How I Dealt With My CHILDHOOD TRAUMAS, Reconciled with My Inner Child & Took Back CONTROL OF MY LIFE
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 ส.ค. 2024
- Most adult are dealing with unhealed childhood traumas that's hampering with their growth and development as an adult.
In this video I share details of my childhood traumas and how I dealt with them and got my confidence back.
I hope that this video gives you some insight on how you too can look inwards and do a total assessment of your life to see what unhealed traumas may be affecting your progress as an adult.
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My Goodness! Three days ago, I was praying to God asking Him to help me move on and heal from my childhood traumas as it has affected the way I relate with people and boom your video today is about childhood traumas. God is so personal! 😭😭😭. Thank you Winnie. Now, let me watch the video to learn.
You are absolutely welcome! I feel fulfilled and so glad that I made this video after reading your comment. Thank you!❤️
@@winniesschoolofelegance You are welcome. Thank you for all that you do❤️
@@winniesschoolofeleganceThank you for this life changing lesson, God bless you.
Please we the newbies are waiting for the makeup tutorial video from you. Thanks for your passion
@winniesschoolofelegance Please can you share your note with me pls
Thank you soooo much for this video.
May God bless you.
I'm currently healing and decided not to date again until I get there because it affects me in my relationship. I tend to people please and attract men who are like a daddy because I grew up without mine. Not having my dad in my life affected me so much. Its been about a month of healing. Prayer, self love,self care,gratitude,meditation and mindfulness, Positivity is helping me alot
Winnie! I was just telling a friend yesterday that I've finally decided to go to therapy and was already considering one platform recommended by a TH-camr and I come online today to see this barely 24hrs after?!
I like that you don't just put out content for content creation sake...its very obvious you're led by the Holy Spirit.
Well done Winnie and thank you!❤❤❤
Oh my! I am so glad you found this video valuable.
I sincerely hope you find the courage and strength to deal with this on your own.
The book I shared is a great place to gain insight…I felt like I was talking to a real therapist when I was reading the book.
Then take your relationship with God to the next level. Allow him help you…
Just commit to the process, determine in your heart that you will see this through until you emerge on the other side.✨✨
I love you and I am rooting for you!❤️
Thank you so much Winnie for this wonderful video ..I am just 16 years old battling with trauma and I have been looking for ways to heal myself...I just want to say God bless you ❤️❤❤❤
Healing is possible, and help is available. Sending you hugs
I am so glad you found this video helpful dear…
God will see you through as you proceed on the journey to healing from any traumas that has hampered with your growth and progress in life.
Please don’t quit on yourself! Commit to the process of healing and don’t quit until you’ve emerged in the other side!
I love you!❤
This is that one video I never thought I needed, believe me when I say this is an answer to a prayer.
I just understand that past traumas are the reasons why I still struggle with so many things no matter how hard I tried and it really breaks my heart because lots of traumas I've tried to bury rather than confronting came back alive and I could link them to some of my present struggles.
I will sure get the book you recommended and I will come back with my testimony, watching this video alone is a breakthrough and it will definitely touch other lives through me.
God bless you @winnieschoolofelegance for this.
I'm 19 years old and i have so many traumatic experience with being sexual abused from age 6, i remembered don't know how, but i know every single details and many things from secondary school so it was from one trauma to another
Same here. 😂😂😂
I was SA'd when I was 6 years old as well. I'm 18 y/o now.
I feel like it doesn't bother me anymore, but once in a while, the memories will come kicking in and I'll break down crying. I'm happy I found this channel. She's been amazing 😍
See me crying and watching this 😢😢
My childhood was so bitter that I'm yet to gather the courage to discuss it with anyone. 32 now and still battling with the effects of childhood trauma 😢😢
God help me heal before I hurt myself 😭😭😭🙏
Mine was comparison. My mom would always compare me to my younger sister, My mom then would call me names like Good for Nothing, a failure, This is really shattered, my self confidence
Oh my!! I am really sorry about this!❤️
Please know that those names your mom called you is definitely not who you are… your mom was only projecting her pain on you.
