@karlbeat your missing the point it's not that simple smh First when did they meet was it before they became wealthy normally that's the case bro Secondly was it a arrange marriage Just a business partnership meaning love had zero to do with the union This happens everyday Your thinking is flawed Do to your definition of marriage These brothers are exactly on point It's you that lags behind in the game
@Zab Gates if you can't keep her then you were worthless from the start might as well kept it moving You can get sex anytime If you left with nothing then you were Waiting time meaning you were being validated by the women This is basic understanding bro
Yes, spot on. I’m a guy and this is exactly what (most) men are looking for. We actually don’t want to date a super hot chick because we know she is high maintenance and no relationship material.
In Some cases a great person is not that important at the moment. we(Me) simply just wants sex in a few different positions & a couple of nights out in her sexy attire and after that I’m done.
My wife ain’t winning any beauty pageants (neither am I) but we started with nothing and have built a life together that many envy. She chose to be a teacher so that she could have a career that would also allow her to be a mother. I went into business and have been making six figures for the past several years. She’s my peace and my lighthouse. I knew she was a wife when I married her. After 16 years, we’re still pulling together as a team and we’re both super happy with the life we built. I wouldn’t trade her for a dozen dimes. Her qualities make her a different kind of 10.
Is very comforting to know that there are still men who believe that not all women are the same and that a good wife can be found. Your wife is definitely a virtuous woman..God bless both of you!
@@vcassol6989 you missed the point his married wasn’t based off not thinking all woman are the same. He met one that matched up and that what Kevin always mainly talks about MATCHING UP people wanna normalize being a bum or a hoe and getting the cream of the crop .
If a man chooses you based solely on your looks, the second those looks fade, you'll most likely be replaced by someone else- solely based on their looks.
Exactly and she's probably having sex with other men while using you for your money because she doesn't care about you either. Both get what they deserve in the end, played.
Very true. My husband has admitted to me and I have seen that I am considered downgrade compared to his exes. They were all “exotic” or extremely beautiful according to society standards but they were entitled and users. The funny part is I’m judged mostly by the women in his family more than the men and he said it’s because they also know about the superficial nature of these “10” females. I find that the older men get even my own father , the more substance is important in a woman especially when it comes to gaining and keeping wealth
If your standard for a woman is only done by how attractive she is then u will lose out. This is why we as men are always complaining that women only want us for our money. Well, u aren't looking at her character or personality. Beauty fades, character last forever!!!
@Yung Rey it's not that u dnt look at beauty, attractiveness is the initial thing we all look at. What we men should be doing is look at what else she is bringing to the table besides beauty. The guest based his 8,9, 10 woman on beauty alone. He didn't mention a womans character or personality at all nor did he say that it played a part in the factoring.....
@@leroymckenziejr.jnfenterpr567 Exactly qualities should be important to men as well.I also think compatibility is important. Everyone is obsessed with looks and they wonder why they struggle to meet people.
I've said that exact thing under other comments on channels like these! There are so many guys lamenting on how celebrity men are getting divorced by their wives and the wives are taking all their money and the wives didn't love them. Those men never talk about how the men divorce their first wives to chase after the new chic. How, despite their wealth, they are incompatible with these women (especlially physically- 5's trying to date 10's) etc. These celebrity men KNOW they are making a bad decision but do it anyway because they want the look of a young beautiful woman on their arms. No consideration for her personality and your legacy (children, family) etc. No consideration for your first wife that is a ride or die and supported them and birthed their children all those years. They like to pretend they never saw it coming. Take responsibility for your choice in a partner. Take responsibility for your future family. Take responsibility for your legacy.
@@shototodoroki3292 I’ve dated an ugly woman that thought she was that deal. That still confuses me to this day. On our last date, she told me: “I had a guy tell me I was beautiful today.” I told her: “I get compliments all the time. Don’t worry. After a while, you get used to them.” I broke up with her a couple days later. My point in saying this is: I dated 10’s and I dated 2’s. Both were 2’s on the inside. Looks have no bearing on personality for women. That’s because women don’t have to hunt like men do. We are forced to accept how we look and adapt accordingly.
I've seen a 6 (in looks) raise herself up to an 8 by the way she carried herself, the way she chose clothes that flatter her instead of expose her, the way she was confident, humorous, and warm with people. Most guys looking for a relationship would take her over a 9 with an attitude any day.
Yeah. I’ve never really wanted a “10” because if they have been told they are a 10 their whole lives that probably gives them too much attitude. I’m married to a solid 8. She’s beautiful, perhaps she doesn’t even realize how beautiful she is but as a result she’s not entitled. After 2 kids naturally her body changed a bit and I accept that. But she keeps the exercise habits she had when we met rather than just using having kids as an excuse to get fat. And what do you know about 3 years after our youngest was born. She is back within a few pounds of her weight at the wedding and fitting back in the jeans she wore before we got married.
@@johndavis8746 you're a damn liar. Do you really know what a 1 or 2 looks like? on the grand, global scale of human features? You'd take the least attractive people on earth who are "kind"? Come on now. If that's true, its because you are a 1 yourself.
@@vjhicks8533 Because god forbid you have to deal with a confident woman. Her self esteem should be in the dump so you can sh*t all over her. I hope you know that's how you sound right now. And the "you don't know you're beautiful" trope that the woman you married fits into exemplifies my point. You are typical.
If a man wants a woman for her beauty and body, then it’s perfectly fine for her to want a man for his money. After all, a beautiful appearance requires upkeep, which requires money. Also, men who only want women for their bodies will never be satisfied. Therefore, women should take care of their appearance first and foremost for themselves.
Absolutely true. The amount of men that don't get that is astounding. It's even worse in the modern day, with all the plastic surgery- the poreless faces, the weaves and healthy hair, the dresses, the makeup, permanent eyelash extensions and micro-bladed eyebrows, the plumped lips, the eye-whitening serums, the dental work, the liposuction, and so much more! A lot of the beautiful women online and in the limelight weren't born like that. And even the ones naturally beautiful still want to get waxes and facials and whatnot. Beauty is an investment.
Ultimately, men want to marry a woman who wants to be a wife, feminine, caring, loyal, non-combative and someone he is sexually attracted to. Period! Doesn't matter if she is considered a 1 or 10 according to these unrealistic beauty standards as long as she is attractive to HIM!
With such requirements I hope you don't ask misogynistic questions, like "why so little women at top of each fields?" and I hope you criticize other men when they do. Obviously you have to understand how achieving the top doesn't go together with being caring and non-combative (at least right now), and having such achievements doesn't go with being a nice and homely wife.
At the age of 25, I've become very jaded and cynical about dating these days, the shit is just so transactional to the extent that it all just seems pointless.
You are in your prime know the difference between Mrs. Right and Mrs. Right now. Shoot them fish in a barrel while you can. Protect yourself and Enjoy the milk while it’s free. Remember not to miss the forest through the trees. Practice makes perfect. Sex is sex and love is love and they are two totally different things.
They call em feemales not freemales it's called the oldest know profession for a reason the only things in this world that are free are cancer and hard times....be good to yourself. know your worth. nobody's going to be as good to you as you can be to yourself. Self fulfillment isn't the same thing as being full of yourself.
Is it strange that I've been attracted to women of almost all body types ( except obese)? Intellect, faith, and values are what always seem to be what draws me in.
It's the same with me. I don't mind a chubby girl either, she just has to look good in the face (naturally) and have curves in the right places. Even so, that's not a guarantee that I'll keep her around.
I agree totally, that's why everyone is dysfunctional and cant get along. We put a price tag on everything. Social media has ruined people. And most of these types of people are comparing there lives to celebrities, sense when is it so wrong to just be humble and appreciate who you are and what you have.
@MP Firstly being a black person, I have no interest in people who are blonde or blue eyed, its never been my thing but I understand some people like that but this is not the majority contarary to what the media would like to potray. Universal attractiveness is also relative. What they consider beauty in Africa, wouldn't translate in the same way in China. What you are considering as universal beauty is the concious and unconcious subliminal messaging (TV, poster, movies, magazines etc..) that you have recieved since childhood which determines what consistutes to a 10/10 when it comes to beauty. This is why the ideal of beauty differs from Western society, the East and Asia and Africa. Also what is considered beauty now has evolved from even 15 years ago. Lets take western society, blonde blue eyed model thin women were considered the industry standard of beauty, now its racially ambigous curvacious woman who are now considered the industry standard all because of sublimial messaging on social media. Everything is subliminal messaging, and depending on where you come from determines what what you consider a 10 and what another person deems as a 6.
@MP Again I have to respectivly disagree. You have missed the point with regards to subliminal messaging you receive growing up. Also many of these researches are limited to western theoratic research and data is limited to westeen groups. I can only go with experience and those around me. At most a cluster or large groups of people will be attracted to the same person but they will still give them different ratings wirhin rhoae groups. Some men like skinny women, other like curvacious and others thick. What determine so called universal beauty is what the media wants to convey. I'm still a believer that beauty is in the eye of the beholder because I've seen my great grandparents look at each other like they are still teenagers because beauty transcends the superfcial, hence the reason many beautiful people are single or have problomatc relationships bwcause that was many peoplea docus not their character e.g. the Kadashians, Halle Berry, Brad Pitt, etc... I can almost garauntee you that what African American men find as a 10 is going to be different to what a Scottish white Man will xondiser ro be a 10 and what a Scottish man considers a 10 will be very different to what a Black African man will consider a 10 etc.. and within those groups they will rate individuals differently. Human being were born to be attractive to more than one person, it does necwssarily make them a 10 because those are just personal ratings. From a personal perspective, I as a black woman would consider myself above average. I've bewn told I look similar to Janet Jackson but more curvacious then her. When I went to France, I didnt get much attention, when I went to Denmark, I received so much male attention and this is the land of blonde and blue eyes people. When I've gone to Africa I get average male attention etc.. the irony is the place where I have had least male attention (France) is where I met my boyfriend. Because although he was French he preffered women of colour over the French standard of slender petite women.
@@lilken21 Exactly, you are not the first man to tell me that. Many of my African male friends believe Kelly is more attractive then Beyonce. Although both are beautiful in their own way.
@@NaeNae23 Everything you've said were straight facts. I, myself was more attracted to Latoya when Destiny's Child first came out. Kelly wasn't that attractive to me at first but by the early 2000s she was more beautiful than Beyonce. Looks are very subjective. I never saw why people considered Robin Givens or Gabrielle Union to be so beautiful. I see women who're killing them in the looks department on the regular. But the next man may think that their both 10s. Beauty is like art, everyone interprets it a different way depending on their personal tastes and experiences
I’m glad Kevin is also telling men to be realistic. I previously only watched clips of him telling women they are average. I have traveled the world and I’m 47. My wisdom has taught me, just be true to yourself. If you treat people with respect and stay open minded, you will find your prize🌸
That's exactly what he wants, it's what low value men do to bring down women, a confident man never picks on a woman's looks, he just pursues what he finds attractive and doesn't concern himself with others, a confident woman like myself can see through an insecure man and i drop them off as soon as they try to project their insecurities on to me.
Fruit Cocktail such truth bro. The guy talking on the video probably feels he needs her jerk circle of friends validation... but high value men like myself and you, know what’s up.
@@solekhashuwa Although your correct, you're missing something. This is all about fit. Doesn't matter if your confident in yourself, good for you. What matters is are you a good fit for him? Looks aside, can you play a part in his life that he has for you to a tee? That's all what this really is.
I saw an old couple walking down the road for their evening walk. Hand in hand. No Instagram influence, no baller ideals, no superficiality. Goals has been measure by the worst qualities. You can be "top", "beautiful" or a "winner" when you maintain and nurture a relationship, finances, and family, honorably and with integrity for decades.
What about women who pass up great guys that will treat them well because those guys are short, or because they’re not rappers or ball players? That’s kind of stupid too, wouldn’t you agree?
@Markel Raya it depends. What he considers 8's and 9's may not be what you consider to be 8's and 9's or vice versa. Thats the beauty of the world, we may like the same thing.
@Markel Raya Because they're lying to you, because they don't care enough about you to be honest. And who would care about someone this snooty? The point is the treatment from people who think they're "hot". You sidestepped the point like every terrible girlfriend ever. Guy looks like James Franco on the outside - not half bad. Good enough to work with, with a little skill. But you look like Seth Rogen on the inside, and you're fine with that.
When a WORDLY man looks at you he will judge you based on a numeric system..but when a GODLY man looks at you he looks at you through the lens of GOD..my advise is to PRACTICE RADICAL SELF-CARE be THE VERY BEST VERSION OF YOU and stay avaliable for the man that has a HEART FOR GOD...
