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What I have learned in life is that seduction/manipulation (Hypnosis) is a great form of self-defense. I have gotten out of some awkward and even dangerous situations with this tool and I will never apologize for being manipulative.
I used to feel uncomfortable when men would look at me at the gym or walking on the st, but now I’m not afraid to stare back. It’s how you take your power back.
Step 1: Have confidence Step 2: Practice eye contact Step 3: Practice giving sincere compliments Step 4: Study your own body language and habits. Step 5: Practice subtlety Step 6: Have a long list of topics in your mind for conversations. Step 7: Execute the hypnosis technique. :>
Step 6 is gonna be tough for me, does anyone have an advice for me there? The other steps I can fix no problem but step 6 is gonna be impossible for me, and I need help there
@@hans8087 in my opinion the best way to do the step 6 is to be a good listener. And when I say "a good listener" I mean that you're going to carefully listen to everything the other person is saying: why are they choosing these words instead of those ones? what are their hobbies and passions? what do they like? This is going to give you a huge advantage because by doing this you're going to know how that person is feeling, what kind of person they are and what kind of conversation topics you could talk about with them without potentially making it boring. This is just my opinion, I don't know if it's going to help you.
@@user-xf7mu7ub9d Thank you! And don't worry about it, with this advice you helped me understand how to socialize more than my pervious two therapists combined lol. So thanks a lot for that as well
I'm gonna become a confident version of me. Tired of being so passive and awkward around people. I'm evolving tho. And I think eye contact is something so magnificent. I love watching how famous during interviews make eye contact and talk so casually. Plus, your channel is such treasure I found today, thanks a lot ! Edit 2 monts later: I had no idea so many people would reasonate to this feeling... thank you. Also didn't have a clue till now about this likes, but I would like to thank all who did it , because whenever it poped on my Phone somebody liked it I remembered of this comment and this self motivation I still lack somedays s2 ups and downs and that's fine :) Plus I asked out the guy i liked a long time ago but never said a thing, we even had two dates! (Turns out he's even shier) it was a huge step to me because well I am very shy and even being 20 I've never been in a relationship or had anything similar at all after a single first kiss... haha + I am improving at college interaction, making more colleagues yet without changing who I am, I like to be alone at home, take my time too and being a little introverted, recharge, but now if I want to go and say hi to someone, I know that I can do this (and I do this) I feel I wouldn't be thinking a billion times like before :) Thanks for all the messages s2 thanks for the motivation, we can gradually improve our confidence!
Girlllllll! Lemme tell you I used to have an issue with eye contact but as I grew in my profession (PT) I started learning to make more eye contact with patients. It helps to reassure them and let them know I am talking facts. Now it is my default to look people straight in the eye.
What a beautiful comment! Thank you so much for watching and leaving a comment here. I really appreciate the show of support. You’re very kind. Take care!
I'm a little shy so if I notice an attractive guy looking at me, I immediately look away! It's going to take me coming out of my comfort zone.....But there's one way and that's to jump in w both feet!! Like they say..."practice makes perfect." Thank-you so much for this video♡
Takeaway: maintain eye contact, shift eye contact to something you want, compliment, say how much you have enjoyed with them and want to stay; praise the aspect that you have to gain
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
Wow I just realised I have been doing this for last 10 years. I have always had a power over people. They tell me I'm charismatic and my eyes are really nice. I think its possible that I have been doing this whole of my life without realising. I used to look average but had a lot of suitors with time I turned attractive as I groomed myself better and felt confident and with time I got a lot of attention and had an almost 95% rate or more of getting attention from people I personally liked. Now off late I have gained a lot of weight and feel shit but I do have great people skills.
Hello! Thank you for watching and commenting. It definitely sounds like you’ve used these techniques, almost unknowingly, many times. I’m glad to hear it was usually very successful for you! I’m sorry, however, to hear that you’re not feeling particularly well as of late, and that perhaps your confidence and body-image have taken a hit. I understand weight gain feels heavy in more ways than one. Try hard to remember the power and ability you have, and the wonderful things you’ve accomplished and will accomplish. Incoming cliché alert: You’re more than a body. You still have those great social skills! Take care of yourself. I wish you well.
I too have a friend crazily charming and charismatic as f**k When I ask him ho do you do that He always reply with something that doesn't make really sense to me But once he told me that if he locks eye on someone he thinks is important and intersting to him, he have the ability to talk to them without talking and even with 10mt distance If he wants to send a sexual signal to someone he saw for the first time he makes sure it's 100% sexual If he wants to send a respectful signal he makes sure it's 100% respectful nothing else And at the same time he make sure that he is the Lion in the crowd who is humble as well I wish I had that power but I don't regret cuz I also have some powers If it's respect to someone he
@@TheMeansofSeduction Wonderful words! Thank you for your message it really resonated with me. We are indeed timeless beings inside a meat suit floating through the universe 🥰
I work at walmart as a teenager. I used to be a pretty shy person and wouldn't be able to even look at someone's face (especially during quarantine). But ever since working in retail, I have found it so easy to look everyone straight to their eyes and proudly help them.
It always seduces me and my partner when we just stare deeply into eachother eyes it's so intense and have such a deep connection. It really is extremely powerful 😊
I'm so jealous. I can't have a partner. I could never look in somebody's eyes. It's terrifying and I avoid it. My parents neglected me and I don't trust people. I'm 56 and can't connect to people. I'm so glad you're happy and I wish you the best. ✌️🕊️
I wont look into the eyes of people who are deceitful, trained that eye contact is a "power move". Eye contact with an uplifting presence tends to completely shift and elevate ur own current state. So I would say, dont fake it. It's a message to urself and giving the gaze only to the people or person u are genuinely into. It's ok to awkward.
I've noticed that the person to maintain and follow through with eye contact till the other looks away is usually established as the dominant, alpha, or boss of the situation. More confident people are also able to maintain eye contact for longer periods of time, while others will immediately look way, because the "alpha" will perhaps read their true thoughts and feel exposed. I have been on both sides of the coin. And I usually tend to maintain eye contact with people who I want to impress, or who I like.
I'm going to break this down as I see it. 1. Initiate and hold eye contact 2. Break from eye contact to play with your hair or something on your person 3. Talk from your own perspective "I". Remember that your observations are only from your perspective, not his or anyone else's. 4. Cultivate an heir of *gratitude* and goodwill 5. Be vulnerable I might have missed one! 😅
This video is tremendous. It's not cringe like most things on TH-cam about this topic, it is not reductive in that it restricts it to romantic advancements, and it's very well explained. It doesn't go to the typical common places, or opinions about the topic. It's original!!! 👏👏👏👏👏
Wow! Such a wonderful compliment to send my way. I’m truly flattered. Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate you taking the time to comment your support and share your opinions. I am very new to TH-cam and making videos, so this was really encouraging to read. Your comment brightened my day. Take care!
