this right here is exactly how i've felt for so long. sometimes i wonder if she even remembers me, remembers how we used to wake up in each other's arms, how we would take walks together, play games, talk on the phone and text for hours on end. she was my world. now the world i inhabit is nothing more than a shattered husk, a wasteland devoid of humanity. her absence is a never ending death each day, and she's perfectly fine without me. i will never love again
I never lost anyone, what I lost is myself because of this world, I can't complain about having a hard life because there's people who is experiencing it 5x harder...
Sup man have a cup of tea, also I just want to point out that just because the pain that others feel are greater doesnt mean your better off hiding away yours, it's fine. You can always cry.
I have been working at least 15 hours per day and i still found many reasons not to break up with her and she just left like i meant nothing that's the problem with one sided relationship 😢
there r many guys who act as sigma from outside and act like we dont give a fuck but when we r alone we just keep thinking what is wrong with us that she choose someone else rather then me
She found it easier to find another man and relive that honeymoon phase with someone new, than stick it out and put in the work to support you at your lowest. Sucks, but it be that way.
I regret that I didn't showed her more how much I love her, how much she was important for me, overthinking everything instead of living the present moment
Same here man. I caused the relationship to end and the regret that I have is insane. I’m gonna have to get over this somehow but it’s so hard to avoid regrets in my head of what I could’ve/should’ve done.
I miss mine too bro, she was special for me and i know they are supposed to go but i can't stop felling it was too soon I just wish i could say good bye one more time May both rest in peace now
May her body rest in peace and may her soul thrive my brother. I miss my mom, she was my whole world, I loved her more than I could ever know. I know what it’s like when you lose someone so close, but sometimes we gotta soldier on, with their love in our hearts and their soul with us at all times. You can do this my brother.
It's amazing how someone can break Your heart and you can still love them with all the little pieces. Sometimes you don't realize how much you care for someone until they stop caring for you.
Being alone was fine but being alone after she left was what being alone truly felt like. Everyday i have to wake up knowing nothing will fill that broken hole in my heart and whenever i try to explain it i just cant. There are no words that can explain what it feels like but this video can. I was thinking about ending it all today but no way she would approve. Till we meet again
The time will come when you will remember and think about it like “yes, it happened, but now it’s okay.” I've already survived this and I hope you can too.
Too many mistakes were made. She ended up cutting contact in mid November. It's been almost a year now...I still miss her. Every night, I see and hear her in my head. Like a never-ending cycle that I can't let go of.
she broke up with me today so i feel like i lost everything i could i want to cry but i cant i feel like ive lost my emotions i guess it is what it is but i cant accept that shes rlly gone
““Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28 because of him I’m healed. and he wants to heal you too. he’s the reason why I’m alive today💖 And it’s not the end. There are many times in the Bible where they thought it was the end. Like the the death of Jesus. Or like Moses in the wilderness. And even Me I thought it was the end But God rescued me. Even tho your not a Cristian. Give ur pain to Jesus. He loves u I’ll be praying for u❤❤❤
it's okay. you did your mistakes, and things happened. that's fine! now you have learnt a bunch of things from it. she may have been great, but hey. someone better will come by. i know i'm just a random dude but that's how it happened to me. i did a lot of mistakes, lost a bunch of good people, but i pushed through, hoping for something better. i implored, and begged god, for a better tomorrow. sometimes it takes hurting to realize you improved. atleast you know they were mistakes. you've improved already. things will sometimes get on the low. hell, just yesterday i was basically in a really low point. but things get better, and with the right person, you'll push through. and, in life, you have two right people. your partner, well, obviously. but also you. you can make things better. don't forget that. it's YOUR life. YOU are living it. give yourself a little love, ay? the little voice in your head may be telling you bad things, but listen not to it: it's there so you fight it and grow stronger. go fight it. i believe in ya.
@@Octavius-pm3oc it hurts now, but remember that the most important person in your life is you. After all, without you, you couldn't be living life, ay? chin up and cherish that you're still alive. that means you're strong enough to stay around. things will get better. you can make em better. it's fine if you cry now. it's fine if you take longer to recover. but remember to try to get there, yea? even if it's just one thing at a time. you'll get there, and things will look better.
After 6 years of us being together she took her life in early July. We had come so far, worked on healing from her traumas together. But in the end the weight was too heavy for her to hold.
I did everything right. She said I was the one. We smiled. She admired me. She just disappeared and left me without saying goodbye. Now it’s just me with my thougths.
I’m sorry man, I’m not gonna say I know how you feel, because I don’t, not really. But I felt a similar pain, she told me the way she felt about me would never change. It’s childish really, I have yet to experience REAL pain. But when she said those words, and I knew deep down she was lying, it hurt when I was finally proven right.
@@Flimsyfingerthat's okay. We feel sorry for you being incapable of processing empathy. Hope you heal from whatever hurt you. Or if you just enjoy being a dick, hope you get what is coming to ya.
It's been 4 months since we're no longer together, she was my first love and I never felt so good and vulnerable at the same time, I don't regret the things that I said that day, just seeing how she gone without saying anything broke my heart. That day I felt a lot of tears falling from my eyes and remembered all the good and bad moments that 5 years of relationship can give you, I loved her so deeply but she left me in the worst moment. Telling the truth, if she wanna come back I wouldn't say no, but since that day, I finally discovered that she would never do that.
She was one of my best friends. We were so close. We went to each others houses. We were so happy together. Then she dropped me out of nowhere and it feels like theres nothing in my life anymore
I really lost her guys, and what sucks most is that it is all my fault and I realized it way too late. Love the ones you cherish and don't neglect them
We are all in this together. At least i got a gym membership and it's gonna be 1 year since i started in a few days. It fucking sucks like a razorblade through the heart everytime i think about her. And i sometimes go on her profile to see her with her new boyfriend for a pre-workout haha. Stay strong my brothers 💪
he's listened to this. i don't really understand why. he didn't lose me. i lost him. i've always been his, even months after we were over. no matter how many relationships i go through, or how many distractions i use, he's still the one for me. i fear that he always will be. it's starting to affect my relationships, because i've realized i will never be able to fully love anybody else the same way i loved him. he became everything to me. he was my entire world. and he still is. it hurts so bad knowing i'm not his, and he's already moved on and is happy with his new gf. i have to pretend to be happy for him everytime he tells me something about her but oh my god. it hurts so fucking bad and i don't know how much longer i can keep this in. i miss what we used to have. i miss hearing him say that he loves me, calling me darling, and just knowing that i'm the only one he's thinking of like that. everyone always says "if he wanted to, he would" but i refuse. i can't cut contact, i can't be patient. i just can't lose him. he means everything to me. everything. i love him so much, and i'm afraid it's making a void out of me. it hurts. nothing has ever hurt more than this. i can't let go of that "what if?" thought in my head. people don't understand that i would drop literally everything in my life to be with him. i would break up with anybody to be with him. i just wish we could have a genuine conversation about this, and i could finally know how he feels. i wish he still loved me. i just want him to be mine again. maybe in another lifetime, right..?
you and I both know the answer... I hope things are better for you. Just remember that there is so.eone out there who loves you way more than he did. But hey, what do I know. I'm just another random user in the vast ocean we all call the world wide web. Trust me, this is only temporary. Only when we reach the end of our journey do we find relief. I hope this helped you.
1) If he left you, then he's just a cretin, and you need to accept that he made a mistake and never get better. You need to understand that such people are not worth your time, because in fact you can fall in love with anyone. Which means you're overestimating him. 2) I know that this is a kick-ass how difficult it is, but you need to completely forget it, everything, this person does not exist in order to free up a place for milking someone who will truly love you.
i'm a bit late to the party, but i came regardless. i'm sorry this happened to you. i never loved someone that much. to have something like that and then lose it... i'm sorry. i've only ever fallen in love once, and uh... nothing came of it. she said it couldn't work. still, i cried a lot. but the sadness decreased over time. i think i managed to move on, though at the time it felt kinda like my world was ending. i'm not fully aware of your circumstances... do you think you can move on? not to say your feelings aren't valid. you have the right to be sad and all that... i don't know. i'm just another rando. but i wish you the best!
You will get through this man. I believe🙂, your so much stronger. Work on yourself, to love yourself❤, find something to past your time to not think of her. That will only cause pain, trust ik, a lot of people know. I trust that God has a plan for all of us, we just have to trust in him. Somethings weren’t meant to be. That’s hard to believe but we honestly just have to accept that. We don’t need others to be Ourselves to be YOU🙂 no one can be you only you can so live, love,and laugh. YOU GOT THIS KING 👑 ❤ Find something you really enjoy to bring yourself back up. Learn and Understand from mistakes, everyone can learn something, no one is a perfect being, we just have to love the hated parts too❤.
@@hiwelcometochiliswhatcanig3041 ““Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28 because of him I’m healed. and he wants to heal you too. he’s the reason why I’m alive today💖 And it’s not the end. There are many times in the Bible where they thought it was the end. Like the the death of Jesus. Or like Moses in the wilderness. And even Me I thought it was the end But God rescued me. Even tho your not a Cristian. Give ur pain to Jesus. He loves u I’ll be praying for u all❤❤❤
Hello to the person reading this. I hope that the words written here can bring you some comfort and help you in some way. It's funny how this song can make us all think about a certain person. It takes us back to a time that was better, a time when we were happy. But we have to remember that there's someone out there who truly loves us, even if we haven't found them yet. I used to have that girl in my life, but not anymore. I loved her with every fiber of my being, and this song really takes me back to that time. Deep down, though, I know I can't have her anymore. She's happier without me, and that's what I wanted. I just wanted her to be happy, even if it meant I had to let go. Life moves pretty fast sometimes, and I don't regret anything. If I could be with her again, I would. If I could kiss her, I would. But I can't, and that's just the way it is. We have to accept that sometimes we have to let go, even when the person we truly love no longer loves us. I know it's hard, my friend. I know it hurts. But remember, if God wanted you to face this, it means that God has better things coming in the future. Happiness awaits you, even if you can't see it now. Trust me, someday you will find someone who truly loves you and will do everything to keep you in their life. It will come. I know you struggle to sleep at night, and you might feel like you're not worth it anymore. But let me tell you, you are truly worth it. You may be in pain, just as I am, but please don't give up. Keep fighting, and soon you will see the light again. I understand that right now it feels impossible for you to be happy. You're going through a lot of difficult experiences, and it's important to acknowledge that. However, you have to let go of the things you can't control. Stop dwelling on them and start moving forward. I know it's incredibly challenging to do, but please don't stop fighting. I believe in you, my friend, even though I may not know you personally. Someday, somehow, you will find happiness again. whis you luck from -fanlimgames A small update for everyone: I've found a girl who loves me for who I am and appreciates what I give. So, don’t worry love will come to all of you at some point.
