yeah, wtf, that's some twisted rewording of "because I'd feel even more guilty" (of course not guilty enough not to do it, she'll just do it in another room instead xD) Feeling guilty for doing something bad isn't some demonstration of love and respect. It's the bare minimum expected of having any kind of conscience xD. Of course she was still a piece of shit despite this.
@@ProPuke prob some narcissistic trait (not saying she is one) or trying to explain herself away, cause she reasons she’d feel more guilt if she did that. Giving more importance to how she’ll feel and not realizing the “where” is the least of the worries for her husband.
Well she didn't do it in the marital bed, so it should be fine /s. WTF is she talking about?? "We can't meet again. Ok see you tomorrow, you can come fuck me at my house" Like an addict, always saying their next hit is their last
Her being jealous of Kate at the end is downright delusional. She cheated on her husband, and then has the audacity to be upset with him for finding someone who won’t do that to him? He lost absolutely nothing of value in this divorce.
Right.?! All the while brining an affair partner into their family home to cheat on her husband in the same sentence. I burst out laughing when I heard that. Lol. Can't love or respect him that much to cheat on him over and over again and then in their family home.
Definetily she had no serious remorse and more over she called kate a toy for henry just like henry was for her 😂😂😂... What a delusional lad she is and i dont even know who these peaple are and is this story even real but i feel genuinly happy for henry and kate 😂😂... Sophia deserve the jealousy
Don't forget "I heard he started to date my lover's ex, but I guess that doesn't matter as we live in a no-fault state." (As if she could renegotiate the terms due to infedelity) and "Poor Adam, why was Kate so cruel to him?" Denial is strong with this one.
She thought when he started being friendly with her again it was a sign they were moving toward reconciliation, but it was actually because things were going so well in his new relationship he knew being friendly wouldn’t make him feel tempted to take her back. Smart man.
and even after all those evil things she did op said the new wife is just a toy and their love isnt real. even after getting punishment op still has a dark heart. what an evil woman.
Of course she hates the new younger woman who is living in her old house and getting passive income from renting her own house while OP is working in a Donutshop lol @@runemidgard938
@@runemidgard938 Well she might be right about one thing it isn't love. Though bitch doesn't understand she also didn't love him, love disappears after 3 years max, what's left after that it's mutual respect and comfort. They to her disappointment might have a much better marriage than she thinks, those people were scared by the same tragedy, she is younger he is higher and bigger. They may start without love but they will start more soberly (yeah trauma will come into play so not so soberly but still less influenced by biochemistry than love), they will start to build up partnership and if they maintain communication which they will after visiting a therapist who will teach them how and when to communicate. In any case donut girl.....Funny how she works in a place with a hole if get it you get it.
It really is such an amazing coincidence that D-Day is always the for real "last time." Because she didn't just admit that every previous time was "the last time" at the time.
Coïncidence do happen you paranoid cynic. Take by exemple losing something. It always end up in the last place you search. It’s just coincidence don’t think too much about it
@@dumbidea1007Terrible analogy. Of course it’s going to be in the last place you look. If you found what you’re looking for, you stop searching. If you didn’t, you keep on searching. This was NOT a coincidence, and you can call me a cynic all you want. I’m a self admitted cynical misanthrope.
"I was relieved that he didn't falsely accuse Henry." Because he had no choice. There's a literal recording of the situation. Lying would only make things worse.
Imagine having so little self control that a guy approaching you twice, then kissing you and slipping you his address was enough to break your will. And the fact she still thinks there's a chance with her former husband after he impregnated another woman is beyond hilarious
She failed at her one and only job task as wife this speaks volumes on her quality as a person in general. It took her nothing to break, you read novels when people agree under so much pressure, be it through power or constant bombardment and gifts and here she a whore was ready to do it more despite seeing that not only was she ruining her life she was ready to ruin his wifes and childs life. Hope she get's what she deserved, since Adam it seems is already paying a lot unlike her.
Zero self awareness. And she's talking about how Kate is putting him up to creating distance between them, instead of, y'know... HER CHEATING IN THEIR HOUSE!!😂😂😂
@@MrMonnTM Women generally don't get treated too harshly by the courts when they cheated. Like she would have to harm the kids or him really badly or commit a fairly bad crime. Meanwhile a man that cheats is absolutely shafted by the courts. (Not that I have sympathy, I just think that it's really unfair not to also punish women cheaters) Male victims of cheating often get shafted too.
She's lucky to have a happy-ish ending working at that donut shop and that her ex-husband treated her fairly even though he didn't have to. I hope she learns her lesson.
Working at a donut shop in today's economy is absolute hell 😅 Henry's new wife is probably renting her old house for more household income. Kate have a hunk of a husband a younger body and substantial Passive income.
Judging by the way she wrote this all out. I don't think she learned anything. She sounds selfish, delusional and sometimes seems to portray it in a way like she didn't do much harm. I can tell she constantly attempts to downplay what she does and justify it. Crazy woman. Praying for her downfall.
@@gostavoadolfos2023 I think this whole cheating ordeal might have been the best thing to happen to both Kate and Henry. Not only do they get rid of their toxic and selfish spouse respectively, but they also end up in a loving situation with a loving spouse and family.
I cannot believe the constant "i am devestated this decision was made, it was totally out of my control it should never happen again" and then turns around and does it again. I have a feeling she was at no point regretful of her actions like she says.
4:51 "I would have never done anything in our marital bed, as I have too much love and respect for my husband".... LMFAO wow the lies cheaters come up with, just so readers can give them a shred of sympathy is absolutely hilarious.. Lady, if you had ANY respect or love for your husband you would've never cheated.
Few things: 1) Sophia said that Henry's new relationship is just a phase and will pass really shows how delusional she is. 2) She said if she had a job she wouldn't have cheated. Maybe, maybe not. Maybe she would have cheated sooner. 3) "Well, well, well, if it isn't the consequences of my own actions."
