Maybe some of them are paid by her team to make her a Good image all her freind Became hailey freind and said piglena was talking abt hailey all the time
Don’t get me started on the fact that she’s rumored to have struggled with alcohol and drugs. Also has gone to rehab and all of it has been hidden from the public.
in my opinion... the way the documentary is filmed/ edited is definitely for PR purposes, trying to make her look like a very innocent victim. not saying anything. I don't know her. but neither do these fans that think they know her. it's her JOB to maintain a persona and to be liked. and I think that a LOT of these Hollywood/ music industry people are not what they seem to be....just something to keep in mind before you stan someone lol
This is so true but also the actions count more than words so that’s what I look for but yes I will never know for certain what is true and what is not.
@@perrofalderodeisabel There are plenty of covert narcissists that do good deeds publicly. It's hard to tell if those actions have genuine, selfless intentions. Really hard to spot them.
Like do they think someone w such a strong PR time like her wouldn’t curate the documentary scenes purposely??? Every celebrity doc does this, but it’s crazy they would assume somehow Selena’s doc is an accurate portrayal. Most celeb docs are for fans to feel closer to them and to get new ppl interested in the celeb. This wasn’t meant to be an honest portray but a “Selena is a person too guys😢 not just the 1%” but like… we knew that… i just don’t think she’s a good one 😅
When Jelena breaks up she also dates with someone else, she acted like Justin is the only evil. Justin also has physical and emotional diseases, but he didn’t use them to play victim and blame on her years by years. Marrying Hailey definitely the best thing he has ever done, she healed him and effected him into a healthier lifestyle
@@SANA-j9h who's asking her to wait for him? At this point it'd be a miracle for jb and hailey if selena actually managed to move on from justin ... She's still salty asf about jb when he's been married for half a decade
Estilo mas saludable?? Hahaha los videos de su aspecto y otros hablan.Eligio un probable matrimonio arreglado por su papa de Hayley, poderosos de la industria😂
I thought it was odd that she kept saying she didn't want to be a "Disney kid" anymore because I honestly haven't associated her with her Disney past in... years. Maybe I'm off with her overall perception but I definitely don't see her like that. I really do see her as a pop star and very much an adult.
Disney has an ironclad will, control over all their starlets. Even if their contract has expired. It’s literally mk ultra’d into them from toddlerhood.
It’s really just her in her head. Ppl are mad at how Raquel called her out but I honestly didn’t see anything wrong with it. I could see how Raquel couldn’t find the words to even ask her if she was ok without being scared of Selena getting mad. I love Selena, but we have to remember she is bipolar and she is struggling. 😭
Francia unfollowed her and commented under a post where Selena says Taylor is her only real industry friend... so there's definitely drama there. I'm thinking about making a video
@baque ive seen so many comments about this and the fans keep saying selena meant the music industry yall keep trying to make excuses for her whether its music, acting, modeling Its Still THE ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY she said what she ppl
Uhhhh no wat. As a person in AA with 6 years clean, I have known a ton of addicts in recovery. A large majority of the people with over a year clean that I've known for 5+ years have always been really kind, caring, and honest friends. Even the addicts who I consider some of my "best friends", they're some of the best people I have ever me, and I have literally been best friends with these people for like half a decade. Generalizing like that just hurts everyone in the end, because every person is different. Just because they can all be grouped under the same label doesn't mean that they are all 1:1 carbon copies you know?
@@mistypedhi exactly and did you see her giving Taylor the side eye at the awards ceremony when she was giving her speech?? She was just mad cause Taylor was living her best life and wasn’t up her ass all night
Not all addicts are emotionally manipulative, some aren't even an addict but too manipulative. I think it's more like if you have victim mentality and not accountable then more like this.
As I watched it It seemed that a lot of tears were caused by the lack of confidence. It started with her crying in the rehearsal of the tour, but she was there approx. 5 years yonger than she is now. As she was fighting with Rachel a lot of her questions are again triggered by the lack of confidence and fear (being seen as difficult or be judged).
People don’t randomly cut off there parents. I’m thinking it was a mix of things including her immediate family. But she probably didn’t want her fans to see that side for a reason maybe yo not make her family look bad. She has been very silent for many reasons maybe one of them is to not destroy other peoples image including her ex and his hoes ( not bashing Hayley lol I love her) and her mother etc. She has a younger sister to think about so maybe she hides it so her younger sister does not find out. Who knows
This documentary actually made me dislike Selena. (She was my fave Disney star when I was a kid) You can tell she has a lot of “Yes” people around her. The way she lashes out on Raquelle and turns an innocent question into a personal attack is one example. As sensitive as I am I didn’t see any sly tones from Raquelle imho. & When she’s in Africa, and the school girls spoke about their educational improvements, Selena goes and asks them “Do you believe in Love?” 😅 My goodness. Also there was no mention of her friend that gave her a kidney transplant? 🧐 I also just couldn’t empathize with her crying… a lot of the things she cried about were kind of bratty and petty. Her balking out crying about Justin and being linked to him was a bit silly to me. I’m 4 years younger than her and myself + including all my guy friends that had a crush on her knew her from Disney.. Not Justin
What’s sad is you deciding if someone’s emotions are valid or not. Her crying over these things is not “silly” they are real to her. I can only imagine you were told growing up that what you were crying about was “silly” and that’s why you are so above and beyond these kinds of thoughts and feelings. As for your bipolar “sibling” who even says sibling? If you’re close you normally call them brother or sister.. you must not be close to them and for good reason.. emotions are normal and for her to be able to cry if she needs to is so much better than suppressing her emotions and then blowing up one day worse than she has. I can also only imagine your bipolar “sibling” is not very fond of you.
@@ingridkincaid1187 You right. I’m not choosing to validate her feelings based on what I saw and that’s because she came off ungrateful and whiney to me. My opinion.. It can sound insensitive - but as much as I liked Selena, her problems just seemed much ‘first world’ - I’m pretty much tired of these celebrities staying in the limelight to support their lifestyle then complaining about it. Idk if it’s their contract or that being famous from an early age pressures you to stay relevant, or the money… so you just can’t go get a normal job? Whatever it is, fame is just f’d up and makes fools out of these humans at the end of the day. They’re never happy at the end of the day it seems like
@@nicpix187 it might seem very cut and dry for us .. but she has been in the business since she was a kid.. 7 I think is when she started .. for her to get a “normal job” your basing a lot on your own ideas of life and the world and maybe she is just not there yet. It’s just not nice to judge that kind of stuff. I won’t say anything else on the subject. She seems like a really sweet and genuine person and people are just disingenuous her for no reason. It was really aggravating me but whatever I’m over it. People will find reasons to be assholes even to the sweetest of people sometimes just because
@@ingridkincaid1187 Aside from my opinion. This docu taught me a few things. 1. Selena is far from reality 2. her fans will always look at her in a positive light. 3. She’s just like every child star, with no real direction 4. Her PR team is amazing
@@nicpix187 to each their own I guess.. I wasn’t ever a fan of hers. I don’t listen to that kind of music. But randomly I watch documentaries and she is still just trying to figure life out.. I’m pretty sure everyone is even in their 40’s and 50’s nobody is perfect. But she seems like a genuinely kind person. Did you know the whole Brian isn’t even done developing until your in your mid 20’s? And also depending on the people who raised you and their behaviors determines a lot on how your brain develops as well as what you put in your body. Like alcohol is terrible. But anyway.. it takes a lot more work to reverse damage and to get your life in a new direction. It’s not so cut and dry as … well if you want ti be this then BE THIS.. it doesn’t work quite that way.. I thought her “friends” kind of sucked honestly. They’re encouraging her to stay for her fans and work even when she was feeling like she didn’t want to do it anymore. It’s just strange. Sometimes we are around the wrong people. But anyway.. people will always find a way to judge even the coolest and sweetest or most kind person.. say they are “fake” or doing it for anterior motives.. not even Selena related.. just talking about other people. So yeah. Fuck what other people think of you in the end❤️❤️ and yeah she’s pretty awesome from what i saw😌
I have been best friends with extremely toxic and manipulative women. (we are no longer friends) I don't know Selena personally, but from watching clips of her over the years.... all I can say is when you've been through hell with someone toxic, you can recognize thier personality traits in a stranger.
Watch the documentry she was going through physcatric breakdown this was all effect of it,this person exposing selena gomez basically also played big part in spreading rumour about her ,after revival tour she entered rehab cuz of her health all she was showing the symptoms of mental disorder which she diagnosed after so long (bipolar) ,just keep urself in her shoes
Selena is a far cry from being narcissistic. She’s donated millions to mental health with Rare Beauty. She made this documentary to let others know they’re not alone in their struggles.
although i haven’t seen the documentary, i think selena just isn’t ready to open up and acknowledge her demons. she isn’t ready to take responsibility and hold herself accountable, and she might never b ready. deep down she knows that if she dives deep, it could potentially taint her image and it could prove everyone else right. she’s scared of the outcome, instead, she prefers to engage in behavior that inflates her ego bc of how nasty she feels inside. also probably why the documentary was superficial/surface level. it doesn’t help that she has a bunch of “yes” people around her that r afraid to tell her the truth and hold her accountable. probably has something to do w her relationship w her parents too.
I agree and what is said if she is not honest with her self she will truly never grow or be happy. She will continue to play the victim and stay miserable her entire life. I feel like she’s just waiting for Hailey and Justin to divorce so she can run back to him but I don’t think they will be separating any time soon….
finally someone who share the same idea. sel is the type of girl who i have to be super careful selecting my words cuz she is overly sensitive and easily get irritated
Same. I can’t stand how people are pretending they can’t see how selena acts like an entitled brat. Or if they rlly don’t see it, I pity the people around them. I wouldn’t be able to be around selena at all, everything is about her and she’s constantly snapping at people
@@harimamomin5517 it’s been a decade since they properly dated. Btw: i wouldn’t consider the thing they had in 2018 as an actually relationship. They kept getting back together and breaking up and before that they dated different people
she is addicted to being in the victim role. and she also still seems upset with justin but as it would be bad for her image to quote him directly she prefers to fight with the wife who is the weakest link. idk i just get these vibes from her i don't like women who fight other women over a man
I feel so sorry for Raquelle, dealing with Selena's antics on a daily. I'm 100% certain Raquelle gets paid to be Selena's support buddy, otherwise I wouldn't see her being 'friends' with Selena for long. I remember Raquelle really friendly with Hailey too, I find the dynamic between her and Hailey and her and Selena interesting
There are thousands if not millions of people in the world who struggle with depression and severe anxiety and our living in poverty with no joy whatsoever in their lives and there is no one to ask them and gives a shit about their mental health and wellbeing but they still show up to their jobs and live life without acting like cry baby and victim and treat people with kindness. Selena is living the best possible life that a human being can live money, fame, freedom, loving fans, family, respect what more do you want. Instead of acting like a narcistic victim and crybaby if she would have put half of that effort in developing her voice she could sing without autotune live by now.
I found her documentary very boring & dishonest, she didn’t rly talk about the REAL reason for her heartbreak , which was JUSTIN and HAILEY. She didn’t talk about the weeknd, which also added had to her heartbreak , she didn’t even mention Francia at all? Who gave her a kidney! She blamed it all on mental health and being bipolar… There is still a lot that we don’t know that she didn’t share,.. if ur gonna make a documentary then do it right !!!
Gurl u s*ck. She talk about HER mental issues. You want her to talk about exes 🤦♀️🤦♀️ If u want gossip this is not the good destination for you. The documentary is called My mind and me and not My life and my exes. She’s helping people like US, if u don’t understand well but not judge or criticize someone feeling. And she never talk about the Bieber, at this point I think that YOU have to move from HER past relationship
People who have bi polar disorder are easily irritated they also react harshly when their emotions are on overload. Alot of times they react and say things with no control over it and it takes a minute for our brain to catch up. We end up feeling extremely guilty for what ever we did or said. Depression is something that comes along with being bi polar you don't want to get out of bed or see or talk to people. The guilt and shame from not being able to control the way you react is so bone deep exhausting it truly feels like the world is against you including your body and mind. I wrote all of this because of the scene with her and her friend I thought I could give some context to what it's like. I thank God every day for my husband putting up with me for 16years I know it can't be easy no matter how many times I admit I was wrong and apologize. Raquel is a really good friend to still be standing with her. UPDATE.. Apparently people are triggered, I wasn't speaking about her drinking or not on medication move along.
@@RecoverywithMissWilliams Their is still no diffenative cause for why someone develops bi polar disorder. There is speculation but no clear answer yet on it. For me I have trauma starting from a very young age in many different forms. I also have severe anxiety and ptsd so it's different for the individual witch is why I think they have a hard time coming up with cause.
If Selena had the best PR ever, they would tell her to stop bullying and stalking Justin and Hailey and Bella and everyone else, just stop! And to stop sending her fans to do it for her too. That’s what good PR would do. Selena is being exposed because of how she won’t just leave a happily married man and his wife alone. No one cares she was having sax with an underage boy?? If we are gonna stay in the past then let’s show how she committed dv against Justin (and I’m sure other bfs). Let’s show how she hated her fans until she found out she could use them to bully others. Let’s talk about how no one will be her friend unless they’re paid and how no guy stays with her. If we are gonna stay in the past, we need to always bring up the slapping video and her being rude to fans while Justin would stop and take pics and do autographs, let’s show and talk about it all.
Exactly.. also she dated the weeknd just to get back a jb and ruin weeknds relationship with bella. (Ik he cheated on bella but selena is also involved in this situation) and how she befriended bella after ruining their relationship. And recently selena was spotted with drew taggart who is connected to evejobs and now with zayn. Imagine it was hailey hanging out with different dudes. People are gonna say she’s a whore. People also forget the situation with francia raisa. Also selena seems to be always the 3rd women in someone’s relationship. And the act all angel when smthng happens..
i have seen selenators on tiktok saying selena drop raquelle and was so confused? And you are telling me its because Rauqelle puts with Selena's strong emotions because she knows her for real and she is used to her lashing out? Selena really needs more mature fans
Seems like some honesty is still lacking, the parts of the documentary that got glossed over should've been looked into more, as that would've been more interesting to see the side of her that's been hidden. She's clearly very broken and just needs to take the time to heal herself, and she needs to do it properly.
She IS a perpetual victim. The entire doc was her crying about superficial things having to do with work & promo, crying over her ex who’s moved on & married. Even AFTER she goes to Africa to be humbled she isn’t. Promotion is part of her JOB. Millions of starving homeless people would kill to trade positions with her. And the reason SHE brought up the words “ungrateful” & “unappreciative” is because she IS & didn’t want Raquel or anyone else saying what she already knows. She needs to just go sit behind the scenes cuz it’s getting old.
Isn't it because promotions are part of her work, that she doesn't feel stress or that she doesn't want to? She makes anxiety + is depressed and she is a human like everyone else, she has emotions and feelings whether positive or negative it's normal so it's useless to say I don't know what just because she is famous and rich. She is authentic, don't pretend and she is one of the few celebrities to be like that.
