Dealing with Difficult Times in Life

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    In this episode of The Charged Life, high performance coach and #1 New York Times bestselling self-help author Brendon Burchard shares ideas for how to deal with difficult times in our lives.
    This is Brendon speaking freestyle, recorded in one take without prompter or notes.
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    SUMMARY:
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    1. Set Small, Simple Daily Goals. When times are difficult, it’s easy to feel we’ve lost all personal power. So, a simple way to insert agency and progress in our lives is to set three small goals every day and work to achieve them. These can be as simple as taking a shower, going for a walk, or calling a friend. It’s not about taking over the world, it’s about directing just a tiny bit of our day until we can find our footing again.
    2. Keep Perspective. Draw some strength from the truth that there have been positive, good, happy times in life and that those moments and memories can return and are with you. And remember that part of keeping perspective is realizing you are not on an island alone - there are people out there who can help you through this. Finally, remember, you are the miracle - the fact that you can choose your attention and breath and choices each day is a profound blessing. Not all is lost or negative - there is always hope and you can make new choices.
    3. Ask, “What should I be learning here?” When times are tough, we often feel that we can’t understand or handle things, that we lack competence or capability. So, to shore up those feelings, be strategic and ask, “What could I learn now to better handle this stage of my life?” Develop a learning curriculum for yourself and start studying things that can help or advance your life.
    4. Be Your Best Self Despite the Difficulties. When I had a brain injury, I couldn’t control my emotions and actions for a while. I felt out of control. All I could do is set the intention to be my best. I forced myself to ask, “How would my best self interact with this situation? How would I view this, go through this, support others, and grow despite it all?” Sometimes, a simple and positive intention can expand our consciousness and connection with life (and ourselves).
    5. Keep Gratitude Alive. This is the time to get grateful for the choices and blessings you do have, for the people you have supporting you, for who you are and who you can become. The surest route from suffering begins at the path of gratitude.
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    ABOUT BRENDON
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    Brendon Burchard is one of the most followed personal development trainers of our time, and he is in the Top 100 Most Followed Public Figures on Facebook. A #1 New York Times bestselling author, his books include The Motivation Manifesto, The Charge, The Millionaire Messenger, and Life’s Golden Ticket. A car accident at the age of 19 inspired Brendon to turn his life around and follow his dreams to be a writer and trainer. After succeeding at that effort (he became a multimillionaire by the age of 32), Brendon dedicated his life to helping others find their charge and share their voice with the world.
    Brendon's posts now reach more than 10,000,000 people per week worldwide. He is the star and executive producer of the #1 self-help show on TH-cam, and his podcast, The Charged Life, debuted at #1 on iTunes across all categories in multiple countries. His seminars include High Performance Academy, the legendary personal development program for achievers, and Experts Academy, the world’s most comprehensive marketing training for authors, speakers, coaches, and online thought leaders. For these works, Larry King named Brendon "one of the top motivation and marketing trainers in the world."
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    ABOUT THE CHARGED LIFE
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    The Charged Life is a weekly self-help show full of #motivation, #inspiration, and #high performance strategies with bestselling author, motivational speaker and High Performance Academy founder Brendon Burchard. Filmed in one take, without any notes or prompter, the show has become one of the most viewed direct-to-camera self-help series in the history of TH-cam. It's also been the #1 Podcast in all of iTunes and is regularly in the top podcasts in Self-Help and Health categories around the globe. Subscribe to the free motivational podcast here: itun.es/i66Y78r
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  • @manveermathur1813
    @manveermathur1813 5 ปีที่แล้ว +340

    To all those facing hardships, I just wanna say we're all in this together and we're all gonna come out victorious and happy, together

    • @angelaferreras9100
      @angelaferreras9100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💗💗💗

    • @bharatkarvekar1021
      @bharatkarvekar1021 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Indeed

    • @vccesilva
      @vccesilva 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I broke tears reading your words... Thank you for it! From Brazil

    • @reggibee1752
      @reggibee1752 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nodding my head saying thank you!

    • @gingerbee6719
      @gingerbee6719 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      What if you don't have family or really any friends??

  • @outback77
    @outback77 6 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    Look at all these comments. Everyone struggles. We need to be there for eachother, lift each other up, encourage each other.