She could have had a happy ending by staying loyal. It's not that hard, look; Man: "Want to hook up?" Married Woman: "I'm happily married." Man: "Want to hook up?" Married Woman: "I said no." Man: "Here is my address." Married Woman: "I said NO!"
Not as delusional? She still thinks there's a chance to get Henry back even after he turned cold as ice and knocked up another woman. This woman is delusional as fuck
@@godnyx117 then you should relisten the story, yes she cheated and tried to justify it, like every other cheater, we are comparing her to other cheaters, not decent people, mate.
I just LOVE how people "just can't stop it". Lady, you're telling me I should trust you to be responsible and in control behind a wheel, possibly handling a surgery or even with my country's future when you can't be trusted to be any of these things with your own life, body and mind? You must be joking. Legitimately, if she is indeed one of those people that suffer an "ablation of judgment" when cheating, it is not a divorce lawyer that she need, it's a legal guardian. That should be the first step to accountability: if your defense is that you were not in control of yourself, we should have someone watch over you until you are, in the meantime: no voting rights. You'll see that many would stop pretending they did it unbenounced to their free will.
@@jimmygarza8896 well I'm not in the US and here a guardian is the executor of your civil rights. Therefore no vote. Regardless how you call them, my point stands
Oh the jealousy at the end. Best revenge really must be living the best life. In this case an adulterous wife, ignore her, do not rage at her for she will either get off on the drama as all women enjoy a bit of drama so do not give her the satisfaction. She can realize she had power over your heart and if you were able to drop her like she was nothing oh how makes her heart bleed and send a message to her saying she means nothing. Or perhaps she truly feels bad and believes she deserves to be harshly punished and offers outlandish things so do not yell at her, take her up on a one sided open marriage, or have some dominant revenge sex whenever you say the word, she believes she deserves it and by giving her it she believes she is paying a penance to get back in your good graces so simply walk away and protect that which is yours.
If this isn't fiction then her sister did not, in fact, give her great advice. They'd have needed to waterboard me to share this story in the way she told it.
She said that on D-Day, it would be the last day that she and Adam would meet, but frankly I highly doubt that since she even had the audacity to let Adam and Henry talk as if she hadn't happening between her and him, and she still has the courage to talk about how she respects her husband by not having sex with another guy in their bed, even though the biggest disrespect she shouldn't do (which is cheating), she still does it without problems.
Yeah, she told Adam they couldn't see each other when their affair started but every time Adam hit on her she still went with him. If her husband didn't catch them then she would go back to Adam. In her story, she refused many times but still went for it. Cheating is wrong but if she was truly sorry then she should have not gone and done it again. Cheating is not a mistake but if it were, which it's not, but if it were then the first time would be it. Again, if it were, which it's not, but if it was.
@@Nameless82284yea, i don’t get how someone is sorry and does it again. Being really sorry means understanding the full fear of her consequences, breaking up her family. Either that did nothing or she wasn’t really sorry.
@@AKANI32 It's called self pity. She felt doing something naughty, flushes you with delight, regret, disgust and pleasure. They literally get addicted to this shit, it's like taking heroin, you it's shit but damn does it make you feel good. Her partner might not be even great at sex but those feelings they compensate for anything, there are so many stories when cheaters officially start to date only to realise they fucked up, sex was worse with them, the kink disappeared and curtains fell. Mundane life set's in now you have to share burdens and problems with that "ideal" person and you realise....Shit I'm at square one what was built with previous partner all the compromises all of the resolved problems they are back, partner was ideal because they simply shared the best time together not the worst or mundane.
@@AKANI32 Even though OP was wrong, Adam was worse than her because he kept on pushing OP to have an affair with him. He should have just left her alone. Why didn't he ever use those flirting skills with his wife? He seems so upset when his wife divorces him because he "loves" his wife. If OP were a loyal wife she would have told on Adam and he would have probably lost everything that's "important" to him
It's just typical cheater nonsense. There are RARE cases when the cheating was done under odd circumstances, the cheater felt immense guilt, and either suffered silently or confessed soon after. That's rare. That's real. That's when the victim MAY consider the painful work of forgiveness. But cake eaters like this wife? No respect, no love, no drive to make the marriage work. It's DOA. Not worth a speck of effort. She mouthed the words, "anything"...but what she did was a lot of nothing. Which is what cake eaters do...nothing. They believe in nothing, fight for nothing, and care for nothing.
Apart from all this, we can clearly see that she would not stop the case unless she was caught, because she herself confirmed this by saying that D-day would be the "last day they would do this", She left it understood that it would also be the last or it would never happen and it still happened. If you watch the video again, you can clearly understand.
No respect for cheating no matter what. At best, if it was that "odd circumstances" you said, you just don't fully block them for your life and may consider keeping a "friendly" stance.
@@godnyx117 odd circumstances would be situations that altered your brain chemistry somehow. it's not an excuse because the hypothetical cheater put themselves in a risky situation, but it's not the same as blatant cheating for the sake of it. And for ninguemimortante: Yea, that's pretty obvious. This particular cheater is a basket case and lost cause.
@@Motodiver184 The only thing you can do at that point is stand you ground firmly. Just like the husband in the story did. Don't let her control you after she broke your trust. Once a cheater always a cheater and that reputation never goes away, there's nothing worth saving anymore.
I loved my husband so much I didn’t I didn’t sleep with my affair partner in my husbands bed😂. Imagine writing that with a straight face woman must be delusional
Didn't they already have the "one last time" and met up a month later.? Funny how that time would be the "real" last time. Also I laughed when she said she brought this guy to their marital house but had too much love and respect for her husband to do it in their marital bed. Like what.? Lol she thinks Henry wouldn't cut her off like that.? I bet she didn't think he'd divorce her either but he did. He isn't a simp for you honey.
