My Uncle Told us a Long Time Ago...."Men Cheat Because They are....GREEDY! it has nothing to do with his woman/wife at Home" 😳 I NEVER!!! Forgot! Those Words!✌
To all the woman concerned about diseases and stuff, what Ashera says does work. You DO NOT sleep with men who cheat on you and if you are silly enough to do so use protection. The point of staying with a cheater is knowing how weak they are to temptation. You know it's going to happen again, and you are already waiting for it so you can get your biggest payday when it comes. If he doesn't cheat after marriage YOU WIN, if he does cheats after marriage YOU WIN! Also to the woman asking what if he refuses to marry you after cheating, LEAVE HIM. Find another target and repeat. If he asks for a prenup (which he won't if he has common sense) especially after cheating on you! Tell him to hit the road, if he doesn't want to lose you that prenup will be tossed in the trash if he had the audacity to draft one. When you start believing you're are the prize this stuff will come naturally to you.
THANK YOU for explaining this, SOME WOMEN ARE STILL TRYING TO SLEEP WITH A CHEATER lol MARRIAGE is a business contract... when you break the contract , you get sued.... or in this case divorced and get half or more...
But if more men stop marrying women have no power. Marriage is a women's only leverage and if a rich man marries he stupid self deserves anything that happens to him.
I told myself years ago , date a guy that's going to benefit you when he does wrong, stop looking for a guy who's perfect because there's no such thing! You will lose your sanity trying to look for the perfect man when you could be gaining with mr. Wrong lol 😂 but you're right he got to be wealthy if you're going to play the game and you got to marry him. They all going to cheat they all going to lie to you at some point
Do rich men cheat? Sure. But the problem is, the poor ones cheat, too. It's not really a big dilemma which one to choose if that is what you're gonna get (i.e. cheated on) either way. 😒
This is ignorance. "They all going to cheat they all going to lie to you at some point" With that mentality you'll never find a good one 4real bc that's what you expecting out of your encounters. Sad.
Rachelle's Remedies it’s less nature & more of a respect thing. If you believe that then you’re bound to repeat the same mistakes of many. It’s alright to protect yourself but to assume all will cheat and have suspicion for no reason will create problems. If each person brings something to the table and each has their own. There’s no reason to think that way. If you constantly think he’s going to cheat at some point. The energy you put out will create that environment. Either in your or his brain or in reality. He will lose trust and congrats you created that environment by your own insecurities. Respect is lost. It’s over. Also, you have to know who you’re dealing with. There are good people out there.
I don’t care what people think.🤗 Thank you for calling me a gold diggers. I have an associate degree in psychology, and I’m leveling up at the same time. I’m not worry about your opinions if you don’t pay my bills.😘
Exactly, I never worry about men cheating because I will cheat in a heartbeat and use their money to do it.❤️I never understood women that sit around and get cheated on. I would have my flings too and live it up. As long as you have my money we are fine.😌
Now I know why Arab women allow their husband to have 4 wives. Arab women still have all these luxuries in life even if their husbands have side chicks lol. My Arab employer allow her husband to have another wife. But her husband don't like it haha. His husband said more wife more headache haha.
I don't think her father would allow to marry her husband if he is broke. Of course they know their circle. That's why I like pure Arab women. They are so into for luxuries.
Lets be clear...no woman in those muslim countries allows husband to have nothing..Their religion and culture dictates his polygamy and more importantly, muslim wives are taken care of financially, but their rights are dictated to them...be careful of that shit.
Shera i needed to hear this exactly today since my wealthy boyfriend is shopping around on online dating sites and my gut tells me he's already sleeping with someone else. I'm gonna stay with him, spend his money and marry him by all means and pretend i don't know he's cheating! Thanks so much! X
@@NYCBJP You wish..lol...virgins stay on my coattail because I'm a child of God and they know it...because I know sluts....and what a wife material woman is
I always felt like do whatever you feel you have the most to gain... If you know you will have more to gain staying stay , if you can gain more by leaving leave..most men cheat anyway.
Shera, can you do a video about Old rich men who want a super hot young girlfriend but are not willing to spoil them? That is so unrealistic! And a lot of these young pick me chicks will still stay thinking he will spoil them in the future... NO if he starts cheap he will be cheap forever! If you are in your 20's and you are dating a 45+ man WHO IS NOT willing to invest, spoil and pamper you then you are wasting your whole youth and beauty! If he is not doing all of that then the age gap is waaaaay to big!
Ashley Private thats a dusty with money..if she stays she doesnt get it..i met a guy once by the second date i said goodbye..my friends told me why stop dating him he is a great guy..you got to see through the bullshit quick..fake alpha’s stingy men everywhere..A man thats into you will buy your love period rich or poor!! Its a tradeoff
Ashley Private thank you so much those old men just want to use us young women been there they don't have no good intentions neither just a means to a problem they want us for!
Video topic: Promises are nothing without the paper! Promises of love, promises to move in, promises to take care of you, promises to buy you a car, promises to get married etc. are useless without compensation up front and consistent!
