I Lost Her to Him

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  • @WhereYouAtBerto
    @WhereYouAtBerto  ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Tell us about the time your got 💔 let’s share the PAIN 😢

    • @fumetsu_sama
      @fumetsu_sama ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💪🏾

    • @WhereYouAtBerto
      @WhereYouAtBerto  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@fumetsu_sama 🫡

    • @Katsande223
      @Katsande223 ปีที่แล้ว

    • @chiboyeke3590
      @chiboyeke3590 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I once bought chocolate for a girl. She wasnt even my girlfriend. She didnt even say thank u, let alone gave a hug or any appreciation. Word of advice to you men is do the exact opposite of what a girl wants, trust me she'll be yours

    • @WhereYouAtBerto
      @WhereYouAtBerto  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@chiboyeke3590 the world must know pain 💔

  • @WhereYouAtBerto
    @WhereYouAtBerto  ปีที่แล้ว +118

    Focus on yourself kings & queens 😢

  • @rodneybrown2059
    @rodneybrown2059 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I really don't understand how she could switch up on you like that when she was the one pressing you for a relationship.

    • @robossthinking1056
      @robossthinking1056 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      maybe she’s the type to jsut chase. Like think about it
      Having a crush is way more fun than getting with them.
      Like once you actually got it it’s like huh, I got it
      But chasing for it is a whole ride

    • @robossthinking1056
      @robossthinking1056 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      But she was in the wrong because how. Driving eight hours and then saying no

    • @WhereYouAtBerto
      @WhereYouAtBerto  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That what I’m saying bro 🥲

    • @WhereYouAtBerto
      @WhereYouAtBerto  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      People DO love the chase

  • @phasma2752
    @phasma2752 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    This man spitting straight up facts 💯

  • @Its_CT4REAL
    @Its_CT4REAL ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Simpin ain't Pimpin- Swoozie

  • @SoloStudioss
    @SoloStudioss ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Queens NY, Feb 14 2014
    Me and this girl been dating for a while, a year at best so I thought it’d be a good idea to celebrate my first Valentine’s Day with my then girl since I never had before (since I was a kid I’ve thought of Valentine’s Day as a useless holiday but that’s a story for another time.) so we make plans for that day. I get her some roses from my step dads shop, some chocolates, a little bear and a gift card to her favorite store, yk, the whole V-Day pack plus a movie date. I told her I’d be there at 4 to get her, but I decided to go early to surprise her (at the time I ain’t no how to drive no car so I took the train and a bus), This is where shit gets a little supernatural. On the ride there, there’s this pain in the middle of my forehead no kiizzy, it felt like something was trying to tell me some shit. But being the naive 17 year old I was the time, I thought it was a bad headache and nun else. *sigh* BOII WAS I WRONG.
    So fast forward to me getting there, I’m walking up to her crib all happy like a Nigga about to go see Becky g at a meet n greet (that’s the most beautiful woman in the world to me don’t judge cause ya momma ain’t raise you to judge mf), but as soon as I pull up to her block I hit a hard stop. And there.
    Right in front of me, unbeknownst to them, I witness my best friend at the time Juan slobbin down my then girl Crystalina, amd fingering her in broad. Fuckin. Daylight.
    Nigga when I tell you he had her up against the walk like they was in a music video for Nelly’s “Hot In Here” I ain’t jokin mfs was acting like nobody was around… fam her little brothers was literally a few feet away playing in the street.
    So I bet you’re wondering “damn Lew, wtf you do after that), well I’m glad you asked person who’s made it this far into the story. Now you would think that at 17 going on 18 I’d have a lil more sense and just take the L, go home and reflect with a bowl of ice cream in hand n some good ol One Piece episodes.
    You’d be mistaken, the second word in 17 is Teen, as in teenager as in teenage Lewis thought it’d be a hell of an idea to push his best friend in front of a bus and snuff his girl for the unmitigated audacity to cheat on me. Now while I didn’t punch her I did punch a hole in the door of the crib she lived after I pushed that mf in front of the bus (he lived, unfortunately) and then her mom gave me a pep talk and told me flat out “my fault you had to find out this way but yeah she’s a hoe. She doesn’t know how to treat a good dude and that’s my fault.” I stopped listening after “she’s a hoe”. Years later I’d find it wasn’t just my best friend she was messin with, it was a couple dudes. One lived above her. If I told you my heart never knew pain like that I’d be lying cause this is only part 1 of my villain SAGA (I took a couple arcs for me to learn fr).
    If you made it this far thank you for reading Part 1 of The Lew Villain Saga “The Crystalina Arc”. And happy holidays.