I think im not ready to fall in "love" again because im not ready to be hurted anymore.. Good luck to you reader and remember, never stop fight, the life's chapters are likes a window, dont matter how beautiful is the view, close it if it make you fell cold
Fuck, it's always when i can't fall asleep, all the memories flood back... Edit: I know litterally nobody asked, but a little update about how i'm doing. Life has been getting better, but i still feel shit sometimes. I've started going to the gym, and eating healthier. I've finally gotten over my breakup, and it's all getting better. This playlist helped me get through all the emotions, so thank you so much, to the stranger that created this. Thank your for this, when you're feeling bad, remember, it WILL get better, and there are always people that care about you.
Used to hear this playlist nonstop a couple months ago... Felt like i had lost her and my time here was done. But as time passed, being alone made me more conscious and aware of things i had never tought about, and that for me is a bless. Improved on myself like never before... Experienced new stuff and it felt even better than ever. So if you feel like you lost everything (her), use that as a window of oportunity to find other means of joy. Just dont give up, please. Stay strong kings.
““Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28 because of him I’m healed. and he wants to heal you too. he’s the reason why I’m alive today💖 And it’s not the end. There are many times in the Bible where they thought it was the end. Like the the death of Jesus. Or like Moses in the wilderness. And even Me I thought it was the end But God rescued me. Even tho your not a Cristian. Give ur pain to Jesus. He loves u I’ll be praying for u❤
I did everything for her.. Told her I'd never leave tried so hard to get her away from all her pain even when I was in pain.. And she still went to the things that hurt her.. and now.. I sit here alone in my room and youtube and god just taunting me.. hopeless is how I feel.. I feel gone..
I failed. it’s been about 3 years since I last saw her. I constantly wish for a second chance, knowing that I won’t ever receive one. I wish I could see her again.
@@ItzGhost-rt3zo this is good advice, it’s just that there’s a problem. I don’t know if she’s single or not as she moved away from the country I live in.
Hello internet goer, welcome to a checkpoint. It doesn't matter where you are right now; whether it be in the midst of grieving a loss, having a happy time, or on the verge of ending it all. This is a place to let your feelings loose, and stop holding them in. That too is a lesson I learned far too late. Neither the age nor the time matters right now, but remember that your life is a story. Some people will remain as characters throughout all of them, and some will go along the way. It's important we remember those whom we lost along the way, but it's equally as important to not allow them to dictate our life. It's okay to be stuck up on them, but you must keep going on. If they hated you, you must keep going to prove them wrong. If they loved you, you must keep going as that's what they would have wanted. I don't know if this is reaching someone who needs it, but if it is, then good on you for making it this far in life. There is much to do, so keep going
Having her leave broke me in ways I never thought possible. Months later I still cry myself to sleep almost every day. Dream of her cuddles and her warmth and the happiness we had. Only to wake up to me holding my pillow and sobbing my heart out some more. I haven't talked to her in a while and I hope she is doing ok wherever she is. I miss and love her dearly even if she is angry or hates me. I'd kill to have another chance with her. Love you Katie.. 😓💖
That's the thing. You gotta move on. I'm sorry you went through this and I wish you the best but you have to move on. No matter how much it hurts. I'm very sorry.
The saddest part is she moved so there’s absolutely 0 chance of us ever reconnecting because of that. She was my first love and I caused the relationship to end with a lot of dumb choices that I spend everyday day regretting. I truly did not realize how much I loved her until she left.
POV: she lost you kings stay strong its not just a sayin: There are many fish in the ocean, you just gotta find the special one. dont expect her to be the first and only one. it is what it is
@@mysteriousserious cause most of the time this happens is with young people, they dont know what truly matters in life yet. cant blame them. Youll find someone my friend, its not just a saying, as time will go on you will find the right person who values you for who you are :) and in the meantime, keep grinding king
I don't think about her a whole lot, but hearing this brought back some of the best memories I will ever have, it's sad that she's only a distant memory now.
““Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28 because of him I’m healed. and he wants to heal you too. he’s the reason why I’m alive today💖 And it’s not the end. There are many times in the Bible where they thought it was the end. Like the the death of Jesus. Or like Moses in the wilderness. And even Me I thought it was the end But God rescued me. Even tho your not a Cristian. Give ur pain to Jesus. He loves u.❤ I’ll be praying for u❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I was dead inside for so long over me losing her. I’m finally starting to reach the point where I realize that she lost me. I don’t miss her anymore, now I only miss what she gave me
It's been what like two years since she left me. Not a single days goes by where i dont miss her and remember her. Till this day i can vividly remember her smell, her smile and her voice. I loved her too much to begin with and i really didn't thought this wont work out. I really thought she's the one for me and I thought giving the world to her, not realising what would I do if this doesn't work out. Well they say with time you'll forget everything and the feelings go away, I'm still waiting for that time.
You won't get through it until you finally realize she has died, she is not who you knew anymore... That's the part that gets you the farthest to mental peace but hurts you the most...
As ive scrolled through the comments ive realised that its mostly boys losing girls. And to that i say ,stay strong you can get through it. The memories you hold are ones you should replay in your head and smile at. Be happy it happened ,dont be sad because its over. This goes to everyone, not just the boys. Stay strong, people need people who care for you just as much you do for them.
"Life is like a book. You cant skip though a book and expect to understand whats happening. You have to go through life one page at a time. Its gonna be a crazy plot, but its good to take small breaks at each chapter" -Nana
This happened to me a year ago. I still nearly cry over it when I shouldn't. But today after seeing her for probably the last time God helped me realize I did everything I could. We were inseparable, but now she will never give me the time of day. That's okay now because I know there is someone that will be there in the end and someday a woman that will never leave me and have the same lobe for me as I do for her.
You know I hate that I lost her and how everyday I wanted to help her since she was going through some heavy depression shit, so to be honest it hurted after everything I did for her just gets tossed aside.. like I somehow wasn’t good for her even though we were perfect match it didn’t seem like it wasn’t gonna work out. I know that after 3 years we were together that she cheated on me with my best friend and the hopped from guy to guy during our relationship, which tbh I had to let her go cause even after the mistakes she did and even after what she did with my best friend..like it broke my heart and made me realize that even the one beautiful and perfect girl you think would last well.. it will soon fall apart. So remember boys one day we will meet the one to be with just make sure you work on yourself and get your life in order and to heal yourself so that you can be the better you. So if any of you ask me like “would you be back with her at one point” and tbh I wouldn’t cause even if I did then I wouldn’t feel right being back with her and all I can say to her is just “I hope your happy with whoever your with and that if you ever wanna change and make things right then you can find me” otherwise don’t bother cause right now I’m getting better everyday with the life i have which is great but now there is one thing I gotta do.. it’s that I gotta let her go cause yea there could be a chance of it happening but of how I learned over the years is that they will never come back cause they don’t want you anymore. So stay strong kings and soon we will get there cause believe me it’ll be tough but it will be worth it 🙂
I still cannot stop thinking about her its been 3 months now and the weirdest thing is that we never met irl it was just an online thing which turned serious for me and still cannot let go of her I never saw her in person but she is still always at my dreams doorstep, always her face in my thoughts, always her voice in my mind and always the same question whenever i try to sleep "have she even thought abt me and not be able to sleep like me?" And i haven't found the answer yet
We met online and i actually flew to another country for her, best times of my life now its just despair shes the first thing on my mind when i wake up the last thing on my mind before i go to sleep i get actual anxiety when im not overthinking it all the worst part is she just ghosted me and a month later another guy just tells me she has a bf
I once thought love would save me until I drank from its chalice and realized it was just a poison to heighten the pain I’ve always felt and grow the hatred I’ve had for myself
I think im not ready to fall in "love" again because im not ready to be hurted anymore.. Good luck to you reader and remember, never stop fight, the life's chapters are likes a window, dont matter how beautiful is the view, close it if it make you fell cold
you don't miss her you miss the feeling she gave you when you had no feeling, you miss the feeling of being full but you were always empty, you missed the filling of the hole inside you that was never full
My mother always told me when i lost something, to "stop searching and it will turn up eventually" You may have lost her. But wait. She will turn up in your life again eventually. Theres always a next day to look forward to
2 months post breakup and I am still crying about that vision of me and her playing with our future kids in the farm away from the city... Never I thought that someone would make me do that sort of thing, to love so deeply that you visualize yourself with her building a new life and family... Now... It's all gone, almost two years' worth of effort, time, and love... My dad tells me that it's probably our fate that we were meant to be life lessons to each other. Well, the lesson I learned is that even if you tried everything, you cannot always win, you cannot always have the things and dreams that you want to achieve. Now... I'm afraid of loving again.
I met this girl in my work and we started talking for a few months. Soon I started to catch feelings and I found myself slowly falling in love with her. This girl was everything, after so many years of feeling lonely and feeling like I could never have what other guys and what my friends talked about, this was a breath of fresh air. But in the end I got rejected, same like all the other times I tried. I think I have a built in defense mechanism to where I can't show my affection to what I really want to show since in the past it hasn't been reciprocated to what I wanted. I truly did like this girl, but I feel like I let I slip by, again. We would have the best talks, we laughed, and we talked deep into conversations about ourselves and our goals and aspirations. At least she made my life a little better for a time. Now I struggle with the internal conflict of staying as just her friend, or leaving her. Because I know while she expects a real friend, I can't be that guy. The friendship wouldn't be real. Maybe in another universe, with a different me.
There comes a point in life where you will need to make your decision. At some point how doesnt matter how nice you are, ive come to realise that at some point you will need to care about yourself aswell, not only others. It can hurt the other person but when tou have felt the pain once, you will not be able to handle the same pain twice. Think about yourselves aswell, we are all just human beings.
It sucks when you know your losing them, and you don’t want to say anything because your afraid it might make them slip further away. Sometimes I wish I could show her how I see her and what could be through my eyes. I haven’t lost her yet, but I know I am slowly and I’m trying to work it out and things are slow but it sucks because I truly love her so much and she deserves so much but she gets taken over by stress and anxiety so it’s hard to get her to see how life our life can be with each other.
I haven't lose her yet, but I think I'm slowly am. I treat her like shit, even though I don't want to, I don't do it on purpose. I don't deserve her, but she still stays with me. Dear M, If you are ever reading this I'm really sorry. We have known each other since we were around 6, we've been best friends since then. I was at my lowest since then, since my family was neglectful and abusive, but when you came into my life, I finally felt happiness. I'm sorry I had to move countries, I really miss you. I still don't know why you're still with me, I really don't deserve you. I'm sorry It's all my fault. You deserve someone better. K Thank you for making this playlist, I appreciate it!
Я лежу и понимаю, что больше никогда не увижу этого человека как раньше. Теперь это просто мой приятель и мне так больно от этого.. Я просто хочу, чтобы он был счастлив
Lost my best- and only friend. She's gone forever now, and now I'm here. I feel disappointed in myself, but I think she would hug me and tell me I have her. I need a hug. It's been years.. 8 years..
