A Practical Application Of Grit & Grace
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 25 ธ.ค. 2022
- This afternoon, I was sitting at my window watching the snow fall around my horse, Tia. We had had to separate her from the other horses, and it frustrated me. I asked my husband, “how can we teach Tia to get along with the other horses?” He said, we can’t, it’s just in her nature, and we just need to give her some grace.
Well, that got me to thinking about the phrase that I use at the end of my videos, “have grit and give grace” and that this was the perfect example for illustrating that truth.
I hope that it can be a help to someone who may be struggling with having grit and giving grace to either horses or people in your life.
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Momma,
Grit takes many forms.
You've raised and homeschooled 7 children and put up with dear Dwayne for 30+ years. (Please forgive me if I got any of those facts wrong. I'm recalling a video you and Dwayne did together.) You absolutely have grit!
I love hearing your insight.
I really enjoy Dwayne's videos. He fills a big need in the world today and it's partly your influence that has made him so impactful. Just know that some of us realize that. You compliment one another.
I think your channel brings a lovely balance for those of us who watch you both. Thank you and best wishes.
I'm so glad I found your, and Dewayne's, channel. I'm a 28 year old woman who's been struggling a lot with life, and y'alls advice is some of the best I've heard. I've needed to hear a lot of this, and I appreciate y'alls channels so much. I don't have many people in my life to talk to about my struggles, but listening to y'all is like having someone I can talk to and get advice from 💙
So glad you are not camera shy anymore. I was in the 1st class in May of 2022 and you voiced preference to being the camera operator. Excellent job your doing there! Love the videos and I’m sharing them.
My daughter gets a lot out of your “Momma” advice. Both of you are people I believe the good Lord had me cross paths with.
PS:
(Ya got to do that sourdough biscuit video for us when you can)
Sourdough biscuits??? :.D Yes please… 📜💕
To be fair, I wouldn’t want to leave that gorgeous ranch either. 💚 Way to exert your authority gently and effectively, Momma. 🙏🏼
Great Video. As a Veteran I'm working on this myself as I am still trying to transition to civilian life. You both have great advice. Thank You.
Damn you people really do got a lot of relevant wisdom without being obnoxious & superficial.
The world needs more Dwaynes and Mommas! God Bless
Indeed!!
100%
Momma,
Grit comes in many forms. You've raised and homeschooled 7 children and put up with dear Dwayne 💕
Good to remember that we are no less "gritful" if we need to give ourselves grace and let someone go ♡
So inspiring, Momma! Grit & Grace needs to be on a T-Shirt! I’m 57 and trying new things myself. My challenge this year is to start my own horsemanship journey. Thank you. ❤ 😊
I really like how you explaine your thaughts also how your husband does it you both make this world a better place thank you
So coaxing rather than force. The carot rather than the stick. Be patient, but strong. Thanks for the message.
Momma, you're so special for us! I'm from Brazil. The world needs you. Thanks for sharing.
You're alright momma. Dwayne is a lucky man. God bless y'all for all that you do.
What a beaufiful place you and Uncle created Momma ❤️. Horse is absolutely gorgeous!
East Fork of the Wind River. Ridden all over what used to be the Double Diamond. Very historic area. Check it out DeWayne.
😂 lol I’m a female Tia❣️ Thank you for the 💗you give Tia❣️✌️🍀🙏💗♾Maine, USA 🇺🇸
I can’t tell you how many times I have recently heard the words “you need to remove that person from your life”. Not from seeking it out either. It just pops up in videos I watch. Over and over again in the last couple weeks. I don’t know if this is a message for me. I have had to remove a significant someone from my life and have recently been struggling with that decision; even though I did it over a year ago. Acting on this, is very very hard. I know my stress is lower because of it, but damn, it’s hard. Thank you for sharing your knowledge!
For me, you and your husband are living illustrations of the word "Wisdom". Thank you. Happy Holidays!
