You give up on a man when you find out he is not who he claimed to be. Also, you give up when a man does not show any signs of taking the relationship further.
Shera I listened to the game & got my protector and provider. He got me an office, a Mercedes & he's paying for my masters and PhD !! Thank you Queen ❤
I have seen a marked difference in the way people treat me now that I dress more femininely and take time to put myself together. I feel better about myself that I am doing it for me but it also helps with engaging the world.
Curly Chisolm agree! I’m partial to pencil skirts and heels! I just like the feeling of taking care of myself and finding happiness in knowing that I’m doing right by me! And if I find a good fit, great! No rush so May as well enjoy the process of life!
When to leave was yesterday. Liiiiiiiike did we forget that men already “leave” us in their mind before replacing you in a quickness for someone else that they deem as the prize? 🥴 The gall. The utter gall.
I left the hubby after he lost the job and decided not to get back on his own tow feet. He took me and kids into a one bedroom apartment and thought I was gonna be ok with it. I said no and divorced. I will always be a lady and never let any man treat me otherwise no matter the situation. I have been struggling trying to recreate myself and when I’m done I’m probably marry again but a much better stronger man! 🤩 Never give up on yourselves ladies better alone than with a dusty. I agree with Shera 💯 %
@@adrianwillis66 That's what you say now, but look into the future. I personally know multiple men that after loosing their job, they intentionally stayed over ten years jobless and their kids, wife or parents had to carry the burden. Families got ruined and money problems created resentment between siblings. Some couldn't even get married themselves because they are paying their father's bills and rent. Its one thing if he lost his job and he GENUINELY tries his best to get back on his feet as soon as possible ( I would wait for him and be patient IF he's a good man), and another if he starts enjoying being feminine and others taking care of him ( I would leave). Plus, that's not mentioning that men become aggressive, pessimistic, closed off to any advice and insanely insecure when they lose their jobs. It becomes hell putting up with their attitude. Lol NO thanks!
I think that was fullish 💯 I can see if he just left y’all for dead but he got y’all in an apartment that’s literally temporary. That ain’t dusty. Apartment temporarily then motivate your man get in his ish.
What I’m understanding from all this is that women care too much we act like we ain’t got no other options like our brains have been wired into thinking about him his choices and what he does almost as if we are stuck and it’s heartBREAKING
I got a Mercedes for my birthday in September..a Burberry for Christmas and a new engagement ring after he destroyed me into a pathetic piece of crying for his attention. It feels good to have my backbone back. Thank you♥️👊. Taking your power back from narcissist is a a game changer. Not because he wants you but you realize that you are way to good and have been settling for the very bear minimum. They are insecure and beat strong women down so they feed off your energy to impress another for a side piece because they don't have a personality without yours.
@@lolas6814 I stopped crying, stopped begging for " why are you doing this".. started to take care of myself and not giving a damn what he had to say because if I look and feel good he would be dick..and try to change things about myself for his insecurities. Kicked him out after putting my foot down and stopped taking texts..blocked calls.. gave him a taste of what it's like to have your spouse of 16yrs ghosting you for wks on end without any reason but asked "were where you " with who ect because if I asked or complained he gave me the silent treatment. Narcissist are game players. They don't have the ability to be human with respect to feelings for others . So if you are not there for them to drain you of your energy they will be at your beacon call. They cant be rejected and they cant be loved. So you have to be as neutral and try not to let anything get under your skin because your negative emotional reaction shows they still have that control over you. Don't let them. You know that you don't want to go there because you are a genuine person but that is rare these days. So make sure that you set yourself up for your own stability and kids. So if he does something he knows that you are in a position to walk away without needing him. Therefore it is a threat. Stay strong with boundaries. Took me since 2016 to get out of depression and self hate from verbally being told I am nothing. He loves me but he is not normal. Narcissist can not understand what they do because it's a control, own, manipulate, and destroy. Then hoover and love bomb. The cycle doesn't end until you stop it. Having a backbone is sexy as hell. Don't let anyone dull your sparkle because mine landed me within a opioid addiction after a surgery and death of family member he was not very supportive about. So I hated myself and I didn't want to even wake up in morning. I went to jail for a yr from that crap. Never again will I allow anyone to make me feel so badly about myself that I would put my self in situations where he got the best of me. Life coaching works and people who have experienced the same things. Support one another because it's a cold cruel world but at the end of the day we are spiritual beings who want to be loved.
