the break up.. | PART 2

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  • @karinathompson8051
    @karinathompson8051 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Restoring my faith that godly relationships are possible. thank you 😭💚

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🥹🙌🏾❤️

  • @shalorimoore7520
    @shalorimoore7520 2 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    I'm happy you all found your way back to one another.

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      thank you so much!

    • @shalorimoore7520
      @shalorimoore7520 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@OnlyOneJess Watching your story unfold reminds me that what's mine is mine and to wait for God's blessing. 🥰

  • @teannahairston5729
    @teannahairston5729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    I see you got 500K in your sights! Congratulations for making it this far and Congratulations in advance!!!

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      We’re so close! Thank you 🥰

    • @namee.eemailh-s9729
      @namee.eemailh-s9729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@OnlyOneJess Pls post the link for part 1. I recall knowing your breakup story from a while back but watching again would be cool... Thx!

    • @namee.eemailh-s9729
      @namee.eemailh-s9729 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OnlyOneJess *Link to Part 1 is not in the Description Box*

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@namee.eemailh-s9729 just added it for ya! 🥰🥰

  • @plummer8747
    @plummer8747 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I felt this especially on the 'afraid of being alone' and the 'history'.

  • @vanessafitzpatrick5635
    @vanessafitzpatrick5635 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I love the fact that your both able to sit in peace and share what happened. It's very healthy and healing for the soul. Love you guys so much 😘.

  • @Antoinette922
    @Antoinette922 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I remember in one of your blogs you mentioned a break-up and being hurt. You looked into the camera and said "You know who you are" and now we all know lol. Thank God you made it though! You helping him with other girls when he was in high school reminds me of Vanessa Williams' song "Best for Last."

    • @EsiriE
      @EsiriE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I remember that video 😂

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Lol yup that was him 😂😂😂

  • @lilbitdance5
    @lilbitdance5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I truly love and appreciate this video. I was in a relationship for almost 4 years and it ended a few days ago due to him being unsure of what he wants. The responses to a lot of those questions I felt were for me personally to hear. Thank you 🙏🏽.

  • @shanhill966
    @shanhill966 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Love this guys you know you’re my favorite!!! Great advice my husband and I had to separate to come back together. Alone time allows you to reflect and get closer with god. You are able to see the imperfections that as an individual to reevaluate values morals and what’s important. Both parties must do the work we did the work and 5 years married.

  • @deebestest100
    @deebestest100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Honestly, your videos give me patience. I’ve been praying for my partner, to actually receive him soon because God knows I want to be with whomever the man is. I really desire to grow with him and be with him in life. Your videos have shown me that it’s not always straightforward and I have to be patient and trust God. Thank you for your videos and for being a vessel.

  • @ravensymonemsw677
    @ravensymonemsw677 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Aww that’s exactly what happened to Adam in Gen 2:21-22 “So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep. While the man slept, the Lord God took out one of the man’s ribs and closed up the opening.” “Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib, and he brought her to the man.”
    ‭‭That’s so beautiful to hear the scripture come to pass congratulations to you guys!! God bless your union love your channel

  • @SunneyDae
    @SunneyDae ปีที่แล้ว +4

    These two break up videos are something I needed. I REALLY didn't want to watch them, and haven't for months, but today I watched both, and I really needed to. I recently broke up with my boyfriend, who was a friend of 6 years and a boyfriend of 6 months, after he cheated on me. And I have truly been struggling in this.

    • @iloveGod1105
      @iloveGod1105 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Praying for you beautiful girl!!!

  • @borbalabernath1024
    @borbalabernath1024 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I pray God does this miracle, makes us more mature and His will is to be with each other. I am already closer to Him and matured and forgave and asked for forgiveness and made peace with people in my past

  • @JustJoia
    @JustJoia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    You speaking on that peace! Listen… people asked my husband & I on “why it take so long” or “when are you going to get married?” We literally both knew we were it for one another but it didn’t feel right & we knew if the influence of the world got to us & we married sooner, we would be divorced. ❤

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That is WISDOM right there! I love it 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @laneyjackson5916
    @laneyjackson5916 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This video is setting some people free! Much needed and much appreciated!

  • @marianb2530
    @marianb2530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was such a great video and I loved how you answered the "making excuses section...". I loved ALL of it. Very mature answers 👍🏿🙏🏿💙🌹

  • @Nikki...
    @Nikki... 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The healing and growth these videos promote is refreshing!

  • @DFWME71
    @DFWME71 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The right person for you, and timing is everything.

  • @msamjllc
    @msamjllc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Great Video - I appreciate folks who can keep it honest and real.

  • @pamelamajor1019
    @pamelamajor1019 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    This was beautiful. I love you guys as a couple, and Jess you are just glowing now!