@@TheMeansofSeduction I'm so glad it did!! The video is really good. It brings something new to the table, much needed in the seduction realm. We all had our fair share (or unfair lol) of pickup artists 🤮 I like it because first of all is something subtle and a lot of people aren't aware of the gaze - the eyes. And second of all because you manage to put an invisible "vague" thing into words and most people disregarded it from the start, because of its "vagueness" and "not measurable". And another amazing thing you didn't do (aha) is bringing up scientific bullshit of studies, and so on, to this. You brought experience, your opinions, and observations. Very Well Done. Thank you so muchhhhh 🤗❤️
Lol...m not scorpio but i have mu saturn, uranus and neptune in scorpio...but i have been more of a scorpio all my life...even wen it is not my primary sign
I love this video ! I’m so glad I stumbled upon it. One thing I do struggle with is maintaining eye contact with someone I find attractive because of the intimidation but now I am going to use it for my advantage
I’m glad you found the video useful! I’m excited to hear that you’re feeling empowered to make eye contact and use it to your advantage now. It will take time and practice to integrate this into your interactions, but you’ll gain so much from extending yourself out of your comfort zone. Thank you for watching and commenting. Take care!
This video is amazing, I'm so grateful to youtube algorithm that I stumbled upon this greatness. I want more of such videos. Please make more and post it.
Thank you so much for watching! I’m glad you enjoyed the video. As a new creator here, I really appreciate your comment of encouragement and support. These types of comments are always very motivating. Thank you!
@@TheMeansofSeduction can you make more videos about manipulation with eyes pleeasee,or maybe with voive,whichever you choose it would be good.Thanks in advance.
So interesting.I am very fond of gazing at eyes,intense as well as very cold eyes.I visit prisons.I gaze at eyes.The reaction is a flood of tears.Your description is another level.
It’s such a shame this channel doesn’t post at all or frequently.. this channel shares a ton of incredibly helpful information and that was just by one video alone. I put this into practice (looking people in the eyes) and I was treated with more respect and I definitely got good ladies reactions 😬
I’m so glad you’ve been able to put these techniques into practice, and moreover that you’ve actually found some success! It’s a fun process, especially comparing how you’re treated when you neglect eye contact versus when you actively use it. I appreciate your comment and interest in the state of this channel. I will be making more videos and uploading more over time. I have many ideas, and have put pen to paper countless times, but I’m still by no means a “TH-camr” and certainly not able to make this a full-time gig. This terrain is still quite new to me, and I made my first video last year all in good fun. I never imagined people would actually find it or be interested enough to stick around for more! I was just testing the waters. Recently, I’ve been receiving a lot more comments and seen my viewership steadily increase in ways I never anticipated (but sometimes daydreamed about). It’s exciting, and I’m eager to share more of my passion project with a community warm and welcoming enough to watch it, but it will take time on my end. Thank you for watching the few videos I do (presently) have and for commenting here! I appreciate the support. Take care.
@@TheMeansofSeduction I’m telling you this right now; TH-cam is the sort of thing that whatever amount of effort you put out is what you’ll get back. I highly suggest you take this into consideration. The value that this channel holds is the type of stuff people want to subscribe to. I can certainly see this channel getting big of you just put in more effort I promise you that.
@@abrahamcastillo2299 I appreciate your advice. It is obviously coming from a supportive and compassionate place. Unfortunately, I don’t think many people are graced with this type of advice when they most need it, so thank you. You have me feeling greatly inspired to create more, and I sincerely appreciate you taking the time to write all that you have here! Your words are more than a compliment, they’re the gentle nudge of encouragement only someone who really cares and believes in someone else would give; I appreciate that deeply. You, and the people like you that I’ve had the pleasure of speaking with in the comments so far, are finding me at what I’m sure is the most vital stage in my journey. I’m grateful to everyone who has recently viewed and commented, because those e-mail notifications suddenly reminded me of that “TH-cam thing” I’d almost let slip away. I hope your life’s grandest goals and passions are met with the same kindness, support, and honest advice you’ve passed along to me. We need more people like you.
I am always complimented on my eyes....and I just realized I seem to use these seduction techniques without even knowing. Eye contact is somethin I know when and how to use powerfully...and now I realise it might be one of the reasons I intimidate some people...damn. It felt great to learn bout this though. Thanks a lot♡
I remember watching the Turner Classic Movie channel when I was a kid and I remember seeing how large Bette Davis eyes were. I remember seeing her in a movie for the first time and thought how big and expressive her eyes were and I remember how beautiful and charismatic she was. I had been in love with classic/black and white films every since then!
Not saying this in a braggy way but i have pretty doll eyes, and people often tell me how to use them, then this video came up on my seuggestions, and then i found out what they meant.
Thank you for making these. I was seduced by a con artist, not ever understanding the things she was doing to me until it was too late. She psychologically tortured me with drugs and stole all of my information. It's something I would not wish on my worst enemy. Bringing these techniques to light is incredibly important. And you use excellent conciseness in your videos. 🙏
This video is amazing. I have NEVER ever ever (!!!) watched the same video 5 times in a row. This cobcept is amazing: the music, black and white old movies, concise & short teachings, your voice over. You have a extremely refreshing glance on the topic, that is nowhere to be seen on youtube. Stick to this concept, I truly believe that you will form a great community in no time. About the topic of the video, I have been practicing the 'intense eye contact' this past year and it was extremely effective (sometimes even a bit too much because men interpret it as a sign of interest when it is not (how to deal with that but still gaining connections/favors?)). But I didn't know that it related to hypnotism, that I have been practicing on myself. I love to see these two subjects merge. I will totally implement the suggestive phrases, starting tomorrow. Thank you for doing such an amazing video!
Hello, Céline! Thank you so much for watching and leaving me this sweet comment! I really appreciate your feedback. I’m so glad you enjoyed the video and that you’ve found success using similar practices over the course of your life. It’s amazing what simple eye contact, gestures, and body language can do, isn’t it? It sounds like you’ve put this to good use! As for men assuming you have romantic interest in them, I’d say there’s probably very little you can do to control their reactions in that way. Sometimes, the assumed interest can get you more of what you want (if you play along for awhile), but this can be dangerous, so I hardly recommend feeding into the wrong ideas, especially if you’re aware it’s already been misinterpreted. Acting aloof to someone’s obvious romantic interest in you only works until they make formal advances, then you can’t ignore it anymore and it’s probably better if you don’t. It can make everything so much more uncomfortable in the long-run. I just establish my boundaries early and stick to them unwaveringly, and I always tell other women to do the same. Stay safe out there! Thanks again for watching and commenting. I am so grateful for your support on my little channel. Take care!
@@TheMeansofSeduction Boundaries, got it. It comes so easy to me with people who are my age. But anytime I have to deal with older people, I feel like a child again... I just have to remember that I am a 20 years-old adult now and that it is okay to say no. Thank you for taking the time to reply. Inputs from experienced people are always valuable. Big hugs from France !
