HOW WOMEN GET ATTACHED - Elements of Female NATURE desire and arousal (key to seductive vibe 24/7)

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    Attract and Keep ANY women you want using 'MBT' Below!🔥
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    • @owoitsmrdonutgirl
      @owoitsmrdonutgirl 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Casey zander i want to flag your video for that thumbnail but im not going to because i respect you much please consider this a warning and um try to be a bit less 18+
      I've yet to watch the video

    • @owoitsmrdonutgirl
      @owoitsmrdonutgirl 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think im stupid most days and this is one of my moments

    • @3sittingducks
      @3sittingducks 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      E_BEGGING ALERT!

    • @3sittingducks
      @3sittingducks 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "GIVE ME MONEY CAUSE I TEACH YOU SHIT SO YOU CAN GIVE ME MONEY AND THATS IT" E-BEGGING BUSINESS DYNAMICS.

    • @rjones4387
      @rjones4387 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@owoitsmrdonutgirl GB pixel watch

  • @rluv4evr
    @rluv4evr 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +927

    Women fall in love for one reason: The way they feel about themselves when they're with you.

    • @Leipuanani
      @Leipuanani 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +106

      This right here is more valuable than the video.

    • @babezulechazazulu172
      @babezulechazazulu172 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Elaborate

    • @anonnnnnnnnnnnn
      @anonnnnnnnnnnnn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Partly. It's less about how they feel and more how MUCH they feel.

    • @anonnnnnnnnnnnn
      @anonnnnnnnnnnnn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      You need to bring negative energy and cocky jokes sometimes.

    • @joshmanwaring3848
      @joshmanwaring3848 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      ​@@anonnnnnnnnnnnnso that's why she stays with me even though I'm abusive and controlling. well, the problems run much deeper than that...

  • @danstosich
    @danstosich 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +154

    “You should feel confident, because you are a son of God and you are male!” Love it!

  • @Richard-ob5zn
    @Richard-ob5zn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +757

    "Your reality has been constructed for you " 100% right.

    • @Veilsau
      @Veilsau 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Matrix

    • @carlosacevedo5005
      @carlosacevedo5005 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Si

    • @sarahmika6649
      @sarahmika6649 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      How can sb change their perceived reality?

    • @simonschneider5913
      @simonschneider5913 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      only if you suck it up and go along, to have the comforting company of other morons.

    • @1lowtrade
      @1lowtrade 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What?

  • @mrsalviboy94
    @mrsalviboy94 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +516

    If you can be a man that treats her well, has a purpose, in control of his life, his mind and emotions yet could cheat, there’s other women wanting him.. that’s the sweet spot women just love competing, be the man worth competing for!

    • @LuisNMW
      @LuisNMW 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

      There's still a chance of her cheating. Guys will be bluepill and be extra sweet to a girl, give her gifts and shower her with attention. Then go "red pill" sort of like casey content and who the audience is and limit attention, fuck with her by teasing and shit and get her attached. But ultimately, both of these mindsets are coming from the same place. You are doing all of these things for her. The motivation is the same. You HAVE TO truly not give a fuck and be focused on yourself and they will be a byproduct of this. Fuck the "sweet spot" for women you shouldn't care about that.

    • @mrsalviboy94
      @mrsalviboy94 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      @@LuisNMW I agree, always a chance of cheating.. when a man lives in abundance and internal peace, yes sir you just don’t give a **** and that’s the attitude they crave. They come and go as they please, a man should see them as the cherry on top not the cake, I’m 30 now and ow I get the attention of the young ones and older just because I treat everyone with charisma, the confidence is real no need to prove it.

    • @SupernaturalPowerz
      @SupernaturalPowerz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So be a giga-chad,, yeah alright then bro

    • @mrsalviboy94
      @mrsalviboy94 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SupernaturalPowerz is a choice, you don’t have to

    • @rodtack8420
      @rodtack8420 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes yes.. so to have women desire you, already be wanted by women. Women want what they can't have and they want what other women want. If they see you are alone or that other women don't want you, then they don't want you. Sadly true and not helpful at all to men that are unable to attract women to begin with though.

  • @Expression2.0
    @Expression2.0 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    “Don’t use this for evil” is the line that invites that sort of behavior 😂😂😂

  • @Swissalchemist
    @Swissalchemist 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +542

    Declining sex is such a power move on the mans part. That's the #1 goal for EVERY man and women feel that so to be the one person that says no for whatever reason(there's a bunch - tired, it's an event, simply not ready, whatever) is huge. It's my go-to and works like a charm.

    • @ktfoent
      @ktfoent 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

      I do decline sex, with the women no guy wants 😄

    • @ashinthewind2759
      @ashinthewind2759 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

      It can be a slippery slope. Doesn't work with all girls.

