This was a lot of fun to watch. As a married woman of 21 years I have to say that Sex gets better with time. As you grow together your intimacy grows and pleasing each other comes naturally and easy. I hope you too keep smiling throughout your lifetime. Continue to keep God first and sacrifice for each other and no matter what happens it will be easier with your team.🥰
Thank you guys so much! This video has me a little nervous because it’s just not normal for people to be putting their marriage on display like this but I feel like there’s a bigger picture in all this and I’m just glad it’s helping and at least encouraging people, the comments you guys are leaving are really blessing meee! 🥹❤️ (and Jonathan as he scrolls through to make sure no one is being mean to me 😂😂)
You guys are so cute....I love Jonathan's mature responses. He sounds like he's ready to preach! Someone give him a Bible and a Pulpit 😅. Jess thanks for always keeping it real 💯. May God continue to Bless your marriage.
At almost 6 years married, my husband and I don't have any dedicated joint bank accounts. We are aware of what each other makes and saves and have access to each other's account (minus my vex money). We each are responsible for certain bills and we save separately. I am frugal fran and like to spend time at home, do cheap activities and stash the coins. Then, I splurge on a handful of things for US per year. My hubs like to socialize or be outdoors and when he is in the moment it's, "babe, let's do this or that. It only cost $50, $100..." As you know, this can add up. If we had joint savings, he would feel too comfortable about us having a decent cushion!! And if he was like me, we would never do much because all I would do is work, save, invest save save.This has worked out for us. I remember one time he was quaking because his entertainment savings was low and he wanted to do a trip!! And frugal fran was able to come through for her man!!! Similarly, I really wanted a particular bag and could not bring myself to buy it. That bag showed up and I use it every day!!! I love that you guys find what works for you!! That is what we learnt and what we do. We take advice but ultimately do what works for us. Congratulations on your first year of marriage!!
I’m a new married couple as well. Never compare your man to anyone. Also, try not to tit for tat or constantly complain about what he didn’t do right. Instead tell him what you would’ve liked instead. Ex: “Babe, I was really looking forward to seeing you and us both being excited to see each other and my hair, I was disappointed that didn’t happen.” We also believe it’s good to balance maintaining each others individuality and time together. I really like how Jonathan added on to submitting to each other because you’re a unit. Yes it says submit to your husband but we can’t all hyper focus on one verse we have to look at all the verses and how they come together as a whole for the bigger picture
I like the openness and the willingness to say out loud what your stumbling blocks were. Whew Chile marriage definitely ain’t for the weak, but it is rewarding all at the same time , especially when you’re with who you’re supposed to be with. Happy Anniversary.
Jesssss, you got yourself an amazing husband!!!!! Jonathan answers speak Christianity!!! This goes to say, marry a man that loves Jesus! I enjoyed this and didn’t want it to end😩
I really loved when Jonathan spoke about the submissive thing and what else the Bible says because NO ONE TALKS ABOUT THE REST OF IT 😂😂 People conveniently leave that part out lol I turned the volume up soooo loud so my boyfriend heard that part lol (he’s great but I like being right haha). But this was a good video and happy anniversary!
Awe Jess I am so happy for you. I started watching your channel when you had red hair and lived with your parents. You are such a beautiful person inside and out.
It’s such a blessing to see a young black married couple be real and you two gave some wonderful answers to all the questions I love watching you together I appreciate the fact that you include your hubby in your content love it love you Jess thank you sis 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Heavy on the "sometimes you just gotta go to bed"... Cause baby, you know I love you and I know you love me, let's just talk about it more in the morning. And I strongly believe rest can bring clarity, even to anger. ❤
It's Jess telling Jonathan he's not hip when she's older 🤣🤣🤣 I'm sitting here watching and feeling like y'all are my cousins 🥲 I love y'all so much. Cheers to many more happy times 🥂💫
Jess looks like a doll! She is so pretty! 🖤🖤🖤 This was cute! Remember as long as y’all communicate, and keep each other first you will be ok! 🖤🖤🖤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I thoroughly enjoyed this. I’m a extra introvert so I’m not going to write all of my feelings and commenting was hard enough but I think yall are great 😂. Praying for continued Blessings over your lives 🙏🏽🥰
I am so proud of you all… I believe the reason why you all so productive in marriage is because of relationships with God and your perspective ❤ You all rock and I’m super proud of your love and support of each other!!! #Blessed #FriendshipEnhanced
not me tearing up like i know y'all 🥲 i just love the honesty! y'all radiate God and your love for each other so effortlessly and i know that's because of sacrifice and work before the Jess and Jonathan we see today. y'all are (actually) one of my favorite couples to watch. you make me excited to get married and your honesty and transparency is helping me in my waiting for my person.
