true friends will tell you when you are bullshitting yourself or acting like a pussy instead of blowing sunshine up your ass and telling you everything is fine
2-years since my original post and I’ve come a long way...it would take me a book to explain all of the positives in my life by implementing Corey’s work, thus making it a natural part of myself. Thanks Corey.
Music - The Voice Of The Soul You must be a total idiot if you have read his book, watched his videos and still did that fuck up. What did Corey tell you? Phone and texting is for setting up dates. Nothing more. And what have you done? Texted her back and forth with stupid shit and fucked it up. What part of use the fucking phone to SET UP DATES and build rapport face to face you don’t understand? I feel bad for you because seems like your IQ is lower than your shoe number.
Really learnt a lot from Coach Corey .... i recommend that every guy should get the book "how to be a 3% man" and read it up to 10-15 times..currently in my 9th round tho lol...It's mind blowing,discovered so many mistakes i've been making in my relationship and much more about women that i never knew, it really saved my relationship tho :/ ....Thanks a million coach.
I have a question. I was on the bus few days ago, and I saw this hot girl checking me out, great eye contact haha, she exited at the same station as me, so I approached her (this was my first time approaching a girl on the street btw), and I was like "hey, I could not let you walk away without introducing myself", she gave a great respond, I asked few basic questions (name, where is she from) and said "hey, I'm in a rush right now, just give me your number so we can talk" and she did. I sent her a text day after that "hey, I'm the guy who made your day yesterday, add me on facebook" and she responded "Okay, I will" , few days passed but she didn't and I didn't send any more texts after that. She gave me IOI's in person, her respond to my approach was good and she gave me the number right of the bat. So my question is, should I text her something again and what?
I don't understand why people can't just be honest and direct. No one wants to play mind games. If someone approaches you, and you aren't attracted to them, please just tell them. If you are, then tell them. That's it. Don't play around, don't lie. The last thing anyone want to do is keep wondering what the reality is.
I think that many don't always think about "the game". I just think that girls recognise a weakness in men, and they unconciously try to test men to see if they're good enough for them. Maybe we all just need to read basic psychology? :) The romantic movies have in some way taught us many wrong things.... And for people to really tell what they want might be harder than we think. How often do we see people together with people we wouldn't believe they would get together with? What some really want may differ from what some say they want :).
Between you, Dan Bacon (coach), Jordan Peterson (Psychologist), Dan Lok ( Sifu), my life is getting sooo much joy and fullfilness because I try to follow your advice. You are like the Dad we never had! Keep going! Have a nice day man ! I am 24 and your advice ROCKS
I wish I’d have had this throughout my life, I’m 58 now and only just starting to handle women and relationships in the right way , everything I grew up believing has been proven to be wrong, consequently my love life has been a disaster throughout, the good thing is now I’m putting it right and learning to protect and concentrate on myself
if women pursued men more the dating game would literally be easier for everyone lol. like the coach said fuck hints and reading between the lines just be forward and say how you feel. period. great video coach
dude same thing going on with me and my wife ... been about 3 months now and im marking it on the board too experience...let her go and move on like me.. trust me i screwed up but i wasn't gonna stand being a friend to my wife or a back up plan while she see this other guy or as she called him ''her friend'' i got lazy in the marriage and i know my mistakes. just gonna make myself better for the next love of my life ... good luck to you ....
Some girls flat out will not call or message first, regardless of if they like a guy. It's like an unspoken woman code. I am not sure that always waiting works. I am sure it works many times but I also think you'd lose girls you could have kept by just waiting for them to make the move. It is a societal expectation that the man make the moves and many women are so married to those expectations that they'd rather suffer without you than "lower themselves" to showing interest. But having said that, I definitely think there is merit in making women wait.
Uh, you do realize that you're waiting for a *response*, right? Meaning you already initiated first contact and told them what you want and to get back to you if they're interested at all. You're thinking of women asking men out on dates which is a different thing entirely.
No I am even talking about waiting for responses. I've had girls go ghost for a week or two, and or show signs of disinterest, but I have made it actually work out with them afterwards - and not to be an orbiter.
I see. The thing is you're going to strike out more often doing that so there's no point to it anyway. Of course if you really have no other options I guess one extra text after a few weeks but no more than that. I don't even bother trying to get women's numbers anymore I just give them mine and wait lol
Absolutely, Jarrad Hurley! I’ve done it. Met girl, I fell in love with girl, I treated her like a Queen. She eventually lost interest, I tried to win her back, she continued to bolt, I went NC with her for 3 months, in which time I found new (BETTER) girl, but out of curiosity, I broke NC with first girl. She had missed me like crazy, and tried to “hang out, have fun, and definitely HOOK UP”, haha, but by then, I no longer wanted her. I guess she didn’t pass MY “test.” Lmaooooo Moral of the story, yes, you can get dumped, AND break no contact, AND still get them back too. Miss Me!
You don't have to wait for one girl. Re-direct your attention and effort onto someone new. Be indifferent towards the first girl, until she makes more effort.
Entertain multiple women. When you forget about one you dealt with X amount of days ago and ignore her by default, she’ll come around. And when she does, still don’t stop entertaining multiple women.
I asked a girl to hangout and she said she genuinely doesnt have the time because of exams and other college projects over the next month She said she is just too busy for anything to happen and just isnt interested in any relationship with anyone at the moment. Of couse everyone has time or can make time, they gotta eat sometime right? If she's genuinely busy then she will reach out if she's interested in seeing me So I said "That's cool, when your schedule frees up, send me a message" and am now walking away
I’ve read his book 11 times. On #12 and I’m still finding ways to improve. I’m in the process of trying to date this beautiful woman I’ve had a crush on for a while. So relying on Coach Corey Wayne is more pivotal now for me than ever. Thanks for everything coach!
I'm going by the title of the video and commenting before watching it. If the girl or guy is making u wait and you're not in an exclusive relationship yet, then continue dating (they don't need to know that you are) until you find the right one. Then once you get into that girlfriend/boyfriend stage, then both of you need to agree upon the terms and conditions of your relationship.
