Cousin Se Shadi-Disasters !
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 พ.ย. 2024
- Disasters of "Cousin Marriages" and our ignorance.
ہمارے قومی کھیل، یعنی کزن سے شادی، کے تباہ کن اثرات۔
More than 65% of Pakistanis are married within blood relatives/same caste. Get an insight about its harmful effects on the society and on the health of the children born out of these marriages.
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My Dada, Dadi and Ami, Abu both groups are first cousins. We're three sisters and born with genetic disease. Our eyesight is too weak that we aren't able to see clearly even with very thick glasses. Our brother is fine, but we can't say that these marriages don't affect. They do.
@@farhanafridi8694 have you studied biology ?
@@teaisfantastic3338 biology? There is only one logy for Muslims, that is Koranology.
@@hsd4526 quran is the worst thing a science student can read .
but who cares?
@Rory Mcgregor ( USA is your Dad) After you, mi lord 🙏
Earlier your Hindu ancestors never married in same gotra.Gotra system is based on gene pool. Our cousins have same gotra(genes) so Hindu system prohibits marriage within same gotra.
Only for North Indian Hindus. Cousin marriage happens for South Indian Hindus
@@JaskoonerSingh even in south India same gotra marriages are prohibited.
But what's still in practice is also wrong
@@JaskoonerSingh yes in mothers side and not in fathers side.
Cousins no matter what Gotra will have same DNA and gene.
@Rasna in Tamil Nadu. Try googling and you can do your own research
I am also against cousin marriage because of same reasons .even I was forced to marry my cousin but I stood against it .now I am happily married and a mother of two kids alhamaduillah.
Married with two kids 🤔
Find a suitable girl for me too, Hina. Thanks.
Salam, the Islam which you see being practiced is not islam, if u want to know about the Creator's Islam then read Dr Kashif Khan's articles on the internet. The real Islam is scientific , easy and beautiful. Just telling u. May Allah guide you more Ameen.
@@criticparexcellence8295 all religions are man made, males made! Be aware!
@@criticparexcellence8295 let them create and /or corrupt whatever. I am not interested. I am interested in my deen, humanity. شکریے
In Hinduism
Both girls and boys parents must have different "gotra" otherwise same gotra means they are sister and brother.
Gotra is like family tree name.
If girl parent and boys parent (one of them in bothsides) have same gotra then we cancelled the marriage. Even they are related to 15th generation. Marriage is not allowed.
Gotra is a perfect system.
Hindusim is best 💯 the only real religion else are copied
in South india cousin marriage is pretty common..
and please don't get me started on pathetic caste system of hinduism
Yes it's the best scientific facts to follow but in Maharashtra and some parts of South India people marry their cousins
@@AABraun yes .but in the South Hindu Marriage Act disallows marriage between first cousins
Kids of your Dad’s brother
Kids of your Dad’s sister
Kids of your Mom’s brother
Kids of your Mom’s sister
@@chadbhagwadhaari1310 dude people even marry their uncles in southern india... idk what marriage act you are talking about 🙄
even r*pe is punishable crime right? but is that stopped in india??
This is why in Vedic culture first cousin marriage is strictly prohibited .Unless the gotra or lineage is different one is not allowed to Marry. This is now proved by science too that it may affect the mental and physical health of children
Absolutely right
In the south of india, the uncle marries his own niece! It’s pretty normal among the brahmins! But their offsprings seem healthy… wonder why?
VEDIC NIYOG ...READ IT
In the west cousin marriage is considered incest marriage.
We know.
In India too
@Vinod Jaiswal I don't think so.
South Indians indulge in cousin marriage irrespective of religions(Hindu/Muslim).
But that trend is falling now because of girls and boys not wanting to marry their cousins.
I'm a South Indian myself,2 of our cousins were expected to marry,happily they didn't.
@@ashwini1859 hindus also marry cousins ?
@@teaisfantastic3338 No
My grand parents put a Full Stop to this practice of marrying first cousins more than a 100 years ago in our family. Thank God for that.
Any genius born in the family in those last 100 years then?
@@plumplum1964 Vice versa is true ????? what a stupid argument ..
@@plumplum1964 Whether genius are born or not may be a separate matter, but how many genetic diseases did they have to face...probably none or with a very low percentage compared to others...STOP TAUNTING people
@@plumplum1964 ja tu apni bhein se karle shaadi
@@plumplum1964 may be geniuses did not born in her family but at least physically and mentally strong babies did born.
You can not see the statistics, I think you are also a product of cousin marriage.
Pakistan needs more people like you.....Respect from India brother
India likhna zaruri hai kya??
@@sagar-deepinside4899 I agree with you ..
Indian logo ki yeh Kami hai ..
Kisi ki achi baat suni .. toh use bhai bana lete hai ..