  • @itsmarius6054
    @itsmarius6054 8 ปีที่แล้ว +386

    i'm so tired of being tired..

    • @wendybazan4962
      @wendybazan4962 8 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I don't think I've ever related to someone so much, it's been a bad day almost every single day for the past three years of my life. I have no idea what you're going through but I seriously seriously hope you find happiness soon if you haven't yet, no one deserves to feel like this

    • @jonathanwahono3925
      @jonathanwahono3925 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hang on brotha. It will end

    • @AmirTori
      @AmirTori 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here

    • @kakasawant9064
      @kakasawant9064 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      All my Prayers to God to give you strength

    • @djpanrasdaversiteoldschool8912
      @djpanrasdaversiteoldschool8912 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      悪い 中に 良い same here

  • @ReganMaharjan
    @ReganMaharjan 8 ปีที่แล้ว +265

    1. Set Small, Simple Daily Goals.
    2. Keep Perspective.
    3. Ask, “What should I be learning here?”
    4. Be Your Best Self Despite the Difficulties.
    5. Keep Gratitude Alive.
    :)

    • @pathmaram
      @pathmaram 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks for summarising the points

    • @wanekeya
      @wanekeya 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for the summary

    • @dharsan8597
      @dharsan8597 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks

    • @juliab.75
      @juliab.75 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Regan Maharjan thank you! 😚

    • @lolololovy9626
      @lolololovy9626 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks!

  • @MikeCola
    @MikeCola 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    "It is during our darkest moments that we must focus to see the light"
    Aristotle

  • @rainamay3481
    @rainamay3481 8 ปีที่แล้ว +385

    I feel like dying everyday. Thanks for your videos

    • @LisaS1
      @LisaS1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      +Raina Kim I know how you feel. Do like I'm trying to do - plan to make things better - find out what will make you happier or make you feel better.

    • @skyguy5587
      @skyguy5587 8 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I'm sorry you feel like that...I too felt exactly like that for years now..but I'm starting to turn it around..and I hope you do as well....good luck!

    • @ronniemead805
      @ronniemead805 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Me too. For the past couple of months all I could focus on was going home to be with my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, nothing seemed to matter to me. However, I had a conversation with a young lady yesterday and she turned me onto positive thinking and in 24 hours I feel as if I have been given a new lease on life. Suddenly, I feel positive and optimistic as if life could actually have some meaning. Hang in there Raina, life is a precious gift, so we have to keep searching for meaning and purpose.
      Blessings!

    • @mikeyang7003
      @mikeyang7003 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hi Ronnie, do you mind me asking what changed? How were you able to feel positive and change your mindset. Thanks

    • @lisahind8858
      @lisahind8858 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Raina, you are doing the right thing to find healing and growth here. Remember you are not alone. Just keep reaching out. Be gentle to yourself and just go slowly. Even if you only have one person around you who cares for you that is enough. Sending joy and peace to you.

  • @Jasmin96961
    @Jasmin96961 9 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I've been doing nothing about my life besides crying while feeling sorry for myself. Brendon you're absolutely right. You just made me realize that you should never give up on your life like I did. The more you sit around and wait the more you sink in that dark place. Thanks!

    • @tavoiaiono7885
      @tavoiaiono7885 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What are you unhappy about? Make all your experiences fun, good and bad experiences. You are hear to experience everything, you have designed your experiences before you were born, so chin up and do the following and enjoy the ride.

  • @malazaliomer6496
    @malazaliomer6496 8 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I just want to say thank you .. My mom passed away 3 month ago and i feel really un happy after that happen .. She passed away 2 days after my 19th birthday and i really feel hurt she was my close friend and i miss her alot .. Actually crying while writing this .. I wont say i feel happy after i heard you but i feel alil better and i actually listen to you .. Thank you

    • @nazihmeed9459
      @nazihmeed9459 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Malaz Aliomer +Malaz Aliomer I'm so sorry for you , I know it's difficult but bear in mind that no one would be eternal.. that's life and its mistery, we should deal with it ,, however, Mom's love is eternal ! you have to be proud of her because everyday she needs to know that and to know that you're happy for that .. it is just that simple reason which will push you to overcome and getting better thoughts to carry on your way ..... you've proved strenght and courage as you've written this comment !! What I have to tell you is that; don't worry, it's quite simple Mom is always in the heart !!!

