Would You Prefer A Married Man Who Never Tells You No... Or Your Own Man Who Says No 45% Of The Time

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  • @Looking871
    @Looking871 ปีที่แล้ว +644

    What an unbelievable time we live in that this is even a question. Sad.

    • @toyita4431
      @toyita4431 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      FACTS!!!!

    • @karynejoseph
      @karynejoseph ปีที่แล้ว +51

      I can’t believe my ears. I remember when people felt shame. This is now normalized. Sad

    • @misst3016
      @misst3016 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👏🏾

    • @ogriss412
      @ogriss412 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was just going to say the same thing

    • @4naymsakeRW
      @4naymsakeRW ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly..smh

  • @izzyme7531
    @izzyme7531 ปีที่แล้ว +355

    As a black woman, no woman with high self esteem that respect herself will mess with a married man. No wonder men don't respect certain women. Lord, Help Us😞

    • @Coolness18304
      @Coolness18304 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      It's deeper than self-esteem. It's morally wrong and is forbidden in almost every single religious book known to man.

    • @Awillii
      @Awillii ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Or themself

    • @jenlab4174
      @jenlab4174 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yup!!

    • @cinnamonkash1175
      @cinnamonkash1175 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes I agree.

    • @user-vd1vm7cs3x
      @user-vd1vm7cs3x ปีที่แล้ว

      Anyone hear of "To Understand Humanity" on kindle

  • @djonesthe21
    @djonesthe21 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    6:18 “it doesn’t fit my image, I’m a god fearing woman” but dating a married man. You CANNOT make this shit up 🤣

    • @nickelbus7596
      @nickelbus7596 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Dem niggas was crying 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @brandonbrown6918
      @brandonbrown6918 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m not a bible guy, but this shid sounds like satan at work. Her soul telling her to not get into it, but she still does….

    • @retrosuperfuture5348
      @retrosuperfuture5348 ปีที่แล้ว

      Crazy these people live closer to atheist lives than actual atheists lmao. Sickening

    • @ezravonhindenburg1240
      @ezravonhindenburg1240 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That's a TRUE Christian right there.

    • @ZoraNH.dusttracks1891
      @ZoraNH.dusttracks1891 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      A walking contradiction….then had the nerve to being whispering lol

  • @SoulOfOle
    @SoulOfOle ปีที่แล้ว +150

    Listening to this is exactly why I don’t mess with more than half of society. Trifling just because 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah they are sounding crazy out here and I am a woman 😳

    • @vnosike
      @vnosike ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just because

    • @quincykhalifa
      @quincykhalifa ปีที่แล้ว

      TRIFLIN hoes 😭

  • @Wyntah888
    @Wyntah888 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Envy starts vibrating anytime the cheating topic comes up 😂 I’m so happy he regrets it❤

    • @tball2688
      @tball2688 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      naw he doesnt regret it, it regret he got caught and the thought of giving gia half of all of his shit plus alimony, plus child support with all them damn kids, and the government will scare any man straight

    • @rashidalivingston9721
      @rashidalivingston9721 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And with Erica who is crazy, you know their time in the bedroom was bananas. That was before Erica did any surgery on her face & she was insanely beautiful.

  • @ginoblackofficial
    @ginoblackofficial ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Sounds like a bunch of immature young girls who said yes to the married man. They cool with it until they fall in love, but he don’t leave his wife for her. Then they become batshit crazy! 😜

  • @RoxxStr
    @RoxxStr ปีที่แล้ว +153

    The amount of people ok with being with married men just because they don't want to hear no, is absurd and sad. And the ones with no shame is really disturbing.

    • @MrColdwilliam
      @MrColdwilliam ปีที่แล้ว

      There is a reason why the entire planet and every major religion has imposed strict social restrictions on women's sovereignty since the dawn of time in every place humans have ever lived.

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And they all sound like similar types of women

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว

      They do sound similar. The overly caring type that is too much for the single man with many options, but perfect for the amount of attention for the “seemingly” neglected or lack there of married man.

  • @suga2200
    @suga2200 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I hate this day of age of relationships. People are not happy being married and it’s terrible!

    • @MsGrace-wu6bj
      @MsGrace-wu6bj ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sadly, fewer young people are not getting married at all.

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It hasn’t changed. We just hear more due to social media. Cheating men have always had side pieces and mistresses. Back in the day outside kids and having another family on the other side of town wasn’t unheard of. That means those women accepted being with a married man. That’s just life for some…unfortunately.

  • @King-Killa-Ca
    @King-Killa-Ca ปีที่แล้ว +24

    These Broads are for Sale 😂

  • @BlkRob2105
    @BlkRob2105 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    No other race of women would proudly call in and say this.... This is embarrassing.🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @srianna0416
      @srianna0416 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's the breakfast clubs demographic. Believe me, it's normalized in every race. White men even have their mistresses on payroll and have them as their secretary.