Here's how that first scenario with "Bob" works in my world... Woman: Hey John, I think you're an incredibly handsome man and I'd love it if you invited me out for a drink! Me: Sounds great! When are you free? Woman: I'm really busy right now but I'll call you soon and let you know. And I never hear another word from her again.
If she was interested in Bob then she'd go out with Bob. Shes trying to soothe over the rejection with Bob because shes an emotional being.. Doesnt matter what she tells Bob, it matters what she does.
Corey. You’re the man bro! Thank you so much for changing my life in such a short period of time. Life has opened up to me in so many ways and I owe it all to you buddy. Keep the goods coming!
I was out of the for 3.5 years...but now I'm single and recently I went out with a beautiful woman who is also highly intelligent. After 3 dates, I was too scared to make a physical move on her. Afterwards I texted her telling her how I liked her qualities, etc. Now she has gone MIA on me. I just realized I did everything that was in the reverse. Now I have no choice but to work on other women that I don't really like so I can forget about her. I really do hope she calls me back...so I can physical escalate with her. I really should've paid attention to this video before I dated this amazing girl.
joe blow if she went MIA, then she moved on. I wouldn't be too fixated on this woman. As Coach Corey said on other vids, you need to move on as if you'll never see that person again. Continue dating around until you find the right person. It's a numbers game. When I get my channel set up. I'm gonna give relationship advice too lol
@2:43 ...my life example. I texted an older woman a couple months ago being vague with making plans and she wrote back "so are you going to ask me out or what?" ....I fucking loved that from her. I asked her out with a definite date and time and ended up having several amazing sexual experiences with her. Corey your material is on point!
the same comment happened to me after we went on our first date but i hit her up too much and after 3 weeks i finally asked her on a second date and got the let's be friends speech :/
About 3 1/2 weeks ago I left someone (my first time actually doing the breaking-up), because I just didn't see it working out and I wasn't happy. We were never officially in a relationship but there was a period of around a month where we were definitely an item. I stuck with the decision of leaving her, she's tried to strike up a few conversations with me, seemingly just to check up, and I've generally kept it quick and backed off because as much as I like her I'm just not interested in meeting up right now. Honestly I have some things to work out as well as her, but I couldn't identify the issue even though I knew there was one there. Your quote at the beginning sparked something in my head that made me identify the issue and finally I have a plan and am back to the world of the sane. :P I should probably add that she's recently backslid to her old boyfriend from her hometown away from campus. I'm not sure whether that hurts my chances if I realize later on that we could work. But thanks.
If you go out with a married woman (or man) you will never be the priority. It’s not personal. The sunk cost is too high.If you don’t like that then do something,or someone,else
I had such an incredible experience. A beautiful woman walked right towards me and said " I likes you." Wow... My impression and respect for her went up through the roof.
I think that guys are not so much clueless as women think. What I think is often going on is that the guy is actually not so much into the girl as the girl is into him. But because this girl could be a useful backup, the guy also doesn't want to scare her away. So he is keeping her around without any firm decisive commitment. My tip: the girl should check, if he is only keeping her around as a backup by asking him out. If he is still wishy-washy and not committing, she should dump him.
@@skyfall1481 It is not so much that you 'exposed him', he told you all along that he does not want a committed relationship. You were just hoping for more, he didn't.
I've been listening to you for years. Kinda thought your advice was bullshit. But dude, this shit just worked with the girl I really see a future with. Thanks
Coach..........your video is great insight into the crazy world. What I've learned ...........is basically summed up to make "women" desire to communicate with you.......slowly until you begin to become what they cherish.......most! Its a talent you've seemed to have mastered. Thank you!
I've been getting a little more and more hooked on Corey Wayne. Been listening to his seminars. Don't really watch the video but have his speech in the background as I work. A lot of truth of what he says. A bit "Tom Leykis" mixed with the speeches.
Don't ever ignore women, that will only make them want you more. If you remain indifferent and unavailable she'll develop feelings & start to stalk you, maybe even invite you to lunch, or buy you a massive jug of Powerade. Don't be indifferent or unavailable; be tortured, overeager and over-available. That will make them never want to have sex with you so you can focus 100% on your school work. Problem solved.
I have been listening to some of your videos on how to get your ex back. The NC rule is very difficult to handle. Why do thoughts of suicide always fill my head? Great if you can hook up with friends or talk to someone, but such is not my case. As for going out and enjoying myself, that is just what it would be, by myself. I devoted 9 years of my life to my boyfriend, and my mistake was not making friendships during the way. I hope the NC rule works but one is a lonely number, and thoughts of him keep coming through. I just about quit my job, but after several days off, bills had to be paid. Tried drinking but got seriously ill. I am now on day number 7 and it just is NOT getting easier. Did go out yesterday to a flee market but barely made it back to my car, so lonely. I am 62 years old and trust me, the older you get the harder it is.
C'mon man it's only day 7. Find a hobby, a club or something to keep you busy. He or she will eventually contact you. And if they don't make friends and meet other potential lovers as often as possible.
Step off the beaten Path Not sure what getting laid has to do with this but v-necks do look awesome with sports coats. Some of us like to dress in style for ourselves to bruh.
My ex lives 40 miles away. I treated her like a Queen, then she dumped me, yet she’s coming to my town, to visit all the places I took her to, and posting the pics on I/G. It’s been just over 30 days into No Contact. Why is she visiting the places I used to take her to Coach Corey?
I'm having problems resolving the contradiction between being attentive and stroking your love interest with small, frequent gifts, notes, acknowledgements, etc and being "clingy". Admittedly you have to asses the level of interest from the beginning. Because "level of interest" imposes constraints. But some women are like Teflon; they encourage input, but nothing stick.
+mars bender Don't buy her shit if she isn't your girlfriend. don't buy her shit if you're not BOTH inlove with eachother and do it INFREQUENTLY ONLY once a month, surprise her with little things but if you do it before you're fully committed to eachother, like corey says you're just trying to buy their love and that's lame.
