OP Called Off Wedding After His Fiancée of 8 Years Cheated on Him at Her Bachelorette.
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- I am leaving my fiancé of 8 years (u/throwaway_999666222 in r/relationship_advice)
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You might want to edit this so it doesn't keep calling his "stbx" his "sister". Even though it should be evident to anyone listening, it still makes it sound weird.
literally i was listening to it without watching the video and was like,, wait what
The first time i did think it was his sister who didnt want him to see women naked but then was thinking "why didnt his sister tell him if she was there 2?"
Yeah.
Sister.
😂
Sweet Home Alabama
Sorry guys
That clapback by OP to that friend was so true. That friend will be miserable for her entire life and is not wife nor mother material
Ikr like it's always the unmarried woman who tries to tell an engaged women or married women how to keep their man yet they don't have one 🤨😒
That burn was so wicked it had a blast radius.
@@boredpersonstory553 And it's always unmarried poor men trying to tell women how to be women and degrade them to the point it's abuse.
Exactly what I wanted to say. Such a good friend, and she might be able to get the job, wife and mother, but she's proven she isn't fit to be a wife or a mother
@Littlereddevil94 you good man?
Why is it that when people want to celebrate getting married they go to a strip club? It's like a person wanting to celebrate a decade of sobriety by going to a wine tasting. OP was spot on that the "friend" was far from ready to be a mother or a wife.
To them, it's like the last time they will be "free." Personally, I think that's stupid. If they are mourning the fact that they will be tied down to someone and need to be "free" even before their very own wedding, they shouldn't even get married.
It has gotten to be a "last shot of freedom," but I do remember reading that it was actually the opposite. The idea was to see if the bride/groom would resist the temptation to enduldge, as a means to test if they are ready and able to maintain a monogamous relationship. If the best man would catch the groom copping a feel, he'd be the one telling the bride and family in the morning.
@@Maninawigyes, and anyone who suggest or pressure the bride and groom to do nasty stuff to other people should be uninvited and blocked. That was supposed to be rule to filter out the fake people around the married couple. Too bad those were the days.
@@Maninawig Wow now it sounds a lot more logical, best "people" are there for the best interests of the future families, regardless of their loyalties inform in order to safe future. Sounds amazing because nowadays it's seems like a tale for children (I mean that people had higher moral standards and done things due to them having a foresight).
I was also always baffled about strip clubs, strippers or escorts during bachelor party, "last breath of freedom" sounds like you don't need or earned the right to marry (though once again nowadays marriage is more like a slowly closing trap considering statistics and current trends).
@@MrMonnTM yeah. The odd thing for me about the "last breath of freedom," at least as it is practiced now, is that monogamy starts when you start dating, not when you get married.
Some friends aren't friends. Some relatives aren't relatives.
Wow that's a great quote I'll remember that
this story reminds me of two sayings in conflict, "how would you like to be judged on the worst thing you ever did in your entire life and for it to be all anyone saw when they looked at you"
"Who are you to cry after destroying a life and cutting forever short"
If she felt so bad about it, regardless of her telling or not, why would she still be friends with her and go on a weekend trip with her? Only at that trip where he left did she go no contact with her...
My SIL was bisexual at one point before going fully lesbian. She married my friend’s brother in order to con him out of a kid and child support which none of us knew that was her plan. But it clearly was because after she got pregnant she immediately stopped sleeping with him and filed for divorce. They weren’t having problems so it came out of nowhere. She decided to do this, turns out, because of her old school catholic Sicilian father who had no idea she was gay. She wanted a kid and she wanted money to raise it, hence the quickie wedding and pregnancy to someone that she didn’t really love. It would pacify her father. So she drug us all to a strip club for her bachelorette party where men were stripping and dancing. Any time that a man approached me I quickly put my back to him and wouldn’t make eye contact because I genuinely love my husband. I had no intention of dishonoring him. His sister wouldn’t have cared because she dislikes him anyway. It was clear who the girls were who didn’t love their husbands very quickly. Only two of us refused to interact with the dancers and of all the women there-we are the only two still married to our husbands. The others accepted kisses, being touched and groped, grinding on the men, one was laid out on the dance floor being faux humped by a dancer etc. Some disappeared for way too long into bathrooms and we could guess what was going on in there. The other women also discussed dong sizes, the attractiveness of the men etc. Those women are all divorced. I heard one ran off and left her kids with her husband and skipped town with a new partner. No one ever saw her here again. So yes-the stories are true. It’s not just the men who cheat with strippers at bachelor/bachelorette parties.
