Alpha Male Strategies Explain Why Most Men Don't Get Respect

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  • @TheRoommatesPodcast
    @TheRoommatesPodcast  4 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    Be sure to check out the full video via the link in the description and hit the subscribe button to continue to get more great content from The Roommates.

    • @thankful516
      @thankful516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shahrazad Ali - the black mans guide to understanding the black woman PLEASE find her and bring her on your show!!!!

    • @jajajaja266
      @jajajaja266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      AMS Cold...

    • @mr.ironmindset1973
      @mr.ironmindset1973 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Okey bruh

    • @theotherway1639
      @theotherway1639 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Many guys get too attached to porn...and that effects their perspective when dating. They'll put themselves in harms way just for some p-sleeve. That site Oiporn. com has good info to help dudes get on their purpose (there's no porn on that site, it's purpose driven for men). Share it with your buds so they can avoid the fem traps. Be on your purpose and thrive.

    • @joshuachijinwankwo1958
      @joshuachijinwankwo1958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This entire vid was facts glad I'm learning the right stuff young

  • @MsMaxMonroe
    @MsMaxMonroe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2075

    Mainly broken women don’t appreciate kindness. You can be masculine and be kind. Being a doormat is different.

    • @JMeyer1112
      @JMeyer1112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      Exactly this advice will work on attracting broken women. Good men and women appreciate appreciate each other. I love a kind masculine man 😍😍

    • @BeccahJoy
      @BeccahJoy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      We can sense when there is a desperate undertone. We want a provider.

    • @MsMaxMonroe
      @MsMaxMonroe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Exactly 💕 We should all aim to build healthy interdependent relationships but first we must be whole as individuals. I personally love flowers (not desperate vibes) & being appreciated as a woman. I will not chase a man ever or just because he has a poise & status. Feminine women appreciate kindness & courtship. Wishing you all much love 💓

    • @zoldic777
      @zoldic777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@JMeyer1112 Lol

    • @acer0255
      @acer0255 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @The O Johnson Podcast
      That's what I've been seeing.
      Another problem with these things is the constant idea that you need to be someone else.
      Some people got really fucked up in life as children, but as further illustrated by the video and even by some responses by girls, this doesn't matter.
      Ahh... "Women are empathetic."
      I don't know about that. Humans are so trained that participation in a slavery system, somehow make you a better person? Need to reflect on what it meant for Is to put Osiris back together and apply it to depression and neuroticism.
      What's interesting is that these people call this, "Focusing on your purpose," thing, "Masculine."
      When in fact, if you have no need of the other, it means that you already have it within you.
      They are applying the concepts of masculine and feminine incorrectly! He got part of it right when he described the "Masculine" half as Ambition (He didn't use the word), but they missed the mark on "Feminine".
      No one seems to notice that they're really saying, "Be immersed in the matrix, first."
      Being immersed in the MATTER, Mater, Material, Matrix, or Mother... Makes girls more attracted? They don't see the correlation.
      Women bring life into the Material Plane. So they want people who are successful Materially, before they'll even bother.
      Each egg is a cell. Each world too.
      The funny part is that both sides, male, female and whoever ends up in between, both are born into the world. Meaning that they both are spirits inside of matter.
      Someone or something is making us extremely stupid.
      (These pronouns are just ideas but I have to use them.)
      Men can't see what makes them feminine. Dude, you're in a dream. These guys seem to think they can separate themselves from what we all came out of. A woman.
      Women can't see the spirit of a person and choose based on this. It seems that they want better functioning slaves. The first post said, "Broken females." Sadly, this means broken people, I.g..
      It would be cool if people we're allowed to or capable of recognizing the state of existence itself.
      Then we'd make a better place and not just play along and change our character just because it makes us unwanted. That's the trap.
      (Fixed it.)

  • @suryasongs
    @suryasongs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1169

    The ending 10 seconds are gold.
    "You need to find happiness with yourself first before you can be successful with women. Until you do that, you're always gonna fail."

    • @JMeyer1112
      @JMeyer1112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Surya P I couldn't agree more

    • @eski_truv
      @eski_truv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That goes for anybody regardless of gender

    • @CoffeeMadeMeSay
      @CoffeeMadeMeSay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thats me right now. The girl I dated said let's take a break

    • @YxngRoy
      @YxngRoy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@CoffeeMadeMeSay she tries to leave bro, you have to get rid of her.

    • @nappyqueen86
      @nappyqueen86 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Applies with making friends too!

  • @webbie1891
    @webbie1891 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1846

    If you wanna see a woman's true colors, just tell her NO!

    • @Kim67749
      @Kim67749 4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

      Lol. I hate how correct you are sir. I hate it. 😂

    • @viceanterra3
      @viceanterra3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +203

      Or just call her out when she's out of line. Same result.

    • @Mindsetolympics
      @Mindsetolympics 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yeah so make her happy or go away

    • @viceanterra3
      @viceanterra3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      @@mrsscabtreee let's call it a human thing then. You see people's true colors when you hold them accountable.

    • @DrLesiaThePreachasDiviNation
      @DrLesiaThePreachasDiviNation 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      No about what, it matters too?

