With Women... Patience Pays!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.ย. 2024
- Why men need to be patient and not overly eager to kiss, touch, have sex, text, call or interact with women they want. Why being patient, hanging back and observing a woman's actions before making a move will get better results, than acting like a bull in a china shop or a horny teenager trying to lose his virginity.
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From my heart to yours,
Corey Wayne
coming from a woman, I find listening to this stuff fascinating, because I can tell you he is spot on with everything.
Glad to hear, his stuff checks out.
Emily Rose why yall gotta be so complicated?! Godamn. Shit is Crazy asfuck.
Emily Rose facts
Emily Rose thanks love to get a woman's perspective
Thanks for your perspective Emily. I see that men can really be crazy including myself.
If she's not hitting the ball back, she ain't worth playing the game with.
+Simetta Min i love that tennis analogy he uses. but is 100 % true like you just said. she aint hitting the ball back, walk away and find another one
Nathan Wong that is how you drive them away. Patients persistence and playfulness only work when the other person is still into you. When someone puts up a wall only they can take it down.
@D. Jiu-Jitsu fantastic. lol
Nathan Wong Buriers, Ha, Ha !!
@@SydneyGreenstreet1227 lol Do you think that is a Freudian typo?
But really I think English is a second language to him, still funny though.
Patience is the key but DON’T focus on just one woman. If one woman pulls away, you pull away too and pay attention to other women. Eventually you’ll have a steady flow of interested women.
Taking a break, splitting or pursuing a woman you like up is not easy guys - but you need to chill to fxck out & slow it down, if you want her. If you storm in there like a mad man you’re going to scare the life out of her and push her away. Step back, remain calm, mature and breathe. Never ever loose your cool - be a man and remain rock solid!
Here's an option that I've finally learned now that I'm a little older: LEARN TO BE BY YOUR FUCKING SELF. You don't "need" to be in a fucking relationship. Get a hobby and passion, then develop the mindset that you honestly do not care NOR give a shit what women think, because most are squirrels anyway. And the prettier they are, the more of a headache they are. And if you find women dippin' and dodgin' you? Don't chase them - REPLACE THEM. Don't waste your time playing fucking Matrix mind games fixating on some woman who wants you to jump through hoops.
Amen
My new strategy: Be James Bond
Hahaha that's awesome!
I’ve had that same sigma mindset for a month and one of my girls told me I’m such a badass last night hell ya
plan b strategy: Be Austin Powers
Which James Bond though?
Corey Chad ...be like all of them bond actors. When i was younger i didnt know any better and used to get pist off fast. Now that im more wiser and suave to say....dont say anything and just walk away and call another chick to keep busy and not call the other. The other will go nuts if you dont contact them...use reverse psychology. If you call and call and call she will see that as a bad defect in you
That downward spiral on the last e-mail was nothing less than spectacular.
If her words don't match her actions: EJECT!
Women's words NEVER match their actions.
Nice
Meh you just keep softly charming and working until you get in there like swimwear and if your craft is right then they will fall in line. If you're not the hottest or most successful sometimes it takes some work to get the ball rolling. I had a girl I went back and forth with for 6 years before she finally came off of it. She then said ' I wish I wouldn't have stalled for so long because you're awesome' ...we had a bunch of great times together, and made some great memories.
Corey, the backhoe analogy was absolutely priceless. I almost had to pull over while driving because I was laughing so hard. Your book and your videos have made me a stronger man and have helped me through a hard time. Thank you for everything you do.
Truth of the matter is no matter how many times you read the book you still got to go out and screw up and learn from it. I've read Cory's book about 25 times but I still had to learn from applying it or not applying it I guess. They don't hand out doctor licenses for reading books, you still have to go to med school and operate on dead corpses first because that's the only way you truly learn
"Repetition is the mother of all skill." -Corey Wayne
practice takes time...it would come eventually, not to worry
Well said.
Totally true. The beauty is that if you read it over and over you recognize exactly when/how you fucked up.
Yup. It's like assembling the pieces of a puzzle. First, I had to learn how to tease & touch and why it's important psychologically. I also had to learn how to be direct and authentic ( had a great experience with that one). Right now I'm working on the respect thing. I'm starting to notice disrespect from a few women which needs to be taken care of ASAP. Fun, Respect, & Purpose - I think that's the big 3 that you need. Even if you have a few women who you aren't attracted to, you still have to notice the disrespect and address it head-on.
