Story #1: George's life basically started to fall apart when his punching bag was no longer there to be the recipient of his abuse. Mommy treated him like he was made out of gold, but when the adult world hit him, he learned that he was just a rock.
so the brother saying he change but got annoyed that op walked away from him the first time and called her a "little bitch" yyaaah sure buddy you def change and deserve forgiveness
"I wish I had been there to see the look on my mother's face when the police informed her that they couldn't retrieve me from my marital home" damn yes op!
story 2: even if that chick thought he was just blackout drunk, that doesn't make it any better. anyone who's that drunk can't properly consent. the fact that even he thought it was cheating w/o info is still sad
@@Chubbasaurus I see that kind of thing on reddit pretty often. When a man is the victim and a woman is the perpetrator, reddit leans towards blaming the guy
that's is sadly the way is it now a days no matter how drunk or drugged out of your mind you are as a man your consent doesn't matter but if a lady regrets it later on in life its rape...
Renember... no one is entitled to forgivenes and no one is obligated to forgive. George can go rot cause he has not changed at all and their is zero benifits of OP letting him back into her life.
S2 i know if it was a girl talking about getting blackout drunk and waking up in bed with an unknown woman everyone would be screaming rape but its just cheating cause he's a guy he still got taken advantage of no matter his gender
Reddit is like that. Always seems to lean towards "woman was right, man was wrong" this was literally r*pe. You can't consent when blackout drunk. Doesn't matter if a man or a woman. But to reddit, a man can always consent, even when drugged and r*ped. They think it's still consent. I swear if that woman had posted this story, they would be telling her she did nothing wrong and he probably enjoyed it
Story 1: would have juat responded with a picture of the scars , and maybe words about “until all the scars are gone, there’s no forgiveness “ Of course, after hearing about how George is raising his daughter to be a psychopathic little AH like he is, I might have included that too.
Story 1: OP should have just forward with the email with the list of things that George did to her as a child and pictures of at least the physical scar to George’s wife, and say this is the man you allow around your daughter.
To the friends in story 2 who are divided on if it’s wrong or not should tell them how about they get drugged the same way in a random day whenever another person wants and you’re not expecting it while he’s trying to get you to break up with your gf 😂 what kind of lunatic does this?
This is why parentification in the United States was made a criminal act. Your 18 and can leave there are women's shelters that will help you both with a place to live and the legal aspects of having your mother put in prison for a while. As for using your kids credit score that is a felony and she will be put away.
story 2 : makes me just sad... bc if he were a woman no one would have called it cheating... and see it for what it was directly.. but bc he is a men people only think abot he is the a-hole that cheated and being mad at him bc he cryed telling it to his girlfriend .. Heart breaking
When I was younger, I never put myself into the situation where someone could slip me anything in a drink and I did not get so drunk while out that I lost control of myself. The only time I did was when I was with my now husband because he would stay sober enough to look after me. He was extremely vigilant about other men around me. Protective. If I got too intoxicated he would pick me up and carry me to the car and take me home and put me to bed. I had no worries with him. Anyway I would only drink when out with other friends to the point that I felt tipsy because that’s the fun part anyway. Everything else is just spiral downward into barfing 😂. Once I hit the tipsy/feeling good and fun stage, I’d switch to a soda or whatever non alcoholic until I leveled out again. Then I could have one more drink and get tipsy again. That worked so well for me. I kept my wits about me because there was always some creeper around waiting on one person to become too drunk to stop his/her advances. Never fails, there always is one shady dude or chick in a group looking to score for the night. And I would always carry my drinks with me, not set them down, and not let anyone else hold them. My chosen father had a niece get roofied at a club with friends and her friends had to drag her out of the club and take her to the hospital. They tested her, and yep-drugged.
S2 comments accusing her of cheating bc she stayed calm is crazy/ bots or incels. They would judge her for going off on him but she was calm and still judged . SMH i hope they end up alone.
Wow what's with Josh's being garbage people, i had a similar situation with a friend after high school named Josh. He wanted to help get me laid and I told him no I wasn't cool with the woman he wanted me to hook up with, he said cool then later dragged my blackout butt into her room. Didn't report the next day because I had no memory of what happened the previous day, it didn't come back until weeks later.
Yes if the dead person asks for one. The second part I don't think is the case. If you're in the will, you're in the will. The writer of the will can make some demands, like if you don't attend the reading, you don't get anything. But some courts, I think, can overrule truly outrageous demands. A good attorney should guide a client away from being a dick but since they pay the attorney, only so much they can do.