    • @nickelbus7596
      @nickelbus7596 ปีที่แล้ว

      No other race of women have lips butts and hips and tits 🤤

    • @toyita4431
      @toyita4431 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is not dependent on race. I'm sick of the narrative that only BLACK women do this. I work with primarily white women and let me tell you.....THEY REAL MESSY...THEY CHEAT..THEY GOT BABY MOMMAS AND DADDYS... STOP THE UNTRUE NARRATIVE

    • @nickelbus7596
      @nickelbus7596 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@toyita4431 Shid, yt women da nastiest, don't ask me how I know 😔

    • @ruebascu
      @ruebascu ปีที่แล้ว

      Can't agree with this one. Wmn of all races have proud degenerates

  • @randolphsmith7020
    @randolphsmith7020 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    DJ Envy had me weak I can't relate😂😂😂😂😂

  • @fabial7547
    @fabial7547 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    💛❤️💚I want my own MAN, a married man will never be able to give me what I want, need, or desire.

    • @Ac3Badger
      @Ac3Badger ปีที่แล้ว

      What do you want, need, and desire??

    • @fabial7547
      @fabial7547 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Kindness, patience, understanding, empathy, and compassion. She needs her man to be matured, calm, composed, and in control. Show her that you can face your fears and you do not need to run away from them. Impulsive is fine sometimes but show that you can take calculated risks as well. A woman loves it if she knows she can lean on her man.

    • @shannan4580
      @shannan4580 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you

    • @KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds
      @KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds ปีที่แล้ว

      Aren't want and desire synonyms?

  • @awsohmvision
    @awsohmvision ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Envy wife got that man petrified lol

  • @mariaantoinette3958
    @mariaantoinette3958 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Maybe we should tell these husbands to honor their vows. That would be a better conversation to have.

    • @MrColdwilliam
      @MrColdwilliam ปีที่แล้ว

      of course it would be a "better conversation", anything that allows women to deflect their part in the blame is better. Because modern western women reason, think, and behave like children.

    • @realiztik6670
      @realiztik6670 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's the women that's the problem. If the man is married why doesn't she walk away.

    • @jas1565
      @jas1565 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@@realiztik6670 LOL why is the husband entertaining the woman?

    • @MrColdwilliam
      @MrColdwilliam ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jas1565 lol, why do women want a married man who will never say no over a single man who will tell them no *less often than they will say yes*. Women will pick being homewreckers over hearing no 45% of the time. Reasoning like children.
      Your need to not shame them, hold them accountable, and deny their consequences is exactly why they act like this.

    • @jas1565
      @jas1565 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MrColdwilliam lol why are married men entertaining women who aren't their wives?

  • @adrenna1973
    @adrenna1973 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    If you can't handle the word no in a relationship, you should not be in one. #boundaries

    • @aikirej
      @aikirej ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree

    • @MsGrace-wu6bj
      @MsGrace-wu6bj ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤...facts

    • @Genesisonetwentyseven
      @Genesisonetwentyseven ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If you're cheating, then you shouldn't be in a relationship

    • @aikirej
      @aikirej ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Genesisonetwentyseven Exactly.

    • @monalisa125th
      @monalisa125th ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We have been hearing NO since we could understand a language. So you're telling me they still haven't accepted the word no. Smh. Woman need to grow up and become women..

  • @Cocomel444
    @Cocomel444 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    I’d prefer my own man. A man that always says yes is a red flag for me. He’s hiding something. If my man tells me no 45% of the time, then the other 55% of a time he’s saying yes, but I may be saying no. For me, it’s balances in the end🙃

    • @bigelowkaryn
      @bigelowkaryn ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Agreed! A man who says yes all the time probably doesn’t have a backbone

    • @goldteethpoohproductions2707
      @goldteethpoohproductions2707 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🔥🔥🔥 COMMENTS

    • @Ellobuhbyehair
      @Ellobuhbyehair ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly.
      I have a friend who was dating someone that was extremely passive, complete people pleaser. He had no backbone, no personality, no real opinions on anything. Ultimately, my friend ended the relationship because of this.

    • @donaldjones2370
      @donaldjones2370 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s the truth. Why would a woman be with a yes person?

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว

      Everyone is different. Depends on what the individual experienced growing up.
      For example, if always told “no” and now later in life found someone who will say “yes” most of the time. It’s like a high the person doesn’t want to come down from.
      Or the individual is flat out controlling 😂.

