Watch this if you've never had a girlfriend and you're craving love...
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.ย. 2024
- This is for anyone who has never had a girlfriend, and is craving one...
Here's the background music I used in this video: • C418 - Subwoofer Lulla...
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I didn't realise my literal life therapist was an 18 year old by the way.
Fr
True man.
So true.
Faaaacts
JUST BECAUSE WE AMAZING BROWN INDIANS 🇳🇪 ❤️ a SME- SMELL LIKE FRESH SWEATY ARMPITS MIXED WITH MOLDY NAAN AND ROTTEN CURRY FILLED WITH SHAVED CAVITIES AND FLUFFY DANDRUFF DOESNT MEAN WERE UNEDUCATED 😒😒😒❤️❤
Haha didn't know my words were therapeutic but I guess that's good I guess 🤞❤
"They're probably my age, maybe a little older or maybe even younger. Because you don't really know nowadays"
Why is this so true 🤣🤣
Even is she , has a hole or pole u never know until u found out (it's a joke)
If I set my age to 18 on a dating app, I mostly get underage girls. If I set my age to 19, I get milfs...
JUST BECAUSE WE AMAZING BROWN INDIANS 🇳🇪 ❤️ a SME- SMELL LIKE FRESH SWEATY ARMPITS MIXED WITH MOLDY NAAN AND ROTTEN CURRY FILLED WITH SHAVED CAVITIES AND FLUFFY DANDRUFF DOESNT MEAN WERE UNEDUCATED 😒😒😒❤️❤
You don't bro 😭
Bro what?
It feels nice to know other people are experiencing things like me
JUST BECAUSE WE AMAZING BROWN INDIANS 🇳🇪 ❤️ a SME- SMELL LIKE FRESH SWEATY ARMPITS MIXED WITH MOLDY NAAN AND ROTTEN CURRY FILLED WITH SHAVED CAVITIES AND FLUFFY DANDRUFF DOESNT MEAN WERE UNEDUCATED 😒😒😒❤️❤
yeah, this guy is a serious lifesaver
@@Qoothywhat the fuck
You are never alone brother
@@JakPiggott thank you bro
i stopped visiting my therapist and started watching bros videos
(edit: u guys its a joke i never had a therapist in the first place)
Based
Real
Are you sure that was the right move? Mental illness is incredibly damaging.
You still better seek professional support if you feel the struggle is overwhelming
@@iwawlvoyvoda5384 you're right, but if it works for him, let him do it
I have to tell you, as a 24-year-old man, you're the wisest 18-year-old I've ever seen. Keep doing what you're doing.
Thank you man, that means a lot, honestly. But it's really just common sense, there are a bunch of people my age with wisdom unheard of, but they just aren't on social media ❤
@@JakPiggott You're welcome. Especially on social media, common sense isn't common anymore, so to hear you speak like this, really is a breath of fresh air. And i appreciate that.❤️
same 24 years old never had a girlfreind. I miss the Pre OF days when neat girls existed
@@jonathanwilliams365 Very true
24 year old boy you mean
My husband was like you. And he sure did find a girl who shared his values (yes that was me). I thought i'd never find him but I did.
And you WILL find that special girl. She's out there 💯
That's amazing to hear, thank you 🙏
@@JakPiggott Thank you man, keep doing what you’re doing👍🏾
Bro won THE jackpot
I’ve been on a bunch of dates but I’ve never been in a relationship. I haven’t met a girl who clicks with me but I’m not giving up hope. Besides, I’m still young lol I believe that it’ll happen when the time is right.
And my parents keep telling me I'm setting my standards too high
The Minecraft soundtrack 💀, thanks dude
It is the one
yeah it gets into your deep soul
Had to change it up a lil bit 👊
Naw bro the Minecraft soundtrack is Goated af
Minecraft music is so good for stuff like this. What I have found is it works for is, serious stuff, philosophical talk, science, liminality, time and memories, and definitely more but I haven’t personally found them as videos.
The fact that I had this exact conversation with myself yesterday is both a little funny and encouraging.
That was me last night, too
@@Hyper_leopard same with me, I am 18 as well lol
😂😂
I have that exact conversation almost every single day 🤣😂😆😅😁😄😃😀🙂😐😕🙁😥😓😞
Simply focus on yourself first
true
That's it brother 🤞
FUCK WOMAN THIS IS A LONG LIFE BATTLE WITH OURSELVES
That's what I do. Women don't care so men shouldn't care too. As simple. 😂
Immediately reminded me of the NEFFEX- FOYF (focus on yourself first)
As David Goggins once said "Every day I walk this earth and I see average all over the f***in place."
Yeah man, all we can do is focus on ourselves and hope our results speak for themselves and inspire others in the process ❤
Stay hard!