  • @MadTwozOfficial
    @MadTwozOfficial 4 ปีที่แล้ว +304

    "You can loose respect chasing love but you can't loose love chasing respect" it's impossible for people to love you if they don't RESPECT you first.

    • @honor9lite1337
      @honor9lite1337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      People love pets

    • @alexandercrush
      @alexandercrush 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      So easy to lose respect. Honestly once a girl loses respect for you it’s impossible to get it back. Better to just learn your mistakes and move on to the next one.

    • @ummesalma1037
      @ummesalma1037 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Women respect responsible men..and unfortunately being there trying get to know people..it's very uncommon now adays to find responsible partners.. most lean on women to provide stability.

    • @honor9lite1337
      @honor9lite1337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ummesalma1037 are you sure??? 🤔

    • @ummesalma1037
      @ummesalma1037 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@honor9lite1337 depends are which part of the question you would like me to review, is it in the reality, that more men are leaning on women for stability nowadays, rather than it being a reciprocal relationship or where women respect men who act responsibly ?

  • @topheater1
    @topheater1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1059

    I’ve always been the mysterious type just being that way has gotten me much further with women than not

    • @Eli7o7
      @Eli7o7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      What you mean by mysterious Brody?

    • @deaniedean248
      @deaniedean248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      @@kimberlylusby3365 never "open up" with a woman...

    • @jknott1509
      @jknott1509 4 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      @@deaniedean248 or if you do a little, leave stuff vague. You gotta be able to relate a little to them, you need a few good stories to tell to take her on a little emotional journey

    • @deaniedean248
      @deaniedean248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      @@jknott1509 agreed, feed em scraps but dont let her FULLY "figure you out". She'll lose Interest

    • @mauricioalejandro74
      @mauricioalejandro74 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I know exactly what you mean brother. Same here.

  • @kingsmanattraction
    @kingsmanattraction 4 ปีที่แล้ว +721

    Powerful lesson. Men, the Hollywood romance movies are just for entertainment.
    In reality, you must live a life dedicated to the mission that the Most High gave you!
    The rest (including the women) will come and be granted once you seek first the Kingdom!

    • @TaxEvasi0n
      @TaxEvasi0n 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Breath of fresh air mate! Seek first the kingdom of God and everything will be given unto you. Because all vanity is vanities. Chase everlasting life, not temporary pleasures in this life because this life is not everlasting.
      Thank you, I needed to hear this again.

    • @kingsmanattraction
      @kingsmanattraction 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      TE ... Amen, nothing is a coincidence. Thank you for the reply.

    • @yourfriendlyneighbourhoodvue
      @yourfriendlyneighbourhoodvue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It’s also up to you to know what talents, gifts the Most High gave you.

    • @gabrielalele8603
      @gabrielalele8603 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🙏🏿Amen Brotha🙏🏿

    • @thebtchthathikes1008
      @thebtchthathikes1008 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nothing guarantee women. Moses died with no family. Why do you care about a parasite if it wasn't for sex? Adam never needed Eve she was forced upon him. Are females even worth it? Adam wasn't even ASKED if he was lonely the POS took it upon himself to make another dirt suit called female. If POS didn't even ask me if I wanted a companion how the FUQ so I have free will?

  • @alienboi2
    @alienboi2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +439

    Take shots every time ams says “mhm”

  • @subzero5853
    @subzero5853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    This girl used to text me back instantly and keep conversations, then suddenly I showed interest and she stopped texting. Which made me show more interest, and then she kept on telling me that shes busy and shit like that. What this man says is pure gold

    • @jj-bu6yb
      @jj-bu6yb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This happened to me last week

    • @celialusma4618
      @celialusma4618 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      she was into you or she found someone else i don't think it because you showed interest she left bruu

    • @jj-bu6yb
      @jj-bu6yb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@celialusma4618 maybe yes, she told me that she was very busy yet she is active on ig

    • @subzero5853
      @subzero5853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@celialusma4618 ya she did find someone else, but I believe the interest thing played a part as well

    • @w3r958
      @w3r958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@subzero5853 nah he just showed to much interest

  • @topheater1
    @topheater1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    Word of advice to women showing/telling a guy that you like them doesn’t make you seem easy

    • @Ulzannghome
      @Ulzannghome 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Say no more

    • @thebtchthathikes1008
      @thebtchthathikes1008 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      But these chix don't actually like you though. Hey don't even like Jesus Christ. They'll take his stuff though 🤷

    • @Mal._730
      @Mal._730 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯

    • @maryc3102
      @maryc3102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Maybe not to you but most guys are not ready to handle someone showing interest, they think we are being “masculine” (whatever that is) and love the chase and the chaos that come with it. Unfortunately, our society is not ready for assertive and confident women

    • @topheater1
      @topheater1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Mary C it’s all in how you communicate it trust me when we know that the other likes us back we’ll have no problems courting you the ones that don’t like it chasing is a thrill to them and chances are they only want to smash

  • @JA-ut8fi
    @JA-ut8fi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This AMS is a very relatable dude. You won't think he is this way from watching his channel. This guy right here seems actually very kind, professional, and approachable.

