I admire the way you persist in letting your Mum have a choice of the clothes she is going to wear. Even if the process of getting her dressed can still be difficult, you are adding to her dignity, and to her feeling of self worth and autonomy. You are doing so well with that precious lady. X
I agree with this sentiment! It may feel easier to just make all the decisions all the time. If you think about it it would make every day a fight and so much harder than the hardest day now. Your thoughtful kindness and love help her to remember the gentle loving soul that still lives inside! God bless!
I absolutely love how calm you are!🫶🏻🥰And, not that I should laugh, but hilarious how there are a few cryptic “words” your Mom uses🤣😂🤣😂And love the “pretty pretty pretty” at the end!😊💜
You worded it perfectly sweetheart. Yes it is vital to stay calm and patient and it can and does take a toll on the ones caring for people with dementia it can become emotionally draining, but to stop and a few moments from time to time and thinking about the reasons your there and what the goal is , is a must so that those caring for them don't get caught up or lose site of what's needed for there loved one's care and health. You and your family are doing an amazing job taking care of Cindy. And im certain that in her moments of clarity she is so proud of the women her girls has grown up to be. ❤
Hello gorgeous young ladies. I love love the way you take care and love her the way you do with your blessed attitude and the love you feel for Mom Cindy. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Ladies! My heart rejoices everytime I see your videos! To know that there's still loving children who are stepping up to help take care of their mother is amazing!❤ keep it up for God the all mighty will reward you ladies and of course your pops for loving her unconditionally!🙏
Did she always use bad language? I worked in a nursing home and a client had awful talk and the children said she never cursed in her life… I would NOT want the world to hear me or see me the way she is…. But what a wonderful caregiver you seem to be, and I commend you for helping your Mom, many would not.
Even if she did they are just words. Humans decided those words were "bad". It's just a way to convey frustration. I don't get why some people are offended by it. If someone cursed in a language you didn't understand you wouldn't even know. My point is that they are just words that humans created and decided that they were "bad" because they mean you are upset. Saying darn you or F you means the same thing technically it's just someone decided darn was less offensive. I worked with people with dementia for a couple years as a nurse. They are frustrated because they don't often understand what is going on around them. They are just getting the frustration out. They aren't trying to purposely offend or curse anyone.
I absolutely adore your mother and watching and learning about your Wonderful, Patient Care you give her. My mom was diagnosed in 2018 and she is in the final stages I understand. She is completely Bedridden with little to no speech. Hospice Nurse thankfully comes 3 times a week to Bathe her and check her vitals. So we are Grateful to be able to keep her hopefully to the end. My mother will be 92 in August and am just so surprised how young your mother is! May I ask you her age and how long she has had this terrible disease? I can honestly say this by far has been the cruelest. As I tend to worry about the hereditary with this… you are doing an Amazing Job with your Beautiful mother. God Bless all of you. ❤️🙏🏻’s
I was a caregiver for my mom with Parkinson’s and dementia and it’s so hard for them especially someone needing to help them get dressed or getting the shower that was my biggest struggle with my mother I dont blame them having to be so vulnerable with their body whether it’s your daughter or spouse helping has got to be so hard and you are doing a fantastic job
I’m a caregiver in London England, I also look after dementia patients, it’s so tough but so rewarding at the same time. Patience and understanding is the key and you’ve definitely got that. I don’t underestimated how tough it is for you and your family but you are all AMAZING and a credit to you mum ❤❤
You are an amazing daughter❤ as I’m positive she’s an amazing mother ❤ I think it’s wonderful and amazing that you two have the bond that you do. Even through the challenges it shows that your guys bond will never die ❤ you both are beautiful souls inside and out❤
Your mumma must have been the life of the party before . She is still a crack up and has that cheeky look in her eyes sometimes. I love watching your videos ❤❤❤
I look forward to these videos and just wanna say that your family is amazing! Your mom looks so young and I’m sure none of yall anticipated this right now. I just wanna say great job and we can all see the love there!!!!
The smiles the laughter in-between I know is hard. But grab those good ones. She sure looks pretty. Love the runners. I hope your day goes well. You're doing great at just keeping things going good. Godbless
Good job !!!!! But still…. F’ it 💕 love it Good Daughter!!! I’m 64 and I want my Granddaughter to take of me, if anything happens She’s becoming a nurse, and I believe she will be as compassionate as you are!