My dad gave us the game and the things you say are on point! My dad allowed us to wear make-up as teens,he didn’t play that dating a bum non sense nor did my mom.My mom and I butt heads because,I am like a walking magnet for money lol.If there’s no money involved or a opportunity for advancement dealing with men I will not entertain them period.I will hustle alone before I hustle to help a man.I ran across your channel looking for someone that I use her book to reference when I feel I’m slipping .Your level up is great .You’re very intellectually inclined and making a difference in the ones who are clueless lives and although I live with the same principles you speak about but,your videos make me want to go harder .
I was dating a guy he bragged bout how much he has money all that, I tried being genuine with him never asked him for money. He started treating me like shit. Now I know they wont value you until you value yourself. Get that bag only way they'll care about losing you. Other then that they got their nut and they onto the next.
I have to be honest with you. You are very attractive like for real pretty not like the women on here , so you can have real love and a real marriage. A man who will not cheat on you. These women on here know they will most likely never have that ,and they are hurt so they resort to BS and live pitiful lives. I'm just being real.
@@MadameQuoi And Beyonce got cheated on Maryln Monroe did not. Point is Beyonce is just another wig wearing black woman,she is not all that and only silly people like yourself think she is. Everyone else like me knows you are ignorant. THAT'S the point. And the other point is YOU get cheated on. Not all women get cheated on just like all men don't cheat. But apparently all men cheat on YOU. and THAT'S the point.
Yes they're going to cheat given the opportunity. Take that time to work on yourself and glow up. Get your self straight and then leave if you choose to leave. She's right!
I love,love,💘 you Shera! I am older actually 42 and I want to say I been through the ringer with men to learn all of what you say on here is true and real! I respect you completely because you are on here giving these ladies the truth for free! So listen ladies listen up so you don't have to learn the hard way! One of my saving graces is I still look real young, I have stepped up my game, and I have found my multi-millionaire. Point is this Goddess knows her shit! Peace and love to all!
Controversial topic but great video overall. I'm sure many people were already thinking or living like this but no one talks about it out in the open the way SheRa does.
This woman is telling the truth 100%. Pay attention men. This is the way of the world. This is woman's nature. The game plan is in place. Thank you for your honesty! Great video!
Sheraseven1 needs to go to law school and be a divorce lawyer to the stars. Millions can be made in days . She has the heart to be a great Machiavellian and even run for Congress.
I've been contemplating this: Proverbs says to "guard your heart above all that you guard, for out of it are the wellsprings of life." Elsewhere it states that the immoral (?) woman is "guarded of heart." Very interesting, don't you think?
Big......Facts I got 4 brothers I'm the only girl so I don't ever question his old ass about nothing 🤣 he's 72 I'm only 34 He thinks he's nickel slick too. Shit.... I'm most definitely leaving in style 🏎 & 🏡
I need to calm my jealousy . I am married to a wealthy man. I need friends like u! We've been married for 1 yr now. And I'm also 3 months pregnant. Can u give advice about pregnancy pls
I'm in a 7.5 year relationship with a decently wealthy man (good enough for the life I want for sure and I don't have to work) and I'm trying to secure the bag (marriage)
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Those who get married they've got no selfrespect. Ladies just get next one man, if cheating happens to you. There's rich men who care about, but cheaters they don't care.
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Perfect video! Basically being a "gold" digger you have to maintain a specific level of shallowness in approaching dating, as some men do. The gold digger isn't foolish and won't fall for anything or anyone because she stands for something. The gold digger is intimidating. The gold digger's bashers don't agree with dating with your head like the gold digger does and having a plan in choosing the best mate, they think that one should date more with their heart nd for love like an idiot. I always say who says you can't get both🙄...?.. anyways, to the basher's.. That logical mindset of a woman turning off her emotions and looking past the smoke n mirrors of empty promises in exchange for tangible long lasting one's Is super offensive! Bc not only does it consist of a man having to prove himself worthy of her, it bruises ego's of those who relate women to not being worth anything more than sex nd cheap thrills available at their leisure, therefore they despise the gold digger because she changes the dynamics of what was once considered "easy to obtain without having to put in any considerable efforts, & to obtain her one would have to face a new reality or god forbid "change" and "upgrade" themselves to suit her standards to even be considered a chance. If they don't seem her as worth it, she doesn't want them either anyways and in that lies a feminine power. The bashers ultimately hate any type of feminine power, they feel defeated that a woman is capable of calling the shots add money to that and Omfg!. So because now The Men who haven't a chance anymore because they innately know they won't ever fit the criteria due to their own personal shortcomings, where as before they we're good enough, for the foolish women, which a gold digger isn't, she's very smart, she's not a woman who would just accept them as they are without demanding a Man to better himself to obtain her, but instead they can't benefit become defensive. It's stemming from a place of vulnerability Nd having to face the fact they as the fish lack control compared to the bigger whales in the sea that the women would rather mate with. Gold digger's make these regular males feel less of a man because they rub into their face their shortcomings in her presence they're forced to look at themselves n how they stand up to the next man. So therefore When a woman doesn't just take everything thrown her way but actually has standards for how she desires to be treated, those basher's who can't fathom why she doesn't just "settle" become jealous, and simply don't respect and don't value the gold digger's intentions n efforts of changing her life around for the best. To them it's undeserved ambitions for whatever reason to be money minded n extremely insulting. It's like How dare a woman to strive for a luxury lifestyle & want to have the best for themselves n financial freedom through a mate!. I'm guessing they'd be much happier if you'd just settle and date their non ambitious selves n raise the children on your own too bc why not?. Then thy argue men are equal to women by nature.. ik in what world right?. This way once you've settled there's no looking up to your man bc he isn't a man, man enough bc had he been, he would be successful n you can't complain because the argument changes to women brought this upon themselves she shouldn't' have been so blindly in love, and she shouldn't have picked that man and chose that type of deadbeat father for their kids. In my opinion They are Hater's who don't want women to have high standards n the best mate for their future n children's future. I'm never going to under why it's offensive to want more for your life n possible future children's life but hey🤷🏽. Who am I?.. just another gold digger😏
@Luna Lovegood Yes have your own as well. I 100℅ agree because men can be abusive. And any woman in an abusive situation should plan her escape very carefully and several steps ahead like chess, have a plan b and c and z!, Consider all the odds etc. I honestly don't condone living w a man who you're completely dependent on because that's usually where domestic violence starts w some men they may take advantage of that. A woman in an abusive relationship should make sure there is some sort of evidence or police report, it'd be also wise to secretly get the abuse on tape, a restraining order and Sue him for pain and suffering and etc. Lol then leave move away and start again.