  • @lorid.7844
    @lorid.7844 4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Wow, that was Gold. I am a female and I agree with everything you all said. Both people must be on their purpose and enjoying their lives alone before they can have a fulfilling relationship with someone else. Thanks for this one.

  • @hihaters2004
    @hihaters2004 4 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    Manhood is the hardest thing to master in this society

    • @TyFoONdAFoOL
      @TyFoONdAFoOL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Man...✊🏿

    • @LoveAshleyCash1
      @LoveAshleyCash1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Manhood is dying

    • @elbertcamerino9229
      @elbertcamerino9229 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      art is dying

    • @nikkiehimmelwright7652
      @nikkiehimmelwright7652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Because society lacks values ...Go to serve God and you will learn the proper order men and women alike. This mindset is warped and nasty

    • @ultrainferno.
      @ultrainferno. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nikkiehimmelwright7652 your not suppose to serve, your suppose to lead by example.

  • @nakiadeon8607
    @nakiadeon8607 3 ปีที่แล้ว +641

    Women are getting the same advice...ignore them, be to busy for them etc.
    Can't wait to see the marriage statistics in 20 years...you know...after we all play these games on each other.

    • @veeandola
      @veeandola 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      This!!

    • @csmit04
      @csmit04 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      If you ignore someone, then you are still focused on them. If you are truly on your purpose, you will not need any outside validation. You will enjoy each other's company and you will enjoy your own company. Who cares about the rates of marriage? Low rates of high quality marriages is better than high rates of low quality marriages. Also marriage by the state has been dying and will never come back. Union of the souls without state interference is what real marriage is.

    • @a-s-y-a
      @a-s-y-a 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      S C both parties are insecure that’s why they have to do that. Sometimes it’s ok to “play games.” That’s my opinion))

    • @Thepinkxx
      @Thepinkxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol

    • @howardsturgis7673
      @howardsturgis7673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      veeandola you give a female three days to reply....when they won’t even go to the bathroom without there phone ? No way Jose

  • @simplydivine77
    @simplydivine77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I believe these are American male mindsets. As a Jamaican woman that have dated American. Caribbean and African Black men,
    I find that Black American men withheld compliments, affection and wanted me to beg/chase them. I’m not used to that. I’m accustomed to men being into me, showing me their affection and I appreciate it and give it back to them.

    • @YoungYahtz94
      @YoungYahtz94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yea but youre not realizing the other side of the coin, this is the American males mindset in response the American woman’s behavior/attitude towards men who do those things. Especially when women started calling dudes thirsty and posting screenshots of texts and DMs...that really seemed to screw up how men interact with women even more

    • @ultrainferno.
      @ultrainferno. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      A narcissist.

  • @anthonyrichardson5330
    @anthonyrichardson5330 4 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    Its the truth and women will never admit it

    • @chanceklein
      @chanceklein 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      💯💯💯

    • @meuniversity4155
      @meuniversity4155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      They dont have to - but a pimp will manipulate their nature

    • @maryc3102
      @maryc3102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Huh, why will I admit to something that doesn’t correlate to my reality?

    • @talknheadz
      @talknheadz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@maryc3102 you dont hv to admit it. But you know it.

    • @tjhammer24
      @tjhammer24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@maryc3102 thx for explaining cognitive dissonance

  • @ForgingMyWins
    @ForgingMyWins 4 ปีที่แล้ว +310

    It's more complicated than this. Being so cold hearted constantly will make her run eventually. There's a very thin balance that keeps her falling for you. Always pushing her away is gonna push her to find a different dude. You can be a leader and a man without being an asshole. I promise.

    • @ms.ferretmanthing2404
      @ms.ferretmanthing2404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yep

    • @shaybar93
      @shaybar93 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I agree!

    • @raresabraleaks8216
      @raresabraleaks8216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Nobody cares we don’t wanna keep em forever.

    • @johnnyappleseed8270
      @johnnyappleseed8270 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Not true, women only stay in abusive relationships, not healthy ones

    • @user-sj5rb7dc3c
      @user-sj5rb7dc3c 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@johnnyappleseed8270 why is that? Is a healthy relationship not emotionally stimulating enough for them? From my experience being an asshole worked but eventually I was exhausted from all the drama and anger she caused me and just became idk normal and the girl walked away. Miss the sex not gonna lie but life is much less stressful now

  • @ekaritrigu5252
    @ekaritrigu5252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    A wise man once said ,”treat women the same way you’d treat good liquor. Never chase them” - G eazy

    • @civilizedmonster
      @civilizedmonster 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I chase women same way i chase bear. Punchline is that, I don't drink at all.

  • @roliver3165
    @roliver3165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    We’ve been married 15 years now, but when we were dating we had a situation. We had an argument regarding my son from a previous marriage. I had full custody and my girlfriend felt I prioritized my son over her. I cussed her out and asked her what kind of man would prioritize a girlfriend over the happiness and welfare of his kids?? You have to be ready and willing to do what’s right over what they want or it will never work!!!