You are one of the good ones.
Thank you for this reply. Too many people think only the men act a fool at pre-wedding stag and hen parties.
its MOSTLY women who cheat at bachelorettes. just due to Male strippers being encouraged and female strippers dont generally want to have sex with average male clients. i would say 70/30 women cheat more at these parties
@@victoriamiranda-stotelmyre4382 who the HELL thinks that? its obvious based on male and female sexual behavior that women have a WAY higher chance of cheating at these parties.
I had to skip a lot of it so I maybe missed some stuff (sorry) but that’s marriage by fraud and she can’t be called human! 😡
She’s, how do the French say, Le Garbahge! 😩
Usually I am all for the "leave em to burn if they cheat" but honestly this is one of VERY few stories where I wanted them to work through it and get back together.
I'm glad I'm not the only one that felt that way
Why
Yeah I'm pretty much a one and done, no questions asked, when it comes to cheating. But the way she's responded, handled the blowback, stood up for him, didn't make excuses, didn't minimize, didn't blame shift etc etc. This is one rare instance where I wouldn't totally hate the guy if he decides to give her another chance. Not sure if I would, but I'm not mad at the guy
Last 3 minutes made me sick to my stomach
I agree. I am firm believer of leave the cheater, but you can tell that this girl really loved him and would have never made the same mistake again.
How did the STBX stay friends with someone so vile? It's not like bigots hide their hatred for people who are even slightly outside of the stereotypical norms very well, and she even invited the "friend" to a Bachelorette party.
Letting someone with malicious intent peer pressure you THAT easily into cheating says a lot about the lack of a spine the STBX had.
At least she learnt the lesson and ended up cutting those hateful people out when they slapped her in the face with their hateful rhetoric.
I have met such women 1. She could have gotten jealous when they got engaged (why is she marrying and not me?) or 2. More seen in women, what she used was a skill often developed for community living (eg. you might hate Stacey's lawn Flamingos and talk about it behind her back, but never to her face as that would start a neighborhood war). STBX is fiercely protective of OP's looks, so befriending her requires you to be friendly to him.
Well he's marrying his sister did you actually expect someone who commits incest to actually be normal?
I think it was sweet that this guy was best friends with and engaged to his sister. So sad it didn’t work out. Also lol for real that his friend made him complete the “project” while his wife was waiting in the kitchen sobbing the whole time and he knew his buddy was about to find out his sister/gf is a cheater. Amazing.
I will say that I am 30 minutes in and I cannot recall one cheating ex who has shown such genuine remorse as this one did. For once I can't simply chalk it up to simple regret at getting caught.
Then you haven’t seen the full extent of wmns acting skill 😂
Honestly same, like I (f) have been cheated on before and I could never imagine forgiving that person. I have (according to my therapist) and abnormally high level of contempt towards cheaters even if I don't know them. I was about to cry throughout this story because its such a shitty situation and you can tell that she is in such genuine pain over her decision and I feel horrible for OP but damn. Just damn
Regret doesn't undo the past any more it can revive the dead.
@@nulllex0099 my comment was based on the saying "you regret getting caught, but you have no remorse."
While it us true that it cannot undo the past, remorse (not regret) is the only thing that can help us prevent the events from repeating, as it requires you to take all the steps needed to grow beyond whatever let you fall. In other words, regret is making the excuse that "it was only one tjne and I was drunk" while remorse is accepting the partner's request to break up, working on yourself, and even 10, 20 years later never drinking a drop of alcohol so that a night like that never has a chance to repeat itself.
Like I said, finding a cheating ex in these stories with regret is a penny a dozen, but finding someone who actually has genuine remorse is a unicorn.
@@Dragonkin-ul6hfare you single by any chance
Alice with that straight up fuckin' power move.
Alice wants, Alice gets, go Alice.
She pulled The Naked Man
we all need Alices from time to time in our lives
Works 2 out of 3 times, guaranteed!
Came for the story, stayed for the gameplay.
SAME 😭😭😭 sometimes i get so distracted by the gameplay I don’t even hear the story and have to back up to the last thing I remember retaining.
The way he kept rebuilding the same thing over and over kinda made me irrationally angry,
It´s crazy how strong but sensitive he is. I hope he will be happy!
a dude that does makeup and nail polish. what did you expect. thats basically why he got cheated on
@@zzrroott6459🤡
@@zzrroott6459 lol.... so true. He deserved it...
