Walking away is a strong sign of self respect and self love. It shows that you are following your purpose in life and that you are putting yourself first over any woman in this world
DONT ever forgive or accept a woman back into your life after you find out she's been with another man. She had nooooo problems spreading her legs for another guy. He can keep her. You would be disrespecting yourself as man to settle for that. Trust me you can ALWAYS find a hotter girlfriend.
You're Absolutely right Man! Your words are true!! If she didn't had no problem spreading her legs for another man, she can do that with any other man, it shows what character she belongs, Low standard woman do that Shit!! All this time we were with Low standard woman not Great one!!
There are three things a woman says that indicate it's over between you and her; 1. we have to talk, 2. It's not you, it's me; and 3. we can still be friends.
The friendship is over when she sticks me in the friend zone. What I tell her is this "give me a call when you change your mind AND IF I'M STILL AVAILABLE" speech.
That's the painful part you can feel her slowly pulling away from you after meeting another guy, and all those times you've been there for her just got thrown away like that.. People say it's ain't normal but it took me almost 2 years to finally move on. I'm happy now and hoping she is too.
my case, i have a girl that seems to be lining me up, but shes still with her ex but constantly talking to me. he cheated on her so many times, and left her alone with their kid. i told her this i felt like i was a backup plan.
@@albertomontano1225 that was 3 years ago lol, ive been a mgtow monk for almost 2 years now ;) my blue pilled ass got me in some deep pain, but that girl im talking about eventually went back to that bad boy cheater lol he messaged me this year, saying they doing good and they worked things out. and my response was like "thats awesome glad to hear but why you telling me? oh ya i remember now i convinced ya to stop fucking around and be there for your kid" she tried to line me up as a fall back guy (friend zone type crap) i told her straight up what i thought lol
@@LordSos91 Thank God you didn’t do it. And her going back to the Ex is totally typical. It’s even even worse situation to get involved in when the child’s father is still in the picture and the woman clearly still has feelings for him
why would this guy would want that girl again?i mean she is with another a guy,she was dating with this other guy while he was sick,at the worst peek he could be.go find another girl,that loves you and respects you a thousand times more,you deserve it
It's simple. If we guys rly fall in love we don't care about shit right? It's hard enough to leave someone you love but if you're also attached? Phew that shit stinks! So I'd say attachment makes it hard to move on.
How ridiculous is this entire paradigm! Look at all the ridiculous things we go through just to keep the interest of these creatures that couldn't care less about us. They lose interest and respect for you when you express your feelings for them??? They lose interest and respect for you when you take time to yourself to heal your wounds??? Women don't care about or love men at all yet men keep on loving and sacrificing for them. We have to stop loving them and start loving our selves.
Let's all be honest, we are all here for selfish reasons, we want to try and manipulate another person, sometimes using mindgames, so they stay with us and they, the women, do not want that, but can't help it. For real, let's all find women who actually want a relationship with us and are willing to accept that things will not be all the times perfect. At the end of the day a relationship is a decision by two people, not one made one person and the other needs to be mindfucked so she doesn't leave. All these videos are about what we as men can do to make them always be head over heels with us, because we already are with them, but that is not willingness on their part so what I am saying here is that the moment we start watching these videos and thinking of ways to reatract her we are already putting her on a pedestal.
@@sebsebseb1905 It's a good point what you say about thinking of ways to reattract her as already putting her on a pedestal. On the other side of it, like CW always says, most guys come here to get an ex back and its their first exposure to the truth about relationships. So when a guy has that success of getting their ex back, those are some valuable real time lessons to learn that will carry over into the next hang out, have fun, hook up scenario. Right, so the guy will get to see on that second go around all the things that he can do better to keep her attracted. He will also see how he probably needs to up his standards anyways, which will cause him to work on himself more. It;s a virtuous cycle that starts with getting that first big WIN, reattracting that hot piece of ass that had you googling "how to get an ex back" and landing here in the first place.
Walking away and never looking back is the best revenge. When you are newly single do not commit to any woman too soon because your time should be consumed for self-improvement, friends, and family. Any woman who is sincerely interested would make the effort to have time for you, not the other way around.
I've lost many women in my battle with Lyme disease. They always assume there is something wrong with them or my attraction to them when I am just suffering immensely. It's been hell. Going through nasty breakups has made it even more difficult to heal. Either way, I have to keep moving and attacking my purpose. Thanks for the inspiration coach.
I feel bad for you guys. I being a female, do not consent with instant rebounds. That's never okay. I've always been the loyal one that's stayed single for months after a relationship, because I genuinely cared for them.
My ex did this to me n I will admit it I was going through a rough patch in my life I begged her to change her mind bt she had none of it I said enough is enough I went back to sch finished sch took new hobbies made new friends 17 months later I met a woman who gives a shit abt me who checks upon me Eventually the ex came back bt I didn't take her back the other dude can have her
Sometimes it's tough to recognize the ugly truth of a dying unrecoverable relationship -but this video helps to make one recognize the signs -before it's too late.
I jus wanted to say man, your a lifesaver idk how I woulda got thru several breakups without ur help Corey your the man! Keep up the awesome entertaining videos!