Every man I’ve ever done this to is on a whim and it always progresses the relationship. Now this guy stops at my desk twice a day. I tried to back off w my gaze but I did it again and it started all over. The power is extremely addictive
NOTES: Keep FOCUS on you and your eyes occasionally shift focus on something other than your eyes (still you) to avoid FATIGUE. point out something the person is doing or is making you feel (preferably in the form of a compliment) to make them feel comfortable this is how you will LEAD. EMBED COMMANDS in. the form of i statements. plant (multiple) ideas like seeds, compliment an action to reinforce said action.
Use this skill wisely because you are playing with innocent people's feelings ... Even if you don't care about that and only care about yourself, what goes around comes around ✨👀✨
@@visible5632 It is a metaphor to describe TH-cam as an ocean and we are the drops of water that make up that ocean ... Every little drop equally matters for without them, there would be no ocean.
Very good advice and comments. Had to learn this fast when I became a bartender when going to school and really needed to make good money. This ability served me very well in the following 50 yrs.
I really enjoyed watching this video and realized I seduce on the daily. I get that I’m a flirt from my friends often but I never understood what that meant exactly (and so I’d deflect saying “I’m a Libra” 🤷🏾♀️ )until now. I make eye contact whenever I have a conversation with someone and also have. I take pride in this characteristic, it’s me!
I feel like people fall infatuated with me too quickly😂 but I do think I have good social skills and others just don’t feel confident with eye contact, and so I just thought that made me stand out.
Absolutely. If you’re confident enough to make eye contact with anyone, especially amongst people who usually don’t initiate it themselves, you’ll surely stand out. Keep at it! Thanks for commenting. Take care!
Exactly, I never understood why people shy away with eye contact. So, I have to initiate with me. Plus point, my fierce hazel eyes with sharp dark eyebrows really hypnotise the people I am talking to. 😂😂😂😂
Everytime I see the guy I’m dating do something nice or clever I say “that was so smart of you, you’re very good at this” hence him buying tickets for a movie for us online, he smiles very happy about the little simple things and does it again of course
Hello, Cristiana! Thank you so much for watching, commenting, and especially for subscribing! I’ll be sure to check out more of the “Charisma on Command” channel, as I’d never heard of it before. At a glance, it already looks like a very fun educational channel I might enjoy. There’s so many channels on here, I’m always pleasantly surprised to find one that’s new to me. Thanks for introducing me to this one! Take care, and thanks again for subscribing!
So excited to see future uploads from this channel. These videos are absolute gold! informative, well-researched and educational, plus the example phrases and scenes really help
Saying "I need a raise or you should love me" sounds aggressive. Nobody wants to face a tiger. Every feared leader ended up dead. Subbed cuz I love deep thinking.
i used to do that a lot with my teachers. when i wanted a higher grade for the semester, id go and act nice and say things like "i really care about this subject, since its one of my favourites. id really like to get the chance to get a higher grade, i could do an extra project or retake the last test, if that could help". this way, the teacher wluld give me an extra assignment he didnt even plan to have anyone do. saying i love his lessons or the subject was also flattering for him. another tip is to lower your head and look up at that person, it makes them feel like theyre in power and, ironically, they might listen to your suggestions and use them as their own ideas, as if theyre telling you what to do and not doing what YOU want them to do.
If you can stir up someone's emotions with eye contact that's a good start to a relationship because eye contact is the purest way to get and feel attraction for another person.
The information here is better than some $500 pick-up-artist's courses or social dynamics books. And very practical to boot. Will we ever see more of these? Do we even need more? I don't know. The brevity and how information packed these vids are really amazes me. Even down to the structure and pacing of the videos also demonstrating some of what they're teaching, it's all so well done. I'd fully understand and respect if they think what they uploaded is all that needs to be said on The Means of Seduction. I want to know more about the people behind the channel though, even if they don't make more content on this subject.
order of execution: •engage in conversation with the intent of attaining someone or something. •use the principle of hypnosis -focus, fatigue, pacing and leading- to attain said objective. •use eye contact, confident and unwavering, to bring and hold the focus on you. •use action, touch, or materials to shift the focus from your eyes specifically to something else about or on you. •make an observation to bring attention to something they’re doing well, or something you’re looking to attain (subtlety) in the form of a compliment to plant ideas about willingly giving you what you want. •frame your words around your intentions and what you enjoy about their current actions (listening, reliability, good work environment, possibility of company growth, ect.) as positive reinforcement, and encouragement of new ways to get that approval from you -by giving you what you want-
I do this unintentionally i guess. They say i have nice eyes, a girl actually told me i give eye contact when talking and she said she likes it. I always became friends with people, but it's not because i hypnotized them because people still like me on chat or social media. It's just a bonus. I always get boys and men to profess their feelings at some point. I had this classmate who i play Mobile games with and we're close and fun so we play a staring game and he ended up falling in love with me. I actually like him, but i was in a relationship at the time. I think i can use this video in work interviews, reporting and business. Oh, yes, i think i used this unintentionally at a delegation in my school as a president, we won best company 😂
There are studies that too much eye contact can make you appear weird or rude. There are people who don't like prolong eye contact because that feels uncomfortable. You can have eye contact but don't over do it, make sure it's still natural and genuine, because they will uncomfortable or they will think you're a psychopath.
I hope someone will reply with their thoughts about my comment. First thank you @The Means of Seduction I stumbled on your video and it was enlightening. Now my IRL scenario that occurred to me. It was between my future wife and I and I didn't realize what was happening. I will try and be brief. We had just met and were at a dance. She was very assertive (Confident) which led me to taking a break from her outside the venue, I was star gazing and gathering my thoughts. She "found" and followed me and we talked mainly about the music and the stars but she kept seeking my eyes. (Focus?) I showed her a star and she claimed she couldn't see it unless she looked down my arm (Fatigue? or Pacing and Leading?) while I pointed which we did and she immediately turned around and regained eye contact (Focus?) and talked a little more about how we should go inside and dance more (Fatigue? Pacing and Leading?). She continued to look into my eyes (Focus?)and she used an "I" statement, (Embedding Commands) "I will follow you where ever you go so let's go inside." Before the stargazing I was jittery after the star gazing I was relaxed thinking, "WTH let's go with this." I don't really believe in Hollywood mad scientist hypnotism but I do believe in suggestion. What's interesting is her saying, "I will follow you..." gave no alarm bells in me but I've retold the story and others respond with, "red flag!"
Loving the content, man. Don't stop doing what you're doing. I would like to talk to you about translate your videos to PT-BR. I'm sure a lot of people here will love your content. 🇧🇷
I watched this video a couple years ago. Didn't even remember it existed until it just popped again in my recommended videos. I had a deep realization: all the techniques I use (or have been using for the last years) on the matter, were subconsciously planted in my head by this video years ago. I became good in this and always knew what to do in seduction, but never knew how I knew it. This video is the key to that explanation. I hope you realize how powerful this video is, given my experience. Absolute quality content here.