    • @YasminMahnaz
      @YasminMahnaz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Ur a disagrees
      Diahreaa of sorts..u made it quite obvious that u didn't value her .
      U made her feel inadequate..u didn't do anything noble.. kids are a priority. So is making ur wife or husband etc. U cussed her out? U proud sick twisted human.. just gross

    • @Christian3174
      @Christian3174 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Dont listen to these people, your son comes first. If she's a real one she'll understand and play her part without letting her insecurities take over. Speaking from experience.

    • @roliver3165
      @roliver3165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Christian Zilla
      Trust me I don’t. I’ve noticed my wife has had plenty of trouble over the years making female friends. Most of them don’t like how much respect she shows me and complain I’m too mean. Needless to say they are often single or very disrespectful/dissatisfied with their husbands. It seems the only women she tends to get along are those that hold their husband in high esteem and are submissive in their marriages. Everyone is different, I’m not judging. What works for one couple may not work for another.

    • @Christian3174
      @Christian3174 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Kitso Modiba you would be surprised how many women have this issue. Its amazing when they have kids they expect us to be accepting etc yet they fail to reciprocate their own standards and expectations. Quite bizarre..

    • @mrana2424
      @mrana2424 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fabulous looks like it worked out for him though? What women say they want from men and actually reward them for....are clearly different 😝

  • @rarrirooster15
    @rarrirooster15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    We simply live in a era with masculine women now . Men stay on your purpose, hold frame 🖼.

  • @ninjalizzim428
    @ninjalizzim428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +485

    Don't fall into this toxic mindset of an "Alpha" where you have to be a stone wall and never show any emotion or give any compliments to your significant other. There is a thing called moderation that a lot of tend to forget about.. every woman is different and you shall act accordingly. Take the advice that you deem necessary from these videos but don't get stuck in this mindset.

    • @kephrenh
      @kephrenh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Honestly I don’t trust anyone who fancy himself an Alpha. It is no different from women calling themselves feminists

    • @denzelflo_7972
      @denzelflo_7972 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      kephrenh u lost me with the Feminist part... the true alpha don’t hate women like most feminists hate men and think men are trash. The true alpha man holds himself to a certain standard that a women has to respect and if she can’t meet the standard then she is cut. That’s all it is. Alpha males don’t hate women brother

    • @kaling9087
      @kaling9087 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ams talked bout giving them scraps

    • @lavarball7538
      @lavarball7538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Very well said. Men watching should only extract the good because some of his points are valid but some are also wrong and damaging.

    • @akka6744
      @akka6744 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      John wicks dog is dead... htf this possible, how’s he even speaking, I’m happy he’s alive though, dk who resurrected him but shit man goodluck
      (Relax I did this all for the memes)

  • @sunnybrowngirl7053
    @sunnybrowngirl7053 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You guys make some good points about the impact of the shows for the past.

  • @theroamingsavage8813
    @theroamingsavage8813 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Wish I knew this since high school! Instead of the stupid Disney story they force feed us all our lives, men who drop everything to be with a woman end up getting left, cheated on, and losing all their relationships with family, friends, etc

  • @markoh2999
    @markoh2999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    “You need to find happiness in yourself before you become successful with women” spot-on. You should never feel like you need a woman to be happy, that means there’s much deeper problems you need to solve in your own life first.

  • @alexandercrush
    @alexandercrush 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Very true. When you don’t care it becomes so easy.

  • @c19ANDRE
    @c19ANDRE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    “If I don’t have a date Saturday, I’m going surfing” absolutely🤙

    • @owen730
      @owen730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeee

    • @suhbash10
      @suhbash10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Kalabonga dude

  • @quasiitv87
    @quasiitv87 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Once again, GREAT content from AMS!! Once you’re at peace with yourself, you’ll never have to prove yourself to nobody ever again 💯💯

  • @voluntarycelibacy-vocel7801
    @voluntarycelibacy-vocel7801 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    For a man who already got kids, relationships are the biggest time waster in the world.

  • @222222e
    @222222e 4 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    How can women ever be the prize when most of their whole existence is rooted in men’s validation. Their power is rooted in the attention men give them. Go to a bar or nightclub dressed up and smelling good, and don’t say anything to the women there, or even acknowledge them. Watch how many women you’ll see looking at you from afar wondering why you aren’t paying them attention. Ego is our kryptonite and the need for attentions theirs.

    • @222222e
      @222222e 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Harry Garrett If women could have any man they wanted, they wouldn’t be complaining about the dudes they end up with. A high value man has his choice of women. Unlike women a man can survive without attention. A woman’s value is depending on what she can attract. I don’t think you understand how this thing really works.

    • @thapelontongwana179
      @thapelontongwana179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      what a profound and a perceptive statement, I do it all the time and these broads be checking my fine ass out

    • @BlakDynamite615
      @BlakDynamite615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Harry Garrett a woman can sex just about any man she wants. they cant keep any man the want.

    • @wc3362
      @wc3362 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Harry Garrett but doesn't mean they can keep a man to assure that validation . If they can't keep who they desire, then compliments become meaningless to them.