My girlfriend chose another man over me I did everything for her I was always there to help her just to show her how much I loved her and she left me for someone else I feel so bad I don't ever want to talk or date again I gave all I had to someone and they walked away from me like I'm nothing
Same thing happen to me bro. I gave her all the love and attention in the world. But still that wasn't enough. 2 months on how are you feeling? Have you gotten over her?
easier said than done you guys. especially if you really liked her . it just doesn't go away. idk this guys who situation. maybe you over pursued. maybe not. but shit like that fuckin stings
Cel Asegamay im sorry but i am going thru the same thing it really hurts and the kind of poeple we are on just to big of a heart i don't understand how poeple can be so cruel what happened .with real love and working in a relationship together this world sucks but I'ma single now:(
I would have stayed and wanted to look after you. I think women are natural care givers and get a certain kind of emotional connection with a man if they can take care of you in this "way." Denying this to any woman would break her heart and like Cory said, she feels "not needed." I think the question is why would you want this woman back after she slept with someone else? Why is it better to want someone who abuses us and treats us poorly? We shouldnt be making excuses for bad behaviours. Also, if she isn't a woman that you would like to take care of you then she wasn't the 1. Partners need to be able to love each other at the weakest and strongest points. One clear indication is if one person is giving all the time and never getting anything back then it's time to move on no matter how we feel about the person. Love is an action word. People have it wrong and are selfish most of the time. I really love this guy Cory and his videos. Especially this one because he gives hope and instructions to make your life better instead of waiting for the idiot to come back . lol
I love your stuff. IM=m going through a heart break and walked away 3 days ago. I read your book twice and Ive been doing it all wrong. Love ya man!!!!
She left you when you were sick for another guy, if she comes back don’t take her back in a relationship way. I had a similar situation to this except it happened 6 weeks ago, if she ever tried to come back to me in the next few months I would never give her the chance to be my person I want a actual future with. She had that chance took it for granted
I never thought I bought your book Corey, but I did , you are one hilarious guy and I love your personality. I used to be hot muscular male model body, now in my late 30, i lost my confidence with women after I gained lots of weight, I am also divorced and getting back in the game, hopefully face wise I still look 29. Your videos put me back on the map of regaining my confidence and self-control over my life. Great videos buddy. And much success to you!!!!! (Y) (Y)
Hey Corey damn bro you gave me some very good advice. At the time I wasn't trying to hear it but definitely thought about. I told you we were together for five years and i thought she was the one really. You told me not to go back to her because you did it after a six year relationship. Sorry to hear about that by the wAY its been pretty hard. But to put the cherry on the top she lined up a replacement before she called the shot and really messed her life up. She started talking to a guy that's at transition center and just got out of prison for 6 years. What an idiot they are born everyday. But I told her in not mad at her and is going to hurt but you will never know. I told her im done and im going to move on from this. So I have went from hoping for us another shot to never wanting her in my life again so thanks. Im finishing my ged and going in the military to pursue my dreams and holding on to the love but not the loss.
Just curious.. Coach, when women line up the "replacement" and basically wait until all of their emotions have left, and they pretty much don't care about the guy anymore no matter how important they once were to her.. Why would any man want to have anything to with women? Seem pretty harsh and unloving...
Well you can't up and change your sexuality...I've tried but just can't do it. We're into who we're into. You'll just have to find a good one and make it work.
Because maybe she meets a man that is in a similar situation. They both seek comfort in each other. But it's very short lived.. And u always end up hurting more. U never win..
Hey Corey i want to thank you very much! Your information is so helpful for me both for educational reaaons but also to be able to see the light in the end of the tunnel. I am very grateful for that. I am in a similar situation as the guy in the video: longterm-relationship Didnt know shit and stopped dating my women and due to insecurities in myself was needy and clingy a month ago she broke of and a week later was with another guy she wants to be friends but i went no contact in a nice but selfrespectful way. I really wabt her back and want to get back to the begging i did the first week. Its really hard to walk and never look back when you are in love with somebody from top to toe. But i guess i have the best chance of getting her back by walking away and telling her to call me when she got her stuff figured out. Either way i start now to get to a mentaloty where i "flip a coin and go either way" as you emphatize:) im focusing on myself and becoming the best version of myself so i am ready for either my ex or any future women that come into my life. Again, thank you so much for your support. I would buy a skype session with you if i wouldnt be so broke hahahah
Don’t ignore us when you guys are having a tough time and need space let us know hey babe I need some time to figure it out that’s it. This is what the guy I was talking did to me. Texted him and never got back to because he’s going through something- communication is key.
@@alanperez7657 as a women myself I know what I’m saying, sounds to me like you need to keep watching Coreys videos so u can become a 3% men and learn how to understand women.
@Denise Medina a fisherman doesnt listen to fish on how to catch fish. You probably wont understand that, but you know nothing about getting a woman. You know what YOU like. You have relied on your vagina to get what you want. Not charm, wit, or sense of humor. You should try and understand men. For once.
@@alanperez7657 you do not know me, and thank god you don’t, by just the way you’re talking I can tell you have work to do on your self, and I’m not going to waste my time w u, so have a Good Friday, and remember! NO DRAMA ALLOWED.
Just got dumped for reason at all. I just think he never loved or really respected me. He ghosted me for a whole week. He then told me too leave him alone. It’s been very hard but I did.
recently my ex led.me to believe we were together she let me back apart of her my.sons life. I provided for both of them. she slept with another guy after an agreement that I told her to keep any men away from my Lil boy she injected the guy into his life for weeks without me knowing all I asked her is not to do so out of respect . she had sex while my son was upstairs she barely know s this guy. I'm concerned. alot could of went wrong. wat should I do .?
Sounds like this guy dodge a fucking bullet, cheating when his man is on lowest point in life. Not worth it,walk away find another woman that respect and love you, tell me I'm wrong
@@heliocentric777 3 years late to reply but, not all woman, i have dated 2 woman like this in my life that will always have my back through thick and thin, it depends on the kind of woman, conservative woman who aren't brainwashed by modern feminism usually respect relationship a lot. They aren't out there looking for male attention constantly despite them having the looks. Now I have dated fair share of crazy woman, they are crazy good in bed and hangaround with, but I know, if i stay long term with them, when shit hits the fan this aren't kind of woman will have my back. I'm not saying it in black and white, all kind of woman have capacity to cheat, same as man, but one kind of woman is least likely to cheat if you choose well. Peace brother, all the best
Women don't unconditionally love a man. They only love what the man provides them, how they make them feel, or how they feel about them. Women will always follow their emotions. Find a woman who is in control of her own emotions and isn't so impulsive.