@@TerriDionne he still called her a B, because she walked away. Doesn’t sound like remorse. People can change but that doesn’t mean that you owe them forgiveness or that you have to welcome them back in your life
2sc story people needs to stop blaming alcohol for their cheating no I really don’t believe you’re story because a lots of people say they been d*ugged to escape consequences doormat gf
Op in the first story is such a push over, she basically ran from any real confrontation, wheather it was her mother or her brother or her father, she just ran and ignored her family problems
I mean, I did the same thing. Left in the middle of the night with no warning to avoid confrontation. It's not cowardice, it's a self-preservation tactic. People like that will say and do anything to control you. My narcissistic Mother used to routinely k*ll my pets and put my Dad in jail once so that I had nowhere to go but her house. Showed up at my high school so often that they banned her from it. Tried to take me off of life support once in 2020. You can't reason with somebody like that. Confronting them is based on the idea that they're rational and willing to listen to your viewpoint and change for the better. Some people aren't like that. I also ran away in the middle of the night. You don't really understand this mindset until you're in one of these situations yourself. (By the way, this happened in 2001 and she's still borderline stalking me lol. WE DON'T EVEN LIVE IN THE SAME CITY ANYMORE. 😂)
Story 1 she should tell the brother "You want forgiveness get religion" Story 2 the best thing op can do for his gf is break up with her after giving her the most sincere apology. Take accountability for what he did and never comtact her again, wish her to be happy with a man who is faithful to her unlike op
Story #1: George's life basically started to fall apart when his punching bag was no longer there to be the recipient of his abuse. Mommy treated him like he was made out of gold, but when the adult world hit him, he learned that he was just a rock.
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Not even a rock, a weak ass grain of sand.
Bro needs to come up with an excuse for being a crap dad, tried to blame sister for his own failures.
so the brother saying he change but got annoyed that op walked away from him the first time and called her a "little bitch" yyaaah sure buddy you def change and deserve forgiveness
George was just thinking about the Will. He wanted to know what OP was getting. He was probably planning on asking her to give her portion to him.
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People like George generally don't change.
"I wish I had been there to see the look on my mother's face when the police informed her that they couldn't retrieve me from my marital home" damn yes op!
story 2: even if that chick thought he was just blackout drunk, that doesn't make it any better. anyone who's that drunk can't properly consent. the fact that even he thought it was cheating w/o info is still sad
The fact that so many people in the comments gave him a hard time about "cheating" when he clearly stated he blacked out was absolutely rancid, too.
exactly
@@Chubbasaurus I see that kind of thing on reddit pretty often. When a man is the victim and a woman is the perpetrator, reddit leans towards blaming the guy
that's is sadly the way is it now a days no matter how drunk or drugged out of your mind you are as a man your consent doesn't matter but if a lady regrets it later on in life its rape...
It was rape, but reddit doesn't care if men are raped.
Golden brother definitely fucked up and wants the op to forgive and vouch for him. Cause he definitely did something
I think it has something to do with his wife. I wonder if George spun a web about how OP was the abusive one?
@@nicksuazo4377I was thinking that too. Abusive narcissists always try to play the victim.
Aaaand this is why we don't have s3x with people "too drunk." Or drunk at all. That woman is still a r------.
What ab of both of tyem are drunk and they just decide to do it?
The thing is he wasn’t drunk the guy literally blacked out
@@I_Lov3_KidsEh that's a hard one to answer
Renember... no one is entitled to forgivenes and no one is obligated to forgive.
George can go rot cause he has not changed at all and their is zero benifits of OP letting him back into her life.
S2 i know if it was a girl talking about getting blackout drunk and waking up in bed with an unknown woman everyone would be screaming rape but its just cheating cause he's a guy he still got taken advantage of no matter his gender
Reddit is like that. Always seems to lean towards "woman was right, man was wrong" this was literally r*pe. You can't consent when blackout drunk. Doesn't matter if a man or a woman. But to reddit, a man can always consent, even when drugged and r*ped. They think it's still consent. I swear if that woman had posted this story, they would be telling her she did nothing wrong and he probably enjoyed it
Story 1: That comment about OP being a little b-word just shows that George hasn't changed a bit.
When someone shows their true colours, believe them
Story 1: would have juat responded with a picture of the scars , and maybe words about “until all the scars are gone, there’s no forgiveness “
Of course, after hearing about how George is raising his daughter to be a psychopathic little AH like he is, I might have included that too.
It is so refreshing to have one partner. Why do people feel that one should be sleeping around or that they have missed something?
Human nature
@@bigbleeg Human nature is not to sleep around! Human have choices!
Forgiveness is for yourself, not the other person.
Story 2 : Man:" i was assaulted without consent"
Reedit :" How can i make this his fault..
Story 1: OP should have just forward with the email with the list of things that George did to her as a child and pictures of at least the physical scar to George’s wife, and say this is the man you allow around your daughter.
To the friends in story 2 who are divided on if it’s wrong or not should tell them how about they get drugged the same way in a random day whenever another person wants and you’re not expecting it while he’s trying to get you to break up with your gf 😂 what kind of lunatic does this?
This is why parentification in the United States was made a criminal act. Your 18 and can leave there are women's shelters that will help you both with a place to live and the legal aspects of having your mother put in prison for a while. As for using your kids credit score that is a felony and she will be put away.