What I’ve observed is that a woman being gorgeous will reel a man in hook, line, and sinker. But I also find that a woman being submissive and not combative and not challenging her man is something that a lot of men love. Where’s the balance between a woman who’s kind but also won’t put up with mistreatment. Some men state that some women are loud and hard to get along with but don’t mention that they dog her out or don’t have any ambition or talk to her any kind of way. There has got to be a balance and accountability.
Delilah May I gave up on dating lmao and this isn’t coming from a bitter viewpoint. I believe amazing men exist in the world, but I guess I have too much “masculine” energy because I just want to publish a few books so I can buy an amazing house and I want to get together events that help change the world. I’m so focused on success and survival that I’m like... “hmm...where does love fit in?”. I’ve always been goal-oriented and it’s what drives me. I’ve heard this masculine vs. feminine concept being used so much on TH-cam and I need to do more research but sometimes it seems that some men (not saying The Roommates do) shame a woman for being multifaceted and amazing. I just think a relationship works when two people who find each other incredibly sexy have a lot to bring to the table as far as personality yes...but I don’t think any of these TH-camrs would date a lady working at McDonald’s.....more than looks and being kind matters to men 😂😂😂 I take no one’s advice. But I find these videos interesting and conversation starters nonetheless.
Delilah May This thinking is indeed different and that’s perfectly fine for there to be difference and a new perspective. Please link me this video lol. I’m trying to understand how the word “ugly” could ever be positive. It’s hard for me to call other people ugly...let alone myself because I look at a person’s soul and spirit and that can be beautiful regardless of looks. Maybe the term “giving up” is harsh but I have let go of obsessing over if I’ll find love. I’ve always based my life on what’s meaningful to me outside of love anyway but now it’s an active decision. I find myself to be a beautiful woman. Men feel the same and I know good men exist but I guess I don’t wanna worry anymore if a handsome and good man will come around my way or what I’m gonna have to compromise to have to compromise (if anything) for love to fit. Or worrying about looking my prettiest so that my partner can feel validated that he is with a gorgeous person. Damn I typed a lot lol. You are becoming my therapy 😂😂😂
Shayla Barfield I respect the honesty. Keep being goal oriented. Your efforts are not in vain. I know your a stranger, but I believe in you. You got this. Did you write down what your looking for in a man?
If the only thing you are ranking women on is their beauty then you need more experience with women. I’ll take a rational intelligent 7 over an unrealistic 8-10 everyday.
He was a personal shopper so I'm not shocked he's image obsessed and the fact that he thinks a woman will stay loyal and faithful to a man who pressures her about her looks is hilarious, beautiful women will keep bargaining with her looks if looks are the only value a man sees in her and she will always look for a better bidder.
Anyone who selects a partner based SOLELY on looks/money is someone who is hollow on the inside. They don’t have any depth of themselves so they can’t even begin to see beyond the surface in others.
Its subjective and one cant conclude that by their own opinion or their known statistical data. I just argue with my friend with the same opposite things of what you just said.
Yep, but I bet that you want a 6" guy that make good money at least to live a confortable life, so all I see in these comment section is a bunch of hypocrisy.
I understand your sentiment however if I can't stand to look at you and you are completely broke and can't do anything for me financially I can't respect you as a man and I'll pass you up 😎🥃
I really hope people dont use this as a guideline to determine a value of a person. Give me an average man with great qualities and I am truly blessed with that.
Looks are subjective, but looks do matter. Most people are fine with “average” looking people because there will be one or two qualities that will boost them up past just “average looking”. Like if you were the average looking girl and had a cute laugh, or had a really good personality or had a stable life financially that boosts you up past just a normal “5”. I’m still pretty young so maybe it gets different as your older but i don’t know a single person that’s going to try to talk to a person that’s ugly. If someone comes up to you and tries talking to you ugly guys will tend to get turned down. You can’t say it was their personality because you didn’t know them. People will say they aren’t into only looks to seem like a good person but it’s a lie.
Humans will always want more... even if they have all the money in the world. Things in this world can’t fully satisfy us, so we look to spiritual things.
Porsha Jones yes I watch a lot of podcasts and interviews with millionaires etc... one thing I noticed right away is that all the millionaires who are very happy and love helping others are also Christians of religious in some type of way
Things that may improve your life: - Believe that we got created & manifest - No masturbation & semen retention - Drinking 2-4 liters water a day - Don't compare yourselves to others, compete with the you from yesterday - Don't seek approval or try to impress anyone - Cold showers (Even the last 20 seconds of your regular shower) - Meditation - Not relying on relationships for happiness - Working out - Having a leader mentality - Reading books - Breathing in from your nose (reminder) - having gratitude - Cleaning your room - Taking breaks of social media - Not limiting yourself - Making up your bed (discipline practice) - Quitting/moderating caffeine & sugary drinks - Walking in nature - Making your own money (online) - Having a plan for things you wanna do - Being aware of what you doing with your valuable time & energy Peace, blessings and love to you (make a screenshot if you want to!)
The beauty standards on social media looks different in real life. Social media, most women are looking for the "picture perfect" photos but half of them I wouldn't even turn my head to if I seen them in person. There are some beauties that goes unnoticed and those are the one's you would break your neck to look at in person. From their face to their walk and the way the outfit she have on may define her curves. People have to click off of social media for once and tap into the real world.
Absolutely, that's why I never use dating apps. Plus you ever just get kinda tired and bored of these insta model types. There all the same looking. Whatever happened to individualism. Every chick wants to look like a Kim k ugh
people getting cosmetic surgery and wearing tons of makeup to look perfect on camera but rather like aliens in real life. literally ruining themselves for fleeting social media trends
plus you would be surprised with what people are willing to settle for in real life, they talk big on social media but get pregnant by an unemployed guy with not much future prospects
Cap because I know way too many fine women dating bums and will ride with them til the wheels fall off. Not every beautiful women just banks on her looks, they’re people with personalities too. People think that having money and resources = attraction but that’s cap. She’ll hang out with a guy with money and resources to use him but if she don’t feel that spark or he’s boring or whatever the case it’s no different from anyone else
This is facts! Some beautiful women will only date men strictly based on his looks, sexual skills, and/or personality. Some gorgeous women think most wealthy men are too controlling. Let’s not even forget about the attractive women with bum baby daddies.
Cactus Jack not in every case, the only X factor I see is confidence, I’ve seen some questionable looking men with some dimes. I’m a pretty attractive guy I’d say and I’m around good looking women a lot but I’ve seen a lot of guys who weren’t that attractive or rich pull crazy hot women bc they just knew how to do it to her
You can tell the cats that sat on the sidelines watching other dudes pickup chicks on the play ground. He grow up with this you must have money to get the beautiful woman. Once a man is comfortable with himself he can have them all.
That's a cop out. You don't have to aim to look like a model but try and look like YOU at your best. Personally I don't like people who don't try to look their best.
@@SCheco3 Who decides who is model material? People need to learn to think for themselves. What's attractive or unattractive should be a personal choice. Plenty of people marrying what others approve of even though they themselves aren't attracted to the person. At the end of the YOU have to be happy with that perosn. I wish I would let another person determine for ME what is attractive or acceptable. We know what we're born into and what someone else deems a "10" . I could care less what you or anyone else likes.
When I was a teen and early/mid 20’s I was obsessed with my looks. I could never be attractive enough and I was miserable. I realized it didn’t matter anymore, another woman would always be more attractive then me and I would never be happy. Someday I would be elderly and nobody except a person who loves me will find me attractive. I’m 30 now and I don’t wear makeup anymore I do absolutely nothing to my appearance actually but I do feel more beautiful than I used to before when I was so concerned about it.
Beautiful sentiment! I’m 26 been married since 21 I still struggle with my looks mostly with my teeth crooked and my nose...same old story from teenage years...I’m too starting to see what Jesus is saying I’ll never be happy even if I got my flaws fixed it will never be enough our flesh will find more flaws and crave to fix it. It’s meaningless. I enjoy make up and dressing vintage because it’s so feminine I feel feminine that way. Skincare helps too! Even though there are more beautiful women than me even they themselves won’t ever be happy.
I’ll be 25 next month and I felt/sometimes still feel so defeated because I feel like I’ll never be enough physically. In the age of social media, I feel so unattractive. It’d gotten so bad that when I was in college, I wouldn’t leave my dorm because I suddenly felt like I was ugly and I didn’t want people to see me. I failed that semester and went into a depression. I barely ate. I feel ridiculous for feeling this way but then again, I don’t. I’m not sure whom I’m trying to please or attract. Features I used to love about myself, I now find myself disliking. I always thought I had a nice button nose and now I don’t like it sometimes. Social media has also made me feel like my skin is trash. Everyone has clear skin now.
@@JasmynSky341417 u didn’t but it has nothing to do with wat he was talking about. He’s talking about physical attractiveness n u there like “yH bUT tHEy havE ThEiR Own ReSOuRces”. It’s a straw man argument
@@shaquillebazzey8111 Check this out from your bible : Numbers 23:19. It says, "God is not man, that he should lie, or a son of man, that he should change his mind" . So jesus himself said that god is not a man or son of man , and jesus himself was a man and son of man ( merry coz man means also human ) . But christians don't follow the christ , they follow the church . Jesus was a muslim ( = submits to god )and he admits that he is the prophet of god in JOHN 17:3 (Now this is eternal life: that they know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent). but sometimes love is blind
@@timhoward5 Check this out from your bible : Numbers 23:19. It says, "God is not man, that he should lie, or a son of man, that he should change his mind" . So jesus himself said that god is not a man or son of man , and jesus himself was a man and son of man ( merry coz man means also human ) . But christians don't follow the christ , they follow the church . Jesus was a muslim ( = submits to god )and he admits that he is the prophet of god in JOHN 17:3 (Now this is eternal life: that they know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent). but sometimes love is blind
This mindset may lead to real unhappiness and misery for a lot of people. Most beautiful women that are out to get a rich man will leave him as soon as any sickness,poverty and any other tragedy happens because they really don’t like you as a person, they like what you have . Same for woman...do you really wanna be with someone who sees your worth only for as long as you are “attractive “. I think people shouldn’t give up on finding love, its not just about beauty and money, its about making a true connection.
I like Kevin Samuels and all but his view on dating is ridiculously pessimistic and transactional to a point where it just seems to depressing. I’m pretty sure it’s only like that for North American’s.
First of all, all of your judgements pertaining to women are all physical. Not one time did you speak on the characteristics of a woman. Mans duty is to Love his wife, Guide, Provide and Protect. Womans duty is to Respect her Husband, Nurture, Teach and Build. No relationship will work without both parties understanding their roles. First they must devote themselves to THE MOST HIGH and only then will you understand your role.
Many want kids & a family & a great partner. Not eternal life. Seek the kingdom, do whatever it takes to get there & if it's in Gods plan it'll fall in place.
I've noticed alot of men who want an "10" or a woman with above normal looks usually have issues dating or finding someone. I feel like they do that so that can be their excuse for being single or not finding someone. They don't want to admit that they may not be a catch to women
True. I know a guy who is overweight, plays video games all day, has no job, lives with his parents, has 0 confidence, simps, and is maybe a 3. Harsh, but its just reality. I see this dude calling 8-9/10 girls ugly. Rediculous
While most women are chasing the top 20% of men and the other 80% of average men are completely invisible to most women. I wish women could walk in the shoes of the average man for a day on the dating scene. Maybe there would be a bit more empathy. I know guys in their mid 20's and early 30's that are still virgins. Sad but true. The only women that I can think of that are that chaste are nuns.
No disrespect... but coming from someone who is married it’s funny how they are breaking this down like true love is some that can be schemed on and plotted out... my wife to me is a solid 10.... I’m a solid 6.5 to 7.... we met at work, hung out and never left each other’s side.... we didn’t plan that out souls are literally joined at the hip
Hi, so very refreshing to hear a man speak with so much respect and love for his partner AND the relationship you both have cultivated. That to me is the perfect combination. Many blessings to you both 4 years to come 😅🎇
Why are we using numbers to rate women and men???? This has always baffled me. We are human beings. We are souls. Not a math equation. Damn, we have feelings. When we start to treats people we get lost in our minds. Feel yourself when you are with someone. Become aware of everything you can express, explore and share with someone. If you can go deep with someone they are for you. We are so conditioned to look for symmetrical faces, certain physiques etc. This isn’t love, this is lust.
because a persons value is not innate, and that innate value just by virtue of existing surely isnt infinite. We use numbers because we are looking for a person based on the amount of stuff they have (money beauty influence).