Lol
Bhai turant dil mat do inlogo ko ye khud kiya hoga inlogo me bhan khodna jayej he
@@supertalk4484 😂😂😂😂 khodnaaa
No Pakistan donot need him
According to hindu shastras marriage is forbidden between relatives 9 generations from paternal side and 7 generations from maternal side. Further it is again forbidden in same gotra(same genetic pool) and same village.
Hinduism is confined to hindustan only and islam is everywhere in the world and largest growing religion in this world.
@@waseemalam5477 growing because of the number of children people produce.Alsoit doesn’t take into account the exponential number of ex muslims especially in the West. Pride should be in positive achievements like ability to sustain vibrant democracies,scientific achievement and progress of humankind not in terror attacks,looting rioting and killing
@@waseemalam5477 fastest breeding religion and it can't stop us for being proud of our hindu identify
But you guys have the caste system which is terrible.
@@waseemalam5477 is increasing in no. Is real growth?????
I am from India, this is becoming one of my favorite channels on TH-cam.
The jat Community around Delhi have very strict rules against marrying in the same clan (cousin marriages is out of question) which is identified by gotra or last name.
For example a family where fathers gotra (last name) is Malik, and mothers last name before marriage was rajora. Then their children cannot traditionally marry anyone with last name malik or rajora.
Yes I know there was a client who left his village who could not marry the girl from the village.
Same here in rajasthan we can't marry in gotra of maa or paa
Same in East UP
It is with most of the Hindu community in India.
Its i think general hindu rule
Bcs in MP too we don't do that here
I have a disease known as primary hyperoxaluria type 1 and I have been on dialysis for two years now. my parents are cousin married and this disease is a genetic disease come from my parents. due to this disease, I have been to 9 surgeries so far and counting
Do your grandparents regret it bc I have seen people even after such tragedies don't regret it
@@hassaankhanniazi5217 they don't.
@@umairshafique9785 has your parents generation learned their lesson
@@hassaankhanniazi5217 nope. they are still marrying cousins.
@@umairshafique9785 is your fily from south punjab by any chance. Czn marriage rate is highest among them
Marvellous man!! U R such a brave man to stand against these bad practices!! Love from India
Good...thank god for your grandparents
Right brother .
Bhai is janatic bimari ka treatment 2006 me ek pakistani family ilaja kerbane aayi thi. Tab muje pata chal tha
Per yeh toh tumari quran me likha h
Islam Saari insaniyat ko focus kar ke banaya gaya hai. Islam mein first cousin mariage allowed hai. Basic baat sirf ye hai ke cousin se shaadi karne se koi khudd se bimaari nahin paida hoti. Laikin repeatedly aik hi khandan mein shadi karne se uss khandan mein jo diseases aur defects hote hain wo repeat hone ke chance ziyada hote hain.
Cousin marriages are haram due to birth defects. They are our brothers and sister so its haram in many ways. Our Hindu ancestors never married cousins so why do we do this? I am Pakistani and when I say its haram I notice Pakistanis get upset. Thank you for raising this issue. I want to thank you for raising this issue.
In Hinduism our ancestors forbidden marriage in same Gotra (Family Tree)
Faisal bhai we even don’t do marriage in same Gotra to maintain genetic diversity in our kids. This way we get best of body and brains 🧠🙏🏻🙏🏻
Wow !! I m suprised and happy to see atleast one person from Pakistan has acknowledged their hindu ancestory 👍👍 ...
Yes absolutely true 💖 thank you love from Bihar India
@@chitranjankumarkushwaha4259 Most welcome bhai. Yes it is rare in Pakistan.
I blame my depression and life long stupidity on consanguineous marriages culture. Bhai birth defects are only a tip of the iceberg there is a whole myriad of mental health issues that lineage through this consanguineous marriages.
You've beautifully highlighted the correlation between cousin marriage and democracy 👍
If you understood this, then you have to find an answer, why Almighty, all-knowing Allah didn't know it??
@@ajaatshatru because democracy is not the ideal way of ruling. In demoncrazy any fhakeer can come with jhola uthake and create tensions between different religious groups, can create misunderstanding between different people and destroy jobs and economy, social fabric to stay in power.
@@The_Critical_Analysis your bullshit is noway related to my question. In case you couldn't comprehend my question, let me explain you again. I asked why the all-knowing allah allowed cousin marriages, when it can result into serious genetic diseases??
Now answer that.
@@The_Critical_Analysis you come from failed democracy where army topples elected government on their whim. That's why you are so backward. But then "aapne ghabrana nahi"
@@The_Critical_Analysis you are right but a democracy has the power to self correct. Indeed India is going through tough times, but I am extremely hopeful of the power of democracy. We'll self correct in some time.
This type of marriage is unthinkable in hindu culture.
please talk about caste system in Hindu culture...:)
@@fairoozchowdhury9918
Caste system based discrimination is illegal and crime in India.
Caste based reservations are very much there in colleges and government jobs in India.
Btw, caste system does not result in cousin marriages.