In 2019, I researched Bieber and Gomez in a type of a psychological study with regard to pop culture, not as a "fan" that really knew the work of either. The dynamic of Bieber and Gomez being in a long off and on again relationship which saw him almost immediately propose to and wed Hailey after a break up with Gomez fascinated me. I wanted to dig into that. I read through thousands of comments over the course of years of social media post in addition to Selena's release of "Lose You To Love Me" where all blamed Bieber for their relationship struggles ("cheater, manipulator, abuser"). Even Bieber blamed himself. But my research revealed different findings. I saw Bieber as the manipulated. Selena first dismissing his publically revealed crush as that of a "kid brother" very much talking about him (even mockingly so) as if an underling child rather than a peer. I'm sure this impacted his desire to be viewed as a man and caused him to be easily seduced by other women who treated him as such. But then he became the untrustworthy cheater paying a penance for hurting the woman he loved. Again, his self-esteem crashes. So, he cheats more wanting to see himself through the eyes of other women while Selena reminds him constantly of how he hurts her. She wants him, but he can't change what's been done. So, she tries to control him as we do when we lose trust. And he gets the sense that he can't win. His self-esteem crashes more. He chases women more. Her self-esteem crashes more. She seeks more control of him. Back and forth it goes. Selena: "You make me feel bad. You make me feel crazy." Justin leaves because he makes her feel bad and crazy. He cheats with the woman that says: "You make me feel good." Selena: "I'm so good to you and you're so bad to me. You make me feel bad. You make me feel crazy." Round and round it goes. He quickly wed Hailey and settled down, because he wanted to break the cycle of pain for both himself and Gomez and to be the good guy with Hailey the way he never could be with Gomez (who he holds himself accountable for breaking). It seems odd, but he married Hailey because he wants to be a good guy. Marriage to the woman he hadn't hurt was almost an act of redemption for him in his eyes. As if he could finally become what Selena said he should've been all along. Notice his Selena tattoo is not just of Selena...but Selena as an angel with angel's wings. She's the Saint. He's the sinner. He wanted redemption. I truly sense the guy was gaslit and manipulated a lot by Gomez. And we see how Selena uses people just in this video about the documentary. She uses poor people to make herself feel better about herself as in: "Oh let me go connect with the little guy so I can get grounded." It's not born from true caring about anyone but herself and her needs. And anyone who needs to hate another to love oneself doesn't love oneself or anyone else.
I have three degrees in psychology and behavioral sciences, can confirm this all seems to be the most likely case. She actually displays much more narcissistic behaviors than people talk about, especially with her her cycle of discarding friends once someone more famous or someone more willing to worship her comes along. ie being Demi’s best friend when she was relevant with camp rock, discarding her for Bieber behind closed door supposedly being in a relationship with him despite barely acting like she was his friend publicly or anything more than a sister-like figure, when he stopped praising her behind closed doors due to her cycle of devaluing (gaslighting and putting him down) so he moves on and that is EVERY narcissists WORST fear... they don’t want their victims to be emotionally over them, they want to always be on their mind and in control of their life even if it’s just by consuming their thoughts so she would act “mature” and above it all REACTING to horrible things asking others to be kind to him and Hailey but actually did very little if anything to pre-emotive or stop people from barraging them, from bringing up his exes, for talking about Justin and Selena, she even stocked flames by continually making more music that would bring everyone to thing her songs were about Justin, again getting control over his life, how people interact with him and interview him. Narcissist might not really want you at the end of the day but they DO want to feel better than you and like you’re forever indebted to them. This is where her avoidant attachment style comes in- she has gone on about Justin Bieber being this huge impact on her life for LONGER than they were even “together”. It’s ridiculous at this point. This is common for narcissists and those with low empathy or avoidant attachment styles, it’s called “the phantom ex”. I’m not kidding that’s a real psychological term because they don’t truly want to be with their ex, and if they were to get back together they would just end things or discard them again, maybe even make it appear like they are pushing them away for the victims own good, either way they ultimately don’t end up with them because they don’t want to... if they wanted to be with you they would be with you... in a long and real commitment, not say they want to and continually leave you... it’s sad really because they will forvevet fantasize about that “perfect” ex that was the one who got away, yet if they actually had them they wouldn’t want them, they would instead long for some other person they used to date or want and think THEY were the one that got away “why am I with THIS GUY who hurts me so much (devaluing them) when I could have been with so-and-so if they just stayed with me... etc. Etc. Allowing people to talk for so many YEARS about her ex and continue to tie them to each other rather than creating a new narrative about her life and love life, grow into a new person rather than the damsel and victim that had a lover who made her “lose herself in order to be loved by them” is a victim narrative to juicy for a narcissist to pass up. Now with Taylor as her friend she will continue to be her friend as long as Taylor is relevant and at the top of the food chain, if someone else comes along with more influence that would be her next target judging by her pattern but who knows who that could be... time will tell
@@Cloudyconfusion Makes sense that Charlie Puth's "Attention" was about her. Just as with Bieber, she wants the attention. My mom is a grandiose narcissist. I lived this. My mom didn't want my dad, but even 14 years after their divorce she'd keep me up on school nights till 1:00 am asking "How could he do me that way?" She couldn't understand why he didn't want her. Why he didn't keep chasing her. She forgot about holding the loaded gun to his head and all the times she screamed at him to "F" off. Selena's behaviors reminds me a lot of my mom. How dare Bieber be happy without her. How dare he move on, and her fanatics... 4-years later... still hasn't let him. They harrass the guy, and I think he does a good enough job of that on his own as he's a bit of a tortured soul thinking he hurt someone he loved and himself a monster. He doesn't know he's the victim. He was gaslit. He was manipulated. He was controlled and likely never loved in the first place, but rather the product of an ego trip in need of using him to be fed.
I used to be a bigger fan but Selena’s documentary made me feel like she’s constantly feeling sorry for herself and playing the victim….in reference to her friends being called the bullies bc they weren’t always running to hug her; you can’t help a friend who doesn’t want to help herself….and the Justin Bieber narrative is OLD…he’s moved on and has been married for a while now idk why she can’t let that go it makes her look like she hasn’t grown beyond those years… but idk that’s my opinion
@@peachy4713 i mean she can say she moved on, but if at every chance she gets she references Justin in her songs/performances/mental health then is she really over him? idk I would feel weird mentioning an ex from years ago especially if he’s married
I swear Selena is a professional victim. Idk why Taylor swift was dragged a few years back for her victim acting but somehow Selena who is a million times worse doesn't get any backlash. Girly has gasped onto victim acting to keep her career afloat. How her constant victim act goes unnoticed is beyond me. I'm so sick of it. If you're pressed, argue with ur cracked screen.
THIS! EXACTLY! and people keep confusing her mistakes with bad decisions 🙄. She’s done a lot of messed up things and has never taken responsibility for any of it! That’s what bothers me most and that’s why I appreciate this channel/website for calling it out!
@@va8382 Hailey has never been a victim. Selena on the other hand cries constantly over an ex who she didn’t even want. She’s the one who dumped Justin in 2018. She didn’t want him she just didn’t want him moving on which is what she did with Charlie too.
She couldn't stay loyal to the friend who literally gave her a new life? 🥺 She is very selfish.. I really loved her but sorry she always want to play the victim 🤦♀️
I watched it and I'm gonna just say it: compared with the openness of Justin's documentaries, felt very vague and making her always the victim which is kinda sad. She's never open or vulnerable with the truth. Not worth watching.
Yeah, I actually like Justin’s documentary series. Just from a few Clifton this video, I would never watch this. However, beyond craving the fan connection, I think the reason Justin was so open is because this was his chance to tell his story without any media twisting. Selena has always been and always will be seen as the good girl and therefore did not have to do a super deep documentary because everybody would love her regardless. Justin had more to prove and she does. Justin had to prove that he’s not the person that the media and Selena have made him out to be. He had to prove that he has grown and changed where Selena doesn’t have to prove anything, because her reputation was never tarnished, and never will be tarnished unless she does something so incredibly bad that would make everyone turn against her.
Personal opinion: I don’t really think Selena Gomez is bipolar or has depression etc. She seems like someone that likes being the victim all the time. Overall toxic and just someone with such a big ego she literally needs to go to a third world country to be humbled and even then it’s temporary. I could be wrong idk if that’s what they were going for in this documentary lol
You girls just made a video on exactly what I was feeling after watching the documentary. "My mind and Me" is a primary example of beauty being only skin deep. The film broke no ground. They should have just named the documentary "Selena Gomez: Crying on multiple occasions."
@@ScandalousMediaTea He himself was gushing about how spectacular of a "bare yet astonishing" kind of documentary this was. I guess his Madonna doc (I haven’t seen it though) if it was good, it was a "lightening in a bottle" situation.
@@ScandalousMediaTea selena did say she was I t he editing process, maybe she was more involved and told him how she wanted it. And maybe she said this is what I'm happy with. And this is the result. Maybe she did not want to share too much. She was already nervous about people seeing it. I have not seen the doc yet. I feel kind of nervous about seeing it myself.
@@ninalily It's highly unlikely that someone like Selena, who's very much dependent on the opinion of others who surround her will have this much power over editing, she would have kept on asking everybody for Their opinion again and again
As a Selena fan I expected a lot more, they gloss over the interesting stuff and focus on the boring stuff. And yeah i didn't come out of this documentary knowing anything new about her, which in my opinion is kind of the point of a documentary like this.
Yeah she shouldn't have done that documentary at all if she wasn't willing to go there and talk about the difficult stuff. I think she's too cowardly too. I think she doesn't want to call anyone out because that would make them angry and they would call her out for her bad behavior as well. She's keeping quiet so they keep quiet if that makes sense. I think this entire documentary was completely pointless and a waste of money. It wasn't brave like everyone is saying. It was very surface level
Tbh I’ve watched her documentary twice and still don’t know why she feels the way she feels. Why she’s broken why does her past haunt her and then how did she come over all of those feelings.I didn’t learn anything coz I don’t even understand the problem she’s facing it’s so confusing !!
I have watched the documentary. It was boring, chaotic and taken out of context. I appreciated her being real and i sympathised her going through psychosis as i wouldnt wish that on anybody. However, she didnt address anything the general public does not know already. She did not even mentioned her best friend who donated her a kidney. Her mother appeared only for 2 mins??? Is interesting how they included the drugs controversy from the tabloids but they did not even try to at least deny the claims in the doc, they just avoided the whole topic. Which says a lot. This documentary did not clarify anything for me.
You know she has to get her friends permission if she can put her in her documentary? And they are probably not friends anymore. If she doesn’t want to expose her mom more why is it a issue for you? It doesn’t have to clarify anything for you. She is very vulnerable in the dc its on you if you want to watch it or not you dont need to bash it. Its so true ppl will always complain
@@blueocean811 i literally do not understand why you are being so triggered by my comment. As a viewer i have given my honest review on the documentary. A documentary aim is to give clarity on the celeb’s life and to make the viewers understand certain things better. I paid money to watch it, i am entitled to an opinion. MY OWN opinion.
Francia has said before that she doesn't want to be associated as the girl who donated her kidney, maybe she didn't give permission to be on the documentary? 🤷🏽♀️
I wish they had taken a different route with the documentary. If the intention was to raise awareness about mental health it would have been way better if she actually talked about her triggers and if they got a mental health professional to come explain and talk to the audience about why Selena was having these issues, what are the symptoms and how one may start trying to treat them. Instead all we got was an hour and a half of Selena crying about her job. I get it. I sympathize but who is that helping really? I'm sorry but I just don't feel bad for her. Most people in the world have to go through mental health struggles and still deal with doing parts of their jobs that they don't like. And unlike the rest of the world she's actually getting paid millions for it. I don't think Selena had bad intentions with the documentary but this just goes to show how far removed celebrities are from the reality that most other people experience on a daily basis. Her struggles aren't that different from what many of us face but unlike her none of us have the luxury of complaining about it all day and having a team full of people cater to our mood.
I agree with how they should have made the documentary. They should have shown how bad her problems actually are. She has bad anxiety and is bipolar witch is a nightmare to deal with. She has trauma and propably also ptsd from things she has gone through. She may have struggled with addictions witch we dont know for sure, there are only rumours. She works in a very toxic enviroment, Hollywood is a dark place. And she also struggles with lupus. Those are not things that most of us struggle with. Not everyone are bipolar, not everyone has lupus, not everyone has grown up as a childstar, not everyone has anxiety as a diagnosis. Not everyone has been in abusive relationships and not everyone have struggled with addictions.
I can understand Selena's difficult mentality in the sense that I am a complex person myself. I come from a catastrophic family (physical abuse, moral). It takes to me a lot of energy to socialize which makes me get angry very quickly. I had old/ex-friends who never really supported me (+ gaslight, passive aggressive). My emotional maturity has not been built in a healthy way so it is difficult for me to live in society. Not long ago I realized that for my well-being I had to not remain in a victim mentality, no matter what I may have experienced. I noticed several things in Selena's behavior and in comparison to mine that I could talk about for hours. It's as if she stays on a time of her life and that she does not "grow"
Oh Also, I'm not saying that my situation is similar to hers (far from it) or that we should be sad for Selena. This help me to understand human behaviors
I agree. At that point I wonder: is it fear to grow? Or is it that she can't grow because she truly doesn't know any better? (Conditioning, what have you)
I just wish she was honest about the drinking, I mean, Jennifer Lawrence likes to drink, she doesn't hide it, she jokes about it and I don't think anyone has an issue with it, the fact that selena's pr team so desperately tries to hide this, shows how much of an issue it is
I think Selena is that type of girl who could not get over her ex. She always tries to make statements about how she was mistreated and sad during her relationship with Justin but that was like ages ago. Like, girl, get over it, the dude's married and happy and probably does not even think about you and you go every day crying and saying that leaving him was the best thing that happened to you... If that's true then move on with your life and s t o p acting as the eternal victim of a guy who found the love of his life in someone who wasn't you.
It's a track from the TV series LOST, where that one long lost absent father appears and meet his son, just to have his kidney. And then once he gets it, he no longer wants the father -son thing with him. Same, Selena got what she wanted, but she never really felt Francia was worthy enough to be in her friends circle.
It definitely just scratched the surface. It was so choppy and it had too many gaps. Idk how it went from 2016 to 2019/2020. I think she cut all the jb stuff out after the hailey pic because it signified the fued is over & if she kept all the jb stuff it’d be contradictory. Honestly the doc made no sense. Super bummed.
Justin is mentioned for the most irrelevant things. It was easy to not even reference these parts at all in a doc about her ‘mental health’. The whole thing about justin being name dropped in this documentary and the headlines being all about that just proves what you've been saying all along. They need a Bieber for promotion. Overall the documentary is most definitely surface level. She cries the entire time without any elaboration as to why she feels the way she does. It feels like a big chunk is missing.