I’m a stripper and I meet rich men all day long but I refuse to leave with them. The bouncer walks me to my car and i go straight home afterwards how do I get them to still be interested outside of work after the fact that I just told them no I’m not going anywhere with you and they drive off? Just keep trying?
Shadow Gang Tarots that’s a good idea. I’m pretty good at hooking men I just need the dinner date and I’m good I can usually secure the bag quite well afterwards lol I just don’t want to sleep with anyone. But thank you I think I’ll just be like we can go to dinner next week since I’m really tired now lol
Shadow Gang Tarots I found a sugar daddy and he said he’s willing to support with my education. We’re going on a date tomorrow and I just want to know how to behave. I’ve never had a sugar daddy before and I’ve never dated anyone older than 25. Im 25 and he’s 65. I’ve never even communicate with men this old before. I don’t want it be awkward. I want to keep him interested but I don’t ever want to sleep with his old wrinkly ass. I just want him to pay my school tuition.
briana mcguire I don’t know how to secure the bag like you sis. Please tech me cause my dinner date is tomorrow. Should I be over sexual or act like a shy girl? Idk which one old rich white men like.
I think when you say you choose not to react to your emotions that you are to some degree suppressing them. If someone "cheats" on you this naturally evokes powerful negative emotions. Can you be healthy and pretend not to feel?
You are soooo smart girl I binge all your videos & when I tell you all the benefits I have been receiving is incredible. I’m just waiting for him to do sum dumb 😌
I couldnt think like that. I dont know if i could be with a cheater but i got your point 😊😊. I maybe would be with him till get my saving and a house then bye cos it is not a health relationship.
The only people who are the dusty are anyone who would down talk someone's intelligence by talking bad about the person you married. Pure fullness. That's like a man marries a woman and talking, laughing about the way he mistreats her.
I've always agreed with this sentiment... My sister and I have said..... Would you rather get cheated on by a rich man or a poor man... your choice .. lol
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This is sick. Women like this deserve misery not money. And she takes 48 minutes to say it. Talk talk talk... Men are marrying less and less and this attitude is one reason.
What if he doesn't cheat? What if he's rich, loyal, he stays in shape, and he's good in bed? Would you still leave him for alimony? I'm asking because I'm working hard to become that kind of man myself.
I don't know of that plan going to be successful because these men of today is getting more wiser. The way these men think about today women? You have to bait them first before you even.talking about marriage. That's if he wants to marry you to many options out here. But you will find a small percentage you might struck gold with but realistically but good luck with that.
This is what "I give up" in women looks like. Why it's falling apart, why SMV in women is plummetting. BAW gave up in the 1960's, for the EBT and Section 8. "You can't have a man in the house" was the only requirement. Now, 50 years later, you just got better at scheming. Nothing's changed, you are just the new face in the bullpen. IBMOR/MGTOW is the light shining under the fridge on you critters . But please, don't let us stop you. We enjoy your channel.
I have a few sugar daddies and one a lawyer. The other guy has is own business. They have money. I want a millionaire but it’s hard finding that in San Antonio.😐
@@jonaenarcisse5703 Dusty? Black bitch you are a fucking bum? Your broke ass probably don't even have a funky 10,000 dollars in your saving but have the nerve to talk down on somebody? I notice a lot of you women on here are stupid, very unintelligent. Using Sheraseven's talking points and too stupid to formulate your own words Lol 😁😁😁
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@@chrisbelger6721 I'm sorry you are not happy in your life. Money is the only thing that will solve your anger.
My Uncle Told us a Long Time Ago...."Men Cheat Because They are....GREEDY! it has nothing to do with his woman/wife at Home" 😳
I NEVER!!! Forgot! Those Words!✌
My brother told me the same
Ya serious😓 I need to learn to detach
I believe it!!!!!!