Interesting. I think that I may be naturally seductive. I don't believe in trying to "make" people do what I want them to do. I encourage good behaviors with praise while having strong boundaries and directly communicate if they have done something that is unacceptable to me. It is their choice how they want to behave, but if they want to have a close and/or good relationship with me then they know that they have to choose to treat me well. I never thought of this as being related to seduction. I will be mindful of this in the future.
I just realised that I have been doing this all along. Now I wonder, if what I have is really for me or is it just the result of seductive manipulation?
Haha same! And I’ve been studying communication, magick and influence for years, and realize it’s all connected. I’ve noticed that there’s such a negative charge with the word manipulation, but as a result of my studies, I now believe it’s a neutral term, only positive or negative by the intent of the “manipulator.” It literally just means to shape and mold, and that can be a good, fun thing, but it’s often more deceptive because the intent is unclear or hidden from the one being manipulated.
I love how I knew this w/out watching this video. I knew there was a name for it. Literally the other day I got frustrated cuss long story short I rubbed my eyes while I had my contacts in & it made lines in my eyes so now I’m upset cuss my eyes aren’t pearly clear white 😭🌚🌚🌚
Oh, no! I’m so sorry this happened and that your eyes were scratched by your contacts! That sounds so painful. I hope everything heals quickly and looks more normal soon. Take care of yourself! Best wishes.
FANTASTICA!!! Very very helpful video.I have used eye to eye contact many times in my office with my superiors and co workers .All I got was very high respect and good relations with every one around Let me tell u your video was world class and so much to lear from.I am gonna watch all your videos from now on.Keep up the high standard. Good luck.
Dear Miss, I loved your narration and the overall tone and feel of this video. It simply lays out the facts and how to use such skills. Completely, spot on, using old classic Hollywood footage. Because, ironically, actors and actresses of those films and eras, were so good from a communication and confidence point of view. Today's men and women? Awful at communication. We live in a time of, sadly, seeing everyone new with suspicion. But these communication skills STILL are being used without even the user knowing. Our language as a race ISN'T vocal but the subconscious.
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Yes Thank You So Much ❤
THANK YOU SO MUCH ❤
What I have learned in life is that seduction/manipulation (Hypnosis) is a great form of self-defense. I have gotten out of some awkward and even dangerous situations with this tool and I will never apologize for being manipulative.
Well aslong as ur not causing any harm tk others
Teach us your ways plzzz
Please elaborate.
I’d rather die than stop being a manipulator
It's magical!
This whole video is teaching me how to flirt
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What a staggering attention to detail.
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I used to feel uncomfortable when men would look at me at the gym or walking on the st, but now I’m not afraid to stare back. It’s how you take your power back.
But sometimes when you stare back they can get the wrong idea
@@opuimor ong 😭
@@opuimor yeah 😭😭😭💀💀
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@@opuimor Its the type of look you know. If they still don't get it flip em off haha
Step 1: Have confidence
Step 2: Practice eye contact
Step 3: Practice giving sincere compliments
Step 4: Study your own body language and habits.
Step 5: Practice subtlety
Step 6: Have a long list of topics in your mind for conversations.
Step 7: Execute the hypnosis technique. :>
Your comment isn’t vague at all thanks for summarizing this video in 120 words
@@wayarise it's not even 50 words
Step 6 is gonna be tough for me, does anyone have an advice for me there? The other steps I can fix no problem but step 6 is gonna be impossible for me, and I need help there
@@hans8087 in my opinion the best way to do the step 6 is to be a good listener. And when I say "a good listener" I mean that you're going to carefully listen to everything the other person is saying: why are they choosing these words instead of those ones? what are their hobbies and passions? what do they like?
This is going to give you a huge advantage because by doing this you're going to know how that person is feeling, what kind of person they are and what kind of conversation topics you could talk about with them without potentially making it boring.
This is just my opinion, I don't know if it's going to help you.
@@user-xf7mu7ub9d Thank you! And don't worry about it, with this advice you helped me understand how to socialize more than my pervious two therapists combined lol. So thanks a lot for that as well
I'm gonna become a confident version of me. Tired of being so passive and awkward around people. I'm evolving tho. And I think eye contact is something so magnificent. I love watching how famous during interviews make eye contact and talk so casually. Plus, your channel is such treasure I found today, thanks a lot !
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I had no idea so many people would reasonate to this feeling... thank you. Also didn't have a clue till now about this likes, but I would like to thank all who did it , because whenever it poped on my Phone somebody liked it I remembered of this comment and this self motivation I still lack somedays s2 ups and downs and that's fine :)
Plus I asked out the guy i liked a long time ago but never said a thing, we even had two dates! (Turns out he's even shier) it was a huge step to me because well I am very shy and even being 20 I've never been in a relationship or had anything similar at all after a single first kiss... haha
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I am improving at college interaction, making more colleagues yet without changing who I am, I like to be alone at home, take my time too and being a little introverted, recharge, but now if I want to go and say hi to someone, I know that I can do this (and I do this) I feel I wouldn't be thinking a billion times like before :)
Thanks for all the messages s2 thanks for the motivation, we can gradually improve our confidence!
This is my goal too!! Good luck
This is awesome, just keep trying, day by day, until you get over it
i'm aiming to be more confident too! We can do this.
Girlllllll! Lemme tell you I used to have an issue with eye contact but as I grew in my profession (PT) I started learning to make more eye contact with patients. It helps to reassure them and let them know I am talking facts. Now it is my default to look people straight in the eye.
Hows it going for you?
*realizing my whole life has been a series of people hypnotizing me* 🤔😳
Well, now you can hypnotize them right back!
Why I never make eye contact! 😂
@@polka.y me also don't make eye contact 😂😂
random but i love your hair
@@mekaylaarchives one more seducer
Ah, so aesthetically pleasing. This is art. This is informative. This is enchanting, to say the least!
What a beautiful comment! Thank you so much for watching and leaving a comment here. I really appreciate the show of support. You’re very kind. Take care!
I agree!
@TH-cam Guy
Well there is a lot more you missed
@TH-cam Guy momma called that "minding yer manners"
I like your name ! Is it Cleopatra or just Cleo ?
This gon make me a femme fatale now lmao
YES
@@Cree_Gist For sure. I'm glad I can count on you to try this out. :)
@@KingQfSouth lmfao i-🤣
Femme fatale me
lmao saw this in english kinda concerned
I'm a little shy so if I notice an attractive guy looking at me, I immediately look away! It's going to take me coming out of my comfort zone.....But there's one way and that's to jump in w both feet!! Like they say..."practice makes perfect." Thank-you so much for this video♡
Absolutely! No harm in practicing something new; you might even like it! Best of luck to you. Take care!