Treat her like that girl from online, the one whom you fell in love with but have never met in person; feverishly bombard her with calls/texts/messages and smother her in a cellophane blanket of sappy sentimentality. That outta turn her off immediately. In fact, if you keep that up enough she might not even show up to class. Problem solved. Treat her like you like her so she'll reject you like all the other girls you like. ( :^} )
Well I would love your voice hopefully I handle this right we broke up two months ago within a month she was seeing somebody else so I messaged her I’m moving on with my life I’m glad I met you take care. And I completely cut contact after that. So forward another month to a couple days ago and out of nowhere I got a friend request on Facebook from her I have no desire to chase her but also do not want to push her away so I excepted the friend request and then I unfollowed her so that I am not tempted to react to anything she posts but I still left the door open for her if she chooses to reach out to me I would love to hear anybody’s thoughts on this
I agree with most of what Corey says, but if I'm rejected just once for another guy, I'd never accept her back. I wouldn't trust her - even if I wanted to.
This is what I'm in right now. I asked a girl out and she said she was interested. I suggested a date (as in day of the week). She said she might be busy so I said just let me know when you're available etc. Its been 2 weeks I think? But life goes on and she will contact me if she is interested. She was the one who contacted me first when she came back into town. So just gotta wait but also move on. But she's sooo pretty!!!!!!
DaFuzzyPanda haha. been awhile. we hung out and she even paid for my birthday dinner. It was awhile ago. she's married to a guy that got her pregnant. that's okay.
They are only two options. She is with another guy or you don't meet her expectations. In both cases, there is only one option... Walk away and never go back. Take the L and learn from it. Because if not, she will always walk over you and never respect you as a man.
I'm learning the personal strength of the waiting game, thanks for the coaching Corey. Intel question: I'm thinking when a lady gives her number out, she has at least a minor bit of interest. On average, how many guys does a hot woman give her number to in about a week's time?
My buddy and I would walk along Lincoln rd. in Miami Beach, and women would approach him and say out loud how hot he looked, but it was lost on him. All he wanted to do was drink and continue to have low self esteem.
In a bar with my friends in Winston Salem, NC, I was 23... A woman walking past me, stopped, and said I was beautiful... I'm a guy... We chatted for about 10 seconds before her NFL player looking husband and put a stop to our conversation. I still remember it and it hasn't happened again.
Wednesday- My kiss gets rejected Saturday- She tells me she needs some space Wednesday- she sends a meme, I use it to arrange a date, this time at my place. Backing off was the best thing I did. It is also the hardest, but i knew it was the best way to get over her with dignity/win her back.
I LOVE U...thank you! I have been going crazy over a married coworker who says he is going through a divorce and intially pursued me. Recently, I started ignoring him & he told me he was single and would show me his divorce proceedings paperwork. Then started pursuing me again. After hooking up and having an intimate evening (no sex) he just stopped calling and is now being cold again. but continues to flirt & touch me when we happen to run into each other at work. Im trying to move on but its hard because I like him & He wont leave me alone.... AND we have to work together...HELP!!! Is he bipolar? Am l? and/or Do I need to just find another job??
Guys I'd love some advice. I'm in quite the shitter. So long story short, one of my bestfriend's has a sister and after being around each other quite a bit, we realized we liked each other. So after I told him and everything was out in the open, it's still kind of awkward for us to be dating and seeing each other on our own yet because we aren't exclusive yet. More along the lines of flirting and getting to know each other. I realize that a HUGE fuck up is that we text 24/7 and that's what I want to address. She is 16 and I'm 18 and I'm trying to not text her all the time, but then we don't talk because we can't really see each other yet. I'm planning on taking her out for Valentine's Day but I have several worries. I can't tell if she is really good at playing hard to get or just isn't good at the texting thing because she always seems distant and not interested (she wont reply for a long time or she replies with like 2 word texts) when we are texting even though she has told me several times that she is really into me. My biggest fear is that we won't talk when I do take her out because we text so much, it's already been an issue when we hang out that sometimes it's awkward silence, no matter how much I try to stimulate discussion. Can anyone offer me some advice in this situation pleaseeeeeeee lol!!! -I have considered that she is just playing games, and likes the attention from a college guy but when I pull away she then texts me first and she even got mad one time when I didn't text her back ( I saw on her twitter she posted "Hun dont worry I'm not afraid of being alone") So basically I'm just so fucking confused, NEED HELP.
Dude she acts cold and distant because you text her all the time.If you follow radio silence and stop texting her(not ignore her if she texts you) just stop text chatting and only use the phone/fb/text to set dates.She'll be all over you.Patience, stand your ground , leave her wanting more and trying to get to know you and dont pursue too much.And read corey's book. They way you act indicates you have no idea what's in the book. Read it , you'll figure it out.Peace
What if she just sends snap chat messages like "hurt my knee again after exercise" or "out walking with my dog" once a week when you use no contact technique? Do I answer them like "that's sucks" or "how nice"? Don't completely ignore her but keep it short? Been 2 weeks since I stopped asking her to date cause I feel like it's just me doing all the work. She rarely ask me or seem interested and she has been increaseingly colder cause of my greed mistakes.
Don't respond to snaps like that. She's seeking free validation and attention. Don't give it to her. Ignore her. Shell notice. Shell either change her attitude towards you or she'll stop talking entirely. Either way you'll have a clear answer.
The last guy CLEARLY knew she was showing affections towards him and knew she was giving him mixed signals;toying with him.. He even said so and CONFRONTED her about it to which she played dumb to whatever he asked her.. So to me, he is not dumb,clueless or timid.. For some reason he believes her flirting and teasing him wasn't genuine and she was up to no good. I wonder why..... I believe there is more to this than he is telling...Not making any sense..
