How To INSTANTLY IMPROVE Self-Esteem & MANIFEST ABUNDANCE | Marisa Peer

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  • @lewishowes
    @lewishowes  4 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    What's the #1 thing you pulled away from Marisa Peer's interview?

    • @ssnabell
      @ssnabell 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Lewis Howes i am enough

    • @peopleplacesandperspective5564
      @peopleplacesandperspective5564 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Lewis Howes wonderful interview! I am enough just the way I am! ❤️👏💫

    • @mv4114
      @mv4114 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      It's not the event but the meaning you attach to the event that affects you. Change your interpretation.
      & potato skin has vit C

    • @patriciabrissett4653
      @patriciabrissett4653 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Loved the way you let the interviewee flowwwwww

    • @thelongevityproject
      @thelongevityproject 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Renee McCoy that's beautiful! So happy for you!

  • @FrancoPhysique
    @FrancoPhysique 4 ปีที่แล้ว +478

    Lewis you’re a great interviewer. I like the fact that you actually let the guest speak without the need to interject every minute. Really great. Thanks!

    • @MTCosta
      @MTCosta 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I totally agree. It's such a rare ability...

    • @TheScouser1234
      @TheScouser1234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because he oever got a word in to ask a question mostly iy was about HER experiences ..Wow.sonude like SHE was the patient....I thought Shrinks just nodded and listened ..NOT this one LOL

    • @lifeslessons9889
      @lifeslessons9889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      FrancoPhysique .. It ought exactly the same ... Brilliant all round

    • @wendyguerrero8688
      @wendyguerrero8688 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ynymjmťhh

    • @Taniabadiyi
      @Taniabadiyi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheScouser1234 1[-

  • @MawethuMqalo
    @MawethuMqalo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +536

    When she said "If you don't fix your wounds you bleed on people that didn't cut you" #OMG

    • @tnt01
      @tnt01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      amazing and so true.

    • @martam518
      @martam518 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      true

    • @ccgreen2000
      @ccgreen2000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow! That’s profound!🙏

    • @CrystalSicily
      @CrystalSicily 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes. Don't let the past ruin your Future.

    • @luisterrust
      @luisterrust 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Her words are soooo powerful!

  • @Ladystardragon
    @Ladystardragon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    So true... If you change your thoughts, you change your feelings!! I came home from Iraq, and was in a bookstore in Albany, NY, when a fire alarm went off... The kind like they use in the Midwest states for tornado warnings! This alarm was also the same kind they used for the SCUD alarms in Kuwait. Well, back in the bookstore, I started to get a panic attack... So, I repeated to myself, "You are safe in a bookstore in Albany, NY... It's just a fire alarm... " After repeating that about 3 or 4 times, I started to breathe more normally and I felt OK again!

    • @bonsmith862
      @bonsmith862 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your service😇😊

    • @PenyaDePena
      @PenyaDePena 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Words we tell ourselves change our minds and life.

    • @TapIntoAlignment
      @TapIntoAlignment 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So appreciate your service and heart ❤️

  • @teal1010
    @teal1010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    16:36💞
    I loved my job but, I hated the environment (retail).
    When I left, I continuously told myself I don't want to work outside of the home.
    I developed depression and crippling anxiety!
    After 5 months of therapy, I'm no longer "afraid" to work outside of my home!
    🤗

  • @teal1010
    @teal1010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    "The minds job is to LISTEN TO YOUR WORDS,
    and
    your job is to TELL IT BETTER STUFF!
    💞

  • @hawkarae
    @hawkarae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    "I can't change this but I can change what it means." Thank you Marisa!

    • @buildingandmaintainingyour1888
      @buildingandmaintainingyour1888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Beautiful

    • @luisterrust
      @luisterrust 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The meaning we give the events is totally up to us :)

    • @jenmack8045
      @jenmack8045 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Building and Maintaining your confidence Yunivette tv hv

    • @ibrahimhamada5751
      @ibrahimhamada5751 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's the will and inner strength of the character🌹❤️👍🇪🇬

    • @hawkarae
      @hawkarae 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ibrahimhamada5751 agreed!💯

  • @gregcastdrywall1645
    @gregcastdrywall1645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    Lewis - I'm glad you had Marissa on again. There were some really good points she said that triggered some of my old memories about money, relationships and especially the one where she talked about when the parents don't show attention to the child, the child doesn't stop loving the parents, the child stops loving themselves.
    Really hit home for me. So true and heartbreaking.
    Thanks again 😊

    • @sheilaartist6788
      @sheilaartist6788 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I really enjoy her too. She just has a way of making me feel calm and that everything is manageable. The part about Nelson Mandela in solitary confinement for 27 years put it in perspective for me. I am in my comfortable house, with the internet and plenty of art materials (I am an artist) I can order delicious food delivered to my door. I have Zoom quizzes to see my friends and can have a glass of wine and a catch up with family albeit online. And it's a few weeks. It's more of a free retreat than a lockdown

    • @thelongevityproject
      @thelongevityproject 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Greg Castagneri thanks for sharing this!