3:45 Guys withdrawing into the bat cave to figure out solution/course of action on our own = Women that don’t understand this part about men think that men resolve problems that they do (just by talking about them with their girlfriends, then come to a conclusion internally) 7:54 look at her actions and not at what she says
When he said women usually line up a new guy I wanted to get mad cuz I can’t relate to that at all! But when I think of most of my girl friends that’s true haha! I need to be like them instead of taking minimum 4 years to get over a guy who doesn’t want me 🙄
I'd say he got lucky. imagine marrying a woman like that. developing a feeling for someone else and not talking to your partner about it for me is "cheating"
Hey Coach, I've been watching ur videos for a couple years now. As a woman I definitely agree that you know what ur talking about regarding women. My question is do u think ur book would help a woman w/ men?? I really love the idea that this book is a manual for men to follow but what about women would we learn anything from it on how to behave as well?
My girl of a year & a half recently walked away. Once I could see she wasn't making an effort to see me & making up excuses not too, I told her to let me know when she figures out her schedule. That was a week ago & still no contact or word from her. She had said she wanted to meet up & discuss out relationship yet that didn't happen before she ceased contact. She had always made the point we should give each other the respect of ending things face to face yet she hasn't done that. Advice?
u gotta walk away...women aren't that heartless as they say..once she figures out what she wants she will hit u up......just don't argue with her and try to let her open up about things...if she is a bit confused, give her sometimes..she will come around..... P.S,sometimes women need to date a few jerks to recognize your true quality
Never wait for a girl. My ex girl did the same thing, she was nuts about me in the beginning. I have been through this with other girls, my behaviour from when I met her to the time she started giving me BS excuses why she couldn't see me, remained the same. I was dating other girls so I wasn't up in her business all the time, I was busy. It's lame but it's a girls natural arc of attraction. I've been through the jumping through hoops to try and keep them in the past, I don't do that anymore, the result is still the same. You find yourself getting tired of the predictable nature and just let them go their merry way. Never chase. Go with the flow. There will be another one along shortly. Oh, and talk is cheap, it means something at the time they say it but a few minutes later it's as if it was never said. Girls shouldn't be taken seriously, have fun with them but real idea is to get on with the business of living your life.
Breaking up is just plain hell.Stay away from a toxic bitch and never look back.Its the only way for your emotions to heal until you feel nothing for her.
Was married 18 years...3 1/2 years in she wanted to go back partying/drinking again with her friends only to end up moving out to “think about things”...ONLY to move a dirtbag in with her...6months in I get a call he “tried to choke her”...we went to counseling,worked on things..got back together..now into our 18th year she has decided AGAIN ...wants to move on ,doesn’t Love me..blah blah...she’s filed for divorce but won’t sign off on anything,I said enough enough..moved out,concentrating on myself...she’s supposedly from mutual friends moved onto another “dirtbag” and has also ignored ALL our mutual friends...it hurt for awhile but like I said I’m concentrating on myself etc.Just a shame to me that they’re are good guys out there like myself who want to have a woman partner in our lives to Love,care for,spend time with growing old together but some of these women nowadays have no clue of what they want and instead of dealing with issues as a married couple choose to listen to “looser friends “ who’s relationships or marriages have fallen apart but they r the ones to get advice from....the santictay of marriage and commitment is getting lost anymore and it’s not because of guys...it’s the women who think the grass is greener only to get into abusive/or worse relationships...no wonder so many people r choosing to remain single especially guys after breakups...”I much rather be alone and Happy the be with a woman and still be alone”...I’m not perfect...But I am loyal,honest,and have morals/ethics given to me by my parents...never figured I’d have to apologize for being a decent human being...😊
Any suggestions for moving on and forgetting after many years. I asked her out for dinner and she snapped back ‘why’ ? This was after about 5 drinks dates and after I had sent her flowers for her birthday. I never called her again as I took it as a rejection. My head says it was the right decision but I can’t let it go. Help ! Thanks CCW
She dumped me for someone else two months ago. At the beginning she lied when I asked her if she was dating someone else. However, the mere fact that she got defensive when I asked her that question we revealing. I knew she was dating another guy by then. When she finally broke up with me (1 week later), she admitted dating this other dude even if she said it was only since one week (I'm pretty sure that's another lie to try to cover up for the first lie). Despite being in the process of dumping me she told me: "Aren't you going to block me, right?!?". I was puzzled. Why would she even care about that? She is dumping me for another dude! What caring about what I do with your number?? Then she offered friendship, which I declined saying that for me she isn't just a friend, and finally she almost begged me not to call that a farewell. I went no contact for the very next day and now it's almost two months since then. I never heard from her again. In three days is going to be her birthday but I'm not planning to break no contact. The mere idea that she will be hooking up with this other dude for her birthday, is killing me! In five days is going to be my birthday and I'm pretty sure I won't hear from her. So here's the question: since she had no intention to ever talk to me again, why she gave me all that BS about not blocking her number and not calling that a farewell? What was the point?
Isn't that ghosting??? I heard, "We need to talk".. Saved my self respect and just walked away. Sure enough, Two days later saw her with another guy. Never spoke again. She never called me and I never spoke to her again
So after my GF of 5 years, split up with me 3 weeks ago out of nowhere! I decided to purchase your book and I have read it 5 times since then. (10 more times to go) What ive realised is that I became complacent in the relationship, rarely took her on dates and I didn't really listen/understand her fully. My question is, although I begged/pleaded at first, I have now been in NC for 13 days after sending a final text stating if you change your mind contact me etc. Do I still have any chance?
Rowson 92 its late but you have to move on. No contact should be genuine. Not just you not taking to her but still constantly thinking about her. I know it's old but hopefully it helps someone else
13 days ain't shit, but feels like 3 months. Within the following year of NC, you should get birthday or holiday wishes if she still has some interest or regrets. Don't look back, improve your life, read, workout, "rinse and repeat". Right now, I'm 75% sure it's better to move on to the next opportunity.