Working for a behavioral health organization my boss and Chief Operating Officer who is also a licensed clinician/ therapist ALWAYS reminded Senior Management “Stop giving your power away”. one of the first things you mentioned in this video pay attention ladies Ashera/Shera does her research and teaches us how to apply these sciences very well. Keeping our power should also be applied in all aspects of life .
I wish I had a friend like you when I was younger. …I was around woman who were pick me’s… they would always humble me but I knew I deserved the best. Thank you for all your wisdom
He never wanted to impress me he always did the bare minimum. Now I'm not showing emotion or caring He worries. But he still ain't get me my tennis bracelet
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns oh honey. It's been a year and some change. I got my tennis bracelet and dissapeared. He's looking for me everywhere. I'm currently with the love of my life!
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns yes lord. God is good. He got a taste of his own medicine and then some! I'm not with abuse because I will serve it on a silver related and make you cry. I want nothing to do with him every he's dead to and waste of my time .btw I don't know where the hell I dropped that bracelet it has no significance coming from the person who gave it! I might pawn it just to be a bitch. I don't wear tainted jewelery or stay in tainted relationships. I deserve more and I found it
@@darrengordon-hill You don't know if she's wearing a wig, extensions, or if that is her natural hair. So who started writing fictional comments first? Smh...
SheRa💝your the best !!! I have learned so much from your talks !! Keep showing us ladies how to have our power and not let any man take it from us !! We as woman deserve the best of life . Better single than chasing around or being with a man that has nothing to offer .
It’s been 9 months. And I’m honestly already detaching since a month ago. I’m tired of 50/50. I’m tired of beginning him so I’m just waiting for him to fuck up while I do my own thing
Most Beast Advise Ever Once you get confidence and STOP taking the least and giving the most you will get everything you ever wanted.....DAMN SHERA A GENIUS 😃
Wow im surprised you said year 3 or 4. Good to know. I turn 25 at the end of the year. And my 1 year was on new years but We’ve known each other for 2years total. Makes me feel better. I told him im moving “out the country” in July because i dont want a 9-5 and want something new. After He said he planned to buy a new house as soon as possible and has a meeting with his accountant next week...
I wasnt a pick me but def over emotional for 1.5 years of being together. But then your vids changed me game for the better. And ive been a sb since college but was still very needy and couldn’t control emotions
Nice people are getting divorce …but I have learnt tons from you as in how men truly are ….you are doing every single women a real favor ….you have shed the light on so many toppings ….personally I thank you .
Ex getting on my last nerve. 15 years my senior and stingy as the day is long. At first he made promises and he didn't get me that brand new Benz he promised (his idea, not my idea and he offered it to me), didn't give me the $50k cash, didn't give me the house. All I got from him is a little bit of money and a big headache. A couple lump sums here and there but nothing big. I'm annoyed.
Fair Enough. But you'll eventually get horny and need sex. Especially if you're attracted to him. Say what you want but you'll give it up. Y'all always do. Stop trying to go tit for tat. Sex is something that benefits BOTH Parties. Getting YOUR Bills paid only benefits YOU. Wake up and stop listening to this idiot and sorry excuse for a "Woman".
@@Maya-xm5jx click my channel, watch my Video "Shooter" and see how FAR From "Broke" i am baby girl. You can't "Shame" a man who has it together. The truth Hurts. And Women HATE It. 🤷🏾♂️
I gave up on a man in my life turns out I was way too good for him. And I gave up on men in my family too. But I have a question how do I turn off my maternal instincts when feeling sorry for a man?
@@keyanna2633 No. It's because you're a woman. The "love" women have is for THEIR children... which is why you rightly call it "motherly instinct". However HE IS NOT YOUR SON - so this suggests you had a troubled upbringing, most likely a domineering mother. Sure, you likely feel you were being kind and helpful by loaning him money/letting him live with you/drive your car etc) but this has only made you a MAN (provider/protector) in his eyes. Women are impatient so "step up" when they should "suffer in silence". But no, the day he loses his job, she out there "hustling" (job/sugar daddy), cos God forbid she go a day without electricity. Which only further emasculates him.