@Luna Lovegood then turn around and call us man bashers
because it's true... it's true
Chris Rock already gave us the...GAME!....He Said....
"MEN ARE AS FAITHFUL AS THEIR OPTIONS"!!!
FIRE SIGN she said me. Cheat cause they can. But why women don’t cheat too? Is it cause we can’t?
@@daphneepaul3737 some woman cheat....men and woman cheat...
I say DON'T! .... Cheat!....Just...
LEAVE!....if your that! Unhappy folks.
Truth.
I don't cheat because I don't want an STI
To all the woman concerned about diseases and stuff, what Ashera says does work. You DO NOT sleep with men who cheat on you and if you are silly enough to do so use protection. The point of staying with a cheater is knowing how weak they are to temptation. You know it's going to happen again, and you are already waiting for it so you can get your biggest payday when it comes. If he doesn't cheat after marriage YOU WIN, if he does cheats after marriage YOU WIN!
Also to the woman asking what if he refuses to marry you after cheating, LEAVE HIM. Find another target and repeat. If he asks for a prenup (which he won't if he has common sense) especially after cheating on you! Tell him to hit the road, if he doesn't want to lose you that prenup will be tossed in the trash if he had the audacity to draft one.
When you start believing you're are the prize this stuff will come naturally to you.
THANK YOU for explaining this, SOME WOMEN ARE STILL TRYING TO SLEEP WITH A CHEATER lol MARRIAGE is a business contract... when you break the contract , you get sued.... or in this case divorced and get half or more...
But if more men stop marrying women have no power. Marriage is a women's only leverage and if a rich man marries he stupid self deserves anything that happens to him.
@@dr.phaty_bee damn, hate to see someone with that name approving manipulative behavior
@@seckouultimatedrkskin3309 We still have vagina that u want
"Leave in style not in tears " I love it!
Omg....yaaaassss
I told myself years ago , date a guy that's going to benefit you when he does wrong, stop looking for a guy who's perfect because there's no such thing! You will lose your sanity trying to look for the perfect man when you could be gaining with mr. Wrong lol 😂 but you're right he got to be wealthy if you're going to play the game and you got to marry him. They all going to cheat they all going to lie to you at some point
Do rich men cheat? Sure. But the problem is, the poor ones cheat, too. It's not really a big dilemma which one to choose if that is what you're gonna get (i.e. cheated on) either way. 😒
This is ignorance. "They all going to cheat they all going to lie to you at some point"
With that mentality you'll never find a good one 4real bc that's what you expecting out of your encounters. Sad.
Amber Ay another jezebel. 🤦🏾♂️
Rachelle's Remedies it’s less nature & more of a respect thing. If you believe that then you’re bound to repeat the same mistakes of many. It’s alright to protect yourself but to assume all will cheat and have suspicion for no reason will create problems. If each person brings something to the table and each has their own. There’s no reason to think that way. If you constantly think he’s going to cheat at some point. The energy you put out will create that environment. Either in your or his brain or in reality. He will lose trust and congrats you created that environment by your own insecurities. Respect is lost. It’s over. Also, you have to know who you’re dealing with. There are good people out there.
No, not all men cheat.
I don’t care what people think.🤗 Thank you for calling me a gold diggers. I have an associate degree in psychology, and I’m leveling up at the same time. I’m not worry about your opinions if you don’t pay my bills.😘
Jonae Narcisse I consider it a compliment now, I want money and?
Camille R. Thank you!😊
Okay, well you'll never find a husband or partner, the only ones you'll are the desperate ones with zero self-respect.
Exactly, I never worry about men cheating because I will cheat in a heartbeat and use their money to do it.❤️I never understood women that sit around and get cheated on. I would have my flings too and live it up. As long as you have my money we are fine.😌
If they cheat...cheat back ladies!!!
@@chrisbelger6721 why are there so many damaged angry men out there?
are they not breast-fed?
what is wrong with people like this?
@@lionsskyblue442 Why are there so many gold digging women out here who want a man to finance their lifestyle?
Now I know why Arab women allow their husband to have 4 wives. Arab women still have all these luxuries in life even if their husbands have side chicks lol. My Arab employer allow her husband to have another wife. But her husband don't like it haha. His husband said more wife more headache haha.
I don't think her father would allow to marry her husband if he is broke. Of course they know their circle. That's why I like pure Arab women. They are so into for luxuries.
That’s funny 😂
OutThere2017 so we should allow our men to cheat? Also if they give us everything we need should we allow them to cheat?
Lets be clear...no woman in those muslim countries allows husband to have nothing..Their religion and culture dictates his polygamy and more importantly, muslim wives are taken care of financially, but their rights are dictated to them...be careful of that shit.
Ever noticed if you allow your bf/ husband to cheat they don't do it. But if you warned them not to cheat. Most likely they cheat. Ironic haha
Shera i needed to hear this exactly today since my wealthy boyfriend is shopping around on online dating sites and my gut tells me he's already sleeping with someone else. I'm gonna stay with him, spend his money and marry him by all means and pretend i don't know he's cheating! Thanks so much! X
lalaland Cammy go get you some money 💅
sis dont spend,save
Penny Proud mmhmmm
Get that check sis!
