rose dickerson Mental health days are a MUST for me. Dont sleep on that! I think it benefits others jus as much as it does me. Otherwise Im miss tic-tic-boom...I turn in to the Hulk real quick & w/ minimum provocation.
Hey Shirley, I totally agree, detoxing your life and mental well-being is very important. Although, I do shows all over the county and do events, I must remind myself weekly to focus on my well-being and mental health.
Be careful not to cut out people just because u dont like what they say to you. I feel like some ppl may misinterpret what she said about toxic ppl. Toxic people dont want u to grow while true friends encourage u but also hold u accountable when u do things that aren't right. Those people can help u avoid sometimes irreversible consequences
Detoxing is very good for the soul! I recently started a journal where I have 4 questions: 1) What inspirational quote or saying did I hear or read? 2) What did I learn today? 3) What did I do for someone today? 4) What did I do for myself today? The most important thing I've leaned about keeping a journal like this is not to stress out about answering every question (some days I won't see a quote or I'll forget to do something for myself). Thanks for letting me share. Have a great day everyone!! :)
very classy and well spoken. You are such an inspiration. I wish I lived near London women of color seem so different where you are. I love your class and structure. I live in America and to be honest I'm not use to seeing women of color so classy and clean the mentality here is defiantly deferent. Your amazing to watch.
Journaling really is therapeutic. I've been doing a lot of it in the little notebook you sent me. Negative Nancy's really are the absolute worst and it's good to know when to let them go.
I'm currently doing the same thing in my life. Moved from Maryland to Las Vegas last year and I'm literally starting over from scratch. It's great to know that I'm not the only person doing a detox in their life. Thanks for the constant inspiration. Toya
This is exactly what I need. Lately, I've realized I have been TOO stressed and it shows in my health and overall mood. I actually ended up at the hospital recently, YIKES! In the days since then I've been taking it easy and focusing on positive me time and I just feel amazing in comparison. This vid helps loads. Your hair is absolutely GORGEOUS like this btw!!! :)
Thanks for sharing! This is where I am at right now with my life. I am finally focusing on me. I'm working towards becoming a better me. I'm taking out all the negative and only inviting positive. I listen positive messages daily. I listen to sermons, motivational speakers, meditate etc. I hated myself for so many years. God had to show me this is not healthy and the He loves me. Stop putting people before yourself, it's good to help but don't forget about yourself. I use to help everyone and say that I was alright. I clearly wasn't. My mind is being renewed. I flood my mind with everything positive! I look in the mirror now and I all I feel is love for myself. I'm glad I'm not on this journey by myself. I'm detoxing my mind, circle, environment and body!
Love this, I found myself in the middle of a detox not too long ago that I didn't realize was happening until it was over lol. It's like the spirits moved me to cleanse & clarify my life. It.s an awesome feeling!
Welcome back Hun! Was just about to sleep and ta-dahhhh new vid from you so now I'm up lol. Yasssss to the negative ppl reference. Recently even more ppl had to be shipped away - forever negative about ideas,life,goals etc and unsupportive. I won't allow negative vibes within my surroundings - bye Felicia 😂 You're looking even more fab than usual. Hope life's good. X
Thank you so much for this video. I just finished my first year of college in May, and found that many "friends" were just no longer assets to my life. I have been questioning whether or not I should let them go in my life, but this video really confirmed it. Thank You Shirley! xoxo
So happy I watched this! I just graduated,class of 2014 and I let go allot of friends. Either them not liking what I do or being the word everyone loves to use "fake". It's been awhile now and it's time for me to move on! Thank you for the video and things are looking to be good now in my life!
I love this angle, the video quality is amazing!! And this video couldn't have come at a better time for me. The journal point is so valid, writing things down helps me manage my thoughts, they're so useful
This was very encouraging. I began detoxing my life last week, and a dramatic change has happened since then; I'm loving my life right now. Great video, and thanks for confirming that it's ok to remove yourself every so often :)
Glad you're back, Shirley! Tell me something, your makeup on this tutorial-can you do a video or share what products you used. I'm particularly interested in your foundation! Your face is glowing! Pretty!
Welcome Back SHIRLEY! You are right on time. Im definitely in space in life where I feel like im on a negative nancy "rat wheel". Well I don't want a pity party, I just needed a starting space and I believe your tips are just that! :-) Thanks :-)
I'm about to go to uni in sep/oct (fingers crossed) and I am so ready to say goodbye to so many people. I feel like certain friendships just run their course & it's okay to let go. (Btw I love the lipstick!)