Proverbs 31:10-31 An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life. She seeks wool and flax, and works with willing hands. She is like the ships of the merchant; she brings her food from afar.
I had to run away from a hostage situation with a broke man who in fact started to Micmac what I was doing because he was spying on me for years with out me knowing
💯💯💯💯💯✔📜 got my teeth,boobs & lipo surgeries already + get 650 a month. I only see him once a month now. I'm about ready to give him his walking paper I don't play 2nd to no newbies
After he asks the first time, tell him your not sure if you should give him your number. He will then continue to convince you/ work for your number. If he is convincing give it to him with just a little noticeable reservations (even if you want his number badly, lol)
@@Jubileejones REALLY shouldn't want to be CONvinced about things!! "Fuckbois" are CONvincing you they're rich by posting pics in front of other people's cars... but sure, don't blame yourself for choosing emotional losers you can manipulate.
Shera I'm a truck driver ... What do u have against truckesrs?? A lot of your followers aren't on your level...but a professional trucker with a good company or OWNER can change some of these women LIVES....anyway...love u ...bye
Truck drivers typically are very selfish, jealous men because they feel like they give a lot of time, wear & tear on their health to make their money, so they'll never be as giving as a man that makes easy money, & it's rumored y'all sleep with prostitutes & have secret families on the side plus cheat cheat cheat, cheap cheap cheap lol
Ladies, he put a $5000 down payment to my car but recently he stop giving me my allowance and paying for my car note haven’t slept with him yet. He’s been taking care of me for 2y years. Any advice
You give up on a man when you find out he is not who he claimed to be. Also, you give up when a man does not show any signs of taking the relationship further.
You give up on him when he stop giving u money
@@EmpressofChrist no wonder you girls are single.
😂😂
Alan pashow😂😂😂😂 oh well
IN 60 days, a man tells you what kind a person he is. You ignoring all the red flags because he values your V instead of your mind, you're the problem
Shera I listened to the game & got my protector and provider. He got me an office, a Mercedes & he's paying for my masters and PhD !! Thank you Queen ❤
what a loser she got !
what do you suggest
Amazing!!
Omggggg😢😢😢😢❤
Girl how did you do it 😻❤❤❤
"If they were your twin flame they would know you like nice things and give them to you" --Ashera
😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣INSANITY!!!!!!!
LMAOOO
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Love it! ❤
Classic lol 😂 love her ❤️💯😅
"You a prisoner.You have been kidnapped by a BROKE man.." I died! Lol😂🤣👑
Omg 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂this took me out.
HAHAHAHHA
Me
A "good morning" text followed by a cashapp deposit is a good morning lol
Hooker?
@@darrengordon-hill How is that a hooker 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
sumrandumguy1 - dam 🤣🤣🤣🤣- you just hit below the belt there 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@sumrandumguy1 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Stupid sheras minions. Oh yes here's some free money. Like he said. Hooker?
When you have to apologize for having feelings.
Ayres Official the fact that you recognise this is good don’t beat yourself up you have a chance do what is best for you never too late good luck!
PATHETIC!!
You sound annoying and whiny.
He's supposed to drag you out of Hell *aka emotional turmoil*.
Not join you.
Have FACTS...
@Jamie Montgomery
Who loves weakness??
When weak women hate weak men (use/sleep with them as they will, eventually they get bored of a "Yes man".
@@darrengordon-hill Weak=Man harrassing strange women online for no reason
@@tonismith88899 👊♥️.
I have seen a marked difference in the way people treat me now that I dress more femininely and take time to put myself together. I feel better about myself that I am doing it for me but it also helps with engaging the world.
You appear fragile.
They handle you with kid gloves.
@@SaraFJones
MGTOW are BETA losers; why laud them?
Curly Chisolm agree! I’m partial to pencil skirts and heels! I just like the feeling of taking care of myself and finding happiness in knowing that I’m doing right by me! And if I find a good fit, great!
No rush so May as well enjoy the process of life!
Darren Gordon-Hill this is an example of sarcasm....🤨🤨🤨
@Curly Chisolm
Am I allowed to respond... or is THAT "begging attention"?
The more I listen to you the more strategically that I am beginning to think. Unbothered, thinking bussiness like, and being unemotional.
