I feel sorry for kids whose parents tell them they are indigo babies. That's a person born to change the world for the good. Seems like a hell of a lot of pressure in a child
@@naturebehindglass6512It’s some esoteric thing, like the child’s aura is indigo or something. The gist is that they’re meant to be very special people who change the world. I suggest looking it up to read more on it, because I forgot anything more than that explanation I gave.
It’s typically a term used by parents of often hyperlexic autistic kids, who can’t admit their kid might be disabled because in the moment their actions seem beneficial to the parent. (Hyperlexia is when a child can speak or read far beyond the level for their age, which is a symptom of autism but contradicts people’s perception of autism as a developmental disability.)
I was adopted from a woman like nm. My sister born to a later marriage suffered the worst of her. I love the op's shiney backbone. Thats really all you can do.
To be honest so many South African parents are like this or worse. There are many cultures and races here but the abuse of children transcends that. My sister and I are in similar situations with our step mother. Majority of us who had such families are all trying to immigrate to cut contact through the distance of an ocean
O M G...what the FUCK??? OP's poor FAMILY!!!! Too much guilt going on, there needs to be no contact..I wish they would just leave. The sister isn't doing herself any favours, and OP needs to get away for her own sanity.
She's a psycho. Narcissists won't take responsibility or accountability for their own actions. You wanna see REAL gaslighting? Confront them. There was a girl who recorded her narcissistic bf when he was saying stuff Later, when he contradicted himself, she pulled out the recording and confronted him. He shut his mouth but he was so upset. I think he may have hit her and then spread rumors about her because he couldn't blame her anymore
I hate my name for the same reason. Even the kids at school created a disease named after me and pretend vaccinations. My name is now actually Misery and it will be legal after I finish closing on my new house. My friends and other people who actually liked me shortened my real name to Ree, and then people just tend to call me Ms.Ree to be sassy. Then it evolved because people heard the pun when they said it out loud and it became Misery. Despite everything that has happened to me, I’m a very joyful person and the name came about with love and humor so I like that I am now named ironically.
She sounds like my female friends mom. Shorty just doesn't even bother anymore because her mom will just run and get her son's to talk to her and play the victim. These Boomer mothers are ridiculous lol
S1 - 1) I am amazed that OP can remember being 3. My oldest memories are of being 5. (Though, I remember having a dream when I was 5, and that dream was set in the house we lived in when I was 2. As an adult, I got to return to that house [When we moved, instead of selling it, we rented it out.] The actual layout of the house was nothing like what I’d remembered of that dream.) 2) Dude. South Africa be crazy. I know almost nothing about it, but I remember seeing a commercial flame thrower, for your car. The use case assumed you’re in your shiny new BMW (white people only), driving through the poorer, more criminal part of town. Somebody tries to kidnap you (I assume it’s a black person, though the commercial has a crash test dummy.), leading him to approach via one of the front door windows. You should already have closed the windows and lock the door. And once you accept that you might actually get shot, you hit the button. Below each of the front doors is a small nozzle, pointed up so that anyone standing by the door (such as the kidnapper). Nozzle sprays highly flammable whatever, and lights, probably third degree burns, etc. The downside is that there’s one button, so while you’re burning someone next to the passenger door, you also fireball the car next to the driver side door. Pretty sure installing this voids all your warrantees with BMW. 3) My father used to tell me the story that he didn’t want kids, but after four years he finally caved to mom’s demand for kids. He had a dog. Not just once… he told this story TO ME many times. It finally dawned on me that it could be summarized as “I never wanted you.”
Fr like, they can cut off the parts of the beginning of the posts Its understandable of reddit OP had to repeat itself because some people are new to the saga and invested in it
These damn stories. Let's all play a drinking game. Have a shot everytime one of these stories has a "narcissist" in it. Considering how often people throw that word around it comes across that being a narcissist is as common as not.
I feel sorry for kids whose parents tell them they are indigo babies. That's a person born to change the world for the good. Seems like a hell of a lot of pressure in a child
Indigo babies? I remember hearing that term from the TV show THE DOCTORS.
German here, what is an indigo baby?
Born blue in the face because something went wrong and they lacked oxygen?
@@naturebehindglass6512It’s some esoteric thing, like the child’s aura is indigo or something. The gist is that they’re meant to be very special people who change the world. I suggest looking it up to read more on it, because I forgot anything more than that explanation I gave.
@@thedarknessofnanaesoteric shit, I know enough internet so I will stay away from that... Thanks for the information
It’s typically a term used by parents of often hyperlexic autistic kids, who can’t admit their kid might be disabled because in the moment their actions seem beneficial to the parent. (Hyperlexia is when a child can speak or read far beyond the level for their age, which is a symptom of autism but contradicts people’s perception of autism as a developmental disability.)
I was adopted from a woman like nm.
My sister born to a later marriage suffered the worst of her.
I love the op's shiney backbone. Thats really all you can do.