Great video! You are doing a great job with your channel as is Dwayne. You both are prime examples of wisdom & knowledge. We love & appreciate you both. Yes mam, Grit & Grace are a perfect combination and awesome traits to have. Take care. 😇🙏🏻😇🙏🏻
"Have courage and be kind.
Where there is kindness, there is goodness.
And where there is goodness, there is magic"
_Cinderella (2015).
Your saying remains me of this quote from this magical movie.
I'm old dog that (thank God) can still learn new tricks, thanks Momma.
Happy holidays to the dry creek family
Aunts(,Tia) kinda like my old Tia Linda. Wonderful video to share.
Perfect timing! Just yesterday I decided that grit & grace are going to be my “words” for 2023.
They pulled me through this last year more than anything! 🤗💔❤️🩹😌
@@drycreekmomma You are a lovely and powerful teacher. You truly exemplify both. 🙏🏼💛✨
Appreciate your words. I found your husband's channel first and have enjoyed the wisdom. Your words are encouraging. I think could use grit and grace as a mom (teenager and pre-teen). Definitely need grit and grace with some people I just can't bear to be around but will have to. Thanks for the sound words. 😊 ❤️
Tia's the princess and she knows it. Lol 💕
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Thanks for this explanation: Grit and Grace. Good way to put it.
Ooo love that. Grit and grace 🙌🏼😊❤️
Even if it wasn't your specific intention, your marriage counsel is good and sound.
6:30 to 8:03 does indeed sometimes happen...in marriage as well as other familial and friend relationships, and even with animals/pets.
Thanks for sharing. Thanks for caring. Thanks for being you.
Your message came across. You and your husband put across the most beautiful, heartfelt, home-y vibe across the distance.. and I'm grateful. Not many places or people on earth offer such warmth and welcome. God bless you. And I second wanting to see that sourdough biscuit recipe!
You have a lovely figure, for a women, who had seven children....😊😊😊 Joy from down under Darwin. Take care thank you!! Deanna. You still look great in jeans.......us women should always love ourselfs..
Grace is empowerment. Not to be confused with mercy. They are two very different things.
Momma I needed this message today. I'm crying because I need to leave the abusers behind. I spent my life as a single mom working 3 jobs with no child support but spent Christmas beat up. I look at my skin with its bruises. I need to just leave. I'm going to cry off this and start over on my own. Tomorrow is a new year.
You are worth so, so much 💖
Please take care of yourself…you are worth it! 💔❤️🩹
You can do this! You are a strong and beautiful woman and you can accomplish anything you put your mind to. Sometimes we have to close the door to the past before we can open the door to the future
Way to go on the ride. Horses can really take you out of your comfort zone. 1st time watching one of your videos solid wisdom for life.
we love you momma, keep doing your thing
Beautiful parable, very clear and memorable .. working on the Grace part. Thanks for your videos!
You are one wise woman. I love the grit and grace approach and we all have a history. On a side note, animals need love too.
Good video - glad you are both posting - thank you.
Good Morning Mamma 😇 first of all I love your Jacket ! And second of all , great video on handling each situation with individual Horse’s Needs ! Please Keep sharing your wisdom and encouragement. You are using your gifts to change lives . 💜 Laura 💜 Bear 💜 Willow 💜🐴
This is so well said! Your mare Tia reminds me of my Ella - but she has one close friend who she cant bear to be away from.
Thanks for sharing! Your channel is really inspiring
First time I’ve heard you speak at any length and I enjoyed hearing your message. I’m still working on this aspect. Im able to withstand some things but not others. Knowing where to draw that line is the hard part for me. My tendency is to cut things off short. I’m working on it. 😊
Thank you for this today....As with most things in my life, it appeared exactly when I needed it.
Another great video! I needed this challenge… often it’s much easier for me to show grace than it is grit. Coming up in this new year Im hoping to work on finding the balance!
