Guys I warn you. Never ever date or get involved with borderline woman. I've bin through a lot of shit. And trying to help her nearly killed me. Steer clear from them.
I married one. Lasted only a year. Didn't know who the hell I was after. Had to work through it after for about 6 months. Just move on. Like immediately. Not worth it. Good sex? Still not worth it!
If they freak out when anytime you act independant, this is a red flag. Require all your time and do not give you your freedom. Nope. Love is free and harmonious. If it is not, you are not in a good relationship.
My ex said I “didn’t love her enough.” Meanwhile I did all the work, paid for all the meals, drive to see her 19/20 times, faithful... It was never enough. Took her to Barcelona, I planned too much...Thank god we never got married.
My ex cheated on me while I worked and slaved for us, I was more than 100% faithful even turned down attractive working men, and tell him what happened, so I would report to my bf as a sign of loyalty. I actually didn't mind taking care of him, babying him, if he didn't want to work, he didn't have to. (he didn't want to work) I think of myself as being his guardian angel. But took me for granted, cheated on me while I was working and inviting friends smoking meth, treating my home like a bachelors pad. Took me for granted...
You can't with women like this. Its narsisism, a total no win situation no matter what you do. That's what all the clinical literature says. Idolise, devalue, discard. They always do it. The only thing this guy really did wrong is not ditching her ass quicker and saving himself the trouble.
@@calabaza1702 Yes and no. With NPD its muuuuch more then that. They do it with everybody. Co workers, friends, family, even their children. They are totally empty people who you can't fix or win with. If you're a guy they may pump and dump you behind their husbands back. Or they may pump you for 20 years building a marriage and perfect illusion for you. Then dump by just upping and leaving forever with seemingly no reason and no explanation. That's how serious this can get. They should teach about this is and attachment theory in schools its so important.
@@evilmickey if you detect abnormal behavior, coldness in a partner, inability to have intimate conversations or just relax for long, its a red flag or two
I think if you're the best thing they can get and know how to handle them they will stay in line. They may get railed on their girls wknd but all in all they will walk the line. Haha
@@flaminghead1va Yes they will fall in line with you for a long time if they love you but eventually her nature and behaviour will derail what you have. They fear abandonment and when the going is good they fear abandonment even more.
The truth is no book is going to help you with a woman like this. You can’t win unless you give them EVERYTHING they want, and even then it’s only a matter of time before it’s just not enough.
And most women are like these due to similar upbringing through the feminized media! Notice how other countries are different with the way women treat men! But feminists are over there trying to change them!
Andrew Vo Corey's book is not about fixing the toxic disrespectful manipulative women but filter them out. and ya, never give your girl everything she want.
The key to spotting toxic women early on is to listen very carefully how they talk about their friends, ex's, co workers, etc. If they have a habit of making disparaging remarks about them here and there then put on your listening ears and pay attention. It's only a matter of time before they start berating you to others behind your back. Don't be fooled by their often striking good looks and demure charm, because their compelling aura often belies a darker side.
Yup. I do as LITTLE talking as I can on a date. Because sooner rather than later, the "my ex boyfriend ruined my life" so I broke up with him comes up. Dodge these like the Matrix because 9/10 the dude is an alright guy. If he was such a bad guy, it was her fault to stay because she thought she could try to change him...and that's what she's ultimately looking for. Heed my words.
@@RyuEnGamer My ex told me her ex was abusive and she only left because he was about to kill her. Then I saw who she really was, basically the opposite of who she was in the beginning, and I thought she probably told me the truth.
Corey’s best point on this Video is when you put the work in on his work. Your mindset changes. Mine did. It’s not just in relationships but all over my life I think differently.
Um, so the biggest problem here is that these kinds of people don't just change over a short period of time. This kind of behavior is deeply ingrained and take a huge amount of consistent personal self work to turn around. Just for them to become self aware of it can take months or years, IF it even happens at all in their lifetime. Thats stage one. From there they got to be determined to put in the work. That can take quite some time too. In this case its best to just move the fuck on and spare yourself the pain and misery of dealing with these kinds of people. These kinds of people are here to test our self worth and boundary setting capabilities.
Well she basically gave you a gift..she vanished from your life..and was honest in the end..she didnt ghost you which would be frustrating ..that's perfect ..time for you to move on! 😊
*manipulative ppl are flexible and easy going at the start. its really sneaky.* Once the hooks are in, they show their true colors. This woman was crazy, She did you a favor. Don't chase this one man LMAO she's nuts
Yeah this one was a dumb narcissist if she was one. I was with a girl for awhile who was exactly as you describe. Seemed perfect in the beginning and that lasted for awhile. She would then randomly would blow up and almost ruin the relationship. We would salvage it and she’d return to being the “perfect” girl but the same thing would happen again. It was a viscous cycle until one point she just kinda ghosted me and I got no explanation or even a courtesy breakup message. That’s when I searched into narcissism and realized that’s most likely what she suffered from. Really odd experience overall and the whole thing left me pretty hurt for awhile, but I found comfort in the fact she will continue to do that to every future boyfriend of hers. Those type of people are truly sad and will never find happiness god bless them.
I'm a woman. I'm here to learn what a 3% man is and find one! I'm tired of beta men! I want a real man! This woman is ridiculous. The man needs to be the man and the woman needs to be the woman. I think women have forgotten how to do it because of society standards have changed. You can be a strong woman. Just be open to negotiation. Come on women! No drama allowed!
I believe a 3% man is confident, good-natured, helpful, doesn't boast. Doesn't follow trends. Is productive and relaxed. Look for those traits. I think I'm a 3% man. Good to know there are some 3% women out there looking for me, too.
Don’t blame no one . People will only do to you what you allow them to do to you. Have fun hang out hook up. Set your boundaries. And follow them. Keep following your dreams working hard for it.
You are absolutely spot on about the relationship with they're father. My ex who I believe is a covert narcacisst her father is a complete beta and her mother treats him like shit. Always bossing him around devalues him and he never stands up for himself. My ex tried to treat me the same way but I put my foot down told her I'm not your father I have balls and your not gonna treat me that way. That relationship didn't last because I wouldn't conform to her abuse. Her mother ruined her she's now 37 and is just buying her first home and still living at home. Completely true that beta fathers raise spoiled entitled women.
I want to remind everyone that not only should you avoid toxic women, but toxic channels on TH-cam as well! There are a lot of channels that offer terrible advice and turn YOU into the toxic one; there is even a channel that claims he is a coach called "Coach Black Pill" that teaches men negative thoughts...WTF. If you follow that channel you are well on your way to your doom! The people that have read the book 10-15 times know what I'm talking about, in Corey's book there is a section where he says only listen to the people that have successful, quality relationships and not those baffoons on TH-cam. I didn't listen and paid the price for it.. if you want a happy, effortless, drama and toxic free relationship listen to Coach Corey...ONLY
Yeah I notice that with a lot of those “gurus”. Honestly Corey is the only one so far that I’ve found that has practical application. If you are toxic you will only attract toxic women.
Nothing more satisfying than when a woman "dumps" you and you just answer: ok! see ya! women go apeshit! one even called me later to ask why she is the one that felt dumped. lol. love your work Corey.
Lucas I .....hahahahahaha.... so true. Now she is mad at me and being immature. She was holding a a door open to exit the building where we were working. She was looking down at her phone. I calmly walked by her to exit (she didn't see me approach), and said "thank you" ( like she was holding the door for me personally. The look she gave me was priceless. She lost ALL her composure. She'll be in my bed later today. Corey's attraction method, with James Bond examples, have women bursting with attraction at their core. I am truly becoming a 3% man....Read the book guys 10/15 times. I'm on number 4.
Some women will use that as a form of control because they are not getting their way. It's also a huge red flag that they cannot control their emotions.