Hey Shirley! Youre the only youtuber who speaks so elegantly about making life progress! Can you please make a video dedicated to how you can make the most of your single days and how to be happy in the process of finding a man who loves you? Thank you!!
Thank you for this video Shirley. I feel like every single word you said it's kind of coming from me and speaks up through you... Weird but it's exactly how I feel. You are one of my top inspirations from a long time ago. Keep doing what you're doing gorgeous!!
Shirley B. Eniang Thats actually a REALLY good idea. My BFF & I have both been trying to figure out an organized way to detox our wardrobes. That would totally work. Thx!
Love you video about detoxing your life. Everyone needs to cleanse their mind, body, and soul every now and then; since it's so easy to get caught up with everyday life. I started my detox last October and it was the best decision I've made. Still a working progress but life as of right now is clear and peaceful. Negativity really does cloud your judgement.
I think this is great advise! I believe that everyone needs those moments or few days, to essentially "get their shit together" haha Great content again Shirley! I look forward to more videos from you :)
Would love to see you doing a video where you show how to build your wardrobe. statement pieces, must haves, what to invest in (quality clothes) and what not (primark stuff), color choices etc
Long time no see, Shirley! So glad your back after your little break - sometimes everybody needs a break. Missed you loads and this video was so helpful xxx
Shirley, if I remember correctly, you are a Maths major. I would love for you to do a video about why you chose that, and what your career plans/aspirations are. Thumbs up if you guys agree.
Absolutely gorgeous! Missed ya...I can so relate to detoxing from people. My friend always says "you have to find the good in goodbyes"...lol and that is so true
welcome back darling, you really look amazing this detox has help you! I have also planed to detox my life and have started last Monday so i'm happy seeing this vid, will help me!! love you so much
I totally agree with the fact that u need to get rid of toxic people coz it's true that they really make u feel drained. It does get hard to get rid of people who were really close but it's better than putting up with their negativity, especially when they question things u do, etc.
Shirley I really liked this video. I def. agree with this! I always make sure to detox when people are being toxic or negative. It def. helps me a lot.
Thanks beauty. This video was right on time and just what I needed. I'm in the process of moving to another state, and don't want to take any toxicity with me. You have inspired me to do my very own life detox, and I'm going to follow through with NO regrets! Peace, love and blessings to you :-)
Haven't seen you for ages. You still look amazing. I'm glad you're back. And you what, your brand new video was the thing that I needed to here right now, cause I'm in a place where I'm down all the time because of some people. Hearing you saying those things help me for real. And I was thinking of doing this kind of stuff for a minute.. thank you for everything. Keep doing what you're doing. I'm looking forward to see your next video. Naiy
Thank you Shirley, this video came right on time. These type of videos are very inspirational. You are very beautiful inside and out. Can't wait for more videos.
Thank you Shirley you motivated me to start my detox I think I need one. I agree with you letting go of negative friends pays of, I had to let go of one even though its not easy but once done you become a better person.
Hey, an Amen on the third point. November 2012 I got rid of a WHOLE heap of people. You'd be amazed at how many people are blocking the blessings in your life. Onwards and upwards!
Oh!!! You just Made My day. It's been a very stressfull and bad year for me and this video just made me look at all of the shit thats been going on from another perspective and it made me sooo happy!! this video just helped me alot!! Thank you and lots of love from Sweden!
Video was both uplifting and awesome. The detoxing that you have been doing shows up in your spirit through this video!! You are very beautiful,and I thank God for your message. God bless you!!Keep striving.... God has greater in store for you!!!
Love this video!! I'm currently going through a life detox myself. It feels like It's taking a long time, but I'm looking forward to the results to come!
First of all, you are so beautiful and secondly the third tips explain exactly what i'm living now, i had an argument with one of my best friend last week, i felt terribly sad but i thought and noticed she was so negative, she spend her to blame, or criticize me, i don't need that in my life, i just need to be happy.
yaaay I'm glad you're back, I missed you. I enjoyed this video a lot of the things you said made sense. I'll be moving soon so hopefully I can take these steps and benefit greatly. thank you.
hello from Argentina. lately Ive been doing the detox thing and its true you life change 100% i feel so much better with new energy. im a Designer and i felt blocked but now i cant stop making an doing things. amazing channel. send u love
I’m currently in “me time” mode I took a month off work and I love it.