Когда-нибудь ее отпустит, Она забудет о тебе Исчезнет повод дикой грусти Не ты к ней явишься во сне Она опять начнет сначала Как в песне, с чистого листа И ощутит, как надо мало: Для счастья повод есть всегда. Ты вдруг почувствуешь до дрожи, Как не хватает ее рук, Улыбки, что всего дороже, Захочешь слышать сердца стук Ты позвонишь, но будет поздно Вонзится холод декабря У абонента все серьезно Он счастлив, правда.... Без тебя.
Said final goodbye today to many people, but saying byes to her was the hardest thing. She is not only my best friend, she is my platonic soulmate and not just "a girl" but the girl I wanna keep talking to every day. I'm scared of losing her and will do anything to keep our friendship. She deserves the best. I love her :)
Just wanted to ask if you're okay, the final goodbye is leading me to believe you are considering suicide and or have done it, if I'm too late, I'm sorry things happened the way they did, if you are still considering it, remember there's people that will miss you, the girl you're talking about is most likely one of them... I hope you are okay, and if you are, have an amazing day.
100 reasons to stay alive: 1. to make your parents proud 2. to conquer your fears 3. to see your family again 4. to see your Favorite artist live 5. to listen to music again 6. to experience a new culture 7. to make new friends 8. to inspire 9. to have your own children 10. to adopt your own pet 11. to make yourself proud 12. to meet your idols 13. to laugh until you cry 14. to feel tears of happiness 15. to eat your favorite food 16. to see your siblings grow 17. to pass school 18. to get tattoo 19. to smile until your cheeks hurt 20. to meet your internet friends 21. to find someone who loves you like you deserve 22. to eat ice cream on a hot day 23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day 24. to see untouched snow in the morning 25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire 26. to see stars light up the sky 27. to read a book that changes your life 28. to see the flowers in the spring 29. to see the leaves change from green to brown 30. to travel abroad 31. to learn a new language 32. to learn to draw 33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them 34. Puppy kisses. 35. Baby kisses (the open mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek). 36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them. 37. Trampolines. 38. Ice cream. 39. Stargazing. 40. Cloud watching. 41. Taking a shower and then sleeping in clean sheets. 42. Receiving thoughtful gifts. 43. “I saw this and thought of you." 44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you." 45. The relief you feel after crying. 46. Sunshine. 47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention. 48. Your future wedding. 49. Your favorite candy bar. 50. New clothes. 51. Witty puns. 52. Really good bread. 53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time. 54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.) 55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling. 56. The smell before and after it rains 57. The sound of rain against a rooftop. 58. The feeling you get when you’re dancing. 59. The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them. 60. Trying out new recipes. 61. The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio. 62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage. 63. You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable. 64.Breakfast in bed. 65. Getting a middle seat in the movie theater. 66. Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning). 67. Pray (if you are religious) 68. Forgiveness. 69. Water balloon fights. 70. New books by your favorite authors. 71. Fireflies. 72. Birthdays. 73. Realizing that someone loves you. 74. Spending the day with someone like you. 75. Opportunity to create meaningful and lasting relationships. 76. Potential to learn, grow, and evolve as a person. 77. Joy and happiness in the little things. 78. The power to inspire others. 79. The ability to create art, music, and other forms of self-expression. 80. To explore different cultures, traditions, and ways of life. 81. To make a positive impact on the environment and help protect the planet. 82. Experience the joys of parenthood and raise a family. 83. Learn new things and develop new skills. 84. Create a legacy that will outlive you. 85. Being wrapped up in a warm bed. 86. Cuddles 87. Holding hands. 88. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world. 89. Singing off key with your best friends. 90. Road trips. 91. Spontaneous adventures. 92. The feeling of sand beneath your toes. 93. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees. 94. Thunderstorms. 95. Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland. 96. The taste of your favorite food. 97. The child-like feeling you get on Christmas morning. 98. The day when everything finally goes your way. 99. Compliments and praise. 100. to look on this moment in 10 years time and realize you did it. Ps : Never forget you are a beautiful person 💕 Life is so beautiful so live, live like no one else exist, live for yourself, don't care of bad people, you are strong, i love you 🫶🏼.
I grew close to someone and I became to paranoid that she would forget about me and I found this video, I listened to it a lot, things would always turn out ok until I finally let fear get ahold of me and screwed things up. I ghosted in a sort of way, we weren’t very close but I ruined something that I didn’t realize I treasured so much. I’m still hurting even though it was just something small. Moving on is hard, but I only have myself to blame. Please friends keep going, don’t give up and place your trust in the Lord.
To the person who read this, It’s been hard for you, I know, and it makes me sad that you don’t see yourself in the way I see you. Sometimes they are things in life that cause us to loose ourselves, and the way you have is so unimaginable painful. I miss your smile, the way your eyes light up the whole room just by the sound of your laughter. I miss the way you accepted the way you look in the mirror without cursing yourself out about how ugly you look. I miss the way you didn’t think of yourself as a failure because everyone makes mistakes, we all have flaws and we all aren’t perfect. It’s painful to see that no one around you seems to see the pain trough your eyes, but, stranger, I do, I see how heavy your heart is and how comforting the sadness for you might be, how afraid your heart is of happiness because it disappears in the end, right? You don’t know how much impact you have in this world and it’s sad to see that your demons fight against you and want to take over you. Because you do make change, it’s something so simple and little that brightens up someone’s whole world, it can be a small smile from your lips, the way you look at things you’re passionate about, the way you make yourself eat even though it’s been hard for you lately, the way you zoom out and go in your own world, you brighten up my world by reading this, it means a lot to me that you’re here, existing, but I don’t want you to just exist, you deserve to feel alive. You deserve to get up in the morning and feel good about yourself. You deserve to feel something- to feel every damn second alive in this lifetime. It’s heartbreaking that you think you’re not capable of being loved, because you are, I love you trough all my words and I hope you let it happen in your heart. Love is scary, I know, maybe you heart had been broken once and since then you wanted to be rather numb than feel ever again, it hurts me how you punish yourself, does it not deserve love? Because YOU DO deserve love, please forgive yourself, it’s not your fault that the demons want to take over your beautiful heart. You’re not a bad person for distancing yourself from others, but you deserve someone to talk to, you deserve someone to listen. I am listening, you can tell me what’s wrong. It’s everything, isn’t it? There’s something pulling your heartstrings on the ground and no one seems to understand how misunderstood you feel, it’s heartbreaking to know that I am behind the screen and can’t give you a hug, that’s why I will give you a big warm virtual hug and send you lots of love :). You matter. You are worthy. You are loved. You deserve good things. You deserve someone to listen. You deserve to eat and drink. You deserve to feel good and alive. You deserve to smile. You deserve a hug. You deserve to be all the things you want to be, because you deserve to have and feel good things happening to you and have a fulfilled life. I know I might not know you personally but I care about you so much, I write this because I want you to stay here with me, I want you to hold on a little longer because you matter so much to me, because I will not let you give up on yourself. I want you to see that you should not give up on yourself because you DESERVE GOOD THINGS. I want you to look back on the time when you were a kid, you didn’t give up when you tried to swim for the first time, you didn’t give up when you tired to walk for the first time and fell, you never gave up on yourself, you always kept on pushing forwards, so why can’t you now? I know it’s tiring, your mentally tired, but dont your younger self deserve good things? look back at your eyes that used to be full of hope, look back on those dreams. Don’t let yourself fall, you deserve better. We will both fight, I will fight for you. I won’t let those demons get to you. You can hold on to me, I won’t let you down :). Whenever you feel lonely, then look at the sky, I always look at it and think about you. Yes, you, because it makes me happy that there’s someone looking right back, maybe we can’t see each other but I can feel your presence here with me and that’s enough for me, because I am glad your heart is beating and you’re still fighting. You’re so much stronger thank you think, you didn’t leave your spot on this earth even if you wanted to, you belong here, even though it doesn’t feel like it, when you don’t feel like belonging than build your own home here, put all your love in it and dreams. Think of you as a star when you feel alone, you shine because your heart is good, no matter what mistake you made, no matter about the past you had, you’re one of the stars that shine bright in the universe because you’re heart is beautiful, that’s why the demons in your mind wants to have it. As one of the stars you see others stars, maybe they have felt the same way as you do at some point in there life, but they lighten up the universe with each other’s presence. You’re a star for me, maybe you don’t see it yourself but I can see it, you’re beautiful from inside and out, your body is beautiful the way it is. You make me happy by reading this, you make me feel something by your presence and when you can make me feel that way than you also make other people feel that way about you too. I hope you stay for yourself and don’t let your story get written by others but by yourself, it’s your story not theirs. As you can see, I say a lot of “I hope” because I have hope for you even if you don’t have it for yourself, I see hope in you even though you might want to give up. That’s why I hope you won’t see the world in darkness and will see it colorful again, I hope I will give you a glimpse of hope and make the world you see a bit colorful for today. My favorite color is yellow, and I hope the next time you see the color yellow you will think about my words. If someone left you than don’t blame yourself, don’t think you weren’t enough, don’t lower yourself for someone who couldn’t see the awesomeness in you. If you lost someone I am so sorry for your loss, they want you happy, I hope you don’t feel guilty or regret because you were there, you spend enough time with them, they want you to be happy. They are in a good and safe place now. If someone broke your heart than I am so sorry that they couldn’t see the way you look so beautiful because of the heart you have. Anyone who gets to be with you, doesn’t know how fucking lucky he/ she/ they is :). If you aren’t accepted at home or in general than I am so sorry that you have to deal with someone/ something you shouldn’t be ashamed of, I accept you and support you, I accept you as a human being no matter what race, religion, nationality, skin color, or sexuality you have. You’re safe here with me :). You’re not useless, you’re not a burden to anyone. You’re not a problem, you’re human and your feelings are valid. You’re not being dramatic.Please don’t starve yourself, you deserve food and to drink, I know it’s hard. It hurts to see that you’re in so much pain :( you deserve so much man, don’t let your emotions control you. Don’t let them get the best of you. I am sorry no one is noticing, I wish /hope I could take your pain away for today or even for a moment while you’re reading this. If no one told you, I am so proud of you, you’re reading this and it’s enough for me to be proud of you because you’re here and that’s all that matters to me. If it’s night for you, go to sleep, I know it’s hard to fall asleep right now but you deserve a good sleep. If you have nightmares, please, don’t let them fight you. If it’s day for you, don’t start it by such sad music, I know it’s impossible to have a good day with such mindset but take baby steps, start by drinking two cups of water everyday in the morning and so on.. You will start building little healthy habits. If it’s evening for you, you’re probably overwhelmed and stressed, I want you to know it’s okay to feel the way you feel. You don’t need to be scared, of course you’re overwhelmed or stressed, I mean who wouldn’t? But it’s important to know that when you feel that way you should do a little self care, such as taking a bath for example? You deserve to feel at ease and relaxed. And if you are somewhere in between I hope you know that you’re so strong for breathing despite the pain, I know you will make it :) I believe in you. All I want for you is to stay here, I really mean all my words, even if there is a lot of unsaid things I want to tell u and my text is getting longer and longer,I want you here. I hope one day your smile will become a genuine one where you don’t need to fake it anymore, because I can’t say this enough, you deserve a good smile and to feel alive. You’re worth more than every fucking cent in this world. You can let go for today, I got you, you can cry your heart out as much as you want, but don’t let it tear you down and let your emotions control you by giving up. Crying is not weakness. If you still feel alone I dedicate you a song as your friend. “Dusk till Dawn- Zayn feat. Sia (I prefer the slow version)” I hope you can think of me and will remind yourself of my words, I will for sure think of you. In case no one told you and you’re unsure yourself, you’re a good person and I am so happy you’re here. I hope this is enough to stay today, tomorrow will be a new day, a new start, let go now. Enough with beating yourself up for today, okay? Life for those who couldn’t, smile for those who forgot what a genuine smile is, love like there’s no other, hug like its your last one. If you read all of it, until tomorrow my friend :) have a good day and great years. I love you so much and am so proud of you, I hope you will remember my words-lava zoid, the stranger that cares more about you than anything
Oh god, I can’t describe this feeling to anyone, and won’t even wish it on anyone. She’s gone. I think I am done. I am absolutely done with all this. Goodluck to the rest of y’all.
yep i did. after 7 years of expressing all my feelings just for her, giving it my all every single day, i lost her. its over for me, theres no hope left for me getting her in my life ever again. over 2200 days are literally thrown in the trash. i was giving her more than i could, more than myself, but it didnt seem to be enough.
““Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28 because of him I’m healed. and he wants to heal you too. he’s the reason why I’m alive today💖 And it’s not the end. There are many times in the Bible where they thought it was the end. Like the the death of Jesus. Or like Moses in the wilderness. And even Me I thought it was the end But God rescued me. Even tho your not a Cristian. Give ur pain to Jesus. He loves u.❤ I’ll be praying for u❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I lost my girlfriend over 3 months ago, and she has completely forgotten about me. I see her in the halls all the time, and I can't even look at her cause I see the girl I love and I still care about. Yet she don't even feel the same. I loved her with everything in my soul. I thought she was the one. We had a connection. But I guess that's the cruel truth of this world, huh?
я не теряла его. за нас все решила жизнь и разбросала нас навсегда по разным тропинкам, на пересечении которых мы никогда не встретимся. мне так больно от этого
I lost myself in the darkness in search of her. What i know is only pain. What i became at the end is a big losser😌 She Didn't knew n understood how much i loves..her. I sleep every night with a broken heart💔 listening sad songs.
What you rote was beautiful bc I lost my dog and she died because she was old we fond her in the road and she was a loveable dog she was a chawa she had a tongue sticking out I loved her
Before we confessed our love to eachother we were bestfriends for 2 years. So when we brokeup i lost both a friend and a partner. It's been 3 months. It's better but it still hurts
Cherish every moment you get with the person you truly love because there is always someone there ready to replace you.. I know the pain is unbearable but you must endure and look deep into your soul and forgive yourself or you will become trapped in your own loneliness. I am finally beginning to crawl out of the hole i dug for myself.. there is light at the end of the tunnel for all of us. I prey that you all find the strength to carry you through these difficult times. Dont be too hard on yourself. Everything happens for a reason. Find happiness in you and the rest will follow. X
I lost him. we were together for a year, and in the end ... he decided the other person was more important. important enough to cheat on me and throw me away like garbage, despite him promising me that I was his priority and that he loved me. it only took him seven hours to decide I was no longer welcome in his life, while he's been haunting my nights for almost a month since. it hurts, and I miss him, and I hate myself for doing so after what he did to me. I cared for him so, so much, gave him everything without asking for anything in return, begged and pleaded and cried, shoved myself into a box to please him, and I still lost in the end after everything. there will be better days, but right now ...? all I can think about is how worthless I was in his eyes.
She was brilliant, she brought this type of magic where ever she went. We lost contact and don’t talk much these days but in my mind she is still that woman who casts spells on everyone around her and everyone seems to have a smile on there face. She is still the girl who stood up for me who brought a smile on my face and is still the woman who doesn’t give a f*** what anyone thinks. She will always be my best friend even if we haven’t spoken in years
i have indeed lost her. i lost the girl inside me that keeps the emotions at will. i dont feel anything anymore. im temporarily numb and tired of life. soon that girl will come back. i hope.
I lost him. I opened up to him with all my heart and I trusted him with my life only to find out he'd been cheating on me. He promised I was the only one and the prettiest. Trusting people is one of the hardest things to for me to do and he was with me in times when i was very suicidal but now i se he never cared, he just wanted my body. I hate men. I gave a man 1 last try only to be used. Now ik alone again, going to attempt it over and over again until I succeed. I'm just so fu*king tired.
Almost the same context as me. She lead me on, never was transparent. @viktorija6700 the heartbreak is not a life sentence, is a lesson in life we must acknowledge
Sometimes love becomes time, time i spent with her was time i'll never get back just as she once did my heart, but i robbed it back cause i dont lend people whats mine for a time being they gotta want it forever. Love is accepting this person love you back, is always there for you even in your worst, if they leave you its cause your about to hit your best.
It's like losing your world because in the end if you loved her with everything you had and were willing to do anything to stay with her she becomes your world
@@gjr7854 its been 2 years I still think about her look for her pictures in our past convos and tbh she's the only person that made me feel alive, now im just an empty shell im everywhere without being actually here and im tired of it, the only few times im genuinely happy is when im high sorry for the inconveniance have a good day
First, and only relationship. Talked for months, dated for almost a year. All I ever did was talk to her. I was in very tough situation and was nearly homeless, I wanted to just go to jail and be free of all the pain. She was the only reason why I didn’t. She later found someone else at a church camp and started flirting about him publicly. Turns out it was an act so that I would break up with her, but I didn’t. and her plan failed. She later left me. We haven’t talked since, and I haven’t stopped grinding since.
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That’s my birthday
@@jerijer.01 remind me to say happy birthday then alr?
@@Myxtery_ythey don't leave me out too i want to as well
jeez man that was scary
best part
"Real loss only occurs when you love someone more than you love yourself" - Robin Williams.
My life was all about her. And only her.
@@piker1055😢e then how did she left you
How did she left you
@@piker1055I totally relate to you...
@@piker1055nah that's crazy you let a female dictate if your happy or not
she was never mine to begin with. it was all in my head.
same bro, same here.
Same bro
Probably me next.
Real.
same
You don’t miss her, you miss the version of what she could have been..
But how could you have missed her future existence if you've never experienced what she could've become.?
Exactly
@@tsTrix what she could have been
@@V3Xcell 🙏
I miss the innocence I gave her. A heart that will never rest the same in my chest.
The hardest thing to come to terms with, is that she is happy and living her best life without you, and doesn't regret a thing.
Well they aren't really living...
Look like we are in same boat bro 🙃
this right here is exactly how i've felt for so long. sometimes i wonder if she even remembers me, remembers how we used to wake up in each other's arms, how we would take walks together, play games, talk on the phone and text for hours on end.
she was my world. now the world i inhabit is nothing more than a shattered husk, a wasteland devoid of humanity. her absence is a never ending death each day, and she's perfectly fine without me.
i will never love again
What a pathetic person you have to be to write a comment like that. She isn't living her "best life" you need to learn to let go.
What a sorry ass comment lol
“Some people are going to leave, but that’s not the end of your story. That’s the end of their part in your story.”
Bazı yan karakterler ana karakterle yer değiştirebilir. Bir bakarsın kendi hikayende yan karakter olmuşsun :)
But the story is nothing without her 😔... 💔
@@testosterus8935 SO TRUE💔💔💔
That's fucking awesome!!! Needed that my friend! Have a great day/night!
I never lost anyone, what I lost is myself because of this world, I can't complain about having a hard life because there's people who is experiencing it 5x harder...
Sup man have a cup of tea, also I just want to point out that just because the pain that others feel are greater doesnt mean your better off hiding away yours, it's fine. You can always cry.
be great mate, lets all be bacxk i n here in a year yeah?
I have been working at least 15 hours per day and i still found many reasons not to break up with her and she just left like i meant nothing that's the problem with one sided relationship 😢
Can't put a number on a lost love one
real shit, you just try to hold your own in this shit
there r many guys who act as sigma from outside and act like we dont give a fuck but when we r alone we just keep thinking what is wrong with us that she choose someone else rather then me
Wish I could say that's not me
Bro that's the most realistic comment I've ever read in my life
So true
Exactly man she chose someone else
She found it easier to find another man and relive that honeymoon phase with someone new, than stick it out and put in the work to support you at your lowest. Sucks, but it be that way.
I have friends I have joy but when by myself I just to walk
I regret that I didn't showed her more how much I love her, how much she was important for me, overthinking everything instead of living the present moment
I can relate
Same here man. I caused the relationship to end and the regret that I have is insane. I’m gonna have to get over this somehow but it’s so hard to avoid regrets in my head of what I could’ve/should’ve done.
Yup
Same here, except the girl lost the man...
I was the 122nd like on your comment.
Yes... I lost her, I loved her, but the person I lost was not a couple, it was my grandmother, the person who loved me the most...
May she rest in peace brother
I miss mine too bro, she was special for me and i know they are supposed to go but i can't stop felling it was too soon
I just wish i could say good bye one more time
May both rest in peace now
May her body rest in peace and may her soul thrive my brother. I miss my mom, she was my whole world, I loved her more than I could ever know. I know what it’s like when you lose someone so close, but sometimes we gotta soldier on, with their love in our hearts and their soul with us at all times. You can do this my brother.
😢
love you bro hope you r okay
It's amazing how someone can break Your heart and you can still love them with all the little pieces. Sometimes you don't realize how much you care for someone until they stop caring for you.
Being alone was fine but being alone after she left was what being alone truly felt like. Everyday i have to wake up knowing nothing will fill that broken hole in my heart and whenever i try to explain it i just cant. There are no words that can explain what it feels like but this video can. I was thinking about ending it all today but no way she would approve. Till we meet again
It's gonna be okay don't think of ending your life
We go through it together brother, it's okay
The time will come when you will remember and think about it like “yes, it happened, but now it’s okay.” I've already survived this and I hope you can too.
Too many mistakes were made. She ended up cutting contact in mid November. It's been almost a year now...I still miss her. Every night, I see and hear her in my head. Like a never-ending cycle that I can't let go of.
I can feel you all I imagine is her smile
she broke up with me today so i feel like i lost everything i could i want to cry but i cant i feel like ive lost my emotions i guess it is what it is but i cant accept that shes rlly gone
““Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest.”