    • @heidichiandussi439
      @heidichiandussi439 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i also lost my parents when i was 16 years old ..what helps me is my faith to God ...to know that death ist not the end ....

    • @kaeocosta2623
      @kaeocosta2623 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      That must be really tough. I could and have imagined being in the same situation. You're not dead yet, for some reason the music is still playing.

    • @simoneee31
      @simoneee31 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Malaz Aliomer I’m sorry. I hope you are doing better today in 2019. I just lost my Dad 3 weeks ago. I wish you all the love and happiness you can stand. Hold on to the memories. That’s what I’m trying to do BUT...this HURTS

  • @SaurabhYadav-lv7ut
    @SaurabhYadav-lv7ut 8 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    thank you for saving me from depression

  • @RandomAnonn
    @RandomAnonn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Story time:
    At 17 I was homeless and on the verge of killing myself, and I am not joking...read that again because it was very serious. I had nothing to hope for and that's how I stumbled across Brendon.
    These videos and his book the Charge was the first step for me to get through that time.
    I went on to graduate college, debt free, top of my class, top in my college in fact. I went on to become financially stable and chose to focus on changing my family tree. To become that guy in the family that could be relied on. I am now a man of value and morals and I couldn't be more proud of myself. 5 years ago I was about to end it all, trust me I was there. Please keep perspective and know that if you have a small flame of inspiration, that can grow into a fire of motivation that will help others. Much love to whoever sees this! ❤

    • @jin9479
      @jin9479 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Im having hard time now and see your reply it makes me feel better.. im broke and broke love and broke familly broke everything.. even im not sure im healthy. I want better life like you. I respect you overcome everything!

    • @RandomAnonn
      @RandomAnonn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jin9479 stay hopeful! But also make sure to take action to make your life better. Sit down and right down how you could improve your life and really try your best to do it.

    • @jin9479
      @jin9479 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RandomAnonn thank you! I will 😊

    • @quill404
      @quill404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This was very inspiring, thank you

  • @kwazidlamini6269
    @kwazidlamini6269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Life is difficult but no matter how hard it is, Never ever giving up everything you do just tell yourself I 'm gonna make it and I will never allow the devil to control my mindset.

  • @floridabeachbum6460
    @floridabeachbum6460 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    As a military Veteran suffering PTSD. Brenden you have possibly saved my life.. thank you for the inspiration.. your message has helped me in many ways. God Bless

  • @samking1930
    @samking1930 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im in my 50's now and had been through a lot of difficult times in my past life ...one thing i have learned in life is that no matter how many times you fall you must learn how to bounce back...it is not easy but if you do not want to stay "down" you have no other choice but to get up...it is about making choices...i had been depressed for half a decade and no one was there for me except myself but inch by inch i fought depression, it took me years to overcome it and im fine now...though i still have problems but hey that what life is all about, without problems life will become boring and not challenging.

  • @nellykhaled5805
    @nellykhaled5805 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel suicidal everyday, I don't have many friends, and I feel outcasted. this video helped, so thank you

  • @rhoda2226
    @rhoda2226 9 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    In the face of hatred, love
    In the face of evil, bless
    In the face of darkness, be a light
    In the face of all these things
    Your goodness will bring
    A miracle from heaven tonight by Rhoda

  • @hoayeuly
    @hoayeuly 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brendon! May God blessed you I just bump into your video on my lazy day - And i was in a touch period of time in my life couple months ago. I am in a little bit better stage right now and i hope it will keep getting better. I have listened to one of your video and i swear i can not stop listening another one, and another one....and another one. And i end up listen to your video for whole this morning and i feel so lift up.
    I have listened to lot of life coach but none of them have an energy like you do, your attitude and down to earth like you. And your face is so faithful + hope + little happy = which makes i believe on what you are saying and believe in myself that i can able to do it and by having these believe - i just lift up and feel more energy and my brain start to generate positive thoughts for me.
    Thanks so much Brendon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @jbean992
    @jbean992 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow, this really is truly a gift for me! You are the first person that I have heard who shares so much of what I believe and try to share with others....yet, here I am in a challenging place and forgetting what I need to remember. Thank you so much for being my powerful reminder!! your words are music to my soul!