  • @msnewsenior
    @msnewsenior ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Isn’t a married man telling you no by default because you’re not his first choice? 😂 😂 😂

  • @Mac-Mac-hb4ec
    @Mac-Mac-hb4ec ปีที่แล้ว +24

    When Envy said “ I can’t relate.” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😒😒😒mane still in the dog house 10+ years later

    • @danireid6123
      @danireid6123 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Has he should. He learnt if lesson

    • @Mac-Mac-hb4ec
      @Mac-Mac-hb4ec ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@danireid6123 buddy will forever trying to prove his forgiveness

    • @user-vd1vm7cs3x
      @user-vd1vm7cs3x ปีที่แล้ว

      Anyone hear of "To Understand Humanity" on kindle

    • @brendahenry134
      @brendahenry134 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He can't relate because the woman he cheated with is also famous and everyone would be talking about it and that would be like reliving it all over again. So he acts like that person doesn't exist be acknowledges he cheated before. I think if he sat anything it would be like saying he had feelings for that person he cheated with which I'm sure he do but don't want the smoke 🤔 and CTG can cause he must have been smashing regular no body ass girls. I don't know if his wife said he could but I was glad to hear him relate some how today and call Envy out knowing Envy wasn't gonna touch the subject.

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว

      @@brendahenry134 Great point!

  • @SolarLove7
    @SolarLove7 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Now I see why women don’t allow other women to be around their husbands this is sad 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @SamathaRobertson
      @SamathaRobertson ปีที่แล้ว +8

      men will do what they want to do regardless if they are around other women are not, the world is full of women everywhere, you can't hide a man in a box

    • @jas1565
      @jas1565 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      If you feel the need to do this as a married woman, you should probably be single.

    • @VictoriousByDivineRight
      @VictoriousByDivineRight ปีที่แล้ว

      Samantha you sound old hurt and bitter!

    • @missari05
      @missari05 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I have to agree. I had a “friend” who would always come around and then she started asking my husband for money telling him these crazy sob stories. He told me what she was going and I cut her off immediately. This was a “god fearing woman” as well. I don’t bring women friends to my home for this very reason. They do the most out of pocket things. Now men will do what they hell they want sure, but I am not aiding and abetting!!

    • @Genesisonetwentyseven
      @Genesisonetwentyseven ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They should keep their husbands on a leash bc he's clearly the one after someone else. I get hit on more by married men than single. A married man is more likely to shoot his shot and have the full confidence to do it. I have NEVER approached a man who was married.

  • @gunsdown4497
    @gunsdown4497 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    A lot of y’all don’t want a good man. Y’all want a trick or a simp!! Y’all want a yes man. A man whose only purpose is to serve you and not himself or goals!! Y’all couldn’t handle a “real good man.” Y’all can’t handle a man correcting you. or calling you out on yo bs and habits and holding you accountable. Y’all want a sponsor. A real man is going to lead and not be led. A real man isn’t going to allow you to have those same habits you been having. A real man is going to stand up for himself and know his worth. A lot of y’all definitions of a good man is a man that y’all can control.

    • @jbrown7
      @jbrown7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      🎯

    • @magnumthomas984
      @magnumthomas984 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      💯

    • @vonneal1
      @vonneal1 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Drop the mic 🎤

    • @ehTCaptain
      @ehTCaptain ปีที่แล้ว +2

      BROOOO ☝🏿☝🏿 This the one right here. I recently got out of a relationship and could not have put it better myself. This is how I feel about her.

    • @RoxxStr
      @RoxxStr ปีที่แล้ว

      Whewwww, you better preach!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @MrsJones-oj3cp
    @MrsJones-oj3cp ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Heard this earlier and couldn’t believe my ears. So basically relationships are strictly about getting everything you want physically and materially? I could say way more but y’all already said it all. Just wow!

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว

      A lot of women are seeing the levels of stress marriage causes other women more than the happy and healthy marriages.
      Now that women can make a higher level of income, they are skipping the ups and downs stages and jumping straight to the benefits of a relationship.

  • @wildkims2008
    @wildkims2008 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    everybody got heat for all the side pieces, but none for these triflin ass men betraying their wives!!!!!

    • @MrColdwilliam
      @MrColdwilliam ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Here it is. The "whatabout another person to blame/but they did wrong too". No matter what the topic is, you will hear this when it starts looking like women will face shame, accountability, or consequences for their actions.
      Those men ain't ish. They're trash. Now what? Makes these trash women better? Or just as bad? You feel better now that someone deflected for a second?

    • @MsGrace-wu6bj
      @MsGrace-wu6bj ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@MrColdwilliam it does not make "trash women" better but there should be accountability on both sides. Both are wrong for a multitude of reasons but they got to the point of being wrong together.

    • @jas1565
      @jas1565 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@MrColdwilliam I think the person who is in a committed relationship and made the decision to marry should be held more accountable.. whether it's a man or woman.