Please forgive her quickly and understand that she too was probably a grown woman suffering from unhealed traumas and bcos she didn’t heal, she hurt you deeply in the process.
Don’t let the cycle continue… let it end with you. HEAL DEAR…please! Heal for yourself, so you can truly enjoy this life… and heal for the sake of your children so they won’t have to heal from having you as a mom.
I am rooting for you always!❤️❤️❤️
@winniesschoolofelegance thank you so much , I have actually forgiven her, My mom went through alot, I lost my dad when I was 15 years old, This also contributed to her pain
@winniesschoolofelegance thank you so much , I have actually forgiven her, My mom went through alot, I lost my dad when I was 15 years old, This also contributed to her pain
Try positive affirmations. Write affirmations that speak to the negative thoughts and self-talk. Repeat them out loud CONSISTENTLY. At first, you might not believe them, but say them until you start to believe them about yourself
Winnie pls can you do a video on how to deal with rejection, it's really killing me
I have looking for something like this! I thought I could figure it alone but God gave Winnie😭😭 . Thank you so much
I am so glad you found this video very helpful.
I pray God helps you on this journey and you emerge in the other side a healed woman.
All my love!❤️
I can see how many people saying "this video came at the right time, you've literally saved my life, etc."
Well, permit me to add to it.
This is the clarity I prayed for few days ago. I literally want to hug you rn.
I can't wait to feel as free as you are rn. I just can't wait.
Winnie al your childhood trauma you have mentioned happened to me as well. Thank God for you and your advice
I am so glad you found this video valuable… please work on healing quickly so you can truly enjoy this life and all your birthrights in it. I am rooting for you Dear!❤
Ms winnie everything you said i could relate. I say this with tears falling from my face. When you mentioned the book about inner child healing im working on that book now. God has out you here for these reasons and my soul cries out when i knot myself with different people. Esp men I treat them like they are better than me when i truely know the truth. It goes on and on.
I pray your video help reach more men and women alike.
My heart reaches out to you Dear…I hope you find all the courage and strength you need to heal from all traumas.
I love you always and I am rooting for you!❤️
Oh dear Winnie
Thanks for being vulnerable with us. ❤️ I have remembered some of my traumas as you went thru yours, and i have a few things i need to do for myself as an adult cos of you.
Loads of love from 🇰🇪 Kenya
I am so glad you found this video valuable!
I am rooting for you always!❤
I also was thinking on how i could heal, so that my past experiences wont affect my present and future relationships. Thank you much Miss Winnie, God has and is still using you to teach many things about becoming my true self.❤❤❤❤ God bless you, Ma.
My absolute pleasure Dear.
Continue to excel on your level up journey.
I am always rooting for you.❤️
Just what I decided on for myself this year. Thank you so much Winne, God bless you
My absolute pleasure!❤
Wow, wow, i am already crying Winnie, sometimes its get so tough, may God help me to heal
Healing is a journey, I pray your heart heals 🙏🏾
I pray God grants you the courage and strength to face your childhood traumas and heal from all of them.
All my love Dear!❤
Winne your words helped me a lot to change my manners may God count it for you ,sending love here from Uganda🇺🇬
Nkutumidde Ka maama,thank to Winnie.
I am so so glad you find my content very valuable.
God bless you Dear!❤️
Sure!
Relationship with God,which is very Paramount🙏.
The most important!❤️
You've literally just saved a life Winnie... you have no idea. God bless you for sharing!❤❤❤
One of my abusers literally looked me in the face and told me I have low self-esteem and inferiority complex. 😢💔
Please pay them no mind! You are a unique being with extraordinary qualities and there’s really no one else like you!✨✨
I am glad you found this video valuable…
I only ask that you commit to the process of healing from any traumatic experiences that has scarred your mind and don’t back down until you’ve emerged in the other side.