If you really like someone intense eye contact is natural.
I could use a lesson, mommy 👋🏼🤓
If you really like someone, eye contact may feel imposible.
@@willywonka00 lol
@@alwaysrighton fr oml😭
for shy people, its the opposite
Takeaway: maintain eye contact, shift eye contact to something you want, compliment, say how much you have enjoyed with them and want to stay; praise the aspect that you have to gain
I am very competitve. If i catch someone looking at me i will look at them until i see their future through their eyes and burn it 😂
LOL 😂
😭 yo
Same
Me too 😂😂
Omg same
Seduction, manipulation. Either way. If it gets me what I want and Doesnt hurt anyone I’m rolling with it.
I enjoying the doing the same as well beautiful.
unless it's used on you hypocrite
@@MAN9027 id see it for what it is. Ain’t you got some hinges to lube?
lmao ok vanesa
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
nah cause ur just teaching me how to become a better manipulator😭😭
😂☠💯
That's the point doorknob
I just know the person who made this video is a PRO at seducing people😭😭
Wow I just realised I have been doing this for last 10 years. I have always had a power over people. They tell me I'm charismatic and my eyes are really nice. I think its possible that I have been doing this whole of my life without realising. I used to look average but had a lot of suitors with time I turned attractive as I groomed myself better and felt confident and with time I got a lot of attention and had an almost 95% rate or more of getting attention from people I personally liked. Now off late I have gained a lot of weight and feel shit but I do have great people skills.
Hello! Thank you for watching and commenting. It definitely sounds like you’ve used these techniques, almost unknowingly, many times. I’m glad to hear it was usually very successful for you! I’m sorry, however, to hear that you’re not feeling particularly well as of late, and that perhaps your confidence and body-image have taken a hit. I understand weight gain feels heavy in more ways than one. Try hard to remember the power and ability you have, and the wonderful things you’ve accomplished and will accomplish. Incoming cliché alert: You’re more than a body. You still have those great social skills! Take care of yourself. I wish you well.
This is me. I am you
I too have a friend crazily charming and charismatic as f**k
When I ask him ho do you do that
He always reply with something that doesn't make really sense to me
But once he told me that if he locks eye on someone he thinks is important and intersting to him, he have the ability to talk to them without talking and even with 10mt distance
If he wants to send a sexual signal to someone he saw for the first time he makes sure it's 100% sexual
If he wants to send a respectful signal he makes sure it's 100% respectful nothing else
And at the same time he make sure that he is the Lion in the crowd who is humble as well
I wish I had that power but I don't regret cuz I also have some powers
If it's respect to someone he
@@TheMeansofSeduction Wonderful words! Thank you for your message it really resonated with me. We are indeed timeless beings inside a meat suit floating through the universe 🥰
@@ashutoshacharya5439 your friend already sounds so attractive ❤️ 🔥
I work at walmart as a teenager. I used to be a pretty shy person and wouldn't be able to even look at someone's face (especially during quarantine). But ever since working in retail, I have found it so easy to look everyone straight to their eyes and proudly help them.
kind
That’s amazing! Good for you!
my next crush needs to watch out 👀
Haha
Same. I'm ready for this shit.
I'm dead 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂 😂 😂 😂
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I always get told my eyes are my best feature, so I’m about to use this advice and become unstoppable 😂😂
It always seduces me and my partner when we just stare deeply into eachother eyes it's so intense and have such a deep connection. It really is extremely powerful 😊
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@@telleroflies4373 why did u wrote that number? xD
@@Xin4t0r Her username?
I'm so jealous. I can't have a partner. I could never look in somebody's eyes. It's terrifying and I avoid it. My parents neglected me and I don't trust people. I'm 56 and can't connect to people. I'm so glad you're happy and I wish you the best. ✌️🕊️
@@Xin4t0r Just another troll looking for attention. Old as time.
I wont look into the eyes of people who are deceitful, trained that eye contact is a "power move". Eye contact with an uplifting presence tends to completely shift and elevate ur own current state. So I would say, dont fake it. It's a message to urself and giving the gaze only to the people or person u are genuinely into. It's ok to awkward.
Absolutely
Really?come on man, Grow up ,be better
@@ronaknanda6175 dude what gave you the great idea that this was an intellectual comment to make.
Eye contact is so beautiful, from absolutely anyone, not just s/o way.
This is very common for dancers working in stripclubs. I also observed this behaviour from managers in restaurants while talking to customers :)
The narrator, the visuals, the pace, the choice of music everything about this video is calming for some reason
Crush: talking about something
Me: staring at their eyes
Crush:…what are you doing
Me: shhhh I’m trying to hypnotize you
It’s the, “what are you doing” for me😂😂😂😂😂
Like girl I learned that from TH-cam😭😭😭
Creppy
@@retikybloomberg2029 *Creepy
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@@retikybloomberg2029 😂
I've noticed that the person to maintain and follow through with eye contact till the other looks away is usually established as the dominant, alpha, or boss of the situation. More confident people are also able to maintain eye contact for longer periods of time, while others will immediately look way, because the "alpha" will perhaps read their true thoughts and feel exposed. I have been on both sides of the coin. And I usually tend to maintain eye contact with people who I want to impress, or who I like.
The narrator in this video has such a beautiful and hypnotic voice.
Thank you!
Definitely uses what they’re teaching
I'm going to break this down as I see it.
1. Initiate and hold eye contact
2. Break from eye contact to play with your hair or something on your person
3. Talk from your own perspective "I". Remember that your observations are only from your perspective, not his or anyone else's.
4. Cultivate an heir of *gratitude* and goodwill
5. Be vulnerable
I might have missed one! 😅
The one I missed: reward with compliments
Second one: get him alone.
This video is tremendous. It's not cringe like most things on TH-cam about this topic, it is not reductive in that it restricts it to romantic advancements, and it's very well explained.
It doesn't go to the typical common places, or opinions about the topic.
It's original!!! 👏👏👏👏👏
Where can I pay for more? 😅 No really keep going and open a patreon
Wow! Such a wonderful compliment to send my way. I’m truly flattered. Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate you taking the time to comment your support and share your opinions. I am very new to TH-cam and making videos, so this was really encouraging to read. Your comment brightened my day. Take care!
@@TheMeansofSeduction I'm so glad it did!! The video is really good. It brings something new to the table, much needed in the seduction realm. We all had our fair share (or unfair lol) of pickup artists 🤮
I like it because first of all is something subtle and a lot of people aren't aware of the gaze - the eyes. And second of all because you manage to put an invisible "vague" thing into words and most people disregarded it from the start, because of its "vagueness" and "not measurable".
And another amazing thing you didn't do (aha) is bringing up scientific bullshit of studies, and so on, to this. You brought experience, your opinions, and observations.