  • @bobbiedavis8498
    @bobbiedavis8498 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thank you Jonathan and Jess for putting yourselves out here for us to see. I am married to my Soulmate. He balances me out. We put God first in our lives..In our marriage. God's love and Presence is always at the head of our lives and in our hearts. I fell in Love with my husband the 1st time I saw him. We dated ror 10 years before we married. We got thru those times thru Praying 🙏🏽 and being Prayed for. 🙏🏽...Jess and Jonathan I Love your stories and I Love how to see how your Spiritual Love stories have become 1. Love you guys..Prayers and Blessings 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💛

  • @akajazzy12300
    @akajazzy12300 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I saw this an said part 2 ?? I was like wait ! When did I miss part 1 🫠 but then I proceeded to watch & it cleared my confusion. 🤣

  • @mercydolo
    @mercydolo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love to see your Godly side and Godly relationship perspectives. Plant them seeds Sis😁

  • @ROCKYtaughtme
    @ROCKYtaughtme ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love the transparency! Very much appreciated, thank you both. I Love the intro as well ! It’s catchy lol ❤

  • @zipporahjones5814
    @zipporahjones5814 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Come. On. Jon. And. Jess!! Talk about the goodness of the LORD! I'm here for it ALL. Actively working (reading the Bible to hear from the Lord, reference books and prayer) while waiting on God is key! Marriage is the most difficult relationship you'll ever have...and when it's ordained by the Lord you'll enjoy your life with your favorite person. ❤️ #ItsAGodThing
    Yall are my favorite YT couple🥰 I've been loc'd for 2 years and still follow you and your hair content.

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ah thank you so much!! ❤️❤️

  • @alexandria_mckoy
    @alexandria_mckoy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    LEGIT! I broke up with my ex (dated on/off for 4 years) after finding out he cheated (and mind you CONTINUED to flirt on SM). He took me to the movies and was like "can we just take a break?". I said no, I'm done and his reply was "so you are just going to give up 4 years?"....God was with me when I said "I'de rather 4 years than the rest of my life". Mind you there was already signs God was trying to give me from jump because he would flirt with females directly in front of me. And in 4 years, our relationship grew as much as a fake plant. 🤦🏾‍♀. lol....But you guys relationship reminds me ALOT of my boyfriend and I relationship (or me and my boyfriend's...🤷🏾‍♀). Very beautiful to see & I wish you guys the absolute best!

    • @flowd7451
      @flowd7451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hope you left that dustie in the dust.

  • @candiblue9280
    @candiblue9280 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am just happy that you are married now and are together the main thing is that u two talk everything out and have god in your lives.

  • @marjoriecoleman8280
    @marjoriecoleman8280 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hey Jess with the sponsorship, ok girl! 🎉🙌🏾 It shows maturity how y’all let God guide you thru the difficult times when you were dating. I love that! ❤ Sometimes things don’t happen when we want them to, but it happens right on time. 🙌🏾

  • @dashelledisna6239
    @dashelledisna6239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im Glad I lost, was soo good👏🏾👏🏾
    Yes this is soo good. No BODY IS WORTH YOUR PEACE OF MIND. LIFE ALREADY HAS ENOUGH TROUBLES. I always say this

  • @momentswithmaya8040
    @momentswithmaya8040 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow, similar situation somewhat. definitely praying and seeking clarity! thank you all for transparency and this video 🤍

  • @olipachipila738
    @olipachipila738 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God bless your reunion always.
    I'm doing everything by Faith because we are going through everything you spoke about. e
    Especially the place Jesse was in, Now we've been on separation for two months. Been trying to move on but God still brings back the person to my mind and how we are meant be by comfirming his word every day with peace and easy.
    Question: Jess, how did you deal with the uncertainty of him not being sure about you?

  • @CallMeTink
    @CallMeTink 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    THIS IS A BEAUTIFUL & SPIRITUAL, TRUE LOVE AFFAIR 🥰💕

  • @johnarhodes3748
    @johnarhodes3748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are such a refreshing young couple. Thank you for sharing your journey.

  • @kay-annclarke6312
    @kay-annclarke6312 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm going through this same process. I know I may be wrong and pray forgiveness for praying that the person I am praying to be restored does not fall in love with any other woman or the relationship with other women just dont work..