Nah, she tried to put an end to it, he was mentioned few times and she made clear it was the best thing to end that relationship,she's just subtly trying to make people linkin them
I was wondering why she didn't say more about him. It actually seems like she was trying to avoid talking about him to me. I guess if you're obsessed with someone like Justin you are also kinda dumb
Selena definitely my sister where she gets mad so easily and goes to accusing rather than answering the question and taking things the wrong way easily 🤦🏻♀️
I always thought she had an opiate problem (I had one myself) and or Xanax addiction, just by her mannerisms etc. It is very rare to go into rehab multiple times just for anxiety or depression unless a drug is involved. sending love to Selena and anyone else sick and suffering from addiction
Maybe she did? She left a lot out of this documentary., she barely talked about Justin 🙄 when most of her sadness and heartbreak was from him and hailey…. And how she completely left out Francia who gave her a kidney.. she wasn’t fully telling us everything, so I wouldn’t doubt it if she had an addiction as well…
@@gabriellabailey189 because it’s a DOCUMENTARY& Justin was a huge part of her life , OBVIOUSLY! MOST her of heartbreak was from him!! Heartbreak causes mental health issues also!
Ok so she complains about not being enough on her own but continues to refer to the Biebers by liking posts about them, shading Hailey on TikTok, getting her picture taken with Hailey, etc. This is on her, when people (so non-fans) think of the Biebers they think of the stuff they are working on but when people think of Selena, the first thing they think of are the Biebers, and she has no one to blame for this but herself.
Before Hailey and Justin got married Selena was continually crying about how she didn’t want to be seen as “someone’s ex” referring to Justin but constantly brought him up or shaded him or argued with him on Instagram in 2016 so obviously there will always be headlines about them both because she actively started drama with him continually!! Then cries and plays the victim that people call her Justin’s ex. She’s her own worst victim
she had alcohol issues, maybe used drugs in the past, she is partying too hard. they did not talked about this, it is because this is gonna bring her troubles to her career, also she is living the side effects of selling her soul
I did like the documentary. I think she showed a part of herself nobody had seen before, for example when she could be mean to people too when she's not in the mood. She is human like anybody else. We get angry too and we could be mean sometimes. She put the drug problems out there without admiting it but we all know she and bieber had issues with addiction and thats why she had problems with her mom.
she can be that depressed but at least not to the extent that she'd destroy other people. imagine Hailey getting hate because of her comment on a hate video about Hailey. svcks.
@@lotusbloom7750 Do you know what bullying or a real feud is? Look at Cardi B and Nicki Minaj. Selena and Hailey is nowhere near that. It's a bunch of speculation and fan theories and narratives.
I’m sorry but I can’t with her crying over wanting to do something alone. I mean she’s the girl that was always trying to get with or was getting with it the new “it guy.” Yes she was famous before Justin. But her career took off after Justin
I think it's deeper than her mental health, it's her physical health taking a toll which a lot of ppl do not understand at a young age. An organ transplant and all of the meds that come along with that alone aside from bipolar medication can really be hard on someone and I think she deserves more grace.
I wish people would try to understand and not judge she couldve decided to nt show us all of this but she did and I respect her so much for that and feel sorry and also grateful cuz I feel like now I know why I myself act in a certain way I didnt have an idea ab what bipolar disorder is
@@ariann9714 yeah people judge her as playing victim etc. Well as some one who has mental illness like her I totally understand her and what she’s going through emotionally and mentally.
As a person with bipolar, I can attest that when its untreated, bipolar episodes can and will absolutely wreck your life like a tornado in just a week or maybe even less. Also just even the day to day amplified mood swings between episodes can be very draining. I think that the statistic is that 40% to 50% of those with bipolar attempt suicide at least once in their life. You got the multiple month extreme suicidal depressive episodes and then you got mania which commonly presents nearly identically to a schizophrenic episode except a person in manic psychosis has a remarkably high level of energy and motivation and will eventually be complete in hysteria if left untreated. Basically you embarrass the shit out of yourself and then go straight down into a severe depressive episode once you come back and realize how "crazy" you were acting in mania. Luckily, it gets easier and better after some time of medications, lifestyle changes, therapy, and support, but doesn't ever go away fully. I bet living with lupus on top of that is an absolute nightmare. Selena is a textbook case of bipolar 2 and I don't think she's doing anything with malicious intent. Managing lupus and bipolar together all in the public eye sounds so unfathomably difficult and I think she for sure deserves some credit
Also, I feel like it’s a common thing regarding celebrity documentaries that they never really dive deep but tell us things we already know. Personally, I think Demi Lovatos documentary did good in trying to dive deep and not just tell us things we already know
@@ScandalousMediaTea really?? Cuz I’m a fan of Selena and I had no idea her mental health has been at stake for years. Also, if their trying to rlly show a side of them the normal person wouldn’t know, then their making the doc more so for themselves rather than the world. Just to be out abt something like BPD to the world, as a celebrity, I’m sure is very freeing. She didn’t expose herself. As someone who has severely suffered w my mental health, I sympathize w her 100%. You didn’t achieve anything by posting this. She meant to put everything in that documentary.
That's because Demi had already been exposed. It's easier to tell all when there's already all kinds of crazy rumors about you. Stop trying to compare ppl and decide who is a better person. I like Selena because I just like her deadpan vibe, acting and emotion-driven music. I never thought she was some kind of Angel. The important thing is that she is trying to do better.
people like u or the one who made that video deserve nothing , feel bad for y’all , how miserable y’all have to be to hate on her. May y’all find peace
This documentary was dry and boring she never really talked bout the kidney transplant nor francia , I know they weren't talking at the time but she should e grateful I felt the how documentary was woe is me, poor little rich girl vibe.. depressing lacking character
They explain what happened very clearly: she had undiagnosed BipolarII (the major depressive episodes and hypomania one), but she eventually was diagnosed and started treatment, struggling with it a bit in the start, as is normal.
I’ve just watched the documentary and I feel it’s so depressing. It kinda reminds me of Meghan Markle on Oprah. It left me asking questions than getting answers. I feel there was a lot of parts missing. I don’t get the hate on Raquelle, do they want her to have ‘yes’ people in her life?
Really? I am not exactly Selena’s biggest fan but she didn’t lie 99% of the time. Comparing these two is… I’ll be like Oprah.. : “what? What?” Like I think that some part were probably more dramatic than they actually are but I am sure she has quite serious mental health problems. I have Apple TV but after seeing this video(and otherrs) I feel like it’s not really worth it. I am not a fan but if she actually adressed some imporant things, I’d watch it.
@@MSeliskaZ She does have serious mental problems but that is all she talks about in the documentary and not how she got those mental problems, just the fact that she has them. Not even the fact that she heavily drinks, used and maybe still uses drug$,...she doesn't talk about how she really ended up where she is now. She just acts like the victim the whole time and blames everything on fame and lupus. In the documentary she is even talking about how she was halluc!nating, hearing voices, was is psychosis but never explains why that happened to her and kind of makes is seem like fame is the reason for all of it. Side effects of drug$ are all the things she was talking about...even w*ed makes some people halluc!nate, let alone some heavy drug$ she was/is taking. Literally this documentary is just surface things and she never goes into details on anything. It was supposed to be 2,5 hours long but ended up being 1,5 hours long. It was kind of boring and nothing new we already didn't know so don't waste your time watching it. It was just a pity party for Selena.
I honestly didn't like Selena's friends until I watched this documentary. In the past when I was teenager I was super depressed and acted like Selena. Now watching this made me realize how hard it must have been to be my friend at that time. Can you imagine what Selena's friends are going through just being next to her all the time? I could never be friends with someone like Selena, I would cuss her out. It would drain anybody being next to someone who acts like that, walking on eggshells around them and having everything be about them. I know this is Selena's documentary, about HER life, but it looks to me like she is the type of person where everything has to be and revolve around her, she has to be center of attention and her friends are just like accessories to her (play Attention by Charlie Puth). I doubt that Selena is ever there for her friends the way they are always there for her.
Selena is not like what you think ..like AT ALL ...your whole comment is giving out hate ....and whats going with wanting everything to be about her when its her life and your with her in it and whats wrong with her crying and expressing her feels and to have confidence to be emotional with herself instead of just thinking about what people say about her emotions
@@meralEdwtDawlatly with this comment you just proved that you’re too ignorant to even understand what’s wrong with this type of behavior. You’re either naive or you ARE that abusive type of friend. Yikes…
I like Selena but she seems very exhausting. I wonder if Raquel needs therapy from dealing with it for so long. No wonder she hangs out with Simi and Abel. Must be a lot more calm with them
Yes it is definitely a poor me documentary and definitely it's trying to make Justin Bieber as so incredibly abusive and the fault of all her problems. Not saying Justin didn't do bad things but wasn't that his first real girlfriend. That's normal a learning experience where we all make mistakes and learn from them. Pretty sure Justin learnt some lessons paid the price and changed as much as he can. I mean he's not cheating on Hailey so clearly he wanted a different lifestyle and chose Hailey who was offering him stability when he needed it most. He wanted to grow up and change. I think he's doing a good job, if only the public would leave him alone. Fat chance of that unfortunately.
Selena is so strange to me. One minute in Interviews she brags about Disney and Wizards being some of the best times of her life. She loved it, they had a great cast, no drama, all got along, etc. next minute she’s crying in the documentary saying she wants nothing to do with Disney and doesn’t want to be seen as a “Disney kid.” But in previous interviews loved Disney, and realized it opened up a lot of doors for her. She does seem ungrateful and seems to make mountains out of molehills. I understand feeling insecure, not good enough, depressed, etc but you can’t let your feelings control your life because they absolutely will. She needs to get those feelings under control. I’m not saying they aren’t valid- but wow don’t let them ruin your tour and life. It’s not worth it. Honestly this doc did her a huge disservice in my opinion…. And like you said in the video all the important things we actually want to know like her mom drama, the kidney and lupus behind the scenes, drug/alcohol problem was not shown. Her whining about doing promo was so weird too. She was so proud of this song and apparently wrote it in “45 minutes” but also hates doing promo and bringing attention to it…. Definitely bipolar. It’s very sad actually. She needs a lot of help. Also weird she didn’t mention Fran at all!!!! You know Fran is mad
@Alita I understand it but you can’t treat your friends and family like crap constantly and then blame bipolar disorder especially the women you literally gave you her organ
completely agree with everything you're saying. I wish they explained that the reason she acted out is (I assume) because of bipolar instead of it just looking like she has anger issues.
@Alita i am a psychology student and my boyfriend is bipolar. Yes, he'll act like selena, like a bipolar but theres total lack of self-awareness and self-reflection in selena. Its prolly harder for her since she's in the spotlight and stuff but she has SO many toxic traits that people just brush over. Never justify hurting people because of mental illnesses unless its schizophrenia. You can explain but acknowledge that what she's doing is not cool and is wrong. Shes 30 ffs, she needs to pick her life up and work on it instead of blaming everyone.
Not once did y’all mention her bi polar disorder. I loved seeing Selena grow. For us that have bi polar and depression disorders I completely get where she’s coming from. She doesn’t mean to be that way .
I don't have Apple TV and I was waiting for y'alls review. While everyone was saying "Hailey is doing damage control", I knew the documentary wouldn't be true. I'm surprised they edited miscellaneous clips together and glossed over so much. I was ready to think ESMG was lying if she proved otherwise. Also, I thought it was ironic that she said she didn't wanna be associated with Justin yet she 1, stayed with him continuously use his fame and 2, made it seem like ALL her problems are because of Justin, mentioning him three? times... I want her to get better and move on but I don't think she realizes how this'll only start up more Jelena drama. I still can't really find a Selenator who posts more about Selena than Jailey.
Well said. But delusional 12 Yr old selena stans will soon attack you for saying fax. Selena is the personification of a victim and I'm tired of her constant victim act.
this was filmed a while ago before it was released. Also, justin has made way more songs about selena then she has of him. His song, She don’t like the lights, is literally about selena. I think your wrong tbh
I sympathize with Selena and her struggles but it is hard to really feel sorry for her for all the shit that she's done. I thought this documentary was going to be about accountability like Demi's or Justin's but no. She's either blaming everyone else or blaming her mental health. Also to me, it is very telling of her personality and behaviour when: 1. Francia (who literally donated her kidney to Selena) is not friends with her anymore, 2. Taylor (who she claims is her best friend in the industry) is MIA throughout the whole documentary, 3. The fact that a lot of people that were once associated with Selena are not friends with her but are friends with each other. Like Demi for example. She's not friends with Selena but she's friends with Hailey and Justin. Another example, Charlie Puth, the Jenners, Bella Hadid and The Weeknd. They were all associated/friends with Selena at one point. Now they aren't friends with her but they are all friends with each other and with Hailey and Justin. And 4. The fact that she does nothing to speak up for the hate that Raquelle is receiving is crazy to me. I mean I get that she won't say anything in support of Hailey for the hate that she gets but the fact that she doesn't defend Raquelle or her other friends is just very sus to me. And the fact that they left in that footage of their fight in the documentary. I feel like her team is aware that those clips will be taken out of context and Raquelle will receive even more hate. Smh. But anyways, this is an amazing video girls! I would love for girls to more of this kind of videos! Love it!
I mean tho.... thats true for any regular human being. We also have frienships that end, sometime all f our ex friends become friends.... its just the way life goes sometimes
Why you want to feel bad? She is showing how mental diagnosis affects people life even famous ones. She is criticized because is and because she is not. First, she is not looking for your pity; second, she can’t put whoever she wants without their consent ( including TS, JB etc) Third, not all the organ donor HAVE to be friends with organ recipients… if you donate should not be having expectation or ownership of decision you made.
At the AMA's, Selena was out of it. She said in an interview that she was on medication (drugs) for her Bipolar as well as the Lupus. It was drugs...prescribed by a Doctor. To understand Selena, you have to understand how Bipolar disorder affects your moods. Emotional dysregulation. Mental illness can be hereditary or linked to an underlying disease. People who have Lupus do have bouts of depression & anxiety. Selena is a product or a victim of her body. Stress worsens any condition. She is a victim of her body & her inability to see things in a positive manner or having learned poor coping skills.
Nah she was a drug addict. I just saw a video that she’s been to places to recover from that and not from lupus. Those weren’t lupus clinics. Open your damn eyes!
Regarding promoting her album, there is a clear difference between her going on social media, speaking freely with her friends, wearing comfy sweats, to getting dolled up and answering repetitive questions
It would be hard and exhausting being Selena's friend, props to her friends. I would not be able to be friends with a bipolar person. You need lots of patience.
I said that exact thing to my sister. Lol everyone was ragging on Raquelle for not having a place to live and living with Selena and I’m like.. but she lives with Selena and her issues 🤣
Wow what a shitty thing to say. Selena fan or not, to say “I would not be able to be friends with a bipolar person” I’m in shock. I really hope someone extends that same lack of compassion to you the next time you go through something. People like you are the reason mental health is so stigmatized. Grow tf up.
@@aquabb4718 that's why everybody has a different opinion you don't have to agree with what I think neither I have to agree with what you think or what you like. I don't have the patience and I don't need drama in my life. Listening to somebody else's problems when I have my own problems it's enough.
I have the same response to Selena's documentary as I did with all of Demi's. 1) There is nothing authentic to be gained after years of victimization, passed the era in which it was valid. 2) There is no specificity. It rings like a plethora of platitudes strung together and a timeline of incoherence to the audience. 3) The lack of personal responsibility or shame of bad choices (drug/alcohol addiction) while lacking self-awareness of their privileged situation. Superficial.