    • @lamnol
      @lamnol 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

      @@ashinthewind2759If you’re celibate or looking for a high value woman you’re just eliminating the red flags.

    • @Kalamith
      @Kalamith 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

      In my experience it's after sex they get hooked. I've lost a couple of girls for not having sex on the first date, however I don't really thnk I ever lost a girl I had sex on the first date, quite the opposite.

    • @fury_saves_world
      @fury_saves_world 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@Kalamith What would it take for you to elaborate on that a bit more?

  • @DivinityHades
    @DivinityHades 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +501

    Been watching his content since a year now, this man is the only genuine TH-camr among his colleagues who make videos on same stuff. It’s like he breaks down everything to you and puts so much effort.
    God bless you Casey.

    • @rickstoic6907
      @rickstoic6907 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      It's a bit fun, but at the end of the day I notice that he is a pretty handsome fellow and this is going to make a huge difference in his experience. Average guy it will be bit different.
      "Dating is easy, just be yourself" -- Henry Cavill

    • @zahidibrahim2260
      @zahidibrahim2260 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree with you but you also really gotta check on "Fitxfearless". He's a beast in the game and one of the realest and (Get to the point) guy. Respect to Casey too.

    • @DreyfusLagoon
      @DreyfusLagoon 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@rickstoic6907If you think like a loser than it makes you a loser

    • @tylerdurden7142
      @tylerdurden7142 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@rickstoic6907 that's true... the caveat that he should mention is that when a man is confident, content, and sure of himself he will attract a woman in his attractiveness bracket rather than not attracting any woman at all. If a guy doesn't fit contemporary beauty standards and is not wealthy, the most he can aim for is a woman of the same speed. He's not landing a model nor a conventionally attractive female. It is what it is.

    • @rickstoic6907
      @rickstoic6907 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tylerdurden7142Yes, I can see there might be something to that.

  • @nirupampratapgiri1348
    @nirupampratapgiri1348 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +330

    This is gold! That aspect of being stoic and not worried about whether or not you’re having sex and how you’re comfortable in his own skin is great advice.

    • @mitchellnelson6249
      @mitchellnelson6249 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Seriously this is high level

    • @peytonedwards4225
      @peytonedwards4225 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Only way

    • @peytonedwards4225
      @peytonedwards4225 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Considering if everything can be taken from you by a woman. It's worth more investing in yourself. Did you know the only reason big smart bucks die? Because they chase female deer. No other reason why they will get caught. We do alot of dumb stuff for women we wouldn't normally do if it was just us.

    • @Thehandle3770
      @Thehandle3770 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Except for the fact that you're essentially pretending disinterest in sexual intimacy, it becomes difficult to sustain the pretense indefinitely. Even after two months of pretending, if your partner continues to show no interest, it raises questions about the validity of the belief that you genuinely don't care about receiving any intimate connection. At this point, it may be worth reconsidering whether the notion of not desiring it remains accurate.

    • @nirupampratapgiri1348
      @nirupampratapgiri1348 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well, it's nuanced. You can't keep pretending disinterest indefinitely and that's not the point he's making. What he's essentially saying is that you shouldn't appear so desperate for it because not only can that be used against you but it'll make you look weak in front of her. It should happen with the flow and if she seems receptive enough, you should initiate sexual contact. What happens usually is that the guy rushes things and wants to escalate too soon and that often isn't reciprocated. It's a case by case basis. @@Thehandle3770

  • @andrewgiegerich8211
    @andrewgiegerich8211 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    As a 5’2 male nothing on the outside will beat a 7’0 mindset!!

  • @GioHimonPro
    @GioHimonPro 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +126

    Not caring about the outcome of sex and being completely confident in your own skin. Advice that I needed to hear right now. Great content !!

  • @Gambleraddictz
    @Gambleraddictz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    This guy is super intelligent. No cuts or clipped on his film. Just straight up nonstop explanation of true reality.

  • @SEEKJustice1234
    @SEEKJustice1234 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    Casey your theories are more thought out and accurate about female nature than many other opinions I've seen or read. I'd take your concepts about inner masculinity and say embracing and cultivating this part of yourself is the key to true fulfilment in life, not just towards successful relationships with women.

  • @Viejitosoyyo
    @Viejitosoyyo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    He’s secretly teaching you all how to be a better man and get closer with God, and disguising it in the frame to attract women. Great shit. 💯 Wax on, wax off.

    • @MrWzeljunior
      @MrWzeljunior 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Excellent observation 💯

    • @HelpMeFindTheseSongs
      @HelpMeFindTheseSongs 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      When does he mention God? That's cringey.