Girl same 😂💯
Even though I’m married; a lot have shifted in few months and I’m here for it 🥰
You betta cause they go try to play u
“Let em stare baby, thats what you for...” 💎💎💎💎
Mad i missed this live.. I give up on anyone who isnt consistent and stick to their word Period!
Greyah Marie consistency, or lack there of, is key! So many of us hang onto the one time he was appropriate! And try to accept the 99 time he was not!
Nice clown make up
@@alanpapashow1926 thanks boo💋
@@greyahmarie0905 are you joining the circus?
@@alanpapashow1926 with u the main clown 💋
When to leave was yesterday. Liiiiiiiike did we forget that men already “leave” us in their mind before replacing you in a quickness for someone else that they deem as the prize? 🥴 The gall. The utter gall.
Never let men grow roots in you. Leave in advance.
So it’s ok for women to do the same? Broke women at that? Y’all vacuous roots need to be razed with the sharpest Steele.
Thanks
Exactly
Shera has helped me see where I was going wrong in life. Kept being hurt and abused and now I know I was the problem.
Same here, for not valuing the worth we have❤
Me too im proud of you girls!
I left the hubby after he lost the job and decided not to get back on his own tow feet. He took me and kids into a one bedroom apartment and thought I was gonna be ok with it. I said no and divorced. I will always be a lady and never let any man treat me otherwise no matter the situation. I have been struggling trying to recreate myself and when I’m done I’m probably marry again but a much better stronger man! 🤩 Never give up on yourselves ladies better alone than with a dusty. I agree with Shera 💯 %
Agreed. I always felt so good and free whenever I left those losers who could never get stuff together. Instantly good energy.
If he has been providing is it harsh to divorce when he no longer can?
@@adrianwillis66 That's what you say now, but look into the future. I personally know multiple men that after loosing their job, they intentionally stayed over ten years jobless and their kids, wife or parents had to carry the burden. Families got ruined and money problems created resentment between siblings. Some couldn't even get married themselves because they are paying their father's bills and rent.
Its one thing if he lost his job and he GENUINELY tries his best to get back on his feet as soon as possible ( I would wait for him and be patient IF he's a good man), and another if he starts enjoying being feminine and others taking care of him ( I would leave). Plus, that's not mentioning that men become aggressive, pessimistic, closed off to any advice and insanely insecure when they lose their jobs. It becomes hell putting up with their attitude. Lol NO thanks!
I had the same experience! 2 adults and 2 kids in a 1 bedroom apartment…if that’s not dusty I don’t know what is!
I think that was fullish 💯 I can see if he just left y’all for dead but he got y’all in an apartment that’s literally temporary. That ain’t dusty. Apartment temporarily then motivate your man get in his ish.
What I’m understanding from all this is that women care too much we act like we ain’t got no other options like our brains have been wired into thinking about him his choices and what he does almost as if we are stuck and it’s heartBREAKING
We sure have been and I’m starting to question what has wired us. I want to say Disney for starters
I got a Mercedes for my birthday in September..a Burberry for Christmas and a new engagement ring after he destroyed me into a pathetic piece of crying for his attention. It feels good to have my backbone back. Thank you♥️👊. Taking your power back from narcissist is a a game changer. Not because he wants you but you realize that you are way to good and have been settling for the very bear minimum. They are insecure and beat strong women down so they feed off your energy to impress another for a side piece because they don't have a personality without yours.
Damn girl that was deep u went there. Takes one 2kno 1 and u hit the nail on the head preach sis👏👍
Enlighten us, what did you do exactly queen ? 🌞🌞
I would like to know the same. How did you do this?