😭😭🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 thank you so much! There was definitely A LOT of work put in, I really wish we could tell y’all the FULL story of the mess we had right before we started dating, literally there was no hope in sight and we just found out that there were people taking bets on our relationship that we wouldn’t make it 😂 BUT GOD is all I can say at this point 😂
Thank you guys so much for your openness and vulnerability 🙏🏽 you don’t see too many Q&A videos of couples truly being open and real and it’s appreciated. May the good Lord continue to cover, bless and strengthen your union! ❤️
You're welcome. Watched the whole way through. Very insightful and entertaining. Also, didn't know u guys were in Florida. Love from Ft. Lauderdale. Great video!
This motivates me to move out on my own before meeting and marrying my husband, ignoring the advice of waiting till marriage to move out. God bless your marriage!❤
I always enjoy you guys together ! The love that you have for each other just shines through 💕 The snapped comment 😂😭😭 Praying that your marriage is continuously blessed ! Him singing at the end is me every video 😂
Lol thank you sis!! Did you watch that show too, I used to watch it with my mom but I had to stop because at night time I would be scared.. at my big age 😂😂
Man, I'm not even done with the video yet but all I can say is that my standards have shot through the roof. This is what I desire! A God centered union and I won't settle for anything less 🙌
Y’all made me think about literally dying to self in my current relationship with Christ alone, not even married yet. 🥴 Jess you are so gorgeous sis, physically and spiritually!! 🥴😍😍😍😍
Loved this! Perfect example of needing to be graced for your partner. Would love to hear and see Johnathan's perspective a bit more when it comes to shared experiences as he's such a gentleman in falling back so you can shine more. He's going to change a generation of husbands and fathers with his mature responses and Godly views! Praying greater sights and newer heights in your marriage!
Jessica!! We need to stop meeting like this cause you post every time I’m ready to watch a new OnlyOneJess video😭?!?!?! Are you reading my mind?! 🤔 💖💖💖
this encouraged me so much today, i LOVEE seeing how you both have grown in just committing your relationship to glorify God before & in marriage, JESS U R GORGEOUSS i can't wait to see all God will continue to do & will keep praying for u all been watching since 2017, hair & all!! as a single girl ur vids give me sm hope, love from ATL!!
Now I agree changing to a more private setting when it comes to kids. That really makes you vulnerable and more sensitive. The internet can be a dangerous and ugly environment so yea PROTECT YOUR KIDS hat ever gut feeling about safety take it
I was 3 months shy of my 23 birthday when I met my husband. Married a year later. We both were in the Army. We really knew nothing about each other. I wish I had someone like you guys to show me what we should’ve done. You two can teach by experience.
You guys are so precious!! Love your relationship ❤ also love the level of maturity you have to understand how communication is key to how you’re growing together ❤❤
definitely wasn't a stupid argument. i think most big arguments start with little things that pile up when our partners don't respond the way we want them to. so don't feel bad!
I really appreciate the real and raw about your relationship. People expect that as influencers, your lives are to be perfect, no arguments, no flaws like it’s ridiculous. So that’s why I really like your vlogs and other videos because of how natural you are. You act exactlyy how you are which is very genuine of you. Love it! Keep them vids comingg girl. But anyway congrats on your 1 year! Hubby and I makes 5 years on Saturday so we can relate to a lot of these. Keep on having God at the center and may he continue to bless you both!
Yes thank you for what you said about commenting on people’s weight! It definitely messed me up from so many people making comments. Words have power for sure.
Jess loved this marriage update! I love how you and Jonathan reflected on the small mistakes on your marriage and how to improve them. It’s always good to self reflect. Jonathan’s answers were very mature and thought provoking. Loved how he addressed the comment section, that shows he’s a good protector. May your marriage be forever blessed and y’all’s love continue to grow and flourish! ❤❤❤ My husband doesn’t like to kiss me when I have lipgloss on either, lol.
You two are so beautiful it's bursting my heart full of joy 😊 You have no idea how happy i am yo see a marriage based on God! I love Yall so so much yall are just so beautiful together May God continue to bless your union 💗
You guys are soo wholesome I almost creid!!! I feel like we're friends! I smiled alllll the way through! Informative, entertaining. YES! I had soooo much fun watching this!!!
I love both of you so much 🥰❤️ Jess, thank you for warning other women to never compare their man to others and for taking correction immediately 🤗❤️ May the Almighty God continue to uphold your beautiful home ijn 🙏🏾❤️
Yea that’s my biggest tip ladies! Because first of all everything is definitely not what it seems so we don’t even really know what we’re comparing our situation to. Thank you so much! 🤍🤍
Hii Jess i really like you guys honestly you made me cry because I am not doing a good job as my husband wife ....so thanks for the encouragement and God bless you guys ❤
I love you guys please be careful what you share with us. Jess and Johnathan everyone is nor happy for you guys. And they will use the information you give them to try and mess up your union! I been on your journey for where you are now and I want the best for you too. Love you both!