I also had relations with her but due to sickness I couldn't do much I think that did it ur she was so reckless with jus giving herself away to anybody. my son is most important how do I deal with this situation.
Hi , I needed help and advise. My ex and I broke up 8 month ago we still contacting each others (Long distance relationship ) . Her brother is coming to my country to study 4 years and her family and her hope and wish that I could look out and take care of him for this period . I accepted and have promises them , but recently I found out that she started a new relationship . She hide from me till I found out and she admitted . Her brother is coming to my country in 2 weeks time , shld i still look out and take care his brother as a friend or just ignore them and cut ties .I knew his brother for 3 years and I feel he is kind of innocent and he don have anyone to reached out of anything happen to him in my country . But I was really furious of her hiding her new relationship from me. Shld I cut all ties from them or keep in contact with her brother ? I care and worried for her brother too but in another way I don want them to know anything about me . I still have feeling for her , but in another ways I don want them to make use of me. By the way I have stop and block all communication tools with my ex . His brother still sms me on stuffs about my country . Help I needed advise
I saved up 7 gran me ans my kid mom and we found a house and let her be in charge of the paper work cause I'm always working and bringing home the bread and butter then next thing u know I was kicked out for her family members they in there still to this day smh
What more signs of being dumped and not caring for him anymore at all does he needs? she is having fun with someone else right acroos from his front door and he still has hopes of going back with her? What's wrong with this dude? Hey coach you're the best btw!
Hey Corey! I'm not sure if you will read this message but I just need some advice. I'm from Australia and I met this girl from Brazil. She is living in Brisbane for now. I've been seeing her for about 7 weeks now. I haven't felt this way about a girl for along time, she's amazing!. I was talking to her over the weekend and she told me i like hanging out with you but I don't want to hurt you. Her Visa runs out in November and a good chance she will move back to Brazil. Should I just keep seeing her and see what happens or should I let her go? Thanks Corey. I read your book also. Reading it the 2nd time now.
you make perfect sense coach, but I'm in s 15 year marriage. doe's this apply to me, she is seeing some guy, and having sex, and she knows I know, but she lies about it all the time, what do I do?
Here's my issue I have been married now 12 years my husband has a condition with his bones so hes in pain although he has decided to go holistic with his treatment he is to himself about his condition because when he did talk about it to me I could only tell him to see a specialist because holding him might make him feel loved I cant stop his pain nor am I a doctor. Next when we would try to have relations he wont willing to please me, but he would always get what he expected out of it so after 4-5 years of me not being satisfied i stop having sex with him so now its like we are roommates and we have a 5 year old together so its very miserable being with him because he talks as if he know everything but hes not doing what I want as a father and husband so for me its over but he refuses to move on. Because he feels as long as we are together in the same house its better for our son.I also want to know if I was wrong for not wanting to continue having sex with him when I wasn't getting anything out of it? He also says hurtful things to me like I am never there for our son mind you I am home M-F and every other weekend i go see my family on Saturdays and come back home on Sundays but he says all i want to do is run the road I also pay all expenses except his car payment but I am the bad person I am just over it but I want a clear understanding of why we got here and if i am wrong for not wanting to be with him any longer.
Walking away is a strong sign of self respect and self love. It shows that you are following your purpose in life and that you are putting yourself first over any woman in this world
Well said
Not easy to do, but full credit for those who do
We walk away while they walk to someone else within the first 2 weeks
DONT ever forgive or accept a woman back into your life after you find out she's been with another man. She had nooooo problems spreading her legs for another guy. He can keep her. You would be disrespecting yourself as man to settle for that. Trust me you can ALWAYS find a hotter girlfriend.
***** Women think a bit differently then men my friend. If you take her back you'll only teach her that it's okay and that you'll forgive her.
cheating is cheating can you live with yoursel? really? walk away feel your feelings you won't die. I promise
David Santiago I can definitely live with myself. So long as I'm the one doing the cheating.
When you're right you're right. The relationship will never recover from cheating.
You're Absolutely right Man! Your words are true!! If she didn't had no problem spreading her legs for another man, she can do that with any other man, it shows what character she belongs, Low standard woman do that Shit!! All this time we were with Low standard woman not Great one!!
Walking away means you regain back your life,your futures..No turning back
Preach 💯
There are three things a woman says that indicate it's over between you and her; 1. we have to talk, 2. It's not you, it's me; and 3. we can still be friends.
The friendship is over when she sticks me in the friend zone. What I tell her is this "give me a call when you change your mind AND IF I'M STILL AVAILABLE" speech.
“I need space”, “we need a break”
Sh*t! I got two out of the three lines you mentioned (N°2 and n°3). I'm fu***d!
That's the painful part you can feel her slowly pulling away from you after meeting another guy, and all those times you've been there for her just got thrown away like that.. People say it's ain't normal but it took me almost 2 years to finally move on. I'm happy now and hoping she is too.
my case, i have a girl that seems to be lining me up, but shes still with her ex but constantly talking to me. he cheated on her so many times, and left her alone with their kid. i told her this i felt like i was a backup plan.
@@LordSos91 bro, I hope you walked away from her...far away. If you didn't, I hope you smashed and then kicked that bitch to the curb.
@@albertomontano1225 that was 3 years ago lol, ive been a mgtow monk for almost 2 years now ;) my blue pilled ass got me in some deep pain, but that girl im talking about eventually went back to that bad boy cheater lol
he messaged me this year, saying they doing good and they worked things out. and my response was like "thats awesome glad to hear but why you telling me? oh ya i remember now i convinced ya to stop fucking around and be there for your kid"
she tried to line me up as a fall back guy (friend zone type crap) i told her straight up what i thought lol
@@LordSos91 Oh no, three years too late but if you see this somehow please tell me you didn’t get with her. Avoid single mothers
@@LordSos91 Thank God you didn’t do it. And her going back to the Ex is totally typical. It’s even even worse situation to get involved in when the child’s father is still in the picture and the woman clearly still has feelings for him
When things get rough and hard to fixed its the best time to walk away and never look back. Just move on and focus on yourself.
why would this guy would want that girl again?i mean she is with another a guy,she was dating with this other guy while he was sick,at the worst peek he could be.go find another girl,that loves you and respects you a thousand times more,you deserve it
It's simple. If we guys rly fall in love we don't care about shit right? It's hard enough to leave someone you love but if you're also attached? Phew that shit stinks! So I'd say attachment makes it hard to move on.