Guys in long-term relationships need to understand ONE thing: You are just THERE. You might not be doing anything wrong, but the honeymoon phase is over, and your gal finds ATTENTION and VALIDATION more EXCITING when given from other men, rather than from YOU. Women give s-x as a reward for good behavior, and take it away for not-so-good behavior. You just being there isn't "bad" behavior, but isn't necessarily "good" behavior. Since the honeymoon phase is OVER, you need to really "WOW" her with something to qualify for good behavior. Compliments from YOU, such as "You look HOT in that dress", mean much LESS than the same compliment from another man. On the flip-side, you saying "That dress doesn't flatter your figure", makes her feel 100 times WORSE than if another man said it. So... you can't win. It takes something like a new car, lavish vacation, new home, or something of that magnitude to qualify as "good behavior". Otherwise, you're just being the "man" you're supposed to be to her. Sophia giving into Adam's advances are a prime example of this. Henry is her good husband, and she's happily married to her stable man. Adam, on the other hand, made her feel DESIRED. When she told him she wasn't interested in pursuing anything "more" with him, and he gave her his address... that was GOOD BEHAVIOR. He made her feel sexy and desirable. She continued REWARDING Adam for this reason until they were CAUGHT. Henry divorcing her and getting together with Adam's ex is total KARMA and justice. While Sophia thought she could salvage her marriage, she was wrong. She, the one who took her husband form granted, was replaced with another woman.
Just don’t get with superficial jackasses. Get to know people before leaping into marriage. Obviously situations like this aren’t the husbands fault but I’m fairly confident if he took off the rose tinted glasses he could have seen some warning signs early on.
And you need to understand one thing: Cut the BS redpill content because it really messes with your head. Until that, stop acting like a fucking wise philosopher because it just makes you seem ridiculous to anyone who can see through the redpill BS! Everything will be alright if you get with someone that you share common values, and you get to know them and not be with them just because they are attractive.
@@NoNo-xh7ruif we just go by the video, there aren’t a lot of “warning signs”. It’s not like she cheated with multiple guys throughout the marriage (based off the video). It’s not like she splurged on expensive things or she said she didn’t desire intimacy. We don’t know how they met so we can’t really tell if she was one of the people who chased adventurous things. So what kind of warning signs would you find?
And Kate is somehow an evil monster that put Henry to not talking to her about anything but their children. Her actions are just mistakes but people put up boundaries with her is evil and unforgivable.
The only thing I will give OP is at least they mention the understated issue that many cheaters have which is the addiction to thrill. It is not always the AP is better, it is that the AP desires them and the thrill of doing something they shouldn't is probably what made the sex extra good. Especially her saying that she secretly loved seeing Henry and Adam talking to each other at the game knowing that the secret was staring Henry right in the face and he was oblivious to it. That is why many cheaters do not stay with AP as once the thrill is gone they see that they threw away a comfortable stable life for nothing.
This doesn't mean shit after she cheats. If she had seen her HUGE personal, deep issues before and tried to change them, they would still be together and be happy. People like her make it very hard to feel any sympathy...
@@godnyx117 Definitely, my intent was not to show her any sympathy just to point that one commonly overlooked point out. What she did was shitty and only strengthens my belief that cheaters dont deserve a second chance.
I don't understand the mindset of cheaters, when they cheat they either blame their partner making excuses, or they think they can fight to win them back. but they can't win them back because they cheated on their partner, basically breaking vows for some 1 time fling.
Delulu op doesn't realise that trauma Bonding can be far more stronger than the chemical reactions and dopamine rush from so called organic " love". Trauma bonding has more trust and vulnerability involved while falling for eachother.
My favorite line is always "I'll fight tooth and nail for our relationship" you should've fought from the beginning as to not let it happen. When he kissed out out of nowhere you should've suckered punch him. And then you complain and say he'd never do that to me when your ex husband says let's talk through phones only. Of course he would you destroyed 2 people with your actions and they found solace in each other. If you didn't have kids he wouldn't even talk to you anymore. I'm sorry but you reaped what you sowed
The insecurities and narcissism these people have is mind-blowing! It's hard to not lose your trust and think that everyone is like that but NOPE!!!! I won't let them win by allowing them to put doubts in me and make me get sad and get closed to myself! Because that's how these terrible people win! By making the rest of society hate each other and be alone and miserable like them. Love and real people still exist! If you are watching this, people! Keep your hopes up! Hope dies last, as we say in Greece!
She literally said she had to much love and respect for her husband she did it in the office bed and not the main bed. This lady is goofy and dont feel sorry for her. She belongs to the street.
Funny how AP acted all hard and bad with messing with a married woman and then did a 180 and acted like a little B once he was caught by OP's husband 😂😂
I am starting to think these stories are fake of a partner in a marraige cheat the other It means that One want to end the marraige the drama to get togheter Is not believable
" I have too much love and respect for my husband" Should have told that to the guy when you two met at the coffee, as well as saying I have no feelings for you, I only agreed to coming to the coffee shop to lay it out straight, as a courtesy, that there is no recripocation in feelings, you need to not go after married women, as it will only end badly for both parties but no, she couldn't that because she never actually loved and respected her husband, any love and respect went out the window when she resorted to kissing another man.
op destroyed her husband and when he found new love she still dare to say the new wife is just his toy and their love isnt real. even after all those things she still have black heart. does op rly thinks her love is real at all, if not she wont cheat at first. its her love which is fake. she did evil act so she shoupd shut up and bear the burden of her evil acts
This woman is certified crazy for thinking that Kate is just a plaything for him and she thinks she still has a chance to reunite. I should have expected it when she said the house was her house still after the divorce. Kate probably saw how she was acting from gossip and iformed Henry about it and that plays a part in the change of communication. Leave no room for her to crawl back in. I can only hope she learns from it in the future. When she says she was sorry, she wasn't sorry for the affair, she was sorry she got caught. She may have been upset about the affair happening but if she was truly sorry, she wouldn't have let it happen again a week later or for the last time a month after that when she got caught. She should have never let him manimulate her (and yes, I believe he did manipulate her). She saw what he was doing, she could easily have said no to coffee. She could have stopped him before she even did anything. This is on her just as much as it is on him. I really wonder if Adam has done this before given how good he is at manipulating women, and if he had been caught before. He seemed like a seasoned pro getting her to stray and meanwhile Kate didn't react as a heartbroken betrayed spouse, but as one that was level headed and knew it would happen at some, point, and prepared herself for it.