    • @bambbambboyguy123
      @bambbambboyguy123 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@HelpMeFindTheseSongsother videos

    • @Shannxy
      @Shannxy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Idk how you managed to smuggle jesus into all that

    • @Gdhdjejgfsbh
      @Gdhdjejgfsbh หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ya I too noticed that

  • @kauaichronsdan5146
    @kauaichronsdan5146 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Agreed with all this, I found out so recently that you validating all of it is great, and helped really digesting it and it’s only bc I’m on my 3rd LTR now and I love her and she’s crazy for me bc of all this!! Much love ❤

  • @Karl-wx8zx
    @Karl-wx8zx 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Casey you legit showed me light towards finding my path, I will never forget these lessons

  • @priscilladu5365
    @priscilladu5365 หลายเดือนก่อน +171

    As a woman, it sounds like we are wired to fall in love with narcissists who are best at showing confidence.

    • @YoutubeCommentRater
      @YoutubeCommentRater หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Yeah that’s the way it sounds . Im a super masculine man and have a 10 for a girlfriend . She didn’t get turned off when I show her my vulnerability - and sensitivity

    • @omarjawed4389
      @omarjawed4389 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Women fall in love with men who have principles and boundaries. Narcissists have boundaries hence why women are attracted to them. But real men of value aren’t narcissists, they have boundaries and principles and have the confidence to live without a woman.

    • @flymarkus0957
      @flymarkus0957 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@TH-camCommentRater A 10 on a pikachu scale u mean

    • @brianbucher1313
      @brianbucher1313 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      In most of his videos he claims women can't really love a man in any genuine capacity

    • @marky-marks
      @marky-marks 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      And then you have the men who are silently confident but can treat you as the woman you should be. But only you would know where he’s confident and isn’t. a man who will say he’s not happy with this or that. But for the right reasons. I could go on. The issue is today. That women don’t like being called out or that a man has boundaries coz that’s then controlling. The issue with a narcissist is that they manipulate you only so you fall in line. being machine isn’t controlling your woman. but men think it is.

  • @curtisharrington858
    @curtisharrington858 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Honestly, thank god you help guys like me. I couldn’t be more grateful for you and your content

  • @futuregootecks
    @futuregootecks 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you Casey! Btw I was watching one of owen’s streams the other day and he shouted you out twice! Didn’t realize you knew each other but it’s very satisfying for me to know that my two favorites are on the same page with their ideas. Thanks for all you do brother 💪

  • @ShanesTubes
    @ShanesTubes 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    In a 10+ year relationship, but I've still been listening to these lately. Love a good psychology vid.

  • @Keto_B
    @Keto_B 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    literally the most valuable video on TH-cam I've seen about this yet! I've watched this video twice just to take notes the second time. such wise and great advice bro

  • @curtisharrington858
    @curtisharrington858 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Smooth as hell throughout the whole presentation, really incredible job!

  • @teodorbotzov
    @teodorbotzov 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This is a really helpful video and especially for the guy that need to realise that they should’t be shy or insecure, because they matter. Guys, let’s break our fears and became the best version of ourselves so we can attract what we deserved. Preach!

  • @onlydeniros
    @onlydeniros 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    this video is an absolute gem , changed my whole perspective on what’s really important in life.

  • @timothyw7663
    @timothyw7663 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Much respect Casey. You summed it up, and like you said a couple of times, nobody else has put it quite as directly as you have here.

  • @M3NZOTUBE
    @M3NZOTUBE 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    No wonder Casey says this video is his most important every time. He’s not lying. When the content keeps on getting better and better, every recent video will be the best yet. Keep up the good shit brother

  • @TerrenceThomas
    @TerrenceThomas 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    You crushed this one CZ. This one brings back a time when I was about 21 and I started dating this girl. I was 6 weeks out from a competition and I flat out told her that we weren’t getting intimate until after my show. It drove her bananas.

  • @ezraakujinwa1292
    @ezraakujinwa1292 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Just came home from work at 5am watching this rn and this is just pure gold man.. You are a legend

  • @williejohnson6182
    @williejohnson6182 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    YOU REALLY 100 PERCENT RIGHT NOBODY EVER BREAKS IT DOWN THIS WAY THIS WAS LITERALLY A PERFECT BREAKDOWN

  • @mjiiv
    @mjiiv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    this is the best video on this that ive genuenly ever seen. Every man should hear this, every last one. Props to you man, doing an amazing job! Have to follow and support genuine men like u. keep it up!

  • @BALAGlyphs
    @BALAGlyphs 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You've discovered the real truth in the matter it's impressive to see somebody speak with integrity even though it may not be that popular.. thx bro

  • @sed3388
    @sed3388 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    thank you Casey, i resonate with your new videos more then really old ones ... Congrats Man!

  • @Ciclopea2
    @Ciclopea2 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    You can be the hottest celebrity and athlete and those guys still get cheated on, dumped, divorced, betrayed, looking inward where your true value lies is definitely worth it. It seems so simple yet it's something so many men struggle with throughout their lives regardless of how successful and physically attractive they are. Beautiful video, makes total sense.