@@MoonCherryLove in God's eyes each person has infinite value... I think it's abusive to put a number on a person's value and no one has the right to say who has less value
We put value/rating on everything we do in life. From how well a product works we give a rating, how good a business is whether the service and food is great or awful, The value of a used car isn't worth as much as a brand new one, We rate our enjoyment on how much we liked an activity like a movie, show or concert. So of course Beauty and compatibility will be rated. Even if we don't give a number to things, the results won't change people like what they like it's not conditioning.
I was looking for this comment so I wouldn't have to type so much. Thank you. Whole convo was shallow and subjective. You speaking for a WHOLE collection of people?! YOU speak for everyone?! 🤨 ok, I'm good. I see this was not my plate nor shoe so I will neither eat nor wear, respectively. Stigma used to keep dividing BW with a "superiority" complex. Why must my beauty be scrutinized or compared to another Queen's beauty to have "quality" standards. If people stop getting told what to look for maybe they will think for themselves, just as if they stop looking for other people's validation on their actions they can think for themselves. The madness has to stop somewhere.
90% of relationships I’ve seen are straight up business deals, no genuine love. Only real relationship I’ve seen besides mine are my boyfriends parents. You gotta make them Christ centered and focus on your purpose. My boyfriends mom first husband passed when he was three. She waited ten years before deciding to let a man in her life, they got married, but unfortunately he just passed away last month. No one else’s relationship I’ve ever seen in my life is genuine or at least the ones I’ve seen in person and I’m 23 🤷🏼♀️
The rhino is still loved, the elephant is loved, the giraffe too and so is the dog. They may not be loved by all, but they have their kinds who worships their strength and beauty and wants to show and tell all about them. Wait for your kind beautiful 😍
If you want a hot woman, you have to be a man who is hot yourself. You can shoot out of league but just don’t complain when the women you’re asking out rejects and let’s you know where you stand in the beauty hierarchy. A man has two choices: settle with the plain Jane and have an easy life or work out and improve yourself to attract that 10/10 model.
It’s a sad world we live in. Who cares about physical attributes. True love is derived from trust, respect, compassion, and the willingness to always learn and grow. If you find that in a partner you’re set for life.
@@igiveyouthefacts Are we suppose to automatically be with someone just because they're "good"? Like you said, there are good men, not just any will be the one
My income combined from both of my businesses generates over six figures monthly. My husband makes six figures annually. My husband finally decided this year to launch his own business. After years of me nagging him to get his time back. We take all our income and fund our lifestyle together. I started out less than him but we didn't let the money change us. I was a single mom also fresh out Army. According to Kevin, nobody should've picked me lol. I'm glad my husband had sense to. I consider myself attractive but I don't think my looks is what made our relationship work this long. He has my back and know I got his.
Please don't reduce Kevin Samuels points to just that. You need to give more details. How old were you when you met? Does he have children aswell? How much was he making when you met? Has he always been popular with ladies?
Social media is 100% to blame I'm 26 year old male. Work the oilfield and make 100k and don't chase women I couldn't get before cause they are not worth it. At best they are for fun I want an average women that likes me for me and not my status
May we all reap what we’ve sown, if looks are more important than character and money more impressive than how he treats you than you deserve all you get.
the same can be said for women, yes us men are guilty of it too, most men are desperate, I've met so many insecure women also who expect a man to make them happy, and problem is they are never happy.
Kevin hits the nail on the head. I dated a very attractive woman back in the 90s. It was all about the image with her. She put a lot of pressure on me. It eventually ended. I learned a valuable lesson in that experience. I focus more on how a woman treats me now, rather than just her attractiveness.
No your not babe! Same here..allways been attracted to energy and personality..been 3 years with a multimiljonair(who got rich after being with me) and I was miserable..
@@RochellB46 Your comment makes so sense. You say you want a healthy relationship but you're boasting you have a handsome bf. Is the relationship not healthy and you only got with him for his money and you're now seeing it's not all great? Or were you just looking for attention?
Man I’m a regular dude, a single father and when I become a HVM I’m not looking for a 8,9 or 10. Give me a solid 6 or a 7 who treats me good, who has one child at most and I’m ok.
She’s probably quiet, unassuming woman who doesn’t go out much. Hard to find if you’re looking for one bc they just stay with friends and family for social times
TexturesPlease That’s beautiful. I appreciate the honesty. Bless you, your finance, children and future family (if y’all decide to have more children.) 🙏🏽
@@alexarihani2902 aint that the truth, they dont go out and are rarely on social media, they live like the amish which is great but hard to access since you dont know where they are
I noticed those Instagram hotties and women who dress super seductive tend to be drama queens, selfish, manipulative and yell and throw tantrums a lot!
@@LiveWithZih its not that they cant see that its the reality, the problem is the implications of that fact to their lives. recognizing facts and accepting facts are two different things
Why is he single and he's so high value? Money is not the only important factor in a healthy and happy relationship. If you use money to bait women, you aren't necessarily getting a quality women. You have to look for more than physical beauty and monetary gain.
He's twice divorced, so he made his own solipsistic diagnosis that women are the problem, not himself. If that doesn't have narcissism pelted all over it...
This is the first time I've found myself agreeing with Kevin Samuels and his delivery. This was very reasonable. These men can sacrifice their peace for superficial values all they want.
Yup, meanwhile, he doesn't (didn't) follow this info that he was actually correct on lol. A true hypocrite and "words don't match the actions", person (regarding the stuff he preached online). God bless him though.
@@DrMathOfficial could keep a relationship for more than a year himself, married twice, a deadbeat dad, faking a lifestyle - was renting rooms and did not own real estate during pandemic while talking about high value, didn’t take care of his health and I strongly questioned if he even liked women probably used relationships with women as a cover. People are slow to have taken him seriously.
People make things to complicated with dating and being with someone . This is far to much thought to put into judging someone’s looks. That’s why a lot of people are lonely right now . Just worry about someone being mentally sound and someone who’s all for you! We spend to much time worried about the wrong stuff ... smh
intimacy is one of the main things people want.. nobody wants a dead bedroom in 15 years.. you should have someone that you find attractive and vice versa
Well stop asking and demanding a high value man with 6 figures, the reason why a lot of people are single,because both parties are not willing to put in the work of what it takes maintain a relationship
well that's just how it is outthere I think , we wouldn't be thinking that women r "goods" , if they weren't treating themselves as such , have a great Day !
It’s all a transaction, women and men. Rochell dates Joe who likes her for her looks. Her looks fade so will his interest. Rochell likes Joe because he is funny, nice, great personality. Soon as that fades so will her interest. Transaction.
The problem with society is that , no ones looks should be rated on a scale at all. Everyone is made different and in their own unique way. It’s okay for people to have a preference but no one should be rated based on their appearance and body type . This is also why so many relationships fail is because people date based on looks and that’s it . There’s more to it that lies beneath those looks like personality .
Most people don't have "more to them". This whole "everyone is special" thing is just there to make low-level people feel better about themselves artificially. False confidence is what starts most problems in g h e t t o communities. You are taught in those places to constantly pretend to be something you're not. When the ocean is so polluted, why would I swim in it? I have a boat. I'll have my fun, and leave before the boat melts. It's not "for looks" so much as it is "I know you're a terrible person, I'm not looking for anything with you, I'm just an animal with needs." That kind of thinking is too honest for most women to handle.
I think it’s completely fine to rate people, especially if it’s in your head or to one of your friends. I don’t see any reason why you’d go up to a person and tell them they’re ugly? More often than not if you’re ugly you already know because you won’t get much attention and looks when you’re walking around. I think rating someone on a scale is fine especially when scales mean different things for different people. I think 5s are average. 6s are a little bit above avg. 7s and 8s are a lot of the supermodels, instagram models and like the more attractive people at your school, job or university. 9s and 10s are pretty rare and they’ll tend to know that they’re a 9 or a 10.
Men specifically, because of testosterone. Women too but not to the same extent (women also have testosterone but in low levels)..... Making men the biologically shallow sex and by extension the morally corrupt sex....Yet these are our world leaders....Hmmm makes you wonder.....
@@xoxomangakcorxoxo Personally dont believe in God,but yes this seems to be human (specifically Men's) biological nature to act like that BUT, we are also Humans, capable of metaphysical thinking, ergo, able to change ourselves to become a better version than we once were. We can always change it takes WILLPOWER.
Yo this is on the money. I’ve ALWAYS lived by the rule of, “look for someone that fits me”. That should be common sense though. At least I thought it was supposed to be. As a man, I could think somebody is fine all I want, but if we don’t fit, and I know that, why try to pursue her🤷🏽♂️. That’s possibly a recipe for disaster.
💯 I think sometimes, we value opinions of others, so much so that we tend to forget about what's hood for US. "If I'm happy in the eyes of other, then that means I'm happy" that's the mentality we have. It's good to be altruistic, but sometime you have to be selfish and look out for yourself. Go for what fits YOU.
@@redphoenixmk3388 LOL.....I can't cook! but I don't give a damn cause I really don't like cooking......I do the things that bring me joy and cooking ain't one of them!!! :)
fyi. I am a woman and this is one of the few time I have heard a man say things I agree with and that help me understand things better. I now realize marrying man with an income and not looking at class level is big trouble for "high value" women. Also, I realize that a man who doesn't understand how to take care of a woman (i.e. porsche) will run it into the ground regardless of income.
We are saying this all the time lol You either have terrible attention Or you are listening to male feminists Its just funny, this is something we saying for a long time now And you say this is one of few man you agree with smh haha
@@Bleilock1 I guess he seems more balanced and doesn't seem frustrated or angry. A lot of people have something to say but underneath they seem like they are nursing unresolved pain. This guy's energy is calm so his facts arent filtered through his energy. Also, he seems reticent to drag women, while others somewhat gleefully point out feminine flaws. He also points out things that guys can do better, which actually helps to validate his arguments towards female flaws. Many people dont understand that their lack of humility or self reflection creates a perception of bias.
My father did this too my mother this is facts. I don't want anyone like him though I have met and dated guys who later showed their true faces like he did. He is a narcissist they do this shit all the time.
Kevin always said “Beyoncé is an 8, Kelley, is a 9, and Rihanna is a 10” but then wants callers to rank themselves without makeup. Sir have you SEEN the Rihanna without makeup!?
@@remowilliams7569 ikr and people are attracted to people with the same head shape as them. Kelly and Rihanna had the same head shape as Kevin so that’s why he was so strong willed about it. When in reality Beyoncé is universally prettier
@@monicawalls8184I can see that with Rihanna, but Kelly Rowland is absolutely gorgeous. Most guys have always that she was the best looking one out the group and that’s saying alot because Beyonce is gorgeous also.
High value to me sounds like a person who is prideful, arrogant and self entitled. Wealth and looks doesn’t have anything to do with character and spirituality.
I guess because you have none of those And because you are low value person I think thats the reason why you believe that I guess, enjoy "happy" "quality" poor life
Bleilock1 my life is actually good and I’m nowhere near poor. I’m blessed! It’s more to a person than how much you make and how you look. A value of a man should not be based on looks and wealth but one’s character. If you can’t understand that, then something is wrong with you.
@@donnell8402 im sorry but in world desribed by biology Your genes (you could say that wealth connected to genetics through intelligence, smarter you are, richer you will be) Spirituality is for losers aithout money, and its a chick crack used to get women laid, cause you people believe in that dumb shit So yea, you can pretend that ypubare not "shallow" but you are, and looks and wealth is everything No need to virtue signal me, we are anons on the internet
No nerve struck. First of all his analogy is horrible, cars and humans are far from close. Humans have feelings, dreams, traumas etc, and they choose whom to date based on these. Secondly, he cant even articulate what he is saying clearly. His explanation is all over the place. 3rd having money and wearing suits doesnt make you a high value human, it just means you have money and you wear suits. Plain and simple. People who obsess over their appearance are usually the most insecure people in the world. All people want to be love and treated well, 8 out of 10 times people from all different walks of like and socio economic backgrounds will choose a person with substance over a pretty face or a huge bank account... Men who date pretty women just because they are pretty are insecure men. He mentioned Beyonce, she is married to a man who cheated on her throughout their relationship and Kelly who is married to a "regular" man (for lack of a better word) and Halle Berry who has been cheated on and abused by these so called "high value man" which by the way means men who have money. So, i repeat... This is the most haphazard ill articulated superficial rubbish i have heard.
@@DemureDarlings but not every man wants a beautiful woman just for the sake of her beauty... everyone wants to be with an attractive person, men and women... However beauty doesnt become the determining factor in whether you stay with them long term or not. People with substance look beyond the physical, they want and need depth... Smart people who know themselves want to be with smart people with depth not just pretty faces.
I'll take an adjustable 6 with a great attitude over a bitchy 9 any day of the week. How will she treat you is the most important question. Great video.