In the end she is dtill delusional. She believes her ex is just playing around with the AP's ex wife as some kind of revenge and believes her ex will be back to her when he gets bored of his current partner. Ignoring the fact he does not care about the OP anymore, and that Kate and him are happy together, living on the OP's old house, and are expecting a baby. Life been trying to give her a reality check, but her head is so empty it enters trough one ear and exits from the other.
Im happily married and im not instrested, cheats, we cant do this anymore, cheats, this is the last time, cheats in house in full view of neighbors, ex husband gets into new relationship and is expecting a child, im sure this is just a phase, lol what a silly woman.
The amount of stories I’ve heard of 2 betrayed spouses hooking ip after is fairly high, it is not “true love” but I’ll bet on the fact that Henry and Kate do love each other to a certain extent, far more than the chick writing this did.
I don’t get how this precipitated so fast, maybe she should have talked more but it just seemed 0-100, one talk, one coffee, cheating… Anyways, hope she finds peace and moves on for her children’s sake. They need a healthy mom.
8:57 Lies. If he did you could keep your new boytoy around. 15:55 What do you mean one sided? You opened it up. And didn't even tell him. I sincerely doubt you didn't keep cheating.
The title alone is some form of sexual warfare. There were problems in that marriage. The husband must have been cold before. This went all way to clean.
If you cheated once you'll cheat again which means you always thought of cheating and won't change you got everything you deserve, you never loved or respected your husband becuase if you did you wouldn't have done this , play stupid games win stupid prizes
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“I couldn’t do it in our marital bed because I have too much love and respect for my husband” AINT NO WAY LADY, YOU OFF SOME KNOCKERS💀💀💀💀
yeah, wtf, that's some twisted rewording of "because I'd feel even more guilty" (of course not guilty enough not to do it, she'll just do it in another room instead xD)
Feeling guilty for doing something bad isn't some demonstration of love and respect. It's the bare minimum expected of having any kind of conscience xD. Of course she was still a piece of shit despite this.
@@ProPuke prob some narcissistic trait (not saying she is one) or trying to explain herself away, cause she reasons she’d feel more guilt if she did that.
Giving more importance to how she’ll feel and not realizing the “where” is the least of the worries for her husband.
I was looking for this comment. I laughed like crazy when this line dropped. like is she crazy or something..
Well she didn't do it in the marital bed, so it should be fine /s. WTF is she talking about??
"We can't meet again. Ok see you tomorrow, you can come fuck me at my house"
Like an addict, always saying their next hit is their last
Her being jealous of Kate at the end is downright delusional. She cheated on her husband, and then has the audacity to be upset with him for finding someone who won’t do that to him? He lost absolutely nothing of value in this divorce.
He lost some money
HAHAHAHAH TOO MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT FOR MY HUSBAND
Yeah, when she said it wasn't a happy ending I was worried, then she finished by describing the happiest ending possible given the situation.
Right.?! All the while brining an affair partner into their family home to cheat on her husband in the same sentence. I burst out laughing when I heard that. Lol. Can't love or respect him that much to cheat on him over and over again and then in their family home.
The sad thing is, she *really* believes that too.
"I still hold hope that one day, Henry and I will reunite" BAHAHAHAHAHAHA! You're hella delulu!
Definetily she had no serious remorse and more over she called kate a toy for henry just like henry was for her 😂😂😂... What a delusional lad she is and i dont even know who these peaple are and is this story even real but i feel genuinly happy for henry and kate 😂😂... Sophia deserve the jealousy
Don't forget "I heard he started to date my lover's ex, but I guess that doesn't matter as we live in a no-fault state." (As if she could renegotiate the terms due to infedelity) and "Poor Adam, why was Kate so cruel to him?"
Denial is strong with this one.
Well as the founding fathers said, delulu is the best solulu
She on some zaza off the hood
She thought when he started being friendly with her again it was a sign they were moving toward reconciliation, but it was actually because things were going so well in his new relationship he knew being friendly wouldn’t make him feel tempted to take her back. Smart man.
Yep he found a better woman.
and even after all those evil things she did op said the new wife is just a toy and their love isnt real. even after getting punishment op still has a dark heart. what an evil woman.
I wish for her downfall.@@runemidgard938
Of course she hates the new younger woman who is living in her old house and getting passive income from renting her own house while OP is working in a Donutshop lol @@runemidgard938
@@runemidgard938 Well she might be right about one thing it isn't love. Though bitch doesn't understand she also didn't love him, love disappears after 3 years max, what's left after that it's mutual respect and comfort. They to her disappointment might have a much better marriage than she thinks, those people were scared by the same tragedy, she is younger he is higher and bigger. They may start without love but they will start more soberly (yeah trauma will come into play so not so soberly but still less influenced by biochemistry than love), they will start to build up partnership and if they maintain communication which they will after visiting a therapist who will teach them how and when to communicate.
In any case donut girl.....Funny how she works in a place with a hole if get it you get it.
It really is such an amazing coincidence that D-Day is always the for real "last time." Because she didn't just admit that every previous time was "the last time" at the time.