    • @blairsaid
      @blairsaid 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Amen. This will be the last video I consume for the evening so I can marinate on this idea. Truly an enlightening philosophy and I started to wonder "how many things do I participate in because of societal programming, like going to church, why do I go to church when I've really started to not find it meaningful or valuable." This question could literally be asked about anything "Why did I start learning Spanish. Why did I start wanting to Salsa dance. Why did I get a dog, etc. etc. etc.." It really made me sit back and think that there are levels to this shit, and it's almost like the philosophy of "I have fuck you money now, you cannot cancel me." And as he said, this isn't a license to be evil just because you have "found yourself", rather you stop becoming the societal jester who is strictly being used as entertainment for other people. And you stop becoming a slave to things that don't matter to you, only to your reputation or perception. This guy is really fucking sharp and I appreciate just the few videos I've consumed. Take care, good luck on your quest for self-acceptance.

    • @baileybuckley4796
      @baileybuckley4796 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Except it’s not completely accurate. I’ve watched quite insecure dudes get every female in a general area just by being attractive… the concept of not giving a fuck is good but if you’re not attractive in the face then you’re 100% limited on what level of female u can attract.

    • @Ciclopea2
      @Ciclopea2 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@baileybuckley4796 Also not completely accurate. They might get the ladies because they're physically attractive, but usually end up paying heavily for the insecurity underneath in an actual relationship, and i've seen the opposite where a guy is dating way out of his league but ends up having a good relationship, granted that is even less frequent in the digital era with people choosing life partners like it's from a catalog.

    • @flaviog.7192
      @flaviog.7192 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​@@baileybuckley4796 100% fact! If you're a 5 you can f@ck you're confidence and mind game, 9's and 10's won't even let you speak, it will be over before you open you're mouth period.

    • @colinbailey7161
      @colinbailey7161 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Always have a prenuptial. Years ago my ex wife wanted out, and I sent her on the way. I kept my house, my car, my dog and all of my money. She left with what she brought. 6k, her clothes, some furniture, credit card debt and cookware then moved back home to mom and dad. Haven't spoken but twice in 20 years.

  • @duwaynelangham
    @duwaynelangham 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    THIS MAN IS A MAD SCIENTIST IN JUST BREAKING DOWN THE FACTS... keep shining light on the truth brother, love seeing another master of men's work!

  • @iritosss
    @iritosss 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you for the insane amount of value Casey

  • @InspirerVision
    @InspirerVision 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have never commented on any video before, really bro Thanks. This internal conflict of mine ended just cause of listening to you. Keep helping others.

  • @wiy_annguyen
    @wiy_annguyen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +128

    Casey is way ahead of his peers bro. I've been slowly applying myself to his teachings and it's game changer. From super nice guy, afraid to overstep boundaries with women to confidently speak my desires... and the results are astounding lol.

    • @IvanRubin
      @IvanRubin 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Give an example please!

    • @matthalo89
      @matthalo89 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Yeah, give an example of what confidently speaking your desires has done for you.

    • @wiy_annguyen
      @wiy_annguyen 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Instead of being unsure of when to express my desire for women, I now tease and banter openly (within reasons of course). I've learned that women are far more emotional then we are as men, so instead of talking logic, I create an atmosphere of light/fun/humor for us to enjoy ourselves.
      @@IvanRubin

    • @sachiel1995
      @sachiel1995 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@IvanRubin Talk about Job improvement=More money, You want to Travel some Places= he is not Boring, Treating yourself with some High quality food and buy the things you never could before=He is Living and enjoying life. Those things Signal Stability without being boring.

  • @MrDavid8460
    @MrDavid8460 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    17:31 Shots fired! I recently found your channel and binged your vids, your message truly resonates within me and I'm grateful that I have access to this knowledge to improve my life. Thanks for sharing your insights!

  • @bradencockrell1018
    @bradencockrell1018 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    “I am who I say I am” that is gold. Men we must have congruency w our words and our actions. Every man has failed at this including me. Those who have learned this discipline are always better internally and externally than the average man.
    Just recently I told my gf I was getting up at 5:30am to work out. We stayed up till 2:00am having a great conversation. I didn’t go work out at 5:30am… I failed a shit test I set for myself 😂. Thankfully I recognized it and I will go to bed at a reasonable hour and start the day off right next time.

  • @LBFufuEata
    @LBFufuEata 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I swear you were talking to me throughout this video.
    Thank you for taking your time to make these.
    I just found your channel,
    I’ve watched three videos and already my life has changed.
    Thank you.
    🙏🏿

  • @tyrelldawkins6132
    @tyrelldawkins6132 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yo this guy is talking 200% facts bro ngl. To be honest I’ve been battling with lust and I’m 17 and watching this video helped me a lot. Thanks bro

  • @LionsHeart1983
    @LionsHeart1983 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    100% true, have experienced the same as you presented. Well done!

