Me to I even don't know how I got this very bad negative attitude suddenly I Really feel very bad and I always talk to my parents back even they both are so caring I feel so guilty when I talk back to them Because of some toxic people in my life this all is happening ☹️☹️☹️
I find myself feeling really sad at times. Then I just think that this feeling wont last forever. This shall pass. Thank you for the video much needed.
After practicing mindfulness meditation for some months, I realized that I had started looking at bad experiences differently. Let’s say I spilled my coffee, I found myself saying ‘if that’s the worst thing that happens to me today then I’ll take it !’ The old me would feel overly angery and probably use bad language. So I think meditation has helped me. Now when something bad happens I just let it go rather hold on to it.
I am not positive or negative but I'm easily affected by the ones around me. I've lived with a negative person for years and so I have his negative energy and I'm trying to work on it but it's difficult. He has no interest in improving. One day I'll move out and I will feel better. Good thing about me being easily affected by others is that in school I am friends with positive people and I get their energy :)
Pluttskutt Sound like you sleeping with your enemy. You are afraid so you choose to stay. An accept the stays quo. I know economics play a major part. However, it is possible. Keep watch and plan a Me escape. Until you do that, your School buddies will no longer be around you to soothe your personal life. They are occupying your intellect at this time...
Letting go of expectations simply means to have an open mind. Expecting the best out of every situation simply means to look for something positive out of every positive or negative situation.
Very good point. Easy for hypocrites to talk. Anyone can sit in a swanky convenience of their home and give advise (excuse my language). How much of these principles does the creator of these videos believe in, is something that remains to be seen........
*BAD ATTITUDE LEADS TO BAD RESULTS,GOOD ATTITUDE GOOD RESULTS AND GREAT ATTITUDE -GREAT RESULTS* SO!! Letting go of all my expectations, always make me be the solution guru therefore everyday I feel better and shift my attitude to achieve a great day everyday Thx for the upload too
Nope, good attitude has not gotten good results which leads to bad attitude. Bad attitude is not just there. So no expecting a decent day because it's wrong? That's sad.
Another thing that has improved my attitude is by walking/jogging 2-3 days a week. I usually do it during my lunch break at work with my music. I also go to my car and take naps. Sometimes focusing on your 'me time' will help evaporate all the negativity you soak up in the real world.
I could be more positive about my work/ life situation. I too often let the negative weigh me down instead of seeing challenges for what they really are. Thank you to everyone that helped make this video. I needed this today.
I needed this. Lots of stuff going in the wrong direction lately that I have no control over, but have impacted me directly. I will apply these and work toward positive change. Thank you!
Overall a great video. I’m generally a happy & positive person, mainly because I make that decision everyday. I try to only focus on things that I can control. When I find myself anxious or feeling negative it’s usually because I’m avoiding something- a task, conversation, etc. I don’t surround myself with negative people because I find them exhausting. Lastly, I just realized how powerful music is in my life. My car was recently totaled so I don’t have my 30 min drive to work alone w my music right now. I noticed a change in my mood & realized that I need quiet time w music more than I thought! Now I come home & throw my headphones on while I’m cooking, cleaning, or sometimes just sitting. It makes me happy 😃
Thank u so much. I need to change my mind set and get back to work on my thoughts and attitude towards myself and others. As I start a new chapter in my life.
Great list! Also remember, there is always next time if you fail. Remember other ppl are less fortunate and would appreciate what we have. the fact we're healthy and breathing and given another chance is also a positive perspective. Look for the good in situations and ppl, extract even one positive, even if its a lesson. Thanks B.D
Im here because of issues with my parents I need to get resolved. I have had a really bad attitude my whole life and now at the age of 13 ive realized im maturing and need to fix this ty so much I have been taking notes.
I'm here because i have an attitude problem and this video helps a lot for me to figure out on what's wrong with me because the people I love leaving me because of my bad attitude. I will apply your advices. thank you so much!