Stop sleeping with him. That’s the side chick’s job now just spend his money 💵
If he's just my boyfriend I've got another one anyways. I'm not off the market until I get a ring.
STRAAIGHT like that🙌🏾
my new mindset.
I love virgins anyways....You'll old busted up pussy women will be on here complaining 5 years from now..lol
💯🙌🏼
@@NYCBJP You wish..lol...virgins stay on my coattail because I'm a child of God and they know it...because I know sluts....and what a wife material woman is
I always felt like do whatever you feel you have the most to gain... If you know you will have more to gain staying stay , if you can gain more by leaving leave..most men cheat anyway.
Thank at least someone admits
J Dolo facts
@J Dolo GET A LIFE! And get off a woman's channel for women by a woman. No one cares who you respect.
Martha Divine do you think that’s y Rasheeda stay with Kirk?
Martha Divine she said men cheat cause they can. Why don’t women cheat? Is it cause we can’t?
Sheras wise beyond her years. Girls mastering this early in life will live a rest of life full of happiness and abundance. 👍🏻
Shera, can you do a video about Old rich men who want a super hot young girlfriend but are not willing to spoil them? That is so unrealistic! And a lot of these young pick me chicks will still stay thinking he will spoil them in the future... NO if he starts cheap he will be cheap forever!
If you are in your 20's and you are dating a 45+ man WHO IS NOT willing to invest, spoil and pamper you then you are wasting your whole youth and beauty! If he is not doing all of that then the age gap is waaaaay to big!
Ashley Private thats a dusty with money..if she stays she doesnt get it..i met a guy once by the second date i said goodbye..my friends told me why stop dating him he is a great guy..you got to see through the bullshit quick..fake alpha’s stingy men everywhere..A man thats into you will buy your love period rich or poor!! Its a tradeoff
Doris Rak Exactly. Men don’t like that I see straight through them FAST.
Ashley Private thank you so much those old men just want to use us young women been there they don't have no good intentions neither just a means to a problem they want us for!
Chris Belger Why are you so agressive? Go to work you desperate dusty
@@jaleesaqueeny731 Get some money broke bitch
“Leave in style, not in tears !! ‘ epic 👌
My ex boyfriend cheated on me with his female friend while he was traveling for work. Now I regret not having any benefits.
LOADING... go back to him and marry him. Try to get something out of that situation if you can.
Video topic: Promises are nothing without the paper! Promises of love, promises to move in, promises to take care of you, promises to buy you a car, promises to get married etc. are useless without compensation up front and consistent!
My dad gave us the game and the things you say are on point! My dad allowed us to wear make-up as teens,he didn’t play that dating a bum non sense nor did my mom.My mom and I butt heads because,I am like a walking magnet for money lol.If there’s no money involved or a opportunity for advancement dealing with men I will not entertain them period.I will hustle alone before I hustle to help a man.I ran across your channel looking for someone that I use her book to reference when I feel I’m slipping .Your level up is great .You’re very intellectually inclined and making a difference in the ones who are clueless lives and although I live with the same principles you speak about but,your videos make me want to go harder .
I was dating a guy he bragged bout how much he has money all that, I tried being genuine with him never asked him for money. He started treating me like shit. Now I know they wont value you until you value yourself. Get that bag only way they'll care about losing you. Other then that they got their nut and they onto the next.
I notice that truly rich men never brag about how much money they (supposedly) have.
@@lionsskyblue442 You are just mad because you ugly and she is obviously attractive and deep down you know she can have what you will never have.
I have to be honest with you. You are very attractive like for real pretty not like the women on here , so you can have real love and a real marriage. A man who will not cheat on you. These women on here know they will most likely never have that ,and they are hurt so they resort to BS and live pitiful lives. I'm just being real.
@@MadameQuoi And Maryland Monroe did not. Beyonce is not all that. And never was, it's just a bunch of hype
@@MadameQuoi And Beyonce got cheated on Maryln Monroe did not. Point is Beyonce is just another wig wearing black woman,she is not all that and only silly people like yourself think she is. Everyone else like me knows you are ignorant. THAT'S the point. And the other point is YOU get cheated on. Not all women get cheated on just like all men don't cheat. But apparently all men cheat on YOU. and THAT'S the point.
Yes they're going to cheat given the opportunity. Take that time to work on yourself and glow up. Get your self straight and then leave if you choose to leave. She's right!
I love,love,💘 you Shera! I am older actually 42 and I want to say I been through the ringer with men to learn all of what you say on here is true and real! I respect you completely because you are on here giving these ladies the truth for free! So listen ladies listen up so you don't have to learn the hard way! One of my saving graces is I still look real young, I have stepped up my game, and I have found my multi-millionaire. Point is this Goddess knows her shit! Peace and love to all!
Why, why I didn't find you before, where were you when I was doing all my mistakes.
@@germansanchez278 😱
Girllllll
Controversial topic but great video overall. I'm sure many people were already thinking or living like this but no one talks about it out in the open the way SheRa does.
This woman is telling the truth 100%.
Pay attention men.
This is the way of the world.
This is woman's nature.
The game plan is in place.
Thank you for your honesty!
Great video!