Thank you loveee! And I know I know I cut half the argument segment out cuz I was like oh nah we sharing too much but people are always going to find something to be negative about even if we only shared the good parts. But sharing only the good parts doesn’t help people, we staying prayed up over here though 🥰❤️❤️ we love y’all 😭🤍
I absolutely love to see the young couples giving nuggets! You guys are off to a great start keep alining your marriage with Christ. I've been married for almost 16 amazing years and we are still in love and he's still my bestie🥰 I'm just so happy for you guys! Awesome video!💕
I agree . People told us never go to bed angry but not all issues can be sorted out fast its takes discussion and sometimes its late at night and it's time to sleep so deal with it the next day
Thank you so much for taking us on this journey with you guys. You guys made me smile from beginning to end. A true love story. Keeping god first & being obedien look what happens. I am so happy the both of you waited & found each other early. Love it!! ❤❤❤
This man went through the process with Jesus first. Wow Jonathan and Jess , you inspire me. The Bible says that you know them by their fruit, and Jonathan is a true man of God. This is a Kingdom couple. God bless you!
Y’all are such a cute couple! It’s so nice to see your growth together. It’s v motivating to see young black couples who are invested in eachother and doing the work to grow! I can see how you make eachother better people!! Sending you love and many blessings! Congratulations on your first year of marriage! 💗
Jessssssss!!! The way I hollered when you said “have you ever seen the show snapped?” 😂😂😂 I have a feeling Jonathan is gonna come in a couple days and say “you know I was upset w you/you hurt my feelings the other day” 😅😂😂 You two are so funny. May God continue to bless your marriage.
I love this!!! Im so glad God has a hand in your marriage as well you guys got work out everything before y'all got married. It's truly a blessing! To blissful blessed forever!
Happy Anniversary you too!!! I absolutely loved this video. Your love for each other shines through the screen!!! I pray that the Lord continues to bless your marriage for years and decades to come. I always admire your smiles and how natural it comes, you can tell that you all truly love to be around each other. Last thing, the way Jess looks at Jonathan🥹🥹 God really blessed you both! Last thing, I really like some of the things you guys said. I feel like I can definitely take away things to help improve my own relationship, so thanks
Jonathan needs to get on his zoooom (in terms of knowing what the term means💀) Jesssssssss, u been on your zoom!!! Because why we got 3 vids back to backkkkk, we love it hereeee! Y’all are so refreshing. I love how you both interact and love and care for each other. It’s so refreshing to see especially because I’m going through it right now😭 love to see it🖤 also, i grew up in the church🥲 all my life they clowned me that I was too skinny, seh mi need fi eat more🙄 now mi gain di likkle weight and them feel comfortable fi comment on it. Smh. Like Jonathan said they need to wrap that up.
I felt this as someone who was skinny and then gained weight people make you feel less than because of your outer appearance like I’m still growing my body is going to change I don’t need people making me feel bad about that.
Let me be the first to remind errbody how long it took Jess to clean her bdroom at her parent's house🤣🤣 This video was sooooo fun and insightful. LOVE yall!!❤️ I love how pleasing God is important to you both. CONGRATS on a smooth year one. Podcast name: No longer one!! Jess & Jonathan...doing life... 2gether
Jess...I can't believe you aren't a Sagittarius...because MAN you sound JUST LIKE ME through the entire video 😂 Marriage is beautiful but it gets rocky trying to "become one". The part where you said you felt unappreciated because he didnt say anything about your hair had me on the floor because that sounds like ME. Like boy, COME ON you better love on me EVERYTIME you see me and appreciate what God put in front of you 😂 I love yaw, every answer you guys gave is normal. Ive been married 5 years. Been there. You guys are doing great. I also have had a hard time accepting the weight gain as we REALLY become women (i'll be 30 this year) and our bodies change. I kept getting stuck on being tiny as I was all through my early 20s. I finally lost about 23 pounds, got 7 more to go. I learned, if YOU dont like it, you have to start working on it now. Dont wait until youre extremely uncomfortable with it then get sad or depressed. Youre beautiful regardless of the weight gain, it actually looks nice on you sis but if you dont like it just actively work to change it. Jonathan is very level headed to be his age. Im so happy for you both.