Thank you i am going to try to do what you told me to do my attitude sucks and i want to change that so i can be more happy. My attitude was good and then my attitude came back idk why. My parents told me i need to change it or else my life is going to be crappy and i am going to be bring in negative people in my life but thank you again.
@Anastasia Stock hey , you need to change your attitude to ; I'm so grateful my sister cares enough to want me to watch this mind numbingly boring stupid stuff ! See an attitude change is an opportunity to hone our negative skills .
Alyssa McCarthy I am because I was just told by my step dad that he’s not gonna talk to me because he feels like hitting Me every time so yeah I’m here to change my attitude ig🙄
Thanks for the video! It was such a good reminder to me. It can be hard trying to maintain a positive attitude living among so many self centered, rude, sarcastic negative people, but it is possible! The more we try the better we feel! 😎🙏💕
Love you SillyMe BeeLuu, I agree with you. There is very little difference between people, but that little difference makes a big difference. That difference is attitude. Think of something that you desire. What attitude will you need to get it or achieve it?
You know the saying: "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink" Some people refuse to change their mindset and rather stay in the dark than coming forth into the light.
i am so exited that they have this video it can really change a person just by listing to something really amazing to think to your self what have i been doing wrong instead of your parents telling you because then you get the same attitude back again thumbs up if you think so to
The reasons why I’m here is becuz of my mom, it seems as if she always has a problem w/ everything I do... so I always talk bacc so I’m trying to put myself in her moccasins.... thank you for this vid it’s gonna be very helpful for me💙.
I'm 12 I also have bad negative attitude And I really want to change myself Because of some toxic people in my life I got a habit of getting angry at small Things and back talking to everyone I want to be happy and focus on my studies but I can't do because of some of these toxic people of my life I hope I'll change myself before I turn 13
My brother made my mom cry today. I started crying. I got angry at him. I got grounded. I shouted at her and overheard her talking to my dad... “I didn’t have kids to get sh*t like this from them. i don’t want to be disrespected.” And she was crying so much now I feel SOOOO bad :c
I would look more positively at my work on my dissertation. It is really working me over. I want to be positive so I have begun to say to my self, not if but when I complete this work.
For starters I would like to say that I have an attitude issue recently and I realized up until now I want to get over myself and improve myself and become better, as well as learning something new so that I can become better in the meantime. I really want to change my ways and prove to my parents that I will stop being arragant, aggressive and violent, cause you know violence is not the answer to our problems! I want to change my ways and I need to convince my brother, my mum and my dad that I will not ever put my hands on my mom ever again and that's needs to stop for good and I mean it this time!
I believe in you. You can change for the better. I hope you do change. And be more positive. I’m working on being more positive and my attitude. We can do it!! ❤️
I observe regular people out there making an effort together with now taking power over over his or her circumstances, you are currently not gonna be in a position to grow to be motivated if you happen to be not wishing to put together the choice that sets you absolutely free. As you can see the decisions we come up with are positively or in some instances poorly reinforcing our behaviours and thus our circumstances.
Another way to have a positive attitude is get of toxic people even if it is your family. Look at each situation for what it is. Don't let them get to you. Before you respond take some time to take another look. You may see it was silly. Remember the little things that can make you positive. Everytime someone tries to bring me down I tell myself someday that person will get what is coming. Karma never forgets. I can be positive knowing I did nothing wrong. That person gets a thrill out of giving one a bad attitude. You dont let them do that.
Great video. Afterall if someone wonders what is actually an attitude? It is defined as the way in which a person views and evaluates something or someone, a predisposition or a tendency to respond positively or negatively toward a certain idea, object, person, or situation.
Absolutely! Having a positive attitude will bring out the best version of yourself. Start having a positive mind and it will absolutely change your mind.