    • @wc3362
      @wc3362 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @Harry Garrett that is BS. Men aren't getting surgeries of lips, breasts, butt and also for make up, wigs, and weaves. Women are the ones starving themselves to death to be pretty and accepted. More women want to marry than men. No woman wants to remain alone, and that's not the case with most men.
      Real men don't need any of that stuff. Men also dont have a biological clock and don't panic to get married at 40. Why do you think so many black men don't marry? We don't lead with our feelings, unlike women.
      Only Beta male simps need validation from women because they lack confidence. Real Alpha men get validation from themselves, their like minded peers and achievements.
      Here is proof from a woman:
      4 Reasons Why Women Subconsciously Seek Validation From Men
      www.linkedin.com/pulse/4-reasons-why-women-subconsciously-seek-validation-from-mohapatra

  • @SheIsMe38
    @SheIsMe38 3 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    I think this conversation is about immaturity. Most grown women and men know how to compliment eachother. Neither should have to beg for attention. If you do that's not the woman or man for you

    • @bryanjohnson9139
      @bryanjohnson9139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Exactly. It's just be people not being true and authentic. AMS said he won't drink a lot of alcohol around women because his true feels coming out.

    • @smartbiney801
      @smartbiney801 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      It's not solely about immaturity, it's about understanding nature... contrary to what you said most grown men and women don't know how to compliment each other. Look at the divorce rate...a

    • @XxChuyoxX
      @XxChuyoxX 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s a natural thing for women to do. Disciplined couples will do it but it won’t be genuine. These are the things you have to do in order to keep a girl genuinely interested and attracted to a guy. Otherwise, he’s just your friend you live with and a provider.

    • @AIONBERSERKER
      @AIONBERSERKER 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      if most grown men and women knew how to compliment each other, the divorce rate wouldn't be so high. Females get bored of nice guys that's just the way it is.

    • @BeccahJoy
      @BeccahJoy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love this!

  •  3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Guys, you’re the podcast I’ve been looking for for years, thanks for this amazing no BS content

  • @reallyaprophet
    @reallyaprophet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    nobody: ..
    AMS: mhm mmm mhm

    • @bilalali7336
      @bilalali7336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      lmaoo I was gonna make this comment 😂😂😂😂

    • @centrywt912
      @centrywt912 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bruh 😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @prodigym
      @prodigym 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      AMS is my dude but that shit was getting annoying

    • @guardian8319
      @guardian8319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mmm mmhmmm mmmm mhhhhhh mhhhhh mhmmmmm

  • @DrGanja99
    @DrGanja99 4 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    All the women in here proving red pill points is funny as hell

    • @SwaggaNeal
      @SwaggaNeal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Never fails

    • @asapva9933
      @asapva9933 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts they tryna flip all the niggas just getting on the red pill fence notice they came in droves and you only see them comment when another one does cuz they schemin ass 🤣🤣🤣

  • @viceanterra3
    @viceanterra3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    That story about the war is interesting. My motto is: don't say things you don't mean. I'm gonna believe you 🤷🏾‍♂️. If u leave me as a result without even so much as a discussion, I'll be better off without that toxicity. Hints tips are for escape rooms and tutorials.

    • @jairusbryant3229
      @jairusbryant3229 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      100% true. I've been saying this for the longest time. If people truly believe in honest communication, they won't subscribe to hints.

    • @anbillie
      @anbillie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's such a generalization. Plenty of men who go off to war get Dear John letters. Or may even get cheated on. We make generalizations to make sense of things way to complicated to understand

    • @meuniversity4155
      @meuniversity4155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Wired for Understanding damn....Jesus wept....i dont know if her parents were too busy or what but they failed.

  • @MegaDiomedes1
    @MegaDiomedes1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was a great discussion, thank you fellas.

  • @davidalcin3121
    @davidalcin3121 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m really happy that you are at this level at this juncture my brother. I’m officially a fan. Respect ✊🏿

  • @MrMaier3000
    @MrMaier3000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I highly recommend to take those advise. I promise you that your life will be better overall. My life has changed for the better. I too thought those fake Hollywood movies was the way to get with a woman.

  • @arvindvanati106
    @arvindvanati106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    The greatest advice a man can give to another man is to listen to the black Philip show by Patrice o neal
    It’s a radio show explaining female psychology
    I bet u won’t regret it ✊🏾

    • @MrLance01221
      @MrLance01221 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm gonna check it out now brotha

    • @yayatoure3034
      @yayatoure3034 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I found it on Spotify where do i I start

    • @arvindvanati106
      @arvindvanati106 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yayatoure3034 u can find it on TH-cam

  • @isaaspirit9895
    @isaaspirit9895 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🙏🏻🙏🏼🙏🏽🙏🏾🙏🏿 , you guys are the big brothers we don't know we needed

  • @SamMatheson
    @SamMatheson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love the breakdown guys 🙌🏼 - that last line thou 🤯

  • @certifiedchaos4643
    @certifiedchaos4643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Don’t be captain save a ho be the anti hero lol

  • @raphaelmichaels135
    @raphaelmichaels135 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    This a principal. Keep your eyes focused on God and you're good regardless of whether women stays or leaves; keeps your eyes focused on her and you're screwed whether she stays or leaves. This society tells us to worship and capitulate to women and to put Woman over God and ourselves. That doesn't work ; it didn't work with Adam ; it didn't work with Sampson; it didn't work with Solomon so it definitely won't work with us the last generation.