    • @WhereYouAtBerto
      @WhereYouAtBerto  ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Shessshh the world must know PAIN

    • @cmake5020
      @cmake5020 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Lewis add the rest of your villain arks please

    • @vilkensaintfar
      @vilkensaintfar ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Bruuh in broad daylight this story is wild my boi. I hope you really came back from this strong

    • @SoloStudioss
      @SoloStudioss ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@cmake5020 glad you liked part 1, and I’ll come back wit pt 2 soon it’s just a lot to remember rn😭

    • @SoloStudioss
      @SoloStudioss ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@vilkensaintfar ngl this event was low key rough to bounce back from, it was the first heartbreak I had in life, but not the last heartbreak tho. That’s a different story🤣

  • @slickanimations9258
    @slickanimations9258 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I felt bad for the rental car gas tank 😂

  • @asmartdumba55
    @asmartdumba55 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "Sympin ain't easy" - Boyz II Men

  • @diamondbutterfly9034
    @diamondbutterfly9034 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I felt that bro

  • @KO23_EX
    @KO23_EX ปีที่แล้ว +7

    i have noticed that the middle is like the perfect thing for like everything example you don't want to eat something that's so hot that it melts you into soup and nobody likes cold food like i swear everything is like this

    • @WhereYouAtBerto
      @WhereYouAtBerto  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The truth is always somewhere in the middle

  • @Psychaii
    @Psychaii ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hey!! I'm new here and I'm loving your videos so far. But this one made me think.. It's interesting to think about this because I'm a chick myself, I've dated both men and women and yet I can't personally relate to this video very much. Even though this seems to be a situation many modern men face nowadays when dating women. I've never found myself in a relationship with shallow or immature women and I know that the men attracting those kinds of women wouldn't be interested in dating me either, nor would I be interested in them. I think a portion of it comes down to the social circles these particular men surround themselves with subconsciously as well as how they present themselves on the outside, if you're wading in shallow water you're only going to catch minnows right? It's kind of like that whole trope that women only want "chads" and men that treat them poorly, I believe it goes both ways. It sucks to see because after men dip their toes in and get their hearts broken by those kinds of women they often will go on and believe ALL or MOST women are like that, that all women like drama, lack of vulnerability and "the chase" and for them, that is reality. That's wild to think about

    • @Manhwa-recapped
      @Manhwa-recapped ปีที่แล้ว

      It's not the social circle, well mostly the circle, but it's also about what they can gain from you

  • @Leon_kd
    @Leon_kd 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m telling you bro these girls just love playing with boys feelings. The plot twist is crazy.

  • @BoBoDa7th
    @BoBoDa7th ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The cinderella is a gold digger got me crying bro 😂

  • @donotusethisnomoreqxre
    @donotusethisnomoreqxre ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Only move girl when she is interested in you first if not your wasting your time or it won't last

  • @CarlosDaSavage1
    @CarlosDaSavage1 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    He speaking fax my girl broke up with me but she said the only reason she liked me cause I was a soundcloud rapper this was recently BTW

  • @Katsande223
    @Katsande223 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This vid I always go back to I have so many similar stories

  • @im_ry
    @im_ry ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i lowk needed this. in the talking phase with someone rn.

  • @kala1401
    @kala1401 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Had i seen this a month ago i wouldve said it was cap

  • @nikiemarston8480
    @nikiemarston8480 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just like she can't herself just like she came with everybody but until she doesn't care what someone else she would care about lots of dollars in on her life bro trust me on that but is she killed her life more than she giving you life yeah it is better for you it's be together but it doesn't work on your life just end it just look find another person of your life but do not use a gold digger cuz if you can go do it like this your heart or actions bro you lose too much hope in your life😒😒😒😒

  • @aroach75
    @aroach75 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very well done! I’m very sorry for your experiences with confusion

  • @tiffy3049
    @tiffy3049 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    4:18 “ all you Gotta do is reel them in “ that sounded real sexual for some reason 😂