@@lolas6814 I stopped crying, stopped begging for " why are you doing this".. started to take care of myself and not giving a damn what he had to say because if I look and feel good he would be dick..and try to change things about myself for his insecurities. Kicked him out after putting my foot down and stopped taking texts..blocked calls.. gave him a taste of what it's like to have your spouse of 16yrs ghosting you for wks on end without any reason but asked "were where you " with who ect because if I asked or complained he gave me the silent treatment. Narcissist are game players. They don't have the ability to be human with respect to feelings for others . So if you are not there for them to drain you of your energy they will be at your beacon call. They cant be rejected and they cant be loved. So you have to be as neutral and try not to let anything get under your skin because your negative emotional reaction shows they still have that control over you. Don't let them. You know that you don't want to go there because you are a genuine person but that is rare these days. So make sure that you set yourself up for your own stability and kids. So if he does something he knows that you are in a position to walk away without needing him. Therefore it is a threat. Stay strong with boundaries. Took me since 2016 to get out of depression and self hate from verbally being told I am nothing. He loves me but he is not normal. Narcissist can not understand what they do because it's a control, own, manipulate, and destroy. Then hoover and love bomb. The cycle doesn't end until you stop it. Having a backbone is sexy as hell. Don't let anyone dull your sparkle because mine landed me within a opioid addiction after a surgery and death of family member he was not very supportive about. So I hated myself and I didn't want to even wake up in morning. I went to jail for a yr from that crap. Never again will I allow anyone to make me feel so badly about myself that I would put my self in situations where he got the best of me. Life coaching works and people who have experienced the same things. Support one another because it's a cold cruel world but at the end of the day we are spiritual beings who want to be loved.
I bought her all that ....I'm rich....
I bet the ladies that asked this question wanted an emotional answer and Shera kept it straight about money 😂😂💰💰
Great reason to avoid her
@@darrengordon-hill I don't think so, but nobodies stopping YOU from leaving lol
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@darrengordon-hill Same reason you would avoid a woman if shes not giving you sex.
😂😂😂😂
The first time he does something that you don't like. That's when you got a man lose.
"They ALL gone Cheat " I knew it! Ladies! Get the bag and say fuck to love 🙌
@Marjan
Actually they cheat the most lol
No don't say that .yall R mad and broken..
When he don't respect you no more
The stop asking is so true. Happened to me this year. Now he's sat up with perceived competition
Left a 10yr relationship a week before xmas.No contact im free.
Saffy Reid oh fuck how this men just waste a holesome 10 year im proud of u baby
Keep it up. I suggest you check out Inner Integration on You Tube and IG.
@@dupuyloveable I agree. Inner Integration channel has great information and support with steps for healing. One of my personal favorites.
@@dupuyloveable I agree. Inner Integration is great channel. A treasure of information, support, and steps for healing.
Saffy Reid me too 6 year relationship
When To Give Up On a Man: Today. Within the next hour. Right now.
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Lol😂
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If you have to ask when it’s past time! 😂
Working for a behavioral health organization my boss and Chief Operating Officer who is also a licensed clinician/ therapist ALWAYS reminded Senior Management
“Stop giving your power away”. one of the first things you mentioned in this video pay attention ladies Ashera/Shera does her research and teaches us how to apply these sciences very well. Keeping our power should also be applied in all aspects of life .
I wish I had a friend like you when I was younger. …I was around woman who were pick me’s… they would always humble me but I knew I deserved the best. Thank you for all your wisdom
Shera is doing podcast and comedy at the same time 😂😂👏🏼
Hahah right! 😂 btw are you from switzerland? I remember seeing one of your comments on a livestream..xx
dreamfeather96 yup! are you from there too?
près du cœur yess!
dreamfeather96 Oh that’s nice! Wanna chat over another platform?
près du cœur my instagram is aishaxsofia
He never wanted to impress me he always did the bare minimum. Now I'm not showing emotion or caring
He worries. But he still ain't get me my tennis bracelet
Better move on because that is a lost cause! 😆
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns oh honey. It's been a year and some change. I got my tennis bracelet and dissapeared. He's looking for me everywhere. I'm currently with the love of my life!
@@Forexroadrunner Ooh that's hot 🔥 😂🤣😅💅🤳💪🥳😆
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns yes lord. God is good. He got a taste of his own medicine and then some! I'm not with abuse because I will serve it on a silver related and make you cry. I want nothing to do with him every he's dead to and waste of my time
.btw I don't know where the hell I dropped that bracelet it has no significance coming from the person who gave it! I might pawn it just to be a bitch. I don't wear tainted jewelery or stay in tainted relationships. I deserve more and I found it
@@Forexroadrunner I bow down to you! I wish peace ✌️ love and happiness and prosperity in the 🎊 🍾 New Year!🥳🙏💅🥰👏😆😂🤣🤳👏👏👏
Finally! I knew I wasn’t the only one who felt that way about the “ twin flame “ thing
I was working out at home and my dusty husband said I looked corny 😂hatin ass
He tryna discourage you!!! Keep going sis💯💯🎊🙏🏾 you got this 💯
@Ruby Ramirez it’s in the works!