Thank you for all your advice. Saved my sanity many a time Corey
Having another guy lined up is cheating
totally agree 100%
Plain and simple
Sounds like God is watching over you and you are protected from a bad woman.
How ridiculous is this entire paradigm! Look at all the ridiculous things we go through just to keep the interest of these creatures that couldn't care less about us. They lose interest and respect for you when you express your feelings for them??? They lose interest and respect for you when you take time to yourself to heal your wounds??? Women don't care about or love men at all yet men keep on loving and sacrificing for them. We have to stop loving them and start loving our selves.
Let's all be honest, we are all here for selfish reasons, we want to try and manipulate another person, sometimes using mindgames, so they stay with us and they, the women, do not want that, but can't help it. For real, let's all find women who actually want a relationship with us and are willing to accept that things will not be all the times perfect. At the end of the day a relationship is a decision by two people, not one made one person and the other needs to be mindfucked so she doesn't leave. All these videos are about what we as men can do to make them always be head over heels with us, because we already are with them, but that is not willingness on their part so what I am saying here is that the moment we start watching these videos and thinking of ways to reatract her we are already putting her on a pedestal.
Your missing the point. LoL big time.
@@VoiceOfThe maybe you meant they are hypocrite by nature
@@sebsebseb1905 It's a good point what you say about thinking of ways to reattract her as already putting her on a pedestal. On the other side of it, like CW always says, most guys come here to get an ex back and its their first exposure to the truth about relationships. So when a guy has that success of getting their ex back, those are some valuable real time lessons to learn that will carry over into the next hang out, have fun, hook up scenario. Right, so the guy will get to see on that second go around all the things that he can do better to keep her attracted. He will also see how he probably needs to up his standards anyways, which will cause him to work on himself more. It;s a virtuous cycle that starts with getting that first big WIN, reattracting that hot piece of ass that had you googling "how to get an ex back" and landing here in the first place.
Yes I agree walk away and hope you still have money left
Walking away and never looking back is the best revenge. When you are newly single do not commit to any woman too soon because your time should be consumed for self-improvement, friends, and family. Any woman who is sincerely interested would make the effort to have time for you, not the other way around.
I've found that when walking away is a viable option, it's usually the best option.
@Sky fall they really dont come back tho
@@alanperez7657 oh believe me, they always do.
I've lost many women in my battle with Lyme disease. They always assume there is something wrong with them or my attraction to them when I am just suffering immensely. It's been hell. Going through nasty breakups has made it even more difficult to heal. Either way, I have to keep moving and attacking my purpose. Thanks for the inspiration coach.
It's fine. I wasn't at my best. I could only better myself
I feel bad for you guys. I being a female, do not consent with instant rebounds. That's never okay. I've always been the loyal one that's stayed single for months after a relationship, because I genuinely cared for them.
She's lying
Yea thats whaat they all say. All it takes is for the right guy to come along and say the right thing your pants will be coming off
Your the woman men are looking for, hard to find
@@Moonless6491 I feel you bro
All women are different
she left him for another guy for sex it's over
My ex did this to me n I will admit it I was going through a rough patch in my life I begged her to change her mind bt she had none of it I said enough is enough I went back to sch finished sch took new hobbies made new friends 17 months later I met a woman who gives a shit abt me who checks upon me Eventually the ex came back bt I didn't take her back the other dude can have her
Sometimes it's tough to recognize the ugly truth of a dying unrecoverable relationship -but this video helps to make one recognize the signs -before it's too late.
I jus wanted to say man, your a lifesaver idk how I woulda got thru several breakups without ur help Corey your the man! Keep up the awesome entertaining videos!
She has already moved on with someone else. What a wonderful person she is. Lol.... LMB
LMB?
My girlfriend chose another man over me I did everything for her I was always there to help her just to show her how much I loved her and she left me for someone else I feel so bad I don't ever want to talk or date again I gave all I had to someone and they walked away from me like I'm nothing
Same thing happen to me bro. I gave her all the love and attention in the world. But still that wasn't enough. 2 months on how are you feeling? Have you gotten over her?
There millions more gorgeous women in the world.Dont waste your time on somebody who dont deserves your attention in the first place
easier said than done you guys. especially if you really liked her . it just doesn't go away. idk this guys who situation. maybe you over pursued. maybe not. but shit like that fuckin stings
Cel Asegamay im sorry but i am going thru the same thing it really hurts and the kind of poeple we are on just to big of a heart i don't understand how poeple can be so cruel what happened .with real love and working in a relationship together this world sucks but I'ma single now:(
Fuck that bitch bruh
I miss my mom
Me too
Thoughts with you both, i lost my dad....
Get out of the scarcity mindset and you will never have a problem with break ups again..
Amen
Excellent point
I'll never give my heart to a woman until I'm at least 60 when I'm ready to settle down.
No. At then also you don't.
be careful homie removing ur heart from its place is lethal you will die 100%
After all these years, u r still da absolute best out there.