    • @ernestboykin3rd706
      @ernestboykin3rd706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Real talk my man 1Luv bruh

    • @stevewoodson4635
      @stevewoodson4635 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Muchos saludos cordiales grandes
      Comprende los mejores precios están correctos puedes mandar los cielos

    • @desmonides
      @desmonides 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      FaaaaaaCTS

  • @sohaibahmed226
    @sohaibahmed226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Setting a timer to text a girl 😂! True dedication right there!

  • @dariusedmund5620
    @dariusedmund5620 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God am so happy i discovered this channel, love from Kenya

  • @noirediamonds241
    @noirediamonds241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This video just showed me why I’m single and why I haven’t been having the best experiences with men; it’s because I’m never going to be the girl who’s going to ask “what are we” or chase a guy for attention. 🥴 there should be balance... and the fact that “men” are advising others to play these types of games is weird.

    • @cralendesskid5739
      @cralendesskid5739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Woman do the same “feminist”

    • @nardinit
      @nardinit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There should be balance you say after admitting you wouldn't do any work.
      Get rid of that entitlement mentality and you'll find someone good

  • @marcuswilliams7342
    @marcuswilliams7342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "Mmm, mmhmm, mh, mmmhhh." The dialog while the host talked lol

  • @moekhan7284
    @moekhan7284 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    WHAT MEN NEED TO HEAR YOU GUYS ARE MAD IMPORTANT

  • @javianjohnson8746
    @javianjohnson8746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    BOTH of you guys are RIGHT ON the money!

  • @latashaayatch2847
    @latashaayatch2847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm 28 now but in my teenage years 18-21 I didn't want the cuddly type but now I crave that. I love a man that's about me. That's really all I need

    • @danielg2177
      @danielg2177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yaa because you are not on ur prime anymore

    • @vishnudev4754
      @vishnudev4754 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s what every woman wants.

    • @WonZZY2003
      @WonZZY2003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂 In simple words you are currently in your depreciating stage ⬇️SMV⬇️

    • @fremahmensah-kwakye9424
      @fremahmensah-kwakye9424 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same old cycle tbh, now you want that but it will probably be harder to do so at your age. Most of the good ones are taken

    • @Acoustics195
      @Acoustics195 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You hitting the wall Lady 😅😅😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @dj.himself
    @dj.himself 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I understand I need to be the prize for her to be interested. But if I don’t feel like she is the prize, I’m not interested. 🤔

    • @maryc3102
      @maryc3102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The whole problem here is that you think of yourself and people as “prizes”. If the interactions were made simpler as in, getting to know the person without games and to see if you connect and if you don’t, you don’t, dating would be easier for everyone.

    • @dj.himself
      @dj.himself 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mary C agreed Mary. But we can say if anything. Everyone’s looking for a catch so generally someone’s settling.

  • @yantheyam5622
    @yantheyam5622 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bless you brothers for this knowledge and keep bringing the wisdom.

  • @inanismailov
    @inanismailov 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very informative and eye opening. I’m glad I ran across this video.

  • @nexxus2853
    @nexxus2853 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Shit this interview hit differently, all that was said here i can relate to.
    Damn i have some serious adjustments to make.

  • @marlonmoncrieffe0728
    @marlonmoncrieffe0728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Basically, have a life before, during, and after your woman.
    By the way, I was also raised on misconceptions from the television I grew up watching.

  • @sublime8956
    @sublime8956 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You get respect by speaking up. Every time. And what he says about focusing on your grind in 💯 on point.

  • @BrandedChronicles
    @BrandedChronicles 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video is what I needed to hear! Newly subbed and am tuned. Where has this channel been in my life lmao

  • @solomonx2061
    @solomonx2061 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    God first
    Girls last
    Goals in between- Daniel Outcast

    • @stevewoodson4635
      @stevewoodson4635 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bonjour je n'ai plus accès de la e et que vous allez je vais essayer d'y travailler et que je suis à votre réponse rapide de votre réponse je suis en déplacement et je suis en train de faire un tour à tour je suis très intéressée et motivée je suis très intéressée par la suite à bientôt j'espère et je te fais de la semaine prochaine pour un poste au de

    • @nikosgoutakolis3670
      @nikosgoutakolis3670 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@stevewoodson4635 thanks for your output. Glad we didnt ask for it

  • @kevinford4701
    @kevinford4701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She cancelled on me. I made plans immediately. She said "im not going" i said.."you better go...because im not changing my plans". And i dumped her for even tryna play with me.