I read the best quote earlier. This person asked someone how did people stay married in the old days. The person responded that they didn't constantly look at Instagram, Twitter, or dating apps and be exposed to someone younger, better or different looking, staring at asses and breasts, assets, looking at and exploring every opportunity. They just loved their wife or husband for who they were.
@Karan Singh your wrong you can get a beyonce with 50k a year all you need is to say what you feel with confidence women on that level they just want attention money is nothing like if you have 50m then you screw her ones a year it doesnt benefit her take that rich bitch show her a good time thats it now for a woman its a different story because rich men like really beautiful women
@Karan Singh women just dont like objective standards, they are the biggest relativists for this reason, when you grade them from 1 to 10 they hate it so much, thats their problem with him, they would rather be relativists and delusional, thats the very reason why he removed 7 out of his scale. you see when you are a relativist all things are possible, a 3 can get an 8 somehow and you are not really a 3. its like someone saying gender is binary and the other who says gender is fluid, the fluid gender person can believe anything and will lash out at you for categorising them
Being too beautiful can be a Pandora’s box situation. You constantly have people pestering you for stuff just because the way you look. They look past your character because your body is like a statue.
This is truth.Yesterday one 60 year old man in supermarket told me "youre life is easy youre beautiful" I didnt ask him nothing he just told me that🤷🤦🙉 Its curse. Edit:Im 24.
Yes in some environments people will assume you’re not intelligent or creative. They kinda treat you like you’re vanilla before even trying to find out your hobbies, beliefs or passions. Movie stereotypes are harmful
I find that my beauty makes my character and abilities praised much more than I think they otherwise would be. But maybe I’m not as beautiful as the kind of beauty you’re referring to.
Kevin hit so many spot on points! Men educate yourself and you can avoid many headaches, it helped Me. I thought I had a decent fade and line up, Kevs lineup is next level lmaoo.
Any dude who’s only going for the women they speak of has never been with one on that level before lol. Once you have you’ll know There’s more negative than positive that comes along with dating a legit 10 in this digital age. Also.. as soon as you have that experience the clarity becomes real. All that stupid stuff we chase for leaves and all you’ll want is a quality woman. Looks on that level don’t mean much at the end of the day.
In short “stay in your lane” 😂 if you a 5 find a 5. He said it. Guys want the most beautiful woman to impress their friends. You can’t afford an 8 lol say it 👏🏾👏🏾 staying in your lane could be more rewarding in the long run.
In short, invest in yourself and your children and stop paying for a woman's time. If she for you, then she'll be with you. Looks and sex fade, unconditional love priceless
@@symonelewis1690 Usually, because they are insecure and have low self esteem. Such people crave validation from other people to feel good about themselves, so having a hot girl makes them look good (or so they think), but in reality, they almost never attract hot girls, and when they do, they usually blow it in the first few weeks by being too needy (because they also want validation from her). I wouldn't say 'stay in your lane' is good advice though, you can easily date higher value people if you develop yourself. We can't change our looks, but we can change our bodies and personalities, and every time you develop a positive quality (and eliminate a negative one), your value goes up. If your value goes up, you have more options, so you can pick and choose the best option instead of having to settle for someone you don't really want. Not to mention, that self development will benefit you in every aspect of your life, not just relationships.
Halle is very masculine. Don't think because celebrity women are attractive and sexy that they understand or naturally know how to master their own femininity. She doesn't. Many have bonafide therapists and top notch dating coaches. Not the ones you see on TH-cam for free.
Most wealthy men are not looking for women that are 10's, because their first love is money. Why would a wealthy man marry a woman who going to take his money; he'd rather marry a woman who manage or multiply his money.
Mr Sunrise, I wasn't referring to you; I said men of wealth. Don't get so emotional. Secondly, the man is the provider; but a good woman is a manager and not just an arm piece. 90% of billionaires in this country are married. Lastly, any man that refers himself as an alpha or calls another a beta usually aren't alphas themselves. Know your true red, purple and blue content. Have a good one dude.
Could of had me fooled, but okay Ms or Mrs Sunset. I was referring to the wealthy people in this country and you took offense, so you'll be alright. I was referring to all men...smh. Lawyers who don't hold positions, cops etc. are not wealthy. I was raised in great two parent family structure, were you? If I generalizing all men maybe I could see your, but no. Have a blessed day.
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No , sex deal ...
@karlbeat your missing the point it's not that simple smh
First when did they meet was it before they became wealthy normally that's the case bro
Secondly was it a arrange marriage
Just a business partnership meaning love had zero to do with the union
This happens everyday
Your thinking is flawed
Do to your definition of marriage
These brothers are exactly on point
It's you that lags behind in the game
@Zab Gates if you can't keep her then you were worthless from the start might as well kept it moving
You can get sex anytime
If you left with nothing then you were
Waiting time meaning you were being validated by the women
This is basic understanding bro
Instagram has raised female beauty standards to a ridiculous level
It also has 5’s thinking they’re 10’s
The beauty standard is Kim Kardashian. So many clones on social media. They all look the same from race to race.
smh facts Kim k or Kylie
Women these days paint too much makeup
Fake Beauty
I think there is power in being average ladies. Be the cutest, sexiest most feminine version of yourself. You'll attract the right guy for you.
As simple as this is this is some of the best advice I’ve seen a woman give to other women
Check out Jennifer moleske. She has a cool channel that is pretty geared toward women.
True!
Nothing but truth here 🙏💯
Yes, spot on. I’m a guy and this is exactly what (most) men are looking for. We actually don’t want to date a super hot chick because we know she is high maintenance and no relationship material.
Just because a woman is really good looking doesn't mean she's a great person. Alot of us overlook character flaws for a pretty face and phat ass.
Yup what you gotta do is find a girl with little to no character flaws and with a pretty face and fat ass
Of course. Even more, most men don't like their girlfriend.
@@JESUSISKING77742 there is no such thing. lol
In Some cases a great person is not that important at the moment. we(Me) simply just wants sex in a few different positions & a couple of nights out in her sexy attire and after that I’m done.
Say it again for the people in the back.
My wife ain’t winning any beauty pageants (neither am I) but we started with nothing and have built a life together that many envy. She chose to be a teacher so that she could have a career that would also allow her to be a mother. I went into business and have been making six figures for the past several years. She’s my peace and my lighthouse. I knew she was a wife when I married her. After 16 years, we’re still pulling together as a team and we’re both super happy with the life we built. I wouldn’t trade her for a dozen dimes. Her qualities make her a different kind of 10.
She is blessed to have you🙏🏾🙏🏾
Bless you and your beautiful wife. You are divinely blessed.
Is very comforting to know that there are still men who believe that not all women are the same and that a good wife can be found. Your wife is definitely a virtuous woman..God bless both of you!
Beautiful thing to hear.
@@vcassol6989 you missed the point his married wasn’t based off not thinking all woman are the same. He met one that matched up and that what Kevin always mainly talks about MATCHING UP people wanna normalize being a bum or a hoe and getting the cream of the crop .
If a man chooses you based solely on your looks, the second those looks fade, you'll most likely be replaced by someone else- solely based on their looks.
Exactly and she's probably having sex with other men while using you for your money because she doesn't care about you either. Both get what they deserve in the end, played.
@Green Mills not necessarily
Very true. My husband has admitted to me and I have seen that I am considered downgrade compared to his exes. They were all “exotic” or extremely beautiful according to society standards but they were entitled and users. The funny part is I’m judged mostly by the women in his family more than the men and he said it’s because they also know about the superficial nature of these “10” females. I find that the older men get even my own father , the more substance is important in a woman especially when it comes to gaining and keeping wealth
Exactly. Lust is short lived while love last a lifetime.💯
RationalMinded lol
Relationship between an man and a woman sounds like a business deal in usa...
Because that’s what it is here. When you go thru the process you realize quickly.
Because it is, you pay more taxes as a single individual in the U.S.
It is.
It is. Even Mr Samuels on his channel states that point.
It is for the most part
If your standard for a woman is only done by how attractive she is then u will lose out. This is why we as men are always complaining that women only want us for our money. Well, u aren't looking at her character or personality. Beauty fades, character last forever!!!
💯. All about the fit.
Exactly. Men will have beautiful options and still will pick the worst out of those options
@Yung Rey it's not that u dnt look at beauty, attractiveness is the initial thing we all look at. What we men should be doing is look at what else she is bringing to the table besides beauty. The guest based his 8,9, 10 woman on beauty alone. He didn't mention a womans character or personality at all nor did he say that it played a part in the factoring.....
@@leroymckenziejr.jnfenterpr567 Exactly qualities should be important to men as well.I also think compatibility is important. Everyone is obsessed with looks and they wonder why they struggle to meet people.
I've said that exact thing under other comments on channels like these!
There are so many guys lamenting on how celebrity men are getting divorced by their wives and the wives are taking all their money and the wives didn't love them.
Those men never talk about how the men divorce their first wives to chase after the new chic. How, despite their wealth, they are incompatible with these women (especlially physically- 5's trying to date 10's) etc.
These celebrity men KNOW they are making a bad decision but do it anyway because they want the look of a young beautiful woman on their arms. No consideration for her personality and your legacy (children, family) etc. No consideration for your first wife that is a ride or die and supported them and birthed their children all those years.
They like to pretend they never saw it coming. Take responsibility for your choice in a partner. Take responsibility for your future family. Take responsibility for your legacy.
A 10 on the outside can be a 2 on the inside, I’ve learned from experience...🖖🏽
Its like fruit, even if it looks good doesn't mean it tastes good
Let’s see you try and date an "ugly woman". Only then I will believe you.
Absolutely TRUE !!! 👌
@@shototodoroki3292 I’ve dated an ugly woman that thought she was that deal. That still confuses me to this day.
On our last date, she told me: “I had a guy tell me I was beautiful today.”
I told her: “I get compliments all the time. Don’t worry. After a while, you get used to them.” I broke up with her a couple days later.
My point in saying this is: I dated 10’s and I dated 2’s. Both were 2’s on the inside. Looks have no bearing on personality for women. That’s because women don’t have to hunt like men do. We are forced to accept how we look and adapt accordingly.
A 10 on the outside and 2 on the inside equel an 8 at best.
Proverbs 31:30
Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.
Wooot!
not for me. i dont want no woman that fears that.
@@mikasasukasa4479 then you’re missing out on a true high quality woman. ✌🏼
SAY THAT AGAIN. My wife is beautiful but I know that will fade. Her heart for the Lord is what I know will stay.
Thank you!
I've seen a 6 (in looks) raise herself up to an 8 by the way she carried herself, the way she chose clothes that flatter her instead of expose her, the way she was confident, humorous, and warm with people. Most guys looking for a relationship would take her over a 9 with an attitude any day.
A 9 or 10 with an attitude is useless. I'd take a woman that's a 1 or 2 with a good attitude over them and I don't think 1s and 2s even exist tbh
Yeah. I’ve never really wanted a “10” because if they have been told they are a 10 their whole lives that probably gives them too much attitude. I’m married to a solid 8. She’s beautiful, perhaps she doesn’t even realize how beautiful she is but as a result she’s not entitled. After 2 kids naturally her body changed a bit and I accept that. But she keeps the exercise habits she had when we met rather than just using having kids as an excuse to get fat. And what do you know about 3 years after our youngest was born. She is back within a few pounds of her weight at the wedding and fitting back in the jeans she wore before we got married.
@@johndavis8746 you're a damn liar. Do you really know what a 1 or 2 looks like? on the grand, global scale of human features? You'd take the least attractive people on earth who are "kind"? Come on now. If that's true, its because you are a 1 yourself.
@@vjhicks8533 Because god forbid you have to deal with a confident woman. Her self esteem should be in the dump so you can sh*t all over her. I hope you know that's how you sound right now.
And the "you don't know you're beautiful" trope that the woman you married fits into exemplifies my point. You are typical.
@@dewilew2137 😂🤦♀️
Looks should only be a fraction of what is beautiful about a woman.
Preach x3
Exactly
YES 💙
Looks get you the interview, everything else gets you the job.
Nailed it. Now this is high value of personality Kevin should talk about.
Btw if you fall in love with a plain looking person they BECOME beautiful
Also, if a person has a kind and sweet spirit they become even more beautiful.
I agree
YES TO THIS COMMENT!!!!!!! So true.
@@feleciathomas4245 100%!!!
I'd prefer a pleasantly plain lady as she is never going to get any worse as she ages!
If a man wants a woman for her beauty and body, then it’s perfectly fine for her to want a man for his money. After all, a beautiful appearance requires upkeep, which requires money. Also, men who only want women for their bodies will never be satisfied. Therefore, women should take care of their appearance first and foremost for themselves.
This is true.