    • @sweetrosydw
      @sweetrosydw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Tnx for sharing. I hope you can heal and let go😘

    • @shaydjokes
      @shaydjokes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes! I felt that one hit too Greg. Wishing the best for you!

    • @gregcastdrywall1645
      @gregcastdrywall1645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sweetrosydw Thank you

  • @sf5823
    @sf5823 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    4:30 If you can't fight and you can't flee don't freeze, FLOW! 8:58, 19:20, 24:00 For Play! A child's needs. A child's basic needs is to feel loved & validated, significant, protected & safe and that they matter.

  • @barbarakalinowska9058
    @barbarakalinowska9058 4 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    I could never get enough of interviews with Marisa 😍♥️

    • @jobunny919
      @jobunny919 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same. I discovered her recently and every single speech and interview I have watched so far was a gem.

    • @jazwar7521
      @jazwar7521 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly

    • @aliciaanderson3985
      @aliciaanderson3985 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Literally listened to two today!

    • @gaginita
      @gaginita 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here!

  • @butterflyflying100
    @butterflyflying100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    "Treat and talk to yourself as if you were your best friend", priceless. I enjoyed so much this interview! You gave and respect her space and time to speak. Also, the way she talks brings some peace to my soul. Thank you both.

    • @tessaanngr.7271
      @tessaanngr.7271 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Seriously...
      The way she spues.
      Peace to yer soul???
      So ok.
      Howd she The Rtt teachingsmshe had to share babbling with the darkness of this Earthly Realm.!!! Title of this Shoe Shoe Show? Again thanking it her is like DeSe's dominions licking ass. PROVE IT...
      HOW DID SHE DAH BILL SHE MADE $$$$%%$$$$$ TO BE ON YOUR SHOW. SCHOOL...
      BECAUSE OF HER SUCCESS? YES? HOW MUCH? 8M CURIOUS.... HOW 2 MANIF3ST DIVINE ANUNDANCE???
      DO YOU GET IT?
      SHOW ME WHAT SHEVTAUGHT U TODAY?;
      THE 70'S T.A.G
      GOD 🙌 BLESS
      ABUNDANTLY BLESSED 🙌 ABUNDANTLY ALL IN SPIRITUAL WARFARE !!
      YES ARE WE IN EARTHLY 🌎 PHYSICAL FLESH EARTHLY REALM HUMAN BEINGS... CONNECTED WITH thee divine Spiritual Realm Heavenly Light Uphigh?
      GOD'S KINGDOM RULES EVERLASTING INFINITE INTELLIGENCE ALMIGHTY CREATOR FATHER GOD. LORD JESUS HOLY SPIRIT SIN, K,CRA NI.Z.ED♾ SYNCRONIZED.
      🙏 ✨ 🙌 ABUNDANTLY BLESSED I REST. NOW
      ❤ IS IN THE WORD THE WORD IS IN THE TRUTH
      .THE.TRUTH IS FOUND ???
      IN THE BIBLE THE BIBLE.IS GOOD NEWS GOOD NEWS IS COMING..
      . WHOLESOMENEST○ ☆☆♡♡♡☆☆ ○

  • @hajoung2647
    @hajoung2647 4 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    “Talk to yourself like your best friend. “ I’ll keep in mind, Marisa. Thanks to both of you for the inspiring interview in this tough time.

  • @salaamletstalk
    @salaamletstalk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I don't think I've hung onto each and every word of a one and a half hour lecture and still felt that I need to hear more. I WANT to hear more. You've got a fantastically compassionate nature, sincere empathy and meaningful understanding of human behaviour and psyche, Marisa. I absolutely fell in love with you from the moment you opened your mouth. 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She is awesome!

  • @Smjourney1223
    @Smjourney1223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I learned to care for others to feel better about myself. I was born with chronic health issues and never got attention for it at all. I think the lack of attention made me stronger. I think my poor health now comes from not setting better boundaries or putting up with toxic people. I was raised in a family that encouraged you to push your body and not take your health seriously. I lived with very few needs met. Due to that I learned to be a survivor. I think having a difficult childhood can make you stronger. I use humor to survive and enjoy meeting goals and challenges. It really is a mind set.