I am rooting for you always.❤️
It was just as if you were discussing my life😢..this got me so teary. I still struggle with it. I pray I can heal like you. This came the right time. I have been praying about it for years. But seeing the notification. I quickly clicked on it. Thanks for sharing ma'am. May God kerp granting you goodness.
You can and will heal.
Just commit to the process and take it one step at a time okay.
Get your hands on the book I mentioned in the video…that book, the help of the Holy Spirit and the courage I garnered to face the traumas head on were all I needed to heal completely.
I am rooting for you!❤️
@@winniesschoolofelegance
Please is there a way to get the book as soft copy?
All the sites I use to download ebooks none of them has it. Or do you know a bookstore I can order from?
Thank you.
PS: I've already contacted several bookstores and none had it, Boldoz said it's sold out.
@winniesschoolofelegance I will definitely do that. Thanks so much ma'am ❤❤❤
Thank you so much for sharing your personal story and becoming so vulnerable with us all❤❤❤
It’s my pleasure Dear. Thank you!❤
I am so proud of you and I hope that a lot of people (myself inclusive) are inspired to do same. Thank you for sharing, mama ❤
It’s my absolute pleasure!
I hope you find all the courage and strength you need to face your fears and deal with the traumas once and for all.
I am always rooting for you!❤️
I thought i was the only one who was held down by unhealed childhood trauma...
Thank you so much Winnie for speaking about it, and giving others the chance to voice out
This video brings so much healing and strengthening to me! I’m certainly getting this book as soon as possible! Thank you so much, Winnie, for this video
It’s my delight to know that you found this video very valuable.
God bless you as you embark on this journey to healing your childhood traumas.
All my love Dear!❤️
@@winniesschoolofelegance Amen!!! You are so adorable Miss! Thank you, for being you!
Thank you so much winnie for making this video, for the first time I feel someone understands the pain I bottled up inside of me. Childhood trauma is something no child should experience.
Thank you so much Winnie for this episode.
My own was a poor parental grooming, socially, mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually.
I distance myself from people, lack confidence, low self-esteem and shyness. ...
I prayed to God, and so I believed this is the time to confront my inner child first by getting hold of the recommended book.
Please I need your help in this journey to follow me up provided I feel weary.
Also, I need your note on this episode please.
Congratulations on your🎊 I added, You have become a blessing to our generation.
Thank you for taking the bold(faith) step then.
Gosh! This is so relatable, powerful, life-changing! Thank you so much, Winnie!
It’s my absolute pleasure!🙏🏽
@@winniesschoolofelegance 🧡🧡
😊 Love the motivation. People often think that being a high value alpha woman comes easily, or that you are born with those qualities...it's actually years of hard work, growth and consistency ❤
Winnie, i bless today for coming across your videos, everything you experience and more is what i went through as a child and still going through as an adult. I had childhood traumas and 2 years ago i had trauma in marriage. I am going to start my healing journey with all the steps you just listed. Thank you beautiful woman.
Thanks for your vulnerability! Although not easy to talk about, discussing childhood traumas openly helps educate and raises public awareness.
I started dealing with mine after I became a mom and it has transformed the way I parent. In fact, parenting without being at peace with the child inside will inflict a lot of pain on our own children. Please, if you’re a parent, deal with your past and heal from it so that you can parent with love and empathy. Imagine a world where children feel loved and secure, wouldn’t that free up so much space for them to focus on creating a better future?
You are such a strong and beautiful woman, Winnie! Much love and blessings ❤
It’s not weird.. i went through the same traumas and that was why I found your page in the first place.. this page has been a blessing to me.. I’m still in the process actually. Thank you for this video big sis Winnie ❤
This just confirmed to me that i still have a long way to go in healing my inner child.
Thank you for being this vulnerable and for the book recommendation.