  • @deeprestmediation
    @deeprestmediation 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Brendon, when I watch your videos I feel a ray of hope beginning to shine on me. From reading all the other comments that's a lot of hope you are giving to the world.

  • @Frenchylikeshikes
    @Frenchylikeshikes 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been dealing with what I would call mild depression for years, and have barely started to read and document myself about it in the last 6 months or so. Me finding your videos was part of what I like to call my learning process.I learn so much, and you bring so much hope that I can do it, I just want to say thank you.

  • @lindseyfournier8676
    @lindseyfournier8676 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was looking for something, anything to help me out of how I was feeling today and then I found your videos. This made me cry, it's like you knew what I needed to hear. Thank you for making these videos.

  • @annemarielabreche
    @annemarielabreche 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You really made a difference in my life. I was seeing no hope until I found your video and I know that it will be fine. I had to leave my family and home today and no matter what I'm gonna keep going, with a smile on my face and courage in my heart. Thank you!

  • @user-xc3io4gq3f
    @user-xc3io4gq3f 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video is amazing. I wrote down five things you mentioned on a postit and put it on my office monitor so that I could be reminded everyday. It's been almost three years since I put that note and I wanted to say thank you as it changed my attitude towards people and myself. Although we are in difficult times, I believe we all can stay strong and get through this!!

  • @Willferal
    @Willferal 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    literally curled up in a ball right now. Things have been really hard dealing with an anxiety disorder, depression, and eating disorders..I have an awful habit of feeling sorry for myself and this video is just honestly what I needed to watch. I'm so grateful for my family being there for me, my health, being alive right now. Most of all, I'm grateful for being able to choose to be strong and positive :) Thanks so so much!!

  • @everjust23
    @everjust23 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    man one thing for sure that helps when you are in depression is to watch Brendon videos.
    personally i'm dealing with extreme self image issues like balding and stuff but gotta keep perspective and keep progressing with those 3 daily goals. god bless everyone, let's help each other

  • @inder19852000
    @inder19852000 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My sister became half paralyzed at her age of 14. She was not able to control her urine and motion. She is a firm believer of God. She has blossomed like a flower in my family. She prays rosary everyday. I am more negative than her!

  • @tiffanypeng4896
    @tiffanypeng4896 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing advice! I use your meditation videos every day and they have helped me through many days. Thank you for all the positive advice energy and care you share through your videos. I am coming out of some of my darkest times and your videos have been one if the many tools I used to push through. You are definitely a bright light in this world. Many blessings to you for all the work you put in for the good of others ♡ Thank you again

  • @norma6440
    @norma6440 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just shared this with my work team. We are dealing with very difficult times right now with all the things we have to deal with around the COVID-19 Pandemic. Thank you for this!

  • @jaderose5127
    @jaderose5127 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    New to your videos and I respect your teachings. Focusing on simple tasks can help us pass from a negative day to a positive day when times are challenging.
    Kindness and encouragement go a long way when reaching out to others, the shared life!
    Gratitude I agree daily is important and a sense of humbling ourselves when we don’t get things right, no one does all the time!
    It’s important to forgive yourself when we don’t make the right choices! We need to move on and learn from life’s experiences in general with compassion and understanding. Personally God has helped me do just that!

  • @ivahristova1230
    @ivahristova1230 9 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Just smiled for the first time today. Thank you! :)

  • @cherryjoyAcub
    @cherryjoyAcub 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brendon always hits the points in life.And we are very thankful of you for sharing your thoughts,your ability to motivate us and move forward to charge life that everyone should have.

  • @wyethhan7434
    @wyethhan7434 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm still in my never ending depression because It is about my permanent disability.. I woke up every day listening to you Brendon, you're actually my favorite human being I met online and I am grateful you're here. Thank you very much.. What makes us different makes us beautiful!I love you❤❤❤!! I'm setting goals now:1.)I swim 2.)Read 3.)I talk to almost everybody...I keep walking to get better!