  • @chandler6351
    @chandler6351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    [23, M] ♂️
    I’m glad I found this channel; it’s almost as if the “shadow” part of my consciousness has been coming out -to be recognized, tamed, and redeveloped. The *leadership* you guys are taking is critical and very helpful. Masculinity is under an all out attack around the world and times are more difficult than ever.
    Great advice- God bless you guys. 🙏🏻

  • @mysportisyourpunishment73188
    @mysportisyourpunishment73188 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I came to watch AMS. Thanks for bringing me a new channel AMS.

  • @deedcg577
    @deedcg577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The most attractive thing I find in a man is a man living in his purpose. I love seeing a man working on him I have no problem getting out of his way. If he’s into me he will make the time period

    • @TheGroundedExplorer
      @TheGroundedExplorer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How about you give him the time, when hes available. After all tho if hes really on the grind you say he is, all he probably is a quick fuck.

  • @shaybar93
    @shaybar93 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Look there has to be a balance. When two people mutually want each other and will show up in the ways they need to, a relationship works. No one should be chasing the other. You should be holding hands and walking together.

  • @qcfgaminginc5427
    @qcfgaminginc5427 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ams -"mmmmhm"😂🤣👌love tha og

  • @webeducation
    @webeducation 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well that pretty much sums up a big part of the reason why my 8 year relationship went south. Was listening to her words.

  • @fishingdude8393
    @fishingdude8393 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    A prize can only satisfy a woman for a short period of time. You have to constantly change, otherwise she will throw you away and get a new prize.

    • @Mindsetolympics
      @Mindsetolympics 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hmmm you really think women are THAT impatient 😂

    • @Genpri
      @Genpri 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Byrdwomann Yes

    • @josuemerigo4506
      @josuemerigo4506 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Perfect

    • @SwaggaNeal
      @SwaggaNeal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Byrdwomann 100 billion percent yes

    • @SwaggaNeal
      @SwaggaNeal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Byrdwomann there’s nothing honest about it. It’s just another shaming tactic y’all use whenever a point is being made.

  • @quinty26
    @quinty26 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I don't want you to like me, I want you to respect me. Emotions are fleeting. Women bombarding these male spaces seeking attention and validation, basically confirming what AMS is saying. Keep proving us all right, ladies. We ain't mad.

  • @Mr.StayFit101
    @Mr.StayFit101 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Needed this one ☝🏾

  • @caviarbeatzz1257
    @caviarbeatzz1257 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Every man should see this video. Changed my mindset forever

  • @Lennon517
    @Lennon517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    All I hear is a lot of men crying about women, just leave your life and be happy

    • @lebonhlapo2607
      @lebonhlapo2607 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      PREACH!!!!!!!Complaining isn't going to solve anything instead just increase your whining and "dislike" for women. Sometimes an introspection is also needed, just might be a YOU🙄 PROBLEM.

    • @jmorrison6582
      @jmorrison6582 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Live*

    • @steveross4151
      @steveross4151 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Learn to spell son

    • @mayowaogunnaike9118
      @mayowaogunnaike9118 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What an Irony

  • @luv.my.pencil477
    @luv.my.pencil477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We do love when men are cuddly and lovey dovey, at least I do. I wouldn’t be with a guy that wasn’t. However, if you’re overly lovey dovey immediately, thats a warning sign because we don’t yet know if you’re being genuine or not. Once I know a guy well, I’d want him to express all his love and be very physically affectionate, but guys who fawn over you or say I love you very early on just appear fake/surface level to me. Like, how do you already love me when you don’t even know me yet?
    And YES have something going on in your life. If you don’t have passion about anything besides me, I will lose so much attraction. I’m out here working to make the world a better place and focusing on what inspires me. I want you to be doing the same.

  • @Joselitty
    @Joselitty 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Helped a lot, thanks brothers 🙏🏽

  • @Kdmonlyfirst
    @Kdmonlyfirst 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this. This really enlighten me

  • @polishpimp4233
    @polishpimp4233 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Let's put it this way. You know the dating market has major problems when youtube is littered with dating coaches. We can keep playing mind games and watch as the west continue to fall. I understand the value system but there does come a point when you need to settle and you dont want to settle later in life. It's better to take a 7 partner at 27 than it is it to settle for a 5 at 37 ladies.

    • @j.ronnygibson
      @j.ronnygibson 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree. When did dating become a game?

  • @exoticmayhem8014
    @exoticmayhem8014 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Damn right. Once women hit their late teens they start to like the guys who are minding their own business.

  • @CoachDeBora
    @CoachDeBora 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Take it from a mature woman, this conversation is spot on. You can't fake being on purpose; there is an energy and authenticity that on purpose men (and women) give off.

  • @macthesmac
    @macthesmac 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I watch this for entertainment but you and AMS are spot on.

  • @annonymousannonymous4700
    @annonymousannonymous4700 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    AMS might be the next Kid Cudi with them hummin skills 😦

  • @craiggrant28
    @craiggrant28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    respect the collab, but this look like a
    1-on-1 consultantation

  • @truenorthaffirmations7049
    @truenorthaffirmations7049 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This makes sense..stay up men🤘🔥

  • @iunderstanphotography2780
    @iunderstanphotography2780 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow i saw Alpha Male Strategies videos way way back. He's come a long way

  • @ryansmotorsports2199
    @ryansmotorsports2199 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I keep running into jealous men who won't directly be disrespectful, but chatter or act passive aggressive.