To be honest so many South African parents are like this or worse. There are many cultures and races here but the abuse of children transcends that. My sister and I are in similar situations with our step mother. Majority of us who had such families are all trying to immigrate to cut contact through the distance of an ocean
fr! as soon as she said african winter…it all made sense.
O M G...what the FUCK??? OP's poor FAMILY!!!! Too much guilt going on, there needs to be no contact..I wish they would just leave. The sister isn't doing herself any favours, and OP needs to get away for her own sanity.
OP hasn’t posted in 4 years…. Hope their life has gotten better…
OP started a new user account - TheFreakingFatUnicorn and the story continues there.
@@kmxbmx i can’t find that user
I love a saga but the level of gaslighting this woman got was nus.
She's a psycho.
Narcissists won't take responsibility or accountability for their own actions.
You wanna see REAL gaslighting?
Confront them.
There was a girl who recorded her narcissistic bf when he was saying stuff
Later, when he contradicted himself, she pulled out the recording and confronted him.
He shut his mouth but he was so upset. I think he may have hit her and then spread rumors about her because he couldn't blame her anymore
I hate my name for the same reason. Even the kids at school created a disease named after me and pretend vaccinations. My name is now actually Misery and it will be legal after I finish closing on my new house. My friends and other people who actually liked me shortened my real name to Ree, and then people just tend to call me Ms.Ree to be sassy. Then it evolved because people heard the pun when they said it out loud and it became Misery. Despite everything that has happened to me, I’m a very joyful person and the name came about with love and humor so I like that I am now named ironically.
I would love to change my name
You should start uploaded more hour-long videos i actually really like them
She sounds like my female friends mom. Shorty just doesn't even bother anymore because her mom will just run and get her son's to talk to her and play the victim. These Boomer mothers are ridiculous lol
At this point i would just emigrate
Think theyre trying to but emigrating is a shit ton hard than people think.
"You should just emigrate" one of those easier said than done things.
Sounds like NMN has variants of Munchausen
The poor children have been terrible treated 😢 hopefully op has been far from these toxicity nowadays and lives happily
S1 - 1) I am amazed that OP can remember being 3. My oldest memories are of being 5. (Though, I remember having a dream when I was 5, and that dream was set in the house we lived in when I was 2. As an adult, I got to return to that house [When we moved, instead of selling it, we rented it out.] The actual layout of the house was nothing like what I’d remembered of that dream.)
2) Dude. South Africa be crazy. I know almost nothing about it, but I remember seeing a commercial flame thrower, for your car. The use case assumed you’re in your shiny new BMW (white people only), driving through the poorer, more criminal part of town. Somebody tries to kidnap you (I assume it’s a black person, though the commercial has a crash test dummy.), leading him to approach via one of the front door windows. You should already have closed the windows and lock the door. And once you accept that you might actually get shot, you hit the button. Below each of the front doors is a small nozzle, pointed up so that anyone standing by the door (such as the kidnapper). Nozzle sprays highly flammable whatever, and lights, probably third degree burns, etc. The downside is that there’s one button, so while you’re burning someone next to the passenger door, you also fireball the car next to the driver side door. Pretty sure installing this voids all your warrantees with BMW.
3) My father used to tell me the story that he didn’t want kids, but after four years he finally caved to mom’s demand for kids. He had a dog. Not just once… he told this story TO ME many times. It finally dawned on me that it could be summarized as “I never wanted you.”
best NC with a lot of contact🤦♀️
Hilarious but to the point
You can't grate mozzarella cheese.
Please stop repeating the same exact fucking sentence from every story. WE KNOW ITS THE SAME GOD DAMN SERIES.
Fr like, they can cut off the parts of the beginning of the posts
Its understandable of reddit OP had to repeat itself because some people are new to the saga and invested in it
These damn stories. Let's all play a drinking game. Have a shot everytime one of these stories has a "narcissist" in it.
Considering how often people throw that word around it comes across that being a narcissist is as common as not.
Take a drink anytime therapy/therapist is mentioned.
These stories are coming out of the narcissist parents subreddits, so obviously the word narcissist is going to be thrown around a lot.
Even if true narcissism is one in a million, mathematically speaking there are 8000 narcissists walking amongst regular folk.
Wait so she's Afrikana?
Yes. At least on her mother's side. I assume her father is, too, but she didnt state his race, so she may be mixed.
@@azhrayharris8only white boys were conscripted to fight in places like Angola so either Afrikaans or English
😢
This shit is way to long. OP just keeps bloviating over and over.
I couldn't watch everything. Op is just yapping and making dumb decisions
@@miqueiasqueiroz8796I’m like an hour in, and OP is so LC with her mom that it’s NC in all but name.
It's a narration of a Reddit thread, this kind of content is appreciated there
This is probably way longer than it should be due to OP being the president of Yappica.
Woòw
First, third like
God op needs to grow a spine, like ffs, how much is her mom/family gonna have to do before she cuts them off or tries to even the scales.
Second is the new first ❤