@@fairoozchowdhury9918 then we can also talk about caste system in Islam
@@lakshaymadan6016 There is no caste system in Islam LOL
@@lakshaymadan6016 If there is a caste system in Islam tell me about it.
I think for the first time a “Syed” spoke about “cast” system disaster 👍👍👍👍lots of laud Sir
Your thinking shows caste system
there are more 'syeds' in pakistan than saudi..lol
Syeds have pure Arabi blood or higher caste in south asian muslims am I right ☺️
@@human8454 not at all All Muslims are equal ..Syeds claim their ancestry from Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H)
@@khattakproductions5680 lol...ask that to ashrafs ,ajrafs ,pasmandas ... 😂.
In Hinduism it is forbidden to marry your cousins.....We are divided into different sects/kuls that decides that we cannot marry in same kul
Yea Hinduism strictly follows caste system.
@@pindiwal4717 This is not caste system. This is called kuls....
Anyways, u won't understand.
Ya only follow caste Law
@@ritik7906
Hindu caste system is scientific. It's in accordance with genetics.
lord krishna and arjuna both have done cousin marriage. even the brahmins do cousin marriages in south india because no shastras prohibit from marrying uncle or aunt's son or daughter.
I'm hindu but we are 1st human being then religious, I'm big fan of your works my brother Syed. Big Salute. Khuda apko barkt de aur khush rkhe. 🙌
Apne yha b mulle bhai behen shadi kr lete h,🤣🤣🤣🤣 kuch nhi ho skta inka
That's the first line of Geeta . Be a Human.
@@Eyahoooo may be you have never read Bhagvat Geeta Lol! 😂 The first line of Bhagvat Geeta is spoken by Dhritarashtra "What is happening in the battlefield Sanjay" this is the first line.
Cousin marriage and forced marriage both are disaster and unfortunately both are linked together. It breaks a person emotionally. Khair bus property issue ni hota... lrka dikha bhala hy ic lie us se Shaadi krni hy ya lrki dikhi bhali hy ic lie you should marry 🤨🤨
Plus, cousin marriages also causes thelasemia, low eye side, last but not the least autism in kids.
As an individual you can never back off from these filthy rituals, q k khandan naraz ho jae ga and parents pe bht pressure hota hy.. k wo mana ni kr skte 😐😐
This was my favorite video from all your videos!
Thanks for sharing the numerical facts 👍🏼👍🏼
Yaar hamare liye to cousin marriage medical problem se zyada ethically v wrong hai...hm to sapne me v nhi soch sakte... literally hme to omit ho jayega ki yaar apni sister se Shaadi usse better mar na Jaye insan🙄
@@raj49449 you are hindu that's why
@@mojojojo8631 no mai hindu hu isliye nhi mai insan hu isliye ye bura lagta hai mai animal nhi jinko rishte ki samjh aur kadar nhi hoti... Hm insan hain jise ethical and nonethical chize pta hain...
@@raj49449 i agree can you just imagine k jis lerki ne lerke ko aur jis lerke ne lerki ko saari umer behen bhai samjha ho wo 1 dum 1 waqt me shadi ker len. I am Pakistani but this cousin marriage culture needs to stop.
@@usamatariq1966 lekin mazhab mein ise halal kyun bola hai
Sir u r great that u have courage to speak on these topics.
Finally am watching a sayyed talking about racism and on cast system
@@Theactualstoic yes when they are outside mosque they also have higher caste and lower castes.
We need more intellectual people like Syed Muzammil!!! Period!!!!🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Read my comment, my dear. He is misleading his viewers. He is wrong.
Be careful about what you wish. If this Syed Muzzamil becomes any more honest and brave - you would have to give up your peaceful religion.
@@hotice31 haha. We can reform it. Just like you did. Though it’s difficult but not impossible.
Hats off to you man...it's good to listen to the person from the same community and country to talk about the evil custom.
Yup.
I may worship stone, but at least I don't marry my sister.
Regards
At least we don't marry people from our own sex
Respect other's ideology this behavior shows that u are too an extremist like Taliban
@@theonewithbrains192 how is homosexuality an extremist thing?
@@adwaitab.3622 Yeah u worship cow mata.and burn ur women
@@time-vz8un hey nonsense you don not understand hinduism and indian subcontinent history indan different communities different rules means diversity you eat what marxist you poo 💩
no one is worshipping stone....dont demean yourself....read a bit about iconography and concept of 'partima' in hinduism before you go making a fool of yourself
You are absolutely correct Muzzamil Sahib. I have a proof that marriage withen 1st cousins does create problems physically like disabilities etc etc... Thanks for this info.......
True
Lekin Quran ke according halal hai why
@@lopu8000
Yes it is permitted but its only a permission but not an order. So if you merry your cousin then at least have a madical check up. There should be no shame in it. Have you ever thought of permission to have 4 wives. Now tell me how many people take advantage of this permission??????