Man I like this channel so much
When they read stories with satisfying endings, yes. Most of the time it's rage bait.
ok the second story the comments disgust me, like people for the fucks sake he was raped, "i hope she plans her escape plan" FROM FUCKING WHAT
story 2 : makes me just sad... bc if he were a woman no one would have called it cheating... and see it for what it was directly.. but bc he is a men people only think abot he is the a-hole that cheated and being mad at him bc he cryed telling it to his girlfriend .. Heart breaking
OP KEEP AWAY FROM
GEORGE + HIS
FAMILY
When I was younger, I never put myself into the situation where someone could slip me anything in a drink and I did not get so drunk while out that I lost control of myself. The only time I did was when I was with my now husband because he would stay sober enough to look after me. He was extremely vigilant about other men around me. Protective. If I got too intoxicated he would pick me up and carry me to the car and take me home and put me to bed. I had no worries with him. Anyway I would only drink when out with other friends to the point that I felt tipsy because that’s the fun part anyway. Everything else is just spiral downward into barfing 😂. Once I hit the tipsy/feeling good and fun stage, I’d switch to a soda or whatever non alcoholic until I leveled out again. Then I could have one more drink and get tipsy again. That worked so well for me. I kept my wits about me because there was always some creeper around waiting on one person to become too drunk to stop his/her advances. Never fails, there always is one shady dude or chick in a group looking to score for the night. And I would always carry my drinks with me, not set them down, and not let anyone else hold them. My chosen father had a niece get roofied at a club with friends and her friends had to drag her out of the club and take her to the hospital. They tested her, and yep-drugged.
You can forgive for your own sanity, but you don't have to trust him.
S2 comments accusing her of cheating bc she stayed calm is crazy/ bots or incels. They would judge her for going off on him but she was calm and still judged . SMH i hope they end up alone.
Forgive him for your own sanity, but you don't have to trust him and you can still be nc.
Didn't you hear clearly the second story ?
Story 1: The guilt I caused... Wait, what? The guilt *I* caused? No, it's the guilt *HE* caused... And deserved!
Brother: please forgive me for almost killing you multiple times.
Father and mother were failures
...Who is being charged, exactly? The rapist who admitted it to him?!
The second story was op straight up getting drinks forced upon him then raped by a stranger
Wow what's with Josh's being garbage people, i had a similar situation with a friend after high school named Josh. He wanted to help get me laid and I told him no I wasn't cool with the woman he wanted me to hook up with, he said cool then later dragged my blackout butt into her room. Didn't report the next day because I had no memory of what happened the previous day, it didn't come back until weeks later.
More unfinished stories without adequate updates😑
Is will reading even a thing? And if you do not attend them suddenly you forfit everything that you would get?
Yes if the dead person asks for one. The second part I don't think is the case. If you're in the will, you're in the will. The writer of the will can make some demands, like if you don't attend the reading, you don't get anything. But some courts, I think, can overrule truly outrageous demands. A good attorney should guide a client away from being a dick but since they pay the attorney, only so much they can do.
It’s been 23 years though. That’s crazy to not even give him the chance
I wouldn’t. He assaulted her and pushed her into a glass when he was 18
@@Eva-wo1um fair, but people grow change and learn from their actions
@@TerriDionne he still called her a B, because she walked away. Doesn’t sound like remorse. People can change but that doesn’t mean that you owe them forgiveness or that you have to welcome them back in your life
2sc story people needs to stop blaming alcohol for their cheating no I really don’t believe you’re story because a lots of people say they been d*ugged to escape consequences doormat gf
Clear read part freind admitting freind about drugging him .
Op in the first story is such a push over, she basically ran from any real confrontation, wheather it was her mother or her brother or her father, she just ran and ignored her family problems
I mean, I did the same thing. Left in the middle of the night with no warning to avoid confrontation. It's not cowardice, it's a self-preservation tactic. People like that will say and do anything to control you. My narcissistic Mother used to routinely k*ll my pets and put my Dad in jail once so that I had nowhere to go but her house. Showed up at my high school so often that they banned her from it. Tried to take me off of life support once in 2020. You can't reason with somebody like that.
Confronting them is based on the idea that they're rational and willing to listen to your viewpoint and change for the better. Some people aren't like that.
I also ran away in the middle of the night. You don't really understand this mindset until you're in one of these situations yourself.
(By the way, this happened in 2001 and she's still borderline stalking me lol. WE DON'T EVEN LIVE IN THE SAME CITY ANYMORE. 😂)
Story 1 she should tell the brother
"You want forgiveness get religion"
Story 2 the best thing op can do for his gf is break up with her after giving her the most sincere apology. Take accountability for what he did and never comtact her again, wish her to be happy with a man who is faithful to her unlike op
did yo read the story?? dude got raped he didn't cheat. bro was drugged and rape, he couldn't consent to it.
are you okay brother? OP was SA'd he was never unfaithful
It's always a man's fault ha
Guys, give the guy a break, men dont get raped (sarcasm).
Op was fucking drugged and sexually assaulted
Third one was so wholesome ngl. All tye comments helping her escape and guiding her. Just so wholesome and sweet
“you get black out drunk, you cheat” how do you type that sentence and not realize WHAT TF HAPPENED?!?!