@Ariyah Hunter Nope, just be fine with it, don't beg or grovel, don't ask her to reconsider... just wish her the best, in a polite way and without an attitude and do inform that you do not wish to maintain contact, since she made her choice. Free yourself from any "what ifs" and be open to something new with someone else. Some women just want you to follow them. Ghosting is immature and I would never do it, always be upfront.
Thank you, Coach. By applying your teachings and some cognitive processing therapy, my life has vastly improved. As most, I found you years ago when a relationship went south. Now, I have a much fuller understanding of relationship dynamics. 20 reads under my belt; but I am still evolving. Thank you, again. Life changing stuff.
At 19:25 I did marry a woman like that and everything that he said came true. As soon as she got a better job she tossed me out and everytime I was always the one wrong, I was always the one making mistakes, it was always all my fault. Wish I would have saw this video 15 years ago. Thank you sir for all you do! Thank you for helping people.
It's horrible the chunk of your soul these women steal. It takes time to get it back, if you're lucky. I've been through this kind of scenario three times in the last 18 months. It has to be some kind of record. I really don't know if I can get out of it.
Are you successful, task oriented, dont put up with crap from women? I'm just asking because I have been through 2 ltr with successful women and it seems a lot of my failures directly correlate to my mission and purpose and my overall success. Just looking g for insight
Maybe after the first breakup because it's new. But I'll say "man up" because it's down to you to look at your problems and sort it out and not make excuses. You'll get there dude.
@@MegaBlueEyezz HE GOT 21 likes for that comment. i feel like my recent girlfriend took a chunk of my soul, id never been in love so much before and im 34. shes 41. but shes a drug addict and a manipulator come to realize
This is one of my Corey’s favourite videos. It describes perfectly my ex. I watched it so many times and every time I realize something new. Thank you maaaaan!
Took me a long time to get all this stuff (I witnessed loveless parents who hated each other). I’ve read/listened to both of Corey’s books multiple times and have all types of notes ready on my phone of what I’ve learned and apply in a daily basis... now working on new ways of meeting good women which isn’t at bars or online dating... this requires growing my social circle with more quality people and activities.
Im in the process of that to. Im not a bar guy myself and all my friends enjoy drinking...time to grow and expand my social circle as well. Good luck man!
Im in the process of that to. My friends all enjoy drinking and going to bars and parties while im not about that life. Im expanding my social circle as well. Good luck man!
Great topic, Corey! We love your work and wanted to tell you as a relationship channel as well, you highly inspire us! Keep up the amazing work that you do!
This was enjoyable, enlightening and clarifying. Seems like we have to hear and go through the same lessons a few times before it really sinks in. To paraphrase you "just because she's hot doesn't mean she's a high quality women. She's not, she's low quality". I mean we need to hear this and experience this time and time again sometimes. But getting there. Solidarity, brothers! Be blessed and happy x
Ugh. When you ignore the red flags...been there, done that. On our first date, had a girl openly admit to flaking and canceling plans with best friends and girlfriends. Fast forward to a month or two later, she started doing the same thing to me. Needless to say, didn’t work out.
Good point coach my ex-girlfriend didn't call me or text me past two weeks so I had the balls to break it off cuz I want to love myself first before women can you love me
Once you get a little older and your hormones start settling down some, you’ll realize women aren’t worth jumping through hoops for.. specially if they have daddy problems. As soon as a woman tells me she has daddy problems I am out the door. Been there too many times.
This story is almost exactly the same as mine. A narcissistic BUMBLE BEE HAS ENTERED THE HIVE. Matched with a girl on bumble and she displayed narcissistic behaviours. She would redirect the conversations to herself always. That was a huge red flag. But I was thirsty just like this guy and I did everything wrong. But I didn’t discover Corey’s work till after this toxic woman when she friendzoned me. I googled “she just wants to be friends” then I found Corey’s work. Narcissists are terrible man. I can relate to this guy a lot. But hey we live and learn like Corey said so I grew from that situation and reviewed Corey’s material
@@cindiheaton1048 I've just had bad experiences. For the time and effort that goes into Bumble and other dating apps of swiping and messaging, and the girl isn't as quality as one I could have met in real life. IMHO.
Great video Corey, thanks to your work, I have an awesome girlfriend who loves the shit out of me and the feelings mutual. She's a doctor and im a police officer and I can't wait to build an awesome future with her. You're the man
Married with a baby boy. Happy and in love. Although there is struggle at times it helps when both of the wheels are going the same way towards the same goal. Build your woman up and they’ll return the favor.
Exactly. I thought I finally found a girl I liked, but I over pursued her. She pulled back and then I was left wondering. I found your book 3% man and did a bit of reading. Listened to the audio book about 3 x’s. Just followed a few basic principles better and I am now with the girl of my dreams. I can’t believe it! I can’t believe how much more she loves me just by allowing someone to come to you. 😊
I went out on a date with a girl I knew from work years back. We didn't get one block away from my house when she started complaining. I threw it in reverse, got out and said have a good night. Walked away and never saw her again.
"Used to punishing people when she doesn't get her way." Exactly. She had a self-righteous sense of entitlement and felt she deserved to be on a pedestal and that her men should count their lucky stars to be with her. Yikes! This was her ego/perception/reality, set-in-stone. It worked for her in that she had no trouble attracting men. But at the same time, it didn't work for the same reason as she burned through men like a California wildfire. Eventually, the looks fade and the end of the road comes. But in the meantime, the psychic, financial, and sometimes even physical damage people like her cause is breath-taking and tragic. I heartily applaud Coach Corey and all others doing important work to educate about these personality types, the red flags, the tendencies in ourselves to be attracted to partners, jobs, etc. that are unhealthy and do not add value to our lives. Getting to a conscious, forgiving, sensible, empathetic, grateful, considerate place with, and for, yourself is paramount! An observation: I've spent the past four years watching Coach Corey Wayne, Coach Lee, Clay Andrews, Stephanie Lyn, Alan Robarge, Dr. Ramani, Dr. Les Carter, Jordan Peterson, Eckart Tolle, etc. I also have read literally tens of thousands of the comments...and what I've noticed - and it's screamingly obvious - from all of those that my OWN experiences corroborate: the chances of finding a high-value, quality, easy-going, accepting, unconditionally-loving, woke, empathetic person are profoundly, soberingly low. As in one in 5,000. Or 10,000. LUCK is the number one factor in "lucking out" to actually find that person, whether through a dating site, a matchmaking service, or just the old-fashioned way of meeting them in a bar, at church, in the workplace, at school, etc. For every comment about someone finding their "dream partner" - and check back 20 years from now and see if that "dream partner" is still a dream (sorry to be cynical, but, well, you know...) - there are hundreds at the other end of the spectrum. What are we to do? Well, we could choose the single life, which I have, and it's wonderful and I'm very happy and finally free from others wreaking havoc with my heart and soul. But what if you're still in your twenties/thirties and you want a partner, a family, someone to share your life with? I hate to say you're screwed, but it's going to be very challenging. It's going to require a major commitment of time and energy and, as Coach Corey and so many others counsel, you've got to get your own "house" in order. The "Big Picture" solution is to introduce every child in America (and the world, really) to social and emotional learning (SEL), beginning in Pre-K and all the way through 12th grade. We can't leave it to parents. That's our problem. Generations of toxic, abusive, dysfunctional relationship role models. Hence, we get the woman with daddy issues, the man who is a narcissist, emotional abuse, physical abuse, sociopathic tendencies, borderline personalities, co-dependency, lack of empathy, and on and on and on. The ONLY way to break these cycles is teaching these skills in the schools with a robust curriculum on a par with the "Three R's." If you want to learn more about Social and Emotional Learning, and who's working on this, there's a fair amount of info on the 'net. Essentially, it's teaching a "Generation Zero" (my term) about being conscious, responsible, accountable, honorable, empathetic, kind, caring, flexible, open-minded, fair-minded, etc. If we did this, not only would our chances for healthy, lower-conflict relationships VASTLY improve, but it would also address and reduce racism, sexism, misogyny, xenophobia, homophobia, social injustice, inequity, narcissism, workplace bullies, corporate greed, climate change inaction, and even crime, poverty, hunger and war! Seriously. Imagine generations that are all mostly conscious, evolved, self-loving (but not narcissism), self-valuing, boundary aware, generous, merciful, caring, kind, compassionate, secure and so on. IMAGINE! "Turd-blossom!" LMAO. Just heard that. Keep on going folks. It sucks that until we either get into our 60's and 70's (and sometimes never) and our body chemistry settles down, and/or are beaten down and up so much we HAVE to get out of the ring, no matter what happens we all keep being led by our lower/reptile/monkey brains and our insecurities and get right back up on those dragons INSTEAD of taking that time - and not a few months, bruh - to really, really figure things out. Or at least figure it out a little, for cryin' out loud. Like, a year. Two years would be better. Of course, few want to hear that. Even fewer want to do that... Hey, just my opinion, but it's been personally tested. And it's an opinion based on the comments of tens of thousands of wounded walking warriors. The people I know, men mostly, who are the happiest, at peace, in healthy strong relationships, AND FINANCIALLY SECURE, are the dudes who took most of their twenties to build their careers, figure out who they were and what they wanted, and stayed away from serious relationships. In some cases, they didn't even date! And they've all done really well in love, money, and life. But that takes incredible discipline, courage, and strength of character that most of us don't possess. I didn't, that's for sure. But I sure wish I'd done that instead of what I did. For the rest of us, listen to Coach Corey and check out some of the others I mentioned here, and work on you! It's all about you! And pay attention to the red flags! And if you can't see 'em, or are in denial, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, ask for guidance from your family and friends who know you, care about you, and aren't blinded by lust/love.