Remember that quran is in Arabic and prophet Muhammad P. B. U. H was also an Arab. Now it was quite common in Arab culture to have as many wives as one wanted. You could have. 10,20.30 or 40. That is if you can afford it. So islam only made it legal up to 4, but with very strong conditions. Therefore most people don't do it but those who are in need they do it. For example if for some reason your 1st wife can not give birth or is physical ill. In that case you would marry again but at the same time you like your 1st wife so with her desire you let her stay but not with force. She can go if she wants to. But remember who will marry her?? Because she cant have kids, therefore she might be willing to stay where she is. Basically a women needs protection which she has so it would be silly to go.
@@mohammedilyas6682 but rasool himself had 11 wives ? Not 4
@@lopu8000
Thank you for asking that important question.1st of all he had 9 wives and not 11.secondly Qur'an is supposed to be a revelation of God mighty.there is a verse giving permission of 4 wives for every body but there is a verse given the prophet to merry 9 times. lot of his marriages belonging to different tribes who were quite old Since Muhammad married them to unite the tribes there one could say most of the marriages were for political reasons .Remember it's all according to what God says in Qur'an which is supposed to be word of God.Now weather you believe it or not are two different things.For a believer there is no issue cause afterall we follow God's command not Muhammad's.i hope you understand. Best wishes
آپ کو دیکھ کہ حوصلہ ہوتا ہے سر کہ کوئ تو ہے جو اس ذہنی تعصب والے معاشرے میں انقلابی سوچ رکھتا ہے. لو یو سر
May bhagwan Ram gives you more strength bhaijaan...you are doing a very novel work...keep enlightening the unaware people like this...Love from India
@Sher Khan no he didn't. Brahma is supreme being . Brahma created savitri out of his consciousness and not by intercourse, he had no wife, he is the creator he can create anything he wants and desgnate status accordingly, to some he gave staus of putra and putri son and daughter. But he gave status of ardhangini to savitri/saraswati. This also led saptrishi to question brahma which led to this confusing argument still used by muslims and commies to slander hinduism. We don't even allow marriage in same gotra let alone marry your own daughter. But whatever helps you sleep man .
@@Falconof96 sahi kaha aapne. Agar aisa hota to hum Sanatani log bhi cousins ke saath marriage kar rahe hote.
@@tajinder9381 ha bhai ye bharat ki parampara nahi he bas he jahil logo ki he . Bas bahane dhoondte rehte he apne ko better ko feel karane ke.
@Sher Khan toh Saraswati ji ki Mata ka naam bhi batate jaate.
Brahma-vishnu-mahesh.. Saraswati-lakshmi-shakti.
Brahma ji (creator) ne brahmand ki rachna Saraswati ji yaani buddhi se ki.
Vishnu ji (Nurturer).. ne brahmand ko pala Laxmi ji yaani dhan ki madad se
Aur Mahesh (destroyer) ne jo aaya uska jaana bhi tay hai yeh sab unhone Kiya Shakti ji ki madad se.
Aur samjhaaoo ya samjh gaye.
Logical baat Kiya Karo.. aa jaate ho jahil asmaani kitab padhkar chapti dharti wale.
@Sher Khan han vai lodu milgaya jawab..?😂
Excellent presentation. While not prevalent, cousin marriages happen in south India. It’s totally unacceptable and considered taboo in other parts of India. One way to address it is to empower women through education and maybe this problem can be weeded out in the next 10-20 years.
Only about 3-4 lakhs people in Hindu society of India believe in cousin marriage who belong to some tribe of south India and slowly they are denouncing this practice because of NGOs , they are giving right guidance to these people . Please read history of these tribes , they were ruled by Muslim kings like Haider Ali and population of Muslims were very large so the people of both religion accepted each other’s culture and practices . That’s why Muslims of various parts of India started wearing sarees and chudi and they maunted these customs before the arrival of Wahhabism in India .
@@ShivamSharma-rr6tr o
Dude cousin marriage discouraged in hindusim.
@mali that is disgusting. R u in love with ur father?
@@ShivamSharma-rr6tr lord krishna and arjuna both have done cousin marriage. even the brahmins do cousin marriages in south india because no shastras prohibit from marrying uncle or aunt's son or daughter.
thank you muzammil!
i am a staunch opponent of cousin marriage and i've always held the same views you shared here. You did mention the study that reveals how societies with a high prevalence of cousin marriage are less likely to be democratic, for that i must thank you once more. That was beautiful!
It is really nice to see someone like you with this much wisdom at other side of border.
Keep educating people.
I was watching a Bollywood movie and in between I landed here and forgot the movie and watched your entire playlist .
God bless you my friend .
Pakistan-
1. Mongol is our father
2. Afghan is our father
3. Turkish is our father
4. Arabs is our father
5. Persian is our father
From 1947 onwards
6. British is our father
7. American is our father
After 2010
8. Chinese is our father
Literally Pakistani have many Papa🤣😝😂
Ironically they don't admit to the fact that their real fathers are us😂😂😂
@@VinodKumar-mr8xs this is our fault because we not care about that
@@Abhi-bf1yo yes damn true
It's our fault
We lost our son
😭😭
@@VinodKumar-mr8xs 🤣
😂😂😂
That's why Our Hindu marriage system is better and scientific!!