Do you know what is not good together anxiety and trying to get a gf cause there gonna wanna go shopping , amusement parks, swimming anything that has to deal with people
My ex showed up at "my bar" with her girlfirends and a guy. She sat down very close to me and my friends. But it was hard getting eyecontact so i didnt go up to her.. She bumped into me when getting a beer and later she sat down next to the guy but looked at me. Is this a sign thats shes coming back thinking about me? A hot girl had said I was an idiot at 2 clock at night a week before on my wall on facebook so mabey my ex were jelous??
hey coach, i recently broke up with my ex, gf of 2 years, we have a 10 month baby. its been about a few weeks but i been doing no contact for about a week. We do talk but only about the baby during pick ups. Recently she asked me if i wanted to go with her to get the baby a halloween costume, and maybe do halloween stuff together. What do you think? i go and have fun, hook up? or just try and keep the space thing.
if you want to work on the relationship i would go and just have fun. let her see the guy she is missing and help her regret the way things are. also, DO NOT TALK ABOUT A RELATIONSHiP , because i'm sure whe wants to know what you're thinking and it's better to keep her guessing until you're both ready.
Hi Corey.. Thanks for this great video..! 👍 So I've been in radio silence since the last contact with my ex a few weeks ago.. I VERY rarely post on social medias, but now I want to start showing my active, social and positive lifestyle.. I'm not too keen about selfies, so I usually just shoot non-selfies.. I look better in the real world than in photos, ha ha.. 😎😜 Does it matter to post selfies, or is it enough to post photos from my activities or the nature I experience combined with funny and positive comments about what I experience..? I mean, does a selfies create more missing feelings for my ex than just a non-selfie photo from me..? I'm almost sure she's in a rebound relationship.. Thanks for your answer in advance..
Corey!!! Please tell me how in the hell you are able to take rejection like it's no big deal? Especially when the girl picks the other guy and not you. I wish I could just swallow my pride and tell them to call me if it doesn't work out, but I don't want to be some girls 2nd or 3rd choice. That's shitty to know that she's only with you because the other guy let her go or whatever.
Exactly why let her know you’re going to sit around and wait for her to come around. Move on and find someone who will choose your first. Women like this will eventually cheat on you anyways. They are not satisfied with one man
I love when he tells us guys we're acting like a little bitch. He cracks me up
true friends will tell you when you are bullshitting yourself or acting like a pussy instead of blowing sunshine up your ass and telling you everything is fine
+Coach Corey Wayne put me in coach! Haha you're rad dude. You've helped me out so much!
+Coach Corey Wayne you got a audio book so I can let it seep threw my sun conscience
Wayne is the dude!! Subscribe to him Jorge!!.
Jorge Flores You’re a little bitch.
This guy's work has completely changed my life. Thanks Corey. You're a God-send.
2-years since my original post and I’ve come a long way...it would take me a book to explain all of the positives in my life by implementing Corey’s work, thus making it a natural part of myself. Thanks Corey.
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Music - The Voice Of The Soul You must be a total idiot if you have read his book, watched his videos and still did that fuck up. What did Corey tell you? Phone and texting is for setting up dates. Nothing more. And what have you done? Texted her back and forth with stupid shit and fucked it up.
What part of use the fucking phone to SET UP DATES and build rapport face to face you don’t understand? I feel bad for you because seems like your IQ is lower than your shoe number.
@@bluerabbit1236 goddamn. The roast is real
@Adrian Jesus sent Corey Wayne haha!! But seriously Jesus is the way
"I got a Farmville notification from you, does that mean we're back together?"
Pepe1776 hahaha!
Yes! Especially if they fed your cows!
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Cindi Heaton Coffman
That’s hilarious
“When she likes you, she makes it easy for you.”
This is the best answer. But if you think about it. That is the only answer.
Is normal not to text each other for weeks??
Until she gives you the " I'll let you know" reply
Really learnt a lot from Coach Corey .... i recommend that every guy should get the book "how to be a 3% man" and read it up to 10-15 times..currently in my 9th round tho lol...It's mind blowing,discovered so many mistakes i've been making in my relationship and much more about women that i never knew, it really saved my relationship tho :/ ....Thanks a million coach.
Good job dude
I have a question. I was on the bus few days ago, and I saw this hot girl checking me out, great eye contact haha, she exited at the same station as me, so I approached her (this was my first time approaching a girl on the street btw), and I was like "hey, I could not let you walk away without introducing myself", she gave a great respond, I asked few basic questions (name, where is she from) and said "hey, I'm in a rush right now, just give me your number so we can talk" and she did.
I sent her a text day after that "hey, I'm the guy who made your day yesterday, add me on facebook" and she responded "Okay, I will" , few days passed but she didn't and I didn't send any more texts after that. She gave me IOI's in person, her respond to my approach was good and she gave me the number right of the bat.
So my question is, should I text her something again and what?
Coach Corey Wayne 😁😊😊
@@Miha9355 you should’ve made a date instead of giving her your fucking facebook
I don't understand why people can't just be honest and direct. No one wants to play mind games. If someone approaches you, and you aren't attracted to them, please just tell them. If you are, then tell them. That's it. Don't play around, don't lie. The last thing anyone want to do is keep wondering what the reality is.
UltraTribes Would be marvellous
But girls dont act like that. Men must understand the girls game.
If a guy isnt immediately attracted to a girl that is never going to change but it doesn’t apply vice versa.
I think that many don't always think about "the game". I just think that girls recognise a weakness in men, and they unconciously try to test men to see if they're good enough for them. Maybe we all just need to read basic psychology? :) The romantic movies have in some way taught us many wrong things.... And for people to really tell what they want might be harder than we think. How often do we see people together with people we wouldn't believe they would get together with? What some really want may differ from what some say they want :).
haha yeah its awesome!! great that you recognised the picture :)
yes, I think so, haha
Between you, Dan Bacon (coach), Jordan Peterson (Psychologist), Dan Lok ( Sifu), my life is getting sooo much joy and fullfilness because I try to follow your advice. You are like the Dad we never had! Keep going! Have a nice day man ! I am 24 and your advice ROCKS
Sifu is full of shit bahahahaah😂🤣😂
Dan Lok haha what a joke....
Yeah! I was thinking some of Corey's advice, reminds me of Jordan Peterson.