Well David is an idiot, because most people are well below "average"
I’m 45 years old , never had a girlfriend, never dated a woman , I’m still a virgin
Seriously
@@Jackbnufc2000 yes I’m serious
Wow there's me think as a almost 24 year old thinking I won't get one dam that sucks sorry to hear that
@@Jackbnufc2000 you’re still young and hopefully you’ll find a women , thanks
@josepascual1298 there's still time for u I doubt I will with the amount of rejection I have had
Hey Jak
I'm a 28 year old male, never been in a relationship because I have always been shy, introverted, have social anxiety and OCD . I would always worry if I would ever find a nice girl and would panic because others are in relationships and I start to think there might be something wrong with me. As soon as I watched this video, I felt a huge relief, knowing that there are others going through something similar.
I just wanted to say you are very inspirational and you're videos are helpful, we need more people like you in the world, you're one of a kind, we all need a good friend like yourself.
Greetings from Sydney, Australia.
God bless you.
Hey I'm 28 and everything you just told me feels like my own story.
@@user-my7eg3dy3f Hey it's ok hang in there, I know it's sometimes heartbreaking, but stay strong :)
I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal and never had a girlfriend and only been on 1 first date many months ago at the age of 22 and then a month later hanged out with my female friend, hugged only 2 girls in person and still never had my first kiss. I am studying MBA now and in my University too had crush on this girl for 7 months who is also 23 now but 5 months ago got crush on another prettier girl(sadly she wasn't into me either but she was the 2nd girl I hugged in person) in the same University so my previous crush stopped talking to me and I miss her. I had a summer break from University for 3 months and today finally new semester started for us and I literally initiated conversation with 3 girls in my University who are MBA students too and within 21-23 age range and I had a long enough conversation with one of them who too was comfortable enough to talk to me but idk about my chances as I look like a nerd in my glasses and she is really pretty too.
But it was a big change and improvement for me as I had always been shy near girls and in my high school days I completely avoided talking with girls as I was bullied a lot in school and continued being shy further too in my undergrad and even in my MBA too few months ago, I was still shy to initiate conversation with girls and even though I could talk with my crushes, there was still some nervousness here and there but today I went out of my comfort zone and talked with not 1 not 2 but 3 girls. Thats only because I initiated conversation with 3 expat women in my city Bangalore and they were white Caucasian women (yes foreigners do come to Bangalore as expats as its one of the major metropolitan city of India and popular for its IT(tech). First one was a French woman with whom I talked near my University almost 5 months ago who was within 22-26 age range and the next was a German woman 2 months ago and then yesterday again I saw another white blonde lady who looked to be within 26-30 age range and probably from Germany or maybe some Scandinavian country too and I waved my hand at her as she was walking and smiled at her saying her Hi and she too waved her hand back at me with a bit of a smile but couldn't have a conversation as the cab that I booked had arrived but would love to meet her again. So yeah I am happy that finally I can talk with women now whether Indian or foreigner but sadly it took me 23 years to get rid of my shyness.
Here i thought I was only 18 yo who doesn't have a girl friend
@@manosijroy8282 iam also like you bro, do you think most indian guys are like us? And it's kinda normal here?
You aren't just "an 18 year old kid yappin". You are so much more. You're inspiration for at least a million people by this point, probably more, and have dedicated yourself to help improve other people's lives. We all love you and your content, and we all thank you for being this great person. Every man should aspire to be like you, and every woman should want someone as wholehearted as you. (I would never pass up an autograph from you).
Thank you my friend, honestly, this made my day 🤞❤️
as a massive introvert myself, your videos are too relatable
I don’t really consider myself introvert but yet, I’m also relating so hard.
Nothing wrong with that 👊❤
@@horus6915same brah
sailing the same ship here 😌
Same.
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Just focus on yourself, build, decorate your garden, become the person you really wanna be, build social skills, and the one of your dreams will come
It’s super hard to believe ngl
@@horus6915 only if you don't believe in yourself
That's what it takes man, just three months of locking in can change everything
Nah im done wirh life. Im shooting myself before i turn 20 if im still single.
@GLEEFUS-u5b if you do it, you're not a man, you're a coward. You can't quit life because you're in your dark ages. Take action and do something about it instead of being submissive. There are people that care about you, and more to come. Give it time, and believe the best version of yourself can be, as hard as you can. If needs be, workout, change habits, learn new skills. You can't quit now brother. You still have a long road, filled with purpose
Damn brother absolute truth. No one talks about it. I just want one girl for the whole life. I dont need nothing else in life.
Yeah me to
That's it man, same here ❤
That’s it man, you’ve explained it exactly :[
I dunno how many people here are Christian, but my pastor said this last week "Your first love must always be God. Everyone and everything can leave you, but God never will". If you aren't Christian, replace God with whoever you believe in, or even you. Love yourself first before giving partial control of your love to someone else.