We never ever marry even if it's from same Gotra( same family tree )
That's y I luv my culture sooo much !!
Many Telugu and Odia people still marry in family.
@@charlieskh104 yaa many tribals also but it's not religiously legalised...
It's not Jayaj from religion angle...
Don't b twisted and equate fault in u with others
@@charlieskh104 kya baat kar rahe ho........mein khud odia hoon.......humara yahape cousin marriage allowed nahi...........
And Hindu marriage system has many things like caste,gotra,lineage etc etc
Then why didn't Hinduism banned 🚫 cremation as it's dangerous to environment.
As you yourself says Hinduism is so scientific
Meri shaadi apni cousin say honay wali thi magar phir unho nay mujhay reject kardiya.
Reject honay per kabhi itni khushi nahi hui 😂
Randomly found your channel, Pakistan needed people like u. Keep it up buddy. Love from India
Not just Pakistanis but the entire subcontinent needs more scientific and questioning mindset.
diverse the gene pool, healthier the offspring, Evolution parhao bachon ko aur tahqeeq se jo information milti he usko apni zindagi me istemal kro
Unfortunately there's no "tehqeeq" ever. Only foregone conclusions imposed on the younger generation
Excellent analysis of a difficult and challenging topic.
ohhhh Goodness !!! Finallyyyyyyyyy.... someone from Pakistan making sense. First of all god bless Syed brother. I am stunned, seriously.
Again thought provoking! Great ..
Jeetay raho
That's because he's a free and critical thinker. We can tell by those pictures behind him. He is an asset to your society.
@@sewaligoswami781 right on!
@ Afsheen Bloch
Madam l married to my khala daughter
Last month. We both don't want to marry. But family force us By telling all familydrama in every Family happenes. Are our babies will get defects. We not done any medical counselling. Plz plz..... Suggest any
@@pammuku3028 oh shit! Thats fucked up bro. How can your own families force you to marry your own cousin?
@@sewaligoswami781 everything is possible in pislam 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sar aapane Mujhe sakht Hiran kar kar diya Jab Mujhe Pata Chala ke democracy UN Logon Mein Nahin Hoti Jahan per is Kasam ka rivaj Hota Hai and sir you are the great man
In Hinduism it is already known 1000 of years ago.We never marry cousins,even in Hinduism there is 'Kundli' culture where we determine whether two persons had any blood relation in different way to prevent these kind of genetic problem.So,make it general never ever marry your cousins.
Oh that's why you match that and I always thought it was related to religious beliefs thanks for telling
@@zainabkhadim3509 kundli is more to do with astrology and not genetics.
But what indians films donot show ever abt arrange marriages is that we make a kind of resume for both boys and girls. It do not contain details of work but date of birth, parents , grand parents , aunts , uncle, first cousins , great grand father etc names. In short ,familial history as much as you know.
That is firstly sent with photos and sometime kundli . In arrange marriage you are first expected to check this dossier of resume pic and if important to u kundli.
If it is satisfactory then PPL go and meet families. Even there mostly PPL talk abt extended families and try to find out if they know someone from other family or somehow boy and girl are not closer genetically by 7 generations.
Ideally if you don't share grandparents upto 7 generations then it's ok if you don't believe in gotra or kundli.
If boy and girl show interest they go back to find abt boy/girls from their contacts and connections.
If everything is ok then marriage talks go ahead.
Stop promoting your stupid Hindu religion.
It's true for North lndia not for South lndia
@@whiteholeeducationcenter yeah...north Indian are Aryans when they (we) came then to preserve their culture from foreign culture Dravidians started this cousin marriage to keep them pure, nonetheless the risk of genetic defects is always there in that.
Syed sahib ! I'm happy to listen you at different topics analysis while worried to know about the poor condition of Pakistan's economy. I would like to listen you on the motivational aspects for the country.
Thank you Muzammil for pointing out this very important message. Espacially the connection between cousin merriages and (the development of) democracy. Keep up good work! Regards from The Hague, Netherands
This is something indians, especially south indians should care about. some times marriages between second cousin marriages happens here.but in my caste, we have a system called bazhi which opposes marriages like this. so no problem
Where in south India have you seen this
@@raja8167 It happens sometimes.. but very rare. Hindus do not marry cousin sisters, but some guys marry their elder sister's daughter(from uncle to husband). but nowadays it is decreasing and becoming taboo.
Yes I know unfortunate family who are suffering due to that one is North Indian Muslim and othe is South Indian . Just feel sorry for them.
@@raja8167 lord krishna and arjuna both have done cousin marriage. even the brahmins do cousin marriages in south india because no shastras prohibit from marrying uncle or aunt's son or daughter.