I wish I’d have had this throughout my life, I’m 58 now and only just starting to handle women and relationships in the right way , everything I grew up believing has been proven to be wrong, consequently my love life has been a disaster throughout, the good thing is now I’m putting it right and learning to protect and concentrate on myself
Corey Wayne for president!
if women pursued men more the dating game would literally be easier for everyone lol. like the coach said fuck hints and reading between the lines just be forward and say how you feel. period. great video coach
Just don’t talk about relationships or feelings early on & your good lol
dude same thing going on with me and my wife ... been about 3 months now and im marking it on the board too experience...let her go and move on like me.. trust me i screwed up but i wasn't gonna stand being a friend to my wife or a back up plan while she see this other guy or as she called him ''her friend'' i got lazy in the marriage and i know my mistakes. just gonna make myself better for the next love of my life ... good luck to you ....
Some girls flat out will not call or message first, regardless of if they like a guy. It's like an unspoken woman code. I am not sure that always waiting works. I am sure it works many times but I also think you'd lose girls you could have kept by just waiting for them to make the move. It is a societal expectation that the man make the moves and many women are so married to those expectations that they'd rather suffer without you than "lower themselves" to showing interest. But having said that, I definitely think there is merit in making women wait.
Uh, you do realize that you're waiting for a *response*, right? Meaning you already initiated first contact and told them what you want and to get back to you if they're interested at all.
You're thinking of women asking men out on dates which is a different thing entirely.
No I am even talking about waiting for responses. I've had girls go ghost for a week or two, and or show signs of disinterest, but I have made it actually work out with them afterwards - and not to be an orbiter.
I see. The thing is you're going to strike out more often doing that so there's no point to it anyway. Of course if you really have no other options I guess one extra text after a few weeks but no more than that. I don't even bother trying to get women's numbers anymore I just give them mine and wait lol
Absolutely, Jarrad Hurley!
I’ve done it. Met girl, I fell in love with girl, I treated her like a Queen. She eventually lost interest, I tried to win her back, she continued to bolt, I went NC with her for 3 months, in which time I found new (BETTER) girl, but out of curiosity, I broke NC with first girl. She had missed me like crazy, and tried to “hang out, have fun, and definitely HOOK UP”, haha, but by then, I no longer wanted her. I guess she didn’t pass MY “test.” Lmaooooo
Moral of the story, yes, you can get dumped, AND break no contact, AND still get them back too.
Miss Me!
This dude thinks women should do the chasing. He is a joke Alfa wannabe. Don't listen to him
I bought your book today cant wait to read and change my life!
Did it?
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It changed mine...
What is the title of his book that we're supposed to read 10-15 times?
@@ruthsnyder1020 how to be a 3% man
You don't have to wait for one girl. Re-direct your attention and effort onto someone new.
Be indifferent towards the first girl, until she makes more effort.
An Abundance Mindset. Create Options Always! 💊✔💯
This guy is so on point!
I ve been watching his vids and trying this in girls and to my surprise it really works. Thank you.
Jesus, pursuing women is like randomly hitting the right password :(
LMAO :D
GotterVibez nah it's more like letting the password figure itself out while you put your usD in other computers
Never chase, always be observant...Well said.
Entertain multiple women. When you forget about one you dealt with X amount of days ago and ignore her by default, she’ll come around. And when she does, still don’t stop entertaining multiple women.
well said
The title of this reminds of the Whispers singing don't keep me waiting, baby you got me anticipating.
I asked a girl to hangout and she said she genuinely doesnt have the time because of exams and other college projects over the next month
She said she is just too busy for anything to happen and just isnt interested in any relationship with anyone at the moment.
Of couse everyone has time or can make time, they gotta eat sometime right?
If she's genuinely busy then she will reach out if she's interested in seeing me
So I said "That's cool, when your schedule frees up, send me a message" and am now walking away
InFernoZ yes that’s a terrible excuse . If a woman likes you she is going to make the time for you
@InFernoZ Walk away and make new friends.
She's not interested in you, simple.
I’ve read his book 11 times. On #12 and I’m still finding ways to improve. I’m in the process of trying to date this beautiful woman I’ve had a crush on for a while. So relying on Coach Corey Wayne is more pivotal now for me than ever. Thanks for everything coach!
How’s it coming along?
How did it go for you?
How did it go for you?
@@FokwaDivine very well. I’m engaged and getting married next year. Found my sweetheart.
@@JohnHerrick1987 Awesome. More good things your way. Is it with same lady you mentioned in your initial comment 2 years ago ?
I'm going by the title of the video and commenting before watching it. If the girl or guy is making u wait and you're not in an exclusive relationship yet, then continue dating (they don't need to know that you are) until you find the right one. Then once you get into that girlfriend/boyfriend stage, then both of you need to agree upon the terms and conditions of your relationship.
Spot on.
Here's how that first scenario with "Bob" works in my world...
Woman: Hey John, I think you're an incredibly handsome man and I'd love it if you invited me out for a drink!
Me: Sounds great! When are you free?
Woman: I'm really busy right now but I'll call you soon and let you know.
And I never hear another word from her again.
Simple solution. If woman would just be clear on what they want.
If she was interested in Bob then she'd go out with Bob. Shes trying to soothe over the rejection with Bob because shes an emotional being.. Doesnt matter what she tells Bob, it matters what she does.
Hilarious lol! Women play mind games! : )
😂😂😂😂
John fucked up by not picking the day, time, and place
Corey. You’re the man bro! Thank you so much for changing my life in such a short period of time. Life has opened up to me in so many ways and I owe it all to you buddy. Keep the goods coming!
How you doing a year on? I'm the same so much stronger and have a 9 at my side with ease
@@johnkennedy8795How are you doing today ? Still with your 9 bro?
I'm new to this, but in my opinion the easiest way to express your interest in a man as a woman would be a well crafted, direct, clear message
My god this guys a genius. She’s come right back
dunno why I find this guy so funny
Cuz he's straight forward...lol😂👍
Cuz he's calling these guy's weak pussy's lmao. Definitely being real and speaking truth fasho!