@@chateuwater8524 Life hurts. That's the deal. Everyone needs healing. I stand by what I said.
It only works on a cheater. This doesn’t work on a honest man. 🤷♀️
Sheraseven1 needs to go to law school and be a divorce lawyer to the stars. Millions can be made in days . She has the heart to be a great Machiavellian and even run for Congress.
Biiittcchh I cannot when I read that title and seen that intro
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😂😂😂
“She can live in the guest cottage” 😂😂😂 Shera you should be a comedian I love it 🥰
Shear talks just like my mom 😂🤣
She literally is my big sister in my head
F A mine too lol
💯
I love your sense of humor Shera😂😂
You have made me a better woman,thank you.
Girl you are so right, been telling some ppl this and they look a me crazy....lol!💯💯💯
I've been contemplating this: Proverbs says to "guard your heart above all that you guard, for out of it are the wellsprings of life."
Elsewhere it states that the immoral (?) woman is "guarded of heart." Very interesting, don't you think?
I could not love your spirit anymore! You are a gift. 😆😆😆✨✨✨✨
Love your work! Love how you giggle after saying something cheeky.
lilmissenigma hahaha I do too. She’s so snarky.
I know right? Almost like an evil genius giggles... love it!
lilmissenigma I also love her dimples
I love her dimples too !!
It's funny
Big......Facts I got 4 brothers I'm the only girl so I don't ever question his old ass about nothing 🤣 he's 72 I'm only 34 He thinks he's nickel slick too. Shit.... I'm most definitely leaving in style 🏎 & 🏡
very true, rapper waka flocka married his now ex-wife Tammy that way, he was constantly cheating so they did a quick wedding at the court house
I allowed my emotions and ego to mess up so much! NEVER AGAIN.
I need to calm my jealousy . I am married to a wealthy man. I need friends like u! We've been married for 1 yr now. And I'm also 3 months pregnant. Can u give advice about pregnancy pls
I'm in a 7.5 year relationship with a decently wealthy man (good enough for the life I want for sure and I don't have to work) and I'm trying to secure the bag (marriage)
Update? Anyone. Hope it worked out for you if not sorry 😞. But we learn from each other
Play CHESS! 😁 NOT checkers😳 Ladies😄😃😄
Wendy had his Son 19 years ago...Lil Kev is 19....
Wendy Has Waaaaay More $$$$.....
She married a...DUSTY!!! big Kev from...EAST NEW YORK
Brooklyn n.y.....
The...Hood...HOOD!!!😄✌
Kev keeps "certain" troubles out of Wendys way, he is her strong arm
FIRE SIGN now he’s cheating on her
@@donyeljohnson6863 she can...and just did...hire SECURITY to do that!👍👍
Worthy you know it...😄👍👍
@Thetasteofhoney1 Might have been!👍👍....she already told the world years!!! Ago she use to be a..."Crack Addict" aka...CRACK HEAD!😞
Best and smartest woman in the world 😊😊😊
Love ya
Topic suggestion: How to not get attached to a man and why you should never fall in love with a man
liyaah85 she already did this type of videos ...check over “emotional women can’t win” just watch her videos she highlights stuffs like this.
She has Done Alllllllll those🤗
And done them a few times😀
Just type her name channel with that subject title your interested in😊👍👍
@@firesign4297 thanks, I didnt know she did those already, I will check it out ♥
@@issyo957 ok I'll go search that video, thanks :)
Easy you fall in love you lose the game
love the shades. Your intro made me laugh. Thanks!
He gonna have to get tested EVERYTIME!
This is old school knowledge. SheRa, girl, this is not your first rodeo. You are wise beyond your years.🌹
Those who get married they've got no selfrespect. Ladies just get next one man, if cheating happens to you. There's rich men who care about, but cheaters they don't care.
I've always thought this. Chetaing men are the easiest targets.
She's so dang smart about all of it 😅
$40,000 is nothing these days...they take...HALF of that! In taxes!!! Every year!😞
They take 10,000 of 40,000. Plus its not what you make, its what you Save.
@@theobservermelanin1746 😊 Alrighty Now😊 You said!...
THAT!😄👍👍...
RESPECT!!!😊✌
You're soooooo clever 😂😂😂😂😂👍🏼
I love you I wish you been my teacher when I ws t school
Agnieszka Agnieszka
Me too!!!