Well yes the one friend who wanted to go to the strip club certainly did ruin a perfect relationship not just OP's ex.
That one friend who was so keen to go to the strip club did want you two to end.
Yes some people do have malicious intent and I guarantee you the one friend who was so adament in going to the strip club fits the malicious intent.
Her friend is the kind of person who would rather burn the lives of those around her to the ground if only to make them as miserable as her.
It doesn't excuse OP's soon to be ex in anyway but that friend is toxic af.
Even though I abhor cheating and don't allow traitors in my family, I can recognize a situation where forgiveness and second chances are warranted. I heard this entire story play out on the video and couldn't really find it in myself to be angry with OP's fiance. Her friends, most definitely, but not her or the friend's wife.
Big difference between her and friend's wife. He was never mad at his friend's wife either. She did what she needed to do to protect her relationship, and she was honest. Can't say either of those things are true for the fiancee. As is common for most folks who are empathetic and imagine the waterworks, I think you might be confusing sorrow at what she did with sorrow for the consequences she suffered. It was all navel gazing.
At no point in this entire saga did she ever mention how she understood how what she did would hurt him, or how it would make him feel. No mea culpa about her blatant hypocrisy, given that she was the one who said "no strippers". It was only ever about "getting back to the way we were" or "I ruined a good thing", meaning, what the relationship meant to her. She wasn't mean, heartless, or in a complete fog the way some other cheaters are. However that doesn't change the fact that she was still only thinking about herself.
The one thing she did right was to cut the bad influences off from her life. But we have no way of knowing if that lasted, or if she was able to get far enough to realize that she was culpable for her own actions and needed to change whether or not he would take her back. That will be key, because she needs to develop better boundaries with her friends, better insistence on standing on principles, and to step outside of herself when she screws up to identify precisely the impact she has. Without those, this will only fail again.
Don't you mean like 20th chance?
She cheated. Had she came clean right away it would have been a 2nd chance. She didn't. She lied by omission every day. Every day was just like she cheated again.
So no, this isn't a second chance situation.
Same tbh. I feel bad for her. OP is within his right of course but damn, this was unfortunate 😕
@@AlyssaAllen.a I don't think "unfortunate" is quite the right word to describe it. Tragic, maybe. Fortune implies chance, unforeseen events, or some lack of control over the outcome. She did this to herself and was entirely responsible for the inevitable outcome.
@@smallpseudonym2844 I can agree with that
OMG YAY!!! It genuinely sounded like a horrible mistake for me the fact that they might get back together makes me incredibly happy 😭
I absolutely hate when op takes a cheater back on probably fake reddit stories, but rare occurrence where I actually hope they work out
Honestly, yeah. Usually I'm extremely prejudiced against cheaters, but in this situation - maybe it's OPs writing style - I hope they work it out. Everyone in their immediate family seems to be hoping for it. Not to mention, OPs fiance was pretty quick to call out her "friend" when it came out. The biggest issue I took out of it was the fact she refused to tell OP.
bro this is a story. Not real. Its almost like a journal
@@zzrroott6459 Welcome to the internet, where everyone treats a chat room or any social platform they can as their own diary that could be seen by 4 people or thousands.
Spoiler but thank you for saving me the trouble lol
Well, I would say OP deserves better, but he took her back. So when this goes to shit he can only blame himself.
Mate you are better than me.
I could never trust a cheater.
Im glad with how this came out. Hes a very mature and secure man. Anyone could make a mistake like that, not that its excusable, but with a group of intoxicated friends intentionally egging you on for something they know will be bad for you, it is an incredibly difficult position. I think it was good they had some time apart
Mistake?
Lowkey this was such a wholesome story 🤧 I'm glad there seems to be a happy ending!
Ngl, I hate that OP had to show all that emotional maturity but I actually like how this ended. It might not work out but you don't have to leave each other totally destroyed.
When I get married my bachelorette party has been planned out: get breakfast, smoke weed, play Minecraft, eat pizza and then watch horror movies until I fall asleep. That’s it
The AI smells great in this one
😅
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@@Jay-mj3lz I think he meant to say spells 😂
My only advice would be this: break off the engagement, and if you believe that she does love you and shows an appropriate level of contrition, take her back on the condition that you have to start completely over. You’re back to just dating, and hopefully in a year or two you can wear the engagement rings again.