Absolutely you are on a RIGHT WAY 💪🇮🇳
Sir apka boht shukria k ap istra k social evils Py baat krty rehty hain wesy apki sense of humour 😄 Kamal ki h.
What about sunnah???
Islam allows cousin marriage
Pakistan is not a country it's a outcome of thought 😅😅😅
I have listened to many of your videos, and I am amazed to see the logic you put behind things. You can only develop as a human or as a society if you can recognise your faults.
The world need many people like you, unbiased yet not being "woke".
I always considered my cousins as brothers. Took stand against cousin marriage. May almighty bless me with the best, Ameen.
That's a very true and needed topic bro...Thanks for bringing it up and talking about it.
What about islamic science???
I am Indian Muslim and neuro surgeon. I have data base of patients.
90%+ Thalassemia kids are from Muslim families. In almost 100% of those I found a common thing that either their parents or their grand parents did cousin marrige.
So religion allows it doesn't mean that is duty or Farz. Its just a permission or Ijazat . That is given if families destroyed in calamity or wars , only this is the last option when there is no choice.
Some stupid Imams /Moulavis and Self proclaim Islamic Scholars misguides people.
For Allah's sake this dirty practice must be stopped by awareness.
Bold and outstanding analysis. Surah 33 verse 50 of quran prohibit cousins marriage
Another great analysis Sir thank you for the good work. Thalassemia is the biggest example of cousin marriages. I have worked in a pharmaceutical company which makes drugs for Thalassemia. And there I witnessed innocent children living miserable lives and their mothers just looking helplessly at their beautiful little kids.
Keep educating us. Shayad hum jahilon ko kuch samajh ajaye . 🙏🏻
A real jahil will never accept he is jahil Nahid bro so you are not jahil
Aap samajhdar lag rahe hai aap un jahilon ko samjhayen jo aisa kar rahe hain
@@garysushil ese reverse psychology kaam nai karta biradar 🤣
@@Vibe_Nomad mere bhai there is no psychology behind my statements it is true
@@travellervinay7902 muskil ye hai ki me kafir hu or kafir Jo bolenge wo uska ulta he Krna pasand krenge so much better if any muslim comes forward to give them teachings
Ibn Abi Mulaykah reported: Umar ibn al-Khattab, may Allah be pleased with him, said to the house of Al-Sa’ib, “You have become frail, so marry intelligent people unrelated to you.”
Al-Shafi’i said, “Whenever the people of a household do not allow their women to marry men outside of their line, there will be fools among their children.”
Source: al-Talkhīṣ al-Ḥabīr 1371
عَنْ ابْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ قَالَ قَالَ عُمَرُ بن الخطاب رضي الله عنه لِآلِ السَّائِبِ قَدْ أَضْوَأْتُمْ فَانْكِحُوا فِي النَّوَابِغِ يَعْنِي تَزَوَّجُوا الْغَرَائِبَ
قَالَ الشَّافِعِي أَيُّمَا أَهْلِ بَيْتٍ لَمْ تَخْرُجْ نِسَاؤُهُمْ إلَى رِجَالٍ غَيْرِهِمْ كَانَ فِي أَوْلَادِهِمْ حُمْقٌ
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stop associating religion with science. RELIGION IS NOT SCIENCE.
Kya bhasad 14 raha jahil
Pictures on the wall are OG's of science and rationalism... Kudos to you sir . Great piece
We have doctors in US and Canada advocating for cousin marriage and when confronted they use religion as a back up to argue. I think you should’ve covered something about religion and cousin marriage bc as you know we have educated and exposed people trying or already in cousin marriages bc their religion supports it.
Religion ne faraz to nahi kardi cousin marriage
@@fatimaurooj4691 lekin Quran mein likha hai karne ka
Islam na bhi continuously generation after generation family ma shadi sa manah kia ha....cousin marriges karo lekin lagatar nei ye RasoolulAllah SAW na kaha ha..
@@shifaazam9368 Rasool ne apni beti ki shadi apne cousin Ali se ki thi . Why you lying
@@lopu8000 ufff to hazrat fatima ke bache theek thay koi masla ni tha unko
I have a friend in Pakistan.
One of his cousin is in UK, and he has married 6 times already.
He marries a cousin, once her papers were done, he divorces her then that girl and him marries again bringing 2 ppl.
What purpose does it serve?
@@RituShah living off welfare money
I'm an indian hindu aur humare liye to rakhi bandhe hue muh bole bhai bhi bhai hote h bhale hi genetics share na kre but in india Muslims also don't do in that % counsin marriages as compared to Pakistan like I have many of my frnds who say pagl h cousin se shadi kon krega anyways Keep doing good work dude
Islam is a Time Machine in Reverse Gear. Any person who enters Islam takes that person to 625,CE.
Bro mind your language.
@@muhammadasiffarooqi7672 Okay. Takes that person to Stone Age.