Lolll I’m a Capricorn but we sound like we’re on the same page sis 😂 I DONT CARE if you told me over the phone you see my in person now you better say it again and with the same exact enthusiasm 😂😂😂 but I’m please sis spill the tea on the weight gain. I just want to lose it in my stomach and my back lol thank you for this comment 🥰❤️
@@OnlyOneJess Darn it 😂 well either way it goes, it explains why I've enjoyed your channel for so long lol As far as the weight loss- work out 3-4 days per week. Hour jog/walk, stomach exercises, push ups and glute work outs on what ever day you feel like doing each and I fasted for a week. I only ate once every 24 hours, usually around 8/9pm. I'm a "love to eat" type, so when I'd feel like I was about to cave, I'd eat fruit, crackers, small things to satisfy my craving but wouldn't make me feel heavy. Stomach work outs, glute work outs for at least 30 minutes to an hour). It's easy to do. When you watch TV- work out too.
Chile they sharing a lot yall better not act up in these comments
So far so good but I know it soon come 😂😂
I can tell that you guys are putting God first in this marriage. So far so good. God's continued blessings on your marriage
Thank you!! 🥰❤️❤️
This was a lot of fun to watch. As a married woman of 21 years I have to say that Sex gets better with time. As you grow together your intimacy grows and pleasing each other comes naturally and easy. I hope you too keep smiling throughout your lifetime. Continue to keep God first and sacrifice for each other and no matter what happens it will be easier with your team.🥰
That is exciting to hear that even 21 years later the sexy time is still poppinnn, I feel like most people say otherwise 😭 thank you!! 🥰
10yrs and I agree❤
@adrieisms 15 yrs and I approve this message 👏 👌 👍🏾 😊❤
26 years of marriage, and I totally agree!
You guys were awesome. I smiled all the way through. It’s evident that you have a happy marriage and it’s maturing beautifully. God Bless!
Thank you guys so much! This video has me a little nervous because it’s just not normal for people to be putting their marriage on display like this but I feel like there’s a bigger picture in all this and I’m just glad it’s helping and at least encouraging people, the comments you guys are leaving are really blessing meee! 🥹❤️ (and Jonathan as he scrolls through to make sure no one is being mean to me 😂😂)
You guys are so cute....I love Jonathan's mature responses. He sounds like he's ready to preach! Someone give him a Bible and a Pulpit 😅. Jess thanks for always keeping it real 💯. May God continue to Bless your marriage.
😂😂 I could not agree with you more. He’s ready, he’s just waiting on the opportunity
At almost 6 years married, my husband and I don't have any dedicated joint bank accounts. We are aware of what each other makes and saves and have access to each other's account (minus my vex money). We each are responsible for certain bills and we save separately. I am frugal fran and like to spend time at home, do cheap activities and stash the coins. Then, I splurge on a handful of things for US per year. My hubs like to socialize or be outdoors and when he is in the moment it's, "babe, let's do this or that. It only cost $50, $100..." As you know, this can add up. If we had joint savings, he would feel too comfortable about us having a decent cushion!! And if he was like me, we would never do much because all I would do is work, save, invest save save.This has worked out for us.
I remember one time he was quaking because his entertainment savings was low and he wanted to do a trip!! And frugal fran was able to come through for her man!!! Similarly, I really wanted a particular bag and could not bring myself to buy it. That bag showed up and I use it every day!!!
I love that you guys find what works for you!! That is what we learnt and what we do. We take advice but ultimately do what works for us. Congratulations on your first year of marriage!!
@@reinellepeters2062 gotta have the vex money 😂😂 but I love that, doing what’s best for you guys and having each others backs in the process! 😍
Man, y’all give me hope. I love seeing healthy black couples having fun and continuing to grow together 🥰 Both of your smiles are infectious!
🥹🥹🥹 thank you sis! I want healthy relationships for all my girls and guys! You deserve the best ❤️
I’m a new married couple as well. Never compare your man to anyone. Also, try not to tit for tat or constantly complain about what he didn’t do right. Instead tell him what you would’ve liked instead. Ex: “Babe, I was really looking forward to seeing you and us both being excited to see each other and my hair, I was disappointed that didn’t happen.” We also believe it’s good to balance maintaining each others individuality and time together. I really like how Jonathan added on to submitting to each other because you’re a unit. Yes it says submit to your husband but we can’t all hyper focus on one verse we have to look at all the verses and how they come together as a whole for the bigger picture
Yes agreed!! 💗💗
I like the openness and the willingness to say out loud what your stumbling blocks were. Whew Chile marriage definitely ain’t for the weak, but it is rewarding all at the same time , especially when you’re with who you’re supposed to be with. Happy Anniversary.
Jesssss, you got yourself an amazing husband!!!!! Jonathan answers speak Christianity!!! This goes to say, marry a man that loves Jesus!
I enjoyed this and didn’t want it to end😩
Ah thank you!!! 🥹💗💗💗
YES!!! Marry a man that LOVES JESUS 😩🙏🏾
I’m not even halfway through your video and I’m so proud of you two. You guys are so good.
