MY SELF-CARE CHECKLIST | LIFESTYLE/INSPO

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  • @mstaichi12
    @mstaichi12 5 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    Thanks Shirley. Happy to see you back :) Lots of great ideas
    1. Watch a good movie
    2. Write yourself a positive note
    3. Listen to your favorite music
    4. Write your thoughts and feelings in a journal
    5. Go for a run
    6. Dance
    7. Do Yoga
    8. Make a gratitude list
    9. Forgive
    10. Volunteer to help someone
    11. Spend time in nature
    12. Read a book
    13. Meditate
    14. Watch clouds
    15. Make a Vision board
    16. Clean and tidy your room
    17. Declutter
    18. Make a grocery list
    19. Have a morning or night routine
    20. Call or Visit your family and friends
    21. Plan a BBQ/Cook up
    22. Play board games
    23. Join a class

  • @deanneshuryepistola2424
    @deanneshuryepistola2424 5 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Another feel good activity is to watch one of Shirley’s videos. Or a couple of them. Works as well ✨

  • @tsastsastss
    @tsastsastss 5 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    This made me cry for some reason... I think I may have been harbouring a lot of stress lately and this couldn't have come at a better time with all the changes that have been going on in my life. I've felt the weight of the world on my shoulders for quite some time. It can't rain forever though, right? Thank you for being the peek of sunshine on my rainy day. I really needed this. Thanks Shirley x

  • @cdms074
    @cdms074 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Helping others and giving people compliments make me feel great. There is power in positive vibes

  • @Fatima-mn1tt
    @Fatima-mn1tt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I would add get out of social media for a bit of time, that’s a good one too. Thanks Shirley ❤️❤️

  • @cutesnubable
    @cutesnubable 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Volunteering is a new good one I’m currently practicing 💕

  • @aaisha5985
    @aaisha5985 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is my favorite video ever. I relate to every single thing you said. I love writing when I am anxious or depressed. It helps a lot.. There is so much to write at that moment when your mind is all over the place. Dancing and music helps too. I also recently started meditation and the first 2 weeks my mind strayed so easily but as you do it every day you learn to control your thoughts and just focus on the moment. It has been life changing

  • @ogdiva9735
    @ogdiva9735 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I literally made notes as I watched. Very educative stuff. Thank you Shirley.

  • @nathaliacharles8251
    @nathaliacharles8251 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Shirley, you’re such a great speaker. With you, comes timeless beauty and grace. Thnks for yet another great video! 🥰🥰😘😘

  • @juliar.6766
    @juliar.6766 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Can you do another "Beauty Secrets" video like you did a few years ago ? I really enjoyed it !
    And also i feel like today it's hard to find people with elegant and timeless style like yours and I could really need some advice .... Sending love from Germany

  • @takishasallbeautyzone
    @takishasallbeautyzone 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I loved this video! I agree with so many of the things that you spoke of. Particularly the social items. I love the physicality of yoga. I just am careful to maintain the spiritual ideals that align with my beliefs as a Christian. I know often Christians are conflicted by doing yoga because of it's origins. However, I believe that it is possible to perform this wonderful physical activity while focusing on the things of Christ. I love it! Being in nature is a great tip too. I have been ill for some time now and I notice that I feel even worse when there are days that go by without going outside. That was a great reminder for me, so thank you 💙

  • @camib2423
    @camib2423 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thanks for sharing. Simple steps to a wonderful life. I enjoy listening to zen music when writing down my feelings. 🧘🏽‍♂️🙏🏾🏃🏽‍♀️💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

  • @AbundantlyAndile
    @AbundantlyAndile 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I find it’s also really useful to plan the meals you’ll eat in the week and that way you can be a little more conscious in making sure you’re having a balanced diet ❤️

  • @roxannejob-bayne4169
    @roxannejob-bayne4169 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think I'm weird,why do I find your hand movements so relaxing? Keep up the great work Shirley!😊

  • @chineloeneh5791
    @chineloeneh5791 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing this. I already keep a gratitude journal. The other stuff you talked about might seem a bit too simplistic and obvious, but truth is, we often forget to do that it's the little, simple things that make life great. So thank you for the reminder. Plus, you look and feel so zen, yo! ❤️💙💚💛💜

  • @elsieshayne
    @elsieshayne 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just watching this video made my mind relax and I feel quite free. Thank you Shirley. ❤️

    • @ShirleyBEniangxo
      @ShirleyBEniangxo  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aww. Thank you for watching! 😘♥️

  • @mollypohamba
    @mollypohamba 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really love Shirley I don’t know how to explain it she is such a character

  • @brownluv8270
    @brownluv8270 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this, thank you!!! I also incorporate prayer, a LOT! That helps so much!