Very Well Done. Thank you so muchhhhh 🤗❤️
This is just teaching us how to be a Scorpio
As a Scorpio i'm honored 😂
Hhahaha as a scorpio this is so true a lot of people comment about my eyes so much 😂
Same here 😂
I am a Scorpio (not that I care for astrology), I guess what you’re saying is I didn’t really need to watch this video.😂😂😂
Lol...m not scorpio but i have mu saturn, uranus and neptune in scorpio...but i have been more of a scorpio all my life...even wen it is not my primary sign
That timid pleasure you get when you stumble upon a treasure of a channel. Fabulous work !
Hello, Cléa! Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate your comment. Take care!
Yes, yes, yes! Most communication is non-verbal body language and much can be said with the eyes! Loved this! 💋
I love this video ! I’m so glad I stumbled upon it. One thing I do struggle with is maintaining eye contact with someone I find attractive because of the intimidation but now I am going to use it for my advantage
I’m glad you found the video useful! I’m excited to hear that you’re feeling empowered to make eye contact and use it to your advantage now. It will take time and practice to integrate this into your interactions, but you’ll gain so much from extending yourself out of your comfort zone. Thank you for watching and commenting. Take care!
If you're looking all the people in their eyes will take you down mentally nowadays are many negative people
This video is amazing, I'm so grateful to youtube algorithm that I stumbled upon this greatness.
I want more of such videos. Please make more and post it.
Thank you so much for watching! I’m glad you enjoyed the video. As a new creator here, I really appreciate your comment of encouragement and support. These types of comments are always very motivating. Thank you!
@@TheMeansofSeduction can you make more videos about manipulation with eyes pleeasee,or maybe with voive,whichever you choose it would be good.Thanks in advance.
So interesting.I am very fond of gazing at eyes,intense as well as very cold eyes.I visit prisons.I gaze at eyes.The reaction is a flood of tears.Your description is another level.
I’m glad you found it interesting. Thanks for watching!
Probably from fear.
@@charmingyoutuber2408from feeling seen. eye contact is connection. and many people experience fear at such, feeling worthless of it.
The beat in the back sounds like national anthem by Lana del Rey
lol no it doesn’t have u actually heard national anthem? i would say it sounds much more like wicked games by the weeknd
Of course you’re watching this video
emaline they prob meant the demo that’s popular on tiktok
Red white blue
@@jillianbernas5127 ahahahhaah this makes so much sense!
Seduce with your heart, mind, body, soul, spirit, aura, light beam, vibe, energy, frequency, vibration, power, beauty, wisdom, knowledge, authenticity, rawness, realness, rareness, etc. Not just with your beautiful, gorgeous, hypnotized, mesmerized irresistible temptation seduction eyes. 👀👁 no evil eye 🧿
Loooooove this
It’s such a shame this channel doesn’t post at all or frequently.. this channel shares a ton of incredibly helpful information and that was just by one video alone.
I put this into practice (looking people in the eyes) and I was treated with more respect and I definitely got good ladies reactions 😬
I’m so glad you’ve been able to put these techniques into practice, and moreover that you’ve actually found some success! It’s a fun process, especially comparing how you’re treated when you neglect eye contact versus when you actively use it. I appreciate your comment and interest in the state of this channel.
I will be making more videos and uploading more over time. I have many ideas, and have put pen to paper countless times, but I’m still by no means a “TH-camr” and certainly not able to make this a full-time gig. This terrain is still quite new to me, and I made my first video last year all in good fun. I never imagined people would actually find it or be interested enough to stick around for more! I was just testing the waters. Recently, I’ve been receiving a lot more comments and seen my viewership steadily increase in ways I never anticipated (but sometimes daydreamed about). It’s exciting, and I’m eager to share more of my passion project with a community warm and welcoming enough to watch it, but it will take time on my end. Thank you for watching the few videos I do (presently) have and for commenting here! I appreciate the support. Take care.
@@TheMeansofSeduction I’m telling you this right now; TH-cam is the sort of thing that whatever amount of effort you put out is what you’ll get back.
I highly suggest you take this into consideration.
The value that this channel holds is the type of stuff people want to subscribe to.
I can certainly see this channel getting big of you just put in more effort I promise you that.
You have a promising opportunity; you just need to grab it.
@@abrahamcastillo2299 I appreciate your advice. It is obviously coming from a supportive and compassionate place. Unfortunately, I don’t think many people are graced with this type of advice when they most need it, so thank you. You have me feeling greatly inspired to create more, and I sincerely appreciate you taking the time to write all that you have here! Your words are more than a compliment, they’re the gentle nudge of encouragement only someone who really cares and believes in someone else would give; I appreciate that deeply. You, and the people like you that I’ve had the pleasure of speaking with in the comments so far, are finding me at what I’m sure is the most vital stage in my journey. I’m grateful to everyone who has recently viewed and commented, because those e-mail notifications suddenly reminded me of that “TH-cam thing” I’d almost let slip away. I hope your life’s grandest goals and passions are met with the same kindness, support, and honest advice you’ve passed along to me. We need more people like you.
@@TheMeansofSeduction dear you are so polite and humble
Love you dear ❤️🙏
I am always complimented on my eyes....and I just realized I seem to use these seduction techniques without even knowing. Eye contact is somethin I know when and how to use powerfully...and now I realise it might be one of the reasons I intimidate some people...damn.
It felt great to learn bout this though. Thanks a lot♡
I remember watching the Turner Classic Movie channel when I was a kid and I remember seeing how large Bette Davis eyes were. I remember seeing her in a movie for the first time and thought how big and expressive her eyes were and I remember how beautiful and charismatic she was. I had been in love with classic/black and white films every since then!
I am OBSESSED with this channel 😩
Not saying this in a braggy way but i have pretty doll eyes, and people often tell me how to use them, then this video came up on my seuggestions, and then i found out what they meant.
Mine too... Everybody says i have big beautiful eyes.. My husband loves my eyes
Same! Well, my eyes are small and almond shaped but everyone compliments them so now I’ll actually utilize them for the better 🥲
Thank you for making these. I was seduced by a con artist, not ever understanding the things she was doing to me until it was too late. She psychologically tortured me with drugs and stole all of my information. It's something I would not wish on my worst enemy.
Bringing these techniques to light is incredibly important. And you use excellent conciseness in your videos. 🙏
This video is amazing. I have NEVER ever ever (!!!) watched the same video 5 times in a row. This cobcept is amazing: the music, black and white old movies, concise & short teachings, your voice over. You have a extremely refreshing glance on the topic, that is nowhere to be seen on youtube. Stick to this concept, I truly believe that you will form a great community in no time.
About the topic of the video, I have been practicing the 'intense eye contact' this past year and it was extremely effective (sometimes even a bit too much because men interpret it as a sign of interest when it is not (how to deal with that but still gaining connections/favors?)). But I didn't know that it related to hypnotism, that I have been practicing on myself. I love to see these two subjects merge. I will totally implement the suggestive phrases, starting tomorrow. Thank you for doing such an amazing video!