    • @MrColdwilliam
      @MrColdwilliam ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MsGrace-wu6bj of course those men should be held accountable. This is about the women. It's about the choice women make - wanting a married man over hearing "no" 45% of the time. That was the question. But because it's about women and they're making themselves look bad, it's time to look at the men who aren't even being asked. Lol

    • @MrColdwilliam
      @MrColdwilliam ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jas1565 do me one small favor, please answer: what exactly, word for word, was the topic that sparked this question?
      Answer that and you'll understand why this is about the women WHO WERE ASKED THEIR PREFERENCE

  • @Ratgodx
    @Ratgodx ปีที่แล้ว +75

    What’s the single motherhood rate in our community again? Asking for…us.

    • @djonesthe21
      @djonesthe21 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Simple answer, TOO DAMN HIGH

    • @srianna0416
      @srianna0416 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      But the sad thing is they're messing with the married womens husbands. I want to be married but the amount of married men that cheat is scary.

    • @Playboy61788
      @Playboy61788 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      4.2 million CONFIRMED 🥲

    • @mathewx6897
      @mathewx6897 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      80%

    • @MrColdwilliam
      @MrColdwilliam ปีที่แล้ว

      Yo, as bad as it is: listen to these women. Who could stay with these hyper masculine, aggressively childish, no limit soldier wannabes?

  • @Anonymous-nz2qe
    @Anonymous-nz2qe ปีที่แล้ว +9

    lmaoooooooooooooooo the side chick explaining how godly she is gotta be the funniest thing on the internet right now

    • @doudymac
      @doudymac ปีที่แล้ว

      And she doesn't even see how stupid she sounds. 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @DeeDaKaang1
    @DeeDaKaang1 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    There is an entire group of women who have classified themselves as sidechicks....
    No she doesn't want to cook for you, clean for you, wash your clothes, or ask you how your day was......She just wants to show up, get it in & bounce after getting broke off for the shoes, bag, or bill she needs to pay.

    • @MrColdwilliam
      @MrColdwilliam ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Social Media has built an entire low cost escort class. Madness.

    • @user-be9ck5ir5h
      @user-be9ck5ir5h ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MrColdwilliamno. men’s behavior caused this. yall were rejecting love when women were trying to give it, yall were cheating etc so now women aren’t looking for love anymore & yall wanna act appalled💀

    • @Truth_Tella
      @Truth_Tella ปีที่แล้ว

      This is exactly what most chicks want nowadays. Once you get in it there's actually extortion if you try to leave them alone.

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว

      Not necessarily. That’s a stereotypical definition that started as a stand up comedy act. Many of these married men are basically in 2 relationships. One has a title as wife and the other doesn’t. The side can choose how much he or she wants to do for the married man…since his wife can take on many major responsibilities.

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MrColdwilliam Now that we can agree on.

  • @pastorcalvinberry
    @pastorcalvinberry ปีที่แล้ว +15

    My heart is hurting hearing these phone calls except for one caller….. Wow these are my black sisters.

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว

      Those are your black men too. They both serve a purpose for each other, which is why it exists.

  • @driafibromyalgiafighter9342
    @driafibromyalgiafighter9342 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Im choosing my MORALS! Neither will work for me. Its disgusting af messing with a married man! Karma will hit u harder than the wife ever could.

  • @MinistryB4Industry
    @MinistryB4Industry ปีที่แล้ว +22

    You can call it poly if you want to, in order to make yourself feel better about it. But it's REALLY called "a low self-esteem side piece" that will never be good enough to marry. And when he gets tired of you, your done

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว

      You are reciting the same script. Many men do leave the wife, it’s just not reported often because no one is happy to share that side of the story. The side piece isn’t committed and can leave at any time as well. She or he has emotions and can get tired too.
      There are plenty of stories with married men going crazy and trying to hurt of kill the side/mistress for leaving him. Feelings go both ways.
      Also, why are the cheating men being removed from accountability and making the side to be a circus act? Apparently he wasn’t “good enough” to marry because he can’t stay faithful. Y’all are brainwashed with the marriage material mindset, when it doesn’t exist.

    • @MinistryB4Industry
      @MinistryB4Industry ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AN-fg4cd Reality is not a script. Also if it doesn't get reported then how do you know it even happens much? And of course there's usually exceptions to every rule, but that's definitely NOT the norm. And I'm not talking about psychopaths who try to harm or muder their woman. I'm talking about the everyday dude who may cheat. If he's put in a position where he has to choose between his wife and family, or the side chick. The side chick is done, he won't leave his wife.

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MinistryB4Industry So now we have to be talking about a “psychopath”? It happens with people who can’t control their emotions. You also won’t know how common for leaving because most folks aren’t eager to share their story. SMH.

    • @MinistryB4Industry
      @MinistryB4Industry ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AN-fg4cd Yeah that's called a psychopath. When you commit deadly violence over a relationship. There are plenty of people who can't really control their emotions, and they get angry and yell. But they Don't commit murder or harm people. That's a psychopath

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MinistryB4Industry It’s called a crime of passion, committed daily by everyday people who snapped (plenty stories on YT to watch).
      I work in the mental health field and a “psychopath” is completely different per the definition and proper diagnosis. It’s fine that you stretched it to make a point. Nice profile pic. Have a great week.