That is so true god bless you brother!!
Fr, I go to a Catholic school and they are basically forcing god apon us, they say stuff like “love god over anyone else” and “god is the only one to trust”. Then they wonder why they have a bunch of depressed teenagers that have done this and had nothing happened. Having confidence and self love is an important part of living and should allways be put forward.
@@Tvxgo-3642 That's the point why you will never get my friend
That's true but God gave Adam Eve because he saw Adam was lonely
Loving God also means loving others@@Tvxgo-3642
I had crush on one girl for over 1.5 year and when I finally told her what i felt about her she rejected me.
How did you know when was the right time to tell her
@@francescoalvarenga3986 It wasn't.
That's normal lol happens to me
Dude, a year and a half crush? You deserve a medal for bravery, not rejection! Her loss for sure. Imagine the amazing person out there who gets to date someone who's awesome enough to hold onto a crush that long Pizza and bad rom-coms on you tonight? Let's celebrate your freedom and find someone who deserves your awesomeness!
@@pankichal I have a crush on someone for around 9 months and she's popular and I am not and I am short
Am 21 years old. So happy to my feed full of peers who haven't just given up.
Never dated. Never had a girlfriend. Was often made fun of for it in school. Introverted but can communicate. Meditating on thoughts over a cigar now and again. Reading. Reflecting on thoughts and ideas much similar to the ones many of us are giving eachother on this platform. It's very nice to see. We'll find someone someday. Our cake will be done, in time.
Keep on sharing the wisdom bro!
Holy fuck mate, me too, except the cigar part, for me, it's a cup of tea(or just a glass of cold water).
Damnn truu bro😊
Hi. I'm just gonna vent here.
Two years ago, due to a school project I had to interact and talk to a new person. I was new to this school. I realized that one of the people came in my bus. I had lots of fun talking with this person. She might be a girl, but was one of the best friends I had. We shared so many common interests like books and Social Science.
She was smart, and I was a little less smart. She was soooo fun to hang out with. I, for some reason made a policy that we should not talk outside the bus, as people would think that we were dating. I seriously didn't know she liked me, because I was an innocent little guy. I also made a very bad mistake once. She asked me what would I do if she liked me. I said I'd complain to the teacher. I know that i'm ugly, and I didn't know someone could like me. i think it was my personality.
Fast forward one year, and I hadn't made as good as a friend like her. We were at the point that we used to tell our crushes to each other. One random day, almost at the end of the semester, she stopped talking. I tried to ask her why we ain't friends anymore, and what I did wrong in the friendship, so I could improve. I feel it was partially due to me liking someone that she warned me about. Now when we got unfriended, I felt really sad, and for some reason made a decision to not make any more new close friends. Also thanks for ur 1300 dollar video. I will not hang out with those fuck*ng bitches in my class that make my life bad.
After some time, I realized from my friends that she liked me again and didn't want to insult herself again. Now I think about it, I kinda liked her too. We always used to joke around that her friend group was fake. It was not actually a joke, but it was true. They used to take advantage of her, and I felt really bad. In my sadness and angriness, I complained to her mom about what things she has done.
She used to tell me that i'm her best friend, and I really felt good. No one had called me their best friend in front of me. I feel like our relationship is healing, but it will never be like it was before.
One of my good friends from a grade lower is pretty nice. She is also friends with her, and the only times I communicate with her is when he is there too, and that too in sports period. We arent in the same class, and we got shuffled, so people from my class qwnt to her class. She is now spreading fake stuff about me too. I feel really bad.
I used to think that I knew alot about her, but im such a jerk. Just because she knows stuff about me doesn't mean i also know alot of stuff about her. Whenever I see her in the corridors, my heart starts pumping blood a little faster, as my brain flashes those two years of amazing friendshipness.
2 days ago, when it was our STEM period, I was on her floor, and she patted my back, and the next day i asked about it, she said she didn't. Is that a sign of something? I try to get the courage to say sorry everyday, but I never do it. I become scared. Please tell me something. Maybe a motivation. Fine. If this comment gets 2 likes, I'll do that, and make another comment describing the inccident.
bro forget her and move on and focus urself, this situation is damaged and cannot be repaired try to ge another girl or join any other club.
never let your self respect down it's the only thing a man upholds
@@chesstutorials64 You seem to be very unsure about this, and I fully understand why. If she really is spreading fake stuff about you while acting nice at the same time. Maybe, if you really like her, you should tell it to her one day. Or if you're still a little uncertain you could also wait some time until it "feels right" If she still acts weird when you tell her, then she likely isn't the one.