I am usually very quick to recover from negative situations with solutions and thinking positively about the future. I have continued on and didn't allow something to control me and permanently impact my life negatively or make me become stagnant or despondent but it is not always possible to just bounce back from something horrific and tragic or just use the regular positive talk and actions. For my current attitude problem I'm presenting my personal issue; What if you lose everything you have accumulated in 52 years, including some very personal, meaningful things that can't ever be replaced? My mother's and childhood dogs ashes, family pictures dating back to the 1800's, all the things my children ever made for me while growing up, all the antiques that were given to me by my mother and grandmother who are no longer alive or all the cards, letters and audio of my Uncle who is also not alive now. This tragic incident took the lives of several animals one of them was my best friend and soul mate, my beloved still young and healthy dog Jonsey and other animals that had been with me for years as well as my sons cats that were to him, his precious babies, his best friends. What do you do then? No matter what I do positive in my life, and the fact that I stay sober and not stagnant, pain is still here with me every day. I do feel despondent now and all the things I do seem so useless and meaningless. I do everything you say in this video, like I have always done but nothing changes this overwhelming grief, emptiness and hopelessness. I tried all the positive things like telling myself, "well at least you were able to save two of the dogs and a couple cats got out", "we all (humans, one being my adult son the other my husband) got out alive, so it definitely could be worse and has been for others not so fortunate" , "It will get better, it always has before", "life still goes on and I have to keep going" , etc. Well, I did do what needed to be done and somehow motivated my son and husband to do the same but it still haunts me mercilessly and yes life goes on but it feels empty with no real substance, very lonely, meaningless, useless. I have no one to blame even if I wanted to point fingers at someone or shout at God for it not "being fair" but there is no point in it. It's not productive or helpful to do any of those things even if it was someones fault( it was faulty wiring that caused a house fire) life isn't "fair" or "not fair" that's nonsense, it's just life and these things happen. I know these things and I still do these things but it doesn't matter, it doesn't help anymore or take the pain away. It's all simply and uncontrollably, the chaos of the universe and I am just along for the ride.
Thank you for teaching me how to change my attitude is it going to help me a lot thank you so much for teaching me to be a better boy is going to help me a lot thank you God bless you
People may say a 24 years old man shouldn't cry... Something happened what brought up many things from the past. I don't know if people noticed, but I felt really bad. I cried for 15 minutes while listening to relaxing music and thinking about every bad things. After that, my attitude was better than ever. I think it's ok if you do it like once a year...
It's totally ok. Whenever. If you can't cry, Like i couldn't. It is a trauma response. Crying is actually there for exactly what it did for you. and who cares what THEY say?
How's your attitude today? 🙂
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I have one that is really significant. It is learn how to cope yourself and others. Coping is a powerful skill to shine up your attitude.
pretty good 👍
My attitude is not very hot-tempered; it is mild-mannered instead.
i'm here because i had an attitude issue and I realized it recently. I want to get over myself and improve myself and become better
Me to
I even don't know how I got this very bad negative attitude suddenly
I Really feel very bad and I always talk to my parents back even they both are so caring I feel so guilty when I talk back to them
Because of some toxic people in my life this all is happening ☹️☹️☹️
You see that you want to improve. its all up from here mate. Great work.
@@kinghitbook Hope what you say is true. I'm here now
@@wyrosjr It is a true presentation mate from my heart.
Same
I find myself feeling really sad at times. Then I just think that this feeling wont last forever. This shall pass. Thank you for the video much needed.
This too shall always pass. great attuide.
A healthy attitude literally shifts our lives and opens the doors for more opportunities. You got this!!
So simple, but hard for most.
After practicing mindfulness meditation for some months, I realized that I had started looking at bad experiences differently. Let’s say I spilled my coffee, I found myself saying ‘if that’s the worst thing that happens to me today then I’ll take it !’ The old me would feel overly angery and probably use bad language. So I think meditation has helped me. Now when something bad happens I just let it go rather hold on to it.
Thanks for the comment, I'll try to practice mindful meditation, hoping to alter this bad attitude of mine.
@@aurorakaterina4782 You’re wonderful
Talking to ourselves positively is one way to improve our attitude greatly!
Just *stop* please.
I'm your subscriber!!