  • @bluebutterfly5684
    @bluebutterfly5684 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why are all these married men so available?!?😂😂😂😂 Too much free time and energy. It cracks me up that side chicks think that they’re the only side chick. These men make time for their priorities.

    • @Genesisonetwentyseven
      @Genesisonetwentyseven ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The first question you asked was the most important one. Do you see how much shame is put on the women but not why the man is cheating. Women will stay with their cheating ass man

  • @speaktruthpeace1612
    @speaktruthpeace1612 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Definitely NOT a married man. I’m ok with being told NO. Women can’t complain about being protected & then turn around & have an attitude about a man telling you no.
    SMH at the first caller giggling at dating a married man.

    • @brandonbrown6918
      @brandonbrown6918 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Right…. Why there so many childish women(and men) in the community. What world is there you in a relationship where your partner can’t tell you no, or say you off? Men and women. This is crazy.

  • @markcusvongphachanh
    @markcusvongphachanh ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Please take care of your daughters with love this is sad

  • @jrtobun8426
    @jrtobun8426 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    A married man cant tell you yes all the time if he did then he isnt married

  • @themealeyfamily
    @themealeyfamily ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The men said the most important things, but the first thing is why are you messing with a married man in the first place?! Lune asked why are you worried about what’s going on at his house? And lastly as Charla says, what makes you think you know his wife and that he’s not attracted to his wife? It’s the husband fault for making these side girls think they hold the cards and have one up over his wife by risking his marriage to be with her for a moment, not realizing the wife holds all the cards and in some states can even sue you for adultery and being the mistress.

  • @allabouttheview
    @allabouttheview ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Wow! Did not expect to see so many volunteer to be a side like that. Kind of eye opening.

  • @blondie7389
    @blondie7389 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I wouldn’t expect for a man that say yes 100 percent of the time, cause us women not saying yes to everything single thing asked🤷🏽‍♀️🤣🤣

  • @kengy1991
    @kengy1991 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    And this is why our community cannot build family wealth.

    • @javiruiz8365
      @javiruiz8365 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly!! Because they are ignorant

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s actually the opposite. Many men with generational wealth throughout history had “mistresses”. Those mistresses served the same purpose these side pieces do today.

  • @cinnamonkash1175
    @cinnamonkash1175 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Why are all these women ok with dating a married man? We really need to work on healing ourselves. This is truly sad

  • @RobertBradleyRSB
    @RobertBradleyRSB ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This whole conversation is sad as hell. 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @jbrown7
    @jbrown7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    We are in the last days😬🤦🏾‍♂️ fix it Jesus

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s been this way since man was given a penis. We just hear it more now due to social media.

  • @cynthart83
    @cynthart83 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It sounds like these women calling in, are more afraid of being cheated on and left single. They didn't really address getting the "yes" or "no". These woman are low self esteem and accepted their fate. They have no expetations and ask no questions, they know they are worthless.

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว

      Better to know then not know.

  • @amethyst659
    @amethyst659 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Damn only one woman said no. It's the most ridiculous thing I have heard on hear thought it was a ticky too thing

  • @getreadynow647
    @getreadynow647 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    When I was younger, I dealt with married men and believe me I've reaped what I sowed for a very long time and now that I'm older I repent for what I did and feel real bad for the wives. I tell my daughters to never fool with anybody's husbands or has beens it's not worth it and you'll feel the after effects later in life

    • @RoxxStr
      @RoxxStr ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🙌🏽🙏🏽

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว

      This is a new generation of men and women. They don’t care or feel anything…unfortunately.

  • @DreamMaker_970
    @DreamMaker_970 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This shows how broken and emotionally damaged so many of our black women are smh sad.

    • @MrColdwilliam
      @MrColdwilliam ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome to the western world of feminism. Remove shame, accountability, and consequences. Replace them with pride, attention, and praise. Watch women become narcissists, sociopaths, and exhibit histrionic personality disorders.

    • @javiruiz8365
      @javiruiz8365 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And black men!!! Either they are killed or in prison or ignorant and then they think why nobody in the entire world likes them or want to be around them

    • @nettegaines2067
      @nettegaines2067 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s what it really is.😢

  • @elisavetsandoval5362
    @elisavetsandoval5362 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Omg!! 😂 Ladies what is going on!? We can get our own shits!!!

  • @HeyBloss
    @HeyBloss ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I prefer the my own man who says no 45% of the time. Because honestly, sometimes we NEED to be told no as humans. Plus, what you give out comes back to you. These side chicks do not care about the wife until they BECOME the wife, and her husband has a side chick...Plus depending on what it is, I could probably do it myself if a man says no.

    • @CryssEzeuka
      @CryssEzeuka ปีที่แล้ว +1

      that part!!!!