Did the guy ever think about the possibility that she might of had several men she was seeing, and others were attracting her more, or were giving her more?
Thanks Coach.. your coaching has enlightened my life in being a better man and your videos has allow me to recognize the mistakes I've made and go into relationships objectively..
dealt with one of these sociopaths before. there very subtley psychologically abusive and if you have cptsd and emotional flashbacks they look for them to cause damage. they bassically look for your tramua's so they can stab them them, and then put poison in your soup in the mean time. you think your crazy and try to name the things they are doing. but its best to just get the feck out.
Trust issues, bad communication, manipulating, dishonesty are all too common but essentially not feminine at all. Setting up roadblocks and checkpoints to screen out the insurgents so that your base stays secure is essential. If you leave yourself open to the first attack, you will be weaker for the second and all that come after. Do not take it lightly, as in war so too with women you can get mortal wounds, these are just less apparent. Would advise against any close contact with the kind of woman described, no matter the boundaries these kinds of people do not get rehabilitated. (The Scorpion and the Frog)
My brother. A successful attorney and businessman who was as alpha as they come when he was rising through the ranks in the Marine Corps. He meets his future wife and I knew something wasn’t right when I first met her. I kept my mouth shut but I really couldn’t believe what I was seeing especially as time went on.
Dealt with someone toxic 8 months ago, and all I can say is it has affected my view on women drastically. But not so much that I can't hang out and have a good time with them. But I can't bother ever having a relationship with any of them. It's an unhealthy mental state, but it's a state that keeps my defenses up. But in a thankful way, I'm glad I'm avoiding relationships with women. Keeps me focused on my own goals and ordeals without someone in the way of that.
Sir Lucifer I hear ya! Was with one that was very “easy” on the eyes and fun in bed...but a complete train wreck outside of the bedroom. Not sustainable.
A woman can hurt you or help you. There's no in between. If she helps you be a better man, she's a keeper. Otherwise stay away from her. It's really that simple. I would rather be by myself than put up with women's BS.
Because of your videos, I worked up the courage to ask out one of the hottest girls at my gym. Got shot down, but had an awesome come back and walked away with my head held high. Felt very liberating!
@D K I agree. But then the least assertive can often be extremely passive aggressive to make up for it haha! The common theme here is unhealthy boundaries. Its unhealthy to be extremely assertive or extremely non assertive. I've definitely had a crazy non assertive passive aggressive woman in my life before. To the extreme.
Some people from unhealthy family's are taught to smile and nod their whole life. That fuck's people right up. Doesn't make people crazy on its own but yeah. And a lot of the time people will become passive aggressive as a result of never being able to speak up.
Great to see real men still exist. Thank you for sharing & mentoring men with real world values not fantasy land feminist male crushing ideology. You remind me of Doc Love. It's good someone else is carrying the same flame. Awesome. Keep going.
@@fabolousninenine30 Thanks, interesting. I've just found Corey, he's a rare one. I like Russell Brand for the internal, personal stuff also & Jordan Peterson.
One of you gentlemen hit right on the head. Left a boyfriend who had all these traits. He was a liar,a narcissist, and a big manipulator. The truth is he blamed me for everything. When u meet a man that every single woman in his life has walked away from him. That’s a huge red flag. Men are capable of all these behaviors as well. I left him last May and have never looked back. Although it was quite painful, I knew I deserved better. So men your not the only ones to experience this. .. happy dating everyone 😜
I am with you! I had one and really tried to make it work, but It was never going to.. Cut him out of my life. Now I will be very careful with who I invest myself with.
The worst situation I've personally encountered so far is currently playing out at work. I committed the classic sin and had a low key relationship with a workmate. It ran it's course, but now she is like a bipolar personality. One day she's cool as, chilled out & friendly but the next? She won't even be civil, snaps at the simplest of work related questions etc etc. I've had to start ignoring her since her behavior is such a coin toss but when I avoid her for a day or two, she suddenly appears; sweet as pie.
I don't know how many videos I've watched now Corey, but my books sitting in the post office strike back log 5 days now in the UK .... cant wait . I'm single in the best head space ever so I refuse to engage in any toxic relationships , it took a lot of work to get me here including eliminating family members who Are toxic. yes view just started dating women or intend too and boy are they toxic .... are feel sorry for men its hard work ...
This is An example of the woman I’m talking to at the moment. She always makes something bad out of anything simple, and she always makes me look like the bad guy not to mention sometimes during an argument she brings back anything bad from past arguments always making herself the victim. Not healthy person (in general ) to be around. Barely even trust her
I´m about to finish my degree in psychology in Italy and i have to admit that this coach is got some amazing advices for men. Especially when it comes to creating a new mindset...
My ex broke up with me almost 2 months ago. She was passive aggressive and would get mad suddenly over something I may have said or forgotten to do. She would never talk about what's bugging her. She always bottled it up. Sure, I made mistakes and take blame. Regardless, communication is part of a relationship and I don't think she understood that. By the way, her dad left her mom when she was young to start a family with another woman. That probably explains all the hardcore shit testing she was putting me through. Again, I take blame for what happen too.
Thanks Corey, I'm reading your book for the 5th time. I'm excited and learning a lot. Last girl I was dating was difficult, and along with my mistakes it didn't work. Page 180 is what happened. I see what you mean about reading the book 10-15 times because now I'm finally getting a slight feel of what I should be doing. Not memorization of your book but that knowledge/instinct.