That's exactly what I noticed, she would never stop doing this if she wasn't caught red-handed.
Coïncidence do happen you paranoid cynic.
Take by exemple losing something.
It always end up in the last place you search.
It’s just coincidence don’t think too much about it
@@dumbidea1007 there is no such thing as coincidence.. only fate. the fate we created through our past actions
@@dumbidea1007 Listen to more stories. That same "coincidence" happens in a majority of them.
@@dumbidea1007Terrible analogy. Of course it’s going to be in the last place you look. If you found what you’re looking for, you stop searching. If you didn’t, you keep on searching.
This was NOT a coincidence, and you can call me a cynic all you want. I’m a self admitted cynical misanthrope.
"I was relieved that he didn't falsely accuse Henry."
Because he had no choice. There's a literal recording of the situation. Lying would only make things worse.
Imagine having so little self control that a guy approaching you twice, then kissing you and slipping you his address was enough to break your will.
And the fact she still thinks there's a chance with her former husband after he impregnated another woman is beyond hilarious
She failed at her one and only job task as wife this speaks volumes on her quality as a person in general. It took her nothing to break, you read novels when people agree under so much pressure, be it through power or constant bombardment and gifts and here she a whore was ready to do it more despite seeing that not only was she ruining her life she was ready to ruin his wifes and childs life. Hope she get's what she deserved, since Adam it seems is already paying a lot unlike her.
Zero self awareness. And she's talking about how Kate is putting him up to creating distance between them, instead of, y'know... HER CHEATING IN THEIR HOUSE!!😂😂😂
@@avaricewildman4083 absolutely. What an idiot
@@MrMonnTM we can only hope that happens. Her behaviour is just 50 shades of stupid
@@MrMonnTM Women generally don't get treated too harshly by the courts when they cheated. Like she would have to harm the kids or him really badly or commit a fairly bad crime. Meanwhile a man that cheats is absolutely shafted by the courts. (Not that I have sympathy, I just think that it's really unfair not to also punish women cheaters) Male victims of cheating often get shafted too.
She's lucky to have a happy-ish ending working at that donut shop and that her ex-husband treated her fairly even though he didn't have to. I hope she learns her lesson.
Working at a donut shop in today's economy is absolute hell 😅 Henry's new wife is probably renting her old house for more household income. Kate have a hunk of a husband a younger body and substantial Passive income.
Judging by the way she wrote this all out. I don't think she learned anything. She sounds selfish, delusional and sometimes seems to portray it in a way like she didn't do much harm. I can tell she constantly attempts to downplay what she does and justify it. Crazy woman. Praying for her downfall.
@@gostavoadolfos2023 I think this whole cheating ordeal might have been the best thing to happen to both Kate and Henry. Not only do they get rid of their toxic and selfish spouse respectively, but they also end up in a loving situation with a loving spouse and family.
I cannot believe the constant "i am devestated this decision was made, it was totally out of my control it should never happen again" and then turns around and does it again. I have a feeling she was at no point regretful of her actions like she says.
4:51 "I would have never done anything in our marital bed, as I have too much love and respect for my husband".... LMFAO wow the lies cheaters come up with, just so readers can give them a shred of sympathy is absolutely hilarious.. Lady, if you had ANY respect or love for your husband you would've never cheated.
Few things:
1) Sophia said that Henry's new relationship is just a phase and will pass really shows how delusional she is.
2) She said if she had a job she wouldn't have cheated. Maybe, maybe not. Maybe she would have cheated sooner.
3) "Well, well, well, if it isn't the consequences of my own actions."
… if she had a job she wouldn’t have cheated…
If she was a bike or a nickel she also wouldn’t have cheated…
Shoutout to the neighbor. The real MVP.
And to the sister who fed OP the the Reddit wolves.
“Not every story has a happy ending” well this one did lol
Exactly my thoughts!
This was the happiest I heard in these stories.
She could have had a happy ending by staying loyal. It's not that hard, look;
Man: "Want to hook up?"
Married Woman: "I'm happily married."
Man: "Want to hook up?"
Married Woman: "I said no."
Man: "Here is my address."
Married Woman: "I said NO!"
@@Nameless82284 Ignoring him after the first time would have worked even better.
Insecurities are a hell of a drug!
It's gone forever.. and she deserved all the consequences
Well, at least she's not as delusional as most other cheaters. And thebhusband has balls of steel.
Pendulous balls of Steel
She did say she "couldn't help it", the staple deflection of any cheater
Not as delusional? She still thinks there's a chance to get Henry back even after he turned cold as ice and knocked up another woman.
This woman is delusional as fuck
What are you talking about? Her level of delusion and narcissism is NEXT LEVEL!
@@godnyx117 then you should relisten the story, yes she cheated and tried to justify it, like every other cheater, we are comparing her to other cheaters, not decent people, mate.
I just LOVE how people "just can't stop it". Lady, you're telling me I should trust you to be responsible and in control behind a wheel, possibly handling a surgery or even with my country's future when you can't be trusted to be any of these things with your own life, body and mind? You must be joking.
Legitimately, if she is indeed one of those people that suffer an "ablation of judgment" when cheating, it is not a divorce lawyer that she need, it's a legal guardian.
That should be the first step to accountability: if your defense is that you were not in control of yourself, we should have someone watch over you until you are, in the meantime: no voting rights.
You'll see that many would stop pretending they did it unbenounced to their free will.
She just made "a severe lapse in her judgement"😂😂😂😂 If ykyk
@@hell_of_helios " it's just a small mistake "
Guardianship does not deny the right to vote, at least in the U.S.
@@jimmygarza8896 well I'm not in the US and here a guardian is the executor of your civil rights. Therefore no vote.
Regardless how you call them, my point stands
Everybody has that one vice.