I was out of the for 3.5 years...but now I'm single and recently I went out with a beautiful woman who is also highly intelligent. After 3 dates, I was too scared to make a physical move on her. Afterwards I texted her telling her how I liked her qualities, etc. Now she has gone MIA on me. I just realized I did everything that was in the reverse. Now I have no choice but to work on other women that I don't really like so I can forget about her. I really do hope she calls me back...so I can physical escalate with her. I really should've paid attention to this video before I dated this amazing girl.
Have ya heard something from her yet?
joe blow how has it gone?
joe blow if she went MIA, then she moved on. I wouldn't be too fixated on this woman. As Coach Corey said on other vids, you need to move on as if you'll never see that person again. Continue dating around until you find the right person. It's a numbers game. When I get my channel set up. I'm gonna give relationship advice too lol
She wanted a one night stand and you blew it so she had to find someone else to satisfy her. You might have dodged a bullet
@2:43 ...my life example. I texted an older woman a couple months ago being vague with making plans and she wrote back "so are you going to ask me out or what?" ....I fucking loved that from her. I asked her out with a definite date and time and ended up having several amazing sexual experiences with her. Corey your material is on point!
the same comment happened to me after we went on our first date but i hit her up too much and after 3 weeks i finally asked her on a second date and got the let's be friends speech :/
About 3 1/2 weeks ago I left someone (my first time actually doing the breaking-up), because I just didn't see it working out and I wasn't happy. We were never officially in a relationship but there was a period of around a month where we were definitely an item. I stuck with the decision of leaving her, she's tried to strike up a few conversations with me, seemingly just to check up, and I've generally kept it quick and backed off because as much as I like her I'm just not interested in meeting up right now. Honestly I have some things to work out as well as her, but I couldn't identify the issue even though I knew there was one there. Your quote at the beginning sparked something in my head that made me identify the issue and finally I have a plan and am back to the world of the sane. :P I should probably add that she's recently backslid to her old boyfriend from her hometown away from campus. I'm not sure whether that hurts my chances if I realize later on that we could work. But thanks.
If you go out with a married woman (or man) you will never be the priority. It’s not personal. The sunk cost is too high.If you don’t like that then do something,or someone,else
Andy Smith and why would you to begin with? It’s settling for crumbs. My mom always said don’t build your happiness on someone else’s.
Corey always looks like he's about to burst out laughing 😂
To be honest, he's got a very punchable face. 🤷♂️
@@SavageSanto You're wrong, bro. You can like Corey Wayne as much as you wish, but he's got a very punchable face. It's factual, LOL.
@@Ryo-xx1lm tf?😂
It's called having a cheerful face. He's mastered the code.
I had such an incredible experience. A beautiful woman walked right towards me and said " I likes you." Wow... My impression and respect for her went up through the roof.
I think that guys are not so much clueless as women think. What I think is often going on is that the guy is actually not so much into the girl as the girl is into him. But because this girl could be a useful backup, the guy also doesn't want to scare her away. So he is keeping her around without any firm decisive commitment. My tip: the girl should check, if he is only keeping her around as a backup by asking him out. If he is still wishy-washy and not committing, she should dump him.
exactly not clueless just not interested.
@@skyfall1481 It is not so much that you 'exposed him', he told you all along that he does not want a committed relationship. You were just hoping for more, he didn't.
I've been listening to you for years. Kinda thought your advice was bullshit. But dude, this shit just worked with the girl I really see a future with. Thanks
Coach..........your video is great insight into the crazy world. What I've learned ...........is basically summed up to make "women" desire to communicate with you.......slowly until you begin to become what they cherish.......most! Its a talent you've seemed to have mastered. Thank you!
This guy's faf lol. Glad i found your channel bro. Bought your book already👌
Corey you da man. Much love & respect
Coach saved my relationship 🙏
I've been getting a little more and more hooked on Corey Wayne. Been listening to his seminars. Don't really watch the video but have his speech in the background as I work. A lot of truth of what he says. A bit "Tom Leykis" mixed with the speeches.
+Jack Bailey He has seminars?
True, The only time a girl asked me out straight up I was 16. Only once in my 41 years
Hit the gym
You have a great way of talking it's so funny , love listing to you !
Your videos are proven to work for me man thanks bubbo
Don't ever ignore women, that will only make them want you more. If you remain indifferent and unavailable she'll develop feelings & start to stalk you, maybe even invite you to lunch, or buy you a massive jug of Powerade.
Don't be indifferent or unavailable; be tortured, overeager and over-available. That will make them never want to have sex with you so you can focus 100% on your school work.
Problem solved.
Hahahaha 😂😂😂😂😂
Man when you don't ignore eventually then get more and more silent
BEST COACH EVER.
Corey you magnificent man.need your book
I have been listening to some of your videos on how to get your ex back. The NC rule is very difficult to handle. Why do thoughts of suicide always fill my head? Great if you can hook up with friends or talk to someone, but such is not my case. As for going out and enjoying myself, that is just what it would be, by myself. I devoted 9 years of my life to my boyfriend, and my mistake was not making friendships during the way. I hope the NC rule works but one is a lonely number, and thoughts of him keep coming through. I just about quit my job, but after several days off, bills had to be paid. Tried drinking but got seriously ill. I am now on day number 7 and it just is NOT getting easier. Did go out yesterday to a flee market but barely made it back to my car, so lonely. I am 62 years old and trust me, the older you get the harder it is.
Dale McCaig Did you boyfriend ever hit you up?
Get a gym membership take some lifting classes and meet new friends!
Did she ever come back?
You must have had a huge trauma to consider suicide. Should get help and talk with someone. You don’t need another person to complete you
C'mon man it's only day 7. Find a hobby, a club or something to keep you busy. He or she will eventually contact you. And if they don't make friends and meet other potential lovers as often as possible.
That intro quote .. mind blown
Coach- have you thought of rocking a V-neck with that sport coat?
Harold Hernandez he gets laid anyway bro. He doesn’t need it
Step off the beaten Path Not sure what getting laid has to do with this but v-necks do look awesome with sports coats. Some of us like to dress in style for ourselves to bruh.