God bless you, Winnie❤️
I almost cried watching this 🥺 thank you so much ❤❤
This video is very relatable....these are things we go through 🙏🙏🙏Thank you so much Winnie😢
Am glad dear to join you in this healing process,we can testify as we shine every day 😍
Thank you for being so vulnerable 😌 I'm so happy for what God is doing through you. Trust me, He's just getting started with you!
Weldone Winnie ❤
Thank you so much Winnie,I went through hell especially growing up as an orphan, having lost my parents at an early age when I needed them the most,I healed from some traumas but some am yet to,thank you for your insight on healing,for me you have covered all and most importantly what I needed to heal from,God bless you Winnie,since I started following you I have learned much,this specific topic was meant for me😢😢
Winnie,you are such a great mentor and a high value woman,you have impacted my life positively.I love you ma'am ❤
❤ Amazingly Beautiful! Sending you a virtual hug🤗 Thank God and you, Winnie, for being here! I am looking forward to this free, amazing life from a beautiful place! Not today, Devil! I'm enjoying this video and will purchase Inner Child Healing. Winnie, you're in angel in disguise, spreading your wings and flying into the hearts of many. Peace-n-Love
Thanks alot winnie for the words of encouragement ❤
It’s my absolute pleasure!!❤❤
Thank you so much for this podcast, it's refreshing to the soul . God bless you.
Best video I’ve watched in a long time, watching your videos makes me emotional because it came just at the right time 😢
Honey one love from Uganda pearl of Africa and from you I started on my journey of leveling up ❤❤❤
❤ so grateful, my mindset is changing
The joy 🤩
Thank you Winnie. You are a blessing ❤
Is the effect of my childhood trauma am experiencing at the moment, that made me to come across you Winnie
Even as a mother 4, a graduate yet i still have this inferiority complex within, not be able to pursue my dream confidently, enduring and bearing all the pain of life alone, but thanks be to GOD, i came in contact with you, is really time to level up and be all that GOD, want me to be
Indeed I needed this because am passing through the same situation 😢
Thanks A lot Winnie. Let me get this book
My absolute pleasure!❤
Your mom was an Amazon! ❤Raising 7 children was no small feat
Thanks for sharing, Winnie. Indeed, you are Spirit-led🙏🏽
Wow,thanks Winnie for sharing this experience 😊 I have my own traumas has well while growing up but I have be able to overcome it by reading books, listening to inspirational videos.
Omo just hoping that I will overcome my timidity,first to comment today 😅
Thank you so much, Winnie.❤❤❤
Thank you winnie!!! You're suigenique and exceptional! I'm gradually learning and becoming the woman I have always dreamt to be. Thank you for being a source of inspiration to me.
Winnie your such an inspiration,may the lord be your strength so you continue doing this great work.I love You personally ❤
Winnie you are relly so helpful, i have already start my healing journey through your guidance be blessed...
That's good. Thanks for sharing this.
Seriously am also a victim of childhood trauma but thank God for this video I've learned much from it even though am still battling with the trauma
Winnie, you came with this just on time.... I cried😢... I need to heal, its stopping my life 😢
That is the downside of unhealed trauma, it leaves you stuck. I hope you find the healing you so desire
Heal Darln!
Choosing to heal is the right decision, I promise you!✨
A good place to start is getting your hands in the book I mentioned in the video..
…then commit to the process and pray to God everyday for his divine help and courage to see the process through.
I am rooting for you!❤️
This is lovely Winnie. Very educating. Thank you very much.