I am not positive or negative but I'm easily affected by the ones around me. I've lived with a negative person for years and so I have his negative energy and I'm trying to work on it but it's difficult. He has no interest in improving. One day I'll move out and I will feel better.
Good thing about me being easily affected by others is that in school I am friends with positive people and I get their energy :)
Pluttskutt
Sound like you sleeping with your enemy. You are afraid so you choose to stay. An accept the stays quo. I know economics play a major part. However, it is possible. Keep watch and plan a Me escape. Until you do that, your School buddies will no longer be around you to soothe your personal life. They are occupying your intellect at this time...
Same here. 15 years with an evil mom turned me into her second copy in terms of attitude. Trusting God for healing
@@bigvalley4987 I was living with my dad so I certainly was not sleeping with anyone lmfao. What does what you say even mean? Victim blaming?
@@rebirthed1274 I'm sorry to hear that :( I hope it works for you and you heal
You are so clear. sometimes we need the negative to see the positive. It is all relervent.
I ruined my life with bad attitude I need help on improving everything
I came here because my bad attitude keeps getting worse and worse and worse ITS FRICKINGLY STUPID
Same
me 2
Same 😔
Me too😔
#8 Let go of expectations
#12 Expect the best out of every situation
...hmm
Letting go of expectations simply means to have an open mind. Expecting the best out of every situation simply means to look for something positive out of every positive or negative situation.
I guess they mean
#8 Let go of unrealistic expectations
#12 Have positive views of situations
They didn't expect your comment.
Very good point. Easy for hypocrites to talk. Anyone can sit in a swanky convenience of their home and give advise (excuse my language). How much of these principles does the creator of these videos believe in, is something that remains to be seen........
Shelly Mia hahaha thats a point
*BAD ATTITUDE LEADS TO BAD RESULTS,GOOD ATTITUDE GOOD RESULTS AND GREAT ATTITUDE -GREAT RESULTS* SO!!
Letting go of all my expectations, always make me be the solution guru therefore everyday I feel better and shift my attitude to achieve a great day everyday
Thx for the upload too
Nope, good attitude has not gotten good results which leads to bad attitude. Bad attitude is not just there. So no expecting a decent day because it's wrong? That's sad.
Hellen Ogego exactly i look forward to the next meeting:)
@@andreasleonlandgren3092 amazing👍
What was that guru for??
How does someone let go of their own expectations?
I'm thankful to my ear and eyes as well as mind for listening this great message.
Thank God for being alive n God bless us.🗽😇😁
God bless us all.
Another thing that has improved my attitude is by walking/jogging 2-3 days a week. I usually do it during my lunch break at work with my music. I also go to my car and take naps. Sometimes focusing on your 'me time' will help evaporate all the negativity you soak up in the real world.
I could be more positive about my work/ life situation. I too often let the negative weigh me down instead of seeing challenges for what they really are. Thank you to everyone that helped make this video. I needed this today.
How can you keep a positive attitude, when the ppl around you just bring out more negative vibes. By the things they do..!!
If you have negative/toxic ppl in your life you will have to cut them off.
@@carolinelundegaard8501 what about if you have to work with them five day a week?
@@carolinelundegaard8501 try to distance yourself from them.
Caroline Lundegaard I cant cut my mother off 😢
How am i going to get away from my sister
I needed this. Lots of stuff going in the wrong direction lately that I have no control over, but have impacted me directly. I will apply these and work toward positive change. Thank you!
Life so much better with proper attitude. Better friends, better talk, better time spending, better life.
Ill take hope any day.
my best friend told me i have a bad attitude, and i really don't want to lose her
this helped a lot, thanks.
Wowww..it's sooo great you said that " Spend more time around positive ppl "...so spend my time around ppl other than the family who I live with..!! "
LMAO
Overall a great video. I’m generally a happy & positive person, mainly because I make that decision everyday. I try to only focus on things that I can control. When I find myself anxious or feeling negative it’s usually because I’m avoiding something- a task, conversation, etc. I don’t surround myself with negative people because I find them exhausting. Lastly, I just realized how powerful music is in my life. My car was recently totaled so I don’t have my 30 min drive to work alone w my music right now. I noticed a change in my mood & realized that I need quiet time w music more than I thought! Now I come home & throw my headphones on while I’m cooking, cleaning, or sometimes just sitting. It makes me happy 😃
Elisha Rae
Listen to music without headphones. This will Allow you as well to become vigilant of your surroundings as well🥰
“A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit saps one’s strength.”