  • @daryianberymon2885
    @daryianberymon2885 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It’s the Back to back upload for meeee!!! Love to see the CONSISTENCY 😜😘❤️

  • @staysmilingallday4797
    @staysmilingallday4797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    Come through for the sponsorship. They have no idea the stress you went through when you couldn’t find his ring😂🤣

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      RIGHT!!? lolllll whew

  • @toniagrant275
    @toniagrant275 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love and happiness beauty and holiness yess I love it hi J&J that’s true women intuition and discernment blessed be💜🙏🏾

  • @mellajoe
    @mellajoe 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The way he said “I’m not leaving Jess” made m chuckle

  • @Brownskinlove-qh4io
    @Brownskinlove-qh4io 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I had to get myself ready for this video. Thank you for sharing glad God brought y’all through it!!♥️🙌🏾💍🙏🏾

  • @atashajordan
    @atashajordan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I chuckle that I sing along to your intro like it's Fresh Prince of Bel Air

  • @queenj8795
    @queenj8795 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm so happy for you, Jess. I remember the says when you didn't have sponsorships, but look at God 💖 I pray you and Johnathan have a long, happy life together 💖

  • @DrineThePoet
    @DrineThePoet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Girl I'm so happy for you both ❤

  • @keishlaspivey232
    @keishlaspivey232 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm new to your channel and truly enjoying the content. I commend you two for sharing your journey thus far.
    Jonathan You were answering a question someone posed about what happened when you realized you wanted to marry Jess....
    Just to tag in on your reply ...it also helps when the individual has a relationship with GOD and they take time to quiet themselves so that that can be intuned with where GOD is leading them.
    GOD BLESS you both.🧡🌴🌺

  • @Thatonegirl989
    @Thatonegirl989 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I love your honesty :)

  • @_clarisse_manishimwe
    @_clarisse_manishimwe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your rings are so beautiful! Definitely a website I would consider. 💗

  • @misskiana81
    @misskiana81 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yes it’s all about Gods timing

  • @Fear_lyss
    @Fear_lyss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Giiiiirl I had to stop everything!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @moniquepellot1426
    @moniquepellot1426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You two are so sweet and speaking about your relationship and also with the lord makes it even better . Thanks for aways showing your loving side of one another .

  • @lennichagittens6329
    @lennichagittens6329 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jonathan: “I DID NOT say God!! Stop put dat ina yuh mouth!!”
    😂😂😂

  • @TheJazmineRose
    @TheJazmineRose ปีที่แล้ว

    16:23
    Defffffinitely needed to hear this

  • @Sunshine19975
    @Sunshine19975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Prosecutor I love how transparent you are about your relationship. Shout out to the sponsorship honey I was stressed right along with you in the car hoping and wishing you found that ring lol....

  • @vennessapleas8455
    @vennessapleas8455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you both for sharing. I love y'all ❤️

  • @capri102
    @capri102 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Eventhough your road was long God made sure you marry the man he had prepared for you Jess 🙌🙌🙌🙌 #BlackLove🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

  • @taliapink8047
    @taliapink8047 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Not in a relationship but I’m watching ☺️

  • @soriyazz
    @soriyazz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm happy you guys are so in love and at peace!!

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank youuu! The road was ugly but look at us now lol

    • @soriyazz
      @soriyazz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@OnlyOneJess Look at y'all now is right.

  • @CallMeTink
    @CallMeTink 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    HAPPY HEALTHY FRIDAY GOR-JESS & JONATHAN ⭐️💛👑

  • @constanceleflore6691
    @constanceleflore6691 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The smile on your face is everything

  • @moadornedbyjesus
    @moadornedbyjesus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    AMEN JESUS IS OUR FIRST RESPONSE ALWAYS! We must 1st know Him and our purpose in Him to be able to discern whom He is declared is our purpose partner in Him. Let's never settle children of God! ONLY the devil wants us to settle, God has called us to excel.

  • @bethanyburton9821
    @bethanyburton9821 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    love ya jess!! and all people posting before and after this post! smile all night even tho youre asleep! take some tape and tape your cheeks in a smile! have a wonderful night!!!.

  • @keysiaparsely3038
    @keysiaparsely3038 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank God you guys come together as one God blessed you

  • @fairburngordonstephanie5398
    @fairburngordonstephanie5398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was a great video. I believe you both helped someone. Yes l love watching transformation church service. I see ministry in both your life.

  • @enriaen5430
    @enriaen5430 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Why am I walking around the supermarket singing, "There's only one, there's only one, there's only one Jess, only one Jess..." 🎶😂❤

  • @wisdomthatrhymes2314
    @wisdomthatrhymes2314 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Jess when you broke up, I’m sure it hurt that he wasn’t sure about things, did you have any resentment towards him or when he came back was everything easy asking for a friend? Lol the friend is me , if God brings him back I feel like I have bitterness towards him

  • @antwanaisjajohnson4049
    @antwanaisjajohnson4049 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Notttt an Esther fast! 🤣🤣
    Yesssssss. That's super dope🥰🥰

  • @mydknyghtrydah463
    @mydknyghtrydah463 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Y’all betta than me every man knows you walk out…. Don’t Turn Around cuz I ain’t chkng for U Never No Mo

  • @nollary482
    @nollary482 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love you guys ❤
    I like how real you are

  • @NicoleB79
    @NicoleB79 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love the rings so beautiful

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you!!