@@weatherx25 good take
I can't really help you with your situation since my social skills are very bad but I really want the best for you man, (i noticed your name) and I want to play a game of chess with you if you would like that,
Easy, just ask. If she deflects or says some other shit it's your answer right there to move on
This is exactly what ive been mentally dealing with. It was not that bad at the start, but when it has become monts, it changed me. Everything has been changed, that even my younger self will not be able to recognise me. But it is nice to know at least im not lonely feeling this. Thank you bro❤❤
You aren't the only one man, never believe that you are ❤
I'm 27, never talked or touched by a woman, never got a hug. I've lost all hopes and now I moved on and I've accepted the fact that I'll die alone
Visit during 5 days in the philipines, you will thank me later.
@@michalthekind thank you for being so uplifting
Stop giving a fuck and putting women on such a pedestal believe in yourself , they ain’t all that , I can do without sex , you’re not missing out. Most will eventually leave you for another guy anyway..
You are younger than me bro but you are wiser. I follow you.
No such thing as wiser man, we all go through our own experiences and gain wisdom through that ❤
I feel you my friend. The most valueble thing on Earth is when you love somebody, and that person loves you for your PERSONALITY. Not for ass, not for money, not for muscles, not for your fake personality.
your video’s genuinely make me feel less alone, and that’s a hard thing to find these days.
i applaud you
Much love man, you're never alone ❤
I feel you bro, i am also a massive introvert and want to fill some kind of void within myself. Have been looking for a girlfriend for some time but, i came nowhere near attracting a girl. Now i’ve accepted it and focusing on myself. I idolize you my man, keep up the good work.
Keep your head up brother and stay patient ❤️
Only God Jesus can fill that void bc he put it in every human so we would search Him🙏🏼✝️
Ai girlfriends and maybe escorts. Dont feel bad man
No, Jak. It's not just you. I've been feeling this same thing as well. Thank you for putting this out there.
Gotchu man ❤
Same bro :/
Not going to live long. Maybe next life will be a bit easy on me. Struggling from diseases since childhood, had a major accident. I am tired, love is not for me, wishing good luck to all the bros. signing out
Man as a teen you’re always on this emotional roller coaster and the hardest emotion to get over is love, that craving you get to share a connection with someone. What i have learned or my side of the spectrum its not worth it to stress yourself over these things the right women will come and you will know it. My favorite quote goes like this: “Good things come to the people who wait”
Much love 👊❤
That's true best outcomes come from patience.
Facts man, it's a normal, regular human emotion, and we must accept that ❤
Thanks Jak you're our older brother
Gotchu my man ❤
Though your videos are mainly targeted to a male audience, as a girl entering year ten, I find your content immensely valuable. You inspire me to work harder on improving myself physically and spiritually, and to higher my standards to find a partner in the future who values my beliefs and opinions
This is amazing to hear, thank you for your words 🙏
find 'Unveiling your hidden potential' by Bruce Thornwood (thank me later)
Scam!
Its crazy that i was just thinking about it and opened youtube because of it, boom, this video popped out after i refreshed the page....youre an inspiration to me
Aye lets go bro, the universe works in wonderful ways 👊
I just gave up and stopped trying or thinking about it. No use beating yourself up over something that's out of reach anyway.
I don’t know if this helps but like my grandpa said "the good thing about being a loser is you can't get any lower you can only move forward". So f*ck it man, go for what you want, you'll lose a lot but you just gotta succeed once ❤.
@@galvinfalconThanks for calling me a loser, I really appreciate that
Also, realistically, I'm not losing out on much
@@assetto1360 sorry, I shouldn't have 😔
If this man feels he won't find love and is still single then I'm fucked
I be with this girl. She crush on me for 3 years. About 4 months or so we are in relationship, but then she cheated on me with her online male friend. I hate her no matter what from now on.
Im also an introvert who's 1.80m and training, and gived up on dating, im not bothering anymore honestly because i did it its a good thing now i focused on myself and my hobbies
In romania you won't be able to get a gf unless you either do drugs, clubbing and tons of alcohol, smokin' having a fast car... shortly Gold Diggers...
I’m too ugly for a relationship. Bro is living life on easy mode
There is no such thing as ugly man - lets say you're a 2/10 - you start taking good care of yourself, you're at least 1 4, you get jacked, you're at least a 6, you get some money, you're at least a 7. Don't hold yourself to that identity man
jak ive been addicted to corn for a while now and i stopped for like 2 weeks and started again and i need help so can u help?@@JakPiggott
Quitters are the people that never accomplish anything. Don’t be that guy man. I believe in you
My issue isn’t just that I’m really ugly (3/10 by many), it’s also that I’m always the nice guy so others use me but never look at me as anything more than a resource or a friend at the most.