@@jjm8224 It could be a marketing attempt at her next batch release of music? I believe that all 3 of demi's documentaries surrounded that as well. The 1st about Unbroken, the 2nd about Tell Me You Love Me, the 3rd about Dancing with the Devil. I sort of view singers with that particular light because its usually to sell something.
I have a friend that out of the blue at 22 had a psychotic break, I had known her for almost all my life and she never had any signs of mental health issues and was diagnosed as bipolar and hospitized all of that in less than 2 weeks...so it kind be really all out nowhere and really fast
@@culturalresponse2447 nope she didn't even drink alcohol it was setting along the lines of her parents were divorcing and she was in the middle of everything and on Christmas they had an awful fight and she just snapped
She is also just very sensitive. She’s gotta get some thick skin if she’s gonna do this as a career. Ugh I lost so much respect for her if this is true. Which is the doc making it seem like she wasn’t doing her medications properly/doing her meds. Her talking about in a interview, her kidney onlt lashing 30 years. Bitch, if you’re being so immature & irresponsible by not doing your meds. You’re kidney won’t last 10 years. It just pisses me off as a kidney transplant recipient myself.
@@Pari_Pixie you're just Selena fans you're a lot of criticize if it doesn't make sense she's a public figure you're allowed to criticize her and the documentary
She seemed extremely selfish to me, especially in the moment when she finds out about the WE scam and she only worries about her future as philanthropist and doesn't care about the girls she met on her Kenya trip situation
When she found out about that WE scam she wasnt worried about herself she was worried for all the young girls in Kenya she was NO LONGER able to help. she didnt just think of herself
@@MusicCoverSelena please don’t waste your time with them…. This is clearly a Justin bieber fan in disguise channel who try but fail every time to show that they aren’t. I just came here hoping that this time the review would be more fair and different from every selena video they make, but sadly the first few minutes was literally bunch of B.S and almost all of what they said is completely wrong. Ex: she was crying not because of Justin getting the collab over her, it was because the let me love you song was supposed to be a collab between her and Justin but as she said she didn’t want. So, if you want an honest review I recommend finding other videos than this clown of a “review” channel. Also, the name of the channel itself should’ve been an indication as well😂.
@@ScandalousMediaTea selena would never act like this with Taylor Swift... She knows Taylor is above her level in many ways.. Girls like selena knows how to be at best behaviour around girls who are more successful talented.. Selena has unhealed pain.. We all have tough lives but gosh her PR about how kind she is with fans blahbalh... She shows some covert narc traits now...
Getting a organ gives you a second chance at life. I'd be damned if I'm going to ruin it with poor judgement like drinking like a fish and I damn sure will always give my donor family flowers and these are people I didn't know until God used them to save my life.Selena could've got her Mother, sister and any family relative of hers to get tested as a donor which alot of family donors do become good matches but I never heard her do this she went straight to Francia. I stand with Francia. She deserves alot more respect in her name than she's getting.
What I think is that if this really stress you this much and you really hate it? Why don't you retire? Why don't you stop? You have millions already, you don't have to suffer, it's like everything is a huge deal, she hates promos, she hates meets and greets, she hates her shows, just stop you're already a millionaire!!!!
Love this video because you’re not glorifying this girl. Growing up me and my sisters had a friend like Selena. She was the only child, and she was a master manipulator. When she was “down” she wanted us to baby her. It’s wild.
Alot of people hate the person who is an only child....just imagine if she has no one and has no one to talk to and needs real friends with her ..thats why you shouldn't fucking judge and be a sneaky bitch when you can be a good person to that person that you call a "friend"
why are u comparing your childhood friend with a celebrity,one of the most exposed celebrities worldwide? Which not only has lot of haters from her past relationship but has been suffering from both mental and physical conditions that affect her decisions? Like seriously, people grow up and don't project yourselves
I didn’t understand when she was talking about her father. She said he would tell her he doesn’t know how to talk to her. Their relationship is so ambiguous
its obvious they dont get along. he tells her he doesnt know how to talk to her probably because she snaps and him and everything turns into an argument.
Omg more about the documentary? Let's go! This is gonna be juicy 🤯🙊 can't wait for pt 2! And my ex friend acted just like Selena did and I was like Raquelle, that's why I couldn't be her friend anymore. Her acting like that affected me very badly.
Oh no - how badly? A lot of people flip upside down like a table when they bump into a nugget of negativity. But when you look at the value received - end justifies the means... Respect angry people. But you're allowed to not be nice anymore back to them if you want. I just don't think breaking up is the best decision. (Congratz on getting likes)
@@gurunext u don't understand it was a toxic friendship, she would yell at me for no reason. And get mad if I didn't answer right away. She was never there for me like I was there for her! When I was telling her I was going through something, she would brush it off and say "well it's way worse for me." U weren't there, u don't know the full story between me and her.
@@darlafanning9770 yes me, I got deleted somehow (and thanks to you now I am aware of it)... I swear TH-cam Comments is the worst experience in the universe... Wow now that I split to test my comment which part gets deleted... nothing is deleted... what is this insanity?
most relationships are toxic and intense - you still need to look at the value, in-case you can get some experience out of it and leave at the right time (usually when there's nothing new left to explore or attempt to achieve)
I didn’t know much about Selena when I decided to watch the documentary. I was shocked and left with so many questions. Coming from someone who watched it based on the fact that I just like documentaries, it presented a very negative view of her for me. I still believe it was a very incomplete documentary and I don’t think it was a very positive representation.
i used to be a huge fan but i can’t anymore, she’s so obnoxious and her friends are troopers for sticking with her instead of telling her right where to shove her little pity party 😊
few seconds in and getting hit by, ''When am I just gonna be good enough by myself, am I gonna be good just by myself not needing anybody to be associated with''
I agree, I definitely think the documentary could have been longer and that it took the generic route of professional victim. I heard allegedly that the documentary was originally supposed to be 2 hours long, but it was cut short. Also allegedly there is 10 hours worth of footage filmed for the the documentary, but it is only an hour long. The documentary felt rushed and I kinda felt like there was a big time gap between the years. Overall I do feel like it did a good job of showing Selena as a person, but I kinda think that it could’ve been so much deeper than what the documentary showed
I agree with you, but I don't agree with you on the thing that it did a good job of showing Selena as a person ...she sadly was just complaining and crying through the whole documentary. I don't want to think she is like that always. It was a bad documentary in the sense of showing her as a person.
I think Selena is starting to realize she is a niche artist. Her breakdown is never being enough comes from a fear she is not as popular as she was on Disney and will lose everything. Her friends are a bit concerning, they seem to be yes people and Raquel is riding her fame.
She was giving very much diva when she was complaining about those question interviews lol I really do like her. I promise I do. But basically the whole doc and her whole "purpose" is to be an advocate and speak out through her social media and such but who remembers when she got crap for not sharing anything about blm and she said oh so if i hashtag something im saving lives?? Lmfaoooo just hilarious how thats literally like her thing now, "saving lives" through her platform.
She really is a diva. She was complaining that interviewer didn't listen and care about her answers. Helloooo they are there to do their job not to care about you petty little love story put into an album. I liked the documentary but that thing made me mad. Selena was the one that came into that interview with bad attitude and then complained about interviewer that was not rude at all and seemed nice to me. It feels like Selena was feeling bad and decided to find a reason to get angry. She is childish to me. I acted like that when I was 16....she is 30 and still acting that way.
@@queenofneverland9007 she wasn't even being a diva lmao . She just mad that the woman doesn't pay attention to what she wanna say Zach , Jimmy, Kelly all listen to what thier guess say .
@@danialrafiq3290 sadly the documentary showed her being annoyed in every interview (not just the last one). She even said she hates doing it, meaning she went in there with a bad mentality.
The documentary was really "victim mentality" to me ...sadly it didn't really show her as a nice person. She complained about everything and lashed at her friend for asking her if she is not happy. And then showed her later saying the exactly same thing she attacked Raquelle for. I always liked Selena but now she just reminds me of a friend I used to have, who always wanted pity from everyone around them ..
omg you took me back to the BLM comment... my issue with selena is that she does something AFTER everyone does it and it's "cool" then pretends it's groundbreaking lol
I can understand why Selena feels broken at times because she is constantly under public scrutiny & she knows she is being gossiped about. That takes a toll on her mental health. Then again, there are times I think she instigates social media speculation because she can be attention-seeking & a drama queen. I think a lot of celebrities have narcissistic qualities because they feel entitled when they are constantly surround by a team of "Yes" people and her team has the job to make her feel better when she is down & they have to agree with her when she is upset. Her team is basically there to please her & make sure she gets on camera or on stage. We may see it as spoiled & entitled diva behavior...and I can understand it to a certain extent because she grew up in front of the public lens since she was a kid, and she needs to feel safe & protected. Also I see as someone who is still trying to figure out who she is aside from her public persona.
Beautifully said! I don't blame Selena. The pressures of fame are tough for sure, but you're right - she instigates A LOT of it. The media talks about what they give us
@@ScandalousMediaTea oh my! You acting like a saint lol. Come on now, feed on her cuz without selena your videos won't get views lol. Even though you love hailey and justin you don't dare post about them cuz you know people won't watch them lol.
@@RiyanRishitha THANK YOU. That’s what I thought as well. The owners of this channel are experts at being hypocrites especially when it comes to Selena 💀💀.
I wish Raquelle would quit and the last of Selena’s few hired friends would quit. Selena needs to just have paid staff that don’t care about her as a person, just as a commodity so that she can’t the hurt people around her anymore.
We don't know her 100% and we never will, we don't get to see her in person, we only see her through these screens, or may have a glimpse of her. Everyone has a good and a bad side. She showed whatever she can, it's impossible to snow every details that's quite understandable I guess. And a person with that amount of fame, going through mental, physical and social breakdowns is not easy to handle. Everybody has their own struggles. Let's respect each and every human who is trying to give something good to the society directly or indirectly.
tbh her PR team is AMAZING 😭, the fact that people still believe she’s so innocent with some of these facts is crazy!
EVEN IF SHE KILL HAILEY THEY WILL JUST SAY "HAILEY DESERVED IT " our New word romantizing such toxic relashionship and hypocrite b@^#€&
Exactly
Maybe some of them are paid by her team to make her a Good image all her freind Became hailey freind and said piglena was talking abt hailey all the time
And she even stalk her ex by following haailey hater account piglena is so cringey
Don’t get me started on the fact that she’s rumored to have struggled with alcohol and drugs. Also has gone to rehab and all of it has been hidden from the public.
in my opinion... the way the documentary is filmed/ edited is definitely for PR purposes, trying to make her look like a very innocent victim. not saying anything. I don't know her. but neither do these fans that think they know her. it's her JOB to maintain a persona and to be liked. and I think that a LOT of these Hollywood/ music industry people are not what they seem to be....just something to keep in mind before you stan someone lol
I knew it would be disingenuous when I saw the trailer was littered with self aware shots of her looking sad and melancholic
she has bipolar disorder.. don't be so harsh
This is so true but also the actions count more than words so that’s what I look for but yes I will never know for certain what is true and what is not.
@@perrofalderodeisabel There are plenty of covert narcissists that do good deeds publicly. It's hard to tell if those actions have genuine, selfless intentions. Really hard to spot them.
Like do they think someone w such a strong PR time like her wouldn’t curate the documentary scenes purposely??? Every celebrity doc does this, but it’s crazy they would assume somehow Selena’s doc is an accurate portrayal. Most celeb docs are for fans to feel closer to them and to get new ppl interested in the celeb. This wasn’t meant to be an honest portray but a “Selena is a person too guys😢 not just the 1%” but like… we knew that… i just don’t think she’s a good one 😅
When Jelena breaks up she also dates with someone else, she acted like Justin is the only evil. Justin also has physical and emotional diseases, but he didn’t use them to play victim and blame on her years by years. Marrying Hailey definitely the best thing he has ever done, she healed him and effected him into a healthier lifestyle
Oh like you want her to just wait for him is that ur point ???
@@SANA-j9h who's asking her to wait for him? At this point it'd be a miracle for jb and hailey if selena actually managed to move on from justin ... She's still salty asf about jb when he's been married for half a decade
He did worst he got married
Estilo mas saludable?? Hahaha los videos de su aspecto y otros hablan.Eligio un probable matrimonio arreglado por su papa de Hayley, poderosos de la industria😂
@@SANA-j9hwhy not? Him and selena were over
I thought it was odd that she kept saying she didn't want to be a "Disney kid" anymore because I honestly haven't associated her with her Disney past in... years. Maybe I'm off with her overall perception but I definitely don't see her like that. I really do see her as a pop star and very much an adult.
Omg same here! Like I thought that about her for years now, especially when I first heard her say the f bomb.
Its about how she felt and perceived her internal world, not us
Disney has an ironclad will, control over all their starlets. Even if their contract has expired. It’s literally mk ultra’d into them from toddlerhood.
When she said “Disney kid” was in 2016 almost 7 years ago!
It’s really just her in her head. Ppl are mad at how Raquel called her out but I honestly didn’t see anything wrong with it. I could see how Raquel couldn’t find the words to even ask her if she was ok without being scared of Selena getting mad. I love Selena, but we have to remember she is bipolar and she is struggling. 😭
I really think Francia regrets donating her kidney.
Francia unfollowed her and commented under a post where Selena says Taylor is her only real industry friend... so there's definitely drama there. I'm thinking about making a video
@baque ive seen so many comments about this and the fans keep saying selena meant the music industry yall keep trying to make excuses for her whether its music, acting, modeling Its Still THE ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY she said what she ppl
I agree...i think they might still be friends but not at close as they make it seem when their on social media..
@@ScandalousMediaTea pls. Do follow up up about this friendship girls. I want to know, and learned something about it.
Why u all hate selena....have some senses sorry...but u are talking shit about kidney as a fan i personally can take it.....
Addicts are emotionally manipulative addicts for life. Sweet on the outside, monsters on the inside and toward their inner circle
Uhhhh no wat. As a person in AA with 6 years clean, I have known a ton of addicts in recovery. A large majority of the people with over a year clean that I've known for 5+ years have always been really kind, caring, and honest friends. Even the addicts who I consider some of my "best friends", they're some of the best people I have ever me, and I have literally been best friends with these people for like half a decade. Generalizing like that just hurts everyone in the end, because every person is different. Just because they can all be grouped under the same label doesn't mean that they are all 1:1 carbon copies you know?
@@tulpamediaRight. It isn't drug addiction or drinking that is Selena's issue, it is just her mentality and vengefulness.
@@mistypedhi exactly and did you see her giving Taylor the side eye at the awards ceremony when she was giving her speech?? She was just mad cause Taylor was living her best life and wasn’t up her ass all night
Not all addicts are emotionally manipulative, some aren't even an addict but too manipulative. I think it's more like if you have victim mentality and not accountable then more like this.
Such an ignorant comment. Very sad.
i also wish they elaborated on what actually triggered the psychosis apart from the stress..
As I watched it It seemed that a lot of tears were caused by the lack of confidence. It started with her crying in the rehearsal of the tour, but she was there approx. 5 years yonger than she is now. As she was fighting with Rachel a lot of her questions are again triggered by the lack of confidence and fear (being seen as difficult or be judged).