  • @laura7visionmission
    @laura7visionmission 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Negative thoughts can stop us from reaching our dreams. Thanks school of greatness for all the hard work you do. One of my goals is never to miss your new production. Let’s be brilliant and winners !!!!!

  • @rachelworkman9652
    @rachelworkman9652 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    She is the first person to speak on changing thoughts that makes me hopeful and excited about change in my mindset :) thank you Marisa! :)

  • @hetheruneges8097
    @hetheruneges8097 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was stuck after my mother passed away because I didn't want to deal with the pain, didn't want to hurt from her being gone. I hid it! I found Marisa Peer, I don't even know how. All I know is after listening to her, I fell out of a kayak and realized the water wasn't as deep as I imagined it to be. That experience helped the I Am Enough become reality. I was able to acknowledge the pain, evolving to facing the pain, realizing it's ok to look at what hurts. Thank you so much for the work you're doing to help other Beings along this temporary path!

    • @hetheruneges8097
      @hetheruneges8097 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      After my mother was diagnosed with ALS, I changed the name to Always Loving Sandra.

  • @PlanetaSeguroSustentável
    @PlanetaSeguroSustentável 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just wanna thank you to have Marisa Peer on your channel. She is one of the most famous therapist nowdays and she loved to share her greatest content for free... I had been touched for those content

  • @arunaseth7780
    @arunaseth7780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    She explains everything so well. Be aware of your thoughts and beliefs and how they affect you

  • @melaniearce4390
    @melaniearce4390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Wow!!!!! Mind blown! “ your mind is meant to keep you alive . It doesn’t care if you’re happy” . I recently started following Marisa! I have serious imposter syndrome. Listening to her helps. I’m trying to rewire my brain and change the way that I do things. Life has got to get better for me.

  • @mareesemro8807
    @mareesemro8807 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love listening to Marisa Peer, just listening to this video on negative thoughts is so true. I have a pile of dishes to do, doesn't help that my dishwasher broke down during lock down of the Covid 19. So instead of thinking OMG what a mess, I have just said to myself if I clean away these dishes I will have a lovely clean bench which is what I am now going to choose to do. Marisa is so encouraging and makes sense and helps to stop and think of what we tell our self turn negative into a posstive.

    • @laurenpaterson3475
      @laurenpaterson3475 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maree Semro yes she great she makes it easy see

  • @michaelscoots
    @michaelscoots 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Perfect timing - we all need a good dose of this right now to flip the script. Thank you!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You're so welcome!

  • @TheZGALa
    @TheZGALa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I have gone 'all in' on all four methods to find love/acceptance/significance. Happy to say I feel better today than I did yesterday. As I approach 50, I feel more and more at ease with self acceptance and unconditional self love. Forgiving myself allows me to forgive others, and then everything is alright.

  • @kiwi007
    @kiwi007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    In New Zealand in Auckland we have been told to stay home. Tell yourself it's a time to destress, take a look at your life, meditate. A time to evaluate, enjoy your home, enjoy quiet time, family time etc.

  • @stacya7894
    @stacya7894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Marisa is a beautiful human and a wonderful mother. I always dreamed about a nonjudgmental loving mother like Marisa❤️ I have so much love for her and feel like I’ve known her my whole life.

    • @christinebagshaw2652
      @christinebagshaw2652 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Marissa what do I say to myself when I'm anxious x

    • @lizavillacorte4746
      @lizavillacorte4746 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marisa Peer your amazing .i love listening to your videos.💜

  • @jennifercarroll7668
    @jennifercarroll7668 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The most important conversation is the one you have with yourself.
    How profound. How true

    • @soofitnsexy
      @soofitnsexy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      and there is no one else but you.

  • @Korenski23VO
    @Korenski23VO 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I never thought before about how saying things like “I’m starving” effects my experience. I use exaggerated language all the time for effect, to be funny or to be dramatic just because I’m a pretty dramatic person. And I also struggle with negative emotions so I’m going to start paying for attention to my being a drama queen.

    • @mysecretsketchbook865
      @mysecretsketchbook865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Nikola Tesla- if you want to find the secrets of the Universe then think in terms of frequency, energy and vibration. By saying positive things you are changing your vibration and attracting certain energies and people in your life. Peace from England UK

  • @petrapervan1989
    @petrapervan1989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    By changing our thoughts we change our feelings! 😊 She is so powerfull. This is so powerfull. Every single word she said is really great. Love this show, especially this episode. Thank you Lewis for bringing her in your show! 😊😊

  • @tooktastar7960
    @tooktastar7960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love Marisa Peer she is my bible I listen to her everyday and she took me to the only happy place on earth love it ,her words is so powerful changed my life,she's so classy and real and charming love her so much I could listen to her all day.I could name her a life saver 😍

  • @laura7visionmission
    @laura7visionmission 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    How wonderful and precious her message is. Words have a massive power in our lives. Marisa is an expert in behavioral field. I absolutely love your peaceful methods of reaching a better life. Lewis awesome questions how bless are we and you that we want to learn and grow to reach our potential.