  • @mutatedburger5193
    @mutatedburger5193 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Let's watch the plot thickens,
    While I ride my robot chicken

  • @mutatedburger5193
    @mutatedburger5193 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    And stay safe kings and queens

  • @akeemayeni156
    @akeemayeni156 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It is truly amazing how girls have a boyfriend or a husband. If they do. Then they have a side dude on the side or even sides dudes.... Once a girl gets a guy she wants to [conquer] into a relationship she will in a nanosecond loses all interest. The ride is over on to the next. Real game. Unless.... U can imprint her. Or get the blood flowing to be able to imprint her. That's game. Gotta appreciate it. Nice vid bro 🔥

  • @lenoxpI
    @lenoxpI 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video is straight facts

  • @lilymaleknejad76
    @lilymaleknejad76 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Trust me girls really are as down bad and if not maybe more than boys. Honestly depends all on the exact girl. Some boys are players and they lead girls on, not all of them though. The same goes for girls. Not all girls are the same like how not all boys are the same.
    I'm a girl and this comment section is making me sad and I feel misunderstood. I'm seeing boys that got played say to be cold and then the girl will chase you but honestly, that has never worked on me. I love when guys show their true emotions and are clingy. 😂❤
    If you act shallow and cold now that you got your heart broken from the last girl then what you are going to attract and end up with is a shallow and cold girl. Stay caring. It may take more tries than you want it to. It's worth it though because you will then eventually end up with a caring girl. We are out there. ❤

    • @alcblazee7271
      @alcblazee7271 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I believe it yall just stand too close to the bad ones tho

    • @davidw3745
      @davidw3745 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      A girl who gets it.
      Anyway, where you at, cause you just described my traits

  • @LloOFFICIAL
    @LloOFFICIAL ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brother u waited to long, a girl only gonna be all about u for so long. then she backed off when it wasn't reciprocated. Laaaawd

  • @Wafting
    @Wafting 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Berto love ya vids like always you gotta be blessed with some editing skills because this is phenomenal

    • @WhereYouAtBerto
      @WhereYouAtBerto  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you bro it’s comments like this that keep me going!! Love yall man 💯💯💯

  • @M-iy4tf
    @M-iy4tf หลายเดือนก่อน

    All true
    Is the juice worth the squeeze
    If you ain’t getting what you want walk away

  • @isiahwoodard
    @isiahwoodard ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That intro go crazy

    • @WhereYouAtBerto
      @WhereYouAtBerto  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Song is available on all streaming platforms 🫡

  • @marcusnixon9494
    @marcusnixon9494 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    😂i fumbled the bag once but picked up a bigger one a couple months ago 👀just watch out

  • @ImDarkyeah
    @ImDarkyeah ปีที่แล้ว

    Dark chocolate skin got me😂

  • @chalcemae2495
    @chalcemae2495 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Or maybe you waited to late and she moved on.

  • @bicboii6996
    @bicboii6996 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    0:17 Dead🅰️ss😭😭😂

  • @GothicNoizzez
    @GothicNoizzez ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Man i had to break up w my ex cuz she had two others on the side 😢

  • @edwardbarlow8547
    @edwardbarlow8547 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Relatable asf bro

  • @igorkoumeda
    @igorkoumeda 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    4:43 the video start😂

  • @dam5336
    @dam5336 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    2:06 She's also underaged

  • @nikiemarston8480
    @nikiemarston8480 ปีที่แล้ว

    That sucker my mind but it did think they become a simple with you girl like this your life bro and you are the pocket

  • @sleepdeprivedzetsu
    @sleepdeprivedzetsu ปีที่แล้ว

    ayo yall music is fire

    • @WhereYouAtBerto
      @WhereYouAtBerto  ปีที่แล้ว

      Appreciate it gang, new song is the description 😏👌💯

  • @470angel6
    @470angel6 ปีที่แล้ว

    fasho my fizzle fasho shit crazy

  • @maxwellboyer8299
    @maxwellboyer8299 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your videos man

  • @Katsande223
    @Katsande223 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    S tier vid

  • @jonathonsteal3212
    @jonathonsteal3212 ปีที่แล้ว

    yes i would be excited to go on the kidy ride when i go to the supermarket i stand up giggleing while waiting to put my coin in the rocket rocket ship i am that nigga