I'm just seeing this video just when I needed it, I literally cried while watching it cos I had some of the childhood traumas you mentioned, even some adult traumas as well. Yesterday, someone said I am hard, I've build strong iron walls around me & when someone tries to get in, I push them away. The person said I'm hurting those who tried to love me & be in my life cos of my past through my actions but I never knew. This is the second person saying this to me & I knew something needs to be done though I thought I was a sweet, feminine lady but I never knew I still have an unfinished business with my inner child. I will practice those exercise you mentioned, read the book & get more knowledge to break free. Thank you so much beautiful Winnie ❤😊
Thank you Winnie for this wonderful episode
Sis. Winnie❤️🥺🥺 thank you sooo much for this. Currently I'm in the university and I can relate to whatever thing you said. I thought I had overcome my childhood trauma but watching this I have not at all. I'm getting the book as soon as possible and I'm coming to start this new journey.
God bless you ma Winnie❤️
Thank you so much i really needed this 🙏 need to heal my inner child 😭😭
Thank you Winnie for this video.
I feel blessed and relieved watching it.
Winnie❤️, you're such a blessing from God and may the Lord continue to bless you abundantly in everything that you do on this channel. I've learned a lot, thank you so much. Could you also make a video about being an elegant Christian lady, I mean how to deepen one's relationship with God? I'd really appreciate it. 🙏🙌
Thank you so much for this,l stumbled on your page and it practically stated all l'm dealing with and thank you for sharing all that can help well. As l begin my healing process as well,l definitely know l will come out victorious as well
One prayer I prayed to God this year was to heal completely. And your video came at the right time. I had similar experience of mother being the father and mother. And it’s really affecting me
Oh my God 😢 so it has been childhood trauma all these while 🥹I actually thought it’s spiritual not knowing I have been dealing with childhood trauma . Thank you Winnie ❤
Thank you so much ma'am winnie. this is the situation i find myself rn 😢 i really need to heal 😔
Thank you so much Winnie.You are darling.
Thank you so much Miss Winnie . I Don't know how I can put how grateful I am in words .
But this video actually a blessing to me 😢😢😢. I came to realize that i have so much value in me to bring it up but my past keep hunting and thereby limiting me . I am super grateful to God for using you touch destinies
I love you Winnie ❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing this
You inspire me, Ms Winnie❤❤❤
Love you Winnie! Thank you so much for your transparency. I'm extremely inspired and excited to heal my inner child as well. I sincerely appreciate this video ❤
Thanks for being so bold and sharing such personal experiences.
Thank you so much sis this video is so relatable for me I really need this for my life right now
Mama Winnie I'm saying a loaded and a big thank you to you🙏❣️.
I don't even know how to express my admiration of and gratitude to you. You are amazing ma. God bless you real big and enlarge you
Everything you described in your past was me. I’m not sure I’m over my childhood traumas because I get some triggers. Once a while I get flashes of things that happened in the past and wonder how people in my past see me now. Plus I always feel that I’m not good enough even when I am good at it.
I am so touched by your story, you are indeed a strong woman 💪 i will strive to deal with my childhood trauma 😢enough is enough.
How can I like this video more than once? Oh my dear Winnie, you are highly blessed. Amen
Thank you Ms Winnie, I felt so emotional and tears fall of my eyes as I was watching this video, God help me to heal 🙏
Thank you so much for sharing Winnie! We all go through different stuff, and seeking healing is the first step. I am so glad to see your growth. Look at you!
I love you very much Winnie you have helped to thrive through my life journey and have learnt quite a number of things from you may God bless you.
Listening to you Winnie makes you to even more relatable. There's always life in the words that you speak
Dear Winnie ❤
I was so emotional ❤ watching this video. I felt your words❤ I'm proud of you for sharing your personal experience, and by that helping others people ❤ Your inner child should be very proud of you ❣️
Much Love from Israel 🇮🇱
Thank you so much for sharing this video ❤ may you always be blessed ❤
Winnie, I love you so much. Winnie, I've had my fair share of trauma.
I've worked very hard to heal though yet even recently, I've been in a state of hiding in my CAVE OF ADULAM...Working so hard to heal, trying to set boundaries.
However, talking about setting boundaries, what do you do when certain difficult & troublesome/manipulative persons who don't understand the word "boundaries" decide to take it personal & begin to incite others against you?