  • @blackbarbei7429
    @blackbarbei7429 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a wonderful video 💜 I've tried a few times but I would like to work on meditating. I do however do quite a few things on your list ~ declutter regularly, keep my room clean, go for a walk regularly, day and night routine, visit family, and I love a good board game! Thanks for this one - it's always good to check in with your self-care ✌🏾

  • @ReginaSmalls
    @ReginaSmalls 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This came right on time! I was sitting here down and out and this was perfect thank you shirley!

  • @noziphokhumalo2963
    @noziphokhumalo2963 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    that excitement when you see that Shirley just uploaded a video.

  • @magiquereviews
    @magiquereviews 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow thanks. Great way to start my Monday. Just after coming back from a jog

  • @LittleOlMo
    @LittleOlMo 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I literally love your videos, I have several of them saved to look back on

  • @stylemebea
    @stylemebea 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Gratitude lists are life changing! Thank you for sharing these tips!

  • @magiquereviews
    @magiquereviews 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shirley is definitely a lifestyle blogger.

  • @faycollymore9352
    @faycollymore9352 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree with the movie bit, there is a particular movie I go to when I'm down. I think I've watched it 100 times lol 😂. Great video best wishes xx

  • @classiseverything2me
    @classiseverything2me 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You're my absolute favorite!💖💖💖💖💖

  • @teriawilliams4485
    @teriawilliams4485 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Whew, I needed this thank you! ❤️🙌🏾

  • @kuretel
    @kuretel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love the video! Can you do your morning routine video as well?

  • @freesiajasmine534
    @freesiajasmine534 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Shirley, fantastic tips!

  • @lokuthulankwemoyo5826
    @lokuthulankwemoyo5826 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Shirley. I loved the video i had to smile about the cloud watching its my thing too. ❤️

  • @TheWildcat1988
    @TheWildcat1988 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love this video! Thank you!

  • @maryreedmartinez9427
    @maryreedmartinez9427 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love ur videos, glad ur back!

  • @TamikaMichelle
    @TamikaMichelle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so positive and beautiful a true inspiration

  • @caroldaniel2847
    @caroldaniel2847 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Shirley, you have helped me so much with this list

  • @mariamatchamo745
    @mariamatchamo745 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh wow...these are good and doable steps to a healthy life. Definitely going to give them a try....thank you for sharing. P.s I listen to my fave song whenever I feel down 😊

  • @coolcoloursbeautyngozioji8772
    @coolcoloursbeautyngozioji8772 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Shirley, awesome video.

  • @tumiparis
    @tumiparis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You look beautiful Shirley ❤

  • @cestmoi6945
    @cestmoi6945 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so phenomenal, Shirley!

  • @towandaatasteoffashion
    @towandaatasteoffashion 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are so Awesome & very Inspiring 💗❤️

  • @yvettebooth67
    @yvettebooth67 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this video. I am starting to try self-care now that I am an empty nester. :-). Thanks for sharing these ideas.

  • @jennifergaweses2918
    @jennifergaweses2918 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love and enjoy ur videos sooo much😍 aaaah pls keep 'em coming

  • @symmieify
    @symmieify 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love you so much Shirley ❤️

  • @Glamchizzy
    @Glamchizzy 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very inspiring and awesome checklist 👌

  • @thelmakasuminda4474
    @thelmakasuminda4474 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so inspiring, love you girl

  • @batisebraxton8767
    @batisebraxton8767 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this Shirley!

  • @karolinak8172
    @karolinak8172 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved it 💖 it was very much needed at this moment 😊 thank you so much !!!

  • @jerinazyfi1859
    @jerinazyfi1859 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, sending much love to you

  • @shakzzee4674
    @shakzzee4674 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I clicked so fast lol, love it

  • @baybeetricia
    @baybeetricia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey Shirley!!!! I missed your videos!!!

  • @dudumashele7346
    @dudumashele7346 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you shirley !!

  • @magiquereviews
    @magiquereviews 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Listening to you made my anxiety go away 💖. Thank you for this wonderful video

  • @ParanormalGeek
    @ParanormalGeek 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was wonderful 🙏🏼🥰

  • @nissirey7733
    @nissirey7733 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this... much needed! 💕

  • @mimilou8069
    @mimilou8069 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Shirley, I never ask this before and don't take it as an offence but, why did you move to nigeria?

  • @chinonye2
    @chinonye2 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such good tips 👋🏽👋🏽👋🏽

  • @tashakoulbout2353
    @tashakoulbout2353 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very helpful

  • @CarineFavour
    @CarineFavour 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing deary

  • @tarieC7
    @tarieC7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤️

  • @natresse007
    @natresse007 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How did u become so wise

  • @ondo.stellina
    @ondo.stellina 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Miss you so much😘

  • @lemonburnlifestyle6140
    @lemonburnlifestyle6140 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yass :)

  • @mariamatchamo745
    @mariamatchamo745 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aye early gang!