  • @TSHGTheStrawHatGhost
    @TSHGTheStrawHatGhost ปีที่แล้ว

    Hopefully the algorithm hits this channel

  • @Autoj777
    @Autoj777 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    2:30

  • @alexsmith536
    @alexsmith536 ปีที่แล้ว

    been through 12 ex's and got played

  • @ABESW0RLD
    @ABESW0RLD ปีที่แล้ว

    So you dropped your crown and picked it right back up

  • @jeronboucher
    @jeronboucher ปีที่แล้ว

    Thaz tuff bro
    Sidenote: yall still rocking with Don?

  • @aaronmubiru4653
    @aaronmubiru4653 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SIMP!!!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @nikiemarston8480
    @nikiemarston8480 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well like helping multiple times though it's like you have a hard for your girl like this for the first time and you have a heartbreaking funny for multiple times already yeah I like me I used to have five girls in my life but everything you need to make it that day though if you don't want I mean

  • @mutatedburger5193
    @mutatedburger5193 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yooo bro nice vid bro

  • @loomingzenith9279
    @loomingzenith9279 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonder what’s even the point of dating if it’s a constant mental footsies.

    • @WhereYouAtBerto
      @WhereYouAtBerto  ปีที่แล้ว

      😔 I be thinking the same thing brah

    • @loomingzenith9279
      @loomingzenith9279 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@WhereYouAtBerto Pay too much attention, you lose. Pay too little and you also lose. Whatever happened to just liking someone and being able to talk about it without any other string attached?

  • @qdontae6
    @qdontae6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bruh I noticed this too it happened too many times n that shit pissed me off lol girls are weird

    • @WhereYouAtBerto
      @WhereYouAtBerto  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      All girls are the same! “juice WRLD voice”

  • @jeeternaalll5386
    @jeeternaalll5386 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    At 2:00 what is this from

    • @WhereYouAtBerto
      @WhereYouAtBerto  ปีที่แล้ว

      I actually don’t even know bro 😂😂

  • @bradonbyrd8061
    @bradonbyrd8061 ปีที่แล้ว

    Greetings to you

  • @nikiemarston8480
    @nikiemarston8480 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    But you see the one that mean if you should think you have the money in your life because we thought of any but we can't make it in go achievements though we have achieve our goals if you don't even goals this day you will let yourself down for that bad things happen to your life though but maybe once in your life it's in your life you're interested right female who cares about you your life your happiness you Sorrows everything but you need a female who cares about everyone but every morning everybody she cares about you and that tomorrow you care for everybody though but the one thing you do is funny by female you are willing job though just like you have a really enjoyable to care boy if you want everybody in your life though just fun perfect person you must feel your life and your story you can make it in time you when you make it in time

  • @kwasiasem
    @kwasiasem ปีที่แล้ว

    2:29 what video is this from

  • @KiaSynthesis
    @KiaSynthesis ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She got fed up to the point where any hopes of being w you phased out 😩 You waited too long. We’ll only chase you for so long before we lose interest in anything proceeding further lol.

  • @ILOVETHEHOLYLAND
    @ILOVETHEHOLYLAND 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Guarda sul te stesso, perché il modo che cui donne lavorano è strano mio fratello.

  • @sjchilling
    @sjchilling ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn
    🤣🤣

  • @lightmoon6052
    @lightmoon6052 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi

  • @dsx114life
    @dsx114life ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bruh you treating her like a option for months on top of the 8 hour drive and you mad she got fed up with your bs 😒

    • @WhereYouAtBerto
      @WhereYouAtBerto  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Definitely not mad but because I respect she may have got fed up with waiting for me but damn she didn’t even give me a chance when I was ready 🙁

    • @dsx114life
      @dsx114life ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@WhereYouAtBerto ahhh true true sorry you going through this regardless fam hope no more bs for you 🙏🏿🙏🏿✊🏿✊🏿

  • @daeseanweaver4950
    @daeseanweaver4950 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Facts 💯

  • @StoryTimeFlix
    @StoryTimeFlix ปีที่แล้ว +1

    • @WhereYouAtBerto
      @WhereYouAtBerto  ปีที่แล้ว

      At least you got a laugh out of this 🥲 Lmaoo