Never Cheat DOWN Ladies...CHEAT ...UP!!!...if ya Must!...cheat!😳😄
P.s....Always!...keep Your Self...UP!....Try Not To Let Yourself!...Fall OFF!...Ladies!✌
And If You Fell Off...Get Up
RIGHT NOW!...and Start to get Yourself!!!...together!❤
Perfect video! Basically being a "gold" digger you have to maintain a specific level of shallowness in approaching dating, as some men do. The gold digger isn't foolish and won't fall for anything or anyone because she stands for something. The gold digger is intimidating. The gold digger's bashers don't agree with dating with your head like the gold digger does and having a plan in choosing the best mate, they think that one should date more with their heart nd for love like an idiot. I always say who says you can't get both🙄...?.. anyways, to the basher's.. That logical mindset of a woman turning off her emotions and looking past the smoke n mirrors of empty promises in exchange for tangible long lasting one's Is super offensive! Bc not only does it consist of a man having to prove himself worthy of her, it bruises ego's of those who relate women to not being worth anything more than sex nd cheap thrills available at their leisure, therefore they despise the gold digger because she changes the dynamics of what was once considered "easy to obtain without having to put in any considerable efforts, & to obtain her one would have to face a new reality or god forbid "change" and "upgrade" themselves to suit her standards to even be considered a chance. If they don't seem her as worth it, she doesn't want them either anyways and in that lies a feminine power. The bashers ultimately hate any type of feminine power, they feel defeated that a woman is capable of calling the shots add money to that and Omfg!. So because now The Men who haven't a chance anymore because they innately know they won't ever fit the criteria due to their own personal shortcomings, where as before they we're good enough, for the foolish women, which a gold digger isn't, she's very smart, she's not a woman who would just accept them as they are without demanding a Man to better himself to obtain her, but instead they can't benefit become defensive. It's stemming from a place of vulnerability Nd having to face the fact they as the fish lack control compared to the bigger whales in the sea that the women would rather mate with. Gold digger's make these regular males feel less of a man because they rub into their face their shortcomings in her presence they're forced to look at themselves n how they stand up to the next man. So therefore When a woman doesn't just take everything thrown her way but actually has standards for how she desires to be treated, those basher's who can't fathom why she doesn't just "settle" become jealous, and simply don't respect and don't value the gold digger's intentions n efforts of changing her life around for the best. To them it's undeserved ambitions for whatever reason to be money minded n extremely insulting. It's like How dare a woman to strive for a luxury lifestyle & want to have the best for themselves n financial freedom through a mate!. I'm guessing they'd be much happier if you'd just settle and date their non ambitious selves n raise the children on your own too bc why not?. Then thy argue men are equal to women by nature.. ik in what world right?. This way once you've settled there's no looking up to your man bc he isn't a man, man enough bc had he been, he would be successful n you can't complain because the argument changes to women brought this upon themselves she shouldn't' have been so blindly in love, and she shouldn't have picked that man and chose that type of deadbeat father for their kids. In my opinion They are Hater's who don't want women to have high standards n the best mate for their future n children's future. I'm never going to under why it's offensive to want more for your life n possible future children's life but hey🤷🏽. Who am I?.. just another gold digger😏
@Luna Lovegood Yes have your own as well. I 100℅ agree because men can be abusive. And any woman in an abusive situation should plan her escape very carefully and several steps ahead like chess, have a plan b and c and z!, Consider all the odds etc. I honestly don't condone living w a man who you're completely dependent on because that's usually where domestic violence starts w some men they may take advantage of that. A woman in an abusive relationship should make sure there is some sort of evidence or police report, it'd be also wise to secretly get the abuse on tape, a restraining order and Sue him for pain and suffering and etc. Lol then leave move away and start again.
Amazing prose!!
5:51- that look had me laughing so loud...LOVE your show and your personality!💟
I am so here for these sunnies 😂😍
I’m a stripper and I meet rich men all day long but I refuse to leave with them. The bouncer walks me to my car and i go straight home afterwards how do I get them to still be interested outside of work after the fact that I just told them no I’m not going anywhere with you and they drive off? Just keep trying?
Shadow Gang Tarots that’s a good idea. I’m pretty good at hooking men I just need the dinner date and I’m good I can usually secure the bag quite well afterwards lol I just don’t want to sleep with anyone. But thank you I think I’ll just be like we can go to dinner next week since I’m really tired now lol
Shadow Gang Tarots I found a sugar daddy and he said he’s willing to support with my education. We’re going on a date tomorrow and I just want to know how to behave. I’ve never had a sugar daddy before and I’ve never dated anyone older than 25. Im 25 and he’s 65. I’ve never even communicate with men this old before. I don’t want it be awkward. I want to keep him interested but I don’t ever want to sleep with his old wrinkly ass. I just want him to pay my school tuition.
briana mcguire I don’t know how to secure the bag like you sis. Please tech me cause my dinner date is tomorrow. Should I be over sexual or act like a shy girl? Idk which one old rich white men like.
daphnee paul don’t act either of those ways. I talk happily and confident but with a sexy voice. They literally go crazy lol
@@daphneepaul3737 tease em but dnt please em...be a lil coy not boring.dnt be too quick to give it up...
101% shera on point !!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I watched the confession... you're very wise
Wow Shera you the smartest...love your attitude.
WE DON’T WANT THEM TO GET HURT THOUGH🙌🏾❣️💯👑
I shared this to all my homies and brothers thank you for exposing the game 😂🤑 I’ll take it !
Praise Jah The only way to level up is to avoid marriage. Even if she decides to leave you, find another one.
Wet Fart hell yeah bro , I’ll be damn if a split my hard work with a leech ! That marriage shit is for the birds ! I can’t trust no women now 😴☝️.
They're not going after your "homies" y'all arent rich men.
Y’all are broke who cares 💀
@@praisejah4120 Poor thing
Sheera- topic suggestion: men with options who pick weak women an left woman with standards .