  • @viviannatellis9500
    @viviannatellis9500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    "If you don't fix your wounds you bleed on people that never cut you" Profoundly true. I am enough! Thank you for another inspired conversation of leading us back to our best selves!

  • @FoodTrucksForDummies
    @FoodTrucksForDummies 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Marissa is one of my favorite therapists. I love her child-like references, babies have no negative thoughts.

  • @jouleslowell
    @jouleslowell 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    This episode is my absolute FAVORITE! So much good stuff! I’ll be rewatching and sending it to people ❤️

    • @whowearereally6494
      @whowearereally6494 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well Marisa -High Five
      Getting the right people to listen to this would be fantastic....Life Saving, I am sure for many.
      I would like to be part of what you’re doing..
      Many years ago I used to talk like this to my friends or co-workers who we’re having issues..
      Love When you say (WE Are Hypnotized every day)’
      May The universe bless you!

    • @denasharpe2393
      @denasharpe2393 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She is saving my sanity right now....thank you so very very much...

    • @CrystalSicily
      @CrystalSicily 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Get rid of EVERYTHING Toxic.

    • @althurdjerah
      @althurdjerah 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You know, everything happens in divine timing, I feel the blessings Marisa has sent to all of us through this interview and I am grateful for hearing all this information when I most need it.
      I just sent the video to those close friends whom I know need it also, because what I learned through years is that not everyone is ready to hear life changing words when they feel comfortable in their zone, some of those words can really shake them out of their lies and make them even more miserable.
      Blessings. Love. Regeneration.

  • @DrJoha
    @DrJoha 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She's so amazing, I could listen to her forever and always learn something new ❤️

  • @susanblanche9684
    @susanblanche9684 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I could hear Mrs Peer all day. Words of wisdom. And your a great listener

  • @Tyllie1693
    @Tyllie1693 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I absolutely loved listening to this lady! I took a bunch of notes on my notepad and I'll be checking her content. I want to fix and finally live instead of just surviving.

  • @salimacharania8720
    @salimacharania8720 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My son is studying psychology, I have asked him to watch this video. I know it would be a great help in his studies. Even I have learned a lot

  • @rebeccaknox4652
    @rebeccaknox4652 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    For year’s I’ve been wanting a tee-shirt that says “basta” which in Spanish means enough because I have had enough. But now I am going to paint the logo “yo soy basta” meaning “I am enough” on my 1974 vintage camper trailer that I have been traveling and living in for three years. Thank you so much to help me make that shift.

    • @talkintacos8151
      @talkintacos8151 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Sorry but what you want to print is YO SOY SUFICIENTE

    • @sylvialgarcia74
      @sylvialgarcia74 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@talkintacos8151 Si! Exacto☺️🤓💁🏻‍♀️

    • @letsdomath1750
      @letsdomath1750 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "Yo basto" is what you want to say.

    • @Quillavilla
      @Quillavilla 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Puedes Considerar. "Yo Soy Suficiente" . basta tiene otro sentido . "Como basta la pasta".
      Se refiera a ya no mas. Nosotros somos "suficiente". Suerte

  • @mandymcclure717
    @mandymcclure717 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for giving me these lovely gifts !!! I had a mom that reminds me alot of your story who always had " a sick headache" any time anything wasn't comfortable she stomped up to her room and needed noone near her and the lights out. I'm 44 and I've still been feeling like I am the headache. When I contact and say that I miss her she tells me she prefers her alone time even when I ask her to please let me visit with my child and it's held so much power over me

  • @rileycookart
    @rileycookart 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This is one of those “holy f***” kind of videos for me, where so many things click and I start to understand... wow.

  • @debbiedebbie9473
    @debbiedebbie9473 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Role - Function - Purpose
    (Reason your mind created the problem)
    Children need to feel : loved, protected, significant, safe )

  • @tiarayong5377
    @tiarayong5377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This was a wonderful episode I appreciate the content of the school of greatness and having Marisa on as a guest. I have recently come to know her teachings. I tend to play out scenarios in my head in order to judge how things may play out way too often. I do this in order to attempt to avoid conflict or disappointment, directly related to my childhood and having negative results pointed out more than positive ones. Side note on audio: There is an echo I believe for the entire episode. The audio is overlapping. I just wanted to point this out in case no one had mentioned it. Thank you so much for reading and considering, looking forward to the next episode.