What’s corny is the fact you’re married to him
I’m very proud of you for divorcing. If that’s you in your picture you are so beautiful. Know your worth then add tax . I’m happy you left, sister
Rather she stayed or left thats her business @MB-xv7er
When you said I don’t do pickmeisha consultations... that took me out 😂😂😂😂. Love u xxx
OMG this hair on you looks so good
WIG
@@darrengordon-hill You must be a wig expert your self. You probably have quite a collection considering how much time you spend on women's pages 🤣💇
@@tonismith88899
I pointed at a wig.
You wrote fiction about wigs you haven't seen but are certain I own.
🤦🏿♂️👨🏿🏫
@@darrengordon-hill You don't know if she's wearing a wig, extensions, or if that is her natural hair. So who started writing fictional comments first? Smh...
@Linda Hines DARN TOOTIN
I never give up. Just stop investing my energy..
"Next year come find me cus I'm out!" 😂😂😂
Lol
Hahahahhahhhaah
A Queen 👑 can never lose her power but you can choose to lose the man all together
I’ve already graduated past this channel, I just check in for the beautiful looks you serve 😂
Where have you gone instead?
Lulu C she has a spiritual channel where the REAL shit lives. Asherastargoddess
Sabrina عبدي ah yes, ok 👌
@@Sabrina11113 I’m late thanks 😊
SheRa💝your the best !!! I have learned so much from your talks !! Keep showing us ladies how to have our power and not let any man take it from us !! We as woman deserve the best of life . Better single than chasing around or being with a man that has nothing to offer .
Single = married to all meb via state benefits.
Single = carousel of sex partners; AKA slut.
How you gonna get "power" from someone on the toilet???
@@darrengordon-hill Troll=No one gives a fuck what you think
@@tonismith88899
Because I don't think... unlike you heffers.
@@darrengordon-hill well if your following a bunch of heffers what does that make you? 🙄🤔🤣
#dumbass
When my needs aren’t being Met, I am Out!
It’s been 9 months. And I’m honestly already detaching since a month ago. I’m tired of 50/50. I’m tired of beginning him so I’m just waiting for him to fuck up while I do my own thing
Most Beast Advise Ever Once you get confidence and STOP taking the least and giving the most you will get everything you ever wanted.....DAMN SHERA A GENIUS 😃
I've been telling people 2 do a "Kimora" for years! People look at me like I'm crazy and say "but she can't keep a man" 😒 they don't get it, smh.
October3074 “she cant keep a man”
- A woman “keeping” a broke man 😂
@@mspennyisaac HAHAAAA! Exactly! 😂😂
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October3074 wait! What’s doing a Kimora?
@@aann7132
Who's Kimora without all these men??
Sneaking at work watching this, lol. Got my captions going.
Omg that was so me lol taking 30 min bathroom break 2 years ago when I was watching shera. But now I'm married, stay at home mom. Shera way do work🙌
Watching from work too. Night shift 🥱😴keeps me awake
stop taking the least and giving the most. and u will get what u allwayz wanted
-Shera 7
actually, switch these around!
My name is Jodi Bage. I enjoy your broadcasts, and topics of discussions... keep up the good faith!
"What did you put in my account this morning"
NOTHING.
- Me
A bill for the dinner
Lmaooo I love how quick and effortlessly the Queen generates a lie/story/bag 🤣
Give up on a man 👨 when he no longer doing what u want him to do paying bills buying u stuff showing u attention etc
You are a prophet for women!
Shera- she said the dude has his own trucking company… they make BANK!! One of the wealthiest men in our town owns a trucking co.
You speak bare bones truth...much respect for that
"If he cheats, cheat on him"
How can you respect someone that tells you to harm yourself out of petty spite (aka emotion)?
@sumrandumguy1 Basic overall honesty and saying it like it is! Yall dustys triggered?
@sumrandumguy1 LMAO
@sumrandumguy1 their vocabulary is very limited.
Love this hair color on you
Wow im surprised you said year 3 or 4. Good to know.
I turn 25 at the end of the year. And my 1 year was on new years but We’ve known each other for 2years total. Makes me feel better. I told him im moving “out the country” in July because i dont want a 9-5 and want something new. After He said he planned to buy a new house as soon as possible and has a meeting with his accountant next week...