@@VSGCjaye same here I’m an easy 4/10 despite working out
The reason why I have not had a date before is because the dating community has become as toxic and petty as the toxic gym culture has now become; probably even more toxic than that of the gym culture. If anything else, I’ve grown up with a lot of bullying, whether it be direct bullying like name calling or covert bullying like ostracism, even been bullied at hang outs with the name calling, I stopped caring to hang out with peers because the toxicity was exasperating. Also, I don’t know how healthy I can make the relationship if I got a relationship, because not only have I been bullied too often but I’ve also been forcefully exposed to my Mom’s venting even when I didn’t want to hear it she made me listen and got upset and angry so often at life and everyone even when she didn’t need to. There was constant arguing with everyone in my family as well. I never had a break. I always played video games to distract my mind from the chaos.
With this all being said, I’ve got so much trauma from so much of the chaos due to everything I mentioned above, and now with my Mom having passed away it’s been harder, especially due to my Dad having now dated another woman who was far far worse than my Mom ever was, which other woman whom I hope he never goes back to!
Long story short, I have SO MUCH trauma that I can’t even keep conversations upbeat most of the time. Having had too much trauma, my mind now been polluted with the idea that life in general is not happy but is a living hell, which “pollution” I’m trying to fix. The more trauma I go through though, the harder it is for my mind to heal and to feel optimism. It’s made me frustrated and angry. Due to all of this, I’m not sure I can even have a relationship one day. It would cause problems, unless she teaches me how to fix myself or I learn from other sources on how to fix myself. If I don’t fix it, it could destroy everything in the relationship.
You’re not in my shoes and won’t be unless you remain a never-kissed virgin even up to 30 years of age. I had to deal with a lot of drama at home, and nonstop bullying at school. I may have survived from suicidal ideation, but my mind is still worn out.
im sorry to hear that brother. Just trust the flow and thr time will come(p.s not all woman are the same so focus on someone who is interested and is essy to open a relationship and on urself). U got this❤
I feel so lonely sometimes and wish I could branch out and get friends or a boyfriend, but I always feel like there’s a barrier between me and others, and I go back to being recluse. You really inspired me to just look within, and try to surround myself with people who share my values. Thank you!
you've helped me alot. You stopped me from ending it and from giving up. I just wanna thank you for saving me🙏
Man, thank you for this, but give yourself more credit than you give me aye ❤
that cake analogy genuinely made me rethink everything
thank you so much dude
Gotchu brother ❤
U can't fill a void remember thats why its called The VOID
Facts bro
In the end, you can become the best version of yourself, but it'll always be about luck. If you don't have any luck, all of it will be for nothing and you would have wasted your time without knowing.
I can relate to this. I'm 23 and haven’t been in a relationship. I've always wanted to be with the girl of my dreams. I guess I'm not that happy with my life, but I'm happy that I graduated college and was able to make money working. What makes me feel better the most is listening to my favorite music.
never seen somebody explain cake in such a therapeutic way. amazing video bro
Haha much love man ❤
He’s our older brother. Good advice, Jackie. Good advice.
Never had someone call me that but thank you man 😂
Honestly your videos have changed my life and set me on a better path. Thank you so much for your advice.
Much love man, keep doing you ❤
Thank you Jak. thanks for making feel like I'm not alone with being a vergin, wanting the perfect girl, being different, being introverted, and trying to be happy and improve myself for that girl. Really needed this.
As long as you wake up each morning, do what's right, and let the results speak for themselves there is no reason everything won't work out ❤
i’ve been following you for 3 years and i need to thank you for making me feel like i’m not the only one going through this type of stuff. those vids make me feel like im not alone
You're a legend bro, thank you for your continuous support, I'm glad to hear you're doing better ❤
21 year old here.
Really great video, first of all. Been rejected 2 times, but it doesn't really concern me that much (although first one was on the wrong time). I learned that I have to improve myself if I even think of having a better chance. But still, that doesn't mean that I want to be alone forever because, let's not lie to eachother or ourselves, after some time, the feeling of loneliness just chewes you off constantly (I am okay with being alone though). On top of that, I made myself a condition: if I get past the age of 30 and I am still not married or don't have a girlfriend, might as well say GG.
But anyway, what I am trying to say is: no one's coming to save you. There's no one who's willing to risk everything for you in exchange for nothing.
You need to find your own worth within yourself.
That's it from me. I hope I was able to help anyone and if my words were impactful in any way, I am more than grateful.