  • @Howwwwwl
    @Howwwwwl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Hey Casey, I've been watching your videos for a few months now, and I want to say thank you. I've experienced highs and lows in terms of my own personal development, but because of severe deficiencies in self-confidence I've never been very attractive towards women, or I succeed in the first few steps, then insecurity rears up and she exits. I've struggled with needing other people's approval for the majority of my life. Meanwhile I've watched others succeed in relationships apparently effortlessly.
    Through watching your content I've been able to realize that your internal frame of self confidence, your internal masculinity is what women are really filtering for. Not looks, not money, not external success, they are hardwired to fall for your confidence in yourself. This is why men who are successful with women are often not always successful in other areas of their lives: they might have mediocre careers, average looks, average intelligence, but as long as they are unshakeable in their confidence women find them attractive. This trait of self confidence has become extremely rare in the western world. Secure masculinity that doesn't need external reinforcement is very rare indeed.

  • @rell108
    @rell108 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is the most valuable video i’ve ever seen on TH-cam on this topic. You’ve changed my perspective on everything. My new favorite channel and content creator. Thank you brother.

  • @nigerijada
    @nigerijada 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bro this video is literaly gold. Can't explain how much I needed this video right now. Can't put it in word. There are still smart people in this world.

  • @ryanogechi2294
    @ryanogechi2294 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Best vid I've seen. Massive props to Casey.

  • @FirstLast-yv7wu
    @FirstLast-yv7wu 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Your TH-cam videos alone have changed my sex life, never was not able to get girls or friends but their was a disconnect in some areas that is completely gone now. Whenever I do everything I need to I get king’s treatment and when I slack I get slack treatment, I understand the “formula” throughly because of your videos. From the bottom of my heart and others who haven’t found your videos yet thank you Casey Merry Christmas.

  • @matg2473
    @matg2473 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro this is gold, honestly you explained the hole men’s life through a deeply simple video

  • @officialbandsavy2464
    @officialbandsavy2464 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was a real and grounded way to look at it bro. I appreciate this perspective💯

  • @WaqarDepp
    @WaqarDepp 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    "There's no end point to success..." Well said brother.

  • @fliiguy247
    @fliiguy247 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    What you are describing is a sigma male. The name for the new wave of man that is emotionally intelligent, has set his own standards and values, thoughtful, and capable of living his life without approval or validation from others.

    • @iamblight707
      @iamblight707 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      "sigma males" are literally just healthy introverts.

    • @CVRogers17
      @CVRogers17 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This sigma male crap is retarded. You sound like a fucking infomercial.

    • @phoenixrisin2269
      @phoenixrisin2269 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@iamblight707They are mature alphas

    • @fliiguy247
      @fliiguy247 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@iamblight707 except when they are very extroverted

  • @kurtisweiss5847
    @kurtisweiss5847 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Be okay, Being you!!! Best line ever. Well done 🎉

  • @pheonixrising8932
    @pheonixrising8932 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was a fantastic video one of my all time favorite Zander videos, what he said about the internals and even giving all those things to someone insecure on the inside how it would not change them was a genius take.

  • @drlovejoystation2799
    @drlovejoystation2799 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It's all about confidence. Everything that builds your confidence is good for you. And demonstrating that confidence to women is what they like the most.

  • @nadimnaouach5839
    @nadimnaouach5839 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I'mma listen to this every single fking day until I realise self-improvement must be a process only for my own self.

  • @grubiz9482
    @grubiz9482 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yoo thanks for sharing this important topic I feel the passion you have for this topic through the video!!!
    In my day to day grind I notice this as well more and more the more I'm just who I am and not try to please everything goes so nicely for me and it feels so free to just be yourself and just own the things that makes you you!

  • @learnwithYoh
    @learnwithYoh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ups ! No words to explain ....
    You have verbalised those things that used to go in my mind but I can't get them fully before; 100% you should focus to improve your self in every dimensions of life but that mustn't be to get validation.
    Thanks a lot bro🙏🙏🙏

  • @thiernoburwell2679
    @thiernoburwell2679 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    So true, I learned to declined intimacy in late twenty, having witness the devastating effect of HIV/AIDS in the mid 80s.
    Some women even ask what's wrong with me because I don't show interest beyond work or business.
    Thanks for the reminder, I hope my boys will value it, because it's not from me, the Old Man.
    May God Bless you & Happy New Year !

  • @mervynmontague1811
    @mervynmontague1811 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You're a 'breath of fresh air'
    🇯🇲

  • @youngsanoo
    @youngsanoo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    bro woke me up to my broken perspective on love and has clarified the right path that actually makes sense.

  • @MarcoMelendres
    @MarcoMelendres 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dude, this actually made sense. Great video, and thank you.