Absolutely true. The amount of men that don't get that is astounding. It's even worse in the modern day, with all the plastic surgery- the poreless faces, the weaves and healthy hair, the dresses, the makeup, permanent eyelash extensions and micro-bladed eyebrows, the plumped lips, the eye-whitening serums, the dental work, the liposuction, and so much more!
A lot of the beautiful women online and in the limelight weren't born like that. And even the ones naturally beautiful still want to get waxes and facials and whatnot. Beauty is an investment.
Great comment
It's a relationship based on superficiality which is doomed from the start.
T Black It is what it is.
Ultimately, men want to marry a woman who wants to be a wife, feminine, caring, loyal, non-combative and someone he is sexually attracted to. Period! Doesn't matter if she is considered a 1 or 10 according to these unrealistic beauty standards as long as she is attractive to HIM!
Thank you!!!
With such requirements I hope you don't ask misogynistic questions, like "why so little women at top of each fields?" and I hope you criticize other men when they do. Obviously you have to understand how achieving the top doesn't go together with being caring and non-combative (at least right now), and having such achievements doesn't go with being a nice and homely wife.
@@rihannaanna6669 HUH, WHAT?! Your comment makes no sense what so ever.
@@dvquinn4101 I saw your reply and didn’t bother to read
Agree bro!
The title is misleading. He did not challenge the beauty standard but challenged their expectations for dating
Exactly what I was thinking!
@@allisonmae3445 eyes want what they want just gotta get the best you can and be happy
Exactly..
So true!
I Agree!
At the age of 25, I've become very jaded and cynical about dating these days, the shit is just so transactional to the extent that it all just seems pointless.
I second that emotion. Just try to do what makes you happy before the world goes to complete sh!t! Hula hooping, dancing, singing!
You are in your prime know the difference between Mrs. Right and Mrs. Right now. Shoot them fish in a barrel while you can. Protect yourself and Enjoy the milk while it’s free. Remember not to miss the forest through the trees. Practice makes perfect. Sex is sex and love is love and they are two totally different things.
I’m trying not to be on my way there at 24
They call em feemales not freemales it's called the oldest know profession for a reason the only things in this world that are free are cancer and hard times....be good to yourself. know your worth. nobody's going to be as good to you as you can be to yourself. Self fulfillment isn't the same thing as being full of yourself.
Lmao 25 😂just wait until your 40🙃
Is it strange that I've been attracted to women of almost all body types ( except obese)? Intellect, faith, and values are what always seem to be what draws me in.
Just means your parents and your environment raised you right
Intellect is gold.
Not at all. Most men are
It's the same with me. I don't mind a chubby girl either, she just has to look good in the face (naturally) and have curves in the right places. Even so, that's not a guarantee that I'll keep her around.
@@izzylandyt and it isn't a guarantee she will keep you around
We are not slaves in an auction. I hope anyone who treats another person based on their "market value" gets the frustration they deserve.
I agree totally, that's why everyone is dysfunctional and cant get along. We put a price tag on everything. Social media has ruined people. And most of these types of people are comparing there lives to celebrities, sense when is it so wrong to just be humble and appreciate who you are and what you have.
A lot of women I know that know his channel are talking about that. It's superficial at the core.
You are a slave to ignorance. The "market value" is nothing more than the general preference
@@taki1255 These wmn are nothing but trolls like you who don't know anything about his channel.
@TexturesPlease You are more than welcome to value yourself based on whatever market you choose. I don't have to eat that fruit.
Beauty is relative, what one person considers a 10 someone else considers them a 6.
@MP Firstly being a black person, I have no interest in people who are blonde or blue eyed, its never been my thing but I understand some people like that but this is not the majority contarary to what the media would like to potray.
Universal attractiveness is also relative. What they consider beauty in Africa, wouldn't translate in the same way in China.
What you are considering as universal beauty is the concious and unconcious subliminal messaging (TV, poster, movies, magazines etc..) that you have recieved since childhood which determines what consistutes to a 10/10 when it comes to beauty. This is why the ideal of beauty differs from Western society, the East and Asia and Africa.
Also what is considered beauty now has evolved from even 15 years ago. Lets take western society, blonde blue eyed model thin women were considered the industry standard of beauty, now its racially ambigous curvacious woman who are now considered the industry standard all because of sublimial messaging on social media.
Everything is subliminal messaging, and depending on where you come from determines what what you consider a 10 and what another person deems as a 6.
@MP Again I have to respectivly disagree. You have missed the point with regards to subliminal messaging you receive growing up. Also many of these researches are limited to western theoratic research and data is limited to westeen groups. I can only go with experience and those around me. At most a cluster or large groups of people will be attracted to the same person but they will still give them different ratings wirhin rhoae groups. Some men like skinny women, other like curvacious and others thick. What determine so called universal beauty is what the media wants to convey. I'm still a believer that beauty is in the eye of the beholder because I've seen my great grandparents look at each other like they are still teenagers because beauty transcends the superfcial, hence the reason many beautiful people are single or have problomatc relationships bwcause that was many peoplea docus not their character e.g. the Kadashians, Halle Berry, Brad Pitt, etc...
I can almost garauntee you that what African American men find as a 10 is going to be different to what a Scottish white Man will xondiser ro be a 10 and what a Scottish man considers a 10 will be very different to what a Black African man will consider a 10 etc.. and within those groups they will rate individuals differently.
Human being were born to be attractive to more than one person, it does necwssarily make them a 10 because those are just personal ratings.
From a personal perspective, I as a black woman would consider myself above average. I've bewn told I look similar to Janet Jackson but more curvacious then her. When I went to France, I didnt get much attention, when I went to Denmark, I received so much male attention and this is the land of blonde and blue eyes people. When I've gone to Africa I get average male attention etc.. the irony is the place where I have had least male attention (France) is where I met my boyfriend. Because although he was French he preffered women of colour over the French standard of slender petite women.
Neema agree because I don’t think Beyoncé is what ppl act like is 🤷🏽♂️. But Kelly is 😍
@@lilken21 Exactly, you are not the first man to tell me that. Many of my African male friends believe Kelly is more attractive then Beyonce. Although both are beautiful in their own way.
@@NaeNae23 Everything you've said were straight facts. I, myself was more attracted to Latoya when Destiny's Child first came out. Kelly wasn't that attractive to me at first but by the early 2000s she was more beautiful than Beyonce. Looks are very subjective. I never saw why people considered Robin Givens or Gabrielle Union to be so beautiful. I see women who're killing them in the looks department on the regular. But the next man may think that their both 10s. Beauty is like art, everyone interprets it a different way depending on their personal tastes and experiences
I’m glad Kevin is also telling men to be realistic. I previously only watched clips of him telling women they are average. I have traveled the world and I’m 47. My wisdom has taught me, just be true to yourself. If you treat people with respect and stay open minded, you will find your prize🌸
Thank you and it's very refreshing to see a woman make a comment like this and alot of young women can learn from you
Wow! You’re so pretty!
@Love Life 🙋🏿Thank you
I was surprised by this clip too. I find him quite endearing now. That being said, I'd never call in to his show. My self esteem can't handle that lol
That's not a flex.
The unrealistic standards is what keep women miserable
Webster Kollie they be wanting a dude 6’5 with muscles and end up with with a 5’8 dude that’s scrawny lol
That's exactly what he wants, it's what low value men do to bring down women, a confident man never picks on a woman's looks, he just pursues what he finds attractive and doesn't concern himself with others, a confident woman like myself can see through an insecure man and i drop them off as soon as they try to project their insecurities on to me.
Fruit Cocktail such truth bro. The guy talking on the video probably feels he needs her jerk circle of friends validation... but high value men like myself and you, know what’s up.
@@solekhashuwa Although your correct, you're missing something. This is all about fit. Doesn't matter if your confident in yourself, good for you. What matters is are you a good fit for him? Looks aside, can you play a part in his life that he has for you to a tee? That's all what this really is.
The unrealistic standards are what keep women AND men miserable.
I saw an old couple walking down the road for their evening walk. Hand in hand. No Instagram influence, no baller ideals, no superficiality. Goals has been measure by the worst qualities. You can be "top", "beautiful" or a "winner" when you maintain and nurture a relationship, finances, and family, honorably and with integrity for decades.
She's just holding his hand because he's a dottering old fool doesn't know what he's doing
So a man rather pass up a 7 who genuinely likes/loves him for a 8,9,10 who just wants his money. Now that’s a real kind of stupid.
Alot of 5,6 and 7's pick winners. Not men on the up.
If she wasnt there to help build so what
What about women who pass up great guys that will treat them well because those guys are short, or because they’re not rappers or ball players? That’s kind of stupid too, wouldn’t you agree?
@@TA-ht4jo you pretty much answered your own question
@@RadicalforGod I’m asking if you agree!
Actually no. Guys are way more realistic guys get with average girls everyday and happy it's females that often feel they are better than males
the whole "wanting someone whos nice to me" line after getting out of relationships with 8 and 9s is literal facts.
Yup because half of the time, the ones who are 9s and 10s half nothing else to bring to the table...but looks. But want YOU to bring it all.
@Markel Raya 😂
@Markel Raya says the one with no photo...
@Markel Raya it depends. What he considers 8's and 9's may not be what you consider to be 8's and 9's or vice versa. Thats the beauty of the world, we may like the same thing.
@Markel Raya Because they're lying to you, because they don't care enough about you to be honest. And who would care about someone this snooty? The point is the treatment from people who think they're "hot". You sidestepped the point like every terrible girlfriend ever. Guy looks like James Franco on the outside - not half bad. Good enough to work with, with a little skill. But you look like Seth Rogen on the inside, and you're fine with that.
When a WORDLY man looks at you he will judge you based on a numeric system..but when a GODLY man looks at you he looks at you through the lens of GOD..my advise is to PRACTICE RADICAL SELF-CARE be THE VERY BEST VERSION OF YOU and stay avaliable for the man that has a HEART FOR GOD...
Amen!!
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Most women are seekers of worldly gifts, remember Eve!
Yes! ♥️
Amen!!!!!
What I’ve observed is that a woman being gorgeous will reel a man in hook, line, and sinker. But I also find that a woman being submissive and not combative and not challenging her man is something that a lot of men love. Where’s the balance between a woman who’s kind but also won’t put up with mistreatment. Some men state that some women are loud and hard to get along with but don’t mention that they dog her out or don’t have any ambition or talk to her any kind of way. There has got to be a balance and accountability.
Delilah May Some of what he says is true. But much of it, too shallow. For these so called alphas and leaders, it’s too much complaining about women.
Shayla Barfield That’s true. Men need to be more accountable.
Delilah May I gave up on dating lmao and this isn’t coming from a bitter viewpoint. I believe amazing men exist in the world, but I guess I have too much “masculine” energy because I just want to publish a few books so I can buy an amazing house and I want to get together events that help change the world. I’m so focused on success and survival that I’m like... “hmm...where does love fit in?”. I’ve always been goal-oriented and it’s what drives me. I’ve heard this masculine vs. feminine concept being used so much on TH-cam and I need to do more research but sometimes it seems that some men (not saying The Roommates do) shame a woman for being multifaceted and amazing. I just think a relationship works when two people who find each other incredibly sexy have a lot to bring to the table as far as personality yes...but I don’t think any of these TH-camrs would date a lady working at McDonald’s.....more than looks and being kind matters to men 😂😂😂 I take no one’s advice. But I find these videos interesting and conversation starters nonetheless.
Delilah May This thinking is indeed different and that’s perfectly fine for there to be difference and a new perspective. Please link me this video lol. I’m trying to understand how the word “ugly” could ever be positive. It’s hard for me to call other people ugly...let alone myself because I look at a person’s soul and spirit and that can be beautiful regardless of looks. Maybe the term “giving up” is harsh but I have let go of obsessing over if I’ll find love. I’ve always based my life on what’s meaningful to me outside of love anyway but now it’s an active decision. I find myself to be a beautiful woman. Men feel the same and I know good men exist but I guess I don’t wanna worry anymore if a handsome and good man will come around my way or what I’m gonna have to compromise to have to compromise (if anything) for love to fit. Or worrying about looking my prettiest so that my partner can feel validated that he is with a gorgeous person. Damn I typed a lot lol. You are becoming my therapy 😂😂😂
Shayla Barfield I respect the honesty. Keep being goal oriented. Your efforts are not in vain. I know your a stranger, but I believe in you. You got this. Did you write down what your looking for in a man?
If the only thing you are ranking women on is their beauty then you need more experience with women. I’ll take a rational intelligent 7 over an unrealistic 8-10 everyday.
Dont forget EGO... a 7 without a huge ego is much more appealing than a 10 who thinks she is a Goddess
He was a personal shopper so I'm not shocked he's image obsessed and the fact that he thinks a woman will stay loyal and faithful to a man who pressures her about her looks is hilarious, beautiful women will keep bargaining with her looks if looks are the only value a man sees in her and she will always look for a better bidder.