I've heard this before, and the previous was more detailed and led me to believe it wasn't just the known hater friend who set them up to break up. The 'friend' with the proof is suspicious cuz while she said she was "covering herself" she could've taken those before or after partaking in those activities herself and lied about it. Especially since the main heat would be on OP and his (ex) fiance, instead of her outside of her, have ready proof. And if she was such good friends, and knew like OP the ex didn't normally get down like that, she could've easily talked her out of it or made warrent to LEAVE or the friend could've went home all together if she was so uncomfortable but stuck around long enough to get incriminating photos for something that "would've came out eventually" but only did because SHE talked first and foremost? Otherwise, even the hater wouldn't have said anything either and been cut off eventually🤷🏽♀️ I suspect foul play (hell, even a drink spiking to boot) and not just from one person. The Ex should've came clean immediately, but even I see how something like THAT isn't an easy type of cheating to bring up.
Well there was probably time stamps, her husband wondering why she got home early from the trip, others confirming etc
Idk, I think she's smart for that. You never know who will lie and who will burn everything to the ground for the sake of it or revenge. Plus it helps him know for sure.
She might also just have had a strong moral compass.
Love these long stories with a beginning, middle and best of all, an end ! Thank you
Normally I say not to get back with cheater but man, for this guys sake I really hope it works out.
There's a more detailed account on this, and I really think they were set up, and not just by the hater friend. Half of it isn't adding up right, and not just from the former fiancé not coming clean immediately. That 'friend' who just happened to have 'evidence' at the ready, but not the hater herself and the one who ultimately told, doesn't sit right with me. I hope they take time to figure themselves out and get therapy and maybe work on things, but it's clearly other parties at play in this than the standard 'cheating spouse' scenario
Just because you are friends with someone does not mean you condone their behavior 100% She could have been friends, and still decided cheating was wrong.@@CG-yb6zj
OP said he had no spine in a high school,
but he still lacks confidence and options besides his cheating ex.
It took him days to confront her while kissing her everyday, and when he finally did,
he was super drunk and now regrets it saying to others to apologize LOL.
He's worried about people's opinions regarding his appearance and feels insecure compared to her exes.
I mean at least he got a job.
The only person who is chad here - Alice. She wanted to fuck, she got it and moved on
Ops ex talking about she can forgive him if he cheated and told her but she didnt give him that same grace like wtf
I want to call this dude a fucking sucker ,but honestly this is the first time I’ve been conflicted about getting back with a cheater.
If all it took was alcohol, high fives and peer pressure…
This wasn’t the first time buddy.
And if it was, it won't be the last.
So who was his wife here 🤔
His stbx.
His sister.
Her sister.
His old school friend.
Merry poppins. 😂
Being drunk is not an excuse. Cheating is cheating. OP should not go back to the cheater. He should have stayed with Alice.
Taking back a cheater is so stupid
I dont comment often, but man i am glad that he is still trying, despite what she did she still showed a lot of integrity and honesty not lying or letting people talk bad about him. She actually owned up to what she did and it clearly showed she loved him... But as the father said in the end he is a better man than me. I dont know if id have the strength.
5:18 "i havent shown my sister any affection or had sex with her". ????? did i miss something
Literally paused the video to find this comment. 💀
Sry guys it should be stbx😓
What is wrong with not having S with your sister?
The ai translator fed up 😅
She couldnt have felt that guilty since she only ended her toxic friendship after she faced consequences. She even planned on spending a weekend with her after the cheating...
Wow, imagine OP was caught cheating and lied.Oh look it's different when the fiance does it
I fucking hate cheaters but I do hope it works out 😭
I live it, when a girl cheats reddit comes to her defense and say it's a mistake, but when a man cheats he's a dirty cheater.... hypocrisy
This dude sounds like he needs more protein in his diet. It was like listening to a teenage girl
Sister!? "SWEET HOME ALABAMA!"
how come he did not hear that the wife was refusing to go to the strip club the friend got her drunk and the friend is the one who shouted she wants a night of fun
I’d probably end up in the same boat. No matter how bad it would get, she’s not someone I can leave, and nothing could compare to how I feel for her. I get it
This is why you don't trust your friends coz most of the time they gave stupid ideas and at the heat of the moment it sounds nice....but i salute this brother you are a real man.,just be yourself and never let anyone affect you.,who cares about others opinions.,just listen to your heart brother...
The latest updates somehow makes me happy. Seeing coupples that have know eachother their whole lifes walking apart always breaks my little heart.
Lol some of the replies were accusing him of hating women??