I wasnt a pick me but def over emotional for 1.5 years of being together. But then your vids changed me game for the better. And ive been a sb since college but was still very needy and couldn’t control emotions
A year old and still relevant thank you for getting me together 🙏🏾 #toughlove
Nice people are getting divorce …but I have learnt tons from you as in how men truly are ….you are doing every single women a real favor ….you have shed the light on so many toppings ….personally I thank you .
"If he's not ready to get on a date, get off the phone" SO TRUE!!
I used to watch your channel, then stopped an started dating a dusty. NEVER leaving again
Ex getting on my last nerve. 15 years my senior and stingy as the day is long. At first he made promises and he didn't get me that brand new Benz he promised (his idea, not my idea and he offered it to me), didn't give me the $50k cash, didn't give me the house. All I got from him is a little bit of money and a big headache. A couple lump sums here and there but nothing big. I'm annoyed.
Shera I absolutely love what you are doing!!! if you can help me, a former Pickmesha Queen you can help anyone
😘😘😘😘
I pick YOU. ur Lucky that I did too
A man isn't obligated to pay your Bill's unless he's your husband. You're not obligated to sleep with him unless hes your husband...PERIODT!
Fair Enough. But you'll eventually get horny and need sex. Especially if you're attracted to him. Say what you want but you'll give it up. Y'all always do. Stop trying to go tit for tat. Sex is something that benefits BOTH Parties. Getting YOUR Bills paid only benefits YOU. Wake up and stop listening to this idiot and sorry excuse for a "Woman".
you sound Broke sir lmaooo😂🤣
@@Maya-xm5jx click my channel, watch my Video "Shooter" and see how FAR From "Broke" i am baby girl. You can't "Shame" a man who has it together. The truth Hurts. And Women HATE It. 🤷🏾♂️
You so defensive, boo. If you had real money, you wouldn’t even be here! That’s the gag😩
BrownSkinnedFlower Rich people get bored too. 😎💰
Once again.......I Hope you like Cats.😺
He no longer tells you just how beautiful you are everyday simple
We got robbed 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🌹 love Her too much
Shera got me screaming!
She said then you been kidnapped by a broke man 😂😂😂😩
damn she's reading our minds
And she said there's not much in there.
@Linda Hines huh?
@@alanpapashow1926 i think she was sarcastic, implying that we all are empty minded.
Woah shera you look absolutely stunning with this glam and outfit!!! 😍💯👌👌👌
Why she in the bathroom??
@@darrengordon-hill better to be in a cozy bathroom than outside in the cold with a stupid looking hat! 🤣🤣🤣
@@tonismith88899 omg the shaaaaaade 😂😂😂🤣
Your hair looks great and I refer back to your videos when I need a shot in the arm,. Lol. Lots of good advice, thank you
I gave up on a man in my life turns out I was way too good for him. And I gave up on men in my family too. But I have a question how do I turn off my maternal instincts when feeling sorry for a man?
Keyanna Why do you feel sorry for them...
@@DIGITALEMPRESS I guess it's because I know they can be a better person,and do better than they're doing.
You can’t turn it off. Just simply don’t act on it. You are not his mother.
@@DIGITALEMPRESS
Because she thinks she's better than him.
@@keyanna2633
No.
It's because you're a woman.
The "love" women have is for THEIR children... which is why you rightly call it "motherly instinct".
However HE IS NOT YOUR SON - so this suggests you had a troubled upbringing, most likely a domineering mother.
Sure, you likely feel you were being kind and helpful by loaning him money/letting him live with you/drive your car etc) but this has only made you a MAN (provider/protector) in his eyes.
Women are impatient so "step up" when they should "suffer in silence".
But no, the day he loses his job, she out there "hustling" (job/sugar daddy), cos God forbid she go a day without electricity.
Which only further emasculates him.
Your information is vital and so useful. Single for a year after an 8 year marriage and was only attracting dustys. Now, I know why! 😂😂😂
6:57 Priceless face expression when Shera read the question❤️ LMAO
When he has no morals and no job. When a man thinks he is being replaced. He is already replaced. Just leave
All of your older videos keep popping up on my suggested videos 😊
I've been binge watching your videos all day because of it 😆
I love your whole look in this video!