When a guy cornered me at a concert and literally told me I smelled so f...ing good, I was frightened. I would advise sweeter vocabulary.
Weird situation, hope you got it of it fine
Maybe don’t corner people in corners is added advice
I always move in slowly and kiss the girl, I never ask. If you do this you need to read the girl well
My ex lives 40 miles away. I treated her like a Queen, then she dumped me, yet she’s coming to my town, to visit all the places I took her to, and posting the pics on I/G. It’s been just over 30 days into No Contact. Why is she visiting the places I used to take her to Coach Corey?
Rene P never take a ex back ! It’ll only get worse ! Move on and find another woman
Wait for her to reach out to you....
Thank you so much for the advice!!
I'm having problems resolving the contradiction between being attentive and stroking your love interest with
small, frequent gifts, notes, acknowledgements, etc and being "clingy". Admittedly you have to asses the level
of interest from the beginning. Because "level of interest" imposes constraints. But some women are like
Teflon; they encourage input, but nothing stick.
+mars bender Don't buy her shit if she isn't your girlfriend.
don't buy her shit if you're not BOTH inlove with eachother and do it INFREQUENTLY ONLY
once a month, surprise her with little things but if you do it before you're fully committed to eachother, like corey says you're just trying to buy their love and that's lame.
This answers my question if I should greet the girl, in her birthday, who turned down my invitation for date.
3:10 the likelihood of ANY woman asking such a question is VERY remote - simply because they don't have to.
You'll be surprised what can happen if you play your cards right.
Thanks for the laugh coach, “where is there ‘hang out, have drama?’” 😅
Treat her like that girl from online, the one whom you fell in love with but have never met in person; feverishly bombard her with calls/texts/messages and smother her in a cellophane blanket of sappy sentimentality.
That outta turn her off immediately.
In fact, if you keep that up enough she might not even show up to class. Problem solved.
Treat her like you like her so she'll reject you like all the other girls you like. ( :^} )
Hi Corey
You've helped me enormously
Ed
Best thing since slice bread.. This guy is golden,stay gold Coach!
Don´t shit on the carpet :-D Corey, you make my day (every day):)))
C'mon man! :-)
Coach, your the best! Your studies WORK!
Women very rarely are the first ones to ask for a date. They may drop a few hints but with my experience it's never been the case
I forgot to add that she will leave town soon but I will still wait. If it doesnt' happen, it doesn't happen. Move on.
i can just imagine corey spitting game with a toothpic in his mouth
"Dude, you gotta fuckin' relax..." lol
Does it make you look weak if you just don't feel like doing anything or aren't in the mood?
Great video! Great knowlege!
how if the girl wont respond make excuses and wont listen to me
Well I would love your voice hopefully I handle this right we broke up two months ago within a month she was seeing somebody else so I messaged her I’m moving on with my life I’m glad I met you take care. And I completely cut contact after that. So forward another month to a couple days ago and out of nowhere I got a friend request on Facebook from her I have no desire to chase her but also do not want to push her away so I excepted the friend request and then I unfollowed her so that I am not tempted to react to anything she posts but I still left the door open for her if she chooses to reach out to me I would love to hear anybody’s thoughts on this
Screw the gel that goes back and fourth. Why get sloppy seconds
I agree with most of what Corey says, but if I'm rejected just once for another guy, I'd never accept her back. I wouldn't trust her - even if I wanted to.
This is what I'm in right now. I asked a girl out and she said she was interested. I suggested a date (as in day of the week). She said she might be busy so I said just let me know when you're available etc. Its been 2 weeks I think? But life goes on and she will contact me if she is interested. She was the one who contacted me first when she came back into town. So just gotta wait but also move on. But she's sooo pretty!!!!!!
Zap Rowsdower212 A bit late, but you didn't set a date and time so she saw you as weak and left you. Gotta be alpha man
DaFuzzyPanda haha. been awhile. we hung out and she even paid for my birthday dinner. It was awhile ago. she's married to a guy that got her pregnant. that's okay.
Guy 007 totally agree. My confidence isn't great with women and I have to flex that social muscle. Not sure if I want to get married
They are only two options. She is with another guy or you don't meet her expectations. In both cases, there is only one option... Walk away and never go back. Take the L and learn from it. Because if not, she will always walk over you and never respect you as a man.
COME ON MAN!
Love this guy, no homo. Real talk, no bullshit.
I'm learning the personal strength of the waiting game, thanks for the coaching Corey.
Intel question:
I'm thinking when a lady gives her number out, she has at least a minor bit of interest.
On average, how many guys does a hot woman give her number to in about a week's time?
37
hahaha, is that an official stat?
67.5% of all statistics are made up on the spot
I'll make up some stats for us. Hot girls give out their numbers countless times per week.
Coach C is a fucking gold mine I love this guy
My buddy and I would walk along Lincoln rd. in Miami Beach, and women would approach him and say out loud
how hot he looked, but it was lost on him. All he wanted to do was drink and continue to have low self esteem.
In a bar with my friends in Winston Salem, NC, I was 23... A woman walking past me, stopped, and said I was beautiful... I'm a guy... We chatted for about 10 seconds before her NFL player looking husband and put a stop to our conversation. I still remember it and it hasn't happened again.
Interception
@ 😂
10 years have passed since this video was posted....any of y'all still shitting on the floor? Asking for a friend....
Wednesday- My kiss gets rejected
Saturday- She tells me she needs some space
Wednesday- she sends a meme, I use it to arrange a date, this time at my place.
Backing off was the best thing I did. It is also the hardest, but i knew it was the best way to get over her with dignity/win her back.
I LOVE U...thank you! I have been going crazy over a married coworker who says he is going through a divorce and intially pursued me. Recently, I started ignoring him & he told me he was single and would show me his divorce proceedings paperwork. Then started pursuing me again. After hooking up and having an intimate evening (no sex) he just stopped calling and is now being cold again. but continues to flirt & touch me when we happen to run into each other at work. Im trying to move on but its hard because I like him & He wont leave me alone.... AND we have to work together...HELP!!! Is he bipolar? Am l? and/or Do I need to just find another job??