  • @molinaa.k4463
    @molinaa.k4463 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow! Wht an automatic online doctor/ for me u know ,if i feel stuck @ ma life or if iam sad...first thing i do s ,
    1.go to youtube
    2.go to favourites
    3.clicking ur video
    After tht iam charged!!!!
    Thankz a lot brendon,
    U make me an ideal girl..everytime

  • @rosiemalley2302
    @rosiemalley2302 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been in a really bad situation recently with friends and hospitals but this video has made me feel better. I thank you for making me feel more positive. I'm gonna keep my head high from now on and appreciate everything and ignore the haters. Xxx

  • @tanyatrujillo9773
    @tanyatrujillo9773 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I used to listen to your videos all the time but I stopped but I’m glad I listened today ... i felt so empty and down.. thank you ..

  • @FirkinsFamily2012
    @FirkinsFamily2012 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoy listening to Brendon...times are really tough for my girls and I. We are so grateful to have such a great set of friends who care...

  • @josannehoo9772
    @josannehoo9772 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    My brother used to leave me notes reminding me of all the things that went well, so the least I can do for him is be positive for both of us and trust let go of control now.

  • @josannehoo9772
    @josannehoo9772 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    The good that’s coming out of my brothers illness is I’m choosing to stay focused and close to home and allow for help and really find unity and community which I’ve needed all my life

  • @maroselful
    @maroselful 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for your help. Your videos really helped me to get over difficult times in my life! Watching your videos since i was 16, and since then my thinking about life is really improved! Thank you

  • @WangDianqun
    @WangDianqun 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had a bad day, I can barely got out of my bed. My wrist hurts, my mood is low, and I have to think out solutions for all the problems I have now. It is not easy to feel normal on a day like this, I feel nothing is going right, but I know these problems do not come to stay, but come to pass and teach me lessons and make me stronger. Do three things, wake up, take a shower, have a walk outside, and then I am back on my track again. Thanks for your awesome videos !

  • @43658hgt
    @43658hgt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One thing I have found with really unbearable stress in very tough times is that when I go through it ..you are so so happy at the end that small any thing gives you a real joy and appreciation.

    • @43658hgt
      @43658hgt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I lost 3 loved ones in 12 months . I was also facing homelessness . It was a very dark time

  • @youtuberob
    @youtuberob 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I lost my job today, but thanks to brendon... I am not even in a bad mood! Here's to better things! thanks!

  • @Izzyk1_
    @Izzyk1_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Honestly, great video for a pick-me-up! I have a lot of issues with my family going on right now and I felt like I was on the edge till I saw this video. I will be a role model for my family and myself. I will be the best version of my self.

  • @minseoyo5870
    @minseoyo5870 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this support and tips. I lost my best friend today and I was crying the whole day.. I still am but thank you I feel much more better.. ❤😭

  • @beautybylily3651
    @beautybylily3651 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this, i suffer from depression and recently suffered an injury to my knee. Task have become 20x longer to accomplish but I am pushing and things will get better.

  • @CDD42
    @CDD42 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so tired of my own shit. Thank you for these vids I plan on watching them every single day to keep myself motivated because that's what I lack.

  • @No-one133
    @No-one133 8 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Brenden you have helped me so much and i would just like to thank you you have helped me get threw deppresion so just.... thank you

    • @misskurisutiinb
      @misskurisutiinb 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rebecca Maloy he’s helping through depression too 😇

  • @emmathunberg4350
    @emmathunberg4350 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brendon, you're literally the best ever. I'm just a 16 year old but you make me feel like my dreams aren't completely impossible.

  • @terinovotny7470
    @terinovotny7470 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Even during difficult times, everyone still has their 'best self'! Great video Brendon!!

  • @mahlaqajavaidakhter3448
    @mahlaqajavaidakhter3448 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Man
    Your video has made a great contribution in uplifting my spirits today, after being in a difficult situation emotionally currently.
    Already feeling lighter in the chest and feeling grateful for the blessings of God already have in my life.
    Going to make 3 goals for today .👍🏻
    Thanks again 🙏💐

  • @brianvillano8075
    @brianvillano8075 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    My parents are constantly fighting and you helped me so much. Thank you so much

  • @yungflexers6004
    @yungflexers6004 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I never thought I’d find this helpful but this has help me so much and I thank you for that and everyone who is going threw a bad time good look because I know how you feel, thank you.

  • @jafm4542
    @jafm4542 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    my god Brendon thank you. I was weeping watching through this. Everyday is a stuggle. This... gives me hope.

  • @San.drine.04
    @San.drine.04 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much again and again Brendon. You are such an inspiration! I'm grateful for your graciousness and generosity.