Wow I think I got a good one..because if I ask or say something he is on it.. I need to get my act together then..thanks
You look fabulous ♥️👊🤗. Love the mug.
That mug is adorable
Proverbs 31:10-31
An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life. She seeks wool and flax, and works with willing hands. She is like the ships of the merchant; she brings her food from afar.
Lol
“20 years??? He bout to die. Y’all need to be preparing for a funeral not a wedding” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I had to run away from a hostage situation with a broke man who in fact started to Micmac what I was doing because he was spying on me for years with out me knowing
💯💯💯💯💯✔📜 got my teeth,boobs & lipo surgeries already + get 650 a month. I only see him once a month now. I'm about ready to give him his walking paper I don't play 2nd to no newbies
Yeah getting him to do shit that he don’t even do. Thank you Shera you make it’s make sense 😫💯💯 so tired of trying. I’m never looking back again..
Sheera in 30 seconds in and loving your look😍 the shirt the hair this a yes! Happy New Year!
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shera looks so beautiful here!!
Shera you said "make them work for your number", can you list ways to do so?
Such A Natural I’d love to see a topic on this one!
Right
After he asks the first time, tell him your not sure if you should give him your number. He will then continue to convince you/ work for your number. If he is convincing give it to him with just a little noticeable reservations (even if you want his number badly, lol)
@@Jubileejones
How about... AVOID SEX JUNKIES BEGGING FOR SEX??
@@Jubileejones REALLY shouldn't want to be CONvinced about things!!
"Fuckbois" are CONvincing you they're rich by posting pics in front of other people's cars... but sure, don't blame yourself for choosing emotional losers you can manipulate.
SHERA TE AMAMOS!
This Live is a gem. She dropped so much great advice in this one broadcast. MUST WATCH!‼💯🙌🏽🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I need to get a note book ugh🤦🏾♀️
Same here 📝
Shera I'm a truck driver ... What do u have against truckesrs?? A lot of your followers aren't on your level...but a professional trucker with a good company or OWNER can change some of these women LIVES....anyway...love u ...bye
True. She means probably truck driver in bad company who doesn't earn much
@@annakarina8417 I'm rich
@@percyastronautstatus.8780 good for you! :)
Truck drivers typically are very selfish, jealous men because they feel like they give a lot of time, wear & tear on their health to make their money, so they'll never be as giving as a man that makes easy money, & it's rumored y'all sleep with prostitutes & have secret families on the side plus cheat cheat cheat, cheap cheap cheap lol
Hey boo i am here let link up
I loovvvveee this topic I’m going thru this now I thank you so much for this wisdom
Lol"Then you're a prisoner and you've been kidnapped by a broke man"😂😂😂
First two minutes in & she had clocked my tea
Hey there Shera ❤thankyou so much you are awesome your an amazing person
Thank you so much for the spiritual generosity.
💖Sprinkle sprinkle girl!💖
What does this mean?
Please & thanks
@@darrengordon-hill I think it's baby talk by some immature girls looking for a new daddy.
@alanpapashow wrongly wrong.
@@porkchopn_n2758 rightly right!
That’s not what it means to me. Wrongly wrong sir.
Thanks for everything Shera😍😍 you are so motivational 💋💝💝
I am grateful for this advice Ashera thank you so much ❤
Gorgeous as per usual 😁
Ladies, he put a $5000 down payment to my car but recently he stop giving me my allowance and paying for my car note haven’t slept with him yet. He’s been taking care of me for 2y years. Any advice
He’s done with you girl 😭 be grateful you got away with not sleeping with him for 2 years
@@Greazygrace girl he ended up spinning the block make sure to get multiple in case one wants to start acting up😭💓
I’m getting Pisces ♓️ vibes ??
Yup shes pisces♓🙌🏼
When he doesn't want to send money to your cash app. Give up on himmmm😂
Sasha is the cutest and coolest kid
u give up when its not mutual
How did you learn the whole game and how long did it take?
Do you have a video on this?
From her older sister. She mentions this often.
@@Wise2daGame
OBVIOUSLY.
Cos men don't spout such emotional claptrap!!
@@darrengordon-hill and practice... with enough time she learned how to spot a good mark and manipulate him to give his money to her
@@darrengordon-hill No. They just listen to it intently and ridicule everyone else who is listening in the process 🤦