Thank u so much. I need to change my mind set and get back to work on my thoughts and attitude towards myself and others. As I start a new chapter in my life.
Great list! Also remember, there is always next time if you fail. Remember other ppl are less fortunate and would appreciate what we have. the fact we're healthy and breathing and given another chance is also a positive perspective. Look for the good in situations and ppl, extract even one positive, even if its a lesson. Thanks B.D
❤️
Thank you these are things we should have been taught in school or at home thank you very very much
You got this. true.
Im here because of issues with my parents I need to get resolved. I have had a really bad attitude my whole life and now at the age of 13 ive realized im maturing and need to fix this ty so much I have been taking notes.
Who's here because of their friends and family? 👉💁🏻♀️
Me
🙋🏾♀️
Because of my cousins 😨
Me
I suddenly noticed that my attitude was not good at school, I didn't notice it for days but now because of some reason I noticed it.
I'm here because i have an attitude problem and this video helps a lot for me to figure out on what's wrong with me because the people I love leaving me because of my bad attitude. I will apply your advices. thank you so much!
Im having that same issue ☹️
Same here
Thank you i am going to try to do what you told me to do my attitude sucks and i want to change that so i can be more happy. My attitude was good and then my attitude came back idk why. My parents told me i need to change it or else my life is going to be crappy and i am going to be bring in negative people in my life but thank you again.
Who else is here for your parents🙋🏼♀️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏼♀️
@Anastasia Stock hey , you need to change your attitude to ; I'm so grateful my sister cares enough to want me to watch this mind numbingly boring stupid stuff !
See an attitude change is an opportunity to hone our negative skills .
Me
Alyssa McCarthy I am because I was just told by my step dad that he’s not gonna talk to me because he feels like hitting
Me every time so yeah I’m here to change my attitude ig🙄
Stupid
Me
Thanks for the video! It was such a good reminder to me. It can be hard trying to maintain a positive attitude living among so many self centered, rude, sarcastic negative people, but it is possible! The more we try the better we feel! 😎🙏💕
beez lucci I like what you said and I hope you have more likes. Have a nice day. 🙂
@@LoveleneLeBlanc thank you! I hope you do too! 😊
Love you SillyMe BeeLuu, I agree with you. There is very little difference between people, but that little difference makes a big difference. That difference is attitude. Think of something that you desire. What attitude will you need to get it or achieve it?
Relate with you very much, great reminder!... Aside from some of the ignorant people.
You know the saying: "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink" Some people refuse to change their mindset and rather stay in the dark than coming forth into the light.
I want to change
Start with your haircut.
@@plusbonus1165 😅😅😅
You're amazing already
@@plusbonus1165 XD
But its hard to change
You describe everything in a best way and give me a new boom. Thank you so much for making my day.😘🙏
My mom and dad tell me I have a bad attitude and I was hoping that this would fix. Thanks for making this video.
i am so exited that they have this video it can really change a person just by listing to something really amazing to think to your self what have i been doing wrong instead of your parents telling you because then you get the same attitude back again thumbs up if you think so to
This channel inspired me to start my own!!THANK YOU!!
Good content i watched one video and Subscribed, keep it up
Im. Sure you will get big in no time i subscirbed,looking forward to see you grow
Thank you! This video helped a lot I came here cuz my friends gave me a chance to change and I'm really willing to
Excellent video!! I love to think of my beloved pets and it always changes my attitude immediately.. thank you for your great tips :)
The reasons why I’m here is becuz of my mom, it seems as if she always has a problem w/ everything I do... so I always talk bacc so I’m trying to put myself in her moccasins.... thank you for this vid it’s gonna be very helpful for me💙.