  • @lyudmillastepanian5811
    @lyudmillastepanian5811 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are very wise, love your energy, your attitude, your approach to the life's challenges, be blessed with love!!!!!!!!!!

  • @squillace91
    @squillace91 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Holy s this guy is amazing. Thank you so much! Sometimes we just want motivation to get through stuff and you give that to us. Thank you.

  • @pastrychef2495
    @pastrychef2495 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    thx you my brilliant hero for uplifting us every day.you address issues that others turn away from.thx you brendon ! following you daily !!

  • @Cheryl-ke4pp
    @Cheryl-ke4pp 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent video. May not seem like a big deal to most by I'm on day 48 of my pet running off. He was the love of my life & I have never dealt with such pain. Thank you Brendon for sharing this powerful message.

    • @gingerbee6719
      @gingerbee6719 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh no! Thats awful. Did you get ur baby back?? I hope.

  • @MarshmallowHumor
    @MarshmallowHumor 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    8:30 "How would my best self interact in this situation?" I've never asked myself that before, but now I will ask that of myself in every interaction. Thank you

  • @deleteddeleted8510
    @deleteddeleted8510 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very good videos, they really contribute to my mindset positively.
    Thank you Brendon. ( 13 years old and I still understand your videos, so that just shows how good you formulate your language.)

  • @EDParentCoach
    @EDParentCoach 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Brendan! I shared this with a group of moms of kids with eating disorders who have a lot of big challenges. I also added it to my list called: "Self Care" on my channel. Thanks, this is great stuff. Becky

  • @NancySolariLivingFullOut
    @NancySolariLivingFullOut 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Brendon, for the great advice. Life has struggles and obstacles. Having this reflective mindset will allow people to take actions and live life to the fullest.

  • @brianabel3351
    @brianabel3351 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very powerful stuff!!! It doesn't matter....i make sure I watch at least 10 min of Brendon a day. Stay positive folks!!!

  • @isaacblaine9935
    @isaacblaine9935 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much. I'm struggling terribly right now. And this video gave me hope.

  • @user-mx9bp9lu4p
    @user-mx9bp9lu4p 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I seeing this video with tears...i've been scold by team mates at work because i still a slow learner even 6 month in this team. I admit it. But it so harsh for me, everyday i been keep push, run with the due date...do a decision even at last,my decision all useless and be scold again. I feel really depress now...less sleep,no apetite and everytime feel anxiety. No appreciation even once....i cry again.

  • @omangas1
    @omangas1 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This hit a GRAND SLAM with me. I am now a subscriber and and follower.

  • @LastHumansGarage
    @LastHumansGarage 8 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    thanks Brandon. I watched this twice this morning.

  • @Liliann31
    @Liliann31 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    So inspiring, especially hearing about your own struggles. Yet again, another amazing video full of positivity. Thank you

  • @aliadalil8515
    @aliadalil8515 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I been watching you ,Thanks so much for your advices,i start see my life changing after my bad relationships ship and losing my business,Ben faraway from my family...last year was so painful,I told I never I will be happy again,but thanks to god and everyone given me support .
    Now I feel strong and happy, nothing will stop me to build myself again and again and again,I know I'll be better after what happened to me,everything made me stronger, I can see myself positive and happy again🐣
    life it's beautiful,
    don't waste your time go out and try to connect with everyone or talk to someone,always believe in yourself and give chance and be patient,I'm sure if u believe and you want to go out from the sadness you will see beautiful result,
    thanks to berndon.

  • @vichetraroth3621
    @vichetraroth3621 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brendon i really appreciate every single video of you. it distributes in many different part of my thought. Your video often bring me back my power to proceed though out my life path. Your videos always inspire me and cheer me up all times. May god bless you.