Wtf, so women should just be able to do anything they please without consequence?
5:17 ummm WHAT??!!
Sry that was stbx😬
You heard the OP, he's withholding the luving from his sister 🤣🤣🤣
Honestly I'm never prone to suggest to reconcile, tho this time it felt as if anybody in the story knew they were meant together, and I felt the same right from the start
Good ending
This guy has every right to be pissed, but man that phone call was cringe. Insecurities for days.
Baby no time was wasted we proud of the reconciliation this was really beautiful🤟🏾🤟🏾🤟🏾
Of all the cheating stories I've heard, this is the only one that didn't make me feel vindicated or angry. It just felt... sad, as if to lovers really did lose everything in their hearts because of a bad choice. Sad shit, man...
Absolute bs did she either not remember or only realise after 😂
"Got caught up in the moment" 😂
I have been drunk and i have been DRUNK DRUNK... none of those occasions made me not know what i was doing.
If i go far enough, i won't be capable of even doing anything to anyone.
She knew whay she was doing, drink is good proofing water... what she did is what she wanted to do, she just wouldnt do it sober or she would be more careful about it.
Like not doing it in a room full of people some of whom she doesnt know 😂
Even if she told you right away it is the same situation.
If you think it, want it, do it, you are done.
And if anyone says shiz look at what he did, play videosgames and drink.
She went way overboard.
Almost as if she thought that was her last chance to do it with another before she got married 🤔
Am I mistaken, or do they never address why she did it, aside from "I was drunk?" I dont understand how people can throw away so much history over something so meaningless.
Is the OP calling her sister or am I hearing wrong?
That might be stbx
The ai misread it due to sloppiness
some random thing am saying mainly a guess if you cheated on your bf or husband and it an actual mistake like you were actually drunk idk any other mistake admit it like right when you get back since that will show you actually did regret your action and it increased the chance of your partner realizing it a mistake and then just pray he does not take this as an ok sign to cheat
Anyone who gives advice like 'you can salvage it' isn't someone who you should listen to 😂
Don't ever take that advise, cut your losses and run or it will bite you again. It may be years, months, weeks, days somtimes even hours but as soon as you take back a cheater you are cheating yourself.
They will do it again.
Anyone who has been cheated on knows, most mentally stable people know that after the act it is over, no talk, no reasoning, no excuses, no reconciliation.
Over and done and that is about as fair as you can get for the wronged spouse.
It sounds like she was a decent partner, it was her friend that led her. I think he made a mistake
Ok. For as much as I absolutely HATE cheaters, I could see the wayward fiancee getting an extra dosage of shrooms from the "friend".
I still wouldn't have gotten back with her, though. She still kept a relationship with the "friend" afterwards, and she would have never told OP.
That's still a reason for never trusting her again.
"I haven't shown my sister any affection of had sex with her"... Ok, I know it is a typo and sister equals STBX here, but really? It sounds so bad. You better had no sex with your sister!
If I deleted "to clarify" from OP's vocabulary this story would be 10min long.
Last few comments sound cynical but i stand by them...
Dont give a f what she did after, what she did was enough...
Stay safe fellas 👌
Im so proud of OP in this, drinking and MJ never good mix, but either way. Her ex-friend was hella manipulative and pushy. Im so glad his "ex" and him were able to see if they can start again
I always find it funny when cheaters try to bargain with their partner by saying they will allow their partner to sleep with another person. Like, dude, the reason they are so mad at you is because they don’t want to sleep with anyone else and feel betrayed because you did. You’re missing the entire point!
Desperation to feel equal is a problem. They know they have fallen down to a level they can't recover from, but if you do the same then maybe it can work out.
I knew he would fold. He just comes across as a weak person
It wasn't the first time and wouldn't have been the last guaranteed.
You can tell that he was bullied because of how he responded to everything.
Pray that wisdom parvails and that it works for you. Good fortune to both of you.
27:11 How is any of that him being insecure? She cheated, never told him while he had to watch it happen via a video. That's called knowing your worth and gladly would say the same in the reverse if that happened. She didn't value him enough to talk about it, let alone the elephant in the room of doing it at all, so he found out third party with graphic detail.