I live in a car and i put this guys shit in action and the ladies look right past my flaws ;)
Wow
I would have stayed and wanted to look after you. I think women are natural care givers and get a certain kind of emotional connection with a man if they can take care of you in this "way." Denying this to any woman would break her heart and like Cory said, she feels "not needed." I think the question is why would you want this woman back after she slept with someone else? Why is it better to want someone who abuses us and treats us poorly? We shouldnt be making excuses for bad behaviours. Also, if she isn't a woman that you would like to take care of you then she wasn't the 1. Partners need to be able to love each other at the weakest and strongest points. One clear indication is if one person is giving all the time and never getting anything back then it's time to move on no matter how we feel about the person. Love is an action word. People have it wrong and are selfish most of the time. I really love this guy Cory and his videos. Especially this one because he gives hope and instructions to make your life better instead of waiting for the idiot to come back . lol
you were like a father for me teaching about women which my own dad was not able to
That's what you do in all relationships when woman going although you love her you ofto walk away simple
haha now i understand when the singer said "you can ring my beeeeeeeeeelll, ring my bell" ;)
Like Drake said...”You can’t go 50 50 with no hoe”
Too bad he is. lol
I love your stuff. IM=m going through a heart break and walked away 3 days ago. I read your book twice and Ive been doing it all wrong. Love ya man!!!!
She left you when you were sick for another guy, if she comes back don’t take her back in a relationship way. I had a similar situation to this except it happened 6 weeks ago, if she ever tried to come back to me in the next few months I would never give her the chance to be my person I want a actual future with. She had that chance took it for granted
I never thought I bought your book Corey, but I did , you are one hilarious guy and I love your personality. I used to be hot muscular male model body, now in my late 30, i lost my confidence with women after I gained lots of weight, I am also divorced and getting back in the game, hopefully face wise I still look 29. Your videos put me back on the map of regaining my confidence and self-control over my life. Great videos buddy. And much success to you!!!!! (Y) (Y)
Hey Corey damn bro you gave me some very good advice. At the time I wasn't trying to hear it but definitely thought about. I told you we were together for five years and i thought she was the one really. You told me not to go back to her because you did it after a six year relationship. Sorry to hear about that by the wAY its been pretty hard. But to put the cherry on the top she lined up a replacement before she called the shot and really messed her life up. She started talking to a guy that's at transition center and just got out of prison for 6 years. What an idiot they are born everyday. But I told her in not mad at her and is going to hurt but you will never know. I told her im done and im going to move on from this. So I have went from hoping for us another shot to never wanting her in my life again so thanks. Im finishing my ged and going in the military to pursue my dreams and holding on to the love but not the loss.
Just curious.. Coach, when women line up the "replacement" and basically wait until all of their emotions have left, and they pretty much don't care about the guy anymore no matter how important they once were to her.. Why would any man want to have anything to with women? Seem pretty harsh and unloving...
Daniel
Well you can't up and change your sexuality...I've tried but just can't do it. We're into who we're into. You'll just have to find a good one and make it work.
Men do it all the time
Daniel I never get back with them , just use them for sex after that if she had good poon n freaky.
Because maybe she meets a man that is in a similar situation. They both seek comfort in each other. But it's very short lived.. And u always end up hurting more. U never win..
this is my favorite video bc you got right to the point. There wasn't a lot of filler talk and we took care of business.
Hey Corey i want to thank you very much! Your information is so helpful for me both for educational reaaons but also to be able to see the light in the end of the tunnel. I am very grateful for that.
I am in a similar situation as the guy in the video: longterm-relationship
Didnt know shit and stopped dating my women and due to insecurities in myself was needy and clingy
a month ago she broke of and a week later was with another guy
she wants to be friends but i went no contact in a nice but selfrespectful way. I really wabt her back and want to get back to the begging i did the first week. Its really hard to walk and never look back when you are in love with somebody from top to toe. But i guess i have the best chance of getting her back by walking away and telling her to call me when she got her stuff figured out. Either way i start now to get to a mentaloty where i "flip a coin and go either way" as you emphatize:)
im focusing on myself and becoming the best version of myself so i am ready for either my ex or any future women that come into my life. Again, thank you so much for your support. I would buy a skype session with you if i wouldnt be so broke hahahah
Walked away life is peaceful now. Why did i deal with her crap. She texted me Hey!
I replied not interested, goodbye.
Overlapping! I learned about this the hard way
Don’t ignore us when you guys are having a tough time and need space let us know hey babe I need some time to figure it out that’s it. This is what the guy I was talking did to me. Texted him and never got back to because he’s going through something- communication is key.
Why would any man listen to a woman give advice on women. You know nothing about getting a woman.
@@alanperez7657 as a women myself I know what I’m saying, sounds to me like you need to keep watching Coreys videos so u can become a 3% men and learn how to understand women.
@Denise Medina a fisherman doesnt listen to fish on how to catch fish. You probably wont understand that, but you know nothing about getting a woman. You know what YOU like. You have relied on your vagina to get what you want. Not charm, wit, or sense of humor. You should try and understand men. For once.
@@alanperez7657 you do not know me, and thank god you don’t, by just the way you’re talking I can tell you have work to do on your self, and I’m not going to waste my time w u, so have a Good Friday, and remember! NO DRAMA ALLOWED.
@Denise Medina o man how will i ever go on? Your just holes to me. Stay blessed🙏🏼🙏🏼
I wanted to be the man I wasn't before to other ones. It's fine
Just got dumped for reason at all. I just think he never loved or really respected me. He ghosted me for a whole week. He then told me too leave him alone. It’s been very hard but I did.
recently my ex led.me to believe we were together she let me back apart of her my.sons life. I provided for both of them. she slept with another guy after an agreement that I told her to keep any men away from my Lil boy she injected the guy into his life for weeks without me knowing all I asked her is not to do so out of respect . she had sex while my son was upstairs she barely know s this guy. I'm concerned. alot could of went wrong. wat should I do .?
I like your nice videos and how you keep it real.
Sounds like this guy dodge a fucking bullet, cheating when his man is on lowest point in life. Not worth it,walk away find another woman that respect and love you, tell me I'm wrong
You're right, except most women will do this if they have the chance, no matter how much they "loved" or "respected" you.
Anxious Drift How do you know "most" women will do this? Do you have any evidence to back that up?