Stacee Roche you are his side piece entertainment lol. So what is the update?
Thnx Coach!
Guys I'd love some advice. I'm in quite the shitter. So long story short, one of my bestfriend's has a sister and after being around each other quite a bit, we realized we liked each other. So after I told him and everything was out in the open, it's still kind of awkward for us to be dating and seeing each other on our own yet because we aren't exclusive yet. More along the lines of flirting and getting to know each other. I realize that a HUGE fuck up is that we text 24/7 and that's what I want to address. She is 16 and I'm 18 and I'm trying to not text her all the time, but then we don't talk because we can't really see each other yet. I'm planning on taking her out for Valentine's Day but I have several worries. I can't tell if she is really good at playing hard to get or just isn't good at the texting thing because she always seems distant and not interested (she wont reply for a long time or she replies with like 2 word texts) when we are texting even though she has told me several times that she is really into me. My biggest fear is that we won't talk when I do take her out because we text so much, it's already been an issue when we hang out that sometimes it's awkward silence, no matter how much I try to stimulate discussion. Can anyone offer me some advice in this situation pleaseeeeeeee lol!!!
-I have considered that she is just playing games, and likes the attention from a college guy but when I pull away she then texts me first and she even got mad one time when I didn't text her back ( I saw on her twitter she posted "Hun dont worry I'm not afraid of being alone") So basically I'm just so fucking confused, NEED HELP.
Dude she acts cold and distant because you text her all the time.If you follow radio silence and stop texting her(not ignore her if she texts you) just stop text chatting and only use the phone/fb/text to set dates.She'll be all over you.Patience, stand your ground , leave her wanting more and trying to get to know you and dont pursue too much.And read corey's book. They way you act indicates you have no idea what's in the book. Read it , you'll figure it out.Peace
+Chris Chrysaf why all the trouble for a piece of meat between her legs. all the hassel. just buy it
+Chris Chrysaf why all the trouble for a piece of meat between her legs. all the hassel. just buy it
I can't believe these guys don't make a move on a sofa with her touching the guy
WTF; I stumbled onto these pua vids and they are total entertainment.
Did you just summarize your findings and most of your book in one video? How many times did Corey read the book!? Jedi…
1st email. Is there a manual for speaking to men? Any tips for how to tell him what I want? Try green eggs and ham.
Run Bob,Samantha is going to be into you for a few weeks until you like her and then tell you she needs some space.Just let the phone ring.
I needed to hear this!
What if she just sends snap chat messages like "hurt my knee again after exercise" or "out walking with my dog" once a week when you use no contact technique? Do I answer them like "that's sucks" or "how nice"? Don't completely ignore her but keep it short? Been 2 weeks since I stopped asking her to date cause I feel like it's just me doing all the work. She rarely ask me or seem interested and she has been increaseingly colder cause of my greed mistakes.
Don't respond to snaps like that. She's seeking free validation and attention. Don't give it to her. Ignore her. Shell notice. Shell either change her attitude towards you or she'll stop talking entirely. Either way you'll have a clear answer.
"don't shit on the carpet" can't tell you how many times a woman has told me that one boys
The last guy CLEARLY knew she was showing affections towards him and knew she was giving him mixed signals;toying with him.. He even said so and CONFRONTED her about it to which she played dumb to whatever he asked her..
So to me, he is not dumb,clueless or timid.. For some reason he believes her flirting and teasing him wasn't genuine and she was up to no good. I wonder why..... I believe there is more to this than he is telling...Not making any sense..
Do you know what is not good together anxiety and trying to get a gf cause there gonna wanna go shopping , amusement parks, swimming anything that has to deal with people
"Hang out , have drama and...FUCK OFF!!!" LOL, you give the best advice
My ex showed up at "my bar" with her girlfirends and a guy. She sat down very close to me and my friends. But it was hard getting eyecontact so i didnt go up to her.. She bumped into me when getting a beer and later she sat down next to the guy but looked at me. Is this a sign thats shes coming back thinking about me? A hot girl had said I was an idiot at 2 clock at night a week before on my wall on facebook so mabey my ex were jelous??
Best movie to watch is swingers.
Do everything the opposite of Jon Favreau character...lmao
8:00 crucial point
hey coach, i recently broke up with my ex, gf of 2 years, we have a 10 month baby. its been about a few weeks but i been doing no contact for about a week. We do talk but only about the baby during pick ups. Recently she asked me if i wanted to go with her to get the baby a halloween costume, and maybe do halloween stuff together. What do you think? i go and have fun, hook up? or just try and keep the space thing.
if you want to work on the relationship i would go and just have fun. let her see the guy she is missing and help her regret the way things are. also, DO NOT TALK ABOUT A RELATIONSHiP , because i'm sure whe wants to know what you're thinking and it's better to keep her guessing until you're both ready.
It’s a statement of my heart 😂😂😂 legend
Wow this guy is a master 😮
I like your style.
Hi Corey.. Thanks for this great video..! 👍 So I've been in radio silence since the last contact with my ex a few weeks ago.. I VERY rarely post on social medias, but now I want to start showing my active, social and positive lifestyle.. I'm not too keen about selfies, so I usually just shoot non-selfies.. I look better in the real world than in photos, ha ha.. 😎😜 Does it matter to post selfies, or is it enough to post photos from my activities or the nature I experience combined with funny and positive comments about what I experience..? I mean, does a selfies create more missing feelings for my ex than just a non-selfie photo from me..? I'm almost sure she's in a rebound relationship.. Thanks for your answer in advance..
Corey!!! Please tell me how in the hell you are able to take rejection like it's no big deal? Especially when the girl picks the other guy and not you. I wish I could just swallow my pride and tell them to call me if it doesn't work out, but I don't want to be some girls 2nd or 3rd choice. That's shitty to know that she's only with you because the other guy let her go or whatever.
Jmndmb32 watch his "rejected? Greatest comebacks" video
Exactly why let her know you’re going to sit around and wait for her to come around. Move on and find someone who will choose your first. Women like this will eventually cheat on you anyways. They are not satisfied with one man