  • @hansjusmeus5023
    @hansjusmeus5023 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I have learned two things from you on how to keep a woman attraction and it works like a charm:
    1- lower her anxiety on safety ( stable jobs, purpose in life ,ambition , keep improving for myself)
    2 - Keep her anxiety on a high level ( been confident, in shape dress well good hygiene and she knows you are desired by other women and you have multiple options and the most important you are able to walk away when she starts her BS)

  • @monkeymoo87
    @monkeymoo87 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Amazing video Casey thank you for your content you deserve a million subs

  • @tahanakhzari
    @tahanakhzari 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Man..
    You are the best and the most wise man I've ever met in my life....

  • @L6FT
    @L6FT 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Being present with oneself and showing the world who you are take it or leave it, is actually displaying vulnerability, it's courage and actual strength. Some people will like you, some not. Pleasing other people while not being satisfied with oneself is loss of self and weakness.
    There is no way around it, the only way to win in life, is to love and value oneself, despite circumstances.

  • @smileyface3107
    @smileyface3107 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This video is super deep. Needed this.

  • @user-ic9ps7lu8n
    @user-ic9ps7lu8n 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've been misguided my whole entire life, Thanks man. This was really life changing. Hope the one who's reading this will have a great life ahead.

  • @1ncandescence
    @1ncandescence หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow never have i ever heard anyone put things into perspective like you did. Subscribed

  • @StanfordtheArtist
    @StanfordtheArtist 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Another bulls eye video. So many truth bombs..Salute!

  • @Darrell7777
    @Darrell7777 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +92

    Ironically, I unwittingly discovered that this works like a charm on women when I was younger and a little more shy and insecure, lol. I would be on a date with a chick that I was really attracted to but I was too insecure to make a move so they would interpret it as me not giving a fuck and being indifferent. As a result, SHE would become even more insecure than me and question her own attractiveness. This would often lead to me getting laid on the second or third date because she would view me as above her and try to prove that SHE was worthy of ME 😂

    • @mke9008
      @mke9008 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Being shy makes you mysterious.

    • @nickelbothello6210
      @nickelbothello6210 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      True bro introvert game lol they think ur indifferent when the whole time we just be shy lol

    • @Darrell7777
      @Darrell7777 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@nickelbothello6210Yep 😂

    • @andredreyfus4148
      @andredreyfus4148 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My case too

    • @edwardius949
      @edwardius949 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      too real

  • @maartenkeus8627
    @maartenkeus8627 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro that was so great, got some real 3am motivation to start writing down my actual goals

  • @LCattivo
    @LCattivo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Keep going with your mission and channel. This is honest and very helpful advice to every young man today! Solid gold info in every video from Casey's channel. I see more and more desperate lost boys these days, brainwashed by nonsense and afraid to be a man. This channel will help you if you listen and put into play the advice given. Well done Casey, commendable no BS approach. Lads take note ✊️

  • @AurelioMedinaBRO1
    @AurelioMedinaBRO1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    You’ve completely changed my outlook on relationships and I’m really grateful to have come across your channel. Can you make a video on getting over the fear of being cheated on and not knowing. I feel it’s the only thing that keeps me from being at my best as a man.

    • @d.l4055
      @d.l4055 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Getting over ANY type of Fear is to learn how Fear can paralyze Your physical body. There's fear of doing something for the first time and there's fear of failing like You did the last time You tried. Fear is only New the first time. It's also one of the most used weapons in warfare and the negotiation process. We all debate internally, but the worst fear is such that loves to take advantage of weakness...

    • @ashinthewind2759
      @ashinthewind2759 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hate to say it but to overcome your fear you must surround yourself with it. Maybe a better route is to simplify why you have these fears and remove what is causing them instead of overcoming the fear. Or just learn to not care, which is easier said than done.

    • @L6FT
      @L6FT 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I was cheated on. It really sucked and broke my confidence down.
      Something that has worked lately for me letting go of worry to win her back. I realised that I had lost myself, my integrity when I didn't set my own boundaries. Expressing what you want is vulnerability it takes courage. As said in another video women need to be led spiritually. So speaking your truth and sticking by it, is actually the only option, every other way you lose. Loss of integrity is losing every time. Standing for nothing is being nothing. Know thyself, don't lose thyself. Look deep there are many layers and sides to uncover examine as many as possible, there is a bigger picture.

    • @TheAniki94
      @TheAniki94 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@L6FT I really liked your POV on the matter bro, thank you for sharing 🙏

  • @descending_gg
    @descending_gg 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thanks for the video. I’ve just started dating someone that I quite like and it’s getting to the 3rd/4th date stage where I would normally try to setup a date where we would end up sleeping with each other. I think this time I’m not going to think about it and see what happens. Feels very liberating and much more exciting.

  • @MysticVeil
    @MysticVeil 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man I didn’t think I’d watch this whole thing but you nailed a lot of the way I been thinking.