Hello, Céline! Thank you so much for watching and leaving me this sweet comment! I really appreciate your feedback.
I’m so glad you enjoyed the video and that you’ve found success using similar practices over the course of your life. It’s amazing what simple eye contact, gestures, and body language can do, isn’t it? It sounds like you’ve put this to good use!
As for men assuming you have romantic interest in them, I’d say there’s probably very little you can do to control their reactions in that way. Sometimes, the assumed interest can get you more of what you want (if you play along for awhile), but this can be dangerous, so I hardly recommend feeding into the wrong ideas, especially if you’re aware it’s already been misinterpreted. Acting aloof to someone’s obvious romantic interest in you only works until they make formal advances, then you can’t ignore it anymore and it’s probably better if you don’t. It can make everything so much more uncomfortable in the long-run. I just establish my boundaries early and stick to them unwaveringly, and I always tell other women to do the same. Stay safe out there!
Thanks again for watching and commenting. I am so grateful for your support on my little channel. Take care!
@@TheMeansofSeduction Boundaries, got it. It comes so easy to me with people who are my age. But anytime I have to deal with older people, I feel like a child again... I just have to remember that I am a 20 years-old adult now and that it is okay to say no.
Thank you for taking the time to reply. Inputs from experienced people are always valuable.
Big hugs from France !
Every man I’ve ever done this to is on a whim and it always progresses the relationship. Now this guy stops at my desk twice a day. I tried to back off w my gaze but I did it again and it started all over. The power is extremely addictive
So this is what true diplomats and politicians do!!!!
NOTES:
Keep FOCUS on you and your eyes occasionally shift focus on something other than your eyes (still you) to avoid FATIGUE. point out something the person is doing or is making you feel (preferably in the form of a compliment) to make them feel comfortable this is how you will LEAD. EMBED COMMANDS in. the form of i statements. plant (multiple) ideas like seeds, compliment an action to reinforce said action.
This is exactly how I get my jobs, and land my interviews with professional etiquette and charm. Subtly, is everything
Use this skill wisely because you are playing with innocent people's feelings ... Even if you don't care about that and only care about yourself, what goes around comes around ✨👀✨
One little drop in ocean -- meaning for you this sentence?
@@visible5632 It is a metaphor to describe TH-cam as an ocean and we are the drops of water that make up that ocean ... Every little drop equally matters for without them, there would be no ocean.
The way you describe it seducing sounds alot like manipulation, and I thought it was alot more related to flirting.
It is manipulation. But manipulation is not only used for bad, it's something everyone does at one point or another.
Well, it can be considered as manipulation. After all, seducing someone is manipulating them into liking you.
Manipulation can be good or bad
You can choose to be manipulated or to manipulate. Its unavoidable.
@@user-qb4on2qm7z fact. And I choose to be manipulator and seductive
Very good advice and comments. Had to learn this fast when I became a bartender when going to school and really needed to make good money. This ability served me very well in the following 50 yrs.
also using we instead of I is even more powerful...we have fun together, we... makes the other feel part of something
Can't wait to learn what your channel holds. I'm excited .
I really enjoyed watching this video and realized I seduce on the daily. I get that I’m a flirt from my friends often but I never understood what that meant exactly (and so I’d deflect saying “I’m a Libra” 🤷🏾♀️ )until now. I make eye contact whenever I have a conversation with someone and also have. I take pride in this characteristic, it’s me!
I feel like people fall infatuated with me too quickly😂 but I do think I have good social skills and others just don’t feel confident with eye contact, and so I just thought that made me stand out.
Absolutely. If you’re confident enough to make eye contact with anyone, especially amongst people who usually don’t initiate it themselves, you’ll surely stand out. Keep at it! Thanks for commenting. Take care!
Exactly, I never understood why people shy away with eye contact. So, I have to initiate with me. Plus point, my fierce hazel eyes with sharp dark eyebrows really hypnotise the people I am talking to. 😂😂😂😂
Rik Sinha oh you’re so dreamy😅
wow! this is so powerful! thank you for the tips! i’m practicing looking into the eyes of my childhood teddy bear and myself in the mirror.
Everytime I see the guy I’m dating do something nice or clever I say “that was so smart of you, you’re very good at this” hence him buying tickets for a movie for us online, he smiles very happy about the little simple things and does it again of course
Subscribed immediately! It was about time the ladies started talking about this ....love the vibe too!
Thank you for subscribing! I’m glad you enjoyed the video, too. Take care!
Subscribed. This channel looks like a retro version for "Charisma on Command" channel. Nice to see so different approaches on quite similar subjects.
Hello, Cristiana! Thank you so much for watching, commenting, and especially for subscribing! I’ll be sure to check out more of the “Charisma on Command” channel, as I’d never heard of it before. At a glance, it already looks like a very fun educational channel I might enjoy. There’s so many channels on here, I’m always pleasantly surprised to find one that’s new to me. Thanks for introducing me to this one! Take care, and thanks again for subscribing!
Omg another Cristiana
So excited to see future uploads from this channel. These videos are absolute gold! informative, well-researched and educational, plus the example phrases and scenes really help
I’m glad you liked the video and found some of my examples helpful! Thank you for watching and commenting. Take care!
Saying "I need a raise or you should love me" sounds aggressive. Nobody wants to face a tiger. Every feared leader ended up dead. Subbed cuz I love deep thinking.
The aim of Seduction 2:50
Focus 3:25
Fatigue 3:55
I tried this on my manager she smiled and gave me more hours😂
i used to do that a lot with my teachers. when i wanted a higher grade for the semester, id go and act nice and say things like "i really care about this subject, since its one of my favourites. id really like to get the chance to get a higher grade, i could do an extra project or retake the last test, if that could help". this way, the teacher wluld give me an extra assignment he didnt even plan to have anyone do. saying i love his lessons or the subject was also flattering for him. another tip is to lower your head and look up at that person, it makes them feel like theyre in power and, ironically, they might listen to your suggestions and use them as their own ideas, as if theyre telling you what to do and not doing what YOU want them to do.
I practice this a lot in the mirror, but at the time to use it I always fail and look like a maniac
Love this breakdown! Your voice is gorgeous. Subscribed! ❤️
Such a lovely compliment. Thank you! Thank you for watching, commenting, AND subscribing as well. Take care!
@@TheMeansofSeduction You're very welcome! You take care! Looking forward to hearing more from you!
The first 10 minutes video that hypnotized me in believing that it ended up in less than 5 minutes.
Ive read up on seduction, it really is a craft.. This is the cherry on top. Thank you :)
If you can stir up someone's emotions with eye contact that's a good start to a relationship because eye contact is the purest way to get and feel attraction for another person.