Thank you so much 🥰❤️
I really loved when Jonathan spoke about the submissive thing and what else the Bible says because NO ONE TALKS ABOUT THE REST OF IT 😂😂 People conveniently leave that part out lol I turned the volume up soooo loud so my boyfriend heard that part lol (he’s great but I like being right haha). But this was a good video and happy anniversary!
Hahahah yes ma’am remind him 😂
I'm glad he mentioned it too because I didnt even know that was apart of that verse. I'll definitely be mentioning it till the day I die lol
Awe Jess I am so happy for you. I started watching your channel when you had red hair and lived with your parents. You are such a beautiful person inside and out.
Woahhh, that was a fun time too lol you a real one 🥹❤️❤️
@@OnlyOneJess ❤❤❤
It’s such a blessing to see a young black married couple be real and you two gave some wonderful answers to all the questions I love watching you together I appreciate the fact that you include your hubby in your content love it love you Jess thank you sis 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Heavy on the "sometimes you just gotta go to bed"... Cause baby, you know I love you and I know you love me, let's just talk about it more in the morning. And I strongly believe rest can bring clarity, even to anger. ❤
Yesss absolutely like we locked in I ain’t going no where but I am going to sleep though 😂
Congrats to you and Jonathan on your first year! I’m almost 6 years into my marriage and y’all gave me some things my husband and I can work on
It's Jess telling Jonathan he's not hip when she's older 🤣🤣🤣 I'm sitting here watching and feeling like y'all are my cousins 🥲 I love y'all so much. Cheers to many more happy times 🥂💫
Your not playing with giving us the videos. I was binge watching you last night with my boyfriend.
Tryna give y’all the content you deserve lol
Jess looks like a doll! She is so pretty! 🖤🖤🖤
This was cute! Remember as long as y’all communicate, and keep each other first you will be ok! 🖤🖤🖤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I thoroughly enjoyed this. I’m a extra introvert so I’m not going to write all of my feelings and commenting was hard enough but I think yall are great 😂. Praying for continued Blessings over your lives 🙏🏽🥰
😂😂😂 I client relate to you more sis 😂 thank you so much! 💗💗
It’s so beautiful to watch you guys!! Thank you for sharing your life with us Jess! Honestly the only vlogs I watch on here, I love them!! 🥰
😭😭😭😭 thank you for supporting me 🥰🥰💗
I am so proud of you all… I believe the reason why you all so productive in marriage is because of relationships with God and your perspective ❤
You all rock and I’m super proud of your love and support of each other!!! #Blessed #FriendshipEnhanced
Awwww. I love the way Jonathan looks at you. This is one of the best couple Q&A ive seen
Ah thank you!! 🥰💗💗
I love how transparent you guys are ❤ felt like i was listening to my friends. 😂 Praying for the greatest blessings to you both & your relationship ❤️
not me tearing up like i know y'all 🥲 i just love the honesty! y'all radiate God and your love for each other so effortlessly and i know that's because of sacrifice and work before the Jess and Jonathan we see today. y'all are (actually) one of my favorite couples to watch. you make me excited to get married and your honesty and transparency is helping me in my waiting for my person.
😭😭🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 thank you so much! There was definitely A LOT of work put in, I really wish we could tell y’all the FULL story of the mess we had right before we started dating, literally there was no hope in sight and we just found out that there were people taking bets on our relationship that we wouldn’t make it 😂 BUT GOD is all I can say at this point 😂
Thank you guys so much for your openness and vulnerability 🙏🏽 you don’t see too many Q&A videos of couples truly being open and real and it’s appreciated. May the good Lord continue to cover, bless and strengthen your union! ❤️
Awww yall so cute. A lot of fun to watch. Happy anniversary.
Thank you so much 🤗
You're welcome. Watched the whole way through. Very insightful and entertaining. Also, didn't know u guys were in Florida. Love from Ft. Lauderdale. Great video!
This motivates me to move out on my own before meeting and marrying my husband, ignoring the advice of waiting till marriage to move out. God bless your marriage!❤
I always enjoy you guys together ! The love that you have for each other just shines through 💕
The snapped comment 😂😭😭
Praying that your marriage is continuously blessed !
Him singing at the end is me every video 😂
Lol thank you sis!! Did you watch that show too, I used to watch it with my mom but I had to stop because at night time I would be scared.. at my big age 😂😂
@@OnlyOneJess you’re welcome!