@@heliocentric777 3 years late to reply but, not all woman, i have dated 2 woman like this in my life that will always have my back through thick and thin, it depends on the kind of woman, conservative woman who aren't brainwashed by modern feminism usually respect relationship a lot. They aren't out there looking for male attention constantly despite them having the looks. Now I have dated fair share of crazy woman, they are crazy good in bed and hangaround with, but I know, if i stay long term with them, when shit hits the fan this aren't kind of woman will have my back. I'm not saying it in black and white, all kind of woman have capacity to cheat, same as man, but one kind of woman is least likely to cheat if you choose well. Peace brother, all the best
Women don't unconditionally love a man. They only love what the man provides them, how they make them feel, or how they feel about them.
Women will always follow their emotions. Find a woman who is in control of her own emotions and isn't so impulsive.
I want the book on cd I drive alot.
Get the audio book
The audiobook is really really good.
you an a girl started to ignore you in one day time ,you an her was good
This is so fucking spot on. The first few minutes is my experience.
To all my bothers you don't need a women like that.
The person could be a BPD or NPD. Hence alway get in with a clear plan to move once you sense danger in them.
3:45 Guys withdrawing into the bat cave to figure out solution/course of action on our own = Women that don’t understand this part about men think that men resolve problems that they do (just by talking about them with their girlfriends, then come to a conclusion internally)
7:54 look at her actions and not at what she says
Coach.. do u have something for woman on her ex too ?
How do i send an email to you? I would like to share my story and see what you got to say about it. :)
When he said women usually line up a new guy I wanted to get mad cuz I can’t relate to that at all! But when I think of most of my girl friends that’s true haha! I need to be like them instead of taking minimum 4 years to get over a guy who doesn’t want me 🙄
Thanks again Coach!
I'd say he got lucky.
imagine marrying a woman like that.
developing a feeling for someone else and not talking to your partner about it for me is "cheating"
Hey Coach, I've been watching ur videos for a couple years now. As a woman I definitely agree that you know what ur talking about regarding women.
My question is do u think ur book would help a woman w/ men?? I really love the idea that this book is a manual for men to follow but what about women would we learn anything from it on how to behave as well?
My girl of a year & a half recently walked away. Once I could see she wasn't making an effort to see me & making up excuses not too, I told her to let me know when she figures out her schedule. That was a week ago & still no contact or word from her. She had said she wanted to meet up & discuss out relationship yet that didn't happen before she ceased contact. She had always made the point we should give each other the respect of ending things face to face yet she hasn't done that. Advice?
u gotta walk away...women aren't that heartless as they say..once she figures out what she wants she will hit u up......just don't argue with her and try to let her open up about things...if she is a bit confused, give her sometimes..she will come around.....
P.S,sometimes women need to date a few jerks to recognize your true quality
Never wait for a girl. My ex girl did the same thing, she was nuts about me in the beginning. I have been through this with other girls, my behaviour from when I met her to the time she started giving me BS excuses why she couldn't see me, remained the same. I was dating other girls so I wasn't up in her business all the time, I was busy. It's lame but it's a girls natural arc of attraction. I've been through the jumping through hoops to try and keep them in the past, I don't do that anymore, the result is still the same. You find yourself getting tired of the predictable nature and just let them go their merry way. Never chase. Go with the flow. There will be another one along shortly. Oh, and talk is cheap, it means something at the time they say it but a few minutes later it's as if it was never said. Girls shouldn't be taken seriously, have fun with them but real idea is to get on with the business of living your life.
Breaking up is just plain hell.Stay away from a toxic bitch and never look back.Its the only way for your emotions to heal until you feel nothing for her.
Was married 18 years...3 1/2 years in she wanted to go back partying/drinking again with her friends only to end up moving out to “think about things”...ONLY to move a dirtbag in with her...6months in I get a call he “tried to choke her”...we went to counseling,worked on things..got back together..now into our 18th year she has decided AGAIN ...wants to move on ,doesn’t Love me..blah blah...she’s filed for divorce but won’t sign off on anything,I said enough enough..moved out,concentrating on myself...she’s supposedly from mutual friends moved onto another “dirtbag” and has also ignored ALL our mutual friends...it hurt for awhile but like I said I’m concentrating on myself etc.Just a shame to me that they’re are good guys out there like myself who want to have a woman partner in our lives to Love,care for,spend time with growing old together but some of these women nowadays have no clue of what they want and instead of dealing with issues as a married couple choose to listen to “looser friends “ who’s relationships or marriages have fallen apart but they r the ones to get advice from....the santictay of marriage and commitment is getting lost anymore and it’s not because of guys...it’s the women who think the grass is greener only to get into abusive/or worse relationships...no wonder so many people r choosing to remain single especially guys after breakups...”I much rather be alone and Happy the be with a woman and still be alone”...I’m not perfect...But I am loyal,honest,and have morals/ethics given to me by my parents...never figured I’d have to apologize for being a decent human being...😊
Any suggestions for moving on and forgetting after many years. I asked her out for dinner and she snapped back ‘why’ ? This was after about 5 drinks dates and after I had sent her flowers for her birthday. I never called her again as I took it as a rejection. My head says it was the right decision but I can’t let it go. Help ! Thanks CCW
She dumped me for someone else two months ago. At the beginning she lied when I asked her if she was dating someone else. However, the mere fact that she got defensive when I asked her that question we revealing. I knew she was dating another guy by then.
When she finally broke up with me (1 week later), she admitted dating this other dude even if she said it was only since one week (I'm pretty sure that's another lie to try to cover up for the first lie).
Despite being in the process of dumping me she told me: "Aren't you going to block me, right?!?". I was puzzled. Why would she even care about that? She is dumping me for another dude! What caring about what I do with your number??
Then she offered friendship, which I declined saying that for me she isn't just a friend, and finally she almost begged me not to call that a farewell.
I went no contact for the very next day and now it's almost two months since then. I never heard from her again.
In three days is going to be her birthday but I'm not planning to break no contact. The mere idea that she will be hooking up with this other dude for her birthday, is killing me!