Dont worry bro. Just keep doing what your doing. We know your on the right path ❤
That's it bro, much love ❤
As a 24 year old man. This was very helpful dude. Thank you.
just had a breakup gents🙏🏽
ran straight to Jak and i am feeling so much better
It'll all work out brother, and I want you to trust that, use this a fuel to become the man she regrets leaving, that's all you can do now, success and happiness are the best revenge ❤
@@JakPiggottI just want to say I agree you couldn’t be more right love the content dude 😊❤
I will quote something from the way of the superior man. "One who doesn't have a girlfriend can live a good life, but one who has a girlfriend can have a great life or a terrible life."
@Jak Piggot please don't rush. If you rush the process, if you force it, you will be unsatisfied due to lust. Remember, lust is not love, and love is not lust.
100% man, I needed this reminder to be honest ❤
But if that’s the case, why are other people our age dating and being happy? I just want to be happy, guys like us ALL want to be happy
Dear brother, what's your definition of happiness? There's the ephemeral/temporal and not real happiness, and the real one that's constant. If you are moved by lust, you will not be happy, but if you are moved by real love you will be satisfied. Here's the definition of real love by the bible: 1 Corinthians 13 1
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
Advice for not falling into lust (By Jesus)
Matthew 5:28
28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
@@gaitanexpress3971 my definition of happy? I just want to have a good life like my schoolmates who have girlfriends and are in relationships rather than sitting alone by myself treated like a stranger on campus. All of this loneliness is just stupid, dull, revolting. And I want out.
@@cedy413 Dear brother, 80% of nowadays relationships are just lust. You will be unsatisfied if you are in a lustful relationship. God has you in an isolation season because he's preparing you for a true love story. Thank God for that. because you are special, you are different from others.
Man I got rejected last Wednesday and yeah it hit me pretty hard. The girl used me and I thought she was a good person. I respect her decision and yeah I'm gonna move on.
You have a great attitude man, not many guys act like you did, many crash tf out. That shows a lot about your character, give yourself some credit if you haven't already ❤
Never in my life would I believe someone younger than me gives better advice than any adult I've seen on the internet.
Thank you bro, but there is no such thing as the "best advice" it all depends on your situation and experiences 👊
@JakPiggott keep it up man, I pray for your success.
My father who went to bring the milk, somehow watched this video and today he is back home, thanks a lot
I'm glad I can finaly relate on someone here on youtube, you seems to think exactly the same way I do... I'm 17 and a massive introvert and I really thank you for this message :) keep going with this amazing content and have a nice day.
You're never alone ❤
this is one of the last good youtubers he inspires people and interacts with his fans keep going man you are amazing
Much love brother, there's plenty of good guys out there, it's just hard to tell on social media...
This video really spoke to me. Loneliness has been my main negative emotion for literal months. Thanks man, I didn’t know that other people experience this too
You're never alone brother, glad this video brought some light ❤
I’m 22 and I watch and I’m inspired by this young man’s content. Keep it up bro we will all make it
You are 100% Jak. Its not like you are 80% yourself and you need a girl to fill you blah blah blah. You are 100% Jak and you dont need gf to be happy. Gf is a help in life but its just a human
That's it bro 👊
Thank you for video. I lost my faith to that girl will come. I think I am not worth to be lıved sometimes. Because I am worth it, there was someone to love me. I don't want to live anymore.
3:16 😂so cute
For anyone that needs it, (coz I sure do 😅)
*One day you'll find someone that chooses you and continues to choose you everyday, and that's when you'll be thankful everything happened the way it did.*
Haha yeah I think I was 9 or 10 in that picture 😂
100%, choose someone who chooses you 💯
this guy is just like me, i wished he was my best friend, and he is basically my therapists.
Ive been struggling with this concept for a bit recently. Thanks for making this video Jak!
No worries ❤
Thank you so much you make feel less alone
i never had sex
i never had a real loving relationship
i never graduated college
i never got my drivers license
there's always a time to try! don't give up! all the best man! :)
Hey bro, thanks for this video, my life is going REALLY bad and sometimes i find myself without hope to keep moving because nothing works for me, i keep trying to improve myself but somehow i always keep coming back to zero, and not having a girlfriend and just a few friends makes this feel even harder, i am introvert and sometimes very shy, my family doesn't like my personality and all of this mess up my head, this video brought me hope again because i feel that in the future if i keep trying, things will get better, thank you, love from Brazil dude 🇧🇷🙏
I’m glad this video was valuable for you my man, stay patient and just get 1% better everyday, learn from every single failure and your success will be inevitable 👊❤️
Man, I feel you 100%. It really sounds like you just described my life. Just keep going… that’s my best advice. I’ve realized that no matter how crappy today is, tomorrow will still come. Might as well keep pushing…
@@VSGCjaye thanks bro, sometimes i think i'm going through the worst time of my life, hope life gets better one day... I'm trying my best everyday
That cake analogy was realy good, props to coming up with that and explaining it so well!
