the luck and than some just for right now I’m besides myself.
This video has really helped me more than i can put into words thank you so much.
she left me last year after 3 months of pain and misery i found that i was a fucking loser . i put her on top of myself than i study to qualify for medical school after one year of hard work ( studying 12 h for every fucking day) now im a medical student. looking for being surgeon in future. keep your dreams alive! put yourself first!
My ex was the best thing to ever happen to me. If you know what i mean💪🏼 I an now in the best shape of my life. I dont allow ANYONE at my gym to work harder than me. My results have been incredible, and yours will too! Always work harder than everyone around you💪🏼
Very few of these videos are actually motivating like this
This helped a lot.
The best advice
Good, now I see most of you who leave comments down here decide not to lay down and die.
Keep pushing it brothers, it has been over a year since she left me, now I’m doing better than ever.
Hanging there to whoever reading this, you’ll be fine.
The best is yet to come.
good quote bro!
thanks for sharing in the comments. you got this, men. don't let the heart break control you.
Great video. It came at the perfect moment
ty for making this video
She broke my heart so I broke all my PB's 🏋️♀️
Improvise, adapt and OVERCOME. Yep...what other choice is there?
New personal best on strenght training this week, new personal best in my 5km distance today. I can do it
The only thing that helps me is realizing what I can control and what I can’t I can’t control if someone will leave me or cheat on me but I can determine how I go about it and imma go about it the best way I can and be selfish for once and stop talking to her things u want aren’t the things u need and you deserve better is what I tell myself💯
It happened at 4:03 pm June 17th and I’m done making excuses it all starts today
I am right now in a kind of long distance relationship with a girl I really like. But sadly because of circumstances it might never properly work out. I realized from the things, from the circumstances from her perspective she described to me that it might not be worth my, our time to pursue each other, even though we were each other's first kiss, first experience and more and wanted to be more. I honestly kind of got myself into that shitty situation. I have now to think about everything, talk with her and we have to then make a decision. I see that it's probably not going to be the feel good one. It's terrible. I feel as if I have a hole in my chest. I can't concentrate, I constantly think about us, her, our experiences together. I know I won't die. I know somehow everything will be alright but right now it's just hell. So if there's a god, please help me.
This video saved me. Thank you
She dumbed me 2 months back.. tried to contact and tried to make things better... But nothing in return... Its difficult to move on...
I know my brothers she left you on the ground, and then tornado and storm have hit you. But I dare you to stay in it, to get up from the ground, so withstand the storm, to take thunders and feel energy from them.
And then you dare them to meet you on the other side of that storm!
good quote man!
It's funny how dispensable we are to the people that love us... We are easily thrown away when they no longer need us
2 days since she rejected me, 2 days since I hit the gym after a 1 year hiatus.
I’m more than heartbroken. I am literally destroyed. My life is destroyed. Someone came into my life and destroyed it.
Don't let anybody destroy your life. Keep strong my brother 💪💪💪
We all have been in this sitution do ur things you will find ideal woman never text her never call her it is not gonna work i learned my lesson from the hard way because i did these things. remember if she wants u she will be there dont care her forget about her
That Jordan Peterson bit hit diffy
Diffy 😅. But yeah he's a G, despite what the media try to force us to feel about it, man's more often on point than not.
She didn't leave me because I left her I didn't like the way she treated me I tried everything but it didn't work for us sometimes you have to just accept that she is not good for you and move on
Good job man be sure to never look back and never go back to her no matter what happens
@@The_cool_guy78 Roger that
Loved this video
I needed this
Great vid keep going❤
Thanks man
17.
Been in love with a girl for three years now,weve been best of friends and i finally told her that i want to be in a relationship with her.
She right now is in such a state of pressure of HAVING to be in love with me,from which i have calmed her down.
Yet i am worried that might just be a warning shot for
Oh yea shes totally gonna say no.
We are goin out on a date next week and im praying for the best and that she hopefully can start seeing me as more than a friend.
Hey if someone has time to read this, go on. (true story)
Today is the 28th Jun 2024 it has been about 4 months since I was sexually abused/touched.
It was a big shock to me I want to talk about how I feel and what was on my mind that day but no one listens.
I was on my way to my concert with the train as every usual day. Suddenly a group of teenage guys around 15 -17 years old was standing behind me.
I was standing right in front of the train door and was waiting till it opens.
There were 2 stops left and suddenly a guy came too close he started to touch me and a second boy was right behind so no one could see what was happening. There were about 4 or 5 boys. He would not stop … I pulled away and he pulled me even closer. I didn’t know what to do. I was and I am just 13 years old.
I was so scared that I couldn’t move.
Right when the first stop ended the second guy switched with the first guy and it was going on until the last stop came.
I was so shocked and paralyzed that I was watching the floor in horror all of the time. He was not just touching me he rubbed himself on me and I was just …
Scared I guess.
I cant explain my feelings in that moment I was unable to think.
My thoughts? I wasn’t thinking about anything it was like as if my brain was empty. To be honest this was not the first time.
It was my 3rd time that I was being sexually abused.
I told my parents and the worst thing did not even happen. My own parents told me:,, see what can happen in the train when you go by yourself!,,
Not are you alright or do you need anything!
That’s why I am scared to go by the train by myself in 2 days.
I feel like it will happen again and I am scared as f--- to be honest.
I told it my parents my best friend my other friends my sister and none of them cared about it.
I felt heartbroken and abused which I was.
I can’t describe how I am feeling right now.