In five days is going to be my birthday and I'm pretty sure I won't hear from her.
So here's the question: since she had no intention to ever talk to me again, why she gave me all that BS about not blocking her number and not calling that a farewell? What was the point?
How are you now?
@@trollhunter3944 thank God, I'm doing fine. However, at times, I still think about her and wonder why she did all this...
@Siu Long This is good to hear. I'm glad that you are okay. Sometimes, the other person may not even know why. Keep moving forward!
Isn't that ghosting??? I heard, "We need to talk".. Saved my self respect and just walked away. Sure enough, Two days later saw her with another guy. Never spoke again. She never called me and I never spoke to her again
helps alot... I'm feeling well now. Thanks!
So after my GF of 5 years, split up with me 3 weeks ago out of nowhere! I decided to purchase your book and I have read it 5 times since then. (10 more times to go)
What ive realised is that I became complacent in the relationship, rarely took her on dates and I didn't really listen/understand her fully.
My question is, although I begged/pleaded at first, I have now been in NC for 13 days after sending a final text stating if you change your mind contact me etc. Do I still have any chance?
purpleboner Any updates ?
So, what the hell happened later?
Rowson 92 its late but you have to move on. No contact should be genuine. Not just you not taking to her but still constantly thinking about her. I know it's old but hopefully it helps someone else
13 days ain't shit, but feels like 3 months.
Within the following year of NC, you should get birthday or holiday wishes if she still has some interest or regrets. Don't look back, improve your life, read, workout, "rinse and repeat".
Right now, I'm 75% sure it's better to move on to the next opportunity.
She did this exact same shit you explained on this video. Floored me. Then came back to. Then did this same shit to me again 2 days ago. Fuck!
Thank you! Great video!!
Why go Why go back? It would never be the same again next.
Such good information
I also had relations with her but due to sickness I couldn't do much I think that did it ur she was so reckless with jus giving herself away to anybody. my son is most important how do I deal with this situation.
women that rebound like this. their relationship's are short lived..
You are my idol respect you man
Hi , I needed help and advise. My ex and I broke up 8 month ago we still contacting each others (Long distance relationship ) . Her brother is coming to my country to study 4 years and her family and her hope and wish that I could look out and take care of him for this period . I accepted and have promises them , but recently I found out that she started a new relationship . She hide from me till I found out and she admitted . Her brother is coming to my country in 2 weeks time , shld i still look out and take care his brother as a friend or just ignore them and cut ties .I knew his brother for 3 years and I feel he is kind of innocent and he don have anyone to reached out of anything happen to him in my country . But I was really furious of her hiding her new relationship from me. Shld I cut all ties from them or keep in contact with her brother ? I care and worried for her brother too but in another way I don want them to know anything about me . I still have feeling for her , but in another ways I don want them to make use of me. By the way I have stop and block all communication tools with my ex . His brother still sms me on stuffs about my country . Help I needed advise
I saved up 7 gran me ans my kid mom and we found a house and let her be in charge of the paper work cause I'm always working and bringing home the bread and butter then next thing u know I was kicked out for her family members they in there still to this day smh
What more signs of being dumped and not caring for him anymore at all does he needs? she is having fun with someone else right acroos from his front door and he still has hopes of going back with her? What's wrong with this dude? Hey coach you're the best btw!
Hey Corey! I'm not sure if you will read this message but I just need some advice. I'm from Australia and I met this girl from Brazil. She is living in Brisbane for now. I've been seeing her for about 7 weeks now. I haven't felt this way about a girl for along time, she's amazing!. I was talking to her over the weekend and she told me i like hanging out with you but I don't want to hurt you. Her Visa runs out in November and a good chance she will move back to Brazil. Should I just keep seeing her and see what happens or should I let her go? Thanks Corey. I read your book also. Reading it the 2nd time now.
Just have fun with her, nothing serious. There's over 4 billion other women in the world, and just as you met her you will easily meet another.
you make perfect sense coach, but I'm in s 15 year marriage. doe's this apply to me, she is seeing some guy, and having sex, and she knows I know, but she lies about it all the time, what do I do?
Dude really? You know about this. Now shes just walking all over you now its best to just walk away and stop contacting her
C'mon leave her.. She doesn't respect you and you deserve a much better life without her.
He didn't want her until he saw her with someone else.
Lol
What a 🐐
Here's my issue I have been married now 12 years my husband has a condition with his bones so hes in pain although he has decided to go holistic with his treatment he is to himself about his condition because when he did talk about it to me I could only tell him to see a specialist because holding him might make him feel loved I cant stop his pain nor am I a doctor. Next when we would try to have relations he wont willing to please me, but he would always get what he expected out of it so after 4-5 years of me not being satisfied i stop having sex with him so now its like we are roommates and we have a 5 year old together so its very miserable being with him because he talks as if he know everything but hes not doing what I want as a father and husband so for me its over but he refuses to move on. Because he feels as long as we are together in the same house its better for our son.I also want to know if I was wrong for not wanting to continue having sex with him when I wasn't getting anything out of it? He also says hurtful things to me like I am never there for our son mind you I am home M-F and every other weekend i go see my family on Saturdays and come back home on Sundays but he says all i want to do is run the road I also pay all expenses except his car payment but I am the bad person I am just over it but I want a clear understanding of why we got here and if i am wrong for not wanting to be with him any longer.
Divorce him. Life is way too short to waste it being miserable with someone.
Get Miss Universe, Miss World etc. as a replacement. Wooo .... Ric Flair ....
Isn’t part of the game to always be looking for the next one?
U great love listen to u 😊💖👍
True
In particular if he called you a Drama Queen!
You probably are tho
So true
I got a back up for my back up. learned it from previous men I dated. Trifling but true. - a woman wdgaf
Hmmmm. That's just crazy.
Find a girl that is younger, prettier and loves great sex. Problem fixed.
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Cannon fodder 😂
#WOO