I think when you say you choose not to react to your emotions that you are to some degree suppressing them. If someone "cheats" on you this naturally evokes powerful negative emotions. Can you be healthy and pretend not to feel?
Memory Rinehart let it all out with your therapist 🤣
Did not think about it that way. Watching your videos have me developing a master plan . Thanks!
By the way denim with floral 👌🏾
Video topic: It's not my fault that you are not getting the results you want in dating! We have all these videos to reference back to for questions.
You are soooo smart girl I binge all your videos & when I tell you all the benefits I have been receiving is incredible. I’m just waiting for him to do sum dumb 😌
I couldnt think like that. I dont know if i could be with a cheater but i got your point 😊😊. I maybe would be with him till get my saving and a house then bye cos it is not a health relationship.
The only people who are the dusty are anyone who would down talk someone's intelligence by talking bad about the person you married. Pure fullness. That's like a man marries a woman and talking, laughing about the way he mistreats her.
this is the only video that made me feel better thank you
You’re hilarious but deadass serious. 👋🏾😂
I've always agreed with this sentiment... My sister and I have said..... Would you rather get cheated on by a rich man or a poor man... your choice .. lol
Shera I am liking your style!
Omg, you made this video for me!!!!! So cool!
I 💖 YOU Ashera !! Thank you for everything that you do to help us level UP 🔥🔥🔥.
Merci beaucoup ! 💖💖💖
Bish really outchea talkin bout "When he die" Never marry these vampires fellas. Let a heuax geuax and focus on your purpose.
Y’all better cheat back I know I will . We both cheating while I spend yo money and buy my side dude something with what ? YO SHIT LOL
Perfect video for the right time for me. Thank you!!!
What kind of cup is that ?? Can you show it on the other channel lol ?
moral of the story, don’t get married guys
You should Promote your book at the end of each of your videos 🤗.....
P.s....Tell Them...They Can Order Your Book in the Link Below😊....
I been ordered TWO!😄👍👍❤
FIRE SIGN what book? I didn’t know she had a book.
(Ya grew up in the era ya grew up poor or broke) so true
this is genius
Lmao now this is true wisdom! This has to be part of Shera’s 10 commandments ! 😂
Shera makes my life 😂
Shera you’re the only one☝🏾who videos I always like before I even watch the video 💖😘 💡
Love you in my brain Shera!
Girl I LOVE YOU ! You are rocking it (with style) !
This is sick. Women like this deserve misery not money. And she takes 48 minutes to say it. Talk talk talk... Men are marrying less and less and this attitude is one reason.
L Hoyt if women would stop having sex before marriage, more if not all men would marry.
Why don’t you tell men to stop cheating? Women are just fighting back.
I wish I knew this info about 3 months ago 😂
😂😂😂
What if he doesn't cheat? What if he's rich, loyal, he stays in shape, and he's good in bed? Would you still leave him for alimony? I'm asking because I'm working hard to become that kind of man myself.
Tomy Robinson I wouldn’t leave if he had a lot of money
Lol if u marry in this day age ur a fool, keep ur money and happiness, u dont need marriage to keep a beautiful girl
What? Marry me once you leveled up
Lady, were you drinking out of two cups right there? 😂
I don't know of that plan going to be successful because these men of today is getting more wiser. The way these men think about today women? You have to bait them first before you even.talking about marriage. That's if he wants to marry you to many options out here. But you will find a small percentage you might struck gold with but realistically but good luck with that.
This is what "I give up" in women looks like. Why it's falling apart, why SMV in women is plummetting.
BAW gave up in the 1960's, for the EBT and Section 8. "You can't have a man in the house" was the only requirement.
Now, 50 years later, you just got better at scheming.
Nothing's changed, you are just the new face in the bullpen.
IBMOR/MGTOW is the light shining under the fridge on you critters .
But please, don't let us stop you. We enjoy your channel.
I have a few sugar daddies and one a lawyer. The other guy has is own business. They have money. I want a millionaire but it’s hard finding that in San Antonio.😐
I love it! Proud of you
Autumn Sunsets Thank you honey. I’m not worry about these dusty old men.😂😂😂
@ Stupid bitch
@@jonaenarcisse5703 Dusty? Black bitch you are a fucking bum? Your broke ass probably don't even have a funky 10,000 dollars in your saving but have the nerve to talk down on somebody? I notice a lot of you women on here are stupid, very unintelligent. Using Sheraseven's talking points and too stupid to formulate your own words Lol 😁😁😁
@@chrisbelger6721 I'm sorry you are not happy in your life. Money is the only thing that will solve your anger.
😂😂😂 this woman 😅
Jezebel energy at its finest.
When I saw this look I knew you were going in lol
You need your own movie based on this right here, TH-cam advice then you meet someone who softens you up and end up getting married for love.
Goddess, your thumbnail is serving me Lyrica Anderson's Needing You thumbnail 😍
MEN NEVER HAND YOUR WEALTH OVER TO A WOMAN NOR YOUR POWER.
Or just not…cheat? Incredible!
Hasn't Wendy already filed for a divorce? I thought that is what I heard in the news.
MRS. THAANNGGG! That's the first thought that came to my mind when I first saw you on this video!!
What if they cheat and have another kid with someone? That's a financial cheat.