I dated a chick that I knew from middle school. She picked me up to go to a lake and wanted to sleep with me within 15 minutes. Later on she showed me her true colors. She was shooting up some meth, and constantly talking shit about her EX. At one point she let me drive her car and ended up freaking out and yelled at me. I stopped texting her and I somehow went to a swimming pool with her, her cousins and my uncle. Later she told she was bi polar, and was driving fast with no seatbelt. I never reached out to her again. Every time she would see me she would always blame me for dumb shit like “I was judging her at the lake”. I got the vibe from her that she wanted someone to just “accept they way she is” AKA why don’t you just out up with my shit and I will have no intention of changing? She was definitely was someone of the cluster b personality. People like this should be avoided like the plague
I appreciate coach man❗❗the thing bout me and my situation im old enough too see this women gonna act and say what she want regardless of the respect she get💯💯im to available to what she want but is not demanding the same in return..im really bout to change up like a pitch..certain ppl dont deserve a willing person
Toxic women not necessary to be seen by actions, sometimes we can feel it. There's this one girl, at first she's like so cozy, texting me non stop, sending me pictures of hers and her meals. Then we went for a dinner date, during the dinner date she's acting as if she's boring with me, looking else where, talking irrelevant stuff such as her lecturer got close to her etc. After got back home I texted her goodnight and the next day she disappeared. Not only toxic but also complicated which i agreed with Corey, NO DRAMA ALLOWED.
Hey coach Wayne need a little advice on something. I've been dating this woman for 3 to 4 years now. I thought she was the one I wanted to be with so I moved in. Like you said after 90 days a person shows their true colors. I want to be happy. We constantly argue she blames me for everything. I can not seem to communicate with this woman.
Man, how I missed your videos. I watched every single one up until 2016 when I escaped the friend zone with freakin' STYLE, married the woman, had a child, to find out I was with a borderline. I was the rebound relationship, and was moved in within 2 days of her previous relationship ending. The biggest red flag, and the rose colored glasses wouldnt let me see it. I knew this all before the marriage, and child. I was kicked out 26 times in a year before the marriage, and a total of 42 times in 2 years before the child. I stayed because I didn't want to admit the truth to myself and thought it would pass. I stopped watching your videos bc I felt they had served their purpose (Mistake.) I finally left, and shes being really cruel to me with my child at the moment, but it's still fresh. I questioned my decision, and did the beta male begging crap bc I missed my daughter, that didn't bode well, and I did more damage, but I watched your stuff again recently, and started binging it, and just ordered your book so I can get my life back on track, as I lost myself i this crazy marriage. Moral of the story is, you helped me get the girl, and now you are helping me get over her, and eventually build myself back up in spite of her. You are the damn best Corey.
2 years into this shit and got trought crying, nervous breakdowns with paralysis, suicide attempts, losing myself. I grew immune to it now but i always have this emotional state of misery deep down. I hope i can regain my mind and soul state previous to this. Even if I grew cold to this toxic shit the tearing is done already
I said the word submissive and my girl freaked out on me 😅 started an argument too. Said that word had kept women down for years! This should have been a red flag but i thought nothing of it. Fast forward around 1 year, she's became dissagreeable, argumentative and difficult to speak with. 🤦 I'm happy to say we are no longer together
There is another one hell of an amazing video called, "Women who are damaged goods" by Coach Red Pill, aka CRP on youtube. Not marketing him but look that video up. Its an EYE OPENER
The problem I have with this girl power movement is that people who participate won't allow a man to dominate and lead the relationship. It's easy to just hold your hands up and say "you lead it then" but you, as a man know at the back of your mind that if you do that she will either see you as weak and leave the relationship OR keep it going for financial reasons and cheat later. If the latter happens nothing you do will be enough and fun will be at a minimum, always dependent on what you are providing. Until the inevitable happens.
Omg…. This whole video and 99% of comments sum up my last 2.5 years. I know what to do… she’s so toxic and controlling and I’ve sooo over pursued and let her de value me. I’ve stayed as I’m late 50s and so scared of being alone…. The meals out and evening thing hit me. She basically really hurt me yesterday accusing me of being untrustworthy over a money issue with no reason . I think I’m done…. Just on radio silence and trying to be strong enough to finally walk away. I feel low and need to do so much self re building. I hope I find a real partner but as cory says I’ve clung on because connections and decent people are rare. Any words welcomed x
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Guys I warn you. Never ever date or get involved with borderline woman.
I've bin through a lot of shit.
And trying to help her nearly killed me.
Steer clear from them.
lol "And Trying to help her nearly killed me" ...your not Kidding.
I feel like that now but reading this encourages me to be strong!
I married one. Lasted only a year. Didn't know who the hell I was after. Had to work through it after for about 6 months. Just move on. Like immediately. Not worth it. Good sex? Still not worth it!
Whats crazy about this coment is that, not every women with border are horrible... there definitely are horrible women that take advantage of men!
If they freak out when anytime you act independant, this is a red flag. Require all your time and do not give you your freedom. Nope. Love is free and harmonious. If it is not, you are not in a good relationship.
My ex said I “didn’t love her enough.” Meanwhile I did all the work, paid for all the meals, drive to see her 19/20 times, faithful... It was never enough. Took her to Barcelona, I planned too much...Thank god we never got married.
This could've been an invitation to learn what exactly she needs from you. All that stuff is nice but not required.
My ex cheated on me while I worked and slaved for us, I was more than 100% faithful even turned down attractive working men, and tell him what happened, so I would report to my bf as a sign of loyalty. I actually didn't mind taking care of him, babying him, if he didn't want to work, he didn't have to. (he didn't want to work) I think of myself as being his guardian angel. But took me for granted, cheated on me while I was working and inviting friends smoking meth, treating my home like a bachelors pad. Took me for granted...
Because you've chosen wrong from the get go
She is that type of bit ch. Glad you got rid of her
I have been happiest in life when I was single and dngaf. I got treated like a King.
If you DON’T check that bad behavior, you’re just going to reinforce it. Hold your ground men!!!
You can't with women like this. Its narsisism, a total no win situation no matter what you do. That's what all the clinical literature says. Idolise, devalue, discard. They always do it. The only thing this guy really did wrong is not ditching her ass quicker and saving himself the trouble.
@@evilmickey she did the pump an dump where to you think men got it from, women
@@calabaza1702 Yes and no. With NPD its muuuuch more then that. They do it with everybody. Co workers, friends, family, even their children. They are totally empty people who you can't fix or win with. If you're a guy they may pump and dump you behind their husbands back. Or they may pump you for 20 years building a marriage and perfect illusion for you. Then dump by just upping and leaving forever with seemingly no reason and no explanation. That's how serious this can get. They should teach about this is and attachment theory in schools its so important.
@@calabaza1702 Neil Strauss who wrote "The game" now has a book called "The truth" where he goes into all this. Its psychology.
@@evilmickey if you detect abnormal behavior, coldness in a partner, inability to have intimate conversations or just relax for long, its a red flag or two
As the coach said... She's a narcissist and even if you end up getting some good times... she will always devalue you. Once you know, you go.
I think if you're the best thing they can get and know how to handle them they will stay in line. They may get railed on their girls wknd but all in all they will walk the line. Haha
Joe
@@flaminghead1va Yes they will fall in line with you for a long time if they love you but eventually her nature and behaviour will derail what you have. They fear abandonment and when the going is good they fear abandonment even more.
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@@Happy-Me. so fucking true jeez
What I’ve learned about toxic and difficult women is, Run for the hills.
You can’t make honey out of dog shit.
Best line I ever heard 😂😂😂
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The truth is no book is going to help you with a woman like this. You can’t win unless you give them EVERYTHING they want, and even then it’s only a matter of time before it’s just not enough.
Andrew Vo truth just leave these types alone they are trash bags.
giving them everything won't work, they always want more
You can't save them! So don't try to!
And most women are like these due to similar upbringing through the feminized media! Notice how other countries are different with the way women treat men! But feminists are over there trying to change them!
Andrew Vo
Corey's book is not about fixing the toxic disrespectful manipulative women but filter them out. and ya, never give your girl everything she want.