It was the same for me for years & years! Both are important! We have to set boundaries and take care of ourselves just as much as we do others! I had to learn the hard way to not be a pushover and a people pleaser and let people walk all over me, but in the process of getting grit I didn’t want to become a mean jerk! Every day I challenge myself first thing to balance my Grit & my Grace! 🙂
I respect and really apprcieate your talks. Direct and meaningful.
I wish you all the best with your channel for 2023.
I’m so glad that you started a channel! Can’t wait to follow along. Thanks for sharing your wisdom and encouragement 😊
Mama, I love your coat and hat
Wow, you were describing my 15 year old daughter. She's an only child, we're older parents. I'm at the point where I need to push her some, but she also needs grace. This was really simple, really needed advice. Thank you!
Simply beautiful, thank you for your illustration
Great message and practical application for relationship with animal or human.
Good video, I'm glad you are on here. I always had grit with the horses, but people, I'm not so good at that. I might have to much grace with people, sometimes I don't know when to say ENOUGH
Glad too see both of y’all posting!
Love it DC Momma !!!
Proud to hear of your grit. I proud to say I have a great lady with grit also.
I gained grit when I found out I can , at well over 50 and having been born a towny with no ranch experience. I was also a vegan and a raw vegan for more than 15 years....then I went ke-toe and Carni and I was milking cows on a milk share farm and it took off from there. so for the last 5 years I was raising my own food and slaughtering it myself as well.....I stopped last fall when hay production fell so far that I could not afford a doubling of the price and availability was not there...even at double price....I filled the freezer, sold and re homed the base breeding herds, and sold for slaughter on my land the rest. kept most of the hides for tanning....and that is that. Grit is where you find it and how you are able to cultivate it. God Bless You ..DR. Momma
As an only child, I can relate to Tina! They're all different.
Happy New Year, folks! 👍😄
Looks like you are wearing some cozy mittens! They are the best for keeping hands warm, right? I've sure been putting my wooly mittens to good use these past few weeks when shoveling snow during frigid, sub freezing temps. Best to you, enjoyed the intro music and your message.
much love.
My name is Tia!! Thanks for the amazing video mama, from one mama to another, you are awesome 🤩
This is so good I had to watch it twice! With respect, and grace, thank you.
I like what your saying. It applies towards balance on raising ones kids too
I've enjoyed your expertise 🥰 your knowledge thank you. I like this message you put on today that I seen , and I truly believe the same way. No use to have toxic people or family on our path that don't respect our point of view. I just disconnect, because that's the only way. I have enough issues I have to deal by my self and I just can't let that toxicity in my life. Thank you mama creek. Just love your kindness, humble, and motherly ways. I wanted 8 kids to raise and be a stay home mom once, but it wasn't ment to be. It's OK. With the grace of God I let him do is will amen. Thank you for sharing just enjoy listening your wisdom. Take care you and family.
Love from Phoenix Arizona ❤️
Great video. Yes we all need to have Grit and more Grace ❤️
DeAnna, has been reading my mail!!
Thanks so much I totally get what you are saying, sometimes as much as it hurts ya just gotta lrt em' go!!
The clip beginning just saved my day! Thank you!
ive taken your first videos advice with that grit and grace thing.. there really is something to that. im currently really busy giving my brother tons of grit but it started with grace, with that i was able to open him up and just lay into him and tell him about how hes messing things up. im doing a different mixture at my job theyre just working me so hard and everyone around has their head up in the clouds, i cant turn around without someone creating a problem, but when i apply grit and grace, i get the opportunity to be heard and i get the acknowledgment that they do know about it all. now things hasnt been improving a whole lot yet but things are crystal clear and i get to hold my head up high knowing that im doing the right thing. awesome video!!
Very good explanation of 'Grit and Grace." Thank you.
Great advice and food for thought. And complete with a little of The Old Double Diamond by Gary McMahan!
I don’t know who Gary McMahan is…I’ll check him out !