  • @HamzasaeedKhan
    @HamzasaeedKhan 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bradon you give us courage to live for our own. Thanks brother. God will give u it's reward after heavens

  • @gerrimiller3491
    @gerrimiller3491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Our challenges make us stronger. Stay hopeful and keep the Faith that things will improve 😊

  • @jennaarno7046
    @jennaarno7046 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video really helped me. I’m not depressed but sometimes I do take the negative things in life too seriously. In basketball, I’ve been doing really bad and I felt really embarrassed and in school I’ve been getting bad grades and I’ve made mistakes in friendships and such and said the wrong things and I need to realize to try to be my best self, to go to practice and not be scared because I need to face the fear and try hard to be the best basketball player I could be and try. Also I can Focus on going to school and studying more to increase my lack of positivity. That is the person I want to be!!i need to think before I speak to some people and not get super sad about loosing friends

  • @isaacwolowik
    @isaacwolowik 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks, Brendon. You’re a true, sweet, brilliant, and kind person. I love your videos and good character❤️❤️❤️

  • @AMITKUMAR-tr7ms
    @AMITKUMAR-tr7ms 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brandon you are awesome! I watch your videos everytime and I learnt how to be positive in difficult time. U r really true hero... 👏👏👏

  • @SAILxKamal
    @SAILxKamal 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Perfect Time! I was in need of that Positive Energy

  • @SusanWillful
    @SusanWillful 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. These were powerful reminders and suggestions. I can tell because it's making me bawl.

  • @bestactress1281
    @bestactress1281 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I went into watch this thinking its gonna be another video about the same old things repeating and I'd still not find that way out and I was wrong I know what's wrong with me already but I'd like to thank you for telling me how to work my way out of it.

  • @abhishekbiswas43
    @abhishekbiswas43 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I saw your youtube video some years before. then i was searching some self help videos. and now after some years today i found this video. I am so grateful for your contribution, Now things are making perfect sense. Thank you :-)

  • @jamesomondi8753
    @jamesomondi8753 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks a lot. i am going through a hard time, my semester has been called off till sept and i am really stressed. i have stayed in college for long and my family is almost giving up on me. but you keep me believing

  • @rebabby4
    @rebabby4 9 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Brendon Burchard, I lost my Mother 5 years ago today, and since then, my life seems to have spiraled out of of Control. My ex tried to kill me in front of my daughter just days after my mother passing. Nine months later, my Nana passed away. After about 6 months, I decided my children needed their father, then, the anger he showed became worse, scary. So this all happened while I lived In Ireland, my mother's birthplace, home of my entire family, right down to my brothers (mother and grandparents buried there) - I left Ireland to come home to the US, with the okay of the American Embassy with my two children, and my youngest was taken back to Ireland 4 months later - because Ireland is her "habitual" residence. After 3 returns back to Ireland within a year. to fight for my daughter to be able to be with me, I lost. He now has full custody. This all started 4 years ago. I found God, Hope, Spirituality and a passion that is going to be my career. (I hope) because I took the state exam last Wednesday and failed, by ONE point. Yes one. Friday morning, my partner of just over two years,.whom I live with - with my 13 year old,.has just said we need to "part ways". I need.to move out.... but - just before Christmas my car broke down. No vehicle now. It's gone. I am cleaning part-time to make some money, it's just not enough to save for a car, buy necessities, and pay bills such as phone and storage and etc. I am feeling so very hopeless all the time, and wondering, .when is it going to stop?..when is life going to stop kicking me while I'm down?
    Your videos and messages are so inspiring, but it seems like when I do those things you talk about.....I get kicked harder. Where's my line?

    • @s.ml.9060
      @s.ml.9060 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hello. How are you dear? How are things now? Keep being strong, it will get better one day.

    • @sbatorie
      @sbatorie 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey Rebecca, after reading your story I was too sad, for all the things that happened to you and that you had to endure, but I pray and hope that you'll find the necessary light in your life to guide you, I wish that everything's gonna work out for you in the end.

    • @mialiasia224
      @mialiasia224 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rebecca Williams Stay strong ♥ God is with u!!!

    • @godisgracious3505
      @godisgracious3505 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rebecca I'm very sorry about your plight, I hope you have good people in your life you can talk to. Take care!!! Pls

    • @blazinbuc99
      @blazinbuc99 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rebecca Williams I pray for you little sister

  • @cjsbody08
    @cjsbody08 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    So very true. Thank you, It could be worst, but GOD is good and GOD is love, and I am grateful

  • @sonnenblume2720
    @sonnenblume2720 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for that! I needed to see this and understand that it will get better with the time. It always does.

  • @marie1978ify
    @marie1978ify 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don’t even realize I was that bad until I watched this video. Thank you Brendon. I felt so much better.