Girl how I wish I could take a month off from my job!! I do take mental health days often
Do you boo!
rose dickerson Mental health days are a MUST for me. Dont sleep on that! I think it benefits others jus as much as it does me. Otherwise Im miss tic-tic-boom...I turn in to the Hulk real quick & w/ minimum provocation.
If i could take a month off from school....
Wow! I definitely needed a reminder to take some more time out for myself and detox, especially my closet. Thanks for the tips, Shirley! ❤
Hey Shirley, I totally agree, detoxing your life and mental well-being is very important. Although, I do shows all over the county and do events, I must remind myself weekly to focus on my well-being and mental health.
How do you get your skin so smooth and glowly!?
👆Next video please Shirley?
^^^Agreed!
Agreed!
Agreed!!Xx
Agree
Be careful not to cut out people just because u dont like what they say to you. I feel like some ppl may misinterpret what she said about toxic ppl. Toxic people dont want u to grow while true friends encourage u but also hold u accountable when u do things that aren't right. Those people can help u avoid sometimes irreversible consequences
Detoxing is very good for the soul! I recently started a journal where I have 4 questions:
1) What inspirational quote or saying did I hear or read?
2) What did I learn today?
3) What did I do for someone today?
4) What did I do for myself today?
The most important thing I've leaned about keeping a journal like this is not to stress out about answering every question (some days I won't see a quote or I'll forget to do something for myself). Thanks for letting me share. Have a great day everyone!! :)
Love this. It is so true that you have to detox and get rid of the negativity. I'm so happy for you.
very classy and well spoken. You are such an inspiration. I wish I lived near London women of color seem so different where you are. I love your class and structure. I live in America and to be honest I'm not use to seeing women of color so classy and clean the mentality here is defiantly deferent. Your amazing to watch.
This video couldn't have come at a better time. I've just finished uni and my head is all over the place. Defo using these tips. Thanks
Journaling really is therapeutic. I've been doing a lot of it in the little notebook you sent me. Negative Nancy's really are the absolute worst and it's good to know when to let them go.
"Your life is your mind, your mind is your life.". Love this statement 👊👏💣
I'm currently doing the same thing in my life. Moved from Maryland to Las Vegas last year and I'm literally starting over from scratch. It's great to know that I'm not the only person doing a detox in their life. Thanks for the constant inspiration.
Toya
This is exactly what I need. Lately, I've realized I have been TOO stressed and it shows in my health and overall mood. I actually ended up at the hospital recently, YIKES! In the days since then I've been taking it easy and focusing on positive me time and I just feel amazing in comparison. This vid helps loads. Your hair is absolutely GORGEOUS like this btw!!! :)
I get so lost in her accent shes just soooooooooooooooo beautiful.
Thanks for sharing! This is where I am at right now with my life. I am finally focusing on me. I'm working towards becoming a better me. I'm taking out all the negative and only inviting positive. I listen positive messages daily. I listen to sermons, motivational speakers, meditate etc. I hated myself for so many years. God had to show me this is not healthy and the He loves me. Stop putting people before yourself, it's good to help but don't forget about yourself. I use to help everyone and say that I was alright. I clearly wasn't. My mind is being renewed. I flood my mind with everything positive! I look in the mirror now and I all I feel is love for myself. I'm glad I'm not on this journey by myself. I'm detoxing my mind, circle, environment and body!
I absolutely love your 'life/advice' vids...I'm hooked. It's real and certainly hitting home. Thank you Shirly.
Love this, I found myself in the middle of a detox not too long ago that I didn't realize was happening until it was over lol. It's like the spirits moved me to cleanse & clarify my life. It.s an awesome feeling!
Shirley your skin looks amazing! It looks so healthy and vibrant. I love your videos! xox
Welcome back Hun!
Was just about to sleep and ta-dahhhh new vid from you so now I'm up lol.
Yasssss to the negative ppl reference. Recently even more ppl had to be shipped away - forever negative about ideas,life,goals etc and unsupportive. I won't allow negative vibes within my surroundings - bye Felicia 😂
You're looking even more fab than usual. Hope life's good. X
Thank you so much for this video. I just finished my first year of college in May, and found that many "friends" were just no longer assets to my life. I have been questioning whether or not I should let them go in my life, but this video really confirmed it.
Thank You Shirley! xoxo
So happy I watched this! I just graduated,class of 2014 and I let go allot of friends. Either them not liking what I do or being the word everyone loves to use "fake". It's been awhile now and it's time for me to move on! Thank you for the video and things are looking to be good now in my life!
Same for me, I feel sooo much better now it's amazing!