I must agree
We don’t use 7 over here.
Fruit Cocktail Correct.
Anyone who selects a partner based SOLELY on looks/money is someone who is hollow on the inside. They don’t have any depth of themselves so they can’t even begin to see beyond the surface in others.
Its subjective and one cant conclude that by their own opinion or their known statistical data. I just argue with my friend with the same opposite things of what you just said.
Facts!
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Yep, but I bet that you want a 6" guy that make good money at least to live a confortable life, so all I see in these comment section is a bunch of hypocrisy.
I understand your sentiment however if I can't stand to look at you and you are completely broke and can't do anything for me financially I can't respect you as a man and I'll pass you up 😎🥃
I really hope people dont use this as a guideline to determine a value of a person. Give me an average man with great qualities and I am truly blessed with that.
Looks are subjective, but looks do matter. Most people are fine with “average” looking people because there will be one or two qualities that will boost them up past just “average looking”. Like if you were the average looking girl and had a cute laugh, or had a really good personality or had a stable life financially that boosts you up past just a normal “5”. I’m still pretty young so maybe it gets different as your older but i don’t know a single person that’s going to try to talk to a person that’s ugly. If someone comes up to you and tries talking to you ugly guys will tend to get turned down. You can’t say it was their personality because you didn’t know them. People will say they aren’t into only looks to seem like a good person but it’s a lie.
Spoken like a person no direction and too much free time
Humans will always want more... even if they have all the money in the world. Things in this world can’t fully satisfy us, so we look to spiritual things.
Not all human beings. Some are more evolved!
Well thats what make the world go round
You hit the nail on the head this is Biggest illusion in today’s society. Reminds me of the matrix movie
Porsha Jones yes I watch a lot of podcasts and interviews with millionaires etc... one thing I noticed right away is that all the millionaires who are very happy and love helping others are also Christians of religious in some type of way
A lot of dudes out here getting what they can get... its society that laughs at them...
As per Judge Judy, "Beauty fades, dumb is forever".
Things that may improve your life:
- Believe that we got created & manifest
- No masturbation & semen retention
- Drinking 2-4 liters water a day
- Don't compare yourselves to others, compete with the you from yesterday
- Don't seek approval or try to impress anyone
- Cold showers (Even the last 20 seconds of your regular shower)
- Meditation
- Not relying on relationships for happiness
- Working out
- Having a leader mentality
- Reading books
- Breathing in from your nose (reminder)
- having gratitude
- Cleaning your room
- Taking breaks of social media
- Not limiting yourself
- Making up your bed (discipline practice)
- Quitting/moderating caffeine & sugary drinks
- Walking in nature
- Making your own money (online)
- Having a plan for things you wanna do
- Being aware of what you doing with your valuable time & energy
Peace, blessings and love to you (make a screenshot if you want to!)
Love this list
dude....teach me :P
Thanks for this valuable list! Screenshotted.
Perfect
Thank you I just screenshotted this what's your email I want to network with you for some advice.
The beauty standards on social media looks different in real life. Social media, most women are looking for the "picture perfect" photos but half of them I wouldn't even turn my head to if I seen them in person. There are some beauties that goes unnoticed and those are the one's you would break your neck to look at in person. From their face to their walk and the way the outfit she have on may define her curves. People have to click off of social media for once and tap into the real world.
Absolutely, that's why I never use dating apps. Plus you ever just get kinda tired and bored of these insta model types. There all the same looking. Whatever happened to individualism. Every chick wants to look like a Kim k ugh
people getting cosmetic surgery and wearing tons of makeup to look perfect on camera but rather like aliens in real life. literally ruining themselves for fleeting social media trends
plus you would be surprised with what people are willing to settle for in real life, they talk big on social media but get pregnant by an unemployed guy with not much future prospects
You just said a mouthful 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Cap because I know way too many fine women dating bums and will ride with them til the wheels fall off. Not every beautiful women just banks on her looks, they’re people with personalities too. People think that having money and resources = attraction but that’s cap. She’ll hang out with a guy with money and resources to use him but if she don’t feel that spark or he’s boring or whatever the case it’s no different from anyone else
This is facts! Some beautiful women will only date men strictly based on his looks, sexual skills, and/or personality. Some gorgeous women think most wealthy men are too controlling. Let’s not even forget about the attractive women with bum baby daddies.
Cactus Jack not in every case, the only X factor I see is confidence, I’ve seen some questionable looking men with some dimes. I’m a pretty attractive guy I’d say and I’m around good looking women a lot but I’ve seen a lot of guys who weren’t that attractive or rich pull crazy hot women bc they just knew how to do it to her
MzBunny2790 exactly! Beautiful women come in all shapes and sizes but people try to reduce them to all being the same and that shit is tired lmao
karlbeat
Totally agree!
You can tell the cats that sat on the sidelines watching other dudes pickup chicks on the play ground. He grow up with this you must have money to get the beautiful woman. Once a man is comfortable with himself he can have them all.
The fact that we are "rated" on our physical appearance at all is the problem. We give people to much power. Stop letting folks tell you about you!
That's a cop out. You don't have to aim to look like a model but try and look like YOU at your best. Personally I don't like people who don't try to look their best.
@@SCheco3 Who decides who is model material? People need to learn to think for themselves. What's attractive or unattractive should be a personal choice. Plenty of people marrying what others approve of even though they themselves aren't attracted to the person. At the end of the YOU have to be happy with that perosn. I wish I would let another person determine for ME what is attractive or acceptable. We know what we're born into and what someone else deems a "10" . I could care less what you or anyone else likes.
@@laurensmith2897 men want a good body. Dont lie. your insecure and it shows
@@ronbrown8611 And who determines what a good body is? Some men like small some like big. So next
@@laurensmith2897 you mean most like small, a few like big.
When I was a teen and early/mid 20’s I was obsessed with my looks. I could never be attractive enough and I was miserable. I realized it didn’t matter anymore, another woman would always be more attractive then me and I would never be happy. Someday I would be elderly and nobody except a person who loves me will find me attractive. I’m 30 now and I don’t wear makeup anymore I do absolutely nothing to my appearance actually but I do feel more beautiful than I used to before when I was so concerned about it.
Beautiful sentiment! I’m 26 been married since 21 I still struggle with my looks mostly with my teeth crooked and my nose...same old story from teenage years...I’m too starting to see what Jesus is saying I’ll never be happy even if I got my flaws fixed it will never be enough our flesh will find more flaws and crave to fix it. It’s meaningless. I enjoy make up and dressing vintage because it’s so feminine I feel feminine that way. Skincare helps too!
Even though there are more beautiful women than me even they themselves won’t ever be happy.
I’ll be 25 next month and I felt/sometimes still feel so defeated because I feel like I’ll never be enough physically. In the age of social media, I feel so unattractive. It’d gotten so bad that when I was in college, I wouldn’t leave my dorm because I suddenly felt like I was ugly and I didn’t want people to see me. I failed that semester and went into a depression. I barely ate. I feel ridiculous for feeling this way but then again, I don’t. I’m not sure whom I’m trying to please or attract. Features I used to love about myself, I now find myself disliking. I always thought I had a nice button nose and now I don’t like it sometimes. Social media has also made me feel like my skin is trash. Everyone has clear skin now.
@@kc8747 Your are wonderfully made in the image of God. You are loved more than you know.
Amalia Herrera thank you, you are a kind beautiful soul.
@@kc8747 if that’s you in your profile picture, you are stunning. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise, especially yourself.
The women he named had their own resources .
He was talking about their looks stupid
@@bigry1826 did I lie stupid.
@@JasmynSky341417 u didn’t but it has nothing to do with wat he was talking about. He’s talking about physical attractiveness n u there like “yH bUT tHEy havE ThEiR Own ReSOuRces”. It’s a straw man argument
@@bigry1826 ✌🏾
They have their own resources and they’re all single! Imagine that!
A man who chooses a woman based on her knowledge of the Lord and her relationship with her father has struck gold.
Amen brother!
Which is what those both do.
Amen
@@shaquillebazzey8111 Check this out from your bible : Numbers 23:19. It says, "God is not man, that he should lie, or a son of man, that he should change his mind" . So jesus himself said that god is not a man or son of man , and jesus himself was a man and son of man ( merry coz man means also human ) . But christians don't follow the christ , they follow the church . Jesus was a muslim ( = submits to god )and he admits that he is the prophet of god in JOHN 17:3 (Now this is eternal life: that they know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent). but sometimes love is blind
@@timhoward5 Check this out from your bible : Numbers 23:19. It says, "God is not man, that he should lie, or a son of man, that he should change his mind" . So jesus himself said that god is not a man or son of man , and jesus himself was a man and son of man ( merry coz man means also human ) . But christians don't follow the christ , they follow the church . Jesus was a muslim ( = submits to god )and he admits that he is the prophet of god in JOHN 17:3 (Now this is eternal life: that they know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent). but sometimes love is blind
This mindset may lead to real unhappiness and misery for a lot of people. Most beautiful women that are out to get a rich man will leave him as soon as any sickness,poverty and any other tragedy happens because they really don’t like you as a person, they like what you have .
Same for woman...do you really wanna be with someone who sees your worth only for as long as you are “attractive “.
I think people shouldn’t give up on finding love, its not just about beauty and money, its about making a true connection.
So superficial...is that lipstickncurls in your profile pic? 😂
That's why divorce rates are so high because looking for the "attractive one" doesn't work out in the end
Listen to his channel more. He clearly says there is more to it, obviously. But those are just the start that attracts the opposite sex
@@ibetternotseeyousimp556 that's why Kevin goes deeper than just that
Jen J welcome to TH-cam lol ....half of the people here don’t use themselves as their pictures....😂😉.
Ill just make friends and hang out with them. This is too much for my emotional health
Get a dog as well 🐕💀
Ugh yes way too much
I like Kevin Samuels and all but his view on dating is ridiculously pessimistic and transactional to a point where it just seems to depressing. I’m pretty sure it’s only like that for North American’s.
"Ill drink to that" 🥂🥂
@@Prodrentjet sadly, this thought process is spreading across the world
First of all, all of your judgements pertaining to women are all physical. Not one time did you speak on the characteristics of a woman. Mans duty is to Love his wife, Guide, Provide and Protect. Womans duty is to Respect her Husband, Nurture, Teach and Build. No relationship will work without both parties understanding their roles. First they must devote themselves to THE MOST HIGH and only then will you understand your role.
Elomino Pee much respect to u
That's why a divorce culture exists in America...
Amen,it will never work unless we all grasp this.
Beautifully put. Thank you.
Many want kids & a family & a great partner. Not eternal life. Seek the kingdom, do whatever it takes to get there & if it's in Gods plan it'll fall in place.
I've noticed alot of men who want an "10" or a woman with above normal looks usually have issues dating or finding someone. I feel like they do that so that can be their excuse for being single or not finding someone. They don't want to admit that they may not be a catch to women
Or some women don't want or may not be a catch to men also.
True. I know a guy who is overweight, plays video games all day, has no job, lives with his parents, has 0 confidence, simps, and is maybe a 3. Harsh, but its just reality. I see this dude calling 8-9/10 girls ugly. Rediculous
@@EvsPersonal Kevin would ROAST his sorry self
While most women are chasing the top 20% of men and the other 80% of average men are completely invisible to most women. I wish women could walk in the shoes of the average man for a day on the dating scene. Maybe there would be a bit more empathy. I know guys in their mid 20's and early 30's that are still virgins. Sad but true. The only women that I can think of that are that chaste are nuns.
Bingo ..but thats them
😂 women get rejected all of the time but just after sex. Men struggle with reaching the sex part.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
How do they struggle,?
Right
😂😂😂😂
If men struggle with reaching the sex, then who are the women having sex with...
No disrespect... but coming from someone who is married it’s funny how they are breaking this down like true love is some that can be schemed on and plotted out... my wife to me is a solid 10.... I’m a solid 6.5 to 7.... we met at work, hung out and never left each other’s side.... we didn’t plan that out souls are literally joined at the hip
It can
Hi, so very refreshing to hear a man speak with so much respect and love for his partner AND the relationship you both have cultivated.
That to me is the perfect combination. Many blessings to you both 4 years to come 😅🎇
Based
Based and wholesome
The problem with Kevin's formula is that is does not consider love for a second. It's purely transactional. So very sad.