The key to spotting toxic women early on is to listen very carefully how they talk about their friends, ex's, co workers, etc. If they have a habit of making disparaging remarks about them here and there then put on your listening ears and pay attention. It's only a matter of time before they start berating you to others behind your back. Don't be fooled by their often striking good looks and demure charm, because their compelling aura often belies a darker side.
Absolutely true indeed.
"What you hear about me, I hear about you"
Yup. I do as LITTLE talking as I can on a date. Because sooner rather than later, the "my ex boyfriend ruined my life" so I broke up with him comes up. Dodge these like the Matrix because 9/10 the dude is an alright guy. If he was such a bad guy, it was her fault to stay because she thought she could try to change him...and that's what she's ultimately looking for. Heed my words.
@@RyuEnGamer My ex told me her ex was abusive and she only left because he was about to kill her. Then I saw who she really was, basically the opposite of who she was in the beginning, and I thought she probably told me the truth.
daze507 yup like coach says people generally hide who they are for the first 30 days. Everyone always wants to put on their best face.
top tip. date 2-3 women at a time. not necessarily saying sleep with them all, just makes you relaxed and options open and you dont chase any of them.
Good idea, but wastes a lot of money....ah, duality...
Corey’s best point on this Video is when you put the work in on his work. Your mindset changes. Mine did. It’s not just in relationships but all over my life I think differently.
Ryan Hunsader .....YES!!!
Um, so the biggest problem here is that these kinds of people don't just change over a short period of time. This kind of behavior is deeply ingrained and take a huge amount of consistent personal self work to turn around. Just for them to become self aware of it can take months or years, IF it even happens at all in their lifetime. Thats stage one. From there they got to be determined to put in the work. That can take quite some time too. In this case its best to just move the fuck on and spare yourself the pain and misery of dealing with these kinds of people. These kinds of people are here to test our self worth and boundary setting capabilities.
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Red flags should be renamed 'bail' or 'exit signs'. Red flags appear to just be markers, they are more serious than that.
Well she basically gave you a gift..she vanished from your life..and was honest in the end..she didnt ghost you which would be frustrating ..that's perfect ..time for you to move on! 😊
*manipulative ppl are flexible and easy going at the start. its really sneaky.* Once the hooks are in, they show their true colors. This woman was crazy, She did you a favor. Don't chase this one man LMAO she's nuts
I can confirm
Very true, this happened to me recently
True
Didn't get to the sex stage even but she spun my world for 2 months of pure emotional hell. That ends today.
Yeah this one was a dumb narcissist if she was one. I was with a girl for awhile who was exactly as you describe. Seemed perfect in the beginning and that lasted for awhile. She would then randomly would blow up and almost ruin the relationship. We would salvage it and she’d return to being the “perfect” girl but the same thing would happen again. It was a viscous cycle until one point she just kinda ghosted me and I got no explanation or even a courtesy breakup message. That’s when I searched into narcissism and realized that’s most likely what she suffered from. Really odd experience overall and the whole thing left me pretty hurt for awhile, but I found comfort in the fact she will continue to do that to every future boyfriend of hers. Those type of people are truly sad and will never find happiness god bless them.
Man when you get rejected like that you just gotta have the self control to say ‘Ok no problem’ and just leave it alone
“She... she weeded herself out, you brought out the worst in the worst, she’a a low quality prospect” 😂😂👌🏽👌🏽🔥
I'm a woman. I'm here to learn what a 3% man is and find one! I'm tired of beta men! I want a real man! This woman is ridiculous. The man needs to be the man and the woman needs to be the woman. I think women have forgotten how to do it because of society standards have changed. You can be a strong woman. Just be open to negotiation. Come on women! No drama allowed!
What are you doing saturday?
I'm not sure yet...I'm in a Texas...How many times have you read the book? Lol
Hi. Enjoyed your comment. I think I am a 3% man and I am waiting for a 3% woman. Good to know there are at least a few out there.
I believe a 3% man is confident, good-natured, helpful, doesn't boast. Doesn't follow trends. Is productive and relaxed. Look for those traits. I think I'm a 3% man. Good to know there are some 3% women out there looking for me, too.
@@cynthiadavison5785 lol
Don’t blame no one . People will only do to you what you allow them to do to you. Have fun hang out hook up. Set your boundaries. And follow them. Keep following your dreams working hard for it.
You are absolutely spot on about the relationship with they're father. My ex who I believe is a covert narcacisst her father is a complete beta and her mother treats him like shit. Always bossing him around devalues him and he never stands up for himself. My ex tried to treat me the same way but I put my foot down told her I'm not your father I have balls and your not gonna treat me that way. That relationship didn't last because I wouldn't conform to her abuse. Her mother ruined her she's now 37 and is just buying her first home and still living at home. Completely true that beta fathers raise spoiled entitled women.
I want to remind everyone that not only should you avoid toxic women, but toxic channels on TH-cam as well! There are a lot of channels that offer terrible advice and turn YOU into the toxic one; there is even a channel that claims he is a coach called "Coach Black Pill" that teaches men negative thoughts...WTF. If you follow that channel you are well on your way to your doom! The people that have read the book 10-15 times know what I'm talking about, in Corey's book there is a section where he says only listen to the people that have successful, quality relationships and not those baffoons on TH-cam. I didn't listen and paid the price for it.. if you want a happy, effortless, drama and toxic free relationship listen to Coach Corey...ONLY
Z Wang nd Patrice O’Neal 😂
@@doncorlllll Patrice all the way!
alpha male strategies is bullshit
Yeah I notice that with a lot of those “gurus”. Honestly Corey is the only one so far that I’ve found that has practical application. If you are toxic you will only attract toxic women.
Completely agree. There is a lot of toxic masculinity out there, don’t get caught up in that nonsense
Thank you, Mr. Wayne this has come just at the right moment.
Nothing more satisfying than when a woman "dumps" you and you just answer: ok! see ya! women go apeshit! one even called me later to ask why she is the one that felt dumped. lol. love your work Corey.
Lucas I .....hahahahahaha.... so true. Now she is mad at me and being immature. She was holding a a door open to exit the building where we were working. She was looking down at her phone. I calmly walked by her to exit (she didn't see me approach), and said "thank you" ( like she was holding the door for me personally. The look she gave me was priceless. She lost ALL her composure. She'll be in my bed later today.
Corey's attraction method, with James Bond examples, have women bursting with attraction at their core.
I am truly becoming a 3% man....Read the book guys 10/15 times. I'm on number 4.
If I dump you, you won't know. You just fade away. No need to talk to about it lol
@@intuitiveself-love9513 If that were true, you wouldn't care to post a response.
Some women will use that as a form of control because they are not getting their way. It's also a huge red flag that they cannot control their emotions.
@Ariyah Hunter Nope, just be fine with it, don't beg or grovel, don't ask her to reconsider... just wish her the best, in a polite way and without an attitude and do inform that you do not wish to maintain contact, since she made her choice. Free yourself from any "what ifs" and be open to something new with someone else. Some women just want you to follow them. Ghosting is immature and I would never do it, always be upfront.
Thank you, Coach. By applying your teachings and some cognitive processing therapy, my life has vastly improved. As most, I found you years ago when a relationship went south. Now, I have a much fuller understanding of relationship dynamics. 20 reads under my belt; but I am still evolving. Thank you, again. Life changing stuff.
The coach is aging like fine wine and is growing wiser by the day. One of the best vids so far....keep em coming!!
At 19:25 I did marry a woman like that and everything that he said came true. As soon as she got a better job she tossed me out and everytime I was always the one wrong, I was always the one making mistakes, it was always all my fault. Wish I would have saw this video 15 years ago. Thank you sir for all you do! Thank you for helping people.