People don’t randomly cut off there parents. I’m thinking it was a mix of things including her immediate family. But she probably didn’t want her fans to see that side for a reason maybe yo not make her family look bad. She has been very silent for many reasons maybe one of them is to not destroy other peoples image including her ex and his hoes ( not bashing Hayley lol I love her) and her mother etc. She has a younger sister to think about so maybe she hides it so her younger sister does not find out. Who knows
Brat 😖
Substance use
@@oldfriend711 or maybe substance abuse…
This documentary actually made me dislike Selena. (She was my fave Disney star when I was a kid) You can tell she has a lot of “Yes” people around her. The way she lashes out on Raquelle and turns an innocent question into a personal attack is one example. As sensitive as I am I didn’t see any sly tones from Raquelle imho.
& When she’s in Africa, and the school girls spoke about their educational improvements, Selena goes and asks them “Do you believe in Love?” 😅 My goodness. Also there was no mention of her friend that gave her a kidney transplant? 🧐
I also just couldn’t empathize with her crying… a lot of the things she cried about were kind of bratty and petty. Her balking out crying about Justin and being linked to him was a bit silly to me. I’m 4 years younger than her and myself + including all my guy friends that had a crush on her knew her from Disney.. Not Justin
What’s sad is you deciding if someone’s emotions are valid or not. Her crying over these things is not “silly” they are real to her. I can only imagine you were told growing up that what you were crying about was “silly” and that’s why you are so above and beyond these kinds of thoughts and feelings. As for your bipolar “sibling” who even says sibling? If you’re close you normally call them brother or sister.. you must not be close to them and for good reason.. emotions are normal and for her to be able to cry if she needs to is so much better than suppressing her emotions and then blowing up one day worse than she has. I can also only imagine your bipolar “sibling” is not very fond of you.
@@ingridkincaid1187 You right. I’m not choosing to validate her feelings based on what I saw and that’s because she came off ungrateful and whiney to me. My opinion.. It can sound insensitive - but as much as I liked Selena, her problems just seemed much ‘first world’ -
I’m pretty much tired of these celebrities staying in the limelight to support their lifestyle then complaining about it.
Idk if it’s their contract or that being famous from an early age pressures you to stay relevant, or the money… so you just can’t go get a normal job? Whatever it is, fame is just f’d up and makes fools out of these humans at the end of the day. They’re never happy at the end of the day it seems like
@@nicpix187 it might seem very cut and dry for us .. but she has been in the business since she was a kid.. 7 I think is when she started .. for her to get a “normal job” your basing a lot on your own ideas of life and the world and maybe she is just not there yet. It’s just not nice to judge that kind of stuff. I won’t say anything else on the subject. She seems like a really sweet and genuine person and people are just disingenuous her for no reason. It was really aggravating me but whatever I’m over it. People will find reasons to be assholes even to the sweetest of people sometimes just because
@@ingridkincaid1187 Aside from my opinion.
This docu taught me a few things.
1. Selena is far from reality
2. her fans will always look at her in a positive light.
3. She’s just like every child star, with no real direction
4. Her PR team is amazing
@@nicpix187 to each their own I guess.. I wasn’t ever a fan of hers. I don’t listen to that kind of music. But randomly I watch documentaries and she is still just trying to figure life out.. I’m pretty sure everyone is even in their 40’s and 50’s nobody is perfect. But she seems like a genuinely kind person. Did you know the whole Brian isn’t even done developing until your in your mid 20’s? And also depending on the people who raised you and their behaviors determines a lot on how your brain develops as well as what you put in your body. Like alcohol is terrible. But anyway.. it takes a lot more work to reverse damage and to get your life in a new direction. It’s not so cut and dry as … well if you want ti be this then BE THIS.. it doesn’t work quite that way.. I thought her “friends” kind of sucked honestly. They’re encouraging her to stay for her fans and work even when she was feeling like she didn’t want to do it anymore. It’s just strange. Sometimes we are around the wrong people. But anyway.. people will always find a way to judge even the coolest and sweetest or most kind person.. say they are “fake” or doing it for anterior motives.. not even Selena related.. just talking about other people. So yeah. Fuck what other people think of you in the end❤️❤️ and yeah she’s pretty awesome from what i saw😌
I have been best friends with extremely toxic and manipulative women. (we are no longer friends) I don't know Selena personally, but from watching clips of her over the years.... all I can say is when you've been through hell with someone toxic, you can recognize thier personality traits in a stranger.
Exactly
She is extremely toxic and boring
So u are saying shes a manipulative woman?
@@mariach9433 at the opening of the movie she explains how this happens as a result of her bipolar and she feels horrible about it later
i don't think you know what bipolar disorder is and how people with it can have big mood swings
Selena seems to display a lot of strong narcissitic tendancies in my opinion.
Watch the documentry she was going through physcatric breakdown this was all effect of it,this person exposing selena gomez basically also played big part in spreading rumour about her ,after revival tour she entered rehab cuz of her health all she was showing the symptoms of mental disorder which she diagnosed after so long (bipolar) ,just keep urself in her shoes
As a psychology student living with a dad who has a narcisstic personality disorder i agree 100%.
@@a-birb hang in there and try not to take the bait when they infuriate you. Take care.
Selena is a far cry from being narcissistic. She’s donated millions to mental health with Rare Beauty. She made this documentary to let others know they’re not alone in their struggles.
can you explain more about this? I'm intrigued
although i haven’t seen the documentary, i think selena just isn’t ready to open up and acknowledge her demons. she isn’t ready to take responsibility and hold herself accountable, and she might never b ready.
deep down she knows that if she dives deep, it could potentially taint her image and it could prove everyone else right. she’s scared of the outcome, instead, she prefers to engage in behavior that inflates her ego bc of how nasty she feels inside. also probably why the documentary was superficial/surface level. it doesn’t help that she has a bunch of “yes” people around her that r afraid to tell her the truth and hold her accountable. probably has something to do w her relationship w her parents too.
Agreed! 💯
This is exactly how I felt in demi's most recent documentary when everyone besides one person, Elton John, enabled her California sobriety.
Well written
I'll dive deep for her and get even angrier on way more people and show what truly happens when you unleash your demons.
I agree and what is said if she is not honest with her self she will truly never grow or be happy. She will continue to play the victim and stay miserable her entire life. I feel like she’s just waiting for Hailey and Justin to divorce so she can run back to him but I don’t think they will be separating any time soon….
I actually feel bad for Raquelle . I think she’s a good friend but Selena is very toxic
finally someone who share the same idea. sel is the type of girl who i have to be super careful selecting my words cuz she is overly sensitive and easily get irritated
@@phuonglinhpham8241 she’s very sensitive 😪
@@phuonglinhpham8241There’s nothing wrong with being overly sensitive. People aren’t robots. Feelings are valid
Same. I can’t stand how people are pretending they can’t see how selena acts like an entitled brat. Or if they rlly don’t see it, I pity the people around them. I wouldn’t be able to be around selena at all, everything is about her and she’s constantly snapping at people
She is just so bipolar that time because of stressed, I’ve been there so I understand 🥺
Omg! I’ve been calling her a professional victim for YEARS!
👍
And she is!
Dude Selena mentioning Justin again is so sick. She always plays the victim.
First of all its not like other people can get over their exes so easily. Second of all, Justin did treat her badly
@@harimamomin5517she treated him bad too
@@harimamomin5517 it’s been a decade since they properly dated. Btw: i wouldn’t consider the thing they had in 2018 as an actually relationship. They kept getting back together and breaking up and before that they dated different people
I think she play the victim too much.
Yes
YES!
I hope the same happens to you 💗 then you'll know.
Of course she's the victim
Yes she is the victim
she is addicted to being in the victim role. and she also still seems upset with justin but as it would be bad for her image to quote him directly she prefers to fight with the wife who is the weakest link. idk i just get these vibes from her i don't like women who fight other women over a man
Wow nice narrative 😂🙄
I feel so sorry for Raquelle, dealing with Selena's antics on a daily. I'm 100% certain Raquelle gets paid to be Selena's support buddy, otherwise I wouldn't see her being 'friends' with Selena for long.
I remember Raquelle really friendly with Hailey too, I find the dynamic between her and Hailey and her and Selena interesting
Raquelle is earn money from Selena, just it.
@@mls6734 literally! that's the only plus really
@@mls6734 yes probably
How did they became friends Raquelle and Selena??
Your comment is nebulous are you siding w her or against her
This documentary was so…. Non-documentary. Very surface based.
There are thousands if not millions of people in the world who struggle with depression and severe anxiety and our living in poverty with no joy whatsoever in their lives and there is no one to ask them and gives a shit about their mental health and wellbeing but they still show up to their jobs and live life without acting like cry baby and victim and treat people with kindness.
Selena is living the best possible life that a human being can live money, fame, freedom, loving fans, family, respect what more do you want.
Instead of acting like a narcistic victim and crybaby if she would have put half of that effort in developing her voice she could sing without autotune live by now.
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I found her documentary very boring & dishonest, she didn’t rly talk about the REAL reason for her heartbreak , which was JUSTIN and HAILEY. She didn’t talk about the weeknd, which also added had to her heartbreak , she didn’t even mention Francia at all? Who gave her a kidney! She blamed it all on mental health and being bipolar… There is still a lot that we don’t know that she didn’t share,.. if ur gonna make a documentary then do it right !!!
Gurl u s*ck. She talk about HER mental issues. You want her to talk about exes 🤦♀️🤦♀️ If u want gossip this is not the good destination for you. The documentary is called My mind and me and not My life and my exes. She’s helping people like US, if u don’t understand well but not judge or criticize someone feeling. And she never talk about the Bieber, at this point I think that YOU have to move from HER past relationship
Does she really have bipolar or is it "Quiet BPD"? Those are usually misdiagnosed or hard to diagnose. Possibly, "Covert Narcissism".
People who have bi polar disorder are easily irritated they also react harshly when their emotions are on overload. Alot of times they react and say things with no control over it and it takes a minute for our brain to catch up. We end up feeling extremely guilty for what ever we did or said. Depression is something that comes along with being bi polar you don't want to get out of bed or see or talk to people. The guilt and shame from not being able to control the way you react is so bone deep exhausting it truly feels like the world is against you including your body and mind. I wrote all of this because of the scene with her and her friend I thought I could give some context to what it's like. I thank God every day for my husband putting up with me for 16years I know it can't be easy no matter how many times I admit I was wrong and apologize. Raquel is a really good friend to still be standing with her.
UPDATE.. Apparently people are triggered, I wasn't speaking about her drinking or not on medication move along.
Couldn’t have said it better ! Wanted to comment something along those lines but you said it perfect !
@@evelynbibriesca9706 selena is not only bipolar she is a covert narcissist too.she is fake amd two faced
All so true 😢
Can I ask if this is the result of trauma or ACEs?
@@RecoverywithMissWilliams Their is still no diffenative cause for why someone develops bi polar disorder. There is speculation but no clear answer yet on it. For me I have trauma starting from a very young age in many different forms. I also have severe anxiety and ptsd so it's different for the individual witch is why I think they have a hard time coming up with cause.
If Selena had the best PR ever, they would tell her to stop bullying and stalking Justin and Hailey and Bella and everyone else, just stop! And to stop sending her fans to do it for her too. That’s what good PR would do. Selena is being exposed because of how she won’t just leave a happily married man and his wife alone. No one cares she was having sax with an underage boy?? If we are gonna stay in the past then let’s show how she committed dv against Justin (and I’m sure other bfs). Let’s show how she hated her fans until she found out she could use them to bully others. Let’s talk about how no one will be her friend unless they’re paid and how no guy stays with her. If we are gonna stay in the past, we need to always bring up the slapping video and her being rude to fans while Justin would stop and take pics and do autographs, let’s show and talk about it all.
True❤
Exactly.. also she dated the weeknd just to get back a jb and ruin weeknds relationship with bella. (Ik he cheated on bella but selena is also involved in this situation) and how she befriended bella after ruining their relationship. And recently selena was spotted with drew taggart who is connected to evejobs and now with zayn. Imagine it was hailey hanging out with different dudes. People are gonna say she’s a whore. People also forget the situation with francia raisa. Also selena seems to be always the 3rd women in someone’s relationship. And the act all angel when smthng happens..
i have seen selenators on tiktok saying selena drop raquelle and was so confused? And you are telling me its because Rauqelle puts with Selena's strong emotions because she knows her for real and she is used to her lashing out? Selena really needs more mature fans
Seems like some honesty is still lacking, the parts of the documentary that got glossed over should've been looked into more, as that would've been more interesting to see the side of her that's been hidden. She's clearly very broken and just needs to take the time to heal herself, and she needs to do it properly.
Agreed
100%
She IS a perpetual victim. The entire doc was her crying about superficial things having to do with work & promo, crying over her ex who’s moved on & married. Even AFTER she goes to Africa to be humbled she isn’t. Promotion is part of her JOB. Millions of starving homeless people would kill to trade positions with her. And the reason SHE brought up the words “ungrateful” & “unappreciative” is because she IS & didn’t want Raquel or anyone else saying what she already knows. She needs to just go sit behind the scenes cuz it’s getting old.
True
YES! She’s a Debbie downer with this whole “woe is me” trope and is the type who wants their back rubbed through everything.
@@yoambria3747 exactly
Isn't it because promotions are part of her work, that she doesn't feel stress or that she doesn't want to? She makes anxiety + is depressed and she is a human like everyone else, she has emotions and feelings whether positive or negative it's normal so it's useless to say I don't know what just because she is famous and rich. She is authentic, don't pretend and she is one of the few celebrities to be like that.
Could it be that he behaves that way because it is typical of a depressed person?
In 2019, I researched Bieber and Gomez in a type of a psychological study with regard to pop culture, not as a "fan" that really knew the work of either. The dynamic of Bieber and Gomez being in a long off and on again relationship which saw him almost immediately propose to and wed Hailey after a break up with Gomez fascinated me. I wanted to dig into that.
I read through thousands of comments over the course of years of social media post in addition to Selena's release of "Lose You To Love Me" where all blamed Bieber for their relationship struggles ("cheater, manipulator, abuser"). Even Bieber blamed himself.
But my research revealed different findings. I saw Bieber as the manipulated. Selena first dismissing his publically revealed crush as that of a "kid brother" very much talking about him (even mockingly so) as if an underling child rather than a peer.
I'm sure this impacted his desire to be viewed as a man and caused him to be easily seduced by other women who treated him as such. But then he became the untrustworthy cheater paying a penance for hurting the woman he loved. Again, his self-esteem crashes. So, he cheats more wanting to see himself through the eyes of other women while Selena reminds him constantly of how he hurts her.
She wants him, but he can't change what's been done. So, she tries to control him as we do when we lose trust. And he gets the sense that he can't win. His self-esteem crashes more. He chases women more. Her self-esteem crashes more. She seeks more control of him. Back and forth it goes.
Selena: "You make me feel bad. You make me feel crazy."
Justin leaves because he makes her feel bad and crazy. He cheats with the woman that says: "You make me feel good." Selena: "I'm so good to you and you're so bad to me. You make me feel bad. You make me feel crazy."
Round and round it goes.