  • @restoredaccess
    @restoredaccess 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't usually watch the videos TH-cam pushes in the recommended section on this topic, but for some reason I decided to watch this one. Nowadays pretty much 100% of the videos out there are packaged retail products with the sole purpose of generating a following for the TH-camr, with zero consideration for delivering anything of value to the watcher, but this video was really good. If you ever wanted to, you could expand your theme to talking about how this world works. I was really impressed with how you described how the presentation of the external world has influenced peoples' inner beliefs of reality. If you ever went into depth about how world systems are set up and operate, I'd watch it, and I know a lot of people who would watch it too.

  • @BrettAdam1984
    @BrettAdam1984 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Competence breeds confidence.

  • @ramiroofaragon9323
    @ramiroofaragon9323 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I ultimately think Casey's advice will make you into a better man, not necessarily a "ladies' man." ... And that goodness will, in turn, make you a "ladies' man" to the right kinds of ladies. 😎💪

  • @andrewdayton3914
    @andrewdayton3914 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Woman cant control there attraction, Facts! & that's from experience. damn what you said 100! i've experienced most of these situations as a man. Your the best dating coach thus far! Keep it up!

  • @b.c.34
    @b.c.34 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    That is it bro. We men should work hard solely for ourselves; do not allow what os between a woman's leg be more powerful than you acheivements. Let her go work hard also so she can respect your acheivements.

  • @MrLewis-lk8us
    @MrLewis-lk8us 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Courage comes from the Greek word Cor- meaning from the heart. Without courage you cannot face the truth, handle reality, reject the crowd and ultimately embrace your individuality. Courage to live from the heart comes first. Everything else follows.

  • @chrisbruce5533
    @chrisbruce5533 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This video hit different. So much common sense so much clear to understand, lol it’s funny how simple it is. this deserves a couple repeat watches 👍

  • @ianrose8804
    @ianrose8804 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Everything is on point here. You're right, about other creators not connecting the dots and getting to the crux. Love what you said about God.

  • @joecramond
    @joecramond 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Great video, definitely different message to what the TopG guys are saying, status, money, power is what we are told we need

    • @ThomasP525
      @ThomasP525 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stfu about top G bs. Guys that call other guys top G’s are pathetic

    • @tonyjones7710
      @tonyjones7710 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They have that right and yes they abuse it......
      But !!!!
      When u chose like u have to listen to "Casey" 👍🏾
      Stay on it doggonit.....
      Life Coachin Master
      Love Coachin Master
      Inspirational speaker master
      Personal Stylist Master

  • @mrbabyhugh
    @mrbabyhugh 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    19:44 happens with me every day since high school... simply because i do NOT validate women. I had always been this way since high school and the HOTTEST GIRLS always flocked around me. Because they got CURIOUS, WHY wasn't I giving them validation and attention like other guys. I will never forget the co-worker who ALL the men at work wanted, but I was just chill. She made it her task to get to know me, get closer to me, got to the point where she started to SHOW ME HERSELF ON HER PHONE... I still didnt validate her.

    • @seminarrfactor678
      @seminarrfactor678 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah women tend to love validation especially if they get it all the time, and when they see a man who doesn’t give them validation they get angry sometimes

  • @adahbombdon1512
    @adahbombdon1512 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man. I needed these so long ago. Good Man.

  • @danstosich
    @danstosich 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So good! He’s speaking facts! Gotta fix the inside first and have inner confidence and accept yourself, and stop qualifying.

  • @rubyTech
    @rubyTech 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I usually listen to these Social Content creators like Casey and a few others to see if I can reprove and align their philosophies with my own experiences.
    This particular episode rings so true because when we witness men like Napoleon, Kevin Hart, Michael Keaton, Bob Marley and Enzo Ferrari they aren’t the conventional physical Alpha type that we’re led to believe, yet Alpha looking males seek their logic and teachings to learn how to become more driven, desirable, magnetic and iconic men.
    I found this to be true in my own life and observing those around me.
    Keep going Casey, teach ✅

    • @rluv4evr
      @rluv4evr 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Women fall in love for one reason: The way they feel about themselves when they're with you.

  • @Locknuts84
    @Locknuts84 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    I adopted the 'idgaf' attitude when my first daughter was born. I realised that she was the proirity. It was a double edged sword. I gained wealth, but also weight because I had to spend so much more time at home. It is powerful to be focused though and genuinely not care what anyone thinks.

    • @fury_saves_world
      @fury_saves_world 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That's also your prolactin and test levels going up in tandem for a little while as a 'dad reflex' it's rather well-documented response, and I wouldn't sweat it because it can be somewhat temporary but only catch is to make sure you optimize your metabolism and longevity factors to be the best dad you can be for as long as possible, and it also gives you the elusive +900 strength build so stay up and keep it up brother

    • @FlyHighGuy24
      @FlyHighGuy24 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@fury_saves_world I had a daughter 2 years ago, I gained some weight as I was dealing with the stress of the mother and being a parent. Recently as I've gotten my life more organized and sorted out I have lost most of the weight and I am in good shape. The weight will come off as the stress eases!