Matthew 11:28 because of him I’m healed. and he wants to heal you too. he’s the reason why I’m alive today💖
And it’s not the end. There are many times in the Bible where they thought it was the end. Like the the death of Jesus. Or like Moses in the wilderness. And even Me I thought it was the end But God rescued me. Even tho your not a Cristian. Give ur pain to Jesus. He loves u
I’ll be praying for u❤❤❤
it's okay. you did your mistakes, and things happened. that's fine! now you have learnt a bunch of things from it.
she may have been great, but hey. someone better will come by. i know i'm just a random dude but that's how it happened to me.
i did a lot of mistakes, lost a bunch of good people, but i pushed through, hoping for something better. i implored, and begged god, for a better tomorrow.
sometimes it takes hurting to realize you improved. atleast you know they were mistakes. you've improved already.
things will sometimes get on the low. hell, just yesterday i was basically in a really low point. but things get better, and with the right person, you'll push through.
and, in life, you have two right people. your partner, well, obviously.
but also you. you can make things better. don't forget that. it's YOUR life. YOU are living it. give yourself a little love, ay?
the little voice in your head may be telling you bad things, but listen not to it: it's there so you fight it and grow stronger. go fight it.
i believe in ya.
@@Octavius-pm3oc it hurts now, but remember that the most important person in your life is you.
After all, without you, you couldn't be living life, ay? chin up and cherish that you're still alive. that means you're strong enough to stay around.
things will get better. you can make em better. it's fine if you cry now. it's fine if you take longer to recover.
but remember to try to get there, yea? even if it's just one thing at a time. you'll get there, and things will look better.
After 6 years of us being together she took her life in early July.
We had come so far, worked on healing from her traumas together. But in the end the weight was too heavy for her to hold.
Sorry bro stay strong man
Stay strong bro.
Sorry man. Be strong
rip to her im so sorry bro i cant even think of that type of pain
i hope you can heal enough to move on
I did everything right. She said I was the one. We smiled. She admired me. She just disappeared and left me without saying goodbye. Now it’s just me with my thougths.
Im so sorry brother.
I’m sooo not sorry
I’m sorry man, I’m not gonna say I know how you feel, because I don’t, not really. But I felt a similar pain, she told me the way she felt about me would never change. It’s childish really, I have yet to experience REAL pain. But when she said those words, and I knew deep down she was lying, it hurt when I was finally proven right.
Im very sorry man 💔
@@Flimsyfingerthat's okay. We feel sorry for you being incapable of processing empathy. Hope you heal from whatever hurt you. Or if you just enjoy being a dick, hope you get what is coming to ya.
It's been 4 months since we're no longer together, she was my first love and I never felt so good and vulnerable at the same time, I don't regret the things that I said that day, just seeing how she gone without saying anything broke my heart. That day I felt a lot of tears falling from my eyes and remembered all the good and bad moments that 5 years of relationship can give you, I loved her so deeply but she left me in the worst moment.
Telling the truth, if she wanna come back I wouldn't say no, but since that day, I finally discovered that she would never do that.
Sometimes you gotta understand she ain't losing a wink of sleep over you anymore
And here I am still staying up all night losing my sleep over her
@@SteelerBunyion how long has it been for you pal
@@benjaminzimmerman2963 4 years
@@SteelerBunyion im sorry, i thought my 5 months was bad
@@JesseOrSomething it's gotten a little easier, but I'm still trying to find myself.
She's now better off a forgotten story for me that never had a beginning.
❤❤❤
Legit
real
She was one of my best friends. We were so close. We went to each others houses. We were so happy together. Then she dropped me out of nowhere and it feels like theres nothing in my life anymore
I understand you
I get the you
I know what it feels like
Urmm embarrassing
@@Flimsyfinger what😭
I really lost her guys, and what sucks most is that it is all my fault and I realized it way too late. Love the ones you cherish and don't neglect them
Same here man
Same here
Yea bro neglect consistency grass rlly is fking greener where u water it had to learn that the harder way
2 late I didn’t value her and that made me loose her I wish I could go back and fix the mistakes… I tried everything but I can’t. Move on
We are all in this together. At least i got a gym membership and it's gonna be 1 year since i started in a few days. It fucking sucks like a razorblade through the heart everytime i think about her. And i sometimes go on her profile to see her with her new boyfriend for a pre-workout haha. Stay strong my brothers 💪
he's listened to this. i don't really understand why. he didn't lose me. i lost him. i've always been his, even months after we were over. no matter how many relationships i go through, or how many distractions i use, he's still the one for me. i fear that he always will be. it's starting to affect my relationships, because i've realized i will never be able to fully love anybody else the same way i loved him. he became everything to me. he was my entire world. and he still is. it hurts so bad knowing i'm not his, and he's already moved on and is happy with his new gf. i have to pretend to be happy for him everytime he tells me something about her but oh my god. it hurts so fucking bad and i don't know how much longer i can keep this in. i miss what we used to have. i miss hearing him say that he loves me, calling me darling, and just knowing that i'm the only one he's thinking of like that. everyone always says "if he wanted to, he would" but i refuse. i can't cut contact, i can't be patient. i just can't lose him. he means everything to me. everything. i love him so much, and i'm afraid it's making a void out of me. it hurts. nothing has ever hurt more than this. i can't let go of that "what if?" thought in my head. people don't understand that i would drop literally everything in my life to be with him. i would break up with anybody to be with him. i just wish we could have a genuine conversation about this, and i could finally know how he feels. i wish he still loved me. i just want him to be mine again. maybe in another lifetime, right..?
you and I both know the answer... I hope things are better for you. Just remember that there is so.eone out there who loves you way more than he did. But hey, what do I know. I'm just another random user in the vast ocean we all call the world wide web. Trust me, this is only temporary. Only when we reach the end of our journey do we find relief.
I hope this helped you.
1) If he left you, then he's just a cretin, and you need to accept that he made a mistake and never get better. You need to understand that such people are not worth your time, because in fact you can fall in love with anyone. Which means you're overestimating him.
2) I know that this is a kick-ass how difficult it is, but you need to completely forget it, everything, this person does not exist in order to free up a place for milking someone who will truly love you.
i'm a bit late to the party, but i came regardless. i'm sorry this happened to you. i never loved someone that much. to have something like that and then lose it... i'm sorry.
i've only ever fallen in love once, and uh... nothing came of it. she said it couldn't work. still, i cried a lot. but the sadness decreased over time. i think i managed to move on, though at the time it felt kinda like my world was ending.
i'm not fully aware of your circumstances... do you think you can move on? not to say your feelings aren't valid. you have the right to be sad and all that...
i don't know. i'm just another rando.
but i wish you the best!
how have you been holding up? after half a year
he wasn't the one. That's just what it was. I hope you're doing much better but please move on. Don't obsess over your ex.
Now she is gone... And all I do is live with her in my own imagination ... I still love her 🥺
You will get through this man. I believe🙂, your so much stronger. Work on yourself, to love yourself❤, find something to past your time to not think of her. That will only cause pain, trust ik, a lot of people know. I trust that God has a plan for all of us, we just have to trust in him. Somethings weren’t meant to be. That’s hard to believe but we honestly just have to accept that. We don’t need others to be Ourselves to be YOU🙂 no one can be you only you can so live, love,and laugh. YOU GOT THIS KING 👑 ❤ Find something you really enjoy to bring yourself back up. Learn and Understand from mistakes, everyone can learn something, no one is a perfect being, we just have to love the hated parts too❤.
Gain yourself from the ground up. 🙂 bring your confidence back 👑
@@Jacob-mr5ud thanks man 💖
Np man 🙂 you got this!! 👑🥳 don’t give up, achieve and reach for the stars.
dont live in the past bro, everything happens for a reason. stay strong king, you will find better
I accepted her at her worse yet she ran from me when i was at mine..
we can bathe in our regret together
same bro
@@hiwelcometochiliswhatcanig3041 ““Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest.”
Matthew 11:28 because of him I’m healed. and he wants to heal you too. he’s the reason why I’m alive today💖
And it’s not the end. There are many times in the Bible where they thought it was the end. Like the the death of Jesus. Or like Moses in the wilderness. And even Me I thought it was the end But God rescued me. Even tho your not a Cristian. Give ur pain to Jesus. He loves u
I’ll be praying for u all❤❤❤
Sometimes u gotta tell the person so they can understand. I make sure to tell her that I’ve done so much so she can see what I’ve done
Dw man I still love her even tough she cheated😢😭😭😭💔
Hello to the person reading this. I hope that the words written here can bring you some comfort and help you in some way. It's funny how this song can make us all think about a certain person. It takes us back to a time that was better, a time when we were happy. But we have to remember that there's someone out there who truly loves us, even if we haven't found them yet.
I used to have that girl in my life, but not anymore. I loved her with every fiber of my being, and this song really takes me back to that time. Deep down, though, I know I can't have her anymore. She's happier without me, and that's what I wanted. I just wanted her to be happy, even if it meant I had to let go.
Life moves pretty fast sometimes, and I don't regret anything. If I could be with her again, I would. If I could kiss her, I would. But I can't, and that's just the way it is. We have to accept that sometimes we have to let go, even when the person we truly love no longer loves us.
I know it's hard, my friend. I know it hurts. But remember, if God wanted you to face this, it means that God has better things coming in the future. Happiness awaits you, even if you can't see it now. Trust me, someday you will find someone who truly loves you and will do everything to keep you in their life. It will come. I know you struggle to sleep at night, and you might feel like you're not worth it anymore. But let me tell you, you are truly worth it. You may be in pain, just as I am, but please don't give up. Keep fighting, and soon you will see the light again.
I understand that right now it feels impossible for you to be happy. You're going through a lot of difficult experiences, and it's important to acknowledge that. However, you have to let go of the things you can't control. Stop dwelling on them and start moving forward.
I know it's incredibly challenging to do, but please don't stop fighting. I believe in you, my friend, even though I may not know you personally. Someday, somehow, you will find happiness again. whis you luck from -fanlimgames
A small update for everyone: I've found a girl who loves me for who I am and appreciates what I give. So, don’t worry love will come to all of you at some point.
...Is not Easy,im alone.
Alone Forever,im sad.
I hate my Life.
Is a joke,Is a error and i dont leave,why?
Why no,im a game.
Bruh
Good luck
Wowww bro...such kind words bro❤😊
Thank you for that encouragement friend, you are right about everything, even about letting her go thinking that she is more happier then with me
I think im not ready to fall in "love" again because im not ready to be hurted anymore..
Good luck to you reader and remember, never stop fight, the life's chapters are likes a window, dont matter how beautiful is the view, close it if it make you fell cold
Thx so much bro, i really appreciate the words
Fuck, it's always when i can't fall asleep, all the memories flood back...
Edit: I know litterally nobody asked, but a little update about how i'm doing.
Life has been getting better, but i still feel shit sometimes. I've started going to the gym, and eating healthier.
I've finally gotten over my breakup, and it's all getting better. This playlist helped me get through all the emotions, so thank you so much, to the stranger that created this.