He quickly wed Hailey and settled down, because he wanted to break the cycle of pain for both himself and Gomez and to be the good guy with Hailey the way he never could be with Gomez (who he holds himself accountable for breaking).
It seems odd, but he married Hailey because he wants to be a good guy. Marriage to the woman he hadn't hurt was almost an act of redemption for him in his eyes. As if he could finally become what Selena said he should've been all along. Notice his Selena tattoo is not just of Selena...but Selena as an angel with angel's wings. She's the Saint. He's the sinner. He wanted redemption.
I truly sense the guy was gaslit and manipulated a lot by Gomez. And we see how Selena uses people just in this video about the documentary. She uses poor people to make herself feel better about herself as in: "Oh let me go connect with the little guy so I can get grounded." It's not born from true caring about anyone but herself and her needs.
And anyone who needs to hate another to love oneself doesn't love oneself or anyone else.
💯 Now someone is talking sense.
That’s exactly how narcissist can make people and their lovers feel in a relationship. You’re right on that.
Complete bullshit!!
I have three degrees in psychology and behavioral sciences, can confirm this all seems to be the most likely case. She actually displays much more narcissistic behaviors than people talk about, especially with her her cycle of discarding friends once someone more famous or someone more willing to worship her comes along. ie being Demi’s best friend when she was relevant with camp rock, discarding her for Bieber behind closed door supposedly being in a relationship with him despite barely acting like she was his friend publicly or anything more than a sister-like figure, when he stopped praising her behind closed doors due to her cycle of devaluing (gaslighting and putting him down) so he moves on and that is EVERY narcissists WORST fear... they don’t want their victims to be emotionally over them, they want to always be on their mind and in control of their life even if it’s just by consuming their thoughts so she would act “mature” and above it all REACTING to horrible things asking others to be kind to him and Hailey but actually did very little if anything to pre-emotive or stop people from barraging them, from bringing up his exes, for talking about Justin and Selena, she even stocked flames by continually making more music that would bring everyone to thing her songs were about Justin, again getting control over his life, how people interact with him and interview him. Narcissist might not really want you at the end of the day but they DO want to feel better than you and like you’re forever indebted to them. This is where her avoidant attachment style comes in- she has gone on about Justin Bieber being this huge impact on her life for LONGER than they were even “together”. It’s ridiculous at this point. This is common for narcissists and those with low empathy or avoidant attachment styles, it’s called “the phantom ex”. I’m not kidding that’s a real psychological term because they don’t truly want to be with their ex, and if they were to get back together they would just end things or discard them again, maybe even make it appear like they are pushing them away for the victims own good, either way they ultimately don’t end up with them because they don’t want to... if they wanted to be with you they would be with you... in a long and real commitment, not say they want to and continually leave you... it’s sad really because they will forvevet fantasize about that “perfect” ex that was the one who got away, yet if they actually had them they wouldn’t want them, they would instead long for some other person they used to date or want and think THEY were the one that got away “why am I with THIS GUY who hurts me so much (devaluing them) when I could have been with so-and-so if they just stayed with me... etc. Etc. Allowing people to talk for so many YEARS about her ex and continue to tie them to each other rather than creating a new narrative about her life and love life, grow into a new person rather than the damsel and victim that had a lover who made her “lose herself in order to be loved by them” is a victim narrative to juicy for a narcissist to pass up. Now with Taylor as her friend she will continue to be her friend as long as Taylor is relevant and at the top of the food chain, if someone else comes along with more influence that would be her next target judging by her pattern but who knows who that could be... time will tell
@@Cloudyconfusion Makes sense that Charlie Puth's "Attention" was about her. Just as with Bieber, she wants the attention. My mom is a grandiose narcissist. I lived this. My mom didn't want my dad, but even 14 years after their divorce she'd keep me up on school nights till 1:00 am asking "How could he do me that way?"
She couldn't understand why he didn't want her. Why he didn't keep chasing her. She forgot about holding the loaded gun to his head and all the times she screamed at him to "F" off.
Selena's behaviors reminds me a lot of my mom. How dare Bieber be happy without her. How dare he move on, and her fanatics... 4-years later... still hasn't let him. They harrass the guy, and I think he does a good enough job of that on his own as he's a bit of a tortured soul thinking he hurt someone he loved and himself a monster. He doesn't know he's the victim. He was gaslit. He was manipulated. He was controlled and likely never loved in the first place, but rather the product of an ego trip in need of using him to be fed.
It's mind blowing that people still care about Selena Gomez when she hasn't been relevant in over a decade.
Selena is just an attention seeking drama queen,she's been playing the victim since she broke up with justin bieber
Stop it girl
I used to be a bigger fan but Selena’s documentary made me feel like she’s constantly feeling sorry for herself and playing the victim….in reference to her friends being called the bullies bc they weren’t always running to hug her; you can’t help a friend who doesn’t want to help herself….and the Justin Bieber narrative is OLD…he’s moved on and has been married for a while now idk why she can’t let that go it makes her look like she hasn’t grown beyond those years… but idk that’s my opinion
It's not like that bro.. Take it easy
Selena moved on tho
@@peachy4713 i mean she can say she moved on, but if at every chance she gets she references Justin in her songs/performances/mental health then is she really over him? idk I would feel weird mentioning an ex from years ago especially if he’s married
@@northeastgirl3310 ok I was just stating my opinion lol
I often think Selena is a hypocrite ..
and plays victim card too often.
I swear Selena is a professional victim. Idk why Taylor swift was dragged a few years back for her victim acting but somehow Selena who is a million times worse doesn't get any backlash. Girly has gasped onto victim acting to keep her career afloat. How her constant victim act goes unnoticed is beyond me. I'm so sick of it. If you're pressed, argue with ur cracked screen.
THIS! EXACTLY! and people keep confusing her mistakes with bad decisions 🙄. She’s done a lot of messed up things and has never taken responsibility for any of it! That’s what bothers me most and that’s why I appreciate this channel/website for calling it out!
Both Taylor and Selena are perpetual victims! That’s about the only thing they have in common. And their mutual hatred for Justin bieber
Have you seen Hailey's victim act lately?
@@va8382 Hailey has never been a victim. Selena on the other hand cries constantly over an ex who she didn’t even want. She’s the one who dumped Justin in 2018. She didn’t want him she just didn’t want him moving on which is what she did with Charlie too.
@@kmoneyyyy1994 she and Charlie never dated . Charlie fell in love with her and she reject him .
She couldn't stay loyal to the friend who literally gave her a new life? 🥺
She is very selfish.. I really loved her but sorry she always want to play the victim 🤦♀️
I watched it and I'm gonna just say it: compared with the openness of Justin's documentaries, felt very vague and making her always the victim which is kinda sad. She's never open or vulnerable with the truth. Not worth watching.
Yeah, I actually like Justin’s documentary series. Just from a few Clifton this video, I would never watch this. However, beyond craving the fan connection, I think the reason Justin was so open is because this was his chance to tell his story without any media twisting. Selena has always been and always will be seen as the good girl and therefore did not have to do a super deep documentary because everybody would love her regardless. Justin had more to prove and she does. Justin had to prove that he’s not the person that the media and Selena have made him out to be. He had to prove that he has grown and changed where Selena doesn’t have to prove anything, because her reputation was never tarnished, and never will be tarnished unless she does something so incredibly bad that would make everyone turn against her.
Personal opinion: I don’t really think Selena Gomez is bipolar or has depression etc. She seems like someone that likes being the victim all the time. Overall toxic and just someone with such a big ego she literally needs to go to a third world country to be humbled and even then it’s temporary. I could be wrong idk if that’s what they were going for in this documentary lol
I agree.
So basically she is a covert narcissist.
She = Haidick
Don’t forget she’s bipolar
@@denisepalomares8584 she is also a big problem idk why she seems fake
@@denisepalomares8584narcississm and bipolar overlap. Most people with bipolar ARE narcissist. I just googled it 😉
@@ignacioo505 more of malignant/covert
You girls just made a video on exactly what I was feeling after watching the documentary. "My mind and Me" is a primary example of beauty being only skin deep. The film broke no ground. They should have just named the documentary "Selena Gomez: Crying on multiple occasions."
Literally no context! And the director is supposed to be this incredible man who did the Madonna documentary
@@ScandalousMediaTea He himself was gushing about how spectacular of a "bare yet astonishing" kind of documentary this was. I guess his Madonna doc (I haven’t seen it though) if it was good, it was a "lightening in a bottle" situation.
@@ScandalousMediaTea selena did say she was I t he editing process, maybe she was more involved and told him how she wanted it. And maybe she said this is what I'm happy with. And this is the result. Maybe she did not want to share too much. She was already nervous about people seeing it.
I have not seen the doc yet. I feel kind of nervous about seeing it myself.
@@ninalily It's highly unlikely that someone like Selena, who's very much dependent on the opinion of others who surround her will have this much power over editing, she would have kept on asking everybody for Their opinion again and again
LoL
She's just looking for sympathy by whatever means.
As a Selena fan I expected a lot more, they gloss over the interesting stuff and focus on the boring stuff. And yeah i didn't come out of this documentary knowing anything new about her, which in my opinion is kind of the point of a documentary like this.
Yeah she shouldn't have done that documentary at all if she wasn't willing to go there and talk about the difficult stuff. I think she's too cowardly too. I think she doesn't want to call anyone out because that would make them angry and they would call her out for her bad behavior as well. She's keeping quiet so they keep quiet if that makes sense. I think this entire documentary was completely pointless and a waste of money. It wasn't brave like everyone is saying. It was very surface level
Tbh I’ve watched her documentary twice and still don’t know why she feels the way she feels. Why she’s broken why does her past haunt her and then how did she come over all of those feelings.I didn’t learn anything coz I don’t even understand the problem she’s facing it’s so confusing !!
She is bipolar.. that is the explanation
I have watched the documentary. It was boring, chaotic and taken out of context. I appreciated her being real and i sympathised her going through psychosis as i wouldnt wish that on anybody. However, she didnt address anything the general public does not know already. She did not even mentioned her best friend who donated her a kidney. Her mother appeared only for 2 mins??? Is interesting how they included the drugs controversy from the tabloids but they did not even try to at least deny the claims in the doc, they just avoided the whole topic. Which says a lot. This documentary did not clarify anything for me.
You know she has to get her friends permission if she can put her in her documentary? And they are probably not friends anymore. If she doesn’t want to expose her mom more why is it a issue for you? It doesn’t have to clarify anything for you. She is very vulnerable in the dc its on you if you want to watch it or not you dont need to bash it. Its so true ppl will always complain
Exactly.
@@blueocean811 i literally do not understand why you are being so triggered by my comment. As a viewer i have given my honest review on the documentary. A documentary aim is to give clarity on the celeb’s life and to make the viewers understand certain things better. I paid money to watch it, i am entitled to an opinion. MY OWN opinion.
Francia has said before that she doesn't want to be associated as the girl who donated her kidney, maybe she didn't give permission to be on the documentary? 🤷🏽♀️
@@elisarosales2533 Also in this video EMG wrote that Francia unfollowed Selena on IG a day after the documentary came out.
I wish they had taken a different route with the documentary. If the intention was to raise awareness about mental health it would have been way better if she actually talked about her triggers and if they got a mental health professional to come explain and talk to the audience about why Selena was having these issues, what are the symptoms and how one may start trying to treat them. Instead all we got was an hour and a half of Selena crying about her job. I get it. I sympathize but who is that helping really? I'm sorry but I just don't feel bad for her. Most people in the world have to go through mental health struggles and still deal with doing parts of their jobs that they don't like. And unlike the rest of the world she's actually getting paid millions for it. I don't think Selena had bad intentions with the documentary but this just goes to show how far removed celebrities are from the reality that most other people experience on a daily basis. Her struggles aren't that different from what many of us face but unlike her none of us have the luxury of complaining about it all day and having a team full of people cater to our mood.
I agree with how they should have made the documentary. They should have shown how bad her problems actually are. She has bad anxiety and is bipolar witch is a nightmare to deal with. She has trauma and propably also ptsd from things she has gone through.
She may have struggled with addictions witch we dont know for sure, there are only rumours. She works in a very toxic enviroment, Hollywood is a dark place. And she also struggles with lupus.
Those are not things that most of us struggle with. Not everyone are bipolar, not everyone has lupus, not everyone has grown up as a childstar, not everyone has anxiety as a diagnosis. Not everyone has been in abusive relationships and not everyone have struggled with addictions.
Right, she seemed really bratty.
I can understand Selena's difficult mentality in the sense that I am a complex person myself. I come from a catastrophic family (physical abuse, moral). It takes to me a lot of energy to socialize which makes me get angry very quickly. I had old/ex-friends who never really supported me (+ gaslight, passive aggressive). My emotional maturity has not been built in a healthy way so it is difficult for me to live in society. Not long ago I realized that for my well-being I had to not remain in a victim mentality, no matter what I may have experienced. I noticed several things in Selena's behavior and in comparison to mine that I could talk about for hours. It's as if she stays on a time of her life and that she does not "grow"
Oh Also, I'm not saying that my situation is similar to hers (far from it) or that we should be sad for Selena. This help me to understand human behaviors
raquelle that mf snitch ass friend fr fr yassss
💯💯💯💯
@Sidra 💞
I agree. At that point I wonder: is it fear to grow? Or is it that she can't grow because she truly doesn't know any better? (Conditioning, what have you)
I just wish she was honest about the drinking, I mean, Jennifer Lawrence likes to drink, she doesn't hide it, she jokes about it and I don't think anyone has an issue with it, the fact that selena's pr team so desperately tries to hide this, shows how much of an issue it is
I think Selena is that type of girl who could not get over her ex. She always tries to make statements about how she was mistreated and sad during her relationship with Justin but that was like ages ago. Like, girl, get over it, the dude's married and happy and probably does not even think about you and you go every day crying and saying that leaving him was the best thing that happened to you... If that's true then move on with your life and s t o p acting as the eternal victim of a guy who found the love of his life in someone who wasn't you.
It's a track from the TV series LOST, where that one long lost absent father appears and meet his son, just to have his kidney. And then once he gets it, he no longer wants the father -son thing with him.
Same, Selena got what she wanted, but she never really felt Francia was worthy enough to be in her friends circle.
True😂❤
It definitely just scratched the surface. It was so choppy and it had too many gaps. Idk how it went from 2016 to 2019/2020. I think she cut all the jb stuff out after the hailey pic because it signified the fued is over & if she kept all the jb stuff it’d be contradictory. Honestly the doc made no sense. Super bummed.
They maybe tried to cut off Justin part who literally broke her heart and give her depression
Justin is mentioned for the most irrelevant things. It was easy to not even reference these parts at all in a doc about her ‘mental health’.
The whole thing about justin being name dropped in this documentary and the headlines being all about that just proves what you've been saying all along.
They need a Bieber for promotion.
Overall the documentary is most definitely surface level.
She cries the entire time without any elaboration as to why she feels the way she does.
It feels like a big chunk is missing.