Rauly Duenas me too, Rauly. It gets better if we do the work.
It's horrible the chunk of your soul these women steal. It takes time to get it back, if you're lucky. I've been through this kind of scenario three times in the last 18 months. It has to be some kind of record. I really don't know if I can get out of it.
Are you successful, task oriented, dont put up with crap from women? I'm just asking because I have been through 2 ltr with successful women and it seems a lot of my failures directly correlate to my mission and purpose and my overall success. Just looking g for insight
Chunk of your soul?? Lol. You sound like a whiny girl. Man up.
@@MegaBlueEyezz hey it must be great to have no feelings, no hopes and be invincible. But I'm human. Sorry.
Maybe after the first breakup because it's new. But I'll say "man up" because it's down to you to look at your problems and sort it out and not make excuses. You'll get there dude.
@@MegaBlueEyezz HE GOT 21 likes for that comment. i feel like my recent girlfriend took a chunk of my soul, id never been in love so much before and im 34. shes 41. but shes a drug addict and a manipulator come to realize
This is one of my Corey’s favourite videos. It describes perfectly my ex. I watched it so many times and every time I realize something new. Thank you maaaaan!
Took me a long time to get all this stuff (I witnessed loveless parents who hated each other). I’ve read/listened to both of Corey’s books multiple times and have all types of notes ready on my phone of what I’ve learned and apply in a daily basis... now working on new ways of meeting good women which isn’t at bars or online dating... this requires growing my social circle with more quality people and activities.
Im in the process of that to. Im not a bar guy myself and all my friends enjoy drinking...time to grow and expand my social circle as well. Good luck man!
Im in the process of that to. My friends all enjoy drinking and going to bars and parties while im not about that life. Im expanding my social circle as well. Good luck man!
Great video... thanks for pointing out her narcissism and gaslighting brother. More guys need to be educated on these personality traits in women!!
@Robert Drake it is very similar to projecting. It is where they make you feel or think a certain way, or think you did something that you didn't
Out of all the “dating coaches”, you have the most diverse and VERY important topics. Love it. Thanks 🙏🏽
I'm not a dating coach. I'm a life coach. That's why.
Great topic, Corey! We love your work and wanted to tell you as a relationship channel as well, you highly inspire us! Keep up the amazing work that you do!
This was enjoyable, enlightening and clarifying. Seems like we have to hear and go through the same lessons a few times before it really sinks in. To paraphrase you "just because she's hot doesn't mean she's a high quality women. She's not, she's low quality". I mean we need to hear this and experience this time and time again sometimes. But getting there. Solidarity, brothers! Be blessed and happy x
I never allow anyone to burn me, especially women. Next
“The world is full of people who suck.”. If that’s not facts I don’t know what is! Great video series! 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾!!!
She has to earn you back
Wise word I needed to hear
CCW you are the GOAT
Ugh. When you ignore the red flags...been there, done that. On our first date, had a girl openly admit to flaking and canceling plans with best friends and girlfriends. Fast forward to a month or two later, she started doing the same thing to me. Needless to say, didn’t work out.
The most important relationship you will have in your life is the relationship you will have with yourself. So true.
Good point coach my ex-girlfriend didn't call me or text me past two weeks so I had the balls to break it off cuz I want to love myself first before women can you love me
wrong move. you should date other women and wait for her to come back n fuck her.
Coach is on fire. Love the dramatic sips from no-drama mug. Keep up the awesome work.
Once you get a little older and your hormones start settling down some, you’ll realize women aren’t worth jumping through hoops for.. specially if they have daddy problems. As soon as a woman tells me she has daddy problems I am out the door. Been there too many times.
This is so true. The daddy issue is all you need to know.
Fuck dude I’m 22 and already starting to realize this shit. Most dudes are complete doormats
This video is what I needed to know . Appreciate you making this . No more borderline for me ever again .
This story is almost exactly the same as mine. A narcissistic BUMBLE BEE HAS ENTERED THE HIVE. Matched with a girl on bumble and she displayed narcissistic behaviours. She would redirect the conversations to herself always. That was a huge red flag. But I was thirsty just like this guy and I did everything wrong. But I didn’t discover Corey’s work till after this toxic woman when she friendzoned me. I googled “she just wants to be friends” then I found Corey’s work. Narcissists are terrible man. I can relate to this guy a lot. But hey we live and learn like Corey said so I grew from that situation and reviewed Corey’s material
Looking good Corey, stay blessed!
Man I recently bought your book " how to be 3% man" and it's amazing. Thank you for sharing your experience with us.
What you're talking about is the truth. I did exactly what you said, and I made the right decision 👌.
"Met her on Bumble" was the key issue here
True. That's where narcissists are.
lol I was thinking of trying Bumble because of the women reaching out first like Corey teaches.
@MichelleObama isAman 😁You are too funny.
And honestly I didn't even catch that he met her on Bumble until your comment pointed that out. Tx.
@@cindiheaton1048 I've just had bad experiences. For the time and effort that goes into Bumble and other dating apps of swiping and messaging, and the girl isn't as quality as one I could have met in real life. IMHO.
@@dorseyhairston8274 Have you ever tried POF? I never meet anyone irl but I am working on getting a customer service job.
Good to see you man back! Your stuff is what I needed, after my first 32 years of my life!
Coach is inside a UFO!
😂😂😂 He only dates non toxic E. T. 's
Aliens really needed his advice as well 😢
He got kidnapped for advice
Aliens that love vagina walls
@@拥 Hes got a new Book out now. “How to be a 3% Alien”.
Great video Corey, thanks to your work, I have an awesome girlfriend who loves the shit out of me and the feelings mutual. She's a doctor and im a police officer and I can't wait to build an awesome future with her. You're the man
Great for you man! Strive for the best.
Married with a baby boy. Happy and in love. Although there is struggle at times it helps when both of the wheels are going the same way towards the same goal. Build your woman up and they’ll return the favor.
@@Earl_Wallace married with a baby. Same woman
"Please, don't make me go out with you!" 💀😢😂
Champ1988 LMFAO that was hilarious🤣🤣🤣
The best part of Coach Coreys work is that the more you apply it the morr you see and the more you see the more you learn and fine tune your approach.
So many women have this mindset it’s crazy
Exactly. I thought I finally found a girl I liked, but I over pursued her. She pulled back and then I was left wondering. I found your book 3% man and did a bit of reading. Listened to the audio book about 3 x’s. Just followed a few basic principles better and I am now with the girl of my dreams. I can’t believe it! I can’t believe how much more she loves me just by allowing someone to come to you. 😊
Corey, this is the first time I listened to you and I really like what you have to say about "high" quality people and "low" quality.
I went out on a date with a girl I knew from work years back. We didn't get one block away from my house when she started complaining. I threw it in reverse, got out and said have a good night. Walked away and never saw her again.
LDR... In person she is great but when we are apart holy is it ever a headache. Can’t even ask how my day was
Same here
Edit: doesn’t even call me or answer my calls, using excuses saying she’s busy or around her parents, acting like her parents don’t know me.
"Used to punishing people when she doesn't get her way."
Exactly.
She had a self-righteous sense of entitlement and felt she deserved to be on a pedestal and that her men should count their lucky stars to be with her. Yikes!
This was her ego/perception/reality, set-in-stone. It worked for her in that she had no trouble attracting men.
But at the same time, it didn't work for the same reason as she burned through men like a California wildfire.
Eventually, the looks fade and the end of the road comes.
But in the meantime, the psychic, financial, and sometimes even physical damage people like her cause is breath-taking and tragic.
I heartily applaud Coach Corey and all others doing important work to educate about these personality types, the red flags, the tendencies in ourselves to be attracted to partners, jobs, etc. that are unhealthy and do not add value to our lives.