Thank your for this, when you're feeling bad, remember, it WILL get better, and there are always people that care about you.
Proud of you man. Keep at it
Stay strong and remember we’re all here for you
Used to hear this playlist nonstop a couple months ago... Felt like i had lost her and my time here was done. But as time passed, being alone made me more conscious and aware of things i had never tought about, and that for me is a bless. Improved on myself like never before... Experienced new stuff and it felt even better than ever. So if you feel like you lost everything (her), use that as a window of oportunity to find other means of joy. Just dont give up, please.
Stay strong kings.
The hardest part is realizing that she never belongs to you - It's just your turn.
Going through this stage right now
““Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest.”
Matthew 11:28 because of him I’m healed. and he wants to heal you too. he’s the reason why I’m alive today💖
And it’s not the end. There are many times in the Bible where they thought it was the end. Like the the death of Jesus. Or like Moses in the wilderness. And even Me I thought it was the end But God rescued me. Even tho your not a Cristian. Give ur pain to Jesus. He loves u
I’ll be praying for u❤
Toutes sauf maman
this made me cry
i love her
This hits me harder than a train, man... But I'm used to that feeling.
I did everything for her.. Told her I'd never leave tried so hard to get her away from all her pain even when I was in pain.. And she still went to the things that hurt her.. and now.. I sit here alone in my room and youtube and god just taunting me.. hopeless is how I feel.. I feel gone..
No you are not gone.
Relatable
I waited for her for 3 years and when I finally had a chance I gave everything I could give , but she pushed me away for someone else
Im sorry bro😔
it's not that I dont love her anymore, it's that I lack the time or energy to give her the love she deserves.. so it's better for the both of us.
Remember this: nothing lasts forever, everything is temporary... but regret is eternal.
pov: you lost everything, and don't even wanna look at you in the mirror any more.
Im sorry😢
I failed. it’s been about 3 years since I last saw her. I constantly wish for a second chance, knowing that I won’t ever receive one. I wish I could see her again.
how are you doing friend
I think it your chances to talk to her again
If she still single
@@ffurqann I’m still alive, can’t really say much else.
@@ItzGhost-rt3zo this is good advice, it’s just that there’s a problem. I don’t know if she’s single or not as she moved away from the country I live in.
Hello internet goer, welcome to a checkpoint. It doesn't matter where you are right now; whether it be in the midst of grieving a loss, having a happy time, or on the verge of ending it all. This is a place to let your feelings loose, and stop holding them in. That too is a lesson I learned far too late. Neither the age nor the time matters right now, but remember that your life is a story. Some people will remain as characters throughout all of them, and some will go along the way. It's important we remember those whom we lost along the way, but it's equally as important to not allow them to dictate our life. It's okay to be stuck up on them, but you must keep going on. If they hated you, you must keep going to prove them wrong. If they loved you, you must keep going as that's what they would have wanted.
I don't know if this is reaching someone who needs it, but if it is, then good on you for making it this far in life. There is much to do, so keep going
Thank you
Thank you.
If you have someone that you love, and they love you back in the same way, dont ever take it for granted. I did, and now shes gone.
Having her leave broke me in ways I never thought possible. Months later I still cry myself to sleep almost every day. Dream of her cuddles and her warmth and the happiness we had. Only to wake up to me holding my pillow and sobbing my heart out some more. I haven't talked to her in a while and I hope she is doing ok wherever she is. I miss and love her dearly even if she is angry or hates me. I'd kill to have another chance with her. Love you Katie.. 😓💖
That's the thing. You gotta move on. I'm sorry you went through this and I wish you the best but you have to move on. No matter how much it hurts. I'm very sorry.
Respect yourself dude I'm sure you did your best now look forward not backwards
Eyes, oh how her eyes shined when she looked at me.
But then came the day when the shine of her eyes became nothing but a bitter memory.
Losing the girl I was in the talking stage with hurt more than losing the one I dated
ay my boa we got da same name dap me up (=3
Mahn i didn't loose her , infact i never had her
same...
Pain.
I still feel like I'll never be the same
my life actually
Same. I never had her. Haha, guess we can relate🥲
you never know what you truly have until it's gone.
The saddest part is she moved so there’s absolutely 0 chance of us ever reconnecting because of that. She was my first love and I caused the relationship to end with a lot of dumb choices that I spend everyday day regretting. I truly did not realize how much I loved her until she left.
POV: she lost you
kings
stay strong
its not just a sayin: There are many fish in the ocean, you just gotta find the special one. dont expect her to be the first and only one.
it is what it is
he cheated 3 times....
@@anishameoww your ex? sorry to hear that, same for you tho. stay stong queen
@@Froggo999 i really needed that thanks 🫶🏻
why are there so few that want real love....? most ppl seem to just want to cheat and use and play. it's very disheartening.
@@mysteriousserious cause most of the time this happens is with young people, they dont know what truly matters in life yet. cant blame them. Youll find someone my friend, its not just a saying, as time will go on you will find the right person who values you for who you are :) and in the meantime, keep grinding king
I don't think about her a whole lot, but hearing this brought back some of the best memories I will ever have, it's sad that she's only a distant memory now.
““Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest.”
Matthew 11:28 because of him I’m healed. and he wants to heal you too. he’s the reason why I’m alive today💖
And it’s not the end. There are many times in the Bible where they thought it was the end. Like the the death of Jesus. Or like Moses in the wilderness. And even Me I thought it was the end But God rescued me. Even tho your not a Cristian. Give ur pain to Jesus. He loves u.❤
I’ll be praying for u❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I ain't religious, but Winston Churchill once said tough situations don't last forever but tough people do
@@WindsorRailProductions indeed
I gave her my heart. All I had left was a fragment. And she took my soul instead. I’m lost and so close to suicide.
I promise there will be good again in your life, I care about you, we care about you and we love you, don’t do it, love WILL come, happiness will conw
Become a sigma
@@rukashinlevi764 bruv chill nobody needs to die
@@rukashinlevi764 agree
Oh my God, what do you thinking? your life is precious, you don't have to do this, you'll forget over time it's advice!
I was dead inside for so long over me losing her. I’m finally starting to reach the point where I realize that she lost me. I don’t miss her anymore, now I only miss what she gave me
Im so sorry man😢
I hope i join you soon
It's been what like two years since she left me. Not a single days goes by where i dont miss her and remember her. Till this day i can vividly remember her smell, her smile and her voice. I loved her too much to begin with and i really didn't thought this wont work out. I really thought she's the one for me and I thought giving the world to her, not realising what would I do if this doesn't work out. Well they say with time you'll forget everything and the feelings go away, I'm still waiting for that time.
Good playlist hits the spot just right and for everyone reading this don't lose hope because it might just get better
You won't get through it until you finally realize she has died, she is not who you knew anymore... That's the part that gets you the farthest to mental peace but hurts you the most...
As ive scrolled through the comments ive realised that its mostly boys losing girls. And to that i say ,stay strong you can get through it. The memories you hold are ones you should replay in your head and smile at. Be happy it happened ,dont be sad because its over. This goes to everyone, not just the boys. Stay strong, people need people who care for you just as much you do for them.
It never got to happen💔
"Life is like a book. You cant skip though a book and expect to understand whats happening. You have to go through life one page at a time. Its gonna be a crazy plot, but its good to take small breaks at each chapter"
-Nana
This is nice to listen to at midnight on the roof with the moon shining brightly.
This happened to me a year ago. I still nearly cry over it when I shouldn't. But today after seeing her for probably the last time God helped me realize I did everything I could. We were inseparable, but now she will never give me the time of day. That's okay now because I know there is someone that will be there in the end and someday a woman that will never leave me and have the same lobe for me as I do for her.
@Dannydolan88 Thank you!
You know I hate that I lost her and how everyday I wanted to help her since she was going through some heavy depression shit, so to be honest it hurted after everything I did for her just gets tossed aside.. like I somehow wasn’t good for her even though we were perfect match it didn’t seem like it wasn’t gonna work out. I know that after 3 years we were together that she cheated on me with my best friend and the hopped from guy to guy during our relationship, which tbh I had to let her go cause even after the mistakes she did and even after what she did with my best friend..like it broke my heart and made me realize that even the one beautiful and perfect girl you think would last well.. it will soon fall apart. So remember boys one day we will meet the one to be with just make sure you work on yourself and get your life in order and to heal yourself so that you can be the better you. So if any of you ask me like “would you be back with her at one point” and tbh I wouldn’t cause even if I did then I wouldn’t feel right being back with her and all I can say to her is just “I hope your happy with whoever your with and that if you ever wanna change and make things right then you can find me” otherwise don’t bother cause right now I’m getting better everyday with the life i have which is great but now there is one thing I gotta do.. it’s that I gotta let her go cause yea there could be a chance of it happening but of how I learned over the years is that they will never come back cause they don’t want you anymore. So stay strong kings and soon we will get there cause believe me it’ll be tough but it will be worth it 🙂
I clicked on this by accident but it brought me more peace of mind then the video I meant to click on ever could
You ain't lying
I still cannot stop thinking about her its been 3 months now and the weirdest thing is that we never met irl it was just an online thing which turned serious for me and still cannot let go of her I never saw her in person but she is still always at my dreams doorstep, always her face in my thoughts, always her voice in my mind and always the same question whenever i try to sleep "have she even thought abt me and not be able to sleep like me?" And i haven't found the answer yet
We met online and i actually flew to another country for her, best times of my life now its just despair shes the first thing on my mind when i wake up the last thing on my mind before i go to sleep i get actual anxiety when im not overthinking it all the worst part is she just ghosted me and a month later another guy just tells me she has a bf
I once thought love would save me until I drank from its chalice and realized it was just a poison to heighten the pain I’ve always felt and grow the hatred I’ve had for myself
You have to Love God first then you can love anyone the right way!
I think im not ready to fall in "love" again because im not ready to be hurted anymore..
Good luck to you reader and remember, never stop fight, the life's chapters are likes a window, dont matter how beautiful is the view, close it if it make you fell cold
you don't miss her you miss the feeling she gave you when you had no feeling, you miss the feeling of being full but you were always empty, you missed the filling of the hole inside you that was never full
My mother always told me when i lost something, to "stop searching and it will turn up eventually" You may have lost her. But wait. She will turn up in your life again eventually. Theres always a next day to look forward to
If you messed Up there is no way
@@Ayayass-b1kfacts
2 months post breakup and I am still crying about that vision of me and her playing with our future kids in the farm away from the city...
Never I thought that someone would make me do that sort of thing, to love so deeply that you visualize yourself with her building a new life and family...
Now... It's all gone, almost two years' worth of effort, time, and love...
My dad tells me that it's probably our fate that we were meant to be life lessons to each other.
Well, the lesson I learned is that even if you tried everything, you cannot always win, you cannot always have the things and dreams that you want to achieve.
Now... I'm afraid of loving again.