    • @practical.emotions
      @practical.emotions 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tiara Yong also heard the echo! Also-I’m taking Marisa’s RTT program-she also has an individual program on Mindvalley, def check her out! She’s changed my whole life by helping me find the stories I believed that kept me stuck. It feels like you might have a lot of anxiety and self doubt/paralysis? bc of the scenarios you give yourself which are hard to get your body out of flight or fight at that moment. Remember every invention comes from the unknown, not what we know. Otherwise we’d still be using horse and buggy and not know a thing about medicine and def not have any technology. Tell yourself you are safe, you are excited for new opportunities and other people are not going to treat you like your family did when you were a small child and didn’t have a voice. Now you do-you have a response in your gut or throat or lower back when someone says something or does something that doesn’t feel like you’re treated well. You have a voice and can say, ‘be nice, don’t speak to me that way, that doesn’t feel good....’ or you can leave and not let that person contact you ever again. Thank you Marisa and Lewis! I love you both sooo much!

  • @soniagarciabarro9504
    @soniagarciabarro9504 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I love this woman.
    She has changed me.

    •  4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I am honoured to do so xx

    • @lifeslessons9889
      @lifeslessons9889 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sonia Garcia Barro . Me too . Soooo typically English and an utter pleasure to listen to .

    • @youlaki16
      @youlaki16 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      100% agree! Such wonderful advice and delivered with poise too! 👌

    • @banutkhanmasood150
      @banutkhanmasood150 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What were her words which changed u

    • @Maxgaming23233
      @Maxgaming23233 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      How you changed please tell me

  • @sophiadubai7702
    @sophiadubai7702 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love Marisa, I listen to her mostly every day. Love her so much.

  • @denasedaghat1122
    @denasedaghat1122 4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    She saved my life

    •  4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      i am so honoured and delighted to know that thank you xx

    • @_Lahari_
      @_Lahari_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Your voice ic calming 😌

    • @mouriziozeland7140
      @mouriziozeland7140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @ you have helped me. I was doing this intuitively but I didn't know what it was. I love the things you suggest because they are realistic. Thanks

    • @Korenski23VO
      @Korenski23VO 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Literally?

  • @SLGK369
    @SLGK369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    She is opening my eyes every time when I listen to her interviews....so grateful🙏🏻

  • @unicornzalltheway8064
    @unicornzalltheway8064 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for getting Marisa back !! I have used her talks as a tool to shift and change perspectives when I feel like I need to realign mentally. She is so generous with her content, bless you both ! xo

  • @kaydonahue
    @kaydonahue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was a B student. I would visualize hitting a target as an Archer, bullseye everytime. I met a man who studied all the time, so I studied too. I started making some A grades. We divorced, I had to raise the children myself. I accentuated their positive aspects. They each uniquely developed to be independent, creative, self sufficient, positive. I had to go back to school to stay employed. I was making a B grade. A wonderful friend from Pakistan started calling me at night to study. She was educated to write essays to explain questions, not answer ABCD multiple choice. I helped her discern how each choice was right, or wrong. I started making As. Taking the last class together, I learned my learning style depended upon kinesthetic learning. So by having to answer her questions, by flipping back and forth in the text to prove the correct response, helped me. I realized I learned to read by standing up at my dad's desk and orating out the text to entertain an audience. It kept me from falling to sleep while reading, bored. My grandfather was a Shakespearean actor. We put on dramatic productions as children. I taught children concepts by letting them act out. We aren't meant to be in a chair, listening six hours a day, we are meant to be free, moving. I love Richard Burton, he stands up and acts out answers to questions. Most teachers won't allow it.

  • @joyefromthejunglebeats5745
    @joyefromthejunglebeats5745 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I use one blockage which never tought me but a hard times ! When im in trap of the bad thoughts i repeat - health ,happiness,love ,luck ,wealth only words with good vibes and thanksgivings ! But we have to know we all circulate around + and - so we need both to reach the balance and our groundzero ! We need alot of o pain and struggles to reach the real deserved happiness!

  • @melissaszarka7755
    @melissaszarka7755 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can flow with my present situation. Put a positive spin on anything that's going on. Flee, fight, freeze or flow....very nice way to change.

  • @julianafargione2222
    @julianafargione2222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So much hit home but especially “How I thought about the event affected me way more than the event”. Marisa is such a brilliant women and this episode was life changing for me. Thank you!

  • @cristinagomes9832
    @cristinagomes9832 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I really love this women , She is amazing. She Said all so Simple way . Thank you.