Getting to a conscious, forgiving, sensible, empathetic, grateful, considerate place with, and for, yourself is paramount!
An observation: I've spent the past four years watching Coach Corey Wayne, Coach Lee, Clay Andrews, Stephanie Lyn, Alan Robarge, Dr. Ramani, Dr. Les Carter, Jordan Peterson, Eckart Tolle, etc. I also have read literally tens of thousands of the comments...and what I've noticed - and it's screamingly obvious - from all of those that my OWN experiences corroborate: the chances of finding a high-value, quality, easy-going, accepting, unconditionally-loving, woke, empathetic person are profoundly, soberingly low. As in one in 5,000. Or 10,000. LUCK is the number one factor in "lucking out" to actually find that person, whether through a dating site, a matchmaking service, or just the old-fashioned way of meeting them in a bar, at church, in the workplace, at school, etc. For every comment about someone finding their "dream partner" - and check back 20 years from now and see if that "dream partner" is still a dream (sorry to be cynical, but, well, you know...) - there are hundreds at the other end of the spectrum. What are we to do? Well, we could choose the single life, which I have, and it's wonderful and I'm very happy and finally free from others wreaking havoc with my heart and soul. But what if you're still in your twenties/thirties and you want a partner, a family, someone to share your life with? I hate to say you're screwed, but it's going to be very challenging. It's going to require a major commitment of time and energy and, as Coach Corey and so many others counsel, you've got to get your own "house" in order.
The "Big Picture" solution is to introduce every child in America (and the world, really) to social and emotional learning (SEL), beginning in Pre-K and all the way through 12th grade. We can't leave it to parents. That's our problem. Generations of toxic, abusive, dysfunctional relationship role models. Hence, we get the woman with daddy issues, the man who is a narcissist, emotional abuse, physical abuse, sociopathic tendencies, borderline personalities, co-dependency, lack of empathy, and on and on and on. The ONLY way to break these cycles is teaching these skills in the schools with a robust curriculum on a par with the "Three R's." If you want to learn more about Social and Emotional Learning, and who's working on this, there's a fair amount of info on the 'net. Essentially, it's teaching a "Generation Zero" (my term) about being conscious, responsible, accountable, honorable, empathetic, kind, caring, flexible, open-minded, fair-minded, etc. If we did this, not only would our chances for healthy, lower-conflict relationships VASTLY improve, but it would also address and reduce racism, sexism, misogyny, xenophobia, homophobia, social injustice, inequity, narcissism, workplace bullies, corporate greed, climate change inaction, and even crime, poverty, hunger and war! Seriously. Imagine generations that are all mostly conscious, evolved, self-loving (but not narcissism), self-valuing, boundary aware, generous, merciful, caring, kind, compassionate, secure and so on. IMAGINE!
"Turd-blossom!" LMAO. Just heard that.
Keep on going folks. It sucks that until we either get into our 60's and 70's (and sometimes never) and our body chemistry settles down, and/or are beaten down and up so much we HAVE to get out of the ring, no matter what happens we all keep being led by our lower/reptile/monkey brains and our insecurities and get right back up on those dragons INSTEAD of taking that time - and not a few months, bruh - to really, really figure things out. Or at least figure it out a little, for cryin' out loud. Like, a year. Two years would be better. Of course, few want to hear that. Even fewer want to do that...
Hey, just my opinion, but it's been personally tested. And it's an opinion based on the comments of tens of thousands of wounded walking warriors. The people I know, men mostly, who are the happiest, at peace, in healthy strong relationships, AND FINANCIALLY SECURE, are the dudes who took most of their twenties to build their careers, figure out who they were and what they wanted, and stayed away from serious relationships. In some cases, they didn't even date! And they've all done really well in love, money, and life. But that takes incredible discipline, courage, and strength of character that most of us don't possess. I didn't, that's for sure. But I sure wish I'd done that instead of what I did.
For the rest of us, listen to Coach Corey and check out some of the others I mentioned here, and work on you! It's all about you! And pay attention to the red flags! And if you can't see 'em, or are in denial, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, ask for guidance from your family and friends who know you, care about you, and aren't blinded by lust/love.
This describes a well worn pattern followed by women with borderline personality disorder.
Not only does he have spot on points, observations and straight to the conclusion information, this coach has a philosophy that sends it home.
The big homie CCW comin in clutch
Crucial advice. Corey's teachings have given me the confidence to say no to these types of people.
Did the guy ever think about the possibility that she might of had several men she was seeing, and others were attracting her more, or were giving her more?
Thanks Coach.. your coaching has enlightened my life in being a better man and your videos has allow me to recognize the mistakes I've made and go into relationships objectively..
dealt with one of these sociopaths before. there very subtley psychologically abusive and if you have cptsd and emotional flashbacks they look for them to cause damage. they bassically look for your tramua's so they can stab them them, and then put poison in your soup in the mean time. you think your crazy and try to name the things they are doing. but its best to just get the feck out.
Trust issues, bad communication, manipulating, dishonesty are all too common but essentially not feminine at all. Setting up roadblocks and checkpoints to screen out the insurgents so that your base stays secure is essential. If you leave yourself open to the first attack, you will be weaker for the second and all that come after. Do not take it lightly, as in war so too with women you can get mortal wounds, these are just less apparent. Would advise against any close contact with the kind of woman described, no matter the boundaries these kinds of people do not get rehabilitated. (The Scorpion and the Frog)
My brother. A successful attorney and businessman who was as alpha as they come when he was rising through the ranks in the Marine Corps. He meets his future wife and I knew something wasn’t right when I first met her. I kept my mouth shut but I really couldn’t believe what I was seeing especially as time went on.
Dealt with someone toxic 8 months ago, and all I can say is it has affected my view on women drastically. But not so much that I can't hang out and have a good time with them. But I can't bother ever having a relationship with any of them. It's an unhealthy mental state, but it's a state that keeps my defenses up.
But in a thankful way, I'm glad I'm avoiding relationships with women. Keeps me focused on my own goals and ordeals without someone in the way of that.
Sir Lucifer I hear ya! Was with one that was very “easy” on the eyes and fun in bed...but a complete train wreck outside of the bedroom. Not sustainable.
Thank you Coach Corey Wayne I never comment on TH-cam looking forward to reading your book. Yes 10-15 times :)
Keep posting! Corey! You are still helping people! Love your videos!
A woman can hurt you or help you. There's no in between. If she helps you be a better man, she's a keeper. Otherwise stay away from her. It's really that simple. I would rather be by myself than put up with women's BS.
I’ve seen the same woman do both. You sure?
"Eject, Eject, Eject."🤘
Because of your videos, I worked up the courage to ask out one of the hottest girls at my gym. Got shot down, but had an awesome come back and walked away with my head held high. Felt very liberating!
The girl I'm seeing right now makes this woman look like a saint. WTF am I doing?!?!?! Lesson learned!
It seems like the most beautiful women are the most messed up...
*see crazy/hot chart 😂
Pretty women are high minded
Tom Lee on god
The craziest chicks are the most assertive with men.
1000000%!
Lol! That's actually really spot on!
@@wdrumz Attachment issues and childhood trauma usually. Deep question. Do you have 3 hours? 😂
@D K I agree. But then the least assertive can often be extremely passive aggressive to make up for it haha! The common theme here is unhealthy boundaries. Its unhealthy to be extremely assertive or extremely non assertive. I've definitely had a crazy non assertive passive aggressive woman in my life before. To the extreme.
Some people from unhealthy family's are taught to smile and nod their whole life. That fuck's people right up. Doesn't make people crazy on its own but yeah. And a lot of the time people will become passive aggressive as a result of never being able to speak up.
Great to see real men still exist. Thank you for sharing & mentoring men with real world values not fantasy land feminist male crushing ideology. You remind me of Doc Love. It's good someone else is carrying the same flame. Awesome. Keep going.