I understand the cave of adullam...keep healing and getting better...like David you will attract your tribe and you will be coronated...as for those inciting others against you... IGNORE them heavily and stay in prayer...God brings peace.
I understand the cave of adullam...keep healing and getting better...like David you will attract your tribe and you will be coronated...as for those inciting others against you... IGNORE them heavily and stay in prayer...God brings peace.
@@eberechichima3615 Thank you so much. God bless you real good.
God bless you ma,
I know am better of my current lifestyle not knowing i need to heal and let go of my childhood truama, thank you ma for the light you shared and the importance of healing from our childhood trauma.
Rejection, rejection, rejection. I was rejected. Hoooooo but God has healed me. It was alot. But God has fought for me battles i thought would kill me
I am just listening to this right now.
Thank you so much for this, God directed me to download this and other videos to help me in my season of growth.
I would love the notes please
God bless you ma’am
Thank you Winnie. I'm super grateful to you for sharing this with us. I pray that God will help me and take me through the healing process as he did for you. God bless you.
Hello Winnie😊. I'm so blessed I came across this video because, have been seriously affected by my childhood traumas and I'm so desperate to find a way and heal completely. Pls how can I get the soft copy of INNER CHILD HEALING. Anticipating your response. Thank you
Things like being bullied and laughed at even loosing confidence are some of the things I also went through thanks Winnie
I was emotional in the beginning of this episode,it felt like miss Winnie was talking to me directly
Thank you soo much ma'am
This episode is literally what have been looking for.
I was crying while watching your video.
Thank you so much for this video. Personally the Holy Spirit brought it to mind some few weeks ago. He was showing me things to work on and amazingly I saw a series on Dysfunctional background and Traumas from Apostle Femi Lazarus and it helped so much. I didn’t even know I was losing my femininity gradually. Thank you Winnie for the video
I really needed this video.
😢😢😢😢😢i cant get over my childhood trauma. It has affected my life negatively. No relationships, no friends, i feel im not good enough in lifeand like im always behind
Thank you so much for sharing your life experience, Winnie. It's worth listening to and quite encouraging. I had similar experiences, and I will say for me, the "GOD FACTOR" made a lot of difference. I am a Christian and was introduced to Christ very early in life. The presence of Christ in my life filled every void space of not having my father around me while I was growing up. It is not because he didn't want to be with my siblings and me, but because circumstances were beyond his control. He was very sick, and my mum had to keep carrying him from one hospital to another, prayer house to another. Of course, my mum played her role as a good wife to her husband, and so my siblings and I were taken care of by my uncle. It was not a palatable experience, but like I said, knowing Christ made a lot of difference. I was introduced to the youth wings of my church, where I met a lot of daddies, mummies, brothers and sisters (Mk 10:30). So, what my parents were not there to teach me as I attended meetings and programs in the church, it was instrumental in transforming my character. I didn't have the opportunity to read the book you recommended, but one thing that helped me was I always read my Bible, which renewed my mind (Rm 12:2-3). I must commend my Sunday school teachers because they really worked on me. From them, I learned how to turn my ugly experiences into positive vibes. For example, I grew up in hunger. Sometimes I will go to school hungry and return in the afternoon, and there is still no food until dinner. That experience built my strength to love and appreciate fasting now.
I have come to realize that most times, we are products of our upbringing, and that is why we need to work on the negative part of it consciously. I want to advise that in case you are reading this comment and desire something in your family and don't have it, there are other people you can learn it from. If, for any reason, you came from a dysfunctional family, there are so many functional families you can learn a lot from. More importantly, kindly allow God to fill up the void or vacuum your parents or family created while you were growing up, and you will always want to live each day to fulfil your destiny. God bless us all. Amen
God bless your mum and all supportive mothers & parents out there🥰❤️
Amen!!🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you winnie, this is life changing.