I really feel sad for some guys who wins a girl, and after getting laid they'll act all needy and shits like that
Karl Beltran o
Women love to keep men frustrated and pissed off. They love it. As a man it's vital to keep your cool and stay centered regardless of what they do.
"Even though they're beautiful and the sex is great, they're just a motherfucker to date" - Coach Corey Wayne
its like hes Trump and youre the media xD
+hwaner1 "I'm going to build a harem and make them pay for it"
In my case it never came to a date but she chased me and sent me selfies. At first she was shy, then she changed to passive-agressive without communicating with me. The last thing I found out is that she thought I would not have interest in her because I did not use the first opportunity for sex. Ehm.
DO NOT settle for a flake. They will not change. I have women friends who are flakes and I slooooowly backed away from the friendships because they're never ready on time and forgetful. Nobody needs that crap.
+Gail Lewis with girls you were trying to date but started as friends. if so, how did they react that turned you off. when you did back off, how did they respond. please explain
I'm straight and don't date girls/women. Run from flakes who can't get it together. Politely let them know that promptness is important and just phase them out if they can't get it together. Nobody is cute enough to get away with being chronically late.
Flakes as just that. They don't care either way.
+Gail Lewis your 100 % correct. i had a great 1st date with this girl. she replys to my text very fast, she wants to introduce me to her best friend !!!, she texts me sometimes at 7 am and 11 at night ?!?! but i have tried to get a 2nd date the past 2 weeks and she has come up with excuses, flakey. like corey says "dont read what a women says, read her actions". im done contacting this girl, i just deleted her #, if shes really interested she can hit me up, goodbye
2 weeks is too soon for a second date. you're really impatient. you're supposed to wait at least 3 months to even begin to ask for a 2nd date. I've been there and it works like a charm.
What I like about Corey (among myriad other things) is that he is not a PUA dude. His focus is sincerity and confidence. I am dating a woman who is 12 years younger and fantastic. When I met her my initial response was to "get her" ASAP and that made me a potential creeper. Luckily, I watched this video before I went there. I learned to just wait and be sincere, and a mensch. She made the moves towards me and told me she wanted to get to know me better because she felt she could "learn a lot from me", and now we're dating.
Creeper lol
I got that same exact line from the girl I'm dating now!! She's 8 years younger. When I asked her on a date she accepted. Later she told me that dating me was "in the back of her mind" after our first non-date coffee meet. :)
@@OhDannyboy7I'm dating one who is 11 year's older and 7 days..., but she has such a busy life before me it's crazy hard to see her, how we met was pure random fate.. i wasn't looking anymore as i have given up and she needed someone to talk to due to her now ex bf who didn't care or give her the attention she needed after meeting me she broke up with him 3 days later which was 19 days before their one year anniversary but it was a dead end relationship and i just happen to come into the moment were they could not stand being in same room, Either way we connected with each other like we known each other forever as we are the exact same person mentally and she enjoy's that i can learn about her so fast with such little information from her fb or instagram and the conversions we have..., we think we are twin flames... but she is super busy all the time as she has many things going on in her work life as she works 3 jobs, 1 she owns and is a start up phase, 2nd is where she is vice president to her friends non profit, and her 3rd she works for her friend doing painting, cutting down trees, etc. etc.. she is a badass for damn sure.. a real Megalodon and not a fish at all... I did help her one day with her start up but i had to go to work just before so it was only 3 hours of help i gave her... either way i'm the first person aside from her dad who she has let help her with it... and she keeps the odd things I give her as she is odd as well... I gave her 11 rocks which she has above her kitchen sink...
How’s it going for you now 6 years later ?
I've been following Corey for a few years now, and I gotta say, his new content is good, but I've recently been going through some of his older videos and they're just straight gold haha
The older content like this video are the best for sure!
“You hit the ball over the net. If she does not hit back, who cares.” Priceless.
I'm just waiting for someone to make a gif pic of Corey saying...."Come On man!" lol
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Yaaas haha
Jajajajajajajajaja lol!!
uzernam3 😂
LMAO!!!!!! The last story cracks me up soooo hard!! I was following along the entire time... The craziest part is I used to be kinda like that and never used to set the date 😂... WOW.. I think I'm enlightened, that was terrible!!! Let’s be friends 😩🙏. Let’s not... lol
Man that shit was funny af!