Oh the jealousy at the end. Best revenge really must be living the best life. In this case an adulterous wife, ignore her, do not rage at her for she will either get off on the drama as all women enjoy a bit of drama so do not give her the satisfaction. She can realize she had power over your heart and if you were able to drop her like she was nothing oh how makes her heart bleed and send a message to her saying she means nothing. Or perhaps she truly feels bad and believes she deserves to be harshly punished and offers outlandish things so do not yell at her, take her up on a one sided open marriage, or have some dominant revenge sex whenever you say the word, she believes she deserves it and by giving her it she believes she is paying a penance to get back in your good graces so simply walk away and protect that which is yours.
If this isn't fiction then her sister did not, in fact, give her great advice. They'd have needed to waterboard me to share this story in the way she told it.
If this was my sister I'd be doing the same. Let her get reamed out by Reddit, that's her problem.
Nah you cheated first he doing what I would have done
She said that on D-Day, it would be the last day that she and Adam would meet, but frankly I highly doubt that since she even had the audacity to let Adam and Henry talk as if she hadn't happening between her and him, and she still has the courage to talk about how she respects her husband by not having sex with another guy in their bed, even though the biggest disrespect she shouldn't do (which is cheating), she still does it without problems.
Yeah, she told Adam they couldn't see each other when their affair started but every time Adam hit on her she still went with him. If her husband didn't catch them then she would go back to Adam. In her story, she refused many times but still went for it. Cheating is wrong but if she was truly sorry then she should have not gone and done it again. Cheating is not a mistake but if it were, which it's not, but if it were then the first time would be it. Again, if it were, which it's not, but if it was.
@@Nameless82284yea, i don’t get how someone is sorry and does it again. Being really sorry means understanding the full fear of her consequences, breaking up her family. Either that did nothing or she wasn’t really sorry.
@@AKANI32 It's called self pity. She felt doing something naughty, flushes you with delight, regret, disgust and pleasure. They literally get addicted to this shit, it's like taking heroin, you it's shit but damn does it make you feel good. Her partner might not be even great at sex but those feelings they compensate for anything, there are so many stories when cheaters officially start to date only to realise they fucked up, sex was worse with them, the kink disappeared and curtains fell. Mundane life set's in now you have to share burdens and problems with that "ideal" person and you realise....Shit I'm at square one what was built with previous partner all the compromises all of the resolved problems they are back, partner was ideal because they simply shared the best time together not the worst or mundane.
@@AKANI32 Even though OP was wrong, Adam was worse than her because he kept on pushing OP to have an affair with him. He should have just left her alone. Why didn't he ever use those flirting skills with his wife? He seems so upset when his wife divorces him because he "loves" his wife. If OP were a loyal wife she would have told on Adam and he would have probably lost everything that's "important" to him
Lol... OP is a real...work of art. She long lost 'justifiable judgement' of anyone.
So is she able to tell the truth or is lying and playing the victim the only thing she can do?
Well, she cheated but "sHe'S oNLy HuMAn AfTeR aLL"
Since when have you ever known a woman to tell the truth and take responsibility for their choices?
It's just typical cheater nonsense. There are RARE cases when the cheating was done under odd circumstances, the cheater felt immense guilt, and either suffered silently or confessed soon after. That's rare. That's real. That's when the victim MAY consider the painful work of forgiveness. But cake eaters like this wife? No respect, no love, no drive to make the marriage work. It's DOA. Not worth a speck of effort. She mouthed the words, "anything"...but what she did was a lot of nothing. Which is what cake eaters do...nothing. They believe in nothing, fight for nothing, and care for nothing.
Apart from all this, we can clearly see that she would not stop the case unless she was caught, because she herself confirmed this by saying that D-day would be the "last day they would do this", She left it understood that it would also be the last or it would never happen and it still happened. If you watch the video again, you can clearly understand.
No respect for cheating no matter what. At best, if it was that "odd circumstances" you said, you just don't fully block them for your life and may consider keeping a "friendly" stance.
@@godnyx117 odd circumstances would be situations that altered your brain chemistry somehow. it's not an excuse because the hypothetical cheater put themselves in a risky situation, but it's not the same as blatant cheating for the sake of it.
And for ninguemimortante: Yea, that's pretty obvious. This particular cheater is a basket case and lost cause.
@@Niveous23 Useful info! I think, every case needs to be seen separately. But cheating (especially physical one) always results in a break-up for me.
I read only one story where the cheater was truly sorry.
"She hopes to find peace" 🤡🤡🤡🤡
The very definition of insanity
Bro, that's one of my deepest fears.
@@Motodiver184 The only thing you can do at that point is stand you ground firmly. Just like the husband in the story did. Don't let her control you after she broke your trust. Once a cheater always a cheater and that reputation never goes away, there's nothing worth saving anymore.
What's worse is that boredom and her being weak were the only reasons she cheated. All it took was for sone random mediocre man to show some interest.
Not having your affair vindicated by reddit?
I loved my husband so much I didn’t I didn’t sleep with my affair partner in my husbands bed😂. Imagine writing that with a straight face woman must be delusional
0:36 Wtf is that intro, I thought I was having a stroke.
Didn't they already have the "one last time" and met up a month later.? Funny how that time would be the "real" last time. Also I laughed when she said she brought this guy to their marital house but had too much love and respect for her husband to do it in their marital bed. Like what.?
Lol she thinks Henry wouldn't cut her off like that.? I bet she didn't think he'd divorce her either but he did. He isn't a simp for you honey.
I like good endings
Guys in long-term relationships need to understand ONE thing: You are just THERE. You might not be doing anything wrong, but the honeymoon phase is over, and your gal finds ATTENTION and VALIDATION more EXCITING when given from other men, rather than from YOU.