THANK YOU, IS SO NICE TO SEE PEOPLE MORE DOWN TO EARTH, MORE REAL, CARISMATIC, ENTHUSIASTIC!!!
OMG your skin is absolutely radiant and glowing. Love the vid!
I love this angle, the video quality is amazing!!
And this video couldn't have come at a better time for me. The journal point is so valid, writing things down helps me manage my thoughts, they're so useful
This was very encouraging. I began detoxing my life last week, and a dramatic change has happened since then; I'm loving my life right now. Great video, and thanks for confirming that it's ok to remove yourself every so often :)
Amazing Shirley taking your tips in mind ❤️
Amen to the "say goodbye to the toxic people" ! Loved your video, very inspiring
Glad you're back, Shirley! Tell me something, your makeup on this tutorial-can you do a video or share what products you used. I'm particularly interested in your foundation! Your face is glowing! Pretty!
Welcome Back SHIRLEY! You are right on time. Im definitely in space in life where I feel like im on a negative nancy "rat wheel". Well I don't want a pity party, I just needed a starting space and I believe your tips are just that! :-) Thanks :-)
I'm about to go to uni in sep/oct (fingers crossed) and I am so ready to say goodbye to so many people. I feel like certain friendships just run their course & it's okay to let go.
(Btw I love the lipstick!)
I feel so enlightened and ready to move forward! Definitely makes you want to do more things than thinking about them
Hey Shirley! Youre the only youtuber who speaks so elegantly about making life progress! Can you please make a video dedicated to how you can make the most of your single days and how to be happy in the process of finding a man who loves you?
Thank you!!
This was really great! Very efficient, no rambling! Just fresh and uplifting!
Where have you been all my life. I am so happy i have found you. Thank you for all the info. you just gained a fan/Subcriber
Much love/respect
Yaaaayyy!!! Shirley is back!!!
Thank you for this video Shirley. I feel like every single word you said it's kind of coming from me and speaks up through you... Weird but it's exactly how I feel.
You are one of my top inspirations from a long time ago. Keep doing what you're doing gorgeous!!
How have I not found you sooner?!
I think I just need to spend a whole week just watching and rewatching all of your videos!
#3 has been one of the hardest, most rewarding detoxes of my life.
Thank you for sharing this Shirley, I'm actually going through this phase of my life.....good to see you back xx
Yeah.....youre coming to help me clear out LOL!
LOL! It's going to be like that Sex and The City Episode! I'll bring scoring cards to score each item! Hahaha
Shirley B. Eniang Thats actually a REALLY good idea. My BFF & I have both been trying to figure out an organized way to detox our wardrobes. That would totally work. Thx!
Love you video about detoxing your life. Everyone needs to cleanse their mind, body, and soul every now and then; since it's so easy to get caught up with everyday life. I started my detox last October and it was the best decision I've made. Still a working progress but life as of right now is clear and peaceful. Negativity really does cloud your judgement.
This woman really takes good care of herself and it shows!
Best TH-cam video I've seen in a long long time. You're a world changer. Thank you
Girl your just Gawjus !!
Love your message Shirley-especially the point about toxic people! X
# 3 needs a video all its own. Its such an important life lesson. I didnt learn it til I was about 27. Lord knows I wish I figured it out sooner.
Welcome back Shirley. Great tips. Thank you
I think this is great advise! I believe that everyone needs those moments or few days, to essentially "get their shit together" haha Great content again Shirley! I look forward to more videos from you :)
Would love to see you doing a video where you show how to build your wardrobe. statement pieces, must haves, what to invest in (quality clothes) and what not (primark stuff), color choices etc
Long time no see, Shirley! So glad your back after your little break - sometimes everybody needs a break. Missed you loads and this video was so helpful xxx
Good to see you again after such a long break and love this video.
you always remind me of nia long!
Yeah I've been doing the journal thing for about a year now, such a big help!
Shirley, if I remember correctly, you are a Maths major. I would love for you to do a video about why you chose that, and what your career plans/aspirations are.
Thumbs up if you guys agree.
Thank you so much for this shirley! I'm in a really sad phase and to try this change makes me thinking positive.
Absolutely gorgeous! Missed ya...I can so relate to detoxing from people. My friend always says "you have to find the good in goodbyes"...lol and that is so true
Glad you are back, looking lovely as usual love watching you! :D
What a breath of fresh air! Thank you for this and totally agree.
Great video. I've been on this detox for about a year and I love it. Welcome back!