I met this girl in my work and we started talking for a few months. Soon I started to catch feelings and I found myself slowly falling in love with her. This girl was everything, after so many years of feeling lonely and feeling like I could never have what other guys and what my friends talked about, this was a breath of fresh air. But in the end I got rejected, same like all the other times I tried. I think I have a built in defense mechanism to where I can't show my affection to what I really want to show since in the past it hasn't been reciprocated to what I wanted. I truly did like this girl, but I feel like I let I slip by, again.
We would have the best talks, we laughed, and we talked deep into conversations about ourselves and our goals and aspirations. At least she made my life a little better for a time. Now I struggle with the internal conflict of staying as just her friend, or leaving her. Because I know while she expects a real friend, I can't be that guy. The friendship wouldn't be real. Maybe in another universe, with a different me.
She never knew I loved her.....yet I kept loving her....
There comes a point in life where you will need to make your decision.
At some point how doesnt matter how nice you are, ive come to realise that at some point you will need to care about yourself aswell, not only others.
It can hurt the other person but when tou have felt the pain once, you will not be able to handle the same pain twice.
Think about yourselves aswell, we are all just human beings.
It sucks when you know your losing them, and you don’t want to say anything because your afraid it might make them slip further away. Sometimes I wish I could show her how I see her and what could be through my eyes. I haven’t lost her yet, but I know I am slowly and I’m trying to work it out and things are slow but it sucks because I truly love her so much and she deserves so much but she gets taken over by stress and anxiety so it’s hard to get her to see how life our life can be with each other.
You didn’t lose her. You lost yourself
I haven't lose her yet, but I think I'm slowly am.
I treat her like shit, even though I don't want to, I don't do it on purpose.
I don't deserve her, but she still stays with me.
Dear M, If you are ever reading this I'm really sorry. We have known each other since we were around 6, we've been best friends since then. I was at my lowest since then, since my family was neglectful and abusive, but when you came into my life, I finally felt happiness. I'm sorry I had to move countries, I really miss you. I still don't know why you're still with me, I really don't deserve you. I'm sorry It's all my fault. You deserve someone better.
K
Thank you for making this playlist, I appreciate it!
Please just don't. Treat her with respect. Trust me you'll never be able to handle the feelings if she leaves
@@grandfathersfuddi5146 Yes, I am now, I try and spend as mch time with her as possible.
POV: she lost you.
Я лежу и понимаю, что больше никогда не увижу этого человека как раньше. Теперь это просто мой приятель и мне так больно от этого..
Я просто хочу, чтобы он был счастлив
Lost my best- and only friend. She's gone forever now, and now I'm here. I feel disappointed in myself, but I think she would hug me and tell me I have her. I need a hug. It's been years.. 8 years..
Когда-нибудь ее отпустит,
Она забудет о тебе
Исчезнет повод дикой грусти
Не ты к ней явишься во сне
Она опять начнет сначала
Как в песне, с чистого листа
И ощутит, как надо мало:
Для счастья повод есть всегда.
Ты вдруг почувствуешь до дрожи,
Как не хватает ее рук,
Улыбки, что всего дороже,
Захочешь слышать сердца стук
Ты позвонишь, но будет поздно
Вонзится холод декабря
У абонента все серьезно
Он счастлив, правда....
Без тебя.
Сос мыслом
Kings always remind yourself: A woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing, A man's loyalty is tested when he has everything.
Damn right. I was with a girl, and she was loyal, until I lost all that I had. She then left.
Said final goodbye today to many people, but saying byes to her was the hardest thing. She is not only my best friend, she is my platonic soulmate and not just "a girl" but the girl I wanna keep talking to every day. I'm scared of losing her and will do anything to keep our friendship. She deserves the best. I love her :)
are you edatinf again
Just wanted to ask if you're okay, the final goodbye is leading me to believe you are considering suicide and or have done it, if I'm too late, I'm sorry things happened the way they did, if you are still considering it, remember there's people that will miss you, the girl you're talking about is most likely one of them... I hope you are okay, and if you are, have an amazing day.
100 reasons to stay alive:
1. to make your parents proud
2. to conquer your fears
3. to see your family again
4. to see your Favorite artist live
5. to listen to music again
6. to experience a new culture
7. to make new friends
8. to inspire
9. to have your own children
10. to adopt your own pet
11. to make yourself proud
12. to meet your idols
13. to laugh until you cry
14. to feel tears of happiness
15. to eat your favorite food
16. to see your siblings grow
17. to pass school
18. to get tattoo
19. to smile until your cheeks hurt
20. to meet your internet friends
21. to find someone who loves you like you deserve
22. to eat ice cream on a hot day
23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day
24. to see untouched snow in the morning
25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire
26. to see stars light up the sky
27. to read a book that changes your life
28. to see the flowers in the spring
29. to see the leaves change from green to brown
30. to travel abroad
31. to learn a new language
32. to learn to draw
33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them
34. Puppy kisses.
35. Baby kisses (the open mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek).
36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them.
37. Trampolines.
38. Ice cream.
39. Stargazing.
40. Cloud watching.
41. Taking a shower and then sleeping in clean sheets.
42. Receiving thoughtful gifts.
43. “I saw this and thought of you."
44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you."
45. The relief you feel after crying.
46. Sunshine.
47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention.
48. Your future wedding.
49. Your favorite candy bar.
50. New clothes.
51. Witty puns.
52. Really good bread.
53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time.
54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.)
55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling.
56. The smell before and after it rains
57. The sound of rain against a rooftop.
58. The feeling you get when you’re dancing.
59. The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them.
60. Trying out new recipes.
61. The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio.
62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage.
63. You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable.
64.Breakfast in bed.
65. Getting a middle seat in the movie theater.
66. Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning).
67. Pray (if you are religious)
68. Forgiveness.
69. Water balloon fights.
70. New books by your favorite authors.
71. Fireflies.
72. Birthdays.
73. Realizing that someone loves you.
74. Spending the day with someone like you.
75. Opportunity to create meaningful and lasting relationships.
76. Potential to learn, grow, and evolve as a person.
77. Joy and happiness in the little things.
78. The power to inspire others.
79. The ability to create art, music, and other forms of self-expression.
80. To explore different cultures, traditions, and ways of life.
81. To make a positive impact on the environment and help protect the planet.
82. Experience the joys of parenthood and raise a family.
83. Learn new things and develop new skills.
84. Create a legacy that will outlive you.
85. Being wrapped up in a warm bed.
86. Cuddles
87. Holding hands.
88. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world.
89. Singing off key with your best friends.
90. Road trips.
91. Spontaneous adventures.
92. The feeling of sand beneath your toes.
93. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees.
94. Thunderstorms.
95. Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland.
96. The taste of your favorite food.
97. The child-like feeling you get on Christmas morning.
98. The day when everything finally goes your way.
99. Compliments and praise.
100. to look on this moment in 10 years time and realize you did it.
Ps : Never forget you are a beautiful person 💕 Life is so beautiful so live, live like no one else exist, live for yourself, don't care of bad people, you are strong, i love you 🫶🏼.
I love you bro
You're a beautiful person, too. Much love ♥
One reason to not, shes gone
One reason to die dominates million reasons to live
Thank's man i appreciate that❤
I grew close to someone and I became to paranoid that she would forget about me and I found this video, I listened to it a lot, things would always turn out ok until I finally let fear get ahold of me and screwed things up. I ghosted in a sort of way, we weren’t very close but I ruined something that I didn’t realize I treasured so much. I’m still hurting even though it was just something small. Moving on is hard, but I only have myself to blame. Please friends keep going, don’t give up and place your trust in the Lord.
aaah, this feel so good to listen
To the person who read this,
It’s been hard for you, I know, and it makes me sad that you don’t see yourself in the way I see you. Sometimes they are things in life that cause us to loose ourselves, and the way you have is so unimaginable painful. I miss your smile, the way your eyes light up the whole room just by the sound of your laughter. I miss the way you accepted the way you look in the mirror without cursing yourself out about how ugly you look. I miss the way you didn’t think of yourself as a failure because everyone makes mistakes, we all have flaws and we all aren’t perfect. It’s painful to see that no one around you seems to see the pain trough your eyes, but, stranger, I do, I see how heavy your heart is and how comforting the sadness for you might be, how afraid your heart is of happiness because it disappears in the end, right? You don’t know how much impact you have in this world and it’s sad to see that your demons fight against you and want to take over you. Because you do make change, it’s something so simple and little that brightens up someone’s whole world, it can be a small smile from your lips, the way you look at things you’re passionate about, the way you make yourself eat even though it’s been hard for you lately, the way you zoom out and go in your own world, you brighten up my world by reading this, it means a lot to me that you’re here, existing, but I don’t want you to just exist, you deserve to feel alive. You deserve to get up in the morning and feel good about yourself. You deserve to feel something- to feel every damn second alive in this lifetime. It’s heartbreaking that you think you’re not capable of being loved, because you are, I love you trough all my words and I hope you let it happen in your heart. Love is scary, I know, maybe you heart had been broken once and since then you wanted to be rather numb than feel ever again, it hurts me how you punish yourself, does it not deserve love? Because YOU DO deserve love, please forgive yourself, it’s not your fault that the demons want to take over your beautiful heart. You’re not a bad person for distancing yourself from others, but you deserve someone to talk to, you deserve someone to listen. I am listening, you can tell me what’s wrong. It’s everything, isn’t it? There’s something pulling your heartstrings on the ground and no one seems to understand how misunderstood you feel, it’s heartbreaking to know that I am behind the screen and can’t give you a hug, that’s why I will give you a big warm virtual hug and send you lots of love :). You matter. You are worthy. You are loved. You deserve good things. You deserve someone to listen. You deserve to eat and drink. You deserve to feel good and alive. You deserve to smile. You deserve a hug. You deserve to be all the things you want to be, because you deserve to have and feel good things happening to you and have a fulfilled life. I know I might not know you personally but I care about you so much, I write this because I want you to stay here with me, I want you to hold on a little longer because you matter so much to me, because I will not let you give up on yourself. I want you to see that you should not give up on yourself because you DESERVE GOOD THINGS. I want you to look back on the time when you were a kid, you didn’t give up when you tried to swim for the first time, you didn’t give up when you tired to walk for the first time and fell, you never gave up on yourself, you always kept on pushing forwards, so why can’t you now? I know it’s tiring, your mentally tired, but dont your younger self deserve good things? look back at your eyes that used to be full of hope, look back on those dreams. Don’t let yourself fall, you deserve better. We will both fight, I will fight for you. I won’t let those demons get to you. You can hold on to me, I won’t let you down :). Whenever you feel lonely, then look at the sky, I always look at it and think about you. Yes, you, because it makes me happy that there’s someone looking right back, maybe we can’t see each other but I can feel your presence here with me and that’s enough for me, because I am glad your heart is beating and you’re still fighting. You’re so much stronger thank you think, you didn’t leave your spot on this earth even if you wanted to, you belong here, even though it doesn’t feel like it, when you don’t feel like belonging than build your own home here, put all your love in it and dreams. Think of you as a star when you feel alone, you shine because your heart is good, no matter what mistake you made, no matter about the past you had, you’re one of the stars that shine bright in the universe because you’re heart is beautiful, that’s why the demons in your mind wants to have it. As one of the stars you see others stars, maybe they have felt the same way as you do at some point in there life, but they lighten up the universe with each other’s presence. You’re a star for me, maybe you don’t see it yourself but I can see it, you’re beautiful from inside and out, your body is beautiful the way it is. You make me happy by reading this, you make me feel something by your presence and when you can make me feel that way than you also make other people feel that way about you too. I hope you stay for yourself and don’t let your story get written by others but by yourself, it’s your story not theirs. As you can see, I say a lot of “I hope” because I have hope for you even if you don’t have it for yourself, I see hope in you even though you might want to give up. That’s why I hope you won’t see the world in darkness and will see it colorful again, I hope I will give you a glimpse of hope and make the world you see a bit colorful for today. My favorite color is yellow, and I hope the next time you see the color yellow you will think about my words. If someone left you than don’t blame yourself, don’t think you weren’t enough, don’t lower yourself for someone who couldn’t see the awesomeness in you. If you lost someone I am so sorry for your loss, they want you happy, I hope you don’t feel guilty or regret because you were there, you spend enough time with them, they want you to be happy. They are in a good and safe place now. If someone broke your heart than I am so sorry that they couldn’t see the way you look so beautiful because of the heart you have. Anyone who gets to be with you, doesn’t know how fucking lucky he/ she/ they is :). If you aren’t accepted at home or in general than I am so sorry that you have to deal with someone/ something you shouldn’t be ashamed of, I accept you and support you, I accept you as a human being no matter what race, religion, nationality, skin color, or sexuality you have. You’re safe here with me :). You’re not useless, you’re not a burden to anyone. You’re not a problem, you’re human and your feelings are valid. You’re not being dramatic.Please don’t starve yourself, you deserve food and to drink, I know it’s hard. It hurts to see that you’re in so much pain :( you deserve so much man, don’t let your emotions control you. Don’t let them get the best of you. I am sorry no one is noticing, I wish /hope I could take your pain away for today or even for a moment while you’re reading this. If no one told you, I am so proud of you, you’re reading this and it’s enough for me to be proud of you because you’re here and that’s all that matters to me. If it’s night for you, go to sleep, I know it’s hard to fall asleep right now but you deserve a good sleep. If you have nightmares, please, don’t let them fight you. If it’s day for you, don’t start it by such sad music, I know it’s impossible to have a good day with such mindset but take baby steps, start by drinking two cups of water everyday in the morning and so on.. You will start building little healthy habits. If it’s evening for you, you’re probably overwhelmed and stressed, I want you to know it’s okay to feel the way you feel. You don’t need to be scared, of course you’re overwhelmed or stressed, I mean who wouldn’t? But it’s important to know that when you feel that way you should do a little self care, such as taking a bath for example? You deserve to feel at ease and relaxed.