@@R.kandaswamy
Ibn Abi Mulaykah reported: Umar ibn al-Khattab, may Allah be pleased with him, said to the house of Al-Sa’ib, “You have become frail, so marry intelligent people unrelated to you.”
Al-Shafi’i said, “Whenever the people of a household do not allow their women to marry men outside of their line, there will be fools among their children.”
Source: al-Talkhīṣ al-Ḥabīr 1371
عَنْ ابْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ قَالَ قَالَ عُمَرُ بن الخطاب رضي الله عنه لِآلِ السَّائِبِ قَدْ أَضْوَأْتُمْ فَانْكِحُوا فِي النَّوَابِغِ يَعْنِي تَزَوَّجُوا الْغَرَائِبَ
قَالَ الشَّافِعِي أَيُّمَا أَهْلِ بَيْتٍ لَمْ تَخْرُجْ نِسَاؤُهُمْ إلَى رِجَالٍ غَيْرِهِمْ كَانَ فِي أَوْلَادِهِمْ حُمْقٌ
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@@maria-wl4xt So Muslims know this fact for so many centuries but still carry on. The tragedy is people do not listen to and follow wise men in the community. They only listen to those rabble-rousers like Zakir Naik.
@Pakistani Bro If this is the lesson and outcome of reading Quran, then reading Quran must be made compulsory. Not just reading Quran but to understand what it says and questioning the logic of what is written.
Study Quran and Hadees and get liberated.
Excellent topic.. with medical & logical clarification, well done bro, god bless you.
this is called rational thinking great . this is the right way . great work.
Just came across your channel, love your honesty and humour 😀
Zabardast analysis by an excellent gentleman ❤️❤️
You're my hero Muzamil Bhai 😭
Cousin Se Shadi culture is changing and i hope it will be very fast....
Inshallah qw k mere 5 operation ho chuke hen
Nope.
Thanx for bring out the scientific discussion.
A beautiful and real assessment of Pakistans social issues
I once had a discussion with a Pakistani boy who was studying medical sciences & he was justifying marriage within same families. I even told him about inbreeding depression, cited example of haemophilia & queen Victoria's family yet he didn't buy my argument. It was disappointing to see a future doctor (then, ab tak to ban gya hoga doctor) talking like this. Doing something because of family pressure is one thing, not questioning or buying their stupid argument to justify this is stupid.
I am not throwing shade in any religion but the "gotra" thing that Hinduism has is something that is against inbreeding. But yes it has it's own social evils especially khaap panchayat
Most doctors in govt universities these days are book worms and come from conservative families who practice czn marriage. Also cousin marriage despite being a major health issue is not discussed much in pqk med community.
@@hassaankhanniazi5217 yep true
Dude the medicine system in Pakistan is doomed.
The folks who take an oath to "do no harm to others" are the first in taking out rallies ordering the deaths of others.
I can't take my country seriously any more.
👍Agreed
@werid person North Indian culture is similar to Pakistan. If culture is the culprit, then what explains almost 0% cousin marriages in North India.
People say if that is true then why people get genetic conditions in west? Answer is: Marrying outside your family minimizes the probability of passing a known bad genetic trait but it never makes it zero. Best we could do is to do genetic testing before marriage but still there could be spontaneous genetic mutations during inception. It's all about not do something which could cause pain down the road probably after 3-4 generations.
or just ban the practice , simple as that
Genetic diseases are NOT more in the west. They are DETECTED BETTER than in our societies.
Good to see some sane & intellectual voice from Pakistan. 👍
as an indian you have my respect man! your way better than some stupid new anchors and politican.
Bhai dhyan rakhna ye sab bate tumhare gadh me karna jaan ka khatra la sakta h. Mai bhagwan se prarthna karta hu k tum sakushal raho. I am proud k aaj bhi vaha par aap jaise log h. All the best for future. 🙏🙏
Syed's are top of the list in marrying cousins and in family
I am a Syed and yes unfortunately, this is the truth.
I hate how we have developed this senseless caste system with feelings of superiority over one another.
True that
Sir please continue these videos. Source of enlightenment
Bro here in India we Can't even think of marrying our cousin. We love them as our sisters. In our culture their are many things that we look before marriage.
@Nature Lover karte honge par muslim families hi....kyuki Hindus me gotra dekha jata hai...
@Nature Lover who said you that lord Krishna married his cousin. Bro aankh band karke tir mat maaro. Aur india me 1000 saal se jada Hindus aur muslims sath rahe hai to culture mingle jaroor hua hai dono me. Kuchh jagah pe hota hoga par maine apni life me kahi nahi dekha hai aur suna bhi hai.
@Nature Lover bro mitravinda was not Krishna's cousin. It is mentioned that mitravinda was vasudevs sister's daughter but she was not his bloodline. Bro the fact is pretty simple we don't even marry in our mothers district or locality forget about village. And don't use propaganda used by maulans to escape the nonsense of mohammadins.