Nah, she tried to put an end to it, he was mentioned few times and she made clear it was the best thing to end that relationship,she's just subtly trying to make people linkin them
I was wondering why she didn't say more about him. It actually seems like she was trying to avoid talking about him to me. I guess if you're obsessed with someone like Justin you are also kinda dumb
Selena definitely my sister where she gets mad so easily and goes to accusing rather than answering the question and taking things the wrong way easily 🤦🏻♀️
i think raquelle is her paid personal assistant
Gosshing!! She maybe more has a narciccistic attitude than her ever beloved beiber!! That is why he gives up being with her!? Am I right??
I always thought she had an opiate problem (I had one myself) and or Xanax addiction, just by her mannerisms etc. It is very rare to go into rehab multiple times just for anxiety or depression unless a drug is involved. sending love to Selena and anyone else sick and suffering from addiction
Maybe she did? She left a lot out of this documentary., she barely talked about Justin 🙄 when most of her sadness and heartbreak was from him and hailey…. And how she completely left out Francia who gave her a kidney.. she wasn’t fully telling us everything, so I wouldn’t doubt it if she had an addiction as well…
yeah she was completely wasted at the AMA 2019 awards idk how people breezed past it
@@Librababyyyy why would she talk abt Justin?? It’s not abt that, it’s abt her mental health.
@@Librababyyyy but she has talked about receiving the kidney multiple times already.
@@gabriellabailey189 because it’s a DOCUMENTARY& Justin was a huge part of her life , OBVIOUSLY! MOST her of heartbreak was from him!! Heartbreak causes mental health issues also!
Ok so she complains about not being enough on her own but continues to refer to the Biebers by liking posts about them, shading Hailey on TikTok, getting her picture taken with Hailey, etc. This is on her, when people (so non-fans) think of the Biebers they think of the stuff they are working on but when people think of Selena, the first thing they think of are the Biebers, and she has no one to blame for this but herself.
Before Hailey and Justin got married Selena was continually crying about how she didn’t want to be seen as “someone’s ex” referring to Justin but constantly brought him up or shaded him or argued with him on Instagram in 2016 so obviously there will always be headlines about them both because she actively started drama with him continually!! Then cries and plays the victim that people call her Justin’s ex. She’s her own worst victim
I was so excited about the documentary but the documentary gave us nothing 😢
she had alcohol issues, maybe used drugs in the past, she is partying too hard. they did not talked about this, it is because this is gonna bring her troubles to her career, also she is living the side effects of selling her soul
Are u guys gonna talk abt the Francia situation?
The poor girl is getting so much hate right now from the Selenators.
It's Selena's fault people are blind
@@hiiij9638 It’s so sad for Francia. She deserves better.
I did like the documentary. I think she showed a part of herself nobody had seen before, for example when she could be mean to people too when she's not in the mood. She is human like anybody else. We get angry too and we could be mean sometimes. She put the drug problems out there without admiting it but we all know she and bieber had issues with addiction and thats why she had problems with her mom.
she can be that depressed but at least not to the extent that she'd destroy other people. imagine Hailey getting hate because of her comment on a hate video about Hailey. svcks.
@@Mariaavvemaria which hailey was apart of lol
@@Mariaavvemaria Hailey has a PhD in bullying
@lotusbloom7750 and selena bacherlor of ex obsession majoring in not moving on
@@lotusbloom7750 Do you know what bullying or a real feud is? Look at Cardi B and Nicki Minaj. Selena and Hailey is nowhere near that. It's a bunch of speculation and fan theories and narratives.
I’m sorry but I can’t with her crying over wanting to do something alone. I mean she’s the girl that was always trying to get with or was getting with it the new “it guy.”
Yes she was famous before Justin. But her career took off after Justin
So why Hailey career is still underwater?
@@danialrafiq3290 what does this have to do with Hailey? Lol
@@danialrafiq3290 Hailey is the moment rn what do you mean…
@@kirstied4 you say Selena career took off after Justin but not Hailey
@@kirstied4 you guys be saying anything at this point 😂😂
I think it's deeper than her mental health, it's her physical health taking a toll which a lot of ppl do not understand at a young age. An organ transplant and all of the meds that come along with that alone aside from bipolar medication can really be hard on someone and I think she deserves more grace.
I wish people would try to understand and not judge she couldve decided to nt show us all of this but she did and I respect her so much for that and feel sorry and also grateful cuz I feel like now I know why I myself act in a certain way I didnt have an idea ab what bipolar disorder is
And lupus
@@ariann9714 yeah people judge her as playing victim etc. Well as some one who has mental illness like her I totally understand her and what she’s going through emotionally and mentally.
As a person with bipolar, I can attest that when its untreated, bipolar episodes can and will absolutely wreck your life like a tornado in just a week or maybe even less. Also just even the day to day amplified mood swings between episodes can be very draining. I think that the statistic is that 40% to 50% of those with bipolar attempt suicide at least once in their life. You got the multiple month extreme suicidal depressive episodes and then you got mania which commonly presents nearly identically to a schizophrenic episode except a person in manic psychosis has a remarkably high level of energy and motivation and will eventually be complete in hysteria if left untreated. Basically you embarrass the shit out of yourself and then go straight down into a severe depressive episode once you come back and realize how "crazy" you were acting in mania. Luckily, it gets easier and better after some time of medications, lifestyle changes, therapy, and support, but doesn't ever go away fully. I bet living with lupus on top of that is an absolute nightmare. Selena is a textbook case of bipolar 2 and I don't think she's doing anything with malicious intent. Managing lupus and bipolar together all in the public eye sounds so unfathomably difficult and I think she for sure deserves some credit
Not she has ENOUGH GRACE
Also, I feel like it’s a common thing regarding celebrity documentaries that they never really dive deep but tell us things we already know. Personally, I think Demi Lovatos documentary did good in trying to dive deep and not just tell us things we already know
Yes! I feel like there was no shock factor with Selena's unlike Demi's or Justin's who sat there listing all the drugs they did when no one asked lmao
Ediwow
@@ScandalousMediaTea really?? Cuz I’m a fan of Selena and I had no idea her mental health has been at stake for years. Also, if their trying to rlly show a side of them the normal person wouldn’t know, then their making the doc more so for themselves rather than the world. Just to be out abt something like BPD to the world, as a celebrity, I’m sure is very freeing. She didn’t expose herself. As someone who has severely suffered w my mental health, I sympathize w her 100%. You didn’t achieve anything by posting this. She meant to put everything in that documentary.
@@ScandalousMediaTea then why watch its her story to tell u don't have to watch its not for u to like its for h we to tell her story
That's because Demi had already been exposed. It's easier to tell all when there's already all kinds of crazy rumors about you. Stop trying to compare ppl and decide who is a better person. I like Selena because I just like her deadpan vibe, acting and emotion-driven music. I never thought she was some kind of Angel. The important thing is that she is trying to do better.
This was a joke of a documentary- best PR piece she could have possibly put out. Great coverage!
Thank you!
people like u or the one who made that video deserve nothing , feel bad for y’all , how miserable y’all have to be to hate on her. May y’all find peace
This documentary was dry and boring she never really talked bout the kidney transplant nor francia , I know they weren't talking at the time but she should e grateful I felt the how documentary was woe is me, poor little rich girl vibe.. depressing lacking character
I often think Selena is a hypocrite ..
and plays victim card too often.
@@annietang9599 true I now see that the world is finding out of her sneaky and shady behavior
Her pr always tries to portray her as a victim girl.bcoz of her hailey and justin get this much hate for just being happily married
She is toxic always playing victim
I think Justin bieber really suffering from her mentality
They explain what happened very clearly: she had undiagnosed BipolarII (the major depressive episodes and hypomania one), but she eventually was diagnosed and started treatment, struggling with it a bit in the start, as is normal.
I’ve just watched the documentary and I feel it’s so depressing. It kinda reminds me of Meghan Markle on Oprah. It left me asking questions than getting answers. I feel there was a lot of parts missing. I don’t get the hate on Raquelle, do they want her to have ‘yes’ people in her life?
They want to have people who are always nice to Selena Gomez
If they are not yes people they are not her friends. She wouldn't keep people around her that will tell her the honest truth.
Really? I am not exactly Selena’s biggest fan but she didn’t lie 99% of the time. Comparing these two is… I’ll be like Oprah.. : “what? What?”
Like I think that some part were probably more dramatic than they actually are but I am sure she has quite serious mental health problems. I have Apple TV but after seeing this video(and otherrs) I feel like it’s not really worth it.
I am not a fan but if she actually adressed some imporant things, I’d watch it.
@@MSeliskaZ She does have serious mental problems but that is all she talks about in the documentary and not how she got those mental problems, just the fact that she has them. Not even the fact that she heavily drinks, used and maybe still uses drug$,...she doesn't talk about how she really ended up where she is now. She just acts like the victim the whole time and blames everything on fame and lupus.
In the documentary she is even talking about how she was halluc!nating, hearing voices, was is psychosis but never explains why that happened to her and kind of makes is seem like fame is the reason for all of it. Side effects of drug$ are all the things she was talking about...even w*ed makes some people halluc!nate, let alone some heavy drug$ she was/is taking.
Literally this documentary is just surface things and she never goes into details on anything. It was supposed to be 2,5 hours long but ended up being 1,5 hours long.
It was kind of boring and nothing new we already didn't know so don't waste your time watching it. It was just a pity party for Selena.
I honestly didn't like Selena's friends until I watched this documentary. In the past when I was teenager I was super depressed and acted like Selena. Now watching this made me realize how hard it must have been to be my friend at that time. Can you imagine what Selena's friends are going through just being next to her all the time? I could never be friends with someone like Selena, I would cuss her out. It would drain anybody being next to someone who acts like that, walking on eggshells around them and having everything be about them. I know this is Selena's documentary, about HER life, but it looks to me like she is the type of person where everything has to be and revolve around her, she has to be center of attention and her friends are just like accessories to her (play Attention by Charlie Puth). I doubt that Selena is ever there for her friends the way they are always there for her.
Omg I had friend that acted just like Selena did, that's why I couldn't be her friend anymore.
Selena is not like what you think ..like AT ALL ...your whole comment is giving out hate ....and whats going with wanting everything to be about her when its her life and your with her in it and whats wrong with her crying and expressing her feels and to have confidence to be emotional with herself instead of just thinking about what people say about her emotions
@@meralEdwtDawlatly with this comment you just proved that you’re too ignorant to even understand what’s wrong with this type of behavior. You’re either naive or you ARE that abusive type of friend. Yikes…
@@meralEdwtDawlatly there are many videos worshipping selena, go comment there.
I like Selena but she seems very exhausting. I wonder if Raquel needs therapy from dealing with it for so long. No wonder she hangs out with Simi and Abel. Must be a lot more calm with them
Poor Raquel definitely needs therapy. Hope she gets it and moves far away from Selena and her constant drama.
Yes it is definitely a poor me documentary and definitely it's trying to make Justin Bieber as so incredibly abusive and the fault of all her problems. Not saying Justin didn't do bad things but wasn't that his first real girlfriend. That's normal a learning experience where we all make mistakes and learn from them. Pretty sure Justin learnt some lessons paid the price and changed as much as he can. I mean he's not cheating on Hailey so clearly he wanted a different lifestyle and chose Hailey who was offering him stability when he needed it most. He wanted to grow up and change. I think he's doing a good job, if only the public would leave him alone. Fat chance of that unfortunately.
Selena is so strange to me. One minute in Interviews she brags about Disney and Wizards being some of the best times of her life. She loved it, they had a great cast, no drama, all got along, etc. next minute she’s crying in the documentary saying she wants nothing to do with Disney and doesn’t want to be seen as a “Disney kid.” But in previous interviews loved Disney, and realized it opened up a lot of doors for her. She does seem ungrateful and seems to make mountains out of molehills. I understand feeling insecure, not good enough, depressed, etc but you can’t let your feelings control your life because they absolutely will. She needs to get those feelings under control. I’m not saying they aren’t valid- but wow don’t let them ruin your tour and life. It’s not worth it. Honestly this doc did her a huge disservice in my
opinion…. And like you said in the video all the important things we actually want to know like her mom drama, the kidney and lupus behind the scenes, drug/alcohol problem was not shown. Her whining about doing promo was so weird too. She was so proud of this song and apparently wrote it in “45 minutes” but also hates doing promo and bringing attention to it…. Definitely bipolar. It’s very sad actually. She needs a lot of help. Also weird she didn’t mention Fran at all!!!! You know Fran is mad
I often think Selena is a hypocrite ..
and plays victim card too often.
@Alita I understand it but you can’t treat your friends and family like crap constantly and then blame bipolar disorder especially the women you literally gave you her organ
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completely agree with everything you're saying. I wish they explained that the reason she acted out is (I assume) because of bipolar instead of it just looking like she has anger issues.
@Alita i am a psychology student and my boyfriend is bipolar. Yes, he'll act like selena, like a bipolar but theres total lack of self-awareness and self-reflection in selena. Its prolly harder for her since she's in the spotlight and stuff but she has SO many toxic traits that people just brush over. Never justify hurting people because of mental illnesses unless its schizophrenia. You can explain but acknowledge that what she's doing is not cool and is wrong. Shes 30 ffs, she needs to pick her life up and work on it instead of blaming everyone.
I got instantly depressed and felt super dark watching this doc. I had to stop watching
same here :( so sad specifically seeing her so fragile
Lol she manipulated you to feel sorry for her
@@fallingleave5287 I don’t feel sorry for her in the least I just felt a dark void watching it
Not once did y’all mention her bi polar disorder. I loved seeing Selena grow. For us that have bi polar and depression disorders I completely get where she’s coming from. She doesn’t mean to be that way .
I don't have Apple TV and I was waiting for y'alls review. While everyone was saying "Hailey is doing damage control", I knew the documentary wouldn't be true. I'm surprised they edited miscellaneous clips together and glossed over so much. I was ready to think ESMG was lying if she proved otherwise.
Also, I thought it was ironic that she said she didn't wanna be associated with Justin yet she 1, stayed with him continuously use his fame and 2, made it seem like ALL her problems are because of Justin, mentioning him three? times... I want her to get better and move on but I don't think she realizes how this'll only start up more Jelena drama. I still can't really find a Selenator who posts more about Selena than Jailey.
tell me how you read my mind 🔥
Well said. But delusional 12 Yr old selena stans will soon attack you for saying fax. Selena is the personification of a victim and I'm tired of her constant victim act.
this was filmed a while ago before it was released. Also, justin has made way more songs about selena then she has of him. His song, She don’t like the lights, is literally about selena. I think your wrong tbh
Well said
@@culturalresponse2447 th-cam.com/video/ZE1_2sR0m_k/w-d-xo.html
I sympathize with Selena and her struggles but it is hard to really feel sorry for her for all the shit that she's done. I thought this documentary was going to be about accountability like Demi's or Justin's but no. She's either blaming everyone else or blaming her mental health. Also to me, it is very telling of her personality and behaviour when: 1. Francia (who literally donated her kidney to Selena) is not friends with her anymore, 2. Taylor (who she claims is her best friend in the industry) is MIA throughout the whole documentary, 3. The fact that a lot of people that were once associated with Selena are not friends with her but are friends with each other. Like Demi for example. She's not friends with Selena but she's friends with Hailey and Justin. Another example, Charlie Puth, the Jenners, Bella Hadid and The Weeknd. They were all associated/friends with Selena at one point. Now they aren't friends with her but they are all friends with each other and with Hailey and Justin. And 4. The fact that she does nothing to speak up for the hate that Raquelle is receiving is crazy to me. I mean I get that she won't say anything in support of Hailey for the hate that she gets but the fact that she doesn't defend Raquelle or her other friends is just very sus to me. And the fact that they left in that footage of their fight in the documentary. I feel like her team is aware that those clips will be taken out of context and Raquelle will receive even more hate. Smh. But anyways, this is an amazing video girls! I would love for girls to more of this kind of videos! Love it!