Why are we using numbers to rate women and men???? This has always baffled me. We are human beings. We are souls. Not a math equation. Damn, we have feelings. When we start to treats people we get lost in our minds. Feel yourself when you are with someone. Become aware of everything you can express, explore and share with someone. If you can go deep with someone they are for you. We are so conditioned to look for symmetrical faces, certain physiques etc. This isn’t love, this is lust.
because a persons value is not innate, and that innate value just by virtue of existing surely isnt infinite. We use numbers because we are looking for a person based on the amount of stuff they have (money beauty influence).
@@MoonCherryLove in God's eyes each person has infinite value... I think it's abusive to put a number on a person's value and no one has the right to say who has less value
We put value/rating on everything we do in life. From how well a product works we give a rating, how good a business is whether the service and food is great or awful, The value of a used car isn't worth as much as a brand new one, We rate our enjoyment on how much we liked an activity like a movie, show or concert. So of course Beauty and compatibility will be rated. Even if we don't give a number to things, the results won't change people like what they like it's not conditioning.
I was looking for this comment so I wouldn't have to type so much. Thank you. Whole convo was shallow and subjective. You speaking for a WHOLE collection of people?! YOU speak for everyone?! 🤨 ok, I'm good. I see this was not my plate nor shoe so I will neither eat nor wear, respectively. Stigma used to keep dividing BW with a "superiority" complex. Why must my beauty be scrutinized or compared to another Queen's beauty to have "quality" standards. If people stop getting told what to look for maybe they will think for themselves, just as if they stop looking for other people's validation on their actions they can think for themselves. The madness has to stop somewhere.
Thank you!!!
90% of relationships I’ve seen are straight up business deals, no genuine love. Only real relationship I’ve seen besides mine are my boyfriends parents. You gotta make them Christ centered and focus on your purpose. My boyfriends mom first husband passed when he was three. She waited ten years before deciding to let a man in her life, they got married, but unfortunately he just passed away last month. No one else’s relationship I’ve ever seen in my life is genuine or at least the ones I’ve seen in person and I’m 23 🤷🏼♀️
its hard to be disillusioned by that fact, most people see all these relationships as love but you know deeper than that
good god I envy her I really do. To find a guy who likes you for YOU it just does not happen anymore
@@thebtchthathikes1008 dont listen to the internet, go out and see
@@incogb6696 I see evictions drugs murders and molesting. And men still run all business so 🤷
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The rhino is still loved, the elephant is loved, the giraffe too and so is the dog. They may not be loved by all, but they have their kinds who worships their strength and beauty and wants to show and tell all about them. Wait for your kind beautiful 😍
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Kevin Samuels is a danger to the black community.
@@kristophersmith7414 how?
@@bambooqueue9093 I just see the man putting down black women.
@@kristophersmith7414 that's the problem...that's all you've seen. He's went at all sides but it seems you've only seen one side.
If you want a hot woman, you have to be a man who is hot yourself. You can shoot out of league but just don’t complain when the women you’re asking out rejects and let’s you know where you stand in the beauty hierarchy. A man has two choices: settle with the plain Jane and have an easy life or work out and improve yourself to attract that 10/10 model.
@Heidi correct!!! 👏👏👏
It’s a sad world we live in. Who cares about physical attributes. True love is derived from trust, respect, compassion, and the willingness to always learn and grow. If you find that in a partner you’re set for life.
Teddy Ruxpin I’m interested in her reply to this lol
Vianna Janelle Many of you women say this but continue to turn down good men time and time again.
I Agree 🤔
Teddy Ruxpin You’re insecurity is showing 😬
@@igiveyouthefacts Are we suppose to automatically be with someone just because they're "good"? Like you said, there are good men, not just any will be the one
My income combined from both of my businesses generates over six figures monthly. My husband makes six figures annually. My husband finally decided this year to launch his own business. After years of me nagging him to get his time back.
We take all our income and fund our lifestyle together. I started out less than him but we didn't let the money change us. I was a single mom also fresh out Army. According to Kevin, nobody should've picked me lol. I'm glad my husband had sense to. I consider myself attractive but I don't think my looks is what made our relationship work this long. He has my back and know I got his.
That's it! And that's why you both deserve your happiness!
Congrats 👏🏽
I love it!!
Please don't reduce Kevin Samuels points to just that. You need to give more details. How old were you when you met? Does he have children aswell? How much was he making when you met? Has he always been popular with ladies?
@@SimplyAdiva So why did you provide your input and opinion?
Men need women with good character and quality. The looks and body? They are just colorful icing on the cake.
Guys it's okay to be average or below average looking. I am and there's nothing wrong with it. Just accept who you are and then you'll find love.😎
Social media is 100% to blame I'm 26 year old male. Work the oilfield and make 100k and don't chase women I couldn't get before cause they are not worth it. At best they are for fun I want an average women that likes me for me and not my status
@@lowkeyhim556 At best they are for fun?
Males aren't the ones with image issues tho 😕
@@MrTsukudu when I said "guys" I'm referring to men and women...
People who sell their time/lives/bodies in exchange for money and/or
physical beauty often end up losing everything.
They deserve NO sympathy.
Plus physical beauty is temporary
May we all reap what we’ve sown, if looks are more important than character and money more impressive than how he treats you than you deserve all you get.
Just find the person who truly makes you happy.
duh...okay
But happy is an emotion and can change on a dime.
Most guys need to learn to love and respect themselves before they go out looking for a woman to settle down with.
the same can be said for women, yes us men are guilty of it too, most men are desperate, I've met so many insecure women also who expect a man to make them happy, and problem is they are never happy.
Kevin hits the nail on the head. I dated a very attractive woman back in the 90s. It was all about the image with her. She put a lot of pressure on me. It eventually ended.
I learned a valuable lesson in that experience. I focus more on how a woman treats me now, rather than just her attractiveness.
Am I the only person in the world that truly doesn’t care about money and looks 😭 I just want a healthy relationship
Slap The Squirrel that literally makes no sense 😂🤦🏽♀️
Find yourself a broke ugly dude then lol. One of them probably has the perfect personality
@@markcurry3083 I have a handsome boyfriend ❤️ money ain’t everything love
No your not babe! Same here..allways been attracted to energy and personality..been 3 years with a multimiljonair(who got rich after being with me) and I was miserable..
@@RochellB46 Your comment makes so sense. You say you want a healthy relationship but you're boasting you have a handsome bf. Is the relationship not healthy and you only got with him for his money and you're now seeing it's not all great? Or were you just looking for attention?
Man I’m a regular dude, a single father and when I become a HVM I’m not looking for a 8,9 or 10. Give me a solid 6 or a 7 who treats me good, who has one child at most and I’m ok.
I gagged
She’s probably quiet, unassuming woman who doesn’t go out much. Hard to find if you’re looking for one bc they just stay with friends and family for social times
TexturesPlease That’s beautiful. Congrats. How did y’all meet?
TexturesPlease That’s beautiful. I appreciate the honesty. Bless you, your finance, children and future family (if y’all decide to have more children.) 🙏🏽
@@alexarihani2902 aint that the truth, they dont go out and are rarely on social media, they live like the amish which is great but hard to access since you dont know where they are
I noticed those Instagram hotties and women who dress super seductive tend to be drama queens, selfish, manipulative and yell and throw tantrums a lot!
And they are selling themselves through modern illusions
Instagram thotties**
What a shallow conversation. Just wow.
Right. Also very simpish.
It's the reality though
@@LiveWithZih its not that they cant see that its the reality, the problem is the implications of that fact to their lives. recognizing facts and accepting facts are two different things
@@LiveWithZih not really lol happy ppl aren't on the internet 😁
@@incogb6696 you're on the Internet right now
Why is he single and he's so high value? Money is not the only important factor in a healthy and happy relationship. If you use money to bait women, you aren't necessarily getting a quality women. You have to look for more than physical beauty and monetary gain.
He's a queen
@@TwoWorldsToo 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He's twice divorced, so he made his own solipsistic diagnosis that women are the problem, not himself. If that doesn't have narcissism pelted all over it...
He banging a dude wife who a model and 25 he’s not single
@@WorldIsWierd Unmarried means single. Besides, sleeping with a man's wife isn't exactly honorably.
This is the first time I've found myself agreeing with Kevin Samuels and his delivery. This was very reasonable. These men can sacrifice their peace for superficial values all they want.
Yup, meanwhile, he doesn't (didn't) follow this info that he was actually correct on lol. A true hypocrite and "words don't match the actions", person (regarding the stuff he preached online). God bless him though.
@@DrMathOfficial could keep a relationship for more than a year himself, married twice, a deadbeat dad, faking a lifestyle - was renting rooms and did not own real estate during pandemic while talking about high value, didn’t take care of his health and I strongly questioned if he even liked women probably used relationships with women as a cover.
People are slow to have taken him seriously.
People make things to complicated with dating and being with someone . This is far to much thought to put into judging someone’s looks. That’s why a lot of people are lonely right now . Just worry about someone being mentally sound and someone who’s all for you! We spend to much time worried about the wrong stuff ... smh
@@Tania-rg7jp that’s fine , they can just remain single and keep picking apart what someone looks like .. 🤷🏽♀️
intimacy is one of the main things people want.. nobody wants a dead bedroom in 15 years.. you should have someone that you find attractive and vice versa
Well stop asking and demanding a high value man with 6 figures, the reason why a lot of people are single,because both parties are not willing to put in the work of what it takes maintain a relationship
@@damienkirksey7026 who’s asking for and demanding some one who makes six figures ??? I didn’t see that comment anywhere.
@@fisaffordablefinds9584 Alot of women
Women are not goods that you can just buy 🙄 and if you are able to buy her it ain’t love it’s a business transaction 🤦🏽♀️
That's dating and marriage.
Why?
When women state that a man can't afford them that insights a purchase, which is a business transaction.
at this point, staying single is the best option
well that's just how it is outthere I think , we wouldn't be thinking that women r "goods" , if they weren't treating themselves as such , have a great Day !
It’s all a transaction, women and men. Rochell dates Joe who likes her for her looks. Her looks fade so will his interest. Rochell likes Joe because he is funny, nice, great personality. Soon as that fades so will her interest. Transaction.
Men are attracted to what they see
In the words of Coach Greg Addams:
"All relationships are transactional."
Monkey Double Backflips
Mr. Okabe-Kurisu Facts!
So a waste of time thank you bruh
49ERS WANT RESOURCES AND ARE BECOMING" BUZZER BEATERS" SHOT CLOCK ⏰ VIOLATION RANNNNNNNTTTTT!
Even transactional with the busted Pillsbury biscuit cans running around out there!
Just keep in mind external beauty fades. People are not cars.
You can always go to the doctor
@@Togomei With our current level of medicine, a 80 years old woman will never, NEVER look as her 20s self. (And you know it)
@random 1 but you have men crying about loving natural women! PICK A SIDE!!!! DO YOU WANT FAKE WOMEN OR REAL??? Damn
The problem with society is that , no ones looks should be rated on a scale at all. Everyone is made different and in their own unique way. It’s okay for people to have a preference but no one should be rated based on their appearance and body type . This is also why so many relationships fail is because people date based on looks and that’s it . There’s more to it that lies beneath those looks like personality .
Most people don't have "more to them". This whole "everyone is special" thing is just there to make low-level people feel better about themselves artificially. False confidence is what starts most problems in g h e t t o communities. You are taught in those places to constantly pretend to be something you're not. When the ocean is so polluted, why would I swim in it? I have a boat. I'll have my fun, and leave before the boat melts. It's not "for looks" so much as it is "I know you're a terrible person, I'm not looking for anything with you, I'm just an animal with needs." That kind of thinking is too honest for most women to handle.
but women rate men on how much money & degrees they have... also rate penis size & height
I think it’s completely fine to rate people, especially if it’s in your head or to one of your friends. I don’t see any reason why you’d go up to a person and tell them they’re ugly? More often than not if you’re ugly you already know because you won’t get much attention and looks when you’re walking around. I think rating someone on a scale is fine especially when scales mean different things for different people. I think 5s are average. 6s are a little bit above avg. 7s and 8s are a lot of the supermodels, instagram models and like the more attractive people at your school, job or university. 9s and 10s are pretty rare and they’ll tend to know that they’re a 9 or a 10.
It's not a problem when you rate man based on what he's driving,living, and how he dress, but when he rate y'all. it's the end of the world....SMH
Lmao some people are definitely more attractive than others bro
I love the statement "Find someone who fits you"! That's my motto, looking for my equal.
This just proved how shallow most; not all, people/men are.
Men specifically, because of testosterone. Women too but not to the same extent (women also have testosterone but in low levels)..... Making men the biologically shallow sex and by extension the morally corrupt sex....Yet these are our world leaders....Hmmm makes you wonder.....
I hate biology but we have to accept that's how God made humans.
@@xoxomangakcorxoxo Personally dont believe in God,but yes this seems to be human (specifically Men's) biological nature to act like that BUT, we are also Humans, capable of metaphysical thinking, ergo, able to change ourselves to become a better version than we once were. We can always change it takes WILLPOWER.