  • @clairesmith4311
    @clairesmith4311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Omg I'm sitting here crying right now..thinking back to when I was little I remember my mum & dad saying..as a joke "You were left in a wee basket at the front door" as in they found me there & I wasn't really theyer child..& that's probably why I've felt un worthy of love my entire life & ended up staying in some really unhealthy violent relationships as I was so desperate to be loved...i remember in my teens wanting to see my birth certificate coz I thought Maybe my dad wasn't my real dad..he is but my whole life I've never really felt like I belonged anywhere...i don't have very many memories but that 1 is clear as day & so many things are falling into place...thank you for this video 💕

    • @laurenpaterson3475
      @laurenpaterson3475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      claire Smith yes it hard need do inner child work heal your childhood

    • @clairesmith4311
      @clairesmith4311 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@laurenpaterson3475 thank you I'll try that💕

    • @cherylpa527
      @cherylpa527 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Your parents weren't capable of anything else and it has nothing to do with you . Please read Echkart Tolle The Power of Now, it will help heal those wounds, I promise. Don't ever give up, there are many angels dressed as humans in this world, Marissa is one of them. Sending you hugs and love ❤️

    • @clairesmith4311
      @clairesmith4311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@cherylpa527 I love eckhart tolle,its only since watching him & a few others that I've been able to be happy with what is instead of always expecting things to be different,eckart says only suffering comes from wanting things 2 be different I've learned that the hard way after 20years of doing that,I really want to read the power of now I think It'll be a great book,thank you Cheryl 💕

    • @CrystalSicily
      @CrystalSicily 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You belong to you!! Love yourself FIRST then find someone worthy of your love.

  • @marionadler7837
    @marionadler7837 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Marissa. Your voice alone makes me feel better

  • @sandraalmeida2155
    @sandraalmeida2155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I changed my background picture on my work pc with the words "I am enough." Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @veljabgd2032
    @veljabgd2032 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had done years of psychotherapy and orthodox psychoanalysis.... All of it had given me insights, but I never questioned my beliefs about myself. Just a few weeks listening to Marisa makes me live the life I always thought I was not worthy of living.
    Happy and fulfilled life!
    Great interview, greetings from Belgrade :)))))

  • @elenastaffy6119
    @elenastaffy6119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Wow This is fantastic this lady really knows what she’s talking about very inspiring made me realise a lot of things about my life thank you very much. more videos please❤️❤️👍

  • @52MAREVA
    @52MAREVA ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Marisa Peer, she’s so direct, refreshing and her suggestions are So powerful! I have I am Enough on my mirror!😃❤🌈🌺

  • @hawkarae
    @hawkarae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I was incredibly blessed to have started a transformative routine a few years ago and the progress I've made in that time has made ALL the difference in my response to and feelings during this trying time. I share a house with my controlling type A ex husband and our two sons and I think I might have taken leave of every last sensibility had this occurred three years ago. As it is we've managed to enjoy our kids together better than we ever have even though we still disagree about EVERYTHING. Establishing and maintaining a midlife transformation reminded me that I am capable and that life can be delicious. It's very difficult to engage me in negativity anymore and if I could share one thing with the world it would be this peace. 💝

    • @debbiedebbie9473
      @debbiedebbie9473 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What was the transformative routine exactly ?

    • @hawkarae
      @hawkarae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@debbiedebbie9473 I call it owning my shit. I got really fucking honest with myself- took a stark look at how small, scared and ineffectual I had allowed myself to become. I stopped taking the five medications I'd been taking for years and started listening to audiobooks, podcasts and lectures by people who have achieved self mastery for hours while doing some physical activity like walking, cleaning, sanding, etc., anything and everything to get my house in order and clear space for new thoughts and habits. I started to feel good and so I did more...I ended a long complicated, disempowering relationship and found bandwidth to heal other relationships including the one I had with the scared and lonely child I once was. I forgave my parents and myself. I came alive like I'd never been and found my voice and the strength that comes from that and I just let it build and stack and one day I realized I could hold nothing but love for longer than a few minutes and so I stopped trying to be sad or angry. I was proud of myself finally. I liked myself finally and I found I was unwilling to entertain any reality that didn't make me feel whole and able. Abraham Hicks, Byron Katie, Wayne Dyer, Michael Beckwith, The School of Life, Lewis Howes, Impact Theory, Lisa Nichols, Nick Vujicic and 80% of Joe Rogan's content are some of my personal favorites. Blessings to you my love. I wish you every happiness 💞

  • @SparklingDiva1111
    @SparklingDiva1111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Absolutely amazing! A great addition to Abraham Hicks, Joe Dispenza and Bruce Lipton. It all comes down to the same thing, but each adds to it, and from a different angle. Wonderful!