    • @erikgification
      @erikgification 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am going to wait until I have kids to adopt the "idgaf" attitude as well. And genuinely not care about what anyone thinks.

    • @netflowdesign
      @netflowdesign 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I don't understand the excuse of putting on weight because you were at home. Do some jumping jacks, buy a weight rack, go for a run around the block, optimize your diet, etc.
      Regardless of any supposed hormonal factors, there is literally no excuse apart from legitimate mental illness, or a lack of knowledge and insight to provide you the practical means to strengthen discipline.
      As well, you might say stress was a factor? Exercise is one of the most effective and natural ways to deal with stress, and has benefits that ripple into nearly every area of your life.
      I don't understand how you could make up such an excuse, but feel free to enlighten me.

    • @Locknuts84
      @Locknuts84 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@netflowdesign No excuse mate. It was a lack of discipline. I used to exercise because I cared what other people would say if I got fat. Learning to do it purely for my own health in my 20s was hard. Now I'm nearly 40 and I can force myself to do things I hate every day. Plus I get sore if I don't work out so it's less of an issue.

  • @Seroskill36
    @Seroskill36 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    First video I watched from u. This was absolutely amazing. Best dating video I have ever seen on YT. Instant follow

  • @RobbiJamesVogt
    @RobbiJamesVogt 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You nailed it! Takes a lot of work but it can be done. Women want what they can’t have.

  • @Keviekev115
    @Keviekev115 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Men. Why Casey is so confident and intelligent is awareness. He may have naturally gained it or worked on it but MEDITATION is a great tool to develop that internal confidence. When you know yourself, know what you want and where your going. Those kinda cute girls that are bad for you, you’ll brush them off and they’ll beg to sleep with you. The woman you want will respect you and fall into your frame as well because your making decisions and have a vision. Remember, not every single girl will like you, so you will “fail” at times. Micheal Jordan has missed thousands of shots, he never gave up and is a goat. Use that same philosophy

    • @luker1hutcher315
      @luker1hutcher315 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Goat???

    • @ashinthewind2759
      @ashinthewind2759 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@luker1hutcher315greatest of all time

    • @griffincoyne6459
      @griffincoyne6459 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@luker1hutcher315you’re out of touch

    • @jbs711
      @jbs711 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​GOAT= Greatest Of All Time 🐐🐐

  • @spruce5123
    @spruce5123 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    True confidence and courage comes from cognitively having some measure of control over your own mind and emotions..... This allows peace to enter and the resulting not give a fuck attitude and demeanor becomes natural..... This is what women are attracted to and become attached to in men.

  • @georgevue8175
    @georgevue8175 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These videos are pure gold, I wish this content was available when I was 18 years young 45 years ago.

  • @Zaemaneee
    @Zaemaneee 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    mane your videos really open my eyes good job i love it

  • @xxgamerz96ftw84
    @xxgamerz96ftw84 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So true. Not to be cocky. I was always that tall handsome guy with muscle. But had a lot of insecurities, fears and timidness around women. Believe me they can smell if your internal is weak.

  • @RATERZ
    @RATERZ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is hilariously true. Men you need to love yourself first and foremost, that's where true confidence comes from.

  • @INDSTRCTBLE
    @INDSTRCTBLE 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    BEST video you made so far Casey!

  • @mitchellnelson6249
    @mitchellnelson6249 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Casey is dropping next level heat for free like he been doing 🤯

  • @urvashilodha2617
    @urvashilodha2617 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    As a woman, let me simplify this for you - if a man is aspirational for a woman, she will fall for him, irrespective of looks or money. Women want to partner up with men they can follow.
    If he drops his value in her eyes by acting like an asshole, she will push him out of her heart. In this case, she will only stay for all reasons other than love.
    I am talking about women with a healthy mindset, not ones with issues. You can act like total jerks with the latter and they will take your shit because that works for them.

    • @mke9008
      @mke9008 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Thats only 5 percent of women though

    • @Kartik-ij2vy
      @Kartik-ij2vy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Funny ,women like @ssholes and reward them with their pu$$y ,And I’m talking about most women today

    • @A.nasierkhan
      @A.nasierkhan 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      The majority of women is nothing like you described. For men It's like finding a diamond in the desert.

    • @saint_matthias
      @saint_matthias 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      Don't listen to women's advice on relationship

    • @jcgamer1650
      @jcgamer1650 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@A.nasierkhan Exactly. This only works on the ones that are actually good. Most of them are complete shit, its like finding a single needle spread across the Grand Canyon.