Don’t a lot of women date up?
@@TheMainMan364 in what way?
"Work with someone that fits you." Well said
Truth
I met my wife when we were in our twenties, we were outdoorsy and athletic and we see eye to eye on almost everything. Still love her after 30 years..
People always so quick to judge that because she’s beautiful she doesn’t have character which couldn’t be far from the truth
Yo this is on the money. I’ve ALWAYS lived by the rule of, “look for someone that fits me”. That should be common sense though. At least I thought it was supposed to be. As a man, I could think somebody is fine all I want, but if we don’t fit, and I know that, why try to pursue her🤷🏽♂️. That’s possibly a recipe for disaster.
💯
I think sometimes, we value opinions of others, so much so that we tend to forget about what's hood for US.
"If I'm happy in the eyes of other, then that means I'm happy" that's the mentality we have.
It's good to be altruistic, but sometime you have to be selfish and look out for yourself.
Go for what fits YOU.
@bigjayking24 yeah, I'm so glad I saw through all that in my early 20's
Well considering some females don't know how to cook botching a recipe seems poetic in this instance
@@redphoenixmk3388 LOL.....I can't cook! but I don't give a damn cause I really don't like cooking......I do the things that bring me joy and cooking ain't one of them!!! :)
fyi. I am a woman and this is one of the few time I have heard a man say things I agree with and that help me understand things better. I now realize marrying man with an income and not looking at class level is big trouble for "high value" women. Also, I realize that a man who doesn't understand how to take care of a woman (i.e. porsche) will run it into the ground regardless of income.
We are saying this all the time lol
You either have terrible attention
Or you are listening to male feminists
Its just funny, this is something we saying for a long time now
And you say this is one of few man you agree with smh haha
@@Bleilock1 I guess he seems more balanced and doesn't seem frustrated or angry. A lot of people have something to say but underneath they seem like they are nursing unresolved pain. This guy's energy is calm so his facts arent filtered through his energy. Also, he seems reticent to drag women, while others somewhat gleefully point out feminine flaws. He also points out things that guys can do better, which actually helps to validate his arguments towards female flaws. Many people dont understand that their lack of humility or self reflection creates a perception of bias.
It’s Porsche
My father did this too my mother this is facts. I don't want anyone like him though I have met and dated guys who later showed their true faces like he did. He is a narcissist they do this shit all the time.
@@PlatinumDagger yo fault
Kevin always said “Beyoncé is an 8, Kelley, is a 9, and Rihanna is a 10” but then wants callers to rank themselves without makeup. Sir have you SEEN the Rihanna without makeup!?
In what world is Rihanna a 10? Or higher ranked than Beyonce?
@@remowilliams7569 ikr and people are attracted to people with the same head shape as them. Kelly and Rihanna had the same head shape as Kevin so that’s why he was so strong willed about it. When in reality Beyoncé is universally prettier
@@monicawalls8184
Agreed, always thought Beyoncé had the attractive face.
@@monicawalls8184I can see that with Rihanna, but Kelly Rowland is absolutely gorgeous. Most guys have always that she was the best looking one out the group and that’s saying alot because Beyonce is gorgeous also.
Who’s here after the “you’re average at best” viral video? 🤔🤔😂😂😂
@Sha Dee he had no respect at all
I was trying to figure out who he was. I felt bad her.
@@hershey307 yup me too, im like who is this man and woman he was talking about? I still didn't see that part, im searching now😄
he mastered how to point out the elephant in the room
@Lats Niebling lol
Idc how pretty she is, if she problematic I can't be with her. There's a reason why Halle Berry can't keep a man
Or Tomi Lahren 😂😂
I agree
Preach
She doesn’t have a problem getting them though. When one leaves another seems to be right around the corner waiting.
Samuel Velazquez .... Tomi left her fiancé. What’s your point?
High value to me sounds like a person who is prideful, arrogant and self entitled. Wealth and looks doesn’t have anything to do with character and spirituality.
I guess because you have none of those
And because you are low value person
I think thats the reason why you believe that
I guess, enjoy "happy" "quality" poor life
You are so delusional
Bleilock1 my life is actually good and I’m nowhere near poor. I’m blessed! It’s more to a person than how much you make and how you look. A value of a man should not be based on looks and wealth but one’s character. If you can’t understand that, then something is wrong with you.
Looks are indicative of practices and habits. If you look like a slob: you're a slob.
@@donnell8402 im sorry but in world desribed by biology
Your genes (you could say that wealth connected to genetics through intelligence, smarter you are, richer you will be)
Spirituality is for losers aithout money, and its a chick crack used to get women laid, cause you people believe in that dumb shit
So yea, you can pretend that ypubare not "shallow" but you are, and looks and wealth is everything
No need to virtue signal me, we are anons on the internet
Man that hit..,"when did working with somebody that fits you become such a bad thing?"
They really need to take up a hobby.
for real
@@zandekkah3500 most men out there be playing video games and they think it’s a hobby sooo
@@cookiesarelikecream how’s that not a hobby?
This is the most haphazard, ill articulated and superficial rubbish I've ever heard.
Lol struck a nerve? Ok, what was bs?
Yeah agreed .. men n women are far more than this.. find people who love n want be loved. Let's start building a healthy world together.
No nerve struck. First of all his analogy is horrible, cars and humans are far from close. Humans have feelings, dreams, traumas etc, and they choose whom to date based on these. Secondly, he cant even articulate what he is saying clearly. His explanation is all over the place. 3rd having money and wearing suits doesnt make you a high value human, it just means you have money and you wear suits. Plain and simple. People who obsess over their appearance are usually the most insecure people in the world. All people want to be love and treated well, 8 out of 10 times people from all different walks of like and socio economic backgrounds will choose a person with substance over a pretty face or a huge bank account... Men who date pretty women just because they are pretty are insecure men. He mentioned Beyonce, she is married to a man who cheated on her throughout their relationship and Kelly who is married to a "regular" man (for lack of a better word) and Halle Berry who has been cheated on and abused by these so called "high value man" which by the way means men who have money. So, i repeat... This is the most haphazard ill articulated superficial rubbish i have heard.
EVERY man wants a beautiful woman, and has so since the dawn of time! May be it’s not fair, but what in this life is🤦🏽♀️
@@DemureDarlings but not every man wants a beautiful woman just for the sake of her beauty... everyone wants to be with an attractive person, men and women... However beauty doesnt become the determining factor in whether you stay with them long term or not. People with substance look beyond the physical, they want and need depth... Smart people who know themselves want to be with smart people with depth not just pretty faces.
I'll take an adjustable 6 with a great attitude over a bitchy 9 any day of the week. How will she treat you is the most important question. Great video.
And I'll take a motivated regular guy over a status obsessed narcissist anyday
@Sara parham 😁👍🏾.
I read the best quote earlier. This person asked someone how did people stay married in the old days. The person responded that they didn't constantly look at Instagram, Twitter, or dating apps and be exposed to someone younger, better or different looking, staring at asses and breasts, assets, looking at and exploring every opportunity. They just loved their wife or husband for who they were.
He's lieing! He definitely judges women when they voice what they want. This man is a sick person. He disrespects women with such a hatefulness
Facts
Yeah he’s talking such bullshit
@Karan Singh your wrong you can get a beyonce with 50k a year all you need is to say what you feel with confidence women on that level they just want attention money is nothing like if you have 50m then you screw her ones a year it doesnt benefit her take that rich bitch show her a good time thats it now for a woman its a different story because rich men like really beautiful women
He truly is sick. He seems like a master manipulator. I wonder why he is a two time divorcée
@Karan Singh women just dont like objective standards, they are the biggest relativists for this reason, when you grade them from 1 to 10 they hate it so much, thats their problem with him, they would rather be relativists and delusional, thats the very reason why he removed 7 out of his scale. you see when you are a relativist all things are possible, a 3 can get an 8 somehow and you are not really a 3. its like someone saying gender is binary and the other who says gender is fluid, the fluid gender person can believe anything and will lash out at you for categorising them
"Want what you want, but buy what you can afford" - brilliant!
Being too beautiful can be a Pandora’s box situation. You constantly have people pestering you for stuff just because the way you look. They look past your character because your body is like a statue.
This is truth.Yesterday one 60 year old man in supermarket told me "youre life is easy youre beautiful"
I didnt ask him nothing he just told me that🤷🤦🙉
Its curse.
Edit:Im 24.
Yes in some environments people will assume you’re not intelligent or creative. They kinda treat you like you’re vanilla before even trying to find out your hobbies, beliefs or passions. Movie stereotypes are harmful
I find that my beauty makes my character and abilities praised much more than I think they otherwise would be. But maybe I’m not as beautiful as the kind of beauty you’re referring to.
Yeah I hate that feeling 🤣
"Want what you want but buy what you can afford."
Prize quote!!🏆
Kevin hit so many spot on points! Men educate yourself and you can avoid many headaches, it helped Me. I thought I had a decent fade and line up, Kevs lineup is next level lmaoo.
Any dude who’s only going for the women they speak of has never been with one on that level before lol. Once you have you’ll know There’s more negative than positive that comes along with dating a legit 10 in this digital age. Also.. as soon as you have that experience the clarity becomes real. All that stupid stuff we chase for leaves and all you’ll want is a quality woman. Looks on that level don’t mean much at the end of the day.
You spoke right, I have seen this a lot with men
What people say they want and what they actually end up dating is totally different.
Unfortunately some of the most biologically attractive people are the most unfit to raise children
Looks are important, but not as important as we've made them out to be these days.
In short “stay in your lane” 😂 if you a 5 find a 5. He said it. Guys want the most beautiful woman to impress their friends. You can’t afford an 8 lol say it 👏🏾👏🏾 staying in your lane could be more rewarding in the long run.
Same for women
Why do they care about impressing their friends so much? Nobody else's opinion should matter but his.
In short, invest in yourself and your children and stop paying for a woman's time. If she for you, then she'll be with you. Looks and sex fade, unconditional love priceless
@@symonelewis1690 Usually, because they are insecure and have low self esteem. Such people crave validation from other people to feel good about themselves, so having a hot girl makes them look good (or so they think), but in reality, they almost never attract hot girls, and when they do, they usually blow it in the first few weeks by being too needy (because they also want validation from her).
I wouldn't say 'stay in your lane' is good advice though, you can easily date higher value people if you develop yourself. We can't change our looks, but we can change our bodies and personalities, and every time you develop a positive quality (and eliminate a negative one), your value goes up. If your value goes up, you have more options, so you can pick and choose the best option instead of having to settle for someone you don't really want. Not to mention, that self development will benefit you in every aspect of your life, not just relationships.
Halle Berry is a 10 all men want her but none of them keep her 🤔
Because she picks incorrectly and is emotionally imbalanced. She's picked at least three complete assholes.
Preach !
Halle is very masculine. Don't think because celebrity women are attractive and sexy that they understand or naturally know how to master their own femininity. She doesn't. Many have bonafide therapists and top notch dating coaches. Not the ones you see on TH-cam for free.
She's been passed around more times than anyone can count. Furthermore she isn't a 10...
She ain’t a 10 anymore, this ain’t the 90’s anymore
Beauty comes from within. A woman with outer beauty can lack inner beauty and peace.
" want what you want, but buy what you can afford"
Words to live by😎
Most wealthy men are not looking for women that are 10's, because their first love is money. Why would a wealthy man marry a woman who going to take his money; he'd rather marry a woman who manage or multiply his money.
Yea men haft to grow the womans money too it's easy to sit back and lean all on women that's crazy
Not all 10s want a man with money ... some do EXTREMELY well on their own. It’s sad how many men think
Mr Sunrise, I wasn't referring to you; I said men of wealth. Don't get so emotional. Secondly, the man is the provider; but a good woman is a manager and not just an arm piece. 90% of billionaires in this country are married. Lastly, any man that refers himself as an alpha or calls another a beta usually aren't alphas themselves. Know your true red, purple and blue content. Have a good one dude.
Could of had me fooled, but okay Ms or Mrs Sunset. I was referring to the wealthy people in this country and you took offense, so you'll be alright. I was referring to all men...smh. Lawyers who don't hold positions, cops etc. are not wealthy. I was raised in great two parent family structure, were you? If I generalizing all men maybe I could see your, but no. Have a blessed day.
"beauty" fades ... So it can serve a purpose of initial attraction but if ALL he appreciate is looks, what happens when your older.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 yeah a 10 fades into a 7 in 20 years. Why in the world would I stick with a 6 that will be a 3 in 20 years?🤣🤣🤣
They'll trade yo behind in for something better or at least.thats what they think.