  • @debbiejones3689
    @debbiejones3689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Change the beginning life's too short to change the ending...amazing interview thank you🙏

  • @Tiffany4183
    @Tiffany4183 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Marisa showed me a lot I’ve learned more by listen to her then 3 years of the psychotherapist I went ones. You are truly Gifted! Sending positive energy

  • @axelamary
    @axelamary 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The day I listened to this was the day I needed to hear this the most. Thank you both for this

  • @angelodasilva7646
    @angelodasilva7646 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow such powerful words! I think we all have a few of those characteristics to some degree - Caring / Rebel / Sick / Over Achiever ect. I feel like I have gone through each and every one of those roles in my life at some point or another in order to get that attention I was lacking as a kid. Now that I realize what I have been doing I can find a better way to get love and have more compassion for those who are also doing those things to get attention. Thank you for this

  • @omnificent15
    @omnificent15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Spot on!
    My appreciation!
    This perception would be very helpful for parents and schools teachers .

  • @EliskaSelucka
    @EliskaSelucka 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've had tears in my eyes many times during this episode. Love it, thank you so much, both Marisa and Lewis for this conversation, it gave me a lot. Love

  • @danutamicor7192
    @danutamicor7192 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lewis I am really enjoying your interviews, intelligent questions you ask your guests. This one is great, the most important thing is from this one, that we must be very careful with the words we use, I am a perfect example, have always come from place of irritation or feeling a victom, I am SO aware of that now with listening to Marisa, and my life have changed due to this awareness, and I also share that with my friends, even strangers can see it. Very powerful and SO SIMPLE!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  ปีที่แล้ว

      Appreciate you and your support🧡

  • @samantha-kemp-therapy
    @samantha-kemp-therapy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've just been to my fathers funeral - I don't have to be that way anymore - it has massive significance - thank you 🙏

  • @NowAbundant
    @NowAbundant 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Lewis you set yourself apart from other interviewer who want to display their ego or cut off the speaker. You allow the person to flow. Thank you.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂

  • @ScottSherrington
    @ScottSherrington 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Lewis, I am so grateful that I found your channel.
    My only comment to you and Marisa would be that 9 times out of 10 the positive statement is the truth, not a lie, on reflection I am usually lying to myself when I'm having negative thoughts and being truthful when I am positive!
    Thanks again for your brilliant videos.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome, thank you for being here 🧡

  • @bernicejones933
    @bernicejones933 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    We can't hear enough of what Marrisa says thanks Marissa and thanks Lewis 🙏

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome, thank you for being here 🧡

  • @StephanieLeva
    @StephanieLeva 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow. So true. I had to go to jail for a yr. It was the most humbling thing and I did realize how money didn't make me happy. I also missed the people believe it or not. People don't realize how powerful our thoughts are.

  • @morginejurdan575
    @morginejurdan575 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I Love Marisa!! She transforms lives in such Incredible Ways with the Simple Tips!! Thanks so much!!! Great Interview!!!

  • @sheilaartist6788
    @sheilaartist6788 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I feel relaxed and calm just listening to Marissa Peer. Great content as always Lewis, I appreciate you and your work. Great choice of guest today too.

  • @elizadolots11
    @elizadolots11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely! And keep our children and your elders safe!

  • @yvonnemoir284
    @yvonnemoir284 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lewis ,I think you a remarkable interviewer and an impressive human being. You ask the right questions and let your guests speak freely. Much gratitude.

  • @junegraham5753
    @junegraham5753 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I watch your videos every chance I get Lewis Howes, you interview the most interesting people and you let them speak, i think this is why you are so successful. Thank you for being you and you ask questions we all want to know the answers to.

  • @mhoss9
    @mhoss9 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful words ♥️ remember guys it’s never too late to listen to these words and actually apply it to our personal lives. Change makes a difference! Lets all actively love ourselves for what we are. ♥️ Lets look after ourselves because we absolutely deserve it.

  • @deedee9312
    @deedee9312 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ty Lewis for being so natural and transparent in your opinion and thought 💭
    Marissa is fantastic and I have learned so much from her thoughts 💭 it seems so common sense until we apply it all but we must ❤

  • @tanaward8772
    @tanaward8772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I absolutely loved this interview. My main take away was her parental advice...ALL OF IT was amazing!!!! She is so REAL!