You should also make podcasts with this kind of content! So good
In the time of Corona, when all I have is my eyes, this is actually perfect. 👌🏼
Stuff like this actually make me freeze in real life with math algorithms floating around my head
"the seed of need" i like that ♡
God knew I would be too powerful if I had this skill naturally, so He led me to this video.
The information here is better than some $500 pick-up-artist's courses or social dynamics books. And very practical to boot. Will we ever see more of these? Do we even need more? I don't know. The brevity and how information packed these vids are really amazes me. Even down to the structure and pacing of the videos also demonstrating some of what they're teaching, it's all so well done. I'd fully understand and respect if they think what they uploaded is all that needs to be said on The Means of Seduction.
I want to know more about the people behind the channel though, even if they don't make more content on this subject.
Humbly, I have had this ability for years....but I choose to use this “power” only for good😜.
YOU’RE AN ICON
order of execution:
•engage in conversation with the intent of attaining someone or something.
•use the principle of hypnosis -focus, fatigue, pacing and leading- to attain said objective.
•use eye contact, confident and unwavering, to bring and hold the focus on you.
•use action, touch, or materials to shift the focus from your eyes specifically to something else about or on you.
•make an observation to bring attention to something they’re doing well, or something you’re looking to attain (subtlety) in the form of a compliment to plant ideas about willingly giving you what you want.
•frame your words around your intentions and what you enjoy about their current actions (listening, reliability, good work environment, possibility of company growth, ect.) as positive reinforcement, and encouragement of new ways to get that approval from you -by giving you what you want-
Your voice comforted me in ways I can't explain
I do this unintentionally i guess. They say i have nice eyes, a girl actually told me i give eye contact when talking and she said she likes it. I always became friends with people, but it's not because i hypnotized them because people still like me on chat or social media. It's just a bonus. I always get boys and men to profess their feelings at some point. I had this classmate who i play Mobile games with and we're close and fun so we play a staring game and he ended up falling in love with me. I actually like him, but i was in a relationship at the time. I think i can use this video in work interviews, reporting and business. Oh, yes, i think i used this unintentionally at a delegation in my school as a president, we won best company 😂
There are studies that too much eye contact can make you appear weird or rude. There are people who don't like prolong eye contact because that feels uncomfortable. You can have eye contact but don't over do it, make sure it's still natural and genuine, because they will uncomfortable or they will think you're a psychopath.
I am so happy I found this channel ! Can't wait to see more from you ❤️
I hope someone will reply with their thoughts about my comment.
First thank you @The Means of Seduction I stumbled on your video and it was enlightening. Now my IRL scenario that occurred to me. It was between my future wife and I and I didn't realize what was happening.
I will try and be brief.
We had just met and were at a dance. She was very assertive (Confident) which led me to taking a break from her outside the venue, I was star gazing and gathering my thoughts. She "found" and followed me and we talked mainly about the music and the stars but she kept seeking my eyes. (Focus?) I showed her a star and she claimed she couldn't see it unless she looked down my arm (Fatigue? or Pacing and Leading?) while I pointed which we did and she immediately turned around and regained eye contact (Focus?) and talked a little more about how we should go inside and dance more (Fatigue? Pacing and Leading?). She continued to look into my eyes (Focus?)and she used an "I" statement, (Embedding Commands) "I will follow you where ever you go so let's go inside."
Before the stargazing I was jittery after the star gazing I was relaxed thinking, "WTH let's go with this."
I don't really believe in Hollywood mad scientist hypnotism but I do believe in suggestion. What's interesting is her saying, "I will follow you..." gave no alarm bells in me but I've retold the story and others respond with, "red flag!"
I’m a Scorpio rising darling, my eyes are already piercing and hypnotic.
If you say so
Calm down... You are embarrassing your self
It would be nice to see one on physical touch
Yup
Loving the content, man. Don't stop doing what you're doing. I would like to talk to you about translate your videos to PT-BR. I'm sure a lot of people here will love your content. 🇧🇷
Se tu conseguir vai ser irado
the background music is top tier
This video brings sexiness a whole new level ✨
I watched this video a couple years ago. Didn't even remember it existed until it just popped again in my recommended videos.
I had a deep realization: all the techniques I use (or have been using for the last years) on the matter, were subconsciously planted in my head by this video years ago. I became good in this and always knew what to do in seduction, but never knew how I knew it. This video is the key to that explanation.
I hope you realize how powerful this video is, given my experience. Absolute quality content here.
So basically you're saying that I was born as a natural hypnotist?
I don't even need to try I naturally do this I love flirting with my eyes. Eye contact is a must for me
Interesting. I think that I may be naturally seductive. I don't believe in trying to "make" people do what I want them to do. I encourage good behaviors with praise while having strong boundaries and directly communicate if they have done something that is unacceptable to me. It is their choice how they want to behave, but if they want to have a close and/or good relationship with me then they know that they have to choose to treat me well. I never thought of this as being related to seduction. I will be mindful of this in the future.
I just realised that I have been doing this all along. Now I wonder, if what I have is really for me or is it just the result of seductive manipulation?
Haha same! And I’ve been studying communication, magick and influence for years, and realize it’s all connected. I’ve noticed that there’s such a negative charge with the word manipulation, but as a result of my studies, I now believe it’s a neutral term, only positive or negative by the intent of the “manipulator.” It literally just means to shape and mold, and that can be a good, fun thing, but it’s often more deceptive because the intent is unclear or hidden from the one being manipulated.
This channel is everything pls post more
I agree
I love how I knew this w/out watching this video. I knew there was a name for it. Literally the other day I got frustrated cuss long story short I rubbed my eyes while I had my contacts in & it made lines in my eyes so now I’m upset cuss my eyes aren’t pearly clear white 😭🌚🌚🌚
Oh, no! I’m so sorry this happened and that your eyes were scratched by your contacts! That sounds so painful. I hope everything heals quickly and looks more normal soon. Take care of yourself! Best wishes.
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My Venus in Scorpio loves this lol eye contact is definitely a love language for me 🤷🏾♀️❤️😂
Thank you it’s very informative truly mentioned that eyes are the gateway to the soul . Agree with u
Interesting presentation.
FANTASTICA!!! Very very helpful video.I have used eye to eye contact many times in my office with my superiors and co workers .All I got was very high respect and good relations with every one around
Let me tell u your video was world class and so much to lear from.I am gonna watch all your videos from now on.Keep up the high standard. Good luck.
Dear Miss, I loved your narration and the overall tone and feel of this video.
It simply lays out the facts and how to use such skills. Completely, spot on, using old classic Hollywood footage. Because, ironically, actors and actresses of those films and eras, were so good from a communication and confidence point of view.
Today's men and women? Awful at communication. We live in a time of, sadly, seeing everyone new with suspicion. But these communication skills STILL are being used without even the user knowing.
Our language as a race ISN'T vocal but the subconscious.