Aw bless your heart ❤🙏🤗I know that has to be so hard on y'all as a family 🙏❤🙏 but you are your family do an amazing job taking care of your sweet mom bless y'all ❤❤🤗🙏
I’m a sole caregiver to my husband with Alzheimer’s. I gotta get up three times a night almost every night to change his diaper and clothes because they are wet. That is just one challenge among others. It’s hard to keep positive when you got to get up every morning having been up all night and do it all over again.
My heart goes out to you! I was the sole caregiver of my mom who had Lewy Body dementia for 3 straight months a couple years ago…..it was the most emotionally and physically exhausting job I’ve ever done in my entire life. I highly recommend you seek out assistance and have someone else come in a few times a week to help out and allow yourself a break! As much as we love them….it becomes soul draining and the endless cycle of lack of ANY sleep (my mom had sundowners as well) plus around the clock care can actually cause the caregiver to become sick. I’m praying for you.
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I admire the way you persist in letting your Mum have a choice of the clothes she is going to wear. Even if the process of getting her dressed can still be difficult, you are adding to her dignity, and to her feeling of self worth and autonomy. You are doing so well with that precious lady. X
I agree with this sentiment! It may feel easier to just make all the decisions all the time. If you think about it it would make every day a fight and so much harder than the hardest day now. Your thoughtful kindness and love help her to remember the gentle loving soul that still lives inside! God bless!
I love the way your mother plays with you it's so sweet
I absolutely love how calm you are!🫶🏻🥰And, not that I should laugh, but hilarious how there are a few cryptic “words” your Mom uses🤣😂🤣😂And love the “pretty pretty pretty” at the end!😊💜
You worded it perfectly sweetheart. Yes it is vital to stay calm and patient and it can and does take a toll on the ones caring for people with dementia it can become emotionally draining, but to stop and a few moments from time to time and thinking about the reasons your there and what the goal is , is a must so that those caring for them don't get caught up or lose site of what's needed for there loved one's care and health. You and your family are doing an amazing job taking care of Cindy. And im certain that in her moments of clarity she is so proud of the women her girls has grown up to be. ❤
I think you're mom is very blessed to have such a wonderful daughter 💖 she must have been a wonderful mother ❤ God bless your whole family ❤
You're a lovely lady looking after your mum ❤❤❤❤❤
I went through this with my mom being violent and combative, hitting and kicking me when I was trying to help her. You are doing an amazing job ♥️
What a loving daughter you are ❤
Thank you for showing all sides of care giving
Hello gorgeous young ladies. I love love the way you take care and love her the way you do with your blessed attitude and the love you feel for Mom Cindy. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You're doing a wonderful job with your Mom she is always beautiful everyday
I wish more people our age didn't get so lost and remembered this is our purpose.
her mood swings are so sad
Ladies! My heart rejoices everytime I see your videos! To know that there's still loving children who are stepping up to help take care of their mother is amazing!❤ keep it up for God the all mighty will reward you ladies and of course your pops for loving her unconditionally!🙏
They're quite normal and expected with alzheimers/dementia, especially as it progresses. What these daughters do to keep the calm is important
Did she always use bad language? I worked in a nursing home and a client had awful talk and the children said she never cursed in her life… I would NOT want the world to hear me or see me the way she is…. But what a wonderful caregiver you seem to be, and I commend you for helping your Mom, many would not.
Even if she did they are just words. Humans decided those words were "bad". It's just a way to convey frustration. I don't get why some people are offended by it. If someone cursed in a language you didn't understand you wouldn't even know. My point is that they are just words that humans created and decided that they were "bad" because they mean you are upset. Saying darn you or F you means the same thing technically it's just someone decided darn was less offensive.
I worked with people with dementia for a couple years as a nurse. They are frustrated because they don't often understand what is going on around them. They are just getting the frustration out. They aren't trying to purposely offend or curse anyone.
You are such an amazing daughter to your mom ❤️... so patient ❤️... God bless you both 🙏 ❤
I know it's hard on you but I love feisty Cindy. Sucks to have dementia. I would be pissed off too. Good she can safely vent.