Women give s-x as a reward for good behavior, and take it away for not-so-good behavior. You just being there isn't "bad" behavior, but isn't necessarily "good" behavior. Since the honeymoon phase is OVER, you need to really "WOW" her with something to qualify for good behavior. Compliments from YOU, such as "You look HOT in that dress", mean much LESS than the same compliment from another man. On the flip-side, you saying "That dress doesn't flatter your figure", makes her feel 100 times WORSE than if another man said it. So... you can't win. It takes something like a new car, lavish vacation, new home, or something of that magnitude to qualify as "good behavior". Otherwise, you're just being the "man" you're supposed to be to her.
Sophia giving into Adam's advances are a prime example of this. Henry is her good husband, and she's happily married to her stable man. Adam, on the other hand, made her feel DESIRED. When she told him she wasn't interested in pursuing anything "more" with him, and he gave her his address... that was GOOD BEHAVIOR. He made her feel sexy and desirable. She continued REWARDING Adam for this reason until they were CAUGHT.
Henry divorcing her and getting together with Adam's ex is total KARMA and justice. While Sophia thought she could salvage her marriage, she was wrong. She, the one who took her husband form granted, was replaced with another woman.
Just don’t get with superficial jackasses. Get to know people before leaping into marriage. Obviously situations like this aren’t the husbands fault but I’m fairly confident if he took off the rose tinted glasses he could have seen some warning signs early on.
And you need to understand one thing: Cut the BS redpill content because it really messes with your head. Until that, stop acting like a fucking wise philosopher because it just makes you seem ridiculous to anyone who can see through the redpill BS!
Everything will be alright if you get with someone that you share common values, and you get to know them and not be with them just because they are attractive.
@@NoNo-xh7ruif we just go by the video, there aren’t a lot of “warning signs”. It’s not like she cheated with multiple guys throughout the marriage (based off the video). It’s not like she splurged on expensive things or she said she didn’t desire intimacy. We don’t know how they met so we can’t really tell if she was one of the people who chased adventurous things. So what kind of warning signs would you find?
Good for the husband. I was cheering for him the whole story ngl. Best of luck mr. Husband
Find a woman isn't afraid to hurt other people's feelings to keep yours safe
Why does she think that because Kate is significantly younger than her, that Henry won't take her seiously?
And Kate is somehow an evil monster that put Henry to not talking to her about anything but their children.
Her actions are just mistakes but people put up boundaries with her is evil and unforgivable.
Op gaslighted herself that Henry still loves her, in the same way she loved Henry as Adam was F'ing her
I love how she said "I have to much love and respect for my husband" while f*ing someone else XD.
That woman is such a delusional hypocrite
I hate the way people say they couldn’t stop. That’s bullshit
The OPs sister is an op 😂
“But I couldn’t stop it.”
You could but you didn’t want to.
i dont know if you can but if so, you should put a color on the text when you are the one talking. it ll help us understand easier some times =)
Thought this story was familiar. RoyalAI and Find Your Alpha covered it
5:57 a wise man said "a woman will protect the one she cares for."
The only thing I will give OP is at least they mention the understated issue that many cheaters have which is the addiction to thrill. It is not always the AP is better, it is that the AP desires them and the thrill of doing something they shouldn't is probably what made the sex extra good. Especially her saying that she secretly loved seeing Henry and Adam talking to each other at the game knowing that the secret was staring Henry right in the face and he was oblivious to it. That is why many cheaters do not stay with AP as once the thrill is gone they see that they threw away a comfortable stable life for nothing.
This doesn't mean shit after she cheats. If she had seen her HUGE personal, deep issues before and tried to change them, they would still be together and be happy.
People like her make it very hard to feel any sympathy...
@@godnyx117 Definitely, my intent was not to show her any sympathy just to point that one commonly overlooked point out. What she did was shitty and only strengthens my belief that cheaters dont deserve a second chance.
@@Wumbology378 Of course, my friend, it's fine. I just wanted to add that to your comment :)
So true, wish everyone could separate those emotions and actually weigh what they are risking before giving in to the thrill…
@@AKANI32 "But... but... yOu ONlY LiVe ONcE aNd I lOve ThE THriLl!"
Miley Cyrus once said:build a home together and watch it burn
Now my Dude here is getting a better women and A lot of bedtime
you have every chance to stop it
EVERY FRICKIN CHANCE
I don't understand the mindset of cheaters, when they cheat they either blame their partner making excuses, or they think they can fight to win them back. but they can't win them back because they cheated on their partner, basically breaking vows for some 1 time fling.
😅 do cheaters ever ask these questions when they fall for someone else? The delusion and entitlement is appalling.
Why would he tell her about him having a kid? (Rhetorical)
He didn't, he told his family.
No I'm saying why would he after she said he should have told her.
@@nicknitro86 Because she couldn't get over him. It wasn't her husband anymore but she still feels like he owes her something. Women ☕
Delulu op doesn't realise that trauma Bonding can be far more stronger than the chemical reactions and dopamine rush from so called organic " love". Trauma bonding has more trust and vulnerability involved while falling for eachother.
My favorite line is always "I'll fight tooth and nail for our relationship" you should've fought from the beginning as to not let it happen. When he kissed out out of nowhere you should've suckered punch him. And then you complain and say he'd never do that to me when your ex husband says let's talk through phones only. Of course he would you destroyed 2 people with your actions and they found solace in each other. If you didn't have kids he wouldn't even talk to you anymore. I'm sorry but you reaped what you sowed
Yep, as expected she turned crazy by the end
"I had too much love and respect for my husband 🤡 "
You can feel the delulu between the lines
Cheating is cheating. This is why I hate realtionships cause you know someone is going to cheat
The insecurities and narcissism these people have is mind-blowing! It's hard to not lose your trust and think that everyone is like that but NOPE!!!! I won't let them win by allowing them to put doubts in me and make me get sad and get closed to myself! Because that's how these terrible people win! By making the rest of society hate each other and be alone and miserable like them.