What has she done that’s soooo bad?? Lol
For real. The overarching theme there is, hello? anybody home with self-awareness and self-reflection?
I mean tho.... thats true for any regular human being. We also have frienships that end, sometime all f our ex friends become friends.... its just the way life goes sometimes
I agree with you. Selena isnt bad. I just dont FEEL bad for her.
Why you want to feel bad? She is showing how mental diagnosis affects people life even famous ones. She is criticized because is and because she is not. First, she is not looking for your pity; second, she can’t put whoever she wants without their consent ( including TS, JB etc)
Third, not all the organ donor HAVE to be friends with organ recipients… if you donate should not be having expectation or ownership of decision you made.
At the AMA's, Selena was out of it. She said in an interview that she was on medication (drugs) for her Bipolar as well as the Lupus. It was drugs...prescribed by a Doctor. To understand Selena, you have to understand how Bipolar disorder affects your moods. Emotional dysregulation. Mental illness can be hereditary or linked to an underlying disease. People who have Lupus do have bouts of depression & anxiety. Selena is a product or a victim of her body. Stress worsens any condition. She is a victim of her body & her inability to see things in a positive manner or having learned poor coping skills.
or drunk ...let's be honest, the way she walked on that red carpet ...
girl BE REAL she was drugged out. she was a drug addict nd i wouldnt be surprised if she dabbles now
She's on a lot of things, but she was also drunk that night. It's very very obvious
@@ScandalousMediaTea also hitting her vape pen or whatever she had
Nah she was a drug addict. I just saw a video that she’s been to places to recover from that and not from lupus. Those weren’t lupus clinics. Open your damn eyes!
Regarding promoting her album, there is a clear difference between her going on social media, speaking freely with her friends, wearing comfy sweats, to getting dolled up and answering repetitive questions
It would be hard and exhausting being Selena's friend, props to her friends. I would not be able to be friends with a bipolar person. You need lots of patience.
I said that exact thing to my sister. Lol everyone was ragging on Raquelle for not having a place to live and living with Selena and I’m like.. but she lives with Selena and her issues 🤣
Wow what a shitty thing to say. Selena fan or not, to say “I would not be able to be friends with a bipolar person” I’m in shock. I really hope someone extends that same lack of compassion to you the next time you go through something. People like you are the reason mental health is so stigmatized. Grow tf up.
@@aquabb4718 that's why everybody has a different opinion you don't have to agree with what I think neither I have to agree with what you think or what you like. I don't have the patience and I don't need drama in my life. Listening to somebody else's problems when I have my own problems it's enough.
This would be so hard to read for a bipolar person. Rethink your phrasing.
@@liammay5011 I agree it wasn’t very nice and I’m bipolar and I have really close friends who love me no matter if I have bipolar or not
I have the same response to Selena's documentary as I did with all of Demi's.
1) There is nothing authentic to be gained after years of victimization, passed the era in which it was valid.
2) There is no specificity. It rings like a plethora of platitudes strung together and a timeline of incoherence to the audience.
3) The lack of personal responsibility or shame of bad choices (drug/alcohol addiction) while lacking self-awareness of their privileged situation. Superficial.
Beautiful comment!! Pretty much sums it up. My thoughts as well.
Well said. I wonder what is even the point of making this documentary.
@@jjm8224 It could be a marketing attempt at her next batch release of music? I believe that all 3 of demi's documentaries surrounded that as well. The 1st about Unbroken, the 2nd about Tell Me You Love Me, the 3rd about Dancing with the Devil. I sort of view singers with that particular light because its usually to sell something.
I have a friend that out of the blue at 22 had a psychotic break, I had known her for almost all my life and she never had any signs of mental health issues and was diagnosed as bipolar and hospitized all of that in less than 2 weeks...so it kind be really all out nowhere and really fast
@@culturalresponse2447 nope she didn't even drink alcohol it was setting along the lines of her parents were divorcing and she was in the middle of everything and on Christmas they had an awful fight and she just snapped
She is also just very sensitive. She’s gotta get some thick skin if she’s gonna do this as a career.
Ugh I lost so much respect for her if this is true. Which is the doc making it seem like she wasn’t doing her medications properly/doing her meds.
Her talking about in a interview, her kidney onlt lashing 30 years. Bitch, if you’re being so immature & irresponsible by not doing your meds. You’re kidney won’t last 10 years. It just pisses me off as a kidney transplant recipient myself.
Gurl you never respect her in the first place.
Girl people always got something to say some people are sensitive so what u don't have to watch
@@zaqueenzhane7744 chill snowflake. It’s not that deep 🤣
@@kirstied4 good shot😂😂😂
I think you made Daniel cry😂
Selena is a professional victim with her fans keeping her in that role and she LOVES it
I feel like if you understand her health struggles more, everything makes more sense.
Yes.
Yep. I’m absolutely shocked to see all the negativity about her documentary. I have chronic health issues and could relate so much.
@@Pari_Pixie you're just Selena fans you're a lot of criticize if it doesn't make sense she's a public figure you're allowed to criticize her and the documentary
I have severe mental issues and other stuff, it doesn’t justify forgetting friends that give you half of them and use ex es
some things cant be justified because of mental illness
The more I learn about dark sides of Sel, the more I understand that The Idol is literally about her
It must be tireing being her friend with all the whinning, she just use people for her convenience
She seemed extremely selfish to me, especially in the moment when she finds out about the WE scam and she only worries about her future as philanthropist and doesn't care about the girls she met on her Kenya trip situation
Ah... good point.. I didn't even realize that after the WE scam she said "WHAT ABOUT ME" because she was relying on that making her feel better lol
Shes human and she chosed to expose herself not denying what embarrasased her of her past mentality
When she found out about that WE scam she wasnt worried about herself she was worried for all the young girls in Kenya she was NO LONGER able to help. she didnt just think of herself
@@MusicCoverSelena please don’t waste your time with them…. This is clearly a Justin bieber fan in disguise channel who try but fail every time to show that they aren’t. I just came here hoping that this time the review would be more fair and different from every selena video they make, but sadly the first few minutes was literally bunch of B.S and almost all of what they said is completely wrong. Ex: she was crying not because of Justin getting the collab over her, it was because the let me love you song was supposed to be a collab between her and Justin but as she said she didn’t want. So, if you want an honest review I recommend finding other videos than this clown of a “review” channel. Also, the name of the channel itself should’ve been an indication as well😂.
@@ScandalousMediaTea selena would never act like this with Taylor Swift... She knows Taylor is above her level in many ways.. Girls like selena knows how to be at best behaviour around girls who are more successful talented.. Selena has unhealed pain.. We all have tough lives but gosh her PR about how kind she is with fans blahbalh... She shows some covert narc traits now...
Getting a organ gives you a second chance at life. I'd be damned if I'm going to ruin it with poor judgement like drinking like a fish and I damn sure will always give my donor family flowers and these are people I didn't know until God used them to save my life.Selena could've got her Mother, sister and any family relative of hers to get tested as a donor which alot of family donors do become good matches but I never heard her do this she went straight to Francia. I stand with Francia. She deserves alot more respect in her name than she's getting.
Guys Selena was crying about the song not Justin and she was tired and it is not a fight
What I think is that if this really stress you this much and you really hate it? Why don't you retire? Why don't you stop? You have millions already, you don't have to suffer, it's like everything is a huge deal, she hates promos, she hates meets and greets, she hates her shows, just stop you're already a millionaire!!!!
I don’t know why people love her and critique Taylor when Taylor is not a victim specially now
Love this video because you’re not glorifying this girl. Growing up me and my sisters had a friend like Selena. She was the only child, and she was a master manipulator. When she was “down” she wanted us to baby her. It’s wild.
Alot of people hate the person who is an only child....just imagine if she has no one and has no one to talk to and needs real friends with her ..thats why you shouldn't fucking judge and be a sneaky bitch when you can be a good person to that person that you call a "friend"
why are u comparing your childhood friend with a celebrity,one of the most exposed celebrities worldwide? Which not only has lot of haters from her past relationship but has been suffering from both mental and physical conditions that affect her decisions? Like seriously, people grow up and don't project yourselves
wow.. rude, sinism
I didn’t understand when she was talking about her father. She said he would tell her he doesn’t know how to talk to her. Their relationship is so ambiguous
its obvious they dont get along. he tells her he doesnt know how to talk to her probably because she snaps and him and everything turns into an argument.
Omg more about the documentary? Let's go! This is gonna be juicy 🤯🙊 can't wait for pt 2! And my ex friend acted just like Selena did and I was like Raquelle, that's why I couldn't be her friend anymore. Her acting like that affected me very badly.
Oh no - how badly? A lot of people flip upside down like a table when they bump into a nugget of negativity. But when you look at the value received - end justifies the means... Respect angry people. But you're allowed to not be nice anymore back to them if you want. I just don't think breaking up is the best decision. (Congratz on getting likes)
@@gurunext u don't understand it was a toxic friendship, she would yell at me for no reason. And get mad if I didn't answer right away. She was never there for me like I was there for her! When I was telling her I was going through something, she would brush it off and say "well it's way worse for me." U weren't there, u don't know the full story between me and her.
@@gurunext you
@@darlafanning9770 yes me, I got deleted somehow (and thanks to you now I am aware of it)... I swear TH-cam Comments is the worst experience in the universe...
Wow now that I split to test my comment which part gets deleted... nothing is deleted... what is this insanity?
most relationships are toxic and intense - you still need to look at the value, in-case you can get some experience out of it and leave at the right time (usually when there's nothing new left to explore or attempt to achieve)
I didn’t know much about Selena when I decided to watch the documentary. I was shocked and left with so many questions. Coming from someone who watched it based on the fact that I just like documentaries, it presented a very negative view of her for me. I still believe it was a very incomplete documentary and I don’t think it was a very positive representation.
i used to be a huge fan but i can’t anymore, she’s so obnoxious and her friends are troopers for sticking with her instead of telling her right where to shove her little pity party 😊
few seconds in and getting hit by, ''When am I just gonna be good enough by myself, am I gonna be good just by myself not needing anybody to be associated with''
I agree, I definitely think the documentary could have been longer and that it took the generic route of professional victim. I heard allegedly that the documentary was originally supposed to be 2 hours long, but it was cut short. Also allegedly there is 10 hours worth of footage filmed for the the documentary, but it is only an hour long. The documentary felt rushed and I kinda felt like there was a big time gap between the years. Overall I do feel like it did a good job of showing Selena as a person, but I kinda think that it could’ve been so much deeper than what the documentary showed
I agree with you, but I don't agree with you on the thing that it did a good job of showing Selena as a person ...she sadly was just complaining and crying through the whole documentary. I don't want to think she is like that always. It was a bad documentary in the sense of showing her as a person.
I agree! Also yes, it being cut is confirmed by Vanity Fair who did a spread on Selena & the director Alek
I think they cut it to avoid more drama etc
I think Selena is starting to realize she is a niche artist. Her breakdown is never being enough comes from a fear she is not as popular as she was on Disney and will lose everything.
Her friends are a bit concerning, they seem to be yes people and Raquel is riding her fame.
She was giving very much diva when she was complaining about those question interviews lol I really do like her. I promise I do. But basically the whole doc and her whole "purpose" is to be an advocate and speak out through her social media and such but who remembers when she got crap for not sharing anything about blm and she said oh so if i hashtag something im saving lives?? Lmfaoooo just hilarious how thats literally like her thing now, "saving lives" through her platform.
She really is a diva. She was complaining that interviewer didn't listen and care about her answers. Helloooo they are there to do their job not to care about you petty little love story put into an album. I liked the documentary but that thing made me mad. Selena was the one that came into that interview with bad attitude and then complained about interviewer that was not rude at all and seemed nice to me. It feels like Selena was feeling bad and decided to find a reason to get angry. She is childish to me. I acted like that when I was 16....she is 30 and still acting that way.
@@queenofneverland9007 she wasn't even being a diva lmao . She just mad that the woman doesn't pay attention to what she wanna say Zach , Jimmy, Kelly all listen to what thier guess say .
@@danialrafiq3290 sadly the documentary showed her being annoyed in every interview (not just the last one). She even said she hates doing it, meaning she went in there with a bad mentality.
The documentary was really "victim mentality" to me ...sadly it didn't really show her as a nice person. She complained about everything and lashed at her friend for asking her if she is not happy. And then showed her later saying the exactly same thing she attacked Raquelle for. I always liked Selena but now she just reminds me of a friend I used to have, who always wanted pity from everyone around them ..
omg you took me back to the BLM comment... my issue with selena is that she does something AFTER everyone does it and it's "cool" then pretends it's groundbreaking lol
I can understand why Selena feels broken at times because she is constantly under public scrutiny & she knows she is being gossiped about. That takes a toll on her mental health. Then again, there are times I think she instigates social media speculation because she can be attention-seeking & a drama queen. I think a lot of celebrities have narcissistic qualities because they feel entitled when they are constantly surround by a team of "Yes" people and her team has the job to make her feel better when she is down & they have to agree with her when she is upset. Her team is basically there to please her & make sure she gets on camera or on stage. We may see it as spoiled & entitled diva behavior...and I can understand it to a certain extent because she grew up in front of the public lens since she was a kid, and she needs to feel safe & protected. Also I see as someone who is still trying to figure out who she is aside from her public persona.
Beautifully said! I don't blame Selena. The pressures of fame are tough for sure, but you're right - she instigates A LOT of it. The media talks about what they give us
She has suffered from bipolar disorder
And people like this, I mean the owner of this channel are the reason she doesn't want to be in the limelight anymore.
@@ScandalousMediaTea oh my! You acting like a saint lol. Come on now, feed on her cuz without selena your videos won't get views lol. Even though you love hailey and justin you don't dare post about them cuz you know people won't watch them lol.
@@RiyanRishitha THANK YOU. That’s what I thought as well. The owners of this channel are experts at being hypocrites especially when it comes to Selena 💀💀.
All comments have been disabled on many trailers... that says a lot...
I wish Raquelle would quit and the last of Selena’s few hired friends would quit. Selena needs to just have paid staff that don’t care about her as a person, just as a commodity so that she can’t the hurt people around her anymore.
We don't know her 100% and we never will, we don't get to see her in person, we only see her through these screens, or may have a glimpse of her. Everyone has a good and a bad side. She showed whatever she can, it's impossible to snow every details that's quite understandable I guess. And a person with that amount of fame, going through mental, physical and social breakdowns is not easy to handle. Everybody has their own struggles. Let's respect each and every human who is trying to give something good to the society directly or indirectly.