@Nature Lover Jaahil who told you Hinduism isn't a Religion. Then what are Vedas, Upanishads, Puran, Ramayana etc. Atleast study your own religion before speaking such things
Only in ln North lndia
South lndian openly marry their cousins and eat beef
More and more people needed like you in Pakistan... Outstanding video ..I actually discussed about this issue with my friends few years back..
Great work sir ,go ahead for changing marriages system .every body support you sir
پاکستانی کرسچن اس روایات کو نہیں مانتے ۔ نہ فرقہ نہ زات پات پر یقین کرتے ہیں ۔
Bohat achi baat hai, hamain hmaarey aisey he bhaiyon behno pr fakhr hai :)
@werid person badi lambi dastaan hai, mohtram.
Hmaarey haan yeh sb Zia ki dain hai umeed hai k hum log hmaari is he zindagi m is aag ko bujhta dekh sken.
@werid person 😂 don't u know subcontinent muslims are most hard bent muslims u can find it around the world
I was amazed hear about cousin marriage in Pakistan where as in India we even can't marry girl from our same gotra(having same ancestor). Hats off dude for giving this kind of information. Pakistan needs people like you.
Krishna na cousin sa shadi ke the 😂
Thumbs up for you sir....👍
The quality of substanting your point with logical facts and interesting researches is unprecedented.💯💞
First cousin wedding 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮 is disgusting
Krishna na cousin sa shadi ke the 😂
Sir you are my real friend...
Bht bht sikhna ko mil rha hai... Allah AP ko hamesha salamat rakhaihn...
Biggest problem in Pakistan is cultural influence which is so complex that a girl and boy cannot choose, and if they choose then no acceptability and above all caste system plus society taboo, and parent pressure forced every one into to cousine marraige
In Cyprus they use to have cousin marriages, but then they realised they had higher instances of Thallassaemia! So they embarked on a health promotion, educating people to firstly come and check if they carried this gene, and also asked people not to marry cousins! this was how they finally got rid over generation this genetic disease! There are many reasons not to marry cousins especially first cousins!
Marrying your first cousin is like marrying your own sibling, it's disgusting .
listening this from a muslim is really interesting
No it's not.
Very nice message 👌🏾 👍🏽 well done 👏 ✔ 👍🏽 😀
Hello Sir Namesty ! Great You Speak True only True ! Thanks to Speaking
Contemporary HASSAN NISAR of Pakistan..!!
True
Much more than that....
Way more logical,Unbiased and educated than him..
@@ballerstalin5346, I stand corrected.. he is much much better.
@@mehboobyaqoob473 I stand corrected.. he is much much better.
Cousin marriage is not a threat
Repeative cousin marriage is a threat
Yes correct
No it can be threat in any form.
WRONG.
It has been repeated so much in Pakistan for centuries that it should stop all together to avoid the issues
Correct. One generation is not much risk but generation after generation is disasterous. Consult a doctor before proceeding in such cases.
Honestly I never heard about this before but the way you described it made me think about it and research on it and here what I found .
(Having a baby with a first cousin more than doubles the risk of congenital problems such as heart and lung defects, cleft palettes and extra fingers, according to the largest study of its kind in the UK.)
And here is what I also Found.
(The vast majority of children of first cousins are healthy and do not have problems due to their parents' relatedness. It is important to keep in mind that even for an unrelated couple, there is an approximately 2-3% chance that their child is born with a birth defect, genetic syndrome, or disability)
Now even if it's not true
Is it necessary to take that risk on you baby's Life ??
I don't think so and there is also another problem
Agar apas me na bani to Apne parents ki b apas me kharab ho jati hai to Behtar hai bahir rishta kar lo
Or is bat ki guarantee me deta hu k Apke bachhe zebra NAHI ho ge na hi bandar 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
Islam forbids cousin marriage.It strictly forbids marriage betwneen cousin,sister and mother.
Shut up you ignoarant fool. If it was forbidden than why would Rasool Allah (SAW) married his beloved daughter to his cousin? I don't agree with Syed Muzammil on this point.
Krishna na cousin sa shadi ke the 😂
I really like mind and concept of syed muzammil
If you might get Heart Disease at 55 years but in case of Cousin Marriage it might happen at 45 years
Finally ek Pakistani jiske paas dimag h.
Real eye opener.
Thanks sir. Good to know the scientific idea.
Perfectly Presented...Rationales done...👏👏👏
In Hinduism we see 36 characters(gun),naadi,gotra,kul within the same caste while marrying...in this naadi concept is related Rh factor of modern science
Rh factor? You mean blood group positive Hain ya negative? Usse kya hota hai? Aur wo chexk kaise karte the naadi me?
@@cleanmarch no..brother u can google this Rh factor concept it's related life and death of anewly born baby...and then r
Analyse about naadi system of your religious belief of naadi concept..u will get to know all
@@akashshukla5894 okay. Checking... Let you knkw once i do find..
Same gotra marriage is not allowed. No gun milan happens
NO CAST
Only HINDU 🚩🙏