I was dumbfounded lmaooo
Last story was hilarious, Corey’s face to everything wrong in the email was priceless... dude really fumbled that situation
this guy really knows women i am very proud of him lol
Let's cook together
Y’all difficult 😒
Man it sucks but you're right. Have to be patient. I remind myself. The girl I'm seeing got out of a relationship a while back and it's taking her a while to be in the right emotional place. I mean the connection is there, we've kissed, sex etc. etc. but there's time where she pulls back. As you say Corey I just have to be patient, be in the present moment and go with the flow. I don't let it get to me and I just move back to my purpose. Based on the book however, it shouldn't be too long when she's ready as it's only been about a month. Just have to hang back, be emotionally in control, focus on my purpose, having fun and let her come to me.
You're still waiting on this girl while you should be dating other women and not be focused on just her
Yeah, I agree. I have been dealing with a passive aggressive female with serious covert narcissistic tendencies as well as major jealousy issues. Yesterday I finally found the strength to be done with putting up with her BS! I finally saw all that I needed to see that convinced me that she doesn't deserve me or my time. I'm so happy with myself and feeling like I made a big step towards accomplishing my best self. Thanks for the work you're doing, you've helped me time and time again.
your being to generous cory .give her a glass of champagne . .lol 😊😊😊
Mafuchkn Corey! Man i swear, I'm blessed that we have crossed paths. I fall asleep with your playlists playing as if they will be EMBEDED into my brain. But this video somehow has opened my eyes for some reason and when you are animated at the end of the dudes sentence is funny as hell! I love the fact that you do daily videos, keep em coming man, we(MEN) need this food for our brain. I get it now. Salute
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Guys, when you feel needy just come back to this video. Sometimes you know what to do, but don't do it b/c your mind gets the best of you.
Golden words of wisdom Corey. I personally think it's less effort to find a reasonable woman who's attracted to me than to play games with game playing women. Pretty much what you said. Bottom line in my opinion is to be a man. Men are not desperate weak and needy. Men have no problem finding another woman to date and don't place a lot of value on any given woman.
My friend told me about you 4 years ago when he was single and now he has a family. I should of watched your videos would of avoided a lot of head aches haha. Now I’m single and feel pretty great after the disastrous break up I had over a year ago. I recently felt like I should start dating again and actually be picky and not settle for less. I end up meeting this girl who is beautiful and we had an initial mutual attraction we went on one date decided to go out again, my 30th birthday happened and she was like I would love to come to your party. So that was the second time I saw her and then she decided to come to my place after the party and we ended up hooking up 3 times that night. Honestly Corey I felt something really good with this woman, I was head over heels for her. I’ve never met anyone like her. So I began to be a mangina because I actually liked this woman. I’ve been in relationships before but I’ve always settled for less because the ones I really want get chased away by me. So it’s happening again! This time I meet a wonderful girl and now it’s been two days since I last heard from her. It hurts but I guess I’ll have to stop trying to get her to come on a 3rd date. Well I haven’t contacted her, I even erased her number so I’m not tempted on contacting her first. I know she felt what I felt because of her way of being with me. I hope she contacts me.
Take your time, you might have been going somewhat fast and now she is questioning things, it’s not usually a good thing to rush a woman as then they question everything. If you take it at the woman’s pace like Corey describes, you are slowly seducing her. Women love the seduction, if you rush this phase you actually rush through a time that would have been her building a stronger and stronger bond and attraction to you. Now she is perhaps placing you in the “fling” zone and doesn’t think you are serious relationship material. Back off and let her see what she wants and next time you see her don’t assume you will be having sex because you may put her off for good. You need to feed a woman’s mind through the seduction phase with romance and sexual tension because this will make your sex life fire in the long run. The most important part of a women’s sexual reproductive system is her mind, women love all the sensual things that build her desire for you. Smell, good food and wine, touching her in ways that build tension but are not overtly sexual. This is a very important stage if you want her to be your girlfriend.
Listening to Coach analyze text conversations is pure gold.
Get both of his books. They are amazing reads. Not just how to maintain a masculine center. How to create a natural mindset to succeed and have a great life in the future.