    • @NicoleB79
      @NicoleB79 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OnlyOneJess welcome hun 😍

  • @berthajohnson9034
    @berthajohnson9034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm so happy for y'all 💯❤️💯

  • @moniquecarter2540
    @moniquecarter2540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ok I’ll be back, let me watch part 1 real quick.

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      part one is KEYYYY lol

  • @JustShara4
    @JustShara4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    ....but it was meant to be 🙌🏾💛💛💛💛

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God had OTHERRRR planss amen lol

    • @JustShara4
      @JustShara4 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OnlyOneJess Amen 🙏🏽, I love it and I love yall 😘

  • @abimaylia
    @abimaylia 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't believe you read my question I love you guys so much this is so helpful xoxo

  • @Nnnnnnnn426
    @Nnnnnnnn426 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg Jess posted and I didn’t get the notification someone in charge about to get fired cause now I gotta wait til 6 to watch it

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh nah I’m bout to hold a company meeting 😂😂🫶🏾

  • @joannejowie8825
    @joannejowie8825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I shud be sleeping ryt now but i jst finished yo last vlog🤣love you

  • @uniquelady1234
    @uniquelady1234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you guys x

  • @andrielokai7918
    @andrielokai7918 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you for answering my age gap question! 💓💓💓💓

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Of course!! 🥰🥰

  • @WassupItsAnna
    @WassupItsAnna 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love James Allen!!,I send my bf this site so he knows what to get lol.

  • @shayjohnson1114
    @shayjohnson1114 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this!!

  • @syd5831
    @syd5831 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What's the name of the song playing in the background?

  • @ashlimcfarlane6990
    @ashlimcfarlane6990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Girl not you starting this video like sumn happened Chille 😂😂😂😂

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i just turned the camera on and walked to the couch lol

  • @marianb2530
    @marianb2530 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't even find part one...you did not link it? I put in a search and movies came up?
    You know I think I saw a video you did awhile ago, and you were pretty upset about it... Was this the guy Jonathan?

  • @annie6891
    @annie6891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Weird. I was just talking about you.

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      here i ammm lol

    • @annie6891
      @annie6891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@OnlyOneJess Hey girl hey.

  • @dustynwilson236
    @dustynwilson236 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God literally used y’all’s first video about breaking up to confirm I should break up with my boyfriend, and later on that we’ll be unitied through dreams…etc.

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i LOVEEEEE this

    • @dustynwilson236
      @dustynwilson236 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OnlyOneJess thank you for sharing y’all’s story

  • @lovelife8968
    @lovelife8968 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's not about "feeling right." The thing is obedience to the Almighty.

  • @godsgirl7201
    @godsgirl7201 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good points

  • @leticiaalvarez97
    @leticiaalvarez97 ปีที่แล้ว

    How did God tell you he was your husband ?? Like the details around that

  • @MNIU_
    @MNIU_ ปีที่แล้ว

    Bre is the executive pastor 😅

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yesssssss my girl Jess ♥️

  • @quintinhudgens3329
    @quintinhudgens3329 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    he cut his hair!

  • @FieryPhoenixxx
    @FieryPhoenixxx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful couple

  • @SunsetsNIceream
    @SunsetsNIceream ปีที่แล้ว

    A year late but does anyone know the name of the background tract ?😊

  • @AdoseofAlana_
    @AdoseofAlana_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not me clicking here Hella fast

  • @queenk.w_williams
    @queenk.w_williams 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So true 👍

  • @LifebeingJie
    @LifebeingJie 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this

  • @NicoleB79
    @NicoleB79 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jessss sis 💙💙💙

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      hayyyy!

    • @NicoleB79
      @NicoleB79 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OnlyOneJess heyyyyy sis 💙💙

  • @yolandaanderson1842
    @yolandaanderson1842 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    # I Love y'all❤️💜

  • @stephtom1607
    @stephtom1607 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jess

  • @wiser0185
    @wiser0185 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jess I didn't even realize that yall both names start with J😊😉🙃, Ya see everyone is not so malicious😂🤣.
    Anyways what yall is saying is correct in a relationship u have to know wha God is tell u and listen to his voice cause the enemy can give u what u want and make u feel its God and then u living in hell for rest of your life.

  • @HolinessUntoTheLord.
    @HolinessUntoTheLord. ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Were you intimate with each other before you got married?
    & Is there a video on your testimony of how you came to Christ pls??

  • @DecemberJones4
    @DecemberJones4 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤

  • @stephj.4317
    @stephj.4317 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @tttoya2012
    @tttoya2012 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