  • @AndyRaeber
    @AndyRaeber 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brendan is always a positive pleasure. Thanks

  • @LpFr3aK
    @LpFr3aK 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    You sir, are really, really awesome. You just opened my eyes. I hope I can keep the positivity. Im starting to feel how my old-self is shaking me, to get up.
    Dont get me wrong. I'm doing sports, im good at school.. but thats not enough. I need to go out and do stuff. Thank you!

  • @lola6778
    @lola6778 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your videos. U are so gifted .. thanks for the motivation. I put my mom on your videos, now she keep saying she has a charged life lol. thanks and many blessings to u and urs

  • @TheEwelina2
    @TheEwelina2 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would like to say THANK YOU for The video.. I am in a dificult siatuation now and I don't have anybody to talk about it so i was kind of depressed and giving up, but that video made me motivated. Thank you!

  • @tokiyoalexandrous9696
    @tokiyoalexandrous9696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    THANK YOU FOR THIS AMAZING VIDEO! Yesterday I was feeling so negative, sad and lost... I haven’t done much in days as I am struggling with life big time... I was crying for no reason (I guess it was desperation) by finding this video on you tube, I have to say my mood changed after as I connected with Brendon’s words. Today I am feeling better!
    However I would like to ask some questions?
    How can you make changes when struggling with finances? How to connect with the right people who have a go getter mind set when the mood is the lowest?
    My tendency right now has been avoidance, I don’t really tell people what’s going on (I am ashamed, because I used to have a good life.
    After the cancer I have been struggling with my present life, recently I became “sofa homeless”
    When people are depressed no one wants to be by your side, and unfortunately this my cause more pain, loneliness and separation. Where to find the light?
    I know that this is just temporary, and after this video I will apply the right vocabulary to influence my actions!
    Thank you for this great video!

  • @brandongordon7058
    @brandongordon7058 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks brotha, i watch3. Of your videos every morning I get up!!!

  • @AntonioSmith-RCA
    @AntonioSmith-RCA 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Brendon. You totally nailed it for me, this is exactly what I needed to hear to get me back on track

  • @ryker6richard
    @ryker6richard 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    GOOD REMINDER OF ALL THE THINGS WE FORGET...TO FUNCTION.. THANKS, GOOD SHORT AND SWEET CLIP..

  • @TheGabeSchaub
    @TheGabeSchaub 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brendon thank you for this online portfolio of videos. Like you, my issues are stemming from an accident which resulted in post-concussive syndrome. Often times it's hard to control my ruminating thoughts which leads to anxiety and poor mental attitude/physical well-being. I look forward to putting some of your techniques into action and create a better perspective on what I have to look forward to.

  • @kokobeach9653
    @kokobeach9653 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks man for your words I was collapsed depressed feel like lost very tiny bit of my life empty from inside I felt I'm not living just exist

  • @olgakucharska3836
    @olgakucharska3836 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Brendon. I was depressed because I've lost control over my agenda because of my tomorrow's "computer networks" test. I've studied half of the night and felt depressed when I couldn't learn any more but when you asked "What should I be learning here?" I just immediately started laughing because I've realised I should be learning about "computer networks" . I just 've realised that this half of night spent on learning was great spent. Thank you very much Brendon for all of your work. You've helped me so many times.

  • @larasmith2931
    @larasmith2931 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    🦋So true! Sometimes you have to show others the way to overcome the negative. Always look for the light

  • @merlinsandra4405
    @merlinsandra4405 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "God shall supply all our needs according to His riches in glory. " Our faith in God shall bring us closer to Him and he will grant his blessings and shower us with His grace n mercy even through hardships and battles.... Amen!!.....

  • @bellydancerocks321
    @bellydancerocks321 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just what I needed, straight forward, simple and to the point advice to help me get through an extremely difficult time. Thank you! :)

  • @Hemo1231000
    @Hemo1231000 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the video I watch every time I face some challenges .. Thanks Brendon

  • @laney2824
    @laney2824 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am going through a hard time and i fake a smile and what i really want to do is to cry.
    This video really helped🙂

  • @cindycastaneda8606
    @cindycastaneda8606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really enjoyed this video Brendon ! I feel that like you said when we see everything as bleak, we have to really remember the good times in life. Thank you! :)