So looking forward to your weekly uploads! Luv you lots Shirley!!
you came back looking so fresh and radiant with glowing skin and the works
welcome back darling, you really look amazing this detox has help you! I have also planed to detox my life and have started last Monday so i'm happy seeing this vid, will help me!!
love you so much
I totally agree with the fact that u need to get rid of toxic people coz it's true that they really make u feel drained. It does get hard to get rid of people who were really close but it's better than putting up with their negativity, especially when they question things u do, etc.
Shirley I really liked this video. I def. agree with this! I always make sure to detox when people are being toxic or negative. It def. helps me a lot.
Welcome back Shirley! Missed you!
Shirley! Miss you! Thanks for the positive vid. I will definitely be taking more time for hobbies and cleaning out my closet.
I've been thinking that I need a life change and this video came right on time. I'm definitely starting my life detox today! Glad your back :-)
Thanks beauty. This video was right on time and just what I needed. I'm in the process of moving to another state, and don't want to take any toxicity with me. You have inspired me to do my very own life detox, and I'm going to follow through with NO regrets! Peace, love and blessings to you :-)
Welcome back Shirley! I missed ya! 😘❤️❤️
Haven't seen you for ages. You still look amazing. I'm glad you're back. And you what, your brand new video was the thing that I needed to here right now, cause I'm in a place where I'm down all the time because of some people. Hearing you saying those things help me for real. And I was thinking of doing this kind of stuff for a minute.. thank you for everything. Keep doing what you're doing. I'm looking forward to see your next video.
Naiy
Thank you Shirley, this video came right on time. These type of videos are very inspirational. You are very beautiful inside and out. Can't wait for more videos.
Thank you Shirley you motivated me to start my detox I think I need one. I agree with you letting go of negative friends pays of, I had to let go of one even though its not easy but once done you become a better person.
Hey, an Amen on the third point. November 2012 I got rid of a WHOLE heap of people. You'd be amazed at how many people are blocking the blessings in your life. Onwards and upwards!
Yay! Missed your videos while you were on holiday. Glad you are back!
Oh!!! You just Made My day.
It's been a very stressfull and bad year for me and this video just made me look at all of the shit thats been going on from another perspective and it made me sooo happy!! this video just helped me alot!! Thank you and lots of love from Sweden!
Love it! Me time...very important, because if you don't look after yourself, you don't have much to give to anyone else. Great advice Shirley :)
Video was both uplifting and awesome. The detoxing that you have been doing shows up in your spirit through this video!! You are very beautiful,and I thank God for your message. God bless you!!Keep striving.... God has greater in store for you!!!
So true Shirley!!!! You make so much sense. Thanks for the reminder.
Your skin!!! Just radiant!!
I love you, Shirley! I can't get enough of your videos!!!!
I sooo needed to hear this. And I am definitely in the process of detoxing my life. You rock!!!!!!
Great tips! I'm glad that you took out time for yourself. Everyone needs alone time every now & then.
Glad you're back -u were missed!
I'm so glad you're back!!!
GORGEOUS SHIRLEY! xx
Love this video!! I'm currently going through a life detox myself. It feels like It's taking a long time, but I'm looking forward to the results to come!
Yes toxic people kick them out of your life. Very good advice and one of the hardest things to. Chavel xxxx
I missed your videos so much and I'm glad your back!!!
Good to see you back Shirley ! Like always your make up is flawless... Can't wait to watch the next video
I love this woman!!!! You are awesome Shirley!
I am so obsessed with your LIPS!
Welcome back Shirley B. Eniang !
This is a great and positive video Shirley and I've missed you welcome back.
I'm so glad you've posted a video. I've had withdrawal symptoms lol. Love this one
this video came in the right time , i'm glad you're back! xx
P.S. You're glowing girl!
First of all, you are so beautiful and secondly the third tips explain exactly what i'm living now, i had an argument with one of my best friend last week, i felt terribly sad but i thought and noticed she was so negative, she spend her to blame, or criticize me, i don't need that in my life, i just need to be happy.
yaaay I'm glad you're back, I missed you. I enjoyed this video a lot of the things you said made sense. I'll be moving soon so hopefully I can take these steps and benefit greatly. thank you.
Do you remember what lipstick this is you're wearing?? It's gorgeous and I appreciate this video veryyyyy much! Perfect timing for my life.
Im so ill today and I'm watching your videos to help me feel better , this vid was amazing! You're incredible
hello from Argentina. lately Ive been doing the detox thing and its true you life change 100% i feel so much better with new energy. im a Designer and i felt blocked but now i cant stop making an doing things. amazing channel. send u love