I still do but only during the day time cause at night I be all anxious lol
Man, I'm not even done with the video yet but all I can say is that my standards have shot through the roof. This is what I desire! A God centered union and I won't settle for anything less 🙌
Yessss!! I really really love that for you! 🥰💗💗
Y’all made me think about literally dying to self in my current relationship with Christ alone, not even married yet. 🥴 Jess you are so gorgeous sis, physically and spiritually!! 🥴😍😍😍😍
I love watching y’all together. The good, the bad either way I appreciate what you share ❤
Loved this! Perfect example of needing to be graced for your partner. Would love to hear and see Johnathan's perspective a bit more when it comes to shared experiences as he's such a gentleman in falling back so you can shine more. He's going to change a generation of husbands and fathers with his mature responses and Godly views! Praying greater sights and newer heights in your marriage!
Your YT peeps must be acting right cause we getting blessed y’all!
Jessica!! We need to stop meeting like this cause you post every time I’m ready to watch a new OnlyOneJess video😭?!?!?! Are you reading my mind?! 🤔 💖💖💖
😂😂😂 it’s the great minds thinking alike lol
this encouraged me so much today, i LOVEE seeing how you both have grown in just committing your relationship to glorify God before & in marriage, JESS U R GORGEOUSS i can't wait to see all God will continue to do & will keep praying for u all been watching since 2017, hair & all!! as a single girl ur vids give me sm hope, love from ATL!!
the ending with yall singing the song and you actually playing the song, kinda broke all of our necks collectively. you killed it.
😂😂😂 I ljj on be y’all so much man 😭💗💗
Now I agree changing to a more private setting when it comes to kids. That really makes you vulnerable and more sensitive. The internet can be a dangerous and ugly environment so yea PROTECT YOUR KIDS hat ever gut feeling about safety take it
Yes people are WEIRD out here 😭 they always ruin simple innocent things.
I was 3 months shy of my 23 birthday when I met my husband. Married a year later. We both were in the Army. We really knew nothing about each other. I wish I had someone like you guys to show me what we should’ve done. You two can teach by experience.
Jess you've made my night with this video after my late shift!!!🥳🥰
You guys are so precious!! Love your relationship ❤ also love the level of maturity you have to understand how communication is key to how you’re growing together ❤❤
Two of my favorite married couples on TH-cam..Jess & Jonathan and Vicky & Cam 🤭🤭 y’all make my heart smile so big ❤️ ❤
This was such a joy to watch! Happy Anniversary! Many blessings to you both, and may your marriage continue to blossom beautifully 🥰❤🙏🏽✝️
You both have such a sweet spirit! I love that you place God at the center of your marriage. I pray God continues to bless your union 🙏🏾
Not me tearing up when it ended ❤️❤️
Happy Anniversary again!! 🎉🎉
definitely wasn't a stupid argument. i think most big arguments start with little things that pile up when our partners don't respond the way we want them to. so don't feel bad!
I really appreciate the real and raw about your relationship. People expect that as influencers, your lives are to be perfect, no arguments, no flaws like it’s ridiculous. So that’s why I really like your vlogs and other videos because of how natural you are. You act exactlyy how you are which is very genuine of you. Love it! Keep them vids comingg girl.
But anyway congrats on your 1 year!
Hubby and I makes 5 years on Saturday so we can relate to a lot of these. Keep on having God at the center and may he continue to bless you both!
😭😭😭😭 thank youuu I appreciate that so much 🥰🥰. Whew 5 years! Got any tips for me? Lol
@@OnlyOneJess Girl lots! 🤣🤣🤣
Congratulations on a beautiful one year anniversary!!! Stay prayerful and keep God first. God bless your union.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you!! 🥰🥰🤍
I pray that your marriage lasts forever! Love you guys loads🙏❤️ Blessings 💞!
Aww🥰 Y’all are such a beautiful couple. Happy 1st Anniversary
I really love you two❤transparency at its best. Happy anniversary
Happy Anniversary. Everything y’all are saying is normal marriage stuff! Keep up the good work
Okay good my married friends get me lol thank you!
Yes thank you for what you said about commenting on people’s weight! It definitely messed me up from so many people making comments. Words have power for sure.
Jess loved this marriage update! I love how you and Jonathan reflected on the small mistakes on your marriage and how to improve them. It’s always good to self reflect. Jonathan’s answers were very mature and thought provoking. Loved how he addressed the comment section, that shows he’s a good protector. May your marriage be forever blessed and y’all’s love continue to grow and flourish! ❤❤❤ My husband doesn’t like to kiss me when I have lipgloss on either, lol.
You two are so beautiful it's bursting my heart full of joy 😊 You have no idea how happy i am yo see a marriage based on God! I love Yall so so much yall are just so beautiful together May God continue to bless your union 💗
😭😭😭 thank you so much!
You guys are soo wholesome I almost creid!!! I feel like we're friends! I smiled alllll the way through! Informative, entertaining. YES! I had soooo much fun watching this!!!
The way you look at him Jess 🥺🫶🏾
Definitely about to watch this with my fiancé right now!