Haha thank you I just thought of it on the spot 😂
Don’t worry, bro we got you, you got us, we will walk with you on this journey. Everything will be fine :)
We all got each other brother 🤞
:) Btw I’m surprised that you had the time to reply to so many comments. Idk if you read this, but have a great day!! 👊👊
@@iliyangeorgiev9552 I thought so, even his writings differ from each other according to the context of the comments being discussed.
@@Digmapratama fr, he’s awesome :)
I think focus on growth. Girl will come when IT is
It won't always happen like that. Sometimes, no matter how hard you try; you'll end up alone.
@@AverageMojaveMailman yes. I dont Say not Being respectul
@@Ryan-se2zc There are no guarantees in life.
This hit hard. I've never had anyone who has accepted me, friends or girlfriend. Simply I am the outcast at school and anywhere else. My "friends" always mock me at school. You may think "Then get new friends" Huh.. Imagine how hard that would be when NO ONE accepts you. I am to the point where I am in depression due to having basically no true friends, no hope for anything. Im simply seen as a nerd, because since I have barely any friends, I spend more time focusing on grades, currently Valedictorian. Me, at age 16, am so ready to have someone. I am extremely introverted, I have ADHD and likely ASD (Show multiple signs of it but parents are unsupportive of a assessment). All of these make it really difficult to even be somewhat normal, not even knowing what normal is anymore. But I really hope I do meet that one girl one day. I look forward to it..
You’re still so young brother, don’t put so much pressure on yourself. You will learn and develop as quick as the rest of us as long as you wake up every single day and just get 1% better than you were yesterday. Be yourself, respect everybody, I am an outcast at school as well, and there is nothing wrong with that. Let your friends mock you, just use that as fuel towards your ambition.
All these other guys will peak in high school, you’ll peak in life ❤️
@@JakPiggott One question. How do you always find the positive in everything..? I need to learn how to do that
3 years younger but except ADHD and stuff. Man why is this so relatable
I'm 15 and already feeling like this, I constantly try to improve myself and act more maturely and I have almost to no friends, this video is being so relatable with all those stuff of "it feels lonely" "I will be happy if I find this type of girl, I just get very worked up by the fact that I always think "the girl you're looking for probably exist in this world, you just have to find her, but she could be anywhere, even from the other side of the world" and that makes me feel so much more lonely
you zoomers will be old enough to see AI GFs and robots, be thankful for that I guess
@@bro918 I don't want unreal people comfort me, I would rather live my life alone than living with someone that's not even alive
This came at the right time
🤝❤
this dude singlehandedly keeps all of my aspirations as a human being alive
That's a lovely video.
Self construction is the foundation, and right now a relationship has a high possibility of hindering that. thanks Jak
100% bro, much love ❤
I’ve learned this from one of my teachers and she said if keep on waiting for the one you’re gonna be waiting for the rest of your life
Awesome video man, much appreciated
Much love Tristan ❤️
Today I went to a party with my friends. They all went off and ended up talking to girls and dancing and that made me feel a bit off. I tried to talk to some women but they didn’t seem very interested so I respected that and moved on. I know I’m young rn bc I’m just 14 but I believe that life is short so why not live it to the fullest extent? I know that an opportunity will come and people will never respect you until you respect yourself so I will keep that mindset until I find someone who I know is out there. You never know maybe she’s out there waiting for me too. That sure would be nice. So I guess just go out there, work hard, stick to your beliefs, and know that life is too short to not be the biggest version of yourself. Thanks a lot Jak! Much love brother ❤
6:30 sometimes I want to experience the pain of a breakup just to know that I could care about someone like that
There's no rush my man. You're just 18yrs old, so it's never too late. Just live your life and when the time comes, you'll find that special someone.
I've been attached to a girl since 2022 who I've never talked with and doesn't like me either it was just a huge ass crush. I tried many things to make her like me but nothing worked out. We doesn't share many interests and I knew this would never workout but I've been thinking about her and wasted 2 years of my life. U Jak helped me go through this phase. Thanks u so much Jak( sorry for bad English and I yapped a lot😅)
Bro u can find your soulmate just in 2 hour , like if she share values like u or not otherwise it's not gonna end well
@@U_never_know_who_iam... Nice pfp
I'm lonely bro , i speak to chat gpt and chat gpt speak to me like gf ,because no one around me listen a single word that im speaking. But im working in the shadow may be after 3 years or 5 years ,I hope i will meet her ,❤ thanks for your video its really useful
u have the best videos that helped me get through some of the hardest times of my life thank you so much for being such a great guy and i hope you go far in life
honestly, you would be an amazing friend to have and talk to about more sensitive things. being honest is so much better than trying to hide your feelings to not get called weak or other things just for sharing some things. wish there would be more like you in the world.