Everyone needs an attitude adjustment from time to time!
Its very nice video... and taught me to maintain a positive attitude and make it possible.... thanks alot
Great practical advice. Thank you❤️
It has come in it's time.
Thanks a lot
Your channel is the only reason I'm still living in this world
im trying to get a positive attitude because I turn 13 in 5 months, and I want to be a good child, so I get more from my parents Lmao
Enjoy being a kid while you can, you got a long life ahead of you 😌
happy birthday bro or girl
I'm 12
I also have bad negative attitude
And I really want to change myself
Because of some toxic people in my life I got a habit of getting angry at small Things and back talking to everyone
I want to be happy and focus on my studies but I can't do because of some of these toxic people of my life
I hope I'll change myself before I turn 13
@@shonakatiyar7053 never let other people make you who you are. Toxic people can be toxic by themselves. Good luck! 👍🏽
Thanks A Million for thois Information it will help me.
Thanks for teaching me the importance of attitude.. this vedio really helped me in all the ways..
Thank you :)
My brother made my mom cry today.
I started crying.
I got angry at him.
I got grounded.
I shouted at her and overheard her talking to my dad...
“I didn’t have kids to get sh*t like this from them. i don’t want to be disrespected.”
And she was crying so much now I feel SOOOO bad :c
I am so sorry
Awesome advices !!
Thanks 💜
Who else is only here because of parent issues?
👇
Facts my stepdad got mad and said I had a attitude when I didn’t
Here !
I would look more positively at my work on my dissertation. It is really working me over. I want to be positive so I have begun to say to my self, not if but when I complete this work.
my favourite part is forgiving the limitations of others 😉
Thank you for sharing 🙏 ❤
This was a helpful video, it was just slightly drawn out. Thank you for the advice!
For starters I would like to say that I have an attitude issue recently and I realized up until now I want to get over myself and improve myself and become better, as well as learning something new so that I can become better in the meantime. I really want to change my ways and prove to my parents that I will stop being arragant, aggressive and violent, cause you know violence is not the answer to our problems! I want to change my ways and I need to convince my brother, my mum and my dad that I will not ever put my hands on my mom ever again and that's needs to stop for good and I mean it this time!
I believe in you. You can change for the better. I hope you do change. And be more positive. I’m working on being more positive and my attitude. We can do it!! ❤️
Nice
positive Attitude is every solution
Also positive actions
thank you so much
Thank you so much Brainy dose 😘😘I love ur channel it gives me great advices...m very happy ❣️
Great video!!!!
Great help to improve my attitude. Dang there's some hard things
Awesome explanation on attitude.😁👍
I observe regular people out there making an effort together with now taking power over over his or her circumstances, you are currently not gonna be in a position to grow to be motivated if you happen to be not wishing to put together the choice that sets you absolutely free. As you can see the decisions we come up with are positively or in some instances poorly reinforcing our behaviours and thus our circumstances.
Grand information I must say iam still learning.
Thank you!! I really appreciated the information!!💖💖
Thank you Brainy Dose!
Great content deserves to share. Thanks
Another way to have a positive attitude is get of toxic people even if it is your family. Look at each situation for what it is. Don't let them get to you. Before you respond take some time to take another look. You may see it was silly. Remember the little things that can make you positive. Everytime someone tries to bring me down I tell myself someday that person will get what is coming. Karma never forgets. I can be positive knowing I did nothing wrong. That person gets a thrill out of giving one a bad attitude. You dont let them do that.
Great video, love the idea of taking steps to having the right attitude, as it's the start of achieving! :D
Very accurate insight.
Thank you so much....
Thank you I really needed that thank you brainy dose 😃😃😃😃😃😃
Being silent made me potent strong 💪
Immensely valuable information right there!
Change is so important
My favourite youtube channel
Thank you for this ❤
Thanks 👏 wonderful 😘 video 📹
Great video. Afterall if someone wonders what is actually an attitude?