I love both of you so much 🥰❤️ Jess, thank you for warning other women to never compare their man to others and for taking correction immediately 🤗❤️ May the Almighty God continue to uphold your beautiful home ijn 🙏🏾❤️
Yea that’s my biggest tip ladies! Because first of all everything is definitely not what it seems so we don’t even really know what we’re comparing our situation to. Thank you so much! 🤍🤍
I love you both, happy 1 year anniversary ❤
Not even half way through and yessss come through Jonathan being the protective husband! Loveee to see it!! I love y’all ❤️🥰
YOU GUYS LOOKS GREAT TOGETHER. CONTINUE GROWING TOGETHER AND KEEP GOD IN YOUR MARRIAGE.
I love y’all ❤ Happy anniversary and May God continue to bless your union
Hii Jess i really like you guys honestly you made me cry because I am not doing a good job as my husband wife ....so thanks for the encouragement and God bless you guys ❤
Ah thank you! And it’s okay sis everyday is a new opportunity to put your best foot forward. We’re all in this together 🥰❤️
If you guys start a pod cast that would be awesome.
I love you guys please be careful what you share with us. Jess and Johnathan everyone is nor happy for you guys. And they will use the information you give them to try and mess up your union! I been on your journey for where you are now and I want the best for you too. Love you both!
Thank you loveee! And I know I know I cut half the argument segment out cuz I was like oh nah we sharing too much but people are always going to find something to be negative about even if we only shared the good parts. But sharing only the good parts doesn’t help people, we staying prayed up over here though 🥰❤️❤️ we love y’all 😭🤍
@OnlyOneJess Awwww your welcome love.
Here for it!!! Thank you!! Keep walking in the favor of God!!♥️🙏🏾
We will! Thank you! 💗
I’m so happy for you Jess, may God continue blessing you both and being the center of your relationship ❤
Thank you sisss! 🤍🤍
I absolutely love to see the young couples giving nuggets! You guys are off to a great start keep alining your marriage with Christ. I've been married for almost 16 amazing years and we are still in love and he's still my bestie🥰 I'm just so happy for you guys! Awesome video!💕
you look so refreshed and happy Jess! and all this content lately?? cmon queen!
Haha thank youuu 🥰🥰
Lemme go grab my husband 😂
Sis make sure you stick up for me if he start taking my husbands side 😂😂
@@OnlyOneJessGreat video but I'mma need u to play the WHOLE intro song.. EVERY TIME ❤
@@ashleywoodford3857 lol I’m sorry I’m sorry 😂
@elephant_Locs 😂😂😂😂
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Y'all are so cute😊 I was smiling the whole time😂😂😂
I love this Jess! I’m one month into my marriage 🥰 This is truly helpful
Beautiful Couple...May God Continue to Bless this Union!!
I agree . People told us never go to bed angry but not all issues can be sorted out fast its takes discussion and sometimes its late at night and it's time to sleep so deal with it the next day
Thank you so much for taking us on this journey with you guys. You guys made me smile from beginning to end. A true love story. Keeping god first & being obedien look what happens. I am so happy the both of you waited & found each other early. Love it!! ❤❤❤
This man went through the process with Jesus first. Wow Jonathan and Jess , you inspire me. The Bible says that you know them by their fruit, and Jonathan is a true man of God. This is a Kingdom couple. God bless you!
Y’all are such a cute couple! It’s so nice to see your growth together. It’s v motivating to see young black couples who are invested in eachother and doing the work to grow! I can see how you make eachother better people!! Sending you love and many blessings! Congratulations on your first year of marriage! 💗
I love how candid you were in this video! You guys were so transparent and adorable. Such thoughtful and intelligent human beings. ❤❤❤❤
I love this. Keep smiling/laughing and playing together ❤
Even if I don’t have time to watch the full video I open it & like it that’s how heavy I rock wit you Jess 🩵
Wowwww, you a real one FOR REAL lol thank you sis! 💗💗
Jessssssss!!! The way I hollered when you said “have you ever seen the show snapped?” 😂😂😂
I have a feeling Jonathan is gonna come in a couple days and say “you know I was upset w you/you hurt my feelings the other day” 😅😂😂
You two are so funny. May God continue to bless your marriage.
I love this!!! Im so glad God has a hand in your marriage as well you guys got work out everything before y'all got married. It's truly a blessing! To blissful blessed forever!
I am super duper happy for the both of you ! 💕 🎉 BIG HUGE CONGRATULATIONS 🎊 ❤
That was such a beautiful episode. I smiled with y’all so much. ❤ I’ve been married for 16 months now.
Happy Anniversary you too!!! I absolutely loved this video. Your love for each other shines through the screen!!! I pray that the Lord continues to bless your marriage for years and decades to come. I always admire your smiles and how natural it comes, you can tell that you all truly love to be around each other. Last thing, the way Jess looks at Jonathan🥹🥹 God really blessed you both!