So many examples of “getting your ex back”. What about new relationships where there isn’t a lot of emotional investment yet??
Same principals
I'm not by any means a ladies man, but i've dated a slept with my share of women and had great successes and crushing and depressing failures. everything he says is spot on. And it's not about playing games, and treating women poorly. it's about self respect and facilitating a healthy relationships for both the man and women.
The step back is so effective. Thanks coach!
Yeah he is. It’s taken 56 years for me to finally even the playing field
Corey dude, I just wish I had read you up in June, all of your videaos are bang on, I have done the opposite of what you have said thinking it was the way and I normally do the right thing, and I lost the love of my life... thankyou dude, I have learnt a very very hard lesson, but will not make the same mistakes again :)
This guy is literally the funniest dating coach I've seen -- not a word of a lie!
Great book and I love that you read the audio book, Coach. I recommend getting both bundled, it is discounted. Invaluable, I am always centered now. It really helps anxiety, when you are confident in your approach to women.
Corey must have his picture on the Hall of fame!
Corey your faces are hilarious! This is a great video!
I actually sent an "over texter" messages 3 TIMES that I was busy and that he should make a date.
He keeps texting me, I assume to get to know me. Lame. I will cut the cord soon. Ugh
This guy is hilarious and very insightful, I’m glad I stumbled upon his videos!😆
@ataensic your right, absolutley correct. @coach corey wayne one of the best coaches in love and life truths. I am amazed on how you put effort every single day in a new video and helping people out. Thats an amazing job, do you ever have time for yourself ? By doing that you inspire me to keep focussing on my love snd life goals and never giving up. Thank you !
I trust, love and feel safe with Coach Corey Wayne. 💕
Lol at the part of the kids banging on their mothers bedroom door "HEY!" Lmao. That part makes me bust out laughing.
You think that's bad I had a girl's kid come in the bathroom and pull back the shower curtain while I was fucking his mom
Cash Montpetit hahahaha
After reading the book 15+ times, this video had me rolling 😂
On my second time. Things are getting better already.
Don’t waste your time.
@@dicktracy5066 Nah, definitely read the book - on my second read as well, master the fundamentals.
EVERYTIME I'M TEMPTED TO RETURN TO BETA-MALE BEHAVIOUR & INITIATE I REWATCH THESE TO CHECK MYSELF BACK IN POSITION
When a woman tells me what we are doing I say, that's for me to know and for you to find out, they respond well lol
That sentence makes no sense
THE PHONE IS FOR SETTING DATES!!!!😂😂😂
Reca noff hard in this day when girls want attention and are texting you how your day is lol
@@IWTBFit’s ok to say how you been today. Literally takes 10min. But texting for hours about random shit is childish unless she enjoys it
I've been laughing all the way form the beginning. I have bought your book and starting to see the light through the smoke. Well done brother..lmao
"the kids are worried when you are coming home" 😂😂😂😂 I where rofling... And the face of corey :D
"you are eating a shit burger" 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
Omg Corey is such a player.
He's a coach! 👔
The more I read the book and then watch the videos. It's FUN. Little by little you understand how to live your life and treat people, basic stuff. Thank you.
She must contact you. Practice infinite patience.
With a mountain of patience and good training, you too can be the controlled dog that you are meant to be. Easy, give up everything that makes you who you are and allow your new programming to begin.
Dont forget to keep your body in "open" postures.
If you're closed off you could be sending signals that she can interpret as you "pouting" and be turned off or uninviting
MY FAVORITE VIDEO SO FAR
I love your attitude....so laid back hahaha
Thanks for doing what you do (big help when i thought i was helpless)
I’m 55 I can say that I have learned that FWB is the way to go.
WWJBD - What would James Bond do
Hahahhahaha
its all hollywood acting- and in real life even Brad Pitt gets taken to the cleaners by his ex
Go extinct lol
I would say, to sum things up about women: be their mirror. Only reciprocate what they give you man, right from the first time you make eye contact. If shes into you, tell her your into her, etc. Dont give what you havent gotten from her. Obviously, as the man, youllbe expected to go for the first kiss, ask for the number, set the dates, but when youre mirroring, that stuff is effortless, when usually it would be nerve-wrecking,
I don’t think a man has ever dine this with me, but psychologically we feel very comfortable with people who mirror us, as long as it’s subtle so this sounds like a good strategy.