  • @sammysam2615
    @sammysam2615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've always lived by this motto in regards to respect.
    A job title, position, wealth, professional success, the everyday person, etc. Respect is earned. I don't have to respect someone because they expect or demand it. But I'm absolutely not going to disrespect anyone for the sake of being disrespectful

  • @Dr.Thandi
    @Dr.Thandi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Everything you said is true for both men and women. Everyone needs to get a life!

  • @J.B.1982
    @J.B.1982 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So true that it’s harder to fake being higher value or look busy doing professional stuff than it is to actually be that. We have to keep stepping up and growing and expanding, moving forward ->

  • @MartinMartinez-uq4gx
    @MartinMartinez-uq4gx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Lot of fake “alpha” males out here, including myself.

    • @CoachingbyCade
      @CoachingbyCade 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @FlyFoxZone 03 not true bruh. Alphas are made through pain and suffering.

    • @colbalt95
      @colbalt95 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Enrique X111 they still go through pain and suffering. It's just like a little kid that learns how to play the instrument and it's really good at it.

  • @musolao2709
    @musolao2709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think a major problem with guys in our generation (millennials) is outlines here we haven’t manage to find our purpose and pursue it inspite of everything else. That’s where fulfillment comes from, women don’t necessarily do that.

  • @Gabriel-um6el
    @Gabriel-um6el 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    FEEL THE ENERGY OF THE MESSAGE U SAYING!! 💪

  • @goodeatzentertainment1415
    @goodeatzentertainment1415 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bruh every man on this planet should be watching this video. This is a life changer frfr

  • @CanaryValens
    @CanaryValens 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oh yea they'll cancel that date lmao 🤣 😂

  • @rico___2421
    @rico___2421 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This really depends on the female. If your girls love language is you loving up on her kissing here and doing nice stuff for here you have to do it.
    If not she’s gonna find that somewhere else.
    You can still be the man of the house and keep your masculinity and love your girl correctly

  • @canttakeanymore
    @canttakeanymore 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If you demand respect, you will get it, even if you're alone and you are just respecting yourself.

  • @naiadbaksh3996
    @naiadbaksh3996 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is really good advice. If you’re wondering if this will actually work, consider this a sign.

  • @AL-tb7kc
    @AL-tb7kc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I want a man with a healthy balance. Have something going for himself, such as his career or furthering his education. Yet not be so consumed that spending quality time is null and void.
    I think a lot of what was brought up, in the video, came from situations where the women were still finding themselves. So no, she wouldn’t be able to tell you what she wanted because she had not completely figured it out for herself yet.
    It also sounded like some of the women were not use to a man being affectionate and showing genuine interest. This can happen for many different reasons, over the course of these women’s lives. At the end of the day, the best idea would be to have a heart to heart conversation, to understand the reasons behind the actions. Remember the reasons behind people’s actions are not a “one size fits all”.

    • @Welcome28487
      @Welcome28487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s the issue right there. Not all masculine men are going to college to further “education “ that’s that social indoctrination crap. Some make a great living working blue collar jobs, preparing for their future and enjoying their life with a productive hobby.. you know on his purpose. A lot of people especially women need to be open minded and do a lot of critical thinking. College education isn’t the end of be all. Find a man who read books, who educated himself. But that goes against women hypergamy as far as finding a man with great status. Not every women can and is deserving in finding the top 10 percent of men with a education.

    • @vishnudev4754
      @vishnudev4754 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But what are you bringing into this relationship?

  • @twilliams111111
    @twilliams111111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When a man is too busy, I move on to one that isn't too busy for me. Simple as that.

    • @richardmartinez5383
      @richardmartinez5383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      If you can deal with a busy man providing for himself and maybe for you
      Then there will always be a broke man willing to give you all his time

    • @tevinh3333
      @tevinh3333 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right

  • @kimwelpinili5242
    @kimwelpinili5242 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like the conversation. More of a catching up than a podcast LOL

  • @Shawn-fw6uf
    @Shawn-fw6uf 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is literally straight KNOWLEDGE

  • @smeefyzeus7078
    @smeefyzeus7078 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ams the 🐏dropping gems..

  • @danielb2789
    @danielb2789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    For real acting like you busy it exauhsting guys if you never been there DON'T...when she say she want you, it truth but that how she feel at the moment because of memories all you say is "Good" kiss that shiny forhead and move on.
    Woman think abt (live in) PAST and PRESENT (what we gon' eat today)
    Man about PRESENT and FUTUR
    (what can i do today to provide Tomorrow)

  • @Ayotundejerry
    @Ayotundejerry 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't know who will dislike this video... Cos this is truth.. Jeezz.. Wish I had this video some 5 years ago

  • @wongazani2833
    @wongazani2833 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Man, everything that was said here🔥, I did in the past and I just recently switched and realized all of this through his content😭, Damn this hit me hard and this has opened my eyes and mind man, this is a gem💪🔥😤🏅