Last thing, I really like some of the things you guys said. I feel like I can definitely take away things to help improve my own relationship, so thanks
thank you sooooooo so much!!! I love him lol and im so glad this video was helpful in any way!
This was so awesome, blessed, gave me all the feels and I am so happy for you both. What God put together let no man put asunder. ❤
Jonathan needs to get on his zoooom (in terms of knowing what the term means💀) Jesssssssss, u been on your zoom!!! Because why we got 3 vids back to backkkkk, we love it hereeee! Y’all are so refreshing. I love how you both interact and love and care for each other. It’s so refreshing to see especially because I’m going through it right now😭 love to see it🖤 also, i grew up in the church🥲 all my life they clowned me that I was too skinny, seh mi need fi eat more🙄 now mi gain di likkle weight and them feel comfortable fi comment on it. Smh. Like Jonathan said they need to wrap that up.
Podcast: Holiness over Comfortability 🤔 cause y’all been saying that from the dayyyy we met Jonathan and y’all stuck by it🙌🏾🙌🏾
I felt this as someone who was skinny and then gained weight people make you feel less than because of your outer appearance like I’m still growing my body is going to change I don’t need people making me feel bad about that.
@@rinaj1604 exactly! I think it’s just so inappropriate to comment on people’s body’s smh
@@rinaj1604 right
been watching you for 6 years and girlll when i say you are like a sister figure for me!! so happy for you my love💗
Jonathan is so wise, wow!
He really is, that’s what caught my attention from the beginning 🥹🥹💗
The distance between FLL and MIA is insane 😩
Thanks for doing this Q&A! I appreciate y’all’s openness and realness
Happy Anniversary 🎉🥂. Good video! 🥰
Congratulations on your 1 year anniversary, may God continue to watch over your many years to come by His grace. I love watching y’all!❤️
Thanks for sharing. I pray my kids have relationships like yours when they pick their mates. Y’all are a beautiful couple. ❤
jess laugh is my favorite, its so contagious.
Let me be the first to remind errbody how long it took Jess to clean her bdroom at her parent's house🤣🤣
This video was sooooo fun and insightful. LOVE yall!!❤️ I love how pleasing God is important to you both. CONGRATS on a smooth year one.
Podcast name: No longer one!! Jess & Jonathan...doing life... 2gether
the way they look at each other when they talk is so cute
edit to add: the podcast name should be "The Love Of Jess and Jon"
They are so beautiful! May God bless their relationship to flourish even more. Wow. ❤️
You two are absolutely adorable! Happy Anniversary 🎉
Thank you!! 😊
Jess...I can't believe you aren't a Sagittarius...because MAN you sound JUST LIKE ME through the entire video 😂 Marriage is beautiful but it gets rocky trying to "become one". The part where you said you felt unappreciated because he didnt say anything about your hair had me on the floor because that sounds like ME. Like boy, COME ON you better love on me EVERYTIME you see me and appreciate what God put in front of you 😂 I love yaw, every answer you guys gave is normal. Ive been married 5 years. Been there. You guys are doing great.
I also have had a hard time accepting the weight gain as we REALLY become women (i'll be 30 this year) and our bodies change. I kept getting stuck on being tiny as I was all through my early 20s. I finally lost about 23 pounds, got 7 more to go. I learned, if YOU dont like it, you have to start working on it now. Dont wait until youre extremely uncomfortable with it then get sad or depressed. Youre beautiful regardless of the weight gain, it actually looks nice on you sis but if you dont like it just actively work to change it.
Jonathan is very level headed to be his age. Im so happy for you both.
Lolll I’m a Capricorn but we sound like we’re on the same page sis 😂 I DONT CARE if you told me over the phone you see my in person now you better say it again and with the same exact enthusiasm 😂😂😂 but I’m please sis spill the tea on the weight gain. I just want to lose it in my stomach and my back lol thank you for this comment 🥰❤️
@@OnlyOneJess Darn it 😂 well either way it goes, it explains why I've enjoyed your channel for so long lol
As far as the weight loss- work out 3-4 days per week. Hour jog/walk, stomach exercises, push ups and glute work outs on what ever day you feel like doing each and I fasted for a week. I only ate once every 24 hours, usually around 8/9pm. I'm a "love to eat" type, so when I'd feel like I was about to cave, I'd eat fruit, crackers, small things to satisfy my craving but wouldn't make me feel heavy. Stomach work outs, glute work outs for at least 30 minutes to an hour). It's easy to do. When you watch TV- work out too.
@@LDavis1293 bless youuuu lol ima attempt this fasting thing but whew. We gon see 😂