    • @MrColdwilliam
      @MrColdwilliam ปีที่แล้ว

      It's crazy that these women proudly said they couldn't handle hearing yes a majority of the time. It had to be all the time.
      Children. They reason like children.

  • @cristallikethechampagne8243
    @cristallikethechampagne8243 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    These are the same women who will say there are no good men left. That’s wild.

  • @vanessaturner3982
    @vanessaturner3982 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The man knows he's in a relationship or knows that he is married and said his vows he should not be cheating and then there will be no side chicks everybody have to think for themselves except the man he has a brain use it to not cheat

    • @Genesisonetwentyseven
      @Genesisonetwentyseven ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Women don't want to have this talk bc then they would have to face the monster in their home

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Genesisonetwentyseven Exactly. The amount of brainwashing with “the wife gets more” is insane.

  • @ladyschatze9159
    @ladyschatze9159 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I never want to mess with a married man. You bring karma to yourself when you meet a man that wants to be with you .

  • @sheilawyatt898
    @sheilawyatt898 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I always say that men will only do what a women allows. The fact that women are OPENLY agreeing to share a man that's married is crazy to me. Is the picking that slim that you gotta settle? If I fount out my husband had a piece on the side, I'm not addressing that with the woman she didn't take the vows. He gotta get that smoke and its not gonna be pretty.

  • @latyshal.2286
    @latyshal.2286 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My own man who tells me no 45% of the time. I don't want a married man nor do I want a "yes man."

  • @B-Easy78
    @B-Easy78 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Nah, I’ll take my own. I think it’s the women that never been married or younger ones saying this. After a certain age, I need to know someone is there for me as a priority. Nights get lonely in the bed ALL the time by myself and I need a REAL emergency contact. I got enough of my own money, so my husband just helps my savings account. I can say YES to MYSELF.

  • @Senbonzakura721
    @Senbonzakura721 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I like how that one chick was like single guys will cheat so just get with the married man. 🙄 dating is becoming more and more scary, especially when you’re listening to women say they would rather be with someone married then a single man

    • @MrColdwilliam
      @MrColdwilliam ปีที่แล้ว

      Women, according to themselves are: hyper masculine, aggressive, proudly toxic, easily bought, and will fight before hearing "no".
      Lol, good luck y'all.

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว

      As another poster mentioned, the married man had already become “domestic” in his way of being. He’s developed a routine from his marriage on how to care for a woman. Not that a single man can’t, he just might not of had the experience on the married man’s level…unless the single man was once married for a long period of time.

  • @NandoBCB
    @NandoBCB ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Sounds like you're sleeping with somebody husband." 😂

  • @FLS.-
    @FLS.- ปีที่แล้ว +8

    How is this even a question ⁉️ 😳.... When did it become acceptable and a social norm to mess with married people! How is this okay and where have I been to not know that there's no shame in dating married people! 🤔🧐

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s been that way since man and woman existed. We just hear it more due to social media.

  • @arimax888
    @arimax888 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Yikes! Sometimes we are our own worst enemy!😤No self respecting women would be okay with being with a already taken man(half a man) let alone casually & flamboyantly brag about it. So tragic considering how our community is rife with single mothers

    • @MrColdwilliam
      @MrColdwilliam ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The women don't have self respect.

  • @annabella7188
    @annabella7188 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She got the ring and papers, nope not competing with the wife!!! That kind of karma hit different 👀

  • @blakex2699
    @blakex2699 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    My mom waa a daycare teacher. One of her student dads waa trying to flirt with her and offee to take her out on a date. She was like aren't you married and he said so 🤷😂. She was like hell no. She really conservative. I know it rare today but have values. But it wild i don't get why married men just don't stay single. You don't got to do all this. Isn't it exhausting. Or like Charlemagne said. Poly relationshipsn are logical. Jade Pickett talk about this on the red table 😂😂😂. Before the august thing. A married couple was on there. Dude had a gf. His wife had a boyfriend. I feel that but why call it marriage. I be in a poly and not be married. But that me 😂. A poly marriage better then cheating

  • @shanikafreeman8025
    @shanikafreeman8025 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Nope! I don't share or play nice with my man. I can't be out here settling for seconds, leftovers, borrowed, sides, or community peni.🙄Speaking from experience, a side piece can only ask for so much to stay in her position bc he can swap them out by the f if he likes. But that wife knows when and how to get a yes. He said yes at the alter, her position is secured. She usually the one who put time in, built him up to have other women desire him anyway.🤣She also understands the no is for what's best for her.

  • @wintersantiago2274
    @wintersantiago2274 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It’s sad that so many women have to pretend they’re all these great things but settle for sharing a man.