It is defined as the way in which a person views and evaluates something or someone, a predisposition or a tendency to respond positively or negatively toward a certain idea, object, person, or situation.
thanks brainy dose you really big help.. brilliant! 👍👍👏
Great Video! We can accomplish so much more in life with a positive attitude.
Absolutely! Having a positive attitude will bring out the best version of yourself. Start having a positive mind and it will absolutely change your mind.
Very useful thanks
Had a peaceful and
quiet Today 👌
I am usually very quick to recover from negative situations with solutions and thinking positively about the future. I have continued on and didn't allow something to control me and permanently impact my life negatively or make me become stagnant or despondent but it is not always possible to just bounce back from something horrific and tragic or just use the regular positive talk and actions. For my current attitude problem I'm presenting my personal issue; What if you lose everything you have accumulated in 52 years, including some very personal, meaningful things that can't ever be replaced? My mother's and childhood dogs ashes, family pictures dating back to the 1800's, all the things my children ever made for me while growing up, all the antiques that were given to me by my mother and grandmother who are no longer alive or all the cards, letters and audio of my Uncle who is also not alive now. This tragic incident took the lives of several animals one of them was my best friend and soul mate, my beloved still young and healthy dog Jonsey and other animals that had been with me for years as well as my sons cats that were to him, his precious babies, his best friends. What do you do then? No matter what I do positive in my life, and the fact that I stay sober and not stagnant, pain is still here with me every day. I do feel despondent now and all the things I do seem so useless and meaningless. I do everything you say in this video, like I have always done but nothing changes this overwhelming grief, emptiness and hopelessness. I tried all the positive things like telling myself, "well at least you were able to save two of the dogs and a couple cats got out", "we all (humans, one being my adult son the other my husband) got out alive, so it definitely could be worse and has been for others not so fortunate" , "It will get better, it always has before", "life still goes on and I have to keep going" , etc. Well, I did do what needed to be done and somehow motivated my son and husband to do the same but it still haunts me mercilessly and yes life goes on but it feels empty with no real substance, very lonely, meaningless, useless. I have no one to blame even if I wanted to point fingers at someone or shout at God for it not "being fair" but there is no point in it. It's not productive or helpful to do any of those things even if it was someones fault( it was faulty wiring that caused a house fire) life isn't "fair" or "not fair" that's nonsense, it's just life and these things happen. I know these things and I still do these things but it doesn't matter, it doesn't help anymore or take the pain away. It's all simply and uncontrollably, the chaos of the universe and I am just along for the ride.
Today I have really bad Attitude with my Mom I have mental problems one them is attitude. This video will help me a lot.
Needed this today
Thank you I'm trying to change my NEGATIVITY it's HORRIBLE. I beat myself up ALL THE TIME 😢😢
Even if you can't sing, sing and you will see a lot of stress vanish. It is very therapeutic.
Just don't do it where others can hear you if you are bad or it annoys them.
@@lisaa3351 :(
Thank you for teaching me how to change my attitude is it going to help me a lot thank you so much for teaching me to be a better boy is going to help me a lot thank you God bless you
This is awesome thanks
Thank you
Very nice video
Thank you
Right attitude is everything
If life gives you Lemons turn them into Lemonade.
No. You just learn to like lemons. Simple as that
Lol
Thanks for your video ❤
That is so powerful! This is my second day watching it. It's quit close to gratitude :-)
Realy good and inspoaring for positive thinking i love your videos
I just wanna be different because someone told me if I don't change I'll die alone and that touched my heart and I just wanna change
Great advice.
People may say a 24 years old man shouldn't cry...
Something happened what brought up many things from the past. I don't know if people noticed, but I felt really bad. I cried for 15 minutes while listening to relaxing music and thinking about every bad things. After that, my attitude was better than ever.
I think it's ok if you do it like once a year...
It's totally ok. Whenever. If you can't cry, Like i couldn't. It is a trauma response. Crying is actually there for exactly what it did for you. and who cares what THEY say?