Lets be honest here. What girls let her phone battery go to 0 lol BS and clear test
Girls can forget themselves... but never their phones lol
another red flag would be she talks with him about old relationships ? thats buddy-zone^2
I am a female in my young twenties and I love these video's😂 could listen to you all damn day'
"next day i control the damage and send a text" hahaha dude im laughting my ass off.
He was trying to put out a fire with gasoline, HAHAHAAH
There is a girl who says she really really likes me. But not ready for a new relationship yet. I used your tactics and set up dates. Every date we go a little further. After 3 months I slept with her, kissed her, touched her.. But two days later (after she invited me for dinner) she seemed distant and detached. Probably talked with girlfriends, and says she thinks we're moving way too fast. Wake up call!!
I thought that I didn't need your advice any more and was cutting corners. She literally says I am going to fast.. So after feeling bad for the whole day, you bring back my sanity. And I know what to do. I need to stick to the fundamentals and study it more.
Bro you're a life saver. Seriously. I could've commented on any of your videos, it just happened to be this one. My girl just left me and I ran your routine+ for getting her back. Hell, maybe I'll send you an email about it. I read your book and realized all the neglect I piled on her, then used your 7 steps and added my own touch to set expectations and cut contact. I think you'd be proud, maybe. Probably have some harsh critiques. But even if she never comes back, I know I'm going to do well. Right now I see a girl outside my window and I want to talk to her, probably weird to come out in a bathrobe so I wont be doing that. Anyways, thank you for all your work and sharing your experiences. It helped tremendously
any update?
@@laner1172 oh, uh. Well, lot of stuff happened. I decided to get out there. Learned some other stuff and suddenly a switch flipped. Talking to several girls, and ex contacted me, said she wants to fly out for a week long marathon. We share very specific kinks. I'm literally training for it. I guess I can get into specifics but I started with the Coach before I dabbled in everything else, so I owe him a start at least. There's no such thing as league btw.
@@laner1172 well my reply got flagged. Not sure why. Basically I became a lady killer and the ex is flying out for a week for (REDACTED). So yeah. Thanks coach. I learned other stuff too if you want to know my charismamaxx build.
@@laner1172 lol, I got flagged twice. Someone doesn't like me. Whatever, basically my life is awesome.
i recently became a believer in you corey, now im on going through book atleast 10 times :) thnx Mr Wayne.
I can't help but laughing when This guy laughs at the things he's reading. The faces he makes are just hilarious. Awesome advice too.
Yo corey wayne is so funny man but real love your stuff 👍🏽 😅
The last guy's letter I had to wait for three minutes for you to say COME ON MAN!! Ha Ha!! " You're just begging her to reject you" LOL Intrest level is -5. He's getting ghosted C.W. Thank you!
🤣🤣🤣. I love Corey. Listen to him guys! It's so good to listen to a man with self control.
That last email started off as a fairy tale and ended as a horror movie 😂
I love your advice coach, it's helping me see a whole lot more on my relationship
I've been binging Corey Wayne for two days now!! God I wish I had found these videso two months ago when I was dating a girl I really liked and fumbled and made sooo many mistakes. I get your book tonight at 8pm and I will reading it stat!!!!!
Man you sound like a prof ...great analysis !!!
As a woman it was sad to hear that last guy turn a woman who really had the hots for him into someone who got the serious “ick”. I don’t blame her, he was acting like a 14 year old. I bet she regretted getting involved at all with him because he is turning out to be a weirdo.
Love your videos man. Thank you so much!
I just ordered your book in the paperback version. I hope it will help me :)
How is this man speaking nothing but FACTS. Full faaaaaaaaax uno
She was dropping serious hints on the dude with the 50 messages a day story. She's saying he's sending her messages like the dude she made up in that story she told. Clearly telling him to stop sending her messages so she can do the pursuing lol
Corey , I think you funny, you tell it like it is, and to funny sometimes , but always right on the money!!!!!!
every video topic comes to me at the right time. i was planning on re-asking a girl if she wanted to hang out when i see her next week as this week she did not bring anything up even though before christmas she agreed to us hanging out again.. weird. i guess i should talk to other people at the social and see if she talks to me first??