  • @mickeycohen5653
    @mickeycohen5653 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If you gone mess with multiple ppl just don’t get married…. Y’all doin too much

  • @sillygirl891
    @sillygirl891 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Listen I was one of the callers . Some of these men are already cheating on their wives . Stop blaming the woman when it's your man is the one who made those vows . Poly relationships is the man is sleeping with other women and the wife knows it.

    • @Genesisonetwentyseven
      @Genesisonetwentyseven ปีที่แล้ว

      Girl save your breath, these people are brain washed and dangerous

  • @briond4263
    @briond4263 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This question is hilarious 😂

  • @HotGACPA
    @HotGACPA ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You have to think of where this poll was conducted. The women didn’t think passed the surface. The married man is already telling the sidechick no by having you as a sidechick.

    • @4naymsakeRW
      @4naymsakeRW ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you! And second obvious point and question, why do sides automatically think they are the only one? Based on what information, what he told you?? Chile....

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว

      Not necessarily. Many men do leave, if the side chick wants to marry them. You just don’t hear about those stories, because now that they are married it’s not a something to share with the world.
      I think the statistics of men leaving are higher than people think…but, men still brainwashed women into thinking that not the case. I’ve seen a man and his wife cuss the mistress out. He is now married with a kid to the mistress and most folks don’t know their story…acting as a happy family now.

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว

      @@4naymsakeRW Well many men don’t have time to entertain more than 2 women as a secret. The men who do are the wild ones and you can spot them a mile away.

    • @4naymsakeRW
      @4naymsakeRW ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AN-fg4cdThat's what they tell you lol Sleeping with does not always equal entertaining. Some women don't care about going on dates, just companionship and/ or money. Some men go to sex workers for something quick. My point is you'd be suprised what some people can squeeze in when claiming " too busy". If someone shows you their deceitful character towards another person, its silly to assume they won't do it to you

    • @4naymsakeRW
      @4naymsakeRW ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AN-fg4cd Many of them? I think thats a false narrative, maybe some, but not many. But even so, unless there is a dire reason, i.e. domestic violence, some kind of horrible treatment towards the kids, a pattern of cheating from the current spouse after addressing it and/or going to counseling, some thing like that ( not excuses like " she's too argumentative" , not sleeping together enough, she doesn't treat me like a man, she doesn't cook enough. Etc.), the side will have to know their slot will be open if she is upgraded to wife. Don't let emotions cloud the obvious. If you are successful to pull a married spouse or a committed bf in a living together relationship out, just know you have a long road, day in day out, of trying to make sure the next chick won't do the same. That's a lot of stress to live with, not something I would want to do..

  • @msloveflo
    @msloveflo ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I don’t understand the question and those responses.
    Are we really discussing side chick and married men as a complicit relationship?! I’m not naive that extramarital relationships don’t happen …. But c’mon!! We need better and healthier topics that uplift faithful relationships rather than being ok with this.

    • @MrColdwilliam
      @MrColdwilliam ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sunlight is the best disinfectant. Expose all this and then start dealing with it.
      2023 is the year accountability knocks on women's door.

  • @HumptyMcFly
    @HumptyMcFly ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It used to be that a man would get a wingman to help him pull a woman but now it’s get a wing-wife to get an additional girlfriend.

  • @freakytalespod
    @freakytalespod ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The fact all them woman said who say no 😂😂😂tf world is y'all living in yooo and so y'all sayin y'all will rather have a married man is crazy

  • @smilealwaysnatasha3423
    @smilealwaysnatasha3423 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My own. Why would I want to share?

  • @toyadanielle4044
    @toyadanielle4044 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They got Envy stuttering lol

  • @Cee_Nelly
    @Cee_Nelly ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This whole conversation is insanity

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, and the wife gets more thinking is ridiculous. Who cares? He still cheats.

  • @FloeticEnigma
    @FloeticEnigma ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’ll take “stay single” because it’s too many females out here willing to go after men who are involved. This is crazy.

  • @fefegalore
    @fefegalore ปีที่แล้ว +3

    There's some things I don't believe in sharing. These weird girls calling in that thinks it's ok to be a side dish, they want a daddy, not a relationship. These are daddy issues realized 😕 😒

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว

      Whatever the issue may be doesn’t matter. Both cheating parties needs are met. It’s good they called, folks are living in a false reality. Men cheat and women cheat, that will never go away.

  • @Awillii
    @Awillii ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why would anyone with value engage with someone knowingly married. Disgusting

  • @jaecee1226
    @jaecee1226 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jasmine sounds like sound like she a veteran home wrecker 😂😂.. multiple situations!