You have the patience of a saint!❤
I absolutely adore your mother and watching and learning about your Wonderful, Patient Care you give her. My mom was diagnosed in 2018 and she is in the final stages I understand. She is completely Bedridden with little to no speech. Hospice Nurse thankfully comes 3 times a week to Bathe her and check her vitals. So we are Grateful to be able to keep her hopefully to the end. My mother will be 92 in August and am just so surprised how young your mother is! May I ask you her age and how long she has had this terrible disease? I can honestly say this by far has been the cruelest. As I tend to worry about the hereditary with this… you are doing an Amazing Job with your Beautiful mother. God Bless all of you. ❤️🙏🏻’s
I was a caregiver for my mom with Parkinson’s and dementia and it’s so hard for them especially someone needing to help them get dressed or getting the shower that was my biggest struggle with my mother I dont blame them having to be so vulnerable with their body whether it’s your daughter or spouse helping has got to be so hard and you are doing a fantastic job
I’m a caregiver in London England, I also look after dementia patients, it’s so tough but so rewarding at the same time.
Patience and understanding is the key and you’ve definitely got that. I don’t underestimated how tough it is for you and your family but you are all AMAZING and a credit to you mum ❤❤
You’re doing the right thing with your mom by remaining calm and doing the best you can in the moment ❤
You are so calm and good with your mom
You are an amazing daughter❤ as I’m positive she’s an amazing mother ❤ I think it’s wonderful and amazing that you two have the bond that you do. Even through the challenges it shows that your guys bond will never die ❤ you both are beautiful souls inside and out❤
Your mom still has her sense of humor
You Are An Amazing Daughter! ❤Cindy You Look Beautiful, Have A Lovely Day, Blessings To You All 🙏🙏
Your mumma must have been the life of the party before . She is still a crack up and has that cheeky look in her eyes sometimes. I love watching your videos ❤❤❤
Have you tried putting music on when getting her dressed? She loved music and when my mom had dementia it was a calming force for her❤❤
The two of you are so pretty
Her humor is just so cute!
My apologies I should proofread it before I sent it 🤪
My mom loved Porcelain Dalls. She had loads of them.
Your doing great job my mum's just been diagnosed with dementia don't know how I'm going to cope watching your videos really help god bless you xx
Thank you for teaching all of us. I love learning from you! Your mom is beautiful!!
You two are beautiful.
I look forward to these videos and just wanna say that your family is amazing! Your mom looks so young and I’m sure none of yall anticipated this right now. I just wanna say great job and we can all see the love there!!!!
Wish I would have had these videos when I was caring for my mom so I wouldn't have felt so all alone and would have had a role model.
The smiles the laughter in-between I know is hard. But grab those good ones. She sure looks pretty. Love the runners. I hope your day goes well. You're doing great at just keeping things going good. Godbless
Good job !!!!!
But still…. F’ it 💕 love it
Good Daughter!!! I’m 64 and I want my Granddaughter to take of me, if anything happens
She’s becoming a nurse, and I believe she will be as compassionate as you are!
Aw bless your heart ❤🙏🤗I know that has to be so hard on y'all as a family 🙏❤🙏 but you are your family do an amazing job taking care of your sweet mom bless y'all ❤❤🤗🙏
Love you both 💗💗💗💗 so much patience 💞💞💞 your a great daughter ❤️❤️❤️ wow thank you 😘
Happy Sunday Beautiful ones
I’m a sole caregiver to my husband with Alzheimer’s. I gotta get up three times a night almost every night to change his diaper and clothes because they are wet. That is just one challenge among others. It’s hard to keep positive when you got to get up every morning having been up all night and do it all over again.
My heart goes out to you! I was the sole caregiver of my mom who had Lewy Body dementia for 3 straight months a couple years ago…..it was the most emotionally and physically exhausting job I’ve ever done in my entire life. I highly recommend you seek out assistance and have someone else come in a few times a week to help out and allow yourself a break! As much as we love them….it becomes soul draining and the endless cycle of lack of ANY sleep (my mom had sundowners as well) plus around the clock care can actually cause the caregiver to become sick. I’m praying for you.
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My dad has alcohol dementia and gets abused and want to fight
Your mother is so sweet! You are her Angel!❤
Sweet! She was swearing and shouting!!
Such language
She has dementia. She doesn't fully understand everything that going on or what she is saying. She's not just cussing purposefully.
Its crazy how getting dressed any clothes at all.agitates them!
Your mother seems so young to be into dementia which in it's self is so sad do you have any videos of her before she became ill ?