There's many things Corey got from Doc Love. While I don't agree with everything he says, he still has some great information.
@@fabolousninenine30 Thanks, interesting. I've just found Corey, he's a rare one. I like Russell Brand for the internal, personal stuff also & Jordan Peterson.
One of you gentlemen hit right on the head. Left a boyfriend who had all these traits. He was a liar,a narcissist, and a big manipulator. The truth is he blamed me for everything. When u meet a man that every single woman in his life has walked away from him. That’s a huge red flag. Men are capable of all these behaviors as well. I left him last May and have never looked back. Although it was quite painful, I knew I deserved better. So men your not the only ones to experience this. .. happy dating everyone 😜
I am with you! I had one and really tried to make it work, but It was never going to..
Cut him out of my life. Now I will be very careful with who I invest myself with.
The worst situation I've personally encountered so far is currently playing out at work. I committed the classic sin and had a low key relationship with a workmate. It ran it's course, but now she is like a bipolar personality. One day she's cool as, chilled out & friendly but the next? She won't even be civil, snaps at the simplest of work related questions etc etc. I've had to start ignoring her since her behavior is such a coin toss but when I avoid her for a day or two, she suddenly appears; sweet as pie.
I am 45 and just learning this shit.
Coach, got to say the subtle humour is hilarious! Love your videos!
I don't know how many videos I've watched now Corey, but my books sitting in the post office strike back log 5 days now in the UK .... cant wait . I'm single in the best head space ever so I refuse to engage in any toxic relationships , it took a lot of work to get me here including eliminating family members who Are toxic. yes view just started dating women or intend too and boy are they toxic .... are feel sorry for men its hard work ...
This is An example of the woman I’m talking to at the moment. She always makes something bad out of anything simple, and she always makes me look like the bad guy not to mention sometimes during an argument she brings back anything bad from past arguments always making herself the victim. Not healthy person (in general ) to be around. Barely even trust her
I´m about to finish my degree in psychology in Italy and i have to admit that this coach is got some amazing advices for men. Especially when it comes to creating a new mindset...
My ex broke up with me almost 2 months ago. She was passive aggressive and would get mad suddenly over something I may have said or forgotten to do. She would never talk about what's bugging her. She always bottled it up. Sure, I made mistakes and take blame. Regardless, communication is part of a relationship and I don't think she understood that. By the way, her dad left her mom when she was young to start a family with another woman. That probably explains all the hardcore shit testing she was putting me through. Again, I take blame for what happen too.
Thanks Corey, I'm reading your book for the 5th time. I'm excited and learning a lot. Last girl I was dating was difficult, and along with my mistakes it didn't work. Page 180 is what happened. I see what you mean about reading the book 10-15 times because now I'm finally getting a slight feel of what I should be doing. Not memorization of your book but that knowledge/instinct.
I dated a chick that I knew from middle school. She picked me up to go to a lake and wanted to sleep with me within 15 minutes. Later on she showed me her true colors. She was shooting up some meth, and constantly talking shit about her EX. At one point she let me drive her car and ended up freaking out and yelled at me. I stopped texting her and I somehow went to a swimming pool with her, her cousins and my uncle. Later she told she was bi polar, and was driving fast with no seatbelt. I never reached out to her again. Every time she would see me she would always blame me for dumb shit like “I was judging her at the lake”.
I got the vibe from her that she wanted someone to just “accept they way she is” AKA why don’t you just out up with my shit and I will have no intention of changing?
She was definitely was someone of the cluster b personality. People like this should be avoided like the plague
Shooting up meth????😂
One thing I learned, say women over 40, Is ask yourself why are they single or divorced. Its for reasons like bad attitudes.
Why dont we have a "fantastic" button on YT????
I appreciate coach man❗❗the thing bout me and my situation im old enough too see this women gonna act and say what she want regardless of the respect she get💯💯im to available to what she want but is not demanding the same in return..im really bout to change up like a pitch..certain ppl dont deserve a willing person
Toxic women not necessary to be seen by actions, sometimes we can feel it. There's this one girl, at first she's like so cozy, texting me non stop, sending me pictures of hers and her meals. Then we went for a dinner date, during the dinner date she's acting as if she's boring with me, looking else where, talking irrelevant stuff such as her lecturer got close to her etc. After got back home I texted her goodnight and the next day she disappeared. Not only toxic but also complicated which i agreed with Corey, NO DRAMA ALLOWED.
Having to explain common decency to another grown adult is a red flag that this person is toxic and not worthy of your time. Run, run, run!!!
Hey coach Wayne need a little advice on something. I've been dating this woman for 3 to 4 years now. I thought she was the one I wanted to be with so I moved in. Like you said after 90 days a person shows their true colors. I want to be happy. We constantly argue she blames me for everything. I can not seem to communicate with this woman.
Three years on testing this stuff out, I'm telling you folks, Corey knows his shit.
Man, how I missed your videos. I watched every single one up until 2016 when I escaped the friend zone with freakin' STYLE, married the woman, had a child, to find out I was with a borderline. I was the rebound relationship, and was moved in within 2 days of her previous relationship ending. The biggest red flag, and the rose colored glasses wouldnt let me see it. I knew this all before the marriage, and child. I was kicked out 26 times in a year before the marriage, and a total of 42 times in 2 years before the child. I stayed because I didn't want to admit the truth to myself and thought it would pass. I stopped watching your videos bc I felt they had served their purpose (Mistake.) I finally left, and shes being really cruel to me with my child at the moment, but it's still fresh. I questioned my decision, and did the beta male begging crap bc I missed my daughter, that didn't bode well, and I did more damage, but I watched your stuff again recently, and started binging it, and just ordered your book so I can get my life back on track, as I lost myself i this crazy marriage. Moral of the story is, you helped me get the girl, and now you are helping me get over her, and eventually build myself back up in spite of her. You are the damn best Corey.
2 years into this shit and got trought crying, nervous breakdowns with paralysis, suicide attempts, losing myself. I grew immune to it now but i always have this emotional state of misery deep down. I hope i can regain my mind and soul state previous to this. Even if I grew cold to this toxic shit the tearing is done already
I said the word submissive and my girl freaked out on me 😅 started an argument too. Said that word had kept women down for years! This should have been a red flag but i thought nothing of it. Fast forward around 1 year, she's became dissagreeable, argumentative and difficult to speak with. 🤦 I'm happy to say we are no longer together
Definitely doesn't sound a nice girl who's caring and respectful and in her feminine but rather in her masculine
There is another one hell of an amazing video called, "Women who are damaged goods" by Coach Red Pill, aka CRP on youtube. Not marketing him but look that video up. Its an EYE OPENER
The problem I have with this girl power movement is that people who participate won't allow a man to dominate and lead the relationship. It's easy to just hold your hands up and say "you lead it then" but you, as a man know at the back of your mind that if you do that she will either see you as weak and leave the relationship OR keep it going for financial reasons and cheat later. If the latter happens nothing you do will be enough and fun will be at a minimum, always dependent on what you are providing. Until the inevitable happens.
Omg…. This whole video and 99% of comments sum up my last 2.5 years. I know what to do… she’s so toxic and controlling and I’ve sooo over pursued and let her de value me.
I’ve stayed as I’m late 50s and so scared of being alone…. The meals out and evening thing hit me.
She basically really hurt me yesterday accusing me of being untrustworthy over a money issue with no reason .
I think I’m done…. Just on radio silence and trying to be strong enough to finally walk away. I feel low and need to do so much self re building. I hope I find a real partner but as cory says I’ve clung on because connections and decent people are rare.
Any words welcomed x
No Drama Allowed.....that was hilarious and motivating
This video topic was just for me... thank Coach and the respondent for turning the light on in my head.