Op I'm so proud of you and wish you the best
It's sad that it took all this for OP's girl to realize the toxic people in her life but I'm glad she managed to cut them out. There are people who just can't accept any values but their own. It's horrible that her 'friend' orchestrated this all because she didn't think OP was 'manly' or some nonsense. Masculinity is subjective and what matters more is being secure in who you are and what you want in life. Thankfully OP's girl is young and will hopefully find better, real, friends in the future (anyone who tried to sabotage your happiness is not your friend). I hope OP keeps his confidence up and is happy and healthy. If they both work together, as she truly seems to have remorse for her actions, they can build something stronger and better than what they had before.
One of the few cheating stories where I'm glad they're working it out. Mostly because it doesn't seem like a lack of respect, which is the main reason I wouldn't trust a cheater. In fact, it sounds like she's one of the few people around him that actually does genuinely respect him. But maybe I'm just a romantic, who knows?
I just want to say this rn. If any of your ex's had issues with your friend of the opposite sex, and later on you sleep with them imo you've essentially proven them right. If friends is all it was, even single, nothing would happen. Its entirely possible to have a friend of the opposite sex, but I draw the line at "they were probably just insecure about our friendship" and "we finally admitted we always had feelings for each other". Those statements don't both exist in the same reality
tbh from the way this story was going, i don’t feel too angry about him restarting as friends with her
i actually hope they manage to find the way to get it work again... and i usually i'm a very strong proponent of "once a cheater always a cheater"
I’m surprisingly pleased with the ending
Like the dude said, it wasn't just a mistake, she lied and covered it up. Also not finished, but hope he tells her what her friend said. Friend ruined his relationship, ruin theirs
Seems like the general sentiment for these stories is to split and leave the other person and start again… it prbly is a good call, but this story had me really pulling for both of them… wish there was a 2 year later update
You gotta fix the "sister" thing, kept throwing me off.
Being drunk is not an excuse. You can easily avoid these potential cheating scenarios. Cheating is a choice, even if drunk. She was not forced by anyone to go to the club, nor was she forced to give a bj to a stranger INFRONT of prople
SMH. OP is a lost cause at this point.
Even if she was drunk. So f****** what!! That gives no one a license to cheat. She still did it, I don't care what a person says.
This is the problem with people. They are always trying to use those types of situations. Being drugged, being high, whatever as an excuse to do certain things.
Well those things have to get in your system some way. That means that she asked for a glass of wine or alcohol and she continually consumed them knowing that she couldn't hold her liquor, if that's the angle that you all are going for.
So it doesn't matter if she was or wasn't drunk the point is she has no impulse control and that even if it wasn't this situation and she was home safe for drinking and they had friends over.
Would she have screwed one of the friends? I mean this is the stuff you have to think about. It has nothing to do with alcohol She was the one that consumed it. Alcohol is stationary it doesn't get up and jump in your mouth, it doesn't get up and jump in your body that's something that you have to consume yourself..
I mean if you're tryna marry your "sister" did you really expect anything else? What country was this in that marrying your sibling is encouraged?????
Am curious about the head game of his fiancee😂
What's wrong with him wearing nail polish I've seen guys wear it and they are married to woman
It really said " i I haven't been affectionate or had sex with my sister "...
Cheating is never acceptable, and, if you somehow consider "working that on" after, then sorry mate, you bring all that torment upon yourself. He was hurt and still in love with her, but you can't go back from that, so it is mind boggling for me that the cheating for him is forgivable, only the lying that was the no turning back LOOL.. You can forgive that person, but only that after you ended all and you moved on, because carrying that hurt and anger isnt good so is good to let go after the worst has passed and you got through all the process of grief. But forgiveness doesn't mean accept or wanting that person back.
That being said, as a goth and Visual Kei adept, I relate to the guy. But I have never been insecure about it. Being alt and androginous is cool as hell. And, for the right girls, it is sexy asf. It is a nieche thing and every normie will find it weird bc those ppl judge anything that does not belong to their bubble of "normality".
Stay hydrated op
Wait, @33:55 he says no one from the job was invited so people dont know hes engaged. But just before that, he said this woman he never met before mentioned not going to dinner because his fiance would be mad. Then they say she knew about the fiance because you told her but then you tell her again about your whole situation at dinner? The inconsistency in this short part makes this feel like fiction
I'm not sure what happened in the middle of this Post, but why did it start saying his sister and not his fiancé? That's kinda weird l o l
I am surprised you didn't get the appology.
"Blown it off"... I see what you did there.
5:16 sister??
Sister?
It was supposed to be stbx
This was a clusterfuck
So you wear long hair, makeup and paint your nails and your chick cheated on you...😅😂
5:19 Yo WTF?!
Not the happiest ending but a good one nonetheless