  • @MckeyIsAwesomeBro
    @MckeyIsAwesomeBro ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Other than the last caller, all these ladies are sad and pathetic! People are so selfish and insecure that they won’t COMPROMISE ( cuz that’s literally 50/50) with a man. They’d rather be with someone else’s man ??? That is absolutely crazy and disheartening. Women please have more morals. You deserve more than to be second place to a man who doesn’t even value you fr. Y’all move out of fear and that does nothing but hurt everyone around you! And the craziest part is I bet you everybody who said they’d prefer a married man would be “hurt” or “pissed” if their husband cheated. GTFOH

  • @ButchLigginz
    @ButchLigginz ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good answer Envy😂😂😂

  • @MM-pi1cb
    @MM-pi1cb ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Why is this even a question 😕

    • @Mesh642003
      @Mesh642003 ปีที่แล้ว

      This dumb generation

  • @tylerhackner9731
    @tylerhackner9731 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Interesting that this question is even asked

  • @tamarwilliams4516
    @tamarwilliams4516 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I want my own man!! PERIOD ‼️ idgaf!! 😂

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว

      Those wives with cheating husbands are saying the same thing😂.

  • @lastbitofyeast3643
    @lastbitofyeast3643 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Be loyal to your spouse … not worth it cheating , that’s the person you picked out of 8 billion people ,so treat them accordingly.

  • @ButchLigginz
    @ButchLigginz ปีที่แล้ว +3

    These callers mane. I don't have the words but i can honestly say i didn't expect these opinions. Wow

  • @JaeSwift10JamellaSwift
    @JaeSwift10JamellaSwift ปีที่แล้ว +3

    These girls need more self-love, self-respect, and higher standards.

  • @esd520
    @esd520 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My own man. Fk I look like making him happy to make her happy 😂😂😂😂

  • @doniellerobinson6680
    @doniellerobinson6680 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The comment made about it's on women to not get with a married man. Why do we live in a society where we expect men to cheat and put all the responsibility on a single woman not to be tempted by a married man smh mothers should be raising they sons to respect women + not cheat on they wife

    • @jas1565
      @jas1565 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because men have created this lie that they are sexual beings who cannot control themselves so women should just accept that they'll be cheated on.. and that somehow women should be saving themselves for one man.

  • @quentinjones6877
    @quentinjones6877 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want a part 2 to this

  • @aleiapierre5099
    @aleiapierre5099 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Shame on me for thinking no one would really call a radio station and co-sign this fr 😭 smh this world is crazy

  • @mharp6166
    @mharp6166 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is a sad showing that ladies will pick to be single moms, sneaking around, and willingly putting themselves in danger for a man committed to another, and just OK with throwing other women under the bus sooooo fast.

    • @Genesisonetwentyseven
      @Genesisonetwentyseven ปีที่แล้ว +1

      People aren't even sneaking anymore really. The wife, husband, and side chick KNOW

  • @mjgotbeats
    @mjgotbeats ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I don’t think that these women are marriage material…. So you gotta be able to decipher between who is and who isn’t.

    • @MsGrace-wu6bj
      @MsGrace-wu6bj ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agreed. Discernment.

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว

      There is no such thing as “marriage material”. You will see plenty of ignorant, loud, and uncouth married women. Therefore, most men will marry whoever is meeting his “major” needs.

  • @darnell9806
    @darnell9806 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Don’t sign that bill Envy! 😂

  • @levluv8
    @levluv8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    WOW! , I guess y'all know your audience.

  • @KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds
    @KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If he can't be my emergency contact, then I have no time for him, and another woman's husband can't be your emergency contact.

  • @tatianacoy9874
    @tatianacoy9874 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These questions are crazy 🤪 every other day it gets worst and worst

  • @kb51422
    @kb51422 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Being told no cannot be that bad 🤦🏽‍♀️ it’s not even half 💀

  • @dtownthebest6342
    @dtownthebest6342 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That boy envy trapped out quick

  • @p.lissade8016
    @p.lissade8016 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Getting yes 55% of the time is great! I prefer my own man.

  • @80sbaby2000
    @80sbaby2000 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How about we direct this towards the men

  • @WiseAilbhean
    @WiseAilbhean ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is confusing.
    How does a question like that becomes a thought? 🤨

    • @hustlemansnipes
      @hustlemansnipes ปีที่แล้ว +2

      welcome to reality

    • @WiseAilbhean
      @WiseAilbhean ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hustlemansnipes
      😂Ppl are something else

  • @bitwbitb
    @bitwbitb ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The lack of shame people have. (Disgusted face). I've said it once I'll say it again. A human being with no shame is a dangerous person. You should be afraid of them. Be careful.

  • @kaylenejantjes8113
    @kaylenejantjes8113 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's scary but I feel like the extramartial affairs are so common that we need to talk about why that is the case. Being polyamorous is not the same as cheating!

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd ปีที่แล้ว

      As long as male and female exist, so will infidelity.

  • @neag12
    @neag12 ปีที่แล้ว

    These answers is crazy!

  • @Kuromi_hellokittyandfriendsシイ
    @Kuromi_hellokittyandfriendsシイ ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Look at the women they asked. Most of them don’t sound like quality women anyway.