Re-read that book plenty of times, phone is for appointments
This one is an oldie but goodie, definitely brought a smile 😃
Thanos knows what's up
A man with honor and who values his time won't put up with her games. Standing for your values without delay is more manly than jumping through all the hoops.
Bro you are the boss you are awesome thnks for the power I have now I will use it in the right way
Thnx to your efforts I been able to change the world for the best, thanks corey.
Hahahahaha the 2nd guy was totally me before reading your book coach. LMAO
I need to be that content, happy, and patient type of man.
Listening to that last story is why I don’t watch any bad swings when I go to the driving range anymore. I can’t look.l because I feel like it will be contagious.
I’m 37 and have had so many 19-20somethings hit on me. Guys you have to go out and try, reread, try, repeat. Going to hostels is a fantastic place to do this! Young, adventurous and carefree. And if it doesn’t work out either move to a new hostel or wait for new people to come through. Good luck!
you hang out at hostels to meet young girls at 37?
@@johann8686 No, when I travel I go to sleep, seek shelter, shower, cook, meet people of all ages and backgrounds. And yup omg I do enjoy talking to women of all ages. Hope this doesn’t offend you!
@@NFS305 just curious
It will keep happening even at 47 😎. Congrats!
This makes sooo much sense! Thank you Corey very helpful info
After binging your videos I remebered who I am dude. Your advise worked in minutes! I had seen a lady on tinder that we both looked at each others profiles on and off for months. I tried to send a nice message and no response. I put on the alpha and sent her another message. I said " We have been looking at each others profiles back and forth so are we going to interact or what?" She responded almost instantly!
It is so clear now what I have to do not to fuck up thanks to you, man! I used to be clueless.
Hi Coach!
This was the first video I found of you and watched.
Now ive read through your book and watched hours of video.
Thanks for all your great work.
Applying what i learned already showed successfull outcomes.
that poor last dude
love the way you dish the straight goods, man. lol. pure gold.
Lmao. I am just now talking to this chick and I thought I screwed it up cause she is taking forever to text me back. And I thought we hit it off well. I’ve been watching your vids on what to do and it’s funny I stumble across this one which answers why she might be doing it. I didn’t talk to her last night and then she texted me this morning so I was kind of getting mixed signals. But this makes so much sense. She actually texted while typing this. Lol.
Women are like cats. Don't take it personally. Their emotions change like the weather.
That last email was a disaster. I could not finish listening to that one.
Is it ever ok to get a hotel room when your place is too messy and/or have room mates?
i have a story and I need some advice. So in August 2017 my band played a house show. My bass player and really good friend Josh invited many friends to see us perform. one of those people was his sister Jennifer. so she started talking to me about my band and saying she wants to be merch girl (at the time we didnt have any merch). so i would joke around calling her roadie and i could tell she was somewhat interested in me. So after a while we had more shows in the year and Jennifer would come to every single one of them. At first i thought she was doing this to support her brother Josh (my bass player) but then i realized she would always playfully hit me, tease me about my music, touch my face and always comment on my Instagram stories. From there i could clearly see she likes me and i like her too (not love). We would text frequently but sometimes left me on read. So i wouldnt talk to her for 2-5 days until she will message about whatever. So kinda shows she would miss me. only problem was she would have a new boyfriend every couple months. A handful of times we make out hardcore, grab her ass, finger blast her, and she sucked my dick. i noticed we would always have these intimate moments everytime she broke up with a guy. So i realized i was being used until she got with another guy (this guy posts pictures of her saying shes the best GF ever!) and one day she wanted to hang out. we hang out and go to the bookstore and we kissed in the car, i grabbed her ass and she was letting me hold her hand in public. then the next day shes hanging out with the guy shes dating. i tell some of my really good friends about this and come to realize im the SIDE NIGGAH. She has been keeping me around since September 2017!! Most girls wouldve lost interest in me by then. Strangely i kinda like being this side guy because im single, im in my 20s, no strings attached and technically its her fault from preventing me to get intimate with her even though shes with some guy.
Is she a hoe? or is she just confused and doesnt know what she wants? Should i feel bad being a side niggah? Should I take advantage of this situation because Im young and not married? Am I ruining their relationship? Should i keep having these secret intimate moments with her? Am i betraying my best friend josh? Does she have feelings for me?
p.s. Im not a man whore at all. Sorry if my writing is crappy. Sorry if this story is long.