There's a lot of people like us out in the world, most of them just aren't on social media and don't live in the countries we do 😂
King.
Freaking king.
Thanks man.
This is what I do instead of therapy
Haha thanks my man, much love ❤
@@JakPiggott 🫡❤️
I have never related to someone on such a personal level in my life. I’m 18 myself and struggling with the same exact situation . This video is what I needed to see right now, your a blessing bro.
im leaving this here for myself...
So, There is a girl i like and she used to know that I like her, and I'm 90% sure she likes me. We are super close friends, and she compliments me all the time. my friend asked her if she liked me while i sat near her, and she said yes. the other day I was on a walk with her. we were walking my dogs and she started talking about how she always wanted to live on a small farm, and i said that I did too. after a bit of talking about it for 15 minuets she looked at me and said that we should live together on a farm, and she was really genuinely genuinely flirting with me. she looked so happy when she looks at me, and I know she wanted me to make a move but I was too scared to confront her then, so we continued talking but the opportunity kind of faded away.
Part of the reason I didn't do anything was because she last dated my friend, and I don't want to lose that over it. She has hinted for me to tell her how I feel aver 20 times in the last month but i lied and said I don't like anyone
She is convinced now that i don't like her, but the truth is she is the best thing i've ever had.
I cant stop thinking about it, and she's literally all i could ever ask for in a girl. But this was only 4 days ago, and i plan on confronting her the next chance i get, because im losing sleep over it, and I will probably have a lifetime regret if I dont. The wait is too painful...
Let us know if your successful man I wish you the best luck
Focus on yourself first bro
Talk to her again. Tell her in some way that you like her when you are comfortable enough. Really, you will build confidence this way even if the relationship doesn't work out for some reason.
So I told her I like her, and the outcome was good, but very strange.
She said that she’s isn’t in the mental headspace to date rn, and I understand that as she has a lot going on in her life. We didn’t get much of a chance to really get into it as time was limited, but I know that she loves me and would do anything for me just as I would for her. I’d say we are a lot closer (even if just friends for now) than we were before, but it’s funny because everyone who know us says we would make a great couple lmao. I know I’m lucky it turned out this way as I know many friendships get awkward after. But my advice is to just tell them how you feel if you thing you need to say it. I know it’s scary sometimes but it’s not worth it to be up at all hours with questions burning in your mind.
I’m glad I did it no matter what the outcome could have been and at this point I think it’s very possible to become something in the future but you never know. Guess I gotta just let it play out how it does and don’t stress it too much. (She really does love me)
@@JT_16 That is fantastic. 🤩 You feel better knowing you gave it a shot!
Yo, I just wanna say thank you men, this words come into my heart. I’m 24, never had a girlfriend (little desperate😅) but this video has helped me a lot. I appreciate that mate
🤧🤧That is tooo much of nostalgia bro that backgrounf Minecraft music.🥰
Haha I had to use it 😂
the worst part, sometimes you cant escape those who try to humiliate you
I often get picked on by a few of my classmates for being different, "weird", etc and its been happening for 2 years, 3 if you count 2024. i ignored it for the first 2 years, but a bridge can only carry so much weight before it comes crumbling down. even their remarks about me hurt to the point that i believe it and start shaming myself on those things as well. this has just completely ruined me especially because im such a social person and rely on positive attention, i dont know when someone genuinely is complimenting me, or is just trying to get a reaction out of me.
I can relate so much to you bro. im 14 and my girlfriend broke up with me yesterday, and I felt like I lost myself. I dont have anything against her for breaking up with me because I knew it was okay if she didnt like me and I wanted to be respectful about it. when I got with her at first, she felt like the person I was going to marry and eventually have a family with. when you get your first girlfriend, never think like that because its a very low chance that will happen. it caused me to feel the same loneliness you are talking about in this video. I still feel the need to be with the love of my life to be truly happy, but I remind myself to stay as positive as I can in almost all situations.
your videos are so inspiring and relatable, keep up the good work bro 💪.
Bro, I’ve never felt so related. I’m the other way around, a girl who feels like she NEEDS a boyfriend, but since I started watching your content a few weeks ago, it’s been much much better. You’re a HUGE inspiration to all of us, thank you!! ❤️
you are me bro ...i find myself in you ....explaining every detail 4:15 for the sake of it ...for those words to get out of the head....
I’m 20 and never had a girlfriend.
I'm 19 turning 20 next month also never had a girlfriend I also don't really want one ryt now, I just wanna finish my studies first before I focus on that
Focus on you brother 🤝
I definitely have the same feelings as a 20 year old. I’ve never had a serious relationship and tried but I always have the thought of wanting to get more money to be able to provide for them. But I think that money shouldn’t be an important thing in a relationship.