And if you are somewhere in between I hope you know that you’re so strong for breathing despite the pain, I know you will make it :) I believe in you. All I want for you is to stay here, I really mean all my words, even if there is a lot of unsaid things I want to tell u and my text is getting longer and longer,I want you here.
I hope one day your smile will become a genuine one where you don’t need to fake it anymore, because I can’t say this enough, you deserve a good smile and to feel alive. You’re worth more than every fucking cent in this world.
You can let go for today, I got you, you can cry your heart out as much as you want, but don’t let it tear you down and let your emotions control you by giving up. Crying is not weakness. If you still feel alone I dedicate you a song as your friend.
“Dusk till Dawn- Zayn feat. Sia (I prefer the slow version)” I hope you can think of me and will remind yourself of my words, I will for sure think of you.
In case no one told you and you’re unsure yourself, you’re a good person and I am so happy you’re here.
I hope this is enough to stay today, tomorrow will be a new day, a new start, let go now. Enough with beating yourself up for today, okay?
Life for those who couldn’t, smile for those who forgot what a genuine smile is, love like there’s no other, hug like its your last one.
If you read all of it, until tomorrow my friend :)
have a good day and great years.
I love you so much and am so proud of you, I hope you will remember my words-lava zoid, the stranger that cares more about you than anything
Oh god, I can’t describe this feeling to anyone, and won’t even wish it on anyone. She’s gone. I think I am done. I am absolutely done with all this. Goodluck to the rest of y’all.
stay strong bro you can make it through this ❤
It be like that. Im so sorry homie. Wouldnt wish that feeling on feeling on anyone either
We're in this together, brother. Love you man and hope you do well!
It had been 3 years I couldn't forget her
as long as she is happy... I'll be happy...
as long as she is safe... I'll be happy...
I always willing to do anything for her even until now
yep i did. after 7 years of expressing all my feelings just for her, giving it my all every single day, i lost her. its over for me, theres no hope left for me getting her in my life ever again. over 2200 days are literally thrown in the trash. i was giving her more than i could, more than myself, but it didnt seem to be enough.
““Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest.”
Matthew 11:28 because of him I’m healed. and he wants to heal you too. he’s the reason why I’m alive today💖
And it’s not the end. There are many times in the Bible where they thought it was the end. Like the the death of Jesus. Or like Moses in the wilderness. And even Me I thought it was the end But God rescued me. Even tho your not a Cristian. Give ur pain to Jesus. He loves u.❤
I’ll be praying for u❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
And also bro it’s not your fault. Godbless❤
I lost my girlfriend over 3 months ago, and she has completely forgotten about me. I see her in the halls all the time, and I can't even look at her cause I see the girl I love and I still care about. Yet she don't even feel the same. I loved her with everything in my soul. I thought she was the one. We had a connection. But I guess that's the cruel truth of this world, huh?
Yes, sadly yes
я не теряла его. за нас все решила жизнь и разбросала нас навсегда по разным тропинкам, на пересечении которых мы никогда не встретимся. мне так больно от этого
Очень болезненный момент особенно когда этот человек был для тебя всем и вдруг стал никем...
I lost myself in the darkness in search of her. What i know is only pain. What i became at the end is a big losser😌
She Didn't knew n understood how much i loves..her.
I sleep every night with a broken heart💔 listening sad songs.
I lost my pet dog,she was the loveliest and lovable dog I've ever met. I hope she rests in heaven, fly high 💗..
I'm so sorry for your loss. your dog is certainly in heaven happy and i hope wellbeing for you right now.
What you rote was beautiful bc I lost my dog and she died because she was old we fond her in the road and she was a loveable dog she was a chawa she had a tongue sticking out I loved her
If you don't stop I'm going to make Chris cheat on you again
The hardest part is forcing yourself to see them as a stranger again, because it goes against the reality you experienced
This video got recommended to me exactly the moment I lost her. What a coincidence...
Before we confessed our love to eachother we were bestfriends for 2 years. So when we brokeup i lost both a friend and a partner. It's been 3 months. It's better but it still hurts
Cherish every moment you get with the person you truly love because there is always someone there ready to replace you.. I know the pain is unbearable but you must endure and look deep into your soul and forgive yourself or you will become trapped in your own loneliness. I am finally beginning to crawl out of the hole i dug for myself.. there is light at the end of the tunnel for all of us. I prey that you all find the strength to carry you through these difficult times. Dont be too hard on yourself. Everything happens for a reason. Find happiness in you and the rest will follow. X
I lost him. we were together for a year, and in the end ... he decided the other person was more important. important enough to cheat on me and throw me away like garbage, despite him promising me that I was his priority and that he loved me. it only took him seven hours to decide I was no longer welcome in his life, while he's been haunting my nights for almost a month since. it hurts, and I miss him, and I hate myself for doing so after what he did to me. I cared for him so, so much, gave him everything without asking for anything in return, begged and pleaded and cried, shoved myself into a box to please him, and I still lost in the end after everything. there will be better days, but right now ...? all I can think about is how worthless I was in his eyes.
You're not worthless in God's eyes ✝️🩷
it hurt more than anything in the world
and I can honestly say that from experience I'm sorry that that happened to u
She was brilliant, she brought this type of magic where ever she went. We lost contact and don’t talk much these days but in my mind she is still that woman who casts spells on everyone around her and everyone seems to have a smile on there face. She is still the girl who stood up for me who brought a smile on my face and is still the woman who doesn’t give a f*** what anyone thinks. She will always be my best friend even if we haven’t spoken in years
Thank you for making this.
I still have her. But I feel the bond breaking apart... It hurts...
same here, no matter how hard I try it just doesn't feel the same.
@@chiefaku7506 same with my ex...
i have indeed lost her. i lost the girl inside me that keeps the emotions at will. i dont feel anything anymore. im temporarily numb and tired of life. soon that girl will come back.
i hope.
I lost him. I opened up to him with all my heart and I trusted him with my life only to find out he'd been cheating on me. He promised I was the only one and the prettiest. Trusting people is one of the hardest things to for me to do and he was with me in times when i was very suicidal but now i se he never cared, he just wanted my body. I hate men. I gave a man 1 last try only to be used. Now ik alone again, going to attempt it over and over again until I succeed. I'm just so fu*king tired.
Hey, you wanna talk?
Exactly I opened up to Christopher
Almost the same context as me. She lead me on, never was transparent. @viktorija6700 the heartbreak is not a life sentence, is a lesson in life we must acknowledge
Losing a kid besides her is a different type of pain.
Sometimes love becomes time, time i spent with her was time i'll never get back just as she once did my heart, but i robbed it back cause i dont lend people whats mine for a time being they gotta want it forever. Love is accepting this person love you back, is always there for you even in your worst, if they leave you its cause your about to hit your best.
It's been 3 years and I haven't forgotten her yet She just disappeared and left me without saying goodbye. Now it’s just me with my thougths.
I never lost myself I lost everything
I didn't lose her, i lost everything.
It's like losing your world because in the end if you loved her with everything you had and were willing to do anything to stay with her she becomes your world
Same
Even when you lose it all if you keep going you'll always have a fresh start an a opportunity for a new path forward
@@gjr7854 its been 2 years I still think about her look for her pictures in our past convos and tbh she's the only person that made me feel alive, now im just an empty shell im everywhere without being actually here and im tired of it, the only few times im genuinely happy is when im high sorry for the inconveniance have a good day
Ded dad
First, and only relationship. Talked for months, dated for almost a year. All I ever did was talk to her. I was in very tough situation and was nearly homeless, I wanted to just go to jail and be free of all the pain. She was the only reason why I didn’t. She later found someone else at a church camp and started flirting about him publicly. Turns out it was an act so that I would break up with her, but I didn’t. and her plan failed. She later left me.
We haven’t talked since, and I haven’t stopped grinding since.
1:56 everytime I made her laugh i thought she will fall harder for me but instead each time she laughed I fell more for her.