  • @BlackWolf6420
    @BlackWolf6420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Marisa is amazing! It's great you are having her on your show again. What a treat! Thank you. X

  • @qariaslam3790
    @qariaslam3790 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    12:20 I'm your mind my job is to keep you alive. Great words

  • @patsandel3522
    @patsandel3522 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow...the roles children play if they don't feel loved! 🤯 Thank you Marisa❤

  • @primordialsky7216
    @primordialsky7216 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is really helpful, reframing your ideas in a more positive light, and questioning your ideas, is useful to know. Something I wil try to implement. The more I think about it, there is a corresponding emotion to a thought. It makes sense, a change in thinking will bring out a different corresponding emotion, and put you in a better space mentally, if it goes from a negative to a positive one, and take steps to do so.

  • @currykraut
    @currykraut 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Lewis for your ever interesting interviews, the choice of inspiring guests, the way you truly listen without interrupting and let us take part in your enthusiasm on learning. I much enjoy your kind and curious manner with people. Thank you

  • @josephinewang4199
    @josephinewang4199 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoy Marisa’s terrific attitude toward problem solving!

  • @filizsayar3583
    @filizsayar3583 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lewis is the head of the school of greatness,he knows very well how to be great😊

  • @aprilm.wemigwans-mezimegwa541
    @aprilm.wemigwans-mezimegwa541 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes that's exactly what I tell and always tell my two daughters. There absolutely nothing you can do or say to make me live you. I love yous with my entire heart.

  • @triciafree2bme263
    @triciafree2bme263 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m the only one who’s responsible for my 🛑 myself. Nobody else, there’s so much l want to do while mid gating factors do exist, notwithstanding .... I’m my worst enemy and realize it can’t get better being so fortunate and grateful for hearing this. Except 100% responsibility for the part l play and or don’t is important for me. Thank you again!🙏

  • @laisa.
    @laisa. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well I seem to not fit into any of the categories unloved kids fall into. I detached and decided I have to take care of myself, as I had noone to lean towards and ask for help. As an adult I have been through many illnesses and I always do my best to take care of myself. Even at doctors I am adamant about how I manage to fix this and live with that and adjust. I pride myself in taking care of myself without having to ask for help. My current illness appeared when my daughter had been sick for many years, and I wasn't able to "fix it" either myself or through finding the right doctors / treatments. Eventually I figured out what she suffered from (when I asked doctors to test for this and this - hey, the tests confirmed my suspicions - yet again I fixed.) But this time my own illness (panic and anxiety) does not budge. I guess I am even more set in the believe that I must fix everything myself. Because I have been proven right again and again.

  • @jortech11
    @jortech11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you both for opening this conversation! Love you guys!:) I think that "We, as the entire Universe, are polarized beings. We can't turn off our negative side of us because it's what drives us to think positively. We need contrast in everything we do in order to define our lives. What we can do is to learn how to change negative thoughts into positive ones. For example: We must face our fears before we can overcome them. The same goes with everything else, especially with our thoughts. Very good interviewer, and very good examples used by Marisa. We need our negative and positive thoughts. Avoiding or freeing ourselves from negative thoughts will only decrease our learning capacity which allows us to growth into greatness. We are intelligent enough to learn from experience; positively and negatively which is always there. Overall, very good advice from Marisa. I thank you.
    Love is the key! Embrace our humanity.

  • @Diamondkity
    @Diamondkity 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    She’s fabulous, really incredible how easy she makes it for us to fix ourselves! If I only could afford ever have a session with her! Which I’m aiming for! That would be such an unforgettable experience!

  • @lolladagh
    @lolladagh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    This video is exactly what I need right now :) thank you ❤️

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You're so welcome!

  • @OzmaOfOzz
    @OzmaOfOzz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Omg another interview with the great Marisa Peer in da housee ❤ thank you both!!

  • @Putttingontheritzz
    @Putttingontheritzz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Discovering the two of you has been a great blessing in my life.. I need every word you both share🙏🏽❤️

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad this was helpful for you🧡

  • @Chery869
    @Chery869 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thanks for this video. That negative self belief is what I'm trying to conquer .

  • @pippahicks7988
    @pippahicks7988 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    i am so blessed to have found this,i know where my addiction came from now ,thankyou thankyou thankyou

  • @JessicaM1111
    @JessicaM1111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lewissss I love her I’m so happy you had her over she’s so peaceful and wise. 🥰

  • @coco_brown8575
    @coco_brown8575 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was amazing! I love the lie, cheat, steal point she shared. I also loved your story about the voice recording. I look forward to making one for myself.

  • @HealingHeartsMeditations
    @HealingHeartsMeditations 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Marisa Peer is awesome! I've heard her say before the main issue most people have is that they think they are not good enough. That manifests in so many areas of your life.
    She says is not what you experience but how you react to it, the meaning you give it. I'm glad this info is reaching more people. Now I understand we can change our thoughts and change our lives. When we understand our power we have a bigger, better impact on the world.