Love and real people still exist! If you are watching this, people! Keep your hopes up! Hope dies last, as we say in Greece!
:0 does the like button always light up when you mention it in a video?
She literally said she had to much love and respect for her husband she did it in the office bed and not the main bed. This lady is goofy and dont feel sorry for her. She belongs to the street.
I love a happy ending
Was it really worth the risk Adam 😂
At this point woman are all ribbs no BBQ Sauce 😂
Lol she sounds like a stalker lol
Ngl I didn't think I'd ever hear the other side of this story
POV: psych ward patient escapes mental hospital
I don’t know why but when I read the title the pillar men theme from Jojo started to play?
Funny how AP acted all hard and bad with messing with a married woman and then did a 180 and acted like a little B once he was caught by OP's husband 😂😂
I am starting to think these stories are fake of a partner in a marraige cheat the other It means that One want to end the marraige the drama to get togheter Is not believable
And ever has it been known that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation
Khalil Gibran
Based neighbor I would love to have one like this one
* Tums theme song * DONE DONE DONE DONE DONNNEEE
" I have too much love and respect for my husband"
Should have told that to the guy when you two met at the coffee, as well as saying I have no feelings for you, I only agreed to coming to the coffee shop to lay it out straight, as a courtesy, that there is no recripocation in feelings, you need to not go after married women, as it will only end badly for both parties but no, she couldn't that because she never actually loved and respected her husband, any love and respect went out the window when she resorted to kissing another man.
I thought the story was AI generated but AI cant be that delusional
op destroyed her husband and when he found new love she still dare to say the new wife is just his toy and their love isnt real. even after all those things she still have black heart. does op rly thinks her love is real at all, if not she wont cheat at first. its her love which is fake. she did evil act so she shoupd shut up and bear the burden of her evil acts
no matter what anyone says if they cheated on their partner they are trash agree?
She definitely got more than she should have
I am thankful I have an aversion to attention. It seems to be a heck of a drug to a lot of people!
HE WHAT HAAJAHSAHDJHDAHJHFKDHLFHSIHDFIUHEUHWHEIFKDS LMAOOOOOOOOO OMFG THAT DUDE IS A FUCKING MENACE, NO, HE IS A GENIUS! GENIUS!!!
AND THE OTHER WOMAN TOO, OMFGGGGGG BOTH ARE GODS, GODS!!!
This woman is certified crazy for thinking that Kate is just a plaything for him and she thinks she still has a chance to reunite. I should have expected it when she said the house was her house still after the divorce. Kate probably saw how she was acting from gossip and iformed Henry about it and that plays a part in the change of communication. Leave no room for her to crawl back in. I can only hope she learns from it in the future. When she says she was sorry, she wasn't sorry for the affair, she was sorry she got caught. She may have been upset about the affair happening but if she was truly sorry, she wouldn't have let it happen again a week later or for the last time a month after that when she got caught. She should have never let him manimulate her (and yes, I believe he did manipulate her). She saw what he was doing, she could easily have said no to coffee. She could have stopped him before she even did anything. This is on her just as much as it is on him. I really wonder if Adam has done this before given how good he is at manipulating women, and if he had been caught before. He seemed like a seasoned pro getting her to stray and meanwhile Kate didn't react as a heartbroken betrayed spouse, but as one that was level headed and knew it would happen at some, point, and prepared herself for it.
This one seems fake. Coincidentally the mom was there so fast?
For completeness she should marry Adam they deserve each other.. and also brought her ex hubby and Adam's ex together..
In the end she is dtill delusional. She believes her ex is just playing around with the AP's ex wife as some kind of revenge and believes her ex will be back to her when he gets bored of his current partner. Ignoring the fact he does not care about the OP anymore, and that Kate and him are happy together, living on the OP's old house, and are expecting a baby.
Life been trying to give her a reality check, but her head is so empty it enters trough one ear and exits from the other.
Im happily married and im not instrested, cheats, we cant do this anymore, cheats, this is the last time, cheats in house in full view of neighbors, ex husband gets into new relationship and is expecting a child, im sure this is just a phase, lol what a silly woman.
Not Robbing...Rubbing.
Whhhhoooooreeee!!!!
The amount of stories I’ve heard of 2 betrayed spouses hooking ip after is fairly high, it is not “true love” but I’ll bet on the fact that Henry and Kate do love each other to a certain extent, far more than the chick writing this did.
1 word:
*deserved*
The 1st one is a mistake. But the 2nd and 3rd is yours fault.
I don’t get how this precipitated so fast, maybe she should have talked more but it just seemed 0-100, one talk, one coffee, cheating…
Anyways, hope she finds peace and moves on for her children’s sake. They need a healthy mom.
Savage henery
8:57 Lies. If he did you could keep your new boytoy around.
15:55 What do you mean one sided? You opened it up. And didn't even tell him. I sincerely doubt you didn't keep cheating.
The title alone is some form of sexual warfare.
There were problems in that marriage. The husband must have been cold before. This went all way to clean.
Gift the like button a cat, ferrell? lmao
You weren't supposed to mention it was feral.
2:34 "There was no talking before or build-up. We just did it."
This I don't get. You must at least *like* someone. Is sex that meaningless??
If you cheated once you'll cheat again which means you always thought of cheating and won't change you got everything you deserve, you never loved or respected your husband becuase if you did you wouldn't have done this , play stupid games win stupid prizes
Il love karma but it is sad to see how people can take bad decision
At 00:30 when he mentions the like button, IT GLOWS?? never seen this before?
Adam sounds like a weasel
wait a minute the open marriage girl the same as the one who cheated on jim
Ripped from Royal AI I believe