This recording is my son 🥰
@@drycreekmomma oh sorry. He has a good voice and sounded similar to Gary McMahan in earlier years. Yes, he wrote the song though it was made famous by Ian Tyson.
I needed this. Thank you ❤
Great advice! 👍🤗
Happy holidays guys❤
I love your coat ❤
Thanks
That is so helpful. Thank you. :)
I appreciate you 💞
Sooo happy you made a channel!
Very clear. Very helpful. 💜
Great channel mamma, you are a TH-cam gem 😀👍
Dry Creek Mama ----
I love the action intro, and Tia seems like a sweetheart.
If she’s slid into that Long-In-the-Tooth, antisocial mode of socializing with others, maybe she just needs an Old Gray Mare to go shopping with, you know, for the best grass.
Interesting question to ponder:
Does refusing to be bullied by the crowd mean that you are a dominate bully?
Absolutely not! I think that refusing to be bullied is one of the strongest qualities you can have…if handled right. No one should have to put up with bullying, however we all need grace because we all have hard lives and issues and stress…I try to give people the benefit of the doubt before I determine they’re just a mean bully 😕
@@drycreekmomma I agree, completely. Let me rephrase the ponder. Up there someplace.
A minor correction to ponder, to read:
Does refusing to be bullied by the groups weakest bully mean that you are the dominate bully?
“HEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!”
“I mean come on, man, NO CUTS,” the cocky stud shouted out as he sniped and snapped at Tia’s heals.
This was such an interesting concept, and definitely something I will keep in mind while interacting with the people around me. I've had difficulties getting along with, and feeling comfortable around, other people -- maybe in part due to being in a community where I did not fit in. So, I found myself constantly feeling like people should be able to see MY side of the story, or at least they would understand if I told them. Unfortunately, life doesn't always work like that. Someone might simply be in too different headspace to really understand your perspectives, and vice versa. Lately, I've found that I don't push people to see things my way like I used to. I'm more open to that we all have our individual journey, and the best course of action is to support each other to the best of our abilities. I guess one could say I'm learning to exercise grace.
What A beautiful video! this lesson truly resonated with me. I've never thought about grit and grace as a pair before and now that you have explained the importance of the two, it all just makes sense. Especially when you connect it with the people in one's life. Thank You Dry Creek Mama for your wisdom!
Thank you Deanna for sharing this message, your words were very timely for me. It's a good challenge. Thank you for the practical example and also loved how you worded it.
Very helpful and affirming. Thank you.
I really needed to hear this at this point in my life. Thank you so much.
I’m so grateful for you! 😍
So good to hear this....
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That's a wonderful hacker you are wearing - what is it, if you alliw nw to ask....
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Your words came across clear, no worries! Nice video. Happy New Year!
Beautifully said! Thank you
Cool little intro!
Thanks, momma Diana, that was beautiful and insightful!
Awesome, thanks
Thank you for the video.😊
That’s awesome
Good one.
Thank You Momma
I thought you were far enough south , to avoid ice and snow.
I am really curious about this situation with Tia and the herd. She seems to content to be displaying blood letting dominant aggression issues.
A long lenses camera set up to watch herd behavior for “Who Done It” sign would get my vote of a 25 Dollars contribution. Okay, 50 bucks, I’m getting excited.
Deep in the primordial recesses of the folds lies the Trinity of Tia’s Spirit.
“It might be time to bust open a couple of caps,” the Armory Chief said to the Negotiating Officer.
“Not Yet, Gunny, this is minor.”
After a brief pause she set her binoculars down and said, “Okay, just a shot over the bow, a couple capillaries and a kick to the kneecap is all.”
Tia executed the message and the problem might be getting right, now.
Keep watching, it’s the best part.
Perfect.......🇨🇦
Love your channel! Such great and thought provoking advice today. Do you mind naming the song you opened with? It’s so beautiful!
It’s called The Old Double Diamond…one of my favorites 🤩😍
@@drycreekmomma Thank you so much.