I am scared to show my skin, scared to go swimming, scared to sleep with an open window, scared to take a bath, scared to talk to an boy alone, scared to go by bus, train or car alone!
My whole world is just being scared and never be safe again.
Oh and you know what, just later I found out it were some kind of guys that I met there more than once.
And all the time, they just laughed!
(Some of you might say it is no big deal but it is a big deal to me!)
The devil is trying to destroy you. I don't imagine what you're going through and I'm sure 99% of people won't comprehend you. In my opinion, an abuse is one of the most disgusting horrific experiences that someone can go through, but let me tell you, all these abusers and people that are making you feel bad will have their punishment for life itself. You can and you must do two things. 1. Report to the police the situation and 2.Overcome the traumas that you have, it's the unique thing you can do about your past, us it as fuel to make your future better. If you want to meet a person that has went for horrible situations like you, search for David Goggins. To finish, I want you to make sure that you're not alone, I'll have you on my prayers. Sometimes God let you pass through things to later help the people that are on your same situation and to learn to overcome them. I hope everything gets better in the future dear friend.
this is fucked up, i hope you are overcoming this
best wishes
Tom fucking Platts!!!!
thanks for watching, stay hard!!!
But have you ever been heartbroken with a torn bicep; turning up to the gym angry and curling 5KG 💀
fuckin beautiful
She broke my heart guys, I will start my personal battle against me
anyone have a link to the ful version of the jordan peterson clip?
That foo fighters man!
grinding and progress > girls
Been 3 weeks been working out everyday two jobs two beautiful baby boys I miss her I wasn’t always the best I wish her the best I’m on a mission turn my back if she’s coming back then I’ll see if not I’ll still see why it happened 💪🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️🩹
keep going!!
Thank you
Stay hard!
Here i am in the army whitout nothing to lose
grass need rain to grow
good quote man!
Just randomly pop up great advice uncle
thanks man!
Break up 1 hour ago, I haven't feel it yet...yet
thanks bro
:)
1 month still crushed
I won’t lie I fail myself I didn’t do the advice but I am still working on my self just should have not done that but it’s done it’s fine
THANK YOU
stay hard!!!
I feel so cringe about heartbroken mfers. Stop crying. Shes gone its over get over yourself and let her go. Is it an ego thing or why are they incapable of accepting that nothing lasts. But that doesnt mean that it was all fake. It was still worth it and she really loved you. ITs just that its over now. At least you had a girl that loved you. Many are completly orphaned by love.
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It’s grief man, some take longer than others. Just have to accept it and keep it pushing
Has soon I saw this, I remembered what they did to me, the girl I was with she never needed me. I broke up with her for a reasonable explanation, and then she just got pissed off, that not the girl you want.
I already planned to walk away and not look back. But when I will wish her luck, should I let her know that I will be waiting in a way?
No way, stay strong my boy
Song
man oh man
I wish these videos had NO MUSIC
can I use your video bro I'll credit you
yes bro
❤
Exactly
Im not heartbroken, Im just broken.
no amount of gym is gonna fix shattered glass.
I can feel good about 5 minutes after 2 hours of gym and I feel like Im gonna do the real bad that youtube doesnt like to my self.
I hate everything, my self, others and life. there is nowhere to go and nowhere to be. days blend together in a mess and there is no escape from it.
everything is a constant freefall, I dont even fucking dream at night when I sleep.
I go to sleep and I wake up to live the same day again.
there is only pain
Been there myself. The outward illusions of society are no longer serving you. Your spirit is telling you to look inward, to question reality and your existence.
You are on a personal journey to begin to find who you really are. In old times it was called the long night of the soul. All men go through it at different stages of their life.
Start simply with pen & paper. Write down everything that is on your mind & soul that troubles you, including thing that seem trivial.
The act of writing is a very simple way of starting the process of inward reflection of what's going on in with your spirit.
Things you dont like about yourself, emotions or mental states that trouble your spirit or daily interactions in life that generated anguish.
A strange thing begins to happen when you do this, you start to become aware of events and encounters in your life that are truly unique and beautiful.
This process can takes weeks, months, even years but eventually you no longer need the pad & pen for the reflective process of your day to become second nature just like going to the gym. May you find solace in this reality weary traveller.
stay hard man, OVERCOME.
The pain and heartbreak will continue. They will also fade away .
Keep a diary. Log your progress
What's the name of the guy in the beginning?
He is Tom Platz, a bodybuilding legendd!
I actually find this hard to believe. The men I seem to attract don't appear to have hearts at all. Hmm. Maybe I should leave the country and look elsewhere?
Its you, not the country
What makes you think they dont have hearts
@@oscarriley9265 They can't seem to feel for anyone but themselves. So okay, I guess they have hearts, but they are very small. Actually, I have to thank them in a sense. They have motivated me to write a few really good songs. So it all works out in the end :).
its on you , first of all , have self accountability to assume your own choices , its a great tool to improve yourself then look up in your criteria , in the area where you re looking in or may be you re attracted to bad boys , do a brainstorming with yourself and avoid as much as possible the victim mindset , its not gonna help u at all and i can assure u there are more good men than bad men , its just those good men arent appreciated , are took for granted , have being hurt by bad women
@@AMINEOUERDANI this 100%
name of pf the song
Everlong fío fighters
TURN DOWN THE BACK GROUND MUSIC
thanks for watching!!
What is the song called?
Foo Fighters
Everlong
Thats why I hate monogamy BRUTALLY
david wearing a hat looks crazy